1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve RBFM dot com 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: it could be yours. You never know. Buckle up and 8 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: hold on type. We got it for you. Here it 9 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter, and thank you nephew mister today. Subject 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: why does she need an explanation? Dear Stephen Shirley, My 11 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I have been together three years and he 12 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: just moved in with me. We did not want to 13 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: shack up, but were forced to because there was a 14 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: fire at his apartments and he had nowhere else to go. 15 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: When he asked his mother if he could stay with 16 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: her for a minute, she told him that she had 17 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 1: a lot going on and her boyfriend didn't think it 18 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: was a good idea. This is the exact reason that 19 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: I can't stand his mama. She is fifty five years 20 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: old and still a self centered boy, crazy busybody. I 21 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: try not to come between him and his mom, but 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: she always disappoints him. Whenever she calls him, he jumps 23 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 1: to help her if he needs her, She may not 24 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: even call him back for a few days. She's jealous 25 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: of his relationship with me and he can't see it. 26 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: He and I went ring shopping before he moved in 27 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: with me, and she was very upset about it. She 28 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,199 Speaker 1: asked him if he was ready and if he really 29 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: knew me. He explained to her why he chose me 30 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: and not his girlfriend, his ex girlfriend, and he answered 31 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: a lot of her stupid questions. I wanted to throw 32 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: a pillow at his head for over explaining he bought 33 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: me a bike recently, and she asked him why he 34 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: bought it and why didn't I buy my own bike? 35 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: It kills me how he explains everything to her when 36 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: he finally invited When she finally invited us to meet 37 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: her seventy year old boyfriend in and we couldn't make 38 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: it somehow, she said it was my fault and my 39 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: boyfriend spent thirty minutes explaining to her that we had 40 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: other plans. Her favorite line is, but why I have 41 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: told him that a simple no will do, but he 42 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: can't seem to say it to his mama, so she's 43 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: always in our business. Would I be wrong if I 44 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: tell him to keep my engagement ring until he gets 45 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: his mama in line? Well? Yeah, you know you don't 46 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: want to say that, but I mean you won't be 47 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: wrong because that's how you feel. But you gotta understand this. 48 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: If you do that, if you tell him to keep 49 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: his engagement ring till he gets his mama in line, 50 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: he's gonna think that you want him to choose between 51 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: you and his mama, and you know you're gonna be 52 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: kicked to the curb. This is a mama's boy who 53 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: doesn't realize that you should come first. If you guys 54 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: do make it to the altar, you too need to 55 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: relax and not nag him about this, okay, because if 56 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: he continues this behavior, I'm sure you guys are gonna 57 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: break up. Anyway. You won't be together. You've already made 58 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: up your mind about how you feel about his mamma, 59 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: and you don't like her at all. You are irritated 60 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: because you think he over explains everything to her, and 61 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: he does, especially if he's spending thirty minutes doing this. 62 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: He doesn't have to do that. That's the part he 63 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: doesn't get this is a lot. It is a whole lot, 64 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: and three years is a long time to put up 65 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: with this. But other than that, you haven't really said 66 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: anything bad about this guy. It sounds like he's trying 67 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: to do the right thing by you. Since you guys 68 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: have just moved in together and are looking at rings 69 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: and stuff, you have to concentrate on your own relationship now, 70 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: make sure that that foundation is strong. Then if he 71 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: keeps running back and telling mom everything, sorry, but this 72 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: mama's boy just isn't for you, and that's the way 73 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: you have to look at it and move on. Steve Well, 74 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: I understand what Shirley says, but I want to offer 75 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 1: a different look at this because I know you all 76 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: are reading this letter and now I'm gonna go through 77 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: it again and I may have to come to the 78 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: same conclusion Shirley came to. But I don't think he's 79 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: a mama's boy. I think it's something else, because you 80 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 1: gotta be careful with that term, because if he was 81 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: doing mama's boy stuff, it would be like, oh my god, 82 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: this dude is tripping. But these are all conversations he's 83 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: having with his mother and the explanations he's giving his mother. 84 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: So let me show you what I see. You've been 85 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: together with just three years his dude, and he moved 86 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: in with your coause department caught on fire and everything, 87 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: y'all didn't want to check up. She was waiting, So 88 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: before he moved in, he asked his mother if she could, 89 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: if he could stay with her for a minute. She 90 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: told him that he had she had a lot going 91 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 1: on to her. Boyfriend didn't think it was a good idea. 92 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: And that's why you don't like his mother, because you 93 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: say that every time your boyfriend or fiance needs his mother, 94 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: she's never there. And then every time she calls him 95 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: he jumps and goes running. Well, see that's not a 96 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,239 Speaker 1: mama's boy. Mama's boy relationship is a little bit tighter 97 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: than that. They can't be separated. They always together. He 98 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: go over there every day. All this here, I think 99 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: it's something else. She's fifty five, she's steal self center boy, 100 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: crazy busybody, and you don't want to get between him 101 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: and his mom. Shirley made a good point, though, and 102 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what that is. Shirley made a great point. Now, 103 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: whenever she calls he jumps to help him if he 104 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 1: needs her. She may not even call back for a 105 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: few days. See, that's not a mama's boy. That relationship 106 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: goes both ways. She always want him to come hold her, 107 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: bring her soup, sit up, watch TV, all that. Take 108 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: me here, take me that that's a mama's boy. She's 109 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: jealous of his relationship with you, lady, and he can't 110 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,919 Speaker 1: see it at y'all. Wouldn't ring shopping before he moved 111 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: in with you? She was upset about it. She asked 112 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: him if he was ready, and he really knew me Now, 113 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 1: the woman is a hater. She is self sinner and 114 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 1: she's a hater. So that's what I see so far. 115 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: And he explained to her why he chose me and 116 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: not his ex girlfriend, and he answered a lot. I 117 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: wish I knew how old he was. That would have 118 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: helped me in this letter, but I don't see that anything. 119 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: And he answered a lot of her questions. I wanted 120 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: to throw a pillar at his head for over explaining. 121 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: So when we come back, I'm gonna show you what 122 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 1: I really thinking and how you might be able to 123 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: solve all right. Coming up at twenty three minutes after 124 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: the hour, we'll recap today's Strawberry letter and have part 125 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: two of your response coming up Steve right after this. 126 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's 127 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. The subject why does she need an explanation? 128 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: This woman is having trouble with her fiancee mama because 129 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: she's a busy body, she is very self centered, and 130 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: she's a hater and everything he does, she asked why. 131 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: The woman in the letter that wrote the letter feels 132 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: like he over explains before they moved in because he 133 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: had a fire in his apartment, he has his mama 134 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: to move in. She said no, because she had a 135 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: lot going on in her seventy year old boyfriend said 136 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: he ain't think it was a good idea. All right. 137 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: That's what the woman who wrote the letter don't like 138 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: about his mamma because every time he needs his mama, 139 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: she's never there. But whenever she wants something, he jumps 140 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: to it. This is a boy seeking his mother's approve. 141 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: This is a classic case of my mom can do 142 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: no wrong. This is a classic case of I pay 143 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:05,559 Speaker 1: the altar, admitting ultimate homage to my mother. That's all 144 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:10,679 Speaker 1: this is because when she does him wrong, he still 145 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: tries to do the right thing by her when she 146 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: needs When he needs her and she's not there, He's 147 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:20,679 Speaker 1: always there for her. He's extremely respectable of the son 148 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: mother relationship, and now she takes full advantage of So 149 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't think you have a mama's boy on your hand. 150 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: I think you have a classic behavior of a boy 151 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: wanting his mother's approval, seeking it even as an adult. 152 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: And that's what you're dealing with him, because he's missed 153 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: that in several moments doing his life, and he's constantly 154 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: seeking it. And if you're constantly seeking it, all I 155 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: ever wanted from my mother and father was them to 156 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: be proud of me till they died. I just wanted 157 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: to know they was proud of And I disappointed him. 158 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: Oh man, I tried to fix it your husband, boyfriend? 159 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: Is that classic? My mom can do no wrong. I'm 160 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: seeking her approval and she's taking an advantage of it. 161 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: So then asked him, why did he buy your ring? 162 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: Are you sure he's ready? She tries to act like 163 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: she's concerned. That's just to keep him on the string. 164 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: So when she needs something, he hopped to it. All 165 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: is just false concerned. Here's another false concern. He bought 166 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: you a bike? She called and want to know why 167 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: you bought her a bike? Why she can't buy her 168 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 1: own bike? What? What? What? What kind of woman doesn't 169 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: require or want of her son to take care of 170 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: a person the way a woman is supposed to be 171 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: taking care of or to be kind to a woman. 172 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: You would think your mother would say, boy, that was 173 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: so nice. She bought that girl for that bike. She'll 174 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: hope she appreciate it. No, no, no, what you buy 175 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: her bike? Bo? Why can't she buy her own? This 176 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: is a classic woman who's taking advantage of her son, 177 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: manipulating him, keeping him on the strength. Then she invited 178 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: us over to meet her seventy year old boyfriend. Y'all 179 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: couldn't make it. She got mad, and the boyfriends spent 180 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 1: thirty minutes explaining to her that y'all had other plans. 181 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: Her favorite line is, but why see that constantly keeps 182 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: him on the defensive. She is a master manipulator. Your 183 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 1: husband or fiance is not a mama's boy. I've told 184 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: him the simple no would do, but he can't seem 185 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: to say that to his mama. So she's always in 186 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: our business. What I'd be wrong if I tell him 187 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: to keep my engagement ring until he gets his mom 188 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: in line. Shirley's absolutely corright. Shirley's absolutely correct in telling 189 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: you that if you do this, you're saying to him, 190 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: choose between me and your mama, and you don't want 191 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: to put the man in that position. I would not 192 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: tell him to keep his wedding with but I would 193 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: learn to help him deal with what he's dealing with, 194 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: which is a manipulative self sinning a of a mama. 195 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: And the best way to do that is to make 196 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: getting to your fiance just a little bit more difficult 197 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: for her. Now, what you could do after you get 198 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 1: the engagement ring is you could call her and have 199 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 1: a talk with her, which is going to do no good, 200 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: but it will at least put her own notice that 201 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: you are hip to it. And I would suggest that 202 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: the conversation goes something like this. Since we don't have 203 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: a name, let's just use Heffer. Look, mama, Hefer. Well, Well, 204 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: we don't know her name, so I'm just saying, for 205 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: just purpose is to move the story alone, We're just 206 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: gonna use Heffer as the name. So just say, listen, Helfer, 207 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: you know, or helg or whatever her name makes you 208 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: use Helger because something sound like a hateful ass and 209 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: a helga olga. Oh, Gwen, there's a lot of hateful 210 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: ass guin, a lot of guenst gwen ass who used 211 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: to beat my ass, that big ass Gwen queen, you 212 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:13,839 Speaker 1: beat my ass, and I was still sick of being 213 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: a little boy. And so just say, hey, look, I 214 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: just want you to know that you have a really, 215 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: really wonderful son who loves you and tries to take 216 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: care of you. And I know you're taking advantage of him, 217 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: and I know you don't really care for me, but 218 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: I love your son and I'm gonna help him get 219 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: to where he needs to be in life. And I 220 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: wish you really wouldn't interfere with that, because he has 221 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: the potential to become something really, really great if he 222 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: had the right support system, and I intend fully on 223 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 1: being that now. I wish we could get on the 224 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: same page as adult women, but if we can't, I 225 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: just want you to know that I'm on to you 226 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 1: have fun. Cannot do that, all right? Leave it's your 227 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 1: comments until letter. You don't want to be a bit 228 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: on Instagram and at Steve Harvey FM, and check out 229 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now. 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