Speaker 1: It's time takes a Cheater Only on the Jubil Show,
Speaker 1: Daniel is on the phone today for to catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: He's been dating his girlfriend Brooklyn for almost a year now,
Speaker 1: and already he suspects he suspects something might be going on. Daniel,
Speaker 1: what's up man?
Speaker 2: Hey, what's up guy? How are you doing?
Speaker 1: I guess the question is how are you.
Speaker 2: I'm not the best, just to have had better days.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's going on? Why do you think that your
Speaker 1: girlfriend Brooklyn is cheating?
Speaker 2: I mean, she's just been very distant lately. It's now
Speaker 2: usually like that. You know, we've been dating for about
Speaker 2: a year and he's hang out every weekend. I have
Speaker 2: a lot of fun. It was very seamless. But now
Speaker 2: recently she just says that she has other plans and
Speaker 2: they don't hang out nearly as much. She doesn't really
Speaker 2: tell me what the plans are. She's just you know,
Speaker 2: going to hang out with friends. Very vague about it,
Speaker 2: and you know, when I ask more, she's just still
Speaker 2: very vague. And I don't know. It's just not how
Speaker 2: it used to be. Crean.
Speaker 3: That's not that unusual, though, I think that in the
Speaker 3: early stages of any relationship. You spend a lot of
Speaker 3: time with your partner, and then you realize that you've
Speaker 3: been neglecting your friendships, and so maybe that's where she is.
Speaker 3: I mean, other than her acting weird and having plans
Speaker 3: with friends, is there anything else that would make you
Speaker 3: feel like she's cheating?
Speaker 2: It doesn't seem very in to me. Uh, you know,
Speaker 2: I try to be romantic or you know, just a partner,
Speaker 2: and she doesn't seem very interested. And I don't know,
Speaker 2: I feel like she's got to be getting that somewhere else.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Does she seem preoccupied with her phone or other people?
Speaker 2: Not like particularly, but just not occupied with me at all?
Speaker 1: Do you know the people she's spending time with?
Speaker 2: I mean, I know some of them, but I suspect
Speaker 2: that I do, Like, I know her friends, but she
Speaker 2: never really tells me who she's hanging out with, so
Speaker 2: I just assume it's some of her close girlfriends. I
Speaker 2: think about it, I'm like, oh, I don't know who
Speaker 2: she's going to hang out with, so it could be anyone.
Speaker 1: And you guys have been dating for about a year now,
Speaker 1: so I feel like that's long enough to know the
Speaker 1: people in her life.
Speaker 2: Right, I agree.
Speaker 1: Did anything happen before that? I mean, were you guys arguing, not.
Speaker 2: Particular arguments or anything like, I don't know. We'd kind
Speaker 2: of get in little arguments because I'd bring this up
Speaker 2: that like we don't do anything, we don't have fun
Speaker 2: together anymore, and she just kind of like rejects it,
Speaker 2: and then you know, we'll be more distant.
Speaker 3: Okay, So when she does go out with her friends,
Speaker 3: how ready does she get? Is she like all done
Speaker 3: up or she just regular?
Speaker 2: I mean, she always looks amazing, so I don't know,
Speaker 2: she doesn't she always puts some effort into getting ready.
Speaker 2: I haven't noticed any particular like getting more ready or like,
Speaker 2: I mean she's she's definitely excited to leave the house
Speaker 2: and go out and do things, but not for me
Speaker 2: to accompany her.
Speaker 1: That is, that's not a fun feeling at all. No.
Speaker 1: So does she say she misses you? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I mean like when we I mean, she says it
Speaker 2: after I say it, like, you know, like it kind
Speaker 2: of seems obligatory just to respond.
Speaker 1: It's the same I've been there before in your shoes,
Speaker 1: you know, where you say I miss you and then
Speaker 1: you're waiting for response and then they say I miss you,
Speaker 1: but you can just feel kind of like they're just
Speaker 1: saying it to be nice. Is that what it feels
Speaker 1: like to you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, that's that's exactly what it feels like.
Speaker 1: That happens to me when I say I love you.
Speaker 1: All Right, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 1: for you. Already told us to a grocery store. She's
Speaker 1: a rewards card member at, and we'll call her and
Speaker 1: pretend to be from there and say that. Every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one rewards card members, totally random, who gets
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral department. We'll see if
Speaker 1: she sends those to you or someone else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: and will I be listening on that, yes, you'll be
Speaker 1: on the phone so you can jump in. You know,
Speaker 1: if you hear something you either want hear or don't
Speaker 1: want to hear, feel free to jump in whenever.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, yeah, ikay, I might not be able to resist.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, that's fine, go for it. Okay, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back and get here to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater next. If you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater. Daniel is on the phone, and
Speaker 1: Daniel's been dating his girlfriend Brooklyn for about a year now,
Speaker 1: and he thinks something might be going on. So we're
Speaker 1: about to call her and try to catch her if
Speaker 1: she is cheating, and hopefully Danie'll find out that she's not.
Speaker 1: But real quick, refresh everybody's memory about what's going on.
Speaker 2: My girlfriend Brooklyn has been very distant lately. We've been
Speaker 2: dating for like a year, and I don't know. We
Speaker 2: used to have a lot of fun, hang on every weekend,
Speaker 2: go out together, laugh a lot, and that just doesn't
Speaker 2: happen anymore. It's been a couple of months and I
Speaker 2: don't know. She just always is going out, has other
Speaker 2: plans that she's hanging out with her friends, but is
Speaker 2: very vague about that and doesn't tell me who. And
Speaker 2: she doesn't seem excited to do anything with me anymore,
Speaker 2: and I just feel like something I don't know.
Speaker 1: But if you do find out that she is cheating,
Speaker 1: trust me, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Though.
Speaker 1: You'll find somebody who definitely, you know, one hundred percent
Speaker 1: of the time, wants to spend time with you, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, no questions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I want to hopefully believe that.
Speaker 3: And if she's not cheating, this is still not a
Speaker 3: way to treat a person, right, Yeah, then you can
Speaker 3: get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: You can find out what's going on, you know.
Speaker 2: H Yeah, that's what I really need.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, man, here we go. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: call her, pretend to be from the grocery store. She's
Speaker 1: a rewards card member at and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one Lucky Rewards Card member at random who
Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our floral department. We'll see
Speaker 1: if she sends us to you or to someone else. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Jordan calling from SO.
Speaker 1: I was looking for our rewards card member Brooklyn. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: i'm calling you today. This is not a marketing call.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. I'm calling you to say congratulations,
Speaker 1: you're this month's big winner. Okay, where do I win
Speaker 1: the flowers? Oh? Okay. Every single month, we choose one
Speaker 1: Lucky Rewards Card member at random that gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our floral department. We do delivery.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: We just kind of revamped the whole place, reimagined it
Speaker 1: so You've just won thirty six long stem red roses
Speaker 1: to be delivered anywhere in the United States that you want,
Speaker 1: to anybody that you want. It's absolutely free and it's
Speaker 1: actually a two hundred and forty seven dollars value. Congratulations.
Speaker 4: WHOA, thank you so much. Well, I know exactly who
Speaker 4: to send them to. I would like to send them.
Speaker 1: To my mom. Okay. We are also doing a Love
Speaker 1: is in the Air package, so I can also throw
Speaker 1: in some flowers that you can deliver to somebody special
Speaker 1: like that in your life, if you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: a significant other to your mom and also.
Speaker 4: That, oh okay, other than myself. I don't think that
Speaker 4: I have anybody that I would want to send flowers.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, really, there's no one in your life that
Speaker 2: you want to send flowers to.
Speaker 1: Brooklyn. That's your boyfriend Daniel, who's on the phone. This
Speaker 1: is actually the Jubil Show. My name is jewbil Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Nina Hi, I'm Viatorya. And we do a segment
Speaker 1: on the show where we try to see you.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, wait, I don't I don't understand
Speaker 4: what's happening.
Speaker 2: Huge value of flowers and like no cost to you
Speaker 2: and you just say no, there's no one that you
Speaker 2: want to send them to you and they even said
Speaker 2: that you come.
Speaker 1: Sorry, am I doing right now? We do a segment
Speaker 1: called to Catch a Cheater where if you suspect your
Speaker 1: significant other of being unfaithful, we see if they send
Speaker 1: flowers to you or to someone else.
Speaker 4: So, okay, I can't believe you did this. Wow.
Speaker 1: Do you want to explain to her, Daniel, why you
Speaker 1: wanted to do this?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, because I don't know. You've been very
Speaker 2: distant lately, and you always say you're hanging out with
Speaker 2: your friends, but don't give me any details on who
Speaker 2: it is, and I just I feel like there's someone
Speaker 2: else and.
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Okay, So Daniel, I really didn't want to do this
Speaker 4: like this, but like I mean, I thought that maybe
Speaker 4: you would want to talk to me in person. But
Speaker 4: I do realize that I've been distant yet, Yeah, because
Speaker 4: I feel like I need more space. You don't give
Speaker 4: me any space, and it's like you want to be
Speaker 4: together every day and I don't, Like I want to
Speaker 4: have at least one or two days to do whatever
Speaker 4: I want to do by myself. And it's spend a
Speaker 4: little bit less lately.
Speaker 2: I feel like every day we don't hang out at all,
Speaker 2: are you?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I totally disagree. It's like, whenever I
Speaker 4: want space, you just you want to be together, and
Speaker 4: I try to. I try to find space within being
Speaker 4: with you. So it's like I'm always feeling like I
Speaker 4: need to pull away to even just get a little
Speaker 4: bit of space.
Speaker 2: And that space doesn't have anything to do with any other.
Speaker 4: Dude, No, absolutely not. I just want to go on
Speaker 4: a walk and watch the show that I want to watch,
Speaker 4: and read my books and you know everything that I
Speaker 4: like to do. You know me, and I I'm beginning
Speaker 4: to think that maybe you just don't respect that or
Speaker 4: you don't understand it. That's why I've been trying to
Speaker 4: pull away because I haven't been able to confront.
Speaker 1: You about it.
Speaker 4: To be real, Yeah, I was hoping that you would
Speaker 4: get the hints.
Speaker 3: I mean, Brooklyn, do you see where he's coming from? Though, Like,
Speaker 3: I mean, all of your points are really valid. Space
Speaker 3: is so important in a relationship. But if you're not
Speaker 3: communicating with your man and he's like, well where's she go,
Speaker 3: You're gonna you got to understand he was of wondering
Speaker 3: where the heck.
Speaker 1: You were well could be real. I don't even know
Speaker 1: why you're a part.
Speaker 4: Of this conversation. You have no right to actually come
Speaker 4: in between me and my partner right now. You can't
Speaker 4: say anything. I don't know if you're a therapist or
Speaker 4: a psychologist or whatever. But I mean, I didn't ask
Speaker 4: for this. I didn't ask for this, and I'm just
Speaker 4: trying to communicate how I feel about this.
Speaker 2: I tried to get this information out of you for
Speaker 2: months now, and you have just left me in the
Speaker 2: dark and not wanted to talk about it. So I
Speaker 2: figured somebody else could maybe get you too, and I
Speaker 2: was right, And now you're being defensive about it. So
Speaker 2: that makes me feel like you're hiding something.
Speaker 4: Well, I think whatever you want to think, but I
Speaker 4: am just living my life and you know, wanting some space.
Speaker 4: So I guess this makes me feel like I really
Speaker 4: can't trust you to put me on the spot in
Speaker 4: front of everybody who's listening to.
Speaker 1: This radio station.
Speaker 4: Apparently.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you you are now telling me a
Speaker 2: lot of things that make somewhat sense that you could
Speaker 2: have just told me that, like nineteen times I asked
Speaker 2: you what's wrong And you just said nothing and said
Speaker 2: you're going to hang out with your friends, and that
Speaker 2: just leads me to think every night about what's happening.
Speaker 2: And I have no idea what's going on in your brain.
Speaker 4: Well, you're just so clingy and I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 1: Daniel.
Speaker 4: I didn't expect to do this on the radio, but
Speaker 4: you're free to go and be with whoever you want
Speaker 4: to be with twenty four hours a day, seven.
Speaker 1: Days a week.
Speaker 4: Because I need to have a break from this and
Speaker 4: move on and have my space. I'm breaking up with
Speaker 4: you right now so that we both can figure out
Speaker 4: our lives separately.
Speaker 1: Thank you. She hung up. Daniel, Wow you okay?
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I don't know. I have some answers.
Speaker 3: I guess, Daniel, there is going to be somebody that
Speaker 3: wants to spend all of their time with you. Sure,
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry this is going to take a second
Speaker 3: for you, but she's out there.
Speaker 2: Thank you, guys. I appreciate this.
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