1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:06,439 Speaker 1: Y'all don't know y'all baby. 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 3: At all at all, So. 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 4: Don't given them back a million. 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 1: Bus bus Bozard. 7 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 4: Listen to show. 8 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:54,639 Speaker 5: I don't joy, Yeah, joy, they show. 9 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 4: You don't you love you. 10 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 3: Gotta turn. 11 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 5: Got to turn the mouth turn you probably got to 12 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 5: turn the mouth, turn out the water, the money. 13 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 4: Look, come. 14 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 6: Come on you think that? 15 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 7: Uh uh I sure will. Good morning everybody you are 16 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 7: listening to the voice, Come on now, gig me one 17 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 7: of only Steve Harvey got what radio show man? What 18 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 7: you're doing with it? Trying to do the very very 19 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 7: best I can with it? I really am. You know, 20 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 7: I get tired sometimes on my journey. I'm not gonna 21 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 7: kid you. Trying to make something about yourself is a task. 22 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 7: If you want to attempt to do something, and and 23 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 7: understand going in that that the if the thing you're 24 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 7: trying to do is to improve yourself, to better your position, 25 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 7: to better your relationship, your family, anything, you're trying to 26 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 7: be a better you. You're trying to make more money, 27 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 7: you're trying to get it together, you're trying to change 28 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 7: if any of those things are in your hopes and dreams. 29 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 7: Know this right here, you are about to face some challenges. 30 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 7: But you might as well go ahead anyway and face 31 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 7: those challenges, because if you don't, you have a whole. 32 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: Other set of challenges to face. 33 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 6: You know. 34 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 7: It's an amazing thing, man, how people sit around and 35 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 7: they watch other people strike out to become successful. They 36 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 7: sit in the stands watching these people play out these games, 37 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 7: and they and they and they criticize, They boo, they 38 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 7: laugh at their efforts and everything, and they talk about 39 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 7: the failse he missed that game when he shop boy, 40 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 7: he suck man, he did this. He ain't worth that. 41 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 7: I hear people who sit in stands who criticize people 42 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 7: who are out there on the playing field. Now, when 43 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 7: you're on the plane, feel you have a set of 44 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 7: challenges in front of you. You're going to be open 45 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 7: to criticism. You're going to be open to ridicule. You're 46 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 7: going to be talked about when you don't know the 47 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 7: people who are talking about you. Now, here's the upside 48 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 7: to being the player on the field that's facing all 49 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 7: the challenges, to criticisms, the laughing, the joke, to being 50 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 7: talked about. He has something going for him. This person boy, woman, 51 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 7: child girl man has an opportunity to win. They have 52 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 7: an opportunity to win. And in the game of life, 53 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 7: just because you lose one of the games, or you 54 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 7: lose one of the matches, it don't mean you've lost. 55 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 7: You don't get put out. You keep playing. And when 56 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 7: you playing, here's the upside. You have the opportunity to win. 57 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 7: But guess what, You're gonna win some of the matches. 58 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 7: You're gonna win some of the points. You're gonna make 59 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 7: some of the dunks. You're gonna hit some of them 60 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 7: over the wall. You're gonna hit some out the park. 61 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 7: You're gonna score some goals. You will if you're playing 62 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 7: the game. Here's the problem with the people who don't 63 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 7: face criticism, who nobody boos or cheers for, who sits 64 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 7: in the stands and knows neither victory nor defeat. Those people, 65 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 7: without realizing it, are facing a set of challenges also. 66 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 7: And the challenges they're facing is how I'm gonna live 67 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 7: with myself, What I'm gonna do? Now, what direction am 68 00:05:54,000 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 7: I going in? Where am I gonna live? Wonder what 69 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 7: job will hire me? Wonder if I can get paid 70 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 7: for criticizing. 71 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 2: Ah woe is me. 72 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 7: I can't find the purpose in my life. And man, 73 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 7: I'm just waking up in a state of confusion. I 74 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 7: don't know what to do. Now, let me ask you something, 75 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 7: which one of them set the challenges you'd rather be 76 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 7: faced with? Because if I'm on the flow playing, if 77 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 7: I'm on the field playing, if I'm out on the 78 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 7: court playing, then guess what I got a chance at winning? 79 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 7: But guess what I'm doing every day while I'm playing. 80 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 7: I'm strategizing. I'm waking up with a purpose. I'm waking 81 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 7: up trying to come up with another angle. I'm in 82 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 7: pursuit of a goal every single day. Versus the people 83 00:06:54,480 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 7: in the stands who know neither victory nor defeat. Get 84 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 7: in the game, face the challenges. Better yourself, better your wife, 85 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 7: better your children, better your condition, better your employment status, 86 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 7: better your job, better your career. 87 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: Take a shot. 88 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: Come on, man, what you waiting on? 89 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 7: Because the alternative is to watch other people play the game? 90 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: You know what I just do? Sometimes Sometimes I just I. 91 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 7: Get Forbes magazine or Money magazine, or sometimes I still 92 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,559 Speaker 7: grab a copy of the rob Report. I just flip 93 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 7: through it just to see I used to get this 94 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 7: book called Unique Homes. Unique Homes is a magazine that 95 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 7: just has a lot of extravagant houses that's on sale. 96 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: Across the country, across the world. I used to flip through. 97 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 7: Man, let me just see, man, what the people that's 98 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:55,559 Speaker 7: playing the game out there doing. Stop watching other people 99 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 7: become successful when you could very easily be you if 100 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 7: you make the decision. But when you make the decision 101 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 7: to become successful, get ready for a series of challenges. 102 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:11,679 Speaker 7: I think it's more difficult not to accept the challenge. 103 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: I think it's for me. This is just for me. 104 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 2: It may not be the case for you. 105 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 7: For me, I think it's far more difficult to wake 106 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 7: up and just see how life gonna go today, because man, 107 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 7: it could just deal you any kind of hand today. 108 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 7: You understand, I don't like, you know, spades. Let's talk 109 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 7: a card game for tim, the game of spades. Really, man, 110 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 7: it ain't a whole lot you can do if you 111 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 7: don't get no spades. Really, it's a little couple of 112 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 7: little strategies you're gonna do. But you can have all 113 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 7: this age, king, queen, diamond all you want. But man, 114 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 7: you ain't got no spades. They cutting them. You're in trouble. 115 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 7: Be it with different game. You can create what's in 116 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 7: your hand. You got dealt a hand too, But you 117 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 7: can create a hand. You can call a trump. You 118 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 7: can make diamonds your space. You can make hard to 119 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 7: clubs your spades. That's what I'm saying. You can do 120 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 7: something with it. It's a different game, man. You can strategize. 121 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 7: I would rather have a say so in my life 122 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 7: than to wake up every day and just see how 123 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 7: it's going. I think it's more difficult to not accept 124 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 7: the challenge to be something than it is to accept 125 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 7: the challenge to be something. I think it's more difficult 126 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 7: to sit around and not be nothing. I think it's 127 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 7: harder to watch everybody life going somewhere but mine. I 128 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 7: think it would be very difficult for me to sit 129 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 7: here and hear them talking about other people that never 130 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 7: mentioned my name. It would be difficult for me to 131 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 7: see everybody rise and getting promotions accept me. That would 132 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 7: be difficult for me. It may not be for you, 133 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 7: but for me it would be quite challenging. I would 134 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 7: rather accept the challenge of making something out of my 135 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 7: life than to sit there and criticize those and then 136 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 7: watch and see how my life just may go. 137 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 2: Okay, just a thought. 138 00:09:55,679 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: Today you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Ladies 139 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, let me have your attention please. 140 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 8: This is a divorce of Junior as a deep base 141 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 8: money everybody. 142 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: Wow, that's not much difference. 143 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 7: I hope y'all off to a great start today. I 144 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 7: really do. 145 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 2: I hope you. 146 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 7: Didn't forget to tell God how much you appreciate today. 147 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 2: I really do. It's the best way to start your day. 148 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 7: Gratitude affects your attitude, which is in direct correlation with 149 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 7: your altitude. 150 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 2: Come on, y'all, be grateful. Steve Harvey Morning Show. 151 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 7: Shelley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica, Julia Jennie. 152 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 2: What's on your mind? 153 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: Man? 154 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 9: Let me ask you this up man, Can you talk 155 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 9: to us this morning about something? I know you have 156 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 9: a lot of experience here by being patient in this 157 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 9: process while you're on your journey. You know, we want 158 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 9: everything that happen right now, and we want to do 159 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 9: it because maybe some people doubt of us, maybe some 160 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 9: people didn't believe in us, and we want. 161 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 8: To show him. 162 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 9: But we impatient in this process. How do you how 163 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 9: did you have to deal with that. 164 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 7: Well, I'm impatient too, I'm I'm in I'm I'm very human. 165 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 7: I'm just like everybody else when I get through praying 166 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 7: for something I want. When I'm praying for it is 167 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 7: you because I won't it and I and I and 168 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 7: I want it immediately. What I've had to learn, though, 169 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 7: is I have to I had to learn to trust 170 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 7: in his timing of it. He heard me, he knew 171 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 7: what I wanted before I asked him for you, so 172 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 7: and and He's boxed it up and he shipped it's 173 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 7: on the way. But when God boxes it up and 174 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 7: ships it to you, the thing he will not do 175 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 7: is tell you the date that the package is going 176 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 7: to arrive, because that would destroy the one thing that 177 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 7: you all have to have in this relationship, which is faith. 178 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 7: Faith is a belief in things that you cannot see. 179 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 7: So you have to trust in his timing. That's the 180 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 7: thing you have to learn. You're gonna be impatient because 181 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 7: you're human. Lord, where you at, like for okay, for 182 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 7: giving an example, you're praying for a financial breakthrough because 183 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 7: you really want it, because you're tired of the struggle, 184 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 7: right and in the process of waiting on this financial breakthrough, 185 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 7: you have to realize, hey man, I'm actually surviving right now. 186 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 7: I'm actually still paying my rent, I'm still making the 187 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 7: car note. It may be hard, but I still keep 188 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 7: coming up with it. And in that you have to 189 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 7: show some form of gratitude. See, but what happens to 190 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 7: people is we ask God for this financial overflow and 191 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 7: I don't get here, and we study complaining about that, 192 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 7: and we forget that we're still making it somehow, that 193 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 7: if you look around, you ain't lost nothing. You ain't 194 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 7: had to sell nothing, ain't nobody repold nothing. You ain't 195 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 7: got no eviction notices on nothing, you quit. You failed 196 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 7: to look at that because you're so focused on what 197 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 7: you don't have yet. But looking at what you don't 198 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 7: have cannot allow you to lose sight of what you 199 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 7: do have. And if you could get those two things 200 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 7: to line up correctly, bam man, you can be all 201 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 7: right and trust in his time and then know that 202 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 7: God ain't ever been late. 203 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 2: Tell me the last time he was late. 204 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: God's perfect timing. Steve, you're right all right. Coming up 205 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: in thirty two minutes after we'll run that praying back 206 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: with Junior in for the nephew. Right after this, you're 207 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 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What you got for is. 217 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 8: Junior guys ours ministry. 218 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 6: Come on cat, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Clarence. 219 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 10: Clarence. How you doing, Clarence. This is Statius man. I'm 220 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 10: over at the church man, my Baptist church where you 221 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 10: a member of? 222 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 2: Right? 223 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 11: Oh yeah, hey, okay, hey, I'm with the Gems man 224 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 11: and you you you actually came to uh gems the Gims' 225 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 11: that's God's as missionary And basically what we do is 226 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 11: we watch what's going on on in the church. 227 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 10: Who's coming, who hasn't come? You know, I don't mean 228 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 10: any harm, but if my records indicate me right through 229 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 10: my God's eyes, minister, the gems looking at my books, 230 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 10: looks like you this is your first time at the 231 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 10: church this year? 232 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 6: Correct? 233 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean what can I do for you? 234 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 6: Okay? 235 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 10: Now, when Pastor asked for all the visitors to stand, 236 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 10: you actually did not stand? 237 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 6: Correct? 238 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 10: Because you remember there we go. Now you you still 239 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 10: work for uh you you you work for them? 240 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 6: Yeah? Okay, Now what we've done is we've averaged it 241 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 6: out that you. 242 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 13: What what I mean? 243 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 12: What is this about? 244 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm on my way to it. 245 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 10: So so you probably are you averaging about what between 246 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 10: forty and fifty thousand dollars on a yearly basis over. 247 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 12: There with I mean, I mean, yeah, something like that. 248 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 10: But you know, go ahead, problem see what we're looking 249 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 10: at since you are member, because see you did not 250 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 10: stand when he said all members says you did not 251 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 10: stand up, which which you right there of making the 252 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 10: you know, you're you're you're clarifying that you are a member, 253 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 10: and you're making about we're gonna roughly say about forty 254 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 10: five thousand dollars a year, which means ten percent in 255 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 10: forty five hundred. Now we looked at the books and 256 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 10: notice that you put in fifty dollars in the church 257 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 10: on this past Easter on Sunday. See when you're gonna 258 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 10: start cutting into this forty five hundred dollars that you 259 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 10: ought to be paying your tithes? Will a man rob God? 260 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 10: Yet you have robbed me well in tied that would offer. 261 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: See you you you you. 262 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 12: Are wait a minue, hold on, hold a second. You 263 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 12: got all this stuff going on to the church. You 264 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 12: you got h you got hungry people, you got people 265 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 12: that need salvation and whatever. But you calling me about 266 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 12: about some money that I haven't given to the church. Well, well, see, 267 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 12: and what your minister does y'all y'all spend all morning 268 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 12: calling people. 269 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 10: My job, sir, as a gym God's eyes ministry, My 270 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 10: job is to keep an eye on what's going on 271 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 10: at the church. Now, when are you gonna start cutting 272 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 10: into your tie? You forty five hundred dollars a day? 273 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 10: We see, this is why we can't get the extra 274 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 10: wing that pastor wants to put on because people like you. 275 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 12: This is why listen, I don't even have to explain 276 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 12: this to you. But let me explain something to you. 277 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 12: This is a one job household. My wife don't work, 278 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 12: but my wife comes to church every Sunday and she 279 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 12: pays the tide as the gym ministry have y'all looked 280 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 12: at her tie. 281 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 10: Her tides ain't got nothing to do with you. 282 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 6: You understand you have to pay your ties. 283 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 10: Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed. You're 284 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 10: making forty. 285 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 12: Five five dollars somebody from the church. I don't know 286 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 12: if that is something. I'll tell you that who is, Yes, 287 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 12: I have, but that's not none of their business. That's 288 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,199 Speaker 12: I know, I know, I know. What does it have 289 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 12: to do with him calling people and asking them if 290 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 12: their pantings? I got this, I got this ham? 291 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 13: Yeah, you know I got it. 292 00:17:57,880 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 12: I got it, I got it, I got it, I 293 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 12: got I know, I don't. 294 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 6: I don't know who was that, sir. 295 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 12: That's my wife has been paying. That's my wife in 296 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 12: being I tied. 297 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 1: That's right, Oh okay. 298 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 10: I don't have nothing in my books that say y'all 299 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 10: pay three hundred dollars. 300 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: Not undergo. 301 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 12: If she said we paid three hundred dollars, we paid 302 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 12: three hundred dollars. 303 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 6: Okay, when are you gonna start cutting into this party? 304 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 6: Five with a man? Rob God? 305 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: Yet you have robbed me. 306 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 6: That is what you are doing, sir, Well you know 307 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:29,880 Speaker 6: what you robbing. 308 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 12: Me right now? You robbing me right now at my 309 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 12: time where I could go out, I gotta be work. 310 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 12: I can't even go get dressed right now because I'm 311 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 12: on the phone with you. I have to be at 312 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 12: work in half an hour. You robbed me right now 313 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 12: of my time. 314 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 6: Let me ask you something. 315 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,919 Speaker 10: Can you bring your tax return into the to why 316 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 10: I can take a look at it? 317 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 12: My tax return? You know, I tell you what. I 318 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 12: bring my tax return. If everybody else bring their tax return. 319 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 12: If you bring your tax return and pass to bring 320 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 12: your tax return, then I'll bring my tax return. We 321 00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 12: can have a tax return party. 322 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 6: When will your tech return? When? Can you can you 323 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 6: fax it to me? 324 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:06,479 Speaker 12: Are you serious? I mean, I mean, I mean if 325 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 12: it's is, if. 326 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 10: It's not too much to ask for, Listen, I'm gonna 327 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 10: be honest with you. The next time you do come 328 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 10: to church, were gonna pat you down? 329 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 12: Oh hold on, you gonna pat me down next time 330 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 12: I come to church? 331 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 2: And then lay hands on you. 332 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 12: Okay, let me ask you this. Do you are you 333 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 12: on salary at the church? 334 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 6: Yeah? But what does but what that? What does? 335 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 2: What does that have to do with anything? 336 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 12: I need to know what you tutting? 337 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: It ain't gotten you, look up, it ain't got nothing. 338 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 6: When you're gonna bring your forty. 339 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,239 Speaker 10: Five hundred dollars down so we can add it, so 340 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 10: we can get the wing put on. 341 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:38,360 Speaker 6: I'm part of the Gems. 342 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 10: You bring your money down here are Clarence. 343 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 13: Isn't it? 344 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 6: Dog? 345 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 12: Let me tell you something. I don't know who you are. 346 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 12: I don't know what this ministry is. 347 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 6: I'm with the Gems. When can we expect it? Man? 348 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 12: I don't I don't care. 349 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 13: I don't give it. 350 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 12: You know what? Let say, I don't care anything about 351 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 12: your gym ministry. I don't care about you, man, I 352 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 12: don't care about any of that. 353 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 6: Where you're gonna play this ten percent? 354 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 12: Man, let me take something dollars. It was just this 355 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 12: for real, don't call my house. Not more with this, 356 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 12: with this stuff, dud. 357 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 13: You about to make a brother go off. 358 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 12: I mean, seriously, in this economy, in this economy, you 359 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 12: talk to me about about me tied in fifty dollars. 360 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 12: I'm trying. I'm trying to put a dollar through college. 361 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 12: I'm trying to set a son through private school, and 362 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 12: I can't get that done. I'm trying to keep the lights. 363 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 6: On the What do that have to do with the church. 364 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 12: I already told you. I'm getting ready to hang up. 365 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,239 Speaker 12: And if you want to meet me and whatever you're 366 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 12: gonna do and whatever, then that's fine. 367 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: So I need to tell you something else about your job. 368 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 12: You ain't tell me nothing about my job. 369 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:29,479 Speaker 13: You have to kill me. 370 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: I need to tell you something about your job. 371 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:33,239 Speaker 12: Dude, I'm gonna hang up. 372 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,120 Speaker 6: This phone. Is dam a man named Chapman at your job. 373 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 12: Yes, Chapman at my job. Okay, yeah, and he's been 374 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:39,880 Speaker 12: there too. 375 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,640 Speaker 10: Now now, now, wait a minute. Chapman is the one 376 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 10: that got me to call you. This is nephew Tommy 377 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 10: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby, you just got. 378 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 11: Pranked, man. 379 00:20:54,160 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 12: Man, Man, you got me feeling guilty. I mean, I'm. 380 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 6: Oh Man with the jail ministry. 381 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 12: Yeah, but somebody getting ready to get beat up at. 382 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 6: The yoh Man. 383 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 10: I got one more thing to ask you, man, what 384 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 10: is the baddest And I'm talking about the baddest radio 385 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 10: show in the land. 386 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 12: Obviously Harvey Morning Show. 387 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: We're back, all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up next, 388 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: it is asked the COLO our chief love Officer, Steve 389 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: Harvey in the building right after this, you're listening to 390 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hi, this is Shirley's Strawberry 391 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: and I'm partnering with the leave. Let me tell you 392 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 1: it couldn't have come at a better time. I'm with 393 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: some furniture around last weekend in my new place. It 394 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: turns out that was a really bad idea because all 395 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: that bending and lifting and pretending I'm still twenty five 396 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 1: didn't agree with my knees. So I leave because when 397 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: my body pain shows up, I need something that lasts 398 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: with just one pill a lead last up to twelve hours. 399 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 1: Don't let those aches and pains hold you back from 400 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: doing what's important to you. Use as directed. Coming up 401 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. In entertainment news, there's 402 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 1: a new twenty thousand dollars robot that does household chores. 403 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: Where have you been on My Life? 404 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,120 Speaker 8: I love it? 405 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 11: Yay. 406 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: Asap Rocky will receive a Fashion Icon Award this year. 407 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: We'll tell you about that and a factory worker got 408 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: an extra eighty seven thousand dollars on his check and 409 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: his company wants the money back. That is all coming 410 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,400 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour whatever, But right 411 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 1: now it is time to ask the COLO. Our chief 412 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Omari in Hoboken. 413 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,639 Speaker 1: Omari writes, I met a woman at our homeowners meeting 414 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,199 Speaker 1: and she asked me out. But she's out of my 415 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 1: league and off limits because she lives close to me. 416 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,439 Speaker 1: It's probably not a good idea, but I want to 417 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: see what's up. Is that a terrible idea or should 418 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: I go for it? 419 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 7: Well, I'm assuming he's married. Yeah, that's what I'm assuming. 420 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 7: Ain't a lot of single. 421 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 2: Dudes live nowhere where they got a homeowner's association. 422 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 7: Ain't a lot of single dudes going to homeowners association meetings. 423 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 7: It just ain't a lot of dudes. Now women, yes, dudes. No, 424 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 7: So your particular marriage self down there. You didn't want 425 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 7: to put that in the letter, and you say the 426 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 7: problem is she stays too close, which means it's gonna 427 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 7: be hard for you to go over there without your 428 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 7: wife's seeing you. 429 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 6: Dog. 430 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 7: This has disaster written all over it. This got disaster 431 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,639 Speaker 7: written all over it. Now, Uncle Steve gonna advise you 432 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 7: to ignore this, get this out your mind, and go home. 433 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 2: That's my advice to you. 434 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:02,640 Speaker 1: Good advice. 435 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 7: Well, because you're in your thirties going over there and 436 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 7: see what's having what? Yeah, so you can learn this 437 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 7: lesson the hard way, because see, sometimes you just can't 438 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 7: tell people. I'm told him what he needed to do. Yeah, 439 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 7: I strongly advise you, brother, let this go and go 440 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 7: on home. But you're thirty something. You wrote a letter. 441 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 7: It's on your mind so heavy, and you ain't got 442 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 7: nobody to even run this by. You might even be 443 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 7: in your forties, but see, you ain't had nobody hit 444 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 7: on you in a long time. 445 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: Because she asked him out. 446 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 7: Is that? 447 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 448 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 2: You're thirsty? Thirsty? 449 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 1: She's thirsty because she asked him out. 450 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 2: Really he's thirsty. 451 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:49,439 Speaker 1: Oh he's thirsty? Okay, yeah, all right? Moving on to 452 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 1: celestin Tacoma Celestrites. I got married when I was nineteen 453 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: and it didn't last but one year. I got married 454 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 1: again when I was twenty five, and that that's a 455 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: five years. I'm only thirty two and on my third marriage. 456 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: Any advice for me. 457 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's probably gonna last seven years. 458 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: If you care about advice, that's a predications. 459 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 7: I'm just basing on the ratio you've been biting it. 460 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 7: I've got seven on this one. 461 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 2: I got five on it. Yeah. 462 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: Is she picking wrong? 463 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 2: Not necessary? Yeah, yeah, you've picked wrong. Yeah. 464 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 7: Well, the first time you shouldn't have been nobody's wife, 465 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 7: this is nineteen is just you know, you don't even 466 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:37,680 Speaker 7: know you right. The next time you was twenty five, 467 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 7: you still ain't really got you all the way together. 468 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 2: So this is the first time you could, you could 469 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:43,719 Speaker 2: know who you are. 470 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: This could last though, at thirty two. 471 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,360 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, put the work in, put it in, put 472 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 14: the work in. 473 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe marriage counseling. Yeah, all right. Going on to 474 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 1: Thurmon in Montgomery, Thurman writes, my daughter in law told 475 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: my wife that I make her uncomfortable. My bad. But 476 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: if she comes around me in her tight dress dressed 477 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 1: with parts of her fat belly out, I'm going to 478 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,400 Speaker 1: look at her. Trust me, it's not in a lustful way. 479 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,720 Speaker 1: Should I bust her bubble or not? He says, trust me, 480 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: it's not in a lustful way. 481 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 7: Br br br bruh. Come on, man, wait, you you 482 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 7: so far out of line in this letter. Yeah, trust me, 483 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 7: if she walk in front of me with right there, 484 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 7: bro what you're talking about bruh, you so far out 485 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 7: of line with this with and trust me, is not 486 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 7: in a lustful way. 487 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 2: Okay? Well what you're staring at her fault? 488 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 1: What way is it? I don't know? Is it is 489 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: he disgusted because her belly? 490 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 10: Is that? 491 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: I mean? 492 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 7: But you make her uncomfortable and she just said that 493 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 7: to your wife. Bruh. He's just in there, just bruh, 494 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 7: you got it, Bruh. You gotta do something completely. 495 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 2: This is on you. This is on you. 496 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 7: How she walking around in front of you and all 497 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 7: this here, bro, this on you, brother, you finish? Okay, 498 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 7: all right, let me tell you what's getting ready to 499 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 7: happen or whoever this woman is you married to, you 500 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 7: Finn to lose her unless you change your this all bruh. 501 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 2: You gotta take accountability for this one here. 502 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't seem to get that, my bad. 503 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: Bruh. 504 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 7: You sitting up in here talking about if you come 505 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 7: in front of me dressed like this and you got 506 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 7: your stomach out, I'm I'm looking at her, but trust me, 507 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 7: it ain't in a lustful way. 508 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 1: Brow what way is it? Yeah? 509 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: Man, hey man, let me just say this right here. 510 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 2: It's some real, real mixed. 511 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 7: Up people out there who are on the verge of stupid, 512 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 7: who really have convinced themselves that they okay. But when 513 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 7: you write this, let you write a letter into somebody 514 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 7: who's not connected to it and can hear it for 515 00:27:58,960 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 7: what it is. 516 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, brother, you're not okay. 517 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 7: You're out of line on this one and this one 518 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 7: don't sound right, and right now it sounds like you 519 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 7: make the girl uncomfortable. 520 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 1: Well that's what she said. Yeah, and then he's gonna 521 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,000 Speaker 1: ask should I bust her bubble or not? 522 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 11: What? 523 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 14: And so she told the wife his wife. She didn't 524 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 14: tell her husband because his daughter in law, so obviously 525 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 14: her husband is his son. Yeah, so she didn't tell 526 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 14: her husband. She told the wife her mother in law. 527 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,120 Speaker 2: What I'm not understanding, So. 528 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, this this is his daughter in law. So she's 529 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: married to his son, right, And she, the daughter in law, 530 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: told her mother in law his wife, her husband makes me. 531 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: Your husband, my father in law makes me uncomfortable when 532 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 1: I come around. 533 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 7: This is his son's wife. Yes, way out of line. 534 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 7: You way out of line. Oh, dog, you even further. 535 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 7: This is your boy's wife. 536 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, your son son, So she couldn't grown Yeah, yeah, 537 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 1: he said, my daughter in law. 538 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 11: Yeah. 539 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 7: But see, but I don't know why I heard step daughter. 540 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 7: I don't know why I was thinking of the daughter 541 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 7: of the woman he's married to. This is the daughter 542 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 7: that's married to his son. 543 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 3: He said, she'd have told the father. 544 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 2: A dog, you dog, I don't know how you looking 545 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 2: at this woman, but you had. 546 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: A line, partner, he said, not in a lustful way. 547 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 2: Okay, why she uncomfortable? Dad? 548 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: He says, she has tight dresses with parts of her 549 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 1: fat belly out. 550 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 14: And she told his wife, her mother in law, and 551 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 14: the mother in law told her husband probably stopped looking. 552 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: At her like that. 553 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 15: Bro, that's so crazy. Yeah, even tell you how crazy 554 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 15: that is. Yeah, And then he says, not in a 555 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 15: lustful way. Should I bust her bubble or not? 556 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: Sit down? 557 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 7: There's no way to bust up bubble for what? This 558 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 7: is your son's wife. 559 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 560 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 7: If your son ain't got no problem with how she 561 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,400 Speaker 7: dress it, why you got a problem? 562 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 10: Yeah? 563 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thank you. Colo. Coming up at the 564 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 1: top of the hour, we will have some entertainment news 565 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 1: for you. Right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show. So, guys, 566 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: this story was on Baller Alert. A black owned tech 567 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 1: company in California is expected to bring humanoid robots to 568 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 1: households to do everyday chores. I like it already, you 569 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: had me at Hello. The robot is called Neo, and 570 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: it stands five feet six inches. It's reportedly an AI 571 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: assistant that it is designed to do daily chores like 572 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: washing dishes, like doing laundry, opening doors, turning lights on 573 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: and off. Neo's chores can be scheduled in advance and 574 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 1: monitored by a mobile app. The Neo robot will cost 575 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: around twenty grand, or you can get a monthly subscription 576 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 1: for five hundred dollars a month. Customers can choose from tan, gray, 577 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: or dark brown. Pre Orders began this week. Would you 578 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: that is the question, would you allow a robot into 579 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: your home to do household chores? And the answer is yes, yes, 580 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: So Neo get in here, Junior. What you think? 581 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 9: No, No, we're not doing No robots in here. I'm black, 582 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 9: We're not doing it. I don't trust robots. 583 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 13: You race. 584 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, they got a black and white right with day 585 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 9: racist too. The robots, I don't do that. Well, No, 586 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 9: you gonna come in here and take me hostage. I 587 00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 9: can't get out I talk. 588 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 3: So the robots gonna kidnap you. 589 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 9: You may it may override it. Now I'm stucking the 590 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 9: house now he holding me hot. I'm not doing that. 591 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: The robot is going to black robot and rob me. 592 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 8: Why would I do that? 593 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 7: What Junior J I'm with Junior. Go ahead, we're not 594 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 7: going to support Junior. We don't have nobody in this 595 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 7: house stronger than me. He or she will just watch 596 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 7: your house work. 597 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 2: He picture the frigerator, move the sweat behind the frigerator. 598 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: Put your. 599 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 2: Nobody in this house stronger than me. 600 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, I will lose my wife. And no, robot, I 601 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 8: ain't gonna do that. 602 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 3: That's what you're gonna fall in love with Neo. 603 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 13: Gonna leave me. 604 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 8: Robot to fix the car. 605 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 2: Whoa whoa wo and the robot named Neo. 606 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: Yeah Neil, yeah, Now. 607 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 7: Nothing to hand, no mind be saying and walking around 608 00:32:58,920 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 7: my house. 609 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 6: Not that Neo. 610 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 1: He's a little busy, he's a little tied up. 611 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,280 Speaker 9: I can't come in my house and the robot fold 612 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 9: of my draw I can't see that. 613 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 7: Hey, Junior, but that robot now function now, He and 614 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 7: hims folding your draws with you and him. 615 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 8: That stuff we just gotta full c. 616 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: You can control them from your mobile app by the way, 617 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: all right, yeah, you can. 618 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 2: Control your Tesla car from a mobile app too. And 619 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 2: I don't want one. Sure, get in no car, no car, 620 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 2: drive me, No, we do this. 621 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 8: I can't get in my banking app half the time. 622 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 3: You can't remember your password. 623 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 8: I don't remember none of that. 624 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: The robot. I'm ready, all right, moving on a tep. 625 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 1: Rocky will receive the Fashion Icon a ward that this 626 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 1: year is c f D A that is a Council 627 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: of Fashion Designers of America Awards. Fashion designer Tom Brown 628 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: is the chairman of the c FDA, and he spoke 629 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: highly of Rocky's originality. He said, asap, Rocky is a 630 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 1: fashion icon in the purest form. He is one of 631 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 1: a kind. His truly original approach to fashion inspires me 632 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 1: and so many to think differently. The Fashion Icon Award 633 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: honors Rocky's impact on music and fashion and his ability 634 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 1: to inspire designers, artists, and fans with his fearless approach 635 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:35,760 Speaker 1: to personal style. Rocky has collaborated with Gucci, Dior, Puma, 636 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 1: and other major brands. And so, Steve, you're a fashion 637 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:45,840 Speaker 1: icon yourself, have you been. I hear you breathing though, Yeah. 638 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 7: I hear all of that, you know, because I ain't 639 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 7: a hater. You know, I'm not a and I like 640 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 7: asap a lot. 641 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 2: Yes, you know. 642 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 7: I'm not a fan of the Dorothy rayanch slipper shoes 643 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,399 Speaker 7: with the why yeah, bobby socks. I'm not a fan 644 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 7: of men wearing skirts skirts. I'm not a fan of that. 645 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 1: So you have been following his fashions throughout the years. 646 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man? And he was he he he wears 647 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 2: some dope stuff. 648 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you were younger, would you do it? 649 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:15,319 Speaker 2: I'll give it. 650 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,399 Speaker 14: I don't like twenty million for you to wear red 651 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 14: shoes with white baby doll socks. 652 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:22,720 Speaker 1: Twenty million to rock. 653 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 2: That cold black suit with it. 654 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 9: Yeah, you're already drifted up Junior with. 655 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 7: You bail bottom pants, black suit. Yeah, you gotta go, 656 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 7: white shirt, white shirt. Oh, I'm a worm, I'm a rocket. 657 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 7: Now he's gonna sit on the front road and cross 658 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 7: my legs. 659 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, for you. 660 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 7: To wear the shirt, Steve got on, I got on 661 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,280 Speaker 7: twenty millions dollar shoes. 662 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 2: That's what the ones I got on. 663 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: So what about the skirt? How much would it take 664 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 1: for you to wear. 665 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 2: I ain't wearing no skirt. I'm not wearing a skirt. 666 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 3: Thirty million, thirty. 667 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:01,800 Speaker 2: I'll wait around the house. 668 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 8: But thanks, you'll see a picture of it. 669 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: Huh yeah. Finally, guys, imagine checking your bank account on 670 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: payday and noticing an extra eighty seven thousand dollars in 671 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,360 Speaker 1: your account. That's what happened to a Russian factory worker, 672 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 1: and now he's in court fighting to keep all of 673 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 1: the extra money. One of his coworkers from the factory's 674 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 1: accounting department called the man and said the money was 675 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 1: sent by mistake and demanded that he returned it. He 676 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,879 Speaker 1: argued that it was labeled as his salary, which makes 677 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 1: it his money. They sued the man, and the courts 678 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 1: ruled against him and he had his account frozen. The 679 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: company CEO said he will use every legal tool possible 680 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,280 Speaker 1: to recover the eighty seven thousand dollars. 681 00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 2: I understand that. 682 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 1: Huh. 683 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:50,879 Speaker 2: See. 684 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 7: First of all, you couldn't froze my money, because I'm 685 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 7: taking my eighty seven out immediately. Secondly, you going to 686 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 7: have a hard time soon because work he no more. 687 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,640 Speaker 1: So you're keeping the money as. 688 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,360 Speaker 2: Soon as it go in. Now, I know it's a mistake. 689 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 1: Coming up. At twenty minutes after, Steve Junior has a 690 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: question for you about shopping Christmas, shopping for his wife. 691 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Hardy Morning Show. 692 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 1: Around the holidays. It's hard to find the right gifts, 693 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 1: but you know, it's even harder getting the right gift. 694 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. 695 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone 696 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: with a new line on my plan and a brand 697 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You can 698 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: give a couple away and get yourself one too, or 699 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: you can keep them all to yourself. No one has 700 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 1: to know. Stop by your local Verizon. All right, Steve 701 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 1: Junior has a question for you. What you got us? 702 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,360 Speaker 8: You know, been married three years. It's getting difficult. 703 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,400 Speaker 2: You know, this is very difficult. 704 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,280 Speaker 9: Getting Christmas coming up. And my wife just starts hitting 705 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 9: and stuff. You know, so I know she's thinking about 706 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 9: Christmas and she's thinking about a gift up. Yeah, I'm 707 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 9: just trying to figure out we got to get a 708 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 9: new one every year? 709 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,439 Speaker 1: What you heard? 710 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 6: What I asked him? 711 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 2: Oh? 712 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,839 Speaker 8: Uh, we've been married ten years now? 713 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 714 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 9: You mean tell me every year you've been buying Christmas 715 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 9: again every year you've been married. 716 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 8: You ain't miss not one. 717 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 2: Twenty in a row, and bet not miss one. 718 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: Why would you? Christmas? 719 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 7: Christmas ain't a holiday that can creep up on you. 720 00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 7: It's warning size everywhere. 721 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 1: Exactly, they're already playing Christmas. 722 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 8: Christmas don't pop out? So r what you think? 723 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 2: What you think we should get? 724 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 8: What you think? 725 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,839 Speaker 2: What you heard? 726 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 8: What I say? 727 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:03,280 Speaker 7: You keep using terms that don't He ain't got nothing 728 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:04,839 Speaker 7: to do with your wife. 729 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: You do. 730 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:12,759 Speaker 7: I got my own problem in situation over here, and 731 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 7: I have to produce. 732 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 8: I gotta produce too. 733 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 2: But what got come up with something? 734 00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 1: Man? 735 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,280 Speaker 2: Okay? Okay? 736 00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 8: So like uh like what's the budget on this? 737 00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:23,879 Speaker 1: Well? 738 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 2: I can't give you, but let me just give you 739 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:26,320 Speaker 2: some advice. 740 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 7: You have to give her something that's personal, personal, just 741 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,839 Speaker 7: for her. Can't get her like no washing, dry nor 742 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,240 Speaker 7: TV can't come in there with no new vacuum cleaner, 743 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 7: I got it. Dish washing can't come in there with 744 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 7: no blend can't come in there with no confection of it. 745 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 2: Can't come in. 746 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,400 Speaker 7: There and redo the kitchen, redo the bathroom, can't do 747 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 7: none of that. 748 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,839 Speaker 9: It has to be a person hospital. I gotta get 749 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 9: for her work in the hospital. You know she always 750 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 9: working in the hospital. Okay with you gonna get a multicolor, 751 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 9: blinged out scrub set, like seven of them. I swear 752 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 9: to Josh, you don't love that. Golly, you got a 753 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 9: different every day. 754 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 3: So you're going to buy your wife uniforms that she. 755 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 9: Has, I said, blinged out. They're gonna have designs on them. 756 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 9: They're gonna have like like a Chanelle symbol one one. 757 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 9: We're gonna have a Louis vatan on one. It's gonna 758 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 9: be nice. 759 00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 2: So now let me ask you this, though, Jr. 760 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,760 Speaker 7: Your wife is a nurse practitioner, highest level. 761 00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 2: She's right under the doctor. 762 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 8: Yeah. 763 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 2: She and surgery with glitter falling. 764 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: In, people. 765 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 7: Falling off, the screw falling all in people's wounds and stuff. 766 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,880 Speaker 7: He's just sewing up people, sewing up people with the 767 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:46,840 Speaker 7: extra sequence. 768 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 8: I don't see how I don't see it. 769 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 2: You don't see how we don't see it. I don't 770 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 2: see how you. 771 00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 8: See it. 772 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,879 Speaker 1: That all right, Juny, you need to put some more 773 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: thought into this. All right, you have time because. 774 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,440 Speaker 2: Right now you ain't gonna have to worry about the 775 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 2: fourth Christmas if. 776 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:09,880 Speaker 10: You do this. 777 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, she's here, 778 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 1: sister odell, ladies and gentlemen. Right after this, you're listening 779 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, ladies and gentlemen. 780 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:35,240 Speaker 16: As she and I look, bah shee go, you're away. 781 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:42,800 Speaker 16: She don't low glory. 782 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 8: Good morning's era was good. 783 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 10: Good. 784 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 2: Let's just get right into it what it was going on? 785 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: Okay? If I can't, I'm not sure if you're a 786 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,680 Speaker 1: member of a sorority or anything, but what what do 787 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 1: you think about these people in these sororities fraternities that 788 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: are denouncing their organization? 789 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 7: I don't know what she denouncing it for now? Why 790 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 7: is she letting these wait? Would people tell you what 791 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 7: to do? Ain't nothing wrong with the Sarassis and for Fresheners, 792 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 7: for for for. 793 00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 2: You know, ain't not wrong. But there's some good people 794 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 2: in them. 795 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I think a pastor, Marvel Winings came 796 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 1: out and said you're going to hell or something if 797 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 1: you He. 798 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 7: Also told that lady to get out that line with 799 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:31,480 Speaker 7: that twelve hundred. 800 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 2: Yes, that'd have been the last Sunday he's seen me. 801 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 1: Well, sister Otell, have. 802 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,520 Speaker 2: You not liked the Winers family. 803 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,600 Speaker 1: There's a good family. Just stick to singing I'm preaching. 804 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, you know you you ain't gotta believe every time? 805 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 7: What is I'm a denounced for? I was talking to 806 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 7: Steve about it the other day. Steve been in the 807 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 7: fret a long time he and now said nothing. Well speak, 808 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 7: he said, take a side tack to the day. He died, 809 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:07,960 Speaker 7: What is it? 810 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 3: What did he say? 811 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 7: What he said? 812 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 6: So take it? 813 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 14: Take a take a tack omega five to the day 814 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:16,359 Speaker 14: today he died. 815 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 2: That's what he said. 816 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: Yes, man, he said, And the. 817 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 8: Wine and WANs can come see him by. 818 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 2: It if they want to. 819 00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 1: You know you mentioned pasters earlier. Speaking of pastors, have 820 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 1: you talked to Pastor Jamal Bryant lately and him Christmas 821 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,760 Speaker 1: is coming up? Are we're gonna be able to shop 822 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 1: at Target sooner? 823 00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:39,279 Speaker 6: No? 824 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 2: You still? 825 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,880 Speaker 7: I don't think you still go to Target? But they 826 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 7: he'd have made the white. 827 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 8: Man quit though c Target. 828 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 7: That dog on Jamal Bryant he saw else, he'll put 829 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,080 Speaker 7: one of the little crazy jackets on, look like he 830 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,040 Speaker 7: in the singing group. 831 00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 8: Walk right on out there. 832 00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 2: And just start telling everybody what you do. 833 00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:06,280 Speaker 9: I'll be saying, go ahead, jamam, so you're with. 834 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 3: It, you know. 835 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,479 Speaker 7: I like Jamaal Brian. You know, he uses his poor 836 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,680 Speaker 7: picture to do some different things every now and then. 837 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 7: But I ain't got no problem with I call him jb. 838 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,279 Speaker 1: Oh you do. Oh, I didn't know that. 839 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,320 Speaker 7: I knew his grandmother. He come from a long his 840 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,640 Speaker 7: great great grandmother. 841 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 1: What was her name, Harriet Harry. 842 00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 2: Tough me, sweetie. That was a great great great grandmother. 843 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 1: She was in there. 844 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 2: They've been boycotting in their family the whole time. 845 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,680 Speaker 1: So it's a legacy. Okay, it comes now with your tradition. 846 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 2: You know. 847 00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know she done told us get in. And 848 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,399 Speaker 7: once she got in there, she had a gun and you. 849 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 8: Couldn't go back. 850 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 2: She'll shoot you. 851 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:55,400 Speaker 7: So once you started running with had on that overnight railroad, 852 00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 7: then you had to go all the way up north 853 00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 7: for she a bust of camp in you young, what. 854 00:44:59,280 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: You call her? 855 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 14: I was I was back to what Shirley was asking 856 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,400 Speaker 14: if sister Odell well for Black Friday. 857 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,799 Speaker 3: We can't go to Target. Huh, that's enough. 858 00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 2: Go to Walmart, go to wood J. C. 859 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:21,719 Speaker 8: Pennish. Yeah, look, oh. 860 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 7: Richest may Company, Mason's old junior favorite stove, Mason going 861 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 7: to Macon's. 862 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:30,719 Speaker 2: They got a hundred everything. 863 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 13: You know. 864 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 2: You want a black shoot, you got a hundred over me. 865 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: I was just in there. When I walked away from 866 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 1: the register, I heard the whispering. Was that Charlie Strawberry? 867 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:42,359 Speaker 1: I heard? 868 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 2: What is she in here? Fall? 869 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:46,240 Speaker 8: When is Steve coming? 870 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 2: She a Macion's man. 871 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,359 Speaker 7: Though I talked to Steve about going to Mason's one thing, 872 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:54,719 Speaker 7: he didn't even know what it was. 873 00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 1: Well, sister Odell, you've been delightful this morning. Thank you, 874 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:02,839 Speaker 1: sure has boswed. 875 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,800 Speaker 7: I will call Jamal and find out if we steal 876 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 7: boycott and talking. 877 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, yeah, we need to tell out next the 878 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 1: prank phone call for you right after this. You're listening 879 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:24,880 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at about 880 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry letter for 881 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:33,400 Speaker 1: today and the subject is keeping a secret always backfires. 882 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,479 Speaker 1: We'll get into it find out what that's all about 883 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 1: in just a few because right now it is time 884 00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,680 Speaker 1: for today's prank phone call, and Junior is here for 885 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,360 Speaker 1: the nephew which you have for its junior. 886 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,560 Speaker 8: All right, so this is different today. You know there 887 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 8: was a group called n w A. Remember yeah, straight 888 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:55,799 Speaker 8: out of you Drake. You know, well this ain't them, 889 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 8: Timmy didn't. This ain't what time you do? 890 00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 9: Oh, this ain't straight out of this got nothing to 891 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 9: do with the movie nothing, this food And said n w. 892 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,959 Speaker 8: A stands for in word abolishes. 893 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:14,799 Speaker 9: He want them to stop right now, in word abolishers. 894 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 13: Hello. 895 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,960 Speaker 10: Hello, I'm trying to reach a mister Fears. My name 896 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 10: is Andrews. Is he okay? How you doing, sir? Everything 897 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:23,240 Speaker 10: going good tonight? 898 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:24,959 Speaker 13: Man, I'm doing fine, man, I'm wor. 899 00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 10: Uh wow, sir. Listen, my name is once again Andrews, 900 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,760 Speaker 10: and I'm with n w A, which is in word abolishers. 901 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 10: And as you know, the in word just got buried 902 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,440 Speaker 10: and we're trying to keep that successful and trying to 903 00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,279 Speaker 10: do as much as we can for people to not 904 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:47,920 Speaker 10: use the word. It's been brought to our attention that 905 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:52,759 Speaker 10: you have been consistently using the word even after we've 906 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 10: buried it. And what we wanted to do is first 907 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,359 Speaker 10: of all ask you to stop, and we don't want 908 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 10: to take any other actions, which. 909 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 1: Could mean not only burying the word. 910 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 10: But also burying the people who use it, such as 911 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 10: yourself to say thank you. 912 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 13: Better don't comment man, I tell you I'm late for work. Man, 913 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 13: you call me about please? I say, I want to say, 914 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 13: I ain't got time to be a listener. N w 915 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,279 Speaker 13: A y'all need to go listen to a rough record 916 00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 13: or something. I'm calling my father. I got to do. 917 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:25,200 Speaker 12: I'm man. 918 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 6: I understand that, sir. 919 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 10: We're just asking you, sir, can we could you possibly 920 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 10: not use the N word? 921 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,800 Speaker 13: Don't ask somebody else, call somebody else bothering with this, 922 00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:42,800 Speaker 13: I say, I say, I say this with you c 923 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 13: n W. 924 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,920 Speaker 6: I ain't never heard of y'all, sir, do you We're 925 00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 6: just I know it's. 926 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 10: I know it's a process, sir, but we're asking you 927 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 10: that if you could just possibly just quit. 928 00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,359 Speaker 13: Using the word man you, I'll use it the hell 929 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,880 Speaker 13: I want. I don't know you, you don't know me 930 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,440 Speaker 13: with the hell how you know I use the word anyway? 931 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 2: Sir? 932 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 6: Could you please not call me that? 933 00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:08,960 Speaker 13: You? How about that? 934 00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 6: I said, don't call me that now? 935 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,960 Speaker 10: Don't get me bent out of shape about it. 936 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:18,480 Speaker 13: Right, you sound like a stupid I got your You 937 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 13: know what I'm saying, Huh, I tell you I got 938 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:21,319 Speaker 13: to do man, I ain't got to try to play 939 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 13: on the poets. 940 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 6: I'm trying to. 941 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 10: Make sure that here in this country from now on, 942 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 10: the word is not used anymore. And for you to 943 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,240 Speaker 10: do this, for you to continue to go against. 944 00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 6: The grain, we. 945 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:33,759 Speaker 1: Gotta put a stop to it. 946 00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 13: I don't have a problem. That's who I am. I'm 947 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 13: a girl, gristlin brain type of I don't have a 948 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:47,360 Speaker 13: problem burying you along with the word ohm up that 949 00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,720 Speaker 13: you're talking crazy? Now boy, bury me, I'm ana bury 950 00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 13: young very hatchet in your sack? How about that? 951 00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 12: You don't like that? 952 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 13: Do your NWA with attitudes? That's what your shoe calls you. 953 00:49:58,520 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 6: It's not it's n W. 954 00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 1: It's in word abolishers with attitude. 955 00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 13: Stupid all who made up with my apologies smell apologists 956 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,800 Speaker 13: apologists because you're stupid. Don't call my phone. 957 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:14,360 Speaker 10: It's in Look, you're gonna talk to me with some 958 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 10: resk talk to me with some respects, sir. 959 00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,359 Speaker 13: You don't get no respect from me because you call 960 00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 13: my phone. Stupid what you called me? I don't even 961 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 13: know how you got my nothing. I was spending this 962 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 13: much time talking to your stupid you sound like a 963 00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 13: dumb calling somebody phone co Cos nine one one to 964 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:35,040 Speaker 13: get you from him. Jump, don't get your swooped him. 965 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,839 Speaker 13: Oh well, I'm right here, I ain't moving. I live 966 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 13: right here at thirteen or one thing. Come see me 967 00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,399 Speaker 13: look it up. If you can't find it, get your 968 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 13: gpa right here? 969 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 6: Can I tell you another thing? 970 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 13: You could tell me whatever you wanna tell me. 971 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,120 Speaker 1: This is Nephew Tomming. 972 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 6: From the Steve Harvey Marty Show. 973 00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 10: You just got prayed by your brother Marcus Spears. 974 00:50:58,480 --> 00:50:58,880 Speaker 6: Man. 975 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 1: You are crazy, dog, You're. 976 00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:09,440 Speaker 13: Crazy, y'all. Oh excuseid, y'all was crazy? Man? Hey man, 977 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 13: that's true. 978 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,120 Speaker 1: Hey, look at your brother. 979 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 10: Marcus told he toldly just said, I bet him five 980 00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 10: hundred dollars. He was gonna use the N word before 981 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 10: the month was up. 982 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:26,719 Speaker 13: Man, y'all, can't just you know, to this on the 983 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 13: like this. Excuse me, but you can't just tow this 984 00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,080 Speaker 13: up on me. Mane. It takes time. It's like start 985 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,920 Speaker 13: smoking cigarettes. It takes me six up months just to 986 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 13: get it out of my sister. You know, I'm talking about. 987 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 10: Your brother, said, he said, I promise you my brother 988 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,040 Speaker 10: Calvin is the craziest person I know. 989 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:46,759 Speaker 6: He said, he gonna go off as soon as you 990 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:47,399 Speaker 6: call it. 991 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,360 Speaker 13: I might have been the crazy, said he know, but y'all' 992 00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,840 Speaker 13: something the craziest I heard on the radio. I see that. 993 00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:57,239 Speaker 13: I gonna get this one. 994 00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:58,720 Speaker 6: Ain't Calvin doman favorite? 995 00:51:58,719 --> 00:51:58,919 Speaker 12: Man? 996 00:51:59,000 --> 00:51:59,400 Speaker 13: What's up? 997 00:51:59,640 --> 00:51:59,839 Speaker 6: Work? 998 00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:04,520 Speaker 12: Yeah? 999 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,799 Speaker 6: Man, hold work on the word? 1000 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,680 Speaker 10: All right, work on, try bro, I'm gonna try doing 1001 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,360 Speaker 10: fans try to fans for about two weeks without. 1002 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,759 Speaker 13: Usually all right, fans, Okay, that's all good. 1003 00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,759 Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you what is this? 1004 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 2: Boy? 1005 00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,240 Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land. 1006 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,920 Speaker 13: You've got to be kids don't like that. It's a 1007 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:31,800 Speaker 13: Steve Harbin Morning show. Mane, I'm listening to you. Listen, 1008 00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,240 Speaker 13: you clear the folks every morning? 1009 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:33,680 Speaker 12: How about that? 1010 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 2: All right? 1011 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:38,960 Speaker 10: Say for now you say folks and people, and y'all try. 1012 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:45,960 Speaker 8: To that is in word abolishes at the time. 1013 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:50,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, he wasn't playing though. You're serious about this? 1014 00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:53,919 Speaker 8: Do you want them to bolish in word? 1015 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 1: Up? 1016 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:55,640 Speaker 8: Do you think they should have bolished in word? 1017 00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:57,520 Speaker 2: They can if they want to I'm not gonna be 1018 00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:58,880 Speaker 2: a participating. 1019 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 1: They pretty much have. 1020 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:05,520 Speaker 2: They didn't do what they wanted. 1021 00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,720 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna beg who is they? Uh us? 1022 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 7: You know Ravend shopped and he had started it for 1023 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 7: a while. He called me and I remember, I remember 1024 00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:19,479 Speaker 7: that Butch Lewis's funeral. Uh. He was telling the story 1025 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,719 Speaker 7: about when they was getting the N word abolished. He 1026 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,879 Speaker 7: went in there and talked to Butch Lewis and told 1027 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 7: him how the word had to stop and when he's 1028 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,799 Speaker 7: gonna stop using it. But Lewis looked at him and said, 1029 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 7: N word please. 1030 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 12: Wow. 1031 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:35,640 Speaker 8: Didn't they have a Didn't they have a funeral for 1032 00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 8: the N word? Remember? They put the N word in 1033 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,879 Speaker 8: the ground, covered it up. It's like a ceremony. 1034 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:41,319 Speaker 1: I don't remember that. 1035 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:45,160 Speaker 7: But I I'm dealing with the N word ghost then, 1036 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:45,719 Speaker 7: because he. 1037 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:51,759 Speaker 2: The ghost of Yeah, he visited me all the time. 1038 00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,240 Speaker 1: I know. 1039 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:00,719 Speaker 6: It gives you. 1040 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 9: Up when you say it to me. 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You never 1092 00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:41,720 Speaker 1: know it could be yours. 1093 00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,040 Speaker 9: Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for the Strawberry 1094 00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,400 Speaker 9: Letter with my good friend Shirley Strawberry. 1095 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:51,520 Speaker 1: Thank you junior. Subject to keeping a secret always backfires. 1096 00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,560 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley. I'm in my late twenties and I 1097 00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 1: got married two years ago. My husband is eleven years 1098 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,799 Speaker 1: older than I am, and he's a great man, but 1099 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,799 Speaker 1: he went through a brief period of ed before we 1100 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:07,000 Speaker 1: got married. I was young and care free at the time, 1101 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:10,400 Speaker 1: so I did something very stupid. I had gone for 1102 00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,560 Speaker 1: close to three months without sex with my man, and 1103 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 1: I went to a wedding back in my hometown and 1104 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: had sex with my ex boyfriend from high school. All 1105 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 1: of the feelings I had for him came flooding back, 1106 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,520 Speaker 1: and I had an affair with him for two months. 1107 00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,720 Speaker 1: He flew in to see me during the week and 1108 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,160 Speaker 1: I would leave work and spend the afternoon with him 1109 00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:35,200 Speaker 1: at different hotels. Then he ghosted me without any explanation, 1110 00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 1: and I was deeply hurt. I confided in one of 1111 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:41,080 Speaker 1: my closest friends, and she kept it real with me 1112 00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:44,280 Speaker 1: and said I needed to get over it and marry 1113 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:47,440 Speaker 1: the man that's in love with me. I got engaged 1114 00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:51,160 Speaker 1: and this close friend wanted to be a bridesmaid, but 1115 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,919 Speaker 1: I had to choose my fiancee's sister instead of her. 1116 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 1: She told me that she understood, and I was relieved 1117 00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:01,400 Speaker 1: until one of our other friends told me that the 1118 00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,400 Speaker 1: girl was calling me a lucky bee behind my back. 1119 00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 1: I thought she was jealous because she was single, so 1120 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,919 Speaker 1: I let it slide. I got pregnant on my wedding night, 1121 00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 1: and my life has been NonStop since then. I ran 1122 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,160 Speaker 1: into my old friend and she was very bitter. I 1123 00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 1: went to hug her, and she pulled back. She said 1124 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,000 Speaker 1: I ghosted her after I got everything I wanted, and 1125 00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:27,240 Speaker 1: my husband should know who I really am in love with. 1126 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,680 Speaker 1: I insisted that I do love my husband and that 1127 00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 1: affair I had was a mistake. She walked away smirking 1128 00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 1: and said, have a nice life. So I try to 1129 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:41,920 Speaker 1: fix our friendship so she won't tell my secret. Well, 1130 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,320 Speaker 1: I say no, because she's not your friend, and she's 1131 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: not anyone that you need in your life right now. 1132 00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:50,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, not with all the negative energy 1133 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 1: she's got around her. I would stay as far away 1134 00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,480 Speaker 1: from her as possible. I mean, you said, it's been 1135 00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 1: two years since you got married, got pregnant in more 1136 00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,160 Speaker 1: than two years since the affair. I say, you're a 1137 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: major mom with serious responsibilities now and what she's talking 1138 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,480 Speaker 1: about is petty and more than that, it's over. It's 1139 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:14,000 Speaker 1: done with, so continue to live your NonStop life like 1140 00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 1: you've been doing. This girl is bitter because you didn't 1141 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,120 Speaker 1: put her in your wedding, even though she said at 1142 00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,360 Speaker 1: the time it was cool. You didn't ghost her. It's 1143 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,360 Speaker 1: just that your life changed so drastically after marriage. You 1144 00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,760 Speaker 1: had a husband and a baby and very little time 1145 00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 1: for anything else. I think a real friend would have 1146 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:35,000 Speaker 1: understood that. But now she's threatening to use some two 1147 00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:39,439 Speaker 1: year old before you were married affair against you, which 1148 00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:42,360 Speaker 1: means she hasn't moved on and you have. She's still 1149 00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:45,000 Speaker 1: upset and she hasn't forgiven you. I think she was 1150 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,360 Speaker 1: gonna If she was going to use this infosts, she 1151 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 1: would have done it before now. And I just think 1152 00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:53,640 Speaker 1: you need to, you know, keep it pushing, keep moving forward, 1153 00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,440 Speaker 1: and let her stay behind where she needs to be 1154 00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 1: and out of your life. 1155 00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:04,080 Speaker 7: Steve Well, Shirley's correct, But let me say this to you. 1156 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:10,960 Speaker 7: Let's just start with the subject keeping a secret always backfires. 1157 01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:19,400 Speaker 7: One of my favorite lines, shit shit mouth all secrets. 1158 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:21,440 Speaker 7: That's why they call them a secret, because a lot 1159 01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:22,800 Speaker 7: of people do keep secrets. 1160 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,440 Speaker 2: There are a lot of secrets. That's secrets in the ocean. 1161 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:27,800 Speaker 6: Now. 1162 01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:29,120 Speaker 2: You can dive down there if you want. 1163 01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 7: You try to discover them, but you're gonna die because 1164 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:39,479 Speaker 7: there are secrets that you have to carry to your grave. 1165 01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:40,120 Speaker 8: I have to. 1166 01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:42,560 Speaker 2: They're going with me. 1167 01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:46,440 Speaker 7: I don't even have the urge to tell them. I 1168 01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 7: don't have like moments where my guilty bothering me and 1169 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:50,360 Speaker 7: stuff washing over me. 1170 01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 2: I don't even have that. 1171 01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:57,160 Speaker 7: What that's my secret that you in your late twenties. 1172 01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,160 Speaker 7: You got married two years ago. Your HUDs were eleven 1173 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:02,560 Speaker 7: years old. You he had some erectile dysfunction before you 1174 01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,600 Speaker 7: got married, so you was carefree. Y'all, didn't have sex 1175 01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:08,200 Speaker 7: with three months and you just got horned. You went 1176 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:12,040 Speaker 7: to your ex hometown and ran up in your ex 1177 01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:14,360 Speaker 7: boyfriend out of wedding, and all the feelings you had 1178 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,720 Speaker 7: for him came back, and then you had a fair 1179 01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:21,760 Speaker 7: with him at the wedding before you was married. 1180 01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:26,280 Speaker 2: That's your secret. The problem is you ain't keeping the secret. 1181 01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:27,800 Speaker 7: You told somebody I don't know what the hell you 1182 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,520 Speaker 7: told somebody folk, but you did, so you had the fire. 1183 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,400 Speaker 2: For two months, he flew in to see me during 1184 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:33,720 Speaker 2: the week. 1185 01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:36,160 Speaker 7: I would leave work and spend the afternoon with him 1186 01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:42,600 Speaker 7: at different hotels. That boy was flying in bringing it. 1187 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:43,480 Speaker 2: It was convenient. 1188 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 7: Then he ghosted me without any explanation, and I was 1189 01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 7: deeply hurt. Well, you showed up at the wedding with 1190 01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:59,680 Speaker 7: no explanation. You had fiance, You did something without explaining 1191 01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 7: to him, so he ghosted you. 1192 01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 2: Ain't no big deal. You were hurt. Here's the mistake 1193 01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:05,840 Speaker 2: you made. 1194 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:10,720 Speaker 7: You confided in one of your closest friends, who we 1195 01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,080 Speaker 7: will refer through to throughout the rest of this letter 1196 01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:25,840 Speaker 7: as the skank. You you confided in your skank, you say, 1197 01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,520 Speaker 7: as your closest friend, but we will refer to her 1198 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 7: from the rest of this morning show as that skank, 1199 01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:35,600 Speaker 7: the skank All. 1200 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:40,880 Speaker 8: Skank highlights number three. 1201 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, she kept it real with me and said I 1202 01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:45,960 Speaker 7: needed to get over it and marry the man that's 1203 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,080 Speaker 7: in love with me. I got engaged in his close 1204 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,560 Speaker 7: friend wanted to be a bridesmaid, but I had to 1205 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:55,240 Speaker 7: choose my fiance sister instead of her. That's why you 1206 01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,440 Speaker 7: made a mistake. And when we come back, I'll tell 1207 01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:59,760 Speaker 7: you what you should have told your fiance. 1208 01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:03,560 Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming 1209 01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:05,600 Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour of the 1210 01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:09,840 Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry letter. Keeping a secret always backfires. 1211 01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,840 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1212 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:14,919 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1213 01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,200 Speaker 9: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1214 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,520 Speaker 9: planning and hard work to get in the door. Then 1215 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,000 Speaker 9: make that house a home. Now, all that effort has 1216 01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:30,160 Speaker 9: built something hugely valuable, equity. 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Let's go. 1227 01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:57,000 Speaker 7: This young woman in her twenties had a man eleven 1228 01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 7: years old say we're gonna get married. He experienced on 1229 01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:04,600 Speaker 7: me ed and erectile dysfunction, and she needed to get 1230 01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:08,360 Speaker 7: herself fixed. So she went to her ex boyfriend who 1231 01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:09,439 Speaker 7: lived in another town. 1232 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,240 Speaker 2: She was at a wed, ran up into him. 1233 01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:14,520 Speaker 7: They had feelings and they had sex, and then she 1234 01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:16,400 Speaker 7: ended up having her a fam for two months who 1235 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:19,360 Speaker 7: used to fly in town, and she leave work early, 1236 01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:23,440 Speaker 7: go down to the hotel and get rached, you know, 1237 01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,080 Speaker 7: and just things are just happening down there. The word 1238 01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:30,560 Speaker 7: is ranched. You ain't ever been ranched before. I recommend 1239 01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:35,400 Speaker 7: it happened before you die. It's very cleansing. So she 1240 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:39,400 Speaker 7: went out there and she got ranched, and just oh, oh, 1241 01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 7: you're ranching, just ranching off in new You know, it's 1242 01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,400 Speaker 7: a it's a it's a derivative of rents. 1243 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:48,680 Speaker 2: It's a country way of saying. 1244 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:51,720 Speaker 7: Wrist like you know, rint that out range, that out 1245 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 7: range that means harder when you ranch it. 1246 01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:56,120 Speaker 2: It's harder. 1247 01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,720 Speaker 7: If you get a wrench, that's one thing, but if 1248 01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,560 Speaker 7: you get that ranch, that's a whole nother thing, you 1249 01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,800 Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. So yet to do like that, 1250 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,840 Speaker 7: So now yeah, I'm just what we do here? 1251 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:13,200 Speaker 2: We educated So now. 1252 01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 1: And so now. 1253 01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:21,320 Speaker 7: You come back and he's been at that hotel take 1254 01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:24,480 Speaker 7: care of business, and then out of nowhere, he ghosted you. 1255 01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 7: Why you were surprised about that, I don't know. And 1256 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:32,440 Speaker 7: you were deeply hurt. So you confide it in the skank. 1257 01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:39,360 Speaker 7: You told skanky, and skank kept it real with you 1258 01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 7: and said I needed to get over it and married 1259 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,840 Speaker 7: a man that's in love with me. Now, skank was 1260 01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 7: right about that. Now, so you did what skank said. 1261 01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 7: I got engaged, and this skank wanted to be a bridesmaid, 1262 01:05:56,040 --> 01:06:00,720 Speaker 7: but I had to choose my fiance sister instead of her. 1263 01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:05,480 Speaker 2: No, you did it. It is your wedding. 1264 01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,520 Speaker 7: You let the fact that he was eleven years older 1265 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 7: than you and his sister want to be in the 1266 01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 7: wind because she sang, I ain't never been in no wind. 1267 01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 7: You know, nobody never asked her to be in no win. 1268 01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:17,440 Speaker 7: She want to be in the wind so she can 1269 01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:20,000 Speaker 7: get in the line, catch the bouquet, because ain't nobody 1270 01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:23,240 Speaker 7: fit to ask her ugly to marry her at tall 1271 01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:26,680 Speaker 7: So she figured I know she ever because she forced 1272 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:30,360 Speaker 7: herself in the wedding. Ugly people always pushing themself in 1273 01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:33,160 Speaker 7: weds and stuff. Uther people know how to barge in, 1274 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 7: you know, keep people go oh, I'm not selecting. Okay, 1275 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:38,840 Speaker 7: well good luck, you know, but ugly people. Are you 1276 01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 7: gonna want me? I'm gonna tell my brother put me 1277 01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:43,040 Speaker 7: in your wed. Now we have to get all this 1278 01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:45,440 Speaker 7: extra fabric to make her dress. Now she down there 1279 01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 7: with meal. She'd had a special cut to put it 1280 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,000 Speaker 7: in the dress because she big. Now she got the 1281 01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:52,760 Speaker 7: stomach out and both side panels out. She didn't even 1282 01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:55,439 Speaker 7: look like rest of drides me. But anyway, she got 1283 01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 7: in the wed. Now, the problem you had was your 1284 01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:02,840 Speaker 7: skin thought that she should be in the wed because 1285 01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:06,040 Speaker 7: y'all was cool. This is what happens when you cool 1286 01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:11,400 Speaker 7: with a scake. So skank told you she understood. I 1287 01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,240 Speaker 7: was relieved, And to one of your other friends told 1288 01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 7: you that the skank was calling you a lucky bee 1289 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:21,480 Speaker 7: behind your back. I thought she was jealous because she 1290 01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:25,520 Speaker 7: was single, so I let it slide. Then you got 1291 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:27,080 Speaker 7: pregnant on your wed at night, and your life is 1292 01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:31,400 Speaker 7: non stop every since you ran into your skank. You 1293 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:33,720 Speaker 7: ran in the skank cat, let's give her name. You 1294 01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:37,040 Speaker 7: ran up in the skank cat, skank kettle. You ran 1295 01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:42,400 Speaker 7: up in the scan ketto and she was very bitter. 1296 01:07:43,440 --> 01:07:46,880 Speaker 7: I went to hug and she pulled back. That's cause 1297 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:51,120 Speaker 7: she skanked. She said, I ghosted her after I got 1298 01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:54,200 Speaker 7: everything I wanted, and my husband should know who I'm 1299 01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,840 Speaker 7: really in love with. I insisted that I do love 1300 01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:01,080 Speaker 7: my husband, that that affair was a mistake. She walked away, 1301 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:04,840 Speaker 7: smirking and said, have a nice life. Do I try 1302 01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,520 Speaker 7: to fix our friendship so she won't tell my secret? 1303 01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:11,600 Speaker 7: Sureley's absolutely correct, Absolutely not. You don't try to fix 1304 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:15,440 Speaker 7: this relationship with escape. This ain't your friend, she's escaped. 1305 01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:18,280 Speaker 7: Why would you want to fix it with escape? What 1306 01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:21,280 Speaker 7: you got to do is fix her. See stop being 1307 01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,960 Speaker 7: the victim all the time. Naw, she's gonna threaten to 1308 01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:27,840 Speaker 7: go to your husband with this news. Couple of things 1309 01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:32,240 Speaker 7: you need to do. First of all, do what men done. 1310 01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 7: I mean, look just as surprised, Sureley, I want you 1311 01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,040 Speaker 7: to be the girl coming to tell my husband what 1312 01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 7: you know. Start and I'm gonna show her how she. 1313 01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:41,760 Speaker 6: Need to be. 1314 01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:48,679 Speaker 1: Okay, Clarence, Hi, you remember me. I'm Betty your wife friend. 1315 01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:51,000 Speaker 1: I want it to be what you over here for 1316 01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:57,960 Speaker 1: Betty Well to come over because you know there's some 1317 01:08:58,080 --> 01:09:02,000 Speaker 1: things about Betty that you don't know, and I wanted 1318 01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,400 Speaker 1: to let you know that I know something about her 1319 01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:09,640 Speaker 1: that I think you Yeah, I think you should know 1320 01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:10,559 Speaker 1: this about her. 1321 01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,240 Speaker 2: Okay, No, we all need to tell something. Go ahead. 1322 01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:16,439 Speaker 1: Well I don't I don't know anything about that. I 1323 01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:17,439 Speaker 1: just know what I know. 1324 01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:18,639 Speaker 2: What is that? 1325 01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:22,840 Speaker 1: Well? You remember like there was a period of time 1326 01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,559 Speaker 1: like three months before you guys got married where you 1327 01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:31,720 Speaker 1: guys didn't have sex. You remember that? You don't remember that. 1328 01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:34,519 Speaker 2: You're trying to say Clas had d. 1329 01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to say Clarence had e D Clais. 1330 01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:40,760 Speaker 18: How does Heffer? How does Heffer know you had I 1331 01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:47,840 Speaker 18: E ed? That's healf fa No, you had e D 1332 01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:48,920 Speaker 18: Claire Ritz. 1333 01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:53,840 Speaker 1: All right, See you can't it can go something like that. 1334 01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:57,160 Speaker 1: Hit us up on Instagram and Steve Harb FM to 1335 01:09:57,200 --> 01:09:59,439 Speaker 1: comment on Today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check out 1336 01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:03,320 Speaker 1: the Strawberry podcasts on demand. Coming up next, it is 1337 01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:04,800 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. 1338 01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:08,320 Speaker 10: Right after this this Cifemale hosts a Gang here, Han 1339 01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:09,080 Speaker 10: Yoda Kane Good. 1340 01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:11,800 Speaker 1: You are tuned in to the Steve have And Morning Show. 1341 01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:19,599 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, 1342 01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:23,360 Speaker 1: quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, 1343 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:27,200 Speaker 1: still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age. 1344 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:30,320 Speaker 1: That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen 1345 01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:34,120 Speaker 1: your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, 1346 01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:38,800 Speaker 1: new micastle, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall, ask 1347 01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 1: your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaccisist dot 1348 01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:46,160 Speaker 1: com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or more 1349 01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:50,200 Speaker 1: of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. It is time now for 1350 01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:52,880 Speaker 1: junior and sports talk. Where you got junior? 1351 01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:54,320 Speaker 2: All right, sure, let's just. 1352 01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,280 Speaker 8: Talk about this in the NBA, what's going on? This 1353 01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 8: is kind of crazy. 1354 01:10:57,080 --> 01:10:57,640 Speaker 1: It's trying to. 1355 01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,200 Speaker 8: Figure out this is two ways they're doing this is okay. 1356 01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,760 Speaker 9: Steve Kerr promoted his son, Nicholas Cooper to the head 1357 01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:07,080 Speaker 9: coach and assistant head coach on the Golden State Warriors. 1358 01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:10,360 Speaker 9: You know, his son was the head coach for the 1359 01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:13,280 Speaker 9: G League team to set a cruise Warriors. But before 1360 01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:16,120 Speaker 9: that he was an assistant coach. Then before that he 1361 01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,080 Speaker 9: was a videography coach. He was an assistant quality coach 1362 01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,720 Speaker 9: for the San Churnio spurs all of this, and now 1363 01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:24,040 Speaker 9: he's been promoted up there with his father and he 1364 01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:26,320 Speaker 9: sits on the side of his father and just sound 1365 01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,160 Speaker 9: for me to anybody, did this sounds all. 1366 01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:31,640 Speaker 8: That's cool with me, Yeah, all that's cool, right. But 1367 01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:33,519 Speaker 8: when Lebron do it though, just. 1368 01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:34,040 Speaker 3: About the same. 1369 01:11:34,520 --> 01:11:37,920 Speaker 8: When Lebron his son his son. 1370 01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:39,840 Speaker 2: It's always a problem. 1371 01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:44,600 Speaker 7: That's why I see once see, I need other examples 1372 01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:48,599 Speaker 7: of it happening to keep justifying and making it look good. 1373 01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:51,599 Speaker 7: So I like, I like what Lebron has done. Matter 1374 01:11:51,640 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 7: of fact, I love it. I love it, and I like. 1375 01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:58,280 Speaker 1: What Steve Kurr doing and is not wrong with that. 1376 01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:01,639 Speaker 7: The Mannings did it. Now they got this other boy 1377 01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:05,759 Speaker 7: that's a manning quarterback for Texas. They big up in him. 1378 01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, right now he's not the same. He don't 1379 01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:10,880 Speaker 7: need to wear the name right now. 1380 01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:14,000 Speaker 9: But you know, by how long had they been helping 1381 01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 9: their family members get jobs in high place? 1382 01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:18,280 Speaker 8: How long have they been doing that? Hain't that been forever? 1383 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,320 Speaker 2: Okay, I hire two of my sons. I don't care who. 1384 01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:21,840 Speaker 2: I don't like it. 1385 01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:32,280 Speaker 9: Because I just wanted to say how it's different for 1386 01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:33,920 Speaker 9: Steve kurt they don't need you know. 1387 01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:36,880 Speaker 8: Oh, great job, Steve, great job bringing your son on. 1388 01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:39,840 Speaker 9: All this proper praise, and then Lebron James had to 1389 01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 9: go through hell, just had to go through ups and 1390 01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:43,360 Speaker 9: downs about his son. 1391 01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:45,719 Speaker 6: It's all good, it's all good. 1392 01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:47,000 Speaker 2: Y'all know what's happening here. 1393 01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:50,160 Speaker 14: But a lot of the Lebron drama was brought on 1394 01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:52,920 Speaker 14: by a certain sports commentator. 1395 01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,559 Speaker 1: Well to mention any names, Steve. 1396 01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:58,680 Speaker 9: He never mentioned nobody's name on here, do we. We 1397 01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:02,200 Speaker 9: don't never do that. That's not well to Stephen A. 1398 01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:04,440 Speaker 9: Smith would be almost blasphemous. 1399 01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, very terrible to say, Stephen Anglish. 1400 01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:09,200 Speaker 6: So congratulates. 1401 01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:11,280 Speaker 2: I wouldn't saying it because your frat brother. That's why 1402 01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 2: I wouldn't see. 1403 01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:17,960 Speaker 8: Congratulations Nick Kerr for giving your son an opportunity to 1404 01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,400 Speaker 8: coach and that may be his dream and you're fulfilling 1405 01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:20,800 Speaker 8: a dream. 1406 01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:24,600 Speaker 9: No, no, I'm I'm fine with you know. I'm just 1407 01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:26,439 Speaker 9: mad my dad didn't bring me on the telephone. Come 1408 01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:33,320 Speaker 9: he telephone coming for nothing? Passed me every single time 1409 01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:36,800 Speaker 9: you were mad at mister delvile for that. 1410 01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:40,880 Speaker 8: He went in there and pulled my application. He's not 1411 01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:42,360 Speaker 8: coming in all right, junior. 1412 01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour, 1413 01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:49,160 Speaker 1: a wife is living apart from her new husband because 1414 01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,400 Speaker 1: of his mom. She's singing advice. We'll get into it 1415 01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:54,920 Speaker 1: right after this. What's going on? 1416 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:55,360 Speaker 6: Greetings? 1417 01:13:55,360 --> 01:13:56,519 Speaker 1: Inside you tections everybody. 1418 01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:58,599 Speaker 4: This is Neil when you are locked into the best 1419 01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,240 Speaker 4: morning show already, so you know I'm talking about Steve 1420 01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:02,000 Speaker 4: Harvey Morning Show. 1421 01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:04,519 Speaker 1: Keep it locked right hand. You're listening to the Steve 1422 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:11,680 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, This is from Angie 1423 01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:16,360 Speaker 1: and kenne Bunkport. Angie says, I'm thirty eight years old 1424 01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:19,360 Speaker 1: and I got married last month. My husband has not 1425 01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:21,840 Speaker 1: moved in with me yet because his mom asked him 1426 01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:23,839 Speaker 1: to stay with her until December. 1427 01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:24,200 Speaker 2: First. 1428 01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:26,840 Speaker 1: I can go visit him at her house, but I 1429 01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:30,599 Speaker 1: can't stay overnight because he sleeps on the couch. His 1430 01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:33,800 Speaker 1: mom is still number one in his life. And by 1431 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:38,160 Speaker 1: the way, nothing is wrong with mom. She's just a 1432 01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:42,160 Speaker 1: self centered b Should I continue to patiently wait for 1433 01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,600 Speaker 1: my husband to come home or should I call it 1434 01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 1: quits and get divorced? 1435 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:49,200 Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know. I don't know how you married. 1436 01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Surely she had known something right, You. 1437 01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,439 Speaker 7: Married a man that sleeps on his mama's couch. M 1438 01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,000 Speaker 7: You don't, yeah, like a you telling nothing. You ain't 1439 01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:08,400 Speaker 7: want no y'all want to chippy and get apartment y'all, y'all, 1440 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:10,360 Speaker 7: what how about a bed together? 1441 01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:11,920 Speaker 2: Y'all in want You didn't want that. 1442 01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:14,559 Speaker 1: And it's just been a month that they've. 1443 01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,760 Speaker 7: Been married, and he's staying at his mama's house on 1444 01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:19,800 Speaker 7: the couch and you can't spend the night over there 1445 01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:23,240 Speaker 7: because she asked him to stay with her to December one. 1446 01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:30,160 Speaker 7: What happens on December second? Yeah, I'm just trying to 1447 01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:31,080 Speaker 7: figure out what happened. 1448 01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:35,920 Speaker 1: Well, he's supposed to come home to his wife, go 1449 01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:40,920 Speaker 1: home to his wife. It's something else that's crazy. 1450 01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:43,559 Speaker 7: But but but but she said that mamma ain't sick 1451 01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:44,800 Speaker 7: of that. Ain't nothing wrong with him? 1452 01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:48,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, she said. She did say she's just a self 1453 01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:51,200 Speaker 1: centered b though no strong. 1454 01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:54,880 Speaker 7: Word she's a self centered b. Is that your husband 1455 01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:56,120 Speaker 7: is a mama's boy. 1456 01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:57,320 Speaker 1: Boy. 1457 01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:02,840 Speaker 7: You done married this boy hoping he would be a man. 1458 01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,680 Speaker 7: But it's hard to be your mama's boy and your 1459 01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:06,519 Speaker 7: woman's man. 1460 01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:09,920 Speaker 2: That's hard to do. 1461 01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:13,280 Speaker 7: Do you need to hear that again? It's hard to 1462 01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:18,160 Speaker 7: be your mama's boy and to become your woman's man 1463 01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:21,640 Speaker 7: are two different requirements. 1464 01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:25,400 Speaker 14: They never will go together. 1465 01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:28,960 Speaker 7: They can't exist at the same time. You can't be 1466 01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:30,680 Speaker 7: a boy and a man at the same time. 1467 01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:31,360 Speaker 1: You just can't. 1468 01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:32,680 Speaker 2: It's impossible. 1469 01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:36,280 Speaker 1: Yes, sir, So that's her question. Should she continually wait 1470 01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,960 Speaker 1: patiently for her husband to come home or should she 1471 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:40,600 Speaker 1: call it quits and get divorced? 1472 01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:42,320 Speaker 2: How long they been married, Shirley? 1473 01:16:42,400 --> 01:16:44,679 Speaker 1: Did she say they just got married last month? They 1474 01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:46,160 Speaker 1: just got married last month? 1475 01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:47,360 Speaker 2: Why y'all get married? 1476 01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:55,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly if you. 1477 01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,639 Speaker 7: Wait for him to come home. So I'm assuming home 1478 01:16:58,760 --> 01:16:59,439 Speaker 7: is your house. 1479 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:06,200 Speaker 1: Uh M, she's not sick, she said, mom with the 1480 01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:09,680 Speaker 1: mom nothing. She says, she's just a self centered be 1481 01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:14,600 Speaker 1: wooh strong words. Wow. All right, moving on, we have 1482 01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:18,160 Speaker 1: time for another one. This is from Deonce in Colombia. 1483 01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:23,360 Speaker 1: Deyonce writes, I did you say Beyonce, I said, Dionce, 1484 01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:29,679 Speaker 1: oh Deonce? Yeah. Deonce says, I am twenty four years 1485 01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:33,400 Speaker 1: old and I love playing flag football. My dad has 1486 01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:36,960 Speaker 1: a big problem with it. He said it's not girly 1487 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:40,120 Speaker 1: and he wants me to be in my soft girl era. 1488 01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:43,240 Speaker 1: He said, I'll never get a husband like this. But 1489 01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:46,439 Speaker 1: why I keep my nails done, my wigs are always 1490 01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:48,559 Speaker 1: on point, and I dress like a lady when I'm 1491 01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:51,080 Speaker 1: not playing football. Why can't I switch it up and 1492 01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:54,000 Speaker 1: get down and dirty on the football field? Is this 1493 01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:57,400 Speaker 1: here's her question? Is this a turnoff for men? 1494 01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:03,360 Speaker 7: Well, Deonce, let me explain some tea. If your name 1495 01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:04,880 Speaker 7: is gonna be Deonce? 1496 01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:06,679 Speaker 1: Okay, right there? 1497 01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:11,040 Speaker 7: Uh huh, two things. Let me just say this. You 1498 01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:13,640 Speaker 7: wasn't fine enough for them to name your Beyonce? 1499 01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:14,479 Speaker 13: You know what? 1500 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:17,759 Speaker 3: No, I don't do that. 1501 01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:21,479 Speaker 7: So I'm assuming there's gonna be a serious drop off. 1502 01:18:23,320 --> 01:18:26,920 Speaker 1: She says, she keeps her nails done, and her wigs 1503 01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,400 Speaker 1: are always on point, and she dresses like a lady. 1504 01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:32,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, but she played football though. Now we need to 1505 01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:34,639 Speaker 7: find out what position, because now it's gonna take. 1506 01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:38,280 Speaker 6: Now. 1507 01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:41,519 Speaker 7: If she ain't got no flag, then we know what's happening. 1508 01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:45,479 Speaker 1: Is this a turnoff for men that's blocking? 1509 01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:48,280 Speaker 7: Well, you know, if you play defensive end on the 1510 01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,120 Speaker 7: flag football team, it's a it's a it's a turnoff 1511 01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:51,519 Speaker 7: for me. 1512 01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:56,280 Speaker 2: And your name Deonce. 1513 01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,240 Speaker 1: So coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll 1514 01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 1: have more of this ignorant show. Right after this, you're 1515 01:19:03,080 --> 01:19:09,880 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We got to 1516 01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:15,479 Speaker 1: say congratulations to English soccer legend David Beckham. David Beckham 1517 01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:19,200 Speaker 1: is now officially Sir David Beckham. He was knighted by 1518 01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:23,320 Speaker 1: King Charles in a ceremony honoring his contributions to both 1519 01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:27,200 Speaker 1: sports and charity. Beckham played one hundred and fifteen times 1520 01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:30,000 Speaker 1: for England and served as captain of his team in 1521 01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:34,040 Speaker 1: fifty nine matches and called it the proudest moments of 1522 01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:37,120 Speaker 1: his life. Beckham is also known for being a UNISEF 1523 01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:41,280 Speaker 1: ambassador and he helped bring the twenty twelve Olympics to London. 1524 01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:45,320 Speaker 1: So congratulations to now Sir David Beckham. 1525 01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:48,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, y'all should have bought Earl of Addingham me and 1526 01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:49,920 Speaker 7: so he could have explained it. 1527 01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:51,720 Speaker 1: It's not too late. We have a minute for the 1528 01:19:51,760 --> 01:19:56,040 Speaker 1: early music is Head Herald. 1529 01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,000 Speaker 7: Thought you all had for gotten about me, but having 1530 01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:06,160 Speaker 7: news from the parlumnn it's just the thing I'm living. 1531 01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:10,800 Speaker 7: Fucking morning. I've been one how I all morning. I 1532 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:16,679 Speaker 7: just wanted to square up. David Beckham is officially sir. 1533 01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:20,360 Speaker 7: Of course I know of him, but i've never met 1534 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:23,479 Speaker 7: him because I'm the only black at the palace and 1535 01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:27,920 Speaker 7: no one knows I'm there. I've been hiding since nineteen 1536 01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:34,880 Speaker 7: thirty nine. I only come out for news that you 1537 01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:38,920 Speaker 7: can use, I say, Earl of Autingham. 1538 01:20:39,800 --> 01:20:41,560 Speaker 1: Well thank you, Earl, we appreciate it. 1539 01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:44,400 Speaker 2: Thank y'all come out again some other time. Gotta go back, 1540 01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:45,400 Speaker 2: No Charry. 1541 01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:49,800 Speaker 1: All Cheo coming up at thirty three minutes after we'll 1542 01:20:49,800 --> 01:20:52,559 Speaker 1: play around it. Would you rather? Right after this you're 1543 01:20:52,600 --> 01:21:00,080 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, and 1544 01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:03,799 Speaker 1: quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, 1545 01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:07,639 Speaker 1: still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age. 1546 01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:10,799 Speaker 1: That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen 1547 01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:14,240 Speaker 1: your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like 1548 01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:18,880 Speaker 1: flu new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall, 1549 01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:22,400 Speaker 1: ask your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaxisis 1550 01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:26,400 Speaker 1: dot com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or 1551 01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:30,360 Speaker 1: more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. It's time for a 1552 01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,559 Speaker 1: round it would you rather? Would you rather live without 1553 01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:35,960 Speaker 1: heat in your home? Or would you rather live without 1554 01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:41,400 Speaker 1: Wi Fi in your home? Bye? 1555 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:42,519 Speaker 10: Oh? 1556 01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:48,800 Speaker 2: Back down at the hospital. 1557 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:53,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, we know you're in cell phone? 1558 01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:54,479 Speaker 2: All right? 1559 01:21:54,479 --> 01:21:55,559 Speaker 1: Would you rather that's. 1560 01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:57,240 Speaker 7: A good thing you had though the other day I 1561 01:21:57,360 --> 01:21:59,799 Speaker 7: liked that. I'm surprised you don't have it on again today. 1562 01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:03,160 Speaker 7: Was that a Red Cross hoody you had? 1563 01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:04,400 Speaker 3: That was last week? 1564 01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:05,320 Speaker 12: On? 1565 01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,479 Speaker 1: That? That was weeks? 1566 01:22:07,640 --> 01:22:07,720 Speaker 13: What? 1567 01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:08,559 Speaker 1: Last week? 1568 01:22:09,120 --> 01:22:09,519 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1569 01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:11,599 Speaker 2: I do hate it on? You better keep that little 1570 01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:12,200 Speaker 2: warm thing. 1571 01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:13,960 Speaker 13: Quick. 1572 01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:16,080 Speaker 2: Worry about what I'm saying. No, I'm gonna talk about 1573 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 2: whatever you got on. 1574 01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:24,160 Speaker 1: Well, anyway, would you rather hunt for missing monkeys in Mississippi? 1575 01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:28,320 Speaker 1: Or would you rather go to lunch with your ex? 1576 01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:32,360 Speaker 8: Hmm my knees? Would you said you seen him jump? 1577 01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:32,559 Speaker 13: Were? 1578 01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:32,800 Speaker 11: Now? 1579 01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:33,519 Speaker 8: He was that way? 1580 01:22:34,800 --> 01:22:39,000 Speaker 1: Monkey? Really? Guys? 1581 01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:45,519 Speaker 2: What and everything? 1582 01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:50,479 Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather have pants on that are 1583 01:22:50,520 --> 01:22:52,840 Speaker 1: too tight? Or would you rather have socks that won't 1584 01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:53,519 Speaker 1: stay up? 1585 01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:55,880 Speaker 11: Yeah? 1586 01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:58,479 Speaker 7: Give me them socks. Give me something won't stay up? 1587 01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:01,719 Speaker 7: Twenty type pants? 1588 01:23:01,960 --> 01:23:06,040 Speaker 1: Two tight pants? Not happening the internet? 1589 01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:12,120 Speaker 15: What's Would you rather have really short fingers or would 1590 01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:14,160 Speaker 15: you rather have really long shoes? 1591 01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:18,960 Speaker 1: That's interesting. 1592 01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:21,559 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna have no shine. I guess I'm gonna 1593 01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:24,240 Speaker 2: go with that now, I'm gonna go with like Tommy 1594 01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:25,880 Speaker 2: raccoon hands. 1595 01:23:25,880 --> 01:23:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm not no. 1596 01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:32,479 Speaker 7: I'm nothing raccoon I do. I would do way too 1597 01:23:32,479 --> 01:23:33,839 Speaker 7: many things with my hands. 1598 01:23:34,840 --> 01:23:40,080 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right? Would you rather everyone knows 1599 01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:43,160 Speaker 1: the details of your finances? Or would you rather everyone 1600 01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:46,439 Speaker 1: knows about your love life? The details of your love life? 1601 01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:49,360 Speaker 10: Oh? 1602 01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:50,080 Speaker 6: You just you know? 1603 01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,400 Speaker 11: I just love life? 1604 01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:53,479 Speaker 2: Not go ahead? 1605 01:23:55,240 --> 01:23:58,440 Speaker 1: Which one scared. 1606 01:24:00,200 --> 01:24:00,240 Speaker 12: You? 1607 01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:02,400 Speaker 8: You could not let them see your finance. It's like, 1608 01:24:02,560 --> 01:24:03,439 Speaker 8: just go and go with it. 1609 01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:05,960 Speaker 2: Just yeah. But if I let him see it, though, 1610 01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:14,479 Speaker 2: jen hell of love life? Though. I know y'all think 1611 01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:15,759 Speaker 2: I'm old, but looking. 1612 01:24:15,560 --> 01:24:17,920 Speaker 1: Here at iron sharpers iron. 1613 01:24:18,080 --> 01:24:25,400 Speaker 14: Okay, okay, boy, all right? 1614 01:24:25,439 --> 01:24:30,760 Speaker 1: Would you rather be hated by everyone or ignored by everyone? 1615 01:24:32,120 --> 01:24:33,120 Speaker 8: Hate? 1616 01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:34,120 Speaker 1: Be ignored? 1617 01:24:34,560 --> 01:24:36,720 Speaker 2: I love to walk somewhere and didn't nobody know me? 1618 01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:38,719 Speaker 1: So you want to be ignored? 1619 01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:39,880 Speaker 6: D Okay? 1620 01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:40,920 Speaker 2: Skip that hate? 1621 01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:45,559 Speaker 1: All right, guys, that's today's roundup? Would you rather thank you? 1622 01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:48,760 Speaker 1: Coming up next, and we'll have some closing remarks from 1623 01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:52,160 Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're 1624 01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:59,600 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays, 1625 01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:01,960 Speaker 1: it's hard to find the right gifts, but you know 1626 01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:05,240 Speaker 1: what's even harder getting the right gift, but get this. 1627 01:25:05,560 --> 01:25:10,160 Speaker 1: Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. They have incredible 1628 01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:13,599 Speaker 1: gift bundles. You get the latest phone with a new 1629 01:25:13,680 --> 01:25:17,479 Speaker 1: line on my plan and a brand new smartwatch and tablet, 1630 01:25:17,600 --> 01:25:20,479 Speaker 1: no trade in needed. You can give a couple away 1631 01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:23,120 Speaker 1: and get yourself one too, or you could keep them 1632 01:25:23,160 --> 01:25:25,880 Speaker 1: all to yourself. No one has to know. Stop by 1633 01:25:25,880 --> 01:25:29,200 Speaker 1: your local Verizon. Here we are, guys, last break of 1634 01:25:29,240 --> 01:25:32,320 Speaker 1: the day on this Monday, A good start for the week. 1635 01:25:32,400 --> 01:25:34,200 Speaker 1: We had a fun day to day. Thank you guys 1636 01:25:34,280 --> 01:25:38,599 Speaker 1: for listening. We appreciate Junior. You had a question for Steve. 1637 01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:41,040 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, ut me let me just talk to you 1638 01:25:41,040 --> 01:25:43,720 Speaker 9: man about how much I admire you. I admire your 1639 01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,839 Speaker 9: effort at everything that you do. I mean, you got 1640 01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:50,280 Speaker 9: the career, you got everything. Why are you still striving 1641 01:25:50,320 --> 01:25:51,679 Speaker 9: this hard at your age? 1642 01:25:52,240 --> 01:25:52,519 Speaker 6: I don't know. 1643 01:25:52,560 --> 01:25:54,439 Speaker 8: People your age is not doing what you're doing. 1644 01:25:56,880 --> 01:25:57,479 Speaker 2: I don't. 1645 01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,200 Speaker 7: Well, first of all, I appreciate that, jor I don't 1646 01:26:01,280 --> 01:26:04,880 Speaker 7: really know another way to be. I was thinking about 1647 01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:10,360 Speaker 7: this the other day. I just don't know. I was 1648 01:26:10,400 --> 01:26:13,000 Speaker 7: talking to my wife the other day. She said, you 1649 01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:16,080 Speaker 7: know what it is about you, Steve. You just don't 1650 01:26:16,120 --> 01:26:19,720 Speaker 7: know how to go no where and sit down. I 1651 01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:23,720 Speaker 7: just don't, man, I really really don't. I don't know 1652 01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:29,679 Speaker 7: what I would do if I wasn't striving. I really 1653 01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:34,120 Speaker 7: really don't know what I would do if I wasn't 1654 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:38,439 Speaker 7: striving and trying to accomplish. Because I have made that 1655 01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:44,680 Speaker 7: such a way of life. It's habit for me, and 1656 01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:49,000 Speaker 7: it's just a habit. I would recommend the habit to 1657 01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:53,680 Speaker 7: people if you want to accomplish some things, whatever that is. 1658 01:26:55,320 --> 01:26:57,880 Speaker 7: It's not to be me. That's not what I'm saying. 1659 01:26:58,439 --> 01:27:01,280 Speaker 7: It's to accomplish whatever it is is you want to 1660 01:27:01,320 --> 01:27:05,679 Speaker 7: do at one point in time. I'm telling you right now, 1661 01:27:06,240 --> 01:27:07,920 Speaker 7: in order to get to where you want to be, 1662 01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:12,439 Speaker 7: you're gonna have to be relentless. You're going to have 1663 01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:16,600 Speaker 7: to be relentless. You're going to have to be dogmatic. 1664 01:27:18,680 --> 01:27:24,800 Speaker 7: You're going to have to be unstoppable, and you have 1665 01:27:24,880 --> 01:27:29,320 Speaker 7: to be unbeatable. I know people who have set out 1666 01:27:29,360 --> 01:27:34,480 Speaker 7: to defeat me. I know them. I know them personally. 1667 01:27:35,560 --> 01:27:36,800 Speaker 7: I know people who have. 1668 01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:42,280 Speaker 2: Who have put together schemes to defeat me. 1669 01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:46,880 Speaker 7: I know people who I've never had a real conversation 1670 01:27:47,040 --> 01:27:51,680 Speaker 7: with go online and openly say they gonna destroy me. 1671 01:27:52,160 --> 01:27:54,719 Speaker 7: I had a guy one night told me and saying, 1672 01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:59,000 Speaker 7: I'm going to destroy your whole comedy career. He told 1673 01:27:59,040 --> 01:28:04,800 Speaker 7: it to me. I just looked at him. But you 1674 01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:12,479 Speaker 7: know what he didn't understand. I'm unbeatable. You cannot beat 1675 01:28:12,600 --> 01:28:18,799 Speaker 7: me because of two reasons. Number one, I have God 1676 01:28:18,920 --> 01:28:25,200 Speaker 7: on my side, and number two, I ain't gonna quit. 1677 01:28:25,760 --> 01:28:29,200 Speaker 7: So now what you're finna do what you're finna do 1678 01:28:29,280 --> 01:28:33,280 Speaker 7: to me? How you gonna beat me? When number one, 1679 01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:36,280 Speaker 7: I have God on my side, God is with me. 1680 01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:39,240 Speaker 7: If God is. 1681 01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:41,479 Speaker 2: With you, who can be against you? Now? You can 1682 01:28:41,520 --> 01:28:42,920 Speaker 2: say you against me if you want to. 1683 01:28:43,200 --> 01:28:46,280 Speaker 7: But I must forewarn you when you come over here 1684 01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:48,120 Speaker 7: to get me, I ain't by myself. 1685 01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:50,240 Speaker 2: Now. I'm just gonna give you that warning. 1686 01:28:51,040 --> 01:28:54,160 Speaker 7: You come over here to get me, I ain't by 1687 01:28:54,200 --> 01:28:58,360 Speaker 7: myself now, as long as I keep that theory in mind. Now, 1688 01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:02,040 Speaker 7: every now and then i'm human, I get out there, 1689 01:29:02,040 --> 01:29:04,479 Speaker 7: and I get in the way of the God in me. 1690 01:29:04,760 --> 01:29:08,759 Speaker 7: I will I take some matters into my own hands. 1691 01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:13,200 Speaker 7: Sometimes I've done that before. It didn't really work out right, 1692 01:29:13,320 --> 01:29:17,000 Speaker 7: but I've done that. But you can't beat me. 1693 01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:21,200 Speaker 6: My head is blooded. 1694 01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:26,720 Speaker 7: But unbowed. I will never ever quit. Do you understand me? 1695 01:29:27,120 --> 01:29:34,120 Speaker 7: My head is bloodied, unbowed man, out of the night 1696 01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:38,719 Speaker 7: that covers me, black as the pit, from pole to pole. 1697 01:29:39,240 --> 01:29:43,280 Speaker 7: I think, whatever God may be for my unconquerable soul. 1698 01:29:43,760 --> 01:29:47,439 Speaker 7: In the fail clutch of circumstance, I have not winced 1699 01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:52,240 Speaker 7: nor cried aloud under the bludgeonings of chance. My head 1700 01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:57,120 Speaker 7: is bloodied beyond, but unbowed beyond this place of raft 1701 01:29:57,200 --> 01:30:01,880 Speaker 7: in tears looms but the horror of the shade. And 1702 01:30:01,960 --> 01:30:05,679 Speaker 7: yet the menace of the years finds and shall find 1703 01:30:05,760 --> 01:30:10,280 Speaker 7: me unafraid. It matters not how straight the gate, how 1704 01:30:10,439 --> 01:30:15,080 Speaker 7: charged with punishment the scroll. I am the captain of 1705 01:30:15,120 --> 01:30:18,320 Speaker 7: my faith. I am the master of my soul. I 1706 01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:21,400 Speaker 7: am the master of my faith. I am the captain 1707 01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:30,840 Speaker 7: of my soul. Invictis, Lord, have mercy. I can't tell 1708 01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:33,479 Speaker 7: you how many times that poem that kept me, and 1709 01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:36,960 Speaker 7: that ain't even a scripture, But if you understand, it 1710 01:30:37,080 --> 01:30:41,320 Speaker 7: got a lot of God in it. Yeah, Man, I 1711 01:30:41,360 --> 01:30:46,600 Speaker 7: don't bruh. I don't know how to be no other way. 1712 01:30:47,560 --> 01:30:49,960 Speaker 7: I just don't, Junior. I don't know what I would 1713 01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:56,120 Speaker 7: do if I wasn't striving. I'm just cut like that, 1714 01:30:57,240 --> 01:31:00,240 Speaker 7: and I thank God. But it's a practice. You have 1715 01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:03,679 Speaker 7: to practice being this way. You're not born this way. 1716 01:31:03,880 --> 01:31:08,639 Speaker 7: It's a choice you have to make. You know, you're 1717 01:31:08,680 --> 01:31:12,599 Speaker 7: not born to be relentless. You are born to make choices. 1718 01:31:13,439 --> 01:31:21,200 Speaker 7: Everybody gets to decide. Everybody you can decide I'm gonna 1719 01:31:21,240 --> 01:31:24,200 Speaker 7: be a positive person, I'm be a negative person. You 1720 01:31:24,240 --> 01:31:26,080 Speaker 7: can change your mind in the middle of your life 1721 01:31:26,080 --> 01:31:28,439 Speaker 7: and go the other way. I know some people man 1722 01:31:28,479 --> 01:31:31,280 Speaker 7: that used to be such positive people, and now every 1723 01:31:31,320 --> 01:31:34,559 Speaker 7: time you hear them something negative coming out, they mouth, 1724 01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:39,400 Speaker 7: that's a decision they made. I make the decision to 1725 01:31:39,479 --> 01:31:44,800 Speaker 7: be positive. I choose to be relentless. I choose to 1726 01:31:44,880 --> 01:31:49,720 Speaker 7: be in pursuit of my vision and dreams. And I 1727 01:31:49,880 --> 01:31:53,400 Speaker 7: choose to keep God at the forefront of my life 1728 01:31:53,600 --> 01:31:56,080 Speaker 7: because without God, I would be nothing. 1729 01:31:56,479 --> 01:31:59,120 Speaker 2: And that is as clear as a way. 1730 01:31:59,200 --> 01:32:03,160 Speaker 1: For all Steve contests, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. Participants 1731 01:32:03,240 --> 01:32:06,080 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1732 01:32:06,240 --> 01:32:11,080 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. 1733 01:32:11,479 --> 01:32:14,160 Speaker 1: You're listening shoot the Steve Harvey Morning Show