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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: This is from Khadija in Baltimore.

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Speaker 1: Kadijra writes, my coworker sent me set me up with

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Speaker 1: a man that barely speaks English. He speaks French fluently

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Speaker 1: and it's hard to understand him. But we managed to

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Speaker 1: have sex after our first date and it was quite impressive.

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Speaker 3: How important is communication?

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Speaker 4: Wow, here's a person who is clearly finny.

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Speaker 2: Go back and do this again.

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Speaker 4: Yes, because her question was after the first date of

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Speaker 4: barely understanding this man.

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Speaker 2: How important is communication?

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Speaker 4: With all I've ever heard a woman say, one of

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Speaker 4: the most important things in the relationship is communication. You've

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Speaker 4: obviously put that aside. Polyvoo fro save weed, jennifec Mar. Yes,

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Speaker 4: come on, Pa, say fot your mind, don't fuck to

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Speaker 4: the door.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so.

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Speaker 4: You know, you know you can go on and keep

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Speaker 4: dating Joaques Cousteau if you want to. It ain't gonna

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Speaker 4: go Jacques Cousteau.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and a shunk. I used to love that dude.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: This one's from Joe Lee and Richardson.

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Speaker 1: Joe Lee writes that the married couple next to me

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Speaker 1: fight all the time, and I mind my business. My

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Speaker 1: wife asked me, why, as a man, don't I ever

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Speaker 1: try to calm her husband down. If they're fussing outside,

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Speaker 1: I barely know them, so am I supposed to step

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Speaker 1: in there?

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Speaker 4: No? Now, if he's hitting her, you got you gotta

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Speaker 4: do your handle, you But if they are in talking loud,

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Speaker 4: it ain't your business. Though, that ain't your business.

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Speaker 3: Is that satisfactory to his wife? Though she's gonna be

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Speaker 3: satisfied with that?

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Speaker 4: Well, what you want want your husband to do? Ladies,

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Speaker 4: you got to be careful putting your husband in these

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Speaker 4: crazy situations now, because that happens all the time.

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Speaker 2: I was just watching a crime show.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you what.

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Speaker 4: A guy pulled out in front of this guy and

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Speaker 4: kind to cut him off.

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Speaker 2: The guy pulled up next to him.

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Speaker 4: His girlfriend was in the car cussing the man out,

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Speaker 4: flipping the bird. Set up here and grabbed a handful

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Speaker 4: of quarters and threw them up against the dude's window.

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Speaker 4: Then they got in the traffic light, and then they

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Speaker 4: pulled in front of the dude. The dude was back there.

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Speaker 4: He get out of his car because he got his

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Speaker 4: wife and kid in the car. She jump out the car,

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Speaker 4: telling her husband, get him, get him, get him dead,

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Speaker 4: reaches in the car, hands her husband. The dude that

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Speaker 4: was doing all the cussing and stuff had her husband

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Speaker 4: a knife. Now the dude that got out the car

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Speaker 4: just happened to have a knife on him, stabs the

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Speaker 4: man and kills.

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Speaker 3: Ah.

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Speaker 2: Now your husband.

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Speaker 4: Dead because you throwing quarters and flipping the man off

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Speaker 4: because he cuts you off.

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Speaker 2: Bro Rick, you got to know how to protect your man.

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Speaker 4: That's one of your jobs as a woman to protect

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Speaker 4: your king, because you know if you get in some

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Speaker 4: man's face, he's gonna have to do something and you.

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Speaker 3: Don't know who is man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, little extreme example. Yes, it was mind your business.

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Speaker 2: We expect go across the fence and the man got

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Speaker 2: a knife.

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Speaker 3: Now where we are, yeah, yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to a mirror in Southfield, Amir says, I

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Speaker 1: dress nicely and my boss is a hater.

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Speaker 3: He said all my.

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Speaker 1: Suits are too small, and I snapped back and said

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Speaker 1: that I can't help it if I'm in great physical shape.

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Speaker 3: He's upset, but.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if he can hate on me, then

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Speaker 1: I can correct him.

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Speaker 3: Am I right? Or am I wrong?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, But you're gonna have your job long.

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Speaker 3: Right now.

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Speaker 2: You need to start looking around. You need to take

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Speaker 2: your lit shape some point, work at dream or something.

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Speaker 4: That's what you need to do, because you finny could

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Speaker 4: fried your little fat sending up here, know, gutting all

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Speaker 4: this here. See these dudes can wear these these slim

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Speaker 4: fit suits because they're in shape.

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Speaker 2: They look good on some guys.

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Speaker 4: Now it's some guys that's wearing this slim fit suit wrong.

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Speaker 4: If you button your coat, Fellas and it's tight, crossed

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Speaker 4: it back, it looked like you got on the home

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Speaker 4: depot work vest. Then that ain't how the back of

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Speaker 4: your suit post to look. You can't look like you

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Speaker 4: got on a copper fit back brace when you button

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Speaker 4: your jack.

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Speaker 2: Other than that, gone and rocket fellas.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, last one, last one, Feelo. This

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Speaker 1: is from Carmela in Saint Petersburg. Carmela writes, my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: of four months planned a week long trip to the Bahamas.

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Speaker 1: Since I'm working from home, he thought it would be cool.

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Speaker 1: I'm not spontaneous like that, and I really don't know

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Speaker 1: him well enough yet. Should I ask him to postpone it?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely. If you're uncomfortable going, don't go. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 4: understand it. You know, you're not spontaneous like that for you,

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Speaker 4: that's moving a little bit too fast.

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Speaker 3: A week.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if he spent a night or a

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Speaker 4: week in at your house, but you need to try one.

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Speaker 2: Of them first.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or go nowhere for no week out of the

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Speaker 1: country with someone you barely know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good lord, man.

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Speaker 4: I tried to save some money when I was on

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Speaker 4: the road one time, you know, a long time ago.

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Speaker 4: I didn't have enough money for a room, but I

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Speaker 4: have a little bit, and the other comedian had money,

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Speaker 4: so we split a room at the red roof end

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Speaker 4: with two beds, and.

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Speaker 2: I set up all night looking at him. Why you

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Speaker 2: were worried, dog?

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Speaker 4: This dude was snoring, scratching, blowing wind, talking, getting up,

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Speaker 4: going to the bathroom, moaning, kicking covers on the floor.

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Speaker 4: This dude was over there in a full blown wrestling

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Speaker 4: match with yourself.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't even go to sleep.

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Speaker 2: I set up all night watching.

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Speaker 4: I said, I'm not going to sleep, and this dude

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Speaker 4: come over here and stab me in the middle of

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Speaker 4: the night.

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Speaker 2: I set up, but he was doing everything else.

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Speaker 5: I mean just be over and I woke up, I walk,

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Speaker 5: I said, hold up up, I set up all night long.

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Speaker 3: You determine you will never share a room again.

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Speaker 4: I ain't never been in a room with a person never.

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Speaker 4: But but you got to learn the lessons, and that's

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Speaker 4: what she needed to do. You need to see who

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Speaker 4: this guy is. You go a week now you're out

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Speaker 4: the country. Yeah, yeah, way too many stories about women

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Speaker 4: on these islands.

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Speaker 3: Way it really is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ain't doing them island police. They ain't the same late.

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Speaker 4: They ain't got no tools, they ain't got no forensic signs,

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Speaker 4: they ain't got no cameras.

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Speaker 2: No they don't. They don't. They talk like y'all friends.

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 1: So you say she could definitely ask him to postpone

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Speaker 1: the trip till she gets more comfortable.

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Speaker 4: Steed, Yeah, I'm not going. I don't know you well enough.

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Speaker 4: I can't take a week and do.

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Speaker 3: That, you know, And she has to say that for

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Speaker 3: her own that's a good warnings. Uh huh for sure.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you Seling.

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Speaker 2: Staying with nobody that long, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're listening hard Morning show