WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Busted for Betrayal

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<v Speaker 1>Jebels second Dato date. People do all sorts of different

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<v Speaker 1>things to get over breakups, Like some people will change

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<v Speaker 1>their appearance, maybe haircut or plastic surgery. Some people will

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<v Speaker 1>stock their x on social media or even stock them

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<v Speaker 1>in person and follow them around to see if they're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing anybody else. And then some people like Lucille who's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, will do something incredibly weird, weirder than

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<v Speaker 1>what you just said. Yeah, like something I've never heard

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<v Speaker 1>of before. What like that'll go on another date. People

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<v Speaker 1>that's normal, Like they'll go on a date with somebody new.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird to me, Lucille, I'm hard to give it

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<v Speaker 1>another try. Yeah, but geez, come on, take some time

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<v Speaker 1>and totally freak out and have a breakdown first. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>ice cream? Oh god, whatever you do, do not take

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<v Speaker 1>breakup advice from jubil Flag. Okay, well, your email said

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<v Speaker 1>that you're recently out of a breakup and this was

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<v Speaker 1>like the first date you were going on, So tell

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about it. What's the dude's name.

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<v Speaker 1>It's name is Andrew, and this girl I worked with

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<v Speaker 1>had been going crazy. You have just saying, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's perfect for you. You have to go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He was made for you. Lah lah lah. And finally,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, after enough ice cream, I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to get back out there again. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure, though, to set it up like that,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is a guy. Yeah, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to say he seemed really great. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>a weird night. He cried a bunch of about your

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<v Speaker 1>X while you guys were out on a date. It's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm really proud of myself that that's not what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on. But literally, like as I was driving

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<v Speaker 1>to meet him for dinner, I got a call and

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<v Speaker 1>found out that a bunch of my friends from work

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<v Speaker 1>had just been fired. And oh no, that's including my

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<v Speaker 1>friends who set us up all that stuff. That sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like the worst news. And you weren't fired, just

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<v Speaker 1>all your friends were. No, No, I wasn't, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a whole group. And so like I found

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<v Speaker 1>this out just minutes before I'm walking in the door

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<v Speaker 1>to meet him, and so my phone is blowing up.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's texting trying to figure out who else impacted and

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<v Speaker 1>what happened to why You're like, why does nobody care

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<v Speaker 1>that I have a date? I understand. Why has it

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<v Speaker 1>got to be all about them? You know, really what

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<v Speaker 1>it was? So, I mean, that was so heartbreaking, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so wrapped up in that that this is so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept looking at my phone and I was dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with all this stuff. When I looked at my phone again,

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew had texted me a picture of the menu. No, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when I was. I was trying so hard not

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, I just kept saying, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm just have something big going on right

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<v Speaker 1>now because I didn't want to spill the beams, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's our mutual friend who was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the people impacted, and I felt like it really wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>my place to share that. So he didn't even know

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<v Speaker 1>exactly why you were obsessed with your phone. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying so hard not to ruin the date, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>At the same time, my heart was like breaking for

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<v Speaker 1>all my friends. I wanted I wanted to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to give it a shot, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I just didn't do a good job of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever tell him why you were obsessed with

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<v Speaker 1>your phone? When he sent me a picture of the

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<v Speaker 1>menu as a text and asked if I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe i'd want to order at some point, that's so

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<v Speaker 1>when like, I just, oh, I wanted to cry because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm realizing that I'm completely ignoring this great guy who's

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in front of me. He has no idea why.

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<v Speaker 1>It just thinks I'm a total jerk who you know,

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<v Speaker 1>can't get off of my phone. So that's when I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, you know, I have to tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, It's like I just found out that a

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<v Speaker 1>group of my friends you know, have been fired. And

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<v Speaker 1>then he was super nice about it, and he suggested,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, having a rain check and during another time

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<v Speaker 1>so I could go be with my friends, and yeah, totally,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and you're so distracted, like there's no way

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<v Speaker 1>you can put the right amount of energy into a date, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And it made me like him even more because I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like he was so understanding instead of being like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you shouldn't have wasted my time or he

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<v Speaker 1>go take care of this, go be with your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that when you stoo up from the table

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<v Speaker 1>and ran out of the restaurant or did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>say goodbye? Oh? No, no, I think I was like

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<v Speaker 1>goodbye and I could thank you so much, and because

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<v Speaker 1>I could not have asked for anything more. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was so caring and considerate for me, and after

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<v Speaker 1>I'd been kind of bad to him. So I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys made out after that before you left?

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<v Speaker 1>Does a real quick makeout? No? Oh no, damn, okay, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just left, I mean it did. I texted him

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<v Speaker 1>later and thanked him again for being so considerate and

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<v Speaker 1>said that, you know, I was looking forward to, you know, rescheduling,

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<v Speaker 1>and now unfortunately it hasn't happened. So why do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that he doesn't want to go out with you again?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I was like, maybe he didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>what I was wearing, Maybe he didn't like the way

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<v Speaker 1>I Maybe he's just upset because you know the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know with me on the phone. Well, the good

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<v Speaker 1>thing is it doesn't sound like you've been thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it at all. Oh my gosh, I loved fused. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a setting. Yeah, I'm sure it was the shirt you

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<v Speaker 1>had on. Then I've heard you know, you wear the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong sweater and everything's over. You never know. I swear

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<v Speaker 1>horriful because I'm like, why is why is this not happening? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back, and then call

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<v Speaker 1>him and get your second day update. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>come up with a few more theories while we're waiting. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably will. All right, hang on brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Up, Hey, Lucille, Yeah, before we call the

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<v Speaker 1>dude that you want to call today, I think maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I figured it out. I think there was some mixed

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<v Speaker 1>signals and you didn't pick up on something. What what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think I missed? So you showed up to

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<v Speaker 1>the dinner, you're looking at your phone, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>noticed so bad that he texted you a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>the menu from across the table and you saw that

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<v Speaker 1>and were embarrassed. Right, Yeah, that's horrible. What I think

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<v Speaker 1>was he sent you the picture of the menu and

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<v Speaker 1>he was hoping that you would send back a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself, being like, this is what's on the menu tonight?

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<v Speaker 1>In my opinion. What O, God, you missed the signal

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why he's not calling you back. If that

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<v Speaker 1>was a signal, I don't think she wants him to

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<v Speaker 1>call her back. Yeah, maybe he's not as great as

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<v Speaker 1>I thought. All right, we're about to get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out why he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>And just to remind everybody, you had to leave the

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<v Speaker 1>date early because you were so distracted. And he was

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<v Speaker 1>actually pretty cool with it and understanding. But he is

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<v Speaker 1>not really excited about setting up a second date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sums it up. He's just not really you know,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to schedule a date. Okay, and your friend who

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<v Speaker 1>set you up with this guy who she thought this

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be your dream guy? Has she given

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<v Speaker 1>you any report on what's going on? Well, she just

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<v Speaker 1>got fired. I feel bad because I didn't really want

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<v Speaker 1>to bring it up with her. She kind of has

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<v Speaker 1>other stuff to deal with. No, it's all about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, yeah in my world. All right, Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dial his phone umber right now and see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can figure it out. Okay, okay, all right, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Andrew please?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Andrew speaking? Hey? What's up? Man? This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. This Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Just

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<v Speaker 1>wondering how you're doing today. Well, I'm kind of busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there a reason for this call? Yeah, yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a reason. All right, Well what is it? Then? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. You probably wanted me to answer that right

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<v Speaker 1>away instead of just answering the reason part. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of what I meant when I asked for a reason,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? I'm calling you today because we actually

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Lucille, and you guys went out to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner recently. Okay, well all right, why does she email

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? Exactly? Well, we do a segment on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called the second Date Update. That's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then they

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<v Speaker 1>end up blowing you off after that date, you can

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<v Speaker 1>email us and we'll get that person on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what happened. So I'm guessing she emailed you

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<v Speaker 1>saying that I'm blowing her off. Yes, she did. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a weird situation. I would rather not

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it, okay, well, but she thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>pretty cool and also understanding of the fact that she

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<v Speaker 1>was distracted on her phone the whole time because her

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<v Speaker 1>co worker, I guess who's a friend of yours, got fired, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess there was a huge like exodus at

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<v Speaker 1>her work, and this is all happening kind of right

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<v Speaker 1>when we sat down, and yeah, Lucille just couldn't get

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<v Speaker 1>out of her phone because of it. Um. I gotta say,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta give you props too, for sending a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of the menu when she was super distracted. Like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good move, man, that gets your point across. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a little like passive aggressive, but I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what else to do. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you guys been in that situation, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>no communication. She's got her nose in her phone. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, if I send you a picture

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<v Speaker 1>the menu, will you look at it? Then? Yeah? The phone? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't know. But once I did Dad,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she sort of told me what was happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt really bad. That was that was rough

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of kind of put the egg in my

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<v Speaker 1>face a little bit. But Uh, yeah, because you'd been

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<v Speaker 1>probably calling her names in your head up until that point, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have went way worse than a tech. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was seasy, man, I was looking forward to I

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<v Speaker 1>was getting to know this girl, and it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>stone Wall, I couldn't get by at all. But is

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<v Speaker 1>that the reason you don't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>her again? Not at all. I mean our friend getting

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<v Speaker 1>fired with a bunch of their co workers, that's like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a serious business. I probably would have done the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. Yeah, But but I gotta say I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel as that anymore. Why what changed? Well? I uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I checked in with my friend after the day, like

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<v Speaker 1>she wanted me to. She was obviously really curious to

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<v Speaker 1>see how it went. And I guess she heard that Lucille,

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<v Speaker 1>while she was quote unquote consoling her friends during this

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<v Speaker 1>hard time, she shot an email to the boss applying

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<v Speaker 1>for her friend's job who fired. Yeah, our friend had

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<v Speaker 1>just got fired. And what she originally said was she

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to make her feel better. But I find

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<v Speaker 1>out reality, she's trying to steal her whole job. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's she I mean, if she does that to one

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<v Speaker 1>of her best friends, I can only imagine how she

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<v Speaker 1>would break my heart. That's just I've I've been down

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<v Speaker 1>that roadway too many times. But hold on, okay, she's

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<v Speaker 1>not the one that got her friend fired. No, but

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<v Speaker 1>come on, get do you do you usually apply for

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<v Speaker 1>jobs on her first day with somebody I've never heard

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<v Speaker 1>of them. I'm all I'm saying is that she was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make lemonade out of lemons, like she saw

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity because everybody else had been let go, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was an opportunity to get up promotion. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like I hear that, Hey, make lemonade on lemons whenever

0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.240
<v Speaker 1>you can, but do it in your own house. Don't

0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:20.120
<v Speaker 1>do it out out at dinner with you know, with

0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:22.120
<v Speaker 1>someone you just met. That's like they got their own

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<v Speaker 1>lie there. And this is a little bit too, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm so distracted. I'm just trying to console

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<v Speaker 1>my friends and also trying to capitalize on some people

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<v Speaker 1>that just lost their jobs. So I get a lot

0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:35.000
<v Speaker 1>of stuff going on, very shady behavior just in general.

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<v Speaker 1>And not only is that incredibly rude to me, incredibly

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<v Speaker 1>backstabbing to her friend. I mean, why would I why

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<v Speaker 1>would I want to go on a second day with her,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. And then you can add one

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<v Speaker 1>more thing to it, because she's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening to this conversation and sort of just tricked

0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:51.840
<v Speaker 1>you now into speaking with her. Geez, she's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line. You said, yeah, yeah, she's been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing and wants to talk to you. Lucilla

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<v Speaker 1>there hey oh um yeah, hi hi um, you're listening

0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:10.320
<v Speaker 1>that whole time. Uh yeah yeah. And I think this

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<v Speaker 1>was just a huge misunderstanding. Okay, so you have an explanation,

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<v Speaker 1>so it did happen, then it is correct, It is accurate,

0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.360
<v Speaker 1>that's what you're saying. If there's an explanation that means

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<v Speaker 1>you did it, I'd love to hear this. Well I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I emailed because I mean we all know when stuff

0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.199
<v Speaker 1>when things like this happened, when they they downsize and

0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:34.719
<v Speaker 1>all that, they reorganized, they shift everything, and you know,

0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I was fairly new there. You know, I don't make

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money, and so yeah, I inquired to

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<v Speaker 1>find out, you know, exactly what was happening if jobs

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<v Speaker 1>were going to be reposted it because I was hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that it might be something that's really good for my

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<v Speaker 1>skill set. So you don't feel bad about this at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you listening to yourself? I'm sad for my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>but you cold job. Come on, not like she was

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<v Speaker 1>going to get it back. Yeah, but this happened the

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<v Speaker 1>absolute same night that she got fired, going behind her

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<v Speaker 1>back trying to get that old job. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't care how you justify that. That ain't

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<v Speaker 1>right where I come from. Well, but I mean, clearly

0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:22.120
<v Speaker 1>she didn't hunt it. I mean she's still my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>but as far as work those okay, So so you

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<v Speaker 1>you told her all about it, then huh is that

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<v Speaker 1>where you're texting her about at the same time, Are

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<v Speaker 1>you consoling her and saying, oh, by the way, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go and steal your old jobs. No, I haven't

0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:37.200
<v Speaker 1>told her yet, but it's not like it's a huge secret.

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<v Speaker 1>I will. I will tell her, but she's dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>her situation. That's the last thing she needs to hear

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<v Speaker 1>that the job she lost could benefit me. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're a real good friend. Yeah, yeah, a way,

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<v Speaker 1>that's great timing. Oh my god, it's like, why are

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<v Speaker 1>you so mad at her? Yes? I agree that her

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<v Speaker 1>lying about only consoling her friend was wrong and that

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<v Speaker 1>she shouldn't have done on the date. But like you're

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<v Speaker 1>like mad from a deep sea the place that she's

0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:05.920
<v Speaker 1>going to get your friend's job. Well, you know what,

0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:08.600
<v Speaker 1>you want to know why? I'm upset because I'm the

0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:11.800
<v Speaker 1>real friend in this situation and she's not. Oh but

0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:15.040
<v Speaker 1>it's business man. I mean, like I said, she is

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<v Speaker 1>not the one they got your guys's friend fired. I

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<v Speaker 1>hear that talk to the boss in one week, two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>but not the same freaking night. Well, while you're on

0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.560
<v Speaker 1>a date too. I think the fact that you're doing

0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:30.000
<v Speaker 1>that while on a date is probably making it even

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<v Speaker 1>worse the seal. I totally get that, But there was

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<v Speaker 1>a small part of you that was super excited about

0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:37.960
<v Speaker 1>a promotion. Is there any part of you that was

0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:41.720
<v Speaker 1>excited about a new first date? So it sounds like

0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:43.680
<v Speaker 1>you're all about the job and not even about me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess that was it. Yeah, but Andrew, your

0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:49.040
<v Speaker 1>first date isn't gonna pay her rent? Okay, you know,

0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I was really excited about you. But I'm glad all

0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:55.320
<v Speaker 1>of this has happened, because now listening to you, I

0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:59.240
<v Speaker 1>realized you have a temper. You're not the boyfriend material.

0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I thought, Oh, well, don't say that just yet, Lucille.

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<v Speaker 1>We haven't asked if we'll go on a date with you.

0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:06.480
<v Speaker 1>We have to do that before you decided his boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>chair or not. Hey, Andrew, would you go on a

0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.680
<v Speaker 1>second date with Lucille? We'll pay for it. Will I

0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.880
<v Speaker 1>go on a date with her? No? Hell no, absolutely not.

0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:15.960
<v Speaker 1>In fact, I'm more sure of it now than I

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<v Speaker 1>was before you called. Okay, Well, no problem, I'm not

0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:23.880
<v Speaker 1>interested anymore. Well yeah, and plus, like, now that this

0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.280
<v Speaker 1>dude's dropped off, I'm sure you're already texting another dude

0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:30.000
<v Speaker 1>to phill a spot. And I say, good on you, Lucille.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I should have been doing right now. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dying to know, though. Did you get the promotion.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one of the final two, so I have a

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<v Speaker 1>good shot at it. Well, that's great news for you.

0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad something worked out. I'll send you a carter

0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:46.720
<v Speaker 1>that you could wait for it in the mail. Say congratulations,

0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Judas you did it in the morning. Texting seven eighty

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two says the girl from the second date

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<v Speaker 1>update is a shark broken Jewbil in the morning. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a human being, but that's not what I think

0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:08.200
<v Speaker 1>it is. I think they meant literally. I think you're right, Jewel, Yeah,

0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:10.760
<v Speaker 1>I am like pretty sure she was actually a person.

0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:16.440
<v Speaker 1>We can't like even get cell service underwater like that. Yeah, Okay,

0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what they meant by that comment anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't hear today's second date update, Lucille the

0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:26.600
<v Speaker 1>person not the Shark, left her date early because on

0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.480
<v Speaker 1>her way to meet Andrew, the dude that she was meeting,

0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:30.600
<v Speaker 1>she found out that some of her good friends at

0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:34.040
<v Speaker 1>her company were fired. But when we got Andrew on

0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.960
<v Speaker 1>the phone, we learned a new piece of information. She

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<v Speaker 1>was worried that because she was on her phone the

0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:41.200
<v Speaker 1>whole time, he didn't want to call her back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Lucille left the date to go console her friend eventually,

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<v Speaker 1>but she also hopped on email that same night to

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<v Speaker 1>send her boss a note asking to apply for her

0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:54.480
<v Speaker 1>friend's position. Yeah, and so the guy was like, she's

0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:57.120
<v Speaker 1>a snake for doing that. Again human but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but the guy thought that she was wrong for doing

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<v Speaker 1>that right after her friend had been fired for trying

0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:05.960
<v Speaker 1>to get her job. Some people are texting in a

0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.480
<v Speaker 1>seven eight, five nine two, saying, hey, whatever, it's just business.

0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.240
<v Speaker 1>Another person said, would you rather have an ambitious woman

0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:14.479
<v Speaker 1>or a friendly woman? We know that all men just

0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:19.200
<v Speaker 1>want a friendly woman. Ambitious Brooke says, why not screw

0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:21.600
<v Speaker 1>your friendships over and get yours. That's not what I'm saying.

0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying her timing wasn't right on the day. I

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<v Speaker 1>agree she should have waited till the morning when she could,

0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:30.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, be concentrated on one thing. But dude, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong to apply for a job that's open just

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<v Speaker 1>because you happen to be friends with the girl. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong at all, I think no way. Man. Competition

0:17:39.400 --> 0:17:41.560
<v Speaker 1>is fierce out there, and if you were not the

0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:44.440
<v Speaker 1>first one at the door knocking, yes, somebody else is

0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:47.159
<v Speaker 1>gonna get it. Wait for that stuff. I'm all for

0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:48.879
<v Speaker 1>applying for the job as soon as possible because you

0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:50.560
<v Speaker 1>have to get it. I'm all for planning some sort

0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:52.240
<v Speaker 1>of recording device in their office to catch some saying

0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:54.840
<v Speaker 1>bad things. I mean, giving it to the boss so

0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:56.760
<v Speaker 1>that that position becomes open. I'm for a lot of

0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:59.679
<v Speaker 1>that stuff. What I'm not for is sending that email

0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:01.359
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the date. Though I can understand

0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:03.320
<v Speaker 1>why that would be, like, hey, just wait like an

0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:06.120
<v Speaker 1>hour until the date's over. Anyway, they decided that they're

0:18:06.160 --> 0:18:07.480
<v Speaker 1>not going to go out again, which is fine because

0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:08.800
<v Speaker 1>probably the seal is gonna have a lot of work

0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:10.439
<v Speaker 1>to do soon, so she want to find a date. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Remember if you want to do a second day up

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<v Speaker 1>a date, all you have to do is email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Movement ninety two points