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Speaker 2: Caleb is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted from a date that
Speaker 2: he went on with a woman named McKenna. In a
Speaker 2: few minutes, we'll call her in social house why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting him. But first, Caleb, how long has it been
Speaker 2: since you heard from McKenna.
Speaker 3: Well, let's see, I guess it's been It's been about
Speaker 3: a week now. Yeah, since I heard we left things.
Speaker 3: I mean, as far as I thought, we left things
Speaker 3: pretty good. We had actually texted that same day later
Speaker 3: to hang out again. She's seemed excited.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know why it's been a week.
Speaker 5: So well, then let's go backwards, because you did have
Speaker 5: an interaction with her that sounded good.
Speaker 2: So when how did you meet her? What was your
Speaker 2: date like?
Speaker 4: Well, the date was great.
Speaker 3: Well, I met her actually at a at a work
Speaker 3: event several years.
Speaker 4: Ago and we went on a date back then. We
Speaker 4: I guess.
Speaker 6: I know, I wasn't really looking for anything serious.
Speaker 4: At the time. I had some family well and some
Speaker 4: work stuff going.
Speaker 3: On, and I could tell she's thing busy, but we
Speaker 3: we had a great time, had some drinks.
Speaker 4: There was I thought, some chemistry, and.
Speaker 3: Uh wound up just kind of hanging out for the
Speaker 3: night and.
Speaker 4: That was it just sort of lost touch. But at
Speaker 4: this point, you know, I guess it's been I guess
Speaker 4: it'd been almost six years.
Speaker 3: I reached back out just to see what she was
Speaker 3: up to and if she wanted to meet up, and
Speaker 3: she said yes.
Speaker 4: I thought we had a great night.
Speaker 3: We did some bar hopping, had some food. She had
Speaker 3: to me drinks that night, I do remember. So she
Speaker 3: wound up coming and staying at my place, but it
Speaker 3: was innocent. I mean, we hung out, there was some cuddling.
Speaker 4: Some kisses whatever.
Speaker 3: Thought she left in the morning, Yeah, I had some
Speaker 3: coffee and I thought we were going to do this again.
Speaker 4: And then I just did not hear back from her.
Speaker 4: And I'm so confused.
Speaker 2: So did she say that she wanted to do it again? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean in the last text we were she
Speaker 3: was it was like she was just waiting for me
Speaker 3: to reach out and kind of plan something. And then
Speaker 3: when I reached bright out, I just never heard anything.
Speaker 2: Is there anything you can think of? There would be
Speaker 2: a reason to get ghosted.
Speaker 3: I've racked my brain, like I saw, I guess I
Speaker 3: had so my ex girlfriend, which has been months and
Speaker 3: months ago.
Speaker 4: I know she had left some stuff in the apartment.
Speaker 4: I got rid of a lot of.
Speaker 6: It, but I did I noticed a couple of days
Speaker 6: ago there's like.
Speaker 3: A pretty yodoran stick was still like in that side
Speaker 3: drawer that I usually keep open. So like maybe she saw.
Speaker 6: That and thought something was going on.
Speaker 4: But I'm kind of grasping a straws. I mean, I
Speaker 4: just I don't know.
Speaker 5: I've seen shampoo in the shower before that was a
Speaker 5: woman's and I was like, I don't know about all this.
Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, it make me feel good. Yeah, that could
Speaker 2: be a reason.
Speaker 6: I get I get that.
Speaker 4: It's just she could have.
Speaker 2: Asked, yeah, well, we'll see if we can figure it
Speaker 2: out for you. Then we'll play a song come back,
Speaker 2: and then call her and see if she'll tell us
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you and get you maybe get you
Speaker 2: another date. Okay, cool, thank you, all right, we'll play
Speaker 2: a song, come back and get your first day follow
Speaker 2: up next.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us. Caleb is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by McKenna. So in a second,
Speaker 2: we're gonna call her and see if she tell us
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Caleb, why don't you refresh our memory on
Speaker 2: her date with McKenna.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so McKenna and I had a great date. This
Speaker 3: was the second time I reached out of here years ago.
Speaker 3: Timing wasn't right, but yeah, I thought we really hit
Speaker 3: it off on this last this last date, and she
Speaker 3: wound up coming to stay in the night. Everything seemed cool.
Speaker 3: We had plans to move forward, and then it's been
Speaker 3: a week now.
Speaker 4: And I cannot get in touch with her. So I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 3: I I my ex girlfriend had left some stuff at
Speaker 3: the house, like deodorant something. Maybe maybe that had something
Speaker 3: to do with it. She saw that and got some ideas.
Speaker 3: But I'm racking my brain just trying to figure out
Speaker 3: because we had a great time, chemistry was there. Just
Speaker 3: haven't heard her.
Speaker 2: All right, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Yeah, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, mansweek to McKenna.
Speaker 2: Please. This is McKenna. McKenna, how are you? This is Jeubil.
Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 2: Him McKenna. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
Speaker 2: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8: Hi.
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 9: I'm good.
Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 7: I yes, I've listened to it, so I'm just curious
Speaker 7: what's going on?
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we do a segment called the First Day
Speaker 2: follow Up. That's where if you go out with somebody
Speaker 2: on a date and you ghost them, they can email
Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask you
Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them. Oh yeah, do you have any
Speaker 2: idea who would ask us to call you?
Speaker 7: I have some thoughts, but I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2: His name is Caleb. Was that your thoughts?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Caleb emailed us told us about your date. They said
Speaker 2: he had a great time and he's wondering why you're
Speaker 2: not calling him back.
Speaker 7: I mean, we did have a great time, and you know,
Speaker 7: I had liked him before when we met at a
Speaker 7: work party years before, and so I was excited to
Speaker 7: hear from him.
Speaker 2: And we went to.
Speaker 7: A bunch of bars and I had a little too
Speaker 7: much to drink and he was really kind of nash
Speaker 7: and took care of me and I had a great time,
Speaker 7: and you know, you want to kind of follow up
Speaker 7: what people have done up to and so it just
Speaker 7: happened to have seen his ig like the night before
Speaker 7: we went out, and then afterwards, I just wanted to
Speaker 7: see if there was anything on there, and I noticed
Speaker 7: that he had followed a bunch of people, and so
Speaker 7: when I looked to see it, he randomly followed like
Speaker 7: ten bikini models. And I showed it to my girlfriend
Speaker 7: and she said, it's like a red flag. And so
Speaker 7: I'm just really not about that vibe.
Speaker 9: If that's what he wants, then that's fine.
Speaker 7: I don't need to, you know, get involved with someone
Speaker 7: who's about that.
Speaker 4: Wait are you are you stalking me?
Speaker 2: That's Caleb. Caleb is actually on the phone listening and
Speaker 2: lets to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Wait, yeah, you're on my Instagram looking at who I'm following.
Speaker 4: What is that about?
Speaker 7: Is I haven't seen you in six years? And pop
Speaker 7: into my DM and of course I'm gonna look at
Speaker 7: your I G It's normal and.
Speaker 4: Well, as you know, following people on Instagram.
Speaker 6: I don't understand me.
Speaker 7: A bikini all bikini models like you know that after
Speaker 7: you spent time with me and we had a good time,
Speaker 7: and your go to is to go follow bikini models.
Speaker 4: No, all that is is eye candy. It it doesn't
Speaker 4: even mean anything. It's just yeah, it's what guys do.
Speaker 7: I'm a guy that after spending time with me.
Speaker 9: Yes, you're you're correct, a typical guy.
Speaker 7: So that's what I don't want is a typical guy
Speaker 7: who's gonna follow bikini models after spending time with me.
Speaker 3: Okay, well I probably don't need somebody policing what I
Speaker 3: can look at and interact with.
Speaker 4: I thought we had a great time together.
Speaker 9: It happened rely.
Speaker 7: I thought you were asorable, and then I just noticed
Speaker 7: and it was what people do when you haven't seen
Speaker 7: each other for six years is to see.
Speaker 9: And you're the one that DM me on your accounts.
Speaker 9: Of course I'm going to look at.
Speaker 2: Your I why are you following beginning models?
Speaker 3: Well, in my defense, I after our date, I went
Speaker 3: hung out.
Speaker 4: With my buddies and Nick was there. I told you
Speaker 4: about Nick.
Speaker 3: We were all watching some of the old older Olympics,
Speaker 3: like videos and stuff. And that got us looking on Instagram,
Speaker 3: and one of my friends grabbed my phone and clicked
Speaker 3: a bunch of them.
Speaker 4: I didn't realize I was following them anyway.
Speaker 3: But if I follow them, that shouldn't be a problem.
Speaker 4: It's just what, guys.
Speaker 7: Do you Your guy friend followed fifteen bikini models all
Speaker 7: at the same time, and he just happened to go through.
Speaker 3: That all at the same well, I mean he added
Speaker 3: some and then we were going through I added some.
Speaker 3: It didn't it was just stupid. Were just looking at
Speaker 3: girls and I was honestly so excited about the date.
Speaker 3: That's how it all started. As I was talking about you,
Speaker 3: and I showed them a photo and that's where they
Speaker 3: followed that.
Speaker 5: McKenna, What is it about these bikini models that's making
Speaker 5: you so upset?
Speaker 7: I mean, it's just like, I don't know. I just
Speaker 7: it was literally after our date. I like, yeah, it's
Speaker 7: the timing of it. And so then it just seems
Speaker 7: like he's not serious. I'm looking for someone serious. If
Speaker 7: he wants eye candy, go get the eye candy. I mean,
Speaker 7: I believe, like I'm a beautiful woman and I deserve
Speaker 7: someone whose attention is on and not on bikini models
Speaker 7: that he may never ever meet.
Speaker 2: She wants to be your eye candy.
Speaker 4: Caleb McKenna, you are my eye candy.
Speaker 3: These girls on Instagram it's all fake anyway, it doesn't
Speaker 3: add up to anything.
Speaker 4: It's a pipe dream.
Speaker 7: You're the real deal me that it doesn't make to
Speaker 7: do that immediately after our date, Like, why would you
Speaker 7: do that? I mean you had a great time. It
Speaker 7: just ruined my perception of you. If that is what
Speaker 7: is more important to you? Is this eye candy girls?
Speaker 7: Like there, it wasn't.
Speaker 2: It wasn't.
Speaker 9: It wasn't just morning. It was like, it's not like
Speaker 9: a million to the fifteen.
Speaker 3: Well you, I mean, yeah, I followed. I followed some girls,
Speaker 3: but you followed Christiansworth, Like right after our day.
Speaker 2: How do you know that?
Speaker 9: So you looked at my account? Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 7: After years told me crap about looking at your account,
Speaker 7: so you brought itself.
Speaker 4: It didn't actually bother me.
Speaker 7: But you're throwing it back in my face something that
Speaker 7: you said that was wrong for me to do. You
Speaker 7: were throwing it back in my face.
Speaker 2: It's kind of cute. Guys, you're stalking each other. It's
Speaker 2: like you guys have been together for a while. McKenna,
Speaker 2: Would you like another day with Caleb will pay for it?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 9: I don't think so.
Speaker 7: I mean, if that's his go to right after a
Speaker 7: date like I, you know, I don't need to be
Speaker 7: worrying about if he's looking at other girls, that's what
Speaker 7: I don't want to be worrying about.
Speaker 9: And if that's his immediate.
Speaker 7: Reaction after our first date, then I don't want that
Speaker 7: kind of energy.
Speaker 2: So he made you feel insecure right away?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm pretty secure, But if
Speaker 7: that's what your go to is after our date, like,
Speaker 7: that's not the energy that I want. I, for one.
Speaker 3: Don't need my social interactions micromanaged. And it does sound
Speaker 3: like an insecurity issue to me, which shouldn't exist, but
Speaker 3: that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 9: Well, good luck to you with those bikini models girls.
Speaker 4: Yeah mckennaugh, thank you, and good luck with Chris Hemsworth.
Speaker 2: I really think you guys should go on another day.
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