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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this one's for you, Kim writes. My

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Speaker 1: bff and I work together, so we spend five days

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Speaker 1: a week with each other and talk all the time.

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Speaker 1: She was having a bad time with her boyfriend, and

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Speaker 1: I was always there to be supportive and encourage her

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Speaker 1: to stand up for herself. Well, now things seem to

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Speaker 1: be good with him, and she's told him that I

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Speaker 1: was encouraging her to break it off with him, and

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Speaker 1: he doesn't want her to be friends with me anymore.

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Speaker 1: He's even trying to get her to quit her job.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a horrible idea for her to get

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Speaker 1: back together with him, and know it's only a matter

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Speaker 1: of time before he's back to his old self and

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Speaker 1: she'll be looking to me for support. How do I

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Speaker 1: keep my bff from cutting me out of her life

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Speaker 1: and leaving her with no one who's looking out for

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Speaker 1: what's best for her?

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Speaker 2: Okay, how about Hey, this ain't Joe Dale. Dis see

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Speaker 2: what happened to that? I don't understand why? What is

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Speaker 2: the matter? See, let me tell you something. If somebody

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Speaker 2: makes it clear to me, Steve, if this ain't your

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Speaker 2: damn business, thank you? So you mean I ain't got

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Speaker 2: to take your call. No more, bro. I promise you

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Speaker 2: you if you insinuate that you don't need my help,

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Speaker 2: that it ain't want it. I promise you. I got

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Speaker 2: plenty people wanna talk to me about stuff. If you ain't, man,

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Speaker 2: let me let me tell you, Doug. I had to

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Speaker 2: tell one of my own kids that hey, look, okay,

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Speaker 2: I tell you, well, you got it. Go ahead now,

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you if you if you go with Route eight,

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Speaker 2: I can tell you what's down that street right there. Now.

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Speaker 2: If you take Route B, I've been on that road too,

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Speaker 2: I can tell you what's down B. I'm telling you

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Speaker 2: right now, don't go down eight. Dad, times is different.

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Speaker 2: Now tell your ass down eight. Go ahead. Try. You're

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Speaker 2: gonna ask right on down Avenue eight. You ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: believe what's down there.

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Speaker 1: But you know so, so she should say out of

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Speaker 1: her bff's business period, please, Yeah, But she thinks she's helping,

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Speaker 1: you know, she thinks she's helping, so she's looking out

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Speaker 1: for her Stop. I think we have time for one more.

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Speaker 1: This is from Bridget. Bridget on Facebook says, I like

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Speaker 1: my current job. I make a decent salary and enjoy

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Speaker 1: the work. But with everything getting more expensive. It would

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Speaker 1: help if I was able to make a little more. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: there isn't any room for advancement at my job, and

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Speaker 1: I'm at the max of what they'll pay. And on

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Speaker 1: top of that, I work all the time, so I

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Speaker 1: don't have any time to earn money outside of work,

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Speaker 1: or any time to look for a different job. Where

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Speaker 1: do I go from here? How do I earn more

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Speaker 1: when one hundred percent of my time is spent on

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Speaker 1: my current job.

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Speaker 2: Well, see, you are in what's called a trap. You

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Speaker 2: are in a trap. You have maxed out, You're at

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Speaker 2: the top level. You can't make anymore, and you want more.

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Speaker 2: There's one decision that you can make that can solve

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Speaker 2: this problem. You have to quit, quit your current position

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Speaker 2: to pursue your dream jumping. That's your option. That's an

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Speaker 2: amazing option to have because it offers you freedom, it

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Speaker 2: offers you progress. The problem with where you are is

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Speaker 2: you've gotten comfortable there. If you stay in your comfort zone,

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Speaker 2: that is where you will fail. And right now you

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Speaker 2: are in the process of watching failure come upon you.

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Speaker 2: You can't make any more, your job doesn't offer anymore.

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Speaker 2: There's no room for as men. So I don't know

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Speaker 2: how old you are, but you're done. What is it

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Speaker 2: that makes no damn sense at all? So now you're

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Speaker 2: going to have to face what you already know, that

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Speaker 2: your greatest chance for an opportunity is outside of your

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Speaker 2: comfort zone. That's that's that, and all of us have

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Speaker 2: those moments in life all the time. I'm facing one

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's very true. All right, Coming up in

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of The

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Speaker 1: Hay Morning Show. Right after this