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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Is This Good, The show where

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Speaker 1: we boldly, conclusively and scientifically decide what things in this

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Speaker 1: big wide world are good. I'm Matt Austin and with

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Speaker 1: me are three amazing panelists from No Dunk's Task, Malice,

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Speaker 1: Lee Ellis and Jason Doyle. Welcome Tis This Good?

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Speaker 2: Thank you Matt, thanks for having great to be back.

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Speaker 1: Great to have some old favorites, great to have some

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Speaker 1: new favorites back. If you've topics for future show, send

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Speaker 1: them into me at starters Matt on Twitter or email

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Speaker 1: us at is This Goodpod at gmail dot com. Now,

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Speaker 1: the premise of the show is very simple. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to give you a topic and you tell me if

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Speaker 1: it's good, and if you're in the stream team on

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Speaker 1: YouTube right now, make sure to vote. We're four people,

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Speaker 1: so you could be breaking a high. Very exciting. But first,

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Speaker 1: some follow up. Last week, I'm sure Lee you were listening,

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Speaker 1: we talked about wearing air pods. Wearing air pods in public,

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Speaker 1: you know, when you're around other people, and some people

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Speaker 1: on the panel were very cavalier, but they didn't see

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Speaker 1: a problem with it. So I proposed some situations where

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Speaker 1: it might be awkward to leave them in, and Muhammad

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Speaker 1: tweeted this in and he said, I once slipped up

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Speaker 1: with someone who had their air pods on the entire time. Lee,

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Speaker 1: what do you think about that?

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Speaker 3: I guess they weren't what's the word hindrance anyway, but

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Speaker 3: I find that I would find that very awkward to

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Speaker 3: talk to a girl if she's got air pods in.

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Speaker 3: But listen, maybe it was his moves.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, talk to her.

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Speaker 5: I'm guessing they had sex, that they hooked up. This

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Speaker 5: is what I read, but that's what I got at it.

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, but they must have. There must there must

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Speaker 3: have been some sort of verbal exa.

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Speaker 1: Lee does bring up a good boy, because it would

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Speaker 1: be funnier if when he was talking to her at

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Speaker 1: the bar, she wasn't didn't have her AirPods. She was like,

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Speaker 1: hold on a second.

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Speaker 4: The movie.

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Speaker 5: You brought that joke up last week, right, that maybe

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Speaker 5: you're into R and B while having sex, right, and

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Speaker 5: maybe you want to put your AirPods in because of it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, I was trying to present a situation a

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Speaker 1: tray in which he would admit that having a AirPods

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Speaker 1: in it was bad. And I said that as a

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Speaker 1: joke that you know, what would you do if the

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Speaker 1: person you're having sex with us wearing airpots and I

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Speaker 1: guess it's happening in the wild. People are people are crazy?

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Speaker 4: That's unbelievable.

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Speaker 3: I mean, music, I think is important when you're making love.

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Speaker 3: I think it's very important.

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Speaker 1: But how are you going to sing it into her

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Speaker 1: she's wearing AirPods.

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Speaker 3: You know, we all have different tastes, So maybe you

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Speaker 3: can just say you whatever suit you, babes, go for it,

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Speaker 3: and I'll put on whatever works for me. I suppose,

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Speaker 3: But I don't find that particularly romantic. Win as a

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Speaker 4: I wonder if Mohammad had AirPods in himself.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, you guys brought up the you know,

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Speaker 5: the silent dance parties. You have your headphones on, you're

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Speaker 5: listening to music. Maybe they had their own particular music.

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe that maybe she was listening to this

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Speaker 3: podcast as well. I mean, you know, is this good?

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Speaker 6: You know, maybe Mohamma is like, that's that's an immediate

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Speaker 6: orgasm you then, you know, I don't know both ways.

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Speaker 5: Will we're recording now, but Matt will be listening to

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Speaker 5: the sound of his own voice tonight.

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Speaker 1: What I do is I asked Jad to edit just

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Speaker 1: that on. But she she doesn't want to just in

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Speaker 1: my AirPods. She wants she wants to hear it too nice.

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Speaker 1: But that's just, that's just, that's one more piece of

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Speaker 1: follow up. We talked about, or I talked about how

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Speaker 1: if you don't really know your barber, if you don't

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Speaker 1: have a good relationship with them, that would be a

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Speaker 1: situation where I would like to wear AirPods, you know,

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Speaker 1: listen to a podcast while you're getting your haircut. So

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Speaker 1: my old barber from Atlanta and Skeetz's current barber, Jason,

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Speaker 1: I don't real fully understand why he couldn't text back

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yes, it needed to be done. The only

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Speaker 2: problem I have with that story is didn't the shampoo

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Speaker 2: have already happened? He's cutting his hair?

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Speaker 1: No? No, you do see it's interesting. In the salon world,

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Speaker 1: you're getting a pre champ. In the barber world, I

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Speaker 1: think you're most often getting a post champ. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: case you're going back to work or something. It's not

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm in salon mode.

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Speaker 1: I've never had a so I'll tell you that's my

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Speaker 1: I'm getting nothing.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel? Is this good? Is that? Is

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Speaker 1: It's not good, but the haircut's good and it's not expensive,

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Speaker 1: so I'm just dealing with it. They need to they're spraying.

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Speaker 3: It that head massage you get when they out washing

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Speaker 3: your hair is divine? Are you back there like that

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Speaker 3: and they're just going crazy? Message in your head, that's

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Speaker 3: one of the nicest feelings you can have.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's your instant orgasm. Yeah, more or less.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good thing you're wearing. That's smock.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, some talks, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you're in Atlanta, go see Jason at

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Speaker 1: Park Chops. You and Skeets could have the same barber. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Remember, I'm gonna give you a topic.

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Speaker 1: You tell me if it's good. Our first topic was

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Speaker 1: suggested by our friend Marge and also emailed in by

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Speaker 1: Matt l So, I guess people really want us to

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Speaker 1: talk about this farting around your partner? Is this good?

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Speaker 1: Take it away? Boys?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Who you loving this up for? I feel like it's

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Speaker 3: Well, Well, first off, I mean, this is your fifth

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been not running out of topics. It's not

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Speaker 1: a joke, okay, But I also think serious concern that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I just sort of think that you're

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Speaker 3: you and Jilly they are being together now? Yeah, No,

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to get an idea because it's usually

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Speaker 3: it takes a few months before.

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Speaker 4: You, you know, you developed that confort what.

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Speaker 3: You feel comfortable enough to let one go, and uh,

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Speaker 3: maybe that's what you're you're sort of approaching that territory now,

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Speaker 3: is that? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's interesting that you ask. Again, these are topics

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Speaker 1: that are sent and I have no control. People send

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Speaker 4: We have the job them. But what I was, that's

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Speaker 4: what I say around my partner.

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Speaker 1: According to AskMen dot com, in a survey of a

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Speaker 1: thousand adults, men reporting reported waiting an average of six

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Speaker 1: three years. And as to your question, Leh, Jilly as

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Speaker 1: you call her, we're we're about six months in, so

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Speaker 3: You're basically getting clearance right now. You're going to say

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Speaker 3: to Jill, I heard on a podcast it after six

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Speaker 2: So it hasn't happened yet, man, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: It's I mean, obviously it's happened, but I'm you know,

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Speaker 1: look as someone I think as anyone. That's just when

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Speaker 1: you just start dating, you're sort of trained not to

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Speaker 1: do it because you know, you don't you want to

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Speaker 1: And the brain is stronger than the butt, and I've

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Speaker 3: Be careful that don't make it too strong. I don't

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Speaker 3: make it too strong. You might end up doing more

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Speaker 1: Okay, was this personal experience?

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Speaker 3: Yes, of course it was. You know the story of course.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I'm sure most people have heard the story.

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Speaker 1: Let me let me just summarize it very quickly and

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Speaker 1: then you could you could take the end. So you're going,

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Speaker 1: you're at a an NBA basketball game with a girl

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Speaker 3: No, No, we've been dating for a while. But it

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Speaker 3: was more just it was a it was a raptor's

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Speaker 1: I want you to tell the story.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm just saying. So there was a lot of

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Speaker 3: people packed around. I was eating all this popcorn, and

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Speaker 3: You can't stop eating it. I felt a couple and

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Speaker 3: I was just like, I just can't. I just can't.

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Speaker 3: I had to hold on to it.

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Speaker 1: Had you ever fighted around her?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah that that around her? Yeah, But

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Speaker 3: it was more I was just like this one, could

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Speaker 3: you know? This one could do a bit of damage

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Speaker 3: in the surrounds. So I decided to hang on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're in a crowd full of strangers. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but it could blame it on anybody.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was worried that she would look at

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Speaker 3: me and go, okay, I know that's one of yours,

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Speaker 3: you know, and give away the game, you know, blow.

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Speaker 2: My car because she knows the scent.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, obvious.

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Speaker 1: So you're holding in the fireflace quarter goes by holding

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Speaker 1: in the fire. Set quarter goes by holding in the fire,

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Speaker 1: and then what happens.

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Speaker 3: Well, then I just thought, you know, once we're in,

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Speaker 3: you know, once the game's over, on your way home,

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Speaker 3: you know, then you've got a bit more freedom. And

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Speaker 3: I went to bed that night and I felt a

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Speaker 3: little tight in the stomach, and then I woke up,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, three o'clock in the morning, and I

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Speaker 3: just couldn't vomit and I couldn't fart. And I know

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Speaker 3: it's jokes. It's great to laugh and have a great

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Speaker 3: you know, because fart jokes are always funny. In that

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Speaker 3: I have never been in more physical pain than I

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Speaker 3: was in that moment, because it's basically like you were

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Speaker 3: being suffocated on the inside and you can't you try

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Speaker 3: Well, no, because again that wasn't from the start. That

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Speaker 3: No, No, I mean no, I don't. I've been together

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Speaker 1: Okay, So are you saying it's good or not?

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Speaker 2: I think it's great. It's not good, it's great.

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Speaker 3: Who doesn't fight?

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Speaker 2: I mean who you're not fighting around anybody? You guys

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's that's the thing. I mean, that's different

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Speaker 1: So, Lee, are you saying that if you were fighting

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Speaker 1: Nobody, why going up to you? What if you're in

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Speaker 1: No smothered and covered lease out, there's no out.

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Speaker 4: I believe it. Why I don't.

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Speaker 2: You don't have the trapped wind problem. You are. You're comfortable.

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Speaker 2: She farts around me, she fared. I already know that

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Speaker 2: she farted ten times this morning, like that was before

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Speaker 1: So I read I was reading up.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she does listen to this.

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Speaker 5: But I don't understand would she prefer that she farts

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Speaker 5: She doesn't want to hear your farts. I'm sure you

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't care. We're all human. Tests.

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Speaker 5: I get it, I get I get the whole comfort thing.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying a preference. Would you do you want

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Speaker 4: Yes? Absolutely, absolutely, not exactly.

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Speaker 5: So the answer is not good. It's not good. If

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Speaker 5: The comfort thing like you can do you can show

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Speaker 1: Right, I'm surprised tests, so I thought you were going

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying I don't. I do it well, okay, plenty.

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Speaker 1: Gold, I would choose to not have to fart. Ever,

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Speaker 4: Well, so what you want food pills? Is this good food?

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Speaker 4: Pills instead of food, like get all your nutrients in

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Speaker 1: Why don't you even think that would guarantee?

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Speaker 4: I'm shocked. I know. But they're wrong.

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Speaker 5: Maybe they heard they heard Lee's retelling of the story,

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Speaker 3: dirty drug den type of thing. And I like it no,

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00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,800
Speaker 3: because I tried to I had to try to have

437
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,479
Speaker 3: a poop, and you know, I just walked in and

438
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I know you know some other people

439
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,720
Speaker 3: who've got some issues, but I need a poop. I'm

440
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,679
Speaker 3: going to find a poo here. And I couldn't do it,

441
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,119
Speaker 3: and it was like, all right, I got to get

442
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,320
Speaker 3: out of here. It was crazy.

443
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Speaker 1: Oh why is that crazy? Second of all, that's nice

444
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Speaker 1: story about you having a part.

445
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 3: Well, it's the same thing. It was the same feeling,

446
00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:39,879
Speaker 3: and I had to go. I had to go to

447
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Speaker 3: hospital again then, but it was I was able to

448
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:42,960
Speaker 3: because I could feel it coming on. So I was like,

449
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 3: all right, I've gone to hospital that.

450
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Speaker 4: Day and I takes some muscle reactions.

451
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Speaker 3: Well I did. When I got I said, I know

452
00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:48,919
Speaker 3: what I've got, and you need to give me these

453
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,879
Speaker 3: muscle relactions. And I'm like, you know, and they're like okay.

454
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,639
Speaker 3: I was in and out. I zipped in and out

455
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 3: that time.

456
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 1: Said sorry, but that medication, you guy in America, that's

457
00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,439
Speaker 1: illegal here. Yeah, that's too strong.

458
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what was a psychologist there?

459
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 1: Oh, she's saying quoted couples are couples who are comfortable

460
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 1: doing so. She means farting in front of each other

461
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,080
Speaker 1: may have more adventurous sex lives because they're comfortable with

462
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 1: their bodies and have less inhibition fears and insecurities.

463
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Speaker 5: They may or they may not, but they may, but

464
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 5: they may or they're disgusted by their partner. I'm sure

465
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Speaker 5: it's killed in the mood in many relationships.

466
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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, but hold on, like you're not We're

467
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 2: not talking about when you're having sex. You're just talking

468
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Speaker 2: about daily activities. M Also, if you farted during sex

469
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Speaker 2: kind of hilarious.

470
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Speaker 5: Well, of course, farts are hilarious and for comedy purposes

471
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Speaker 5: at all times.

472
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Speaker 4: I don't mean during sex.

473
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Speaker 5: I meant, you know, in some foreplay beforehand, potentially, you know,

474
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Speaker 5: the half hour leading up to sex. Yeah, here far

475
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Speaker 5: could be and off? Yeah, good power, good for you?

476
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Speaker 4: Tes No, no, no, no not.

477
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Speaker 5: I'm not saying not the foreplace half hour you kidding?

478
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Speaker 1: I just mean he can't spare half hours. He's got

479
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 1: to go far in.

480
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 4: A different room.

481
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 5: What's wrong with that? I wish I had that discipline.

482
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 5: I wish I could do that.

483
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 3: Just quote question that you're obviously come from around your wife. Great,

484
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 3: Why have you been so stealthily about fighting around us?

485
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 3: I mean when this farther insult it, I mean, don't

486
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 3: you feel like it's free to flatulate whatever you feel? Well,

487
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 3: I just.

488
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Speaker 2: Think it's rude in front of other people. But my

489
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 2: wife is my wife, and she feels very free to

490
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 2: fight in front of me.

491
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I get. It's just a swerve on on

492
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 3: on convention for me because most people, I think would

493
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 3: feel more comfortable around their friends than they would they

494
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 3: pun interesting.

495
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 4: You know, I'm a partner, Yeah, we're all friends.

496
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 2: I'm most comfortable. But whenever Rachel farts, this is my

497
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: new joke. This is my new joke that I do,

498
00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 2: which is really gross. But and she hates it, but

499
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Speaker 2: it's kind of cutting down on the farts. Is whatever

500
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 2: she farts, I go cef and she's disgusted with me.

501
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 2: How dare you? Then she'll leave the room.

502
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so cherka.

503
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 3: Good.

504
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: We've got a not good from Task, We've got a

505
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 1: good from JD. I'm honestly, I don't do this, but again,

506
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 1: I've got We're September, so I've got till September fifteenth

507
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,360
Speaker 1: to make this thing happen. I'm gonna say good because

508
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: it does hurt my stommay and I want to be

509
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: comfortable around her. I don't want her to be comfortable

510
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: around me. So you know, I'll give you an update

511
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:44,199
Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks.

512
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 2: And sorry, Jill, Jill has not farted in front of

513
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 2: you yet.

514
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 4: That you are aware of or or that you want

515
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 4: to reveal.

516
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, then I'm aware of. But but again she's like,

517
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: you go ahead, do it. I'm not. But I'm totally

518
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: cool with you doing it, but I'm not gonna follow suit.

519
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,479
Speaker 1: So maybe I just need to break the sound barrier.

520
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 1: Touck geger that shit, and you know, okay, and the

521
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 1: stream teams saying good. So yeah, the goods have it nice? Wow, okay, opposite.

522
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 1: Hate to move on, but I have to. Here we go.

523
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 1: Next topic, standing at a seated concert? Is this good?

524
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: So you're at a concert, there's seats, not general mission.

525
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: People get there, they're sitting down, the show starts. Standing

526
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 1: at a seated concert is that good?

527
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 4: Right?

528
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 2: Well? Uh, I mean I yes, I suppose it's good.

529
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 2: I mean, if it's okay. You're out of Garth Brooks

530
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 2: concert mm hmm. Everyone around you is sitting friends in

531
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: low places. Comes on your favorite song or whatever. You

532
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 2: gotta stand up, right, like, you gotta stand up even

533
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 2: though there's a sea of people around you and a

534
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 2: person behind you. You're going to stand up. That's what

535
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 2: we're talking about here.

536
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: Right, I'm absolutely going to stand up.

537
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 7: Yea.

538
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: I hate sitting.

539
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 2: During a concert, yes, me as wow.

540
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 1: Oh see, okay, So you can go to a concert

541
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 1: that's at a theater, but it doesn't mean that it's

542
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: the opera. It's a rock show. I mean, I'm talking

543
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: about a rock show. I mean I mean or hip

544
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: hop whatever, right country. Yeah, I hate sitting during a concert,

545
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: but the last thing I want at a fund night

546
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 1: out is conflict. So yeah, what the best case scenario

547
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: is for me is that the people in the row

548
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Speaker 1: in front of me stand up. Then I can stand

549
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: up without fear of reprisal from the person behind me,

550
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: because like they Hey, it's not my fault they're standing.

551
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 5: It's unfortunate you feel that way that you have to

552
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 5: stand only if the people stand in front of you,

553
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 5: because a ticket gives you the right to stand, no

554
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 5: matter what, no matter what the situation.

555
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 1: Some people would say a ticket gives you a ticket

556
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Speaker 1: for the seat means you have to sit, And someone

557
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 1: would say, my, my rate when I bite the sicket

558
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: is to be able to sit in the seat I

559
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: bought and see the show, which I can't see when

560
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: you're standing.

561
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: So stand up. I mean, no, it's fine if you

562
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 3: want to sit, fine, but you can't then tell someone else,

563
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 3: even if they're right in front of you, you've got

564
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 3: to sit too, because I'm sitting. If you sit, you

565
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 3: choose to sit, and the person in front of you

566
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 3: standing having a good time. That's there. They're fun, they're prerogative.

567
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 3: You can't say you can't give them the tap on

568
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 3: the shoulder. Sit down. Come on, we're at a concert.

569
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: Have you ever gotten the tap?

570
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 3: Yes? I have a bon Jovi at Wembley. I got

571
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 3: the tap and then the very next song, John said

572
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 3: I want everyone on your feet. I said, yeah, motherfucker.

573
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 1: You pointed the stage.

574
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 3: So I didn't point at the stage, but I just

575
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: did the like, you know, right right standing up because

576
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm not sitting down at Wembley.

577
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 2: So sorry, wet song was playing when you were standing

578
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 2: in your ASTs?

579
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was you give Love a bad Name,

580
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 3: which is impossible as sitting. Yeah. Well, like I say,

581
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 3: the guy gave me the tap because the song before

582
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:56,719
Speaker 3: I can't remember.

583
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 1: But but what if it's a ballad like a Bed

584
00:26:58,960 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: of ros.

585
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 3: Well, again, if you choose to sit, fine, some songs

586
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 3: aren't like, you know, standing up, rocking away like that.

587
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 3: But to ask somebody else in front of you because

588
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 3: they're blocking your view because they're standing. That gets no

589
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 3: respect from me. I'm like, I'm sorry, I'm standing. I

590
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 3: didn't care if you were going to sit. I'm standing.

591
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 4: I don't think there's a line. I don't think it

592
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 4: can be any type of music.

593
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 5: It doesn't matter if it's ballad after ballad after ballad

594
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 5: after ballad.

595
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter.

596
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

597
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 5: I saw John Legend in Vegas where I'd say like

598
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 5: ninety percent of the audience didn't know who the hell

599
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 5: John Legend was because they're getting comps. They're there and

600
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 5: they see a ticket for John Legend. O, who's this

601
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 5: Guy's probably a magician.

602
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 4: I can't wait to go see the show, And.

603
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 5: So most people didn't know who he was. And I,

604
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 5: like you, Matt, I'm unfortunately way too conscious of everybody

605
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 5: around me. So I was standing up with Danielle and

606
00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 5: at times we said let's sit down. There'body around us

607
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 5: is sitting down. It sucks and it took the life

608
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 5: out of the concert for me. I should have just

609
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 5: stood the whole time. I was, you know, belting out ballads.

610
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 5: I don't think I love this ballad from you, John

611
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 5: I'm happy to stand, but I don't. I think, yeah,

612
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 5: whether it's country or it doesn't matter what type of

613
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 5: Maybe if you're seeing a symphony, you can sit.

614
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe that's symphony. You don't need to stand for that. Opera, opera, right.

615
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: Jazz, maybe even if you want it. Well, I don't

616
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: know if you loved opera the way. Let's say I

617
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: love rock music and the guy is in the midst

618
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 1: of his figure figuos. Do people stand? Is that like

619
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: a big moment. I've never been to the opera.

620
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 3: And again, that's where it comes down to individual choice.

621
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 3: If you're a stander and you're in a concert, stand

622
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 3: but it's.

623
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Speaker 1: Not a general admission show. First of all, I agree

624
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: with you. I'm just gonna Devil's Atage for a second.

625
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: It's not a general admission show, so there is not

626
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: a pit where everyone's standing. There are seats. You bought

627
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: a seat. So someone is going with the reasonable expectation

628
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: that I will be.

629
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 3: Sitting, and fine, that doesn't mean the person in front

630
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: of them has to have that same belief though, Because

631
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 3: it's music. Music makes us do different things, Like if

632
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 3: you go to a movie, then it's a different story

633
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 3: because you're not expected to stand at a movie, I

634
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 3: think generally, But at a concert, I mean you try.

635
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 3: I always try to get flow, like general admission floor

636
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 3: seats at floor access anyway, so that you can move around.

637
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 3: That's really the only way to enjoy a concert.

638
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, for me, I wouldn't go. I haven't been to

639
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: a concert where I'm actually sitting down in twenty years. Like,

640
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 2: I just won't. It's not worth it to me.

641
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

642
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you ask at a general admission thing? Would

643
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: you ever? Well, I guess the answer is no. But

644
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: what do you think about a super tall person standing

645
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: in front of you at a general admission show? As

646
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: someone that's five or five, this is obviously a problem, right, Yeah,

647
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: but you think I could tap that person? Say, would

648
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: you mind stepping behind me?

649
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 2: Sure? Yeah I wouldn't, But would you mind putting me

650
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: on your shoulders?

651
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: That's why all shows should have a sloped floor. That's

652
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: that's your best scenario, Tassie, what's the crowd? So what's

653
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: the stream team? Saying?

654
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 4: Stream team?

655
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 5: Surprisingly pretty even good fifty five percent.

656
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: To understand. Like I think also older generation, Like if

657
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: my parents went to a show and it was seated,

658
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: they probably wouldn't be thrilled if people the row in

659
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: front of them was standing. I don't think they would

660
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: say anything.

661
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 5: But just feels like the one the one ticket you buy,

662
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 5: or that that sort of idea goes out the door.

663
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 5: Lee brought up a theater.

664
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 4: Of course, you.

665
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 5: Got to sit down if you're like, you know, have

666
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 5: your own private shop, make enough money where you can

667
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 5: get that performer where you'll have a private show, or

668
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 5: like you know, you have.

669
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 4: To sit on a plane.

670
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 5: People complain about, oh, this person can't put in their

671
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 5: carry on into the overhead well, and you know, like

672
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 5: get your own private jet right first class, Like I think,

673
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 5: I don't know, I just I make the comparison because

674
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 5: it just feels like the one ticket that you buy

675
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 5: where I know, I get, I get you're not in

676
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 5: a pit, Matt.

677
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 4: I feel that. But that's a concert. Many cont like

678
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 4: even the opera, because my.

679
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 5: Opera, I think people would enjoy standing at the opera as.

680
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 2: Well, like eight hours, three and a half hours long. Man,

681
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 2: you got to stand at some point. I guess there's

682
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: an intermission here. How about this? Speaking of opera pressure

683
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: to give a standing ovation when you're not really you

684
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: know what you don't want to, like, do you stand

685
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: with everybody?

686
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: Yeah? I do because I'm a sheep. But yeah, it's

687
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: I'm always like I do the look to my right

688
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: looked off?

689
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: Really yeah this?

690
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: Do you just feel bad for this person? That's how

691
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: I'm taking it.

692
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

693
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: Almost almost. There should almost be no standing. You should

694
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 1: have like five standing ovations in your life and you

695
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: can only use five.

696
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: Interesting to be a little more judicious.

697
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: Okay, next topic, the limbo, as in the dance them.

698
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: Is this good? Who has thought?

699
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's good, it's good, it's got it's got a stigma.

700
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 4: Undoubtedly, it's got a stigma.

701
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: It's the stigma.

702
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 4: It's cheesy, it's played.

703
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: Out okaya like a congo line.

704
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just done. It's just it's just everybody does it?

705
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 7: So?

706
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 5: I mean, I asked, I asked my man, Ryan Setton,

707
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 5: who's getting married next week. You can have the limbo

708
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 5: at your wedding. He said, God, no, f no.

709
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: When was the last time you were somewhere that the

710
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 2: limbo broke out?

711
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 3: For adults? Yeah? I haven't seen it for an adults

712
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 3: like kids bodies all the time, but for an adults.

713
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 4: It's it's I've seen it at a wedding.

714
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, kids parties for sure, a wedding. I

715
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 2: guess a wedding is a great ice.

716
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: Breaker because just because Ryan hasn't planned to have it

717
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: does not mean that a limbo will break out because

718
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: it's not like I mean, you could tie two ties

719
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: together and uh there you go.

720
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 5: Wow, A spontaneous limbo doesn't. I just get excited just

721
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 5: hearing it because it just just feels like it's an icebreaker.

722
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 5: Gets people on the dance floor, it gets people involved,

723
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 5: gets people uncomfortable, which which is what you want. There'll

724
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 5: be some giggles. I haven't bent backwards in years.

725
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: I would argue that the ice is already broken if

726
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 2: it's spontaneous limbo breaks. But yeah, it's fun. It is fun.

727
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: I'm saying it's good.

728
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I'd say it gets people rat, it'll get

729
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 5: some involved that even if the ice is broken, as

730
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 5: you said, JD, even if it's not spontaneous, even if

731
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 5: it's planned like I, you know, I try to encourage

732
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 5: my man Ryan sat and that is wedding to do it,

733
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 5: even though he's adamant that no, it's cheeky, said it's cheesy,

734
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 5: it's uh, you know, it's a little too campy.

735
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 4: I guess you've got.

736
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 3: To do it.

737
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you and Daniel.

738
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 5: And he's going to and the next day he's going

739
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 5: to say to me, wow, Test, you're right.

740
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 4: Limbo, the limbo Limbo is a hit.

741
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 1: I would say the limbo can bring energy and ice

742
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: break a bad party, but I also think it can

743
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: kind of detract from a good party, Like if everyone's

744
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: already dancing and the vibe is good, if someone's like

745
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: all right, okay, and then it's like, first of all,

746
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: do you like the limbo song itself, the.

747
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: Chubby Checker Limbo? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, not a fan.

748
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 4: That's a good point.

749
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 5: You don't bring it in if the vibes are good,

750
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 5: it doesn't really take a lot of sense.

751
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,359
Speaker 2: It's a reviver, I guess.

752
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

753
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 3: You know, it's definitely cason, isn't it. I mean, if

754
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 3: you're like, all right, let's try the limbo, the party's

755
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 3: probably dying at that point. This might save it. Or

756
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 3: people are just like I'm going to sit down, don't

757
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 3: stand Well, the limbo's on. You gotta sit down. If

758
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 3: you that means you want to go in the limbo

759
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 3: if you're sitting.

760
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

761
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: No, is anyone confident that they could limbo right now?

762
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:12,280
Speaker 1: No, I've I'm forty years old, and I've never understood

763
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: how people bend in that way. I thought about, like,

764
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,720
Speaker 1: should I work on this? Like is this a skill

765
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: I should develop? But I would guess Skeets is the

766
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: only one that could limbo. Yeah, out of this.

767
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 5: Group, Well, you were doing some yoga, Matt. You never

768
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 5: did a bridge, you know how.

769
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not it's not my forte. It's not my forte.

770
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 5: No, it's not fun. But yeah, I thought about developing

771
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 5: it a skill as well. And when this came up

772
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 5: in the the itinerary for today in the rundown, I

773
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 5: tried to bend my back and see if I could

774
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 5: do it. No, nothing, no, no, not good, not not good,

775
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 5: but limbo good.

776
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,240
Speaker 2: You know where limbo's great is roller skating.

777
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: I've never seen that.

778
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, they used to do it all the time, but

779
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: you generally you would do the splits to do it. Yeah,

780
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: at some point, like I remember, all the girls were

781
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 2: able to just they could go lower than their actual

782
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 2: rollers skits, which was crazy, crazy to see roller skating

783
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 2: is lower than oh, I see what you're saying, Like

784
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 2: the skates that sounds crazy.

785
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, just the the weight balance seems off to.

786
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 2: Me, I know, but it's cool and if somebody's good

787
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 2: at it, yeah, it's very cool to watch. I'm not

788
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 2: doing it.

789
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 1: But okay, So things that I think are good about

790
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: it bring energy to a bad party. I think the

791
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 1: phrase how low can you go?

792
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 2: That's good fun phrase it is.

793
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: And you could say, like, if we didn't have the limbo,

794
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 1: would that be a phrase in the lexicon.

795
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 2: I don't think so, not in a good way, not

796
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 2: in a good way.

797
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: Bad things. If you get stuck holding the limbo.

798
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 3: Stick, yeah, no, one's I'm going to save you from that.

799
00:36:52,320 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: I'll they No, yeah, exactly. The song not good. And unfortunately,

800
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,280
Speaker 1: in the little bit of research I did about the limbo,

801
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 1: just to see like where, where, how old is this thing?

802
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: Where does it come from? I did find out that

803
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: it's a Trinidadian dance and rather than parties, it was

804
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: performed at funerals, wakes and other somber occasions. Because and

805
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: this isn't like it doesn't seem like this is confirmed confirmed,

806
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: but it people think that it originated from slavery, like

807
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 1: the motion of the limbo recreates like being put on

808
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: a slave ship. So that's fucking about as dark as

809
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:44,479
Speaker 1: it gets. So I guess the limbo is canceled. Limbo bad,

810
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: So don't sorry to ruin Ryan Setten's wedding. I don't

811
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: think anyone should be limbo anymore. Also, like, I mean,

812
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: the other reference to limbo I found was that it's

813
00:37:55,040 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: like uh in Catholic Orthodoxy, the place where babies who

814
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 1: die before they're baptized go. So that doesn't seem good.

815
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad the kid's birthday. I'm gonna say, right,

816
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 3: you can't get it.

817
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 1: What it's like. It's sort of like the uh ring

818
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: around the rosie, right, Like, isn't that from the plague?

819
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: Like ashes? Ashes? We all fall down, dark, very dark dark. Okay,

820
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. Our next topic was submitted by

821
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: David S who asks mixed gender bachelor or bachelorette parties?

822
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 1: Is this good?

823
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 3: Okay?

824
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 1: Now, let's first discuss a bachelor party where there's just like,

825
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: let's say one girl there like your old friend, and

826
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: you invite her, and then maybe we can move on

827
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: to ones where it's like a more conscious like Buck

828
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: and Doe party or stag and hen or whatever they

829
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: call them, where you're purposefully binding the bachelor and the

830
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 1: bachelorette party into one party. So have any of you

831
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: been to a bachelor party where there was a member

832
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: of the opposite sex?

833
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 4: Sure you have? Yeah, Oh, okay, you surprised?

834
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: Just like one, honestly a little bit surprised.

835
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, just one.

836
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they were in the grooms party sort of thing.

837
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess so yeah, lifelong friend.

838
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 4: Okay, it's totally fine.

839
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: Okay, that's it.

840
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 4: I mean there's not I have.

841
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: There were no girls at your bachelor party, Tassy.

842
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 4: That's true.

843
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 5: I mean I haven't had a plasonic relationship and forever, so,

844
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 5: I mean as far as that goes, as far as

845
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 5: being inclusive, there's no problem with that. I mean as

846
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 5: a bigger topic about you know, fundraising and raising money,

847
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 5: I think is more of my like the Buck and

848
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 5: Doe thing, that's where I get if you're gonna have it,

849
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 5: anyone could come. I don't have an issue with that, right,

850
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 5: the inclusivity go, fine, that's fine, that's fine.

851
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 1: Saying you do have a problem with Buck and Doe parties, Yeah,

852
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: I just.

853
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 5: The whole idea of a buck and doe. The whole

854
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 5: idea is to raise money. A buck and doe is too,

855
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 5: is it?

856
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: Sometimes?

857
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 7: Yeah?

858
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: But it also can be just a party, right, Like.

859
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 5: I think they confused party though it's fundraising, buck and

860
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 5: doe is.

861
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 4: There's always.

862
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: Does have to be though, like if the if you're

863
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 1: having a bachelor party all men and a bachelorette party

864
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 1: all women, and those aren't fundraisers. If you decide to

865
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: have one together, why does that de facto mean it's

866
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: a fundraiser.

867
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 5: I think a buck and doe, I would say, generally

868
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 5: is a fundraiser. It's not a bachelor and bachelorette party.

869
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 5: It's more of a like a shower, a wedding shower

870
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 5: in a woman's case and in a man's case. They

871
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 5: don't usual they don't have one, so they get lumped

872
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 5: into the buck and doe.

873
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,439
Speaker 1: That's that's how I, well, I get, But it's also

874
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: what how is it different than an engagement party? That's

875
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: what I don't really understand.

876
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,760
Speaker 5: Well, there's a buck and doe will there'll be games,

877
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 5: there'll be uh card games, they'll be raffles. They bring

878
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,479
Speaker 5: the prizes. So we can raffle it off and raise

879
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 5: money for the brian and groom while engagement party.

880
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 4: There could be there could be gifts, but.

881
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:22,240
Speaker 5: It's more of a it's it's more of a party

882
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 5: without raising money really just yeah, and I think it's

883
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 5: totally different. The Bucan does that I've been to are

884
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 5: all about the dollar dollar bills, which hmm, it's like,

885
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 5: don't have this an extravagant as of a wedding if

886
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 5: you're just trying to raise money.

887
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I had a buck and doe.

888
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 5: Tass, Yeah, you task, what did you do?

889
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: But uh, well, the reason we had a buck and

890
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 2: doe was because we were we got married to Mexico,

891
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 2: so there are a lot of people that couldn't go,

892
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: so we thought we'll just have a party. But I

893
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 2: remember going into it thinking this is just going to

894
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 2: be a party, and then somebody gave me a high

895
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: of cash at the end of it, and I didn't

896
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: realize that people were collecting money, and I never really

897
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 2: thought about it. But it did end up being a fundraiser,

898
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 2: I guess, but not intentionally by us, as I remember

899
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: like it was just like, well, let's just give people

900
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 2: a chance to you know, hang out with us as

901
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 2: a couple before we go get married.

902
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 4: Well that makes sense.

903
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I but I think maybe people were just like,

904
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 2: maybe we should be like raising money for these guys.

905
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, like it just I mean it.

906
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: Well, did you want to have a bachelor party though?

907
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 3: JD?

908
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 2: No, not really. It's not really my thing my style.

909
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: I guess I don't know.

910
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you, Lee? Did you have one?

911
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:43,919
Speaker 3: Yes? I did down in Niagara Folds stay with me. Yeah.

912
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 3: Did you go to the sun Downer?

913
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 4: Yes?

914
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

915
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay and that's a strip, that's a strip bar.

916
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, strip.

917
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't ask like you didn't know?

918
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, what if Michael barbarrowing.

919
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 4: To see you tomorrow.

920
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 3: We just had two nights, two nights down in Niagara, gambling, drinking,

921
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 3: two strippers. Yeah yeah. Well people flew in from Australia

922
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 3: and Peru and London and that. Yeah, people stayed for

923
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 3: the whole week. Yeah.

924
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 1: Was her heart brother there.

925
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 3: Yes, he flew in from Sydney.

926
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, god, yeah, that's Atard Louis Louis.

927
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 3: My mate. Louis was the tough one because he flew in.

928
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 3: He flew from Melbourne to like Sydney to Hawaii, to

929
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 3: Los Angeles to Calgary and then to Toronto and got

930
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,359
Speaker 3: a caught a bus from the airport all the way

931
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 3: out to Niagara. He was absolutely it'd spent like forty

932
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 3: hours in commuting to get there. He fell asleep outside

933
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 3: the sundown of the next day, I remember, yeah, and

934
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 3: he woke up with no money in his He had

935
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 3: no money, he had no idea where he was. He

936
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 3: was jet lagged, and he got back to the hotel somehow.

937
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 3: I can't remember, but I.

938
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: Think Zach galafanakus, Yeah, that yeah, that was.

939
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 3: That was tough on old Louis there, but he made it.

940
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 3: He made okay.

941
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 1: Were their women there, No, not the strippers.

942
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,959
Speaker 3: I mean they weren't. It wasn't that I said women

943
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 3: are forbidden, but it was just more sort of unseid like,

944
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 3: I mean, the girls did something themselves, and all the

945
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 3: boys just went down to Niagara because a couple of

946
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 3: the boys who flew in, they came in with their

947
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 3: wives or girlfriends or whatever, and they all just went off.

948
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 3: No one, no one said I want to come with

949
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 3: the boys. They were like, the girls are going to

950
00:44:25,239 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 3: do their thing, and the boys did their thing.

951
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, And by the way, I would say that's like

952
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: probably ninety five percent of bachelor parties are not our gender,

953
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: certainly not.

954
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 3: One of the opposite sex. That's where I think it's I.

955
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 1: Think, what if your best friend growing up was a girl?

956
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she wasn't. So I'm just like, I'm just saying,

957
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 3: if there's one, I think it makes it a little uncomfortable.

958
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 3: If there's more than one, then they've got you know,

959
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: then it makes it easier. Like I would never go

960
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 3: on by myself on a women's.

961
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: Like, okay, yeah, bachelor, why not? What if you're again,

962
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: I know that you're like the wave as press secretary,

963
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: you don't deal in open vatical but if if you

964
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 1: can for a second do an imagination.

965
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, sounds like fun.

966
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 3: I wouldn't go with as me and twenty women who

967
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 3: you know, they're all they've got the penis straws and

968
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 3: all that sort of stuff and they're giggling away. I

969
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 3: just it's I let them have their night, you know.

970
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 3: By the way, Matt, I just want to say, I mean,

971
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 3: we've talked about farting around your wife, and now you're

972
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,919
Speaker 3: proposing about like a bachelor party. Is there something else

973
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 3: you want to tell us, you know, I mean you plan.

974
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 3: Are you trying to find out as well? Like what

975
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 3: should I do? What's what these days? Is the is

976
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:32,879
Speaker 3: the done thing as a bachelor party?

977
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: Or what these questions are submitted, and I take the

978
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: ones that I.

979
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 3: Think I've gotta ask Julia a couple of questions here,

980
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,760
Speaker 3: because I think you're I think you're using these shows

981
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 3: to just decide when to propose, when you're allowed to fart,

982
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 3: what the bachelor party rules are these days?

983
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 1: When I can do the limbo exactly exact the wedding?

984
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 3: Can we do the limbo?

985
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

986
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 3: All these things, so they stand.

987
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: So you think you think I'm like, this is my rehearsal.

988
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 3: I think I think I think you're just sort of, yeah,

989
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,720
Speaker 3: scouting for information. You're like, I wonder what I should

990
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 3: do these days?

991
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: So yeah, well I do have I do have female friends.

992
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 3: No, well, so do why I have tons of female friends?

993
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:09,800
Speaker 3: I mean it's not either did you invite one of

994
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 3: them to your bachelor part Why would you invite one?

995
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: Well, if someone is super close to you, like maybe

996
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: they would be close enough to be in your wedding

997
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: party or in the normal course, of things, like they

998
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: would be one of your best friends, the us the most.

999
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: Isn't it weird to exclude them?

1000
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: No, that's why I wouldn't invite just one. I would say, Okay,

1001
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 3: here are the four girls that I'm going to invite,

1002
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 3: and i'd invite them. I wouldn't just say I've got

1003
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,439
Speaker 3: these girlfriends. You're the one who I'm only going to invite.

1004
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 3: I'm not going to invite the others. Why why wouldn't

1005
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 3: you then say I'll invite you and then so so

1006
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 3: you don't feel uncomfortable, I' invite three or four of

1007
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 3: the other girls that they may know as well. I

1008
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 3: just wouldn't do one.

1009
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 5: By the way, why are you putting it on them?

1010
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 5: They may feel entirely comfortable.

1011
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't think some of my friends would like.

1012
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 3: I think that's the other thing, because I was at

1013
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 3: a bachelor party one night, was all meant and one

1014
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 3: girl just turned up and you could just tell it

1015
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 3: sort of changed the atmosphere. It was like, oh, people

1016
00:46:59,040 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 3: like we weren't expecting.

1017
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: Because I think the traditional thing of a bachelor party

1018
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: is you want to segregate the genders so that the

1019
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: men can behave badly and not be not feel judged. Yeah,

1020
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: I would, and maybe that the woman who would be

1021
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: more likely to snatch and break what has been referred

1022
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 1: to as the bro code. Yeah.

1023
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say it's necessarily they want to behave badly.

1024
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 3: I just think that they, oh.

1025
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: Come on, behave like. I mean, I've seen many a

1026
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: bachelor party where not people I know men behave.

1027
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,280
Speaker 3: Like as I agree, some men do, not all, but some.

1028
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: Sure, and they don't want women there to observe them.

1029
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 3: Do it because they might be friends with the man's

1030
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 3: partner or wife or whoever as well. Yeah. Yeah, And

1031
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 3: that's why I think if it's one girl, then men

1032
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,240
Speaker 3: are going to be like, oh, there's eyes out here tonight.

1033
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 3: Now whatever they do is up to them. That doesn't

1034
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 3: bother me what they do. But I'm just saying if

1035
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,800
Speaker 3: there's multiple women, then I think men are going to

1036
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 3: be a bit more at ease because it's like, well,

1037
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,919
Speaker 3: there's a lot of girls here rather than just the one.

1038
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like you're saying not good to

1039
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: this concept.

1040
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 3: Well again one, no, multiple, fine.

1041
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, we're talking about so many different things. Bucket,

1042
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 4: it's like a buck and dough.

1043
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 5: I'm sure a lot of people out there are saying,

1044
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 5: what the hell is a buck and Doe party? Because

1045
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 5: I feel it's not an American.

1046
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 2: Term, Oh, isn't it? Yeah?

1047
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 5: I guess it's like a Canadian slash British term.

1048
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,359
Speaker 1: Or Jack and Jack and Jilly, Jack and Jill.

1049
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, back to Jack and Jilly. Jilly.

1050
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: That's the probably listening to this now, and I'm probably

1051
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: getting texts that she's probably not super happy.

1052
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 3: Okay, she's expecting a ring tonight, Matt, trust me that

1053
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 3: that'll be your whatever. Whatever she said, whatever mood she's

1054
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 3: in tonight, just get ready to propose in case you

1055
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 3: need to. Okay, yeah, okay.

1056
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 5: And it's and they're probably whether it's a Jack and

1057
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 5: Jill or buckando, they're probably a lot of them are

1058
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 5: held because couple say, why would why should we have

1059
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 5: two separate parties?

1060
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 4: Why should we have a bachelor and a bachelorette, Which.

1061
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 5: Totally makes sense. I get that part, but then call it.

1062
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 5: I would call it an engagement party. I like that

1063
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 5: term better.

1064
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 4: Okay.

1065
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: I guess the difference is that I didn't really think

1066
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: about this before, but an engagement party is boom right

1067
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:15,799
Speaker 1: away like, you get engaged, the engagement party happens, then

1068
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: months could go by till the wedding, and then the

1069
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 1: bachelor party's closer to the wedding.

1070
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's yeah, uh huh, so it's.

1071
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: A timing thing, right, So you're but so on on

1072
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 1: the limited question of inviting one member of the opposite

1073
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 1: sex to bachelor bacherette, you are.

1074
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 5: Oh, I'm good, Okay, I'm tirely good with that. I

1075
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 5: think you mentioned Marge sent in the first topic about

1076
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 5: farting around your partner. Yeah, our friend Marge, Your friend Marge.

1077
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 5: Would she be in your if you had a bachelor party?

1078
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 5: Marge can come, I assume.

1079
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean I don't want to have a

1080
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: bachelor party. But yeah, but my friend Charles when he

1081
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: got mare and he had a bachelor party, he invited

1082
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: her and she went.

1083
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 3: Was she the only one?

1084
00:49:59,000 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: Yes?

1085
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 4: Cant you had fun? Great, everybody had fun. It wasn't

1086
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 4: at Niagara Falls, though, which you called a punishment. I

1087
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 4: believe that. I think that's what it was.

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00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: And this was in Nashville, Tennessee, which is wow, a

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00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: wonderful town.

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Speaker 4: So you hated my bachelor party, is what we're saying. Niagafa.

1091
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 4: I was just one.

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00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: When it's someone's birthday, in the group chat, we often

1093
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: try to find, like, you know, bad embarrassing pictures, and

1094
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: I was looking back and I found pictures. A couple

1095
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 1: of pictures of of your bachelor party. Did bring back

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00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:33,280
Speaker 1: some memories of that that bus from Toronto to Niagara Falls.

1097
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: That's all I say about.

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00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 5: That, Okay, all right, anyways, it was something wrong with

1099
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:43,760
Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with Jack and Jill's.

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00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 4: There's nothing wrong with them.

1101
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,439
Speaker 3: What about Jilly's for a bachelor party?

1102
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 5: I think that broke the code, not the bro code,

1103
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 5: but actual laws, and it shut down.

1104
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 4: They shut it down.

1105
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: It's just sh Yeah, sorry, Tessy. And the people, what

1106
00:50:58,600 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: are they saying?

1107
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 3: Fifty six percent said not good.

1108
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: Not good? Okay, they want to keep the gender separate,

1109
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 1: all right, I'm actually not surprised about that. All right,

1110
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: final topic here using the Borat voice, is this good?

1111
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: Does anyone need a refresher on what this is?

1112
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 4: Or? Oh please?

1113
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: Okay, well I didn't you know, like a boor At.

1114
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: The Sasha Baron Cohen character. The movie came out in

1115
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: two thousand and six. I think the character was introduced

1116
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: at least in America in the early two thousand, So

1117
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,760
Speaker 1: we're talking about at least a sixteen year old reference

1118
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: here when people say.

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00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 7: Nice or my wife for good success is this good?

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00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,439
Speaker 1: Okay? Okay, So it's a dated reference, but it doesn't

1121
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: want to Lee, It's funny that you've been accusing me

1122
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: of trying to find out surreptitiously things through the other

1123
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 1: topics because this topic was not sent in. I put

1124
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: it in bec because I was like, I can't believe

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00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: I still use this voice all the time. Like if

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00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,760
Speaker 1: someone came up to me and did a Napoleon Dynamite voice,

1127
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 1: I'd be like what or like said shwing to me?

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00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 3: Or was it?

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00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: Was it real? Lea Allison said like, do you give

1130
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 1: me an aston powers?

1131
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 3: Lee?

1132
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: Like, do I make you a horny y?

1133
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 3: Do I make your horny? Baby?

1134
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: I mean that's probably like that's not very cool.

1135
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 3: No, I mean the boss twenty five years now, when

1136
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 3: you're thinking, when you're talking on some in pals, I

1137
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 3: mean the thing is like I think it's great with tas.

1138
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 3: It's the reference whenever task says my wife, you you know,

1139
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 3: it becomes my wife general public. I don't think you

1140
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 3: just I just think it's the time has moved on

1141
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 3: from yeah like saying with often powers. I think it's

1142
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: sort of you know, it's it's it's old now. So

1143
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 3: outside of my wife, I don't think you hear it

1144
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 3: very often. I don't think you're very nice or anything.

1145
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:50,240
Speaker 3: Do you just in general?

1146
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 4: No?

1147
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 3: No, I mean I only hear I only hear my wife.

1148
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 3: Again in this confines of this, but do you never

1149
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 3: say it? No, because I'd never really enjoyed Borat. I

1150
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 3: like Sasha Baron Cohen, but I never really enjoyed bor

1151
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 3: At the movie. So it was never a big hit

1152
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: for me.

1153
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:09,240
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I think the only I mean not the only,

1154
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: but I think maybe the number one thing about getting

1155
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 1: married would be able to start saying out more.

1156
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, ain't you ain't wrong about that?

1157
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you've said it, you say it.

1158
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 2: I say it all the time. My my WiFi network

1159
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 2: is called Borat Voice, my WiFi.

1160
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 3: Classic.

1161
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 2: It's classic. I have a special place in my heart

1162
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 2: for Borat. I went to see the movie at midnight

1163
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 2: Madness at tiff. He arrived on a cart with his

1164
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 2: donkey with him on the cart being pulled by four

1165
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 2: bubushka type women Uh. And I was sitting next to

1166
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: I had Larry Charles, the director, on one side of me,

1167
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 2: and Michael Moore was sitting right behind Larry Jarls. And

1168
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 2: then the film broke halfway through the first act and

1169
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,800
Speaker 2: all hell broke loose. This was like, it was almost

1170
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 2: one in the morning at this point. And Michael Moore,

1171
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 2: I have friend friends who worked at TIFF. He got

1172
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 2: into the projection booth apparently made the problem worse. He

1173
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 2: was trying to help, he made it worse. Larry Charles

1174
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: was furious. I've never seen a man so angry in

1175
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 2: my life.

1176
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: Wow, he's the director.

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00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 2: He's the director, you know, one of my heroes. I

1178
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 2: directed hundreds of felts. Yeah. Anyways, and then Sasha Baron

1179
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 2: Cohen came up on the stage and riffed in character

1180
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 2: for about twenty five minutes and I actually had to leave.

1181
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 2: They ended up fixing it eventually, but I had to

1182
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:56,399
Speaker 2: go because Lincoln had just been born, you know, three

1183
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: months beforehand. It was my first fora out of the

1184
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:04,720
Speaker 2: house myself. Uh and uh, yeah, So I love the character.

1185
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 2: I love Sasha Baron Cohen again a special place in

1186
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,479
Speaker 2: my heart. So I will never stop quoting not only

1187
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 2: Borat but Bruno as well. Uh, you know, and uh

1188
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 2: it's great, so using the Borat voice it's nice. I

1189
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 2: suppose that's sort of uh it's now Giannis now right,

1190
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 2: that's from ours.

1191
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: But j D, would you say that that night seeing

1192
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: the movie was a great success?

1193
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:37,280
Speaker 2: It was absolutely great success.

1194
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1195
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: Okay, if you're if you're watching on YouTube now and

1196
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: or if you're listening to the podcast, I should say,

1197
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: we're showing a picture of Borat in the sort of

1198
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 1: testicle suspender man KINI. It's like that neon green thing

1199
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 1: that he wears. I think this is not good because

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00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: I've seen this. This is sort of like a thing

1201
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,760
Speaker 1: now that people will wear on the beach as a gag.

1202
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,359
Speaker 1: I'd like to I actually, speaking of bachelor parties, went

1203
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: to a bachelor party in Austin, Texas where the guy

1204
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: that I was planning it with said, you know, we

1205
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: planned the whole thing, and he's like, okay, and then

1206
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,320
Speaker 1: Sunday when we wake up, before we leave, there is

1207
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: a five k fun run in Austin. Okay, so I'm

1208
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 1: gonna buy us all Borat mankinis. We'll put them on

1209
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 1: and we'll go run the five k. I'm like that,

1210
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: that's the dumbest idea I've ever heard. No way we're

1211
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: doing that. And he was so adamant about it that

1212
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: I was just like, fine, let him buy these mankinis

1213
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: because I guarantee you this after a night of drinking

1214
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: on Friday and Saturday. No one's waking up on Sunday

1215
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: early to run a five k. Like, he'll just get

1216
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: iced out on this. So he I ended up with,

1217
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 1: I have like ten boor at mankinis buried in a

1218
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 1: box somewhere.

1219
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 3: Wow.

1220
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 5: So it was your objection, mord running the five k

1221
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 5: or wearing the make Why would I like?

1222
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: Sorry, I would never wear one. I'm not come, I

1223
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,720
Speaker 1: don't take my shirt. I would swim in a T shirt. Okay,

1224
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 1: we could have.

1225
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 3: We could have used those for one of our Halloween

1226
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 3: episodes on the on the starters there, Matt, one time.

1227
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 3: We could have all all four of them.

1228
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: Would you have worn that?

1229
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:08,919
Speaker 3: Sure?

1230
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 4: Why not?

1231
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: I don't know? Because you complained about having to wear

1232
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: a wetsuit which covers your entire.

1233
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 2: Body that was constretching then is not constrainted.

1234
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 5: No, No, the opposite the two biggest complaints I think

1235
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 5: have been having trapped wind and wearing that.

1236
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 3: Oh that's right.

1237
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: Imagine trapped wind in a in a Neokorean suit.

1238
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 3: It was trapped body odour in a wetsuit. That's what

1239
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:31,160
Speaker 3: it was. It was gross.

1240
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: What are the people saying, sixty eight sixty just ticked up?

1241
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 3: They're saying it's it is nice. They're saying it's good.

1242
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 3: So okay.

1243
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know what's fun when someone gives you

1244
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: like a good piece of information in a group chat

1245
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,919
Speaker 1: or in a text right back, w Well, we were

1246
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: it's great. Yeah, there's certain no other word that that

1247
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 1: encompasses that feeling.

1248
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 5: Sort of yeah, I've sort of lost that that. I

1249
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 5: feel like my wife is the only one that's around us. Yeah,

1250
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 5: like you dropped some great ones. Whowa, we was a

1251
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 5: great one. I actually amongst my friends, they've been using

1252
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 5: the word aladeen, which is from his movie The Dictator.

1253
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, which.

1254
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 5: Means neither positive nor negative. It's like not bad, come

1255
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 5: seek them saw kind of thing. So a lot of

1256
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 5: COVID questions, hey do you test positive to take the test?

1257
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 5: Aladean just just a screw around neither neither here nor there,

1258
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 5: but uh bort, I love the borat I love that humor.

1259
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 4: We have.

1260
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we came to about as close as consensus

1261
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 1: as we could on that one. JD. If you're ready,

1262
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 1: it's time for subjective trivia. Subjective trivia it's just like

1263
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: regular trivia, except only I know the answer. So going

1264
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: back to talking about bachelor parties and your partner, today's

1265
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:12,919
Speaker 1: subjective trivia question is about love. But before I ask

1266
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: you the question, I'm.

1267
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 3: Definitely getting married to there's no question.

1268
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 1: How familiar are you three with the love languages? The

1269
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: five love languages?

1270
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 4: Slightly?

1271
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 2: You know, I only know what I know from you. Matt.

1272
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 2: You you walked Rachel and I through it one time.

1273
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, I don't remember that. Okay, task have you

1274
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: heard of them?

1275
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean through here? Say it never went through

1276
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 4: them myself?

1277
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Lee, I assume never heard of them. No.

1278
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 3: That used to be one of my old gags though,

1279
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 3: that I only spoke two languages, English and the language

1280
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 3: of love. It was a big hit back in the day.

1281
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 3: But I don't really know what you're talking about it.

1282
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, bring it back. Yeah, that holds it.

1283
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1284
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 3: It certainly did well with the liking Peru with Rocktown's friends.

1285
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 3: You know your Spanish? No, not good, but I do

1286
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 3: speak two languages, you know. Oh really? Yeah, so you

1287
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 3: know that's great, But I just haven't had I haven't been,

1288
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: I haven't brought it out for a long time.

1289
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, well, Jadie, why don't you throw up the

1290
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: slide there? And I'm gonna walk you through them all right? So, Lee,

1291
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 1: what you're looking at here are the five love languages.

1292
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: So basically, the premise is that we all experience love differently,

1293
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: and how you experience it may be different than how

1294
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: your partner experience it. So these love languages help you

1295
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: figure out how you want love shown to you. So, Lee,

1296
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna walk you through them, and when

1297
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: I explain each one, maybe you give me an example

1298
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 1: of what one of these would be. So, for instance,

1299
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 1: acts of service, that's when your partner goes out of

1300
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: their way to make your life easier by doing a

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Speaker 1: certain task. So what would that be as an example.

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Speaker 3: I mean doing doing all the laundry in the house.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, perfect, perfect example. Okay. Gifts, so you feel

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Speaker 1: most loved when people give you a visual symbol of love,

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Speaker 1: So that one's easy.

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Speaker 3: An example, like for me, it's not flowers or chocolate.

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Speaker 3: It's more like, hey, his tickets to Coldplay, or here's

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Speaker 3: something that you like, she's going to go because you

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Speaker 3: give sitting, always standing, if you give, if you give

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Speaker 3: flowers a chocolate, they've got it. They've got basically like, oh,

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Speaker 3: that's all you could think of, whereas if it's Coldplay,

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Speaker 3: it's like, oh my god, that's what I want.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, great, great example.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Words of affirmation that's verbal or written, acknowledgments of affection, compliments, appreciation,

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Speaker 1: and encouragement.

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Speaker 3: Well, obviously, you know I took my Spanish, my vows

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Speaker 3: in Spanish when I got married, so I spoke it

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Speaker 3: all in Spanish to Roxanne when we exchanged our vowels.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was a way of showing her how

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Speaker 3: committed I was.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you do speak more than two.

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Speaker 3: It was a written I had to read it about

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Speaker 3: I practiced and practiced and practiced, and yeah, I read them.

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Speaker 1: I would say that this is I mean, not not

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Speaker 1: just doing it when you're getting married, but I would

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Speaker 1: say this is a more constant like hey you look

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Speaker 1: great today, Hey you know, thanks so much for helping

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Speaker 1: me with this, or you're really killing it at work,

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Speaker 1: or you're doing so great with the kids, or you

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Speaker 1: know that kind of thing. Quality time, actively spending time

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Speaker 1: with someone, giving them your undivite attention.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, like on the couch and no no phones

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Speaker 3: or distractions nearby or yeah, okay, good good.

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Speaker 1: And then physical touch, physical signs of affection and intimacy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very important this one. Learning about you know from

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Speaker 3: your partner when the right time to just have a

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Speaker 3: snuggle is and when the right time to up the

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Speaker 3: ante is because it varies throughout throughout time, and I

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01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 3: think it's important to know the right time to just

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Speaker 3: be like today, it's just a snuggle, that's all it is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, it's interesting you said that. That one's very important

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Speaker 1: because the question is I need you to rank the

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Speaker 1: five love languages from best to worst. Okay, so number

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Speaker 1: one is the best love language, Number five is the worst.

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Speaker 1: And as always, they're written here can or.

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Speaker 5: Everyone or we've got that diagram from lexisclean kitchen dot

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Speaker 5: com up again. Yeah, if you're listening a lot, lexiscleankitchen

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Speaker 5: dot Com has provided us with this grabbic I've always

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Speaker 5: I always hear physical touch. Again, I never physical touch

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Speaker 5: is the one that always like seeps into my brain

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Speaker 5: because that's one's important to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm going quality time first. I think

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Speaker 3: giving your partner the attention where you are completely like right,

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Speaker 3: if you're you know, showing me something, talk to me

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Speaker 3: like we're doing something, you know, ranging something with the kids.

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Speaker 3: If they know you've they've got your attention and they

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Speaker 3: feel that you're like giving it to them, I think

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Speaker 3: that's extremely This is Matt.

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Speaker 5: Does Matt care about quality time?

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Speaker 1: Is task? Understands what subjective trip?

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Speaker 5: I think words of affirmation I think will be important

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Speaker 5: to Matt. I don't think, okay, so that's number one.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm throwing it high, high, so this is you receiving, right, Matt.

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Speaker 5: Correct, I'm throwing words of affirmation and physical touch and

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Speaker 5: acts of service. I don't know which one would be

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Speaker 5: top three for well.

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Speaker 3: I I think, like I say, quality time is probably

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Speaker 3: number one for me. Then I think I think, honestly.

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Speaker 1: Don't understand what's objective to I.

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Speaker 3: Think acts of service and physical touch are coming in next,

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Speaker 3: because if you if you just know you you know

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Speaker 3: your wife needs something done, or you do it without asking,

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Speaker 3: without looking for praise without looking for credit. If you

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Speaker 3: just do something you know that they, you know, is

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Speaker 3: going to see as important without any questioning or without

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Speaker 3: any like, hey, did you see I did this? I

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Speaker 3: think that's important as well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so are you going to start? Are you ready

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Speaker 1: to start ranking?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well okay, let me throw this out there. Gift

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Speaker 2: giving is the least.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm putting that number five.

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Speaker 2: That's number five. Yeah, ok what's number one? Then, guys,

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Speaker 2: and then we'll fill in there.

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Speaker 3: Well, so I'll just I'll just go backwards a little

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Speaker 3: bit because Matt, remember, yeah, I know, I know. Well

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Speaker 3: I'm trying. Yeah, I think words are actually second here,

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Speaker 3: because again, I think actions are way stronger than words.

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Speaker 3: I think you can say whatever you want, but if

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Speaker 3: you do something, they feel that more than just saying.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but he doesn't care. Quality time is not number

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Speaker 5: one for Matt. That's that's for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: It's either words of affirmation, acts of service, or physical touch.

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Speaker 4: I know that it's.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we got to decide here.

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Speaker 4: No, no, let's not decide.

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Speaker 5: Let's just say here, what is what are what are

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Speaker 5: Jill's love languages? That's the important part here.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's that's not it's not relevant.

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01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 1: It's relevant to this.

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Speaker 3: So this is what Jill should be thinking. So this

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Speaker 3: is what Matt's going to basically submit to Jill. Say,

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Speaker 3: this is the order page.

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Speaker 1: We we've talked about this already. Okay, we're not gonna

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Speaker 1: be the first time in this.

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Speaker 2: The only thing she's getting for the first time tonight

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Speaker 2: is a fart. That's it.

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Speaker 5: I think. So gift giving is number five. I think

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Speaker 5: acts of service and quality time are three four for

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Speaker 5: me somewhere, quality time is three, acts of service four

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Speaker 5: or vice.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm writing this down.

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Speaker 2: Quality quality time go three, acts of service four okay,

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01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 2: words of affirmation that physical touch I think for that's

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Speaker 2: my guess. So physical touch number one, number two, number two,

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Speaker 2: number two, yeah, okay, okay, So to review.

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Speaker 1: You're saying number one, words of affirmation, two, physical touch,

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01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: number three, quality time number four, acts of service number five.

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01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: Gift giving, yeah's incorrect. I didn't and it's tough to get.

1423
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 1: You got to get five in a row.

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Speaker 4: Can I swap quality time and acts of service?

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01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: You can, but it's not going to get you there.

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Speaker 1: Here's the answer. Number one. Acts of service. Number two

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Speaker 1: and three are very very close. But I would say

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Speaker 1: words of affirmation to physical touch three quality time four.

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Speaker 1: And you were absolutely correct. Gift giving is the worst lovelane.

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Speaker 5: It looks like you wrote quasts, I f s queefs.

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Speaker 1: In the top five but above five.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you are the master cost.

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Speaker 1: I agree with Lee in his reasoning that you know,

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01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 1: actions speak louder than work. So instead of hearing that

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Speaker 1: I'm caring for I, I guess I like, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: put that, that's my number one.

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Speaker 4: You put quality time for though, but I hear it,

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Speaker 4: I put quality.

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Speaker 1: Time four because I don't know. I guess. I guess it's.

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Speaker 4: It's such a vague. Yeah. Yeah, it's like it can

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Speaker 4: be tied into acts of service.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, because some people think like quality time is like

1444
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,440
Speaker 1: you plan a date for the person and then you

1445
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:35,959
Speaker 1: go when there's a dove flies out of your suit

1446
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: jacket and this is the most romantic thing. Other people

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Speaker 1: are just just like any time we spent together, we

1448
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 1: could be running errands together, is as long as we're together,

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Speaker 1: that's quality time.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: Maybe I've been scarred by people that think, oh, the

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Speaker 1: only time that counts is time when it's like this

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Speaker 1: big preplanned date thing, which I.

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Speaker 2: Think is interesting is bullshit.

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01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 1: But okay, would you want to everyone just give me

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Speaker 1: your number one?

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Speaker 2: JD let me so, I gotta look at the thing again.

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01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 2: They got too much going on over here. Let's see

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Speaker 2: number one for me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just give me the biggest what what? How do

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01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: you like to receive love from Rachel?

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01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 3: Well?

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01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 2: I think quality time is number one for me. Okay,

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01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 2: you know, but it's not a performative thing for either

1465
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 2: of us. It's just time for the two of us

1466
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:22,559
Speaker 2: to go to dinner or even just have a quiet

1467
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Speaker 2: coffee or you know, just spend spend quality time with

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Speaker 2: one another. I think that's number one for me, and

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Speaker 2: I agree with you as well. Gift giving would be

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Speaker 2: the like the worst worst Yeah okay, Tassie.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's acts of service and quality time Okay, they

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Speaker 5: go hand in hand.

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Speaker 1: Have you discussed this with Daniel?

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01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 4: No?

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01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 1: Something for Lee? Maybe everyone taught me a lot today.

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01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 1: Maybe this is something you guys can take back to.

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Speaker 3: Your really.

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01:08:54,680 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 5: Maybe maybe yes, But what are you saying that people

1479
01:08:58,240 --> 01:08:59,040
Speaker 5: need to discuss this?

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Speaker 1: I think it is honestly, I mean it's it's I

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01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: understand that it's hokey, and I don't think it's like

1482
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,759
Speaker 1: scientifically backed in any way, but it is an interesting

1483
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: revelation to understand that, like just because acts of certain

1484
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: the way that I experienced love is someone doing things

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01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,559
Speaker 1: for someone else. They might just want to hear, you know,

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01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: constant words of affirmation, just to know they're doing great,

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Speaker 1: just and that's how they experience it. And if I,

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01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 1: like to me, it would blow my mind if my

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Speaker 1: partner's number one way they experienced love was being bought gifts.

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Speaker 1: In a sense, it's easy because like that's the easiest

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01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: thing to do, but I wouldn't. I would never assume that.

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Speaker 1: So if someone told me, like, gift giving is how

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01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,320
Speaker 1: I experienced love, first of all, I would break up

1494
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 1: with them, but it would it would just be good

1495
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:45,600
Speaker 1: to know.

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Speaker 3: Je's got to take something back tomorrow to the shop.

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Speaker 1: Then leally, what's your number?

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Speaker 3: Quality time for sure? And again I'll just I'll just

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01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 3: extend it to attention to your partner, because I know

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Speaker 3: in the past sometimes if I've been talking and you know,

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01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 3: you're scrolling your phone or you're distracted, that can really

1502
01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 3: annoy your partner. If it's something important you're talking about.

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01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 3: So it's like, right, I've realized, phone down, boom, give

1504
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 3: me your attention, and that's important. That's very important. The

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01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:13,800
Speaker 3: communication I.

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Speaker 5: Always thought would I always thought Danielle's homepage alexis cleankitchen

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Speaker 5: dot com was because she cooks and she's a chef.

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01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:22,600
Speaker 5: But I guess she was just trying to tell me

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01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 5: that she wants more gifts.

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Speaker 3: Give card, what about that? Give cad aft. There you go.

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Speaker 3: There's a whole new debate.

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01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 1: What a sweet way to in the show. Everyone listening,

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01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,000
Speaker 1: you know, just figure out what your love languages. Talk

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01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 1: to your partner, find out what their love languages. Maybe

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Speaker 1: able to do something. Start farting in front of them.

1516
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: Maybe that'll make things better. If your budget, get married,

1517
01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 1: do it together, throw your.

1518
01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 3: Back, get married together.

1519
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: Who knows? Go to a concert, stance, sit during the

1520
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 1: slow songs. Don't do the limbo.

1521
01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 5: You're teaching us things, Matt and say my way. I

1522
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:01,480
Speaker 5: will say, let me let me ad in Greg Stapleton's

1523
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:03,559
Speaker 5: comment from the stream team, because I think all five

1524
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:06,120
Speaker 5: of us put gift giving down at number five. But

1525
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:09,679
Speaker 5: Greg Stapleton mentions, it's not about the gifts, it's about

1526
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 5: a feeling of love by giving somebody gifts. So it's

1527
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 5: it's an act.

1528
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, ship Greg, that's why it's one of the

1529
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 1: fucking love languages listening.

1530
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, but but but it's it's it's an act of

1531
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 5: service as well, because that's why they're all, Yeah.

1532
01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 1: Come on, water tight compartments. Don't start creating them together.

1533
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 4: You need to talk about it.

1534
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 5: Then you've got a problem in your relationship, you guys,

1535
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:33,600
Speaker 5: should you should just know?

1536
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 4: No, you should talk about it.

1537
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 1: Well, if you have topics, tweet them to me at

1538
01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 1: starters Matt or emails at is this good pot at

1539
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:46,440
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. Do you guys have anything to promote?

1540
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 4: Also?

1541
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 5: I saw this in the stream team before before we

1542
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 5: move on, can we call March our buddy March.

1543
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:54,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do that.

1544
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, sure, our buddy March. Great.

1545
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 5: As far as things we've got to promote, well, yesterday

1546
01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:04,000
Speaker 5: we had on Kelly dwired open some old baseball packs.

1547
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 5: That was a lot of fun. Is this Breaks did

1548
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 5: a good top ten corners of the break breaks?

1549
01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh my god.

1550
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:17,600
Speaker 3: Breaks?

1551
01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 4: We had no breaks in this show? Did we No?

1552
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 4: We didn't.

1553
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 3: We survived.

1554
01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:28,240
Speaker 4: Maybe we had dynamic breaks.

1555
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 2: We soon will find it.

1556
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 4: Anyways, is this Breaks? Also did a show it's called

1557
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 4: No Breaks.

1558
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 2: Top ten Corners.

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01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:42,599
Speaker 5: That was good, great, top ten corners in F one tracks.

1560
01:12:43,479 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 1: Okay, And to help you out, I'll say No Breaks

1561
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: is in its own feet? Is that not correct?

1562
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:47,679
Speaker 2: That is correct?

1563
01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 4: You're so right about that.

1564
01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: Anyone of anything else?

1565
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 4: Before we go, We're going to a baseball game. That

1566
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 4: should be fun. We'll do a show on it next week.

1567
01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 3: Don't don't have your bachelor potty in Vegas, Matt, whatever

1568
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 3: you do, you have it some where else.

1569
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, topic for a future episode. Thanks for listening

1570
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 1: for everyone. I'm at Austin and this was good. Let's

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01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:10,840
Speaker 1: see you next week.