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Speaker 1: From Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Sarah, good morning, How are you doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm well, how are you guys doing?

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Speaker 2: Doing well? So your single friend keeps responding to your

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Speaker 2: husband's workouts through their Apple Watches.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so, like, you know, when you finish your workout,

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Speaker 3: if you're friends with people who also have the Apple

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Speaker 3: wash like to like the fitness app, they can see

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Speaker 3: that you finish and like those little automated responses will

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Speaker 3: come up and be like hey, like good job or

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Speaker 3: you know, just stuff to like kind of hype the

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Speaker 3: person up. Okay, every time he's yeah, every time he's

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Speaker 3: finishing a workout, she's sending him like, oh, like look

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Speaker 3: at you, you look great, like little fire emojis, and

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Speaker 3: it's like kind of coming off like kind.

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Speaker 2: Of flirty, and this is your friend.

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Speaker 3: Yes, this is like both of our one of our

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Speaker 3: single girlfriends that we met in college.

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Speaker 1: Does she do it to you when you finish workouts?

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Speaker 3: Really, he'll do it to me, and like he'll take

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Speaker 3: screenshots of it and like show me what she's saying.

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Speaker 3: And he says that it's harmless, but it's still just

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Speaker 3: it's still bothering me.

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Speaker 1: No, does she do it to you? Does she send

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Speaker 1: you good jobsge?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, No, she does not. She's only sending him messages.

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Speaker 2: And does she know? You know? I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Because we've never said anything to her about it, because

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Speaker 3: he keeps saying it's kind of pointless and harmless. But

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Speaker 3: a part of me wants to bring it up to her.

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Speaker 2: Well, listen, either she thinks that you're so comfortable with

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Speaker 2: her doing that that you wouldn't mind, or she's doing

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Speaker 2: this to fire you out, to wind you up.

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Speaker 1: The fact that she's not sending you messages makes me

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Speaker 1: question the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, if it's on your mind, it would

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Speaker 2: be on my mind too. I would definitely say, why

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Speaker 2: are you sending fire her emojis to my husband? And

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Speaker 2: she's gonna say, oh, I just was like, you know,

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Speaker 2: be nice. What do you say then? Don't be nice?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't need to be that nice looking good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's clearly gotten to you, and so to let

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Speaker 2: it fester would be a bad idea. You should bring

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Speaker 2: it up. It's not cool, as Disney said, if if

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Speaker 2: she's just doing it to him and not to you.

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Speaker 2: Then that's clearly her focus.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, there's something fishy there, but's fire.

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Speaker 2: Is flirting for sure, like you don't send Everybody knows

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Speaker 2: when you use fire, it's a flirt, right hot. You

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Speaker 2: don't use fire with your friends like I use fire.

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Speaker 4: To my girlfriends, but I would never use it to

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Speaker 4: another guy because you know.

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Speaker 2: The meaning fire. Everybody knows the meaning of fire, So

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Speaker 2: she knows what she's doing. Yep, you need to talk

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Speaker 2: to her, Sarah.

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Speaker 3: All right, I definitely will know after this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thanks for con I mean there are just certain

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Speaker 2: emojis you kind of know that they are flirty and

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Speaker 2: not to cross like mixed message them.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: What are some of the other ones? Bless you, Tanya,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much. Like the purple cat? What is

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Speaker 2: that one?

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Speaker 1: The purple cat? I mean, any of the kissy faces

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Speaker 1: of heart eyes anything, little heart flirty?

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Speaker 4: I use this all the time.

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Speaker 1: A heart eye one I probably would not send to

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Speaker 2: Heard high one you would not send to another guy.

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Speaker 4: That's one I've probably commented on your Instagram with like

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Speaker 4: hard eyes on stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't read that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm still doing it. If it fall tree falls

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Speaker 4: in the woods and nobody hears it. Does the tree still fall?

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Speaker 2: Yes, let me grab Rebecca who's on the line. Rebecca,

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Speaker 2: thank you for holding on there for five minutes. Sorry

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Speaker 2: about that. How are you pretty good?

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much?

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Speaker 6: Or actually, you know what, I'm not great because I'm

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Speaker 6: in a little bit of a dilemma. I'm hoping that

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Speaker 2: So you want some guidance here, what's the category?

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Speaker 6: Yes, okay, So basically what happened is one of my

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Speaker 6: friends asked me to be a bridesmaid, and I'm just

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Speaker 6: not too sure how I feel about it. We met

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Speaker 6: in touch, and she's really really sweet, like she'll always

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Speaker 6: come to birthdays and any like major events, like I

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Speaker 6: feel my boyfriend's surprise party and she came to that.

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Speaker 6: And she looks like an hour away in LA that's

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Speaker 6: like long distance. So she's always been really really sweet,

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Speaker 6: but I just I don't know for that close. And yeah,

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Speaker 6: I just think she's always been a better friend to

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Speaker 6: me than I've been to her. And she asked me

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Speaker 6: in a kind of an old way. She asked me

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Speaker 6: over text, and it's a destination wedding. So I just

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Speaker 6: I feel my boyfriend says, if it's not a hell yeah,

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Speaker 6: so no.

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Speaker 2: Well your boyfriend's right, I don't understand. So just so

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Speaker 2: I'm clear. Uh, this is the thing with weddings. They

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Speaker 2: get overly complicated and become uncomfortable. But if you're not

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Speaker 2: that close to this person, and clearly you're not that

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Speaker 2: interested in being there as a bridesmaid, then decline or

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Speaker 2: just and it's a destination. She's given you the out.

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Speaker 2: You can't make it. Oh but why would you always?

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Speaker 4: How do you tell somebody you can't make their wedding?

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Speaker 2: It's a destination.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it is can afford it, so.

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Speaker 3: We can't afford it.

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Speaker 6: That's the thing too. We just went to another destination

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Speaker 6: wedding recently.

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Speaker 2: So, Rebecca, why would you put yourself through pretending you

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Speaker 2: want to be there if you really don't want to

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Speaker 2: be there? Explain that to me.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 6: I think it's because she's always been such a good

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Speaker 6: friend At any like major events, she's always been there.

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Speaker 6: She always gives the sweetest gifts, So there's really nothing.

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Speaker 1: These are not.

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Speaker 4: Reason Wait, you guys know, listen, this is what a

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Speaker 4: beautiful person to have in your life.

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Speaker 6: That's thoughtful friend. I wish I loved her more, But

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Speaker 6: I don't know why I'm not thrilled. I think I

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Speaker 6: should be thrilled, but I'm just not really thrilled.

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Speaker 1: She's not your vibe.

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Speaker 2: Put her out of her nursery and let her stop

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Speaker 2: giving you nice gifts because you don't really like her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been in this situation. Would I didn't go

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Speaker 1: to her wedding, and then that was basically the end

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Speaker 2: And that's all that you want, Rebecca. All right, Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you called for advice here.

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Speaker 6: All right, Well, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Your boyfriend the right move. Here's what she's doing, a

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Speaker 2: disservice to that other, to the bride by pretending to

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Speaker 2: like her because she's been there for her and given

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Speaker 2: her good gifts. Put the bride out of her misery thing.

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Speaker 2: And she's got a friend in Rebecca. But you start

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Speaker 2: weddings are a disaster in different ways.

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Speaker 1: You start feeling it as you get older, because your

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Speaker 1: time becomes more precious, and so you don't want to

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Speaker 1: waste it on people that you don't like, that you

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Speaker 1: don't get along with. Tony, don't vibe with.

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Speaker 2: How many brides maids are you going to have?

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Speaker 4: You know, it's funny you ask it's funny.

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Speaker 2: That funny, it's actually appropriate.

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Speaker 4: No, I know because I've thought about it and I

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Speaker 4: feel like it'll probably be excuse me for for yeah,

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Speaker 4: probably four for yeah?

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Speaker 2: Perfect? How many people are coming to this wedding?

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know. I mean that's TBD.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's one step at a time here, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Guys, you know I'll see something to be you know,

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Speaker 2: it'd be really funny when I ask you about that tomorrow. Allie,

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Speaker 2: thank you for calling in. So you are a frustrated caller.

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Speaker 7: Very frustrated.

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Speaker 2: Did we do something wrong?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Was it us?

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Speaker 2: It probably was? Oh, Ali, do you see us on

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Speaker 2: a scale of one through ten? What number would you say?

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Speaker 2: We are.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely a ten?

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Speaker 4: Nice?

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Speaker 2: You see see ten? When you say that, I can't

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Speaker 2: believe it.

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Speaker 4: Now you should believe it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the problem. All right, Well, Ally you're so.

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Speaker 2: It says here you are frustrated with your mother in law.

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Speaker 2: Why what happened?

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm a new mom, and like a new mom,

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Speaker 7: I have a lot of frustrations. But I'm returning to work,

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Speaker 7: and I'm really thankful to live close to my mother

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Speaker 7: in law. She's only like ten minutes away, and so

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Speaker 7: the first couple of months she's been over a lot,

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Speaker 7: which has been great. So assumes when I went back

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Speaker 7: to work she would continue to help. She's retired, And

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Speaker 7: when I burshed the conversation, she said she didn't have

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Speaker 7: the time to commit. She couldn't help me watch the

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Speaker 7: baby during the day, which is very reasonable. She has

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Speaker 7: her own life, I understand. However, when I started work,

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Speaker 7: she kept coming over at random times during the week

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Speaker 7: to spend an hour here, an hour there. So she

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Speaker 7: has enough time to stop by unannounced and spend time

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Speaker 7: with my child, but doesn't have the time to commit

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Speaker 7: and watch her one day week for a couple of hours.

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Speaker 2: So this is your child's dad's mom. Correct, Yes, I

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Speaker 2: defer to you on this. Imagine that, you know it's

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Speaker 2: so tricky.

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Speaker 1: I think what she's trying to say is I don't

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Speaker 1: have the time to commit to a schedule, but because

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Speaker 1: I'm grandma, I can come over whenever I want, unannounced,

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Speaker 1: and that's just how it is. And I feel like

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Speaker 1: that is how it is.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what the problem is though. The root

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Speaker 4: of everything is expectation, your expectation for your mother in

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Speaker 4: law to babysit, and maybe you release those expectations and

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Speaker 4: then you'll be pleasantly surprised with how much she's around.

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Speaker 4: What do you have right?

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Speaker 1: Do you have a nanny or do daycare? How are

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Speaker 1: you doing childcare right now?

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Speaker 7: I have it nanny. I have a full time nanny,

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Speaker 7: which has been great, and we you know, signed her

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Speaker 7: up and started working with her because my mother in

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Speaker 7: law said she didn't have the time. So I completely

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Speaker 7: understood her initial reasoning. But then when she comes over,

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Speaker 7: you know, for a couple of hours in the afternoon,

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Speaker 7: and then nanny has to accommodate her, that feels a

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Speaker 7: little frustrating to me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with Ali. I would have a little resentment

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Speaker 2: with that too myself. I don't release expectation.

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Speaker 1: How long has this been going on now?

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Speaker 7: Just for like four or five months?

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Speaker 1: Oh, four or five months? Okay, okay, So now that

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Speaker 1: it's been four or five months, I think it's time

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Speaker 1: to maybe have another conversation with your mother in law.

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Speaker 1: And it's simple. I think you can say, we've you know,

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Speaker 1: noticed that you come over a lot, which we love.

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Speaker 2: Clean up the cub and the cinnamon, clean up the tarragon.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, okay, blinked on you.

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Speaker 2: The headlines with Ruby Gonzales right.

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Speaker 2: On there with Ryan Seacrest stuffing on TikTok? What is

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Speaker 4: Like one envelope on a Monday and you'd say, okay,

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Speaker 10: We went out to eat.

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Speaker 11: I was like, okay, I love this because we did

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Speaker 2: Because see that's how I like to date, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if it keeps going, you know it's going well.

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Speaker 10: I think so?

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Speaker 2: Four or five days at a time about this time. Indeed,

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Speaker 11: I just don't know when that's exciting? To tell me

443
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Speaker 11: he is?

444
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:16,600
Speaker 2: How exciting is it that she was like reluctant a

445
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,280
Speaker 2: few weeks ago and now she's on this three mil

446
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,679
Speaker 2: date with of the Menu movie and wanting to go

447
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:24,359
Speaker 2: out again. I don't want to ask what happened, but

448
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 2: Sistney does. What happened?

449
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 1: Well, what do you mean like afterwards you guys kiss?

450
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 10: We didn't kiss.

451
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:30,919
Speaker 2: You didn't know.

452
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:33,199
Speaker 11: So I've already been to his house like a lot

453
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 11: of times because men, jew I was friends with him,

454
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 11: like I've been friends with This is not a big step.

455
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 10: Yeah exactly, so open house. Yeah, we didn't care.

456
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:41,840
Speaker 1: We'll pump the bricks.

457
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:42,240
Speaker 2: Yes.

458
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Speaker 1: Are we friend zoned right now?

459
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: No? Not with that many different things in a day,

460
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Speaker 2: you sure on a date?

461
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 4: It's like it was do we think do we know

462
00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:53,880
Speaker 4: for sure? This was a date? Yeah?

463
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Speaker 1: Okay, he said?

464
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 4: She glowed up wants to take her out.

465
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Speaker 11: He's also I don't know if I'm messed up, because

466
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 11: when I was leaving, I told him, all right, my friend,

467
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 11: the worst.

468
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 2: Thing you could say. I mean, that's like saying, oh

469
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 2: your bad breath, I'm not going to kiss you.

470
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,120
Speaker 10: I didn't mean to say that.

471
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,119
Speaker 2: I come out.

472
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 10: I think that he actually wanted to kiss me.

473
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Speaker 2: But I kind of just got shin when you say,

474
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 2: hey buddy, hey pal, thanks for the day, appreciate the

475
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 2: three meals and that great psycho thriller menu movie. All right, well,

476
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 2: here's the thing. We've all put our foot in our

477
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,640
Speaker 2: mouth and said the dumb thing in the end. We've

478
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,160
Speaker 2: all been in that moment where you say and you cringe. Right, yeah,

479
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 2: so is he asked you out again?

480
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 11: We've been talking, but he hasn't yet. He's we've talked about, like, why.

481
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,439
Speaker 2: Don't you say, let's go do something.

482
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Speaker 4: You know, I have the future, like the future, you

483
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 4: know what you can do on the next one that

484
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 4: can like really help bring it back. You can look

485
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 4: at his lips, you know, like look at them and

486
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: be like, what chaps to.

487
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: The back room is just they've all fallen.

488
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 4: Make a point to look at his lips and like

489
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 4: comment on them something.

490
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: Look at how she's not blinking and looking at her lips.

491
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 2: That would make me definitely put him in the friend zone.

492
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 2: I put you in the friend zone a second. No,

493
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 2: will keep us posted. I liked it. There's some goodness

494
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 2: here and you should definitely like make it easy for

495
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: him to take you out again.

496
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, I should. All right, Okay, I'll keep you

497
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:24,119
Speaker 10: guys updating.

498
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 2: That to look at his lips and don't blink. You

499
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: can say that. I know, I'm just I'm talking to

500
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 2: you about Tanya. I think i'd be freaked out.

501
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 4: No, what kind of chaptic is out? Your lips look great?

502
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 2: No blink, no blink, no blink. I love hearing about

503
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 2: all the dating trials and tribulations of the back room

504
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 2: Air on Air.

505
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: With Ryan Seacrest.

506
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: This is your boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend. Robbie's on

507
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 2: the line.

508
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: Are you going to grill him?

509
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 2: Grill? Please? No grill anybody?

510
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 9: You up girl, anybody get grilled.

511
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 1: You grow everybody.

512
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 2: No, there's no grilling at all. Robbie. How are you?

513
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: I miss you? I'm not seeing any I know.

514
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 12: It's been too well. First of all, thank you so

515
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 12: much for the beautiful wine for the holidays. That was

516
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 12: really nice. You can't wait to u to crack that open?

517
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 2: Have you not had to yet?

518
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 4: No, we're saving it for Yeah, oh.

519
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 2: Great, it's uh, it's biodynamic cabernet. You're gonna love it.

520
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 12: Well, No, we had it. We had it at our

521
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 12: dinner and we loved it, and so we're excited to

522
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:34,640
Speaker 12: have it again.

523
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,120
Speaker 2: I served it to you at the house.

524
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 4: That's right listening.

525
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 2: So, Robbie, I know your age, I should say, I

526
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:45,159
Speaker 2: know how much wisdom you carry. And I felt like,

527
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 2: you know when when you're when you're a man with

528
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: your wisdom who's been on the planet and seen so much,

529
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 2: you're kind of set in certain ways with certain ceremonies.

530
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: And Tanya told me that the two of you have

531
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: decided to quit coffee. And the reason the reason I

532
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 2: bring it up is because Sissy and I are bothered

533
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 2: by it, because she's a little edgy.

534
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have to, you know, we have to deal

535
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: with all of the side effects and her withdrawals of

536
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 1: her not having coffee in the morning. And she's snapping

537
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: at us.

538
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: Like kind of mad at us if we don't agree,

539
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: And so.

540
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 12: What does she do. She's being she's being snappy.

541
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's snappy, like she yelled at me the other day,

542
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: and then she like takes everything out on us. And

543
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: I think by the time she gets home to you,

544
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,119
Speaker 1: she's probably had time to like calm down. Yeah, I

545
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 1: get it all out and then she's perfect for you.

546
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 1: But like we get this like.

547
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 4: Raw, Tanya.

548
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 12: No, it doesn't sound like her.

549
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,200
Speaker 2: No, that's the point. It doesn't sound like her, which

550
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 2: is why we know something changed. Then she said, funny,

551
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 2: you asked Robbie and I both quit coffee.

552
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 12: No we haven't. We haven't quit yet. It's uh, it's

553
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 12: currently under discussion. So here's what happens. I get a

554
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 12: little background.

555
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 2: Here, please, all right.

556
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 12: So, uh, we were in bed the other night looking

557
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 12: at childhood photos of Ryan on her phone and.

558
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 6: Kid.

559
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 12: All right, So first of all, first of all, this

560
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 12: cop this our mostning coffee is one of our time

561
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 12: in my greatest joint in life. Okay, So like whether

562
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 12: we make it at home, you know, we have a

563
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 12: great coffee machine. She makes the most amazing all the

564
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 12: note going to go to our favorite coffee shop. It's

565
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 12: truly one of our greatest joys. So she comes to

566
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 12: me the other day a couple of days ago, and

567
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 12: she says, I'm meaning off of coffee. And I was shocked.

568
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 12: I didn't understand what was going on, and said, what

569
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 12: we know why? And so there's another thing, which I

570
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 12: think you guys know. So she she was recently diagnosed

571
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 12: as Hashimoto's disease, and so as a result of that,

572
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 12: we're trying to do everything anti inflammatory. Right, so like

573
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 12: anything that we eat, it's supposed to be an anti

574
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 12: inflammatory diet, et cetera, et cetera. So she said, she

575
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 12: aims to me that coffee is inflammatory. Now clean she

576
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 12: like declared, she declares it.

577
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 5: She knew that.

578
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 12: She was like, coffee is inflammatory, so we got to

579
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 12: cut it out. So I was shocked because I actually

580
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 12: had heard that coffee is antime planatory. But she said

581
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 12: some times like okay, well with the inflammatory, I'm out.

582
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 12: Let's go. We're getting out. Let's get into the macha game.

583
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 12: We like, we like went online. We found like this

584
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 12: beautiful ten piece macha set. It's coming today. We bought

585
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 12: this amazing ceremonial lacha like we're going to become macha people.

586
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 12: But then yesterday I was like wait, let me get

587
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 12: like google this, let me see, let me see if

588
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 12: this coffee thing, this anti exlammatory thing, and the pilimacty

589
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 12: thing is really the case. So I googled it yesterday

590
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 12: and every article is about how coffee is actually anti inflammatory.

591
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 12: So I sent her all yeah, yeah, so I sent

592
00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 12: her all these links and now it's deeply under discussion,

593
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 12: so no decision has been made yet.

594
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: Great, where did this misinformation come from? Doney that all

595
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 2: this sudden you don't trust everything they say because you're

596
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 2: and I'm worried for you, Robbie, you don't want to

597
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 2: quit coffee at this time in life.

598
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 12: No, no, agree, it's too late for me.

599
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 5: That's just exactly.

600
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: That's like, I mean, that's a that's a big deal.

601
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: So tunny. If if he's right in his research, and

602
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: I trust it that it is anti inflammatory, why wouldn't

603
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 2: you start back up for all of us, for the

604
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: love of the Lord, Yeah.

605
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 4: We yeah, we're back on. We're discussing were we to discuss?

606
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 2: You're supposed to be anti flammatory? Done?

607
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 8: Done?

608
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 4: But what did this girl mean? This guru girl.

609
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: What did it mean?

610
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 12: Just right now? Yeah?

611
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 6: What?

612
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 12: What?

613
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 5: What?

614
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 12: What do you know about it being inflammatory.

615
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 4: All I know is this woman looks like she's twelve,

616
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 4: and she doesn't drink coffee alcohol, and she goes about

617
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 4: at eight thirty.

618
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: All right, Robbie, Well, thank you for the back on.

619
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 2: Con Text is always important.

620
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and research, good research, well done.

621
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 12: Yeah, anytime. I'll keep you guys up there.

622
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: Enjoy the Macha ceremony, sayd, I wouldn't give it up

623
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: showing me all.

624
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 4: These articles about how it's anti inflammatory.

625
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 2: Share some mornings with Macha and share some other mornings.

626
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 4: With okay, in moderation. Moderation might be the key, because

627
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 4: I drink like three cups a day.

628
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so maybe just cut back.

629
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 2: I like that. Robbie's on board. He accepted your misinformation

630
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 2: and decided to order a ten piece ceremonial matcha kid.

631
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 2: I mean, this guy's invested. Oh so next week will

632
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 2: be easier for us listening here.

633
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: Lifts the gods.

634
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 2: I have the bat line to Robbie. I'll make sure

635
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: there's some coffee in that.

636
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: Woe.

637
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 4: Not been snappy on air with Ryan Seacret.

638
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: So. I was actually out with Georgia the other day

639
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: and I saw other dogs and I started thinking, I wonder,

640
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: because what happens if I let George off the leash

641
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 2: and there's another dog. Sometimes the other dog's parent throws

642
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 2: the ball yeah to both my dog that we don't

643
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 2: know and their dog.

644
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: Yes.

645
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 2: And I always feel like, Okay, I get a break

646
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 2: from throwing the ball. But then after the ball has

647
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: been thrown, I go thank the person right, and then

648
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 2: I start I walk away, and I think should have

649
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 2: gotten their number, because maybe Georgia and that dog should

650
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: be out here more often playing balls.

651
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like they should have a relationship, like Georgia

652
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: should have friends.

653
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: Georgie has sat me down before and give me the look.

654
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: But this is a so is it a dating app?

655
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: So that dogs can find dogs that are similar and

656
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: play with them.

657
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: It's essentially socializing for both pets and their owners. So yeah,

658
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: but I don't know if it's for everybody. I I

659
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: personally don't know that I could do it. So if

660
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: you go on the app Store and you search for

661
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: this app, it's literally called Doggie. It's like Doggy huge,

662
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: but then underneath it really small. It's a style, So

663
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: the app is called Doggy Style.

664
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Speaker 4: Uh huh cute?

665
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Speaker 2: I mean I see the back room laughing at that.

666
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 4: It's a plan where.

667
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: I was reading this article and it says like millennials

668
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: are more likely to have a pet now and save

669
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: getting married and buying a home and raising a family

670
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: and having kids and all that. And it's like I

671
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: did it, Like I had to code it for six

672
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: years before I did any of that stuff. And so

673
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: I feel like, and it's just like having a dog

674
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 1: is like the first step before you do any of

675
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:39,479
Speaker 1: that stuff.

676
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: I think people.

677
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: I think so too, and especially in some towns and

678
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: some cities that don't have dog parks or maybe they

679
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: don't have dog beaches and things like that. So this

680
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: bills you a little community. So you go on this

681
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: app and then you essentially swipe for another dog and

682
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 1: and then you match and then you meet up. It's

683
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: kind of weird.

684
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: It's like dog dating, but it's human dating.

685
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 4: No, it's for dogs, but it's for.

686
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: Dogs like humans that have to make this.

687
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: It could be like me and Tanya, Like I'm not

688
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: interested in Tanya. It would be like I would be

689
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: interested in her dogs for Dakota, No, I.

690
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 4: Know, I don't like this because all of Suddy's friends

691
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 4: are like far away and I can never let them together.

692
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: A picture of Sonny and then you say that's a

693
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: mass Yeah, that'd be a match for Dakota, and I'd

694
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I really think they would get along,

695
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: and so we lets meet at a park.

696
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 4: I love it.

697
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: It's so cute. It's like, what are we doing?

698
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: There's a famous makeup artist that's used everything that you

699
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 2: have in your makeup bag and she's she's reorganized the

700
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 2: order of application and it's become a hot thing. Is

701
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 2: that as close to correct as I can go?

702
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 4: Yes? And not just like the hot thing it is,

703
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 4: it is the thing, like it is the thing right now.

704
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 4: You can't I can't scroll for more than five minutes

705
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 4: without somebody talk about the Mary Phillips makeup technique trend and.

706
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 2: This is how it takes off, right, They see it,

707
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 2: post it, and then everybody starts to do it.

708
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 4: Yes, And also other celebrity makeup artists are using her

709
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 4: strategy now and saying how much more flawless the application

710
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 4: is because basically, so Mary Phillips does everybody from like

711
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 4: Hailey Bieber, Kendall Jenner, She's Jennifer Lopez. She really has

712
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 4: this way of kind of making the makeup look less.

713
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 4: Like you know, there's like lines you can always see

714
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 4: sometimes people when they put bronzer on, they have like

715
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 4: lines and stuff that they don't blend well. This is

716
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 4: like the key to making it blend well. So basically

717
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 4: what she does is she uses liquid for this stuff.

718
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 4: So she puts on her liquid bronzer and the like

719
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 4: the concealer, right, she puts that on first, and then

720
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 4: she takes like a big brush to put on the

721
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 4: foundation and she just kind of smooths it all together.

722
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 4: Normally you do that in reverse, so she does it

723
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 4: the opposite way, and it just makes everything blend in

724
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 4: more and there's not any harsh lines, and it helps

725
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 4: you just look totally snatched, like Hailey Bieber and Kendel Jenner.

726
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,959
Speaker 4: Like I literally just be like I'm more snatched than

727
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 4: ever these days.

728
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: Snatched.

729
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like my face just looks snatched.

730
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 2: Can that is that?

731
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: That's good?

732
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 4: Yes? You want to look snapnatched? Yeah, Like some like.

733
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 2: There was a time in the time of time that

734
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 2: snatched was not a good thing.

735
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 4: I thought, oh no, snatched is good now, and it's

736
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 4: you want to look snatched.

737
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 8: M.

738
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 5: All right.

739
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: So if you were to put on what's that makeup

740
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: trend where you put your eye pencil to the side

741
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 2: and make your eyes.

742
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 4: Can I oh, like the flare, isn't that?

743
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: Wasn't that the trend to flare? The eye flare? Wasn't

744
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: that the trend?

745
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 12: Yeah?

746
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 2: Is that still the trend? Snatched?

747
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: But that's different. That's that's like your eye makeup versus

748
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: their found So you could.

749
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 2: Do you could snatch both.

750
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 4: You can do you can you can do it all.

751
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 4: And I'm not one to hop on any makeup trends

752
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 4: because I really just kind of do the same thing

753
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 4: every day and don't really change it up. But this

754
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 4: one felt like easy enough, and it was really easy,

755
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 4: and it makes such difference on my face.

756
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 2: I just I don't want you to set me up familiar.

757
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 2: But if I say, if I like you complimented us earlier,

758
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: if I were to say to somebody in my life,

759
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 2: you look snatched, they're gonna say thank you.

760
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 4: Thank you, Yeah, thank you so much.

761
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: Give it a try this weekend.

762
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So Urban dictionary Snatched takes the place

763
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 2: of on fleek. It's the new on fleek snatch. Right examples, Girl,

764
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:34,280
Speaker 2: your outfit is snatched, Your makeup snatched? Your makeup snatched? Honey? Yeah,

765
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 2: another one in a sentence. They just hated because I'm

766
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 2: always snatched. I don't know if I could say that, like.

767
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 4: Look, this is my face, look snatched.

768
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: It's like, let's see, let's see if it works.

769
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, who are you calling your mom?

770
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: No, I'm not calling my mother. We'll see if anybody

771
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 2: picks up. Hello, Hey, you look snatched. Yeah, you know

772
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 2: what that means.

773
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 8: I do know what that means.

774
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 2: Zach is on the phone here for a second, Zach,

775
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 2: how are you hi?

776
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 12: Good?

777
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 8: How are you good?

778
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: So you're calling about your relationship.

779
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 8: Yeah. So my fiance, who we got engaged this past summer,

780
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 8: she doesn't seem interested in planning our wedding together, and

781
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,919
Speaker 8: I'm just starting to get really nervous. It's coming up. Yeah,

782
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 8: it's coming up in June, and it's going to be

783
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 8: like a low key wedding like our We picked a

784
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 8: small venue. The only thing is we have to pick

785
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 8: all like the vendors, like the caterer, florist and whatever.

786
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 8: Anytime I try to sit down with her to book

787
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 8: things and plan out what we want to do, she

788
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 8: keeps avoiding me and saying she's busy.

789
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 2: So you're nervous. Do you think she thinks that this

790
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 2: is not a good idea to get married?

791
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of.

792
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: So you think she's blowing you off because she doesn't

793
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 2: want this to happen, that's what you think?

794
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

795
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 12: Yeah?

796
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: Does she have her dressed? Has she planned bachelorette parties?

797
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: Like is bridal showers? Has that happened?

798
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 8: She has her dress, her bachelorette party soon, the showers

799
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 8: also soon. It's just the actual details of the weddings

800
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 8: she keeps avoiding.

801
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: Okay, this could be a weird coincidence.

802
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So I think that in life there are certain

803
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 2: things that present themselves where you have to have the hey,

804
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 2: what's going on here? Conversation? True, and this is one

805
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: of them. I mean it's it starts with, Hey, what's

806
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 2: really going on here? That's what it's doing. Yeah, no,

807
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 2: you haven't been paying attention. The wedding's coming. Were in

808
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 2: this together. We're partners for life, right, right, So what's

809
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: really going on here? Those are the words you should use.

810
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: That's how you set the tone to get an honest answer.

811
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm telling you what Zach why do you what are

812
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: you truly feeling deep down?

813
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 7: Zach?

814
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 1: Do you really feel like she's having cold feet?

815
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of. I mean when I

816
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 8: proposed last summer.

817
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 12: Like she was excited.

818
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 8: We've talked about getting married. We've been together for five years,

819
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 8: so like what this kind of like turnabout is very

820
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 8: alarming for me.

821
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: Zach. You should not waste another second on the phone

822
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: with us. You need to find your fiance and have

823
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: the hey, what's really going on here? Conversation?

824
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 4: What if she's just not like a planner and she's.

825
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: Then she's going to answer that when he asked that question,

826
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 2: you can't dodge that question, what's really going on here?

827
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 5: Yeah?

828
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: This really stresses me out. I'm not good with this stuff.

829
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 2: You just pick or or she'll say, look, I gotta

830
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: tell you I'm having cold feet, or I got to

831
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:59,240
Speaker 2: tell you I'm nervous, or I gotta tell you I'm double.

832
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 2: You know, I'm overthinking it, but you gotta have that

833
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 2: conversations act now.

834
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: Zach, he's thinking this is a lot.

835
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: Oh, Zach, I think he's gone. You know there are

836
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:21,479
Speaker 2: those you know in life, what's really going on here? Yeah?

837
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: I mean, it's strange. I couldn't have planned my wedding faster.

838
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 2: Like you ever felt like you've been played by someone

839
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 2: played like in business, yeah, in your work, in your job,

840
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,959
Speaker 2: in relationships. Right, it's like, what's really going on here?

841
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: You gotta say that it's hard, it's hard to do,

842
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 2: but you gotta do it right.

843
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

844
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: I got a bad feeling about that. FYI, I don't great. Good.

845
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 2: I hope you're right.

846
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 4: Decisions like, I don't know, some people don't like doing that.

847
00:38:58,960 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: Planning wedding.

848
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like the decision yeah, right, Like I

849
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 4: feel like you'd be there. You would react the same way,

850
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 4: not that you don't want to get married, but thinking

851
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 4: about it.

852
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 2: If I were, If I were, if I were doing that,

853
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 2: then I would be way into the planning. You know

854
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 2: that I'd be so obsessed with the planning. But the

855
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 2: planning would be very easy because it would be just

856
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 2: no one a little except for us. If you have

857
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: kids in school and they've had homework assignments, please feel

858
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 2: free to call us to help us with the answers.

859
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 2: It's one o two point seven kiss FM. You know

860
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 2: it's interesting you bring this up because I have thought

861
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 2: about two things if I ever have kids, one sport,

862
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 2: teaching them how to play baseball, like I'm not a

863
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: great catcher, Like I like I like outdoor activity, and

864
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 2: I like tennis, and I like running, and I like hiking,

865
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 2: and I like climbing, and I like swimming. I like

866
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: those things.

867
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,320
Speaker 4: Climbing when the last time you climb, I've.

868
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 2: Never really climbed, but I like it, Okay, Like rock climbing. Yeah,

869
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: I see that machine in the gym. I've never done it,

870
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: but I could do it. Yeah, but I think you know,

871
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 2: I was fine at football, was great at all at

872
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,919
Speaker 2: basketball or baseball. But what if I had a kid

873
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: that wanted to go out and play basketball all the time.

874
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,399
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be so good at So I worry about it.

875
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: And then I also though, but there's instructors for that,

876
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: the instructor. Okay, then be the instructor.

877
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: But I won't be so good. So I worry about that.

878
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 2: And I also worry about the fact that I didn't

879
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 2: finish college. So some of the questions they are going

880
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 2: to come to me with as kids in high school

881
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 2: or junior high school or elementary school, I may not

882
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 2: remember how to do or know how to do.

883
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 1: That is going to be tricky?

884
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 2: Is that what you're doing?

885
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 5: Now?

886
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: No, right now, this is kind of fun, but it's

887
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: more tedious. It's kind of time consuming.

888
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: Well, you're gonna have three of them coming to you

889
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: first and right now, old math. Yeah, it's two out

890
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 2: the gates, algebra, all that stuff. So this is what's happening.

891
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: Homework assignment is one hundred days Smarter And it said

892
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 1: it's our one hundred day of school and it's coming up.

893
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: And basically they have to make a poster with one

894
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: hundred things on the poster. Z. I would like for

895
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: each student to create a poster board using one hundred

896
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 1: items to share with the class. It can be any

897
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 1: theme that you would like. And they put some examples

898
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: on this sheet of something looks like a fish bowl

899
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: with a hundred little fish on there. This other poster

900
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: looks like it has I don't know, it looks like

901
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 1: a hot air balloon that has a hundred little balloons.

902
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 1: When's a basketball hoop? And I was going to pick

903
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: your guys's brains and think, well.

904
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,280
Speaker 2: Hold on, let me talk about this extras for a second.

905
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 2: All teachers are fantastic and they're you know, they're amazing.

906
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 2: But doesn't this teacher know that this is an assignment

907
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 2: for you? Like this is not I mean I'm looking

908
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 2: at this is First of all, I don't know if

909
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 2: i'd understand the assignment myself as an adult.

910
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 4: Well, no, it's easy to understand, but like you can't

911
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 4: execute that as a child.

912
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 2: No, that means you have got to go get gumballs

913
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 2: and a poster board and some glue and put a

914
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 2: hundred little gumballs on a poster board.

915
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: That's if I choose to do that exact thing, which

916
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to do. These thing these are just example,

917
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 1: and these are the examples.

918
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:55,439
Speaker 2: So I have to say, the pressure on the parrot

919
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,760
Speaker 2: is real, right, So you have to be creative.

920
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: And so you have to try to make it kind

921
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: of you know, Asa loves you unicorns, so what would

922
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: it be something maybe around unicorns? What do I do?

923
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: Max and likes dinosaurs and so I don't know. And

924
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: I also try to make it easy, but I don't

925
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: want to make it too easy. And it's just I

926
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:10,240
Speaker 1: don't think it involved.

927
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,240
Speaker 2: Could we also have just celebrated the twenty days of summer?

928
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: Why the one?

929
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 1: And then it's a step Further, once supposers are done,

930
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,959
Speaker 1: I have to dress them up like they're one hundred

931
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: years old, so they have to they have to look

932
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: like old people.

933
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 2: I think when the parents have to do the homework,

934
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,360
Speaker 2: the kids shouldn't have the homework yet, right Like, it.

935
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 4: Could be good, It would be cute if it was

936
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 4: if they actually had to do it and they had

937
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 4: to draw like a hundred gumballs or a hundred leaves.

938
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 4: But no, nobody's doing that, and it's always just gonna

939
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 4: it looks like adults did it, And I know I

940
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 4: think so too.

941
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: Right now, they have homework like every other night, which

942
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 1: they're practicing their letters and all that. I don't help

943
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: them with that. They do that on their own. That's

944
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 1: real homework.

945
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: This is a Science Fair project, if we're really being honest,

946
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 2: is from the kids. He's one of the hundred things

947
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 2: supposed to be a different thing.

948
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: I think I will that's stage.

949
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 2: You have to like it's every gumbuf to represent a

950
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 2: different idea or thought.

951
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 1: That's a good question for every.

952
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 2: Day that they're smarter on hundred days are smarter?

953
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,240
Speaker 1: I think that just has to be a hundred items

954
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: on the poster. So I don't think they have to

955
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 1: be the same items.

956
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,839
Speaker 2: Can you transfer the kids, yeah, can transfer them.

957
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: No, Well, you got to finish up the year, all right.

958
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 2: So what about a dinosaur. I'm many teeth they have

959
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,240
Speaker 2: in the mouth, not a hundred?

960
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 4: Well you do whatever this in the middle and then

961
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 4: like a hundred leaves around him or something.

962
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a good idea.

963
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 2: No, make a dinosaur mouth one hundred teeth, fifteen fifty,

964
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 2: make a big mouth.

965
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 10: No, I'd like that idea too.

966
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 4: Then you can do a unicorn in the middle and

967
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 4: then a hundred clouds around her.

968
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 2: I think dinosaur teeth are easier.

969
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: I do like the teeth idea.

970
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: I'm going to use that one day maybe, so circulate

971
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 2: it now so it's not a real.

972
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: I'll pitch that to Maxim and see if he likes.

973
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: I'm with you, though, like these things are like, hey, Michael,

974
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: so much for well if it were last Friday, right

975
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:00,760
Speaker 2: when they come.

976
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:05,479
Speaker 1: In now, I don't know when this case anniversary to see,

977
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 1: like what when these messages come in? I just happen

978
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 1: to stumble upon this. I was like, oh my god, this.

979
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: Is due Sisney's got this three times, not one, but

980
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 2: three times. You're gonna have to do. It's fun, all right, Well,

981
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: it's fun now that we've heard it out, now that

982
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 2: we've gotten off our chest.

983
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 7: It's fun.

984
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

985
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 2: I just want to grab Frank here as they move

986
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 2: my concessions around. Yeah, glass bottle of tea, which is

987
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 2: I'm thank you for asking. It's penalty and it's cool, fenalty,

988
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 2: not hot.

989
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: That's refreshing.

990
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 2: I had enough coffee already, so I'm shifting. And also

991
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,720
Speaker 2: when people ask you, hey, how many cups of coffee

992
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 2: do you have? Do you lie no?

993
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: Because it's usually zero or one, okay, every day.

994
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 2: I think people probably say one lesson they actually have

995
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 2: every day because people ask me how many cups coffee

996
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,799
Speaker 2: do you have? And I say two? And they say

997
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 2: what time you stop drinking? And I say, I tell

998
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 2: the truth.

999
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 4: There you see none.

1000
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: No, I stopped mid morning, eight eight thirty I stopped.

1001
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: And then I see Michael can have coffee at like

1002
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: ten pm n And I actually.

1003
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 2: Have a little resentment for those people because I want

1004
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 2: to have coffee at the end of the day or

1005
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 2: late in the afternoon, but then I can't sleep.

1006
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no way if it's past eleven for me,

1007
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 1: I'm messed up, Frank.

1008
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:25,240
Speaker 2: I apologize for you having to hear this kitchen chat. Okay,

1009
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 2: are you a coffee drinker?

1010
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 6: Frank?

1011
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 5: I'm actually not a coffee drinker. I just distressed Martinez.

1012
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 2: But those are halfway fun exactly, all right. So there's

1013
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 2: an issue with your ex girlfriend. How can we help?

1014
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I need to know the balls in my

1015
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 5: court here. Son's girlfriend and I broke up about a

1016
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 5: year ago, just at different stages than our lives. It

1017
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 5: is amicable. We have mutual friends, but we don't followed

1018
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,439
Speaker 5: on social media and all that. But the other day

1019
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 5: she added me as a friend on Snapchat. This is

1020
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 5: about you know, I said about a year and talked

1021
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 5: Tom got on Instagram and added me to the close

1022
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 5: friends story, which, look, I know that sounds kind of lame,

1023
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 5: but that means something, right. Yeah, So anyway, I mean,

1024
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 5: it seems a little odd for not to just text

1025
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 5: me or or call, but to read on social and

1026
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 5: I don't want to read too much into it, or

1027
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 5: it seemed desperate, but I'm kind of curious, is it

1028
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 5: is the ball in my court to reach over say.

1029
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 2: Something or yeah, this is a this is a street

1030
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: sign here, saying all right, our green light. This is

1031
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:35,399
Speaker 2: definitely a blatant move to symbolize the fact that there

1032
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: is an open door to something. I don't know if

1033
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 2: it's friendship or patching up what happened. But you don't

1034
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:47,800
Speaker 2: just READD assuming you won't see it. You do READD

1035
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 2: knowing you will see that and then expecting you to

1036
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 2: reach out exactly. So I think this is a blatant

1037
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 2: and strategic move It get you to reach out.

1038
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're probably right what you want. I'm a proponent

1039
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 5: of not getting back with XES, because what's that definition

1040
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 5: of that? That's saying doing the same thing over and

1041
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 5: over and expecting a different result.

1042
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 2: But Frank, nobody, nobody points follows through with not getting

1043
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 2: back together with the next a couple of times, it

1044
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 2: just doesn't happen.

1045
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 3: You know.

1046
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 2: Everybody whoever says that's not telling the truth either, right,

1047
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: get you end up going back a couple of times,

1048
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 2: either works out or doesn't.

1049
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,919
Speaker 1: It's so funny you do that.

1050
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not reality for everybody.

1051
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's totally reality for you.

1052
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 8: For you.

1053
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:39,839
Speaker 2: Okay, let's not point the fore fingers everywhere, that's okay, Frank, Yeah,

1054
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 2: I think here's the thing. She wants you to see it,

1055
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 2: or she wouldn't have added you as a close friend. Now,

1056
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,439
Speaker 2: I think you have a complete opportunity here to reach

1057
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 2: out and say hi, if you want, if.

1058
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: You want that exactly. That is the key right there.

1059
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: It's whatever you want, the balls in your court.

1060
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 2: Like you said, Frank, all right, I'll do it all right,

1061
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: good luck, Frank. Than have you guys never gotten back

1062
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: together with an ex?

1063
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 7: Yes?

1064
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 2: One time, Sisney once, Tanya.

1065
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 4: Once and it really was high.

1066
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 2: Really yes? Why just done that?

1067
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: Door shut?

1068
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 2: Move on because you guys have like bad things happen.

1069
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: No, like what bad things always like?

1070
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: Don't like your exes afterwards?

1071
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: No, we just move on, like I'm usually the one

1072
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,399
Speaker 1: that breaks up with them, so I already know.

1073
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: The fact I don't like them, like you always say

1074
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 2: that you don't want to be friends with.

1075
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 1: Them, like I'm done before they knew it was over.

1076
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 2: So you just played it long like a charade for

1077
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 2: a while.

1078
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:42,959
Speaker 1: Probably most likely probably I can't remember it was so long.

1079
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 2: That what day of the week or what reason did

1080
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 2: you decide then to just cut it off? Like if

1081
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 2: you're waiting so long?

1082
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: These were early relationships this is we're talking like high

1083
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: school on or early college days.

1084
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,919
Speaker 2: I mean, but I always, I always think that these

1085
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 2: early relationships are the relationships that sort of set the

1086
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 2: tone for how you're going to be later.

1087
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you I got my heart broken later,

1088
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: so I got it back once.

1089
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 4: That that's something you should put on your resume.

1090
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 2: Honestly, is that we need? You know? We don't, But

1091
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 2: like once is golden?

1092
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: Once was enough and then I met Michael right after first.

1093
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 2: Once is enough, but most of us don't just get

1094
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 2: once totally totally. Once was enough. That was Yeah, like

1095
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,720
Speaker 2: the three and four times not so fun?

1096
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 5: Is it?

1097
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 2: Gosh? Times that heart and shadow of there under your

1098
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 2: g I Joe sweatshirt once, I think.

1099
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 4: Everybody here.

1100
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: But no, it's not about bragging. I just think that

1101
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: I hold more of a guard.

1102
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 4: Up, like you know, like that's actually interesting, So.

1103
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Speaker 1: I didn't allow myself to fall that hard the previous man, like.

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Speaker 4: You hold your heart in like a cage, and I

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Speaker 4: put mine on a poo poo platter.

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Speaker 2: You don't know what poo poo platter is, doesn't know.

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Speaker 4: In my mind, I'm imagining it like on a tray,

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Speaker 4: like just going like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine. It's to say like an appetizer.

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Speaker 4: So this is actually interesting point. We might want to

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Speaker 4: put a pin in this.

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Speaker 2: And what we always put a pin in and your

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Speaker 2: job is to bring the pins back up, but you

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Speaker 2: always to get the pins.

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Speaker 4: So put it because maybe she's got she's got the

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Speaker 4: right way to like protect our hearts a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Well, then put a pin in it and bring it

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Speaker 2: back up later.

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Speaker 1: Okay, on air On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: So tomorrow, your morning hack has to do with, you know,

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Speaker 2: we eat because we're hungry or we're stressed or bored.

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Speaker 2: A test to tell if you're really hungry. It's six

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Speaker 2: fifty five. I'll tell you about that got a Ryan's

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Speaker 2: roses kiss that f them. Thanks for listening to On

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Speaker 2: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe and we'll

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Speaker 2: talk to you again tomorrow