WEBVTT - Getting Down To The Medium 0:00:01.120 --> 0:00:04.760 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:16.960 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello, Hello, welcome to 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:20.960 another episode of Reasonably Shady. My name is Giselle Bryant's 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.480 what's up? What's up? And I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:25.800 again for being here with us, and I apologize for 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.600 my congested voice. Yes, Robin is trying to sound sexy today. 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:33.400 She's trying to sound sexy, all right, So, as per normal, 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:35.720 we gotta give our reasonably Shady moments of the week. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:45.000 M do you have one? Go first? Okay, I'll go first. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:48.120 I'll go first, so everybody knows. You know, I have 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.520 a whole lot of construction workers that are at my home. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:54.120 They've been here for like about two years on and off, 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:58.040 and they're normally very good. They're quiet. Maybe they'll have 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.640 like some soft music playing as their doing whatever it 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:03.200 is that they're doing. So not soft music, but that 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:05.840 you know, like Whitney Houston, no soft music is and 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:08.400 it's not loud, yeah, but music that I cannot understand. 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:11.960 They do speak Spanish, okay, and this is a caveat 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:17.160 My daughter Angel speaks like almost fluent Spanish. She's Spanish 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:23.000 fluent ish, she's an honor Spanish, and um, I needs 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:27.319 to tutor Corey. Corey gotta eat and Spanish that's beyond 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:31.520 and F that's that's an F the equivalent of an okay, 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:35.720 So we'll set that up later. Anyway, this it was 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:39.080 like earlier in the week, the men got to a 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:43.160 little tip for tat or their their voices started raising. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.400 They were going back and forth. They were like and 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:48.600 yam yan and bingadan dong. And I was like, oh 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:51.280 my god, my god, I think this is a fight. 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:54.440 So I run and I get camera. I didn't put 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:55.760 my camera and I was like trying to give them 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:57.360 their space. But I run and I go get Angel, 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.160 and I was like, Angel, what are they saying? What 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:02.760 are they talking about? So she's listening and I'm like, 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:04.520 give me the tea. Give me because if you're gonna 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:08.200 fight anywhere near me, I understand, I need I need 0:02:08.280 --> 0:02:11.440 to tea. So she was like, my, I think that 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.079 they are like not happy. It's nothing to do with 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.040 my house. Like they weren't fighting over the work that 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.680 was going on. Had person it was personal. I had 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:20.679 something to do with I don't even know what. But 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:23.760 bottom line to this story, this is the shady part. 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:26.480 The shady part is if you're in my home, you 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:30.920 have to argue in English. Okay, you cannot argue in Spanish. Period, 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:34.639 end of story, because you want to know what's going 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:38.240 to Yes, I want to know what's going down, okay, um. 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:40.320 And I do have to say I enjoyed every minute 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:42.800 of it, even though it was in Spanish. It they 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.200 were going back and forth. Oh my gosh, it was 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.160 so good. I wonder if they were fighting over like 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.840 the same woman or something. I don't know. Angel was like, 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.120 I can't if the angels, like they're talking too fast. 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.560 I can't figure it out. And I think she came 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.200 in late to the argument, so she really couldn't, you know, 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.480 figure out exactly what was going down. But she said, 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:04.519 they're going it. Yes, I loved it. Yes, next time 0:03:04.560 --> 0:03:07.880 you need um what not captions? What is it? Subtitles? 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:10.280 I need subtitles, Yes, I do. I just do it 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:14.560 in English, damn it English? All right? What about you? 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:19.320 What you got? Okay, this is ridiculous. I'm just giving 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:23.520 myself the shady moment right now because I have blanked 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:29.919 or my shady moment. Okay, okay, it's so crazy like 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.679 when I was coming here, Um, you know, were So 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:36.160 we're filming two podcasts today, so I have my my 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:39.840 shady moment for my other podcast film. I had two 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:42.720 of them or record. Um, so he's saying film because 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:45.800 we film a TV show. So I was coming here. 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.040 I was like, Okay, I got my shady moments. And 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:53.400 I cannot remember my shady moments. Okay, but it's fine 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.560 because we've got other things to do. I'm going to 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.920 remember it though at some point during this broadcast. Yes, 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:01.560 and I'm going to tell you my shady moment. Okay. 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:05.680 All right. So this is a special podcast for us 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:10.000 today because we have decided to have our lives either 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:14.600 be blown up or I don't know, I don't know 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:16.440 what we're doing today. We need, we need to learn 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.839 more about our sins. We're gonna learn more about ourselves. 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:25.839 So this is affectionately entitled getting down to the Medium. Yes, 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:28.880 that's what we're calling today because we have a very 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.440 special guest, which we're really excited about. He reached out 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.520 to us and he said he wanted to, you know, 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:37.800 get down and dirty with our lives. Um, not really, 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:39.680 He just asked if he could chick chat with us, 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.560 and we were like yes, because we want to know 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.159 all about like we want to have like a psychic reading, 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.320 a medium or whatever. So I'm gonna let you introduce him, okay. 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:49.640 And I love, love, love love this type of stuff. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:52.760 I mean, I know some people like are scared of 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.840 psychics or mediums or um. I've had an experience with 0:04:56.920 --> 0:05:00.640 the medium before and it was I mean it was 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:04.800 a like life changing experience, and so I'm always down 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.480 to kind of learn a little bit more. Um. But 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:11.640 you know, I don't want to know everything, So we'll 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.360 see what what our guest has for us. I want 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.120 to know everything. I want to know the nitty and 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:18.680 the gritty. I know, I know, but I mean it's 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:21.480 such a fun thing, like whether you're into it or not, 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:24.719 like it's still fun to like witness and to see 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:28.400 the reactions and see how one point they are, um, 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:30.239 all that type of stuff. And I'm gonna be honest, 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.440 if he is talking crazy and it's not making any sense, 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:36.680 I'm just gonna let him know. You are wrong. You're wrong, man, 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:42.839 You're wrong, right, So get ready for a different kind 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:46.920 of psychic, real, raw and unfiltered. Chris Medina, The Howard 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:51.159 Stern of Psychics represents a whole new brand of spiritual talent. 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:54.880 A natural born psychic coming from a long line of 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:59.400 apaching Native American psychics, Chris Medina started giving informal readings 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:02.200 at the age of three and spent his time as 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:05.960 a young adult gaining confidence in his abilities. Throughout his life, 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.320 Chris also has been able to communicate with spirits and 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:12.640 those who have passed on. In his late thirties, Chris 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:16.240 Medina's guides told him it was time to start his path, 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:20.400 and he began giving psychic and medium readings full time. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:23.520 Since then, Chris has been featured on a number of 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:29.440 major publications, podcasts, and television broadcasts, including Ease, Daily and Nightly, Pop, 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:33.000 The Real, and more. His ultimate goal is to offer 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.640 no bullshit spiritual advice that helps the masses overcome their 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:43.719 blocks to evolve their lives and souls. Yes, okay, Chris, 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:47.960 welcome to reasonably Shady podcasts and are so happy to 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:52.040 have you. Thank you so much ladies for having me on. 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:54.240 It's been a it's a pleasure. Thank you, thank you, 0:06:54.320 --> 0:06:56.480 thank you, thank you. And you're that last line of 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.800 your bio actually really kind of stuck out to me 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:02.720 because I do feel like with me, along with a 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:04.720 lot of the rest of the world, like we do 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:06.920 have blocks when it comes to like our life and 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:09.600 where we're going, and you know what, what do what 0:07:09.720 --> 0:07:12.320 do we see for our lives? Or sometimes you're like 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:15.600 praying for direction and you just don't know like which 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:18.640 way to go. So you know that that part really 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:20.120 stuck out to me. So maybe you can tell me 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:22.760 something like I'm going to be the next I mean, 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:27.320 you know, let's be truthful. Yeah, let's be truthful here. 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:29.920 A good majority of time, what's always in our way 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:32.600 is going to be us. I mean, unless you're under 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:34.520 the unless you're under age and your parents that are 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:36.400 holding you back, not letting you do what you need 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:38.840 to be doing. Here, you reach that eighteen, you reach 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.720 out adult those adult years, it's all you. And I 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:43.520 think what ends up happening with people when they go 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.880 and get a psychic reading is that they want that 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:49.160 with all due respect, that love and life type of 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:51.560 hit that tell me all these good vibes, tell me 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:55.120 all nothing but positive stuff here. Well, I would love to, 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:56.960 but let's first let's get rid of the ship that's 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:59.760 blocking you from that positivity. Let's get you out of 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:01.840 your own way so you can move forward. And I 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:03.560 feel like a lot of times, yeah, what if people 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:06.160 end up doing is they want to know about past lives. 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.240 They're so distracted by what's going on in this lifetime. 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:12.000 They're looking for anything to take them away from their problems. Now, 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.000 So let's dip in the past and see what's going 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:16.760 what happened there, and you'll find Psychics will tell people 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:19.960 you've got all this past trauma. Well that's great, but 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.680 what are we doing about this lifetime now? How are 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.280 we fixing this one? Let's take care of that blocking 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:27.880 us now. So that's where I come in. I I am. 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:30.880 I'm gonna keep it real. I I let a pretty 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.480 normal life. I worked in the insurance initiative for almost 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:37.000 twenty years. I have two kids. I've done the regular 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.240 stuff here coming in doing the psychic stuff. And when 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.120 of my guides came and told me that this is time, 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:43.319 I said, the only way I'm gonna do this is 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.959 if I can do this the right way. I want 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:48.640 to undo, not take away what everybody else did before me, 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:53.719 but undo the stigma and also undo the the love 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.959 enlightenmentality behind peach. Will we use tarot cards, we wear 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.040 turbans on our heads, we use crystals. I want to 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:02.640 keep it real and focus on you. That's what I'm doing, right, 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:06.679 I love it, and I You're right, I know for me, 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:09.920 like what's stopping me is me and no one and 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:14.679 nothing else. And so okay, so Chris, how are we 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:18.240 doing that? Because I'm nervous, right, I'm nervous. How are 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:19.640 we doing this? Are you gonna read me first? And 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.920 then Robert? Are you gonna read this together? What is 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.800 about to go down? Okay? I can go back and forth. 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.559 I want to kind of start with Robin first and 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.679 then start and then that way you can hear and 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.199 you can get your questions ready, because you know the 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:34.839 difference between Robin and Giselle is Robin is more like 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.320 just give it to me and and and Giselle needs 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:40.040 more kind to process what's going on, not not not 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:44.040 because she's slower, not because she's slower, but because she 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:49.719 has to listen to every single thing. And then and 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:51.480 then she'll jump in and be like, okay, my tire, 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:53.360 and then she'll jump yeah, I got it. But Robin, 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:55.200 I have nothing negative to give you I'm not gonna 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:57.040 tell you anything that you don't already know about yourself. 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.280 But when I talk about personal stuff, I want to 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:03.679 talk about how you receive love. I want to talk 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.600 about that because I feel like, and you can slap 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:07.120 me if you want to on this one, but I 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:10.079 feel like you talk a good game and you suppress 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:14.200 what's really going on inside of you out of out 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:17.120 of fear. En wait a minute, not because you're you're 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:19.160 a pussy or because you don't want to deal with it, 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.040 but because things can get so real and you have 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:24.160 to have a certain amount of self control when it 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:27.280 comes to certain things that everything else evolves around you, 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:30.199 and you're kind of like, I'm not, with all due respect, 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.120 this isn't This isn't saying this because you're stubborn and 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.000 you don't want to change. But it's kind of like, 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:37.240 fuck if I go that route, But if I don't 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.720 like what I see? What if? What if I don't 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.640 like the person that I'm becoming and I make an 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:45.839 ass out of myself or even worse, I go and 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.000 I take the initial steps to do all this, and 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:50.480 the rug is swept out from underneath me, and I 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:53.040 feel like, with you your guides are constantly telling you 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:55.880 when it comes to you to take yourself out of 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.679 your comfort zone. But it's a warm it's cozy, you 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:01.640 know that spot very well. But you're gonna slap me 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:06.719 for this one. It's self sabotaging. You are worth so 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.080 much more than that you were born. You were brought 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:10.800 here in this lifetime. If you want me to do 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:12.600 the past life, we'll do it really really quick here. 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.920 But in the past lives you suffer from the same 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:18.000 ship you're suffing from in this lifetime now, which is love. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.480 And you always what ends up happening to you is 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:23.360 you end up getting involved in these relationships or even 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:28.120 people not not necessary lovers that can drain you, or 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:33.679 that can be emotionally clinging, clingier than you Jesus Christ. 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:35.839 So you end up you end up kind of like 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.319 not getting back what you're putting in. And I'm not 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:40.199 no disrespect to your due now or who you're with 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.400 or whatever you've got going on here. But if if 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.000 this is gonna work, they and you're gonna I know, 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.240 I'm gonna get hit for this one. They have to 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.760 know how to put Robin in her place, not put 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:51.160 her in the back seat of the car and tell 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:52.679 her to sit her out there and be quiet. We're 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:55.040 not going with that one. I'm talking about making sure 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:57.959 they can hold you down emotionally, because when when it 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:00.920 comes to your emotions, look, no mistake, you're a very 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:04.320 beautiful woman, but you've got the emotions of a mask. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:09.439 You got a you've got a masculine emotion. Chris, you're 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:14.679 unnailing this. What is happening? I am? I do so? 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:18.839 This is this is all Yeah, this is all about 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.559 for allowing yourself the opportunity. This is big right here, 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:26.559 to forgive yourself because you what I like about you, 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.199 and I'm girl, I'm gonna get to you next to 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.079 you about what I like about you. Don't be no, no, 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.120 you've been doing this for a very long time on 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.640 your own, very independent, very only only no my way, 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:41.480 which is Robin's way. You can relax a little bit, 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:44.000 you can let go, and you can allow yourself the 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.439 opportunity to authentically smile and authentically get the love that 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:49.800 you're looking for. Because with you, I feel like what 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.080 ends up happening is that you have this again one 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:54.000 more time with the self control. You've got everything so 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.240 much under control. That there's not enough wiggle room, and 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.559 I feel like with you it has to be exhausting 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:04.920 all of time to always be like that. Okay, um, 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:07.959 but if you were to let me, let me just 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:09.160 end it with this one right here, and then I'll 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:11.959 open it for questions. You know what needs to be done. 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:14.760 So if you're worried about having a bad life, or 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:17.000 you're worried about not getting it or things sucking up, 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.200 tell me if this is wrong. At the eleventh hour 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:22.199 with you every single time where whether you want it 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:25.480 to or not, your guides, God, Angel's messages, whatever it 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.160 is that you believe in, Buddha Allah come in at 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:31.479 the eleventh hour and take you out of that situation 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:33.800 to get you to see things for what they are. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.559 Remember you are very protective and very guided. Lean on 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:40.640 that every now and then. That's what I have for you. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:43.360 Do you have questions for Him? For you? Because I 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:46.360 got I mean, I'll let you ask you. I'm trying 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:48.440 to like, I'm trying to like take that in. I mean, 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:52.959 it's definitely I feel like, are you when you're saying this? 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:55.920 Are you? Are you speaking more so in like with 0:13:56.080 --> 0:14:02.360 respect to just like my relationships or my I'll say 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.719 career or you know, just my overall being. You know 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:09.880 what I mean, like your over your overall being you 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.679 you I feel like again, And forgive me for saying this, 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:14.680 because this is such a fun up thing for somebody 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.319 to tell another person. But you are too. How do 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.880 you tell somebody you're too strong for your own goods 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:23.840 sometimes and you're impatience and your frustration because and here's where, 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:25.360 here's where I'm gonna I'm gonna be real with this. 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.600 A lot of people tell me, you know, Chris, I 0:14:28.640 --> 0:14:30.880 feel like I'm empathic. I feel like I'm intuitive. A 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.760 good majority of people are. Whether you choose to listen 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:35.640 to it or not is a different story. And I 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:37.600 feel like the both of you and you too, Javel 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:39.680 when it comes to you, guys, the reason why you 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.520 guys vibe with each other is you guys are very intuitive. 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:45.280 But you guys pick up on the intention of other people. 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:47.400 So and Robin, this is big for you. So if 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:50.080 the intention from the other person isn't correct, guess what 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:52.360 that's gonna do to you. It's gonna cause you to 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:55.160 be Staticy, you're picking up on too much, and what 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.200 ends up happening because you've been on survival mode for 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:00.280 so long. It infultrates you, and your the one that 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:02.200 ends up acting out or you're the one that ends 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:04.000 up having to take a toll on you. Well the 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:08.880 other person gets to go around be politically ignorant about you. Okay, 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:15.120 Chris is pissed. Okay because because but Robin, how many 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.120 times have people told you, oh, Brol you start ship 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:19.840 or or this this matter whatever it's Are you really 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.000 starting ship? Are you just speaking up? Speaking up? Yeah, 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:27.040 just speaking up. But I mean it's funny. I am 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:30.280 very I can I can turn my emotions off, I 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:33.120 can disconnect, but I do. But it is also and 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.960 I've actually, um, it's so funny because this is like 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:38.400 stuff that which is this probably sounds like familiar to 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:41.160 that I shared this season why we can't really talk 0:15:41.200 --> 0:15:44.120 a lot about the show, but um, this is I 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.960 was this past season that we filmed. It was a 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:50.080 very introspective season for me where I kind of had 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:53.240 to talk about what was maybe like stopping me or 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.360 preventing me from do certain things. And it's kind of 0:15:55.480 --> 0:16:00.240 actually everything that you're saying, like, um a fear um 0:16:00.360 --> 0:16:02.320 just you know, being able to turn my emotions off 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:06.400 and be very like disconnect um. But also for me, 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:10.520 like a fear of getting so big or so successful 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:14.840 that I fail, Like that's that's my my fear. It's 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:16.800 so weird, Like I know that I have so much 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:18.880 at my fingertips and at my you know, I have 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:21.880 so much in here that I can that can take 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:26.360 me so far. But the fear of crashing is like 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:36.920 what holds me back? So my question would be for robbing, 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:40.960 like what how can she prevent that? What can she 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:45.520 do to stop that from happening? She needs to realize 0:16:45.560 --> 0:16:48.880 that being emotional or shutting off those emotionals is a 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:51.400 defense mechanism. Just because you have them does not make 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:53.600 you vulnerable, It does not make you a weak as 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:56.200 person to to you just got to be selective on 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:58.440 who you're sharing that with and who and who you 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:00.600 allow to see that when it comes to you. But 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.200 I feel like again with you, with you, there's just 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.680 always again, uh, with you, there's always lessons or whether 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:07.520 my girl Robin chooses to see them for what they 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.960 are when they're being presented to her is a different story, 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:12.560 especially when you're mad or you've lost your ship there 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:16.040 because you don't see anything other than that that anger sometimes, 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:17.639 So I feel like with you, you have to understand 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.120 something when it comes to you. You've already you've jumped 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.400 so many fucking hurdles in this lifetime. You know you're 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.119 gonna tell me you're here's where you're gonna beat me. 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.840 Now you're gonna tell me you're afraid of fucking success 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:32.800 after all that you've been through. Your right, You're right, 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:37.320 you're right, So take take something. You don't have to 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:40.520 have this, and again, be good to yourself. You don't 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:43.959 have to have this all figured out in twenty minutes. Virgo, 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:47.280 We're gonna go. You don't have to have it figured 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:50.200 out in twenty minutes. You you, you take the time 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:51.920 that you need. This is a process here, This is 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:53.879 where I tell people, I'll give you five years of 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:56.560 therapy in thirty minutes. You got to go find your 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:58.800 process because I'm not you. And if you were to 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:00.840 ask me, Chris, how did you do it? I didn't 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:02.480 have a choice. When my guides come in and they 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:04.879 tell me you've got to jump, I've learned not to 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:08.840 question them. So I'm different. I I can't. I can't. 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:10.800 I don't have time to think like that, they just 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:11.879 throw it in there, and this is what you have 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:13.840 to be doing. So let me just let me just 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:16.280 let me just reiterate with you really faster. I'm not 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:18.400 worried about your future. The only thing I'm worried about 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.000 is you getting in your way. But I feel like 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:22.800 you're you're being shown so much of that happening that 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.400 something has to click, something's going to come in that's 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:27.560 going to force a different direction for you. So go 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:30.159 and seize it. Let go and if you have questions, 0:18:30.240 --> 0:18:31.639 or you need guidance, or you need get inside, or 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:32.879 you need somebody to give it to you in a 0:18:32.920 --> 0:18:35.480 way that you need that that you only understand. Hit 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:37.840 me up. But you don't have. But you are not 0:18:38.000 --> 0:18:39.800 You are not You're not somebody. I don't care what 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:42.280 any other psychic tells you. You're not someone that requires 0:18:42.320 --> 0:18:44.719 a ton of psychic insight. You probably know more than 0:18:44.760 --> 0:18:47.960 those people that you're going to know what needs to 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:50.560 be done. I mean, that's that's Chris, no bulls, no 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:53.840 epecially no you. I mean you got me down. I 0:18:53.880 --> 0:18:57.280 would definitely say you got me down. You got That's 0:18:57.280 --> 0:18:59.119 what I have for you. Are you ready? Are you 0:18:59.160 --> 0:19:01.760 ready to Oh no, I'm not ready, but we go. Boy, 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:04.959 all right, So I'm gonna, I'm gonna. I'm gonna keep 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:05.960 it real here. I don't have to. I don't have 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:08.359 anything negative to give you as well either. I feel 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:12.000 like with you, you've got so many ideas, so many 0:19:12.080 --> 0:19:14.479 things going on in your head that I wonder when 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:17.359 you're gonna get to yourself. And what I mean by 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:19.680 that is, I'm not saying that you're following people around 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:21.600 and you're meddling in other people's lives here, but you're 0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:23.639 so fast with with your way thinking. You've got twenty 0:19:23.920 --> 0:19:26.000 You're the kind of person that can juggle twenty different 0:19:26.040 --> 0:19:28.000 things at one time. And I throw one more at 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:29.440 you and your ass might look at me with a 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:31.399 dirty look, but you're still gonna be juggling it. You're 0:19:31.440 --> 0:19:33.679 still gonna keep it going. You need to allow yourself 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:36.520 the opportunity to to see things for what they are 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:38.600 and be I know you're gonna hate this. To be 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:45.240 more present. That is such a psychic thing to tell 0:19:45.320 --> 0:19:47.680 somebody to be more present. But with you, you have 0:19:47.720 --> 0:19:50.360 to understand something. People don't think the way that you think, 0:19:50.560 --> 0:19:52.960 and you can get impatient because it takes you what 0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:55.080 what what you see clearly in the way that you 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:57.639 size things up and that keen eye that you have. 0:19:58.240 --> 0:20:00.320 It has to be frustrating that to how all this 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:02.320