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Speaker 1: I saw the kiki.

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Speaker 2: You were talking about reasons why you might break up

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Speaker 2: with a friend, and I have one. Oh, this is

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Speaker 2: a reason that I would break up with a friend.

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Speaker 2: And it was on TikTok. Apparently a bunch of people

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Speaker 2: went out to eat. I don't know how many people

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Speaker 2: were there. It must have been a lot. Forty six

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars eight people, eight people, forty six hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: restaurant bill.

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Speaker 1: Eight people. What is that? Five like six seven hundred

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Speaker 1: bucks a person. That's out of my league? Person? Okay,

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Speaker 1: wait to which I mean.

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Speaker 2: I've heard about, you know, Jesus dollars six hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: in the bag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot. What's that? It's like six hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars a person. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So so eight people go out and here's where here's

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Speaker 2: where you lost me. Well you lost me at forty

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Speaker 2: six hundred you lost me about four thousand dollars ago,

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Speaker 2: I mean, eight people, six hundred bucks. And maybe I

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Speaker 2: don't know, but apparently half of the of the people

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Speaker 2: wanted to only pay for what they ordered. They wanted

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Speaker 2: to pull that trick, and then the other half was like, well,

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Speaker 2: we'll just split it or whatever split it up. But

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Speaker 2: I guess some people were ordering I don't know how

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Speaker 2: if it's six hundred bucks a person, I don't know

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Speaker 2: who was ordering something more expensive than me. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't need who are you hanging out with?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: Did one person order seven seafood towers for themselves?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like, I guess if that's the case, then maybe we're

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Speaker 2: splitting it up. But I mean, I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't know how it gets to that point. And everybody

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Speaker 2: wasn't indulging in something right, And again, if you're if

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Speaker 2: you're going out with people and they're ordering thousands and

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Speaker 2: thousands of dollars worth of wine and you're not getting

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Speaker 2: any of it, well, that's maybe a conversation that we had.

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Speaker 2: If you're going out with a bunch of people and

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Speaker 2: they're ordering thousand dollars bottles of wine and not consulting

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Speaker 2: you on whether that's what you want to order, that's

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Speaker 2: another thing I could see that.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you got some.

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Speaker 2: Boogie ass friend it's like I only drink the buballet

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Speaker 2: shoe bile from you know, eighteen seven before he is

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Speaker 2: then and you're like, no, I'm cool with Phronsia. Well,

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Speaker 2: then I'm not paying my share. I mean, I would

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Speaker 2: just say, like, you can do that, but I don't

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Speaker 2: want any part of that. I guess of your you know,

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Speaker 2: gazillion dollar wine. But other than that, I mean, I

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Speaker 2: don't know how.

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I can't do it.

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Speaker 2: I can't rest going out with people who wanted to

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Speaker 2: get the bill and start out itemizing like, well, I

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Speaker 2: only had one bite of the tuna role but you know,

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Speaker 2: and then I had a salad and you got a porterhouse.

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know if you're going out with

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Speaker 2: people who are like ordering porterhouses and you're ordering salads,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe that's a conversation we had at

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Speaker 2: the beginning, but I still don't know if that's the case.

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Speaker 2: How we got to forty six hundred dollars for eight

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Speaker 2: people if everybody wasn't ordering you know, like the rarest

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Speaker 2: of rare. But I'm I can't do it, guys, I

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Speaker 2: can't do it. Like we're either we're either in this

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Speaker 2: together and we're splitting it up evenly, or we're not,

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Speaker 2: and you're talking to me. I'm the guy who's always alone.

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Speaker 2: I'm the guy who always shows up by myself with

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Speaker 2: the bunch of couples, and I still wind up paying

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Speaker 2: for two because I just throw my card in and

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Speaker 2: then I want, you know, basically the dudes throw their

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Speaker 2: for two people. I'll complain about that because that's just

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Speaker 2: what it is. And if there's one person in the

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Speaker 2: group who's like really going crazy, like everybody else is

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Speaker 2: ordering you know, normal stuff, and then this dude orders

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Speaker 2: a tomahawk for six for himself for herself, well maybe

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Speaker 2: that's then that person should have the social graces and

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Speaker 2: the self awareness to go, let me cover you know,

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Speaker 2: my part of it, or you guys don't have to

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Speaker 2: pay for my three hundred dollars stake or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I can't do it. I don't

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Speaker 2: He said, Well, but I didn't have any of that.

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Speaker 2: It never made it to MI end of the table,

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Speaker 2: so I'm not paying for that. It's like, guys, why

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Speaker 2: would we you know, doesn't it all kind of work

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I did have a friend though, who dated a guy.

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Speaker 4: It trowed me nuts.

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Speaker 5: We would go out to dinner and then he would

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Speaker 5: like always order all these super nice shots, but then

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Speaker 5: we all had to split them, like he kept ordering them,

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Speaker 5: Like we didn't ask for these shots, you.

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Speaker 4: Know what I mean, like the nicest tequila. But other

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Speaker 4: than that, I can't do.

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Speaker 5: It's like, if you're going to order shots, a million shots,

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Speaker 5: you know, at least pay for those.

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Speaker 2: Sites went to a restaurant that time long ago in

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Speaker 2: a different city, and the lady that owns the restaurant,

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Speaker 2: it's she's famous. She has a little it's a sushi restaurant,

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Speaker 2: and she has a little stage built in the restaurant

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Speaker 2: where she does these little performance.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's all about her. Oh, it's all over.

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Speaker 2: It's yeah, I'm not it's you anyway. And her thing

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Speaker 2: is sake sokee. She has a sake bomb song and dance.

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Speaker 2: And I used to live in this city. So she

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Speaker 2: sees me and she's like, hey, skey bombs for you friend.

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Speaker 2: I'm like great, And there was a table of us,

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Speaker 2: so I'm like thanks, you know whatever. I'm not going

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Speaker 2: to say her name because some people listening might know.

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Speaker 2: And then the bill comes and there's thirty.

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Speaker 1: Dollars per person. Soake bob oh no, no, I don't

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Speaker 1: want these. Yeah you do that.

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Speaker 2: You were like, hey, good to see you. You know,

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking it was like a gesture. Otherwise I didn't

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Speaker 2: I didn't need it. It was the restaurant, and it

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Speaker 2: was also she could do her little song and dance

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Speaker 2: she has, like I'm not even kidding you. She has

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Speaker 2: a little stage in the middle of the restaurant. There's

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Speaker 2: a button she pushes and like lights starts lasting yes,

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Speaker 2: and she starts singing the sake Bomb songs. And it

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, like it's like old times again, you know,

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Speaker 2: to see this lady.

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Speaker 1: And then I get the bill. I'm like, why what

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Speaker 1: is this church running? I love her, but I had

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Speaker 4: That's not good.

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Speaker 1: Why are you bringing up with your friend?

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Speaker 7: Oh? Just because your boy Like she tells her boyfriend

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Speaker 7: every single thing. No, like he should not know, like

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Speaker 7: all of our conversations, all of the friend group drama,

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Speaker 7: Like he knows everything.

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Speaker 1: He's one of the girls at this point.

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Speaker 7: So I'm just like, girl, like, I gotta cut you

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Speaker 7: off because he started to know too much.

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Speaker 1: And then he talks and it gets back out to

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Speaker 7: It's like a whole drama, Like you just I mean,

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Speaker 7: I understand pillow talk and you guys, you know, discuss

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Speaker 7: your friendship situation, but like he should not know everything

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Speaker 7: about your friends, Like Big Tim doesn't know everything about

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Speaker 7: every single one of my girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: I would never tell their business like that.

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Speaker 2: Where do you draw the line then, on what you

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Speaker 2: will and won't tell Big Tim?

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Speaker 7: I draw the line pretty far out, okay, because I

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Speaker 7: feel like once you start telling your partner all the

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Speaker 7: stuff about your friends, they start looking at you a

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Speaker 7: little sideways because they're kind of like, well, birds of

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Speaker 7: a feather flock together, and it's like that's not always

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Speaker 7: the case. But I don't need you judging me, so

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Speaker 7: you don't need to know that. You know, my friend

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Speaker 7: Crystal has you know, three men and a baby in

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Speaker 7: a way, she don't know which one.

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Speaker 1: It is, Like, I would never tell that. I definitely

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Speaker 2: I feel like in the relationships like that, and I

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Speaker 2: know everything about Crystal and everyboding else, Like I feel

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Speaker 2: like I feel like yeah, really, but but I but

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Speaker 2: I'm also kind of like Stone, so I don't say anything,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like they said Stone, dup, I'm like, damn.

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Speaker 1: No, but I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to say anything, but I feel like

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's that's your outlet. Like if you

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Speaker 2: if you're with someone seriously, I feel like that's one

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Speaker 2: of the only people you can tell. Also going to

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Speaker 2: another girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that.

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Speaker 2: You're not worse though, Like if you're talking to another

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Speaker 2: girl in the friend group about a girl in the

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Speaker 2: friend group, I feel like unabridged, I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: worse than just telling the person, because I mean, what

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Speaker 2: incentive do I have to blow up your friend group

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Speaker 1: It's not that you have an incentive.

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Speaker 7: It's just that your thoughts can start to change about

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Speaker 7: your partner because you're listening.

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Speaker 1: To the stories of her friends. It could, you know.

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Speaker 1: And it's like with family.

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Speaker 7: You don't tell your family everything that goes on in

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Speaker 7: your relationship either, because they'll never look at your partner

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Speaker 1: You know, well, you can't talk to you. You gotta

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Speaker 1: be careful. And I've just said this a million times.

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Speaker 2: You've got to be careful what you tell your friends

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Speaker 2: and family about arguments that you get in For a

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Speaker 2: lot of reasons. One because you're gonna tell it your way.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing.

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Speaker 1: First of all, people always tell stories of their way.

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Speaker 1: They don't.

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Speaker 2: They don't tell the story the way it actually happened.

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Speaker 2: Even if you're in the right, people don't tell stories that.

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Speaker 2: People tell stories to their friends wanting their friends to

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Speaker 2: reaffirm their perspective. Ninety nine percent of the time, people

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Speaker 2: They want their friends to say, he's a jackass, she's

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Speaker 2: a bitch, and it's not your fault. Now, because the

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Speaker 2: problem is if you tell the story exactly how it happened,

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Speaker 2: if you're capable of doing that, your friends might actually

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Speaker 2: to them for them to tell you. Most of the time,

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Speaker 2: if you're being honest, you're not going to your friends

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Speaker 2: for them to tell you that you're the crazy one.

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Speaker 2: You're going to be reaffirmed that. And even if even

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Speaker 2: if whatever it is, they're not gonna forget, the friends

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Speaker 2: don't forget. Nope, And so when you forgive and move on,

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Speaker 2: the friends are still remembering. You know, wait a minute,

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Speaker 2: what about that time he did this? And because you

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Speaker 2: may have overtold the story a little bit, now you

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Speaker 2: got to backtrack, Well, it wasn't as bad as I

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Speaker 2: could you? How could you possibly forgive him for saying

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Speaker 7: Like I know a lot of stuff and look, and

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Speaker 1: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: I believe that for a fact because I don't sit

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Speaker 2: It never comes up and if it did, I think

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think you guys sit around and do

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Speaker 7: what you know Stacey did because you're girlfriend. Her wife

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Speaker 7: You got men are more messy. You guys are? You

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Speaker 7: We're not talking about men's Nope, I don't die. I

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Speaker 1: Because he does.

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Speaker 8: He's the biggest guy for my gossip, gossips about it

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Speaker 5: I mean this month, I knew of two things he

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Speaker 1: Yet you offline, go ahead right now with the microphone.

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Speaker 1: There's no clue.

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Speaker 2: I think it's not normal. So he doesn't. He's an outline,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what they do.

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Speaker 9: You have what it takes show business in the show business,

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Speaker 1: To live, right and suns shout out, shout out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hey, can you imagine the audacity of the people

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Speaker 2: people in this room, Shelley, Would you have ever? Would

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Speaker 2: you have ever? Military Mike gets on one knee and

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Speaker 2: he gives you whatever he gives you. Would you have

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Speaker 6: I don't think I could because knowing how much you know,

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Speaker 1: So I went with a girlfriend and like the whole thing,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I heard rings beautiful. I love my ring,

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 7: But you know what I have would said real quick

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Speaker 7: do what this girl did. Just accidentally lose it.

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Speaker 1: Committed accidentally, Yeah, just committed insurance from.

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Speaker 3: Until we're moving on. We're moving on, children were moving Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we're moving on. I want how people get mad at

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Speaker 3: me because like you talk over everybody. I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the wrong people today.

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Speaker 2: I mean you guys like otherwise we'll still be talking

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Speaker 2: about I'm going to play a game.

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Speaker 1: Please, I understand.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna start crying.

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Speaker 1: Playing games all morning over here. I'm sorry for having

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Speaker 1: a different Can you.

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Speaker 2: Guys hear an example of what I'm talking about? I

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Speaker 2: say something? Everybody has to say something. Anthony, Hi, good morning?

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Speaker 2: How are you? I am a circus ring leader? Is

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Speaker 2: what I am? Do you understand this? I'm wearing a

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Speaker 2: what a circus ring leaders have?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like poigant stuff. We got

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Speaker 1: the top hat. That's what I am.

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Speaker 4: That's basically what I am in life, photo shopping that

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Speaker 4: right now.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait, Anthony, ready to play this game because

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Speaker 2: I'm just I don't even know what we're doing anymore.

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Speaker 1: Six hundred and fifty bucks.

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Speaker 2: You could win, and you've been here for days and

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Speaker 2: days after telling us you weren't going to be very

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Speaker 9: No, I still feel the same way, and I'm not

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Speaker 9: feeling the love from Rufiel.

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Speaker 1: I got it. Shelley's my girl. I gotta stay by Shells.

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Speaker 1: The day that Shelley takes you down. Oh damn wow,

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Speaker 1: just the hostility this morning. Let me down, Shelly. Let's

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Speaker 1: play the game. Good luck, guys, A right, Good luck, Anthony,

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Speaker 1: Good luck Shelly. Okay, good.

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Speaker 2: I'm like a preschool teacher trying to get all the

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Speaker 2: ain't there? Right, Kiki?

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Speaker 1: I have pushed you to.

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Speaker 2: Take your ringless fingers, get at you.

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Speaker 1: You don't even have not the say I love you.

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Speaker 1: Other people would have been crying with what Ruvios said,

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Speaker 1: but you overhear. I can do this all day. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Anthony Ryan Gosling made his debut on the Billboard Charts

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Speaker 2: thanks to his role in this new movie. Barbie Witch

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Speaker 2: Rapper brought out Kanye West during his Circus Maximus show

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Speaker 2: in Rome. Travis Scott Haley Jade Mathers was spotted at

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Speaker 2: Lottapalooza over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Who is your famous dad?

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Speaker 4: Three?

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Speaker 5: Who is Hailey Jade Mathers' dad?

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry okay.

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Speaker 2: Which Olympic gymnast was back at it over the weekend

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Speaker 2: which popstar known for songs like In My Blood and

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Speaker 2: There's Nothing Holding Me Back celebrate his twenty fifth birthday today.

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Speaker 4: Three two one?

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Speaker 1: Did he get three?

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Speaker 2: To two?

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Speaker 1: Did we want to giving him three?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: He got three in my opinion, but I'm sure I'll

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Speaker 4: about number five?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 4: That was at the buzzer?

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Speaker 1: What do we think I didn't hear a bell he

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Speaker 1: got it? There is no he got it. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: would say he got you're gonna give it to him?

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Speaker 1: I would get it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's Ruvio director, your complaints to him.

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Speaker 1: That's what I thought he was gonna miss Y.

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Speaker 9: All right.

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Speaker 1: Well that's the five. Bring Shelly back?

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Speaker 2: All right? He got a controversial five, But we're giving

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Speaker 2: it because you were mad last week we didn't give

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to hear it. He's good. Question

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Speaker 1: number one.

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Speaker 2: Ryan Gosling made his debut on the Billboard charts thanks

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Speaker 4: You need the movie name, Yes, Barbie.

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Speaker 2: Which rapper brought out Kanye West during his Circus Max

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Speaker 2: Miss show in Rome.

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Speaker 1: Travis Scott Hailey Jade.

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Speaker 2: Mathers was spotted at Lontapalooza over the weekend. Who's Your

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Speaker 2: Famous Dad?

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Speaker 1: Eminem, which Olympic.

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Speaker 2: Gymnast was back at it over the weekend after taking

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Speaker 2: Nothing Holding Me Back, celebrates his twenty fifth birthday today.

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Speaker 1: Sean man day. That's a fuss. Go thank god, Oh god.

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Speaker 1: All right, there's a.

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Speaker 2: Tye Anthony, another fifty bucks, so seven hundred tomorrow and

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Speaker 2: you're coming back.

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Speaker 1: All right. I've forgotten to.

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Speaker 4: Say, Anthony, have a job, do you?

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Speaker 1: What do you do?

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Speaker 2: I forgot he's doing this. Yeah, hang on one second, Anthony.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk to you tomorrow, all right, ya. If you

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Speaker 2: And I just got this text.

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Speaker 1: Friend.

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Speaker 2: I'm a preschool teacher, and I want to let you

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Speaker 2: know I was thinking the exact same thing about you.

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Speaker 2: Trying to keep everybody quiet, Maybe try saying use nice

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Speaker 2: words and they'll listen. No, they won't. It's fun. I

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Speaker 2: have I have no control. I've never had control, and

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Speaker 2: that's just the way it is. Okay, Shelley, this guy

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Speaker 2: is good. He's never going anywhere, and you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: to think about him forever. It's he be coming a nightmare,

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Speaker 2: Like are you staying up at night thinking about it?

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Speaker 6: You know, here's the thing. He's so nice, he's very mannerly.

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Speaker 6: So I'm okay with it. If he sticks around for

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Speaker 6: a long time, it's.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, Well, Shelley, seven hundred bucks tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: Well let's come back. Good news stories. We'll do waiting

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Speaker 1: All night more Fredshaw. Next, Allie is her high? Alli?

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Speaker 1: How you doing? Hire Mary? Allie? Allie? Allie? Teacher? Ali?

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Speaker 1: You teach fourth grade? Okay? What is that?

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Speaker 2: Is that a good age? Or is that a is

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Speaker 2: that an annoying age? Like go ahead and tell me

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Speaker 2: your kid, tell me you're annoyed with your job right now?

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Speaker 4: So it's a very good age.

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Speaker 2: What's the what would you say, like, is the it

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Speaker 2: would be the most difficult age to teach? Would it be, like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, eighth grade like transitional time for a

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Speaker 2: lot of kids, you know, going through like stuff.

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Speaker 10: Yes, I think eighth grade would be really hard. I

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Speaker 10: don't know how you know, kid with cell phones and

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Speaker 10: like talking back. And then I also think kindergarten is

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Speaker 10: also very hard.

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Speaker 1: I bet it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So you've got the best of both worlds. Man,

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Speaker 2: you're right in the middle. These kids don't have a

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Speaker 2: cell phone yet, right, but they can.

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Speaker 1: They don't. I don't have to change a diaper.

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Speaker 5: Some of them do.

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Speaker 10: Oh my god, bring to school.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. So you're an amazing teacher the fourth grade.

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Speaker 1: That's like what ten nineteen years old?

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Speaker 8: Man?

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Speaker 1: Right, I kind of.

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Speaker 2: Can't wait till my niece Polly has her own phone

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Speaker 2: so I don't have to mess with my sister anymore.

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Speaker 1: I just get right to BOLLI.

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Speaker 2: Get get her one too well, because because right now

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Speaker 2: I don't understan don't understand her, I don't speak her

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Speaker 2: language fully. I need to be able to understand if

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pay months if you talk to every day

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Speaker 2: with the cell phone, then you would be a sailor.

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Speaker 2: That's probably true, as I were, as I was, so

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Speaker 2: tell us about your fourth grade class. So tell us

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Speaker 2: about you know and and why you love teaching so much,

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Speaker 2: because we're trying to get to know you over here,

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Speaker 2: teacher Ali.

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Speaker 1: H Yeah.

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Speaker 10: So this is my fourth year starting to teach fourth grade.

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Speaker 10: I have not my class has not started yet, but

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Speaker 10: i have twenty three students this year, and I'm very

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Speaker 10: excited to get to meet them in a little less

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Speaker 10: than a week. I love teaching because I actually never

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Speaker 10: wanted to be a teacher. I was like, I sent

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Speaker 10: my whole life in school, like, wow, would I want

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Speaker 10: to pick a job that I'm in school? And I

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Speaker 10: went to college to get my degree in journalism and

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Speaker 10: ended up taking education class with my older sister here

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Speaker 10: in college. She has there relatisically fun. Well let's take

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Speaker 10: a class together. And I took that class night tompletely

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Speaker 10: fell in love and change my major. And I have

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Speaker 10: been teaching ever since then. And I just I love

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Speaker 10: getting to go to work every day and every day

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Speaker 10: is something different, and that I get to interact with

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Speaker 10: you little people and like these little humans and like

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Speaker 10: hopefully have a positive impact on them. So that is

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Speaker 10: why I love my job.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: So if you were to add some stuff to the

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Speaker 2: classroom to start the year, you were talking about maybe

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Speaker 2: a diversity in books you'd want to have in your classroom.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, so I really want my students to be able

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Speaker 10: to see themselves in the books that they read and

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Speaker 10: be able to learn about other cultures and things that

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Speaker 10: are new to them in books that they read in

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Speaker 10: my classroom library and books that I read to the

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Speaker 10: whole class. So that's definitely something I want to keep

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Speaker 10: getting more of and building from my students to be

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Speaker 10: able to have.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. So let's get it.

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Speaker 2: Let's get you all the books, Let's get you whatever

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Speaker 2: else you need. We're going to clear your Amazon list

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Speaker 2: to get the school year started.

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Speaker 1: Yes anything. You You guys are so amazing. It's our pleasure.

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Speaker 1: And I know a lot of a lot of schools.

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Speaker 2: You know they have the essentials, but it sounds like

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Speaker 2: you're trying to enhance that. You want to go beyond,

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Speaker 2: You want there to be more.

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Speaker 10: Yes, yes, I really. One thing I really want to

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Speaker 10: get from my class that I've done is I get

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Speaker 10: them these white headbands and I write in them and

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Speaker 10: I name them brain bands. And every time we take

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Speaker 10: like our state testing, like math testing or IR things

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Speaker 10: like that, they all wear their heads when I tell

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Speaker 10: them that all of my knowledge is in the band.

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Speaker 10: When they wear it, there's something like a little more

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Speaker 10: confidence from their little that I really want to get

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Speaker 10: for my kids again every year.

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Speaker 1: That is the sweetest thing.

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Speaker 2: I love that so much because I think in the

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Speaker 2: past there's some school districts or it's like, wow, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't we don't want to give the idea that

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Speaker 2: we don't have enough stuff for our students. Like it's

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Speaker 2: not that, it's it's that oftentimes you guys as teachers

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Speaker 2: want to go the extra mile and do stuff, creative

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Speaker 2: stuff just like that, and the resources aren't there.

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Speaker 1: So I love it. I love the idea. I love

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Speaker 1: what you're doing.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 2: And I'll say it every single time we talk to

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Speaker 2: a teacher. But there are people who were born for this.

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Speaker 2: It's a calling and the fact that you get up

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Speaker 2: every day and do this and you want to make

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Speaker 2: an impact in these kids' lives. And you even said

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Speaker 2: it yourself that you're hoping, you know, somebody someday looks

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Speaker 2: back and says, you know, miss Alli inspired me in

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Speaker 2: some way, and maybe it's maybe it's when they're twenty

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Speaker 2: something years old at work with their brain band on.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they.

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Speaker 10: Never cleaned out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but thank you so much for what you do.

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Speaker 2: And uh and hang out on a second. We'll get

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Speaker 2: the class and at the school, Okay, take.

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Speaker 10: Here, you gotta hang so much. I was great, amazing.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I thought she could to say she has the headband,

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Speaker 2: she can remember their names. He's supposed to call it

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Speaker 11: So you may have heard me talk about this before,

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Speaker 11: but I get homesick when I have to go anywhere

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Speaker 11: that's not my home.

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Speaker 1: So including miles from your an hour away. Yeah.

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Speaker 11: So I we had Lollapalooza last weekend. So I was

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Speaker 11: lucky enough to get a hotel to day, just because

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Speaker 11: we were working all day for four days straight and Friday,

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Speaker 11: I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 1: But your boy hit a wall.

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Speaker 11: Okay, you're like I all I wanted to do was

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Speaker 11: leave and flee the city. Like, I don't know what

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Speaker 11: happened to me. I was in the times and like

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Speaker 11: we were done for the day. I was like cleaning up,

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Speaker 11: and I'm like, I just want to go. There was

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Speaker 11: just an urge in me to go. And our coworker

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Speaker 11: was like, you should just go home, just go home.

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Speaker 11: And I was like, you know what, You're right clear.

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Speaker 11: You had been away from home for twenty four hours. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, I didn't know she told you to do

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Speaker 4: that before.

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Speaker 1: You did it.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, it was it was a hey, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 11: not who you're thinking of.

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Speaker 2: So you you're in a same city, you Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: live about thirty minutes from you know, on with no

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Speaker 2: traffic from from the venue.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was staying in a hotel. Yeah, you'd been

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Speaker 1: gone for about a day, yeah, a little over a day.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But we've had it. We've had enough. We had it.

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Speaker 11: I was like no, and so I walked all the

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Speaker 11: way through the festival, and you know what it's like

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Speaker 11: walking in the middle of a festival. Didn't even go

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Speaker 11: to the hotel room, came right to the radio station,

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Speaker 11: got my.

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Speaker 1: Car, drove home, missing specifically I was missing my dogs.

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Speaker 11: I wanted to see my dogs so bad. So I

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Speaker 11: literally walked in the back door and laid on the

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Speaker 11: floor for like an hour and just let them like

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Speaker 11: walk all over me.

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Speaker 1: And like what Mike doing when you got home? He

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Speaker 1: was already in bad Oh.

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Speaker 5: Like you're here again, right?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He on his phone.

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Speaker 2: He was trying to get on that ex premium.

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Speaker 1: Aboard aboard.

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Speaker 4: Did you tell him you were on your way, because

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Speaker 4: that would have been.

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Speaker 1: Weird if I did.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, And he was like, don't come here, like stay

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Speaker 11: down because I was coming in the back door. He

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Speaker 11: was like yeah, so I And it was so weird

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Speaker 11: because I don't even remember the drive, Like it was

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Speaker 11: one of those drives where like all of a sudden,

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Speaker 11: I like and up at home and I was like

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Speaker 11: all right, like I'm in home, Like there was something

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Speaker 11: took over my mental state.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 2: I get being homesick, but like not if I'm in

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Speaker 2: the same city.

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Speaker 7: And they had to kick me out of that hotel.

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Speaker 7: It was so nice.

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Speaker 11: Oh, the hotel room was so nice and it was cold,

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Speaker 11: and the bed was so comfy and it was great.

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Speaker 11: But the Saturday I got up and came back downtown.

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Speaker 11: I felt like refreshed, like I was all better. So

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Speaker 11: I was like, Okay, well, I guess I made the

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Speaker 11: right decision. Yeah, sometimes you just need to cry in

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Speaker 11: your own house, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to understand have a seat on the couch. Gosh,

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Speaker 2: I know thatstand how you get homesick in your own city,

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Speaker 2: around your own people. I can understand you go on

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Speaker 2: a trip for a while and you miss you missed

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Speaker 2: the creature comforts of your house, but you were gone

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Speaker 2: for a day.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Nope, gotta go home. He didn't even.

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Speaker 5: Grab his stuff from the hotel, like he had nothing,

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Speaker 5: not his toothbrush, not road like in a jaze.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'd be excited. I live three blocks from

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Speaker 2: the hotel you stayed in. I'd still love just saying that.

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Speaker 2: I'd be right down the street. That's a that's a

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Speaker 2: road game, opportunity.

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Speaker 1: Miss it. It's a really nice hotel. If you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. The Entertainment Report is next Fred Show