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Speaker 1: It's rubbing In with Tilly and Tanya rat an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Happy Monday. That is not the voice of Becatilly,

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Speaker 2: you hear it is me, Tanya Rad. Becca is still

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Speaker 2: in Hawaii on vacation for her birthday trip. Yes, so

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Speaker 2: that is the voice of Brad Goreski joining us in

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Speaker 2: the o R today.

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Speaker 3: Who Brad Tobin?

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Speaker 2: Brad Tobin?

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Speaker 3: Isn't that be last name?

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Speaker 2: Becatilly?

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Speaker 3: Who's Tobin?

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Speaker 2: Becca Tobin is on the Lady Gang Wrong podcast?

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Speaker 3: Whoa Brad Tobin? Tilly?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Wow? I can't have a heyday with that one.

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Speaker 2: Becca Tobin is part.

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Speaker 3: Of the Lady Gangs group Wild.

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Speaker 2: They did and but honestly, you have been a guest

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Speaker 2: that people have really been wanting back in the o

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Speaker 2: R for a very long time. No, not so much,

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Speaker 2: but they have been requesting you for a really long time.

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Speaker 2: And so when Becca said she was going to be

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Speaker 2: not back in time to do the podcast, I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 2: Brad is the perfect co host to scrub in well.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of which, I was in Palm Springs this weekend

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Speaker 4: and I was at a restaurant and a bachelorette party

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Speaker 4: was walking out and they were all screaming we love

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Speaker 4: you and Tanya, Oh that's cute. Yeah, like fifteen of them. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's really cute, cute.

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Speaker 3: They asked us to.

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Speaker 4: Bring our dances back, and I was like, nobody wants

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Speaker 4: our dances back.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny. No, I went, I reposted because Taylor

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Speaker 2: Swifts album was coming out. I reposted a lot of them.

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Speaker 2: They were so bad, but they were such a moment

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Speaker 2: in time. They were so bad, But the thing that

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Speaker 2: I miss about them is how much fun we had

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Speaker 2: doing it, you know. I mean we would sit in

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Speaker 2: your little studio and just do the dumbest stuff.

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Speaker 4: Like but actually the dumbest yea, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just have the best time doing it.

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Speaker 4: Those Eames chairs will never be the same. They've been

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Speaker 4: slammed and straddled.

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Speaker 2: Straddled and written like a pony.

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Speaker 4: Thanks there, you threw your neck out. The loves don't

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Speaker 4: even make sense. No, it's not actual dance.

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Speaker 2: We're not even like and we're not even on the

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Speaker 2: same like beat.

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Speaker 4: We're always all not on the beat. It's still trying

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Speaker 4: to find the beat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's us against the music exactly truly.

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Speaker 2: But I'm very excited to have you back.

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Speaker 3: Because it's happy to be here.

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Speaker 2: You just bring the best energy.

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Speaker 4: And now look at you, now look at me. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you have like you're in love. You're like your full throttle.

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Speaker 4: It's like an event every weekend, the Taco Tuesday at

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Speaker 4: Balloon Sculpture.

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Speaker 3: Can we talk about the flowers? Play flower?

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Speaker 2: Yeah we got it was our three year anniversary this weekend,

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Speaker 2: and congratulations, thank you so much. And I show up.

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Speaker 2: We were leaving, we were going to stand Abarbara for

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Speaker 2: the weekend, and I go, I'll go back to his

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Speaker 2: house and there's like this giant, giant heart shaped rose

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Speaker 2: thing so cute. It was so cute, your dream, literally

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Speaker 2: my dream. But I was like, is he going to propose?

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Speaker 2: Like I literally was like for a second, I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh no, it.

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Speaker 4: Didn't happen every youth and like now every single big

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Speaker 4: thing you think of ring's coming.

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Speaker 2: Well not, okay, giant flower bouquet might just be a

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Speaker 2: giant flower bouquet. It was just a giant flower. There

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Speaker 2: was a little note that it was like it was

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Speaker 2: like card one of three, so I knew two other

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Speaker 2: things were coming. So it kind of kept me a

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Speaker 2: little on the edge of my toes. I didn't think.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like I didn't think it was actually

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Speaker 2: coming because I don't think we're prepared for it yet.

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Speaker 2: But the giant heart really threw me. So then I

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Speaker 2: was like a little bit like maybe it's going to happen.

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Speaker 3: Do you want it to happen?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Mam was ready?

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Speaker 3: Oh really, like badly badly.

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Speaker 2: I mean not bad, not badly badly, but like I've

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Speaker 2: set certain like boundaries and the relationship, like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to move in. I don't want to like I

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Speaker 2: don't want to do all these big things until we're engaged.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just kind of like I'm done schlepping stuff.

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Speaker 2: I'm done, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: What are the big things you don't want to do

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Speaker 3: until you're engaged?

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Speaker 2: Move in together?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I gotcha.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's fair. Yeah, that's super fair, even though you

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Speaker 4: like basically live at his house, but whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a gray area. You know, at least I

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Speaker 2: still have a home, like I have a place to

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Speaker 3: If she's about moving in together, it's about giving up

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Speaker 3: your other place.

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Speaker 4: That's a rat old life for the new life. Correct,

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Speaker 4: I understand. Yeah, I get that. Unlike me who moved

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Speaker 4: in like a week later. It's like, here's my stuff,

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Speaker 4: I'll be moving in now, did you really? Yeah, a

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Speaker 4: Greece and like came to visit and never left, Like

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Speaker 4: I moved my stuff in.

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Speaker 2: But you guys would have been long distance because he

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Speaker 2: was in la and you were still in Canada, right.

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Speaker 4: Very long distance Yeah, international.

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Speaker 2: International, lover.

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Speaker 4: It is a different country, that's true, even though it's

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Speaker 4: just to the north.

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Speaker 2: But so you guys moved in together and it worked out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I hope.

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Speaker 4: So twenty one years later, call him and he's like, no,

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Speaker 4: it actually hasn't been that right, Like, what have you

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Speaker 4: been doing?

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Speaker 3: No, it's great.

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Speaker 2: I love your love story. It's fun, right, it is fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because it's like solid. It's like that's consistent and constant love.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it is. And it's like, you know, it takes people.

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Speaker 4: You know now that you're you've been in a relationship

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Speaker 4: for a while, Like love is going grocery shopping.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Like I went away this weekend and I had food

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Speaker 4: delivered to the house for him because I knew the

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Speaker 4: fridge would be empty because I'm not there, and like,

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Speaker 4: you know, just.

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Speaker 2: Things like that, like taking care of each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: of course, yeah, all that good stuff.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't wait to get home to just watch TV

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Speaker 2: I actually saw that you brought Gary to a Hairy

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Speaker 2: Styles show, yes, And honestly, I was shook to my

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Speaker 2: core because I feel like Gary does not enjoy large gatherings,

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Speaker 2: loud gatherings, group gatherings, going out in the evening time.

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Speaker 4: Driving to the Anywhere forum or whatever it's called now, No,

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Speaker 2: So I was really shocked when I saw him at

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Speaker 2: the at Harry's house.

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Speaker 4: Also, we pulled up into the parking lot and he

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Speaker 4: looks over to the Sofi stadium and is like, when

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Speaker 4: did that go up?

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Speaker 3: And the girls like like two years ago? He was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: it didn't. It wasn't just here like now.

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Speaker 4: She's like no, they've been like working on it for

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Speaker 4: a time, Like a stadium doesn't just.

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Speaker 2: Go up, yeah, because he doesn't get out much.

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Speaker 4: Well, that type of event is like you know Tom,

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Speaker 4: who we both know really well, who works with Harry,

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Speaker 4: he's a good friend of ours, and reached out and

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Speaker 4: was like, do you want to come to the show.

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Speaker 3: We'd love to have you.

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Speaker 4: And he's like I know, I would love for Gary

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Speaker 4: to come, so I'll make sure everything's set up. So

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Speaker 4: we had like the whole the whole thing. He was like,

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Speaker 4: I could do concerts like this. I'm like, well, yeah,

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Speaker 4: not going to happen.

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Speaker 3: I did say to.

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Speaker 4: Him though, I was like, yeah, you know all those

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Speaker 4: concerts I went to with Tanya, like it was you

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Speaker 4: know like this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like we just like rolled up.

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Speaker 4: We went into the Forum Club. The Forum Club now

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Speaker 4: is so cute.

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Speaker 2: It's so cute.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, the portos like pastries and theres in there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So it was Nate Nows when I was there.

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Speaker 3: Oh was so good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, delicious, which I also I'm like a nerd about

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Speaker 2: this stuff, but I think his Harry's management team is

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Speaker 2: also the They also are the ones that like bought

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Speaker 2: Nate Nows. You know how like Nate News went out

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Speaker 2: a business and then somebody like bought it and like

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Speaker 2: redid it. Yum same yeah, yum yum yum. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was good. It was fun. He had a

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Speaker 4: good time. He knew every single song he was dancing. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: we wore up on the screen.

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Speaker 4: You know, well, they put like audience members on. We

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Speaker 4: that's major, it's fun, it's a good night. Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 4: we got merch. Gary got merch. Harry merch.

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Speaker 2: I honestly was shook to my core because I was like,

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Speaker 2: I know, Gary does not in joy nighttime festivities.

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Speaker 3: Gary loves Harry though, yeah, hardcore.

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Speaker 2: His love for Harry outweighs his disdain.

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Speaker 4: For crowd crowds correct, and he also had an aisle seat,

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Speaker 2: Was good, Oh that's good, and didn't.

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Speaker 4: Notice the woman behind us dancing barefoot.

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Speaker 3: That is really ruined it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't notice it until I posted a video

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Speaker 4: of him, and my dms were like all people being like,

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Speaker 4: Gary looks like he's having fun, but what's up with

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Speaker 4: the girl dancing with no shoes on behind you? Which

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Speaker 4: I didn't notice either until I rechecked the video and

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, she was just getting down and

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Speaker 4: having fun. So you know, shoes are no shoes, but

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Speaker 4: that's what we're there for, right, Yeah. I'd rather that

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Speaker 4: than people who are like not paying attention or like

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Speaker 4: not into the show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's annoying, you know. Yeah, did you like being

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Speaker 2: in Harry's house?

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Speaker 4: I would move in me too. Yeah, I would totally

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Speaker 4: move in. I love him so much.

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Speaker 2: I do too.

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Speaker 4: It's just such a good vibe. He's so sweet and charming, charming,

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Speaker 4: engages with the audience. Was clearly sua not feeling well

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Speaker 4: since you know, everything's been canceled for the next little bit.

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Speaker 3: So we saw the.

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Speaker 2: Last like everybody's getting sick of It's like something.

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Speaker 3: Now, something's happening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw him cough a couple times in between songs,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, woo, that's not a good song.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: Gary was like, is he coughing? I'm like I think so.

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, that's not Can you imagine.

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Speaker 2: Gary does not like germs either?

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Speaker 4: Well, but can you also imagine having like a sold

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Speaker 2: And before we started the podcast, Brad's like, Daddy's been busy.

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Speaker 4: Selena Gomez is always traveling, Taylors Swept is always traveling,

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Speaker 3: Got it? Yeah, but there's a text chamber when you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you guys DM, we have not for a while.

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Speaker 2: It was gonna a minute. You have to tagger in something.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: That would have been good.

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Speaker 2: Scrubbing in prep if you.

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Speaker 4: Like, I know, I know, I wish I was watching

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Speaker 2: No, I'm saving White Lotus. I'm it's like a lot

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's the best show ever. It's like a reboot

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Speaker 3: Is that his game show?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 2: It's on Netflix and it is literally.

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Speaker 2: Her name's Alex something I should know this support a

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Speaker 3: This is Alex Wagner.

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Speaker 2: Alex Wagner.

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 2: It's a really good show.

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Speaker 3: You know who might like to see that? Gary Mandy?

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Speaker 4: The other one, the sister Mandy. She's coming stateside Wednesday?

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Speaker 2: She did not DM me?

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Speaker 3: Oh did I tell you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. You guys are gonna like movies and dinner.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, very chill visit the candy aisle. That's all she

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Speaker 2: Mandy's Candies's my favorite thing send becka Night candies from Canada?

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Speaker 4: Maybe maybe that could be the next reboot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah the mole and candy.

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Speaker 2: Call it Mandy Greski and get her a TV show.

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Speaker 3: Why is that compelling? Because I get into it too.

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Speaker 4: Do you watch the two girls that make the giant

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: She She's like, she doesn't they don't have any expressions.

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Speaker 3: Let's think we should take a break. I don't think

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Speaker 2: It's not coming out. I keep blinking and it's not moving.

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Speaker 2: If we got to take a break while be right

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Speaker 4: I really saw your eye rolling around in its socket? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you really gave me it's lost three six.

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Speaker 2: It's like, whoa, wherever it's lodged now it's lodged forever

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Speaker 4: Maybe Becka Tobin sent it, not to be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Mark, you were in here. But Brad was like,

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Speaker 3: Oh I see different fact. Oh well, Becka Tea. They're

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Speaker 2: It's been that long since you've scrubbed in.

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Speaker 4: It has been Yeah, wait, didn't I come in here

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Speaker 3: So much has happened since then.

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Speaker 2: So much has happened since then? What has happened with you?

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Speaker 4: Well, daddy's busy, Daddy's busy. There's been a new Taylor

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm interested to hear your favorite song.

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Speaker 4: Well, obviously anti Hero. Really I love anti Hero.

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Speaker 2: You're always a sucker for the single, but I also

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Speaker 3: I am a sucker for the single.

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Speaker 2: Because as you always go with the single.

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Speaker 4: Remember that Ellie Goulding song I like that?

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Speaker 3: Wasn't a single?

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Speaker 2: Ellie Goldie? You even saying Adele's name wrong.

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Speaker 3: Isn't there a you in there? There is? But apparently

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just Golding, Ellie Golding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, which Ellie Golding song?

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Speaker 3: Army?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, not Army? What was the one that I

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Speaker 3: You hate it? Remember?

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Speaker 2: I don't even remember that album. But if they were

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Speaker 2: Do you do? You know we've been saying Adele's name wrong?

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Speaker 3: How do you say it?

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Speaker 2: It's not Adele, it's a Dale.

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing that, No, it is because I think

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 2: A Dale, not Adele.

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Speaker 2: My favorite's been fluctuating from like day to day. I

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00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,520
Speaker 2: have like a new top five every couple of days.

453
00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,040
Speaker 3: But where are you now?

454
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:19,440
Speaker 2: But Jeweled is still my number one?

455
00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,920
Speaker 4: Oh well, that's also a single. It's all over TikTok.

456
00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:23,520
Speaker 2: It's not a single. Might bill over.

457
00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,119
Speaker 3: To it because it hits one is playing it on

458
00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:25,560
Speaker 3: Serial six.

459
00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,240
Speaker 2: No, it's antihero right now.

460
00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:31,400
Speaker 4: It's literally everywhere on TikTok as it should be, which

461
00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,240
Speaker 4: means it's the next single. They're like seating it out right.

462
00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,480
Speaker 3: Probably, I don't know. I don't understand how it works.

463
00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:37,400
Speaker 3: A video for it?

464
00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, so cute.

465
00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,880
Speaker 4: Yeah for a single, it feels very singlely Tanya.

466
00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:42,919
Speaker 2: I don't know you guys, I'm just telling you what.

467
00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:49,639
Speaker 4: Well, it's also so too. Are you going to go

468
00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:50,480
Speaker 4: see her in Vegas?

469
00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:56,280
Speaker 2: No, I've no plans to got a stand adele adele Yes,

470
00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,320
Speaker 2: but for me to go to Vegas and see somebody,

471
00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,760
Speaker 2: it's like a lot like jonas it is.

472
00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:04,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like you're always in Vegas seeing somebody.

473
00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:07,960
Speaker 2: No, I se Gwen Stefani with you. I've seen Jayla

474
00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:09,280
Speaker 2: the best night ever?

475
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:10,800
Speaker 3: Did we do Jlo together.

476
00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,600
Speaker 2: The Gwen Stefani night. I feel like, I don't know

477
00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 2: if we've ever talked about this publicly. We were in

478
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,680
Speaker 2: her dressing room essentially that back room after the show

479
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:23,720
Speaker 2: for like two hours with Gwen Stefani drinking, chatting, and

480
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,919
Speaker 2: it was like six of us in there. It was epic.

481
00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,840
Speaker 2: She was like wanting to be in the art Instagram videos, Yeah,

482
00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:32,080
Speaker 2: talking about.

483
00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,280
Speaker 3: Like everything, everything, everything.

484
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like we had to leave, like we were like,

485
00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:37,760
Speaker 2: we actually have an after party that we're going We're

486
00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,199
Speaker 2: going to go to camera some.

487
00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:44,280
Speaker 4: DJ, Calvin Harris, Kelvin Harrison, some DJ like one of

488
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:49,920
Speaker 4: the most famous ones to meet, Pale Steinfeld also p Yeah.

489
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:51,879
Speaker 2: But uh, we were like we literally had to be

490
00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,080
Speaker 2: like sorry, Gwen, like it's time for us to go.

491
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,520
Speaker 2: Like she would have kept hanging.

492
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 4: Out with we did, but she didn't come because I

493
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:00,560
Speaker 4: think she had a show the next day.

494
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was already like one thirty in the morning.

495
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 2: That was one of the most epic nights ever because

496
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 2: it's like Gwen Sefani, she's literally legendary, and she was.

497
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 2: You were drunk at the ordering donuts at like two

498
00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 2: o'clock in the morning.

499
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,520
Speaker 4: You just like squatted on the floor and started singing

500
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 4: Jonahs Brothers.

501
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:17,680
Speaker 3: I have that video somewhere.

502
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,639
Speaker 2: Video is so good. I was so drunk.

503
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,159
Speaker 4: You were really drunk and then you were Oh I

504
00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,679
Speaker 4: know what. It was a brownie and a jar. Not

505
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:27,640
Speaker 4: on the Hashi Moto.

506
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 2: I definitely can't have that with my hash photos. That

507
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,440
Speaker 2: is that's far off my hashimotos.

508
00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,360
Speaker 3: Does alcohol effect Hashi motos?

509
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:39,720
Speaker 2: It's interesting you ask, So it's more about it. It's

510
00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 2: more about the sugar. It's more about the sugar. So

511
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:46,400
Speaker 2: if I drink, like if I drink like a Tequila

512
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 2: on the rocks or my Martini's, which I usually drink, like,

513
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,920
Speaker 2: I shouldn't be drinking like sugary drinks like I don't know,

514
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 2: like a Cosmos or a single Portling or like a

515
00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,800
Speaker 2: Rhode Islands on the Beach, Checks on the Beach, Long Island,

516
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 2: Long Island.

517
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 3: Iced tea fite. It'd be good. Yeah, fine, It's a

518
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 3: lo suger wine that my wife is very into. Yes,

519
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 3: what about Athline?

520
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 2: Never heard of it?

521
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 3: Cameron Diaz is wine.

522
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 2: No, I haven't tried. It is good.

523
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 4: Oh, Gary's obsessed with it, really loves it, loves it.

524
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 2: We really have to do a double date. We have

525
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,640
Speaker 2: to like put in the books and we all eat

526
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 2: at like six pm.

527
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 4: So I feel like, definitely do I can even do

528
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 4: five thirty. We could do what we can do five easily, easily.

529
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 2: It was so funny when we were away for our

530
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 2: anniversary this weekend, somebody that was in Santa Barbara like

531
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 2: texted me like seven thirty or like I think it

532
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 2: was seven forty, and she's like, hey, we're actually get

533
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 2: your hotel if you want to get a drink. And

534
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 2: I was like, we're literally in our bed, like lights out.

535
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 2: We had dinner at I think four thirty that day. Yeah,

536
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:49,840
Speaker 2: we were sleep by nine o'clock both nights.

537
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 4: Picture me in Palm Springs with a group of gay

538
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 4: guys trying at like eleven thirty trying to get me

539
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:00,119
Speaker 4: to go to like a like a party, and and

540
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,959
Speaker 4: half of my heart was in I was like okay,

541
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 4: and then I like reevaluated myself and I was like,

542
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,919
Speaker 4: now I'm going home, Like I want to wrap my

543
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 4: feet on the hotel sheets.

544
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 2: Oh, I'd put on that robe.

545
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want to go away like try to

546
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 4: figure out my no, no, no no.

547
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Speaker 2: And now that it's like getting cold in La, Like

548
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,199
Speaker 2: I want no part of being outside. Like Taco Tuesdays

549
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,679
Speaker 2: are canceled until twenty twenty three because it is so

550
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 2: cold outside. We don't have heaters. We actually we had

551
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,479
Speaker 2: Sunday's birthday party outside and I was like, it's a

552
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 2: ton draw out here. I don't want to be outside.

553
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 2: So now when the sun goes down, like game.

554
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 3: Over fow it is sunny.

555
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 2: She's so good. I like I cried on her first

556
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 2: birthday because I was like, I can't believe she's one,

557
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: and like it's a lot, it's a lot. She's my child.

558
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 2: Like I literally feel like she's my child. I understand

559
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 2: I want another one, so do I I want to

560
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 2: foster like a little grandma or little Grandpa. Wait, so

561
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,360
Speaker 2: we actually this weekend we saw this couple that they

562
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 2: rescued their two dogs that they had and they were

563
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 2: just telling us a story about each one of them

564
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 2: and they were just like so sweet. And Robbie was like,

565
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 2: he said, if we get a second, we have to rescue.

566
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, thank you, Robbie.

567
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 2: He said, if if the shelters.

568
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 4: Are overcrowded right now in La, it's really bad. It's

569
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 4: like a horrible it's like a really bad problem right now.

570
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 4: So it's the problem is that there aren't room for

571
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 4: all the dogs. Then the ones that have been there

572
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 4: for a long time have to be euthanized to make

573
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 4: room for the new ones, and so it's like a

574
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 4: vicious cycle. So if you're thinking about getting an animal,

575
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:37,159
Speaker 4: please consider adopting any of the shelters in La. If

576
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 4: you're in La, or check your listings for your local shelters,

577
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 4: because it's just a big problem everywhere, but especially in LA.

578
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 2: I felt like that if from his part was very

579
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 2: hopeful and like it wasn't like a splat out no,

580
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, yeah, if so, I

581
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 2: was like fostering when yeah, I thought about that, but honestly, so,

582
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. You probably don't know Chris Booker, but

583
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 2: he is like a radio DJ ninety eight. I feel

584
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 2: like you may be a meta met a couple. I'm

585
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 2: sure things he fosters a ton, like he's always fostering

586
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 2: a dog. And we were talking to him after the

587
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: iHeart Festival and like hearing his stories, I was like,

588
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 2: I don't think I'm emotionally equipped to do that. Because

589
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: I get so attached I think it would like, really.

590
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 4: I understand that that's why I'm just now getting Gary

591
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 4: kind of over into fostering a dog because I want,

592
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 4: I really want. Like, there's so many senior dogs that

593
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 4: get dropped off at the shelters that are either owner

594
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 4: surrendered or strays or people don't want to pay for

595
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 4: their medical bills. Like there's all kinds of reasons. But

596
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 4: they're also not the first to be adopted, so I

597
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 4: would like and I love the old ones. They like, Hey,

598
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 4: all they want to do is like sleep and snuggle,

599
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 4: which is basically like what I want to do. So

600
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 4: it's it's like a perfect match. And and then if

601
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 4: they have like one like zombie, I like one like

602
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 4: milky weird eye makes me fall in love with them.

603
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 4: I like it when their eyes are all weird.

604
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 2: So cute, so cute.

605
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 4: So I'm like, there's a woman named Rita Earl Blackwell

606
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 4: who amazing with the shelters, and I'll always DM her

607
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 4: and I'll be like the zombie eyes. She's like, yeah,

608
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 4: this grandma's got two of them, so cute, so cute

609
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 4: little babies. Yeah, And she's like this one's got mouth rot.

610
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 4: I'm like, yep, so do I two cha wowa mouth rot.

611
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. It makes me emotional because I'm like, I can't

612
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 2: think about it. I can't think about it. They get

613
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: old so fast.

614
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, they definitely do. She just turned one. Yeah, you're fine.

615
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 3: You've got a lot of runway here. Yeah.

616
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 4: Really, once they cross over like ten, then you start

617
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 4: thinking about it, especially that size double digits.

618
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

619
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: I look at her and I'm just like, you're gonna

620
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 2: live forever.

621
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 5: Right.

622
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 4: Our little girl, Alice is around ten, and she's like

623
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 4: fully turning into grandma all she wants. She literally just

624
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 4: waits for me to go upstairs with the hope that

625
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 4: I'm going to get into bed.

626
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 3: That's all she cares about.

627
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 4: She runs like right onto the bed, sits and stares

628
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,400
Speaker 4: at me and is like, are you getting in?

629
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 3: Are you laying on top of?

630
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 4: Can I touch you in some way, shape or form

631
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 4: so I can also lay down?

632
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 2: But is so cute? Yeah, okay, So there might be

633
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 2: a new baby on board.

634
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 4: From my grandmas. Yeah yeah, I'll definitely get a grandma,

635
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure. All right, a little sleepy, little sleepy baby.

636
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 2: That's exciting.

637
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, what else? I was back in Canada for a

638
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: little bit. I celebrated my grandma's hundred and one first

639
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 4: wow one, can you believe.

640
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 3: How she doing?

641
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 4: She's good, because one hundred and one can be not fun. Yeah,

642
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 4: I'm not sure if it's like super fun. But she's

643
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 4: in like pretty good health and like all of her

644
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:42,159
Speaker 4: family was around her for her birthday, and you know,

645
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 4: it's like she's good. She was just happy to see everybody.

646
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 4: I mean, my dad's whole side of the family is

647
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 4: like super healthy.

648
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 2: You look like, I'm not even kidding you literally look

649
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:55,479
Speaker 2: a little boy today.

650
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 3: I do.

651
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're a year bent.

652
00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:58,239
Speaker 3: What is it?

653
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 2: Button? The guy that goes backwards, but you're like Benjamin Button,

654
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: Like you're literally reversing.

655
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,719
Speaker 4: Bless you. Thanks for real, thank you.

656
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

657
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 3: I mean it's the hat.

658
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 4: Maybe the baseball hat. I'm really dressed down today. Maybe

659
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 4: that's it. I'm not wearing a full.

660
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 2: Face casual cool.

661
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, rainy day, Brad.

662
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: Is that what you call this? Rainy Dave Brad Sleepy Brad,

663
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: Sleepy Brad. I'm like sleepy Brad da.

664
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 3: Bad Bradley Tobin.

665
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 2: Bradley, Tobin. Hi, back up, wait, actually we should I

666
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 2: should ask you like, because we are changing seasons.

667
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 3: Right, it's wintertime, well about halfway through fall, right about now,

668
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 3: where it was precisely midfall, like Thanksgivings kind of coming

669
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 3: up and Christmas.

670
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: No, it's like winter ish close. We're getting close to winter.

671
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Speaker 3: Well, there's snow in Canada there you go, so winter, give.

672
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 2: Us, like what we should be wearing.

673
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 4: What you should be wearing wearing is things that make

674
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 4: you feel good and things that make you feel comfortable,

675
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: and you should be wearing things that I always think

676
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 4: that people should be putting most of their effort into

677
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 4: what they're wearing outdoors, because I think most people don't

678
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 4: put a lot of thought into their winter coat or

679
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 4: what they're wearing outside, which is where a lot of

680
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 4: the people in the winter spend most of their time

681
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 4: showing their outfits off to the public. Is like a

682
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 4: winter coat or their accessories, or their boots or their bag.

683
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 4: So I think that winter outfit is the thing that

684
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 4: you should be investing in. So investing in a coat

685
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 4: that's in like a pretty color or has a nice

686
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 4: detail to it, or if you're doing a puffer jacket,

687
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 4: is it in like a metallic or is it in

688
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 4: like a fun pattern or is it oversized or is

689
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 4: it cropped like something that makes it a little bit

690
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 4: special and not just something that's fashionable and functional, not

691
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 4: just functional.

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Speaker 2: That's my problem right now. I think it's most people

693
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: very functional. Like I can't get out of my sweatsuits,

694
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: Like I love a sweatsuit. But you can make that

695
00:28:58,360 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: cute though I don't.

696
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 3: I know you don't. But the thing is, you can

697
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: make it cute how well. You know.

698
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 2: You can do some fun tennis shoes, some fun.

699
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 4: But you could also do all monochrome. You could do

700
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 4: like like a nice car coat over it. You could

701
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 4: do car coat, you know, like a coat that comes

702
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 4: like mid caf kind of You could do like a

703
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 4: cropped bomber with it. You could do something oversized with it.

704
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 4: You could put like a cute bucket hat with it.

705
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 4: You could do two cute braids.

706
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: Okay, with the freaking braids you liar. I I was

707
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 2: telling him about this trend with like the two little

708
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 2: braids in the front. I was like, yeah, everybody's wearing

709
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: them right now. It's like all over TikTok about.

710
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: It's like, you what the two breaks yee e, the

711
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: two braids, and then like cut to two weeks later

712
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: and like every single person is.

713
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 4: Wearing that really like a day later in my Instagram feeling,

714
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 4: it was like NonStop braids.

715
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 3: It was like Haley Bieber, Kendall Jenner.

716
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 2: Like all these girls like exactly, girls just like me.

717
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 4: You just put two braids in the front of your hair.

718
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 4: It would be perfect for this season. Perfect silver bells

719
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 4: on the end of it, or two turkeys, and you're

720
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Speaker 4: good to go for the holidays.

721
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 2: What are you going to do for the holidays? You

722
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: guys go to New York for Thanksgiving?

723
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I'm going to go to New York.

724
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 2: And then what are you going to do around Christmas

725
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 2: and Hanukah?

726
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 3: Staying home? Are you going to the parade in New York?

727
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 3: That seems like something Brad would really enjoy. The Thanksgiving

728
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 3: the parade? Nope, nope.

729
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Speaker 4: I'll be watching it on TV in the hotel like

730
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 4: I do every year.

731
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but not at it. I think they'd be tough

732
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 3: to go to it. I think so. Yeah, we watch

733
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 3: it every year too. It's a little tradition that's fun.

734
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't watch it, really, Adele I about to

735
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: say I won't. I don't, but I said, a d

736
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Speaker 2: I don't you know.

737
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Speaker 4: I've been seeing Sean at the gym too.

738
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't know why you don't ever say

739
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: hi to him?

740
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Speaker 3: You know why?

741
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 2: Well you did it once, right, Tanya.

742
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 3: Of course.

743
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 2: So Brad works out in the same gym that Shawn

744
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: Mendez does sometime sometimes whatever, whenever he's in town, and

745
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: Brad the first time I think you saw him text

746
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 2: me was like, Hey, like, Shawn Mendes is at my gym?

747
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 2: Should I say hi? And I go, yeah, tell him

748
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: you're my friend.

749
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 4: You guys, this is a practical joke. And didn't fall

750
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 4: for it again, That's for sure.

751
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 2: He did.

752
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 4: Not that he wasn't, not that he wasn't, not that

753
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 4: he was unkind, I just want to say that, but

754
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 4: it was definitely not.

755
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 3: He doesn't.

756
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 4: Thank Tanya and him are friends.

757
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 3: It wasn't the ice break and you thought it was

758
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,719
Speaker 3: going correct, That's exactly the right. He was very lovely.

759
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 2: But I guess if you're working out, i'd be annoyed.

760
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: Even if I was just like at my own workout

761
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 2: class and somebody came up to me and I had

762
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 2: to take my headphones out, I'd be like uh yeah, yeah,

763
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 2: so maybe it's not the right place. Like if you

764
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: saw Sean at like a restaurant and you were like, hey,

765
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: I'm friends with Tanya.

766
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 4: That would just say every time I've gone up to

767
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 4: him and said hello and not use your name, he's

768
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 4: been super nice.

769
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: Ok.

770
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 4: I would just see him, but I would see him

771
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 4: at places where you would want to be social, Like

772
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 4: I would see him on.

773
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 3: Like carpets places. Yeah, like backstage places.

774
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 2: Appropriate places, too lovely.

775
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 4: So I don't want anybody to think I'm saying Sean

776
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 4: is not nice, because he's very, very lovely and kind.

777
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: But now it's become like an inside joke and Bratt

778
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: will be like, Sean's here, Hi, Like whoever's at the gym?

779
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 2: He's like blood blahs here should I say hi? And

780
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: like yeah, yeah, totally speaking of Sean. Actually saw well, no,

781
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 2: it's actually a while ago now, because it was Camilla.

782
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 2: I saw Camilla at Selena's birthday, I know, and that

783
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 2: was pretty epic because her song was playing and we

784
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: were all like dancing to it.

785
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 4: Remember how you were like just there, like thirty minutes ago,

786
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 4: just where at Selena's You're like, I was just there.

787
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 4: It was just like a bunch of people and we

788
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 4: were all just dancing to Camila Cobo's song.

789
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: It was her birthday was in July. H it was

790
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 2: in July birthday.

791
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: Party, Selena's birthday.

792
00:32:55,880 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, those a long time agoes now August September October

793
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 2: notes four months ago.

794
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: Well, I haven't seen Selena ever.

795
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 4: Or celebrated her birthday ever once. So four months is

796
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 4: not a long ter, because forty five years is longer.

797
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 2: Okay, don't even start with me, because you're like thick

798
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 2: as thieves with the housewives, I am.

799
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, who is the person he's friends with, your

800
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 3: most jealous of and vice versa.

801
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a great question.

802
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 3: That is a good question.

803
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: Who are you friends with that I'm most jealous of? Jlo?

804
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 4: I knew you were going to say that. Yeah, I'm

805
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 4: not tight with Jalo, yes once.

806
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: Well, okay, whatever she like comments on all your stuff,

807
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: Yeah she does, she does, like, yes, she does.

808
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 3: I love Jaylah. Okay, they're not tight, but you're jealous

809
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 3: of whatever they do.

810
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 2: Whatever they have and are on a grande too, like

811
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 2: Brad and I would post like her dancing videos and

812
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 2: she would respond to Brad's and not mine.

813
00:33:55,640 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm most jealous of your relationship with Selena.

814
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: She's the best. It's true, She's really the best.

815
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 3: Like the heart wants what it wants.

816
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 2: The heart heart wants what it wants. I'll never forget.

817
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 2: It was that New Year's that it was robbing and

818
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: I broke up in like December, and I remember this,

819
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: and so I went to her house for that New

820
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: Year's and it was like a small group of us

821
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 2: and we had just dinner at her house and there

822
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 2: was like we were talking and I was telling her

823
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 2: about the breakup, and one of her girlfriends that was there.

824
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 2: It was like we had to take a photo. First

825
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: of all, it's on like sweats and I look like

826
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: crap because it was just like chill, right, just a

827
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 2: bunch of girls. And her girlfriend that was there was

828
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 2: like we have to like dress you up and take

829
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 2: photos and like da da da. So she let me

830
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 2: go in her closet and like she was like whatever

831
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,919
Speaker 2: you want to borrow, like borrow, and like we took

832
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 2: photos outside and that's so cute. Yeah, she's just the best,

833
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 2: Like she's always just so welcoming and like just sweet sweet.

834
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 3: Would you consider texting her? I love your documentary. It

835
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 3: was so powerful and that was fantastic. Would that ever

836
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: enter You're no, would you dm her?

837
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:01,919
Speaker 2: I'll just the next time I see her, I would

838
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 2: say it.

839
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, you have a book coming out with Raquel too.

840
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: Right, we do have a book coming out.

841
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 3: How's it going.

842
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 2: It's like done basically, Like there's like little tweaks, but

843
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: like basically everything has to be done by the end

844
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 2: of this week because it goes to print.

845
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 3: And the announcement went well.

846
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: The announcement really really well. The publishers were very happy

847
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 2: with like just they were like the numbers that we

848
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 2: got from the announcement were like one hundred times what

849
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:27,399
Speaker 2: they normally get when somebody announces a book. Whoa thank you, Yeah,

850
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 2: thank you full for sure. For sure with Scrubbers because

851
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 2: it was only on the day we announced, which is

852
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 2: like on a Sunday, so it had to only be

853
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: people that like follow me or Forquel.

854
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 3: That's so great. Yeah. Are you going to do like

855
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 3: a tour and stuff like a press tour? Yeah?

856
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it is a book tour. Yeah. I

857
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: think we are, uh, we're due. Yeah, we are going

858
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 2: to do it mostly in January.

859
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:51,760
Speaker 4: Oh cute Yeah, that's winter.

860
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 2: It's going to be winter because the book comes out

861
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 2: end of January, so it'll probably be mostly in January,

862
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 2: and then we'll do a book like a one big

863
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 2: one probably at the Grove. You Yeah, we love that.

864
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: I think so. But apparently you have to have like

865
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, there's like a whole the book community

866
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 2: is a very I'm like learning so much about it.

867
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 2: It's very interesting. But you can't just like have a

868
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,439
Speaker 2: book signing out of Barnes and Noble at the Grove.

869
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: Like there has to be like some get Like I'm like,

870
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: we have to like pull out like a circus act

871
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, so we're working on it. Might need

872
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 2: you to come host that or.

873
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 4: Moderated if anybody will. Absolena first and that was.

874
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 3: Me documentary by the way.

875
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm happy to be like second or third on

876
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 4: the list.

877
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,400
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Speaker 6: dig deeper. So I'm bringing on unexpected thought leaders and

890
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 6: celebrities to get their take on the chaos this season.

891
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 6: I sit down with Elizabeth Moss, Kevin neland Zuzi Orman,

892
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 6: Griffin Johnson, and Moore. You'd think that there isn't much

893
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 6: to learn from flipping tables and yanking wigs, but that's

894
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 6: where you're wrong. Listen to Rewives with Bethany Frankel on

895
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 6: the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your

896
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 6: favorite podcasts.

897
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 2: We are back in business, baby. Do you have your

898
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 2: advice on?

899
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a hat on.

900
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 6: Yeah.

901
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 2: I loves that.

902
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. Cassidy says, I have a question for the crew.

903
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 3: How do we feel about a significant other being too nice?

904
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 3: Is that possible? I just got out of a nine

905
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 3: year relationship. We were engaged, we owned a home. I'm

906
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 3: twenty five. I wrote to you guys in August with

907
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 3: full story. But anyway, I just moved out this weekend

908
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 3: after a breakup in July. Started talking to a new

909
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 3: guy I know from work. His sweetness really kept my

910
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 3: spirits up through all of this, and he gives me hope.

911
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 3: But I am not used to someone actually caring about

912
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,240
Speaker 3: me and showing it. I haven't dated almost a decade.

913
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 3: I'm still kind of dark and twisty. Am I just

914
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 3: in my head, is there's such a thing as too nice? No?

915
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 3: I don't think so either either.

916
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 2: I think we're used to being treated like trash, so

917
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 2: we like learned to feel like that's what the love

918
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: we deserve when actually it's not.

919
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I say, embrace it. I think so. I remember

920
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 3: when I was a dating person being told that this

921
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 3: isn't working for me. Really nice. That's not what I'm

922
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 3: used to, And that's a weird thing to say to somebody, Yeah,

923
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: because it just means that it's your self esteem isn't

924
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 3: where it should be, and the people you've dated aren't

925
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 3: where they should be. Yeah, if he's nice, go for it.

926
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 2: I like nice with an edge though, you know, like

927
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, like Robbie to me is very nice,

928
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 2: but also like I'm like, like, what's going to come out?

929
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

930
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 4: I mean Gary's nice with an edge too. Yeah, I think,

931
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 4: but what if this Casey's guy, this guy she works with,

932
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 4: what if he has no edge?

933
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 3: He's just super super nice. I think that's also good.

934
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 2: You don't think they could get boring?

935
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 3: Oh, I think you want a guy that's going to

936
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 3: treat you great. I think your goals going to and

937
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 3: he clearly was in a rough relationship for nine years.

938
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 3: It's just the contrast that's jarring you. I think.

939
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so too, maybe like lean in, leaning

940
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: to play one night or something and having to be

941
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 2: like a bad boy.

942
00:39:55,200 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's going on over there. My goodness. Just spilling

943
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 4: a lot of tea today is piping hot? What's happening

944
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 4: now that there's not Taco Tuesday?

945
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 2: Wouldn't you like to know?

946
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 3: This is anonymous. My husband has had two serious relationships,

947
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 3: one with me, the other with his ex. When they

948
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 3: were dating, he introduced her to his friends and would

949
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 3: hang out in the group setting well, his ex ended

950
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 3: up getting close with some of his friend's wives. Anyway,

951
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,800
Speaker 3: fast forward, they broke up. Now we're married, but she

952
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 3: the ex still comes to every single friend function, birthday parties,

953
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 3: sports watch parties, random hangouts because she got in with

954
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 3: the group so well. She still runs up to my

955
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 3: husband's parents if she sees them in town, even if

956
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 3: I'm right there. She's even called his mom just to talk.

957
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 3: This is weird for me. She'll also have parties at

958
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 3: her house, invite all of my husband's friends and then

959
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 3: post a ton of pictures of the party for us

960
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 3: to see, even though we didn't go because it's too

961
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 3: weird because it's his ex. How do I handle this?

962
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 3: I hate that she's always around. My husband hates it. Two.

963
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 3: No one wants to be around the rex all the time.

964
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 3: But he's had these friends over a decade. We don't

965
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 3: understand why she's still invited over, but we can't control

966
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 3: who they invite. Do we stop coming around? Do we

967
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 3: suck it up? But do we tell his friends how

968
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 3: we feel? Should the friends choose a side? Help? And

969
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 3: then side note she's in a relationship. She's got a

970
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 3: boyfriend and has for a few years, so she's not

971
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 3: working her way in to stay close to him.

972
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 2: I'm confused. I think nutshell, Yeah, give me a nutshell.

973
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 3: My boyfriend's ex, So my husband's ex.

974
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: Still coming around, family functions, family.

975
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 3: Functions, friends functions, close with his parents always around. No,

976
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 3: but how do you but what do you do? How

977
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 3: do you stop it? That's what she's say.

978
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 2: Boundaries. We all agree on the No, yeah you said boundaries.

979
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 2: You say this.

980
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,720
Speaker 3: They can't control who their friends invite to parties.

981
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: Friends, No, but family you can. You could, like I

982
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 2: would pull my family aside and be like, hey.

983
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 3: He doesn't mention family. Oh there friends, she's in the group.

984
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 3: They all seem to like her.

985
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: I think you have to accept it, yeah, or make

986
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 2: new friends.

987
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 4: Just start fresh, move to a new city. It sounds

988
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 4: like something you kind of either have to live with

989
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 4: or like change. And you can't pull people out of

990
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 4: social situations, especially an X that's like very integrated. So

991
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 4: I think you have to kind of find a way.

992
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 3: To live with it.

993
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 4: As not fun as that is, don't you think, Yeah, like,

994
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 4: how do you pull a person out that's like heavily intertwined?

995
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 3: I don't know.

996
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 2: It's interesting because it's like, I don't I don't have

997
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 2: to deal with that, but that would really bother me

998
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 2: if I did.

999
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's a scenario, So god forbid. It's just

1000
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 3: a scenario. You and Robbie brick up terrible awful. You're

1001
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 3: happily married to somebody else, but Robbie is still tight

1002
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 3: with Becca, he's tied with Raquel. They invite him till

1003
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 3: they invite him every time they have a party. Your

1004
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,919
Speaker 3: parents still talk to Robbie every once in a while,

1005
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 3: even though you're married to somebody else. It's weird.

1006
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it would drive me nuts, but I don't think.

1007
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: You can do anything about it. You can't. Why what

1008
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 3: can you do?

1009
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 2: If it were me, I'd say, yo, Becca, no x

1010
00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 2: nay him on the guest list a dale, I would.

1011
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 2: I would ask my friends like please, like, don't invite him.

1012
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 2: I don't want him around. He screwed me over, thank

1013
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 2: you very much. See you next Tuesday.

1014
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 3: So it's kind of up to the it's they're his friends,

1015
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 3: it's kind of up to the husband. You next Tuesday

1016
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: means yeah, I.

1017
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 1: Like that.

1018
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 2: It's meant to like see you, you know, see you

1019
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: next Tuesday. Yeah, Yeah, No, no, Yeah, I see you

1020
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 2: next weekend. That's that's too like, that's too like if

1021
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 2: there's too many threads, you can't know, Yeah you can.

1022
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 3: I don't think you can.

1023
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: I think boundaries.

1024
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 4: I think you can only then create, you know, invite

1025
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 4: the people, like exclude her from everything that you do

1026
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 4: with the friends, which is also extra work and energy

1027
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 4: being put into You're still putting energy into that person

1028
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 4: even though you're trying to extract them. So there's no

1029
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 4: real way you either have to accept you hit.

1030
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 2: You hit an Yeah energy interesting m h interesting point.

1031
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: You make a dale a diale a dale.

1032
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. The husband's got to talk to the friends or

1033
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 3: you guys just got to write everybody off.

1034
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, brutal, that's that's that's sticky and tricky.

1035
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:18,919
Speaker 2: Like sticky toffee pudding. No for Hashi motives, for the hashimotives,

1036
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 2: new new is that it?

1037
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 3: That's all we got?

1038
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, felt time flew it?

1039
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 3: Did it?

1040
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 1: Did?

1041
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 3: Wow?

1042
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 2: Do you have any parting words?

1043
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 4: I just want to say I love Becca Tilly, I

1044
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 4: love Sewn Mendees, and I can't wait to watch the

1045
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 4: Selena Gomez documentary.

1046
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 2: I just want to I just want to say that

1047
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 2: I love you. Thank you for taking your time out

1048
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 2: on this rainy la day and you're day off to

1049
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: be here to scrub in. The scrubbers have missed you.

1050
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 2: Please everybody follow a Brad on all social platforms, give

1051
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 2: him some love, tell him how much you love him

1052
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 2: on scrubbing and so he'll be back even sooner. Maybe

1053
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: we get a mantle going, get a what going? I'm

1054
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 2: another man, you know, like a man panel. Oh oh oh,

1055
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 2: maybe we can get you and Robbie in it.

1056
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 3: Yes, that's how I met Nick Vile.

1057
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 2: That's right now. You guys have like a bromance. Are

1058
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: you going to this thing on Thursday?

1059
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 3: Yes, if I'm not working.

1060
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I also want to give it a happy blated

1061
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 2: birthday shout out to Easton.

1062
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you, thank you, Hey Scorpio Scorpio d Braden.

1063
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 3: A big party of the Easton's On Saturday, we wrote

1064
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 3: a mechanical ball. We did wow mark On on the bull.

1065
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 3: It was excite to see.

1066
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 2: I just love to see that site.

1067
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 3: Well, Easton was controlling it, so we took it easy

1068
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 3: on me. But I got up to.

1069
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 5: Market signs like let's do it gentle and then we

1070
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 5: do a couple of rotations. He's like, kick it up,

1071
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 5: let's go go harder.

1072
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1073
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he stayed out for a good time. What

1074
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:50,320
Speaker 3: did you do on it?

1075
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 4: I did?

1076
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm afraid for my sperm count now, but really

1077
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 5: yeah yeah, there's a lot of sliding forward, a lot

1078
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 5: of metal rods.

1079
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, pushing up word yeah yeah, not great. Yeah.

1080
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 2: It was a fun time though.

1081
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 5: And one other thing I want to mention is that

1082
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 5: if you guys know Crumble cookies, I'm a big fan

1083
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 5: TikTok I post about them all the time. They were

1084
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 5: nice enough to fly me out to their headquarters last

1085
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:19,399
Speaker 5: week to do their podcast and it's out today way way.

1086
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:21,760
Speaker 5: It's called The Crumble Mumble. It's on YouTube.

1087
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 3: Another podcast for kid you while you were there?

1088
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 5: I had cookies while I was there.

1089
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 2: What would you do all you can eat cookies at

1090
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 2: their headquarters?

1091
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 3: I was afraid to ask about that.

1092
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:32,800
Speaker 5: There are a lot lying around. They took me in

1093
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 5: to the test kitchen. They gave me a full tour.

1094
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 5: They were very nice.

1095
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: Uh.

1096
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 5: They took me all over Salt Lake City. They really

1097
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 5: showed me a good time.

1098
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 3: So they have a Hashi Moto cookie.

1099
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 5: I don't know if they're hashimotive friendly. Yet I did

1100
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 5: ask them. They're working on a ton of tea.

1101
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 3: Get in there.

1102
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: You know, it's it's really it's on the up and up.

1103
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 5: You know, it's a Hashi motor world and we're stepping

1104
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 5: into it.

1105
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 3: At the Housewives from Salt Lake City, you.

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00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 5: Know, I looked, there weren't any at the Crumble headquarters,

1107
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 5: nor at the Culver Burger restaurant.

1108
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 3: I went after it. Now stop into beauty lab and

1109
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 3: laser for a treatment.

1110
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,919
Speaker 2: It always comes back to Housewives with you, doesn't it? Yeah?

1111
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 3: Always?

1112
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 2: Would you ever do Housewives of Berverly Hills?

1113
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 3: Maybe I would.

1114
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 2: I heard they're trying to like rebrand it to be

1115
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 2: like a little younger, right, Am I wrong on that?

1116
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 3: From whom I was like Teddy Melbourne Camp?

1117
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 6: No?

1118
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 2: Sorry?

1119
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 3: Really?

1120
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:28,959
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1121
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 3: Huh.

1122
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 4: I mean it's like the number one show on that.

1123
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe it's a spinoff. Maybe it's a real Housewives

1124
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:34,720
Speaker 2: of Berverlely Hills spin.

1125
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 4: Off with like a younger I don't know if i'd

1126
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 4: fit into the younger cast with that look today?

1127
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 2: Ye, Brad would right in? Yes?

1128
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, well yes I would great? Yeah, definitely, happy belated, happy, cookies.

1129
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 2: But you can have them because we're done.

1130
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1131
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 2: Becca will be back next week, Love you bye.

1132
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 3: Seven