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Speaker 1: Jebels second Dato date. People do all sorts of different

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Speaker 1: things to get over breakups, Like some people will change

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Speaker 1: their appearance, maybe haircut or plastic surgery. Some people will

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Speaker 1: in person and follow them around to see if they're

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Speaker 1: seeing anybody else. And then some people like Lucille who's

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Speaker 1: on the phone, will do something incredibly weird, weirder than

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Speaker 1: what you just said. Yeah, like something I've never heard

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Speaker 1: of before. What like that'll go on another date. People

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Speaker 1: That's weird to me, Lucille, I'm hard to give it

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Speaker 1: and totally freak out and have a breakdown first. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: ice cream? Oh god, whatever you do, do not take

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Speaker 1: breakup advice from jubil Flag. Okay, well, your email said

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Speaker 1: that you're recently out of a breakup and this was

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Speaker 1: like the first date you were going on, So tell

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Speaker 1: us a little bit about it. What's the dude's name.

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Speaker 1: It's name is Andrew, and this girl I worked with

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Speaker 1: had been going crazy. You have just saying, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: He was made for you. Lah lah lah. And finally,

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Speaker 1: you know, after enough ice cream, I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I I'm really proud of myself that that's not what

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Speaker 1: was going on. But literally, like as I was driving

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Speaker 1: friends who set us up all that stuff. That sucks.

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Speaker 1: That's like the worst news. And you weren't fired, just

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Speaker 1: Everybody's texting trying to figure out who else impacted and

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Speaker 1: what happened to why You're like, why does nobody care

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Speaker 1: that's when I was. I was trying so hard not

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Speaker 1: You know, it's our mutual friend who was one of

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Speaker 1: exactly why you were obsessed with your phone. No, I

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was like, maybe he didn't like

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Speaker 1: him and get your second day update. All right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: the morning. Up, Hey, Lucille, Yeah, before we call the

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Speaker 1: And just to remind everybody, you had to leave the

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Speaker 1: that sums it up. He's just not really you know,

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Speaker 1: you any report on what's going on? Well, she just

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Speaker 1: other stuff to deal with. No, it's all about you.

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Speaker 1: Come on, yeah in my world. All right, Well, I'm

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Speaker 1: Is Andrew speaking? Hey? What's up? Man? This is Jewel

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. This Jewel from

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Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Just

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Speaker 1: wondering how you're doing today. Well, I'm kind of busy.

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Speaker 1: Was there a reason for this call? Yeah, yeah, there's

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Speaker 1: Her name is Lucille, and you guys went out to

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Speaker 1: dinner recently. Okay, well all right, why does she email

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Speaker 1: you guys? Exactly? Well, we do a segment on our show.

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Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Update. That's where if you

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Speaker 1: and ask what happened. So I'm guessing she emailed you

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Speaker 1: saying that I'm blowing her off. Yes, she did. Well,

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Speaker 1: Judas you did it in the morning. Texting seven eighty

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Speaker 1: I'm saying her timing wasn't right on the day. I

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