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Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jayden is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Trish.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Jaden, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Trish?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man, it's been over four days now.

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Speaker 3: So, oh, are you sure she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I can kind of give you the

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Speaker 4: whole rundown, but like for sure, because we were talking

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Speaker 4: a lot, I mean, doing a lot of texting, voice recording,

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Speaker 4: and now it just went from every you know, hour

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Speaker 4: or so to nothing four days and we went on

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Speaker 4: at two and that's kind of where after that date,

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Speaker 4: that's where I have not heard anything from her.

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Speaker 3: Well, what happened on the date?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, so I went to this place called

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Speaker 4: you know that place. It's kind of like a bougie bar.

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Speaker 4: It's got a kind of TVs and it's kind of

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Speaker 4: it's slick, you know, it's got those like Wagoo sliders.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean it's super fun. It's loud,

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Speaker 4: and you know it's kind of one of those places

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Speaker 4: where you could hang and kind of vibe. And I

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Speaker 4: think we were really vibing there. I mean she was

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Speaker 4: the last time of my jokes, I mean my corny

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Speaker 4: you know kind of daddy jokes, and I mean we

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Speaker 4: were like locked in nine.

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Speaker 3: Dad jokes, daddy jokes. I love that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean I was like feeding her drinks and

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Speaker 4: I was giving her like proper whiskey cheese, and you know,

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Speaker 4: we were like definitely like making eye contact and she

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Speaker 4: was impressed. I could tell there was definitely sparks there.

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Speaker 4: It's just wow. It just didn't feel like a job interview.

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Speaker 4: You know, I've been in so many dates that just

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Speaker 4: feel like, here's my resume, this is who I am.

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Speaker 4: But this looks like we were vibing. So I had

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Speaker 4: a good time. But I got admit that I kind

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Speaker 4: of overindulged a little. I mean I think I forgot

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Speaker 4: to pay the bill, but I mean I checked my

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Speaker 4: card statement and there was nothing there. Oh yeah, So

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Speaker 4: I feel bad. I feel like I maybe she thinks

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Speaker 4: I'm a cheap skate or something. But because it was

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Speaker 4: I even asked her to come, you know, in for

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Speaker 4: a little bit afterwards, for a nightcap and a little backscratches,

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Speaker 4: like not a creepy way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what did she say to that?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. I mean I thought we

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Speaker 3: So did she go in for backscratches or no?

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Speaker 4: I mean she it was really quick. She came in,

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Speaker 4: said good night, and she left real quick, real fast.

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Speaker 4: And I've texted her a couple of times since. And

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Speaker 4: then there was nothing. I mean, I know, I had

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Speaker 4: was just something about that bill that maybe I still

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Speaker 4: haven't figured it all out yet.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you a second date if you

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Speaker 2: still want one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, please, I really want to know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get your first date follow up right after this.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for Today's first Date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Jaden is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a woman named Trish. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him a second date. But first, Jaden,

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Speaker 2: why don't you recap your date for us real quick?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I've been talking to Trish for a couple of weeks,

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Speaker 4: and you know, we went out to get some drinks

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Speaker 4: I haven't heard a thing in four days.

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Speaker 3: Well, you're ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: Please do?

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Speaker 3: Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Trish please.

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is Trish.

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Speaker 2: Hey Trish, how are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi Tris. I'm mina Hyan Victorian and my name is Jubil.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 4: Hi? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, right, Hey, we'll check it out sometimes, Trish, I

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Speaker 2: would love to have you see what you think of it.

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Speaker 2: But we're calling you today because one of our listeners,

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Speaker 2: but who does know the show, actually sent us an

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Speaker 2: email about you and wanted us to call you.

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Speaker 4: They did.

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Speaker 2: Why, Well, we do a segment on our show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the first Date follow up. That is, if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and then you

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Speaker 2: ghost them, the person you're ghosting can email us and

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Speaker 2: ask us to get you on the phone and ask

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Speaker 2: why you're ghosting. So we're calling you about someone that

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Speaker 2: you are currently not talking to.

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Speaker 3: So who are you ghosting?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, oh my god, all right, I already know

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Speaker 1: like this has to be about Jayden?

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Speaker 2: Yes it is, Trish. We talked to Jaden. He told

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Speaker 2: us all about your date, said he really likes you,

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Speaker 2: but he can't figure out why you're not getting back

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Speaker 2: to him and wondering if you have a moment to

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I mean that's fine.

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Speaker 4: I just say this is awkward.

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Speaker 1: I mean I guess Okay, he was really like clastered

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Speaker 1: on our date. Did he mention that at all.

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Speaker 3: He study over indulged a little bit. He didn't think

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Speaker 3: he was that yeah that drunk.

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Speaker 1: Oh guys, he was like white girl wasted. Like I

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Speaker 1: had to drive his car home. I had to drive

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, how did you get home?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I had to call him for a ride at his

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Speaker 1: place waiting while he's just like so sloppy and actually

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Speaker 1: what did he say? He was like a nightcap and

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Speaker 1: like backscratches.

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Speaker 4: Which.

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Speaker 3: The backscratches.

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Speaker 2: We thought that might be a little week We were

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Speaker 2: wondering if you got the backscratches.

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Speaker 1: No, I did not partake. I like honestly, he was

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Speaker 1: Like I just thought we had some good banter, Like

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Speaker 1: But like honestly, he just kept going, like somewhere around

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Speaker 1: So I mean, honestly, the night just was a blast,

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for telling us why, Trish. I will

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Speaker 2: also let you know that Jaden is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and just heard all that and wants.

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Speaker 3: To talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Oh try, I mean, that's why you go to me

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Speaker 4: because I had a couple too many shots.

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Speaker 1: This was about the boo the bell. No, like nothing's

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Speaker 1: wrong with the bell. I mean you you paid the bell,

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Speaker 1: and thank you. I mean he took out that metal card.

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Speaker 1: You just wouldn't like not stop showing off and talking

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Speaker 1: about and you you even actually you bought a round

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Speaker 4: I did. Oh man, Okay, I guess that's on me.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I was a little bit too drunk, but uh,

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Speaker 1: Oh kid, he like slurred the words wag you sliders.

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Speaker 4: You kept saying wag you sliders.

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Speaker 1: He tried to high fight the server when she brought

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Speaker 4: Like sound hilarious, a Tricia, I mean we did have

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Speaker 4: like two drinks that's it. No shots, honestly, no shots

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Speaker 4: and maybe, uh this time we'll just get.

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Speaker 3: Desserted, Trish, would you like to go with Jane again?

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Speaker 3: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, Steve man, like it was messy. What if

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Speaker 4: I told you that you scratched my rims when you

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Speaker 4: I don't like you that much. We did. I seriously did.

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Speaker 4: I mean, don't really one card to the left side. It's

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, I mean I really like I apologize for that.

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Speaker 1: Like I was like honestly trying to get out of there.

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Speaker 1: I never drove a car like that, so like I

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, I mean, can you make it up to me?

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Speaker 2: By what do you think Trisha? Make it up to him?

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Speaker 2: You know that way you don't pay for the rim

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Speaker 2: at all, you know, thousand money.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm being you know, like blackmailed into

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Speaker 1: this e bit. But like, honestly, he is funny, and

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Speaker 1: I mean I did really think that we did get

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Speaker 1: out of control. But like I am, I do feel

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Speaker 4: But like I mean, don't worry about it. Let's not

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Speaker 4: make it about the rims. Just kind of say yes,

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Speaker 4: because you know that we might have something fun.

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Speaker 3: He likes.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I mean you know, okay, yeah, let's let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Sure, I mean, but if you get waited again experiencely,

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Speaker 1: first date Ball