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Speaker 1: Jebels second Dato date. People do all sorts of different
Speaker 1: things to get over breakups, Like some people will change
Speaker 1: their appearance, maybe haircut or plastic surgery. Some people will
Speaker 1: stock their x on social media or even stock them
Speaker 1: in person and follow them around to see if they're
Speaker 1: seeing anybody else. And then some people like Lucille who's
Speaker 1: on the phone, will do something incredibly weird, weirder than
Speaker 1: what you just said. Yeah, like something I've never heard
Speaker 1: of before. What like that'll go on another date. People
Speaker 1: that's normal, Like they'll go on a date with somebody new.
Speaker 1: That's weird to me, Lucille, I'm hard to give it
Speaker 1: another try. Yeah, but geez, come on, take some time
Speaker 1: and totally freak out and have a breakdown first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: ice cream? Oh god, whatever you do, do not take
Speaker 1: breakup advice from jubil Flag. Okay, well, your email said
Speaker 1: that you're recently out of a breakup and this was
Speaker 1: like the first date you were going on, So tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about it. What's the dude's name.
Speaker 1: It's name is Andrew, and this girl I worked with
Speaker 1: had been going crazy. You have just saying, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: he's perfect for you. You have to go out with him.
Speaker 1: He was made for you. Lah lah lah. And finally,
Speaker 1: you know, after enough ice cream, I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm ready to get back out there again. That's a
Speaker 1: lot of pressure, though, to set it up like that,
Speaker 1: like this is a guy. Yeah, but you know, I
Speaker 1: have to say he seemed really great. But it was
Speaker 1: a weird night. He cried a bunch of about your
Speaker 1: X while you guys were out on a date. It's weird.
Speaker 1: I I'm really proud of myself that that's not what
Speaker 1: was going on. But literally, like as I was driving
Speaker 1: to meet him for dinner, I got a call and
Speaker 1: found out that a bunch of my friends from work
Speaker 1: had just been fired. And oh no, that's including my
Speaker 1: friends who set us up all that stuff. That sucks.
Speaker 1: That's like the worst news. And you weren't fired, just
Speaker 1: all your friends were. No, No, I wasn't, but yeah,
Speaker 1: there was a whole group. And so like I found
Speaker 1: this out just minutes before I'm walking in the door
Speaker 1: to meet him, and so my phone is blowing up.
Speaker 1: Everybody's texting trying to figure out who else impacted and
Speaker 1: what happened to why You're like, why does nobody care
Speaker 1: that I have a date? I understand. Why has it
Speaker 1: got to be all about them? You know, really what
Speaker 1: it was? So, I mean, that was so heartbreaking, and
Speaker 1: I'm so wrapped up in that that this is so embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I kept looking at my phone and I was dealing
Speaker 1: with all this stuff. When I looked at my phone again,
Speaker 1: Andrew had texted me a picture of the menu. No, man,
Speaker 1: that's when I was. I was trying so hard not
Speaker 1: to you know, I just kept saying, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just have something big going on right
Speaker 1: now because I didn't want to spill the beams, you know.
Speaker 1: You know, it's our mutual friend who was one of
Speaker 1: the people impacted, and I felt like it really wasn't
Speaker 1: my place to share that. So he didn't even know
Speaker 1: exactly why you were obsessed with your phone. No, I
Speaker 1: was trying so hard not to ruin the date, you know.
Speaker 1: At the same time, my heart was like breaking for
Speaker 1: all my friends. I wanted I wanted to be there,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to give it a shot, and you know,
Speaker 1: obviously I just didn't do a good job of that.
Speaker 1: Did you ever tell him why you were obsessed with
Speaker 1: your phone? When he sent me a picture of the
Speaker 1: menu as a text and asked if I thought, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe i'd want to order at some point, that's so
Speaker 1: when like, I just, oh, I wanted to cry because
Speaker 1: I'm realizing that I'm completely ignoring this great guy who's
Speaker 1: sitting in front of me. He has no idea why.
Speaker 1: It just thinks I'm a total jerk who you know,
Speaker 1: can't get off of my phone. So that's when I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, you know, I have to tell you something.
Speaker 1: You know, It's like I just found out that a
Speaker 1: group of my friends you know, have been fired. And
Speaker 1: then he was super nice about it, and he suggested,
Speaker 1: you know, having a rain check and during another time
Speaker 1: so I could go be with my friends, and yeah, totally,
Speaker 1: I mean, and you're so distracted, like there's no way
Speaker 1: you can put the right amount of energy into a date, right,
Speaker 1: And it made me like him even more because I
Speaker 1: felt like he was so understanding instead of being like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, you shouldn't have wasted my time or he
Speaker 1: go take care of this, go be with your friends.
Speaker 1: So is that when you stoo up from the table
Speaker 1: and ran out of the restaurant or did you guys
Speaker 1: say goodbye? Oh? No, no, I think I was like
Speaker 1: goodbye and I could thank you so much, and because
Speaker 1: I could not have asked for anything more. I mean,
Speaker 1: he was so caring and considerate for me, and after
Speaker 1: I'd been kind of bad to him. So I'm guessing
Speaker 1: that you guys made out after that before you left?
Speaker 1: Does a real quick makeout? No? Oh no, damn, okay, no,
Speaker 1: I just left, I mean it did. I texted him
Speaker 1: later and thanked him again for being so considerate and
Speaker 1: said that, you know, I was looking forward to, you know, rescheduling,
Speaker 1: and now unfortunately it hasn't happened. So why do you
Speaker 1: think that he doesn't want to go out with you again?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was like, maybe he didn't like
Speaker 1: what I was wearing, Maybe he didn't like the way
Speaker 1: I Maybe he's just upset because you know the whole thing,
Speaker 1: you know with me on the phone. Well, the good
Speaker 1: thing is it doesn't sound like you've been thinking about
Speaker 1: it at all. Oh my gosh, I loved fused. It's
Speaker 1: a setting. Yeah, I'm sure it was the shirt you
Speaker 1: had on. Then I've heard you know, you wear the
Speaker 1: wrong sweater and everything's over. You never know. I swear
Speaker 1: horriful because I'm like, why is why is this not happening? Okay,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, and then call
Speaker 1: him and get your second day update. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: come up with a few more theories while we're waiting. Okay,
Speaker 1: I probably will. All right, hang on brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Up, Hey, Lucille, Yeah, before we call the
Speaker 1: dude that you want to call today, I think maybe
Speaker 1: I figured it out. I think there was some mixed
Speaker 1: signals and you didn't pick up on something. What what
Speaker 1: do you think I missed? So you showed up to
Speaker 1: the dinner, you're looking at your phone, and then he
Speaker 1: noticed so bad that he texted you a picture of
Speaker 1: the menu from across the table and you saw that
Speaker 1: and were embarrassed. Right, Yeah, that's horrible. What I think
Speaker 1: was he sent you the picture of the menu and
Speaker 1: he was hoping that you would send back a picture
Speaker 1: of yourself, being like, this is what's on the menu tonight?
Speaker 1: In my opinion. What O, God, you missed the signal
Speaker 1: and that's why he's not calling you back. If that
Speaker 1: was a signal, I don't think she wants him to
Speaker 1: call her back. Yeah, maybe he's not as great as
Speaker 1: I thought. All right, we're about to get him on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why he's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: And just to remind everybody, you had to leave the
Speaker 1: date early because you were so distracted. And he was
Speaker 1: actually pretty cool with it and understanding. But he is
Speaker 1: not really excited about setting up a second date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that sums it up. He's just not really you know,
Speaker 1: trying to schedule a date. Okay, and your friend who
Speaker 1: set you up with this guy who she thought this
Speaker 1: was going to be your dream guy? Has she given
Speaker 1: you any report on what's going on? Well, she just
Speaker 1: got fired. I feel bad because I didn't really want
Speaker 1: to bring it up with her. She kind of has
Speaker 1: other stuff to deal with. No, it's all about you.
Speaker 1: Come on, yeah in my world. All right, Well, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dial his phone umber right now and see if
Speaker 1: we can figure it out. Okay, okay, all right, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Andrew please?
Speaker 1: Is Andrew speaking? Hey? What's up? Man? This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. This Jewel from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Just
Speaker 1: wondering how you're doing today. Well, I'm kind of busy.
Speaker 1: Was there a reason for this call? Yeah, yeah, there's
Speaker 1: a reason. All right, Well what is it? Then? Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You probably wanted me to answer that right
Speaker 1: away instead of just answering the reason part. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: sort of what I meant when I asked for a reason,
Speaker 1: what's going on? I'm calling you today because we actually
Speaker 1: got an email about you from one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: Her name is Lucille, and you guys went out to
Speaker 1: dinner recently. Okay, well all right, why does she email
Speaker 1: you guys? Exactly? Well, we do a segment on our show.
Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then they
Speaker 1: end up blowing you off after that date, you can
Speaker 1: email us and we'll get that person on the phone
Speaker 1: and ask what happened. So I'm guessing she emailed you
Speaker 1: saying that I'm blowing her off. Yes, she did. Well,
Speaker 1: it's kind of a weird situation. I would rather not
Speaker 1: talk about it, okay, well, but she thought you were
Speaker 1: pretty cool and also understanding of the fact that she
Speaker 1: was distracted on her phone the whole time because her
Speaker 1: co worker, I guess who's a friend of yours, got fired, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I guess there was a huge like exodus at
Speaker 1: her work, and this is all happening kind of right
Speaker 1: when we sat down, and yeah, Lucille just couldn't get
Speaker 1: out of her phone because of it. Um. I gotta say,
Speaker 1: I gotta give you props too, for sending a picture
Speaker 1: of the menu when she was super distracted. Like, that's
Speaker 1: a good move, man, that gets your point across. I
Speaker 1: thought it was a little like passive aggressive, but I
Speaker 1: didn't know what else to do. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys been in that situation, but there's
Speaker 1: no communication. She's got her nose in her phone. I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, if I send you a picture
Speaker 1: the menu, will you look at it? Then? Yeah? The phone? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know. But once I did Dad,
Speaker 1: you know, she sort of told me what was happening,
Speaker 1: and I felt really bad. That was that was rough
Speaker 1: and kind of kind of put the egg in my
Speaker 1: face a little bit. But Uh, yeah, because you'd been
Speaker 1: probably calling her names in your head up until that point, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I could have went way worse than a tech. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was seasy, man, I was looking forward to I
Speaker 1: was getting to know this girl, and it's just like
Speaker 1: stone Wall, I couldn't get by at all. But is
Speaker 1: that the reason you don't want to go out with
Speaker 1: her again? Not at all. I mean our friend getting
Speaker 1: fired with a bunch of their co workers, that's like,
Speaker 1: that's a serious business. I probably would have done the
Speaker 1: same thing. Yeah, But but I gotta say I don't
Speaker 1: feel as that anymore. Why what changed? Well? I uh,
Speaker 1: I checked in with my friend after the day, like
Speaker 1: she wanted me to. She was obviously really curious to
Speaker 1: see how it went. And I guess she heard that Lucille,
Speaker 1: while she was quote unquote consoling her friends during this
Speaker 1: hard time, she shot an email to the boss applying
Speaker 1: for her friend's job who fired. Yeah, our friend had
Speaker 1: just got fired. And what she originally said was she
Speaker 1: was trying to make her feel better. But I find
Speaker 1: out reality, she's trying to steal her whole job. And
Speaker 1: that's she I mean, if she does that to one
Speaker 1: of her best friends, I can only imagine how she
Speaker 1: would break my heart. That's just I've I've been down
Speaker 1: that roadway too many times. But hold on, okay, she's
Speaker 1: not the one that got her friend fired. No, but
Speaker 1: come on, get do you do you usually apply for
Speaker 1: jobs on her first day with somebody I've never heard
Speaker 1: of them. I'm all I'm saying is that she was
Speaker 1: trying to make lemonade out of lemons, like she saw
Speaker 1: an opportunity because everybody else had been let go, and
Speaker 1: that was an opportunity to get up promotion. It sounds
Speaker 1: like I hear that, Hey, make lemonade on lemons whenever
Speaker 1: you can, but do it in your own house. Don't
Speaker 1: do it out out at dinner with you know, with
Speaker 1: someone you just met. That's like they got their own
Speaker 1: lie there. And this is a little bit too, Like
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm so distracted. I'm just trying to console
Speaker 1: my friends and also trying to capitalize on some people
Speaker 1: that just lost their jobs. So I get a lot
Speaker 1: of stuff going on, very shady behavior just in general.
Speaker 1: And not only is that incredibly rude to me, incredibly
Speaker 1: backstabbing to her friend. I mean, why would I why
Speaker 1: would I want to go on a second day with her,
Speaker 1: I have no idea. And then you can add one
Speaker 1: more thing to it, because she's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation and sort of just tricked
Speaker 1: you now into speaking with her. Geez, she's on the
Speaker 1: other line. You said, yeah, yeah, she's been listening to
Speaker 1: this whole thing and wants to talk to you. Lucilla
Speaker 1: there hey oh um yeah, hi hi um, you're listening
Speaker 1: that whole time. Uh yeah yeah. And I think this
Speaker 1: was just a huge misunderstanding. Okay, so you have an explanation,
Speaker 1: so it did happen, then it is correct, It is accurate,
Speaker 1: that's what you're saying. If there's an explanation that means
Speaker 1: you did it, I'd love to hear this. Well I did.
Speaker 1: I emailed because I mean we all know when stuff
Speaker 1: when things like this happened, when they they downsize and
Speaker 1: all that, they reorganized, they shift everything, and you know,
Speaker 1: I was fairly new there. You know, I don't make
Speaker 1: a lot of money, and so yeah, I inquired to
Speaker 1: find out, you know, exactly what was happening if jobs
Speaker 1: were going to be reposted it because I was hoping
Speaker 1: that it might be something that's really good for my
Speaker 1: skill set. So you don't feel bad about this at all?
Speaker 1: Are you listening to yourself? I'm sad for my friends,
Speaker 1: but you cold job. Come on, not like she was
Speaker 1: going to get it back. Yeah, but this happened the
Speaker 1: absolute same night that she got fired, going behind her
Speaker 1: back trying to get that old job. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't I don't care how you justify that. That ain't
Speaker 1: right where I come from. Well, but I mean, clearly
Speaker 1: she didn't hunt it. I mean she's still my friends,
Speaker 1: but as far as work those okay, So so you
Speaker 1: you told her all about it, then huh is that
Speaker 1: where you're texting her about at the same time, Are
Speaker 1: you consoling her and saying, oh, by the way, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go and steal your old jobs. No, I haven't
Speaker 1: told her yet, but it's not like it's a huge secret.
Speaker 1: I will. I will tell her, but she's dealing with
Speaker 1: her situation. That's the last thing she needs to hear
Speaker 1: that the job she lost could benefit me. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're you're a real good friend. Yeah, yeah, a way,
Speaker 1: that's great timing. Oh my god, it's like, why are
Speaker 1: you so mad at her? Yes? I agree that her
Speaker 1: lying about only consoling her friend was wrong and that
Speaker 1: she shouldn't have done on the date. But like you're
Speaker 1: like mad from a deep sea the place that she's
Speaker 1: going to get your friend's job. Well, you know what,
Speaker 1: you want to know why? I'm upset because I'm the
Speaker 1: real friend in this situation and she's not. Oh but
Speaker 1: it's business man. I mean, like I said, she is
Speaker 1: not the one they got your guys's friend fired. I
Speaker 1: hear that talk to the boss in one week, two weeks,
Speaker 1: but not the same freaking night. Well, while you're on
Speaker 1: a date too. I think the fact that you're doing
Speaker 1: that while on a date is probably making it even
Speaker 1: worse the seal. I totally get that, But there was
Speaker 1: a small part of you that was super excited about
Speaker 1: a promotion. Is there any part of you that was
Speaker 1: excited about a new first date? So it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're all about the job and not even about me.
Speaker 1: So I guess that was it. Yeah, but Andrew, your
Speaker 1: first date isn't gonna pay her rent? Okay, you know,
Speaker 1: I was really excited about you. But I'm glad all
Speaker 1: of this has happened, because now listening to you, I
Speaker 1: realized you have a temper. You're not the boyfriend material.
Speaker 1: I thought, Oh, well, don't say that just yet, Lucille.
Speaker 1: We haven't asked if we'll go on a date with you.
Speaker 1: We have to do that before you decided his boyfriend
Speaker 1: chair or not. Hey, Andrew, would you go on a
Speaker 1: second date with Lucille? We'll pay for it. Will I
Speaker 1: go on a date with her? No? Hell no, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: In fact, I'm more sure of it now than I
Speaker 1: was before you called. Okay, Well, no problem, I'm not
Speaker 1: interested anymore. Well yeah, and plus, like, now that this
Speaker 1: dude's dropped off, I'm sure you're already texting another dude
Speaker 1: to phill a spot. And I say, good on you, Lucille.
Speaker 1: That's what I should have been doing right now. But
Speaker 1: I'm dying to know, though. Did you get the promotion.
Speaker 1: I'm one of the final two, so I have a
Speaker 1: good shot at it. Well, that's great news for you.
Speaker 1: I'm glad something worked out. I'll send you a carter
Speaker 1: that you could wait for it in the mail. Say congratulations,
Speaker 1: Judas you did it in the morning. Texting seven eighty
Speaker 1: five nine two says the girl from the second date
Speaker 1: update is a shark broken Jewbil in the morning. No,
Speaker 1: she's a human being, but that's not what I think
Speaker 1: it is. I think they meant literally. I think you're right, Jewel, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I am like pretty sure she was actually a person.
Speaker 1: We can't like even get cell service underwater like that. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know what they meant by that comment anyway,
Speaker 1: If you didn't hear today's second date update, Lucille the
Speaker 1: person not the Shark, left her date early because on
Speaker 1: her way to meet Andrew, the dude that she was meeting,
Speaker 1: she found out that some of her good friends at
Speaker 1: her company were fired. But when we got Andrew on
Speaker 1: the phone, we learned a new piece of information. She
Speaker 1: was worried that because she was on her phone the
Speaker 1: whole time, he didn't want to call her back. Well,
Speaker 1: Lucille left the date to go console her friend eventually,
Speaker 1: but she also hopped on email that same night to
Speaker 1: send her boss a note asking to apply for her
Speaker 1: friend's position. Yeah, and so the guy was like, she's
Speaker 1: a snake for doing that. Again human but you know,
Speaker 1: but the guy thought that she was wrong for doing
Speaker 1: that right after her friend had been fired for trying
Speaker 1: to get her job. Some people are texting in a
Speaker 1: seven eight, five nine two, saying, hey, whatever, it's just business.
Speaker 1: Another person said, would you rather have an ambitious woman
Speaker 1: or a friendly woman? We know that all men just
Speaker 1: want a friendly woman. Ambitious Brooke says, why not screw
Speaker 1: your friendships over and get yours. That's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm saying her timing wasn't right on the day. I
Speaker 1: agree she should have waited till the morning when she could,
Speaker 1: you know, be concentrated on one thing. But dude, it's
Speaker 1: not wrong to apply for a job that's open just
Speaker 1: because you happen to be friends with the girl. It's
Speaker 1: not wrong at all, I think no way. Man. Competition
Speaker 1: is fierce out there, and if you were not the
Speaker 1: first one at the door knocking, yes, somebody else is
Speaker 1: gonna get it. Wait for that stuff. I'm all for
Speaker 1: applying for the job as soon as possible because you
Speaker 1: have to get it. I'm all for planning some sort
Speaker 1: of recording device in their office to catch some saying
Speaker 1: bad things. I mean, giving it to the boss so
Speaker 1: that that position becomes open. I'm for a lot of
Speaker 1: that stuff. What I'm not for is sending that email
Speaker 1: in the middle of the date. Though I can understand
Speaker 1: why that would be, like, hey, just wait like an
Speaker 1: hour until the date's over. Anyway, they decided that they're
Speaker 1: not going to go out again, which is fine because
Speaker 1: probably the seal is gonna have a lot of work
Speaker 1: to do soon, so she want to find a date. Anyway,
Speaker 1: Remember if you want to do a second day up
Speaker 1: a date, all you have to do is email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back. Movement ninety two points