1 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: Yea, Welcome to Monday Show. More in Studio Morning. We 2 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 1: have a lot of guys in the show. They like 3 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: to claim they can do stuff like I could do 4 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: this too, I can do it back in the day, 5 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: I can do it now. It just hasn't come from 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: Scuba Steve really until now. What is he crowing about? Okay, 7 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: So there's a softball tournament, tournament coming up, or game 8 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: for the Fields of Honor or something old. Yeah and so, 9 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: and they're asking if we want to play in Schooba, goes. 10 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: I can't believe they didn't ask me to play. And 11 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, are you good at softball? He goes, Dude, 12 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,919 Speaker 1: the last time I played softball it was a three 13 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: hundred foot field and I hit it out five times 14 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: in a row, and the sixth time it was off 15 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: the wall. Yeah, And I said, scooball long ago is 16 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm like school, I told him. I 17 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: said this was in my like my athletic peak, which 18 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: is like five or six years ago. Six years was 19 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: six years ago. How old are you? Well, since I've 20 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: had children, I've how old are you? No, m in 21 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: my mid to late thirties. Okay, so you're a really 22 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: good baseball player growing up. Huh yeah, it was pretty 23 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: dan good. Yeah, aside from not having much confidence in myself. 24 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: But when I would play around people that I could 25 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: be comfortable with, I would kill it. Okay, athletes perform 26 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: well around my friends, that's not a thing. But thinks 27 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: he can hit it out of a three hundred ft field, 28 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 1: he cannot hit stadium. I think it's unfair to ask 29 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: Scuba Steve to hit five in a row out of 30 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: a field. He won't hit one, exactly one, not one. 31 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: You say, what, Scuba, I said, I can hit one. 32 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: With a little bit of conditioning, I will hit one. 33 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 1: Conditions you're putting all these little side roles what wait 34 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: wait wait, and only people he's comfortable in front of 35 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: them can be there. So now I'm confidence. I'm cool. 36 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: Today is the eighteen. So let's say we're gonna give 37 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: you till the second week of May to be conditioned. Wow, 38 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: and then we're gonna let you take five. You don't 39 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: have to swing get every pitch, but you get five swings. Heck, 40 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: five contacts. Okay, you have to hit one of the 41 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: five out. Okay. If you don't, you'll spend the whill 42 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: of punishment. All right, challenge accepted. If you do, lunchbox, 43 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: will you give him since you brought this up, Oh, 44 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: go one thousand dollars. He's not gonna hit one. No, no, 45 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of money. Was going to say, 46 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: like a massage, what I'm not gonna I'm not touching him. 47 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: Go ahead, lunchbox, will you get it needs to be 48 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: like something something you don't think he's gonna do it, right? 49 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: I mean I can pay for him to go get 50 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: a massage, that's okay, good, But at a at a 51 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: reputable place, at a nice hotel. No, no, no no, no 52 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: massage that's good. I'm not sending you to some five 53 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 1: thousand dollars hotels at the same price. Oh is it? 54 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, But Bobby, just there's no chance. I'm 55 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: just gonna stop there, right, So we will in the 56 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,399 Speaker 1: next few weeks take you to a field. You'll get 57 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: five shots at it. There's no chance. There's no chance. 58 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: This isn't fast pitch stoftball, which is like a nice 59 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: bro right to me, right, guys, you wonder hand is 60 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: easier to hit it out than slow pitch, harder to 61 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: hit it. But yeah, it doesn't matter. There's no chance, 62 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: all right, Well, there is a chance for if scuba 63 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: teams cranking ball is that. I don't think we want 64 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: to start a softball team, though, absolutely absolutely great bit. 65 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: Or we start a softball team, I'll pitch them, Okay, yeah, 66 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: I just I don't have a dog in this race, 67 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: so I will He's gone. You laugh now, but wait 68 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: till you see it. Can't wait later on in the show. Today, 69 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: we'll eliminate one of you guys too from the movie 70 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: role a right wherever you guys come on, because somebody 71 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: on this show is going to get a role in 72 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: a major streaming services movie, like Real Lines. It's crazy 73 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: and this is not a bit the show. You guys 74 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: don't know. You don't know who it is, though we 75 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: think it's no I know who everyone. I know it's me, 76 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: but I'm being as honest as I possibly can nobody 77 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: on the show. You guys, ready, do you know who 78 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: it is? I have my guests. Do you know who 79 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: it is? No? It could be you? Is that? Okay? Yes? 80 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: I still own it. Okay, but he can use it 81 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: right now? Yeah, I own raise yet Morgan. It could 82 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: be you, yes, but do you know who it is. 83 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: I think it's Amy, but you don't think it's you. 84 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: I don't, but you do? You know? I don't know 85 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: Eddie what so you think it is me? Okay, there 86 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: you go? All right? Oh god, I know it's me. 87 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: I know. Lunchbox is the only one that's been taking 88 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: acting classes more than though it's a professional actor. She 89 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 1: is not professional Amy. Who is it in your mind? 90 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: Lunch Box? Okay, I'm calling to Hollywood. Baby. We'll eliminate 91 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: someone today. Okay, let's start today's show. Glad you guys 92 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: are here. We got a big show. If you're ready 93 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: for your next job, trust your local experts at Express 94 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 1: Employment Professionals. 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However, my 105 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: brother started having kids. We love our niece and nephew dearly. However, 106 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: sharing a boat has become more difficult. My husband and 107 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: I are a few years younger, we don't have kids yet. 108 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: We always leave it squeaky clean after a weekend at 109 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 1: the lake, but my brother and sister in law often 110 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 1: leave the boat sticky, not wipe down, and occasionally a 111 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: new drink stain appears. I understand accidents happen, but after 112 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: every use there's always a new issue. Now my brother 113 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: has hinted towards having our niece's friends down for a weekend, 114 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 1: and it makes me break into a sweat just thinking 115 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: about the boat. Should I address these concerns with my brother? 116 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: My husband and I have even discussed selling our share 117 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: of the boat and buying our own. We have good jobs. 118 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: I think my brother could afford it. I just don't 119 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: know if you want to be one hundred percent responsible 120 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: for the boat's yearly expenses. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Sincerely, 121 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 1: struggling to be a cool aunt. You have to have 122 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: the conversation if you're thinking about selling the boat. You 123 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 1: don't just want at a roommate once the college has 124 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: moved out. Didn't even tell me. So before we get 125 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: to that final phase of you being like, oh, we 126 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: want to sell the boat, there's going to have to 127 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: be a conversation at some point regardless. And again I 128 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: went back to my dorm one day and he was gone. 129 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: Everything was gone for like something been robbed. I was like, wait, 130 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: what happened? And I couldn't live with you anymore? Man? 131 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: I had to call him. So why couldn't you live 132 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: with anymore? You work all night, You wake up early 133 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: and you go to class at seven, and then you 134 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: go back to work at night. And then if I'm 135 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: partying in the room, you have trouble with it because 136 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: you work all night and you need sleep. And I'm like, yeah, 137 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: it's not gonna work. It didn't work out. So there 138 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: is a conversation that needs to happen because you're not 139 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: happy with it, and the resentment is going to grow. 140 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: I think that's the issue here is there will be 141 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: a lingering and a growing resentment between family members that 142 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: will continue to get worse if you don't address it 143 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: or sell. And if you sell, you have to have 144 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: the conversation. This needs to be a conversation. I think 145 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: for me, I would have the conversation about selling out 146 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: of it more than I what about your kids or gross? Yeah, 147 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: I agree. I think it's like, hey, we want a 148 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: different kind of boat. This one for us. We don't 149 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: have any kids. That takes kind of the blame off 150 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: of them, and it puts it on the boat. That's 151 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: how it positioned it. That's what we say. That's our advice. 152 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: Thank you, and that's the mailbag. We've got your want 153 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: better skin from your body wash. Try Ola body Wash 154 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: with Skincare super ingredient collagen. Ola body Wash hydrates for 155 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: healthier looking skin in just fourteen days from dry and 156 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: dull to firm and radiant. With La Body you feels 157 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: in your skin. One of my favorite artists is coming 158 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: into the studio now. His name is Ben Rector. I 159 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: met him on a flight once as I was flying 160 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: from Nashville to someone in California. I mean, he singer, songwriter, 161 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: sells out massive shows and he's here to play a 162 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: song that I really love. It's my favorite song from 163 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: his album, and I think he's ready now, piano in 164 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: the room. Here is Ben Rector on The Bobby Bones Show. Now, 165 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: Ben Rector, Ben, do you ever do the thing? Because 166 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: I have a thing. But you're somewhere where people don't 167 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: really know you or what you do, and there's a 168 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: piano around, and you're like, oh, I'll let me just 169 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: see if I can. I don't know, let me just say, 170 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: and then all of a a sudden you're like you do 171 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: and they're like, wow, I actively avoid I can't this. 172 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is part of the show 173 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 1: or not, but this is part of the show. We're 174 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: on the air right now, Okay, I actively avoid that. 175 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: I it's like I would not perform unless it's like 176 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: you're supposed to be performing right now. If even like 177 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: at a party. If I was like at a party 178 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: and someone's like, Ben, we played a song, I'm like, 179 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: oh no, I'm good man. But what if they don't 180 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: know you're an artist and it's like there's just a 181 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: piano and you're like you just you never just like 182 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: see maybe I can figure something out. No, I I 183 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: just I just let it be because then once I 184 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 1: introduced that, it's like, oh, like secretly I'm a spy 185 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: and they're like, what's it like? Being a spy. I'd 186 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: just rather be like, let's just hang man juggling somebody 187 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: to have a have a ball, or like I've been trying, 188 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: like I don't know, let me just give it a shot. 189 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: No, no no, no, let me just see what's and I'll 190 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 1: I'll go behind my back. And because juggle, I don't know, 191 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: should we just try for the first time now exactly? Yeah, 192 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: I wor in Mayne's on a golf course for a 193 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: long time. I'm trying to understand how those two things 194 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: are connect. And so what I did was you would 195 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: sit and wait for people to get off the green 196 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,839 Speaker 1: before you go water it. And I've trained myself to 197 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 1: juggle golf balls and it has come in quite handy. 198 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: That's it's a good skill. Do you not feel like 199 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: you're a performer anywhere but on the stage only? I 200 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: think probably the performer like gene in me in normal 201 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: life has decreased as my job has increased. So like 202 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: I bet if I wasn't a musician, I would like 203 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: as a job, I might seek that opportunity out more. 204 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 1: But because I am that, like cup is like full 205 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: and like I want to tell jokes and have like 206 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: people think I'm funny or whatever, but I'm not looking 207 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: to like change the atmosphere of a room and be 208 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: like you guys want to watch my thing like. Um So, 209 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: I think if I wasn't a professional musician, I'd probably 210 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: be quicker to do that, But because that's such a 211 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: big part of my life. When I'm not doing that, 212 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: I'd rather just like hang. Honestly, if I could do 213 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: something like juggle, I would do that a lot. That. Yeah, 214 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 1: you should lunch pretty cool. IM gonna be honest with 215 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: first song you ever learned on piano where you went, oh, 216 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: that's that's I'm playing a song now, Well, I did 217 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: it backwards. I actually so, I took piano lessons as 218 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: a kid, and then I quit like every child ever, 219 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: and um, I started playing guitar first, that's like my 220 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 1: primary instrument. But um I started playing piano because I 221 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: had to. And then the songs I wrote on piano 222 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: were better because I wasn't good at piano because like 223 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: guitar songs all sounded like super like guitar guy, and 224 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 1: those formediately weren't very good. Um I'm trying to think 225 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: of the first song I learned on piano. I learned 226 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: like the Rugrats theme? Can you still recall the Rugrats theme? Oh? Man, 227 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, is it? Do you want me to try? 228 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't like you to give it a shot here, 229 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: Like I know I was gonna do this thing here. 230 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: I don't really don't know. Ye, I probably have not 231 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: played that in twenty years. What is happening in your brain? Then? 232 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: Are you able to in that a little bit of time, 233 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: recreate it, hear it, see it, and then go and 234 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: try to find it? It's like, um, it's like maybe 235 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: like a psalm tasting wine or like a chef tasting 236 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: food where it's like I think I remember those flavors, 237 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: but the difference is like like if I taste wine, 238 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: I can't taste like whatever, grapefruit rind or I'm just 239 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: like this is pretty good. But like if you train 240 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: your mind enough and you're you do it enough, then 241 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: you like remember nuances where it's like I don't have 242 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: perfect pitch, but I pretty good relative pitch. So like, 243 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: if I like play this, I could hear like if 244 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: you gave me a tonic, I could like hear the 245 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: rest of the chords. Like once I start playing, your 246 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: brain is like oh, like go to the four, like 247 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: you know what those sound like? So you've like matched 248 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 1: the sound with like the numbers. Can you hear? H? 249 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: I could get So I can get I could sing 250 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: and like recognize where that is in my vocal range 251 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,559 Speaker 1: and then get pretty close if I'm like warmed up? 252 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: Is why complicated? Can you buy chopsticks? Um? I can't. Actually, 253 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: I take it right back down. It's got a little 254 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:58,079 Speaker 1: too complicated for me. We got that's pretty good. Ben 255 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: Rector is here. I gotta tell you the most played 256 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: album record whatever we're calling it, it has been yours 257 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: this this whole year for me, from the whole year. 258 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: The new album's The Joy Music and it hasn't been 259 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: out but about a month. Yeah, about a month. Thank 260 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: you for that. My wife and I I listened to 261 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: it all the time when it came out, and I 262 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: text you and I was like, this is like next level. 263 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: And mostly I wouldn't have texted anything. I wouldn't have lied. 264 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: I just would have been like house Tuesday. You know 265 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: it has been. But my wife now anytime we play 266 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 1: cards or anything, I mean, she has dialed in, like 267 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: her favorite song is hanging out. Oh, and I'll tell 268 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: you why, yeah, well, and you're like, you know, there 269 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 1: was I said no to some radio stations and I 270 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 1: did all that was worried about that line, by the way, 271 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: and you know it's about you just hanging out with 272 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: your family. And she's like, she plays it extra loud 273 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: for me because that's our goal with me, is for 274 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: me just to hang out, right, And it's hard. It's 275 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: so hard. I feel like, if you like are driven 276 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 1: or want to do a good job of stuff, it's 277 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: so hard to like shut that off. And also like nourish, 278 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: you're like real life. That's tough. So she blares it. 279 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: It's almost like propaganda in my house at this point, 280 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: you have a song that's almost propaganda. I'm sorry about that. 281 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: My favorite song is also one of the ones that 282 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 1: you released earlier before the whole album came out, and 283 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: it's Steady Love, which I believe because I do have 284 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: a grasp of the entire album. Now, this feels like 285 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: a mature album from you, because you're talking about things 286 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: like having a family, a daughter perspective of Hey, it's 287 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: not just about chasing these dreams. What the heck? There 288 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: are new dreams that I now am discovering totally and 289 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: steady Love was that song for me because it's not 290 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: I fell in love and I'm blinded by stars. Yeah, 291 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: it's this is the real thing, right, And I think 292 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: for me, what I realized is like I think that 293 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: there's a place for every kind of like sentiment in music. 294 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: But it's funny because if I zoom out, so much 295 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: of like the music that is widely available now or 296 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: like promoted a lot, celebrates a really small portion of life, 297 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's like I love 298 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: the weekend and like having fun with friends and like whatever. 299 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: I love that stuff as much as anybody. But it's 300 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: funny to me that like ninety eight percent of the 301 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: songs probably about like three percent of our life. And 302 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: so on this record, I wasn't consciously like I'm going 303 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: to write about the other ninety seven percent, but that's 304 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: just kind of like the place I was in, and 305 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: so I'm like super excited to get to get to 306 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: like go like I guess like be that guy or 307 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: play that music because I'm not I really am not 308 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: great at the other stuff. I'm not great at being 309 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 1: like I'm so awesome, look at me. I'm cool. So yeah, 310 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: like I'm glad you liked it, but I'm also just 311 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: glad to get to go, like play that kind of 312 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: music because my hope is people here it and they're like, 313 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like that's that's what life like actually is. 314 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: And there's it's weird. There's like a huge gap in 315 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: like pop or accessible music about that stuff. You know, 316 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: it felt and I don't know that three years ago 317 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: I would have felt that song. Sure, yeah, the way 318 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: that I do now now that I am married and 319 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: on a different path. But it also felt relatable in 320 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: the way of some good paper towels, like you have 321 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: to have them. You have to and it makes a difference, 322 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: and nobody talks about it right exactly that I think 323 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: that that that's the thing. It just felt like if 324 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: it was like real estate or something like the Corners 325 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: on like fun Times and living crazy life, It's like, dude, 326 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: it's packed. We got high rises like a million stories 327 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: high there, and I don't have anything to add because 328 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: I'm not uniquely like suited for that. It's like I'm 329 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 1: bad at that stuff. But like if you go out 330 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: a couple of miles and it's like what about paper towels, 331 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, buddy, like dirt is cheap, what do 332 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: you want to build here? So like that was super 333 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: fun for me to get to. My hope was that 334 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: people would listen to it and be like, yes, like 335 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: nobody talks about that, but we all do it, you know, 336 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: in the most complimentary way. That song to me was 337 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: like a great, great purchase of paper towels. Honestly, dude, 338 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: that's like the highest compliment I could be paid for 339 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: that song. So I really appreciate But that in your 340 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 1: next album done, if you don't mind, would you play 341 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 1: the song that I'm raving about. It's a steady love. 342 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: By the way, It's from Ben's album The Joy Music 343 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: here is my favorite song from the record. I was 344 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: staring out a photograph. It must have been fifteen years back. 345 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: I can't believe we dressed like that. Feels like yesterday. 346 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: Funny how we used to all pretend we'd never become 347 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: my parents' friends. But seasons change and summer rends. It 348 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: just fades away because you can't stay forever. You can't 349 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 1: keep from growing. Oh and when you're hard gets tired 350 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 1: of living on the run, My god, you should find 351 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 1: us steady low, steady lo back, guys, find you come on. 352 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: That's so good. It's been my dream for at least 353 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: twenty years to do the h in the back side 354 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: of that. So is it possible that we recreate just 355 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,919 Speaker 1: the back because I know both parts? Oh yeah, I know, 356 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: oh oh, and then I know, uh yeah, boom, you 357 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: gonna do it. Let's do it. Brace yourselves everybody already. 358 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: So we're going in one, two, three, steady lo o oh, 359 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: steady lo o o. Nail that's all. I couldn't have 360 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: nail the harder. Wow, whole life. I'm going to do that. 361 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: I know the record has only been out a little bit. 362 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: Making dreams come true? Man, But yeah, um that's Do 363 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: you get it now? Do you hear the song? Do 364 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 1: you understand I'm talking about? I get it over? You're 365 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: crying in my seat, by the way, go watch Ben. 366 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: He's all over starting in May, which is next month, Madison, Wisconsin. 367 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: All our friends and Madison listening right now. He starts there. 368 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: And the first show on a tour is always one 369 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: of the most interesting because you're gonna see things that 370 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: nobody else will see. Oh yeah, some will be excellent 371 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: and some some won't be an Some won't be, but 372 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: it's I think it's the biggest experience. Yes, and uh, 373 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 1: it's definitely a show that won't be recreated. It could 374 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 1: be that. That's kind of like the It's I'm Madison. 375 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you're a trial run, but like the 376 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: first show is always like this, do this? Does this work? 377 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: Is there anything we needs to change? I would want 378 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: to go to the first show more than any other show. 379 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: You know what you could see, Uh you could see 380 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: a crash, you could see, uh, see a beautiful thing. 381 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 1: I'm actually I shouldn't say this, but I've decided I 382 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: wanted to do something different than I've ever done. And 383 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: so I'm writing a song for every city or state 384 00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: that I'm playing in to play it at that place, 385 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: and me saying it here is making myself do it. 386 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 1: Is this a thing that where you just change out 387 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 1: a word. No, I'm doing it for real, completely different songs. Yeah, 388 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 1: Because during the pandemic, I started, just like for fun, 389 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: I was writing stuff and I was like kind of 390 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: tired of writing like a love song or whatever, and 391 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: I was like, what if I wrote a song for 392 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 1: a place. And I wrote a couple of them, and 393 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that was really fun. And so 394 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 1: like I had maybe like two or three and I 395 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: showed the guys at rehearsals one of them and it 396 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 1: was like this like musical like explosion. It was like 397 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 1: so awesome. And I was like, oh, man, I wanted 398 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: to play that song. And I was like, we can't 399 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:36,000 Speaker 1: play a song for Utah, Everywhere or Oklahoma. And I 400 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 1: was like, what if I wrote a song for everywhere? 401 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: And so yesterday and the day before, I've just been 402 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: like trying to motor through. That's a lot of songs 403 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm looking at all this show. Yeah, I know it's 404 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: I've I've been. I've been deep in it. I need 405 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: six more. There's a couple of doubles like texts, got 406 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: a couple of cities. Follow me here, Okay. It's like 407 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: I'm giving a little concept here right, Okay. It's like 408 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: people say I'm growing, but I'm a dad acting less 409 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: with all you wonderful people here in Minnieappolis. We just 410 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: went somewhere that's never been gone to before. Is that 411 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: one you have? You already have Minnesota. I'm sorry, well 412 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 1: I'm doing but I'm Minnie to the town. It's a 413 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: different to me and you, I go the extra mile. 414 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:20,719 Speaker 1: I guess syllables. Man, I think it's the same as 415 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: Minnesota is just the Apple is tough. It was until 416 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 1: I just Ryan to be fair game recognize game. That 417 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: was great. It's really good. Go to the show, ben 418 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: Rector Music dot Com if you want to get tickets. 419 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: The album is wonderful. And is Joy going to be 420 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: at the shows? We've talked to Joy's agent and Joy's 421 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: gonna be at all the shows. He's gonna play piano 422 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 1: at some of the shows. Do you know who Joy is? 423 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 1: Is that Joy? That's true? Right there on the Joy 424 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: is on the screen, massive red. It's like like a 425 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: Muppet creature up and it's humongous. Wasn't wondering who that was? 426 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:57,239 Speaker 1: It's so big. Basically, uh, trying to figure out how 427 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: to make something like that happen. Talk to a lot 428 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: of mass Scott builders and ended up actually Jim Henson's 429 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: creature shop. Actually, but that's cool. It was awesome, really cool. 430 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 1: So who plays Joy? No? Joy is Joy? Joy? Joy? Yeah? 431 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: Don't he knows the stuf? So that's I know, it's 432 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 1: I know, it's hard to believe. Basically, Henston Creature shop 433 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,239 Speaker 1: helped me find him, but there's nobody inside it. It's 434 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 1: just like is Joy. It's like it's like who is 435 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,640 Speaker 1: big Bird? It's like big you know what I mean? 436 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: Our relationships weird because I just stuck up for Joy instinctually. Yeah, 437 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: like I was ready to fight. You will not insult Joy. 438 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 1: I saw that and I felt that. I was like yeah, 439 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: And afterward I was like I went too hard. I 440 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: went dare you ask that question? No? I saw you 441 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: with Charles Kelly from Lady Ay What what? It looked 442 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 1: like he was singing and you were. I don't know 443 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: what was happening there. It's so basically, um, it was 444 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: an event for Mercedes and somehow I don't know exactly how. 445 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,239 Speaker 1: They were like do you both want to play? And 446 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, sure we we say there's a 447 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: golf tournament that we both played in earlier this year, 448 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: and part of the deal is like you play a 449 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: couple of songs. And so this is too long a story. 450 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: We did a medley for Huey Lewis because he was there, 451 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,920 Speaker 1: and we sang like power of Love and something else. 452 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: So we had done that and then this event was like, hey, 453 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 1: do you want to both play, and we were like yeah, sure, 454 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: and it ended up just actually being we both played 455 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 1: like two originals, and then we realized people were like, 456 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 1: let's party, and so we played like every cover we knew. 457 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,919 Speaker 1: Like it was like I was digging so deep. It 458 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: was like yeah, like I kind of know that song, 459 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: but it was actually super fun like everybody everybody I know, 460 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: the Ruggrats team kind of except I don't at all. 461 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: Still playing a lot of golf, you know, it's been 462 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: pretty intense tour prep the last couple of weeks. I 463 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 1: think the last time I played was with you, So like, 464 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: that's that's the less that's the less golf there was. 465 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: I you tell me if this was needed, and we'll 466 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: end on this note. I said, Hey Ben, we're going out. 467 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna play golf tomorrow. Would you like to play 468 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: with us? And if you don't want to play or 469 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: you can't play, your tied up? What do you? What 470 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: do you guys say? Can? Yeah? I can't do it? 471 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: Yeah I can. I defend my answers. I haven't even 472 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,160 Speaker 1: I haven't given your reason to defend anything yet. So far, 473 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: so good, right. I wanted to let you know that 474 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: I want I wasn't just like nah, So anyway, I say, 475 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: hey man, you play golf tomorrow. This is gonna kill 476 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: the Oklahoma and me. This is really gonna hurt. This 477 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 1: is bad. And he's like, hey man, I would like to, 478 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: but I'm at the Masters right now, and what we're 479 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: doing in the Masters playing I want to play at 480 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: the Masters again. And I said, just say no, just 481 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 1: say you're busy. He said no and made you jealous 482 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: of the know how many times did you say Masters 483 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 1: in one text? No, it felt like twenty. I'm about 484 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just to say it once though. I was 485 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: just like, you can just say, hey man, this is 486 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: there's no need for a flex. This is the text exchange. Okay, 487 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: go ahead, just got a spot for one fifteen tomorrow 488 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: if you can play it. Would like to golf emoji man, 489 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 1: I'd love to, but I'm playing a thing at the Masters. 490 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: Prences humble bragg. I know, thanks for the invite. Though 491 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: your text, you can just say no instead of all 492 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: the extra fluff. You don't have to say masters. You 493 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: could just say I know. I wanted to communicate like, yeah, man, 494 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 1: you're nice to invite me, and I'm not just like, sorry, 495 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to. I was like, I cannot leave 496 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: this place anyways, You guys check out Ben's album, his tour. 497 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 1: He's playing in Nashville, in all the cities he's in, 498 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 1: We're basically in all these cities. So I'm just gonna 499 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: encourage you to go. Look and see. Is Oklahoma City 500 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 1: When you go to Oklahoma City because you are from 501 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,959 Speaker 1: the does that feel like a home show for you? 502 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: It does. I spent a lot of time in Oklahoma City, 503 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 1: like in college recording um, and I mean a bunch 504 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 1: of my friends went to OU and OSU, which are 505 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: kind of on opposite sides of Oklahoma City, so that 506 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 1: I'd say, that's the closest thing to a hometown show 507 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 1: outside of Nashville on this tour in Nashville June twenty fifth, 508 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,360 Speaker 1: and I will be there. You don't know that yet, 509 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: I will be. Yeah, it's gonna be a secret. I'm surprising, 510 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 1: and then I'll be surprised. Go to the show, Go 511 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,439 Speaker 1: see Ben, Ben, thank you excellent, love it all, and 512 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: hopefully we'll see soon. Thanks to March there, Ben Rector, everybody, 513 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: It's time for the good news. So Riley Cisco was 514 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 1: returning from a band field trip and they stopped on 515 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: the field trip to get some food, and she noticed 516 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 1: that a couple of the students didn't get any food 517 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 1: because they couldn't afford it. And this was a trip 518 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: that really wasn't planned or expect it, so she was 519 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: sad about that, and she decided to do something to 520 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: help her less fortunate classmates. Her idea was to start 521 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 1: a give and take store for students at her school, 522 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: and so Riley's Closet was born. The store got up 523 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: and running last fall and has items like close shoes, shampoo, 524 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 1: soap off for free and it's one competitions. It has 525 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: helped so many kids there and she's now working on 526 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 1: moving that space at the school from a closet to 527 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: a whole room and the school's working with her too, 528 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 1: as it's a great story. I think it's something too 529 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: that most kids, unless they know it, won't notice it. 530 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: And she noticed it anyway and was able to make 531 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: that happen for the other kids as well. So as 532 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 1: some story, Riley, that is what it's all about. That 533 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,399 Speaker 1: was tell me something good. So Lunchbox had to pose 534 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 1: as Morgan's dad. Have you heard the same thing. I'm not, 535 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 1: So you didn't go to some show you buy tickets 536 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 1: to Morgan? Yeah, so, like I had accidentally mixed the 537 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 1: dates up, and I felt really bad because these were 538 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 1: like one hundred dollars tickets to go to something and 539 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: you just forgot. I totally forgot yep, didn't go. And 540 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,679 Speaker 1: I was like I woke up the next morning there like, 541 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: how was your experience? I was like, I forgot they 542 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: were that night. So I freaked out. I was like, 543 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: I can't lose one hundred dollars. Do you not keep 544 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 1: a calendar in your phone? I do, It was in 545 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: there and I just happened to mix up two days. 546 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,160 Speaker 1: I can't believe tickets were that expensive to this art exhibit. 547 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 1: I can't believe it. I know spent you spent that 548 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: much money on ticket? Yeah, well that's why I was 549 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: so like. I was in so much sadness because I 550 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: was like, I don't have one hundred dollars just to 551 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: waste and not have gone to something. Okay, here is 552 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: Lunchbox calling as Morgan's dad. As Morgan's dad to this 553 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: art exhibit to see if Morgan get her money or 554 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 1: if she could get her tickets moved to another night. 555 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 1: You got it kind of works though, Like you look 556 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:06,640 Speaker 1: like you could be your dad. I mean, I've done 557 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: it before. Where when Morgan accidentally stole the paper towels, 558 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: I took her to the grocery store and made her 559 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: apologize for the employees as her dad. So now I 560 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,640 Speaker 1: had to call as her dad. All right, here's lunchbox 561 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:20,480 Speaker 1: calling as Morgan's dad. How can I help you? Hello? 562 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: How are you doing today? Ma'am good? How are you 563 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 1: doing today? I'm doing great? Well. I got a problem 564 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 1: my daughter here. She's a blonde and let me tell you, 565 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: I thought I was doing something special. I bought her 566 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: two tickets of the experience and she went full blonde 567 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 1: on us. No problem, what do you need assistance to us? Well, 568 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: she was supposed to come on March thirtieth, and she 569 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: wrote the date wrong, and so I am calling to 570 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 1: see if there is any way if she can have, 571 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: you know, come another night. Absolutely, no problem. I can 572 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: get ticket through. Good because I was gonna have to 573 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: ground her. I had to spanker a couple of times, 574 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 1: and I was gonna make her call and apologize to you. 575 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 1: But I mean, if we need to do that, we 576 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: can do that. I can have her say her sorry. 577 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: No needs for that, It's all good. Totally happened. Oh no, no, here, 578 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 1: I got here, hold on it. She needs to apologize. 579 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 1: Come here, thank you're sorry for your actions. I'm so sorry. 580 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: I feel so bad, Like I genuinely cried to my 581 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 1: dad about this, and I just feel awful. Oh, don't 582 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: feel bad at all. I know we've had lots of 583 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: changes happened, so totally understand why you missed it. No 584 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 1: problem at all. We can get you still in for 585 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: the show. Okay, good, because I was I mean, she 586 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: was gonna have to mow the lawn three times to 587 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 1: earn the money back for one ticket. I thought about 588 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: teaching her the hard lesson in life, but I thought i'd, 589 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: you know, give a call and thank you for being 590 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: so amazing. Oh no, trauma. All you are most welcome 591 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: and you can still have her mo I guess if 592 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 1: you want. Yeah, should be all just go, all right, 593 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: thank you, have a great day. All right, you're welcome. 594 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: See here, I feel dirty. That's the creepiest dad ever. Yeah, 595 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: so sorry, my dad, And then he kind of gets 596 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: creepy with the woman. I didn't think I was that 597 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: creepy in the end, Morgan, you get to go a 598 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: different night, yep? Or did you go already? I went already. Okay, 599 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: so you got the tickets and you went over. Yeah, 600 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 1: he figured it out for me. It was good. I mean, 601 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: I don't know that it was worth one hundred dollars, 602 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: but you know, at least I didn't waste it was 603 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 1: all right. Hey, it's Bobby blance. You could save over 604 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars on your car insurance with the General Insurance. 605 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: Take it close to look at the General and get 606 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 1: quality insurance for less. Call eight hundred General or visit 607 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: the General dot com. The General Auto Insurance Services, Inc. 608 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: An insurance agency Nashville, Tennessee. Some restrictions apply, Amy, Would 609 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 1: you explain what our segments Spill the t is about? Oh, 610 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 1: it's when someone on the show is sort of tattletelling 611 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: on another remember, and they even think they're being a whistleblower, 612 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: like they're spilling for good. But it's a tattletale. Yeah, 613 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: so let's spill the tea. Anybody feel like they s 614 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: some t is gonna get spilled on him? I always 615 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: have a tea? Is it nerves? Nervous? I mean, yeah, 616 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: that's always usually me or lunch box. Well, I tell 617 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: you the person it's being spilled on. I don't think 618 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 1: he's ever had tea spilled on them before. Oh yeah, 619 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: so the spiller is someone who often spills those lunchbox 620 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: of course, yes, is he spilling it on Abbey? He 621 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: is not. He is spilling it on Scuba Steave. O. So, lunchbox, 622 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 1: what did you find out about Scuba Steve Scooba. Steve 623 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: has the most unreal expectations for his wife. He makes 624 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: his Oh yeah, stop, what are you doing? Stop what? 625 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 1: I'm all for her doing the laundry. I get it. 626 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: I understand that Scuba, but Scooba has requirements that she 627 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: has to hang dry all of his clothes. His clothes 628 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,959 Speaker 1: do not enter the dryer. Everything she puts in the 629 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 1: washing machine has to be put on a hanger and 630 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: hang dry it. That means laundry that could go in 631 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: the dryer ten seconds turns into a ten minute or 632 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: deal because she has to get your find out about this. 633 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: I was just I was like, man, that shut is 634 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 1: from the nineties. How do you keep it so clean? 635 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 1: He goes, Oh, I make my wife hang drying all 636 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 1: my clothes and she has to wash all these clothes 637 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: inside out. And I'm like, dude, that is the craziest 638 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard. Like I get the laundry, but 639 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 1: putting stipulations that you get the laundry, I understand. I 640 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: understand the laundry. That is the tea that I have 641 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: to spill on. Scuba Steve. Okay, Scuba Steve, You've been 642 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: spilled upon. What would you like to say? I want 643 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 1: to say that this is for a good reason, because 644 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: my clothes are valuable and their vintage and they need 645 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: to be treated a certain way. And because she does this, 646 00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: I have clothes that have lasted ten plus years and 647 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: she's okay with it. Her mom, even back in the 648 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: day when I lived with her, mother would iron everything 649 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: for me, my underwear, my socks, my clothing, my shirt. 650 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 1: Your your mother in law, would iron your underwear. It 651 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 1: blew my mind too. I remember one day I was 652 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 1: when I first moved to her house. This is like 653 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: early twenty twelve in San Francisco, and I remember opening 654 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: in my laundry drawer or my dresser drawer, and my 655 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 1: underwear was all flat and neat and I and I 656 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 1: asked her. I was like, what do you do? She goes, oh, 657 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 1: I M I started it, and I iron your underwear 658 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 1: so it's nice and neat and ready to go for you. 659 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 1: I thought it was weird, but ever since I've had 660 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 1: iron underwear, I can't turn back and your why maybe 661 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 1: you push back at all, like this is a bit, 662 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 1: this is a lot. No, not at all, because she 663 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,959 Speaker 1: understands how important my things are to me. Yeah, why 664 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 1: don't you do it? Because I don't want to. I 665 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: don't the time or the patience for that kind of stuff. 666 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 1: And she likes it. It's therapeutic for her, so she claims, 667 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: So I'm not going to find and Plus I get 668 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: so upset if I see a shirt that's and putting 669 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: in the dryer and it comes out shrunk, Okay, full 670 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,439 Speaker 1: of rage when I see a shirt that wasn't send 671 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 1: it back, um Scuba Steve, do you feel a bit 672 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: of guilt that she does all this? Initially? I did, 673 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 1: but it's been ten years of her doing this or 674 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: her mom doing it, so at some point she would 675 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: have stopped that she didn't want to do it, or 676 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: express her interest of her hating this, But she does 677 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,799 Speaker 1: it and does it with a smile. Are you embarrassed 678 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: that this tea was spilled? It wasn't something that I 679 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 1: planned on talking about ever. But since it's been talked about, 680 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,880 Speaker 1: it's out there. Nothing I could do about it. No, yeah, wow, 681 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 1: it isn't normally. It totally is not normal. I didn't 682 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: I didn't grow it that way. But now that I 683 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,359 Speaker 1: I love it, I think that I would love it too. 684 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 1: I guess a lot of things I would love that. Okay, 685 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: let's think of the dynamic of their family and understanding 686 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: whether she was the one working full time? Does your 687 00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 1: wife work, Steve? Did your wife work? She works full time? 688 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. I thought she didn't work 689 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,319 Speaker 1: at all, But she does it with a smile. My 690 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: mom worked full time with four kids and did a 691 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: lot of things. You do, Scooba. You need to get 692 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 1: in the laundry room and start. There's no way because 693 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: then everything will be wrong, and then I'd be upset 694 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: that she didn't do it in the first place. You 695 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 1: don't want to agree, Why not yourself? You're a competent person. 696 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 1: Learn how to do it. I do other things. I 697 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: do the outside stuff. We will compromise. She does door 698 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 1: I do outdoor? Why do you do? What? What have 699 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 1: you done? I'm bowe the lawn, I weed eat edge, 700 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 1: I pull the weeds. Micromanaged that like, if you don't 701 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: we need correctly, she gets angry. She should make comments 702 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 1: about things, so I make sure to make sure it's proper. 703 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: It's their own dynamic. If it works for them, great, 704 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: I just thought it was odd. Okay, well, Lunchbox was 705 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: so eager to tell on him. I mean, how tasty 706 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: was that? As I go, I would just suggest to 707 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 1: Steve that you make sure you she knows how much 708 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,839 Speaker 1: you appreciate ate it, and then maybe change how you 709 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,839 Speaker 1: word it to people are get angry if it ain't 710 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 1: doing right. Yeah, thank you Steve. Well, Steve our executive producer. 711 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 1: That was spilled the t that's let's just spill. The 712 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: RAM fifteen hundred exceeds all expectations with available features like 713 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 1: a twelve inch touchscreen, digital rearview mirror, multifunctional tailgate, and 714 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,320 Speaker 1: a panoramic sunroof. So if you're thinking about switching trucks, 715 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: now is the perfect time. Learn more at ram dot com. 716 00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 1: That's ram dot com. The question is is your kids spoiled? Yes? 717 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: And no answer Amy, No, Eddie, uh no, I would say, no. Okay, 718 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: check these off. Is your kids spoiled? Here are some signs. 719 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 1: They don't have many chores. That's some. No, lots of 720 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 1: chores some versus a lot lots. So far these kids 721 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 1: will spoiled. Um. Most of their sentences to start with, 722 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:05,359 Speaker 1: I need hmm, no, I want, no, I want oh anymore? Shoot? Yeah? 723 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,359 Speaker 1: And he's like, no, not really, just give me Eddie. 724 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 1: I no, no, no, it's started that way, but I 725 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 1: nipped that one in the butter real. So Eddie the 726 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,920 Speaker 1: amazing dad over here. I won't say amazing dad because 727 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: I think that would be unfair. I don't know what's 728 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,319 Speaker 1: amazing what isn't. But I will tell you this, Eddie 729 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 1: is the disciplinarian for sure of that those kids. Because 730 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 1: then here he's the glue guy of the show. He's 731 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 1: a fun guy, keeps us all together. He's like when 732 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: he's with his kids and he's like, oh, don't they 733 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 1: line up? It's crazy. I've seen him have to get 734 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 1: on the phone when he's with us out on the 735 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 1: road and be like, okay, talk to them from three 736 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 1: hundred miles away. They shape up. Yeah, it's crazy. It's crazy. 737 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: You're disciplaring. I know, it's crazy. I don't know how 738 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,399 Speaker 1: I do. It's it's really you're silly putty. It's it's 739 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 1: a big acting job because sometimes like I have to 740 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 1: get mad at him, but it's funny what they're doing. 741 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 1: I have to act real serious and Matt, yeah, the 742 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: funny things they throw tantrums. No, never, not anymore. He 743 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 1: nipped it in the bud. Sure, everything's not more. I 744 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: guess have some pretty good kids. You're Amy's pile of stories. 745 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,920 Speaker 1: A new survey commissioned by Tractor Supply Company showed that 746 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,879 Speaker 1: sixty two percent of people think that they could live 747 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,240 Speaker 1: off the land if they needed to. That's a majority 748 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: of people. Seems so discussed with folks right now. No, 749 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 1: He's like, I can't believe all these idiots. Well, I 750 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: just don't think that we really could, Like if we 751 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 1: pulled the room, like, who could you could grow food 752 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: and hunt and skin it and cook it. I believe 753 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: you could. When I did bear girls and we found 754 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: we found dead animals, and he was like, well fus, Bobby, 755 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 1: and I was already into it, and I was like, well, 756 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: this is skin it and He's like, what is happening here? 757 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,319 Speaker 1: This nutty guy knows how just And I was like, well, yeah, 758 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 1: I mean I grew up in Arkansas, so I had 759 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,400 Speaker 1: to learn this is what we did. I don't use 760 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 1: that a lot now. I think I'd be pretty good. 761 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 1: There are probably certain things I don't know about farming. 762 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 1: I can garden. I had a garden once. So this 763 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 1: mom is on TikTok saying that when she gives birth. 764 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: She's pregnant right now, and she plans to immediately when 765 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 1: the baby comes out, paint her baby's toenails so that 766 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 1: there's no confusion that's her baby. And she put this 767 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: up on TikTok and it's gone viral and people calling 768 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 1: her crazy. But she's like, nope, Like thousands of babies 769 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 1: get switched in hospitals every year. Here's the deals. It 770 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 1: happens thousands of times each year. But normally it gets 771 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: sorted out at the hospital and they don't end up 772 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:30,879 Speaker 1: going home with the wrong family. Right. Well, I'm giving 773 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: the asterisk. The switches happen, but then they figure out 774 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,360 Speaker 1: the confusion before they leave the hospital, thank goodness. But 775 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 1: still it happens. They have to have a better system 776 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: than that. All right, let's cut the court. Well, first 777 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: hand me that polish. Yeah, no way, that's what she 778 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 1: plans on doing. And then lastly, face yoga could make 779 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 1: you look years younger, and I this is something I 780 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 1: was in on, like, I don't know, ten years ago. 781 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,319 Speaker 1: The only caveat is they say, now you have to 782 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 1: do thirty minutes of face yoga a day in order 783 00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 1: to have the benefits, which improves like sagging of the face, 784 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,959 Speaker 1: just making faces. Yeah, you can google it, my wife, 785 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 1: there's plenty of that when I tell jokes and stuff 786 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 1: funny similar But if you want to search out some classes, 787 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: you just go to YouTube type in face yoga and 788 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 1: some routines will pop up and you can do those 789 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,960 Speaker 1: daily and it'll help with your face. It's probably full 790 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: joke or something, so it's nice. It's called face yoga. 791 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, I'm Amy. That's my pile. That 792 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 1: was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the good news. 793 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,240 Speaker 1: So this guy in Wisconsin was at a dog park 794 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,840 Speaker 1: and he lost his wedding ring. He thought, man, this 795 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: is just lost forever. I can't find it anywhere. So 796 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:44,840 Speaker 1: he posted on Facebook that he lost it. Well, someone 797 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: else is at the dog park and their dog was 798 00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 1: over by something. They were like, well, what's that shiny thing? 799 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: Got the ring? They went over to the next door 800 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,480 Speaker 1: app thingy and they posted found this ring. So two 801 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: different websites, but two different people. A third party person 802 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 1: not involved in any of it, saw the missing ring 803 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 1: guy post on Facebook on the internet too much, on 804 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: the internet, too much. He was on next door and 805 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 1: saw that someone found a ring that looked like the 806 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,800 Speaker 1: missing ring. And then he united them and said, oh 807 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 1: I solved the mystery. This person lost the ring. This 808 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,360 Speaker 1: person founder ring. Brought them together. Walla. I hope that 809 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,479 Speaker 1: person finds a friend because obviously there's looking for something 810 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: on all the apps. But that's great. Everybody won there. Yeah, 811 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 1: person get the ring bag. Yes, person made the news. 812 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: That's how you can make the news, like wax, find 813 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:31,680 Speaker 1: somebody something and I didn't even say their names, but 814 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 1: find somebody something. I mean, I've been trying. I look 815 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: everywhere I go, I look for lost items. That one 816 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,279 Speaker 1: time I found them a little what is that drive 817 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,400 Speaker 1: thing called usb jan? I thought I was gonna have 818 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 1: a bunch of pictures, had nothing on it. I like 819 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: though that everywhere you go you look for lost things. Yeah, 820 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,720 Speaker 1: every everywhere. I like that. That's good Amy, good story. 821 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: That's what it's all about. That was tell me something good.