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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the morning show.

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Speaker 2: You know, we had talk about friendships a lot, because

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Speaker 2: we're good friends, right, Yeah, And I was thinking, and

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Speaker 2: maybe wrongfully so, thinking that the older I get, the

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Speaker 2: less friends I have. And I think that's kind of

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Speaker 2: a normal thing. I guess you sort of shed. You

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Speaker 2: shed the friends that really are too chaotic and a

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Speaker 2: little crazy, because you don't want to live that life

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Speaker 2: like that, you know. But at the same time, I'm

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Speaker 2: growing a list of new friends. Are you guys out

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Speaker 2: there making friends still? I mean no, no, really.

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Speaker 1: Not really, Like I will all associate with my friends

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Speaker 1: friends because they kind of have already been vetted, but

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Speaker 1: go out and make my own.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, no, I've never met anybody like you, Elvis.

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Speaker 3: You make friends. You make friends standing in line at

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Speaker 3: Duncan you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: In our vacation you always have a new friend from vacation.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah. And to that point, Danielle, I get yelled

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Speaker 2: at by Alex and what you said, Nate as well?

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Speaker 2: Stop talking to everyone? Yeah, why why you always like

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Speaker 2: cracking dad jokes with strangers? I said, well, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is how I am so yesterday. We have these

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Speaker 2: two new friends and they're great. We really hadn't hung

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Speaker 2: out with them before. We took them out to lunch

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Speaker 2: and all of our other friends met those friends and

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Speaker 2: they became friends. I love doing that. I love seeing

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Speaker 2: two people I introduced become really good friends.

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Speaker 1: It makes me.

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Speaker 2: Feel so great. But we've had this conversation before, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: I know you remember this from way back, and I think, Gandi.

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Speaker 3: You were part of this too.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever introduced been introduced to someone by a

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Speaker 2: friend and then you become friends with them and then

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Speaker 2: the person who introduced you gets mad because you're hanging out?

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Speaker 4: Of course, for like, friend.

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Speaker 2: Poaching is what we call it? Right, stop that there's

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Speaker 2: nothing wrong with people becoming friends, right, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't think there is, But I know that a lot

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Speaker 1: of people have beef with that. They feel left out.

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Speaker 1: They're like, hey, I was I was a plug here,

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Speaker 1: I was a connection. How dare you leave me out?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I mean is it that what it's all about? Interconnectivity

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Speaker 2: with a whole group of people? And it made me

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Speaker 2: feel good anyway, So I made new friends. We have

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Speaker 2: we have new friends, and I'm sure we'll end up

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Speaker 2: traveling with them. You know us, our friends Linda and

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Speaker 2: Steven used to work at Walker's. Yeah, I mean bartender

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Speaker 2: and waiter. We took them on vacations with us. We're

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Speaker 2: all good friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Linda was in your bridal party exactly.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we just met him because she would

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Speaker 2: you bring me a hamburger every day.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You and I went somewhere and we were talking to

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Speaker 1: listeners and they were super nice. Everyone was drinking a

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Speaker 1: little bit, and you started giving them your phone number,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, wait, that's his actual phone number.

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Speaker 3: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: Because they were friends, I don't know. Did it go south?

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Speaker 3: I mean, do I still know that you have that answer?

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Speaker 2: I have no idea. What's your questions, Carrie?

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Speaker 4: So how do you introduce a cool friend that you

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Speaker 4: might have to a group of already established friends where

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Speaker 4: you have inside jokes together and years of history and

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Speaker 4: experiences and nostalgia. Because I was trying to do that,

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Speaker 4: and I feel like when you try to merge somebody

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Speaker 4: into that group, it doesn't work out so well all

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Speaker 4: the time.

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Speaker 2: Well maybe not.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: If the friends I hang out with, it's not really

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Speaker 2: about inside jokes and stuff, or there's this fun you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's fun. I love that. We had

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Speaker 2: a great day. We went out for lunch at noon

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Speaker 2: and we were there till almost eight. The whole place,

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Speaker 2: the whole place was just jumping and we had the best,

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Speaker 2: the best day. It was great. Anyway, I'm still smiling today.

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Speaker 2: I woke up this morning, Alice went, hey, I just

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Speaker 2: want to let you know before go back to sleep.

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Speaker 2: I had a great time yesterday. I went, yeah, me too.

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Speaker 2: We got good friends. Yeah, Nate, what's up.

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Speaker 3: I'll say this alcohol definitely accelerates the friend making because

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Speaker 3: I know the times I've been drunk, I make friends

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Speaker 3: so readily. So maybe that's the secret, Elvis. Maybe I

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Speaker 3: need to drink more. No, no, no, no, you don't

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Speaker 3: what one or two problems drinking? You know, I'm embarrassing myself,

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Speaker 3: and you know then that doesn't happen all the time.

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Speaker 2: It isn't always drinking. I mean, you know, if you

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Speaker 2: if cocktails her around, I get that, but it's not drinking.

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Speaker 2: It's just being interested in someone and what they're all about.

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Speaker 1: And I think also being a trusting person, which I'm

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Speaker 1: not at all I don't trust anyone. I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: do you want?

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Speaker 2: What do I have?

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Speaker 3: You want? Get out of here?

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Speaker 1: You're very trusting. Yeah, I think that makes a huge

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Speaker 1: difference when it comes to making friends.

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Speaker 3: Elvis, well, that's great. Con I could totally see somebody.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm talking about.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you like I could, I could try and

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Speaker 3: con like, if there was a con man, I think

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Speaker 3: you would be a great mark. That is what I

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Speaker 3: think they called.

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Speaker 1: But what what because you can be taking advantage of me,

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Speaker 1: That's what he's saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I can. People say I'm a bit gullible

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Speaker 2: and I'm a little bit of a wus. I don't

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Speaker 2: tell people to get away, you know, I'm.

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Speaker 3: But I will.

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Speaker 2: I'll meet someone at a bar and we're on vacation

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Speaker 2: the next week with each other.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yes, even when I moved here and I met all

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Speaker 1: of you, you guys were all so nice, I didn't

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Speaker 1: trust it. I was like, they're going to try and

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Speaker 1: harvest my organs.

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Speaker 2: How many times he made a new friend and he's like, hey, guys,

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Speaker 2: so and so is gonna come to the Christmas party.

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Speaker 2: We're like, who, I'm picking up strays along the road. Well, look,

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Speaker 2: you know, and someone said a text here It said, look,

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Speaker 2: you know, the world is such a lonely place and

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Speaker 2: loneliness is an epidemic, and we all agree that is

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Speaker 2: an issue. The world would be a better place if

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Speaker 2: we can all have friends like Elvis. Yeah, read, there's

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Speaker 2: a swinger text. I forgot about this. Somebody texted in.

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Speaker 2: Then you met those swingers who tried to kidnap you

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Speaker 2: and Alex?

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Speaker 4: You remember that? Okay?

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Speaker 2: No, First of all, they didn't try to kidnap us.

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Speaker 2: They'd invite us to their home, and we saw through that.

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Speaker 2: We didn't go No, no, we're we're street smart, we

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Speaker 2: got that down. We're good. We're not gonna go home

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Speaker 2: strangers and have a four way What the hell is that?

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Speaker 2: Unless they were really hot?

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Speaker 3: Then right? Okay, you're right.

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Speaker 1: So for you, how long do you have to know

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Speaker 1: somebody and how good of a relationship do you have

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Speaker 1: to have with them before you invite them to your home?

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Speaker 3: Of ten minutes?

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Speaker 2: That's fine?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, that's not the truth. That's seventeen No,

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Speaker 2: invite them to my home? I mean it depends on

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Speaker 2: the circumstances, who they are, how we know each other,

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Speaker 2: do we have mutual for I don't know. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. But there was a couple that we met

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Speaker 2: at a bar in Santa Fe and we invited them

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Speaker 2: to our house for drinks, and as we were driving

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Speaker 2: them up the hill, I'm so, how do you know

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Speaker 2: we're not gonna kill you.

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Speaker 1: I think this is something that's also probably very different

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Speaker 1: from men and women, because never in my life when

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Speaker 1: I think about inviting two people I met at a

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Speaker 1: bar to my home, I'd be like, they're gonna kill me.

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Speaker 1: This is it, this is how I die.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe not the smartest thing, and maybe we shouldn't

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Speaker 2: be talking about that here