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Speaker 1: What's up, Vatterination. We are back and we are live

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Speaker 1: from the Mental all another episode a Happy Hour. It's

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Speaker 1: uh me, Joe and Serena.

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Speaker 2: And Serena and we have John B here with us

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Speaker 2: as well.

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Speaker 1: John B is our first day the night. We have

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Speaker 1: a lot of people coming on, a.

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Speaker 2: Whole lineup of men and ready to tell.

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Speaker 1: From what I'm being told right now, John, you have

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Speaker 1: some fans trying to get photos in right now, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. It's been amazing. It's been overwhelming, but I love it.

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Speaker 1: How overall, what was your your favorite moment of tonight.

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Speaker 3: To night? I mean seeing Gary was incredible.

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Speaker 4: The heartfelt story, I mean what he had with his

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Speaker 4: you know, passway wife. That's That's what I'm looking for,

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Speaker 4: in the fact that he was already able to experience

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Speaker 3: I think it is an inspiration for us all.

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Speaker 4: And he was looking for advice from us, but like, dude,

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Speaker 4: he has all the advice, Like I want to learn

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a cute conversation because he was looking

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Speaker 2: at you guys being like, what am I getting myself into?

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Speaker 2: And you guys were looking at him being like Gary, like,

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Speaker 1: He yeah, he was on this podcast and he did

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Speaker 1: the same. He asked us for advice, and my arrogant

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Speaker 1: What about with Charity. You feel like you got closure tonight.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I did.

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Speaker 4: You know, I was really surprised when I got let go,

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Speaker 4: going to go to hometowns with, and that makes sense,

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Speaker 4: you know, And so you know, I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: All Right, we uh, we don't. Obviously you can't tease anything,

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Speaker 3: But are there.

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Speaker 1: Any girls within batter Nation that you are interested in?

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Speaker 3: Any good that's spicy? I mean, there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: I'm open to really anything.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I have a particular type, and I

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Speaker 4: I think that Mercedes is beautiful. I think she's definitely.

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Speaker 1: That's all I want it, that's all I wanted.

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Speaker 3: Details. I gave it to you.

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Speaker 1: And you are? You said you live in New York.

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Speaker 2: It is a hard question. I remember being put on

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Speaker 4: So on my bacheloration questionnaire, I put Joey, Warick and

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Speaker 2: Wow, the real love story.

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Speaker 4: But man, that dude tug himself a grave that is tough,

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Speaker 3: He's he's genuinely a good guy.

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Speaker 4: Like nothing apart from this whole journey has made me

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Speaker 5: Than a stand up guy.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, he obviously said the wrong things, and Charity

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Speaker 2: Happens to John. We were huge fans of you this season.

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Speaker 2: We're so glad we got the chance to chat with you.

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Speaker 2: And thanks for coming on to Happy Hour today.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I appreciate you guys. Thanks for taking the time.

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Speaker 1: All right up in the batter's box, everyone, we have

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Speaker 6: How he feeling I'm feeling good. I'm good.

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Speaker 7: I actually listened to you all and when they when

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since you've heard someone call

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Speaker 5: It's been a while.

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Speaker 7: So when I interned at Barstool, I was like just

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Speaker 6: Like what is he doing here?

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Speaker 7: Pulled me up in front of the Camera's like you're

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Speaker 6: I'm like, I cannot believe this is coming out right now.

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Speaker 8: That's so funny.

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Speaker 2: Wow, your world have really collide. Collided, collided, moved from barstool,

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Speaker 2: were almost there, I was, I was one syllable, but

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Speaker 5: What I think? So that went well.

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Speaker 6: You can't show everything.

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Speaker 6: I love Tanner.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't that awkward because we're boys, but it is

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Speaker 6: Thought they're any special.

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Speaker 7: I thought there would be be able for us to

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Speaker 5: At that point.

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Speaker 1: You took a shot and it didn't pay off, but

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Speaker 2: So Yeah, I like hearing your perspective on these situations

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Speaker 2: because I feel like you've done a few things throughout

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Speaker 2: Like even you talking about on the Barbie date coming

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Speaker 2: be there. I'm like, that totally makes sense to me

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Speaker 2: now why he did that. So I'm glad we had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, last last question before before you go, what are

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a great question.

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Speaker 7: I think one of the best parts about this experience

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Speaker 6: Like he was the.

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Speaker 7: It's not though, And that's like this opportunity like change

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Speaker 6: Now I'm still out there, I'm still looking for it.

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Speaker 7: But this was really an incredible journey, and I'm glad

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Speaker 7: because most people have the same reactions that you guys did,

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Speaker 7: is like, oh this is you know, he's kind of

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I never.

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Speaker 1: Thought you were a kakay asshole. I actually, I mean honestly,

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Speaker 1: I watched it and there was a few moments where

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Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. We really appreciate you taking

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much. It was great to have

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Speaker 2: you here.

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Speaker 6: It was great to meet Wait, oh god.

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Speaker 2: Tonight, you did amazing.

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Speaker 8: Thanks you want to say that, I'll stand up there

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Speaker 8: you give me this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go.

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Speaker 2: What a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: All right, Next up, we have we.

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Speaker 2: Got the Bachelor at a spontaneous interview.

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Speaker 8: Nice, I'm crashing interviews. Who am I follow?

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Speaker 3: Sean? What's up?

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Speaker 1: Charity?

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Speaker 9: Hello?

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Speaker 10: How are you guys?

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Speaker 8: I'm feeling good. It was a good time.

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Speaker 2: You did great. What were some highlights for you?

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Speaker 9: Honestly, I think obviously seeing all of the guys and

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Speaker 9: just getting ready to like getting the opportunity to hear

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Speaker 9: was difficult but necessary.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, yes, and you have that knitted rose to

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Speaker 2: forever remember that conversation.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 8: I was like, thank you for this.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure if you are with somebody now, they're probably

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: Do you have your finales coming up? Anything you want

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Speaker 2: to tease?

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Speaker 9: Oh my god, it's just lots of tears, tears everywhere.

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Speaker 9: It's gonna be crazy. There's gonna be a plot twist.

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Speaker 9: I think that a lot of us probably aren't really expecting.

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Speaker 9: And then again, like I said, it's just like really

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Speaker 8: I've said it several times in like the.

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Speaker 9: Previews, just like being in a place where I'm in

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Speaker 9: love with two people and having to reach a decision.

448
00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:14,119
Speaker 9: So that part it's never easy. But yeah, it's gonna be.

449
00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,800
Speaker 9: It's gonna be an emotional rat for sure.

450
00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:18,840
Speaker 2: As much as it's going to be hard to watch

451
00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,080
Speaker 2: the finale and ride that wave. Are you excited for

452
00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:22,960
Speaker 2: the season to be done? How are you feeling about it?

453
00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,360
Speaker 8: I'm so excited. I mean if I'm giving it away,

454
00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:29,400
Speaker 8: I don't care. I'm happy, So I'm ready.

455
00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,639
Speaker 1: As well as you're happy, that's all that matters. That

456
00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,840
Speaker 1: was the goal of this show was for you to

457
00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:38,320
Speaker 1: be happy, exactly quick quick xavior question. And then I

458
00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:39,320
Speaker 1: have one more question.

459
00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:39,600
Speaker 3: If that.

460
00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,200
Speaker 1: Xavier, if he would have had that conversation with you

461
00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:48,880
Speaker 1: on his first one on one, how do you think

462
00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,879
Speaker 1: that would have went. If he's still because you know

463
00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,639
Speaker 1: when he was like, yes, I I don't want to

464
00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,440
Speaker 1: cheat on you. If he would have, if he would

465
00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,800
Speaker 1: have ended it then do you think you would have

466
00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:01,520
Speaker 1: kept them around?

467
00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:03,960
Speaker 10: H Yeah, I would have known.

468
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,320
Speaker 8: And that's just I mean, it's plain and simple.

469
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,119
Speaker 9: It's like I work with the information that I get

470
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,840
Speaker 9: in those moments and in those conversations. So that's the

471
00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,439
Speaker 9: tricky part of just being in this position is like

472
00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,639
Speaker 9: I don't feel like at all times I'm getting everything

473
00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,720
Speaker 9: that I need, and that's up to me to also

474
00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,200
Speaker 9: like ask these questions. So I think obviously without even

475
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:26,000
Speaker 9: knowing like that was a part of his past, I

476
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,560
Speaker 9: did ask about past relationships, and like that never came up.

477
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 8: Like I asked all the questions about his relationships.

478
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 9: He never thought like, oh, this is something that I

479
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:36,160
Speaker 9: need to share with charity. And I understand that it's

480
00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 9: a difficult conversation, but like it was a little I

481
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 9: and I told him I thought it was a little selfish,

482
00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,159
Speaker 9: like withold that for me up until that point, because

483
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,640
Speaker 9: for one, someone else could have been in that position

484
00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,320
Speaker 9: that I had a connection with. Whether or not that

485
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:51,720
Speaker 9: person was going to be my forever person, it doesn't matter.

486
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,160
Speaker 9: It's like you're now wasting my time and you're wasting

487
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 9: a space. But then also it's just why didn't you

488
00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:58,880
Speaker 9: share that, and it was the questions that.

489
00:19:58,840 --> 00:19:59,680
Speaker 8: Followed up after.

490
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,040
Speaker 9: It was never the fact that like, oh, this was

491
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,200
Speaker 9: something that a mistake was made in the past. I

492
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 9: told him time and time again, like I commend you

493
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 9: for like opening up about this, but like it's everything

494
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,280
Speaker 9: that came after, like the follow up questions that I

495
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:14,680
Speaker 9: had for him, that he just continued to like dig

496
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:15,520
Speaker 9: a deeper hole.

497
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:19,360
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean that that all that all makes sense.

498
00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:19,960
Speaker 10: It checks out.

499
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,440
Speaker 8: Joe approves of that answer.

500
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,199
Speaker 10: I agree.

501
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: I agree that the other one was I think his

502
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 1: name the cowboy Caleb Caleb, right, But you're like.

503
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 8: Oh my god, Joe was cracked.

504
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 1: What was he What was he thinking? He's like, I'm

505
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 1: the best, I was the best.

506
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, like it was him.

507
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,800
Speaker 9: I guess he wanted to get like the praise from me,

508
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 9: like m VP of all the group dates. I mean, yes,

509
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 9: I think everyone did great in group dates, but like

510
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 9: obviously for each group date, like there's a group date

511
00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,119
Speaker 9: Rose we know, But then the only group dates that

512
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,360
Speaker 9: he was on was the Dodgeball and then I think

513
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,239
Speaker 9: the ones he's really referring to his dodgeball and then

514
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,840
Speaker 9: the Barbie group Day. But it's like I don't know

515
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 9: what he really expected. My answer to me, I was like, yes,

516
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 9: it was great. The performance was fantastic, But I mean, like,

517
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 9: do you want a trophy for it?

518
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 2: So I'm not handing it roses based on Dodge rows vocal.

519
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 9: I was like, I'm sorry, like I'm looking also for

520
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 9: connection and just like other things.

521
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 1: But all right, last question and then we'll let you go.

522
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,919
Speaker 1: If you are with somebody, m what's the first thing

523
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 1: you guys are going to do in public?

524
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 9: Yeah, so if I am engaged and happily happy, I

525
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 9: would love to go to.

526
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 8: Perhaps maybe a concert.

527
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:48,800
Speaker 9: I love music, so I think that's something I'll check

528
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 9: off my list right away.

529
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,640
Speaker 2: Okay, biggest surprise of the night to end.

530
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:56,440
Speaker 8: It off, Yeah, biggest surprise at the night.

531
00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:00,640
Speaker 9: I mean I wasn't expecting to get that rose from Savior,

532
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 9: So that was like, I was like, what's happening. He's like,

533
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 9: I gotta I gotta go get something. I was like, please,

534
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 9: I don't want any surprises. So yes, it was a

535
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 9: surprise to me.

536
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,360
Speaker 8: So yes, they'll.

537
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 5: Hand in it.

538
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 8: I appreciate it.

539
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, yes, a surprising gesture all around for sure.

540
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 5: Just a little too late, little sorry about that buddy.

541
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: Maybe give to Caleb if he still wants a rose.

542
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 8: No, what, that's a splendid idea. Are they still here?

543
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:29,119
Speaker 3: All right?

544
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 1: Charity, thank you again for coming on. And I'm gonna

545
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: take a guess that you will probably be on again, so.

546
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 8: I think so, So I will bet it with you

547
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 8: guys soon.

548
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: All right, all right, Dodri here, Bye, Adrian? How are you?

549
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 3: I Will? How about you?

550
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm doing good. I'm doing good. How how do you

551
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: feel tonight went for you? In particular?

552
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 3: I feel like it went Will.

553
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 11: I feel like it was great to see the guys.

554
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 11: It was great to see Charity again.

555
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 3: I feel like it went. Will had a good time.

556
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 1: Good do you? Did you feel that you had a

557
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: connection at all with Charity while you were on the show.

558
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 3: We were building a connection.

559
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 11: I know it didn't show much, but we were building

560
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 11: a connection.

561
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: We had a great time. But I do feel like.

562
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 11: My actions probably did distract that from getting a little stronger,

563
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 11: especially saying that she kind of already had a connection

564
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 11: with Brada so stronger. I just feel like if I

565
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 11: would have done it differently, I probably would have waited,

566
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 11: if at all, to say anything about anything else that

567
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:41,400
Speaker 11: was going on.

568
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 10: But as far as me and her, I feel like

569
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 10: the time we had was great.

570
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 11: We talked about my daughter, you know, she embraced it

571
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 11: and you know, said she wanted to lead into the

572
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 11: process of that, you know, and that was great. So

573
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 11: we were building a great foundation, I think, based on

574
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 11: vulnerability and honesty.

575
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: And yeah, so that is that one thing you do

576
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: regret would be bringing up Brandon at all to charity,

577
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 1: you feel like that.

578
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 11: Just I don't regret it. I don't regret it because

579
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 11: like my intentions were pure. I wasn't really saying anything wrong.

580
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 11: That was just the truth of the matter, which everyone

581
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 11: got to see later, which no one is circling back

582
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 11: saying Adrian was trying to save everybody the drama, you know,

583
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 11: Like I just was the first one to see it,

584
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 11: and it was just pretty much like, hey, look, I

585
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 11: know that you're focused on trying to find the right one,

586
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 11: but it's also great to weed out the wrong ones

587
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 11: right away, you know. So I was just basically letting

588
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 11: her know what my intentions were while I was here,

589
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 11: and also what I also saw and what was going

590
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 11: on and people that were doubting the process and not

591
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,479
Speaker 11: really into it. Shouldn't be here. So that's what it

592
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 11: was about. But if I was to do it again,

593
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 11: I probably would have done.

594
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 10: It, but just differently. But I definitely still been honest.

595
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 10: I still would have been vulnerable with her and let

596
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:04,680
Speaker 10: her know why I'm here.

597
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 11: So yeah, I don't regret anything. If she sent me home,

598
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 11: it wasn't because of that. It was just because we

599
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,719
Speaker 11: didn't have a strong enough connection. So whether that was

600
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 11: because of the information or not, I think it would

601
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 11: have been the same as though.

602
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, I respect that.

603
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: So tonight we did have a big surprise as viewers

604
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: with the Peter drama, who I believe went home night

605
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 2: one read a lot of guys the wrong way, and

606
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 2: then we kind of saw that all unfold in front

607
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 2: of our eyes. Can you kind of shed a little

608
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 2: more light on what that situation was, maybe why he

609
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 2: upset everyone and how that led to the Instagram caption.

610
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 11: Yeah, so people had a bad, a bad interaction with Peter.

611
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 11: I did not personally, but he's cool, Like I didn't

612
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 11: talk too much, but everyone was saying that he was

613
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 11: really in a way that you know, he was treating everybody,

614
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,120
Speaker 11: and so everyone was like, yeah, like forget that guy,

615
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 11: you know, so like that was just kind of like

616
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 11: the running joke of like, you know, forget Peter, you know,

617
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 11: like that's just what it was. And a couple of

618
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 11: the guys did you know, the Instagram thing or whatever,

619
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 11: which I think they shouldn't have, but it is what

620
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 11: it is. It was all fun and games, and I

621
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 11: just don't understand that if the guys did take responsibility

622
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,640
Speaker 11: and apologize for why, that was the end of it.

623
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 11: You know, like I get it, you can feel the

624
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 11: way you feel, but you know, just go back and

625
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 11: talk to the guys and say, hey, I appreciate it,

626
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 11: but it really made me feel a way or whatever

627
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 11: the case may be. But don't say hey, I appreciate

628
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 11: and accept your apology and then still be upset about it.

629
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 2: So he so there was a conversation where an apology

630
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 2: was given prior to the mental yes, that's right, and

631
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 2: then he came back. So do you think the guys

632
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 2: were surprised that he was there? Bringing it got rehashing

633
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: all of this.

634
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 11: Yeah, we were all surprised that he was leaping here

635
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 11: because he went home night one like why, like what's

636
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 11: going on? Why are you here? But obviously, you know,

637
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 11: that was you know why So.

638
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: You know I went home night one Adrian.

639
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 3: Did you Yeah?

640
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But I didn't get you know, I didn't

641
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: get any uh fucking rustry store Joees.

642
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: No you didn't. You got lucky.

643
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: I got lucky.

644
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 3: Were you room? Did you? Did you the wrong way?

645
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 1: No? But I do sympathize with him because that night

646
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: is so hectic, and if you are somebody that has

647
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 1: anxiety and does get, you know, extremely nervous, you could

648
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: come off stand offish when in reality, maybe you're just

649
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,199
Speaker 1: in your own head or you're just very nervous. So

650
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: I could see the guys maybe taking his attitude is

651
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: like this guy thinks he's better, but maybe in reality

652
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 1: he was just maybe he's an intro.

653
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 11: I think it was what he was saying though, Like

654
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 11: Caleb said that he literally he went to shake his hand,

655
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 11: He literally looked him in his eyes and walked away.

656
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,880
Speaker 11: He walked up until Dotton, which is the tallest guy

657
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 11: in the house, or I'll dunk on you.

658
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 2: It was just crazy, like no one's dunking on dot.

659
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 3: Why would you say that? Like what is happening? Yeah,

660
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

661
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 11: I'm like, why would you say that, so I think

662
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 11: it was just like he was maybe just trying.

663
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: To soil it a little bit exactly.

664
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 3: So I think that's what it was.

665
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 11: But to your point, I don't feel like he deserved,

666
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 11: you know, to be you know, Peter or anything like that.

667
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 10: I definitely feel like he did not deserve that.

668
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 11: But at the end of the day, if the people

669
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 11: who did it wanted to apologize and step in front

670
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 11: of it, you know, I think that's commendable. But he

671
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 11: does have the right to feel, you know, how he

672
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 11: feels about it totally.

673
00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 2: It was definitely one of the most surprising moments of

674
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 2: the night for us. Was there anything else tonight that

675
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: really shocked you in a good way or a bad way?

676
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 2: Like a standout moment?

677
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 3: Any think that's shocked.

678
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 11: Only thing that shocked me was the end when I

679
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 11: got a chance to meet the gold backslor.

680
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys all seemed super excited to be Gary,

681
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: as you should be.

682
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 11: That was crazy. But it was just kind of crazy

683
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 11: because you know, we're all in this position, you know,

684
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 11: and he's the Golden Bachelor. Just to see that, it's

685
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 11: like almost like he's like our.

686
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 12: Aspirational Yeah, you know, he did forty three years as

687
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 12: Mary like, it's like, wow, you've really done it, like

688
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 12: and granted, like it's not even over yet for him,

689
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 12: you know, and it's all aspired to have something that

690
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 12: last that long.

691
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 11: And we just got out of a situation where we

692
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 11: were trying to make something work just for forty three days.

693
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 11: You know, he made something work for forty three years.

694
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 11: It's crazy, and it's like, you know, he makes you,

695
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 11: you know, especially for me that you know, I didn't

696
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 11: make it through this process.

697
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: It's like, just don't give up on love.

698
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 11: Just keep going and you know true love is out

699
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 11: there and also our example of that right that.

700
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 2: You know, so far, so far, so good. We're two

701
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: years in, you know, we've got forty more to go

702
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 2: to catch up to.

703
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: Gary, but we're married. What are you What are you

704
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: doing now? Are you dating? Are you actively dating? What's

705
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: up with your love life?

706
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 3: I've been kind of like just focused on like just.

707
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 6: Like my career and my daughter.

708
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 3: Have a daughter.

709
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 11: Yeah, I've been trying to get into the dating game

710
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 11: and trying to date right now.

711
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

712
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: Nice and if that sometimes they do have you you

713
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: do seem like one of the guys that has watched

714
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: the show a little bit before you went on, you

715
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: have you had an idea of what it was, because

716
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: there's so many guys that come on this podcast.

717
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: I never watched the show.

718
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: Why did you go on it?

719
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 2: Wait, let's go for how'd you watch a little bit

720
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 2: of the show before you went on? You did not, Joe,

721
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 2: You just made an assumption and then you.

722
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: Talk shiteez jeez.

723
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, wait, but then that will lead Usten to

724
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 2: a different question. Do you feel like you wish you

725
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 2: had because we've been discussing a lot this Jesuid question

726
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 2: about if it's better to go on blind or not.

727
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 11: No, I don't think it's I think you should watch it,

728
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 11: because if I would have watched it, I would have

729
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 11: went about things a little differently.

730
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 3: I went into it.

731
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 11: It's like a normal relationship, like, Oh, I'm just going

732
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 11: to try to talk and just But I don't think

733
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 11: that's the answer all the time. I feel like if

734
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 11: I would have watched it, I would have had a

735
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 11: little bit like, oh, okay, this is how this works,

736
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 11: you know, because I was watching too saying like what

737
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 11: a lot of people were saying about my actions and everything,

738
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 11: like no, he doesn't watch the show.

739
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 3: It's like, no, I.

740
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 11: Never watched the show. I don't know. Don't he know

741
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 11: that's the best I'm like, no, I don't you know,

742
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 11: So you know, I do wish I probably would have

743
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 11: watched the show for sure.

744
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 3: I agree.

745
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought you did, but you

746
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: didn't and hopefully not same you do, Adrian. Thank you

747
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: so much. We appreciate you taking the time and it

748
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 1: was fun watching you tonight.

749
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 2: Yes, it was great meeting you were rushing you all

750
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: the best. Thanks for coming on you guys.

751
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 3: Have a great night, you too.

752
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: Okay, everyone, please welcome Savior. He probably had the most

753
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: serious conversation tonight. How you feeling.

754
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 3: I'm feeling good.

755
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 13: I'm glad to have been able to bring this to

756
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 13: a close so that I can kind of move on

757
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 13: from this and be able to truly grow, even more

758
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 13: so that I've been growing in the last couple of months.

759
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah. I mean closure is definitely important, and yeah,

760
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: I mean we're not looking to to, you know, put

761
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: you through the ringer right now, but we do have

762
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: to ask a few questions. One of the things I

763
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: really wanted to ask when you did have that first

764
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: one on one with Charity. Is there a part of

765
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: you now that wishes maybe you would have brought this

766
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: up then?

767
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 13: Uh, I wouldn't say. I just wasn't ready to have

768
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 13: that conversation. Yeah, in the moment, because you know, you

769
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 13: guys all know how this kind of like happens when

770
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 13: you get one on one. There's things moving around, and

771
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 13: so it was kind of like really tough for me

772
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 13: to like ring that up and open up in that

773
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 13: way because I kind of wasn't ready to do that.

774
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's fair. When when you did decide

775
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: to go on the show, was that something that you

776
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: knew that you would eventually have to bring up or

777
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: were you not even looking that far into what was

778
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: about time?

779
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 13: I didn't even know that. It was truly like an ish.

780
00:33:56,480 --> 00:34:00,040
Speaker 13: I had not admit that to anybody before, you know, So,

781
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 13: like when she was asking me questions, I was just

782
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 13: like I didn't expect those questions to kind of like,

783
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 13: you know, I didn't expect those questions and I didn't

784
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:19,479
Speaker 13: prepare for those questions. I think the answers I gave

785
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 13: were not great answers. They actually were answers that you know,

786
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 13: don't reflect who I am as a man and like,

787
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 13: you know, don't really reflect what I want to be

788
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 13: in the future for my future wife. So yeah, it

789
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 13: was just kind of like a very humbling and like

790
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:40,479
Speaker 13: learning moment, I guess in that, but I just took

791
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 13: it so seriously because I truly believe that, you know,

792
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:46,720
Speaker 13: she could be my forever person.

793
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 3: I wanted us to have those difficult.

794
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 13: Discussions so that, you know, we could make the right

795
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 13: decisions for both.

796
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: Of us going through this season. I don't know if

797
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 2: you knew her feelings about this while you were there,

798
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 2: but watching back, you can obviously see she had a

799
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 2: lot of back and forth with Exavier ready, you know,

800
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 2: this reminding her of her ex boyfriend all of these things,

801
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 2: and we kind of saw the struggle of like is

802
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 2: he ready? Is he not ready? Like even as the audience,

803
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 2: it was kind of like is he ready? Is he

804
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 2: not ready? Looking back, do you feel confident that no,

805
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 2: I was ready or do you at all question if

806
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 2: you were ready?

807
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 3: So in my heart, like there was no doubt. I

808
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 3: was like I can get on me.

809
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 13: But my head, having the scientific brain that I do,

810
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 13: I was just like, this is crazy, like being in

811
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 13: this position and my feeling that sort of way, like

812
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 13: I cannot tell you, I've never had that sort of

813
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 13: dichotomy between my heart and my head and my life before,

814
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 13: so it was like really confusing for me. I you know,

815
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 13: I want to meet my forever person, I want to

816
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 13: be married, and I want to do that, and truly

817
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 13: I think I am ready for that commitment. But I

818
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 13: think it was just the time frame in my environment.

819
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 13: It was just a lot going on.

820
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 2: Honest, I can really sympathize with that, that internal struggle

821
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 2: of like I love this person, but oh my god,

822
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 2: what are we about to do? So would you kind

823
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 2: of I don't want to.

824
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 13: Put she's not settling for anything less than engagement, So

825
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 13: you're not going to pull out as your girlfriend.

826
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, you're not leaving with a girlfriend. You're leaving

827
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,320
Speaker 2: with or you're leaving with nothing.

828
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: And probably most of your dating life you've always you know,

829
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: just thought logically, like we're we're very logic people. So

830
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: so the thought of you know, I'm about to get

831
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: engaged and potentially marry this person is it's heavy for sure.

832
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 13: All the variables that in, like you know, the previous

833
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 13: history of like sometimes it doesn't work out, Like there

834
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 13: was that fear there too, you know, and I told

835
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 13: her like, look, get engaged once and I just want

836
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 13: to make sure it's right.

837
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 14: And yeah, yeah, looking back on that conversation and watching

838
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 14: it back, is there anything specifically that you're like, I

839
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 14: wish I'd done that differently or said that differently.

840
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,720
Speaker 13: Yeah, I wish I would have been able to deliver,

841
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 13: like and that like made more sense about how I

842
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:27,399
Speaker 13: felt instead of like just kind of like answering from

843
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 13: my head and just like not truly internalizing the question.

844
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 13: But like, you know, everything happens for a reason, and

845
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 13: it just like wasn't our time.

846
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, and then the I mean, the past is

847
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: the past, and get you got to move on and

848
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: as long as you learn from it, I mean, that's

849
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 1: that's all you could really ask for. Right, do you

850
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: feel like now you are you are ready, like you're

851
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: ready to take that step with someone?

852
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 13: I think, uh, right now I have to heal and

853
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:04,240
Speaker 13: plus I still have that fair things for these persons,

854
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,399
Speaker 13: So like I'm really truly just trying to.

855
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 3: Feel in a way that is like a.

856
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 13: Good and right and I'll know when that moment is

857
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 13: like when my dad always told me, like you know,

858
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 13: when you know, well he told me at the at

859
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 13: the hometown you know when you know, and so yeah,

860
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 13: I think I'm going to disress that advice.

861
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 2: Yes, can't confirm that is true. You do when you

862
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 2: know you know, But I will say, did you come

863
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: into tonight with any goals or things that were really

864
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 2: important to you? And do you feel like you accomplish

865
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: those things?

866
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

867
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 13: I think my goal was just to kind of get

868
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 13: some closure on it, to make sure that she knew

869
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 13: I wasn't like there for the wrong reasons and I

870
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 13: like genuinely like had these feelings for her and I

871
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 13: wasn't trying to.

872
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: Be manipulated in any way.

873
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 13: I you know, wanted to make sure that she knew that,

874
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 13: and that just to kind of bring this all to ahead,

875
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 13: because yeah, I've been ruminating like for months now, but

876
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 13: I think we're able to clear that up and you know,

877
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 13: everything's cool now nice?

878
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 3: All right?

879
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: Well, would you I don't obviously, don't spoil anything because

880
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: we don't know if you go to Paradise or not,

881
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,280
Speaker 1: but would you consider going on another dating show?

882
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 13: I have to do my research on it, because like,

883
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 13: IM not gonna lie like some of the things I

884
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 13: was like, wait, what is happening right now?

885
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 3: I know it? Like, yeah, that environment was definitely tough.

886
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 13: I would definitely do a lot more research about the

887
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 13: what I'm getting into.

888
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 2: Did you watch the show at all before you went

889
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 2: on it?

890
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 3: I watched it up until a certain point.

891
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 13: I didn't know that, I'll be honest, Like, I didn't

892
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 13: know Fantasy Suit was the deadline for like the engagement.

893
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 3: I like, I'm like, wait, I thought you know.

894
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 2: A few more weeks.

895
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 8: What's happening?

896
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 15: Hell?

897
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think all right.

898
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: Xavier, thank you so much for coming on.

899
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 2: We really appreciate Braidon's crashing this interview right now, so

900
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 2: we're gonna have.

901
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 5: To wrap up.

902
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: It is for our listeners. You know, it's a mess

903
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: right now. It's the tell all. They're all happy they

904
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: just got done with their season, so it's a little chaotic. Xavier,

905
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much. We appreciate you and wishing you

906
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 1: the best. Thanks.

907
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for joking me.

908
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: I have a good one, Braiden. Braiden, welcome. It's nice

909
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: to have you back. One thing I do not want

910
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 1: to talk about are your earrings that everyone talks about.

911
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 1: It's your style. It's a thing you like it good

912
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: for you. We know you we earrings.

913
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 5: Man, you're looking good.

914
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, Collored.

915
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: What's up. How's it going.

916
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 5: It's going good man, It's it's nice to you.

917
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 3: Guys.

918
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 5: Are heard you guys. You guys finally tied the knot,

919
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 5: right or is that coming up soon?

920
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: We did tie the knot this past October, but we're

921
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: having the ceremony in September.

922
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 15: Yeah, but no, everything's been good out here.

923
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 3: Man.

924
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 5: It's a lot tonight, but it was. It was fun.

925
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 2: Were you prepared going in of like how much it

926
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 2: was going to be.

927
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 5: I feel like I talked a lot.

928
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 3: I just.

929
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 5: I mean, you do.

930
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: But there was a lot to talk about surrounding you

931
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 2: in your name.

932
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, you are like on the show, you

933
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: are one of the main, the main Even when you

934
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 1: were gone, people were still talking about you, which honestly,

935
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: it's not you know, it's not the worst thing in

936
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 1: the world.

937
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:44,720
Speaker 5: No, it's not. I mean it was. It was definitely

938
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 5: cool to be able to like have.

939
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 15: Like, you know, a time, to be able to explain

940
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 15: myself a little bit and kind of let people know

941
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 15: like where I was coming from. I hope I got

942
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,479
Speaker 15: that across I'm not sure, but I mean, we'll see,

943
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 15: We'll see what people say.

944
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I I've I've been one to say

945
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: that I like you. I think I think you are yourself.

946
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: I think you're you're you're authentic, so you're very fun

947
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: to watch. I did. I never really agree with hat Sean,

948
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: but one thing hat Sean said was and I did

949
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: vocalize this a little on the podcast, where I do

950
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: kind of wish you just lean maybe leaned in a

951
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 1: little bit like a look, because it did seem like

952
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: towards the end, you were just so like I'm done,

953
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: Like no, no, no, no, Do you have any regrets

954
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: about that or are you.

955
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 15: Just It's definitely sometime I'm apologetic about. Like I think though,

956
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 15: if I had to say sorry for anything in the

957
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 15: whole experience is the fact that I couldn't just get

958
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 15: myself to just lean in more. Yeah, when I even

959
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 15: watching the episodes back and seeing how much Journey did

960
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 15: like me and like, you know, having that like getting

961
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,240
Speaker 15: to see your itms and the way she talks about

962
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 15: me and like all that stuff, it was just I

963
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 15: don't know, it was definitely it was hard because like

964
00:42:58,440 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 15: when you're in the moment.

965
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 6: You don't see that, you don't get to hear that,

966
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, you don't you know.

967
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 15: And so I definitely I felt like sometimes the heat

968
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 15: that I might have been getting from the guys, I

969
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 15: felt like sometimes like maybe I thought I was getting

970
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 15: it from her. And so it's kind of just like

971
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 15: those those lands were crossing. It was hard for me

972
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 15: to really just dive into the experience when that I

973
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 15: was happening.

974
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: You know, how was it seeing Charity and tonight and

975
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 2: having a conversation with her.

976
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 5: It was cool, it was I don't know.

977
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 15: I definitely I definitely sense a little like frustration with

978
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,919
Speaker 15: me still to be honest, which is which is tough,

979
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 15: but I mean it's I mean, I don't blame her,

980
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,919
Speaker 15: like I understand like I was a frustrating person for her,

981
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 15: and it sucks to say it sucks to know that

982
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 15: I'm a I was a frustrating person for her journey,

983
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 15: but I'm grateful for the fact that I got to

984
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 15: have that connection with her. It was cool because it

985
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 15: like it really just it got me back to this

986
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 15: place when I was young, like similar to where I

987
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 15: was when I was younger, where it's like I wanted

988
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 15: to date to get married, and so it's like it

989
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 15: definitely has kind of changed my focus since leaving where

990
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 15: it's like, you know, I really that's something I really want.

991
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

992
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 15: So it was kind of cool to have that kind

993
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 15: of like reawakening, I would say, And I'm really grateful.

994
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 3: To her for for that and for getting.

995
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 15: Me that place, and so I don't know, I'm excited

996
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 15: for the future whatever that holds.

997
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 16: But yeah, yeah, we're gonna, uh, we're gonna talk about that,

998
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 16: but I do want to just touch out real quick,

999
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 16: you you know, asking Charity about the TikTok, the clown whatever,

1000
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 16: her response to that, are you are you happy with that?

1001
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 5: I mean, like she said, it was just a joke.

1002
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 5: I mean, I know, there's always truth.

1003
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 3: In jest, you know what I mean.

1004
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 5: That's always that, like, there's always that saying.

1005
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 15: And I think that there was a little bit more

1006
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 15: truth to her that maybe like that she felt about

1007
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,879
Speaker 15: that that she didn't really dive into. I don't blame

1008
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 15: her for not willing to dive into it, but there

1009
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 15: was definitely something when I saw it.

1010
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 5: Definitely, it was like it was you know, I definitely

1011
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:54,720
Speaker 5: you know, full.

1012
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 15: Me out a little bit, because again, I felt like

1013
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 15: when I was with her, every interaction.

1014
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 5: I had with her was very intentional, verry Like I was.

1015
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 15: Genuinely like putting myself out there trying to be vulnerable

1016
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 15: to her about stuff, and so I never intended to

1017
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 15: come off as a clown to her.

1018
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 5: I know that.

1019
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 15: You know, maybe when I was around the guys, I

1020
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 15: joked around a lot, and that's.

1021
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 5: Not a good look or something.

1022
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 15: But it's hard because again, like I'm the type of

1023
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 15: person where I'm gonna enjoy the experience whenever.

1024
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: I'm the end, you know, Yeah, yeah.

1025
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 15: I definitely, I don't know I got what I got.

1026
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 15: You know, I can't throw fit. You can't throw fit.

1027
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: You gotta move on, Yeah, you gotta move on.

1028
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 2: You came, you asked, you got an answer, and that's

1029
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 2: as much as you're gonna get at the mental heal.

1030
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 8: So time to move forward, exactly.

1031
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 1: So how uh so we see the trailer for Paradise, Yep,

1032
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: you're there, You are there?

1033
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 3: Now?

1034
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: Did you have any I guess did you think about

1035
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 1: it at all? Do you have any doubts going into Paradise?

1036
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean when I originally left the show, I was.

1037
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 15: I left in a very heated environment, and I told them, Mike,

1038
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 15: I was like, I'm never coming back. Don't call me,

1039
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 15: don't reach out to me, Like, you guys are not

1040
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 15: going to get anything from me.

1041
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 2: They've never heard that before.

1042
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 5: I was. I was so heated when I left.

1043
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 15: I was like, don't even call me, and like and

1044
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 15: then it was like I think it was like three

1045
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 15: or it was like three weeks, three or four weeks,

1046
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 15: and they finally they like reached out to me. They

1047
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 15: gave me some cool and off period, which is nice.

1048
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 15: And then when they reached out to me, I just

1049
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 15: told him. I was like, yeah, like, you know, let

1050
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 15: me talk to my family about it. Let me you know,

1051
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 15: I want to I don't want to just rush into

1052
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 15: something else, like I don't know if I can handle this,

1053
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 15: and like it to me entirely different from the Bachelorette.

1054
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 15: You know, it'll be a totally new, you know, new environment,

1055
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 15: not the same, you know, I think it'll be much

1056
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 15: more your speed. And so I thought about it, and

1057
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,359
Speaker 15: it's definitely something I was like, Okay, like you know, I.

1058
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 5: Did it once, maybe maybe.

1059
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 15: This time will be it, you know, so well, left

1060
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 15: to see.

1061
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: Can you before we let you go. Can you tease

1062
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 2: anything for Paradise outside of the teaser, the teaser that

1063
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 2: we saw with you and Katz?

1064
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 5: Oh oh see, let's see. I definitely sorry.

1065
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 15: I'm looking at my I'm looking at the publicis making

1066
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 15: sure I'm not saying anything bad.

1067
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 3: Uh.

1068
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 5: But let's just say.

1069
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: You need one of those. You need a poloicist fully.

1070
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 8: Around full time.

1071
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 15: I know, dude would save me so much, so much,

1072
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 15: so much struggle. But I would say I opened myself

1073
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 15: up and allowed myself. I allowed for the possibility of

1074
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 15: being hurt.

1075
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 2: That's good, great, that's how you gotta do it.

1076
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 1: Also, your best, your best line of the night, not

1077
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: even line, but just call out was the fact that

1078
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: there was no fucking driver in that.

1079
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: I was so happy.

1080
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 2: It was hysterical when you said that because I had

1081
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 2: no idea.

1082
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 5: I for sure.

1083
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 1: But when he kept saying pushed the gas man, pushed

1084
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: the gas I was like, oh God, I.

1085
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 3: Don't know who he was talking to. Man.

1086
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm like, he just didn't want to smoke, dude.

1087
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 5: I was ready. That's not what I mean.

1088
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 15: I have again, I have no I have no issues

1089
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 15: with Aaron anymore. I mean again like bygones are bygones.

1090
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 15: But yeah, I always always gonna be good for a

1091
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 15: good scrap. You know, I'm always up. I wouldn't say no.

1092
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he is also always up for it.

1093
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: So it's probably good that on good terms me.

1094
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 5: And TV let's ent it up.

1095
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 3: The publicist is just like Jesus.

1096
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 10: He just doesn't stop. All right.

1097
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 5: You'll be the ref man, You'll be the ref of

1098
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,839
Speaker 5: the fight, dude, and then we will fight.

1099
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 3: No fight, no fight.

1100
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 5: Violence isn't the answer.

1101
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: Violence is not the answer, all right, Braden, thank you

1102
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 1: h we uh we love having you on this podcast.

1103
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna say it that you're probably gonna

1104
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: be back on this podcast at some point.

1105
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 2: I'm sure we will see you again and have a

1106
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: good night, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Serena, I'm gonna say it. I think we are

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Speaker 1: done because I'm looking at an empty screen and we

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Speaker 1: don't have any more guests. So everyone, that was an episode.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for tuning in to our live show.

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Speaker 2: And don't forget. New episode of The Bachelor airs on

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Speaker 2: Monday at eight seven Central on ABC and then streams

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Speaker 2: the next day in Hulu. This is the finale of

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Speaker 2: the season. Charity's journey is coming to an end, so

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Speaker 2: you don't want to miss it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and make sure to tune in every week we

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Speaker 1: have new episodes and next week we have some really

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Speaker 1: special things coming out. You are not gonna want to

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Speaker 1: miss it, so stay tuned. We've got all kinds of

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Speaker 1: exclusive interviews coming, and don't forget hit that subscribe button

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Speaker 1: and thank.

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Speaker 2: You to all of our amazing guests. You keep on today.

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Speaker 2: This was a really fun episode for Joe and I

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Speaker 2: to record. Be sure to tune in again next week.

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Speaker 2: We will see you guys next time.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye,