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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand jewils dirty little Secret? Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewel Show. And you texted

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Speaker 1: us at four one or six one and said you

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Speaker 1: had a dirty little secret. So now we're calling you

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Speaker 1: back in mining. Oh my god, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm excited? How are you? Oh? Sweet? Normally people aren't

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Speaker 1: that excited. They're like normally like, oh, shoot, I forgot

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Speaker 1: that I texted that. You know, I never win anything,

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Speaker 1: so I feel like I won, Like I feel oh

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Speaker 1: all right, sweet? So yes, you want you want the

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Speaker 1: chance to tell your dirty little secret? We won? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Do you need us to call you back? Oh? Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I can talk now, sweet. Okay, what's your dirty little secret? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I've been married for a while and my husband's

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Speaker 1: a very very handsome man, but he cannot take a compliment,

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Speaker 1: and so I'm starting to be like not attracted to

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Speaker 1: him anymore, if that makes sense, like nice to him.

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Speaker 1: He shamespirals and like collapses on himself and just puts

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Speaker 1: himself down, and it's like it's tiresome. And I've I've

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Speaker 1: noticed lately that I'm actually talking to strangers and like

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Speaker 1: kind of flirting with strangers. Just so I can get

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Speaker 1: like the response I'm looking for, you know, like compliment

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Speaker 1: a random guy at the grocery store, just so he'll

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Speaker 1: say thank you instead of being like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I mean so much weight blah blah blah blah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I know how that is'll turn off. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: I've been on the other side of that when someone

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Speaker 1: because confidence is sexy, right, and why would you say it,

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Speaker 1: Like if you're with somebody, you're with them because you

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Speaker 1: like them, right, Yeah, and I mean I love this man, yeah,

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Speaker 1: of course, instead of saying, oh baby, you look so

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Speaker 1: good in that shirt today. It's just sometimes people feel

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Speaker 1: more validated or like they have purpose when they're serving,

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Speaker 1: you know, when they're helping people out or doing something

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Speaker 1: that they're good at. I don't know if it's good

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Speaker 1: with his hands, or if he's really smart and can

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Speaker 1: solve a problem or tell a story. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: because I don't know your man, And I'm sorry, but no,

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Speaker 1: that's I'm on the autism spectrum. But it sounds like

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Speaker 1: you're saying, is I should shift the foe focused from

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Speaker 1: his physical appearance to other things that he might be

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Speaker 1: more confident about. Yeah, yeah, No, that's a great Why

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Speaker 1: not even think of that. Your confidence is getting caught

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Speaker 1: up in his not receiving it, so there's a lot there.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Thanks for telling us your little secret.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, good luck. Let us think that helps

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