Speaker 1: Second date, up date. What's the best activity to meet
Speaker 1: somebody at?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 1: I mean I could think of a handful, but maybe
Speaker 1: the worst activity would be mid hang gliding. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: logistically not great for a dating scenario.
Speaker 3: Do you glide?
Speaker 1: See? Other than that, I think outdoor stuff and sports
Speaker 1: in particular are a good idea because being active, the
Speaker 1: doorphins are going and they don't know if you have
Speaker 1: a dungeon at that point. You got to keep the
Speaker 1: surprises for later. That's one of the benefits of sports.
Speaker 4: But they if you're hang gliding, of course, totally.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got a sweet dungeon.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But one of our listeners says she met someone
Speaker 1: during a sports activity. Not sure if there are dungeons
Speaker 1: involved with her yet, but let's talk to Avery about it. Avery,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Oh hi, Hey, hoping for dungeons or you against dungeons?
Speaker 5: Avery, I don't know I feel about dungeons.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait till the second date to explore the dungeon.
Speaker 4: Talk until dungeon, I see.
Speaker 1: But let's start with the first encounter that you had.
Speaker 1: I guess, what's your activity that you did where you
Speaker 1: met this guy?
Speaker 5: Well, I joined this like recreational softball league. Okay, it
Speaker 5: could be less of a couch potato, you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, those are always so fun and.
Speaker 3: A lot of those leagues they drink a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the softball is really good because it's mostly standing.
Speaker 1: So that's a nice transition.
Speaker 4: From the couch.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, he's into it.
Speaker 5: Okay, is he on the team too, Well, he's not
Speaker 5: on my team. He's actually on a team we played again. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 5: he basically saved me.
Speaker 1: Whoa there was like a ball? Yeah, you said, well, okay,
Speaker 1: can we get his name real quick? Oh that was Josh? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: how did Josh save you?
Speaker 5: Well, at first and foremost, like, I am not good
Speaker 5: at softball, like the team, they're very nice to let
Speaker 5: me play, but they made me like the base coach.
Speaker 5: You know, I think in an effort that I would.
Speaker 1: They don't even give you right field. No, sounds like
Speaker 1: that you are having fun with it. Still, She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 4: Know if you should run? Should you?
Speaker 5: I'm just like you got this, sweetie.
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, sweet kind of like the team. Mom.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you're you're bass coaching.
Speaker 6: What happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: So basically a foul ball is coming right at my face,
Speaker 5: and this guy from the other team, he just like
Speaker 5: reaches in front of me and like catches the ball.
Speaker 4: An out for your team that sucks, would have been
Speaker 4: better for got hit in the face.
Speaker 1: That's cool, that's nice. So Josh is the one that
Speaker 1: saved you and caught the ball.
Speaker 5: He saved my face.
Speaker 2: Please tell me.
Speaker 3: Because every guy kind of dreams of something like this.
Speaker 3: Did it impress you? Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Well yeah, saving a girl making good catch because I
Speaker 3: play baseball and like the crush you have sees it like,
Speaker 3: did it impress Okay?
Speaker 5: Oh honey, let me tell you it works?
Speaker 3: Okay, child, dream is coming. I just gotta start.
Speaker 6: You're supposed to stop that sorr refle But listen, it
Speaker 6: wasn't an out on my team.
Speaker 3: Everybody wins.
Speaker 1: This was a good idea. Okay. So that was the
Speaker 1: start of your in Josh's long romance.
Speaker 5: Yes, I'm like, this man is adorable. He's my hero.
Speaker 5: He looks good in the softball outfit.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, is this encounter? Is this the date? Was
Speaker 1: there a date that happened after this? No?
Speaker 5: Okay? So after the game I went up to him
Speaker 5: and like thanks him again for saving my face. And
Speaker 5: then there was like a bar right by where we were,
Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, hey, do you want run
Speaker 5: over there and grab a beer real quick? So we
Speaker 5: just went and got a drink. It was nothing crazy,
Speaker 5: you know, it's just twenty minutes. We chit chatted and
Speaker 5: exchange numbers.
Speaker 1: Okay, but it was just you too.
Speaker 4: So that's a good I mean, that's a date that
Speaker 4: was like a pre date.
Speaker 5: I mean I thought, maybe, Okay, how did you end
Speaker 5: the night with him? I mean there was no like scandal,
Speaker 5: there was no like kissing or anything. But he did
Speaker 5: offer and give me a.
Speaker 6: Ride home, and oh that's good.
Speaker 5: He has this like cool old pickup truck that like
Speaker 5: reminded me of this truck that my dad drove when
Speaker 5: I was against Like it was just like a cool
Speaker 5: It felt like a little extra sign of like, oh
Speaker 5: he's got the truck and he saved my life and
Speaker 5: the soot all out. But you know what I mean, you're.
Speaker 3: Definitely crushing on him because when you end that feeling,
Speaker 3: I think people look for signs.
Speaker 4: So old trucks are sexy. They just are old trucks
Speaker 4: are hot.
Speaker 1: Didn't you buy your husband an old truck and then
Speaker 1: he sold it like a month later.
Speaker 4: Now we sold it like eight years later.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: Oh, we never drove it because we had kids and
Speaker 4: there's no back seat and you can't put him in
Speaker 4: the bed, and more like you.
Speaker 1: Used to super hot, it was.
Speaker 4: Hot when it was just he and I. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 4: we'll get another old truck someday.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how long has this been since you last
Speaker 1: saw Josh.
Speaker 5: I mean, it hasn't really been that long, but we
Speaker 5: texted back and forth a little bit, and then he
Speaker 5: just kind of like stopped responding, So I don't I
Speaker 5: don't know if he wasn't feeling it or if I
Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe I said or did something. I
Speaker 5: don't know.
Speaker 1: Have you seen him back on the softball field or
Speaker 1: have you talked to him since the Well no.
Speaker 5: Because he's not on my team.
Speaker 1: Well it doesn't sound like you're really much on your
Speaker 1: own team, even so she could just cheer everybody on
Speaker 1: for at this point.
Speaker 5: I care you.
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, Avery, We're messing around, but we will
Speaker 1: try and call Josh here and try and get you
Speaker 1: your second date update when we come right back. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on second date update. Mariah Carey taught
Speaker 1: us you never know when a hero might come along
Speaker 1: and give you the strength to carry on and help
Speaker 1: you cast your fears aside, so that you know, tell
Speaker 1: us you can survive.
Speaker 4: Un even Alexis knows that song.
Speaker 1: And one of our listeners, Avery met her hero the
Speaker 1: other day at a recreational softball game.
Speaker 4: Man I met this song was playing in the background.
Speaker 1: It was a dude on the other team named Josh
Speaker 1: who saved her life when he caught a foul ball
Speaker 1: right before it hit her in the face. It was
Speaker 1: a special moment.
Speaker 3: Unless you're laughing that it didn't hit her broke.
Speaker 4: Yeah, just staring at it like it go.
Speaker 1: Avery admits that she's not the most athletic type of person.
Speaker 1: She's doing this just to get out of her shell
Speaker 1: and get out into the world. Yeah, and it's amazing
Speaker 1: because she met this guy and they grabbed a drink
Speaker 1: at a bar. He drove her home that night. Now
Speaker 1: she's just trying to get another hangout.
Speaker 4: I forgot to ask Avery, you did cover with Josh
Speaker 4: that he was single, right? I mean, because there could
Speaker 4: be the case where maybe he just thought you were
Speaker 4: just saying thank you for.
Speaker 3: A girlfriend.
Speaker 5: No, he's single.
Speaker 2: You know that.
Speaker 6: I love that you laugh no matter what you're saying.
Speaker 1: But you can, guys tell even if he is not single.
Speaker 1: Not important, am I right? Avery?
Speaker 5: No, that's important when you.
Speaker 1: Know, you know, when the hero comes along. I think
Speaker 1: that's it doesn't matter he was in a relationship. I
Speaker 1: didn't catch it because I love you. But let's find
Speaker 1: out what's really going on with Josh. If he answers
Speaker 1: the phone, I'm gonna dial his number right now. You
Speaker 1: ready to do this, Avery, Yeah?
Speaker 5: I want to know.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go right now.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey is this Josh?
Speaker 1: Is this hey Josh? My name is Jeff. I'm a
Speaker 1: morning radio host on a show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. My co host is already laughing at
Speaker 1: me for how I said that. What was wrong with it?
Speaker 2: Brooke?
Speaker 3: It was a little clunky.
Speaker 5: That was weird.
Speaker 1: Bro Okay, Hey Josh, Hey.
Speaker 3: We're morning radio show.
Speaker 4: Josh.
Speaker 3: How are you?
Speaker 2: Brother?
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, brother? What's up to be? Like? What's
Speaker 1: up the home?
Speaker 3: You can't yeah, I don't say my home.
Speaker 1: Trying to be casual here, sorry, Josh?
Speaker 3: Me quiet?
Speaker 1: Jeff sorry to interrupt you in the middle of your day,
Speaker 1: but we're doing a segment called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: We'd like you to be a part of it. Well Brook,
Speaker 1: why don't you explain how this works?
Speaker 4: Josh, A lovely listener of ours was interested in you,
Speaker 4: and you're not coming her back.
Speaker 1: You met a woman the other day when you were
Speaker 1: playing softball named Avery.
Speaker 6: Oh, now you're laughing, Why are you lay?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 7: I mean.
Speaker 2: It was pretty clear that she was kind of into me.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, is that good because or are you like
Speaker 4: in a relationship.
Speaker 2: No, No, it's not that. It's just like there was
Speaker 2: I don't know how. It's like an air of desperation,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like every time I looked
Speaker 2: she was looking at me.
Speaker 1: You were getting a vibe that she was maybe like
Speaker 1: super super into it right from the start.
Speaker 8: A little bit too much, A little yeah, but it
Speaker 8: was more so like a day or two later, I'm
Speaker 8: in a coffee shop somewhere, and I'm pretty certain I
Speaker 8: saw her walk by staring at me. What somehow knew
Speaker 8: I was in that coffee shop?
Speaker 3: Now, woh, okay, that would be creepy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's true unless you all live in
Speaker 4: the same neighborhood. Like I run the people I know
Speaker 4: all the time and at the coffee shop, at the
Speaker 4: grocery store.
Speaker 1: You're a woman broke. It could have been a quincin.
Speaker 2: Totally could have been a coincidence, except she then was
Speaker 2: there at my bank when I was at my bank.
Speaker 5: It's a really small town.
Speaker 2: People.
Speaker 4: I picture her as the teller for some reason.
Speaker 3: She's just in every business he walks into.
Speaker 2: It seemed that way, is what I'm saying, Like, it
Speaker 2: seemed like she was following me.
Speaker 4: Wait, did you ever go up and say hi to her?
Speaker 1: Because it's weird.
Speaker 4: She didn't mention that she saw you at all. She
Speaker 4: did after the softball.
Speaker 1: Was strange or like I was trying to you actually.
Speaker 4: Even asked you, said, have you seen him since like
Speaker 4: on the softball field, and she's like no, yeah.
Speaker 1: But I guess I meant when I asked her, like,
Speaker 1: have you had a conversation with him?
Speaker 3: You should start asking the listeners have you stalked him?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean that seems like a big stretch. I
Speaker 1: didn't get that type of vibe when we talked to her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do you feel like maybe you could just be in
Speaker 1: your head about it, Josh.
Speaker 2: How can you see the same person that you know
Speaker 2: or sort of know?
Speaker 4: What if it was a coincidence and she thinks you
Speaker 4: were stalking.
Speaker 6: Her, that's probably true now that is I would be
Speaker 6: creeped out a little bit in that second Yeah, the
Speaker 6: second one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean at least the good news is she's
Speaker 1: not like secretly listening on this phone call right now,
Speaker 1: like knowing that you would be on it or anything
Speaker 1: like that. Oh wait a second, she actually is what Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how the segment works. We have them listening quietly
Speaker 1: on the other line.
Speaker 2: Sorry, you didn't think that was important information. When I
Speaker 2: was saying she was everywhere around.
Speaker 1: Me, like you know about it, and we weren't really
Speaker 1: come to my head right away.
Speaker 2: She's listening.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what by bad but she is there,
Speaker 1: Avery awfully.
Speaker 4: Chipper, Yes, did you hear what he said?
Speaker 5: Avery?
Speaker 6: H Yeah, just a coincidence, right, you mean, not exactly?
Speaker 1: Why don't follow people?
Speaker 6: You do be good at it.
Speaker 1: You're following him.
Speaker 5: I'm not like consistently following him.
Speaker 1: I just what's going on?
Speaker 5: Full disclosure. I do, like Josh, I got the little
Speaker 5: flutter when he saved me at the game, but then
Speaker 5: seeing his truck. Honestly, I just I really really like
Speaker 5: the truck. It reminds me of my dad, and I
Speaker 5: kind of want to buy the truck. Like I was
Speaker 5: hoping I could make an offer. And then I thought
Speaker 5: like if I just casually ran into him, like if
Speaker 5: he wasn't into me, I could still maybe get the truck,
Speaker 5: if I guess what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: So you're not you're not seeing You're not like following him.
Speaker 1: You're seeing his truck around town, and that's how you
Speaker 1: know where he is. Kind of a how are you
Speaker 1: doing it? What's going on?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Just be honest.
Speaker 5: I mean he gave me a ride on the truck
Speaker 5: and I may have air tagged it.
Speaker 1: What that is? So it's got to be illegal. That's crazy?
Speaker 1: Are you joking right now?
Speaker 2: You have a tracking device on my truck right now?
Speaker 2: That's crazy that you're telling.
Speaker 7: It's not that big of a You're not like in
Speaker 7: any danger of like if I wanted to do something
Speaker 7: too like dangerous. I just thought like, if he wasn't
Speaker 7: into me, at least I could like run into him casual,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Dude?
Speaker 1: The air tag is so scary.
Speaker 4: It pops up on your phone, it'll say, like an
Speaker 4: air tag is following you.
Speaker 6: Have you seen that on your phoneto.
Speaker 2: Android studio?
Speaker 6: Not say, because then you don't know.
Speaker 1: So, Josh, you've never been air tagged by a woman before?
Speaker 2: Oh, come on, it's the first for me. I mean,
Speaker 2: I am so.
Speaker 5: I know it's awkward now, but like it's out there,
Speaker 5: you know, them interested in him and the truck.
Speaker 3: You know, my god, way to put the vibe out.
Speaker 1: But okay, if you take a look at the other
Speaker 1: side in a way, Josh, it's kind of flattering, kind
Speaker 1: of it is.
Speaker 4: What, Yeah, I don't know. I think Jeff's stretching really
Speaker 4: hard to try to see Avery's side.
Speaker 1: Our job is to help Avery get another date with you,
Speaker 1: and we're going to offer to send you out with
Speaker 1: her one more time, and we pay for it.
Speaker 3: Make her take the air tag.
Speaker 4: I'm sure this is going to work out well, Josh.
Speaker 5: I will save you the trouble. It's under your passenger seat.
Speaker 5: You can throw it away.
Speaker 3: She's got plenty to go around for the next round
Speaker 3: of men. She's like, don't worry, there's one behind his license.
Speaker 2: Jo.
Speaker 1: That's pretty appealing, you guy, it would.
Speaker 2: Miss that's appealing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, your semi stalker just told you how to stop
Speaker 1: being stocked.
Speaker 5: I get I should get brownie points.
Speaker 2: Brownie do get Brownie points for stopping stocking.
Speaker 1: That's where the dating world is now. So what do
Speaker 1: you say one more meet up with Avery? We're gonna
Speaker 1: pay for it?
Speaker 2: No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: Yeah we figured out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but would you sell me the truck?
Speaker 1: Okay? I don't think one good thing come out of
Speaker 1: this phone call.
Speaker 7: Make the money, make the money, take it.
Speaker 4: Just set the price for seventy thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: That's all you got to do. And Josh, you don't
Speaker 1: even have to answer right now, let's roll this over
Speaker 1: into our next awkward Tuesday phone call. We'll get a
Speaker 1: bidding war going. Psycho wants to buy a truck afterward.
Speaker 5: My man, oh my god, I know if you.
Speaker 4: Are freaking Jeffrey in the morning, you know.
Speaker 1: What I was thinking. How is this not a Hallmark
Speaker 1: Christmas movie?
Speaker 3: What are you doing?
Speaker 2: Sweet?
Speaker 1: Sweet guy meets a girl at a softball game. He
Speaker 1: saves her from getting hit by a ball. She air
Speaker 1: tags his truck and follows him all the way, and
Speaker 1: then on Christmas Eve, just as the snow starts to fall,
Speaker 1: she pops up at his parents house fourteen hundred miles
Speaker 1: away to say, hey, you interested in selling that truck?
Speaker 1: It reminds me.
Speaker 3: Of my dad Christmas.
Speaker 5: I can see it.
Speaker 1: That doesn't scream best Christmas movie ever? Nothing does.
Speaker 3: She stumbles out of the truck.
Speaker 4: Would we get subpoenaed by the cops the audio?
Speaker 3: Can we cut this last part out?
Speaker 8: Sure?
Speaker 1: Why not? I thought it was kind of romantic. Did
Speaker 1: across a line, across a little bit. She wasn't doing
Speaker 1: anything malicious. She lights the truck. She wasn't doing anything
Speaker 1: that bad.
Speaker 3: I think that was her problem is in her head
Speaker 3: she's like, well, I'm not gonna do anything, so she
Speaker 3: thought it was okay.
Speaker 6: Highly illegal. It do not put air tags on people,
Speaker 6: you know your army and that.
Speaker 4: Guy has to get an iPhone because it does alert you.
Speaker 1: Don't do it unless you're certain they won't find out.
Speaker 1: If you want to ever get a second date up date,
Speaker 1: you can always email the show and we'll call that
Speaker 1: person who wasn't calling you back.
Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning