Speaker 1: Second date, date, unplanned laughter, unplanned tears. Wow, unplanned pregnancies
Speaker 1: all have their positives and negatives to them. But what
Speaker 1: about an unplanned date? Is that a good thing? I think, campy,
Speaker 1: I think. I guess because that's what happened to one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Rick. He didn't even see it coming,
Speaker 1: but the date just came out of nowhere. At least
Speaker 1: that's what he said in his email. So let's talk
Speaker 1: to him about it, Rick, Rick, are you there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's okay. If you don't feel comfortable enough to share
Speaker 1: with everybody, yeah, we can do this off the air.
Speaker 1: But why don't you tell us about the date that happened.
Speaker 1: What was the girl's name? Well, her name was Kelly. Okay, okay, dude,
Speaker 1: I love unplanned dates. I mean that's pretty awesome. Where
Speaker 1: were you what were you doing? We were at the park. Um.
Speaker 1: I have a miniature Doberman and I walk in the
Speaker 1: same place pretty much every other day. You only walk
Speaker 1: your dog every other day. I don't know if that's
Speaker 1: the dog park. Yeah, to the dog park. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't have time to go there every day. Man, that's
Speaker 1: a big commitment. I mean, then the dog park is
Speaker 1: a scene. Yeah, but it's like a circular dog park,
Speaker 1: and I was walking around and for whatever reason, she
Speaker 1: was coming around for the opposite direction. So we walked
Speaker 1: right into each other. And she had another man of
Speaker 1: doob man, the same breed. Do you think they know
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah. For the dogs too, Like going to
Speaker 1: the park, that's like going out to the club at night.
Speaker 1: They're going to meet all the other dogs. They want
Speaker 1: to make sure that they're looking good. There's so many
Speaker 1: buts to sniff, you know, a lot of pressure not
Speaker 1: just on you wreck, but on your dog. Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't any pressure at all. She seemed to come
Speaker 1: up to the dog and and love it. She started
Speaker 1: asking me about it. I had a girl and she
Speaker 1: had a boy, so it was it was really cool.
Speaker 1: They were interacting as well. The dogs are flirting. That's cute,
Speaker 1: and you guys have so many shared interests, like just
Speaker 1: off the bat. Yeah, my dog got too excited, and
Speaker 1: I thought it went kind of bad because she walked
Speaker 1: up and she was like, oh, yeah, my dog's friendly,
Speaker 1: and I said, oh, my dog's horny. Oh that was
Speaker 1: like the first thing you said to this woman that
Speaker 1: the dog park. Luckily, it went well she started laughing. Okay,
Speaker 1: and we went walking and we talked. It was really
Speaker 1: really cool. It was an unexpected date. Yeah, now I
Speaker 1: get it. That's crazy. Okay, that's the date, the two
Speaker 1: of you walking around inside this park together. How long
Speaker 1: were you guys in the park together. I would say
Speaker 1: about fifteen twenty minutes. But we did a few different things. Okay,
Speaker 1: what different things did you do? Yeah? Well, I can
Speaker 1: throw a ball and my dog just kind of sit
Speaker 1: and look. But she was able to throw a ball
Speaker 1: and their dog was able to fetch it, and because
Speaker 1: of it was able to do that, my dog kind
Speaker 1: of picked up it ran after it, but it didn't
Speaker 1: bring the ball back yet. Oh my god, you're talking
Speaker 1: My dog are the same? Oh man, random, let's stop
Speaker 1: hitting on him because he's trying to tell us about
Speaker 1: the dame. Let's let's focus back on the woman that
Speaker 1: you were with also has a mini dover. I know,
Speaker 1: I'd say it like it could actually be kind of
Speaker 1: embarrassing when your dog is like the dud when it
Speaker 1: comes to fetch. Yeah. Was she cool? Like? Was she like,
Speaker 1: oh cute, he's dumb? Like my god, she started teaching
Speaker 1: me like ways to teach dogs that they respond quicker.
Speaker 1: It's her things. So it was actually really cool. I
Speaker 1: told you my dog actually went for the ball, it
Speaker 1: just didn't bring it back steps. Yeah, okay, I've never
Speaker 1: sent my dog to training or anything, so so I mean,
Speaker 1: was there a romantic vibe to this? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she was smoking hot. No, we're not talking about the
Speaker 1: dog anymore. We're talking about your Oh the day it
Speaker 1: went well, she stopped doing for coffee, and man, we
Speaker 1: what it means. Where was coffee? Well, there's a little
Speaker 1: coffee shop right by the dog park, and there, because
Speaker 1: it's so close to the dog, they have a little
Speaker 1: place where the dogs can sit their water. That's cute.
Speaker 1: So you did the dog park, you played fetch, and
Speaker 1: then you went to coffee. Yeah, it wasn't We didn't
Speaker 1: sit down and have coffee. It was like one of
Speaker 1: those shops stand things where you just gotta get your
Speaker 1: coffee and you go down. Okay, so that's why the
Speaker 1: whole interaction was only like fifteen twenty minutes exact. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So how did you guys leave? Things? Like, how did
Speaker 1: the two of you end this interaction? She said bye?
Speaker 1: I said bye? You didn't ask her out on a date. No,
Speaker 1: I thought i'd waited a little later. I was going
Speaker 1: to do it over the phone. Okay, so you did
Speaker 1: exchange numbers. Yeah, yeah, a lot going on. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: got pictures of our dogs everything. Oh so, I mean,
Speaker 1: what's happened since then? Have you spoken to her? I hadn't.
Speaker 1: She's not returning our answer and the call, so I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's a real weird. It's real weird.
Speaker 1: The only thing I don't understand is I have not
Speaker 1: once got like a for sure romantic moment like this
Speaker 1: whole thing could easily be an awesome friendship. You're forming
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Or you're right, it could
Speaker 1: be once we kiss, everything goes to the next level.
Speaker 1: But I can't sinse like one thing that was like
Speaker 1: oh you know, yeah, yeah right, listen, it was only
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. It really wasn't enough time for abbit. Yeah
Speaker 1: it was. It was the dogs really getting to know
Speaker 1: each other. So I would like to spend more time
Speaker 1: with her and get to know her. Yeah, yeah, that
Speaker 1: makes sense, Yeah for sure. All right, Well let's see
Speaker 1: if we can make that happen. We'll play a song,
Speaker 1: we'll come back. We'll call Kelly for you and we'll
Speaker 1: try and get your second day up, dud. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, if you're just joining us, this is the
Speaker 1: budding love story of two dogs local park and had
Speaker 1: the time of their lives. More listeners, fetch together. You
Speaker 1: drank out of the same water bowl, perfect date, even
Speaker 1: Pete on the same fire hype that perfect regular date.
Speaker 1: Their connection was real and pure. Oh yeah, and their
Speaker 1: two owners were also they're grabbing coffee. One was hot,
Speaker 1: the other one was aware of the other's hotness. So
Speaker 1: please tell me we're going to skip the people and
Speaker 1: go straight to the mini dover. I wish we could,
Speaker 1: but the person is on the phone. His name is Rick.
Speaker 1: Hoping to recapture that love doggy style with the second
Speaker 1: date update. Rick, let's maybe leave all of the dog
Speaker 1: like jokes and stuff out when we talked to her next,
Speaker 1: just an idea. Let's make our missionary. Yeah, yeah, we
Speaker 1: all got it. Jose, All right, don't do that. All right,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be tough because I don't know that
Speaker 1: there was a whole lot to mention besides dogs on
Speaker 1: your day. I think it's okay to mention the dogs,
Speaker 1: just maybe not your dog jokes that somehow turned very dirty.
Speaker 1: This is going to be a very flat, boring edition
Speaker 1: of Second Date Update, zero jokes. And when we call
Speaker 1: it no dog sex, you will reference. Yes, thank you, Ri,
Speaker 1: thank you the challenge that you've presented to the show.
Speaker 1: The next few minutes without it, we're gonna call Kelly.
Speaker 1: We're gonna see what she has to say. You're feeling ready? Man? Ready, okay, man,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hey is this Kelly? Yeah, hey Kelly.
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, well, this is about a
Speaker 1: segment that we do on our show. It's called a
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. Okay, okay, and um the ideas we
Speaker 1: help our listeners who've gone out with some buddy recently
Speaker 1: that they liked get back in touch with that person
Speaker 1: after they've been ghosted. Oh that sounds really strange. You
Speaker 1: sound like a real positive person, So I feel that
Speaker 1: this will go well for you. I'm sorry, I just
Speaker 1: have no idea who you guys are talking about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well it's a listener of our show named Rick Rick.
Speaker 1: Um well, they're like a last name or I don't know,
Speaker 1: ringing a Bell. He said, it wasn't really a date.
Speaker 1: It was more like, you guys hung out for like
Speaker 1: twenty minutes, and I don't know, he felt like he
Speaker 1: had a good connection. Yeah, you guys were in a
Speaker 1: park and your dogs met. Oh my god, Yeah I
Speaker 1: know that guy. Yeah, okay, No, that's a bad start.
Speaker 1: I know who that is. I know he's talking about.
Speaker 1: He seemed nice, like, oh, you guys have talked to him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And that's how this segment works. They email us and
Speaker 1: they tell us about the date that they went on
Speaker 1: so that we can help them get back in touch. Okay, um,
Speaker 1: so what did they tell you? Well, you guys bonded
Speaker 1: over the same dogs. You both have the mini Doberman's okay,
Speaker 1: and there wasn't a whole lot. Yeah, there was a
Speaker 1: whole lot that happened. You got your guys dogs hung out,
Speaker 1: and then you grabbed a coffee to get I'm so sorry, guys,
Speaker 1: I've just stopped you. Is this like some sort of
Speaker 1: weird joke you guys are playing. Is this like a prank? No, No,
Speaker 1: not at all. Why I just um, I'm just getting
Speaker 1: a really bad feeling. I'm sorry, I am Is it
Speaker 1: broke broke. She has that effect on a lot of people.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's okay, she's a friendly radio host, Kelly.
Speaker 1: Did Rick make you feel uncomfortable or something? Is that
Speaker 1: why I worried about him? For example, like, how did
Speaker 1: you guys get my phone number? How did you get it? Well?
Speaker 1: Rick gave it to us. I never gave it to Rick. Wait,
Speaker 1: but he said that you guys took pictures of your
Speaker 1: dogs together. Yeah, we took pictures of our dogs together.
Speaker 1: But I never gave him my phone number. This is like,
Speaker 1: really messed up. I'm sorry. I I'm kind of alarmed
Speaker 1: for you that that's not cool. Man. He could have
Speaker 1: totally guess my number sometimes, but you didn't want him
Speaker 1: to have your number? No, No, I mean okay, just
Speaker 1: like from first meeting, I wouldn't just go on a
Speaker 1: date with this guy. I was just trying to be nice, right,
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, there's a coffee stand, we like took
Speaker 1: pictures of our dogs, but then that was it. So
Speaker 1: he didn't ask me for my number, and I didn't
Speaker 1: give it to him. But then after a few days,
Speaker 1: my phone starts blowing up and it's very evident that
Speaker 1: it's him. So I'm sorry, I'm like panicking. Okay, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd be panicking too. Yeah, this is definitely weird. And
Speaker 1: there's a way to find out how he got your number,
Speaker 1: because I need to tell you that he's on the
Speaker 1: other line listening. Doesn't sound good. Are you serious? He's
Speaker 1: been on the line listening this whole time he wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Oh my god. Um, I mean,
Speaker 1: at least I'll be able to figure out how he
Speaker 1: did this, right, Yeah, what's going on? How did you
Speaker 1: get her number? Man? Kelly? Let me start here. I'm
Speaker 1: not a creeper. I'm sorry for just calling you. I
Speaker 1: just get my phone number. Well, I was creative, and Kelly,
Speaker 1: that's what I want you to know is if you
Speaker 1: allow me to take you on the day, I'll be
Speaker 1: creative too. You're avoiding the question where did you find
Speaker 1: Kelly's number? Well, we had a great time and we
Speaker 1: took pictures. We had a great time, and on the pictures,
Speaker 1: my dog has this my number on it, and her
Speaker 1: dog I figured was her number, and that's when I well,
Speaker 1: it didn't have to zoom, man, because they were already
Speaker 1: close up. Okay, Well, Rick, thank you for I didn't
Speaker 1: mean for this to be weird. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to think they're the stalker or anything. I'm not the
Speaker 1: type of guy. I'm shy and this is embarrassing. Oh buddy, Rick, I, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I appreciate you saying all this, but I
Speaker 1: have to tell you, like for future reference, just ask
Speaker 1: like this is weird. I know you're saying like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm shy, but this is like what women hate. But
Speaker 1: don't you appreciate the creativity of it, Rick, I I don't,
Speaker 1: I really don't. I will say that that ever happening.
Speaker 1: Think Rick, I think it's like it's intrusive, right, Like
Speaker 1: it's it's overstepping a bound I didn't think it was
Speaker 1: crossing any boundaries because we had already spent so much
Speaker 1: time together walking and talking, and I just figured we
Speaker 1: could talk a little bit more so, so I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I mean, if she was a total stranger, it even
Speaker 1: worm if you don't even know if Kelly's single, Like,
Speaker 1: it just seems like you guys didn't have those type
Speaker 1: of conversations. You had conversations about how to train your dog.
Speaker 1: It was it was very surface conversations. That's why I
Speaker 1: was calling her so that we could talk more. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well it sounds like, well, but in today's dating world,
Speaker 1: it's so hard to meet people. If you have an
Speaker 1: encounter out in the world somewhere and you didn't get
Speaker 1: the opportunity or you didn't have the courage to ask
Speaker 1: for somebody's number. I mean this, he took it a
Speaker 1: little bit far, but it was for like a pure reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you just go back to the same dog park
Speaker 1: and you find her again, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like you, you know, you're the creeper like going into
Speaker 1: everybody's tag trying to tags. But if if you want
Speaker 1: to run into her again, like that's your chance. Like
Speaker 1: you needed to have asked her for her number, exactly.
Speaker 1: I know it was creepy. I was just shy in
Speaker 1: the moment, and I'm sorry I didn't ask you and
Speaker 1: just started texting you on college. That's good. That feels sincere.
Speaker 1: That feels sincere, Kelly does. We still don't even know
Speaker 1: if Kelly is actually single yet though. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend, but I am hanging out with a
Speaker 1: couple of different people, so oh okay, yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: Well there's a little bit of gray area there, but
Speaker 1: we can work with that. Not official. Yeah, so let's
Speaker 1: offer to send you guys out on a date and
Speaker 1: we'll pay for it. What do you say? I feel
Speaker 1: very uncomfortable. I appreciate the apology, Rick, and I do
Speaker 1: believe you. I believe it was genuine and everything, but
Speaker 1: I just feel I don't want to go. Yeah, that's understandable. Well,
Speaker 1: at least he was able to clear it up a
Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, well this has been embarrassing enough. But
Speaker 1: you know what, though, it's a good lesson and you
Speaker 1: might not actually have a date lined up with Kelly,
Speaker 1: but you'll be able to think about her every time
Speaker 1: you play fetch with your dought. Yeah. I also have
Speaker 1: her dog pitch too, so i'll frame those as well. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're king, Oh my god, I'm joking. Okay, soon Broke
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. I know, on the surface,
Speaker 1: this whole thing sounded pretty creepy, like how he got
Speaker 1: her number off her dog's name tag, and he definitely
Speaker 1: should have asked her for it, just normal. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not arguing that. Yeah, but I will say it is
Speaker 1: almost impossible now for any guy to meet a girl
Speaker 1: out in real life and just get her phone number
Speaker 1: without coming across creepy. Yeah, I mean it's true, and
Speaker 1: get her real phone number, and you're pretty much screwed
Speaker 1: either way. You are. But he didn't even ask, Like
Speaker 1: you're saying that you are creepy if you just ask
Speaker 1: for someone's phone number these days, yeah, pretty much. Does
Speaker 1: that check out, Alexis. It's true. It depends on how
Speaker 1: they are, is what you say. I made. Unfortunately, most
Speaker 1: people don't have that luxury of just relying on their attractiveness.
Speaker 1: So yeah, back in the day, you could be like,
Speaker 1: you're beautiful, I'd like to take you out. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: now you dm a girl, You're beautiful. I want to
Speaker 1: take you out. The like il thirsty. It was even
Speaker 1: better than that. Back in the day you could just
Speaker 1: be like, hey, can I marry your daughter? Cool? Those
Speaker 1: were the days. Those were the days were you bring
Speaker 1: back the fifteen hundreds? Am I right? Women is property? Anyway?
Speaker 1: If if you're we're being sarcastic, you were joking totally.
Speaker 1: And if you need some help getting in touch with
Speaker 1: somebody after they're ghosting you, email the show. We'll call
Speaker 1: the person who wasn't calling you. That