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Speaker 1: My sister got really one of my sisters got really

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, whatever. I end up doing the ancestry.

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Speaker 1: So on and off for like ten years, I was

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Speaker 1: a lot of cheating, suspicions that happened, and that's not

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Speaker 2: Yes, oh, okay, wow, I guess. So we didn't get

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Speaker 3: Hey, this is John from the Okayop Show. You left

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Speaker 3: to call on our voicemail line.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Tiffany, Yes, Tiffany, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 3: We've we've heard some crazy, you know, twenty three and

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Speaker 3: was was was big and pretty heavy. I was curious

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Speaker 3: is you know, how do you think about this, this

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Speaker 1: A lot of information to take in to know that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that you mentioned that process of like the ten

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Speaker 1: So I talked to his cousin like by email, and

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, wow, like you.

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Speaker 1: He's like, no, I don't remember that ever happening. Even

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like no, Like whenever I was like created my sister,

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Speaker 5: Like, have you tried to contact him multiple times after this.

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Speaker 2: Do you think you were happy that you did this?

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Speaker 2: Like are you, like, are you are you still happy

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, Like I love being an aunt, like and

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Speaker 2: Wow, Wow, it's awesome that like you still are steadfast

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I have an amazing sister, Like my sisters

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Speaker 3: You build that relationship with them just from this experience

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I went to Connecticut to visit them, right, I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's a beautiful thing that like ancestry

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Speaker 3: Yeah, better I guess to be able to control it

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Speaker 3: And thank you so much for calling in and sharing

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Speaker 3: your experience. I know, I mean you've probably heard, We've

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Tiffany, thank you so much for sharing.

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Speaker 1: No, no problem. And I'm glad you guys gave me

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Speaker 3: Like me, Well, we did, and we did, and you

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Speaker 1: I am.

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Speaker 2: Please please keep submitting, Please call like we really appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: If you have any other stories. If I just call

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Speaker 1: Course, thank you so much. I'll have a good one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you too, have a good one later.

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Speaker 2: That a solid different tone, but wow, cool, Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 3: We can't wait to hear more of your stories. Can't

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Speaker 3: the next one.

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Speaker 5: Talk soon. This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 3: Time for okop rewam today. Effed up by getting a

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Speaker 3: DNA test and finding out my granny got stuffed by

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Speaker 3: another man's meat.

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Speaker 4: The update.

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Speaker 5: I've been waiting for this update. John.

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Speaker 4: You know, we we.

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Speaker 2: Got to see who's whose sausage granny was gobbling down right, Glizzie?

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Speaker 5: Was she gobbling.

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Speaker 4: Gobbler?

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Speaker 5: Over Hazy gobbler?

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Speaker 2: The Glizzie Goblin, She's the Glizzie Gobblers.

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Speaker 5: He's eating that shit like French cobbler.

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Speaker 4: That was a good one.

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Speaker 5: She's holding on to it like a hoddler. Ooh, we're

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Speaker 4: We're talking Guess who's now on top of her.

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Speaker 2: Oh it ain't Grandpa, it's the Polish sausager.

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Speaker 3: So in my previous post I said that my grandmother

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Speaker 5: Week, Oh the fable tell tell us please.

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Speaker 3: Officially that is still the plan. But my sister, who

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Speaker 2: And the story of what actually happened is interesting. I'm

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Speaker 6: Back in my day, I was cobbler imbi over the

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Speaker 6: I had to keep this the salami cave wall. One

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Speaker 6: wasn't your grandfather? Only think that was big about that man?

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Speaker 4: It wasn't It wasn't your grandfather. It was his grandfather.

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Speaker 6: He knows what he's doing. I say, the First World War,

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Speaker 2: Without getting too much into my family history, when I

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Speaker 5: Oh wait, like they know who it's like? Who it is?

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Speaker 4: They they got some ideas? Oh no, okay.

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Speaker 3: Basically, my grandmother had a longtime family friend.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's just say that family friend's more than friends. Oh,

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Speaker 2: he's getting real friendly, really close. And this family friend

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Speaker 2: to be in. Moving forward, I'm gonna call him Polish

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Speaker 2: Grandpa and the other guy real Grandpa.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 3: She and this friend real Grandpa maintained contact for years

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Speaker 3: And their kids had grown up together even before they

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Speaker 2: So fake grandpa was actually real grandpa, like step grandpa

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Speaker 3: Step grandfather, Like, oh, he's a part of the family,

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Speaker 3: and it's like.

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Speaker 4: Uh, yeah he is.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't That wasn't very surprising. I you know, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: who could have done it? Maybe it's the person my

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Speaker 2: made her admit it. I was going to be matched

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Speaker 2: as a cousin with my sister's best friend. Wait oh man, wait,

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Speaker 2: so they were like matches in they were going to date. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: my sister's best friend. Oh I thought, like I thought

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Speaker 5: It's like my little fuck.

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Speaker 3: New Reddit story. Grandma, tell me who you fucked her?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna fuck my cousin.

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Speaker 6: Tell me now, I mean now, the reprecations will be

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Speaker 2: But here's where it gets a little confusing. Oh no,

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Speaker 3: My grandmother claims that Polish Grandpa was sterile as the

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Speaker 3: Uh oh, what his sausage got sizzled. She says that

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Speaker 3: but that it was all done intentionally through artificial insemination.

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Speaker 2: Hmm, was the artificial insemination technology like advance enough?

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Speaker 3: But you know, I mean straight turkey based maybe, like

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Speaker 3: I don't know, you know, that's that's some old school

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Speaker 4: Okay, my grandma was doing.

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Speaker 5: Hey, heyo.

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Speaker 3: She desperately wants us to be kept a secret from everyone,

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Speaker 5: I'mos assuming the worst.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think Granny was slipping and sliding

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Speaker 2: all over them sausages. My dad and his siblings were

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Speaker 2: born in the early nineteen fifties. Does anyone know what

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Speaker 2: the odds of this were? How common was artificial insemination

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Definitely less common. Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Would someone have really used a friend as a donor

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Speaker 3: more than three separate times? And my grandmother had at

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Speaker 3: so could be four.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, man, it sounds like she was getting

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Speaker 2: railed regularly by this guy. My grandmother has a known

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Speaker 2: history of rewriting events in her favor. I guess Grandma's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, Grandma's like, I'm team Grandma.

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Speaker 4: I'll explain my thought process later.

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Speaker 3: I guess it really doesn't matter at this point why

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Speaker 3: know which DNA test I used. I used my heritage,

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Speaker 3: but I have no idea if it's better than the others.

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Speaker 3: I picked it just because it was the cheapest, and

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Speaker 4: But I took it in.

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Speaker 3: It said that my wife would have had to cheat

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Speaker 2: I know, it sounds like grandma's keeping something like it

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you think? Well, oh yeah, well what's

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Speaker 2: If?

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Speaker 4: If so? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Assuming that the Polish her and the Polish grandpa were

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Speaker 3: that makes it simple. But what if they were. She

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Speaker 5: I think that's exactly what she was doing.

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Speaker 2: But like, but if but if Polish Grandpa is infertile, yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe maybe she did. I believe that Polish Grandpa's like

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Speaker 3: So she took she took that little bit, and it's like,

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Speaker 4: Little dash on here.

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Speaker 2: And but maybe maybe maybe Polish Grandpa wasn't infertile. But

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Speaker 2: he wasn't like he wasn't told that, and so like

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Speaker 3: Probably knew because they probably were trying doing the deed, and.

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Speaker 4: She's like, I'm not getting any buns in my oven.

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Speaker 2: And all of a sudden, someone else, this family friend,

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Speaker 5: Oh boy,