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Speaker 1: show will good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 1: come on dig me now. I want it only Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Man oh Man got a radio show, got going

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Speaker 1: for you today. And it just happened to me. You know,

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Speaker 1: I was going through something that I've been going through

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Speaker 1: and I was I've been talking to God about it,

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Speaker 1: and I mean for years. Though. What happened was I

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Speaker 1: I can't believe I've been dealing with this this long,

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Speaker 1: Have you ever counted, Steve Harvey, how many times you

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Speaker 1: made it? And so that's what I started doing yesterday,

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Speaker 1: How many times I got sick, thought, well, man, this

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Speaker 1: but somehow I got my health back. How many situations

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Speaker 1: I was just tripping the other day. I was I

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Speaker 1: when they count you out. Do you know how many

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Speaker 1: But here you still stand? You know you've a tripped

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Speaker 1: you've done for them, A man, that you can make it.

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Speaker 1: Never give up, Keep your head up, man, keep grinding.

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Speaker 1: But you still here even when nobody have you counted

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Speaker 1: when everybody's standing around saying, ain't no way, ain't no way. Man.

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Speaker 1: how many times I've heard this one right here? Steve,

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Speaker 1: wallowing in it, going over it, recycling it in your mind.

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Speaker 1: see what God has for you. Stop looking at what

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Speaker 1: know the things I've lost? I'm not talking about losing

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Speaker 1: too full of too much mercy to send you through that.

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Speaker 1: Over and over and over. The more I give my child,

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Ladies, gentlemen, boys and girls gather around the

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Speaker 1: radio like his nineteen forty seven. These are the following

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Speaker 1: voices of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Charlie Strawberry, Colin

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Speaker 1: Farrell Junior, and the legend that is nephew Tommy Bros.

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Speaker 1: There's another voice behind that. We only get to here,

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Speaker 1: Thank god you don't. She is one of the producers

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Speaker 1: of the show. She's straight out of Mississippi. This is

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I am that, damn Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Let's begin, Junior, what's on your mind today? Let's talk

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Speaker 1: about it unk band peaks and valley peaks and valleys. Uncle,

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Speaker 1: Don't just be the peak, be your peak. Don't try

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Speaker 1: hill here we go, Come on, Why wouldn't we Why

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Speaker 1: wouldn't we just move? Why we gotta be way up

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Speaker 1: I miss it up today, tommey, don't worry about I

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Speaker 1: Coming up thirty two minutes after the hour, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: What you got for his nav turning? Me and my

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Speaker 1: Charles says, I'm dating a woman that makes me feel

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Speaker 1: we can move on to Tammy and Pittsburgh. Tammy Rights.

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Speaker 1: I got divorced, but my X and I had sex

422
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: right before I divorced. What was final? I found out

423
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: that I'm pregnant, but I know it's not my exus child.

424
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: The real father of my baby is married and he

425
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: has blocked me. Should I let my ex think it's

426
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: his child? Oh? See you you're a loaddown You're a

427
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: loaddown chick. That's why he that's why he needed and

428
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: the real daddy married. Yeah, it's no way if this

429
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: is your if this is not your exus child, that

430
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: you should put that on that man. It's that's that's

431
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 1: the lowdown, this thing. I was watching this Judge show.

432
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 1: It's on YouTube and you I see it on IgA

433
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 1: pops up on my feed. Sometimes I'm watching the Judge Show.

434
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: White guy had got sent to prison? For five years

435
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: for non payment of child support. Okay, okay, he goes

436
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: to court. After he gets out, takes his girl to court.

437
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 1: The boy standing over there, the boy twenty two years old.

438
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: He loved a boy because he'd been the father the

439
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: whole time. That took a paternity test, found out the

440
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: man wasn't a father, that's question and all that man said,

441
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: oh my god, five years because and that man was

442
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: broken and that little bit, that little boy was standing

443
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: away because he found out that wasn't his daddy. But

444
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 1: then the man went over there hugged the little boy anyway,

445
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 1: he said, I still love that was That was the

446
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 1: worst thing I've ever seen. Y'all. Don't don't do this

447
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: to men. If that ain't the man's son, find out

448
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: who it is and tell the damn truth because you

449
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: mess up lies like that because it don't come out. Wait,

450
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: can you repeat the last line you just said, I

451
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: wanted some record shock tell truth? Oh about the baby? Yeah? Okay, yeah, yeah,

452
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah yeah. You can't do that. You could

453
00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 1: with the person's life. You can't lie, not in life.

454
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: You have to. So here we go, cracken it out,

455
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: cracking it out though about life you can't lie in

456
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: the life. You must lie wear those T shirts. Yeah.

457
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 1: I don't know how y'all have in trouble with this.

458
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: It's clear. It's clear to you, all right. Last one,

459
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: Steve kay and Elmhurst says, I'm forty four, my son

460
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: is twenty two and my fiance is twenty eight. My

461
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: son hates my fiance, so he said he's not coming

462
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: to our wedding. I never thought my son would be

463
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: so judge of my relationship. If I have to choose

464
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: between my fiance and my son, I am picking my man.

465
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: My son has grown and needs to get a life.

466
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: Am I right or not? Well? You write about one

467
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: choosing her man. You should pick who you want to

468
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: pick your man if you want to. Your son got

469
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: to deal with that. He don't like him. That ain't

470
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: going to change nothing. He was six years older than

471
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: your boy, your boy, and thought about women his ain't

472
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: I'm telling that right now? All right? Thank you? Philo.

473
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Designer Page

474
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Speaker 1: Turner from HGTV will be our special guest. Right you're

475
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: listening show, Hey, listen up, everybody, our special guest this morning.

476
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 1: As promise U, she's Actually a twenty year veteran real

477
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: estate broker, an expert house flipper, and a television hope.

478
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: Listen to Me has over one hundred million dollars in sales.

479
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: She is now the co creator, executive producer, and host

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00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: of HGTVS Fix My Flip. She's also started an upcoming

481
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: season of Rock the Block on HGTV. Now, rarely do

482
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: we get to celebrate black women in this field, right

483
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: here Harley, so today it is our pleasure to have

484
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: her here, ladies and gentlemen, first time on the Steve

485
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, on the Steve Harvey Nation, Ladies and

486
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: gentlemen wanting on it. Miss Page turns good. Thank you

487
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: so much, everybody. Oh my gosh, I'm so grateful to

488
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 1: be here, especially on the first day of women's history

489
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: months like or second daylight. I don't know the date,

490
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: but I'm excited because but yesterday I would have stayed

491
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: up all nights. Will I have actually to speak to

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00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: you guys. So I'm so happy to be here last night.

493
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: That's good though. Now let me ask you this. You're

494
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 1: licensed real estate broker in three states, but you're based

495
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: in Cali, where your show Fixed My Flip is film.

496
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: How did this whole show even come about? Well, yes,

497
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: I am. I lived in Nashville for a long time

498
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: and at forty six, I woke up one morning I

499
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: said I want to be on TV. And so, by

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00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: grace faith in a really good plan and that I

501
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: worked very hard. I got on television. When that show

502
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: ended on HG, I said, I'm gonna go back home

503
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: now because I raised my three daughter put them through college.

504
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: And I said, you know, it's time for my second

505
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: chapter of life. And I decided to come back home

506
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: to Los Angeles where I was born and raised, and

507
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: I was going on meeting people were pitching me different

508
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: shows to get back on TV, and I really just

509
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: didn't resonate with any of them. So my production partner,

510
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: Freddy Bell, and I said, you know what, we know

511
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: me best, so let's create a show. So we created

512
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: Fixed my Flip at a restaurant and we started shopping

513
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: in and then I had an amazing opportunity to pitch

514
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: it to the president of HDTV in twenty twenty during

515
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: the pandemic. She loved it, she greenlit it, and then

516
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 1: now three years later, we are preparing to air the

517
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: second season coming up very soon I fixed my flip.

518
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: Yeah that's okay. Now let me get the concept here.

519
00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: You work with regular people that have completely just told

520
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: the houses up, and they need your expertise to complete

521
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: their flip. So are these people who bought a house

522
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: to flip it tow it up? Didn't know what the

523
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: hell they was doing? Then you come in exactly they

524
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: get into a flop. You know a lot of times

525
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: people look and get into real estate because they see

526
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: it as a hustle. I want to get in the game.

527
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: And what I immediately come in and correct is that

528
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: real estate is not a game. I've made a twenty

529
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: year career out of this as a single mom. I

530
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: put three kids through private school and college from solely

531
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: supporting them from being in real estate. So each flip

532
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: that I do is considered a business, and I run

533
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: it as a business. And so when I come in,

534
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you guys are playing this game with

535
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: a lot of money and you're losing. So I come

536
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: in when they pair up these houses, they lose money.

537
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 1: They don't know what to do with their design plan,

538
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: they don't know how to sell it and make money

539
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: because they're in a hole that they does themselves. I

540
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: come in, helped them get out of that hole, turn

541
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: the whole house around, and then we all make money.

542
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: I take my part too, because he labor is worthy

543
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: of the liar. And Steve she does all of this

544
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: in heels looking good. Okay, listen to Junior. Listen to Junior. Yeah,

545
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: and walls that's crazy. So but but it's this, it's

546
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: this flip business really a good business? Because I hear

547
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: so many people talking about I want to flip home.

548
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: Is it really a good business? Is there enough deals

549
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: out there where you could actually turn it into a

550
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: great business. You know, if you run it as a business,

551
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: it is. If you run it as a hustle, it

552
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: is not. Because like with anything anything you do part

553
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: time or that you think is a hobby, it's not

554
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: going to work. I have I'm literally a living testimony

555
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: that I have done this for It'll be twenty years

556
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: in July, and this is how I put my kids

557
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: through college death free by the way, So you know,

558
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,959
Speaker 1: it is. It is lucrative. It can be a business.

559
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: We're in a different market right now, so it makes

560
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: it harder. But you know, the ones who survive are

561
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: the ones that know how to sell real estate and

562
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: not hustle it. Well, you've been doing real estate for

563
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: twenty years, so yeah, she's an expert at it twenty years. Yeah. See,

564
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: I might as well gonna stay out of it because

565
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: you immediately struck me down when you said you either

566
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: get into the business or hustle. Hell, I was purely

567
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: thinking hustle. I just saw my money flying right on

568
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: by me, had wings on it. That's amazing. Hey, listen,

569
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,120
Speaker 1: we want to talk about the other project. Because you

570
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: were a judge on hgtvs Rock the Block last season,

571
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 1: and then this season you're competing on the show with

572
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: Alison Victoria as your partner. Now, what can we expect

573
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: this season? What you there? Let me make one like

574
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: action Alicon Victorious, she's already come. They a competitor on

575
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 1: the show. She's actually I judged this year because she's

576
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: going to be OK. Hold on one second, let me

577
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: just tell you something. This page. The only reason I

578
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 1: said that because the lady then work Hill put this

579
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: on about paper. No, I don't know. I'm gonna just

580
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: be I don't even know who to hear Alison needs.

581
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: I have no clue who she is. I don't know

582
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: where she worked. I don't know why. I don't know

583
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: why we mentioned in her ass because we really just

584
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 1: gonna hear talking about this page Turner. I don't even

585
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: watch Alison even on the damn paper. Apologized back because

586
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: don't nobody know her. Don't nobody know her? No, she

587
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: ain't all here this interview about page Turner. So you

588
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,399
Speaker 1: since still Miss page We're coming back. We're gonna talk

589
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 1: with more page Turner. Not don't mention this lady Alison

590
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: Victoria because we don't know who she is. But we

591
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 1: do know who Miss page Turner is, and Junior knows

592
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: you better than anybody else. Will be back with page

593
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: Turner right after this. Y'all. Don't go quait. You're listening,

594
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 1: hight everybody, We're back in our very special guests this morning,

595
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: This one and only Miss page Turner, who I just

596
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: found out not only Philips houses tears down walls, doesn't

597
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 1: all in high heel yus. She's got a great show.

598
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: Uh it's called Fixed My Flip. Uh. The show as

599
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: it is taped out of California. She's been in real

600
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: estate for over twenty years. She has done over a

601
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 1: hundred million dollars in sales and now she's here, now

602
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: she's back. We're talking about You Are a Judge or

603
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: HDTV's Rock the Block. Last season. I love this show,

604
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 1: So what can we expect this season? Well, this season,

605
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: I'm actually competing and um, we have four teams on

606
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: Rock the Block. It is the biggest and most epic

607
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: season yet and that's because these homes. Each team, we

608
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: have five thousand square feet to reimagine and renovate in

609
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: six weeks and we're given a budget of I'm going

610
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: to say only two hundred and fifty thousand dollars because

611
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: when you think about walking into a home that's already

612
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: worth one point nine million, and you need to be

613
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: in a competition, and whoever reimagines and renovates this house

614
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: to get the highest value two and eventy thousand dollars

615
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: will completely dwindle pretty quickly. So it's a really big season.

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00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: My partner on the show is Mitch Glue, who's also

617
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: my contractor on Fix My Flips, so we make a

618
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: dynamic duo and it's super intense. I am nervous about Um. Now,

619
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: let me say this, all of the teams we love

620
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: each other on camera. On camera, I'm a little nervous

621
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: about all my eye rolling, my facial expressions because I

622
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: don't have a poker face and the sugar honey iced

623
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 1: tea that I will be talking on the show, so

624
00:37:52,360 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: hopefully they'll all be my friends walking one huney iced

625
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: teeth holway. So let me get this straight. The house.

626
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: Are the houses different or it's the same house. I

627
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: don't understand the concept at one point nine million dollars there, Yes,

628
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: they're each worth one point nine million. We're walking. We

629
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: all have the exact same floor plan, but each team

630
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,839
Speaker 1: is allowed to come in and completely reimagine the house.

631
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Speaker 1: We can take down wall, we can add bedrooms, add bathrooms,

632
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Speaker 1: remove bedrooms, remove bathrooms whatever. Each team is going to

633
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 1: think that we'll get them to the highest value. When

634
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: we're completed. We can do Oh, I got oh that's

635
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: the that's a good conversation. So all the designs are different,

636
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's crazy. Well let's hey look also

637
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: before we get out of here, first of all, let

638
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 1: me tell y'all check out Page Turner on Rock the Block,

639
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: premier in March six, and her own show Fixed My

640
00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: Flip It's premiering in April on hg TV. He's obviously

641
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: a big star on HGTV once again. Page Turner on

642
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: Walk the Block premiering March sixth, that's coming up, and

643
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: her own show Fixed My Flip premier in April on HDTV.

644
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: He congratulations, Page and thank thank you all so much.

645
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: Page Turning. Y'all you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It

646
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 1: is time now to check Steve's voicemail and if you

647
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: would like to leave a message for Steve Callum eight

648
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine. Steve, you might just hear your

649
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: call on the air. Steve. You're ready, right, stay ready

650
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: for these calls. I know you do. Baby. Caller wants

651
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: to comment on your closing remarks fight Steve Harvey. Steve Harvey,

652
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: let God touch you boy? When you said what you

653
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 1: said the fight on fairy Wood to turn on your

654
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: closing remark, I'm in the fight. I now I feel

655
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: better and I'm putting my boxing gloves on. Thank you,

656
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Keep doing what you're doing, waking up folks.

657
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: The fight, Steve Harvey, Keep fighting, boy, Keep fighting, Steve Harvey.

658
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm fighting out here, Steve Harvey. Is you just showed

659
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: me how to go put my boxing gloves on so

660
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: I can keep up the fight in the name of

661
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: all body God, where God can leave me on and

662
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: let me fight, fight, fight. Thank you, Steve Harvey. Keep

663
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: up the work, Steve Harvey. Keep up that work that

664
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: you doing for folks. The fight, Steve Harvey, keep fighting, boy,

665
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 1: because I'm fighting one with you too. All these haters

666
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,760
Speaker 1: and stuff out here but doing give God the glory.

667
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: What God I'm gonna win the fight is You're gonna

668
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: win the fight? What God, Steve Harvey, In the name

669
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 1: of Jesus, Thank you. I got to go. Steve Harvey.

670
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: God bless you. Jeevey. Don't fight Seeve Arvey? What man?

671
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 1: You my dude do? I don't know what your name is.

672
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: You showed no my name. Let me tell you something, man,

673
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: I appreciate that phone call. You don't know what you

674
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: did for me. All I know is he call his

675
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: he motivated seat. Look, man, I like black dudes like that,

676
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: but I felt his spit man promo. Now fight Steve

677
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: Hark Why I got my you? Yeah? He was black.

678
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: Hen Let it again. Your name black? He just said

679
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 1: I love black dudes. He just saved with black. Who

680
00:41:55,120 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 1: did he He was black. He didn't say it the reson.

681
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 1: Did you hit the vernacular? Did you hit the way

682
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: he placed the words? He let me tell you something

683
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 1: He didn't really he didn't really have a subject. You

684
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 1: didn't know what subject he was talking about. You didn't

685
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: have a predicate in there. You didn't have. All you

686
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:29,720
Speaker 1: had was emotion. Yes, right, that's right man, Steve Harvey

687
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: and fight fight February eight. Fight, Get up Dave one

688
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: more time, Steve Harvey. Steve Harvey, let God touch you boy.

689
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: When you said what you said the fight on February

690
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: the twenty eight on your clothing remark, I'm in the fight.

691
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: I now I feel better and I'm putting my bike

692
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 1: and gloves on. Thank you, Steve Harvey. Keep doing what

693
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: you're doing, waking up folks. The fight, Steve Harvey, Keep

694
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: fighting boys, Keep fighting, Steve Harvey. I'm fighting out here,

695
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Is you just showed me how to go

696
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 1: put my boxing gloves on so I can keep up

697
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: the fight in the name of all body God, where

698
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: God can leave me on and let me fight, fight, Fight.

699
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve Harvey. Keep up the work, Steve Harvey,

700
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: Keep up that work that you door for folks, the fight,

701
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, keep fighting, boys, because I'm fighting. Go old

702
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 1: with you too, all these haters and stuff out here.

703
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: But do give God the glory. What God, I'm gonna

704
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: win the fight? Is you gonna win the fight? What God?

705
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the name of Jesus, thank you. I

706
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: got to go, Steve Harvey, God bless you, Steve Harvey.

707
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: Fight Steve Harvey, Bye bye. I got to go, Steve Harvey.

708
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 1: Do thank you man, Thank you. Because the wrong emotion

709
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: he had with no subject attached, all we had was

710
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: a date. Well I knew exactly what he was talking about.

711
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 1: All right, guys, Coming up next, it's the prank phone

712
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: call from the nephew. Right after this, you're listening Steve

713
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour,

714
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today,

715
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: and the subject is my husband beat up her boyfriend.

716
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 1: We'll get into that find out what that's all about

717
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 1: in just a few because right now it is time.

718
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: Yeah for the nephew. We're back to whooping them behind.

719
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: I told you we got to get back to you

720
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: right now. It's time for the nephew and the prank

721
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: phone call for today. What you got now? This is

722
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: all hair I want you all to listen because this

723
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: right here, the title that this see is no hair weaves.

724
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: No hair weaves. All right, you're talking to him. Well,

725
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: I'm talking to them later on the phone, but really

726
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm talking to everybody. No, we're not people. Got a

727
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 1: whole lot of news, right, but you have no hair

728
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:24,720
Speaker 1: all as far as this job is concerned, you cannot

729
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: wear hair weaves anymore. Okay, that's what we're doing. So

730
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: we're making a phone call. We're letting the we're letting

731
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: the particular employee. You know, we are done with hair weaves.

732
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:37,240
Speaker 1: We won't natural how when you're coming here, y'all hear me? Okay,

733
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: I mean that now. I don't want to start taking

734
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 1: hal off at the door, because I do it. I will,

735
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: I'll do it. You ain't gonna believe what's gonna happen

736
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: at that door, though, it's gonna be busy at the door,

737
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: all right, cat do let's go man here it is

738
00:45:52,000 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: no hair weaves. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to please aim

739
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: is Byron Byron from the job. How are you? I'm okay?

740
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: How are you buying. I'm good, listen. I hate to

741
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 1: call you after hours at your home, but there has

742
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: been some new issues that will be going into effect.

743
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 1: That was just tomorrow morning, and we're calling everyone letting

744
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: them know the new changes that have been issued that

745
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 1: will take effect first thing tomorrow morning. So we're giving

746
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: everyone a call. So don't be alarmed. It's just giving

747
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: you a call letting you know what the higher ups

748
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: have changed. Okay, okay, there's no problem, Okay, as up tomorrow,

749
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen is when you guys come in, you'll

750
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 1: be issued a new key card, and that particular card

751
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: will actually registers when you come in and go out. Okay, okay,

752
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: all right. Second one is there will no longer be

753
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: any personal Internet at the job any longer. You won't

754
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: be able. They're actually putting a block on all computers.

755
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 1: All the computers will no longer be able to go

756
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: to a lot of these sites that you guys go

757
00:46:56,160 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: to that you've been that's been available here in the past. Okay, okay,

758
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: all right. The last one is reesa do you um,

759
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: do you wear a hair weave? What do you wear

760
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: a hair weave or a wig. Yes, okay, Well here's

761
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 1: one thing, and hopefully you can get this change about tomorrow.

762
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: There's no weaves or hair or wigs gonna be allowed

763
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: at the job site from this point on. So as

764
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: of tomorrow morning, everyone must be wearing their natural hair.

765
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 1: You're joking. Uh No, these are the issues that are

766
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 1: gonna be that are in stated, and these are going

767
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: to take effect as of tomorrow morning, seven o'clock. What

768
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: does hair weave to have to do with any of

769
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: these changes? The first two I can understand punching in

770
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 1: and being on the internet. Yes, that's something that that corporate.

771
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: But hair weave and you're getting us are they're looking

772
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: down upon it. Wigs and hair weaves they have to go.

773
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: So I'm assuming that if you, like you said, you

774
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: do have one said, it doesn't come out of the

775
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: taking it down now and prepare your hair to be

776
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 1: natural as you come in to work tomorrow. I'm not

777
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: taking my hair down. I've been here seven years and

778
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: I've dealt with all the changes that y'all have made,

779
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: But there's no way that I'm taking my hair weave down.

780
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. What's your name, Byron? Yes, my name is Byron.

781
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, let's get back to your weave. This

782
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: has you're gonna have to do something. Is there's someone

783
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: that you can call tonight to help you get your

784
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: hair down and so you can look presentable with your

785
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: natural hair tomorrow. No, my weave cast over two three

786
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: hundred dollars and I'm not about to take that down.

787
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: I mean, it takes a long time to take that down. Okay,

788
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 1: I mean, is this something Maybe you can take it

789
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: down and just wear it on the weekends because as

790
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 1: of now, you're not gonna be allowed to actually wear

791
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: it on the property. And how will you know if

792
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 1: someone has a weave or not? Are you gonna do

793
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: head checks or something? Okay, ma'am, I'm not quite sure

794
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: what they're gonna do to check it. But by you

795
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: telling me that you have a weave, then I have

796
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,800
Speaker 1: to write it down that you have confirmed that you do,

797
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: and we got to make sure that tomorrow morning you're

798
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: not wearing one. But you don't know what my natural

799
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: hair looks like from my weaves. You heard how much

800
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,879
Speaker 1: I pay for it. So it's a good weave, ma'am.

801
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: It's not about how good you know, the quality of

802
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: your weave or anything. They don't want it. They want

803
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: natural hair. I don't know what that means, but they're

804
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: going natural. They're going green, they're going natural. I don't

805
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 1: know what it is. They're going natural, and so will you.

806
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: Tomorrow morning. You need to come in with your hair

807
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: completely down. Okay, I'm gonna do it. I'm not taking

808
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: my weave down. Okay that y'all gonna write me up

809
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: or something. Okay, ma'am. Do you not want your job? Yeah?

810
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: I want my job, but this don't make no sense.

811
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: You're talking about personal appearance. I can understand y'all have

812
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: a dress coach and enforcing a dress code, that's one thing.

813
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 1: But telling somebody to change that he you emost your

814
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: morn man, you're crazy, ma'am. I'm not gonna. I have

815
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 1: other people that I have to call. Bottom line is

816
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 1: get your hat out and get your butt into work tomorrow,

817
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: and let's not go back and forth anymore. Okay, we'll listen.

818
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 1: Buy Land. You're a low mind. If you're thinking I'm

819
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: taking my weave, I'm not taking out at all. Esa

820
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: is coming up in there with her hair and I'm

821
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: gonna sit down at my desk and do my job.

822
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna have to drag me out that handsome weaves.

823
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: You'na lost your mind, you and your powers that be

824
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: or whoever they may be. You tell them that I

825
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: said that way a minute way? Amenute? Listen? Are you

826
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: telling me that you're coming in regardless with your hair on? Right?

827
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: That's what I just said? Ok? Are you? Then? Then

828
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: we need to Why don't you go ahead and bring

829
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: some boxes in because you may I'm not you bring

830
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: this man. I don't want to have to pack. You

831
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: get your stuff and box it up, and you're losing

832
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: your job because you can't take it. You know what?

833
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 1: You can do that because I'm an call the news

834
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: station and tell them you're dragging me out of go

835
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: behind some weeds? Who wrong? You're wrong? You're wrong? You

836
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: are you gonna? You need to watch your language, young lady?

837
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: Why I need to watch my language? I'm at home.

838
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 1: You call me on my own home phone and my time.

839
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: I'm at my house. I'm not on your flock. I

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Speaker 1: say what I want to say on my phone. Okay?

841
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Speaker 1: Can I say what I want on my phone? And

842
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Speaker 1: then I'll let you go and you can come into

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Speaker 1: to work anywhere you want to tomorrow? What is it?

844
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Speaker 1: Bible on? What else you got to say? I want

845
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Speaker 1: to tell you. I want to tell you that your girlfriend,

846
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: Jennifer at your job got me to plank phone call you.

847
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Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show.

848
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Speaker 1: He's just say I know you, hey, reason this is

849
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Speaker 1: this is nephew Tommy, baby from the Steve Harby More

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Speaker 1: than your Jennifer, your co worker, got me to pray.

851
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Speaker 1: Phone called my blood pressure up. I'm gonna kill tomorrow

852
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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna pull a whole weeve out. You want

853
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Speaker 1: to come down there and watch me drag out of

854
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: the job. I'm made blood pressure. You can't be doing

855
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 1: that to me behind my weave. I pay too much money.

856
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: I definitely my kids. Oh I ain't nothing like a

857
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Speaker 1: black woman and her hell oh man, Okay, baby, I

858
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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. God, what do you think? Shirley?

862
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863
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm talking to to natural how people right now, now

864
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: what y'all think, But wear some weave. I will come

865
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,000
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866
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Speaker 1: would see right there, and I see that's my problem, y'all.

867
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868
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869
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Speaker 1: get that one thing and then and then you pat it.

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Speaker 1: Nah what all? How well? All right? All right, thank

879
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: you nephew. Coming up next Strawberry letters subject my husband

880
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: beat up her boyfriends. We'll get into that right after

881
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 1: this front lace. Y'all come into the side. Though you're

882
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:46,359
Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, it is time

883
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: now for Today's Strawberry Letter and if you need advice

884
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:53,600
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885
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:57,439
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886
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

887
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here,

888
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: right now, and you never know it could be yours.

889
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: That's right, you never know. Hold on tight. We got

890
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew.

891
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:18,720
Speaker 1: Subject my husband beat up her boyfriend. Dear Stephen Shirley.

892
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: I've been married for four years and my husband has

893
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 1: a bunch of friends and a female best friend. We're

894
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: both in our fifties and I don't put my friends

895
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: before him because I am beyond the age of hanging

896
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: with my friends all the time. But he is always

897
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 1: down to hang out with his friends or gossip on

898
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 1: the phone with his female bestie. I've caught him on

899
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 1: the phone with her at one in the morning before

900
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 1: and I had to give him quote the look to

901
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 1: get off the phone. The lady is married and she's

902
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: got a boyfriend on the side. She talks to my

903
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: husband about her problems with her men, and I warned

904
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,280
Speaker 1: him to stay out of her business and stop giving

905
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: her advice. Well, he didn't take any of my advice,

906
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: and now he has been charged with the salting her boyfriend. Apparently,

907
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: my husband advised her to leave her boyfriend alone and

908
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: focus on saving her marriage. She told her boyfriend exactly

909
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: what my husband said, and then a few days later,

910
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: while my husband was pumping gas, her boyfriend walked up

911
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 1: on him. They exchanged words and my boyfriend my husband

912
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: ended up clipping the guy and he fell on the

913
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 1: curb and got scratched up. He's short in comparison to

914
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: my six three husband, so my husband tried not to

915
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: hurt him. I didn't even flinch when my husband had

916
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,439
Speaker 1: to give a statement to the officers, because he got

917
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 1: exactly what he deserves. I looked like a fool to

918
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 1: my family, since they found out that my husband got

919
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 1: into a fight over another woman. My husband argued that

920
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: he was only trying to be a good friend. I

921
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 1: told him that either she goes or I am going,

922
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 1: and there's no other way. He said he shouldn't be

923
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: punished for being a good person. Was I wrong for

924
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 1: giving him an ultimatum? Well, you know what, there's so

925
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 1: much in this letter. And he's definitely not being punished

926
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: for being a good person. He's being punished for being

927
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:09,280
Speaker 1: in other people's business and not doing what you clearly

928
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: and plainly asked him to do, so plain and simple.

929
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: You're right. Your husband is dead wrong. And when will

930
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 1: these married people get it that it is not a

931
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: good look to spend so much time and effort with

932
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 1: the opposite sex. I mean, this is too much. He's

933
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: not considering your feelings and your marriage at all. He

934
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 1: has allowed her, the friend, to come between you. That's

935
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: what he's done, and that's wrong. He created a problem

936
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: where there was no problem in your marriage, and he

937
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: stupidly thinks that he was just being a good person.

938
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:44,319
Speaker 1: Really though, good people don't do stuff like this. He's

939
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:46,359
Speaker 1: all up in her business, talking to her at one

940
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 1: in the morning, getting into fights where the police have

941
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: to get involved. Nothing is worth all this mess and confusion. Dude,

942
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna lose your wife over this other woman. You

943
00:56:56,920 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: can't see that he should be concentrating on your needs. Unfortunately,

944
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: he did get what he deserved and deserved in this instance,

945
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 1: and maybe it will make him slow down and listen

946
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: to and appreciate what you've been trying to tell him

947
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: all along. As far as the ultimate ultimatum goes, I say,

948
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: don't say stuff like that unless you truly mean it,

949
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: and even if you did meet it, you can always

950
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 1: take stuff back. But you know, you might have to

951
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: own this one, because if he's still arguing about him

952
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: just trying to be a good person and still being

953
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: friends with her and still in her business, he hasn't

954
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: really learned his lesson, and that's going to continue to

955
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: be a problem in your marriage. And you're gonna, you know,

956
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: have to stick to your ultimatum. Steve Man, I've not

957
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: had a letter come cross here in a while with

958
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: so many people in it that are wrong. Can I

959
00:57:53,160 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: tell you that everybody mentioned in this letter is stupid? Now,

960
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: this is a letter full of stupid people. Everybody in

961
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: this letter is stupid. I don't even understand how we

962
00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: got into this. This don't make no sense. This woman

963
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: the subject as my husband beat up her boyfriend. You've

964
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 1: been married for four years. Your husband got a bunch

965
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 1: of friends and a female best friend. I told you

966
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: I told y'all about this. I can't tell you how

967
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 1: many times, But now y'all on this we're both in

968
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: our fifties. I don't put my friends before him because

969
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 1: I'm beyond age of hanging with my friends all the time.

970
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: But he's always down to hang out with his friends

971
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 1: or gossip on the phone with his female bestie. Right there,

972
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: that's crazy. I'm on the phone in my fifties gossiping

973
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: with a woman who is my best friend. But I'm mad.

974
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: You need in the world so but now I hadn't

975
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: told y'all about these, right, and you're fifty on the

976
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 1: phone gossiping with your female girlfriend who is your bestie.

977
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:16,440
Speaker 1: Here is where it gets even dumber. I caught him

978
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: on the phone with her at one o'clock in the

979
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: morning before and I had to give him a look

980
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: to get off the phone. I'm not talking to a

981
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 1: woman at one o'clock in the morning, except but went

982
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: one subject. That's it ain't nothing else to talk about it,

983
00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 1: he share. Bill Bellamy had rolled the whole special about

984
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: it at one am. Y'all in booty Calls here too,

985
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: when when you were talking with the man, when you

986
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: was out that day and you were talking to a

987
00:59:55,800 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 1: man one o'clock in the worlds and sun, y'all wouldn't

988
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: the exchange and wait wait, I come yeah, hold that

989
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: thought coming up. We'll have part two of Steve's response

990
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter.

991
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: Subject is my husband beat up her boyfriend? All right,

992
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: we'll get back into it right after this. You're listening,

993
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

994
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: The subject is my husband beat up her boyfriend? Just

995
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: don't make no sisters. Woman been married for four years.

996
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 1: Her husband got a lot of friends and one of

997
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: them is a best friend, is a woman. Uh, and

998
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 1: they always hanging out, and she's tired of me. And

999
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 1: she caught her husband on the phone at one am

1000
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: in the morning, and then she gave him the look

1001
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: to get off the phone. So she allows him to

1002
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: have this best friend who is a woman and talk

1003
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 1: on the phone. So he's so comfortable he up in

1004
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 1: one o'clock in the morning with his girlfriend talking on

1005
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: the phone, because that's what she is. She's a girl

1006
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: and she's a friend. And when at this age that

1007
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: puts you in the girlfriend in category. Now the lady

1008
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 1: that he's talking to his way get crazy. She married

1009
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 1: and got a boyfriend. So now that's she's sending a

1010
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: signal to you that she has no problem passing it around. None.

1011
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 1: She got a husband and a boyfriend, and your husband

1012
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: know it. Now she talks to your husband about her

1013
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 1: problems with her men, and you've warned him to stay

1014
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: out of her business and stop giving her advice. He

1015
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: didn't take the advice, and now he's been charged with

1016
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: assaulting her boyfriend. How did this happen? Well, I'll tell

1017
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: you what your husband told her. Your husband advised her

1018
01:01:56,800 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: to leave the boyfriend alone focus on saving her marriage.

1019
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: She told her boyfriend exactly what my husband said, what

1020
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 1: you ain't supposed to do, and a few days later,

1021
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: your husband was pumping gas her boyfrid walked up on him.

1022
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: Now this is this one. Let us do. Come on.

1023
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 1: What made the boyfriend thinks he could walk up on

1024
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: this man and say, hey, man, I don't appreciate you

1025
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: telling my married girlfriend to stop messing with me and

1026
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: focus on my marriage. How dare you? They exchange words

1027
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 1: and your husband ended up clipping a guy and he

1028
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 1: fell on the curb and got stratched up. Now his

1029
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 1: real problem right here, this is why Tommy wants to

1030
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: make it just to push. He is shot in comparison

1031
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: to my sixty three husband. So my husband tried. Tommy

1032
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:01,040
Speaker 1: tried to defend a little and did you hear right there?

1033
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: He pushed it knock, he slapped the sugar, he tipped.

1034
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 1: Tommy jumped in. He and tried to defend a little.

1035
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: Shout ass man. But he shouldn't have ran his little

1036
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: lass up on his big ass man. Now he's sixty three.

1037
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: He clipped knocked his ass down six three. So my

1038
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 1: husband tried not to hurt it. Now he got charges

1039
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: on it. I didn't flinch when my husband had to

1040
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 1: give a statement to the officer because he got exactly

1041
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: what he deserved. So obviously you were there. She was

1042
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: in the car while her husband was pumping gas. That's

1043
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 1: how she knows the details. So now you watched him

1044
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 1: and you didn't flinch because he got exactly what he's done.

1045
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 1: Then I didn't flinch when my husband had to give

1046
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 1: a statement to the officer because he got exactly what

1047
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 1: he deserves. That means she was there and saw the incident.

1048
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: Because the police came there and gave a statement. I

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01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 1: looked like a food to my family since they found

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01:03:57,760 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: out that my husband got into a fight over another

1051
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: a woman, and how they find that out because you

1052
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: told him. My husband argued that he was only trying

1053
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: to be a good friend. I told him that either

1054
01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 1: she goes or I'm going in. There's no other way.

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01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 1: He said he shouldn't be punished for being a good person.

1056
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: Was I wrong for giving him ultimate Absolutely not, absolutely not.

1057
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: You're not wrong for giving him an ultimatim But you

1058
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 1: shouldn't allow this female friendship into your marriage because it's

1059
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 1: in your marriage. If your husband is sitting up on

1060
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 1: the phone with another woman at one o'clock in the morning,

1061
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 1: somebody's in your marriage. You allowed this, You said it

1062
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 1: was okay. You should have been put your foot down.

1063
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: I'd then told y'all this a hundred times about these

1064
01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 1: female friends. Now she tricked to begin with, because she

1065
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: married and got a boyfriend. Your husband counseling this dysfunction

1066
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: or health true, and he friends and won't hug and

1067
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: she won't him. What they talking at one o'clock in

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01:04:56,320 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: the mind they want each other? Oh hell, at one

1069
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning, are you crazy? And if she'll

1070
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 1: see a husband and a man on the side, why

1071
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't she see nobody else? And yeah, you should give

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01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 1: him the ultimatum. And I can't believe how stupid the

1073
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: husband is that he would jeopardize all he has right

1074
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 1: for her and she already got a boyfriend and a husband.

1075
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,520
Speaker 1: How can you risk what you have for someone that

1076
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 1: don't give a damn about what they have? So it

1077
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. Everybody in the letter is stupid.

1078
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 1: The husband is dumb as a doughnut. Now I'm gonna

1079
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 1: get me a police racket. I'm gonna get some assault

1080
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 1: charges over this little shan as dude that want to

1081
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: sleep with my friend. I don't give a damn who

1082
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:52,280
Speaker 1: she's sleep with. I'm not gonna get no criminal record.

1083
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 1: Being got to get a lawyer in all this. I'm

1084
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: facing assault charges because the boyfriend. You the boyfriend tries

1085
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: to jump on you. How you the boyfriend, you're gonna

1086
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 1: jump on this other man for telling? And this a

1087
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 1: letter full of stupid You suld't if you're trying to

1088
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: help somebody that's got a husband and a boyfriend. And

1089
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: now I got you on the side, causing probably in

1090
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 1: your marriage, and now you got charged up. All right?

1091
01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 1: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Barbi

1092
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 1: Ben little Man will run upon nobody else and face man,

1093
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: facebook Um said, face man, and check out the Strawberry

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01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:35,439
Speaker 1: Letter podcast Hunting Man. We're coming up in forty six

1095
01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour Man, we'll have Sports Talk with Junior.

1096
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It

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01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 1: is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior. What

1098
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 1: you got? Well, let's give a shout out to Vanessa Bryant,

1099
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant's widow. She was awarded twenty nine million for

1100
01:06:55,840 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 1: the photos from the crash. And I'm gonna tell you something.

1101
01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 1: This is on top of the fifteen minutes she already

1102
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: got in federal court. She got twenty nine million from

1103
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: La County. That is man. I mean, just you know

1104
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: when they took those photos and they showed them, she

1105
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 1: proved it the firefighter. The firefighter was showing the pictures

1106
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:19,920
Speaker 1: that took some people at a ball. Yeah. Yeah, and

1107
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 1: many twenty nine millions, so that justice was truly served. Also,

1108
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 1: don't forget the NFL combine starts today. Defensive linement, the

1109
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 1: linebackers hood day today, big dog back. Let's go let's

1110
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:40,800
Speaker 1: get advanced. Get this next roof of NFL players in

1111
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: d L defensive linebackers to day tomorrow will be dB

1112
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:50,200
Speaker 1: Saturday quarterbacks, wide receivers, and tight end. And then on

1113
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 1: Sunday we're gonna have the running backs and the old line.

1114
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you right now, my favorite part

1115
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 1: of the comeback. It watched that old line running that

1116
01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:00,440
Speaker 1: forty the big boys be getting it, boy, the big

1117
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 1: boy beginning it. Junior, do you think you could beat

1118
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 1: any one of them running? Yeah? The offensive lineman, Yeah,

1119
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:08,600
Speaker 1: I can beat them. I can. You don't think I

1120
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 1: can beat the man? Wait? Wait, man, No, you ain't

1121
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:19,559
Speaker 1: jump in here. I jumped right on in Yeah, hold on, Junior,

1122
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: ain't we talking about speed? Yeah? We're talking about here

1123
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:30,960
Speaker 1: in here talking ham string. And I haven't no idea

1124
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 1: why he brought it up. I don't I had at

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01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:37,360
Speaker 1: one time. And when you're back toping, you're bad. You

1126
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: try to make a come back, told him, But Junior, segment,

1127
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 1: you just saying him, say that, I know we're not

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01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:53,840
Speaker 1: talking about running and we can take him do it again.

1129
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: We could do it again. If you just feel it,

1130
01:08:57,200 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 1: you got it. Come on, he ain't got it. No

1131
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:10,640
Speaker 1: boys work. Wait a minute, remember remember five got to be?

1132
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: Who told you that? That? What you think you think? Oh?

1133
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm sexy? No, I ain't gonna stop, Rachel. Here we

1134
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 1: go again, us to go listen. Coming up at the

1135
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 1: top of the hour, A dad on social media needs

1136
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 1: some advice, Steve, should our daughter's boyfriend be allowed to

1137
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 1: stay the night? Oh we'll get into that right after this.

1138
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:44,680
Speaker 1: You're listening show? All right, Steve, you ready for this one?

1139
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 1: This one's from Demetrius on Steve Harvey FM. Demetrius says,

1140
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 1: I need a group judgment here. Over the weekend we

1141
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 1: were hit with some serious storms that lasted through the night.

1142
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: My daughter had her boyfriend over, but it seemed pretty

1143
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:01,360
Speaker 1: clear that it wasn't safe to draw five. So I

1144
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: suggested that the guys spend the night on the basement couch,

1145
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 1: of course, with our daughter sleeping in her room. My

1146
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 1: wife wasn't having any of it and shut that all

1147
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 1: the way down, and he was sent home. It took

1148
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:18,679
Speaker 1: him forty five minutes longer than usual than normal to arrive,

1149
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: but he did so safely. The discussion and argument has

1150
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:27,560
Speaker 1: continued days later. So I ask you was I completely

1151
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 1: wrong or was it a decent thing to suggest? Well,

1152
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 1: it's your house and for safety reasons, it made sense,

1153
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:47,600
Speaker 1: Big Stone, It made sense. You established the rules. You

1154
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 1: protecting another parents child. You know you're going, man, if

1155
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 1: this was my child, what I want the parents? So

1156
01:10:54,760 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: I think you did the right thing. Normally the wife

1157
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't having it because your wife got some information you

1158
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: don't have, sir, and she acted on that. Okay, I'm

1159
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,080
Speaker 1: just saying, the wife has some information you don't have,

1160
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: and she didn't put her foot down, and you can't

1161
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 1: say nothing because that's the queen of the house. No,

1162
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: if me and Margie had this discussion and one of

1163
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,840
Speaker 1: us say no and the other ones say yes, the

1164
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:29,759
Speaker 1: person that don't want them in there gonna win because

1165
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 1: if I say they could stay and Margie say they

1166
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 1: can't stay, they can't stay. So what if something had

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01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 1: happened to the young man on the way exactly? Yeah,

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01:11:40,280 --> 01:11:45,600
Speaker 1: I understand what happens the mother the guilt, Yeah, you know,

1169
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:51,839
Speaker 1: and that would have been crazy, and then your relationship

1170
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:56,000
Speaker 1: with your daughter forever change. Yes, Yes, because mama, why

1171
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 1: did you do that? All he had to do was

1172
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,120
Speaker 1: stay here? I think doing the safe thing would have

1173
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 1: been better. M You know he set the rule stay

1174
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: in the basement on the couch. That's that's the kind

1175
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 1: that I would have let him say. In my house.

1176
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: He'd have slept with me. We right there together. Yeah, yeah,

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01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 1: me and him right there together, and neither one of

1178
01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 1: us and neither one of us wearing bottoms the moment

1179
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:32,800
Speaker 1: you started snoring right here, boy, he would have left.

1180
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: You can't leave his room. I got joe bottoms under

1181
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 1: my pillar. Oh goodness, I think we have time for

1182
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 1: one more. Um mona on Facebook? Right? So, I have

1183
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,200
Speaker 1: a really tight group of friends who I get together

1184
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:52,559
Speaker 1: with pretty regularly. All of us are in her mid thirties, married,

1185
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 1: and we sometimes bring our spouses along. I know that

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01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 1: two of my friends were having affairs from men with

1187
01:12:58,240 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 1: men from work, which I don't have proof of, but

1188
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 1: I keep my opinion to myself. Now I've learned that

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01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,880
Speaker 1: my other friend is also cheating on her husband, making

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01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 1: me the only person in our friend group who isn't

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01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 1: cheating on their spouse. These are essentially my only friends

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01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 1: that I spend any time with, and now I'm rethinking

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01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 1: being friends with them. This option comes with a bunch

1194
01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,719
Speaker 1: of complications, like how do I explain it to my husband?

1195
01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: I don't know how I can continue being friends with

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01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 1: them and also seeing them with their spouses, who I

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01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:30,719
Speaker 1: feel badly for. What should I do? Should I distance

1198
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:35,120
Speaker 1: myself from my only friends? Wow? Well you can do that.

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01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:38,880
Speaker 1: You can distish yourself if you're uncomfortable with it, it's

1200
01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 1: not your business. But when you're in a group and

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01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 1: you feel bad for the husband, you can distis yourself

1202
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 1: from them. But you know you're being awfully judgmental now

1203
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 1: because you don't know what their husband's just doing. You

1204
01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 1: don't know if they got some arrangement. You don't know

1205
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:59,679
Speaker 1: what's happening, you know. But birds of a feather flock together.

1206
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:07,720
Speaker 1: That's why. Yeah. Yeah, she doesn't want anybody thinking she's

1207
01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:13,679
Speaker 1: cheating on her husband because they are. Yeah, that's all right. Well,

1208
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: don't nobody know less you tell it? Oh, all right,

1209
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll tell

1210
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:24,479
Speaker 1: you what happened in Chicago in the mayoral race. Right

1211
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening well trending news from our Chicago

1212
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:36,759
Speaker 1: homestation V one oh three. Chicago Mayor Lorie Lightfoot lost

1213
01:14:36,800 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 1: the reelection. Her opponents, Paul Vallas and Brandon Johnson, will

1214
01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:42,560
Speaker 1: meet in a runoff to be the next mayor of

1215
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,960
Speaker 1: Chicago after voters on Tuesday denied incumbent Lorie Lightfoot a

1216
01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:50,559
Speaker 1: second term, including a rebuke to a leader who made

1217
01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: history as head of a nation's third largest city. Vallis,

1218
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 1: a former school CEO backed by the Police union, and Johnson,

1219
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: a Cook County commissioner in doors by the Chicago Teachers Union,

1220
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:05,560
Speaker 1: advanced to the April fourth runoff after none of the

1221
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 1: nine candidates were able to secure over fifty percent of

1222
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 1: the vote to win outright. Lightfoot, of course, as the

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01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,640
Speaker 1: first black woman and the first openly gay person to

1224
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 1: lead the city, won her first term in twenty nineteen

1225
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,760
Speaker 1: after promising to end decades of corruption and back room

1226
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 1: dealing at city Hall. But opponents blamed Lightfoot for an

1227
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: increasing crime that occurred in cities across the US during

1228
01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:33,080
Speaker 1: the pandemic and criticized her as being a divisive, overly

1229
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 1: contentious leader. So there you go, that one Lightfoot that

1230
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:44,719
Speaker 1: was That was Junior, that may Lightfoot, Lloyd Lightwood. Yeah,

1231
01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:49,560
Speaker 1: yet the pictures, Junior, you ain't never seen him in

1232
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:53,599
Speaker 1: the room at same time. No, No, that's that's one.

1233
01:15:54,120 --> 01:16:09,960
Speaker 1: That's one ratio. It's going on. This show is one

1234
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: of this ignorant show coming up right after this. You're

1235
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: listening to the morning show. All right, guys, it is

1236
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: time now for a round of would you rather for

1237
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 1: the day? Would you rather marry a funny person who

1238
01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 1: was always poor? Or would you rather marry a boring

1239
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:32,360
Speaker 1: person who is always rich and poor? Because I'm gonna

1240
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 1: make that boring work out. We're gonna get this together.

1241
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:40,840
Speaker 1: I want a boring rich person. Yes, poor ass laughing,

1242
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: I'm not doing. Ain't nothing funny? What we laughing there?

1243
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 1: What is funny? Way? We can't come up with this moment?

1244
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 1: You're funny? They say women like men with with the

1245
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 1: sense of humor. Girl, you don't believe it. You ain't

1246
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 1: gonna believe it, girl, take this out. Ain't no gros

1247
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 1: frish this week out? Why then repull that cobboy? Boy?

1248
01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 1: She could sit over there with her boring ass and

1249
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 1: be rich. I don't give a damn. I don't even

1250
01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 1: talk to your little dry seal. All right? Would you

1251
01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 1: rather never be able to add salt? Or would you

1252
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:32,200
Speaker 1: rather never be able to add sugar to anything. Again,

1253
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:35,559
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna have a salt. Yeah, I do sugar.

1254
01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:38,000
Speaker 1: I don't need that salt. I can put hot sauce

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Speaker 1: on them. Good, Okay, No salt that sugar though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want no salt. No, yeah, you never had

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Speaker 1: my ain'ty nick bones. Ain't no damn sugar salt in them.

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Speaker 1: You need salt. So that's why I sal so he

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Speaker 1: wants the salt to Yeah, because if you don't take

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Speaker 1: thee nick, but you you buy in the turkey in

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Speaker 1: the neck. I swear God, you got too many elments

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Speaker 1: to be putting some salt on something, you know. Damn well,

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Speaker 1: you don't need taking the salt out taking the sugar out.

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Speaker 1: You need the sugar. So we two sick people here,

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01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:22,680
Speaker 1: You gonna you need sugar. I have something and I

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Speaker 1: just thought of something too, because you know y'all have

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01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:28,960
Speaker 1: y'all gonna y'all might rerun this race that y'all hand too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I've I've really I've named the race that. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna call it the sar Race. Yeah, I'm gonna call

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Speaker 1: the what that this is the sick Ass Relays because

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Speaker 1: everybody running into the sick need the sick Ass Relays,

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Speaker 1: the ladies and gentlemen. This year is starting in the

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Speaker 1: SARS Relays. Sick ass, sbody please sell tickets though, yetta man,

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01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:09,560
Speaker 1: y'all all sick enough, y'all could be in especially Olympics.

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01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:16,479
Speaker 1: You don't have to have like a physical nailman. You

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01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:18,559
Speaker 1: could just be in there with Jesse ailment. Like if

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01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 1: you coming off chemo, you should be able to run. Okay,

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01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:26,200
Speaker 1: I was not on chemo. All right, all right, quit

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01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:30,840
Speaker 1: telling people that so you can win. We'll be back

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Speaker 1: to close out the show, our last break of the

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Speaker 1: day right after this. You're listening to Morning show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day. And

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Speaker 1: this was a good day. This was a real good day.

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Speaker 1: We want to say thank you to Paige Turner from

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Speaker 1: HGTV THI yes, she was our special guest today. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: please watch her. And before we go and hand it

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Speaker 1: over to Day, I gotta say happy birthday to my

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Speaker 1: brother Fish. It is his birthday too, Happy birthday. Love you,

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Speaker 1: love you, love you. And I want to also talk

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Speaker 1: about the fellas is talking about re running the race,

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Speaker 1: and I want to shut that down. I want to

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Speaker 1: stop it before this conversation. Yeah, they had the race

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Speaker 1: and they're talking about redoing it, and I don't want

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Speaker 1: to see it happen. Uh So this year now we're

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Speaker 1: gonna we're not We're gonna close down this SORR Relays.

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Speaker 1: This year, we're not gonna. Let's do bad Crows. SORR

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Speaker 1: Relays is the sick Ass Relays. No, no, y'all, y'all

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Speaker 1: too sick to be running. I can't. I can't lose

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Speaker 1: y'all in this race. It's too much. Now they gonna die. Well,

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01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:58,200
Speaker 1: you know, Junior r Junior run real fast, create that

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Speaker 1: cool breezing here. Was gonna Christis Tommy running, you know,

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01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:09,719
Speaker 1: and be straining this throat. You know, your neck muscle

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01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:11,800
Speaker 1: to be tight when you runningcause you run like that.

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01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:15,479
Speaker 1: I don't want to strain in his throat. And then

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01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:17,639
Speaker 1: I don't lose two key members to the morning show.

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01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:19,320
Speaker 1: And then of y'all get down to the tape and

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01:21:19,360 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 1: he get close. He tried to lean once again, he

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01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 1: got stretched his throat out there just too much. And

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01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 1: then you running in you could have a Christis Junior.

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Speaker 1: The Sicken Has Relays shut down the Star Relays is

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Speaker 1: all man, it's track season. It's it's track season from

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Speaker 1: track stars. So wow, and you are a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: You ain't a track star? What is me? And Tommy? Then?

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Speaker 1: Now you a lot of fathers, husband, you know, granddadd

1315
01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 1: is your whole lot of st homeowner, you know, star, comedian,

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Speaker 1: all this here, man, radio holes, I got a whole

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Speaker 1: lot st of you years is a track star. That's

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Speaker 1: that's clearly what that is. I know that. Now these

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01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:21,760
Speaker 1: are my clothing remarks to day. Oh really yeah, I

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Speaker 1: want to stay in closing the day I got that

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01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:26,560
Speaker 1: earlier call from that guy that called in that was

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01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 1: encouraging me. I want to thank the brother whoever he

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01:22:29,400 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: was about to fight. It was done on February twenty eight.

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01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 1: I want to thank you man. But also it led

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Speaker 1: me to say this to everybody. What I tried to

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Speaker 1: do in my own way. I tried to be inspirational.

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01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 1: I tried to be encouraging. I try to be motivating,

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Speaker 1: and above all else, I try to be an example

1329
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Speaker 1: of what it's like to be so far from your

1330
01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:03,559
Speaker 1: goals and dreams, and through God's faith and his grace,

1331
01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 1: you can make it anyway. I want to be that person,

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01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:12,160
Speaker 1: and I try to be that person that tells his

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Speaker 1: authentic story without the sugarcoating, without the old ra ra

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Speaker 1: sis boom bob nah Man, with the truth. And the

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01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 1: truth of the matter is, you can be so far

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01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 1: from where you're trying to get that it looks unattainable.

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01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 1: You can be so down that it looked like you

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01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:37,240
Speaker 1: ain't gonna ever get up. You can be so heavily

1339
01:23:37,360 --> 01:23:40,720
Speaker 1: weighted down by the load that you feel like you

1340
01:23:40,880 --> 01:23:43,800
Speaker 1: just can't lift it no more. And you can be

1341
01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 1: so frightened with what you can or can't see in

1342
01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 1: the future that you want to turn around. I am

1343
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:53,599
Speaker 1: here to tell you that there is a heavenly father

1344
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:58,320
Speaker 1: that you can form a relationship with, and all your

1345
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 1: dreams can come truth. Because let me tell you something,

1346
01:24:02,439 --> 01:24:06,599
Speaker 1: if you are dreaming it, it's possible. You know why,

1347
01:24:07,439 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 1: because it is impossible to have an impossible thought that

1348
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:17,960
Speaker 1: is impossible. You can't think something that's impossible nobody ever had.

1349
01:24:18,920 --> 01:24:21,840
Speaker 1: You just can't have that thought because if you had

1350
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:25,479
Speaker 1: that thought where it comes from. Everything I didn't see

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01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:30,000
Speaker 1: coming then messed around and came. I'm telling you right now,

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01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 1: I didn't see cell phones coming. They came. I didn't

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01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:36,479
Speaker 1: see color TVs coming it came. I didn't see going

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01:24:36,560 --> 01:24:40,120
Speaker 1: to the moon it came. I didn't see a travel

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01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 1: for me it came. I didn't see travel in the world,

1356
01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:47,120
Speaker 1: but it came. I didn't see I didn't see us

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01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 1: having a first black president, but it came. I just

1358
01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 1: didn't see a whole lot of stuff. I didn't see

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01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 1: cars that could drive by themselves, but they are here now.

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01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 1: I didn't imagine FaceTime, that you could talk to somebody

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Speaker 1: and see the face while you talking to on your

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01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:06,719
Speaker 1: cell phone. I ain't even think cell phone is possible,

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01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:10,720
Speaker 1: but it came. It came because somebody saw it, somebody

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01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:15,479
Speaker 1: thought it, somebody imagined it. Everything that you imagine has

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01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:19,880
Speaker 1: possibilities attached to it. Because God places in your imagination

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01:25:20,680 --> 01:25:24,080
Speaker 1: exactly what's possible for you. It's up to you to

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Speaker 1: adhere to it, believe in it, ask him for it,

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Speaker 1: pray about it, work for it, write it down, and

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01:25:31,240 --> 01:25:34,640
Speaker 1: accomplish it. If you don't have what you want to

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01:25:34,760 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 1: have in life is because you have not, because you

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01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 1: asked not and you have not written it down. And

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Speaker 1: faith without works is dead. So if you ask for

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01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 1: it and you write it down and you put it

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01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:46,519
Speaker 1: in the hard work. God gonna give it to you.

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01:25:46,800 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 1: That's a promise of head. That ain't no theory I

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01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 1: come up with. That's God's promise. That's what I try

1377
01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 1: to be on the radio. That dude life there. That

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01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 1: somebody get a piece of information for me and it

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Speaker 1: mattered to them. Those are my closing remarks. She said,

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Speaker 1: Oh you got so from We'll see the mom. We'll

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