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Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty dollars. I was beyond furious, and

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Speaker 1: then I found out his real secret. Dude, one hundred

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Speaker 2: Or are you talking about like one hundred fifty dollars

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Speaker 1: You know? You know, Sam, I have this great rule, right,

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Speaker 1: it's you should never spend more on an engagement ring

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Speaker 1: than you would on on a night out, like a

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Speaker 1: nice a nice little dinner, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, yeah, I mean okay, all right, I

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Speaker 2: think it's completely okay if this is like a Vegas

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Speaker 2: wedding or like ah need to get you know, a

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Speaker 2: ring pop fast, but you're you're you're really prothing, or

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Speaker 2: if you're like, you know, you're strapped for cash.

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Speaker 1: But if you got got the money, one hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty dollars, I mean, Sam, if you if you look

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Speaker 1: at it from if you take a second to consider

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Speaker 1: my perspective, one hundred and fifty dollars is a pretty

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Speaker 1: nice dinner, That is true. He As far as my rule,

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Speaker 1: my man is exceeding expectations so I mean wedding rings

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Speaker 1: are made up anyway? You know, yeah, what was the

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Speaker 1: social construct of buying things? Bunch of books anyways? Like, yes,

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Speaker 1: you don't need it, that's right, that's right. Well, well

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Speaker 1: we'll get to the bottom of this, and there's only

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Speaker 1: one way to do that.

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Speaker 2: Let's hit that bottom. Oh a little BDSM for you.

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Speaker 1: Oh sh shit, that bottom? Oh god, h Well. My

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Speaker 1: fiance is quite well off, and while I don't make

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Speaker 1: as much as him, I currently would not be struggling

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Speaker 1: on my own. He rotates between a few very expensive

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Speaker 1: watches that he wears, and while we have a good

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Speaker 1: grasp on financial literacy, we aren't shy about spending on

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Speaker 1: the more important parts of life, like what fancy Dana's

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Speaker 1: good Champagne, the sex Dungeon downstairs. Oh god, I have

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Speaker 1: to have my lobster for breakfast with Mike. How have

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Speaker 1: you on Champagne? I'm trying to use that same lobstars

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Speaker 1: by nipple clamps of the sex Dungeon. It's so slipper.

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Speaker 1: I love it. They hold on so tight, oh god,

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Speaker 1: pinching them little claws, them big meaty claus. We openly

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Speaker 1: share finances, so I know he isn't secretly in debt

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Speaker 1: or some kind of nonsense like that. What if he's

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Speaker 1: keeping the debt a secret, I mean some super secret.

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Speaker 1: To actually know it would have to be like super

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Speaker 1: secret debt, a naughty little double secret debt secret, a

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Speaker 1: dirty debty secret. The ring is nice and understated, but

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Speaker 1: more of a nice stacker than an engagement ring to

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Speaker 1: show off. What's a stacker? I guess like a another ring, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like a ring on top of your ring. Yeah, rings

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Speaker 1: on rings on rings, ring, diamonds on diamond. The stone,

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Speaker 1: which I am doubtful of being a diamond, is quite small.

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Speaker 1: It is not an heirloom. When friends or family get engaged,

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Speaker 1: there's always the excitement in sharing the news, and inevitably

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Speaker 1: someone will ask to see the ring, and then everyone

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Speaker 1: coos over it and it's a good time. When I

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Speaker 1: they feigned excitement just long enough until it was okay

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Speaker 1: to change the subject. Wow, that ring pop look really tasty,

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Speaker 1: you know. Wow, Strawberry is my favorite favorite flavor too.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait until my man proposes to me with

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Speaker 1: a ring pop wow dinner and a show Wow This

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Speaker 1: is not a knock on them. They're just terrible liars.

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Speaker 1: I would like to make clear that I am not

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Speaker 1: top wedding. However, this is a piece I will be

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Speaker 1: wearing daily for decades and is largely considered a symbol

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Speaker 1: I really don't think I'm out of line for thinking

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Speaker 1: Damn ya, these things look huge. Oh Jesus, I put

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Speaker 1: you're right, You're right. Wow, I mean, these these look good. Also,

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at I'm looking at engagement rings right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get some crazy ads just so you know, guys,

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Speaker 2: I'm single, I'm not I'm not getting married, but.

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Speaker 1: If you want to be proposed to.

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Speaker 2: The handle is so the most popular at K's is

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Speaker 2: a six thousand dollars ring. Yeah, yeah, okay, so like

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Speaker 2: all right, price high to low. The highest is thirty

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Speaker 2: Of rings lowest is forty five bucks. Okay, let's let

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Speaker 2: me look at the one hundred and fifty dollars one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so my man is spending triple the lowest, guy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, now, that's three x three hundred

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Speaker 2: You can get you can get a diamond, a one

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Speaker 2: six carrot probably, yeah, god, one sixth is like you

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Speaker 2: hundred and forty seven bucks. Dang, dude, But it's like

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Speaker 2: a bunch of little diamonds, right.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if it's also like but yeah, no, you said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's I guess a real diamond, twenty four carrots. I

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like one hundred and fifty bucks for

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Speaker 1: You need your game a little bit, my guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would say you gotta do like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it into good context. Surely it's worth more than a

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Speaker 1: gaming console, right half a gaming console? Bro? Babe, this

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Speaker 1: That's so funny. Oh my god, am I the a

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Speaker 1: hole here? We will be talking about this for sure,

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Speaker 1: but I know this could be a touchy subject and

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Speaker 1: wanted an objective eye on it first. I will update

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Speaker 1: this post after that conversation. Sam, We have an update

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Speaker 1: from the conversation. Yeah, but real quick question to you

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Speaker 1: and everyone watching, is Op's fiance the a whole? Right now?

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Speaker 1: I think I know your answer, but I mean I

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Speaker 2: It seems like I understand it's like, oh I don't

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Speaker 2: Like if you have that opinion, fine, but it seems

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so like one hundred like I almost like, dude,

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Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty is like it feels like insulting

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Speaker 1: I think too. It's like it's not even necessarily about

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Speaker 1: but Ope's fiance. But it's like, hey, this is the

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Speaker 1: Like come on, it's like what dinner and drinks at

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, no, I don't know. It's kind of whack.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like wondering why, Like that is just weird.

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Speaker 2: It's weird to spend one hundred and fifty dollars in

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Speaker 1: What do you make? Good money? Is weird. It's like

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Speaker 1: there's something going on. Well, Sam, you're a studie man,

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Speaker 1: the update update? Can I guess? Can I guess? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead, guess?

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Speaker 2: He has ten different why no, one hundred different? Why

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Speaker 2: one hundred different engagements? And so he's like, you know,

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Speaker 2: he's spending he's spending the ten k, but over one

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Speaker 2: hundred people exactly. That's interesting. That's an interesting theory. All right, Well,

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Speaker 2: well let's find out update. He came home and we

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Speaker 2: doing it, so gently let him know, lady, And before

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Speaker 2: I could finish, he just blew up started yelling finally

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Speaker 2: I'm confused. To be brief, he bought a spring from

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Speaker 2: the guys that I was a gold digger.

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, oh wow. That is a whack. Bro. That

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Speaker 1: is whack. But Sam, as always with me, why the

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Speaker 1: reason to dump someone? Just dump them? Well, I guess

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Speaker 1: it's easier, it's maybe yeah, there's like an out or whatever. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like most people wait and like they might

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Speaker 2: wait until like there's a concrete like.

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Speaker 1: Thing, moment thing to attach it to. Yeah yeah, well

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Speaker 1: Sam is always uh it gets it gets even juicier.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, what he has apparently been having an affair?

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Speaker 1: Turns out Covid had shortened his work hours, not extended

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Speaker 1: it with a younger model that he's earned, but knew

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Speaker 1: that breaking things off when everyone loved me so much

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Speaker 1: my guy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you also, why would you tell her

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Speaker 2: all this if you're trying to save your optics? Kind

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Speaker 2: of is going on that it's what you were trying

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Speaker 2: to do. My guys, Hey, guys like evil and a idiot.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, And like you could have you could

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Speaker 1: have literally just said like, hey, you know, I've just

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Speaker 1: probably there's still people with someone would like think he's

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Speaker 1: comments and we'll see you. So love you. I told

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Speaker 2: I told him he shouldn't have that, it was a

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Speaker 2: I usually don't get anything for my birthday or Christmases

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh Dan, you really need you really need you

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Speaker 1: Right on her fat ass. She is sitting there laughing,

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Speaker 1: I literally never get anything nice. Never. Opie's husband really

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I eat food on camera. Well, this is like,

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Speaker 1: gonna break. Like it's there's no nice way to say,

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Speaker 1: sister will like lay on my dog sometimes, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: and like tuddle with it. I'm not gonna let a

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Speaker 1: four hundred pound person lay on my dog if you're

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Speaker 1: gonna kill my dog, right, there's just like sometimes there's

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Speaker 1: weight limits and things that you need to respect. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: do not kill my dog. Yes, yeah, so I think

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Speaker 1: I got my swing and I think this is this

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Speaker 1: is one of them. Oh you know what, not OP

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Speaker 1: is definitely not the A hole because again this is

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Speaker 1: I think maybe the one thing I would advise OP

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Speaker 1: to do differently is communicate what this meant to her.

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Speaker 1: And also, you know who is the unexpected out of

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Speaker 1: left field A hole the fucking husband? Oh what kind

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Speaker 1: of gift is soap and tupper aware? And why are

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Speaker 1: you siding with the sister when I mean you like,

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Speaker 1: if anyone should understand the significance of the gift, it

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Speaker 1: is the husband, right, I know he should know her

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Speaker 1: well enough. Well, the thing is, the thing is the

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Speaker 1: husband didn't give her that gift. It was the kid.

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Speaker 1: It was the kid.

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Speaker 2: Husband is clueless. Yeah, but that brings me to my question.

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Speaker 2: Yes for the audience, Yes is OP. The A hole

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Speaker 2: is the husband and a hole is the sister of

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Speaker 2: the A whole. Let us know in the comments below.

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Speaker 2: And also I would love to hear your stories on

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Speaker 2: great gifts and terrible gifts. What is the best gift

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Speaker 2: you've ever gotten? What is the worst gift you've ever gotten?

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Speaker 2: One of the worst gifts is I got my so

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Speaker 2: my my first girlfriend. I got amazing gifts.

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Speaker 1: Right here, paint the picture. To paint the picture, right.

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Speaker 1: She was into like frontiers people, and she was really

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Speaker 1: into like books. I got her like first edition frontier

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Speaker 1: pamphlets from eBay, and so it was like these like

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Speaker 1: pamphlets like they would sell for like ten cents from

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Speaker 1: like the like I think it was like the late

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Speaker 1: eighteen hundreds. Wow, right, got it that. And then she was.

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Speaker 2: Really into this landscape photographer, and I got her these

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Speaker 2: like amazing prints of this landscape photographer framed all right,

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Speaker 2: So I went all out. She loves the gift, love

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Speaker 2: she had it. She still I think she still has

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Speaker 2: one of them in her room, like framed in a room.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow. All right. She got me a ceramic polar

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Speaker 1: bear because she likes polar bears. And then she donated

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Speaker 1: fifty dollars in my name to the World Like Wildlife

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Speaker 1: Fund because she's passionate about that organization. I spenting like

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Speaker 1: hundreds of dollars and New Years she goes and donates

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks to someone else. What's sam, Okay, let me

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Speaker 1: get you a present, let me give you really give

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Speaker 1: someone else that money. She was sharing the love of

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Speaker 1: polar bears and animals that ship, Bro, what could be

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Speaker 1: a better gift than the wonderful animals that nature has

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Speaker 1: provided us?

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Speaker 2: So annoying, so annoying. And then Bro, I got my

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Speaker 2: other ex girlfriend. She was like really into like like

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Speaker 2: making shakes and had a key blunder, got our vitam mix,

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Speaker 2: broke up with me two weeks later.

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Speaker 1: Vitaments. You should have been like, I need that vitamins.

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Speaker 1: I did not give it. Thought, oh bad taste for

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Speaker 1: me to ask it back. Honestly though, Now, if if

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Speaker 1: I was there, I would have helped you break in.

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Speaker 1: And that was all my money in college. That was

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Speaker 1: all my money. Yeah, how much was it? It was

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Speaker 1: like six hundred bucks? Oh oh yeah yeah yeah for

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Speaker 1: a blender for it was top of the line. You're

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Speaker 1: a top tier gift. My boy get the best, damn apparently,

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Speaker 1: But you know who else gets the best? The beautiful

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Speaker 1: people who comment on our videos. Do they read no

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Speaker 1: you god? Do you have this story pulled up. The

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Speaker 1: story pulled up. It's bad. I've been forgetting literally exactly

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Speaker 1: is right. Now you know what it is. It's like

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Speaker 1: it's like when you're playing in the game and then

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Speaker 1: you all said you're in the zone. No, I like,

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Speaker 1: I'm the opposite of the zone. I like now that

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Speaker 1: I've fumbled once, I keep choking. Okay, here you go.

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Speaker 1: This comment comes from Ranna twenty ninety three on the

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Speaker 1: story of Op giving his wife a bra to help

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Speaker 1: with her sweaty knockers. I have to say, you have

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Speaker 1: to look at the thought of the gift. His heart

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Speaker 1: was in the right place. Not to mention, lots of

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Speaker 1: men wouldn't have even listened to her when she was

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Speaker 1: complaining about her boob sweating, much less than try to

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Speaker 1: find something to help fix the problem. I think it

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Speaker 1: was very sweet of him. Well, Rhanna, I thought it

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Speaker 1: was very sweet of you to comment on our video.

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Speaker 1: So guys, share your gift stories, share your thoughts with

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Speaker 1: just what I right now, see you soon, see you