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Speaker 1: You've planned your wedding and now let the real fun

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Speaker 1: begin creating your registry. The Cretan Barrel Wedding Registry is

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Speaker 1: packed with thousands of items that are made to see

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Speaker 1: you through a lifetime of breakfast in bed and Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: already love, our registry experts are there for you every

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Speaker 1: step of the way. Plus now with group gifting, your

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Speaker 1: friends and family can go in together on that dream

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Speaker 1: gift Petrie Sofa anyone, So go for it. Start your

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Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel Registry now at Crton Barrel dot com

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Speaker 1: slash Wedding Dash Registry. This is the Alright Team. We're

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Speaker 1: live at the I Heart Studios in Los Angeles, California

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Speaker 1: with a live audience, our first real live podcast audience.

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Speaker 1: Give a shout out. This is Ashley and Jared's wedding shower,

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Speaker 1: and everybody out there listening, including the audience that's here,

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Speaker 1: is gonna be able to participate. We've got a big

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Speaker 1: night ahead of us. We want to give a special

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Speaker 1: thank you to Create and Barrel for putting this on.

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Speaker 1: They've been a huge sponsor the podcast for months now,

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Speaker 1: and this event is going to be nothing but special.

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Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared, I have a special gift for you,

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Speaker 1: but before I give it to you, I want to

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Speaker 1: ask the two of you, why did you choose Crate

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Speaker 1: and Barrel for your registry. What I love about Crate

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Speaker 1: furniture in the best way that I say that because

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Speaker 1: Jared and I, well, he moved into an apartment with

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Speaker 1: realized that it was probably the smartest decision to move

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Speaker 1: the bottom line here is that we had like a

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Speaker 1: really girly apartment. We had a decorator come in and

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Speaker 1: like make all these crystal chandeliers and everything had like

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Speaker 1: to totally redecorate the place, make it a little bit

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Speaker 1: more masculine, but definitely timeless and classic and Crate and

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Speaker 1: Barrel has everything for every room, and you know that

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Speaker 1: it's going to be well made, it's gonna last so long,

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Speaker 1: and um, it's just going it's it's gonna be quality, classic,

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Speaker 1: timeless style for a lifetime. Jared everything. Actually, just say no.

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Speaker 1: Crane Barrow is awesome, man, Like, every time you go

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Speaker 1: in there, I just want to spend a lot, a

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Speaker 1: Barrel by our wedding registry because then other people can

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Speaker 1: buy a stuff that we really like. That's the best part.

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Speaker 1: When we were registering, he was like, I feel like

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Speaker 1: It was just you went around in scannies. It was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like those wine glasses. Click, I like those towels.

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Speaker 1: never thought I'd be so excited over something that came

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Speaker 1: in the mail from actually podcast fans. It's been amazing

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Speaker 1: how many people listen to the podcast are Instagram and

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Speaker 1: we don't even know them, but they send us gives

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Speaker 1: to the Mark Crane and Barrel Registry. This week we

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Speaker 1: got a dual curing and coffee makers. You can make

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Speaker 1: you read into the microphone what I wrote into the card? Please?

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Speaker 1: What has it been like to live with this couple? Oh?

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Speaker 1: It's so easy, it really is, Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: and candles. So I'll lie in our bath, I light

428
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 1: some candles. It's good. It's just like a little period.

429
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: Jared's getting all worked up over there. He loves a

430
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: good bath, like that man loves a bath, and like

431
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: he thinks like he likes thinks water is the sexiest

432
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 1: thing ever. So, like you know, decorate a bathroom nicely

433
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: and like Jared's in a good mood. So if you

434
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Speaker 1: guys are getting married out there, I highly suggest creating

435
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436
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437
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438
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440
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441
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442
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Speaker 1: and Barrel dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. All right,

443
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: coming up to the hot seat, next is Chris and Crystal.

444
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: Chris and Crystal and join throw over here. Come on up,

445
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: you guys can take my seat in the seat across.

446
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna grab a new mic. Just please don't mess

447
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 1: up my papers. Um, this sound's gonna work. We're gonna

448
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: get to hear about your lives and the lives of

449
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: the people coming up here. And then we have a

450
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 1: couple things that we want to talk to. Jared Nashley

451
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: about but this is ultimately a night to celebrate Jared Nashley.

452
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: This is not a roast, even though it kind of

453
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: feels like it with him sitting up here in a

454
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 1: little bit that would be fun. Be fun. You can

455
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 1: toast me. Um, Nick's not allowed to rest the So

456
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 1: Chris and Crystal this, Uh, you guys are a Paradise couple. Um,

457
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 1: you met in Paradise, you fell in love in Paradise.

458
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: How are you handling engagement? Do you want to take that? Um,

459
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 1: it's been a while ride come tomorrow would be actually

460
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: one year that we uh known each other. So but

461
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 1: I would say it's for the most part, it's been incredible, uh,

462
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: but also definitely challenging at times. And uh it's those

463
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: moments that help you kind of understand, uh, picking each

464
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: other up and making each other better and the definition

465
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: of a team. So that's that's something I really enjoy. Yeah,

466
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: I agree, and I think that Um, for a lot

467
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 1: of you who don't know. Christals in Florida and I

468
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: was in San Diego, So we were on the completely

469
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 1: opposite sides of the country for a few months after

470
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: the engagement when we had to keep it a secret

471
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,160
Speaker 1: and no one could know um. And as soon as

472
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,719
Speaker 1: I was, like the week before the finale, he actually

473
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: came out to San Diego to live with me in

474
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: three hundreds of square feet with the other side of

475
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 1: the stage. Maybe it was divided by three rooms to

476
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 1: plus a bathroom in the closet. It was very intimate,

477
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 1: very small, and we actually had no problems with it.

478
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: And it was it was Chris and I giving up

479
00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 1: our old selves to start this life in this chapter together.

480
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: And when we met, we were both like, we don't

481
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 1: ever want to get married. So it was wild that

482
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: we got engaged. But I think we just saw, you know,

483
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 1: ourselves in each other and it allowed us to kind

484
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: of make peace with the past of who we were

485
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: and find love within each other. So it's been a

486
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: real blessing. Let's sit there for a second, because you

487
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 1: just said something that is not tying into my next

488
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 1: question at all. As you said, when you guys first met,

489
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 1: your reaction was we're not going to get married, Like

490
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: not like we're not gonna get married, but just individually,

491
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: like we're not interested in getting married. What changed. Yeah,

492
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 1: the first conversation we were in the pool, like second

493
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 1: day of Paradise, and she was like, you know, I

494
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 1: really don't ever want to get married, and I like

495
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: look back at her and I was like, you were

496
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 1: like tight, I mean that's exactly what I said. I

497
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I mean neither, you know. And then

498
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: like from there just kind of over time kind of

499
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: change used our perception throughout Paradise. I guess there was more. Well,

500
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, is this because you guys both

501
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: came from single moms. Yes, it was that conversation. I

502
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: think when you come from like the forest families, you

503
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: tend to be kind of apprehensive of wanting to get

504
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: married because you saw a huge breakup and how it

505
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: affects the family. So yeah, I would say that definitely

506
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: plays a key role for sure. So then what was

507
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: the moment? And this was the question I was going

508
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: to ask, because I don't it actually tries to explain

509
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: Paradise to me all the time, and I've never I've

510
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 1: only been down to visit and I've never quite got it.

511
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 1: But it works, it works a lot, it works often. Um,

512
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: what was the moment then that maybe the viewers in

513
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: the sea or maybe we just didn't pick up on

514
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: where you went time out like what I thought was

515
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 1: happening when I came into this has now completely changed

516
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 1: because of this other person. Well, for me, it was

517
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: the morning after we had our first kiss, which was

518
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: about eight days into Paradise. That's a long time into paradise.

519
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: That's like, that's like, really it's like a lifetime. That's

520
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: like at least three months out here. Okay, really in

521
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: the real world, Yeah, it really is. Because just so

522
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: you guys know, you spent about twenty hours all day

523
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 1: long together in Paradise, and you're kind of putting these

524
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 1: conversations with producers where you really dive in deep head

525
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: first and you tackle the hard stuff right away. So

526
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: I knew, you know, Chris's values, um, and I just

527
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 1: knew like intimate details of his life, about his father

528
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: and the role he played and didn't before I knew

529
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: his favorite color, his favorite restaurant, um. So you definitely

530
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: get to know each other in that deeper sense first.

531
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: But I would say that we had our first kiss

532
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: and when we finally finally got to have that talk

533
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 1: at the wedding Chapel Cabana, the one when you walked

534
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 1: on the service to the left the wedding Chapel Caban

535
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 1: is what it's called. We finally got together and all

536
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: night we've been trying to meet up and finally connect

537
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 1: because we were both dating other people. And we have

538
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: that kiss that was like ten minutes straight and one

539
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 1: to bed that night and we were walking to the

540
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: beach and I just felt so much joy and love

541
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 1: and happiness in my heart and I just felt so

542
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: like divinely guided to like I have to talk to Chris.

543
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: I have to get to know him more. And it

544
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: was like days and days and days, and producers were like, no,

545
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: you need to date Kenny, and I was like, no,

546
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: I have to date Chris, like I have to get

547
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: to know him. And so we had our first kiss.

548
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: And the next morning I woke up and I was like,

549
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: I got out of bed, took a few steps sound,

550
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: and I was like, huh would I get engaged at

551
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: the end of this? And I was like what why

552
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: am I even thinking that? Like I don't ever want

553
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: to get married, And it was just something in me

554
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: really shifted, and from there I just kinda the momentum belt. Wow,

555
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: did you know she was feeling that way? Uh? I

556
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: didn't actually, but I will say for me Uh. In

557
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: the fantasy suite is when you kind of get a

558
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: little time to have no camera and obviously you want

559
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: to try to engauge, you want to kind of see

560
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: where the person that you're dating is at. That's when

561
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: you knew. And so well, then I started I started

562
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: talking about it. I started talking about it because there

563
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: was an instance during the Fantasy sweet date where I

564
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: couldn't breathe because I thought she was breaking up with me,

565
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: and um, but then it turned out to be that

566
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: wasn't the case because it wasn't listening. I was talking

567
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: about my last relationship and he's like, what, you're breaking

568
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: up with me? He was just so struck by your beauty.

569
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you do have beautiful eyes and then that,

570
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: but that wasn't the case. It was just because I'm

571
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I was extremely nervous at the Fantasy Suite.

572
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: So but then that night I was asking questions and

573
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: she was like really starting to give me clarity that

574
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:59,959
Speaker 1: maybe she would accept the engagement if it went down,

575
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: and UM, at that moment the next day, that's when

576
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,959
Speaker 1: I knew. I was like, all right, for sure, I'm

577
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: going to do this. And Producer's demon bothered me, didn't

578
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: try to talk to me at all. They just they

579
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: knew what I wanted, and I was. I wanted to

580
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: be committed to her. So that's the way I went down.

581
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:19,479
Speaker 1: I thought that on her first date. I guess that's

582
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: when you knew you loved me. No, you said on

583
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: her first date. When we were dancing on the water

584
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: and he looked in my eyes as I was dancing

585
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: with my dice and he said, I'm going to marry

586
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: this girl. I mean, yeah, that that's definitely that. That

587
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: also too, that's when I knew that for sure. I

588
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: was head over heels and madly in love with you,

589
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: Like that's I was. I looked in your eyes and

590
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: I was like, that's definitely the girl I want to

591
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: be with. You still needed it, I still need a

592
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: little clear Yeah. Leaning into Ashley and Jared, we were

593
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: there when they came down and got and when Jared proposed,

594
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: and that was actually a big moment for Chris and

595
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: ezed relationship. I don't think we ever told you guys.

596
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: This did not we did not go on. So you

597
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: guys came down and your proposal happened, and it Chris

598
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: and I ended up being like pulled and having to

599
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: have this serious conversation. Is that the night we won

600
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: the boom Boom Room. First, this is a PG podcast

601
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: that Boom Boom. That's a different story, um, but the

602
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: thing is may encourage you guys go to the boom

603
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: Boom room. Yeah. I don't know if that story made

604
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: a complete since now seeing you walk on the beach,

605
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: Jared encouraged him to go to the boom Boom room.

606
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: There was definitely inspirational. Know, there was a lot of

607
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: tension because I said no to the boom boom rounds

608
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: like it four or five times, and then you guys

609
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: came down and I was like, you know what, let's

610
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: go boom. So I would say that their relationship is

611
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: like the definition. Has anyone ever seen the Adjustment Bureau

612
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: with Matt Damon where it's like it's amazing and like,

613
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: if you think about your path, it's kind of like

614
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: the Adjustment Bureau where there was all these different roadblocks,

615
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: but somehow, somewhere you guys knew that you two were

616
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: supposed to be together, just didn't happen at that time,

617
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: and you guys finally became together and now you are.

618
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: So it was really inspiring to see and be there

619
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,240
Speaker 1: for that moment. You were like the person that stood

620
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: out to me the most because we were pretty much

621
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: surrounded by like seventy percent people we had never met before,

622
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: and I don't think I met you, and you were

623
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: like glowing and you were so congratulatory, and it was

624
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: so nice to see somebody who genuinely seemed happy, not like,

625
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 1: oh what are they doing like barging in here or

626
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: like ruffling feathers a lot. You just see him like

627
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: you're happy for us. I was so happy and it

628
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: was so just you know, your love story of how

629
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: you guys have just come together. It's so it's like

630
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: what rom coms are made of? Right, perfect for the

631
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: two of them. Um, well, I want to ask now though,

632
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: because you've met, paradise is happen. It's happening again. Your

633
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: lives are speeding up, right, we're a year out. How

634
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 1: is wedding planning going for the two of you? Would say,

635
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: it's going, well, it's going the pace that it needs

636
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: to be. We just had like a really nice engagement party,

637
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: um to celebrate with our friends and family and people

638
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: that we wanted there. And Uh, now with the wedding

639
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: and the planning. It's it's it's going they're almost done. Yeah,

640
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: well we're keeping all the details private. But there have

641
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,479
Speaker 1: been moments where, um, I would say, it really tests

642
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: your relationship and it really can bring you closer or

643
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: further apart. And it's brought us closer. And I think

644
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: the hardest thing for us was the guest list. Same here.

645
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: I don't love if you guys knew that that whole

646
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: that that's an issue. If for anyone who's gotten married

647
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: in here, first off, bless you, it's it's incredible, but

648
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: he has been married? Who okay? And what's the guest

649
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: at the top of the struggle bus. We have a

650
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: lot of hay that say it's not though, No, everybody's pretty.

651
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 1: A lot of people have been married. Not many people

652
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: are seeing at the top of the struggle bus, so okay.

653
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people. A question that I

654
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: get when I do my questions on Instagram is like,

655
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: what have you guys fought over the most and planning?

656
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: We even fought at all over anything. It's been freakish

657
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: how much we have agreed on things. I would say

658
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 1: the guest list is complicated, not between us like my person,

659
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: you're a person. It's like truly who like we have

660
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: a limit, Like you guys have a limit to right,

661
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: because of any reasons, you have a limit. You have

662
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:38,280
Speaker 1: a budget and so I mean like plates of food,

663
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: they're not cheap. I mean like and people got to eat,

664
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: so you got to feed these people. I mean, how

665
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: many are you gonna want to feed? And it's it's

666
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: really difficult to allocate a certain amount of invitations to

667
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: a certain amount of people, especially if there's people that

668
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 1: you know are probably gonna be heartbroken. It's the politics

669
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: because some people think other people should be there, but

670
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: you're like, but we haven't talked to them, and I've

671
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: seen years. And I also think it sucks because no

672
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: matter how much you talk about it, if anybody's been

673
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: married here, you know that in your wedding guest list,

674
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: there's like people that you're inviting and then people you're like, Okay,

675
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,919
Speaker 1: well I don't know, we have to figure everything out

676
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: before we can awkward, but our wedding closed it a

677
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: plan B list. It's not a plan B list. It's

678
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: just okay, we have to figure out like who's coming,

679
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,399
Speaker 1: who's not coming, And then there's all these hesitations about like,

680
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: well they might not be able to come, but there

681
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: may be coming. But then if you invite your uncle,

682
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: you have to invite your five cousins, and it's like

683
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: they all get plus ones and there's fifteen people gone.

684
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: It just like adds up so quickly. Pl I'd better

685
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: have been on the plan a list. I'll tell you

686
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: that right now. Hey, we've got to we've got to

687
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: keep going here. But before we go, a couple of

688
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 1: questions for the two of you going towards Ashley and Jared.

689
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: Two questions, okay, first one, what's your favorite thing about

690
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: them as a couple? You take the first one day.

691
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: I love how playful they are. I think you know

692
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: it keeps you young being playful and fills your heart

693
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: with joy and it's a fun energy that's convey more.

694
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: We do ask each other on a daily basis, are

695
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: you a baby? Don't don't ever say that again. I

696
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: don't think any of us know. We also ask our

697
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,479
Speaker 1: dog we go are you Lois? Are you allowis? It's

698
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 1: you have to be there. Yeah, that's that's a good

699
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: that's good Ashley nice um. Next is, and I want

700
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: both of you to answer this next question, if you

701
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: were to sin as a couple, who's in love, who's

702
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 1: planning a wedding, who's forging forward in this relationship, if

703
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: you're to look at these two and give him the

704
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 1: best wishes possible for any couple really, but especially Ashley

705
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: and Jared tonight, what would you say? And I want

706
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: you both to answer this. I would say, make sure

707
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: you always kiss each other good night. Definitely something that

708
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 1: we never go to that angry, even when I fall

709
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 1: asleep on the couch and I come in two hours later,

710
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 1: I go, yes, she does. My advice for you too

711
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 1: as a can I'm sorry, like I have something nice

712
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: to say. Okay, I would say that, And I'm gonna

713
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: say what my grandpa told me. He goes, when two

714
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 1: people are in love, they're never going to be in

715
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: love with each other at the same time throughout marriage,

716
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: and one person might be a little bit lower than

717
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: the other, and it's that person that keeps that balance going.

718
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: So I always remember to balance each other out when

719
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: one of you is off. I love that. Look at that.

720
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, it was a very smart man. Hey,

721
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: thank you so much coming up here. We appreciate you.

722
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: And now we're going to turn it to the audience

723
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: to play a little game that is like such a

724
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 1: good like variety show host you look like with her without? Yeah,

725
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: with her without? All right, we have somebody with a microphone.

726
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 1: Raise your hand if you have the answer to the question.

727
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 1: If not, you just shot him out where everybody's gonna

728
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: know these answers. Let's just shout him out. Okay, we'll

729
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: pick him up with a mic later. First question, this

730
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: is all we're evolving around Bachelor Nation. Who is pregnant

731
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 1: from bachelor Carly Jade? Is Carly in here? She took

732
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 1: a little break. Okay, Carly, thank you for coming. She's

733
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: taking a little walk. We'll forgive her. Next question, which

734
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 1: bachelor friend once told Ashley she would never be with

735
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: Jared Nick? Is the answer? Next one, who used to

736
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 1: be a cruise ship singer? Carly? What del is the answer?

737
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: She has? She changed her name or is it still?

738
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: I don't know. I call her Carla Bass. It's in

739
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: my phone like that. We don't know yet. Who has

740
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: driven over one hour just for a sonic milkshake? That

741
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: sounds like me, but it's my foodie counterpart, Becka Becca Tilly.

742
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: We're so proud of you, Becca. Congratulations Becca, good job.

743
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 1: Who had a fourteen year old age gap on their

744
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: season of The Bachelorette or Bachelor? And who? Becca? Okay?

745
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: Who else is a Patriots fan along with Jared Evan

746
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: Bass kind of? Come on, okay, now this is a

747
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: tough one. Let's do this one together. Who met on

748
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise and is still together today? Kindall and

749
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 1: Joe Kindle and Joe Evan and Carly Jaden Tanner, these two,

750
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: Chris and Crystal, Astrid and Kevin, Raven and Adam. I

751
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: don't even think we had we didn't have Raven Adam

752
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: on here, and they just got engaged for all the

753
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: Bachelor verdict. That's pretty amazing. It's only been on for

754
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:37,439
Speaker 1: five six, six whole season this season six I count there.

755
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: But if that's seven real relationships, we're doing all right? Okay, now,

756
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: very special guests are coming up to stage. Are gonna

757
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: replace Chris and Crystal. Thank you so much. Thank you.

758
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: Becca and Tanya please come up, the host of the

759
00:40:54,800 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: award winning podcast scrubbing In with Becca in Tanya it

760
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: is They had one winning Scrubbing In with Tanya and Becca.

761
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: Did you guys need marriage advice? Is that what you wanted?

762
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: I was like, what are we going to offer? We've

763
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 1: got some good questions for the two of you back

764
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: in Tan you're up on stage. But before we get

765
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: to talking to him and I know actually got an

766
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: important question to ask, Let's take a second talk about

767
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: cream barrel. Hey, Ash, you like taking a bath? Right? Oh?

768
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:32,959
Speaker 1: I love best. I feel like you're a bath guy,

769
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: big bathroom? Are you big spot guy? Jared Will like

770
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: sometimes book hotel rooms solely because they have a nice bathroom.

771
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: There's nothing better than feeling hugged by water. Recently, we've

772
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: revamped our bathroom and like really made that whole bath experience,

773
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: bath and showering experience a little bit more luxurious because

774
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: we registered for some items on our Crate and Barrel

775
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: registry that have to do with our bathroom. Like they have,

776
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 1: they have a bunch of stuff get They actually have

777
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: like shocking products, things that I didn't think that crate

778
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: and barrel would carry, like shampoos, lotions and candles. That

779
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: really makes bathtimes so much fun. And afterwards, when you

780
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: get out of the bath at the shower and you

781
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 1: get to wrap yourself in this soft Turkish towel or robes,

782
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: and you get to put your little wet foot on

783
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: the softest back man you've ever felt. It really just

784
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: talks day far more enjoyable. It starts it out or

785
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: ends it. Like I shower at night, usually Jared shower

786
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: is more in the morning. It ends my day on

787
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: a point of relaxation, get a better sleep. But there's

788
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 1: just something nice about having a lovely bathroom, and we've

789
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: really started to be able to create that with the

790
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: with our Crate and Barrel registry in the items that

791
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: we've gotten so far from it highly suggests checking out

792
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel. If you're looking for a registry, you

793
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 1: can start your Crate and Barrel registry now at Crate

794
00:42:55,960 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: and Barrel dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. Again, you're

795
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: an engaged couple out there, please check out Create Barrel

796
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. Great Tanya, So this

797
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: week has been a very Jonas heavy week in our lives.

798
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: I can't like really good um, but Jared is like

799
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 1: already having Jonas fatigue and the album doesn't even come

800
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: out until Friday. How do you suggest we get through

801
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:26,280
Speaker 1: this rift? I'm gonna need Jared to get on board

802
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: because literally, did you see the documentary? Yeah, we're gonna

803
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 1: watch it tomorrow night with my mom. I don't know

804
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: how you watch that thing and don't become obsessed with them,

805
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: except mine is Nick. Like Nick, I'm kind of like

806
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: not here for anymore, but well Nick, he does sometimes

807
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: have a conceited air about him. Yeah, it's all Nick Jonas. Yeah,

808
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 1: let's be clear because that we have for sweet Yeah,

809
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: sweet man, Like, I'm just gonna really need you to

810
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: just get on board because it's only going to get

811
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: worse because they go on tour this summer, so there's

812
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: gonna be more Jonas and then the memoir comes out.

813
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm debating not seeing Ashley until the wedding, not just

814
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: like let her have her Jonas summer and then we'll

815
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: get married and then Jonah Summer will be over and

816
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: then we're married. Well, the real, the real tour doesn't

817
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 1: start until like August, and I'm not going into a

818
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,959
Speaker 1: date until after our wedding. And the hits just keep

819
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: on coming. I literally can't stop talking about the John's brothers,

820
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: like I cannot literally Today she's like, Wow, you're back

821
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: in the swing of things. Are you wait, You're gonna

822
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: die when I tell you this? So you know where

823
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 1: we were sitting for the premiere. My seat was actually

824
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 1: supposed to be in the I don't even know how.

825
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: This supposed to be the row with like Sophie and Prianka,

826
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, how is I in that row?

827
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: They just really like you. There's no way I know

828
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:39,280
Speaker 1: how you're in that that row because you've been crushing

829
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: it recently, just talking outside, You're everywhere. Your career is skyrocketed.

830
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: You're doing a great job. And that was the first

831
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 1: thing on the notes that I want to say is

832
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: Tanya is absolutely destroying the game, dominating. Very nice thing.

833
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: Your podcast together is also doing great this year in

834
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: two thousand. Wasn't two thousand nineteen that you won the

835
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: award eighteen time Flies and you're having fun? It was

836
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 1: within the last year. It's been in the last year,

837
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: scrubbing in with back in China one an award? This

838
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: what is the secret to making the same click with

839
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: two friends? I can't thank you seriously. This must so

840
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 1: sincere and I'm like scared, No, it's not. It's like

841
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 1: it's like, call me the mustache that I have right

842
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: now is call me, call me. Yeah, it makes you

843
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 1: feel like a daddy, like call me daddy, daddy. It's

844
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't feel too calm right now. So, um, I

845
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 1: was gonna say, I have been surrounded by Jonas energy

846
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: for like a long time now, and let's go to

847
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: dinner this week time will get it all out. Yeah,

848
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 1: y'all should do that. Actually, So just bank got training

849
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: campus started and the Patriots starting to get back into it,

850
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: the Bruins on the Stanley Cup Finals, I have distractions?

851
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: Are you going to say that? I was just gonna

852
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: say it wo Tango, I was. I got to witness

853
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 1: I'm always around Tommya's energy for the Jonas brothers, and

854
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: I really got to a front row seat to Ashley,

855
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 1: Lauren and Lizzie's love for the Jonas brothers. And they

856
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: were all singing to each other. And I've never seen

857
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 1: a look of boredom like I did on Jared say

858
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: it wasn't. I was having a boredom, just like not

859
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: as interested, and He's like, this is what gets them

860
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: all riled up? Yeah, it was. Honestly, I was having fun.

861
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: I was standing there, I was smiling, sucker, came on.

862
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 1: I know that song. I had a good time during

863
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 1: that song. But these girls are freaking out, So if

864
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: you're not flipping out with them, then you're obviously bored.

865
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: But I think it sounds like Jereed Guard. I think

866
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 1: it's so cute though, and I like love how they

867
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: have their that one night show in l A and

868
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: like you just you guys went like just girls and

869
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: Jared like picked you up. It was like, so if

870
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: you got McDonald's after, that's what I need in my life.

871
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 1: While blasting jonas it was. It was a low point.

872
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: One of the most interesting things I think is the

873
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:14,240
Speaker 1: perspective from somebody who is not in a committed relationship

874
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,879
Speaker 1: talking to people that are. Tanya, you know you've met

875
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: Ashley in studio a few times. You know this couple, Well,

876
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: what is your advice for them as a company? A

877
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: few times in the studio. She's a funny tour wedding too,

878
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: you know. Perfect. The thing I love about Ashley and

879
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: I love you too, Jared, but like Ashley just likeally

880
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 1: leaned over and goes. I really like Jared. Do you

881
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 1: know how many times I've gotten in my life Ashley?

882
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: I freaking love you. You're great to Jared, but actually

883
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm like cool actually before and like you're like a

884
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: bleeding heart like me, do you know what I mean? Like,

885
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: and so when you when this happened for you, like

886
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: I genuinely like it's really and I mean it from

887
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: the bottom of my heart, like I'm so happy for

888
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: you because it's it's like it's something that like I

889
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: don't know, we've we've like shared that's like the dream,

890
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: you know, so like I'm really really happy for you. Well,

891
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: thank you. I mean, I know we haven't done it

892
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: in a while, but those little like Thursday night hangs

893
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: that we had a couple of times where I was like, Batonia,

894
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I have no idea how I'm going

895
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: to handle the situation. Can remember it? I remember it

896
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 1: so clearly before or after, like Jared had voiced his

897
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: after he had voiced it. What were what were those

898
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: conversations life amongst you? You all? Well, I would always

899
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 1: tell Ashley when we talk about Jared, and this is

900
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 1: before he even admit his feelings, and he send her

901
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: flowers or something, and I was like, what is he doing?

902
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: He likes you? No one since flowers or doesn't like

903
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: the other person. This is not a friendly gesture. And

904
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: I can co sign on that I do the same thing.

905
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: What's happening. I'm a poor excuse of a man, like

906
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've never said anything otherwise, Like no,

907
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: it wasn't that though. I just remember thinking I didn't

908
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: want her to wait for something that might not happen.

909
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: And I also just wanted to be like, don't give

910
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: up because he's sending you flowers for some reason, like

911
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: there's a reason for that. Um. And I remember that

912
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 1: night that we were you came over and we were

913
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: watching Grace and you told us about him saying his

914
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: feelings for you, and it was like I remember texting

915
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: you like throughout the time, I'd be like, has he

916
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: done anything today? Has he said anything? Letter said text?

917
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: I think the thing that's so beautiful is like it

918
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: takes a lot for somebody to be vulnerable, Like that's

919
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: like really how you find love is true vulnerability, and

920
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: that's like what you you have, you embody that so well,

921
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,319
Speaker 1: you know, and I think you can always put up

922
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 1: a like you can always put up a wall, and

923
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 1: everybody has that, you know what I mean? Like that

924
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: kind of to protect them, and you've always just been

925
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: so open, and I think that's ultimately like what led

926
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 1: you to each other. Yeah, I agree. I think Ashley

927
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: is one of the most vulnerable people I've ever met,

928
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: and you're just very open with your emotions and feelings.

929
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: And I think while we're so similar in so many

930
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 1: different ways, that's one area where we're different, because I

931
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: think I'm someone who tries to project an image into

932
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: the world of like who I'm supposed to be, and

933
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: I think I've always struggled Superman complex. It's not a

934
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 1: Superman complex. I think it's just a human complex where

935
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people want to be seen into the world.

936
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: Is confident and funny, and it has everything put together

937
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: and they're not a mess and they they you know,

938
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: they're like, you know, I I have things to offer,

939
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: and uh. And I think it's far better just to

940
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: be open with your flaws and and and and accept

941
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: the fact that you know you're not perfect and and

942
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to realize that somebody is just

943
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: gonna love you for your imperfections. Um. Because Yeah, I

944
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 1: think that was the biggest hurdle that we had to overcome. Yeah,

945
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:49,399
Speaker 1: Jared was afraid of showing he's imperfections, and I was, like,

946
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 1: you think that that's going to change anything, that's a

947
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: big statement. Let's not just glance over that, Like I'm

948
00:50:56,480 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: actually interested in hearing your perspective on it. Only thing

949
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: that it's changed is like I thought that Jared would

950
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 1: be like so easy going and laid back, but he's

951
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: not as laid back as he seems like he I know,

952
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: it's so weird, but he like he is like he's moody,

953
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: and I never really knew him. I knew him as

954
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 1: like moody in the way he'd like get quiet sometimes,

955
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: like sometimes I wouldn't be able to read him, but

956
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,720
Speaker 1: like not to the extent that I know now, And

957
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: now I just um need to be more conscious about

958
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: like how too, Like I'm always like conscious about making

959
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: him as happy as possible. And like everybody asked me,

960
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: like why didn't happen earlier? Like why didn't it happen earlier?

961
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:37,359
Speaker 1: And it's like you have someone that I was. We

962
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: were really close friends, and you just had an idea

963
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 1: of who I was as a man, and it was like, Ashley,

964
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: I'm not that guy. And if I let you in

965
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: you're going to realize that pretty quickly. And I think

966
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: there's been moments in our relationship where you've you've you've

967
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: kind of seen like different sides of me where I

968
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: can get quiet and I can really just need to,

969
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: like I need to be by myself for a while.

970
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: What's your zodiac signs? Just Corpio to a definition, and

971
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: what's your side Pisces, so like if we want to

972
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: get into the whole astrology of at all, Like we're

973
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: both pretty much equally emotional, but I am very open

974
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: and expressive about it. And Scorpio, you guys hide it

975
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: done your love language tests. We haven't done that test

976
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: or the personality test that everybody wants. Literally, if you

977
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: do the love language test, I swear, and I'm not married,

978
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: but it'll make your I know what I am like

979
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 1: your marriage. All my married friends about it, and they're like, Tanya,

980
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,439
Speaker 1: you're like like marriage, whisper. Like the love language test

981
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: literally will bring you close. I swear, is this different

982
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: than just knowing what? Ye? It's fifteen minutes. I promise,

983
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: please do it for me, all right, so you'll send it.

984
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: You could tell me that I'm may be different than

985
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: touch and words of affirmation. Yes, and so you have

986
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: to give Jared love the way he received it. And

987
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: then can I interject them for a second, But like,

988
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 1: I'm interested, because do you really need an online us

989
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: to tell you that? Or is it more so reading

990
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:05,400
Speaker 1: Ashley and then being around her all the time and

991
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 1: realizing what she needs and what she doesn't need. So

992
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: you might think that you know, but you don't. You

993
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: need the test, you know, but you don't know. You

994
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: don't know the documentary. Take the test and then the

995
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: thing is the biggest mistake that we make is we

996
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: give love. Beck and I have to do this all

997
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: the time. We do we do? You have to do

998
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: it as a friendship. Yeah, literally every relationship in my life.

999
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,439
Speaker 1: I make every person that's like in my circle take

1000
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: it because it affects every relationship. So like the way

1001
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: that you receive love is the way that you give love,

1002
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 1: but that might not be the way that they receive love.

1003
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: So like me, I like quality time that doesn't need

1004
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: you don't need it. She knows when I need it

1005
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 1: that she she'll give it to me because she's like,

1006
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: I know, you like breadcrumbs here and there, sprinkling around,

1007
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: but it's true, I swear like, just do it, please,

1008
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: just do it. Do it out of curiosity. I think

1009
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: it's fun just to do it. Like, it's not like

1010
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 1: it's gonna save your marriage if you're I don't think

1011
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 1: it's like the single non married marriage was. It's either

1012
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: this quiz or it's over. So that I mean that

1013
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 1: ties me into my next question. Then the two of

1014
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: you individually, because I think you both have perspective. I

1015
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: want to hear from. What is your advice to Jared Nashley? Becca,

1016
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: you start, don't look at me if you're gonna laugh

1017
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: every time, Becca, it's comforting. You should look at me

1018
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 1: and just feel at home. Becca, though, what is your

1019
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: advice for these two? Um? I would say, I think

1020
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: that y'all do such a great well. I first of all,

1021
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:51,720
Speaker 1: I love your love for um things that you're passionate about,

1022
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: Like you're so passionate about the Patriots, and you're so

1023
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: passionate about Jonas brothers, and you both like really respect

1024
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: and like get passionate with that person even though you

1025
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: of like zero interests in either. You know, like all

1026
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden a big Giants fan that Actley is

1027
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: supports Tom Brady and Giselle and how can you not

1028
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: support Tom and Giselle, that's my question. But she's really like,

1029
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: you'll both have really stepped into that role and you're

1030
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: both fangirl about things, which is I know it's like

1031
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: we joke about it, but it's actually a really if

1032
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 1: there was a love language for fangirling, all three of

1033
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: you would have it. Wait. That is actually one of

1034
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: the first things that drew me to Jared was that

1035
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: he like obviously had this He's like very pop culture educated,

1036
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: which was attractive to me, but the one that he

1037
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: was able to like put out trivia you get it,

1038
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: it made me feel like because the way he talked

1039
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 1: about movies and stuff made me feel like, this guy

1040
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: gets my culture. Yeah, I guess my advice would be

1041
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 1: to like keep being there for each other and like

1042
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: things that you care about, because I think that's a

1043
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: big part of what makes you all so special. And

1044
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: like it's really fun to watch because even though I

1045
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: knew that you did not know every lyric to every

1046
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 1: Jonas brother song, like you were down there just like

1047
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: loving watching her be excited, you know, and same when

1048
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: it comes to his sports that you like and Rob

1049
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: Thomas like I'm I like his Instagram, so yeah, you like, yeah,

1050
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,319
Speaker 1: that's dedication. You like his instagram, so I feel very

1051
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: attuched to him and his wife. Weirdly, people, what do

1052
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: you think? What's your advice as the wedding whisperer, the

1053
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: un married wedding whisper marriage whisper. I talked to my

1054
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:43,840
Speaker 1: future husband. It's fine. She brings him and she's bringing

1055
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: him in. I'm bringing him in write to him and

1056
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: Stuff's the question mark right now, but that makes sense.

1057
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: But what is your advice the two of them? Um?

1058
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 1: I like, I think that you guys just like respect

1059
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: each other so much, and I think there's something so

1060
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:05,800
Speaker 1: beautiful about like your team to me, and that's so special,

1061
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, to like go through life with somebody that

1062
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: always has your back, and like, I just genuinely feel

1063
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: like you guys are like ying and yang, you know,

1064
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: like I saw you guys when you were in Nava

1065
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: and Ashley was like, you give me, Like I just

1066
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: like little things like that, do you know what I mean?

1067
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: I just feel like your your team, your unit, and

1068
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 1: you make each other better and just keep being that way,

1069
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,040
Speaker 1: you know, like when somebody's down with the other up

1070
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: and vice versa, because life is peaks and valleys and

1071
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 1: you guys do such a great job. Like I really

1072
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: genuinely like I've been growing my love for Jared, like

1073
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 1: over the past year, and you really know, seriously, as

1074
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: I've gotten to know you, I'm like, I'm really I'm

1075
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: so happy for Ashley that she like has you to

1076
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: do life with. She's basically saying, at some point, if

1077
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: you all want to in turn to a throuble she

1078
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: is Jared, Yeah, like if you have brothers or cousins,

1079
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: like you have your brothers, it's too bad and actually

1080
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: has met my cousins, you either want to. I'm actually

1081
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: trying to date Kevin Jonas introduced me to his brother

1082
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: in law and yeah, that's funny. Been there, done, not

1083
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: done that. That wasn't the one, the one for a second?

1084
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 1: What the hell is that? This is good? This is

1085
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: when things get good. Let's sit in it. Yeah, let's

1086
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: talk about it. Wait, he's so cute. Yeah, he's really

1087
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: cute now. He was cute then too, But I was like,

1088
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: very like, I can't date Mike. If I'm gonna date

1089
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: Joe one day, it's not a good situation. Like you

1090
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: gotta meet Danielle's brother. This is apparently his move. The

1091
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,919
Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers better listen to this podcast because they've gotten

1092
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: the most support of any podcast ever from this little segment.

1093
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 1: Tanya and Becca, we love you, We appreciate you. Keep

1094
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: crushing it on, scrubbing it in with Becca and Tanya

1095
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 1: and also Tanya, what are you up to these days

1096
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: outside of the podcast? On Arth Ryan Seacrest, Baby, Becca,

1097
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 1: what are you up to? Like Instagram stuff, love Instagram.

1098
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: Thank you to appreciate it. We're gonna bring Nick in

1099
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: Kindle up now. Nick and Kindles come on up. And

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00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 1: while they're making their way up here, gonna pause for

1101
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: a second to talk about Crate and Barrel. It's obviously

1102
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: our wedding, but I do have to say that throughout

1103
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: all the stress of planning, I do need some me time.

1104
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 1: It's actually more important than ever, and my morning routine

1105
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: has been enhanced by some of the gifts that Jared

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00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: and I have been getting from our wedding registry from

1107
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,479
Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel. These gifts have been coming in far

1108
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 1: before our bridle shower and our wedding, and it's been awesome.

1109
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 1: I've gotten the best like fluffy, soft Turkish towels, robes,

1110
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: bath mats that make my morning shower and my coffee

1111
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 1: so much more enjoyable. You wouldn't even know. I didn't

1112
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: know this before, but Crate and Barrel actually has a

1113
00:59:54,920 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: wide assortment of SPA products like shampoos, lotions, and can les.

1114
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: So I'll lie in our bath, I'll light some candles.

1115
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: It's good. It's just like a little period. Jared's gotta

1116
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 1: all worked up over there. He loves a good bath,

1117
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 1: like that man loves a bath and like he thinks,

1118
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:16,040
Speaker 1: like he likes thinks water is the sexiest thing ever. So,

1119
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: like you know, decorate a bathroom nicely, and like Jared's

1120
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: in a good mood. So, if you guys are getting

1121
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:28,240
Speaker 1: married out there, I highly suggest creating a registry with

1122
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel because not only can you get stuff

1123
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 1: of your kitchen, your family room, your bedroom, you can

1124
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: also get stuff of your bathroom and the towels are

1125
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 1: to die for. You can start your Crtan Barrel registry

1126
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 1: now at Crton Barrel dot com slash Wedding Dash Registry. Again,

1127
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: highly suggest you do your registry or at least one

1128
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: of them, with Crate and Barrel Crate and Barrel dot

1129
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: Com slash wedding Dash Registry, Nick and Kendall, you guys

1130
01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 1: are not dating. Kendle is in a committed relationship with Joe. Nick,

1131
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: are you dating anybody to like Decombrust's face? Uh? No,

1132
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: you're not. So this is how we're gonna come about this. Then,

1133
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 1: I want you we have to wrap this up thout

1134
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 1: because I do have a hot day tonight. Do you

1135
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 1: really all right? Hey, We're gonna speed this up for Nick.

1136
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: I mean I do, but we have time the Nick.

1137
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: I want to start with you then because we're gonna

1138
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 1: dig into Kindle's relationship with Joke, because it's a paradise

1139
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 1: relationship that we're super pumped about. You guys are included

1140
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 1: in that bunch too, because we talked about Yeah they

1141
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: were shouted out. Nick. Um, you've lived with Jared when

1142
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: Jared first moved to l A, Well, I think more accurately,

1143
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: Jared stayed at my place. Oh here we come? For

1144
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: how long? Longer than he said? Okay? I wanted him

1145
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: to keep staying what you wanted him to be staying

1146
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 1: with you? That I am his company, I'm answering Ben's questions. Honestly, honestly,

1147
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: it's Jared stayed in my place and he stayed sure

1148
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: than I expected. Oh, but I have a good question.

1149
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,280
Speaker 1: I have to say this. Okay, So Jared was living

1150
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,320
Speaker 1: with Nick when we first started like like like upping

1151
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: our relationship, and we didn't tell a lot of people

1152
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: for a while, and Nick like it kind of went

1153
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: over his head. And I was like, does Nick know

1154
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 1: like where you're going all the time? And I don't know.

1155
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 1: Did you know? Uh? None at first? No, When did

1156
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 1: you find out that Ashley and Jared were sneaking around

1157
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: behind your back? Well? I first noticed Jared being weird

1158
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 1: when we were going to grab coffee or something, and

1159
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: I was commenting on Kevin and Ashley's relationship on Instagram.

1160
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 1: At this point, Jared and Ashley are friends. Wasn't that

1161
01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 1: I didn't want to tell Nick. It was just at

1162
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: a point were when she was telling you about Jared's

1163
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 1: emotional and temperamental No, clarify it doesn't. I don't want

1164
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: to think that I wasn't telling Nick on purpose. Asked

1165
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: the question, you want me to answer the question? I

1166
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 1: want to want to preface like it wasn't because I

1167
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 1: didn't want to tell you. It was more so it

1168
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 1: was just like such a I didn't know where it

1169
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 1: was going. It was really emotional. So that's why I

1170
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: kind of kept it close to the chest, as you should.

1171
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: That's fine, I don't have to know everything. The next question,

1172
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: that is, I didn't he didn't answer. I mean, I

1173
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: think it's when he started feeling weird in the car

1174
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: and he noticed something was up. No, he has keeps

1175
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 1: going no, no, no no, no go. I want to hear

1176
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 1: the story. We were giving coffee and I was commenting

1177
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: on Ashley and Kevin's social media activity. I don't remember

1178
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: what I said, but I do remember Jared's reaction, and

1179
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: it was out of nowhere, just like, well, I want

1180
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: to talk about it, Okay, Like I don't know why

1181
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: you're so committed to like Instagram content, but fine. And

1182
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 1: then a couple of weeks later, we all went to

1183
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: Ashley's thirtieth birthday party and I kind of noticed they

1184
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 1: were like holding hands on at the table. Uh. And

1185
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: Jared's living with me at this point, and uh, And

1186
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 1: so I went to drop off Ashley and and I

1187
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: looked at Jared and I just said, so, you're gonna

1188
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 1: stay at Ashley this tonight. And he's like yeah, and

1189
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, we'll have fun. And that was

1190
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 1: that was pretty much it never forget a couple of

1191
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 1: days later, we were sitting in the kitchen and we

1192
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: were talking, you know, football and blah blah blah, and

1193
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: then you just you you sat in the chair. I'll

1194
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: never forget, and you were like, so, what's going on

1195
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: with Ashley? Let me clarify he did not sleep over that.

1196
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 1: I made it slay later and then uh, it was

1197
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: just and then you and I I was like, all right,

1198
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 1: here we go. And then we talked to him a

1199
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: couple of hours about everything that happened, and uh, and

1200
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: I'll I just I remember I didn't know how you

1201
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 1: were going to react to it. Uh, that was great, No,

1202
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: but I but I was always about goddamn time I had.

1203
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: I was always nervous that you were going to react

1204
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: in some way of saying that I was I was

1205
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 1: only jealous and that you know, if she wasn't with Kevin,

1206
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't have cared. And but and and then

1207
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: I just remember the first thing you said after I

1208
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: kind of like just like open up and said anything

1209
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 1: and you were like, uh, you said, I'm really happy

1210
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 1: for you. No, there's another moment I have to reminisce on.

1211
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 1: It was a year before Jared came out about his feeling.

1212
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 1: It's like an entire year. And we were at the

1213
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: I heard jingle Ball and we were there with a

1214
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: whole bunch of bachelor alone and Nick camp to us,

1215
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: he goes, I don't know about you two, Like there's

1216
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: I know, there's nothing going on, but like you're probably

1217
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: gonna get married one day. Yeah, it made sense. Yeah,

1218
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 1: you guys. They were way too emotionally attached to each

1219
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: other not to end up to each other. It was

1220
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 1: a you're gonna have a best friend with the opposite sex.

1221
01:05:56,840 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 1: But they were just like christ Um. That's why I

1222
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:04,120
Speaker 1: said I was happy with Jared because it was it

1223
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 1: was like I didn't really understand what his deal was,

1224
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, why do you put this much

1225
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:10,840
Speaker 1: effort into someone you're not gonna have sex with. It

1226
01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 1: was always a question I'm not I did I agree

1227
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 1: with you? It was always the confusing thing for me.

1228
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:18,400
Speaker 1: It was a watching friends. It was like you're going

1229
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: over there, You're staying on her couch, like you're emostally

1230
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: invested in this like relationship, caring about everything She's said,

1231
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 1: there's nothing happening. It doesn't make any sense to me,

1232
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: like the haircut. Hey, kinda before we move over here,

1233
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: because we've got a lot to talk about. Nick, I

1234
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 1: have a couple more questions for you. The first one, Uh,

1235
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 1: there's an email that we got from one of our

1236
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: listeners that said, there's a rumor going around that you've

1237
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: made a marriage pack with one of the Ferguson twins.

1238
01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: Is that true or false? That if you're if she's

1239
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: single at a certain age, or you're single a certain age,

1240
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: you're just gonna get married and do this thing. It's false,

1241
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 1: it's false. But I'm down. You know. You know I'm

1242
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:03,760
Speaker 1: not against either. I think you're both great. Um. Also, Nick,

1243
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: you're up to a lot right now. I want to

1244
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 1: give you the opportunity to talk about some of your

1245
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: projects going on. Uh. You have a podcast yourself that

1246
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 1: is doing really well. Uh can you tell our listeners

1247
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 1: about it? I do, thank you. You're asking number tunes

1248
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: right now? Um? What else I haven't as I just

1249
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 1: dropped off the list. I spent a lot of my

1250
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: time with my natural natural habits my essential company. It

1251
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 1: takes a lot of my time and it's going really

1252
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: well and we're growing so um. And I'll give a

1253
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:38,439
Speaker 1: vouch here. Those essential oils are different than any other.

1254
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:42,920
Speaker 1: It'll smell the entire room up with pleasantries. Not it

1255
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: smells so good. Whether other essential oil diffuse are things

1256
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 1: you walk by and you get a good whip. But

1257
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 1: those that Nick has us very thank you, Thank you guys.

1258
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: It's going really well. Um and uh, we're growing. I

1259
01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 1: hired an intern. I've got that advice from some Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

1260
01:08:09,040 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 1: well for you have interns. Yeah, that's we've we talked

1261
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:21,680
Speaker 1: about our business models and strategies. Our interns are the best. Um.

1262
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 1: And I just shot a new show coming out I

1263
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:25,679
Speaker 1: think at the end of the year called The Coupe

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01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: with Funny or Die. Some theatrical work that I'm doing

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01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 1: and uh what else, Yeah, on that roller skating painting

1266
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,640
Speaker 1: and for anybody out there. Yeah, so before letting it go,

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01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 1: there's a few things that always surprised me about him.

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01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: I told him this out there. There's some stills and

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01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: talents of his that shocked me, Like he has some

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01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: shocking talents. One is roller skating. Oh my gosh, I

1271
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 1: saw you ll skate. I'm an angel in the wood.

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01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 1: It's it's really wild. The second is shirtless painting. I'm

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01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:00,320
Speaker 1: sure we've all seen it. Yeah, if you haven't, go

1274
01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: to his instagram you can see some beautiful paint. And

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01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: the third is how he answers questions on Instagram. And

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01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: here's the talent. It's it's his question answering skills are great,

1277
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,680
Speaker 1: it's how many you choose to answer that amazes me.

1278
01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 1: Amongst all the things that you're doing, how do you

1279
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 1: find the time to go through each one? Or is

1280
01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 1: there a team? I'm lonely. Hey, that's why we love Nick.

1281
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: He's honest and vulnerable. Give it up for Nick. Yeah, Nick,

1282
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 1: please stay up here for a second. We talked to Kendle.

1283
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 1: Want to say two things more about Nick before we

1284
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 1: move on. Nick should always bring a first date to

1285
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 1: the roller rink because it is it's a good it's

1286
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 1: a impress an impressive turn onto a date. I think really,

1287
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: you think so? Yeah? Hold her hands spin around? Great?

1288
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: And then, secondly, on our our new YouTube show what Now,

1289
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:01,759
Speaker 1: Nick always brings the comic Really if he has quite

1290
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 1: a skill in the interview Room. That's it go Nick

1291
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 1: now streaming live on YouTube. Watched the over Here with

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01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: Kendall Kindle. You come showing so much love from another

1293
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: bachelor in Paradise relationship. Give it off for Kindle and Joe.

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01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 1: Joe Coulna be with us tonight. Um. Joe is probably

1295
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:28,479
Speaker 1: off traveling somewhere right he's on tour right now. He's

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01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 1: um is he hosting it? Um? So it's kind of

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01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 1: like there's a main host and he's sort of like

1298
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: a co host slash celebrity for like one of the teams. Okay,

1299
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 1: so he's playing the game. You know what's so crazy

1300
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: about your love story? Kindle is and I want to

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01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 1: start here. We've got to watch you and this is

1302
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 1: prepping for this podcast. This is something that always amazing you.

1303
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 1: Guys kind of came in. You were hesitant. There was

1304
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,599
Speaker 1: like love and then there's distance on paradise and there's

1305
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 1: love and there's distance. What was the moment when you

1306
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 1: looked at Joe and said, I want this thing to

1307
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 1: be I want to leave this thing with you. Yeah,

1308
01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 1: it was crazy because I think I allowed fear to

1309
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 1: get in the way a lot while we were on

1310
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 1: paradise because there was always the thought of of we'd

1311
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: be long distance, and I've never done a long distance

1312
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:19,519
Speaker 1: relationship before, let alone have a really really serious relationship before.

1313
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:21,720
Speaker 1: So I was thinking, with all of this in this

1314
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,519
Speaker 1: crazy world, how can this ever work? Um? And I

1315
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 1: think I think the moment I realized it was when

1316
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 1: we were on the beach as I was breaking up

1317
01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: with him. I think it was the moment where um,

1318
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: I saw that he wasn't like fighting for it, and

1319
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 1: I was like I expected him to fight, and um,

1320
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 1: the fact that he wasn't doing Yeah, but the fact

1321
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:54,439
Speaker 1: that he wasn't doing No. Kendall and Jared, you're either

1322
01:11:54,600 --> 01:12:01,519
Speaker 1: the same scenario, hard to get until you play too

1323
01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 1: hard to get and then you lose the person, and

1324
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 1: then you realize I could actually potentially lose something that

1325
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:09,280
Speaker 1: really means a lot to me and we I would

1326
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:11,680
Speaker 1: just see it as something that was really fun and

1327
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 1: we'd laugh together, we'd be best friends, you know, on

1328
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 1: the show, because we hang out. You hang out so

1329
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 1: much together. And then it was in that moment where

1330
01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: I was thinking, oh, well, I'm not gonna be seeing

1331
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: this person every day anymore, and I'm not gonna be

1332
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 1: able to like talk to this person every day and um, yeah,

1333
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. And it was funny because as soon

1334
01:12:28,840 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: as we got to the hotel's right after we had

1335
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:34,040
Speaker 1: broken up, there's they asked me where do you want

1336
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 1: your ticket to go? And I was like Chicago. I

1337
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 1: was like, oh's stupid at on my phone. He doesn't

1338
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 1: have my number, blah blah. I tried to sneak him

1339
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 1: a secret note to you know, gave him my room number. Um.

1340
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: That note was not delivered. Um. But yeah, so I

1341
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 1: guess I just decided to start fighting for it after

1342
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: I had already let it go. Yeah. The thing I

1343
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:56,280
Speaker 1: another part and I talked about earlier, is I haven't

1344
01:12:56,320 --> 01:12:58,679
Speaker 1: ever been to Paradise, so I don't know exactly that works.

1345
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: But I think each of the couples here could probably

1346
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: answer this, but specifically I want you to when does

1347
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:07,719
Speaker 1: that relationship leaving Paradise actually start to feel real? Then?

1348
01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:11,599
Speaker 1: Because we watched you his viewers kind of blossom post show,

1349
01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 1: both of your lives kind of took off and your

1350
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 1: relationship took off, and it was in the public eye.

1351
01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:17,160
Speaker 1: But at the same time, there was always this sense

1352
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:21,679
Speaker 1: in my mind that there's an amazing relationship forming as well.

1353
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 1: How does that happen? When does that happen? And when

1354
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,799
Speaker 1: did start feeling that real for you and Joe? Um.

1355
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:32,400
Speaker 1: I think it started feeling really real after he got

1356
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars and we were able to actually

1357
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 1: pretty much live together for three months because he had

1358
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 1: a place out in l A and I was living

1359
01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 1: in l A. So, um, we got to kind of

1360
01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:44,759
Speaker 1: playhouse for a bit, I guess you can say, Um,

1361
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:47,759
Speaker 1: and I had the foster dog that I was taking

1362
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 1: care of what the broken hip, and then he was

1363
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: going off to work and dancing every day, so it

1364
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:54,679
Speaker 1: kind of felt like a little family, and UM, seeing

1365
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: that was something that really and that's how easy it was,

1366
01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:01,519
Speaker 1: was something that really, Um, it made me excited about

1367
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:03,799
Speaker 1: where it can go. And then so now he's officially

1368
01:14:03,840 --> 01:14:06,599
Speaker 1: living in l A and we're plan house for real.

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01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 1: So it's it's been fun to see where it's gone.

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01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:11,800
Speaker 1: And you know, I haven't gotten tired of him yet.

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01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 1: You know, he surprises me every day and I think

1372
01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: we challenge each other every day and we learned from

1373
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: each other every day, which is it's been exciting. Do

1374
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: you mind telling us as much as you want on

1375
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 1: where do you see this going now? Well, Um, I

1376
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 1: think the thing is, I don't think either of us

1377
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: would be together if we didn't see like the long run,

1378
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 1: you know, down the line, marriage and everything. Um, but

1379
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 1: I think this whole entire thing has been such a

1380
01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 1: whirlwind and there's so much going on that it's really

1381
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 1: difficult to it's difficult to just to stop and to

1382
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: let everything else that's happening just kind of fade away

1383
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 1: and to just see each other. And I think we're

1384
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: taking this year living with each other to realize, like

1385
01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 1: we actually have to see each other in our relationship

1386
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:58,960
Speaker 1: for what it is beside all of the craziness. So

1387
01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: I think living together there has been something that's really

1388
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 1: taken away all of the I don't know, all the

1389
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:07,600
Speaker 1: crazy things that come along with having the experience like

1390
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 1: this and to really see each other for the real

1391
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 1: relationship that it can be. Yeah, well, we wish you

1392
01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 1: the best, Um, to switch gears to you for a second,

1393
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:18,639
Speaker 1: and then we need to go back to Ashley and Jared,

1394
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 1: because I know you both have advice for them and

1395
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it. Because of what's consuming

1396
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:26,320
Speaker 1: most of your time these days, Um, I do have

1397
01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 1: a project that I'm working on that I'm really excited about.

1398
01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 1: Tell us about I can't say that yet. Well, then

1399
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,320
Speaker 1: don't tell us about it. Just let us know. We're

1400
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:38,719
Speaker 1: supposed to promote it for you on Instagram. Yea, Um,

1401
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 1: but yeah, I know there's definitely a couple projects I'm

1402
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:42,920
Speaker 1: really excited about. I'm also, um, when will we hear

1403
01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:47,719
Speaker 1: about it? Um? Gosh, probably with the next week or so. Okay, cool, awesome,

1404
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,080
Speaker 1: so soon? I mean you sure you don't want to

1405
01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:52,720
Speaker 1: talk about it here? We probably are going to save this.

1406
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 1: I'll secretly talk about it. You come back to the

1407
01:15:56,000 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: auction in this podcast before you go to the biof oil. Yes, yeah, yeah,

1408
01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 1: no more guests going over there first. Um. Hey, we

1409
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:07,800
Speaker 1: we've asked this question all night. Uh, Nick, I'm gonna

1410
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: start with you. What is your advice for Ashley and Jared?

1411
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 1: What kind of advice do you want? You want like

1412
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 1: the platitudes, or do you want, like, I know, Jared

1413
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:27,320
Speaker 1: and Ashley relationship advice. Jared's such a scaredy cat choose

1414
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: day are not truth? I'm a truth guy. I like

1415
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 1: truth to uh. Knowing Ashley and Jared, I would I

1416
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:37,919
Speaker 1: would if if if I were to give Ashley advice

1417
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:43,160
Speaker 1: to Jared, it's Ashley is a very motivated and very

1418
01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 1: driven person who can um you sometimes get carried away

1419
01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 1: sometimes but sometimes in a good way. And I think

1420
01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:54,880
Speaker 1: it's important for Ashley to um remember that Jared has

1421
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:56,720
Speaker 1: a voice, which I think you guys do a good

1422
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: job of. But I think in times UM it's important

1423
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 1: when she's really focused on something to just maybe take

1424
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:05,559
Speaker 1: a step back. I think also subsequently, I think it's

1425
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:09,880
Speaker 1: important for Jared to remember that just saying it's fine

1426
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: and being a nice guy is sometimes going to catch

1427
01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:14,760
Speaker 1: up to him and be his fault because if he's

1428
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 1: not going to share his voice, he's not going to

1429
01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:19,519
Speaker 1: be heard. And that would be my advice to you guys.

1430
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:21,479
Speaker 1: I told you guys, he's just really good at this. Yeah.

1431
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 1: And about two minutes he summed up like our relationship

1432
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 1: therapy that we had on another I Horror podcast wind Down,

1433
01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:41,880
Speaker 1: it's um Kindle Nick Instagram dot Com, New Customers, my drop.

1434
01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:47,080
Speaker 1: I would say my advice is um to know that

1435
01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:49,360
Speaker 1: who you are as people, as madeable and not in

1436
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: the sense that you're not who the person that you're

1437
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 1: with is not the person you are married the sense

1438
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:57,960
Speaker 1: that you. I think people tend to think that the

1439
01:17:57,960 --> 01:17:59,720
Speaker 1: person that they're worth is always going to be the

1440
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:02,360
Speaker 1: person that they met or the person that they're with

1441
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:05,040
Speaker 1: now or that they get married to. UM, always be

1442
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 1: curious about each other and always take time to get

1443
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:09,280
Speaker 1: to know who the new person is because I can

1444
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:11,760
Speaker 1: talk about myself because I'm not the same person I

1445
01:18:11,880 --> 01:18:15,599
Speaker 1: was yet yesterday, let alone like a year ago. And UM,

1446
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:18,880
Speaker 1: so I just always have curiosity with each other. That's

1447
01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:21,559
Speaker 1: really good advice. It's also something I've read in Cosmo.

1448
01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 1: Oh they copied me the final question, Um, for both

1449
01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:30,240
Speaker 1: of you, what is your favorite thing about Ashley and

1450
01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:36,479
Speaker 1: Jared God Um, I would say that neither of you

1451
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 1: gave up. I mean, despite everything that happened and everything

1452
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,599
Speaker 1: you guys have both been through, Um, you never gave up.

1453
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,600
Speaker 1: And I think that says a lot about your relationship

1454
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: and where it's going to be. M They're they're annoyably cute.

1455
01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:57,200
Speaker 1: They are. I mean, it's it's annoying, don't get me wrong,

1456
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:02,519
Speaker 1: but they are very cute together. They really are. Thank you, Nick, Um.

1457
01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:05,200
Speaker 1: It's amazing how much you guys are a good match.

1458
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 1: I said, you guys should work on perfect. You're right,

1459
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:14,040
Speaker 1: that is our biggest difference. Nick and Kendall, thank you

1460
01:19:14,120 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: for coming up, thank you for talking. Wish you the

1461
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 1: best and Kendall will be listening for your big project

1462
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 1: announcement within the next let's say, two weeks, just so

1463
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:27,720
Speaker 1: we're not sitting on there. Yeah, just just in case. Hey, uh,

1464
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,559
Speaker 1: we're gonna end the night with a little game. It's

1465
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 1: gonna be a blast. Give us a second, because first

1466
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:34,599
Speaker 1: we've got to talk about Crate and Barrel. Hey, yes,

1467
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:37,920
Speaker 1: you like taking a bath? Right? Oh? I love best.

1468
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 1: I feel like you're a bath guy, Big Bathroup, Big

1469
01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:45,519
Speaker 1: spot guys. Jared will like sometimes book hotel rooms solely

1470
01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 1: because they have a nice bathroom. There's nothing better than

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01:19:48,120 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 1: feeling hugged by water. Recently, we've re revamped our bathroom

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01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:56,040
Speaker 1: and like really made that whole bath experience, bath and

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01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 1: showering experience a little bit more luxurious because we registered

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01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:02,640
Speaker 1: some items on our Crate and Barrel registry that have

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01:20:02,760 --> 01:20:05,599
Speaker 1: to do with our bathroom. Like, they have a bunch

1476
01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:08,840
Speaker 1: of stuff. They actually have like shocking products, things that

1477
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:12,400
Speaker 1: I didn't think that Crate and Barrel would carry like shampoos,

1478
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:16,759
Speaker 1: lotions and candles. That really makes bathtimes so much fun.

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01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:21,400
Speaker 1: And afterwards when you get out of the bath of

1480
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:23,880
Speaker 1: the shower and you get to wrap yourself in this

1481
01:20:24,000 --> 01:20:27,679
Speaker 1: soft Turkish towel or robes and you get to put

1482
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:31,479
Speaker 1: your little wet foot on the softest bath man you've

1483
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:35,600
Speaker 1: ever felt. It really just talks a day far more enjoyable.

1484
01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 1: It starts it out or ends it. Like I shower

1485
01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: at night, usually Jerry shower is more in the morning.

1486
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,479
Speaker 1: It ends my day on a point of relaxation, get

1487
01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:47,679
Speaker 1: a better sleep. But there's just something nice about having

1488
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:50,200
Speaker 1: a lovely bathroom and we've really started to be able

1489
01:20:50,280 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 1: to create that with the with our Crate and Barrel

1490
01:20:52,600 --> 01:20:54,639
Speaker 1: registry in the items that we've gotten so far from

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01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 1: it highly suggests checking out Crate and Barrel if you're

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01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 1: looking for a registry you can start. You're a Crate

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01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 1: and Barrel registry now at Crate and Barrel dot com

1494
01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: slash Wedding Dash Registry. Again, if you're an engaged couple

1495
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:09,599
Speaker 1: out there, please check out Crate and Barrel dot com

1496
01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 1: slash Wedding Dash Registry. Okay, so here's how the game's

1497
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:19,080
Speaker 1: gonna work. We're giving Ashley and Jared a groom cowboy

1498
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:22,280
Speaker 1: hat and a Pride white hat. Two. If you need

1499
01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: to sit back to back, you cannot see each other. Please,

1500
01:21:25,160 --> 01:21:29,080
Speaker 1: you dropped my cowboy hat. Please sit back to back.

1501
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:31,360
Speaker 1: So they're sitting back to back right now. For everybody

1502
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:33,719
Speaker 1: out there listening. We're gonna ask him a few questions

1503
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 1: and they're gonna raise which one. Listen, this is how

1504
01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:40,400
Speaker 1: the game works. Ash Um. She's over there saying that, says,

1505
01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:42,240
Speaker 1: well it does for a reason. No, no, no, you

1506
01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:45,440
Speaker 1: need to have to say I don't need two cowboy hats. Um.

1507
01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:48,759
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna ask a question and they're gonna raise

1508
01:21:48,960 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 1: the hat that they think it relates to the most. Okay, So,

1509
01:21:54,200 --> 01:21:56,720
Speaker 1: for example, the two of you can't be looking at

1510
01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 1: each other. Jared, please look towards the wall. Sorry, lift

1511
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:03,240
Speaker 1: up the hat of the messiest person in your relationship.

1512
01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:09,200
Speaker 1: They both said, bride. Yeah, good job, Ashley, She's not.

1513
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 1: I do like. I like how Jared filled that in there.

1514
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:15,600
Speaker 1: It's like, but just in case, baby, you know, he

1515
01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 1: cleans up throughout the day. I clean up like at

1516
01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:20,960
Speaker 1: the end of the day when there's nothing else. Lauren

1517
01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 1: do you agree when there is nothing else? Okay, um,

1518
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 1: who spends more money? Oh there's pause Ashley with the

1519
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 1: when Lauren, do you agree they don't spend much money?

1520
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 1: The only difference is she buys beauty products. I buy

1521
01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:43,080
Speaker 1: uh Dove I've talked about in the podcast beat by

1522
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 1: Dove Soap. Yeah, my dove is two nine and nine.

1523
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:50,679
Speaker 1: Her lover is a little bit more expensive you would

1524
01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:52,599
Speaker 1: actually be. I mean, I think that is a little

1525
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 1: shocking to people that actually is not a big spender

1526
01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:57,640
Speaker 1: except on beauty products, which the very first time I

1527
01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:00,559
Speaker 1: ever met Ashley, it's still to this day my first

1528
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:02,040
Speaker 1: impression of her, and I've gotten to know her so

1529
01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:04,760
Speaker 1: much better since then. But she rolls in with us.

1530
01:23:04,760 --> 01:23:06,960
Speaker 1: Something she still has his day is just like chest

1531
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:10,200
Speaker 1: full of makeup, Like it's a massive chest with lights

1532
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:12,840
Speaker 1: and it looks like it costs two thars it was

1533
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:16,439
Speaker 1: to fifty. Oh well it's still expensive, a lot more

1534
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 1: expensive than dub so So Ashley, you went with that one.

1535
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: Who is the better driver? Jared Wins on the driving

1536
01:23:26,439 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 1: I have driven with Ashley a couple of times. Scary experience.

1537
01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:33,800
Speaker 1: It's all right, I mean from the moment that I

1538
01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:36,719
Speaker 1: first was in a car that Jared drove. I was like, Wow,

1539
01:23:37,000 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 1: this guy drives like my dad. That's a good sign.

1540
01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:40,519
Speaker 1: And that was like a turn on for her. It's

1541
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:44,160
Speaker 1: kind of weird. My dad is a very safe driver.

1542
01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 1: My mom's a better driver, though, I'll tell you that

1543
01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:50,679
Speaker 1: my mom is a better driver my dad. Ashley's mom's

1544
01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 1: in the audience tonight, looking beautiful, smiling big, and we're

1545
01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:58,599
Speaker 1: super thankful to be here. So this is a question

1546
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:01,519
Speaker 1: I think that we were all very proud about overdight heart.

1547
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 1: Who is the biggest baby when they get sick? Oh,

1548
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:16,120
Speaker 1: Ashley says Ashley, Jared says, Jared explain, Jared really hasn't

1549
01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:19,080
Speaker 1: been sick on me. He really hasn't been sicker on me.

1550
01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:22,120
Speaker 1: I haven't had like a bad cold or flu or

1551
01:24:22,160 --> 01:24:24,720
Speaker 1: anything like that since we've lived together in the past year.

1552
01:24:24,800 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 1: But I have thrown up in front of him a

1553
01:24:26,920 --> 01:24:29,360
Speaker 1: couple of times. You haven't been too much of a baby.

1554
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 1: The only reason I said this was because one night

1555
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:33,439
Speaker 1: I wasn't feeling well and you made me a peanut

1556
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:35,960
Speaker 1: butter and jelly sandwich and like gave me liquid ivy.

1557
01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:39,600
Speaker 1: I know it wasn't but that's the only time I

1558
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:44,559
Speaker 1: really remember who was better. Can't answer that yet, do

1559
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:48,320
Speaker 1: you guys not cook? Just give me a second, Ben,

1560
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:51,559
Speaker 1: let me think about this. Make sure you look Jared.

1561
01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:59,240
Speaker 1: You're you're cheating the better cook. Gosh ah oh, Jared says.

1562
01:24:59,360 --> 01:25:03,640
Speaker 1: Jared actually says both. Okay, that wasn't so bad. So

1563
01:25:03,760 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 1: Jared doesn't consider like making pasta or sandwiches. I never

1564
01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:11,800
Speaker 1: said anything. She made me a turkey sandwich one time.

1565
01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:13,559
Speaker 1: It was like I cooked for you, and I was like,

1566
01:25:13,840 --> 01:25:17,000
Speaker 1: wait a minute, making a turkey sandwich. She's like, I

1567
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:20,880
Speaker 1: put the toast in the toaster. Was like, that is

1568
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:24,520
Speaker 1: not cooking the right amount of like you know, condimenting.

1569
01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,320
Speaker 1: Constant discussion of what is cooking and what is not cooking.

1570
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 1: And I am still on the side that a turkey

1571
01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: sandwich toast or no toast is not cooking. Okay, So

1572
01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:37,920
Speaker 1: for everybody out there listening, please email us at Ben

1573
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:40,799
Speaker 1: Actually I heard me dot com is making a turkey

1574
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:43,880
Speaker 1: sandwich cooking or not cooking? Audience, raise your hand if

1575
01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 1: you think making a turkey sandwich is cooking. All right, Okay,

1576
01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 1: So I've really only cooked, like I only make pasa

1577
01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 1: and like is it warming up, boiling pasta and then

1578
01:25:56,439 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 1: putting sauce on top of it, cooking too more of

1579
01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:05,599
Speaker 1: a Jared has only beyond that. Jared did it once

1580
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:09,320
Speaker 1: and he made me steak and like Brussels sprouts and

1581
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:12,840
Speaker 1: mashed or big potato, which that's real cooking. But he's

1582
01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 1: only done it once, so I don't know if I

1583
01:26:14,360 --> 01:26:17,040
Speaker 1: can really so he wins, so he went. Okay, next question,

1584
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:20,639
Speaker 1: when you first met, let's flashback to the very first

1585
01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:23,799
Speaker 1: time you met, not after any love had been sparked.

1586
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:31,439
Speaker 1: Who made the first move? Ah? Oh, there is a

1587
01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:37,080
Speaker 1: big pause. There, there's a big pause, and they both say, Jared, Jared,

1588
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:39,479
Speaker 1: please explain why you think you made the first move? Well,

1589
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:42,880
Speaker 1: because Ashley was more open with her feelings. But I

1590
01:26:43,040 --> 01:26:46,240
Speaker 1: was the first. I was the person to kiss Ashley first,

1591
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:49,200
Speaker 1: which is the move. That's the move. And he did

1592
01:26:49,240 --> 01:26:52,680
Speaker 1: it really, really well. He was like, so like, you know,

1593
01:26:52,760 --> 01:26:54,800
Speaker 1: you wait, I really don't want to wait for the

1594
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:58,599
Speaker 1: perfect moment to do what I gotta do, you know,

1595
01:26:58,800 --> 01:27:00,559
Speaker 1: And then I was like, yeah, I know, and then

1596
01:27:00,560 --> 01:27:03,080
Speaker 1: he went right in for it. It was cut. It

1597
01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:07,560
Speaker 1: was something along those lines, something al those lines. Adorable. Okay,

1598
01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:10,960
Speaker 1: three more questions. They're gonna give it to the audience

1599
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:13,040
Speaker 1: for a few minutes to ask any questions they want.

1600
01:27:13,479 --> 01:27:15,880
Speaker 1: We'll close up out of here and we'll call it

1601
01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:18,240
Speaker 1: a great podcast and give our thank you to some

1602
01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:20,880
Speaker 1: people who have made this thing happen to night. Three

1603
01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:28,599
Speaker 1: more questions. Who said I love you first? Well, they

1604
01:27:28,680 --> 01:27:32,000
Speaker 1: both say Jared, true or false. Jared said I love

1605
01:27:32,040 --> 01:27:34,240
Speaker 1: you first. I said on Bachelor in Paradise I would

1606
01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:37,000
Speaker 1: love with him. Now you said you you what happened

1607
01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 1: on Bachelor in Paradise is you called Lauren in the

1608
01:27:40,400 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 1: car ride home and Lauren said, well, were you in

1609
01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:45,800
Speaker 1: love with them? And you were like, no, but as

1610
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:48,080
Speaker 1: close as you can get. Yeah. But in Bachelor in

1611
01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:51,439
Speaker 1: Paradise three, I did say like, but I love it. Yeah,

1612
01:27:51,560 --> 01:27:53,720
Speaker 1: but with the like the first like I love you

1613
01:27:53,920 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 1: was Jared. Yeah. Okay. Final question, who does the dishes?

1614
01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:03,760
Speaker 1: This is not even Jared with the win, Jared with

1615
01:28:03,800 --> 01:28:06,000
Speaker 1: the wind. Thank you, actually, Jared, please turn it to

1616
01:28:06,040 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 1: the audience. Audience. I want to give you we just

1617
01:28:08,400 --> 01:28:11,479
Speaker 1: got a few minutes, let's say five minutes. Raise your

1618
01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:13,120
Speaker 1: hand if you have any questions. We have somebody with

1619
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: a mike walking around, somebody's got to have a question,

1620
01:28:20,360 --> 01:28:22,760
Speaker 1: what are you I know you already lived together, so

1621
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:24,960
Speaker 1: that kind of answer is part of it. But what

1622
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:28,599
Speaker 1: are you most looking forward to? Like literally the second

1623
01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:30,280
Speaker 1: after you get married, what's the first thing you're most

1624
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:32,120
Speaker 1: looking forward to? Both of you? What do you mean

1625
01:28:32,280 --> 01:28:35,080
Speaker 1: like on the wedding day or just maybe after the

1626
01:28:35,120 --> 01:28:37,880
Speaker 1: wedding days over. And I'm I'm really looking forward to

1627
01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:41,240
Speaker 1: the honeymoon because I want, I want. I think it'll

1628
01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:42,840
Speaker 1: be nice for Jared I to actually get out of

1629
01:28:42,880 --> 01:28:48,120
Speaker 1: the country, like to really detach ourselves that much. Um,

1630
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:51,160
Speaker 1: we haven't, like when we go on vacation and stuff.

1631
01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:54,479
Speaker 1: It's not always it's like sometimes like tied to business

1632
01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:56,439
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. I'm like excited for the honeymoon

1633
01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 1: to be truly just romantic. And I've always like dreamed

1634
01:28:59,880 --> 01:29:02,320
Speaker 1: of a honeymoon being like by definition, like you go

1635
01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:06,400
Speaker 1: the day after the wedding and it's just like a

1636
01:29:06,400 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 1: super romantic vacation. And that's That's what I'm really really

1637
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 1: looking forward to. I think that we should even like

1638
01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 1: put our phones in the safe in the hotel room. No,

1639
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:17,559
Speaker 1: I agree. I think, Uh, sometimes we get bogged down

1640
01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 1: into like what we do is work and so on

1641
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:22,160
Speaker 1: and so forth. And then we actually just took a

1642
01:29:22,280 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 1: day vacation down and like, yeah, we just took a

1643
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:30,320
Speaker 1: day and it was so nice and kind of like

1644
01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:33,160
Speaker 1: rebooted everything and you and you just you forget things,

1645
01:29:33,240 --> 01:29:35,400
Speaker 1: especially as a couple. You know, you you get into

1646
01:29:35,439 --> 01:29:37,960
Speaker 1: the work day and then like life goes by and

1647
01:29:37,960 --> 01:29:40,120
Speaker 1: then you kind of like just stop for a minute

1648
01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:41,840
Speaker 1: and have a moment, even if it's just like getting

1649
01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:45,040
Speaker 1: a hotel room and you're like, oh no, this is yeah,

1650
01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 1: that's right, this is this is love, this is romantic

1651
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:50,519
Speaker 1: and and and so I think that was a really

1652
01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:52,320
Speaker 1: nice day for both of us. And so that's what

1653
01:29:52,400 --> 01:29:54,800
Speaker 1: I agree. I'm looking forward to most and wearing a ring.

1654
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm so excited wear wing. Wait wait,

1655
01:30:00,160 --> 01:30:02,280
Speaker 1: is there like anything more attractive than a hot guy

1656
01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:05,000
Speaker 1: in a wedding ring. You're like, Wow, he's hot and

1657
01:30:05,160 --> 01:30:07,559
Speaker 1: he could commit. I don't know. Yeah, I tried one

1658
01:30:07,560 --> 01:30:09,040
Speaker 1: on the other day and I was like, this suits me,

1659
01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:15,599
Speaker 1: this fits my personality. I've been waiting. It does hil

1660
01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:19,360
Speaker 1: on raising your family. We're going to be in l

1661
01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,960
Speaker 1: A for probably in the next four years. As our

1662
01:30:22,040 --> 01:30:25,640
Speaker 1: tentative plan. We have so many opportunities out here and

1663
01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:29,480
Speaker 1: our business is really out here right now. But we definitely,

1664
01:30:29,640 --> 01:30:32,599
Speaker 1: like ideally plan on raising them on the East Coast,

1665
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:36,080
Speaker 1: probably around the New England area, because that's where Jared's

1666
01:30:36,080 --> 01:30:38,920
Speaker 1: from and like truly that's where his heart lies. It'll

1667
01:30:38,960 --> 01:30:41,240
Speaker 1: be closer to my parents, which are only an hour

1668
01:30:41,400 --> 01:30:44,759
Speaker 1: away flight wise. It's literally like you blink like Genie

1669
01:30:44,760 --> 01:30:49,160
Speaker 1: and you're there, And yeah, we both you know, I

1670
01:30:49,200 --> 01:30:51,800
Speaker 1: think we both consider that home. But I love it

1671
01:30:51,840 --> 01:30:53,640
Speaker 1: here in l A almost as much as I love

1672
01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:56,800
Speaker 1: it over there. But um, I feel like after four

1673
01:30:56,880 --> 01:30:59,280
Speaker 1: or five years, it'll be time for him to be

1674
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 1: in his home. Yeah, I agree. I think back East

1675
01:31:04,200 --> 01:31:07,600
Speaker 1: is a little bit more my speed. Plus you know, uh,

1676
01:31:07,920 --> 01:31:10,640
Speaker 1: friends and you know family are out there, and you know,

1677
01:31:11,120 --> 01:31:15,439
Speaker 1: nobody's getting younger. So to close out tonight, I need

1678
01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 1: to take the time to answer these two questions. I think, um,

1679
01:31:20,560 --> 01:31:22,400
Speaker 1: I'd like to take the time to answer these two

1680
01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:27,479
Speaker 1: questions my best advice for Ashley and Jared. First off,

1681
01:31:27,479 --> 01:31:30,040
Speaker 1: thank you for let me host your wedding shops. Thank

1682
01:31:30,040 --> 01:31:33,240
Speaker 1: you for um and thank you to all of you

1683
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:36,599
Speaker 1: came in tonight to iHeart Studios to hang out with us.

1684
01:31:37,479 --> 01:31:39,760
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Thank you for listening, Thank you for

1685
01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:42,599
Speaker 1: showing your support. Shout out to the girl who came

1686
01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:45,360
Speaker 1: from Kansas City and anybody who took a flight to

1687
01:31:45,400 --> 01:31:49,240
Speaker 1: get here. Really mind boggling and amazing. Thank you so much.

1688
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:52,720
Speaker 1: I was that fangirl you know she still don't kill me.

1689
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,600
Speaker 1: No, no no, but seriously, like a big thank you to

1690
01:31:57,640 --> 01:32:01,160
Speaker 1: all you guys, because without anybody, everybody here you know

1691
01:32:01,160 --> 01:32:03,679
Speaker 1: who's living in l A that's trying to do something

1692
01:32:03,680 --> 01:32:05,840
Speaker 1: with our lives and taking advantage of the opportunities. Without

1693
01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:10,080
Speaker 1: you guys, none of this happens. So don't ever forget

1694
01:32:10,120 --> 01:32:12,200
Speaker 1: that door, forget how much we appreciate you guys and

1695
01:32:12,439 --> 01:32:16,040
Speaker 1: are thankful um for everything you do for us, the

1696
01:32:17,080 --> 01:32:20,280
Speaker 1: people here live tonight, UM, thank you, but also everything

1697
01:32:20,320 --> 01:32:22,240
Speaker 1: out there listening. Ashley and I just found out this

1698
01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:25,839
Speaker 1: week this is our the week that marks our second

1699
01:32:25,920 --> 01:32:31,240
Speaker 1: year doing the Almost Famous podcast, and today listen than this.

1700
01:32:31,240 --> 01:32:37,719
Speaker 1: This is crazy. We've had over fifteen million individual downloads.

1701
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:40,559
Speaker 1: That means fifteen million listens in this two years that

1702
01:32:40,600 --> 01:32:45,200
Speaker 1: we've had Almost Famous podcast. It's so awesome. It's so crazy.

1703
01:32:45,240 --> 01:32:47,559
Speaker 1: But hey, back to the question, what is my best

1704
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:50,960
Speaker 1: advice for Ashley and Jared Um. Typically, what I'd like

1705
01:32:51,040 --> 01:32:52,880
Speaker 1: to do in this moment is to just pump you

1706
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:55,080
Speaker 1: guys up, because I think marriage is such an awesome

1707
01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:57,240
Speaker 1: thing and I think it's something that you're committed to

1708
01:32:57,240 --> 01:32:59,120
Speaker 1: when you're running to full force. But I know you

1709
01:32:59,160 --> 01:33:01,960
Speaker 1: guys already can it in this choice. And so what

1710
01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:03,920
Speaker 1: I thought about this tonight, what I want to tell

1711
01:33:03,960 --> 01:33:07,000
Speaker 1: you is I look at you too, and as I

1712
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 1: told you, in the last two years, I've seen this

1713
01:33:09,360 --> 01:33:13,000
Speaker 1: change in you that is admirable but also just one

1714
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:15,559
Speaker 1: that I look at and I'm inspired by, Like I

1715
01:33:15,640 --> 01:33:18,200
Speaker 1: want to have that change. I I want to have

1716
01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:21,640
Speaker 1: the peace and the confidence um that you have and

1717
01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 1: I think I'm finding it like I have found it right,

1718
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:28,200
Speaker 1: but I've seen it exists because of how you have

1719
01:33:28,320 --> 01:33:31,439
Speaker 1: handled this situation and how you guys have walked this together.

1720
01:33:32,439 --> 01:33:35,240
Speaker 1: So my advice to you guys is, don't lose this.

1721
01:33:36,360 --> 01:33:39,639
Speaker 1: Like Jared just said it, In relationships, time goes on

1722
01:33:39,760 --> 01:33:43,080
Speaker 1: and activities go on, and there's travel and there is distraction,

1723
01:33:43,680 --> 01:33:45,080
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you do get sick in

1724
01:33:45,160 --> 01:33:47,120
Speaker 1: front of each other, maybe more than you want to,

1725
01:33:47,840 --> 01:33:53,320
Speaker 1: and you lose what exists today. It just happens. But

1726
01:33:53,400 --> 01:33:55,280
Speaker 1: my advice to you guys is to not to lose

1727
01:33:55,280 --> 01:33:58,520
Speaker 1: this because what you have right here is absolutely beautiful.

1728
01:33:58,920 --> 01:34:02,439
Speaker 1: It's inspiring, and the world is on your team, and

1729
01:34:02,520 --> 01:34:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm on your team. So I'm just so that you

1730
01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:08,439
Speaker 1: guys and I've got a front row seat to witness

1731
01:34:08,479 --> 01:34:13,559
Speaker 1: something so magical in the sixth or seventh row. But regardless,

1732
01:34:14,080 --> 01:34:18,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I was on the list. You're at the

1733
01:34:18,280 --> 01:34:19,720
Speaker 1: top of the A list when it comes to like

1734
01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:23,160
Speaker 1: our mutual friendless you know, yeah, yeah, I was on

1735
01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:26,280
Speaker 1: the A list. That's all that matters. Um. My favorite

1736
01:34:26,280 --> 01:34:30,120
Speaker 1: thing about Ashley and Jared is this. This is funny

1737
01:34:30,240 --> 01:34:31,920
Speaker 1: because I think it was said the night when we

1738
01:34:31,920 --> 01:34:35,200
Speaker 1: were standing out there, but you really do represent this

1739
01:34:35,320 --> 01:34:41,040
Speaker 1: like TV relationship, like this relationship that's storybook like when

1740
01:34:41,160 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 1: when people are around you, it just seems different. And

1741
01:34:45,120 --> 01:34:47,320
Speaker 1: and my favorite thing about that is you've both kind

1742
01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:50,400
Speaker 1: of leaned into it and you're both yourselves, which means

1743
01:34:50,560 --> 01:34:53,240
Speaker 1: as a couple. I'm such a fan of you guys,

1744
01:34:53,560 --> 01:34:57,800
Speaker 1: because you've made yourselves that much better as people. I've

1745
01:34:57,840 --> 01:35:00,280
Speaker 1: known you both before you met, and now I known

1746
01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:03,719
Speaker 1: you as you've met, and you both have grown as humans.

1747
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 1: And I think as we look at relationships and we

1748
01:35:06,479 --> 01:35:08,559
Speaker 1: try to commit to somebody, isn't that what we're looking

1749
01:35:08,560 --> 01:35:10,960
Speaker 1: for is a partnership that just makes us better and

1750
01:35:11,000 --> 01:35:12,680
Speaker 1: makes us more of ourselves than we ever knew we

1751
01:35:12,720 --> 01:35:15,000
Speaker 1: could be. And that's my favorite thing about you two

1752
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,639
Speaker 1: as a couple is I just am so pumped there.

1753
01:35:17,720 --> 01:35:20,200
Speaker 1: There is not many times in my life I've had friends,

1754
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:23,400
Speaker 1: um date people well until they get married, where I've

1755
01:35:23,400 --> 01:35:26,519
Speaker 1: been like so confident, But since the beginning as a friend,

1756
01:35:26,560 --> 01:35:30,120
Speaker 1: I've just been so pumped that this finally happened and

1757
01:35:30,160 --> 01:35:34,000
Speaker 1: this day is coming up close. You know, then thanks

1758
01:35:34,360 --> 01:35:37,840
Speaker 1: so much. This is like the most amazing way of

1759
01:35:38,000 --> 01:35:41,080
Speaker 1: celebrating our relationship. Like I feel like very warm and

1760
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:43,759
Speaker 1: fuzzy inside. Well you should. This is about you guys.

1761
01:35:43,880 --> 01:35:47,240
Speaker 1: We love you, We love them right, Yeah, it's it

1762
01:35:47,360 --> 01:35:50,519
Speaker 1: was incredible and it's crazy to think that, Like I

1763
01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:54,320
Speaker 1: know I always kind of reminisce, but like thinking about

1764
01:35:55,479 --> 01:35:58,599
Speaker 1: like Bachelorette and you and I and like I'll never

1765
01:35:58,640 --> 01:36:00,439
Speaker 1: forget sitting next to you at men Tall and you

1766
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:03,080
Speaker 1: texted me and you're like, man, I was super nervous,

1767
01:36:03,080 --> 01:36:04,680
Speaker 1: but like sitting next to you, calm me. You just

1768
01:36:04,720 --> 01:36:07,400
Speaker 1: like say the nicest things, and like meeting Nick in

1769
01:36:07,479 --> 01:36:10,880
Speaker 1: New York when he crashed our season and then like

1770
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 1: gone through Paradise with them and living with them and everything,

1771
01:36:13,439 --> 01:36:15,400
Speaker 1: Like it's just crazy that you go through this weird

1772
01:36:15,479 --> 01:36:17,880
Speaker 1: experience and then you ended up coming out with you know,

1773
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:21,000
Speaker 1: your closest friends, Tanner and Jade, Carly and Evan, um,

1774
01:36:21,840 --> 01:36:25,280
Speaker 1: you know, and there's many more. Um, it's just it's

1775
01:36:25,800 --> 01:36:29,679
Speaker 1: it's it's wonderful but also just mind boggling to think like, yeah,

1776
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:32,880
Speaker 1: this is this is where it all generated from, this

1777
01:36:32,920 --> 01:36:35,840
Speaker 1: is where it all started. There there, and to close

1778
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:39,120
Speaker 1: out this podcast because we do gotta get going, Um,

1779
01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:41,559
Speaker 1: there's a night Jared and I always felt, I mean,

1780
01:36:41,720 --> 01:36:43,080
Speaker 1: and I think admittedly so I don't know if it's

1781
01:36:43,080 --> 01:36:44,920
Speaker 1: because they were personalities the same or not, but we

1782
01:36:44,960 --> 01:36:46,880
Speaker 1: always felt like the outsiders in the batchlight like we

1783
01:36:46,880 --> 01:36:50,800
Speaker 1: don't belong here. Um, you mean, you're very fantastic looking

1784
01:36:50,840 --> 01:36:53,800
Speaker 1: men with fantastic personalities. You know, it's so funny. It's

1785
01:36:53,840 --> 01:36:57,639
Speaker 1: so funny, like how we're all like I'll never forget

1786
01:36:57,800 --> 01:37:00,120
Speaker 1: Night one. I remember meeting you and both you and

1787
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:03,000
Speaker 1: I clicked because it was like, what the hell is

1788
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:07,640
Speaker 1: going on? Mcdill's getting drunk la and it was like this,

1789
01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:10,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell we're doing here and

1790
01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:11,760
Speaker 1: I and and Tanner was so funny because he was

1791
01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:14,080
Speaker 1: telling me the first time he met you, and Tanner

1792
01:37:14,160 --> 01:37:15,360
Speaker 1: is like such a big fan of the show, and

1793
01:37:15,360 --> 01:37:16,599
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, as soon as I saw Ben,

1794
01:37:16,640 --> 01:37:19,639
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, this is the next Bachelor. Yeah,

1795
01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:22,320
Speaker 1: he's told me that before. I don't get it. But

1796
01:37:23,160 --> 01:37:25,200
Speaker 1: there's a moment when it was a night that Jared

1797
01:37:25,280 --> 01:37:27,360
Speaker 1: ended up going home. We were on a carriage pulling

1798
01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:30,040
Speaker 1: up to a castle in Ireland and we're sitting next

1799
01:37:30,080 --> 01:37:32,840
Speaker 1: to each other and we're like, tonight, like this is

1800
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:34,880
Speaker 1: gonna end for one of us, right we you know,

1801
01:37:34,960 --> 01:37:41,720
Speaker 1: we we expected it, and we said, but this is

1802
01:37:41,720 --> 01:37:45,080
Speaker 1: gonna be one of the coolest life changing experiences and

1803
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:48,240
Speaker 1: who knows what happens next, And this is what happens next.

1804
01:37:48,720 --> 01:37:50,880
Speaker 1: And I'm so pumped for you guys. Thank you for

1805
01:37:50,960 --> 01:37:53,360
Speaker 1: doing this, thank you for letting me celebrate you guys,

1806
01:37:53,880 --> 01:38:00,160
Speaker 1: and also thank you to Dunkin donuts. Yeah, not as

1807
01:38:00,160 --> 01:38:02,519
Speaker 1: good as Generous, not as good as Generous coffee, but

1808
01:38:02,560 --> 01:38:06,679
Speaker 1: they're doughnuts but a close second. But their donuts heavenly

1809
01:38:06,880 --> 01:38:10,759
Speaker 1: pie holes and half bay hairs. For providing our dessert

1810
01:38:10,800 --> 01:38:13,240
Speaker 1: bar that's been outside that you guys have enjoyed. Also

1811
01:38:13,479 --> 01:38:16,160
Speaker 1: a big round of applause for creating Barrel once again,

1812
01:38:16,680 --> 01:38:19,400
Speaker 1: for putting this whole thing on to make sure. If

1813
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:23,080
Speaker 1: you're getting married or if you just want some more

1814
01:38:23,240 --> 01:38:27,920
Speaker 1: stuff to make your house look better, Uh, go to

1815
01:38:27,960 --> 01:38:31,760
Speaker 1: them for the wedding registry. Just also go shopping. It's fun. Yeah,

1816
01:38:31,800 --> 01:38:33,800
Speaker 1: it's been a pretty awesome being able to do this

1817
01:38:33,840 --> 01:38:36,479
Speaker 1: with gram Barrel. They have such incredible stuff. It's super nice.

1818
01:38:36,640 --> 01:38:40,920
Speaker 1: It's awesome. There's dessert and gift bags outside forever that came. Hey,

1819
01:38:41,840 --> 01:38:47,439
Speaker 1: i've been been I guess I've been jarred. Later, everyone

1820
01:38:47,520 --> 01:38:49,320
Speaker 1: who is part of this podcast, Okay,