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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl, Lex Pete and it's

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Speaker 1: Sugarl Dre and the Cold and you are tuned in

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor Mine, where a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: speaks sober thought. How you doing this later? How you do?

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Speaker 1: How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Miss niggas? Miss niggas? You know, Dre got the niggas.

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Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good. You know, I'm just going through

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Speaker 1: the motions. I'm just, you know, trying to stay inside

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Speaker 1: while everybody else is going back outside.

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Speaker 2: And let me make a note to y'all seriously, people

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Speaker 2: that are in Atlanta that are listening to our show,

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have a fun episode today.

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Speaker 1: Trust me.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be very lighthearted, because I know last week

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Speaker 2: was very you know. But before we get started, y'all,

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Speaker 2: if you can stay home, please stay home. Only reason

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Speaker 2: that you need to be leaving in your house is

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Speaker 2: if you have to go to work or if you

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Speaker 2: have to go to the grocery store. And if you

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Speaker 2: do go to work, make sure that you get you

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Speaker 2: a mask, make a mask out of anything, make sure

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Speaker 2: you have gloves on, do not touch your face.

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Speaker 1: But they still need a filter in the mask though, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because so you can breathe, I got my job. No,

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Speaker 1: And so it can't protect them from the virus. Like

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Speaker 1: if you just put a band down over your face,

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Speaker 1: that's not really protecting.

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Speaker 2: Mean, but it's better than having nothing at all, right,

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, especially if they're double line. So if

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Speaker 2: some business are opening and people do have to go

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Speaker 2: to work. I understand that, but just protect yourself because

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Speaker 2: the cases I think they had like two thousand cases

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Speaker 2: this week just well say.

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Speaker 1: It was a thousand new cases that came out like

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Speaker 1: this past week or whatever, and a lot of that was.

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Speaker 2: In Atlanta, right in Georgia. It's been two thousands since

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Speaker 2: they've opened the.

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Speaker 1: Stack, and I just feel like a lot of people

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Speaker 1: are just taking the information the wrong way, like they like, oh,

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Speaker 1: the media will just feed you anything. They telling y'all

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Speaker 1: all these shit, and y'all believe in it. You literally

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Speaker 1: have to wait weeks before you can find out if

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Speaker 1: you have COVID, so y'all believe in these sheet And

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Speaker 1: they just opened outside Friday. Okay, yeah, they did just

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Speaker 1: open outside Friday, But that's not what they're saying. They're

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Speaker 1: saying it's been a thousand new cases that have came out,

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Speaker 1: and then on top of that, they opened the city

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Speaker 1: now we have all of these new cases. So what

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Speaker 1: you think is gonna happen now that they're letting people

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Speaker 1: back outside. That's pretty much the g stuppy for those

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Speaker 1: of y'all they didn't.

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Speaker 2: If you're just trying to go to the park like

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Speaker 2: that that had an air show at Piedmont Park the

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Speaker 1: Like, what is the air show like that?

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Speaker 2: You know, like when the little airplanes be flying, Why

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Speaker 2: the fuck are y'all going outside to watch some fucking

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Speaker 2: airplanes yard doors? Seriously, airplanes flying through and making like

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Speaker 2: the little loops and smoke. Bitch, I can do that

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Speaker 2: with my hookah if y'all want to see it.

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Speaker 1: Girls, shut up. You're right though, and I feel the

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Speaker 1: same way because I've been very serious about staying in

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Speaker 1: the high serious. You was making fun of me. No,

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Speaker 1: that's not true. It was like that first weekends. It

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Speaker 1: really bad, So don't do that. I was I was

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Speaker 2: I was just telling you to be careful and to

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Speaker 1: Time Turkey leg hood. I sent it and they.

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Speaker 2: See you better go to COVID. Hud you ain't slick,

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Speaker 2: You was not.

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Speaker 1: Sleep but aitherways. Ever since that weekend, which was like

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Speaker 2: No, you haven't doing you know, we have been quarantined

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that was just while we kobe for you

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Speaker 3: So, I mean, I know we have more than Atlanta listeners.

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Speaker 2: You know, we have people in Houston, New York, wherever

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Speaker 2: hell home hearing. So let's go ahead and get into it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you introduce the first topics. This is

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Speaker 3: That is it.

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Speaker 1: We have talked about this before, No.

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Speaker 2: I mean me and you have talked about it before. Sots,

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Speaker 2: just bring this shit to the forefront.

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Speaker 1: Well. Yeah, so my mom and I were on the

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Speaker 1: you had to choose between love and money, which one

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Speaker 1: what if you could only have one, what would you choose?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, that's a no brainer. Money. But

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Speaker 1: we're talking about romantic love, not the ability to love

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Speaker 1: other people or to have other people in your life

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Speaker 1: that love you. I'm talking about like romantic love, like

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Speaker 2: You're talking about in your relationship with person A, you

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Speaker 1: You're getting love from them or money.

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Speaker 3: And you're saying you're gonna choose money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Now, I will say I honestly I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: And let me tell you why. Because one my side,

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Speaker 2: Nigga loves me enough for the both of us.

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Speaker 1: First of all girl. I just had to make sure

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Speaker 1: I knew the rules. But this is what I'll say.

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Speaker 1: You can only choose one from from anybody.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, I fine.

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Speaker 2: I feel like love is a very complicated thing, and

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Speaker 2: I think sometimes love is overrated.

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Speaker 1: I absolutely think it's overrady. And I feel like I

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Speaker 1: they love me, so I don't really need the love

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, it's not only that because I've been deeply,

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna be honest with you, that's a lot

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Speaker 2: Want And that's what I'm telling you, the ones like

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Speaker 1: It was literally like.

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Speaker 2: After I got over that heartbreak, I was like, I

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Speaker 1: That's cool with me. You ain't got to love me

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Speaker 1: And that's how I feel too. I feel like you

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Speaker 1: Its finances and infidelity. That's what me and Mandy was

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Speaker 1: It's really that series. So I would rather not have

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Speaker 2: Right, I got three dollars, I don't want to I

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Speaker 1: You think I want to have three dollars for the

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Speaker 1: And I guess I feel that way too, Like I've

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Speaker 1: always make me feel better no matter what it is,

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Speaker 1: cause cause it's like, okay, yeah it's fucked up as

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Speaker 3: And I would say this, let me it's one thing.

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Speaker 1: To get like to be in a fuck up position,

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Speaker 2: I'll say this, money he isn't the answer to all

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Speaker 2: That's not what we're saying. And for people who are

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Speaker 1: For people, if you if that's what you want, that's

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Speaker 2: I'm one of the very few people in my life

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Speaker 2: that has experienced true love and I've experienced being broke,

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Speaker 1: Me, I just don't want to be broke. I think

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Speaker 1: being broken is worse. I think it's way worse. That's heartbreak.

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Speaker 1: Heartbreak is bad because I've had my heart broken, But

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Speaker 1: I feel like being broke is worse because, like I said, like,

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Speaker 1: if you can't figure out how to fuck, you gonna

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Speaker 1: pay your rent, how to funk you're gonna pay your card?

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Speaker 1: Note this shit that is stressful. Man.

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Speaker 2: I just thought I just thought about a quick story

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Speaker 2: about when I was dating no boy when I first

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Speaker 2: moved out here and I had to pay my cell

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Speaker 2: phone bill and I couldnot pay my phone bill, and

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Speaker 2: he was so mad that he had to give me

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Speaker 2: the money.

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Speaker 1: To pay for I'm gonna call you, and he was like, dude, he.

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Speaker 2: Was like, man with this bitch at my phone was

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Speaker 2: off y'all for like twelve hours.

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Speaker 1: So I had like blood but it's floody now.

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Speaker 2: So it's like I ended up like having to put

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Speaker 2: my card in the negative because I had three dollars.

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Speaker 1: I think I had.

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Speaker 3: Less than three dollars.

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Speaker 2: Then yeah, so I had to go pick up the

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Speaker 2: Now I'm not about the So no, I had to

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Speaker 2: One hundred and fifty and fifty dollars. But that's what

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Speaker 2: But you said you had enough people around you that

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like me and black people in other countries,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm being I'm being honest. I'm being honest.

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Speaker 1: You have access to different type of thing. Yeah, or

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying you have to have a fat ass

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Speaker 2: So you being attractive or you being successful, you're gonna

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Speaker 3: Well I know that I got a few on my

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Speaker 1: Those are the numbers.

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Speaker 2: Everybody can't fuck with a rich nigga, especially a rich

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Speaker 1: It's like, I agree with you.

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Speaker 2: We already as black women. Look, I'm getting mad y'all

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Speaker 2: as black women because I need we need where's our

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Speaker 1: But that's what I was gonna say. I feel like

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Speaker 2: But all my friends go out here and we fucking

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I feel like I know

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, I just know a lot of boss women,

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like black women, for the most part,

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Speaker 1: And it's just I mean the reality of it.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just talking about like as far. But even

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Speaker 2: Why is that it's okay to do nice things for

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Speaker 1: Why is it such a big deal with some money,

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Speaker 1: Because them nigga's gonna treat or get you a Nigerian.

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Speaker 1: They gonna soon get you a street nigga with the

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Speaker 1: money or not. Cheeriat.

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Speaker 3: If y'all don't remember.

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Speaker 1: Street niggas be they'd be so happy that they got

443
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Speaker 1: money now because they remember when they was broke back

444
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Speaker 1: in the day. They just be wanting to spread the love.

445
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Speaker 1: They really do. They just be wanting to spread the

446
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Speaker 1: love and make sure everybody's straight. And then I feel

447
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Speaker 1: like Nigeria's I don't know why. I don't know, well,

448
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Speaker 1: because y'all remember.

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Speaker 2: When I talked about Big Daddy a while back, Big

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Speaker 2: Daddy wasn't. When I was in the lamb Bow with

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Speaker 2: Big Papa.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know that was his neighbor. Remember we

453
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Speaker 1: got into an argument because I said that. He was like, no,

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Speaker 1: it's not I'm just call him Big Papa, no like

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Speaker 1: Big Daddy.

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Speaker 2: And then you was like, okay, Yeah, that's why I said,

457
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Speaker 2: y'all remember when I talked about Big Daddy a while back.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, anyway, when I was.

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Speaker 2: Talking about Big Daddy a while back, Big Daddy was

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Speaker 2: the one I almost threw up in his Lamborghini and

461
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Speaker 2: he had a Richard million.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I knew why. I knew

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Speaker 1: you was about to bring that damn because I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: Knew and I said why she was about to say

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Speaker 1: something about there Richard Millie or then why? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: he had he had on the Fendy. Hey, y'all, it's

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Speaker 1: gone head, Get show or boy you know whatever and

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Speaker 1: gone head Get show. Ten for centis count and it's

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Speaker 1: on period all right by y'all. Don't say I had

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Speaker 1: on the why sales, but get it right, I know

493
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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Me and my man walked in the.

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Speaker 1: Club, but we was fresh. To them say something about

496
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Speaker 1: one of them wise heels. I was just waiting. Don't

497
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Speaker 1: forget the Louis Wars too. I forgot about the louisvill tool.

498
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Speaker 1: I'm the only bitch in American that got three dollars

499
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Speaker 1: wear Louis Baton. You ain't the only one. I believe me,

500
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Speaker 1: you ain't the only one. I know a few. No.

501
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Speaker 2: I feel like with Nigerian men, they take pride in

502
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Speaker 2: their woman being like fresh and looking like how they

503
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Speaker 2: look like if you with the Nigerian man, they want

504
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Speaker 2: to be like, damn you and Joe bitch fly like

505
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Speaker 2: y'all both look like money.

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Speaker 3: I feel like Nigerian men take pride in, like, you know,

507
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Speaker 3: having a woman.

508
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Speaker 1: Look like the baddest bitch in the building.

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Speaker 2: So whatever she needs, he gonna make sure that she

510
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Speaker 2: needed right. You know what I'm saying, Like, because I

511
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Speaker 2: told you, like the first time we went, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you know you icy?

513
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Speaker 1: He was like, Oh, don't worry, baby, We're gonna get

514
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Speaker 1: you right wait to miss Rona's leave. Mss Mama's gotta

515
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Speaker 1: gotta go. She really everything.

516
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Speaker 2: So I'm not a little off topic, but yeah, I

517
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Speaker 2: feel like love versus money, Like I feel like I have.

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Speaker 1: A give me my coin tone. Yeah, because I feel

519
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Speaker 1: like I have a great relationship with like the men

520
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Speaker 1: that I date and it's fun and I love it.

521
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Speaker 1: Do I need more love from them? Absolutely not. Do

522
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Speaker 1: I need more money? Hell yeah. So you never have

523
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Speaker 1: too much money, but too much never to you too much?

524
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Speaker 1: What little way saying this too much money, ain't enough money?

525
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Speaker 1: And that's just on period.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So let us know how y'all think about the

527
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Speaker 2: love versus money. So I wish I could remember the

528
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Speaker 2: listener's name that sent us this topic. But she wanted

529
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Speaker 2: us to talk about colorism. She wanted us to talk

530
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Speaker 2: about it in the industry, but I just want to

531
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Speaker 2: talk about it in general. I saw a tweet today

532
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Speaker 2: that somebody had tweeted and they were basically they were like,

533
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Speaker 2: these are the top four women in the game, looks wise,

534
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Speaker 2: And they had posted Rihanna, sweety Georgia, what you just.

535
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Speaker 1: Annoying the way you mean saying it's sweet. I thought

536
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Speaker 1: it was just sweet.

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Speaker 3: Soweety. Why she put the A in there? And then

538
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Speaker 3: it's soweety you gotta do the at the end.

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Speaker 1: So sweety. So he posted basically get back on topic.

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Speaker 2: So he posted George Smith Rihanna soweety, it's somebody else,

541
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Speaker 2: it's somebody else. And basically people were like saying that

542
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Speaker 2: if this is what colorism is, and the guy was

543
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Speaker 2: like defending himself. He was like, I never put anybody down.

544
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Speaker 2: This is just what's attractive to me. So at what

545
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Speaker 2: point is it preference or is it colorism?

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Speaker 1: Well, I feel like everybody has their preference, and I

547
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Speaker 1: feel like one thing about black women. Sometimes you have

548
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Speaker 1: to stop getting offended when me and when when other

549
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Speaker 1: went well, not other black mens, you're not black men.

550
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Speaker 1: But when black men don't find the way that you

551
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Speaker 1: specifically look attract me, I feel like it's nothing wrong

552
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Speaker 1: with that. Like obviously, he posted all four of those women.

553
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Speaker 1: All four of those women are light skinned, they all

554
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Speaker 1: have silky hair, they all look they don't look they do.

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Speaker 1: You ain't seen. I relax, I love ponder, replaygirl. I

556
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Speaker 1: forgot she ain't got the stealky smooth, she don't. But anyways,

557
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Speaker 1: they all have a similar aesthetic, shall I say? So,

558
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Speaker 1: I feel like that's just his type. But you can't

559
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Speaker 1: be upset about that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So this is my thing on it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like colorism is when people try to play

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Speaker 1: the two against each other. In my opinion, that's more

563
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Speaker 1: so colorism.

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Speaker 2: Right, But let's get a little deeper down into it,

565
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Speaker 2: because colorism can also be it's not necessarily that I'm

566
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Speaker 2: shading you, but if I'm only showing love to one

567
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Speaker 2: type of woman.

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Speaker 1: But if that's what he likes, then what is wrong

569
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Speaker 1: with that?

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Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that.

571
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Speaker 2: But it's like, okay, if you have two types of people, okay, like,

572
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Speaker 2: say there's you and then it looks exactly fucking like you,

573
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Speaker 2: but she's just a yellow bone, okay. And so for

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Speaker 2: them to be like, oh, this is attractive, but this

575
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Speaker 2: is not, that's colorism.

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Speaker 1: But that's not fair because you can't say that if

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Speaker 1: it's she a fucking yellow bone, we don't look exactly

578
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Speaker 1: alike you.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying if y'all have the same y'all everything,

580
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Speaker 2: but you're just lighter. What I'm saying is just because

581
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Speaker 2: you're not dissing somebody, but if you tend just to

582
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Speaker 2: praise one type of person because of their skin class,

583
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Speaker 2: that's colorism.

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Speaker 1: That's what I just said. Is more so to me

585
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Speaker 1: when you put in the two against each other and

586
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Speaker 1: then you're comparing, or you're like, but if somebody wants

587
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Speaker 1: to put a picture of me next, like you said,

588
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Speaker 1: next to a girl who looks exactly like me, but

589
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Speaker 1: then she likes skin, and then they praise in this person, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is colorism. But suppost a thread of beautiful women

591
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Speaker 1: that you think are beautiful and they all happen to

592
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Speaker 1: be light skined. I just feel like that's his prayer frame.

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Speaker 2: I think that's but that's a little bit of colorism,

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Speaker 2: because you know, no, I'm not, but this is what

595
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Speaker 2: that is. It's because growing up, they've always told us

596
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Speaker 2: that all the brown paper bag tests and this is

597
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Speaker 2: what attract this is what is attractive growing up, and

598
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,719
Speaker 2: neither one of us passed the brown shaw dings. I'm

599
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Speaker 2: a chocolate bunny, honey girl.

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Speaker 1: Please.

601
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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is it's not that, it's just

602
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Speaker 2: things that were instilled in us as younger people.

603
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: So we've had to grow out of it.

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Speaker 2: But if you're only finding light skinned women attracted because

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Speaker 2: they're lighter skin, that's colorism.

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Speaker 1: But how do you know that he That's what I'm saying.

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00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: It's like it could get really, really deep because it's like,

608
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Speaker 1: how do you know that that's the only reason that

609
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Speaker 1: he find them attractive?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but black, if you're you don't really like

611
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 3: light I don't like but guess what that colorism?

612
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: No, but guess what.

613
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Speaker 3: I got a lightning skin nigga on my roster.

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00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: I fuck like skin. But that's just not my preference.

615
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 3: I know it's not your preference.

616
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: But there's a difference because I bet you if you

617
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 2: made a thread of black men, it's gonna be mixed.

618
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Speaker 3: It's not gonna be just dark skin niggas in there.

619
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Speaker 1: Bro, it's not That's what I's but what I'm saying.

620
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. We'll go with that narrative.

621
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Speaker 3: But I bitch, I know, well, I have fucked with

622
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 3: I know you like him big and black. I'm just

623
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 3: saying I was agreeing with you. I cannot wait until

624
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 3: he hear one of these episodes. I swear to God,

625
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 3: Well that's why he ain't want to come.

626
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Speaker 1: To the function. Don't blame it on me. Do not

627
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: blame you. You. It's fucking you. You. You don't see

628
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: that thing, you dude.

629
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Speaker 3: I'm getting a little too tear, so let me get

630
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Speaker 3: back to the point.

631
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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is if you tend to just praise

632
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Speaker 2: one type of skin color to me personally, I believe

633
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 2: that's colorism because you believe deep down inside that only this.

634
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 3: Type of skin color is attractive. And that's just how

635
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Speaker 3: I feel.

636
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Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question, do you think that

637
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Speaker 1: this is colorism? For example, Okay, so a few guys

638
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: that I've dated, like in my past or whatever, they

639
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: would always say things like, dang, like I normally don't

640
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 1: be dating brown skin or dark skinned girls, but you're

641
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: just so fine like you, yeah, I mean whites. But

642
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: that's what That's what I was asking. I was just

643
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: trying to get your perspective because I did feel that way.

644
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: I definitely felt that way. And they when they would

645
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: say it as if it was a compliment, like oh,

646
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: you look different, or you look you don't look like

647
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: the typical black woman. What's what is the typical black woman? Elaborate? Please, right,

648
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: but they can't. That's how I used to feel about it,

649
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: like elaborate, what is it? What is the typical black woman?

650
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: Because typically I don't think majority of us look similar.

651
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: I think we all look very different. Me and you

652
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: sitting here right now look different. Raven and Kekeys sitting

653
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: over there look different. Like we we look different. So

654
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: what do you mean the typical black woman? I just

655
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: feel like men say stuff like that to make it

656
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: in their mind feel like it's okay today. The darker

657
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: skinned woman. It's always okay today the dark skinned woman.

658
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: Ya mama probably blacker than me. Your mama looked like Florida.

659
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 3: Any I'm dead, so okay. But this is what I'll

660
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: say as well.

661
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 2: I feel like colorism absolutely still affects people in the industry.

662
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: Going back to what she was talking about. One of

663
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: the listeners that at DM ME because she was like,

664
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 2: how is it people like Sweety or in the forefront?

665
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: Have you what?

666
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 2: How is it like somebody please, somebody like Sweedy is

667
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 2: in the forefront, but somebody like cash Doll.

668
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 3: That can actually really wrap you know, it's not Sweedty

669
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 3: done charted before.

670
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: But Sweedia had bobs. Okay, don't do that she had.

671
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't like what. I'm not playing with her.

672
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 3: But if you really gonna sit here and say she did.

673
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: Have obs so he wasn't Jammy in my tight can.

674
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 3: You let me speak?

675
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: So you wasn't. Can you let me speak. I'm talking

676
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:59,479
Speaker 1: about talent, talent, and you feel like cash Dog got

677
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 1: more talent anything, Sweety Dog, cash Doll is rapping soweety

678
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: hump under a bridge. You don't lost your damn mind.

679
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: If you're gonna sit here, I have not lost my mind.

680
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: First of all, before you even go there, I don't

681
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: listen to cash Doll, okay.

682
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 2: But you listen to Sweety Hunk Colorist, the Colorism people.

683
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: She listens to Sweety, but she don't listen to cash

684
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 2: to sweety.

685
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: The only reason I heard my type is because that

686
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: ship was on the radio. But what was her other bob?

687
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: You said, bops, oh she need she had that icy

688
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: girl song came so long stop Oh, but you can't

689
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: sing ice me yaut That was a great song, Racism

690
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: say woke my people. That was a great song. I'm

691
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: not saying that ice me out was not a bob.

692
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: It was a vibe. It was, But I don't listen

693
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: to cash Doll. Why I just don't. You are so

694
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: fucking dumb. What about I don't be listening to Crazy

695
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: neither you listen to Dreazy. Why shouldn't never be your

696
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: bop of the week? Then, since you was such a fan? Okay,

697
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't listen to Dreams, But why cash Doll ain't

698
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: never been your week? I didn't make ice me Off

699
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: my bop of the week along time ago. You have

700
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: to run the takes back. I'm gonna have to run

701
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: that ship bag because I don't believe I like ice

702
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: Me out. I like. I'm not saying you don't like

703
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: the song. I just don't feel like that was your

704
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: bip of the week.

705
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 3: So you feel like colorism affects the industry?

706
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: Do you feel.

707
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely like lighter skinned women are more successful in the

708
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 2: industry versus darker skinned women.

709
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: What's your definition of more successful? More successful?

710
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: As in, you see these women at the mtv BT

711
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 2: wars all at the awards to performing because she ain't

712
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 2: I mean super heavy at the awards shows.

713
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: But y'all was award shows nothing saying nothing. I'm talking

714
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: about the people that are actually performing and doing things

715
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: with the ward shows. You know what I'm saying, So

716
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: this would be performing. Okay, that's a good point.

717
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 3: That's I know it is.

718
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: But I feel like the successful light skinned women is

719
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 2: a lot longer than the successful well let me not

720
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 2: say successful, but like on the forefront.

721
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: The list is longer, the list is a little longer.

722
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it's easy. But but but but let's

723
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: not but let's not make it a color thing because realistically,

724
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: some of these light skinned women are talented, Like Nicki

725
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: Minaj is very talented. She's very talented. Yeah, is very talented.

726
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: Rihanna is talented. Back in the day, a shanty was Okay,

727
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: that's where I stop. You need to stop yourself because

728
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: I guess he needed me some You'll be trying to

729
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 1: play people on the show. You want to act like

730
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: you was not listening to a shan in the day.

731
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: I didn't say she could sing. You said she was

732
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 1: talented back then. Back then, we didn't think she was talented.

733
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 1: Don't do that. She danced like this money feel Me

734
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: with so much jump, and you was in your living

735
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 1: room doing that there soon watching me such sorry dancing

736
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: cause she used to like the song, so hell I

737
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: did so but anyways, I'm just saying, like, you can't

738
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: this credy some of the like the people that are

739
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: on the roster of Lights and well like Thoja Cats

740
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: too very talented, is talented, But like I said, I

741
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of these industry people, they will

742
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: put more. Some people that you feel like are not

743
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: getting enough freaking niche, like female black women in the

744
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: industry that you feel like aren't getting the recondition that

745
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: they desire right now.

746
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, like I said, going back to cash Doll,

747
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 2: I do feel like and although I don't listen to Drezy,

748
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 2: I have heard a few of her songs any before.

749
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: Now.

750
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 2: She's not my type of music that I like, but

751
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: I really do think she's super talented. What's that girl's

752
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 2: name from Atlanta that can rap her fucking asshole? I'm

753
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: moretta beautiful girl wrap her asshole. But she still is

754
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 2: not where she's not fair.

755
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: And I'm not I mean, I don't know the girl personally,

756
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: so I'm not trying to be funny or nothing, but

757
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: I've heard nasty attitudes and that's why, to be honest, Well,

758
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: I mean at the end of the day, so let's

759
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 1: talk about that. Sometimes it don't necessarily be your color.

760
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 1: It could be other factors might be the reason why

761
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: you're not getting the reconition you desired.

762
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely agree with that, But like I said,

763
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: for these white folks that really run the industry, they

764
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 2: want to see a lighter skinned black person on the forefront.

765
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: And that's that's really tea. That's what it comes down to.

766
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 2: And now, as black people, I feel like we give

767
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 2: people better chances because we for the most part, especially women,

768
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 2: we don't really care about that stuff. But for these

769
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 2: industry people, they are giving bigger budgets to lighter skinned women.

770
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: And that's just fags, it is.

771
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 2: I mean, you gotta realize. Let me talk about this.

772
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 2: I'm glad you said a shanty name too. When a

773
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 2: shanty first dropped. Let's not forget that her and Tweet

774
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: dropped at the same time. Okay, and where's Tweet now

775
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 2: versus Ashanti and Tweet. Looking back on it, Tweet was

776
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 2: way more fucking talented. Tweet just didn't have the Ashanti budget.

777
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: Why she didn't, wasn't she working with me? Cy Elliot?

778
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's not coming out of Missy's pocket.

779
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: You have to realize that you have to go beyond

780
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: Missy Elliott to get the budget for your Missy not

781
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:37,919
Speaker 2: paying for these videos out her part.

782
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: I mean, of course that's not how it works. Of

783
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 1: course I know that, But I'm just saying, from my understanding,

784
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: she was signed to a major record label as well,

785
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: just exactly. And guess what.

786
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 2: Guess what, just because me and you were signed to

787
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:53,880
Speaker 2: the same label doesn't mean okay, well, just because me

788
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 2: and you were signed to a label doesn't mean I'm

789
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: gonna get the same amount as money as you. Just

790
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 2: like Tierra Marie and Rihanna. Now this has to do

791
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 2: a color, but they started dumping all their money into

792
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 2: Rihanna because they were like okay, by girl, like you're

793
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 2: not it.

794
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: But back then and sometimes they just be what it

795
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: is too, you just ain't me tweet was good. We

796
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 1: didn't give my good sister a chance. I'm not saying

797
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: that she wasn't good, but it's like, obviously she didn't

798
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: have what it takes to have longevity in the industry,

799
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 1: I think, and a TD, I think that they just didn't.

800
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: I think she wasn't given a fair shot, all right.

801
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: Of course you would say that because I'm woke. My sister.

802
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: You want to be hotel so bad?

803
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:42,240
Speaker 3: Y'all rather call me a doctor, missus Umar, nobody call you, okay,

804
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 3: So let us know how y'all.

805
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: Feel about colorism in the industry. I just want to

806
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 2: discuss that real quick, Okay. So I'm so excited to

807
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 2: talk about this topic because this is very interesting to me.

808
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 2: So basically I don't know, it's just interesting to me.

809
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:56,839
Speaker 2: So the other day I had tweeted I actually muted

810
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: it because I didn't care anymore, but I had asked

811
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 2: the girls and.

812
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: The boys, Oh, I just thought about it, keep going.

813
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 3: I asked them, who would you sign an n d

814
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 3: A for?

815
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 1: Oh?

816
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 2: Then it went back to that because they were trying

817
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: to say Lebron was cheating on Savannah with some white

818
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 2: girl and they were saying that basically her NDA got broken.

819
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 2: So I was like, well, who would you sign an

820
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: NDA for? Is there any man or woman? Because we

821
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: know how drag it down. Is there any man or

822
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 2: woman you would sign an NDA for?

823
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: Why damn sure? When Silon for no Beach and I went, why.

824
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 3: Wouldn't you sign the NDA though? Just to protect no?

825
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: Because I mean, you don't trust me. If you don't

826
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: trust me, you don't need to be fucking with me, Okay,

827
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: And that's just really how I feel about it.

828
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 3: But I don't but sometimes maybe it's not about you,

829
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 3: it's about the people around you.

830
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: Because the girl didn't know it's about me. I mean,

831
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 1: but what if he doesn't trust Like so it's like,

832
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 1: because if he don't trust you, then you need to

833
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:59,479
Speaker 1: sign the NDA because you just said it's not about

834
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,720
Speaker 1: me people around me, So okay, cool, this my nigga,

835
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm fucking with him. I'll be having my homegirls around

836
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: and he don't want them to post stuff on social

837
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: media or whatever. Whatever. You need to sign the NDA.

838
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 1: I feel why I need to sign one.

839
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 2: I feel like this is kind of like it's not

840
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,879
Speaker 2: the same, but it kind of is like a pre nut,

841
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. It's kind of like in

842
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,720
Speaker 2: the same little bit of category.

843
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: It's in the same realm. It's just a little bit.

844
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: And that's fine, but because if you don't know what's

845
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: gonna happen, true, But I just feel like you need

846
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: to be more cautious of the type of people that

847
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: you keep around you. And that's just how I feel

848
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: about it. I feel like if a nigga came to

849
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: me and I ain't never had no nigga come to

850
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: me about no damn NDA the hook. I know, I know,

851
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: that's why. That's what I want you know about when

852
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 1: you first brought it up and you was like what

853
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, never mind, continue because I knew

854
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: we was gonna talk about it later. But yeah, and

855
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: I felt like that was very disrespectful, but especially coming

856
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: from him that asked you to sign an NDA, like, nigga,

857
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: are you serious? They don't even care about you like

858
00:39:59,080 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: that right now?

859
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: Basket of all, let me say I've never said that

860
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 2: man's name in public. Anytime anything was shown in public,

861
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: it was a nerve. It was because of him.

862
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: Let me be clear.

863
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 2: Anytime Dan says in public, it was because of him.

864
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: But anyways, besides that point.

865
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 1: How did you feel when he asked you to sign?

866
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 3: Did and feel no type of way? I was like, Okay,

867
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 3: fuck it, I'll sign it because I'm not talking about

868
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 3: your ass, no way. That's honestly how I felt. I

869
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 3: feel like if a nigga asked me to sign the NBA.

870
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 2: And remember it being a little feeling no, no, don't

871
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 2: get me wrong. I'm talking about the way I told him.

872
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: Now when I came to you, it definitely made me

873
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 2: feel some type. I was like, yeah, he don't trust me,

874
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 2: but this is my man. If this is what he

875
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: wants from me, I'm willing to sign it. He now,

876
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 2: we never got to that point of me signing it

877
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 2: or him even drawing up a contract.

878
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 3: But I feel like, if you're gonna want me to

879
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 3: sign the NBA, but also, what are the benefits on

880
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 3: my end?

881
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: It ain't nothing because youre talking about these like a prenup,

882
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: And that's how I'm trying to figure out how, because

883
00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: a prenup is when you married to somebody, when you

884
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: about to get married to somebody, and then you could

885
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: you could try to put certain clauses in there to

886
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: make it comfortable for you to sign it to where

887
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 1: you like. Okay, well, I know if we do end

888
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 1: up getting a divorce, I'm still gonna get maybe this

889
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: percentage or whatever this case may be. With the NDA,

890
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 1: you ain't getting shit because you don't have no legal

891
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: ties to any good of.

892
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 2: Course, now that's how what you now, But listen, listen,

893
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 2: I feel like once you bring a contract into it

894
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: that means we're doing business.

895
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: So nigga about to do business with you about I know,

896
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: damn NDA. If anything, he gonna be like, bitch, fuck you.

897
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: You just ain't gotta be around me no more. If

898
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,959
Speaker 1: he ran that adamant about you. But that's what I'm saying.

899
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 2: I feel like back then I was more so like

900
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 2: it just depends how I feel about the person. Now,

901
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: if this is somebody i'm fucking with, I'm like, okay,

902
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: and he's giving me money.

903
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: And we're doing what we're supposed to do. Cool.

904
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 2: But if it was like somebody like I'm not gonna lie.

905
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 2: If Lebron James splidding my DMS right now, I'm gonna

906
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: soun that NDA because I want.

907
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: That dick real bad. But that's different because you don't

908
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: know him, That's what I say. And he's married and

909
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: you just trying to be a gold digger. You just

910
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 1: want some money and she So it's kind of like, dud,

911
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: you're gonna sign the NBA because me you trying to

912
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: get some money and shit. But I'm talking about somebody

913
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 1: like that you fuck with. You were in a harr relationship,

914
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 1: You was in a hall relationship with these men. It

915
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: is no reason to me why it's why you had

916
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 1: been at his house for five six months or however

917
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: long y'all had been together before he asked you to

918
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: do this. She is the podcast for it does not matter.

919
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 3: I'm taking up for him.

920
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, it is no real that

921
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: was your boyfriend though y'all were together, y'all were in

922
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: a relationship. Isn't real sassy about this? No? Because that

923
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: shit's stupid. So like I was, I mean, no, I'm

924
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 1: agreeing with you. I feel like, no, I'm not getting sassy.

925
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm passionate about it because I feel

926
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: like that shit she's stupid. I couldn't believe he asked

927
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: you to sign that ship. I was mad, as I

928
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: probably was more mad than you because I mean, to me,

929
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: I felt like, honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

930
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 2: Like in that situation, I was like, whatever, I'm not

931
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 2: gonna say nothing about you anyway, So whatever, I'll sign it.

932
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 2: But I growing from that situation and looking back on it,

933
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, you don't.

934
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 3: Trust me, Like what's the deal.

935
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: But like I said, of course, but that's what we're

936
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: talking about, Like, who would you sign the NDA for

937
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 2: like shit like that, like not deep situations. Cause honestly,

938
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 2: if like if I met Willis Kleef of today and

939
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 2: he was like signing NDA, fucking I'm gonna sign the

940
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: NDA because I want to fuck with you, Like what's

941
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 2: the big deal? I feel like at the end of

942
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: the days to protect something. So if I get to

943
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 2: a certain level and i'm I'm I don't think I'm

944
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 2: gonna get married. I don't think I'm gonna be in

945
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 2: a relationship. But you know, niggas talk more than bitches

946
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 2: these days. I do think I'm not trying to be funny,

947
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 2: but I look at stuff from the other side of you.

948
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 2: So yeah, there is a point that I feel that

949
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to in my career that I wanna

950
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 2: be fucking with niggas. I'm absolutely gonna make them sign

951
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: the NDA, absolutely, because I ain't no nigga about to

952
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 2: go around being like, yeah, I ate lex p pussy

953
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 2: last night, she ate my ass because you know.

954
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: I evil little ass and I don't need it going by,

955
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: so I'll be looking, well, you're probably gonna tell them anyway,

956
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 1: So no, I'm not.

957
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 2: I'm not if I fucked somebody that I just want

958
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,240
Speaker 2: to fuck because we on tour or something.

959
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: I do not want this person getting online and sharing

960
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 1: that story. I mean, I'm giddy. I giddy, But I

961
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: think with me, it's just more of like a thing

962
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: like I said, like, if you don't trust me, you

963
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: don't have to fuck with me. But I think it's mad.

964
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: He's respectful to ask somebody. Then you fuck with society.

965
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 3: But you.

966
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: You know how many people have been in relationships with

967
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: people and they broke up and they sold a story. Yeah,

968
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,879
Speaker 1: the Blue did interviews. I get that. So a lot

969
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: of times these people it's not about them not trusting you,

970
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: but people fall out. I'm not saying you shouldn't ask

971
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: these species. Just don't ask me, that's all. That's all

972
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm not saying that you shouldn't ask me.

973
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 1: Your society das, just don't ask me, cause I don't

974
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,400
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975
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976
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1023
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna still use cold names, but I'm saying though,

1024
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 3: but it's gonna be easy well you know, or let

1025
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 3: me not say that.

1026
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm just saying, people figure out our cold names

1027
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: people have.

1028
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 2: That's okay, okay, But all I'm saying is nbas can

1029
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: protect people in the long run, because who's to say,

1030
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 2: thirty years from now, you don't want to write an

1031
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 2: autobiography about your book and mention people that don't want

1032
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 2: to fucking be mentioned.

1033
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: I feel that I do, But like I said, for me,

1034
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: it's just like a touchy thing. It's just kind of like,

1035
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: excuse me. I feel like I don't know, I've never

1036
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: been in that position, but like I'm just imagining if

1037
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: somebody came to me and asked me some shit like that.

1038
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 3: I would be like right, And I know how you feel.

1039
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: But there's some niggas.

1040
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 2: You need to make your bitches sign n D yah

1041
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,479
Speaker 2: because I'm really tired of seeing your assing the blog

1042
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 2: with bitches seriously, Like there's some men. No, and I'm

1043
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 2: not even talking about anything that has to do with anything.

1044
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 2: I'm just saying there's some men, like why aren't you

1045
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 2: making these bitches sign NDAs? You know what I'm saying,

1046
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 2: like it doesn't even matter. And I'm and there's one

1047
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: person in particular what I'm thinking about. I'm like, you

1048
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 2: were with this girl for so long and it's like

1049
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 2: she just.

1050
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 1: Keep fucking talking. Why don't you make her sign an NDA.

1051
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:30,240
Speaker 3: We'll talk about it later.

1052
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,760
Speaker 1: Exactly, like why don't.

1053
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 3: You make her sign it?

1054
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: Because it's like, but why WI cause he wasn't Oh

1055
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: that's mine because you're my man and I'm your bitch.

1056
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: But look how people act later on, but he wasn't

1057
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: that exactly, to be honest, it's like they helped each other.

1058
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 3: Whatever they did should have been I'm worried about him

1059
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 3: before they NDA should have been.

1060
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: Signed here I best you wish you had one? Now

1061
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: she talking about oh this is my man. It just

1062
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: doesn't that get I don't give a fuck. I don't

1063
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:06,959
Speaker 1: give a fuck. When I get to a certain level,

1064
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: NDA is being passed out even you, So then you

1065
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna sign an NDA for you. You best

1066
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 1: believe you well, honestly, you need signing that sheet. I'm

1067
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: gonna tear it up and throw it in.

1068
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 3: You need to make me sign the NDA because all

1069
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 3: these scandalless nights you but now you're the one.

1070
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: Now you the one that needs to sign an NDA.

1071
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 2: You need to make me sign one too. Okay, So

1072
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 2: we're gonna get off that because this is a long episode. Okay,

1073
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about NDAs and

1074
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: if you were dating somebody that had it.

1075
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,720
Speaker 3: I hope I'm not screaming too loud on this microphone.

1076
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 2: Little help with Jesus you holley off. Okay, So we

1077
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:54,800
Speaker 2: gonna get into the baby dubbab ay u bab ay Okay.

1078
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 2: So today I wanted to talk about my favorite topic, sucking.

1079
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: I like to suck a little mean, I like too,

1080
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: we know, oh fucking live and in color.

1081
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 3: I'm tired of seeing you do sexual activities.

1082
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: You're the one who told me to do that, she Caldan.

1083
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: You don't understand. I would, but my back, my back,

1084
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: my back was hurting. You're taking ship too far, but

1085
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: that was that was you.

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00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 3: You did good though you made Mama proud. I'm gonna

1087
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 3: do that.

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00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 1: Okay.

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00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 2: So today I wanted to talk about sucking dick from

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00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 2: scratch because I feel.

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00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: Like, explained to the people went from scratches because I

1092
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 1: was a little confused that dick from scratches.

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00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 2: Basically, when you start sucking the dick, whenever it's flaccid, soft, gummy, you.

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00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 1: Know, no life if you will. So yeah, I definitely

1095
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: like sucking dick from scratch. But let me tell you why.

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00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 1: I feel like the first time I sucked dick from scratch,

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00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: it taught me how to deep throat it.

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00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,799
Speaker 2: Did it truly did when it was soft? Well okay,

1099
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 2: so it was like, okay, so you know how, what

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00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 2: can I use an example of? So you know how

1101
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 2: when you get into a pool and it's cold, so

1102
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: you kind of put your foot in.

1103
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 3: And then you go deeper and you move around a

1104
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 3: little bit.

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00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:29,439
Speaker 1: You go a little deeper and you move.

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00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 3: Around it too.

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00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 2: It's comfortable. I feel like it was the same thing

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00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 2: with the dick. So I put the dick in my

1109
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:38,439
Speaker 2: mouth and it's just like I'm going back. I'm like, okay,

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00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 2: I got it.

1111
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: It's growing a little bit more and I'm like, Okay,

1112
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: it can go a little bit more.

1113
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 3: It was like the dick was growing in my mouth,

1114
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 3: and as it was growing, I was able to go

1115
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 3: further and further back. Honestly, I feel like I don't

1116
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 3: like this shit. I feel like.

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00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 2: Whenever you suck a dick from scratch, it's easier to

1118
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 2: deep throat it. It really is, because it's easy for

1119
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 2: he's shaking her head, because it helps you with your

1120
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 2: gag reflexes. Because if you just try to shove it

1121
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 2: all down at one time, when it's already hard, you're

1122
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 2: gonna throw up, or it's not gonna go down, you're

1123
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: gonna be like But if you let it grow in

1124
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 2: your mouth and take turns with it growing gradually, that

1125
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 2: whole thing is gonna get swallowed.

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Speaker 1: These are for the girls who don't know how to

1127
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: deep throat now, okay, yeah, because I don't, cause I

1128
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: can swallow that whole dick. I don't need it to

1129
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 1: grow in my mouth. I wasn't about to say that.

1130
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: I was just about to say I don't be liking

1131
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: when decks be like No, I just don't like when

1132
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 1: they be like South. I just don't like it. I'll

1133
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:38,720
Speaker 1: be ready for you to be like, I know it's fun.

1134
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 1: You don't like it. I love it.

1135
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 3: I love to suck a gum gum.

1136
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:49,399
Speaker 2: I can't believe you don't like snothing. Okay, so deep

1137
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 2: throat tips. Do you have any deep throat tips?

1138
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you just have to relax. You have to relax

1139
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:57,879
Speaker 1: and kind of like you said, That's why I said,

1140
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: I don't really. I mean maybe that is a technique

1141
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: or whatever, but I feel like when you are attempted

1142
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: to deep throw, you have to do like a little

1143
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: by a little until you can get more and more

1144
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 1: in there, and you just have to relax your throat.

1145
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: That's why I said, do it from soft through.

1146
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: I mean, that makes sense, it does, it makes sense,

1147
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: But I don't need to do that because I know,

1148
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: and also I feel like a deep throat tip is

1149
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,240
Speaker 1: also like you got to hit it at an angle

1150
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: as well. That's sometimes it's.

1151
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 3: Easier to sli like it.

1152
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: Like if you do an upside down all right, all right,

1153
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: calm no, am I not right? A right? Yeah, Like

1154
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 1: if you're laying like upside down on the bed and

1155
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: he like putting it in there, he's kind of at

1156
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 1: an angle, so it's like really sliding and if he

1157
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: has a curved curve dicks are the easiest. He like,

1158
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: Curve dicks are honestly the easiest today up to like

1159
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 1: a curve dick. They slide down so easy. You'll be

1160
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 1: like now with a curve dick, if it's curved like

1161
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: towards him. If y'all doing sixty nine, you know, so

1162
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: your face in this way on the dick, it's it just.

1163
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 3: Slides right on back there.

1164
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: Look at Kiki shaking her head. Think I ever had

1165
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,879
Speaker 1: a nigga where it was curved towards him down? Yeah,

1166
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: I always had it curved.

1167
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:12,479
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

1168
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 2: It curves well, curved towards him. Yeah, curves curve towards him.

1169
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 2: It best to do it in the sixty nine position.

1170
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 3: Now.

1171
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: Ah, Now, if he got a curve, they got curved

1172
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: to the left or right. I ain't never seen that.

1173
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 3: They do have something.

1174
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: You've seen one of that.

1175
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 3: I've seen one. I haven't sucked one, but i've seen one.

1176
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:32,919
Speaker 1: I've never seen one.

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00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: I mean, Phoenix has curved all type of ways, but

1178
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 2: the best ones to me are you know, but when

1179
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 2: they are curved towards him, you can get in the

1180
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 2: sixty nine position. But yeah, like Drea said, if you

1181
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: want to start off deep throating, lay on the bed,

1182
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 2: hang off the bed, and just let him kind of

1183
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 2: fuck your mouth because you're the way your head is

1184
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 2: going to be angled.

1185
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: It's gonna be let that dick go down. So yes,

1186
00:54:56,120 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 1: those are our deep throat tips of the day. Y'all welcome.

1187
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the bop, the bye bye.

1188
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:07,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let you go first because I know you

1189
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 3: got eighty bops.

1190
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 2: So go ahead, girl, Oh fucking bro, let you pum

1191
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: me up a glass. One bitch about to talk about

1192
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: this ship for.

1193
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 3: About thirty minutes. Sit back and relax, Niggers.

1194
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 1: So you know, y'all know, Drake's mixtape came this I'm

1195
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 1: not saying so drake mixtape came out this week. It's

1196
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: called Dark Lane Demo Tapes. And you know he had

1197
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: a few bops on here. Not gonna lie, not gonna lie,

1198
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. He's definitely had better mixtapes.

1199
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: But I did think that this particular mixtape has some

1200
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: bops on it, Like I like beet Pockets, I like

1201
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 1: I like Deep Pockets, Chicago Freestyle.

1202
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 3: I can't remember that one.

1203
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I like Landing Desires, but that was already leaked

1204
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 1: a few months ago. Whatever Landy? I like Landy? What

1205
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: else is he losses? And then I also like D

1206
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: four l Okay with future the.

1207
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 3: Original right for.

1208
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: I never was a of this. I like, I'm not

1209
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I never was a fan of Slide. I

1210
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 1: like it's cool. But if you want to talk about

1211
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: the catalog on the album, I don't feel like this

1212
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 1: is one of the best songs.

1213
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 3: What was the one that I made my caption? What's

1214
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 3: the name of that song?

1215
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:43,879
Speaker 1: What was your caption?

1216
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:45,720
Speaker 3: He should have put me somewhere where.

1217
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: Nobody that's Desires?

1218
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I like that song because he was like,

1219
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 2: put you somewhere where nobody can find you, like Katie

1220
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 2: and Dallas.

1221
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: But I'm like, people be in Dallas, people gonna find

1222
00:56:53,640 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 1: me in Dallast. But no, the song O. The other

1223
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: song that got like a good caption too, is Landed.

1224
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 1: Landy got a good caption so because he'd be like baby,

1225
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 1: if you baby, if you lose it, you gonna me

1226
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: see it, or something like this catch. Yeah, he has

1227
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:15,840
Speaker 1: a good lot of So we have two bops.

1228
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 2: Of the Week, my first one being Oh, the Scott's,

1229
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: So shout out to Travis Scott and Kid Cutty. I

1230
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 2: used to be a huge, huge, huge Kid Cutty fan,

1231
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 2: so I love when like two of my favorite rappers

1232
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 2: come together. And I'm so happy because it was like

1233
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 2: number one on the Hot one hundred, so like Kid

1234
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 2: Cutty got his first like number one song. So yeah,

1235
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: Travis Scott has a song with Kid Cutty called The

1236
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 2: Scott's and It's fire. I feel like Travis Scott is

1237
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 2: very consistent with his music. He always fucking delivers, and

1238
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 2: I really feel like he's necessarily not a lyricist, but

1239
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 2: he just.

1240
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: Makes fucking good music, bro.

1241
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 2: And it's like he has the type of music that

1242
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 2: literally everybody can listen to, Like you know how Wiz

1243
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 2: Khalifa makes music for white people and black people and

1244
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 2: they can all jam to. Travis Scott is in that

1245
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 2: little pocket and not many people get in that pocket.

1246
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 2: Drake's in that pocket as well, you know what I'm saying.

1247
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's my bop of the week. And of

1248
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 2: course we have the same bop of the week h Town.

1249
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: Queen's, Beyonce and Megs like Beyond say like me.

1250
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 3: Hey, the fact that she referenced fucking heavy, the lyricism, the.

1251
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: Talent, the booty, the beauty. Let me tell y'all, I

1252
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: don't think y'all understand how much I love being from Houston.

1253
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 1: Like truly, bit I'm hunted. I just don't mean knowing

1254
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: what to say. It's just like, could it be from anywhere?

1255
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something, since day one, since day one,

1256
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: this is the same ship I did with City Girls,

1257
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: the same ship we told you all about it. You

1258
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: did with City Girls, I said, I said we, I said,

1259
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: this is the same shop we did with City Girl.

1260
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 3: We told y'all when we first heard See the Girls,

1261
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 3: that was it. Since day one, I've been fighting from them.

1262
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 3: I've been fighting for Meg's rights. I've been telling y'all

1263
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 3: this girl goes hard. I've been telling Y'all've been telling y'all.

1264
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 3: I've been telling y'all. I've been telling y'all. And listen,

1265
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 3: let me the accolades. Name one bitch in the game

1266
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 3: that got a Nicki Minaj and a Beyonce feature in

1267
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 3: a year before her album has even fucking dropped, bro,

1268
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 3: Name one bitch. Oh wait, you can't a Beyonce feature.

1269
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 2: Bro, do you know that Beyonce has only collabed with

1270
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 2: a handful of women because the girls can't keep up

1271
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 2: with Beyonce on the track.

1272
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I know what you mean.

1273
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: It's like that's like jay Z doing a record with

1274
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 1: fucking Playboy Cardi or something. I don't know.

1275
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 3: It just don't make sense, you know what I'm saying.

1276
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 2: But when you are on that level and you that bitch,

1277
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 2: you can make a record with the fucking Queen. Beyonce

1278
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 2: only does features with women when she he feels like

1279
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 2: you're making noise.

1280
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

1281
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,240
Speaker 2: Who has made on The last person that she did

1282
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 2: a song was Nikki, and before that was Lady Gaga,

1283
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 2: and before that it was Shakira.

1284
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: Shakira, So you know what that means.

1285
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 2: That means that Megan is in a category with fucking

1286
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:19,959
Speaker 2: Lady Gaga and Shakira and NICKI.

1287
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm shoot.

1288
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 3: Make sure y'all go stream sugar Fire.

1289
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: And I got another vibe Okay, humble by a Little

1290
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: Baby because you know, I told y'all last week the

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Speaker 1: Little Baby the Looks album was coming out, and he

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Speaker 1: came out the same day as Drake album, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: he got a new song on there. It's called Humble

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Speaker 1: and I also like social distancing. Those are our bobs

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Speaker 1: of the week.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so yes, before we get into the questions,

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Speaker 2: I just don't want to do the item of the

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Speaker 2: week first before we get some questions. Okay, So for

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Speaker 2: the autumn of the week. Now, I told y'all, I

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Speaker 2: know times is hard. You know, ran through your stimulus check.

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Speaker 2: So let me tell y'all about a little call Current

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01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 2: now because I don't ran through my check too. Now,

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Speaker 2: I know I ain't the only one here that got

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Speaker 2: three dollars.

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Speaker 1: Y'all be laughing, y'all be laughing. Well maybe if you

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01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 1: would get a job, bitch, Why would I do that?

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Speaker 1: I know that's right.

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Speaker 3: You bet a stunt on us.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So anyways, I want to talk to y'all about

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01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 2: app call Current now. No, I ain't thro only bitch

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Speaker 2: with three dollars on here. We all got three dollars,

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01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: or some of us got three dollars, some of us

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01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:25,919
Speaker 2: got six.

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Speaker 3: So let me tell you about this app call Current.

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01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 3: So Current is like a bank account on crack, but

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Speaker 3: good crack.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So basically, it's an app

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Speaker 2: on your phone. You can you get a card, you

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01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 2: get a card in the mail. You can use it

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Speaker 2: just like a debit card, so you can send money.

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01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 2: People can send you money, and it's instant. And the

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01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 2: best thing about it to me personally is that you

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01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 2: can withdraw up to one hundred dollars without no fee. Now,

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01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 2: I told y'all had twelve hundred dollars, but I got

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01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 2: my wife sale shoes, but they was thirteen hundred dollars.

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01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 2: But I was able to get my shoes because I

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Speaker 2: had one hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: Drift feed, okay, and I ain't got to pay nothing

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01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:04,479
Speaker 1: on it. So make sure y'all download the Current app.

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Speaker 1: It's really really fired.

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01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 2: There's no fees when you try to send money anything

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01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 2: like that, and you won't get the clients or anything

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01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 2: whenever you try to. You know, swipe your card and

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01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 2: you ain't got no money in there as long as

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Speaker 2: you don't go over one hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: Now, don't go over that hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: So the Current app, like if you swipe your card,

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01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 2: it'll notify you how much you've spent, how much you

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01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 2: have in your account, and if you're under eighteen, you

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01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 2: can still get in an account with credit.

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01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: So with Current.

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Speaker 2: So if y'all have kids out there, kids in high school,

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01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 2: or you know, you want to try to teach your

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01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 2: kid financial literacy, you could definitely get them their own

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01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 2: card in their name. You can know you can put

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Speaker 2: a limit on there and do all that good stuff.

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Speaker 2: It only takes two minutes to sign up and your

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01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: current card will be.

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Speaker 1: Shipped to you for free.

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Speaker 2: So make sure y'all download the Current app and use

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Speaker 2: the code poor minds. That's po you are in my

1352
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: NDS and you'll get a visa debit card. Okay, so

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01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 2: do what you gotta do, get your money right and

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01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 2: your bdb's. If y'all't know what a BDB is, because

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01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 2: some people have been asking me because I know we

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01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 2: say BDB a lot for the new listeners, a BDB

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Speaker 2: is a.

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Speaker 1: Big dick baller.

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Speaker 2: So if you got a big dick baller that I

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Speaker 2: want to send you some money, make sure you download

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Speaker 2: the Current app and tell them just to send it

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Speaker 2: to your current card.

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Speaker 1: Boo amen.

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Speaker 3: So now we're gonna get into the next segment.

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Speaker 2: If you want your question answered on the show, make

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Speaker 2: sure you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail

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Speaker 2: dot com. That's ask p O. You are m my nds.

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Speaker 2: Hit it, Drea, excuse me, I got excited.

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Speaker 1: So now it's time for the questions, and y'all know

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Speaker 1: the routine. If you have any questions that you would

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Speaker 1: like answer, please send your questions to ask poor Minds

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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com and we will make sure that

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Speaker 1: we answer your questions. So this is the first question

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Speaker 1: this week, says Heydrea. I mean, hey, lexp Andrea, please

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01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: keep my name anonymous. I've been dating this guy for

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01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: seven years, but out of those seven years, I've cheated

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Speaker 1: on him twice. The reason is because he doesn't satisfy

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Speaker 1: me sexually. Don't get me wrong. He's a great man,

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Speaker 1: pays all the bills, brought us the house, and I

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Speaker 1: love him dearly. But listen, see the sex is wag.

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Speaker 1: I haven't talked to him about it, No, she said,

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01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 1: I have talked to him about it, even tries to

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01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: show him what I like, but nothing works. The guy

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01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: keep cheating on my boyfriend with He's a great guy

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Speaker 1: as will. He gives me money, digs me down the

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Speaker 1: way I like eat fat mob.

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Speaker 3: Fat mam is at Garfield girl, I'm dead, eat fat mom.

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Speaker 1: I know whom I know what it is that I

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Speaker 1: believe she called it. That's Garfield cousin, eat fat ma,

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01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: like he eating his last meal. But he a hoe.

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Speaker 1: He has three baby mamas, and I know for a

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Speaker 1: fact he's still fucking on them, although he says he's not.

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Speaker 1: I've actually fallen for him. Could you please give me

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Speaker 1: some advice on what to do because I'm torn between

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01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: both of my men. But I know this is not right.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go first. Damn. If you read the question,

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Speaker 1: you're supposed to let me go. F well, that sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately though you don't do that, so I no, you don't. No,

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Speaker 1: you don't. So I'm gonna go first. You're real sassy today,

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Speaker 1: So yeah. So I just feel like the right thing

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01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: to do is obviously to stick with your nigga. He

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01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,919
Speaker 1: watched you a house, he paid the bills. You could

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01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: work with him in the sixth apartment, or you could

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01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 1: just keep cheating, but I mean cheat with somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Don't keep cheating with that nigga, because obviously he got

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01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of shit going on, and it sounded

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01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: to me like eventually y'all about to get caught up.

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Speaker 1: That's just how I feel. I feel like his situation

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01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: already too massy. He got three baby mamas. He fucking

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01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:43,960
Speaker 1: on him, you think he's still fucking on him, and

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01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 1: then you fucking with your nigga, And that's a lot

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01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: of I don't know if y'all using protection or not.

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01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 1: That's a lot of juices in the swine. And I

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01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 1: just feel like some sit gonna end up hitting the fan,

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01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 1: and I would hate to see it happen for you, sees,

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01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 1: because he gonna kick your ass out their house and

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01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: you're gonna be homeless. We don't want you to be

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01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: home with him. Do the right thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you've been dealing with this man

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01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 2: for seven years, so obviously this is somebody that you

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01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 2: love and care about. But obviously, if you fucking somebody

1422
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 2: on the side, it's hard not to develop feelings because

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01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times women cheap for

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01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 2: emotional reasons as well. But that's another topic. Even though

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Speaker 2: you've talked to him, it's more than talking. If somebody's

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01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 2: not satisfying you sexually, it's more than talking. Whenever the act,

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01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:27,680
Speaker 2: the physical act is going on, that's when you need

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01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 2: to have tell him, oh I like this, show him

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01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:32,720
Speaker 2: where to put his hands, show him where to put

1430
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 2: his fingers, show him where you like to be licked

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01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 2: at and suck that, show him how to hit it.

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01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 1: Like you can't have it.

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01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 2: I can't have a conversation with Dred like, oh this

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01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 2: is how I like my pussy eight. You know, like

1435
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 2: we need to actually lay down and do the act,

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01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna have to show her. So I feel

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01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 2: like during the act, maybe you need to what bitch,

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01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:55,480
Speaker 2: please hold on now? But I feel like this side nigga,

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01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 2: he's obviously no good.

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01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: He got other bitches.

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01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 2: He's not gonna take care of you like your main

1442
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 2: man that's taking care of you. I feel like it's

1443
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 2: not worth it. You got a bead b sis, you

1444
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 2: got a bad b Stop being greedy girl. You and

1445
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:10,840
Speaker 2: Fat MONI to calm down and figure out how to

1446
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 2: make it work sexually with your main man. Bring toys

1447
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 2: in the bedroom, watch poorn together. I feel like you

1448
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 2: haven't tried all your options out. So yeah, you and

1449
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 2: fat Mab calmed down. Cut your side nigga off because

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01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 2: you don't want.

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01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 3: To be, you know, out in the car.

1452
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:25,919
Speaker 1: But I do feel like sometimes when you be trying

1453
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 1: to tell people what to do in the bedroom, me

1454
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: and take that if you be in controller, because I

1455
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,800
Speaker 1: get accused of being controlling all the time. They've been together.

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Speaker 2: Seven years, so I feel like they can be past

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01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 2: that point. They know each other very seven years is

1458
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 2: a long time, that is, so it's like he should

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01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 2: if she tells him that he's not satisfied, then he

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01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 2: should take that as you know, let's work on it

1461
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 2: and we can work this together. We can work this

1462
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 2: out together. I don't think he should be offended because

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01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 2: they've been together for a while. Okay, so good luck girl. Okay,

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01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:56,440
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna read the next one. I'm very excited

1465
01:07:56,440 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 2: because I've been through this before me. It says, hey, ladies,

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01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 2: I'm a bartender.

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Speaker 1: And a popular strip club in the major cities, and

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01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: the strippers make way more money than we do. I'm

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01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 1: considering switching to stripping since since when people find out

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01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 1: you work at a strip club, they assume you strip anyway.

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01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,600
Speaker 1: But I'm still very apprehensive about it. Ad a k.

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Speaker 3: It just seems intimidating.

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01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 2: I recall Lex tweeting about how she stripped for a summer,

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01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:25,599
Speaker 2: and I was wondering if you could shed some light

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Speaker 2: on your experience.

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Speaker 3: Okay, girl, you oh, go ahead. You guys are saying

1477
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 3: cause you because you worked at a strip club before too.

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01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: I wanted to strip when I was younger, but I

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01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 1: always felt like I stuck with bars handing and waitressing

1480
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 1: because I just feel like that was the right thing

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01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: to do, the politically correct thing to do. And I just,

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01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: you know, was afraid of what people in my family

1483
01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: and stuff was gonna think about me. But honestly, if

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Speaker 1: I could go back in my life and go back

1485
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 1: to be in twenty two twenty three, I would definitely

1486
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: shake this ass and wouldn't give a fuck what people

1487
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: got to say about it, because at the end of

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01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 1: the day, bitch, make your money. Make your money, because

1489
01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 1: that's gonna set you up for your future more than

1490
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 1: what you realize. And I don't know how old you are,

1491
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: because you didn't say you know in a message or whatever,

1492
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:16,080
Speaker 1: but definitely, if that's something that you want to do,

1493
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 1: do it. You always should prefer to be the girl

1494
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 1: that went forward in the beach, that look back on

1495
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 1: her life and be like, Damn, I wish I could

1496
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: have eate it, she'd I wish I would have eat it.

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01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 1: She's so bitch. I just say go for it, because

1498
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 1: you could do it one time and then if you

1499
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 1: don't like it, don't do it no more. Well, for me,

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01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: I would say, it wasn't for the money. I just

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01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:36,240
Speaker 1: wanted to do it because I'm a kind of person.

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01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: I would just like, turn the fuck up type shit,

1503
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: and it looked fun.

1504
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 2: It did look fun too, So I'll say this. I

1505
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 2: used to work at Dreams in Houston, very popular strip club.

1506
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 2: We used to have all the bed b's in that hole,

1507
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 2: and the girls used to be making fucking bridge, just

1508
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:52,600
Speaker 2: like the situation you're in right now. So me and

1509
01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 2: one of my close friends we decided to pack up

1510
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 2: our shit and go to Dallas. And we actually went

1511
01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 2: a few times and we stripped and I made a

1512
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 2: lot of fucking money.

1513
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: Bitch. I danced for the Dallas Cowboys one time when

1514
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 1: it was fucking fun, and I was like, this money

1515
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: you made, you know what.

1516
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:12,760
Speaker 2: But honestly, I'm not trying to be funny. I don't

1517
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:14,600
Speaker 2: remember that. It was a long time ago, and I

1518
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:16,680
Speaker 2: made a lot of money. In the strip club bartending

1519
01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 2: and when I was stripping for that little time. But honestly,

1520
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 2: when I look back on it, I was like, damn,

1521
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 2: I don't know why I really stopped, because it was

1522
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:26,760
Speaker 2: outside of it being fun, it was actually fun for me.

1523
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 2: I felt liberated, I felt powerful. I was like, I'm

1524
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 2: controlling this nigga, all this fucking nigga money and I'm

1525
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 2: not doing shit.

1526
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 1: And the club I was dancing that you had to

1527
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 1: get butt booty hole naked.

1528
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 3: And it was so funny because my friend was like, bitch,

1529
01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:39,759
Speaker 3: I didn't think you was naked.

1530
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had to be naked. So in Dallas, yes, yes.

1531
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 3: It was at ONYX and Dallas, bitch, they probably still

1532
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 3: got because you know, you gotta go take a picture,

1533
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 3: you gotta go get the license.

1534
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:52,080
Speaker 1: You gotta do all that with Dallas. You gotta do

1535
01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: that everywhere. We're not in Houston, bitch, We're not in Houston,

1536
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:57,719
Speaker 1: but even here, like working in the strip clubs in Atlanta,

1537
01:10:57,760 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got to be a bartender or whatever.

1538
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 1: You still gotta get a.

1539
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 3: But I will never forget.

1540
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 2: My friend was like, well, bitch, I didn't know if

1541
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:04,160
Speaker 2: you knew how to dance, I was like, this bitch

1542
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 2: about to embarrass me, she said, I looked over to

1543
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:08,200
Speaker 2: the left, but you was already making busting that booty

1544
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:08,759
Speaker 2: hole open.

1545
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 1: So I say this, you can't care about what other

1546
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 1: people think.

1547
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 3: I feel like as long as as long as you

1548
01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 3: don't feel bad about yourself, and you're doing it for

1549
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 3: the right reasons, whether it be money or you want

1550
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 3: to have fun or you just want to turn up.

1551
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 3: This is your life, and you get one life.

1552
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 2: And let me tell you, Yes, I stripped for a

1553
01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:28,720
Speaker 2: few times in one summer and it was literally so

1554
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:30,880
Speaker 2: much fun. And it's a memory that me and one

1555
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 2: of my best friends always laugh about and we have

1556
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 2: to look back on. So I say, fucking girl, do

1557
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 2: it turn up. I don't regret anything about do it too. Yeah,

1558
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 2: I didn't regret anything about it, and it was fun.

1559
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 2: I was young, and that's something I can say I

1560
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:44,439
Speaker 2: did before.

1561
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 3: Not many bitches can say, well, a lot of bitches

1562
01:11:46,240 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 3: can say they can strip, because a lot of bitches

1563
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 3: do be stripping on the low.

1564
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 1: So fuck it turn up. Because I was gonna say

1565
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 1: I had a friend who win stripped all the low

1566
01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 1: one time too, and I'm like, damn, I should have

1567
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:57,000
Speaker 1: win with man. That was just so much. I mean, yeah,

1568
01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 1: I just feel like you young duey, you know what

1569
01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like, fuck, why not like you said,

1570
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 1: you already in the atmosphere, you already.

1571
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 3: In the club.

1572
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,960
Speaker 1: You know. I feel like I have people in my

1573
01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 1: family who even though I was dancing, not not necessarily

1574
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: my parents, but I had people in my family who

1575
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:13,640
Speaker 1: like knew I was working in strip club and they

1576
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 1: thought I was stripping anyway. So I should have just

1577
01:12:15,400 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 1: did this. So go turn up, yes and let us

1578
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:24,639
Speaker 1: know how you go ahead, Okay, So the next question

1579
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: says Instagram tips, Hey, guys, been listening to you since

1580
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:31,360
Speaker 1: you were wind down Wednesday, so obviously I love your content.

1581
01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:34,720
Speaker 1: Can you get can you guys, especially Drea lo L,

1582
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:38,040
Speaker 1: give some advice on how to become IG famous to

1583
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 1: IgG famous, how to become ig famous to the point

1584
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 1: where I can get company sponsorships. Not to too my

1585
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 1: own horn, but I'm hot, I'm just lazy and inconsistent.

1586
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 1: I have been posted on ig in over a year,

1587
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 1: and I know growth has a lot to do with

1588
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 1: consistency in order to keep people interested in your content.

1589
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,960
Speaker 1: I got wiped up by a BDB and got lazy.

1590
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,000
Speaker 1: But now that we broke up, I'm ready to get

1591
01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:03,000
Speaker 1: back out there. I have questions like, how do companies

1592
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 1: just reach out to you or to promote their clothes

1593
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:09,439
Speaker 1: or products, How to grow following, what type of peaks

1594
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:13,200
Speaker 1: to take, advice on, how to put your rates, posing

1595
01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 1: plus content advice and so forth, what not to post

1596
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 1: sash or slash? Organizing your highlights or hashtags corny? Now

1597
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 1: do you have to post designer and lavish trips or

1598
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:27,879
Speaker 1: keep it humble? Stuff like that? Thank you and evans,

1599
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:29,400
Speaker 1: I'll let you go versus.

1600
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like any I mean, I'm not gonna

1601
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 2: get too deep on it because I'm not Instagram famous either,

1602
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:40,160
Speaker 2: but I know I have a platform. So one thing

1603
01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 2: I think people get caught up in is the follower count.

1604
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:46,280
Speaker 2: The thing that you need to focus on is your engagement.

1605
01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 2: Because a lot of companies, believe it or not, they're

1606
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:51,840
Speaker 2: focusing on micro influencers. Now they're focused on people who

1607
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:53,719
Speaker 2: don't have as many followers because a lot of times

1608
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 2: people are gonna listen to somebody that has ten k

1609
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 2: followers because they feel like they're telling the truth versus

1610
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 2: somebody who has a million followers who most likely is

1611
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,360
Speaker 2: getting paid for it, not knowing that they're both getting

1612
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 2: paid for it. So I feel like, whatever you want

1613
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 2: to do, you need to focus on that. For me,

1614
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 2: I didn't start my Instagram off knowing that this is

1615
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:12,920
Speaker 2: what I was going to be doing three or four

1616
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 2: years later. So my content it tends to be a

1617
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 2: mix between bad bitch and stuff. But I also like

1618
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:22,599
Speaker 2: to tag my hair lot because I'm into hair, nails

1619
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 2: and stuff. So if anything, I prefer to get hit

1620
01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 2: up by like hair companies because I like bitch, I

1621
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:29,679
Speaker 2: like free hair, the fud, you know what I'm saying.

1622
01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 2: So it just depends what your what your goal is.

1623
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,719
Speaker 2: I have a friend and she has maybe eight thousand followers,

1624
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:39,080
Speaker 2: and when I tell you, she makes fucking money and

1625
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:42,280
Speaker 2: she is all but she's a blogger. So everything she posts,

1626
01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 2: she's just fresh out the shower with some nice towels

1627
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 2: on tagging a towel company. She's in the kitchen cooking,

1628
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 2: she's tagging the whoever is her spatula is in her hand.

1629
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 2: So if you're trying to be like a lifestyle influencer,

1630
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:56,400
Speaker 2: that's what your pictures need to be of. It doesn't

1631
01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 2: have to be all sexy and shit like how I mean, well,

1632
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 2: not sexy, but you don't gotta have your ass and

1633
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:02,800
Speaker 2: your titties out to necessarily.

1634
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 3: Do what you want to do.

1635
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 2: But you do have to be consistent, and I think

1636
01:15:05,360 --> 01:15:08,040
Speaker 2: that's what I have a problem with. Still I'm not

1637
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 2: consistent on my posting. I feel like, if you want

1638
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 2: to get your Instagram followers up, you need to do

1639
01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:16,720
Speaker 2: at least I'll say, like at least four to five

1640
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 2: posts a week. That's the people that have a lot

1641
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 2: of content coming out. Those are the people that are

1642
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:23,800
Speaker 2: like posting four to five times a week. I post

1643
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 2: maybe once a week, and that's not good. So but

1644
01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 2: I don't let the queen Instagram queen take the ropes.

1645
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: So definitely, you know what I mean to elaborate on

1646
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 1: what LyX was just saying about consistency. Consistency is definitely

1647
01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: the key if you want to get a bunch of

1648
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 1: Instagram followers. I feel like when I first started growing

1649
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:48,160
Speaker 1: my Instagram following, which was probably when I first moved

1650
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 1: to Atlanta actually like four years ago, I was very consistent,

1651
01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 1: Like I used to post the picture damn near every day,

1652
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:58,560
Speaker 1: Like I didn't skip a day posting a picture, and

1653
01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:01,600
Speaker 1: because I was posting so much, of course all of

1654
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 1: those you know, little pages that post, like the Instagram

1655
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 1: baddies or the cute girls or whatever, they would always

1656
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: repost my photos and then that would give me a

1657
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 1: lot of followers. And I understand girl about your situation

1658
01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: with the BDB, because I got in a situation like

1659
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:17,000
Speaker 1: that too, And I feel like that's when I stopped

1660
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 1: and started slacking on posting, because before that situation, I

1661
01:16:21,479 --> 01:16:24,640
Speaker 1: was posting consistently all the time. But I get I

1662
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: get it, you know what I mean. Sometimes you get

1663
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:29,280
Speaker 1: in a situation where you comfortable and you're not worried

1664
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 1: about making that a little bit of money that you

1665
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 1: was making from your social media no more because you

1666
01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: got some other shit going on. But you have to

1667
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:38,519
Speaker 1: stay consistent. And I feel like, now, you know, I

1668
01:16:38,640 --> 01:16:40,799
Speaker 1: mean to talk about even what I'm going through personally

1669
01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:43,600
Speaker 1: right now, I feel like I'm working on getting my

1670
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 1: engagement and stuff back up to what people yeah, thank you,

1671
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:50,600
Speaker 1: but yeah, I feel like I'm working on getting my

1672
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: engagement back up to what it used to because at

1673
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 1: one point I was like lex too, Like it was

1674
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 1: like I just didn't have the desire to post it

1675
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:01,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram to get cute and pictures and all that shit.

1676
01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 1: It was like Foray, So like, consistency is definitely key

1677
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:06,960
Speaker 1: as far as getting companies to reach out to you.

1678
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:11,960
Speaker 1: Companies look at engagement, like lex said, they look at engagement,

1679
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:14,800
Speaker 1: they look at your likes, they look at stuff like that.

1680
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:17,160
Speaker 1: So a lot of the time, unfortunately, I know it's

1681
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:19,639
Speaker 1: probably not gonna sound good to you. But if companies

1682
01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:21,519
Speaker 1: want to work with you, they gonna reach out to you.

1683
01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 1: You can reach out to them, because it has been

1684
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 1: times that I've reached out to companies and try to

1685
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 1: work with them, but a lot of the time they

1686
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,040
Speaker 1: only want to send you free stuff. They ain't really

1687
01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 1: trying to Yeah, they not really trying to pay you.

1688
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 1: When people want to pay you to work with you,

1689
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 1: they will reach out to you. As far as posing

1690
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,800
Speaker 1: and content, I just feel like you have to find

1691
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,679
Speaker 1: your audience. You have to figure out what your audience

1692
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 1: is and post shit that targets your audience.

1693
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:49,400
Speaker 2: And also another thing is make sure it's something that

1694
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 2: you like to do, because I feel like at one

1695
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 2: point I was trying to post stuff because I was

1696
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 2: trying to fit in this category of stuff that I

1697
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 2: wanted to do, but it wasn't stuff that I liked

1698
01:17:58,240 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 2: to do.

1699
01:17:58,600 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1700
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 2: I feel like for me, the best thing that's gonna

1701
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 2: be for me is like makeup and hairshit, because that's

1702
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 2: what I'm into. That's what I like, lashes. I love

1703
01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,600
Speaker 2: getting all that type of stuff sent to me. Like

1704
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:10,639
Speaker 2: I just you gotta stay in your lane.

1705
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 1: You do, You have to stay in your lane. And

1706
01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 1: then to answer your last question, how to grow a following,

1707
01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. When I started getting a lot

1708
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:26,800
Speaker 1: of Instagram followers, Instagram and the algorithms and all that

1709
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:29,560
Speaker 1: shit was completely different than how it is now. And

1710
01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to discourage you or nothing, because you

1711
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:34,680
Speaker 1: can still grow an Instagram following these days, but it's

1712
01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: not as easy as it was to get the amount

1713
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:39,599
Speaker 1: of followers that I have now as it was back then,

1714
01:18:40,200 --> 01:18:41,719
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's when I really gained

1715
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 1: the bulk of my followers, was like two years ago

1716
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:47,559
Speaker 1: because they hadn't changed the algorithms. Now it's really hard

1717
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,240
Speaker 1: to get like on the explore page and they just

1718
01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:53,960
Speaker 1: have so many other different factors where Instagram just be

1719
01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:57,680
Speaker 1: blocking people from being seen and stuff like that, so

1720
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:00,519
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But my main tip will

1721
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: just be stay consistent and post fire pictures. Like if

1722
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 1: you post something fire, people can't help but to like

1723
01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: this shep and that's just what it is. I think

1724
01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 1: a lot of the time people just be wanting to

1725
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:12,240
Speaker 1: post some sheet. That's one thing I noticed from a

1726
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:13,960
Speaker 1: lot of people. People just want to post up. They

1727
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 1: just be wanting to have something to post every day

1728
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:18,200
Speaker 1: and they be posting sheet, but yo, sit ain't fired,

1729
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:21,200
Speaker 1: and then they wonder why they not getting engagement or

1730
01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 1: they not getting followers and they not getting likes. It's

1731
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 1: like cause the shep not fire. Make sure everything you

1732
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:29,280
Speaker 1: post is like likable. It's something that people gonna be like, damn.

1733
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 3: And I think it also helps.

1734
01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:33,599
Speaker 2: Like what helped me is like focus on what people

1735
01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 2: always compliment you on and trying to make sure you

1736
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 2: highlight that or talk about that a lot, and that's

1737
01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:40,600
Speaker 2: how companies will start reaching out to you because I know,

1738
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 2: for me, like I do a lot of shit with

1739
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 2: my hair and I wear my wigs every which way,

1740
01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:47,680
Speaker 2: so I was always like talking about what kind of

1741
01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 2: wigs I was wearing or posting this and posting that,

1742
01:19:50,240 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 2: and honestly, hair companies started reaching out to me. I

1743
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 2: can't remember the last time I like bought like a

1744
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:56,439
Speaker 2: good wig, because I mean, companies send me shit and

1745
01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 2: they be fire so and.

1746
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 1: By the way, hashtags, yeah, uh, they don't really work anymore.

1747
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:03,920
Speaker 1: And as far as posting, because I'm trying to make

1748
01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,280
Speaker 1: sure we answer all of the questions that you've sense

1749
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:10,120
Speaker 1: us posting designer and lavish trips are keep it humble.

1750
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 1: I feel like you should just do what true to yourself.

1751
01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 1: Like Beach, if you got a whole bunch of chanel

1752
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:15,560
Speaker 1: and a whole bunch of wire ceiling, she didn't you

1753
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 1: want to post pictures? And then she Beach postal picture

1754
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: because people do like stuff like that, you know what

1755
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:21,200
Speaker 1: I mean. And then if you go on trips all

1756
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 1: the time, you want to post your pictures trip, Yeah,

1757
01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:27,679
Speaker 1: go post post your pictures from your trips. It just depends,

1758
01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 1: like I said, on the type of audience that you're

1759
01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:32,519
Speaker 1: trying to a trade. What you a poor girl? I

1760
01:20:32,560 --> 01:20:34,599
Speaker 1: don't know what that word means to be honest.

1761
01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm gonna skip this one just because it's

1762
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,240
Speaker 2: really long, but I'm gonna read one more just so we.

1763
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 3: Can get caught up. So this one says, oh yeah,

1764
01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:43,560
Speaker 3: that one's really long, so I'm gonna save that.

1765
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:45,800
Speaker 1: That's the one I show Kiki. I said, these girls

1766
01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: be truthy.

1767
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 3: So I went up, these are just a lot of

1768
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 3: these are just advice. So I went to the one.

1769
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:52,880
Speaker 3: I went to this one. It says he's gonna leave.

1770
01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:56,640
Speaker 1: No okay, so it says, hey, ladies, please.

1771
01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:58,960
Speaker 2: Keep me anonymous. Let's jump right into it. I'm not

1772
01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:01,800
Speaker 2: having enough sex with my man. We've been together for

1773
01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:04,280
Speaker 2: a little over three years, and I truly think I'm

1774
01:21:04,320 --> 01:21:07,000
Speaker 2: going to marry this man one day. He's perfect for

1775
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,800
Speaker 2: me in every way. When we first started out, the

1776
01:21:09,880 --> 01:21:12,200
Speaker 2: sex was good. I'm a little kinky, so I had

1777
01:21:12,280 --> 01:21:14,680
Speaker 2: to show him things. But now he's a freak like

1778
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 2: me and we have amazing sex when we can. We

1779
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:20,760
Speaker 2: both work full time, but I also have a side

1780
01:21:20,800 --> 01:21:23,599
Speaker 2: business as a visual artist, which leads to long work

1781
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 2: hours after my full time.

1782
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:27,280
Speaker 3: Also a little team in I.

1783
01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 2: My cycle is irregular and sometimes can last half a

1784
01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 2: month ooh, which also cuts into my sex time. He's

1785
01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 2: cool with period sex, but I just don't feel sexy

1786
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:37,720
Speaker 2: during that time.

1787
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 1: Ooh, girl, I feel you. I've tried more kinky shit.

1788
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:42,320
Speaker 1: I take she orgasm.

1789
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:44,800
Speaker 2: Let's make sure y'all use Kiki cold Kiki said so

1790
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 2: and get a discount. I'm attracted to him and all,

1791
01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 2: but lately I'm just too tired or not in the

1792
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 2: mood to have sex, and I dk what to do.

1793
01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 2: He's pretty understanding, and he says it's not a big deal.

1794
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:57,040
Speaker 2: But I know my man and I know he wants

1795
01:21:57,120 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 2: more from me. How do I get myself in an

1796
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:02,759
Speaker 2: even better mood or make more time to have sex.

1797
01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:05,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to lose my nigga over pussy that

1798
01:22:05,080 --> 01:22:05,639
Speaker 2: I want.

1799
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:08,479
Speaker 3: To give him thanks. You want to go or you

1800
01:22:08,520 --> 01:22:10,880
Speaker 3: want me to go? Okay, So I feel like this

1801
01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 3: is a big thing of mine because I've been in

1802
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 3: loane this.

1803
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:15,240
Speaker 2: I've been in like a relationship before, and I live

1804
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:17,840
Speaker 2: with my man, and I understand it's hard to keep

1805
01:22:17,920 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 2: that spark, especially when you've been with somebody for a

1806
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:26,000
Speaker 2: long time, and it's hard to not lose that sexual spark.

1807
01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:27,800
Speaker 1: So for me, this is what I did. Y'all.

1808
01:22:28,040 --> 01:22:30,800
Speaker 2: Seriously, this may sound bad, it may sound crazy, but

1809
01:22:31,320 --> 01:22:33,120
Speaker 2: I learned how to make my man up fast.

1810
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1811
01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 2: I learned how to drain my nigga because sometimes I

1812
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't be in the mood, so I didn't want to

1813
01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 2: have sex for or do sexual things for twenty thirty minutes.

1814
01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:42,840
Speaker 2: So bit ch'all would just get in there, make that

1815
01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:45,439
Speaker 2: nigga nut in like five minutes and I will be done. Yeah,

1816
01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:49,560
Speaker 2: just drain that nigga, girl, drain him, and then I

1817
01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:53,000
Speaker 2: feel like sometimes, you know, it's a science, it's a science,

1818
01:22:53,080 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 2: but not only just drain him, because you obviously you

1819
01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 2: do want your sexual drive back. So I feel like,

1820
01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:03,479
Speaker 2: if y'all go long time without sex, you know, you

1821
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:06,439
Speaker 2: maybe should try edging for yourself. If you don't know

1822
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:08,800
Speaker 2: what edging is, it's when you masturbate but you don't

1823
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 2: let yourself nut. You just kind of get there and

1824
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 2: you don't. So maybe you should try edging for yourself

1825
01:23:13,520 --> 01:23:15,080
Speaker 2: to maybe get yourself in the mood.

1826
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's a great idea. Yeah I knew that.

1827
01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:19,760
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, well, bitch, I don't do that. Y'all need

1828
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:21,720
Speaker 3: my nut and I need it's my nut and I.

1829
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:24,439
Speaker 1: Want it now right. But I'm talking about before I

1830
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 1: have sex. Oh, Okay, before you got to be playing

1831
01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:30,640
Speaker 1: with my pussy and don't nuts I don't know what

1832
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:33,880
Speaker 1: you do with that thing I'm talking about before I

1833
01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 1: before I know I'm gonna have sex. A lot of

1834
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:37,560
Speaker 1: the time, I do do that to like kind of

1835
01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 1: get myself in the mood and get myself ready. So

1836
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,120
Speaker 1: it's like she yea, the nuot gonna come.

1837
01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:46,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I feel like, maybe for the times you

1838
01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:48,240
Speaker 2: don't want to have sex and you know he does

1839
01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:51,920
Speaker 2: want to have sex, girl, just drain him because I

1840
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:54,560
Speaker 2: feel like nigga's gonna go out and have sex or

1841
01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:55,920
Speaker 2: cheat or whatever if they want to.

1842
01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:58,519
Speaker 3: But I feel like if I keep my nigga drained and.

1843
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:01,880
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna got time for another bitch, you know

1844
01:24:01,920 --> 01:24:05,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Well, well that's not your niggas always got.

1845
01:24:05,880 --> 01:24:08,120
Speaker 2: But I feel like, at least I knew in my mind,

1846
01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:10,280
Speaker 2: my nigga can't ever say that I turned him down

1847
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:12,200
Speaker 2: for sex for me personally, and I think.

1848
01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:13,920
Speaker 1: That is something that I learned from you because I

1849
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:17,840
Speaker 1: feel like, because yeah, because I feel like I used

1850
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:19,640
Speaker 1: to be like if I don't want to fuck, I

1851
01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck. And I'm a very sexual person.

1852
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: So it's very rare that I don't want to fuck,

1853
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:26,600
Speaker 1: but it would be time, so I'll just be like

1854
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 1: m M and I just want to turn over and

1855
01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 1: go to sleep. But he's like, if your nigga want

1856
01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:31,879
Speaker 1: to fuck, you don't ever want to deny.

1857
01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 2: Your I'm not gonna lie. That's probably the only pick

1858
01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 2: me trade about myself that I have. Any man that

1859
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 2: I've ever dated, you can ask them. The one thing

1860
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:41,880
Speaker 2: they gonna remember about me is I never told my

1861
01:24:42,000 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 2: niggas no yeah ever.

1862
01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 1: But even now I'm like that too, Like I never

1863
01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:47,439
Speaker 1: tell a nigga now if I fuck with him like

1864
01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 1: he want to fuck, it, just be like you gotta

1865
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:50,040
Speaker 1: do it.

1866
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:54,200
Speaker 3: So, like I said, my two things for advice is one,

1867
01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:57,920
Speaker 3: edging looking too edging before you have sex, you know,

1868
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:00,759
Speaker 3: just masturbate a little bit, but don't nut. Maybe that'll

1869
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 3: get you in the mood.

1870
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:03,960
Speaker 2: Or two, find out what makes him nut quick so

1871
01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 2: you can kind of get it over with but don't

1872
01:25:05,680 --> 01:25:07,720
Speaker 2: tell him that or don't show it that you're trying

1873
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 2: to make him hurry up and nut. Just find Let

1874
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:12,160
Speaker 2: me tell you I used to sit my nigga on

1875
01:25:12,200 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 2: the edge of the bed and I used to bounce

1876
01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:17,360
Speaker 2: on his dick. Seriously two minutes. He would not every time, Yeah,

1877
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 2: every fucking time. Like, so find out what makes him

1878
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 2: nut quick so you can just get in and get

1879
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:24,640
Speaker 2: out and you can figure out the things that you

1880
01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:25,280
Speaker 2: have going on.

1881
01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:27,639
Speaker 3: Sis, But I feel like you can make it work.

1882
01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 3: Good luck.

1883
01:25:28,560 --> 01:25:32,879
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree. I really don't have much advice

1884
01:25:33,000 --> 01:25:36,479
Speaker 1: on this topic. I like you hit all the points

1885
01:25:36,520 --> 01:25:37,200
Speaker 1: and I agree with.

1886
01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:40,640
Speaker 3: You, so I'm not this is not I actually just

1887
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 3: want to read this.

1888
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 1: It's not a question.

1889
01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 2: I just want to read this real quick, so this

1890
01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:48,120
Speaker 2: girl said, and let me just apologize because I don't

1891
01:25:48,120 --> 01:25:49,040
Speaker 2: be doing it on purpose.

1892
01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:50,800
Speaker 1: You do do this though, because I know what you're

1893
01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:52,000
Speaker 1: about to read, because I read it.

1894
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:55,599
Speaker 2: Too, she said, Lex especially, you don't need to rush

1895
01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:56,479
Speaker 2: to finish the show.

1896
01:25:56,760 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 1: Lol.

1897
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,759
Speaker 2: We love you guys so much and we love episode

1898
01:26:00,840 --> 01:26:03,280
Speaker 2: so there's no reason to keep cutting Drea off.

1899
01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:06,000
Speaker 1: Mid speech or topic. And in the show.

1900
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:08,920
Speaker 2: I love your question segment too because they're like in

1901
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:12,120
Speaker 2: many topics, even if I can't relate at this rate.

1902
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 2: You guys need to do bonus episodes where it's just

1903
01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:16,880
Speaker 2: Q and A to clear your inbox. Love you guys,

1904
01:26:16,920 --> 01:26:18,840
Speaker 2: as usual and stay safe. Well, let me say this

1905
01:26:19,120 --> 01:26:21,599
Speaker 2: first of all. When I do that, y'all have to look.

1906
01:26:21,720 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 2: I'm looking at my phone whenever we created this, this podcast,

1907
01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:29,280
Speaker 2: I'm trying to keep things in a category like it's

1908
01:26:29,280 --> 01:26:29,840
Speaker 2: supposed to be this.

1909
01:26:29,880 --> 01:26:31,240
Speaker 3: Amount of time and this amount of time.

1910
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:32,240
Speaker 1: So it's not like I'm.

1911
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:34,759
Speaker 2: Cutting her off, but I when you have a vision

1912
01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 2: for something, that's exactly how you wanted to be executed.

1913
01:26:37,840 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 1: So today I did.

1914
01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:41,280
Speaker 2: It's an hour and thirty minutes today. But I will

1915
01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 2: say we are working on our Patreon, so please look

1916
01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:47,120
Speaker 2: out for that because we are going to be dropping

1917
01:26:47,160 --> 01:26:49,200
Speaker 2: bonus content for y'all because I know y'all have been

1918
01:26:49,240 --> 01:26:50,160
Speaker 2: asking for that a lot.

1919
01:26:50,600 --> 01:26:53,840
Speaker 1: I won't be cutting Drea off, no fucking more. So

1920
01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry because but but y'all have to realize

1921
01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:00,360
Speaker 1: I'm just the person.

1922
01:27:00,439 --> 01:27:03,720
Speaker 2: I'm very I'm sensitive about my shit, and I want

1923
01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:06,560
Speaker 2: poor minds to be executed in a certain way. So

1924
01:27:06,760 --> 01:27:08,760
Speaker 2: the reason I do do that sometimes is because I'm

1925
01:27:08,800 --> 01:27:10,679
Speaker 2: looking at my phone and i'm looking at the time,

1926
01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:12,880
Speaker 2: and I'm trying to stay on a time stand because

1927
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:15,240
Speaker 2: I'm very organized when it comes to my show, and

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Speaker 2: I like it to be delivered a certain way.

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Speaker 1: So it's not that I'm being rude. I'm just trying

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Speaker 1: to get it to where I like. Let me speak

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Speaker 1: for myself too, for the listeners. You know, I do

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Speaker 1: appreciate when y'all be seeing and stuff like that, but

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Speaker 1: you know, I can speak for myself. I know legs

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Speaker 1: she don't be meaning nothing by it. I'm used to.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't be cutting her off because I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to hear what she said. But I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: we already did twenty minutes or fifteen minutes or thirty

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Speaker 2: minutes whatever we needed for that topic.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of movie.

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Speaker 2: But thank you so much for listening. I appreciate that feeding.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate but we but we hear y'all and we

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Speaker 2: see y'all. So the bonus content is coming. Look, y'all

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Speaker 2: are gonna no, it's like coming like in like a week,

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Speaker 2: week and a half. So if y'all keep a lookout

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Speaker 2: next week when we drop the episode, we're gonna drop

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Speaker 2: the Patreon link. Y'all are about to get bonus content

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Speaker 2: bone this episode, and y'all gonna absolutely love it. Amen,

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Speaker 2: you have anything you want to add I just want

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Speaker 2: to know what song you're gonna take because I'm with

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Speaker 2: this week. I personally think that you that you should

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Speaker 2: sing JD in honor of Drake and his new album.

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Speaker 3: Oh you know what, Jada is one of my n

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Speaker 3: Let me pull up the lyrics so I don't think

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Speaker 3: I don't know you.

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Speaker 1: You know, Jada is such a I was listening to

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Speaker 1: Jada last night. I know it's your It's like that telepathy.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I can sing. Can I just

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Speaker 3: sing like two lines? I'm really not to move or scene.

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Speaker 1: I just know the people want to hear you sing.

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Speaker 1: What mark? Do you want me to sing the chorus? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Some heard it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, some j there j therea yeah yeah yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: fucking j Baby. No oh not.

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Speaker 1: Jane Baby, not not miss Wimming referencing R Kelly. I

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Speaker 1: don't know you lines. I know you lying.

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Speaker 3: I'm not represent anybody.

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Speaker 1: I know you lying me swimming. Yes, we get the

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Speaker 1: from me. You are much. We'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all,

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Speaker 1: your fucking miss Swimming, not Miss Wimm