1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. This is from Terry on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: Terry says, I've gotten when of a birthday surprise that's 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: being planned for me at work, and I want no 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: part of it. First Off, I hate surprises. Secondly, I 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,159 Speaker 1: stopped making a big deal about my birthday when I 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: became an adult. Thirdly, when I'm done working, I want 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: to go home or to hang out with my friends. 8 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: The vast majority of my coworkers are not friends, and 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: it all seems very fake to me. Now. If this 10 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 1: party were to happen while I'm on the clock, I'm 11 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: all for it. However, the buzz is that this will 12 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: be happening after the workday is over, So that begs 13 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: the question, how do I put a stop to it 14 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:45,599 Speaker 1: if I'm not supposed to know about it? Doing glory? 15 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, you say you don't like surprises, 16 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 2: that's oval you found out about it. It ain't a surprise. 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes as an adult, you stop caring about your birthday 18 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: as an adult, But sometimes as an adult, guess what 19 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: we have to do. We gotta play the game. We 20 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: gotta play the game. I do stuff all the time 21 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 2: I don't want to do. I complain about it when 22 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: ain't nobody listening. But then I know how to play 23 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:16,279 Speaker 2: the game, So I play the game. Just play along. 24 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 2: You don't know one of them people right there can 25 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 2: help you with your next promotion down at the job. 26 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: It's just a few hours sit down with them fake 27 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 2: ass people. You might discover that one of them fake 28 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: ass people is actually all right. They don't like them, 29 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 2: don't like them, okay. 30 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: So surprise, play it off and enjoy the party. 31 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: Is that what you think? For me? To go down 32 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 2: there and enjoy the party and sit down with them 33 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 2: fake people, you might discover one of them fake people 34 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 2: is been faked just like you, and really enjoy girl, 35 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: play it along with it. I do it all the time. 36 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: Your stuff. I don't want to do. 37 00:01:53,920 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: This stuff that you don't want to you don't I 38 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: don't want to know. So have you ever done stuff 39 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: with us and you didn't want to? 40 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 2: We've been on vacation. 41 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: The party eating is gonna pay for it? Right or Tommy, 42 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: that's right? 43 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: The only one paper stuff? Is it? Fellas Juli brought 44 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: some here here? 45 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: Does he? 46 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 2: You know what? On that trip trip to say Juda, 47 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: on the trip to Saint Jude, had to buy stuff. 48 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: Then, did you thank you doing? 49 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 50 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: Thank you? 51 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: Right, I got a feed too. I can't be out here, 52 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 2: come back till they was harming you didn't do nothing 53 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: about it. 54 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:48,399 Speaker 1: Can't come in here with that one. 55 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: He's been tom If we can't hear you speaker, y'all 56 00:02:51,919 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 2: be on the diet next time we go out thing 57 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 2: about the women on this show the way they expect it, 58 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 2: that's the problem. 59 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: We're appreciative though, we're very grateful. Thank you all the time. 60 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, guys. 61 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: Problem be sure to the problem because you. 62 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: Problem. 63 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: I don't even eat that much. How am I the problem? 64 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: Because I expect it? 65 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's what you be ordered. I know you're 66 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: gonna be buying this stuff when you're on your. 67 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: Own, not at all. Blue Blue. We'll have more of 68 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up or twenty minutes 69 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: after right after this. 70 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: So one time Big drop me off over there. I 71 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: told Big comeback by one thirty pick me up so 72 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 2: I can go home, now, you know, and late at 73 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: night they really come out there food. 74 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: Oh I forgot it was a yeah, so. 75 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: Big this food came to ring the doorbell and they 76 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 2: opened the door. And Big walked in. I said, oh man, 77 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: and O roach fell off the ceiling on on big shoulders, 78 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: Big soulent, Big knocked up. He said, hey man, there 79 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 2: was that a roach that just fell on a world? Ye, 80 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: what's going on in there? And then he walked in 81 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 2: and saw all these roaches and he was just not 82 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: and he was just chilling roaches. He was just stooping. Man, looking, 83 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: you ain't gonna believe not. What the hell y'all ain't 84 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: nobody looking at de ro What is y'all doing? 85 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: He was just hollering, Man, you got to get out 86 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: of you're listening morning show