1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: The Jebel Show on Demand First Day follow Up. Jessica 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: is on the phone today for a first date follow up, 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Chris. Jessica, 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the show. Before you tell 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: us about your date, how long has it been since 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: you heard from Chris. It's a few days with no 7 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: response whatsoever, nothing at all. Okay, have you tried to 8 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: reach out to him? Oh? Yeah, I've been texting him 9 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: because I think it's super weird that we had a 10 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: date and then he just stopped texting after weeks of 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: texting all the time. Yeah, okay, did you guys meet 12 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: on an app and we're talking a bunch before you 13 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: went out? Yeah, we met on an app and then 14 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: we only had one date, which was you know, kind 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: of basic like happy hour, just some drinks and we 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: shared an appetizer, but then nothing since that date ended. 17 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: Did the date go well? Well? I mean I can't 18 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: say that I was like super into him, but nothing 19 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: went wrong in the date. Like, it's not that big 20 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: of a deal that he goes to me. Except hate 21 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: when people don't respond to text She's like, I don't 22 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: really like him, but it's the principle at this point. 23 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: So it's more just getting ghosted than anything I get 24 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: that I need. I want to have to keep thinking 25 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: about him. It's like there's no reason too. But there's 26 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: something psychologically about being ghosted that makes me like obsessed 27 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: over something that I barely even care about. Could that 28 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: have come up in the date? It's kind of a 29 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: red flag. I'm not sure. Maybe you could tell I 30 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: understand you, and I know I'm a walking red flag 31 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: at times, and so that's why I'm just asking. I 32 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: don't know. I just think it's really rude, Like if 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: we're old enough to go on a date, then we 34 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 1: should be old enough to say if we're not interested. 35 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: And I'm curious, is it me or did he just 36 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 1: not feel a connection or did he go on a 37 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: date with someone else? And like the more like all 38 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: of that's fine. I would just like to know what 39 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: the answer is. If he was still talking to you, 40 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: would you want to go out with him again? Or 41 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: is it just that you're getting ghosted and you can't 42 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: you can't stand not knowing why. It's sort of more 43 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: of the ladder, But I'm open. I didn't have a 44 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: strong feeling one way or the other on whether we 45 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: should go out again. So I'm open. I would just 46 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: kind of like to know why he stopped responding to 47 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: text messages. So if you think back to the date though, 48 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: to your like okay date, was there anything that was 49 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: like less okay then normal? Yeah, Normally people are like 50 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: I really liked them, and I don't know why they're 51 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: ghosting me. You're just like, I don't whatever with him. 52 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: I just don't want to be ghosted because if you're 53 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: feeling like it was whatever, maybe he thought it was 54 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: just whatever too, and so he's like why bother? Yeah, 55 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: I guess, but it takes two seconds to be like, 56 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: oh I just don't feel a connection or I'm not interested, 57 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: you know, like why would you not stop back? Like 58 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,839 Speaker 1: I'm actually kind of worried because he was so responsive 59 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: before in the date, and he went off smitially on 60 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: the date, so I'm worried he might like be really sick. Actually, 61 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: are you feeling sick at all? I mean maybe you 62 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: know if you feel good, Yeah, I feel totally fine. 63 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: So if he did have something, I didn't catch it. 64 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: I mean he was really sniffily, like totally nose blocks 65 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: and everything. Do you think that he knew you weren't 66 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: that into it. Maybe. I mean, like I said, it's 67 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 1: the first date, so it's not like I'm going to 68 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: be like dushing over someone right away or like completely uninterested. 69 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: I kind of feel like you should give people a chance, 70 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't think I gave off 71 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: weird signals. Did anything happen on your date that you 72 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: think could be a reason that he ghosted you. Yeah, 73 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: Like he hugged when we first got there, and it 74 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: was a nice hug, Like he came full on in 75 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: full body contact. He had, you know, no problem sharing food, 76 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: which I like because I think that's like a way 77 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: to connect if you're sharing a plate as opposed to 78 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: getting your own things. Yeah, like your average date, I 79 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: feel like I don't know, Juebill, how do you feel 80 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: about going on an average date? Would you want another 81 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: date after an average date? Not? Usually No, And I 82 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: would be fine getting ghosted because I'm like cool, I 83 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: don't have to talk to him again, you know. Yeah, Well, 84 00:03:55,520 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: clearly you're healthier I am. I wouldn't say that he's 85 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: been working on it for a while. Yeah, Well, okay, 86 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: we'll try to figure out for you what's the last 87 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: thing that he said to you? Hello? He said, this 88 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: was great, Then I'll talk to you soon. Like it 89 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: ended in a positive way that would make you think 90 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: that there's going to be communication afterwards. Okay, all right, 91 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: well we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Well, 92 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: play us on come back and then call him and 93 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: find out where you're getting ghosted next. Okay, all right, thanks, 94 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: all right. In the middle of today's first date follow 95 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: up and if you're just joining us, Jessica is on 96 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Chris. 97 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: She doesn't really care that much about Chris, but she 98 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 1: wants to know why he's ghosting or real quick, Jessica, 99 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: for anybody just joining us, give us a recap of 100 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: your situation. So I went on a date with christ 101 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: Things went fine. I'm not sure if I even want 102 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: a second date, but he stopped responding to text and 103 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: it's driving me crazy. So I have to find out why. Okay, 104 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: you know what she's doing it for all the people 105 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: that just are like, well why not, I'm bomb yeah 106 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: you know, yeah. I mean, if I'm going on a 107 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: date and there's ghosting involved, it better be from me. Okay, Yeah, 108 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: we're about to call him and try to figure out 109 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: why he's ghosting here. All right, Jessica, are you ready? 110 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: I'm so ready. Okay, here we go one Dalla's phone number. Yeah, 111 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: this is Chris. Hello, Chris, how are you? This is 112 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: Jewel from The Jewel Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Chris. 113 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm Nina also on that show. That's Nina, and then 114 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: Victoria's over there. There's three people on the phone with 115 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: you right now. What's up, Chris? I'm so sorry? What 116 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,679 Speaker 1: is going on? We do a segment on our show 117 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: and it's called the First Date follow Up. It's where 118 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then 119 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: you end up ghosting them. They asked if we can 120 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: get you on the phone and figure out what happened, 121 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 1: and we got an email about you from somebody that 122 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 1: you went on a date with recently. Yeah, okay, now 123 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: I know what this is about. Brilliant. Hi, Okay, so 124 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: you do know who we're talking about. So is there 125 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: somebody your ghosts in particular? Yeah? No, Recently I have 126 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 1: been receiving a lot of texts and I haven't been 127 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: replying to them, just honestly, because I haven't known how 128 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: to let me guess this is Jessica online. That a 129 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: good guess. I Hi, Jessica, how how are you doing today? 130 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: Can I talk? Yeah? Did you have no choice? Now? 131 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: Chris knows that you're on the phone. Hid. Yeah, okay, 132 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: you know it's really awkward to bringing a whole radio 133 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: show into this, but I guess you know, I have 134 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: been dodging the text and everything. Um So the actual 135 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: reason that I haven't responded anything, and the reason I 136 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: haven't really like, I really haven't known how taxually to 137 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: do this. I couldn't breathe throughout the entire date. And 138 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: that's not actually like a feeling thing, that's like a 139 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: medical thing. When I went in for the hug, there 140 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: was all the cat hair on your sweater and I'm 141 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: destly just completely allergic to cats, and so my entire 142 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: breathing system was locking up. Oh well, why didn't you 143 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: tell me that fair question? I was trying to do 144 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: the you know, gentlemanly thing and trying to, you know, 145 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: keep my wits about me, to keep the date going, 146 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: trying to be lively, trying to not you know, especially 147 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: because I didn't want to put it on you and 148 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: be like, you know, you're the cause of this or whatever. 149 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: I really tried to bottle all that up. At the 150 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: same time. It would have been very difficult for me 151 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: to articulate any of this just because I couldn't breathe. 152 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: So I was very smiling, nodding in anything else but 153 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: an awkward day, no wonder. Yeah, average, I'm sorry, she said. 154 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 1: Jessica told us that your dates seemed kind of average, 155 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: and from what Nina said right there, it would make sense, 156 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: right because he wasn't really talking. Yeah, everyone out for 157 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: drinks and for appetizers. There's there's a happy hour, and 158 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: I was trying to be as happy as possible while 159 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: also trying to you know, not faint. Okay, So that's 160 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: why you weren't really talkative like you are in tech, 161 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: because you could have breathed like, oh my god, I'm 162 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: so sorry. I feel like I almost still do. No. 163 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: I mean so right and honestly, and that's why I 164 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: was sharing the plates and everything. It's because I kind 165 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: of wanted to keep our mouths full, so I had 166 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: an excuse not to talk. Yeah, you know, when we 167 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: were texting, it never came up that you had a 168 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 1: cat otherwise I would have given you the heads up 169 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: that I am allergic. Yeah, but I don't have a cat. 170 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: My roommate has a cat, And if you had just 171 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: told me about your allergy, I would have made sure 172 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 1: I used one of those like hair removal things so 173 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: that I didn't show up with cat here on my shirt. Okay, 174 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: so I can blame your roommate, then that's totally fine 175 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 1: with it. You can, I'll claim yourself because you could 176 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 1: have taken any anti hystamine if you were experiencing such 177 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: severe allergies. I just wasn't expecting to come face to 178 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: face with like a cat. That that's not really something 179 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: that I schedule on my daily routine, and therefore an 180 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: antihistamine is not quite something that is just routine for me. Jessica, 181 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,559 Speaker 1: was there at any point during the date, like, did 182 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: you notice that he couldn't talked? Did he look itchy 183 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: or like he couldn't breathe? He didn't look itchy, but 184 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: he definitely sounded like yet a stuff he knows, Like 185 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: I thought he might have a cold or was getting 186 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: sick that he just didn't tell me about. But apparently 187 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: he's been suffering from this cat allergy all week, which 188 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: is why he can't respond to my text messages. Is 189 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: that when I'm hearing Chris again, it's difficult because I 190 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: don't want to throw anybody out of the bus here, 191 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: except I guess a cat or two. I just didn't 192 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: want to text and say, hey, we should get together 193 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 1: again and kind of lead anybody on, especially if I was, 194 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: you know, saying that I had to continually contend with like, 195 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,439 Speaker 1: oh man, I'm gonna have to put my face and 196 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: other cats. But every time I see her, I will say. 197 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: It's a teachable moment though, for everybody listening at this point, 198 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: and especially like as a woman, for a man to 199 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: be direct and honest about what he's experiencing, that's attractive, 200 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: Like that's hot. So maybe in the future, Chris, like 201 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: if you start being able not to breathe, you just 202 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 1: straight up say I got allergies. That's way more attracting. 203 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: Nothing more attractives, more attractors going to die gasping for air. 204 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: All right, Chris, Well, I'm glad you're finally sharing now. 205 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I can like close this chapter 206 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: a bit, but like, honestly, I feel like you handled 207 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: it completely wrong and maybe you'll take this as a 208 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: lesson going forward and not ghost people when you're having 209 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: some kind of issue. I will take that to heart. 210 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: And Desica, I'm so sorry, and I guess listeners of 211 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: this radio show, I'm I'm so sorry and I what 212 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: I did was not the correct thing to do again, 213 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: going to be more direct from mon from now on. 214 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: I love that you're being direct and apologizing to Jessica, 215 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: but it's also hot when you don't apologize to people 216 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: you don't need to apologize to you you. Yeah, nobody's really 217 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: that mad. I'm not mad at you. You, Chris, I 218 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: could understandable. Again, it's that martyrdom. I'm just trying to 219 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: make sure that everybody in this situation feels great, except 220 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: for me, who is blushing and just totally read in 221 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 1: his office. But you know it's okay. I mean, I 222 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: guess I have to ask, no matter what, totally Chris, 223 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: would you like to go on another date with Jessica? 224 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: Will pay for it? You know that I would. I 225 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: have a lot to make up for here, and Jessica 226 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: is very, very sweet and I enjoy talking to her 227 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: when I can talk, So yeah, I'm not interested. I 228 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,199 Speaker 1: really just wanted to know why you go through me 229 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: so they know okay. And that was direct The Jewel 230 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: Show on Demand