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Speaker 1: When you're a guest in my home, you gotta come

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Speaker 1: how do you dare to surbey me?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to? I said, no gifts. I'm Richard Wineger.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: I hope you're doing well. I hope you're excited to

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Speaker 2: hear from me. If you're not, I don't know what

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Speaker 2: to tell you. Turn off the podcast to go move

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Speaker 2: on with your life. Otherwise you can hang in here

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Speaker 2: and stick around, because I think we're going to have

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Speaker 2: a very nice time today. I adore the guest today.

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Speaker 2: She's so funny, just the most spectacular Jamie Lee, Jamie Lee,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to. I said, no gifts.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I'm a thrill to be here.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing well? How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing okay? You know, I'm doing pretty well. A

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Speaker 2: year in to this whole thing, and I am stronger

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Speaker 2: than ever, Just great, feeling great, doing my thing. Have

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Speaker 2: truly nothing going on in my life outside of recording

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Speaker 2: a podcast once a week and watching the sopranos.

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Speaker 3: Okay, those are two big things. Don't understand that. All right.

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Speaker 3: It's a great series, and recording a podcast gives you

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Speaker 3: a chance to see people. So sounds like you're you're

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Speaker 3: doing the damn thing. I wait, what was the question?

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Speaker 3: What am I doing?

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Speaker 2: I said, what have you learned from life? What's next for?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: What have you been up to?

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Speaker 3: What if I've been up to? I'm writing still kind

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Speaker 3: we're in production for season two right now. We're doing

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Speaker 2: You know, Like actually now, I mean, there are just

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And there's just a lot of TV, you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well there was like some yes technically, I mean

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And the whole the whole ceremony was recorded in advance.

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Speaker 3: Even the acceptance speeches were pre recorded.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So like my boss and like Jason Sedeikis and

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Speaker 2: What else is going on in your life?

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Speaker 2: And now you have this show coming up that I

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Speaker 2: I need to just hear about this experience, because so

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Speaker 2: Has I mean, what was the general experience. How many

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Speaker 2: Show, right and through the filming of the show, did

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Speaker 2: you I have to imagine you winnessed some type of meltdowns,

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Speaker 2: some for wedding freakouts. Were there any particularly exciting ones

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear about a wedding freakout?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, yeah, I mean a wedding freakout. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: mean the whole show is sort of based on wedding

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Speaker 3: freakouts of different kinds. So there was like the family

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very curious about that aspect of it, because

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Speaker 2: you are knowledgeable, and you're also very personable and very

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Speaker 2: star of the television show. So I like, what is

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Speaker 2: the agreement made between the wedding party and you as

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Speaker 2: it like, we'll turn will literally turn to Jamie in

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Speaker 2: times of need. Yeah, this is exactly. That's so much

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Speaker 2: pressure for you. I would lose my mind.

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Speaker 3: Yes, one hundred percent. There there was the turn to

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Speaker 3: Jamie in times of need. But luckily there was a

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Speaker 3: feeling because when I got married, I love how I'm

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Speaker 3: like going to be a divorced wedding coach. It's very funny.

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Speaker 2: Well, you, miss, you have become the divorce coach. Next

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Speaker 2: We all have to live our lives, Jamie all that aside.

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Speaker 2: buying one of my Jewish friends a kosher cookbook for

435
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 2: any occasion, and what I would think the expected reaction

436
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 2: would possibly be.

437
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 3: One hundred percent? Yeah, even if I did keep Koscher,

438
00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 3: I don't know that I need that, Like, I don't know. Yeah,

439
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 3: I totally agree with you.

440
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 2: Wow, okay, so and so you've just decided to give

441
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: me some antisemitic trash.

442
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 3: Yes that no, former, No, you're see you're not seeing

443
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 3: the silver lining. You're you are now the proud owner

444
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 3: of like this, this thing that meant so much to

445
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,199
Speaker 3: my dog, and my dog means so much to me,

446
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 3: So that means you mean so much to me. So

447
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 3: that means that the gift means so much to you.

448
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 3: Do you understand?

449
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: Yes, I absolutely understand you're is your dog with you

450
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 2: in New York?

451
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 3: Yeah? Actually he's sleeping right behind me. Wait, hold on

452
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 3: this tilt down and that's Dennis.

453
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 2: Oh what sort of dog is Dennis? He's he's a labordoodle,

454
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,919
Speaker 2: always adorable. How old is he?

455
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 1: Now?

456
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 3: He's six? Now see that that is also that that

457
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 3: toy is six years old. Is vintage, So you guys,

458
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 3: it's also vintage.

459
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 2: Before it came to me, is it sitting in a

460
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 2: storage bin?

461
00:24:58,359 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 3: It was in a drawer.

462
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: I'm so happy. Well, I want a gift receipt. That's

463
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 2: let's just be honest. I'm taking this back. Oh wow,

464
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: that's that's really wild. Have you received?

465
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: Is this one of the best gifts you've ever got?

466
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 2: This is an excellent gift. This is let's just be honest.

467
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 2: This is number one. This is not this will be

468
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 2: going on my mantle or I'll get it framed. It's

469
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: hard to see.

470
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 3: You can also dust with it. You could, you could

471
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 3: wash a window with it. Honestly, it's so versatile you

472
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 3: don't even know.

473
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 2: I will say, uh, the person who dropped this gift

474
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 2: off did say call me after the episode, uh for

475
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,239
Speaker 2: me to come pick the gift back up, and I

476
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: don't know if that is information he was given. And

477
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,239
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I'm happy to I was like, oh,

478
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 2: it must be something. I mean, I'm also happy to

479
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 2: return this to you. But maybe there was.

480
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: That is hilarious.

481
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 2: Do you want it back? I need to know.

482
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 3: No. I mean, I still think it's an amazing gift,

483
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 3: but no, I don't need it back. I don't. I don't.

484
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 3: You know what. You can keep it. You can keep it.

485
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: It's a little fun fact about me. If I give

486
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 3: you a gift, it's yours. That's the one unique thing

487
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 3: about That's what Yeah, that's what's different about me.

488
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 2: Now, have you received any more gifts from this friend

489
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 2: since the chicken?

490
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 3: Yeah? But nothing. There was just a streak there of

491
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 3: Jewish skewed gifts and also comments. There were some comments

492
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 3: I just think she Melanie hits her so funny, that

493
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,959
Speaker 3: is her name. No, but I I yeah, there were

494
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 3: just some comments a long way. But also I just

495
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 3: kept being like, well, she's from a small town, like

496
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: she didn't grow up with many Jewish people, so like, yeah,

497
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 3: I did that sort of. I just sort of chalked

498
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 3: it up to that. But yeah, I think it was

499
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 3: the one two punch of the cookbook and then, as

500
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 3: we called it in my house, jew Chicken. I think

501
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 3: it was those two things back to back where I

502
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 3: was like, what's going on here?

503
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 2: I didn't realize you're from you were from Texas? What

504
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: part of Texas are you from?

505
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 3: I'm from Dallas.

506
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 2: This feels like a good opportunity for me to talk

507
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: about something I've been wanting to talk about for a while,

508
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 2: which is this my favorite Instagram celebrity. I think she's

509
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: from Dallas. Her name is her Instagram name is Turtle

510
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: Creek Lane. You're probably not aware of who this is.

511
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,919
Speaker 3: Well, I know where Turtle Creek is.

512
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 2: Oh you do?

513
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 3: Yeah? Wait?

514
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: Can I look her up while I'm on Oh please do?

515
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 3: Okay?

516
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 2: I mean, okay, you will. I think you'll immediately know

517
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 2: why I'm such a fan of this person.

518
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Okay, I feel like.

519
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 2: It's maybe not the right word, but such a Turtle Creek.

520
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,959
Speaker 3: This person, Turtle Creek is like a really beautiful area

521
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 3: in Dallas. Hold on, Turtle Creek. What was it? Turtle Creek?

522
00:27:59,200 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 2: Lay?

523
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she comes right up. Oh okay, hey, don't

524
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 3: mind if we do Okay, now we're cooking of gas.

525
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 3: This is a blast. What is happening. I don't even

526
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 3: know how to describe this.

527
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 2: I mean, the first thing that comes to mind is teeth.

528
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: There's a there's just a I mean, God, bless this person.

529
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 2: I don't know her, and I'm I'm sure she's an

530
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 2: absolute ray of sunshine and everyone in the lives of I.

531
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 3: Mean guaranteed, guarantee she's a ray of sunshine.

532
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: That said, I can't. I've been following her for quite

533
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 2: a while now and I have yet to really be

534
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: able to pinpoint what the situation even is.

535
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 3: It's I it's frustrating. The instagram is such a visual

536
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 3: medium because I really wish that everyone who's listening to

537
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 3: this please go to this instagram immediately and you'll understand

538
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 3: it is going to be like following along like we

539
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 3: were watching a movie on a podcast, that this is

540
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 3: the equivalent, Like now is the time where you go

541
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 3: to the Instagram.

542
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: I'm going to go. I want to see what her

543
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: most recent thing is. And for the listener, just a little.

544
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 2: Her name is jen A Hutton or Hufton or something.

545
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 2: She's a you know, a deeply blonde kind of influencer

546
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 2: as she's a mom.

547
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 3: Teeth is white as snow.

548
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 2: Teeth is white as snow. I mean the enthusiasm, the

549
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: it's just like being blasted in the face by sunshine.

550
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 2: She's constantly decorating her home. That's kind of her thing.

551
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 2: Every holiday that every holiday that she celebrates, her home

552
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 2: is kind of turned into a disneyland of objects that

553
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 2: she found in the decorating section at Target. And so,

554
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: you know, for Christmas, the the house looks kind of

555
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: like mid transformation Beauty in the Beast Castle, if that

556
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 2: makes any sense. It's, uh, there's just kind of decaying cupboards,

557
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: but purposefully decaying. Uh, there's just you know.

558
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 3: There's like a Peter Rabbit diorama.

559
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: Do you see, yes, of course, And oh.

560
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's like an Easter room.

561
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 2: Right, and it's not just you have to be you

562
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 2: have to know with Jen it becomes an Easter house.

563
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 2: It's uh, the porch becomes Easter. Every element becomes part

564
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: of the holiday. She had like a forest for Christmas,

565
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: then she turned off our Christmas trees into Valentine's trees.

566
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: It's oh, I see that, yes, she yes, I see

567
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 3: the Valentine's tree. Where it's those candies with writing on them,

568
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 3: and she has like giant versions of that, so they're

569
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 3: like huge candy with words ornaments, right.

570
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 2: And more recently, I believe yesterday her house flooded, so

571
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 2: that was good. You know, you're getting caught. A friend

572
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: of mine, when I first discovered gen I sent her

573
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 2: to him and he did make a good point, he said,

574
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: I mean, he was very much on the same page, budd.

575
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: He said, if I were in her presence, I would

576
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: Jamie's showing me a picture of her right now, and

577
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 2: it's just incredible. I don't even I can't. I there's

578
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: just it's a difficult thing to describe. You have to

579
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: go to her Instagram and you know, let's all be

580
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 2: nice to her. I'm sure she's a nice person. But yeah,

581
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 2: my friend made the point of like, I think if

582
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: I met her, I would be I would be one

583
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: over immediately. I think she's the sort of person with

584
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 2: dis enthusiasm that's infectious. She's also like got hundreds of

585
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 2: millions of dollars. I've you know, I've done a light research.

586
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 2: Her husband's extremely wealthy.

587
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 3: Well what's the what's the money?

588
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 2: I feel like is like in some sort of financial

589
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 2: stocks or something.

590
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 3: Uh.

591
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 2: And then she's obviously making a fortune off of advertising

592
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 2: a billion things on her on her Instagram and then.

593
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 3: She she's like six hundred thousand follow us.

594
00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: Right, She's extremely popular. And it's just it's something that

595
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 2: I am still months after following her, struggling to wrap

596
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 2: my head around. I mean, maybe someday I'll fully understand.

597
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: I think she's a positive person and.

598
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 3: Well, no, what did you read her bio? Okay, okay, okay,

599
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 3: the most positive place on that on Instagram.

600
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: But I think she you know, she must turn it

601
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 2: to eleven. But I think she's probably a decent person.

602
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: There's no there's no saying. It's just you have to

603
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 2: look at it. Her Instagram stories. Every morning she does

604
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 2: a thing where she says, good morning, let's say something

605
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 2: more thankful for, and then she says something she's thankful for.

606
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 2: It's just a rollercoaster going at a thousand miles an

607
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 2: hour every day with Jen. And I'm so glad to

608
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 2: finally have an opportunity to bring it up on the podcast.

609
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,239
Speaker 3: Oh. I mean, you know, as you're just saying that,

610
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 3: I was thinking, Okay, what if what if this happens?

611
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 3: What if she watches the wedding coach becomes a fan.

612
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 3: I go home to Dallas to see my parents, and

613
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 3: I schedule like a meetup with her at her house

614
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 3: and then I send you. Then we then we take

615
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 3: a video together and we send it to you from

616
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 3: inside that gorgeous foyer.

617
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: Can we please get Jamie inside the Turtle Creek Lane?

618
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 2: Manor that's all I want.

619
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 3: It will be a goal for twenty twenty one and

620
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 3: maybe twenty twenty two, depending on how long it takes

621
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: for me to fulfill it, but it is. It's on

622
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 3: the vision board. I'm not gonna lie.

623
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: Growing up in Dallas, did you see this sort of personality?

624
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 2: I feel like this is a very like a deeply

625
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 2: Texas thing, right, like this giant personality, and like there's

626
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 2: the money to support it? Is that? Yes?

627
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 3: And the blonde the blonde at all? I yes? When

628
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 3: I went to college, I went to Universe, I went

629
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: to college, coreat Guys, I went to college. But when

630
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 3: I went to the University of Texas, I am a

631
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 3: brunette woman, and I felt so much pressure to dye

632
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 3: my hair blonde because there were just so many like

633
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 3: gorgeous blonde tan women at my school that I felt

634
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 3: like I just looked crazy in comparison. So, yeah, looking

635
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 3: at this woman, what's her name, jen?

636
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: Oh?

637
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 3: Jen?

638
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 2: I can't remember how to pronounce her last.

639
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 3: But looking at yeah, looking at like just yeah, everything

640
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 3: about her is very Dallas, Texas. It's very Texas, and yeah,

641
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: it's fascinating.

642
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been an interesting watch, especially during the pandemic,

643
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 2: when you know it hasn't been the easiest times for

644
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 2: a lot of people, and then to watch this person

645
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 2: like she's like thriving, right, I just spent fifty thousand

646
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 2: dollars on Valentine's decorations or whatever. It's a little like

647
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: maybe she also.

648
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 3: Her whole thing is decorating her home, and if you're

649
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: at home a lot during the quarantine, it's like kind

650
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,959
Speaker 3: of the best for her. It's just like more time

651
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 3: for more time for projects. I don't want to I

652
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 3: don't want to assume. I don't want to assume, but

653
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 3: just going off of the Instagram, yeah.

654
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we we hope that old Jen is actually I

655
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 2: don't what am I saying? That she seems like a

656
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 2: bit of a maniac, and maybe that maybe she embraces

657
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 2: the mania, the absolute wildness of it all. But I'm

658
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 2: so happy to finally get that out and just talk

659
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 2: about it because I adore her and hope that she

660
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 2: continues to produce content for ages to come. Uh. But

661
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 2: you know, I'll tell you something you're not going to

662
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 2: get from Jen is chewed up dog toy.

663
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: No.

664
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 3: I feel like she allows dogs in her house.

665
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 2: She's going to take it too much. She does.

666
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, that's.

667
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 2: The one thing about this person where I'm like, you

668
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 2: would have, you know, when her house is flooding, she's thrilled.

669
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: When she's laughing and smiling. There are a lot of

670
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,919
Speaker 2: the I've seen a few times with Turtle Creek Lane

671
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 2: where she's had like life crises where I'm like I

672
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 2: would have at an absolute meltdown and she's instagram story

673
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 2: ing it. She's out there like she's probably ankle deep

674
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 2: in sewage and she's smiling and laughing and like, you guys,

675
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,320
Speaker 2: look at this. So it's very It's just a whole

676
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 2: other world for me.

677
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 3: It's inspiring, is what you're saying, Absolutely speak deeply inspiring.

678
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Jamie, I feel like we should play a game.

679
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: Do you want to play a game? Do you want

680
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 2: to play a game called Gift Master, or a game

681
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 2: called Gift.

682
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 3: Or a curse, Gift or a curse.

683
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: Okay, I need a number between one and ten from you.

684
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 3: Six.

685
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: Okay. I have to do some light calculating while I

686
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 2: do the calculating. You promote something, you recommend something, you

687
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 2: sing a song, do whatever you want. I'll be right back.

688
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 3: Okay, sounds great. Okay, promote something. Okay. I have a

689
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 3: shown Netflix. It's called The Wedding Coach. You should check

690
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 3: it out. I have a different comedian with me every episode,

691
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 3: and we have a lot of really funny people on it,

692
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 3: Matteo Lane, Fortune Fimester, Punky Johnson. It's a really good group.

693
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 3: You can follow me on my Instagram. It's not as

694
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 3: good as Turtle Lane. I don't curate it as hard

695
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 3: as Jen does, but that's at really Jamie Lee and

696
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 3: I would say follow me on Twitter, but I haven't

697
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 3: tweeted in a long time, so I feel like I'll

698
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 3: probably just disappoint you if you go.

699
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:28,959
Speaker 2: There, Jamie perfect, Yeah, okay, great, I mean no, let's

700
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 2: all just get off of Twitter. It's just I'm so

701
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 2: tired of this.

702
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 3: I know, I miss I used to love it. I mean,

703
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 3: I really loved those days of like coming up with

704
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 3: jokes and you were so you were so great on Twitter.

705
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: You were like a highlight of Twitter. Oh my god, Yeah,

706
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 3: you killed me on there.

707
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 2: It's I think it's time to just shut it down.

708
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 2: It's uh, every time I get on and I feel

709
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 2: like ash is raining from the sky. It's just such

710
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 2: a negative thing for.

711
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 3: It is it is. Yeah, there's not that Instagram is

712
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 3: you know, good for our brain. But there is something

713
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 3: that feels lighter about it.

714
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't feel like a just an immediate burden exactly.

715
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 2: All that said, let's play gift or a curse. This

716
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 2: is what happens. I'm going to name three things. You're

717
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 2: gonna tell me if there are a gift or a curse?

718
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 2: And why I know the thing is is there are

719
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 2: correct answers. So you can fail, okay, and you know

720
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: the listener will lose respect for you, you'll have a

721
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 2: harder time, et cetera, et cetera, So just share share Okay.

722
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,240
Speaker 2: First up, this is a listener suggestion, gift or a curse?

723
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 2: Family heirlooms.

724
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say curse.

725
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 2: Okay, why I think it's.

726
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,919
Speaker 3: A curse because if something were to happen to them,

727
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 3: there would be a lot of guilt because it could

728
00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: be something that's not even like that like on paper,

729
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 3: worth a ton of money or something, but because of

730
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 3: the attachment to family, like it feels like a big

731
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 3: responsibility to have it. Also, if it's the other way

732
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 3: where it is really expensive, you feel kind of fucked

733
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 3: up about like wanting to sell it.

734
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 2: Right right, Okay, Well, I mean, what can I say.

735
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 2: You're off to a very good start. I think they're

736
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: absolutely a curse, and I'll tell you. I mean, maybe

737
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 2: my logic's a little different. I just think a family

738
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: heirloom is literally cursed. I feel like if you've got

739
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: an heirloom, there's some sort of sorcerer or something has

740
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 2: place to curse on the object. It's going to bring

741
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 2: you bad luck. You're also just kind of burdened with

742
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 2: maybe something you don't really care about unless you're going

743
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 2: on Antique's road show. What are we doing with it?

744
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 3: What are we doing?

745
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 2: What is an What is a family heirloom in the

746
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: first place? I can't even all I picture is a

747
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 2: cursed mirror or you know, like an emblem or something

748
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 2: that's been passed down and is kind of haunting you.

749
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Yeah, my mind went to like a giant

750
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 3: ship in a bottle.

751
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: Right, cursed. There's an absolutely that has some sort of

752
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 2: evil spirit in it, right, just like literally a cursed object. Okay,

753
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 2: good job number two. This is also a listener. Oh actually,

754
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 2: now let's just say all of these are listeners suggestions today.

755
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: Second up, gif you a curse working for a family member,

756
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 2: and that's from our listener named oh Olivia, and I

757
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: should give credit to family heirlooms to someone named Rebecca. Congratulations. Okay,

758
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 2: Olivia wants working for a family member though.

759
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 3: Such a curse, such a curse, I mean, oh god, yeah,

760
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 3: I mean my parents work together, and I was always like,

761
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 3: oh God, like you guys need your really me to

762
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 3: have like your separate things. But yeah, no, I just

763
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 3: think the power dynamics could get really weird. And then

764
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 3: there's like money, and I don't Yeah, there's money. That

765
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 3: makes sense, Jane, there's money. There's money, but yeah, just absolutely,

766
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 3: I just think it's Yeah, I shiver, I shiver at

767
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 3: the thought of working with a family member. What do

768
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: you think, I.

769
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: Don't think, I know, I mean, what do you know

770
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 2: what do you YEA Working for a family member, of course,

771
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 2: is a curse. Working for anyone is a curse. Working

772
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 2: is a curse. But working as a curse we bring

773
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 2: in the familial we bring in. I feel like you

774
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 2: are just absolutely asking for it. You do not want

775
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 2: money between you and a family member. Also, you don't

776
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 2: want to spend that much time with a family member.

777
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 2: You want somebody that you can have an ice clean

778
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 2: cut with if things go south. Working for a family member.

779
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 2: You know, I worked at a I mean, this is

780
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: the closest I've come was. I worked at a bakery

781
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 2: cafe right out of high school. My younger sister was

782
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 2: an employee. I was the manager. Even that the pressure

783
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 2: was too much. We're getting in fights. She's not my

784
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:04,240
Speaker 2: opping the floor enough, and I'm irresponsible. It's too complicated.

785
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: You don't want to work for a family member. I mean,

786
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 2: look at the property brothers. We know there's a lot

787
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: of tension there.

788
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they're hanging on by a threat when the

789
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 3: cameras aren't rolling.

790
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 2: I mean, they are at each other's throats and we

791
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 2: all know it. I guess technically, do they work for

792
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 2: each other? It's hard to say to the property or

793
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: do they work together. I don't know. Property brothers don't

794
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 2: reach out to me. I don't want to hear from you,

795
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 2: but I do. I will say, curse, you've got two

796
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 2: out of two. I love it. Final one gift or

797
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 2: a curse ceramic painting stores and I'm not giving credit

798
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 2: very well today. This is from someone named Angus, and Angus,

799
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 2: I apologize. There's your credit, Sam. I know it's a

800
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 2: nice solid name, right, Yeah, I.

801
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 3: Want to hear that anymore underused seramic? Oh like those

802
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 3: like color me mind mo.

803
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 2: Place right, that's my assumption here.

804
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 3: I'm going to say capital Wait what is it?

805
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 2: Oh?

806
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 3: Capital g GIF and what? Because I when I was

807
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 3: getting married to bring it back. When I was getting married,

808
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 3: I was just absolutely so stressed about so many details

809
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 3: and whatnot. And I went to one of those places

810
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 3: and painted a bowl and it was so relaxing. I

811
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 3: did not think about the wedding. It was very meditative.

812
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 3: I just like zoned out and just like was in

813
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 3: the moment. So yeah, I love those places. It's so fun.

814
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,720
Speaker 3: I love Yeah, I love it, Jamie.

815
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: I hate to say it. I hate to say it.

816
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking, Oh, Jamie's gonna get three out of three.

817
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 2: I mean, the hall of fame is very small for

818
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: this game. I don't even know if anyone's ever won

819
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 2: it completely. But the ceramic painting stores are a curse,

820
00:43:55,719 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 2: an absolute curse. My one experience was I think it

821
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: may have been what brought on the pandemic. It was

822
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: February twenty twenty. I went with my dear friend Sarah.

823
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 2: We sat there and painted. I ended up paying like

824
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: forty dollars for this mug. And this mug look, it

825
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: has my favorite word on it, which is thailand All.

826
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 2: I think the word tiland all is so soothing to say.

827
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 3: Oh, you're right, Wow, I never thought of it.

828
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 2: It's got the nice tea. There's nothing hard, you know.

829
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 2: I think it's an excellent word, thiland. I thought, wow,

830
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 2: thailand All on a mug. But it was for me

831
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 2: so stressful. And this, this mug is maybe the most

832
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 2: hideous object in my house. I thought I would do

833
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,919
Speaker 2: kind of a nice woodsy vibe. I thought it would

834
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 2: make it look like a little trunk or a little

835
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 2: tree trunk, and it ended up looking like like a

836
00:44:55,480 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 2: ninja turtles rejected prop or something. It's a yellow. The

837
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 2: inside it's green, it's brown. This thing is so hideous.

838
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 2: I truly paid I think forty dollars for this mug

839
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 2: and I don't want to drink out of it. What

840
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 2: do I do with this thing at this point? It's hideous,

841
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 2: this company. I just feel like I've been totally ripped off,

842
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 2: absolutely a curse.

843
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean I did have I had something

844
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 3: to say in response to that.

845
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: I want to hear because I feel like you're.

846
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 3: Putting a lot, You're putting a lot of blame on

847
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 3: the process. Okay, well, let's just making your mug.

848
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 5: But really, I feel like, you know, they usually have

849
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:42,439
Speaker 5: tools for writing, so it's very clean, and I feel

850
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 5: like it's.

851
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 3: On you that you did it. I don't know that

852
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 3: you did. I don't think you had the right one,

853
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 3: because I feel like Thailand all would look so crisp

854
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: and clean if you had used that little like teeny

855
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 3: felt tip thing.

856
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 2: This is well, it's kind of a stencil, which was incredible.

857
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,760
Speaker 3: You can't see. That's that worry. That's that's the flaw.

858
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: You can't go stensily. You have to use this like

859
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 3: specific writing tool. It's like a detailing tool and you can, Yeah,

860
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 3: you can write seamlessly with it. It's like a pen.

861
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,280
Speaker 3: It's like a pen with glaze.

862
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: And really, I don't know that I was even presented

863
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: with this option, which maybe it was just a failing

864
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 2: of the store I went to.

865
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 3: That is possible. Yeah, I don't. I don't think that. Yeah,

866
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 3: I think that. I just wish I wish it wasn't

867
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 3: a curse because I feel like if you were to

868
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 3: try again, you might it might be a gift.

869
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,359
Speaker 2: I just got burned so bad. I mean, not only

870
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 2: did I get this horrible mug. We just went. I

871
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 2: think it was the last activity I did before the pandemic.

872
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: So you know, it's a lot of yeah, trauma there, right, right,

873
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 2: So I just have to say curse and well, you know,

874
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 2: I'll post some pictures of this tile in all mug

875
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: to Instagram. I want to people can be the judge

876
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 2: of the judge of whatever. I don't know what you're judging,

877
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 2: but everyone look forward to that horrible image. Jamie. Okay,

878
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 2: let's move on. This has been painful for both of

879
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 2: us and we've got to clear the air. Let's answer

880
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: some questions. This is called I said no questions. People

881
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 2: are writing into I said no gifts at gmail dot com.

882
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 2: They have so many questions about gifts and how to

883
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 2: give gifts and what gifts they're getting. I've gone through,

884
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: you know, rarely do I go through these before the podcast.

885
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 2: But I thought Jamie knows everything about weddings. Let's answer

886
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: for some of these desperate wedding people. Here's the first one.

887
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 2: It says Bridger, and this person doesn't address the guest,

888
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 2: which I just think is so rude. But what are

889
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 2: you gonna do? It says I'm writing for advice on

890
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: what to get my fiance as a gift on our

891
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 2: wedding day. My fiance, Chris will be thirty when we

892
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 2: get married. He's an avid golfer. Our shared interests, because

893
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 2: golf is not one, include traveling, going out to eat,

894
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 2: relaxing at the beach or pool, exercising, reading, and spending

895
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 2: time with our families. So basically, if a lady who

896
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 2: lunches would enjoy some thing, there's a good chance we

897
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 2: probably would too. Now Here we go, I'd like to

898
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 2: spend somewhere somewhere between one and three thousand dollars on

899
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 2: his wedding present. I was originally planning to do a

900
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: boudoir photo shoot. But those costs between eight and ten

901
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. This is news to me. That's a lot

902
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 2: of money for some photos.

903
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like you could find you could find

904
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 3: someone who would take those for cheaper exactly.

905
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 2: But all my best Jenna, Long Island, New York, I

906
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: mean eight to ten thousand dollars. I don't know who

907
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: she's talking to for these photos, but that seems well.

908
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 3: The Long Island, the Long Island wedding culture is it

909
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 3: is a racket that I do believe. Yeah, this is

910
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 3: a really specific culture. It's very opulent. The weddings have

911
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 3: huge buffets with like every kind of food from around

912
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 3: the world. It's just like they always have a ban.

913
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 3: The band calls like twenty thousand dollars. Yeah yeah, yeah, I.

914
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 2: Mean I want to have a child and needs education.

915
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 3: I know, I know. Well, yeah, this is my whole thing.

916
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 3: Weddings are like beautiful but also disgusting.

917
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 2: That is so much money. Yeah, okay, but that.

918
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 3: Is not Actually that was a bit that was a

919
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 3: very important detail for me to hear.

920
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 2: Anyways, what should she get this fiance? But that's between

921
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: a thousand and three thousand dollars. Their interests, I'm going

922
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 2: to say, are kind of generic. These are just things.

923
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 3: It's just going to say generic. Yep.

924
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: Literally every person enjoys. Not a single thing here is

925
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:33,280
Speaker 2: a specific outside of maybe reading, but even that seems

926
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 2: a little most people read. Yes, yeah, we've got a

927
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,919
Speaker 2: what can these people? What can she get? That's what's

928
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 2: an object Between what's an experience? I feel like maybe

929
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 2: like a nice specific experience that they can do that

930
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 2: maybe they'll find something that's more enjoyable that they both enjoyed.

931
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 2: That's not one of these things that are just literally

932
00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 2: a pamphlet for a vacation.

933
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 3: That's exactly what I was thinking. I was having a

934
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 3: really hard time coming up with like a tangible object

935
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 3: type gift. So I was thinking, like, I don't know,

936
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 3: maybe like if there's like a day pass for some

937
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 3: like swanky hotel or something, they could like hang by

938
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 3: the pool and then like go get massages or something, right,

939
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 3: I don't yeah, but that's also something that you would

940
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 3: do in your honeymoon maybe.

941
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,800
Speaker 2: So maybe let's see.

942
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 3: I mean, I think she should revisit the boudoir.

943
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 2: Right, I feel like for two to three grand, you

944
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 2: could get that you're gonna have.

945
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 3: To leave Long Island, but you can absolutely get that, right.

946
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know these photographers who are trying

947
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 3: to stiff you at eight grand.

948
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 2: But I say, you know, spend five hundred dollars on

949
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 2: a ticket to Phoenix, find a photo photographer there and

950
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 2: you've got the You've got the three thousands, even if you.

951
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 3: Flew them out, even if you flew them to you

952
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:00,120
Speaker 3: in coach. The tickets are very cheap right now. You

953
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 3: could get them there for probably three hundred dollars and

954
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 3: then the photo shoots probably would have paid them the

955
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 3: three grand. Right. You don't want to stiff the photographers.

956
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 3: You know, they're freelance, they're working hard. But yeah, I

957
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 3: think that or if you're comfortable, depending on how comfortable

958
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 3: you are getting naked or mostly naked. I mean, you know,

959
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,839
Speaker 3: get an n YU student to come out a ID

960
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:24,919
Speaker 3: I guess art yeah, or SVA yeah, School of Visual Arts.

961
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 3: I mean, Pratt is also in the city. We've got

962
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 3: some good photographers who would be really happy for the work.

963
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, you got you do have to be

964
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: careful when you're screening a photographer for this sort of

965
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: photo shoot. Especially cut rate. But uh, yeah, you know,

966
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 2: I'm sure there are plenty of photographers who would do

967
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 2: this for free, but you want to avoid those people.

968
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 3: But like a progressive, cool female photographer there, you absolutely make.

969
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 2: Sure this person is a yeah, but I think that's

970
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 2: not a bad idea. And uh as far as other things,

971
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 2: it's just hard to say. I uh, I feel like

972
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 2: maybe I'm not even gonna go for it. I think

973
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 2: we've solved this problem. Let's move on to the next one.

974
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 2: This person also doesn't address you, which I'm just I

975
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 2: don't know what's happening with these wedding people. They're not

976
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 2: thinking about the guests, this says deer Bridger. And I'm

977
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 2: going to say, and Jamie. My twelfth wedding anniversary is

978
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 2: coming up in June. The traditional gift is silk or linen,

979
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 2: which I refuse to buy. My husband is the type

980
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: of guy who researches items intensely and then just buys

981
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 2: them himself, saying, oh look what I got myself. He

982
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 2: likes books, records, and during isolation has gotten very interested

983
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 2: in backyard and maintenance. Also, he loves gadgets. Please help

984
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 2: I beg you. That's let's say, sincerely, Molly in Buffalo.

985
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 2: So this whole like buying different Where did this thing

986
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 2: where you buy a different thing for each wedding anniversary

987
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 2: come from? Whose idea was this?

988
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 3: I actually didn't know about that, And I definitely didn't

989
00:52:56,000 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 3: know about the silk and linen for your big one too. Yeah,

990
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 3: it wasn't aware. But you know, I think the gift

991
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 3: part of it, maybe it's worth asking a friend of his,

992
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 3: if he has like a best friend or something who's

993
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 3: like plugged into what he would want more. I don't know,

994
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 3: because I feel like that's a again, it's sort of

995
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 3: a we're dealing with a kind of a broad range

996
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 3: of interests, like Gadget's also kind of I don't know.

997
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 2: I don't Yeah, I feel like, let's the backyard maintenance?

998
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: What does that actually involve? And we don't Actually we

999
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 2: don't have a budget here either, Molly, which would have

1000
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 2: been helpful, I mean, because for all we know, you're

1001
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 2: playing with fifty million dollars and then I say, you know,

1002
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 2: get an Infinity pool. But let's see, can you buy

1003
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 2: a lawn air raider? Yeah? That feels like a fun surprise.

1004
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 2: Suddenly he can do his own He can airrate the

1005
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 2: lawn himself. You don't have to hire a company one

1006
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 2: of the machines that kind of digs through the grass.

1007
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 2: A new hose, a quality hose. My hose is horrible,

1008
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 2: and I would love for somebody to spoil me with

1009
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 2: a you know, a little bit more of a luxury

1010
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 2: hose that feels like backyard maintenance. We don't know what's

1011
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 2: happening in the backyard.

1012
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 3: Well, maybe he's into gardening too. Maybe get him some

1013
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 3: seeds to plant.

1014
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 2: Seeds.

1015
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 3: Seeds, seeds are fun.

1016
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 2: I feel like there's probably some sort of Seed of

1017
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 2: the Month or seed subscription club or yeah, buy him

1018
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 2: a nice tree. I feel like you go find a

1019
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 2: really beautiful tree and that might be a fun surprise

1020
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 2: for all whoever his name is. And that feels like

1021
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 2: a thoughtful thing that you two can watch grow. You know,

1022
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1023
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 3: I feel like it's symbolic of something.

1024
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 2: Something or other. Right, Okay, Molly, your answer your question

1025
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 2: has been answered. Jamie, we help me just answer one more.

1026
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 2: I'm trying. I have far too many questions and I've tried.

1027
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying to improve as a person and as a host,

1028
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 2: and I you know, people are writing in desperately. This

1029
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 2: is high there. My first wedding anniversary is coming up

1030
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 2: and we're quarantined. We had originally planned to take a trip,

1031
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 2: but now we can't any ideas of this person gave

1032
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 2: no information any ideas for gifts for my husband. Thank you,

1033
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 2: And that's just from m And now, if it weren't

1034
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 2: the first wedding anniversary, I would have thought that Molly

1035
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 2: had written in twice. But it seems like this m

1036
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 2: is quarantined first anniversary. That feels like high pressure and

1037
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 2: low pressure for a gift. What do you mean?

1038
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1039
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 3: I also think you know, I'm not telling people to

1040
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,839
Speaker 3: get on planes. I don't want anyone to step out

1041
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 3: of their comfort zone or get sick. But I do think,

1042
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 3: you know, let's not underestimate the power of maybe like

1043
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 3: some kind of road trip airbnb, oh situation where you

1044
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 3: could still do a getaway but make it COVID friendly. Yeah, so,

1045
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 3: just you know, just throwing that out there. If you

1046
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,399
Speaker 3: initially wanted to take a vacation, I think you can

1047
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 3: modify what your definition of a vacation is and still

1048
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 3: like have the fun of that without feeling like you're

1049
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:05,359
Speaker 3: risking your life right.

1050
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also, I mean we are like headed out

1051
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 2: of this thing. There's a chance these people are vaccinated.

1052
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 2: There's like or you you know when you're gonna get vaccinated.

1053
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 2: You could buy some plane tickets in like for June

1054
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 2: or July. Say look, we're going to actually go on

1055
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 2: and we're going to burst out of this nightmare on

1056
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 2: our vacation to Argentina. Happy anniversary.

1057
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 3: I think that's right.

1058
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 2: I'd love to go to Argentina.

1059
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean I was just in Belize. I went

1060
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 3: on a plane. Yeah, the numbers are really low there,

1061
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 3: and yeah, it was just like a blast. I mean

1062
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 3: I definitely was. You know, the pandemic exists there, you

1063
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,759
Speaker 3: feel it, but it was really fun. And the whole

1064
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 3: thing was outside, like everything was outdoors, like all the

1065
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 3: activities obviously, ut like yeah, so it was it was

1066
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 3: really fun.

1067
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 2: What do you eat in Blize? What's the food scene there?

1068
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 2: I can't picture it.

1069
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it's actually it's it's varied, but I think

1070
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 3: the typical, a typical Belizian dish would be like plantains,

1071
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 3: rice beans and some kind of meat.

1072
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 2: Oh delicious, this is right up my alley.

1073
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was food is awesome and then like a

1074
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:11,800
Speaker 3: lot of fresh seafood.

1075
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 2: Oh so good. Well, go to Belize for your first anniversary.

1076
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 2: M I that seems like an excellent option unless you

1077
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Speaker 2: live in Belieze. You didn't give that information either, So

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Speaker 2: I mean, when you don't give enough information, we may

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Speaker 2: just be telling you to stay home. You've got to

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Speaker 2: You've got to open it up and give a few

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Speaker 2: key details. I think that's what we're really learning here,

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Speaker 2: is that you've got to get into the specifics if

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Speaker 2: you want specifics.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you get back what you put in.

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Speaker 2: Right, right. And I'm putting in so much that I

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Speaker 2: expect the same of a listener, Jamie. We've done such

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Speaker 2: an a plus job answering these questions that hopefully these

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Speaker 2: hopefully these people will send a thank you note at

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Speaker 2: very least to thank you basket. And I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is kind of the end of the podcast. And

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Speaker 2: now I've got this new gift which I've got to

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Speaker 2: get framed or bronzed or both.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and or restuffed.

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Speaker 2: Restuffed my dog could use it, give her sloppy seconds,

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Speaker 2: you know, right, No matter what, I have this kind

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Speaker 2: of piece of Nazi memorabilia, and I'm so thrilled to

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Speaker 2: have it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm thrilled to be the person who gave it

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Speaker 3: to you.

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Speaker 1: Tried, so.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being here. I've just had

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Speaker 2: a fantastic time and it's so nice seeing you.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I had the best time. It was so nice

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Speaker 3: seeing you. This was so fun and yeah, thanks for

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Speaker 3: having me.

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Speaker 2: Of course. And now, listener, this is your cue to

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Speaker 2: do whatever you want with yourself, as long as it's appropriate.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know what else to tell you. I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm in a mood and I just want to send

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Speaker 2: you off without being in a mood. So get off.

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Speaker 2: The podcast is as soon as you possibly can. Goodbye.

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Speaker 2: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. It's

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Speaker 2: engineered by our dear friend Annalise Nelson and the theme

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Speaker 2: song is by miracle worker Amy Mann. You must follow

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Speaker 2: the show on Instagram at I said No Gifts. That's

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Speaker 2: where you're going to see pictures of all these wonderful

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Speaker 2: gifts I'm getting. Listen and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher

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Speaker 2: or wherever you found me, and why not leave a

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Speaker 2: review while you're there. It's really the least you could do.

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Speaker 2: And if you're interested in advertising, on the show. Go

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Speaker 2: to midroll dot com slash ads.

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Speaker 1: Well, I invit, did you hear Thunn? A man myself

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Speaker 1: perfectly clear, But you're a guess to me. You gotta

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Speaker 1: come to me empty, and I said, no guests, your presences,

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Speaker 1: presents in I already had too much stuff. So how

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Speaker 1: do you dare to surby me?