WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Double the Dobermans

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, date, unplanned laughter, unplanned tears. Wow, unplanned pregnancies

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<v Speaker 1>all have their positives and negatives to them. But what

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<v Speaker 1>about an unplanned date? Is that a good thing? I think, campy,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. I guess because that's what happened to one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Rick. He didn't even see it coming,

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<v Speaker 1>but the date just came out of nowhere. At least

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he said in his email. So let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him about it, Rick, Rick, are you there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. If you don't feel comfortable enough to share

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<v Speaker 1>with everybody, yeah, we can do this off the air.

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<v Speaker 1>But why don't you tell us about the date that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the girl's name? Well, her name was Kelly. Okay, okay, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I love unplanned dates. I mean that's pretty awesome. Where

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<v Speaker 1>were you what were you doing? We were at the park. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a miniature Doberman and I walk in the

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<v Speaker 1>same place pretty much every other day. You only walk

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<v Speaker 1>your dog every other day. I don't know if that's

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<v Speaker 1>the dog park. Yeah, to the dog park. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have time to go there every day. Man, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a big commitment. I mean, then the dog park is

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<v Speaker 1>a scene. Yeah, but it's like a circular dog park,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was walking around and for whatever reason, she

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<v Speaker 1>was coming around for the opposite direction. So we walked

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<v Speaker 1>right into each other. And she had another man of

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<v Speaker 1>doob man, the same breed. Do you think they know

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah. For the dogs too, Like going to

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<v Speaker 1>the park, that's like going out to the club at night.

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<v Speaker 1>They're going to meet all the other dogs. They want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that they're looking good. There's so many

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<v Speaker 1>buts to sniff, you know, a lot of pressure not

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<v Speaker 1>just on you wreck, but on your dog. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't any pressure at all. She seemed to come

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<v Speaker 1>up to the dog and and love it. She started

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<v Speaker 1>asking me about it. I had a girl and she

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<v Speaker 1>had a boy, so it was it was really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>They were interacting as well. The dogs are flirting. That's cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys have so many shared interests, like just

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<v Speaker 1>off the bat. Yeah, my dog got too excited, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it went kind of bad because she walked

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<v Speaker 1>up and she was like, oh, yeah, my dog's friendly,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, oh, my dog's horny. Oh that was

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<v Speaker 1>like the first thing you said to this woman that

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<v Speaker 1>the dog park. Luckily, it went well she started laughing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and we went walking and we talked. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>really cool. It was an unexpected date. Yeah, now I

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<v Speaker 1>get it. That's crazy. Okay, that's the date, the two

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<v Speaker 1>of you walking around inside this park together. How long

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<v Speaker 1>were you guys in the park together. I would say

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<v Speaker 1>about fifteen twenty minutes. But we did a few different things. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what different things did you do? Yeah? Well, I can

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<v Speaker 1>throw a ball and my dog just kind of sit

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<v Speaker 1>and look. But she was able to throw a ball

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<v Speaker 1>and their dog was able to fetch it, and because

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<v Speaker 1>of it was able to do that, my dog kind

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<v Speaker 1>of picked up it ran after it, but it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>bring the ball back yet. Oh my god, you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>My dog are the same? Oh man, random, let's stop

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<v Speaker 1>hitting on him because he's trying to tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the dame. Let's let's focus back on the woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you were with also has a mini dover. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd say it like it could actually be kind of

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing when your dog is like the dud when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to fetch. Yeah. Was she cool? Like? Was she like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh cute, he's dumb? Like my god, she started teaching

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<v Speaker 1>me like ways to teach dogs that they respond quicker.

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<v Speaker 1>It's her things. So it was actually really cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>told you my dog actually went for the ball, it

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't bring it back steps. Yeah, okay, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>sent my dog to training or anything, so so I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was there a romantic vibe to this? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she was smoking hot. No, we're not talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>dog anymore. We're talking about your Oh the day it

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<v Speaker 1>went well, she stopped doing for coffee, and man, we

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<v Speaker 1>what it means. Where was coffee? Well, there's a little

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop right by the dog park, and there, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's so close to the dog, they have a little

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<v Speaker 1>place where the dogs can sit their water. That's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So you did the dog park, you played fetch, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you went to coffee. Yeah, it wasn't We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>sit down and have coffee. It was like one of

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<v Speaker 1>those shops stand things where you just gotta get your

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<v Speaker 1>coffee and you go down. Okay, so that's why the

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<v Speaker 1>whole interaction was only like fifteen twenty minutes exact. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did you guys leave? Things? Like, how did

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<v Speaker 1>the two of you end this interaction? She said bye?

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<v Speaker 1>I said bye? You didn't ask her out on a date. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought i'd waited a little later. I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it over the phone. Okay, so you did

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<v Speaker 1>exchange numbers. Yeah, yeah, a lot going on. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>got pictures of our dogs everything. Oh so, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happened since then? Have you spoken to her? I hadn't.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not returning our answer and the call, so I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's a real weird. It's real weird.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing I don't understand is I have not

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<v Speaker 1>once got like a for sure romantic moment like this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing could easily be an awesome friendship. You're forming

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Or you're right, it could

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<v Speaker 1>be once we kiss, everything goes to the next level.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can't sinse like one thing that was like

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<v Speaker 1>oh you know, yeah, yeah right, listen, it was only

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes. It really wasn't enough time for abbit. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was the dogs really getting to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other. So I would like to spend more time

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<v Speaker 1>with her and get to know her. Yeah, yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense, Yeah for sure. All right, Well let's see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can make that happen. We'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back. We'll call Kelly for you and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>try and get your second day up, dud. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, if you're just joining us, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>budding love story of two dogs local park and had

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<v Speaker 1>the time of their lives. More listeners, fetch together. You

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<v Speaker 1>drank out of the same water bowl, perfect date, even

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<v Speaker 1>Pete on the same fire hype that perfect regular date.

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<v Speaker 1>Their connection was real and pure. Oh yeah, and their

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<v Speaker 1>two owners were also they're grabbing coffee. One was hot,

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<v Speaker 1>the other one was aware of the other's hotness. So

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<v Speaker 1>please tell me we're going to skip the people and

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<v Speaker 1>go straight to the mini dover. I wish we could,

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<v Speaker 1>but the person is on the phone. His name is Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>Hoping to recapture that love doggy style with the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Rick, let's maybe leave all of the dog

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<v Speaker 1>like jokes and stuff out when we talked to her next,

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<v Speaker 1>just an idea. Let's make our missionary. Yeah, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>all got it. Jose, All right, don't do that. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be tough because I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>there was a whole lot to mention besides dogs on

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<v Speaker 1>your day. I think it's okay to mention the dogs,

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<v Speaker 1>just maybe not your dog jokes that somehow turned very dirty.

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<v Speaker 1>This is going to be a very flat, boring edition

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<v Speaker 1>of Second Date Update, zero jokes. And when we call

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<v Speaker 1>it no dog sex, you will reference. Yes, thank you, Ri,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you the challenge that you've presented to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>The next few minutes without it, we're gonna call Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna see what she has to say. You're feeling ready? Man? Ready, okay, man,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hey is this Kelly? Yeah, hey Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, well, this is about a

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<v Speaker 1>segment that we do on our show. It's called a

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. Okay, okay, and um the ideas we

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<v Speaker 1>help our listeners who've gone out with some buddy recently

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<v Speaker 1>that they liked get back in touch with that person

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<v Speaker 1>after they've been ghosted. Oh that sounds really strange. You

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a real positive person, So I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>this will go well for you. I'm sorry, I just

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea who you guys are talking about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well it's a listener of our show named Rick Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>Um well, they're like a last name or I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>ringing a Bell. He said, it wasn't really a date.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more like, you guys hung out for like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes, and I don't know, he felt like he

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<v Speaker 1>had a good connection. Yeah, you guys were in a

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<v Speaker 1>park and your dogs met. Oh my god, Yeah I

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<v Speaker 1>know that guy. Yeah, okay, No, that's a bad start.

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<v Speaker 1>I know who that is. I know he's talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>He seemed nice, like, oh, you guys have talked to him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's how this segment works. They email us and

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<v Speaker 1>they tell us about the date that they went on

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<v Speaker 1>so that we can help them get back in touch. Okay, um,

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<v Speaker 1>so what did they tell you? Well, you guys bonded

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<v Speaker 1>over the same dogs. You both have the mini Doberman's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and there wasn't a whole lot. Yeah, there was a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot that happened. You got your guys dogs hung out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you grabbed a coffee to get I'm so sorry, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I've just stopped you. Is this like some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>weird joke you guys are playing. Is this like a prank? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. Why I just um, I'm just getting

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<v Speaker 1>a really bad feeling. I'm sorry, I am Is it

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<v Speaker 1>broke broke. She has that effect on a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, it's okay, she's a friendly radio host, Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Rick make you feel uncomfortable or something? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>why I worried about him? For example, like, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys get my phone number? How did you get it? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Rick gave it to us. I never gave it to Rick. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>but he said that you guys took pictures of your

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<v Speaker 1>dogs together. Yeah, we took pictures of our dogs together.

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<v Speaker 1>But I never gave him my phone number. This is like,

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<v Speaker 1>really messed up. I'm sorry. I I'm kind of alarmed

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<v Speaker 1>for you that that's not cool. Man. He could have

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<v Speaker 1>totally guess my number sometimes, but you didn't want him

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<v Speaker 1>to have your number? No, No, I mean okay, just

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<v Speaker 1>like from first meeting, I wouldn't just go on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with this guy. I was just trying to be nice, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So like, yeah, there's a coffee stand, we like took

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of our dogs, but then that was it. So

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't ask me for my number, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>give it to him. But then after a few days,

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<v Speaker 1>my phone starts blowing up and it's very evident that

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<v Speaker 1>it's him. So I'm sorry, I'm like panicking. Okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be panicking too. Yeah, this is definitely weird. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's a way to find out how he got your number,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to tell you that he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening. Doesn't sound good. Are you serious? He's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the line listening this whole time he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Oh my god. Um, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>at least I'll be able to figure out how he

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<v Speaker 1>did this, right, Yeah, what's going on? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>get her number? Man? Kelly? Let me start here. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a creeper. I'm sorry for just calling you. I

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<v Speaker 1>just get my phone number. Well, I was creative, and Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want you to know is if you

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<v Speaker 1>allow me to take you on the day, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>creative too. You're avoiding the question where did you find

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly's number? Well, we had a great time and we

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<v Speaker 1>took pictures. We had a great time, and on the pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>my dog has this my number on it, and her

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<v Speaker 1>dog I figured was her number, and that's when I well,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't have to zoom, man, because they were already

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<v Speaker 1>close up. Okay, Well, Rick, thank you for I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean for this to be weird. I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to think they're the stalker or anything. I'm not the

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<v Speaker 1>type of guy. I'm shy and this is embarrassing. Oh buddy, Rick, I, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I appreciate you saying all this, but I

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell you, like for future reference, just ask

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<v Speaker 1>like this is weird. I know you're saying like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shy, but this is like what women hate. But

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<v Speaker 1>don't you appreciate the creativity of it, Rick, I I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't. I will say that that ever happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Think Rick, I think it's like it's intrusive, right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's overstepping a bound I didn't think it was

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<v Speaker 1>crossing any boundaries because we had already spent so much

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<v Speaker 1>time together walking and talking, and I just figured we

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<v Speaker 1>could talk a little bit more so, so I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if she was a total stranger, it even

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<v Speaker 1>worm if you don't even know if Kelly's single, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it just seems like you guys didn't have those type

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<v Speaker 1>of conversations. You had conversations about how to train your dog.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was very surface conversations. That's why I

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<v Speaker 1>was calling her so that we could talk more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well it sounds like, well, but in today's dating world,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so hard to meet people. If you have an

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<v Speaker 1>encounter out in the world somewhere and you didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity or you didn't have the courage to ask

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody's number. I mean this, he took it a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit far, but it was for like a pure reason. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you just go back to the same dog park

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<v Speaker 1>and you find her again, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you, you know, you're the creeper like going into

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's tag trying to tags. But if if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to run into her again, like that's your chance. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you needed to have asked her for her number, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it was creepy. I was just shy in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, and I'm sorry I didn't ask you and

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<v Speaker 1>just started texting you on college. That's good. That feels sincere.

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<v Speaker 1>That feels sincere, Kelly does. We still don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if Kelly is actually single yet though. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a boyfriend, but I am hanging out with a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of different people, so oh okay, yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well there's a little bit of gray area there, but

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<v Speaker 1>we can work with that. Not official. Yeah, so let's

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<v Speaker 1>offer to send you guys out on a date and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll pay for it. What do you say? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>very uncomfortable. I appreciate the apology, Rick, and I do

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<v Speaker 1>believe you. I believe it was genuine and everything, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel I don't want to go. Yeah, that's understandable. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>at least he was able to clear it up a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Yeah, well this has been embarrassing enough. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, though, it's a good lesson and you

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<v Speaker 1>might not actually have a date lined up with Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>but you'll be able to think about her every time

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<v Speaker 1>you play fetch with your dought. Yeah. I also have

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<v Speaker 1>her dog pitch too, so i'll frame those as well. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're king, Oh my god, I'm joking. Okay, soon Broke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning. I know, on the surface,

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing sounded pretty creepy, like how he got

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<v Speaker 1>her number off her dog's name tag, and he definitely

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<v Speaker 1>should have asked her for it, just normal. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not arguing that. Yeah, but I will say it is

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<v Speaker 1>almost impossible now for any guy to meet a girl

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<v Speaker 1>out in real life and just get her phone number

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<v Speaker 1>without coming across creepy. Yeah, I mean it's true, and

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<v Speaker 1>get her real phone number, and you're pretty much screwed

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<v Speaker 1>either way. You are. But he didn't even ask, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying that you are creepy if you just ask

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<v Speaker 1>for someone's phone number these days, yeah, pretty much. Does

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<v Speaker 1>that check out, Alexis. It's true. It depends on how

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<v Speaker 1>they are, is what you say. I made. Unfortunately, most

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<v Speaker 1>people don't have that luxury of just relying on their attractiveness.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, back in the day, you could be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're beautiful, I'd like to take you out. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>now you dm a girl, You're beautiful. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>take you out. The like il thirsty. It was even

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<v Speaker 1>better than that. Back in the day you could just

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, can I marry your daughter? Cool? Those

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<v Speaker 1>were the days. Those were the days were you bring

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<v Speaker 1>back the fifteen hundreds? Am I right? Women is property? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>If if you're we're being sarcastic, you were joking totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you need some help getting in touch with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody after they're ghosting you, email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who wasn't calling you. That