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Speaker 1: What was the girl's name? Well, her name was Kelly. Okay, okay, dude,

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Speaker 1: I love unplanned dates. I mean that's pretty awesome. Where

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Speaker 1: you play fetch with your dought. Yeah. I also have

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Speaker 1: that check out, Alexis. It's true. It depends on how

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Speaker 1: If if you're we're being sarcastic, you were joking totally.

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