WEBVTT - Classic Interview with comedian Mo'Nique 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:08.800 I congratulation. It's the Breakfast Club ten year anniversary and 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:12.360 years years at a breakfast club on your thing, ding 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:15.239 what you're doing and being honest with you. And they 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:18.320 had a job for ten years. Everything's gout you over there. Wow, 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:22.639 ten years, shout out to the best joining man. Hold on, 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:25.000 hold on, hold on, Damn y'all getting old. Y'all been 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:29.479 holding it down for ten years. Wow. Gjenf angela ye 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:32.720 and Charlottagne's a good man. Y'all being together longer than 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:35.199 some people have been married. I'm proud of y'all the 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:38.080 voice of the culture. Peace, love and uh let's go 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:48.760 to twenty congratulation. I'm telling you, hol yo, this is 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:50.760 your time to get it off your chest, whether you're 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:53.559 mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one oh 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:55.120 five one, we want to hear from you on the 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:59.960 Breakfast Club. Hello. Who's this yo? That's just job from Brooklyn. 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:02.680 What's up, broke? Get it off your chests? Yeah, I'm 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.160 blessed black and Holly Favor and I'll tell you right 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.360 now for me to get onto this line, it's been 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.440 about a year ready because I called about the same 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:14.120 thing and I'm about to be twenty seven and malls. Okay, 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.600 what's up, broke, get you off your chests. Yeah, man, 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:23.320 I'm just saying right now ten years in a radio show. 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:25.000 I mean the radio show. You know what I mean. 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:28.119 It's just so it's a blessing, man. And I'll say 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:30.759 right now, I so luk y'all so much because y'all 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:33.640 did so much for me t past few months. It 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:37.880 will be battling mental health and all. And I've just 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:41.160 been in a deep dog place and just listening to 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:45.520 y'all envy Ye, Charlomagne, y'all help so much for me. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.520 And I can't think y'all so much. Man. Well, I mean, 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:53.200 if you listen to y'all every single day, I want 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:54.760 you to get out that deep dark place. So I'm 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:56.520 glad that you're out of it. What helped you get 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.840 out of it? With you? Some therapy? What you do? Yeah, 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:01.960 I've seen some therapy, know, And you know I also 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:04.840 meditate as well. Abe what you do or sometimes she's 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.960 like you go to like your your own person tree 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:10.160 and all right, and you just meditate and you just 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.000 get like a lot of things out of your way 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:14.760 and just be so like to you like to yourself 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:17.480 and just get these demons out of you. And I 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.360 woke on a bowl walk because I'm three builders up 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:22.880 this bowl walk and I just walked. I cleared my mind, 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:27.079 and I'm just happy that I'm just in the right 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.440 place for being for my sons and for my wife. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.440 I'm glad to hear that my brother I got the 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:34.600 right people got there. You're gonna get one more thing 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:37.360 out the way. Um for like one of your best 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.560 moments of the Breakfast Clubs. I've been listening to listen 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:42.280 to y'all so long. If I had the two one 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:44.480 of the best moments, it's hard to say. It's what 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:47.240 the Floyd. Maybe with the reading when Charlote made we're 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:51.320 not gonna go to hang up on him, I didn't go. 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.760 That's one of those moments that I look back on 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:56.800 and I cringe, like I ain't had to do that 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.160 to Floyd Mayweather, you know what I mean, regardless of 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.200 how people feel about Floyd, because you know, after that happened, 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:04.560 it was a lot of people trying to justify to 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:06.960 me why it was fine, you know what I mean. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:10.040 But no, just because you know you don't like a 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:13.600 person doesn't mean that it was the correct thing that 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.720 that wasn't right now. I didn't like that. Hello, who's 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:18.760 this yo? This is shell man. I called it a 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:21.120 long time ago. I told charlom Man, you don't like 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.400 the Tushi side and all that because the toes and 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.760 all that. But I don't like my villain of Russian 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:30.120 But y'all from I'm originally from Hollom And I moved 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.360 down to North Carolina like a year and a half ago. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.360 You know, I got a little store funk with my girl. 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:40.000 We've selling you furniture and appliances, so like to do that. 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:42.600 That's from around the way. We him that come help 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:46.280 us move things like move on beds or washing machines. 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:48.600 That we called him a camera. He broken top spot, 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:53.240 broke the glass with a big ass brick. A couple 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:55.840 of days ago, somebody stole the trailer that we used 0:03:55.840 --> 0:03:58.040 to do deliveries right from in front of the house. 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:02.160 That sucks, yo, This like this real out here man, 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.880 like in police. We called police. We got everything all 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:08.360 camera and police ain't doing nothing. Mecklenburg County police is 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:11.720 not doing anything they ain't to do. They're still walking 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:15.440 out outside like the police one. They don't care about us. Man, 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:18.320 we young black. They just trying to clean up, clean 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:24.120 up the areas. I don't know. I'm sorry, y'all. That's 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:25.680 what this segment is for. It is called get it 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:27.839 off your chests. You get the vent? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:31.400 being and God bless y'all. No respect to your anniversary 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:33.800 and all that, but a man, I'm still working. I'm 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:36.520 going to work right now, do the supply sprinklers. I 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:38.480 use my money to go buy things so we can 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:40.320 sell in the store. I don't even use my money 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:42.800 for nothing else. Like dude bobbing us like, did you 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.640 get any p PP? No, man, we young, we black, 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:49.080 we we ain't. Ain't making no money over there. Damn. 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:51.839 I'm sorry for you. I'm sorry for that, brother, But 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.000 that's the game. No, that's that's the game. You know 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:55.880 what I'm saying. You're gonna have setbacks. It's gonna be 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:57.760 your obstacles, it's gonna be hurdles, but you gotta keep 0:04:57.800 --> 0:05:00.600 it moving. Yeah, yes, definitely. Ain't got no choice, man, 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:02.960 we can. I ain't going back to back to where 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:05.599 I came from. I know that exactly. And you know 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:07.520 damn well that back in the day, if you was 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:09.680 in the streets and you took a loss. Ain't nothing 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:11.480 you could do but take that out and keep it moving. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.839 So you gotta treat the corporate world the same way. Absolutely, 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:17.440 get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five, 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.120 one oh five one. If you need to vent, hit 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:22.200 us up now. It's the breakfast club. Good morning. This 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:23.960 is your time to get it off your chest. Whether 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:28.280 you're man from you on the breakfast club. But you 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:34.400 got something on your mind. Hello, who's this? Nick? What up? Man? 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:37.480 Getting in your chest? Nick? On it? You like rain 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:41.280 there in here? Help on the shelf, solo man, car? 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:48.840 What's up? Man? Okay? What part akin? What's happening? Aging much? Man? 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:52.359 I'm standing up here in Columbia. I'm sorry, I'm standing 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:55.560 up here in Les. Take the tucky right nine? Okay, yeah, 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:57.680 I was. I was trying to get some advice, man, 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:01.760 because like I'm I've been standing up here since I 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:04.599 came home from prison. I was locked up for selling drugs. 0:06:05.040 --> 0:06:08.799 But I wanted to change my life around, but I stayed. 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:12.120 I came up here. The person that I came up 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.320 here with a family, but me and the person I'm 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:16.840 talking on more so, it's like I want to go 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:21.120 back home, but at stop, Caline ain't the place to be, like, 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:25.159 especially trying to get a good job like anyway. But 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.560 it's also hard from me up here because I ain't 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.719 got no financial support or nobody to help me out 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.960 of no kind of for it. Well, it sounds to 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:34.720 me like you know, you already know you needed a 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.120 change of environment. So if you know, if you know, 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:38.640 you don't need to be an ach and you can 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:40.440 scratch that off the list. That's not that's not a 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:43.000 that's that's not a thing, right, Yeah, sure, so you 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:44.600 just gotta stay where you had and figure it out, 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:45.919 make it work. What is it? What is it that 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:50.119 you want to do? Like I've been, I've been working 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.960 since I've been up here. I'm working for the Shimp 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:56.280 service right now, but I could get him. I'm gonna 0:06:56.279 --> 0:07:01.919 be hired doing soon. But uh it's hard because like 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:05.000 I had rot y'all back a little while ago because 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.279 all right, my Winsfield and got broke. Uh it's like 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.160 other things that I've been helping to, you know, with 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:15.000 doing during this pandemic that's going on. But it's like 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:17.520 I said, in this hard not having nobody there in 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:20.040 your formal for you. Well, listen, you're gonna be fine, 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:23.160 my brother. That just takes patience, all right, Yes, sir, 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:27.400 pushing brother, keep pushing, all right. Thank y'all, y'all. Good 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:30.360 day you too. Hello? Who's this? What's help y'all? This 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:33.760 is James Minnianapolis. What up? James? Get it up your chests? Brothers. 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:35.840 First of all, I want to congratulate y'all for teen 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:39.040 years man, a good content man, righteous and ratch. Thank 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:42.200 you Keny brothers. And I want to share my favorite 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:46.680 breast club moment. What's that? Other than the birdman situation? 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:50.880 The Beanie single situation was funny too, man. Why y'all 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:54.680 like to see people trying to traumatize me? I thought 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:58.080 that was pretty hilarious myself. It was cool, man, It 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:02.360 was cool. Charlomad buckle. He didn't buckle. I never buckle. 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:06.040 He showed didn't. You're right, he didn't. He stood his ground? 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:12.520 What is buckling? And yeah, thanks guys, man. I appreciate 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:15.560 y'all and my birthdays this weekend too. Oh man, enjoy 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.680 it man. I mean you can't where you're from. You 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:21.560 can't go anywhere right? Oh? No, man? Not in Indiana? Yeah, 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:23.560 I wouldn't want to date you. Your birthday too close 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:26.960 to Christmas and you got a penis, but you know 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:30.240 that's the whole day because you're married. No, get that too, Yeah, 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:32.640 that that too married. You got people you know my type. 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:40.120 But until earlier more than they said, no, whoa day? Great? God? 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:45.680 Why do people gotta stress that? Don't right? Hello? Who's that? Hey? 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:49.439 Institution from Texas? How y'all doing from Texas? We're part 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:53.280 of Texas, Dallas, Texas. So I have to listen on 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:55.800 the apps and I don't mind that at all with him. 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:58.160 Bumb ass cowboys are from I love Dallas. You know 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:02.400 I love my cowboys. Don't listen to NVA. Okay, So now, 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:06.360 since congratulations, I'm two years thank you. Now, since you 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:11.160 are an executive of my heart, I gotta hear you say, Lord, 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:14.280 have mercy. There's something about the way you say that, 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:17.200 darlay that drives me and saying I love it, and 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:20.880 I laugh every time. Boy Lord have mercy. I can't 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.040 believe you'd like to hear me say Lord, look at 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:25.720 with that man. That man married mamma. No, no, no, 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.040 oh no, I'm not learning with him. And I love 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:33.480 it when you say, I'm calling HR. I'm calling Hry. 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.280 You guys drives me in faith. And since you guys 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:39.040 don't be back until twenty twenty one, I needed to 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:42.680 hear I'm calling hr at Lord him mercy. Well. The 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.520 beauty of it is that we run a lot of 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.640 We run best of shows until January the fifth, so 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:50.320 you know, it gives people an opportunity to catch up 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.280 on Breakfast Club content they may have missed. Yeah, and 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:56.719 I love it. I'm still gonna listen. May had more 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:59.880 time for me, Lord him, Lord have mercy. Why are 0:09:59.880 --> 0:10:02.079 you stressing me out? Early this morning? Got me repeating 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:06.040 that over and over the yeah for good morning, love 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:10.880 you too. Breakfast Club is back, back, back back with 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.480 our best stuff interviews this morning. Everybody is DJ Envy 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:17.560 and Tela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.520 We got a special guest on the line right now. 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.679 His album is out right now. Yes, sir t Yo, 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:26.160 welcome some what's going on through Tip? I think you 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:30.800 haven't done it again? Man I with the Leeber album 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:33.640 heavy Man and and right now my favorite record on 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:36.199 the album's family Connect with with You and the Money. 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:39.640 I gotta say man, I was shot in surprise, and 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:43.800 I mean in the most pleasant ways. Man, I think 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:46.439 that that that's the song that you know what I 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.319 can undert say, that's a song I don't think hip 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.840 hop has ever seen before. I was thinking about that 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:52.360 when I was listening to it, I was like, has 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:56.000 there ever been a father's son rap duo? Well that 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:58.520 both of them actually don't. We'll did it at one time, 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:01.400 didn't Will and Ja? Yeah, Will did it with Jay. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:05.160 But what we also must take into consideration is my 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:12.880 other son actually produced actor. I didn't know that it 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:15.800 was a real family and fail that one. Yeah. Yeah, 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:17.360 did you have to pay them to did you have 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:19.680 to pay them to your Yeah? I paid them, I paid. 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:23.520 I paid. I would be mad if you didn't, I know. 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:31.400 I mean, you know nepotism, you know he did together? 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:34.079 Or did you send your verse over and then DEMONI 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:36.640 had to send his verse back? How did that work? No? Man? 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:40.000 You know the way actually happy broum the money. And 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.920 I was sitting with Messiah is Messiah was like, yo, 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.120 let me let me let y'all hear something. So he 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:47.080 was just going through beach kind of like you know, 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:49.720 at the while, it probably was a time where I 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:52.040 had been been I'd been going away like out of 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.200 town for a second, and I came back and then 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:56.960 you know what I'm saying, kind of we sat down 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:01.400 at the studio and Messia you know, wanted basically as 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:03.679 the money and that kind of like let I hit this, 0:12:03.800 --> 0:12:06.680 check this out for me, and were listening to his beats. 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.599 He kind of like, We're like, yeah, that's dope. That's dope, okay, 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:11.880 the money of yea, like, man, I won't that one, 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:15.080 And I said, man, I won't that one and one 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:19.080 of the records that I chose, And then I coincidentally 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:21.400 had to dip up out the studio to go do something. 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:23.520 And when I think by the time I came back, 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:26.440 the money had and I already recorded the verse. I 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:31.960 was like trying to take this record from me. And 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:35.720 when I heard him do his verse when I came back, 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.800 I figured I didn't put my verse on here now, 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.480 so you know, ain't no confusion back who's gonna haead 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.680 his record? And so I got I got on it, 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:47.319 and it was dope. Y'all had such a dope back 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.079 and forth door and It's like I'm sitting there thinking 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.920 on the song he's rapping about how you know you 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:53.800 all his daddy, but you don't want to you know, 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:55.960 you don't want your help. So I'm like, damn, what 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:57.960 was the process of this record then? Because it sounds 0:12:57.960 --> 0:12:59.840 like y'all was coach you was coaching him on the 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:04.439 nah Bro like he did he did his verse by himself. 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:06.880 I did my verse by my every verse like we 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.720 were never in the studio with one another while he 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.280 was recording that verses? Do you ever think you was 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:14.440 gonna be a professor? I see you're teaching at Clark 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.600 Atlanta University. Did you ever see that as everything that 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:19.319 you went through, I'm gonna be a professor that I'm 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:23.440 gonna be a teacher now? But I was a teacher 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:26.520 person in prison. I taught class and prison. Did you 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:28.600 you know what I'm saying? Yeah? Class? Did you teach 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.720 a prisoner? What was it thinking that side the box? 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:35.760 I believe it would call a man? It was about 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.719 how do you I was. I was showing people how 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:42.000 to use the skills that they've already acquired on the streets, 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:46.040 how to use those skills and identify those skills and 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:50.040 purpose them for legitimate means. When they got back out 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:52.559 on the students and they have the most something about 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:55.120 about the whole correctional system. Right, they don't take these 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:58.559 skills set that these brothers clearly have and help to 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.480 you to help to help them to direct think energy. 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:02.960 It's something positive right. Well, first of all, I mean 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:05.320 I think because that's the system is set up a 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:08.920 free label. It ain't really about rehabilitation. Now what are 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.079 you teaching in this class at the Clockland University? Is 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:16.440 it the music industry is a business? Is an entrepreneurship? Yes, yes, yes, 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:19.080 all the hood. If they need to know that, we 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.400 could talk about it. But however, I think, nah, man, 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:26.000 it's the business of trap music. That's the course and 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:29.040 and basically we go over the business of trap music. 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.280 But the first course was about targeting the need for 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:36.360 the business of trap music. Any business is supplying demand, 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:41.120 profit and laws, right, But in order to supply or demand, 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:45.000 you got to you gotta recognize the need for the 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:48.240 demand of you know, like, why is this so important 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.440 in the first place? Do you think people forgot how 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.520 influential you were the trap music because you diversified your 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:57.800 portfolio so much. Yeah? Absolutely, I think the same thing 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:01.280 for hip hop that won't know do these lists. I 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.160 don't ever put myself on the list because it's so 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.600 many other people who dedicated their lives. The only jests 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:09.680 rapp to just do rep you know what I mean. 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:12.040 And I think that's that's kind of why they get 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:15.800 the consideration first. And I ain't got no problem with that. 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.880 But but just no, any given moment, any given time, 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.240 I'm gonna remind you why, why why I am who 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:25.080 I am, and remind you that I do what I do. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.160 All Right, we got more with TA when we come back. 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:32.040 It's the Breakfast Club. Come on now, we're kicking in 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:34.600 with Ti Charlomagne. Well, I saw you and I saw 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:37.840 you and Gez talking on the Expeditiously podcast and you 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:40.080 know you this is you both mentioned that Well, you 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.640 mentioned that you would love to sit down and have 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.160 a conversation with Gucci. Did anything come from and say, 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:47.320 I would love to, but I love to see the 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:52.400 people people assolated. You know, trap music would benefit greatly friendly, 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:54.280 you know what I'm saying. And once you and I 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:59.640 just as a marketing executive, I would say, once you 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.280 so as many tickets as you can to the fight. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:06.200 The only thing left to sell is tickets to the reunion, 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:14.520 you know, So did anything from that now? I mean 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.120 like it it was just conversation though it was never 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:20.080 like a plan, just conversation because I know that's what 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.400 people a lot of people who follow the trap music 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:25.360 and who are inspired by the culture, who followed the culture, 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:29.720 you know what I mean, they recognize us as the architecture. 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:33.160 You tapped in with all the younging for this project too. 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:35.440 You got a Little Baby and Thug and forty two Doug. 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:37.680 You got wrapped to the on the interlude Tokyo Jet. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.960 Was that intentional? A little Baby record hard too? Yeah? 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:44.680 I appreciate that, man. Yeah, I mean some of it 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.400 was and some of it wasn't. So the part were 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:49.840 you talking about like, you know, thugod and a Little 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:54.440 Baby and forty two Dug, you know, and minds. Yes, 0:16:54.680 --> 0:17:00.440 that was intentional rhapsody. We just stumbled on that. I 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:04.640 reached out to him, just gave a cold call one day, like, hey, 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:07.280 people to do spoken words about me? What would it 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.120 sound like? What would you say? So then she asked 0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:12.000 me a few questions about the title of the album, 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:13.800 and she asked me, you know, to his souls I 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:17.200 sell a couple of sauls and overnight she did what 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:21.200 she heard. Wow, you know, and then as I heard her, 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.560 that's when I was like, you know what, I'm gonna 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:27.640 get old women to do this. You know what I mean. 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:31.119 You got on there too doing a conclusion. That was 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:33.600 the huge, That was the biggest, That was the biggest 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:37.200 shop in surprise of my life. I never expected Asia 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:40.840 to do this, really and I was blown away. That 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:46.320 gotta be a proud papping moment. Just I mean, for real, bro, 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:53.639 Like for one, okay, Sodjia and I have you know, uh, 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:57.320 for most of her life. I cannot say this, and 0:17:57.320 --> 0:18:01.320 I'm very careful with my words, especially when speak about Daja. Okay, 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:06.360 so yeah, when she came into that point in her 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:12.479 life where, you know, kind of the transition favors in 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:15.880 your life, when that thing that girls do every month happens, 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:19.280 when we get our pre I ain't see. I wasn't 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:21.280 gonna say that you did what I'm saying. I wasn't 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:23.680 gonna say that. But when you like, so when Dasia 0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:26.200 made it to that point, I like, from that point forward, 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:29.680 we kind of hand spoken as much I ain't had 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:33.159 we didn't have as much of inability to, you know, 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:37.280 to speak freely to one another for whatever reason. And 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:41.480 you know, over the past year we gained we gotten close, 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:46.359 and this is kind of like a testament of that, 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:49.040 you know what I'm saying, And especially with all of 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:52.920 the stuff that we go through over the past year. Um, 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:59.560 you know, with hyming gates, and every relationship would be tested. 0:19:00.720 --> 0:19:03.199 I don't care who was with your relationship with your mom, 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:05.640 relationship with your girl, with your wife, with you whoever, 0:19:05.680 --> 0:19:10.439 every relationship, it would be tested. And and that test 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:13.040 is going to strengthen it or weaken it. And I 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:15.200 think the thing that that she and I went through 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:18.720 last year, that was our test you did, and we 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:22.000 took this serious steals, you know, and we got through it. 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:24.639 She and now all we remained connected, you know what 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:26.879 I mean. She and now always had to understand it. 0:19:27.400 --> 0:19:30.000 You know, we were speaking, We would you know, share 0:19:30.920 --> 0:19:33.120 share our opinions with each other about what was going 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:36.200 on like in the media as it pertained that uh 0:19:36.240 --> 0:19:38.199 and you know, She I were telling the man it 0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:41.040 ain't it ain't not our job and really talk to 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:44.800 nobody and tell them what we feel about anything that 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:47.040 ain't not a job that when they think that, they'll 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:50.480 think it. So what you know? I was like, yeah, 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:53.439 all right, man, cool and to y'all, we appreciate you 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:56.240 for checking in the albums out right. Now it's the 0:19:56.320 --> 0:20:06.560 Breakfast sir, it's topic time. The phone called eight hundred 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:08.240 five eight five one oh five. Want to join it 0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:11.760 to the discussion with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it morning. 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:15.840 Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We 0:20:15.880 --> 0:20:18.119 are the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, 0:20:18.520 --> 0:20:21.800 we are talking about Eva. She was on Wendy Williams 0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:24.879 shown she talked about her child and changing her child's 0:20:24.920 --> 0:20:28.320 last name. Let's hear it. Sling changed her name this 0:20:28.520 --> 0:20:31.159 past year. It was we went through a lot to 0:20:31.160 --> 0:20:34.720 do it, but how much more before the actual process 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:38.199 is done? Well, the name change is illegal, so now 0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:40.240 we have to go through the adoption process. And I 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:42.919 mean he's making a little bit easier for us acting 0:20:43.000 --> 0:20:45.640 crazy in the public. Well, I guess Life Jennings seen 0:20:45.720 --> 0:20:47.480 that and he didn't like that too much? Are you? 0:20:47.560 --> 0:20:49.320 He said, I think this is so wack changing your 0:20:49.359 --> 0:20:51.879 daughter's last name from her father's to somebody else's, especially 0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:54.000 when the father tries to see her. The daughter don't 0:20:54.040 --> 0:20:55.720 have anything to do with their beef, and what kind 0:20:55.720 --> 0:20:58.640 of man allows that ish piss meet off? So we're 0:20:58.680 --> 0:21:01.240 asking eight hundred five five one oh five one is 0:21:01.240 --> 0:21:03.520 it acceptable to change your child's last name? What do 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:05.439 you think, charl I mean, I got to know the 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:07.520 context of the situation. You know what I'm saying. If 0:21:07.520 --> 0:21:09.800 you're doing it just out of spite, just because you 0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:11.879 don't like your baby daddy because he don't want to 0:21:11.880 --> 0:21:13.440 be with you and you got a new man, now 0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:15.960 that's whack. But I mean about if you got a 0:21:16.000 --> 0:21:18.640 deadbeat daddy. What about it's a deadbeat daddy, the dad 0:21:18.680 --> 0:21:20.879 is not around, the dad is not taking care of 0:21:20.920 --> 0:21:24.560 the child. I have no problem with that whatsoever. By 0:21:24.560 --> 0:21:26.960 the way, then the son of the daughter shouldn't want 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:29.360 to wear the name of a deadbeat. Yeah, I don't. 0:21:29.359 --> 0:21:31.760 I don't know either situation. But you know, with with 0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:33.960 with Kevin McCall, I mean, we all know Kevin McCall 0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:37.119 has problems mentally, but it does seem like he is 0:21:37.160 --> 0:21:38.919 trying to take care of his daughter. Seemed like he 0:21:38.920 --> 0:21:40.280 goes to call I just don't know, Like I don't 0:21:40.280 --> 0:21:41.920 know if he's abusive. I don't know, you know what 0:21:41.920 --> 0:21:44.119 I mean. But in a situation if there is a 0:21:44.160 --> 0:21:46.320 deadbeat dad, and I'm taking it away from that situation, 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:48.320 if the dad is not in the child's life and 0:21:48.640 --> 0:21:51.880 he's not even helping no way whatsoever, no, I say, 0:21:51.960 --> 0:21:54.040 changed that name immediately. What do you think? Well? And 0:21:54.080 --> 0:21:55.719 I just want to point out that we did have 0:21:55.800 --> 0:22:00.480 this couple on from family or fiance and Jane Leshonda 0:22:00.480 --> 0:22:02.960 and they had a similar situation. Listen to this now. 0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:06.600 Another big issue is your children. So Leshanda, you have kids, Dre, 0:22:06.720 --> 0:22:08.520 you don't have kids, but those are your daughters now. 0:22:08.880 --> 0:22:12.240 And you guys are talking adoption, right, but without the 0:22:12.240 --> 0:22:16.080 biological father's consent. From what I gathered from watching the episode, 0:22:16.240 --> 0:22:18.040 the showmates to look like it's a concern to do 0:22:18.080 --> 0:22:20.480 it without consent. My kid's father haven't been around in 0:22:20.480 --> 0:22:23.639 four years. He was gone before Dre got here. So 0:22:23.680 --> 0:22:25.679 that's where the adoption thing comes in. It's not like 0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:28.639 we're trying to replace somebody. He's not an active father. Financially, 0:22:28.920 --> 0:22:32.000 his presence isn't there. So she's changing her daughter's last 0:22:32.080 --> 0:22:34.480 names too because the father is not in the children's life. 0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:36.720 And the daughters actually want to change their last name 0:22:37.080 --> 0:22:39.800 to her husband's name. He's the one that's taking care 0:22:39.800 --> 0:22:42.440 of them and doing everything. And legally, if a woman 0:22:42.480 --> 0:22:45.800 wants to change her children's last names, she either had 0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.920 to get consent from the biological father, and he who 0:22:48.920 --> 0:22:51.240 doesn't give consent, he can object to it, and then 0:22:51.280 --> 0:22:53.160 she has to get a petition and then go to court, 0:22:53.480 --> 0:22:54.960 and he can show up to court and say he 0:22:54.960 --> 0:22:56.719 doesn't want that to happen, and then the judge has 0:22:56.760 --> 0:22:59.199 to decide. So that's how it goes down legally. But 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:02.639 I do feel like, whoever is the father, If the 0:23:02.760 --> 0:23:04.879 mother chooses to do that, and the father is causing 0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:07.000 issues or he's not in the child's life or not 0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:10.360 holding up his responsibilities, and he's not really your dad, 0:23:10.520 --> 0:23:12.720 and the last name is Immiman, you definitely want to 0:23:12.800 --> 0:23:14.560 change that. You don't want to walk around with dad 0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:18.080 last name getting this gracious Hello, who's this? Hey? This 0:23:18.280 --> 0:23:21.120 is Karina from Jersey City. Hey, Karna from Jersey City. 0:23:21.160 --> 0:23:23.760 Is it acceptable to change your child's last name? I 0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:26.560 don't think it is, because at the end of the day, 0:23:26.760 --> 0:23:29.520 that's that father's child. You get what I'm saying, Like, 0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:32.119 a sepfather could come in and raise the kid, and 0:23:32.200 --> 0:23:35.520 that's a fine, but it doesn't take away the fact 0:23:35.560 --> 0:23:37.960 that that's the father's child. You got what I'm saying. 0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:39.600 It's a legacy that kind of goes on. It's a 0:23:39.680 --> 0:23:42.480 blood line. You know, you can always acknowledge a stepfather 0:23:42.560 --> 0:23:45.520 for always doing the good and you know, give them 0:23:45.560 --> 0:23:48.159 praise with the kid, but you can't take away the 0:23:48.359 --> 0:23:54.359 main dad's last name. Okay, Hello, who's this Sheila from Jersey? Hey, mama, 0:23:54.440 --> 0:23:56.119 Jersey's on a check in heavy. So what do you 0:23:56.119 --> 0:23:59.240 think is it acceptable to change your child's last name? No? 0:23:59.400 --> 0:24:02.920 I don't know with that. Okay, go ahead. I don't 0:24:02.960 --> 0:24:05.560 agree with that because no matter how much you don't 0:24:05.560 --> 0:24:07.600 like your kid's dad, or no matter how crazy he 0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:09.920 might ask, or no matter what he does, changes my 0:24:10.000 --> 0:24:12.040 last name, it's not going to change the DNA. It's 0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:14.040 not going to change who the father is. So you 0:24:14.160 --> 0:24:15.919 have to get over that. And on top of that, 0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:19.560 like you're you're salsifying an image of somebody that's not true, 0:24:19.640 --> 0:24:22.080 Like that's not her dad. And if one day it 0:24:22.080 --> 0:24:25.520 doesn't work out between you two, now he legally is 0:24:25.560 --> 0:24:27.800 her dad and that's not really her dad, you know 0:24:27.840 --> 0:24:31.000 what I mean, Like, it's just well, it's petty. It 0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:32.879 doesn't make another other person your dad. They would have 0:24:32.920 --> 0:24:35.520 to actually adopt the children, so that the kids aren't 0:24:35.520 --> 0:24:37.880 adopted even if you're married, right then that's what I'm 0:24:37.920 --> 0:24:42.240 talking about, Like the image that you're portraying to your children. Now, 0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:43.639 what if your kids are like, I want to have 0:24:43.760 --> 0:24:46.240 the same last name as you and my dad, you know, 0:24:46.280 --> 0:24:49.080 the stepfather. Well, I mean that's a choice that they 0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:50.919 have to make, and the two parents should come to 0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:53.800 a you know, to a middle ground with that would 0:24:53.840 --> 0:24:56.439 be their choice. But if they're not old enough to 0:24:56.440 --> 0:24:59.439 make those type of decisions, just saying that, because whatever 0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:01.760 the situation is, you know, like some kids they grow 0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:03.280 up and they're told this is their death, this is 0:25:03.320 --> 0:25:06.359 their dad, and that's what they think, you know, Like, 0:25:07.520 --> 0:25:10.520 so what if the biological father is absent from the 0:25:10.640 --> 0:25:16.000 children's life. Um, I mean me personally, I don't agree 0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:17.960 in that. My father was not was not in my 0:25:18.040 --> 0:25:21.880 life either, and my mother still maintained our last name 0:25:22.000 --> 0:25:24.800 as his. I mean, I guess I would be up 0:25:24.800 --> 0:25:27.080 to the child when they grow up to decide if 0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:30.800 they want to do that or not. I just wouldn't 0:25:30.840 --> 0:25:35.640 do that. Hello, who's this just to spoom from Dayton, Ohio? Hey, 0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:38.800 is it acceptable to change your child's last name? Um? 0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:45.000 I think it just really depends on the circumstances. Okay. 0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:47.040 And the reason why I say that is, you know, 0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:50.440 my daughter, her father is not in her life. It's 0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:54.119 never been in her life, which is fine, but she 0:25:54.280 --> 0:25:58.960 still has his last name. And UM, I don't call 0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:01.720 her like that about her dad. You know, she can 0:26:01.760 --> 0:26:04.000 find out on her own, just like my mom told 0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:08.360 me about my dad. But I don't think a name 0:26:08.520 --> 0:26:12.520 defines a person. Now, if you have, you know, someone 0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:15.160 new in your life and they you want to spend 0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:17.520 the rest of their life with you, and you know, 0:26:17.880 --> 0:26:19.920 you know, you and your kids are a packaged deal. 0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:23.040 And if that dad is not, you know, in that 0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:25.840 child's life, I don't see a problem with it being. 0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:28.840 But you know, then you got these little baby moms, 0:26:29.640 --> 0:26:32.159 you know, you got these you know, baby moms that 0:26:32.400 --> 0:26:35.480 you know couldn't change the man's life with a child, 0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:43.200 and um, you know, being used as a tactic to attack, right, 0:26:43.320 --> 0:26:46.639 you know. So, Um, you know, a baby is not 0:26:46.760 --> 0:26:51.080 a pond, you know, So whatever that child's name is 0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:54.800 leave that baby alone. So you know, that's how I 0:26:54.840 --> 0:26:56.720 think it is. Also like, as we always talk about 0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:59.639 women taking the husband's name after marriage, I think for kids, 0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.159 if you live in a house with the mom and 0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:04.440 the stepfather and that's who you know is your dad 0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:06.040 and you call him dad, you might want to have 0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:08.479 the same last name. Hello, who's this? I didn't want 0:27:08.560 --> 0:27:14.119 to make ane of the Lando, Florida good b. Is 0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:17.520 it acceptable to change your child's last name? Brother? No? No, brother, 0:27:17.560 --> 0:27:19.679 I don't think it is. Man. I wanted to share exchange. 0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:21.560 I'm glad you got picked up. I actually had an 0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:23.520 actual wife who tried to do that for me, and 0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:25.280 I would like to use your good man If that's 0:27:25.280 --> 0:27:30.119 okay with you all, that's the first name please, Okay, Okay, 0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:34.240 I don't South Carolina. I already know you got you 0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:37.359 a nice country as Yeah. Yeah, try to do that 0:27:37.400 --> 0:27:39.600 to your boy. And I think that's painful and disrespectful 0:27:39.600 --> 0:27:42.359 to a man. I don't think another might show anything 0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:44.040 like that. Are you in your child's life? Are you 0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:46.399 in your child's life? All right, my child life. I 0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:48.280 love my kids very much. I'm a virgo and v or. 0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:50.840 You know how we do love our kids, okay, to 0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:53.000 take care of home. So what happened is she trying 0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:56.639 to do it legally and then you blocked it. She 0:27:57.160 --> 0:27:58.920 talked about trying to do it, and then she got 0:27:58.920 --> 0:28:00.479 a lawyer to trying to do it, and you know, 0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:02.560 kind of paid at their money out there. You know, 0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:05.040 they dropped the whole thaing, Okay, all right, well, thank 0:28:05.040 --> 0:28:07.040 you brother. So what's the more of the story, guys? 0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:10.240 The morrow of the story is that every case is different, though, 0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:12.520 and there's no one size fits all when it comes 0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:15.639 to family. So I think whatever decision you make, it 0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:17.520 always has to be in the best interests of your 0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:20.399 children and not in your own selfish best interests. The 0:28:20.480 --> 0:28:23.120 more of the story is, y'all better stop picking who 0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:25.440 y'all mate with, like y'all rolling dice in the back 0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:27.760 of a moving God damn pick up Trump. Okay, that's 0:28:27.880 --> 0:28:30.080 y'all better stop doing all right, take care of your 0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:32.159 kids exactly when you lay down with these When you 0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:34.560 lay down with people, man, do you know think about 0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:36.320 spending the rest of your life with this president because 0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:37.840 you never know, this person might give you a disease 0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:39.640 you can't get rid of. This person might give you 0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:41.680 a baby, or better yet, you might grow to love 0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:43.360 this person and be married to him the rest of 0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:46.120 your life. Either way, that's all forever. Just pick the 0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:49.480 right father when you're dealing with these people. Okay, with 0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:54.560 our best stuff in more than everybody is DJ Envy, 0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.920 Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club now, 0:28:57.960 --> 0:29:00.320 you guys all, No, Monique stopped by the Breakfast Club 0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:03.400 yesterday and we're getting it on today. So we're gonna 0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:06.080 play that for you special guests to build it. Miss Monique. 0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:13.040 Good morning, good morning morning, good morning morning. When Monique 0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:14.960 walked in, I gave a hug. I wanted her to 0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:17.280 know it's all love. Yes, he did my life. We 0:29:17.360 --> 0:29:19.800 just here to have a conversation. That's all we're doing. Now, 0:29:20.080 --> 0:29:22.520 what's going on today, Miss Mornique. A while ago, I 0:29:22.520 --> 0:29:24.479 had to come out and I spoke in reference to 0:29:24.520 --> 0:29:26.840 Netflix that we had to boy you know, I was 0:29:26.880 --> 0:29:29.600 asking folks to stand with us as we boycott Netflix 0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:32.600 for gender bias and color buy it correct, and we 0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:36.240 were fighting for equality. And then I found out that 0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:39.800 I had become Donkey of the day yes by Leonard, 0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:44.440 and I gotta call you by your name, baby. Okay, okay, baby, 0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:48.840 he's getting real special lenar, but we're gonna ok And 0:29:48.880 --> 0:29:51.680 then I was called donkey of the day. And it 0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:54.920 really caught me off guard because when I met this 0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:58.000 brother some years ago, and I met a young man 0:29:58.080 --> 0:30:01.920 that was full of humility and respect. And when I 0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:04.600 got on an elevator, he actually held the door. I 0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:08.040 remember like it was yesterday, and I said, oh, baby, 0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:10.800 thank you, and he was just like that, yes, ma'am, 0:30:10.800 --> 0:30:12.840 and Miss Monique, is a pleasure to meet you. And 0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:16.560 we had a very beautiful exchange. And I said to 0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:20.400 that brother, tell your mama that she raised you right, 0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:24.040 and I said it was my mama and my grandma, yes, ma'am. 0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:27.320 So I felt like this was as still as a 0:30:27.400 --> 0:30:30.400 beautiful young brother making this way, but full of humility 0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:34.880 and respect. Two we fast forward and I become dunkey 0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:37.640 of the day. So I didn't want to have to 0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:41.160 be here say. I didn't want to have anybody exchange 0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:43.160 words that I may have said to him. So my 0:30:43.240 --> 0:30:45.480 husband and I wanted to come on so we could 0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:49.320 understand how I got titled donkey of the day. Why 0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:51.360 did you give a donkey to day? Well, I think 0:30:51.360 --> 0:30:53.560 it was due to the whole Netflix situation. You know, 0:30:53.600 --> 0:30:55.920 when I heard you say that you know you wanted 0:30:55.960 --> 0:30:58.800 us to boycott because of racial and gender bias, but 0:30:58.840 --> 0:31:02.120 then you went on to mentioned two brothers and a woman, 0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:04.680 So I said, maybe she should be more specific and 0:31:04.720 --> 0:31:07.479 say black woman gender biased. But then, also just from 0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:10.200 a business aspect, I wanted to know why did you 0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:13.000 feel like, you know, you should have gotten whatever Chris 0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:15.880 Rock got, whatever Day Chappelle got, or whatever Amy Schulman got, 0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:17.320 because I feel like this is a what are you 0:31:17.360 --> 0:31:19.600 doing for me right now? Type of a She didn 0:31:19.680 --> 0:31:21.640 say what they got, she said she should have got 0:31:21.680 --> 0:31:23.960 more than she was offered. And then Charlomagne you brought 0:31:24.040 --> 0:31:26.840 up an old Netflix special as well, but that was 0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:29.960 later on. But my point was like, this is a 0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:32.640 what are you doing for me right now? Kind of interscure. 0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:34.360 We all know Monique as a legend, but we also 0:31:34.400 --> 0:31:36.320 know that those things, those deals that Netflix had given 0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:39.800 out are based off recent stand up shows, recent shows, 0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:42.000 recent concert recent arena's, recent tours like that. But I 0:31:42.040 --> 0:31:43.840 just wanted to know why you felt like you deserved 0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:46.920 that much. Daddy, would you like to start or would 0:31:46.960 --> 0:31:49.600 you like for me, it didn't start with the offer 0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:53.920 where the color bias and the disrespect transpired. It started 0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:58.480 from when we had our initial conversation after Monique got 0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:02.720 her reviews from the nights in which Benjamin and Caitlin, 0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:06.440 who are representatives for Netflix, came out to see Monique 0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:09.960 and which on two different nights they saw her get 0:32:09.960 --> 0:32:13.920 a standing ovation, which subsequently gave them reviews of amazing 0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:17.960 and great show. So when we're in the midst of 0:32:18.000 --> 0:32:23.000 having the conversation prior to them giving the offer, we're 0:32:23.040 --> 0:32:24.840 in the midst and he says, well, I want to 0:32:24.880 --> 0:32:27.800 make it very clear that, you know, people speak about 0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:31.240 Dave Chappelle, Amy Schumann, what they got. I want to 0:32:31.280 --> 0:32:33.440 just make it clear, you know, so we can manage 0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:37.600 expectations that everybody doesn't get those type of deal. Well, 0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:40.720 when we're in the midst of that conversation, the phone disconnects. 0:32:41.200 --> 0:32:44.440 We never reconvened, he never gets us back on, and 0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:47.240 our attorney looks, calls me up and we speak and 0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:49.360 we're like, well, that was strange. Are we're going to 0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:52.240 get back on the phone or not. Because anybody who 0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:54.800 does business knows that this is a key time in 0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:58.520 whish to build the value of your client. Then we 0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:02.200 came back with an offer that they allegedly had sent 0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:05.960 over that our attorney and I had never received, and 0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:09.080 then on that it was a certain time limit in 0:33:09.080 --> 0:33:12.080 which we were supposed to respond what we had passed 0:33:12.080 --> 0:33:14.880 the time limit because we never received it. When our 0:33:14.920 --> 0:33:18.600 attorney had asked them to please resend the offer that 0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:21.320 they had allegedly sent, it was clear that it had 0:33:21.400 --> 0:33:23.880 never been sent in the first place. That's the second 0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:26.760 red flag. When we get on the phone to discuss 0:33:26.840 --> 0:33:30.120 the offer that they had then finally sent over. Initially 0:33:30.120 --> 0:33:33.240 they didn't want to have the conversation until I expressed 0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:36.400 to them it is very ironic that the call we 0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:41.640 had was disconnected. We never reconvened. You became evasive, You 0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:44.040 can't get on the phone. Now I have to express 0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:47.840 what it's feeling like, which is gender biased, color biased. 0:33:48.000 --> 0:33:51.080 And there's also an age issue that we didn't discuss 0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:53.920 that's in there as well. So those three things are 0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:56.440 what led to it. In conjunction with the fact that 0:33:56.480 --> 0:33:59.800 the very items that he said did not translate for Monique, 0:33:59.800 --> 0:34:04.600 which were her resume what she's done in terms of movies. 0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:07.920 It didn't translate, but he said those were the things 0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:11.600 that translated for Amy Schumer. So why is Amy resume 0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:14.640 work and Monique does not? And they could not explain it. Well, 0:34:14.640 --> 0:34:17.640 if he's just joining us, that's Sydney, that's Monique's managing husband, 0:34:17.680 --> 0:34:19.839 if he just joining us, so you know the voices. Well, 0:34:19.840 --> 0:34:22.120 for I don't think Amy Schuman is funny. That's number one. 0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:24.800 But she did sell out fifty arenas around the world 0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:27.520 and including MSG and HBO wanted her as well, so 0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:30.279 she created a bidding war based on those stats. So 0:34:30.320 --> 0:34:33.759 I assume that's the reason her number was at that place. Well, 0:34:33.840 --> 0:34:36.120 I want to address something because you said I assume, 0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:40.120 and then you also said Monique is a legend. That's 0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:44.319 what you said, absolutely, right, And then when Robbie Prole 0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:48.799 and Netflix also says Monique is a legend, correct, absolutely. 0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:51.560 And you believe that Chris Rock is a legend as 0:34:51.600 --> 0:34:54.040 I do as well, Yes, and you would say Dave 0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:56.560 Chappelle is a legend, right, absolutely. What makes me a 0:34:56.600 --> 0:35:00.560 different legend from Dave Chappelle and Chris Rock, Well, when 0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:02.759 it comes to those that Netflix, specially, the fact that 0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.480 Dave Feld did fifteen hundred Shoals. Prior to signing his 0:35:05.560 --> 0:35:07.920 Netflix deal, Chris Rock was on tour with the Total 0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:11.080 Blackout Tour, selling our shows arenas around the world before 0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.280 they did it, and they learned him away from HBO. 0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:16.640 I understand what y'all are coming to the table with. 0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:19.800 When I came to the table and I said, guys, 0:35:20.280 --> 0:35:23.520 and I said it humbly, I'm gonnat decorate a comedian 0:35:23.560 --> 0:35:27.200 a line. And I said that humbly. And then people, 0:35:27.400 --> 0:35:31.080 some people said, oh, Monique is crazy till it was proven, 0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:33.880 till everybody actually saw the numbers and said, well, I 0:35:33.920 --> 0:35:37.239 guess she's right about that. And when you say this 0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:39.560 is they what have you done for me lately? The 0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:41.960 question is how much more do I have to do? Brother? 0:35:42.520 --> 0:35:46.759 Because when you do a film called Almost Christmas, and 0:35:46.840 --> 0:35:51.000 that film has a seventeen million dollar budget, but it 0:35:51.040 --> 0:35:54.520 makes forty five million dollars. And then my sister Amy 0:35:54.520 --> 0:35:57.760 Schuman does a film called Snatched, and that film makes 0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:00.920 forty five million dollars, but it has a budget of 0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:04.160 forty two million dollars. Now what's the profit on that? 0:36:05.640 --> 0:36:08.160 I'm asking the question. You have made a lot more 0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:11.400 profit than Amy. It was actually twenty five million dollar profit. 0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:15.319 But that movie Amy did her Netflix deal before Snatched, No, 0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:20.240 he said. Robbie Paul said that was what made him 0:36:20.280 --> 0:36:22.680 also give it a deal because of the big movie 0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:25.279 that she had coming out, right, and that's where we 0:36:25.360 --> 0:36:28.000 had to check, well, yeah, coming out that was so. 0:36:28.080 --> 0:36:31.319 But she did the Netflix deal before that movie came out. Well, 0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:34.560 we actually talked to the vice president of Netflix, Leonard Leonard, 0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:37.040 and what happens is when you're basing off of what 0:36:37.080 --> 0:36:39.680 you're assuming and then you give me a title of 0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:42.920 Donkey of the Day. Is your mother still alive? Yes? Man? 0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:46.600 And you're from what city in South Carolina? South Carolina? 0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:48.960 Monks Corner? And if I was to call your mother 0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:51.440 or your grandmother, could they tell me stories of inequality 0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:53.960 that they had to deal with? Absolutely? So, would your 0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:57.960 mother be a donkey? No? Would your grandmother be a donkey? No? 0:36:58.080 --> 0:37:00.920 I need you to explain how you gave me the title, 0:37:00.960 --> 0:37:03.520 because you're not explaining it. You're going off of what 0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:07.080 I assume. But because you're on that microphone, and when 0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:10.640 we open up these microphones, we know just how powerful 0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:13.440 our voices can be, don't we, Angela, Yes, we do, 0:37:13.719 --> 0:37:15.879 and we know that what we say can become law, 0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:20.000 correct Lanard, absolutely, So when we do that, we must 0:37:20.040 --> 0:37:23.360 then explain it to our community because we know how 0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:26.600 poisonous it can be when we put things out, but 0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:29.080 we can't back it up. We just say it. We 0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:31.080 have more with Monique when we come back, we got 0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:34.759 to talk more Netflix or negotiations, and it gets more 0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:36.560 awkward with her and Charlomagne. So keep a lot. This 0:37:36.600 --> 0:37:39.400 the breakfast club of Morning Mording. Everybody is dj N 0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:43.080 v Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the breakfast club. 0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:46.520 Monique is here, Charlomagne. I think everything you're saying about 0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:49.600 racial biases absolutely correct. Gender bias is absolutely correct. We 0:37:49.640 --> 0:37:52.160 know that the black woman is unappreciated and undervalued and 0:37:52.600 --> 0:37:54.440 a lot of different industries. But I think that when 0:37:54.440 --> 0:37:57.400 it comes to this Netflix situation, it's very specific. I 0:37:57.400 --> 0:37:59.520 think it's more of an individual thing than it is 0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:02.759 a collective problem. Like can you can you can you can? 0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:07.160 You honestly ask you is this? Can you say? If 0:38:07.160 --> 0:38:10.799 it's an individual problem, how come that there are no 0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:15.520 individuals of color who happen to be female comedians that 0:38:15.640 --> 0:38:19.040 have had the multiple million dollar pay days with Netflix? 0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:22.840 Because what happens with the black community, it's what have 0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:25.920 you done lately? But when you are a white person 0:38:25.960 --> 0:38:28.640 in this industry, it's you're only as good as your 0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:33.080 last project. I thought it was drawing the amount of 0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:35.680 people that will watch special. Do you think it's specific 0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.840 to comedians, because I do know they've given out multimillion 0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:41.920 dollar deals to Eva, Dubna, Shanda Rhymes. So you think 0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:45.200 it's specific to the comedy industry, Well, I'll let you 0:38:45.280 --> 0:38:49.360 answer it. What black female comedians got the multi million 0:38:49.400 --> 0:38:51.600 dollars deal? But don't you think it's coming. I'm sure, 0:38:51.600 --> 0:38:53.799 I'm sure. I'm sure Tiffany Hattris will be presented with 0:38:53.840 --> 0:38:55.799 something if she hasn't already. Well, but we got to 0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:59.160 speak about the sisters. That's done it. See when Wanda 0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:04.040 Sykes is umber one hundred on Comedy Central's Top Comedians Ever, 0:39:04.680 --> 0:39:07.719 number seventy, I'm sorry, daddy, number seventy on the top 0:39:07.760 --> 0:39:11.719 one hundred ever. But they offered her two fifty. So 0:39:11.760 --> 0:39:13.520 what do you say to that? Oh, you know, I 0:39:13.560 --> 0:39:15.920 actually asked about that. I spoke to somebody on Netflix 0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:18.560 and they offered that deal to want the Sykes before 0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:21.239 this guy that does these stand up deals even got 0:39:21.239 --> 0:39:23.040 in the position they offered this deal to her some 0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:25.840 years ago. Does it seem strange that you always have 0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:28.879 an answer when I'll finish, line keeps getting moved when 0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:31.759 I say, name me one black female comedian that's got 0:39:31.800 --> 0:39:35.080 the million dollar payday, I'm waiting to hear the answer, right, 0:39:35.120 --> 0:39:37.600 So you think it's specific to comedians because I don't. 0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:40.279 I don't know on Netflix any whatever that. But I 0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:43.439 can't say and history name her? Well, I would ask 0:39:43.440 --> 0:39:46.520 what what what black female comedian has sold out fifty 0:39:46.560 --> 0:39:52.040 arenas around the world? Stairs four beautiful black female comedians 0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:55.080 that we just got a Legends award. Her name is Samore, 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:58.279 her name is, her name is miss Lore, her name 0:39:58.320 --> 0:40:01.160 is Monique. And when the Queens of he was on tour, see, 0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:03.279 we made history. And I don't know if you've done 0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:06.520 your homework, because we were the only female group, black 0:40:06.560 --> 0:40:11.480 white Latin Asian to sell out consecutively around this country. 0:40:11.560 --> 0:40:14.600 But you'll disregard that because you'll say, well, what did 0:40:14.640 --> 0:40:17.319 you do yesterday? So you can't take it away. But 0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:19.920 if I'm doing business and I'm basing it off doing 0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:21.799 a deal with somebody who did this last year, as 0:40:21.800 --> 0:40:24.000 opposed to doing it fifteen years ago, at twenty years ago, 0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:25.440 whenever it was, wouldn't it make more sense to do 0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:26.960 with the person who did it just a couple of 0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:29.920 years ago. If you're doing business and you say, what's 0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:34.560 Monique's resume? Now you're the businessman and you're looking at 0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:38.439 that resume and everything on that resume says number one. 0:40:39.400 --> 0:40:42.440 Everything one that resume says sell out. Now all of 0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:45.239 a sudden, is it going to change? Businessman? Yeah, I 0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:48.080 would say if I had to sign Kobe Bryant today, 0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:50.800 I'm not gonna give Kobe Bryan one hundred million dollars Country. Well, 0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:54.400 you're right, but his resume is amazing. The difference between 0:40:54.480 --> 0:40:59.080 Kobe Bryant today and Monique today is when you're thirty 0:40:59.120 --> 0:41:02.120 six in the game basketball, you don't lost your step. 0:41:02.680 --> 0:41:05.680 When you are fifty years old in the game of comedy, 0:41:05.840 --> 0:41:09.000 your season and if she had to come, if they 0:41:09.040 --> 0:41:11.360 had to come to Netflix to your point, because you 0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:14.920 make a very good point, and Monique had a stumble 0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:18.000 like a forty year old or a thirty eight year 0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:21.200 old Kobe Bryant who's got a rupture to chilles heel 0:41:21.320 --> 0:41:23.600 that you got to bounce back from then it would 0:41:23.640 --> 0:41:26.640 make sense, but it's you dropped fifty and still was 0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:30.359 dropping buckets. What would you say because they watched two 0:41:30.440 --> 0:41:34.400 standing ovations and two sold out clubs? You're absolutely right, 0:41:34.440 --> 0:41:36.000 Brothers City. Let me ask you this, why not put 0:41:36.040 --> 0:41:39.760 together a theater, our arena tour and sell that out 0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:41.920 and then come back to the table a table But 0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:43.600 it doesn't have to go to see My whole thing 0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:45.719 is is that's something else we were talking about the 0:41:45.760 --> 0:41:48.880 money offered, and my whole thing is as a businessman, 0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:53.399 being a legend and all that doesn't necessarily matter. It's 0:41:53.560 --> 0:41:55.719 what's what's who do people? I want to see? You 0:41:55.719 --> 0:41:58.960 could be a legend and people love you, but if 0:41:59.000 --> 0:42:00.680 you can't attract the people but to come to the 0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:02.840 place to see you, or to come to Netflix to 0:42:02.920 --> 0:42:10.240 watch you, it doesn't. It would be the question almost Christmas, 0:42:10.280 --> 0:42:12.560 would you say that was a hit movie? Definitely a hint. 0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:15.319 Would you say Bessie was a hit? Yes? Would you 0:42:15.360 --> 0:42:19.799 say Prescious was a hit? Absolutely? So the question is, 0:42:19.960 --> 0:42:22.400 so Monique, you didn't do nothing in twenty seventeen that 0:42:22.480 --> 0:42:24.879 was on TV that we could see, So that means 0:42:24.880 --> 0:42:28.600 you're irrelevant. I don't think anything. What happens is when 0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:32.759 someone said to me, Monique, does it become disheartening when 0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:37.680 it's your folks, it's understandable. I don't take offense. It's 0:42:37.760 --> 0:42:40.399 understandable and not explain why when I have to sit 0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:44.200 here and not defend, but explain to people that look 0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:47.440 like me, Well, when did I become irrelevant? If that 0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:51.160 was a movie I'll call almost Christmas? What in twenty sixteen. 0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:54.719 It's just twenty eighteen, So now all of a sudden, Oh, 0:42:54.800 --> 0:42:56.400 we don't know if people are gonna show up and 0:42:56.440 --> 0:42:58.880 show out. Now. When I did a show called the 0:42:58.920 --> 0:43:01.320 Bernie and Sid Show, I'll show you know those brothers, 0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:04.480 two white brothers. And when I walked in there, Lenard, 0:43:04.680 --> 0:43:07.360 I walked in with a preconceiving notion that I was 0:43:07.400 --> 0:43:10.400 gonna have to defend myself because one is a strong 0:43:10.520 --> 0:43:13.759 Trump supporter and the other is a Democrat. But I'm 0:43:13.800 --> 0:43:15.840 thinking I'm gonna have to walk in and defend myself 0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:19.600 with these white brothers. After five minutes of us talking, 0:43:19.640 --> 0:43:22.959 they shut their showdown and they said, Monique, we're gonna 0:43:23.000 --> 0:43:25.759 call this what this is. This is nothing but racism, 0:43:25.920 --> 0:43:28.320 and we can't sit back and allow it and watch 0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:31.600 it happen. So no, we're gonna tell our listeners two 0:43:31.600 --> 0:43:34.600 boycott Netflix until they get it right, because you are 0:43:34.640 --> 0:43:37.080 a legend and we have to honor and respect you. 0:43:37.360 --> 0:43:39.520 And now those are my white brothers. Then I come 0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:42.719 to my folks and I have to be donkey of 0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:45.799 the day, which you still haven't explained, Leonard, and you're 0:43:45.800 --> 0:43:48.200 gonna have to because when you make those type of 0:43:48.239 --> 0:43:53.000 statements about your sister to our community, what you're saying 0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:56.640 to the community is as black women, you're devalued. And 0:43:56.680 --> 0:43:59.319 if you stand up and you make a stand and 0:43:59.400 --> 0:44:02.919 you say we need equality and we have to say 0:44:02.960 --> 0:44:05.440 what's right and what's fair. And then a brother that 0:44:05.520 --> 0:44:09.120 looks like me from South Kolana says, you're the donkey 0:44:09.160 --> 0:44:12.440 of the day. You have to explain that to our community. 0:44:12.680 --> 0:44:14.279 I've explained it. I said that I think that you're 0:44:14.400 --> 0:44:18.200 using racial and gender bias with your actual real issues. 0:44:18.280 --> 0:44:20.000 The scruggle that the black women's going through in many 0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:22.279 industries is a real issue, but you're using it to 0:44:22.360 --> 0:44:26.080 focus on something that you're dealing with individually. Did you 0:44:26.120 --> 0:44:29.360 just see Viola Davis come out and say pay her equally. 0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:32.239 Did you just hear that? Absolutely? So when you have 0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:36.440 us saying the same thing, we're saying, pay us equally, 0:44:36.640 --> 0:44:39.799 you're saying, oh, Monique, this is an isolated situation. Well, 0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:41.480 then what that says is you don't know the history 0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:44.320 of this business that you're in, and you sit behind 0:44:44.320 --> 0:44:46.880 this microphone and you try to be the guru of 0:44:46.920 --> 0:44:49.560 black culture. I'm gonna need you to know the history 0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:52.839 of us before you begin to label us. And once 0:44:52.840 --> 0:44:56.040 you know the history, you know I'm not saying anything unique. Brother, 0:44:56.360 --> 0:44:59.040 I just don understanderstand how you can justify making thirty 0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:01.439 million dollars twenty team for a stand us. Second, when 0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:04.560 you say justify thirteen millions, did you get a chance 0:45:04.640 --> 0:45:08.080 to read what the offer was. I did read some 0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:11.359 of it, Yes, well all of it. The key is 0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:13.719 we got to read all of it because what Chris 0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:15.759 Rock said a long time ago, if you want to 0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:18.120 hire something from a black person, put it in a book. 0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:22.719 This is not about comparing the definitive numbers as to 0:45:22.800 --> 0:45:27.359 what Amy got and what David them got, because it's 0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:30.840 married to what you just communicated. But when you ask 0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:37.239 a comedian to take a half million dollars for two years. 0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:40.840 You can't say any jokes. They don't want you to 0:45:40.880 --> 0:45:45.520 do stand up for two years, and essentially they want 0:45:45.560 --> 0:45:49.240 you to take a half a million dollars and lose 0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:52.200 out on two million dollars of work that you would 0:45:52.200 --> 0:45:55.839 have made on the road. Anyway, that right there, it 0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:58.480 doesn't make sense how we have more with Monique when 0:45:58.520 --> 0:46:02.680 we come back. Don't move just local morning morning. Everybody 0:46:02.800 --> 0:46:06.239 is dj mv Angela, Ye, Charlomagne, the guy we are 0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:12.120 the breakfast club. Monique is in the building, Charlomagne. He 0:46:12.239 --> 0:46:14.879 just asked, did we make a counter offer? And that's 0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:18.080 a very important question. I did see that they responded 0:46:18.120 --> 0:46:20.480 to the counter offer and said they won't They regretfully 0:46:20.480 --> 0:46:22.239 won't be able to do this deal. Hopefully you guys 0:46:22.280 --> 0:46:25.200 can work together in the future. And that's the point 0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:28.480 that we have to make to you, Lenard. But in 0:46:28.560 --> 0:46:31.520 addition to that, my love, and this is in conjunction 0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:35.640 with Roland Martin and John Mary putting out a rumor 0:46:35.920 --> 0:46:39.440 that Monique was offered three million dollars and then didn't 0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:43.280 have the decency as journalists to come back and say 0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:47.759 we apologize for the misinformation. Because if you notice Monique's 0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:52.400 keep Monique keeps producing receipts, and as crazy as this sounds, 0:46:52.440 --> 0:46:55.880 this is a bigger picture than just Netflix because what 0:46:56.040 --> 0:46:59.520 has happened was you've heard about Lee Daniels coming out 0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:02.480 speaking in reference to how difficult Monique was and the 0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:05.719 whole nine. We live in a culture in which the 0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:08.400 ladies who are going up in the room saying hashtag 0:47:08.480 --> 0:47:11.440 me too, and people are saying, well, you know, if 0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:13.759 you're going up in the room at two o'clock in 0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:17.000 the morning, you know you're about to get screwed, So 0:47:17.120 --> 0:47:19.319 why did you go up there and do it? Or 0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:22.080 what happens is they'll say to Monique, why didn't you 0:47:22.120 --> 0:47:25.480 go promote a movie for lions Gate for free? Because 0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:27.960 you know what they'll do to you. So now you're 0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:30.920 in the damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. 0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:33.080 Because the women who go up in the room, the 0:47:33.120 --> 0:47:35.160 reason why they go up in the room, they know 0:47:35.200 --> 0:47:36.799 they're going to get screwed when they go up in 0:47:36.840 --> 0:47:39.080 the room. They just don't know how bad they're going 0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:41.399 to get screwed. If they don't go up in the room. 0:47:41.800 --> 0:47:47.880 What happens This is why, again, Lenard, you've got to 0:47:47.920 --> 0:47:51.080 be careful with your words because you called your sister 0:47:51.200 --> 0:47:53.960 donkey of the day, but you didn't do your research, 0:47:54.480 --> 0:47:57.600 and you pulled that poison out into our community. Was 0:47:57.719 --> 0:48:01.799 out fully doing your research. And now as we sit here, 0:48:02.000 --> 0:48:05.719 you have to almost backtrack your words. Well, when you 0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:08.960 ask a question, did you counter offer? We put all 0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:11.120 of it out there. We put the information out there. 0:48:11.640 --> 0:48:14.600 So you were so ready to do good readio that 0:48:14.719 --> 0:48:18.279 you didn't do your homework. And when you have a conversation, 0:48:18.560 --> 0:48:21.080 you know a brother named Geral Kelly, absolutely, would you 0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:23.560 consider him your friend? Absolutely? See I was on the 0:48:23.640 --> 0:48:25.960 road with Jerel Kelly two weeks ago. Yeah, he called 0:48:26.000 --> 0:48:30.680 me and he said, Monique I talked to uh Charlemagne 0:48:31.640 --> 0:48:34.879 and he said, Man, you know I love Monique. I 0:48:34.920 --> 0:48:39.240 wasn't doing nothing but making readio. I didn't see that 0:48:40.960 --> 0:48:44.080 with Gerald Kelly, because what again, when you say, did 0:48:44.120 --> 0:48:46.960 you counter offer? See, we did, and they said there 0:48:47.040 --> 0:48:50.000 was no negotiations, you take it or leave it. But 0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:52.919 had you done we didn't actually counter offer what they 0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:55.719 said in the midst of our conversation. You've given us 0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:58.520 something to you on. We're gonna come back and reflect 0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:01.400 on it and we said, and I said to them, 0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:05.240 trying to give them, how are you sure, because here's 0:49:05.280 --> 0:49:08.719 the thing. We don't want to waste your time if 0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:12.600 if it's not real. However, if it's real and we 0:49:12.640 --> 0:49:14.960 can get something done, of course we would love to 0:49:15.000 --> 0:49:17.120 do business with you. So y'all really didn't make a 0:49:17.239 --> 0:49:19.880 counter offers. No, so what we're saying, They said it 0:49:19.960 --> 0:49:23.520 was no negotiable as they were going to go back 0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:27.000 to reflect on what we had discussed, and when they 0:49:27.040 --> 0:49:31.000 came back, they said that we are based upon our discussion, 0:49:31.719 --> 0:49:35.000 we decided not to make a counter offer in reference 0:49:35.040 --> 0:49:37.640 to what it is that you're speaking in reference to 0:49:38.400 --> 0:49:41.280 hopefully we can do business in the future and so forth. 0:49:41.360 --> 0:49:44.719 Because what they were trying to emphasize to us that 0:49:44.840 --> 0:49:48.400 a half a million dollars was a strong enough number 0:49:48.640 --> 0:49:52.480 and other people that they considered equal to Monique, which 0:49:52.480 --> 0:49:56.360 they did not name. They said, they've taken that number. 0:49:56.840 --> 0:50:01.680 If you notice you're having a conversation with Nique, why 0:50:01.840 --> 0:50:05.040 is it that Netflix won't have a conversation with people 0:50:05.600 --> 0:50:09.719 because they can bank on people like Charlemagne. They can 0:50:09.800 --> 0:50:13.200 bank on our brothers and sisters like Charlemagne that will 0:50:13.239 --> 0:50:16.520 say we'll fight them. We'll fight them for you for 0:50:16.680 --> 0:50:18.200 you don't have to fight is I'm still trying to 0:50:18.200 --> 0:50:20.319 get you and brother Sydney to justify why you think 0:50:20.360 --> 0:50:22.319 you deserved thirteen million dollars? Was there a bidding war 0:50:22.440 --> 0:50:27.920 between platforms when you say, when you say justify, I'm 0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:30.719 gonna put my resume on the table. That's all I'm 0:50:30.719 --> 0:50:32.680 gonna have to do. Do you do the numbers and 0:50:32.760 --> 0:50:35.160 ticket sales that Chris Rock does, that Dave Chappelle does 0:50:35.160 --> 0:50:38.200 that day? If given the opportunities, why don't you answer 0:50:38.200 --> 0:50:41.120 the question. See if given those opportunities, you're answering the 0:50:41.200 --> 0:50:44.200 questions for yourself. We're not given the same opportunities. Brother, 0:50:44.400 --> 0:50:47.080 But if you do your why can't you in Sydney 0:50:47.080 --> 0:50:49.719 Garden book arena tours? Do they go I'm booked their tours? 0:50:49.760 --> 0:50:51.880 Or do promoters book then? See what we're gonna do 0:50:51.960 --> 0:50:53.600 right now is and what I'm not gonna do with 0:50:53.680 --> 0:50:55.479 you now you want to play a tip for tech 0:50:55.640 --> 0:50:58.560 And what you're saying is a black women's resume don't matter. 0:50:58.800 --> 0:51:01.839 I'm not saying that to be trying to weaponize things 0:51:02.000 --> 0:51:06.759 like the SUS two hundred and fifty thousand dollars and 0:51:06.800 --> 0:51:09.120 she's considered one of the best. Or that was years 0:51:09.120 --> 0:51:10.960 ago and they said that was they would never do 0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:13.480 that now. And I literally heard just like a few 0:51:13.480 --> 0:51:18.160 weeks ago. So you did talk about the situation with 0:51:18.280 --> 0:51:22.040 Lee Daniels, and you talked about people saying that. Now 0:51:22.080 --> 0:51:25.080 we've read some things also because you're here and our cousin, 0:51:25.160 --> 0:51:27.080 so we left for you to speak on this. So 0:51:27.160 --> 0:51:29.719 there are people that say that you didn't treat people well, yes, 0:51:29.800 --> 0:51:31.560 and that they've had issues working with you and that 0:51:31.640 --> 0:51:34.120 you're difficult. Yes. So let's address some of that because 0:51:34.200 --> 0:51:37.480 Roland Martin brought it up when you guys spoke on Twitter. Yes, 0:51:37.600 --> 0:51:40.040 and he talked about the Ebony magazine cover shoot that 0:51:40.040 --> 0:51:42.480 you did with Chris Rock and Steve Harvey. Yes, and 0:51:42.840 --> 0:51:44.840 he said that it was a nightmare because of you. 0:51:44.960 --> 0:51:47.600 What happened at that shoot, Well, what happened if that 0:51:47.719 --> 0:51:51.279 shoot was a check was thrown at one of our assistants, 0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:54.400 and you don't throw anything at anyone and I had 0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:56.680 a problem with that. See, they won't fill you in 0:51:56.719 --> 0:51:58.880 on all that happened. So you had to let that 0:51:58.920 --> 0:52:02.160 person know that's not how you do business. And that's unacceptable. 0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:04.799 So I have no problem speaking on it. When they 0:52:04.800 --> 0:52:07.560 said I mistreated people on almost Christmas, well we have 0:52:07.680 --> 0:52:11.720 twenty interviews because we knew that they would say something 0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:15.000 like that with the people that worked in the background professionals, 0:52:15.200 --> 0:52:18.000 the lighting guys, the camera guys, when they all said 0:52:18.000 --> 0:52:21.759 our experience with Monique was stella. What happens is you 0:52:21.840 --> 0:52:24.600 hear the bullies speak out, but then the bullies run. 0:52:25.120 --> 0:52:27.719 Because when those videos did come out, did rolland Martin 0:52:27.800 --> 0:52:30.319 come back when the videos did come out? Just with 0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:33.799 the three little videos, you heard nothing else? Did you? 0:52:34.360 --> 0:52:38.560 Let's backtrack a little bit because with Will Packer, yes, okay, 0:52:38.600 --> 0:52:43.040 so Will Packer and rolland Martin and you know a 0:52:43.080 --> 0:52:44.880 lot of people have spoken out that have dealt with 0:52:44.920 --> 0:52:47.839 you personally and said these things. But I haven't really 0:52:47.840 --> 0:52:51.640 heard anybody say anything negative about Will Packer, about working 0:52:51.640 --> 0:52:55.240 with Lee Daniels, and I haven't heard them say anything 0:52:55.239 --> 0:52:57.000 negative about some of the people that they've worked it. 0:52:57.120 --> 0:52:59.080 So why is it? Let me I can answer that. 0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:01.800 That's a great question. And you know the guy Harvey Weinstein, 0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:06.600 and he was able to do that for how many years? Decades? 0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:09.640 And why do you think that was well. They were 0:53:09.800 --> 0:53:11.520 working with a lot of people who felt like their 0:53:11.560 --> 0:53:14.319 career would be in jeopardy if they spoke out. Do 0:53:14.400 --> 0:53:16.480 you think this is a unique situation. Do you think 0:53:16.480 --> 0:53:19.239 that people are fearful to speak out when they're mistreated? 0:53:19.640 --> 0:53:22.800 Is it mistreatment of sexual assault? Money? We can't we 0:53:22.800 --> 0:53:27.440 can't put out false equivalences about people. I understand what 0:53:27.520 --> 0:53:30.839 is it between mistreatment and sexual Let me say its 0:53:30.920 --> 0:53:35.560 levels to mistreatment. You're you're absolutely right, but mistreatment is mistreatment, 0:53:35.600 --> 0:53:39.279 and you can't paint willing the same. This is the 0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:44.680 same because based upon the information that you have, you 0:53:44.719 --> 0:53:47.480 feel comfortable with it, because this is the world we 0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:50.080 live in. If you keep hearing it, it seems as 0:53:50.120 --> 0:53:54.239 if it's true. And the reason she had some difficulty 0:53:54.320 --> 0:53:57.880 with one of the individuals who were the first ape 0:53:58.040 --> 0:54:02.239 or something like them, she had walked into Monique's trailer 0:54:02.920 --> 0:54:06.799 while she was undressed without knocking. And I don't know 0:54:06.840 --> 0:54:09.360 if you know, but there was a letter that Steve 0:54:09.440 --> 0:54:12.520 Harvey had written a while ago in reference to how 0:54:12.600 --> 0:54:16.920 people just walk into his room. What happens is she's 0:54:16.960 --> 0:54:20.880 the type of person that doesn't allow people to get disrespected, 0:54:21.000 --> 0:54:24.000 and she's not going to have an issue with the 0:54:24.080 --> 0:54:28.480 people that are the hourly wage folks. It's typically the 0:54:28.640 --> 0:54:33.040 people who are the powerful one. She's not having no 0:54:33.160 --> 0:54:36.160 beef with nobody. There were people that were getting their 0:54:36.160 --> 0:54:38.440 fingers pointed in their face that happened to be black 0:54:38.480 --> 0:54:41.719 women by white men on the set of Precious and 0:54:41.800 --> 0:54:44.920 she said, I can't allow that to happen. Guy. So 0:54:44.960 --> 0:54:48.560 what happens is you are forgetting that this is a 0:54:48.640 --> 0:54:53.280 country that had slavery for hundreds of years. And when 0:54:53.360 --> 0:54:57.360 do we start realizing that we are so conditioned to 0:54:57.520 --> 0:55:02.720 normalize bad treatment when white men are able to say, hey, guys, 0:55:03.600 --> 0:55:07.319 she's right, how does the black community not see it? 0:55:07.600 --> 0:55:09.839 We have more with Monique when we come back. Don't move. 0:55:09.880 --> 0:55:13.760 It's the breakfast club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ 0:55:14.160 --> 0:55:17.920 Envy Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy. We are the breakfast club. 0:55:17.960 --> 0:55:21.000 We have Monique in the building still, Charlomagne. I want 0:55:21.040 --> 0:55:23.400 to know about this though. Have you received other offers 0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:25.719 from other screaming services? Let me say this because other 0:55:25.719 --> 0:55:27.600 than that help with negotiations when you get come of 0:55:27.680 --> 0:55:30.960 that black ball being put over my head. The offers 0:55:31.040 --> 0:55:33.480 that come in from Netflix, they can come in low 0:55:33.560 --> 0:55:37.160 like that because they know you've been blackball you know 0:55:37.200 --> 0:55:40.440 what the word is about you. So we assume that 0:55:40.480 --> 0:55:43.480 you're suffering and we can offer you whatever we want 0:55:43.480 --> 0:55:46.520 to offer you. So the offers have come in even 0:55:46.600 --> 0:55:49.680 lower than that. You got a Netflix special beforehand, though, right, well, 0:55:49.719 --> 0:55:52.360 I didn't have a Netflix special. What happened was the 0:55:52.880 --> 0:55:55.040 one and put it on there exactly. I didn't make 0:55:55.080 --> 0:55:57.880 any deal with Netflix. So those shows just happened to 0:55:57.880 --> 0:56:00.040 be on it. And they've been on there for a 0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:03.239 long time. So someone would say, if this woman is 0:56:03.239 --> 0:56:05.200 not bringing in any views, why, but we hold onto 0:56:05.280 --> 0:56:08.040 the content. They've been on there for a minute, so 0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:12.200 as well, I'm assuming so we don't get a report 0:56:12.239 --> 0:56:15.160 on that. But as I sit here again and I 0:56:15.239 --> 0:56:20.399 sit between my sister, Hi, I know you deal with inequality, Angela. 0:56:20.719 --> 0:56:23.759 You're in the same business I'm in. But you'll look 0:56:23.800 --> 0:56:25.640 at me and you'll say, well, I need you to 0:56:25.719 --> 0:56:27.919 explain to me. They said you was a problem here 0:56:28.080 --> 0:56:30.359 and a problem there. We all know when you don't 0:56:30.360 --> 0:56:32.760 allow bullies to take place, and when you don't allow 0:56:32.800 --> 0:56:36.680 yourself to get bullied, don't you get labeled? Yes? But 0:56:36.800 --> 0:56:40.320 can I just for full disclosure. Please. There are definitely 0:56:40.400 --> 0:56:42.520 people that I know that I've worked with you on 0:56:42.600 --> 0:56:45.880 the Ebony shoot. Yes, and I've heard things. Well, they've 0:56:45.920 --> 0:56:47.839 told me personally, people that were in the room, say 0:56:47.840 --> 0:56:50.359 their names and if not, like I told Lenar before, 0:56:50.600 --> 0:56:52.759 keep it on the playground. Well okay, So I saw 0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:58.279 Alfred Edmond Jr. Who's the editor chief of Black Enterprise Magazine. Yes, 0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:01.040 I saw that Amy Dubarbe, who was the editor in 0:57:01.080 --> 0:57:02.960 chief of Ebony at the time of that shoot, who 0:57:03.040 --> 0:57:04.600 was very excited to have you on the shoot. She 0:57:04.680 --> 0:57:07.440 left a comment because he posted something about you and 0:57:07.800 --> 0:57:10.960 the numbers and about your worth and how you are 0:57:11.000 --> 0:57:14.160 the most decorated comedian, and she commented it was a 0:57:14.280 --> 0:57:17.280 nightmare working with her and I would never want to 0:57:17.320 --> 0:57:19.320 go through something like that again. I saw that comment 0:57:19.400 --> 0:57:21.440 is still on his page. Now. I would love to 0:57:21.440 --> 0:57:23.959 sit down and talk with that sister face to face 0:57:24.000 --> 0:57:26.480 so she can tell me about the nightmare. Because what 0:57:26.520 --> 0:57:28.800 they won't do is they won't fill it in. See, 0:57:28.840 --> 0:57:31.800 they won't fill in. We were being arrogant and we 0:57:31.840 --> 0:57:33.640 wanted to treat that woman as if we were doing 0:57:33.640 --> 0:57:36.439 her a favor by putting her on the cover. As 0:57:36.480 --> 0:57:40.120 my husband told me years ago, we don't disrespect anyone, 0:57:40.600 --> 0:57:43.240 but we overrespect no one. And I want you to 0:57:43.280 --> 0:57:46.360 look at me. I'm a big fat black woman. You're 0:57:46.400 --> 0:57:51.040 not stop real talk. What big fat black woman has 0:57:51.080 --> 0:57:54.200 to stands up and says this is not fair because 0:57:54.200 --> 0:57:57.880 what the feeling is with some of our sisters and brothers. Monique, 0:57:57.920 --> 0:57:59.760 you should be grateful you just got invited to the 0:57:59.760 --> 0:58:02.960 part party because of the way you look. So for 0:58:03.000 --> 0:58:05.480 anyone that says they ever had a problem with me, 0:58:05.800 --> 0:58:08.400 bring them to the table, bring them to the table 0:58:08.440 --> 0:58:11.160 and let's have a conversation. But what you'll find is 0:58:11.840 --> 0:58:14.920 we'll speak about this woman when she can't see us. 0:58:15.320 --> 0:58:18.240 We'll make comments. But we're the type of people that say, 0:58:18.480 --> 0:58:21.160 let's have a conversation. And when you find out that 0:58:21.200 --> 0:58:24.600 they're wrong, will you then speak up loudly for me 0:58:24.840 --> 0:58:27.240 as you speak up for them. I absolutely, Let's says 0:58:27.240 --> 0:58:28.960 the Mornique and brothers. And you don't ask you a question. 0:58:29.120 --> 0:58:32.240 Let's just talk numbers. If you put your numbers up 0:58:32.280 --> 0:58:34.960 against the Amy Schumers, the Chris Rocks to Dave Chappeld 0:58:35.000 --> 0:58:38.360 and I'm talking about selling out arenas all over the world. 0:58:38.400 --> 0:58:41.000 How can you justify getting a huge payday like them 0:58:41.320 --> 0:58:44.240 when you're saying that you're going to offer her one 0:58:44.440 --> 0:58:47.200 twenty six of what Amy Schumer got, and you're referring 0:58:47.240 --> 0:58:51.160 to Monique as a legend, and you're seeing her performance 0:58:51.280 --> 0:58:55.840 and you see the people standing up for at the 0:58:55.920 --> 0:58:58.680 end of the show. Have you read the reviews to 0:58:59.000 --> 0:59:02.200 the net flick special for Amy Schumer? I don't think 0:59:02.240 --> 0:59:04.200 Amy's funny. You don't got it. You don't got Amy 0:59:04.200 --> 0:59:09.560 got me blocked that this is the part, Daddy, and 0:59:09.560 --> 0:59:11.800 we gotta wrap up the show. But when we did 0:59:11.880 --> 0:59:14.880 sell out this fifty arenas around the world and MSG 0:59:15.040 --> 0:59:17.760 a few times an HBO's pressure, that did great. And 0:59:17.760 --> 0:59:20.960 this was all in twenty SI. Here's what brother leonarda saying, 0:59:21.400 --> 0:59:24.840 Like this year, another show comes and they become number 0:59:24.840 --> 0:59:27.360 one and not the breakfast Club. And then let a 0:59:27.400 --> 0:59:29.880 host come in here that's been doing it for maybe 0:59:30.120 --> 0:59:32.720 five years less than you, and then they get paid 0:59:32.960 --> 0:59:35.600 twenty six times more than you. Then you come back 0:59:35.600 --> 0:59:39.200 and have a conversation with us, because right, that's all 0:59:39.240 --> 0:59:41.720 because what happens is when you sit here and you say, 0:59:41.800 --> 0:59:44.600 make it make sense, Well, we don't have to because 0:59:44.600 --> 0:59:47.360 again and if you do have to make it make sense, 0:59:47.440 --> 0:59:50.200 especially if you're calling on people to boy, we made 0:59:50.240 --> 0:59:53.000 things like we made it make bias because we're saying, 0:59:53.400 --> 0:59:57.000 here's the resumes, guys at conjunction with that, the only 0:59:57.040 --> 1:00:02.480 thing we're saying is if, hypothetically speaking, it in thirteen million, Charlemagne, 1:00:02.680 --> 1:00:05.760 we're saying, is how come there's not. They're saying to 1:00:05.800 --> 1:00:10.280 the community that it's not one black woman that is 1:00:10.320 --> 1:00:13.480 a veteran comedian out there to day that is worth 1:00:13.600 --> 1:00:15.880 a seven figure number. So what would have been a 1:00:15.880 --> 1:00:23.600 respectable number from this Monique answering? Let me, let me 1:00:23.640 --> 1:00:28.800 give you a respectable number for Monique, something that would 1:00:28.880 --> 1:00:34.000 supersede what she would have made in two years, and 1:00:34.120 --> 1:00:36.280 at the very least, which she would have made two 1:00:36.400 --> 1:00:40.040 years to be able to take to two years off 1:00:40.080 --> 1:00:43.000 that they're contractually asking her to do, to not be 1:00:43.080 --> 1:00:46.640 able to tell jokes, You would not take a deal 1:00:46.800 --> 1:00:49.600 because they're gonna give you a lump summer cash that's 1:00:49.640 --> 1:00:53.680 going to castrate you out of three fourths of your income. 1:00:54.080 --> 1:00:56.080 Do you understand what I'm saying? So the deal didn't 1:00:56.120 --> 1:00:58.960 include the two years and didn't have that you couldn't 1:00:58.960 --> 1:01:01.040 tell jokes. If I would have taken a deal for 1:01:01.080 --> 1:01:04.200 five hundred thousand dollars Angela, what position with that I 1:01:04.280 --> 1:01:06.080 put the babies that's coming after you. No, the deal 1:01:06.160 --> 1:01:08.400 is foul. The deal is absolutely positively foul. Nobody says 1:01:08.400 --> 1:01:12.320 the deal is right. But you know, they know Monique's reputation. 1:01:12.440 --> 1:01:15.840 As far as what people are rumored to say, it 1:01:15.840 --> 1:01:19.960 does matter. They know that the networks are not necessarily 1:01:20.000 --> 1:01:22.280 giving her the money and giving her less. They know 1:01:22.320 --> 1:01:24.480 what it is. So why would I give as a 1:01:24.560 --> 1:01:28.040 business person obscene number when I know she can't get 1:01:28.080 --> 1:01:31.080 it anywhere else. It's foul, but it's business. But if 1:01:31.120 --> 1:01:33.960 you saying, Monique, it is foul, and you all right? 1:01:34.440 --> 1:01:37.680 So if we know it's right and we know it's foul, 1:01:37.880 --> 1:01:39.840 then what do we do? We do it on our own. 1:01:39.960 --> 1:01:42.640 That's just like talking to Steve Harvey and brother Steve 1:01:42.720 --> 1:01:46.000 Harvey says, MO, I know you're right, and I know 1:01:46.080 --> 1:01:48.959 you're not lying, but could you have done it another way? 1:01:49.440 --> 1:01:52.440 You know, what's the suggestion? What's the other thing? I 1:01:52.440 --> 1:01:55.080 don't want you to do? Do it? We do do 1:01:55.160 --> 1:01:57.160 it on our own, but we still got to speak up. 1:01:57.280 --> 1:01:59.400 I think the problem started with you coming out and 1:01:59.400 --> 1:02:02.040 comparing yourself of the Chris Rock Dan Chappelle and why. 1:02:02.680 --> 1:02:06.000 And I think because because because there's no way that 1:02:06.040 --> 1:02:08.600 you can justify getting that amount of money that they've got. 1:02:08.600 --> 1:02:10.440 Not to you, I've gotten more than five hundred thousand. Yes, 1:02:10.480 --> 1:02:13.760 and I've said that one. Well, here's what I'll say. No, 1:02:13.880 --> 1:02:15.560 that's not what y'all know. What y'all were saying was 1:02:15.640 --> 1:02:18.560 y'all should have got the same amount Rock chapellin let me, 1:02:18.960 --> 1:02:22.000 let me, let me get that. Let me answer that, Daddy. 1:02:22.120 --> 1:02:25.520 What I said was, if I'm considered a legend like 1:02:25.560 --> 1:02:28.040 my brothers, then why would I get what legends get? 1:02:28.080 --> 1:02:32.240 Because that is exactly what I said. Because their resume recently, 1:02:32.920 --> 1:02:35.720 you can just move it on paper. We're gonna listen, Lenard, 1:02:35.840 --> 1:02:38.680 We're gonna let you hold on to that. But what 1:02:38.720 --> 1:02:40.480 I will say to you is, and to all the 1:02:40.560 --> 1:02:43.600 black women and women of color that is listening, when 1:02:43.600 --> 1:02:46.040 you hear this brother's voice come over the air, and 1:02:46.080 --> 1:02:48.440 I'm gonna apologize like about what I'm getting ready to say. 1:02:48.560 --> 1:02:51.720 He does not have a value on black women and 1:02:51.800 --> 1:02:54.120 women of color. How can you say I'm gonna say that, 1:02:54.120 --> 1:02:57.920 but years ago, I'm gonna held the donna tell you 1:02:57.920 --> 1:02:59.920 what I think that's contradictory. I'm gonna tell you why 1:03:00.040 --> 1:03:02.439 I said it. Because what happens is when you leave 1:03:02.480 --> 1:03:06.840 a place called Monk Monk's Corner, South Carolina, and you 1:03:06.920 --> 1:03:09.240 come to a big city named New York, and then 1:03:09.280 --> 1:03:13.600 you change your name to Shalomann. Well, when you were there, 1:03:13.680 --> 1:03:16.160 you become Shaloman the God. Now, I don't know if 1:03:16.160 --> 1:03:18.400 you took the same principles that your mama and your 1:03:18.400 --> 1:03:21.560 grandmamma gave you in Monk's Corner and you bought it 1:03:21.640 --> 1:03:24.640 to Manhattan, New York. Because the brother I did meet 1:03:24.680 --> 1:03:26.760 on that elevator, I meant a brother that was full 1:03:26.800 --> 1:03:29.240 of principle, and I meant a brother who would not 1:03:29.320 --> 1:03:34.000 call a sister a donkey of a day unless he 1:03:34.080 --> 1:03:37.600 knew all the information and he could back up his statements. 1:03:37.760 --> 1:03:39.640 But as we sit here and we did this interview, 1:03:39.880 --> 1:03:42.200 you begin to ask questions that you should have asked 1:03:42.360 --> 1:03:45.439 before you make the statement. So what questions? But y'all 1:03:45.440 --> 1:03:48.320 really don't have any answer. I have not justified why 1:03:48.360 --> 1:03:51.520 you feel like you should have gotten that money, should 1:03:51.520 --> 1:03:57.560 have got that we're not back. And here's the thing, 1:03:57.560 --> 1:04:00.480 brothers and sisters that get it the way that they 1:04:00.480 --> 1:04:01.720 get it, and we get it the way that we 1:04:01.760 --> 1:04:04.920 get it. And it's not an argument. I respect your decision. 1:04:04.960 --> 1:04:09.120 I respect your no no, because you're entitled to it. Okay, well, 1:04:09.160 --> 1:04:13.840 thank you for joining us, miss Monique. When we come back, 1:04:13.840 --> 1:04:16.280 we have donkey of the day, So don't go anywhere. 1:04:16.320 --> 1:04:26.240 It's the breakfast club. Good morning, you get day you are, 1:04:29.920 --> 1:04:32.480 I'm gonna fatten all that around your They want this 1:04:32.560 --> 1:04:36.760 man to Doden Blowers man. They waited for Charlemagne. They 1:04:36.840 --> 1:04:38.720 had to make a judgment who was gonna be on 1:04:38.760 --> 1:04:41.520 the donkey of the day. They chose you because the 1:04:41.560 --> 1:04:44.200 breakfast club bitch, who's donkey of the day to day? 1:04:44.880 --> 1:04:46.880 Yeah talk here to day goes to a young man 1:04:47.000 --> 1:04:51.080 named Fine Trelle Antonio o'bates. Okay, he's thirty one years 1:04:51.120 --> 1:04:53.840 old and resides in Los Angeles via Memphis, and he's 1:04:53.840 --> 1:04:56.400 a rapper, a rapper that I never heard of until 1:04:56.440 --> 1:04:58.280 this weekend. And if the first time you are hearing 1:04:58.320 --> 1:05:01.000 about a person is because they're RECEI even dunk here today, 1:05:01.240 --> 1:05:03.600 just know that probably is never a good thing. Now. 1:05:03.640 --> 1:05:07.280 His rap name is nuke Bizzle. Bring any bells for you, envy? 1:05:07.480 --> 1:05:10.560 No anybody out there bumping that new nuke Bizzle drum 1:05:10.680 --> 1:05:14.600 that's hot in your parts? Okay, Okay, well nuke Bizzle, 1:05:14.680 --> 1:05:16.680 ladies and gentlemen. It is just the latest in a 1:05:16.720 --> 1:05:18.600 long line of people who are going to jail for 1:05:18.680 --> 1:05:20.840 unemployment fraud this year. And now, I know we've been 1:05:20.920 --> 1:05:24.000 keeping track of all the COVID nineteen cases in America 1:05:24.040 --> 1:05:26.080 this year, but we also need to be keeping track 1:05:26.080 --> 1:05:29.080 of all the unemployment for aud cases that have been happening. Okay, See, 1:05:29.120 --> 1:05:30.720 this is what I don't understand about the folks that 1:05:30.720 --> 1:05:34.560 are defraud people under the carezact. Y'all do realize what 1:05:34.640 --> 1:05:37.640 y'all doing is a crime? Right? This is not the 1:05:37.680 --> 1:05:40.640 blessing you've been praying for. All right? You know how 1:05:40.640 --> 1:05:43.200 we say everything happens for a reason, very true, But 1:05:43.360 --> 1:05:46.640 sometimes that reason is simply because you made a poor choice. 1:05:46.840 --> 1:05:51.360 And nuke Bizzle absolutely made a poor choice, a couple 1:05:51.480 --> 1:05:56.040 poor choices. See. Nuke Bizzle was arrested after applying for 1:05:56.080 --> 1:05:59.800 more than one point two million in jobless benefits and 1:06:00.240 --> 1:06:04.040 using stolen identities in the scheme to fraudulently obtain unemployment 1:06:04.040 --> 1:06:07.080 insurance beneficial. Now, I'm gonna be honest with you. I 1:06:07.200 --> 1:06:09.000 have to applaud this man for aiming high. Give them 1:06:09.040 --> 1:06:10.880 a little round of applause, just a little bit. That's it. 1:06:10.960 --> 1:06:14.000 Stop stop, stop, Okay. See here's the thing. All of 1:06:14.000 --> 1:06:17.960 you who have participated in unemployment fraud. You're going to jail. Okay, 1:06:18.080 --> 1:06:20.720 doesn't matter if you got one million to ten thousand, 1:06:20.800 --> 1:06:23.200 they're coming for you. I'm telling you, doesn't matter if 1:06:23.200 --> 1:06:25.479 you got that money and bought a Bentley or got 1:06:25.520 --> 1:06:28.080 that money and bought a single wide trailer. You're going 1:06:28.160 --> 1:06:30.600 to jail. They coming to lock your ass up at 1:06:30.640 --> 1:06:33.320 some point. So if you're going to take a penitentiary chance, 1:06:33.480 --> 1:06:36.000 your might as well shoot for the moon. And that's 1:06:36.000 --> 1:06:38.400 what nuke Bissel did with this one point two million 1:06:38.400 --> 1:06:40.880 dollars that he applied for. Now, Nuke Bisile couldn't just 1:06:40.920 --> 1:06:44.880 be content with getting this money. No, oh, not in 1:06:45.000 --> 1:06:47.880 this era. Okay, in this era, to crime is an 1:06:47.880 --> 1:06:51.320 official until you get on social media and alert to 1:06:51.440 --> 1:06:55.440 fatis about it. Okay. FBI stands for Facebook, Instagram and 1:06:55.520 --> 1:06:59.360 because of you fools, y'all, y'all need for digital validation 1:06:59.680 --> 1:07:03.600 because are you fools? Incessant desire for lights and retweets? 1:07:03.840 --> 1:07:08.960 Y'all make defends jobs so easy. Okay, But it wasn't 1:07:09.000 --> 1:07:11.160 just social media in the Internet that got Nu Bizzle 1:07:11.240 --> 1:07:15.560 jammed up. See Nu Bizzle, as I told y'all is 1:07:15.600 --> 1:07:20.800 a rapper. I repeat, nw Bizzle is a rapper. Let's 1:07:20.800 --> 1:07:23.200 go to CBSLA for the report. Police. The Department of 1:07:23.280 --> 1:07:26.080 Justice says a rapper who bragged in a music video 1:07:26.120 --> 1:07:29.360 about getting rich from an unemployment scam is now facing 1:07:29.400 --> 1:07:33.000 federal charges. According to a criminal complaint, thirty one year 1:07:33.040 --> 1:07:37.880 old Fontrelle Antonio Baines exploited the Pandemic Unemployment Assistance provision 1:07:37.960 --> 1:07:41.160 of the Federal Coronavirus Act. He applied for more than 1:07:41.240 --> 1:07:45.560 one point two million dollars and jobless benefits, Federal officials 1:07:45.560 --> 1:07:48.280 say right now. He lives in Hollywood Hills, and in 1:07:48.320 --> 1:07:51.160 a video he bragged He's going to get stacks of 1:07:51.320 --> 1:07:55.080 these while holding up envelopes from edd. A second man 1:07:55.120 --> 1:07:58.000 in the video raps quote, you got to sell cocaine. 1:07:58.120 --> 1:08:01.520 I just file a claim. If convicted, Dane's faces up 1:08:01.560 --> 1:08:07.320 to twenty two years in Federal present. Those are some bars. Yes, 1:08:07.720 --> 1:08:12.040 what God and Aaron McGruder have the same sense of humor. 1:08:12.640 --> 1:08:14.400 This is why we need the Boondocks back. But I 1:08:14.480 --> 1:08:17.560 often wonder if the Bondocks uh well, when the Boondocks 1:08:17.600 --> 1:08:19.960 comes back, how would they compete when the most absurd 1:08:20.080 --> 1:08:24.080 things that usually are reserved for storylines on the Bondocks 1:08:24.120 --> 1:08:27.519 are actually happening in real life. Okay, this guy Nuke 1:08:27.600 --> 1:08:32.280 Bizzle applied for one point two million and unemployment benefits, 1:08:33.000 --> 1:08:36.240 blatant unemployment fraud, and then turned around and made a 1:08:36.280 --> 1:08:39.160 song about it. Yeah, it's a song called e ed 1:08:39.439 --> 1:08:44.640 d nw Bizzle feature. In fact, whither would you like 1:08:44.760 --> 1:08:57.800 to hear it? Hear how they got rich Oba to 1:09:00.080 --> 1:09:03.519 end up building a CPA. You got a Sycalcaine. I 1:09:03.600 --> 1:09:06.040 can defoul the claim rest comment straight to the flame 1:09:06.200 --> 1:09:08.519 I'm doing. He said, you bugging no swater than you 1:09:08.600 --> 1:09:10.599 ain't eaty of these scales, And then that you heard 1:09:10.640 --> 1:09:13.479 about i'd be so heavy to certify. Get on the 1:09:14.200 --> 1:09:16.559 working out twenty fat clais it for a while while 1:09:16.560 --> 1:09:19.120 I trying my life, and I gotta admit it, I 1:09:19.120 --> 1:09:21.240 saw out a head in a minute. Really to tell 1:09:21.280 --> 1:09:24.599 me I can wait on it el for twenty Damn, 1:09:24.680 --> 1:09:28.080 did you hurt better than did it turn into a scale? 1:09:28.400 --> 1:09:30.760 I was just tucking the sale now that way, don't 1:09:30.880 --> 1:09:33.439 urge you. Now, I kind of like this on like 1:09:33.479 --> 1:09:36.000 that too, I told I s I like that, So yeah, 1:09:36.160 --> 1:09:39.200 I kind of like this. Yeah, that's the problem, grown 1:09:39.720 --> 1:09:43.360 grown up, grown as adults who know better saying it 1:09:43.720 --> 1:09:48.040 like songs like this, girdri at work hand, what you say, 1:09:48.160 --> 1:09:52.080 Uncle Ruggets and our dre at work one more time, 1:09:52.160 --> 1:09:54.479 Uncle Ruggets for the people in the back, and our 1:09:55.080 --> 1:09:58.280 gdre at work hand. Kids. I'm so sorry. I am 1:09:58.320 --> 1:10:00.880 so sorry, kids. I'm so sorry that we made y'all 1:10:00.920 --> 1:10:02.960 believe you really had to be living the things you 1:10:03.080 --> 1:10:06.160 rapped about. I wish more rappers told y'all that they 1:10:06.200 --> 1:10:08.519 were just performing and they was just trying to make 1:10:08.560 --> 1:10:10.720 some money. All right. There was a period in my 1:10:10.760 --> 1:10:13.439 life where I really wanted and loved when my rappers 1:10:13.479 --> 1:10:15.760 were doing the things they were talking about. But that 1:10:15.800 --> 1:10:18.840 was ignorant of me. Okay, if rappers actually did just 1:10:19.000 --> 1:10:22.280 thirty percent, just thirty percent of what they rapped about doing, 1:10:22.560 --> 1:10:25.280 they would all be in prison a debt. Okay, this 1:10:25.360 --> 1:10:28.000 new generation didn't get the memo that majority of these 1:10:28.080 --> 1:10:31.760 rappers was all cat. Now they're busy trying to lead 1:10:31.760 --> 1:10:34.080 two lives, trying to serve two masters. They want to 1:10:34.160 --> 1:10:36.640 rap and live a life of crime, and when you 1:10:36.720 --> 1:10:41.280 try to do both, you end up like Nuke Bizzle okay, 1:10:41.439 --> 1:10:45.439 facing three federal charges and if convicted of all these charges, 1:10:46.320 --> 1:10:50.200 Baines Nuke Bizzle will face the statutory maximum sentence of 1:10:50.320 --> 1:10:55.599 twenty two years in federal prison. Y'all still like the song, 1:10:56.120 --> 1:10:59.880 so I don't happen to do it. This song is good, 1:11:00.080 --> 1:11:02.120 that New Bizzle. We're not gonna play guests? What race 1:11:02.200 --> 1:11:05.160 this is? Please? Let me mind giving New Pizzle the 1:11:05.200 --> 1:11:09.840 biggest here he ha, he ha, You stupid mother? Are 1:11:09.880 --> 1:11:13.400 you dumb? Are they white? I have one question? Where 1:11:13.479 --> 1:11:16.960 is Fat Whizzle? If Fat Whizzle was featured on this song? 1:11:17.520 --> 1:11:20.519 Did Fat Whizz? Are you trying to get someone else arrested? 1:11:20.640 --> 1:11:22.920 Inquiring minds? Well, oh, I'm trying to get them arrested. 1:11:22.920 --> 1:11:24.920 For Get the song that's got over a million views 1:11:24.960 --> 1:11:27.960 on YouTube, and forget that one point two million dollars 1:11:28.040 --> 1:11:30.840 and uh and and unemployment fraud that they tried to get. 1:11:31.040 --> 1:11:36.800 I'm trying to get them arrested. The rich off d 1:11:37.080 --> 1:11:46.280 D all right now and our fre at work. All right, well, 1:11:46.320 --> 1:11:49.200 thank you for that donkey of the day. How'd you 1:11:49.200 --> 1:11:52.000 get the song Fat Wizard? I don't know if fat 1:11:52.000 --> 1:11:55.640 wizard he's getting low right back? You got anything you 1:11:55.640 --> 1:11:59.320 want to say? Oh my goodness? All right, thank you 1:11:59.360 --> 1:12:02.120 for that stain it. Don't pop up now talking about 1:12:02.160 --> 1:12:04.120 they were talking about you on the Breakfast Club. Now 1:12:04.120 --> 1:12:06.519 you get low, stay low to lead all your social 1:12:06.560 --> 1:12:09.200 media pages and everything. That's right, all right, We got 1:12:09.240 --> 1:12:15.679 more coming up next. We're a breakfast club the relationship advice, 1:12:16.200 --> 1:12:19.639 need personal advice, just need real advice. Call up man 1:12:19.760 --> 1:12:26.200 for asking morning. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela, Yee, Charlomagne the guy. 1:12:26.240 --> 1:12:29.200 We are the breakfast Club. It's time for asking ye Hello, 1:12:29.200 --> 1:12:35.840 who's this? Yo? This cookie? Cookie cookie from out of Florida, 1:12:36.439 --> 1:12:39.439 Brown County. I know you're talking about as Charlomagne. I 1:12:39.479 --> 1:12:41.639 don't know what you're talking about. What's up? All right? Cookie? 1:12:41.640 --> 1:12:45.280 What's good? What's your question for? Easy? Okay? My question 1:12:45.560 --> 1:12:48.360 is um, me and my husband we wrapped like we 1:12:48.439 --> 1:12:51.320 spit bars like we really got bars man, But we 1:12:51.320 --> 1:12:53.439 were up there in age. We've been spitting for a 1:12:53.479 --> 1:12:56.040 long time. We're thirty two and we're just wondering if 1:12:56.040 --> 1:12:59.479 we should keep trying. Are you any good? You want 1:12:59.479 --> 1:13:02.320 to hear me? Go yeah, go ahead, Let's let's hear something. Cookie, 1:13:03.080 --> 1:13:05.559 all right, you can't speak up with low key now. 1:13:05.680 --> 1:13:07.640 You don't know me. Yeah, you may see me, but 1:13:07.720 --> 1:13:09.680 you can never beat me, and you can never beat me. 1:13:09.760 --> 1:13:11.960 In the hip pop paddle tune this you'll see me 1:13:12.040 --> 1:13:14.160 full better scadd or so if I have at the paddle, 1:13:14.160 --> 1:13:16.320 I swim through the river, meaning I could make it 1:13:16.320 --> 1:13:19.880 through whatever like them quivered any time I sit, Ryan said, 1:13:19.920 --> 1:13:28.320 your man, I know my highs. Cookie black time a man. 1:13:29.080 --> 1:13:31.320 I love the comedy rap y'all. You really made me 1:13:31.439 --> 1:13:33.920 laugh the comedy rappers dope, this is ask he ain't 1:13:34.000 --> 1:13:35.840 ain't What do you think? Tell Cookie? A couple of 1:13:35.880 --> 1:13:38.479 things here? Have you made any type of progress with 1:13:38.600 --> 1:13:41.200 your career as a rapper? Um? I performed a couple 1:13:41.200 --> 1:13:44.599 of places. I mean I UM performed at a hard 1:13:44.720 --> 1:13:47.680 rock a while ago. Um it was big well at 1:13:47.720 --> 1:13:49.920 the time I was working there. But we feel like 1:13:49.960 --> 1:13:52.880 an employee time show and I won both times. I 1:13:53.040 --> 1:13:56.559 won both times though, Yeah, I performed at a few places, 1:13:56.760 --> 1:13:59.400 you know, locally and stuff like that. So it's like 1:13:59.760 --> 1:14:01.880 that He've been real cookie. Have you been going really 1:14:01.960 --> 1:14:05.680 really hard to pursue your dream? Been trying? Yes? Um, 1:14:06.040 --> 1:14:07.880 you know, get knocked down the cup times. You know. 1:14:08.120 --> 1:14:12.639 We went to an event in Orlando and it was like, oh, 1:14:12.840 --> 1:14:15.680 you know, people not really check for older rappers right now. 1:14:15.720 --> 1:14:17.320 I'm like, yo, but I've been doing this for so 1:14:17.840 --> 1:14:20.760 long and it just so happened as some opportunities are 1:14:20.800 --> 1:14:24.720 coming out right now. You know where you can you know, 1:14:24.840 --> 1:14:29.560 this artist showcase and this artist showcase. And have you 1:14:29.680 --> 1:14:33.080 been recording music in the studio anywhere? Though? Yes, you 1:14:33.160 --> 1:14:36.400 can go on the Instagram. Grew in the payment LLC 1:14:36.720 --> 1:14:39.000 man just tell her she sucks and to get a job. 1:14:39.000 --> 1:14:40.680 I just want to say, I don't I don't think 1:14:40.760 --> 1:14:42.640 that being in your thirties is a reason to not 1:14:42.760 --> 1:14:46.200 pursue your career as far as being an artist, if 1:14:46.280 --> 1:14:48.240 you're really great at it and if you go really 1:14:48.360 --> 1:14:50.320 hard at it, you know what I'm saying. I think 1:14:50.400 --> 1:14:52.840 sometimes people want things to happen and they do a 1:14:52.880 --> 1:14:55.720 showcase here and there, but they're not going super hard 1:14:55.760 --> 1:14:58.400 because people who really want to be in this industry, 1:14:58.520 --> 1:15:01.519 have to really live, breathe sleep it like, do everything 1:15:01.600 --> 1:15:04.000 they can to make it happen. So that's why I 1:15:04.160 --> 1:15:05.960 was asking you, are you doing everything that you can? 1:15:06.080 --> 1:15:08.240 Have you been going really hard or is it something 1:15:08.320 --> 1:15:10.680 that you've been doing kind of you know, here and there, 1:15:10.760 --> 1:15:13.840 but not really pursuing. Yeah, I've been trying to go hard. 1:15:13.880 --> 1:15:17.200 I've really been trying to abhorse. You know what. My age, Um, 1:15:17.520 --> 1:15:20.360 you know, I eventually had children and stuff like that, 1:15:20.560 --> 1:15:24.160 but um, I still I think I'm still got bars. 1:15:24.200 --> 1:15:26.320 I'm still ready to put in the workout tell me 1:15:26.400 --> 1:15:28.600 and saying I fuck no, I don't suck man. You 1:15:28.720 --> 1:15:30.680 do learn a trade, you know what I'm saying. Do 1:15:30.680 --> 1:15:34.160 you have a job there, you go get another one. 1:15:34.920 --> 1:15:37.080 I just don't want you to use agent as an excuse. 1:15:37.200 --> 1:15:39.000 We know a artist right now that's putting out his 1:15:39.120 --> 1:15:42.040 first ever album. He's in his forties, you know what 1:15:42.120 --> 1:15:45.320 I'm saying. So I don't think that's ever good exactly. 1:15:45.720 --> 1:15:47.519 Even the white man in the room say, but he's 1:15:47.560 --> 1:15:50.640 good because you're talking about jail. Yeah good. So what 1:15:50.760 --> 1:15:55.240 I'm saying is you're saying I'm not good. Seven minutes 1:15:55.760 --> 1:15:58.759 out of this conversation. All right, well, listen, give everybody 1:15:58.800 --> 1:16:01.360 in your Instagram. Everybody, everybody is gonna weigh in and 1:16:01.439 --> 1:16:03.360 go and look at your music that you have posted 1:16:03.640 --> 1:16:05.000 and let you know what they think. This is a 1:16:05.040 --> 1:16:07.360 great opportunity for you to get some feedback. That's right, 1:16:07.400 --> 1:16:09.080 Give them your Instagram because so people can go tell 1:16:09.080 --> 1:16:13.960 you the truth. Is it Crow Entertainment, g R either 1:16:14.120 --> 1:16:17.400 W entertainment, l L speed Man. I love you though, 1:16:18.040 --> 1:16:20.040 I love y'all. I listened to it every morning. I'm 1:16:20.120 --> 1:16:22.320 hurt right now though, Charlomagne. But it's so well I 1:16:22.320 --> 1:16:24.000 don't think you can judge it just based off of 1:16:24.040 --> 1:16:27.320 that no music, So you know he hasn't heard no music, 1:16:27.400 --> 1:16:29.040 he just heard. What do you think of that freestyle 1:16:29.040 --> 1:16:30.920 you just heard from her view? What do you think 1:16:30.960 --> 1:16:32.479 of it? What you just heard from her? I was 1:16:32.560 --> 1:16:43.200 listening listening, y'allo. Foolish, Wasn't it? What you wonna waste 1:16:43.200 --> 1:16:45.320 her time for the next three or four years trying 1:16:45.320 --> 1:16:48.200 to bed I just had a day off day, okay, sure, 1:16:48.439 --> 1:16:52.920 Cookie the black Widow, all right, okay, okay, let's keep 1:16:52.920 --> 1:16:55.439 it going, ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one 1:16:55.479 --> 1:16:57.200 on five one. If you need relationship if ice hit 1:16:57.240 --> 1:17:05.519 this up now, it's the breakfast Smokeal Morning had some 1:17:05.600 --> 1:17:09.519 real advice with Angela Ye. It's ask Ye holding. Everybody 1:17:09.680 --> 1:17:13.400 is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the God. We are 1:17:13.520 --> 1:17:17.280 the breakfast club. We're in the middle of ask ye Hello, 1:17:17.400 --> 1:17:24.400 who's this misty? Yes? Hey, what's your question for you? Okay? 1:17:24.680 --> 1:17:27.200 So my question was like, what am I supposed to do? 1:17:27.560 --> 1:17:30.519 It's like my boyfriend, she's sneaking to watch porn. I 1:17:30.600 --> 1:17:32.720 don't have a problem with him watching it. It's just 1:17:33.520 --> 1:17:36.960 getting weird that he's sneaking to watch it because he 1:17:37.040 --> 1:17:38.760 doesn't know whether or not you have a problem with it. 1:17:38.840 --> 1:17:40.439 Did you tell him, like, I know you're watching porn? 1:17:40.520 --> 1:17:43.640 It's fine. I mean we've had the discussion about it, 1:17:43.840 --> 1:17:46.000 like I have him like we have a problem with 1:17:46.160 --> 1:17:49.120 sex or something, but he's like, no, we don't have 1:17:49.240 --> 1:17:51.400 a problem with sex or anything. And it's like I'm 1:17:51.880 --> 1:17:55.280 being open minded about stuff, but I don't know. He 1:17:55.400 --> 1:17:57.439 keeps asking for like three sing stuff like that or 1:17:57.479 --> 1:18:01.240 whatever too. Well, yeah, and you don't want to do it? 1:18:01.400 --> 1:18:03.160 Three cent? Where you do? Are you open to it? 1:18:03.600 --> 1:18:07.000 I'm okay? With it. I guess I've never done it. 1:18:07.200 --> 1:18:10.800 So well, obviously that's not gonna happen anytime soon because 1:18:10.840 --> 1:18:14.479 we are all quarantined and you know, so that's a 1:18:14.560 --> 1:18:17.200 whole other story. But first of all, maybe part of 1:18:17.240 --> 1:18:19.200 the fund for him watching porn is him sneaking to 1:18:19.280 --> 1:18:22.000 do it. That's what is that not strange or like, 1:18:22.280 --> 1:18:24.599 is that normal? How'd you catch him? I'm just curious, 1:18:24.600 --> 1:18:26.760 how'd you catch him? Okay, we're supposed to have sex 1:18:26.920 --> 1:18:29.120 or whatever, but then I felt sweet. But then when 1:18:29.160 --> 1:18:31.280 I woke up, I'm like, okay, maybe I should go 1:18:31.320 --> 1:18:35.080 back to sweet because you are most finished. So oh 1:18:35.200 --> 1:18:36.640 when you when you woke up and you seen him 1:18:36.640 --> 1:18:38.680 on a computer, he was sitting there watching porn. He 1:18:38.800 --> 1:18:41.200 was on his phone and it was on you. That's 1:18:41.240 --> 1:18:43.960 the weirdest thing to me, Like like he was repose. 1:18:44.040 --> 1:18:45.960 He didn't want to wake you up. I'm okay with 1:18:46.080 --> 1:18:48.720 him waking me up, though, but he didn't know that. 1:18:48.920 --> 1:18:50.639 Did you tell him next time waking me up? I'm 1:18:50.840 --> 1:18:53.760 you know, I'm fine, but I don't know. I just 1:18:54.000 --> 1:18:55.920 kind of like got up and went to the bathroom 1:18:55.920 --> 1:18:57.880 because I'm like, this is weird. This's the second time 1:18:57.920 --> 1:19:00.320 I call him doing this, and I don't you know 1:19:00.360 --> 1:19:02.479 what it sounds like, y'all just need to have a 1:19:02.520 --> 1:19:05.439 conversation because you're not saying anything to him, and then 1:19:05.520 --> 1:19:07.800 he's not saying anything to you about it, and then 1:19:08.280 --> 1:19:10.280 now you do think it's weird, so he probably can 1:19:10.439 --> 1:19:12.680 sense that you think it's weird. So it's kind of 1:19:12.760 --> 1:19:15.080 like a lack of communication. That's what's causing you, guys 1:19:15.760 --> 1:19:17.479 to not come together on this when you could just 1:19:17.560 --> 1:19:20.160 simply wake up and be like, oh, you're watching porn. 1:19:20.240 --> 1:19:25.240 What you're watching? Let me see? Okay, I guess, And 1:19:25.360 --> 1:19:27.120 you know what can be fun sometimes if you don't 1:19:27.160 --> 1:19:30.200 mind doing this is watching porn together. I mean, like, 1:19:30.479 --> 1:19:33.240 I'm not as experienced as he is sexually, and like 1:19:33.400 --> 1:19:35.760 recently he got me like this Tory thing and I'm 1:19:35.800 --> 1:19:38.400 just like, I'm not okay with these like traffic down 1:19:38.479 --> 1:19:41.640 there because like robot or whatever. So I was like, 1:19:42.280 --> 1:19:44.559 I don't know, Well, maybe he is nervous to bring 1:19:44.640 --> 1:19:46.240 things up to you because he doesn't want you to 1:19:46.320 --> 1:19:50.960 think that he's weird. Okay, I'll try to have that conversation. 1:19:51.080 --> 1:19:54.960 I guess. I don't know, And I see it feels 1:19:55.000 --> 1:19:57.479 like you want to be more open minded about things 1:19:57.520 --> 1:20:00.519 and that, but you're right now, you're not in that place. 1:20:01.080 --> 1:20:03.240 Like you're uncertain about a lot of things. Like you said, 1:20:03.280 --> 1:20:05.760 you're not as experienced as he is, so you take 1:20:05.800 --> 1:20:08.120 it slow. And I always tell people, don't do anything 1:20:08.200 --> 1:20:10.840 that you're not comfortable with. So if you truly are 1:20:10.920 --> 1:20:13.680 not comfortable with something, don't do it and let him 1:20:13.720 --> 1:20:16.240 know that you're not comfortable. And if there are things 1:20:16.280 --> 1:20:18.200 that you want to try, don't be ashamed to try them. 1:20:18.280 --> 1:20:19.840 So those are the two things that I would say 1:20:19.880 --> 1:20:23.640 when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, Okay, because like, 1:20:23.760 --> 1:20:26.080 I really like them. I've tried to have a part 1:20:26.120 --> 1:20:29.600 of this conversation before and then it went into this 1:20:29.720 --> 1:20:33.920 whole spiral conversation about like insecurity and all this extra 1:20:34.040 --> 1:20:37.439 drunk and I'm just like, what the is going on? Yeah, 1:20:37.600 --> 1:20:39.960 you never do something just to please the other person 1:20:40.160 --> 1:20:42.599 if you're not comfortable with it, because that does cause 1:20:43.040 --> 1:20:46.040 resentment sometimes and then that does tend to spiral out 1:20:46.080 --> 1:20:49.080 of control. But if in your mind you're like I 1:20:49.200 --> 1:20:51.800 would like to try this, then you should try it. 1:20:52.000 --> 1:20:55.240 It's just and remember it's completely up to you. It's 1:20:55.280 --> 1:20:57.080 fine for you to not want to do a threesome. 1:20:57.360 --> 1:20:59.080 It's fine for you to not want to use that 1:20:59.160 --> 1:21:01.040 toy if you don't feel like it. But it's also 1:21:01.120 --> 1:21:03.280 fine for you to say, Okay, I'm down to experiment. 1:21:03.320 --> 1:21:05.840 Don't worry about other people's judgments of you. It is 1:21:05.960 --> 1:21:08.519 your body, your choice to do whatever you want. And 1:21:08.680 --> 1:21:11.040 even with those things like whenever I gave him the 1:21:11.080 --> 1:21:13.160 stuff I wanted to try, he just kept calling me 1:21:13.240 --> 1:21:15.240 like a freakrow or whatever. And then I'm like, Okay, 1:21:15.320 --> 1:21:17.280 maybe I shouldn't tell him the stuff that I'm into 1:21:17.720 --> 1:21:20.519 if he thinks he's too outrageous. But then you, what 1:21:20.600 --> 1:21:22.519 do you what are you into? Yeah? Any wants to 1:21:22.600 --> 1:21:26.200 know what are you into? Curiousy? Oh gosh, Okay, So 1:21:26.840 --> 1:21:28.960 I kind of like the whole domps and this one 1:21:29.080 --> 1:21:31.920 thing like if we can switch rolls and stuff, and 1:21:32.920 --> 1:21:34.560 he's not okay with a lot of them, and I 1:21:34.680 --> 1:21:36.759 guess I grew up on the pill side of life, 1:21:37.439 --> 1:21:40.720 but I was kind of trying to see if he 1:21:40.760 --> 1:21:46.920 will be okay with like, you know, pegging terribly. Oh yeah, okay, 1:21:47.000 --> 1:21:49.479 Now pegging is yeah, pegging might be a little serious. 1:21:49.600 --> 1:21:51.280 That's not light. You want to put him on a 1:21:51.360 --> 1:21:54.040 least to that covert. I mean, he put me on 1:21:54.120 --> 1:22:02.200 the weeks before. Okay, I'm gonna pass. I'll take the leash. 1:22:02.760 --> 1:22:07.840 I'll take the leash for okay. What I would recommend, Missy, though, 1:22:08.040 --> 1:22:09.960 is before you go straight to the peggang you have 1:22:10.040 --> 1:22:12.599 you ever put a finger there? Yes, that's the thing, 1:22:12.880 --> 1:22:16.719 got it got you? Okay, So so maybe that's something 1:22:16.760 --> 1:22:19.960 you guys will graduate to eventually. Yeah, but that's my 1:22:20.120 --> 1:22:24.560 thing though. If he brings up the butt play but 1:22:24.800 --> 1:22:29.200 think it's weird, will be talking about it. I'm just like, 1:22:30.439 --> 1:22:33.040 what's going on? You know what. I'm a and missy, 1:22:33.160 --> 1:22:34.760 and I'm gonna be honest with you. A lot of 1:22:34.800 --> 1:22:36.600 times guys like to do things, but they don't like 1:22:36.680 --> 1:22:38.400 to discuss the things they like to do because they 1:22:38.439 --> 1:22:40.680 feel like it's weird. So you have to kind of 1:22:40.760 --> 1:22:43.800 just do it without dressing. Don't rate that man, but 1:22:44.240 --> 1:22:46.840 I don't know that. But like, you can feel it 1:22:46.920 --> 1:22:48.760 out and start doing something and he might like it, 1:22:49.280 --> 1:22:51.519 but he doesn't want to discuss that he liked it. 1:22:51.640 --> 1:22:53.360 So obviously, if he doesn't want to do it, he'll 1:22:53.439 --> 1:22:54.600 let you know he doesn't want to do it. But 1:22:54.640 --> 1:22:57.960 if you just approach it and bring it and they like, hey, 1:22:58.040 --> 1:22:59.880 let's go in the heat of the moment, and he 1:23:00.200 --> 1:23:02.439 with it, then there you go. But sometimes having that 1:23:02.520 --> 1:23:06.920 discussion makes people feel a little weird. Okay, I'm gonna 1:23:06.920 --> 1:23:11.160 have the hell um like golf conversation. I don't want 1:23:11.200 --> 1:23:13.320 to have you like first time at breakfast or whatever, 1:23:13.760 --> 1:23:15.439 but I'm trying to see how I can bring it 1:23:15.520 --> 1:23:17.639 up during the day or whatever, because I'm just like, yo, 1:23:18.400 --> 1:23:20.639 I'm okay with you waking me up for sex. You've 1:23:20.680 --> 1:23:23.320 done it before, like well he didn't know camp for sex, 1:23:23.479 --> 1:23:26.960 but like or whatever. So it's just like, yo, I 1:23:27.040 --> 1:23:29.439 feel like you gotta be fine. This is a great 1:23:29.479 --> 1:23:31.599 time to have these discussions while y'all learning the house 1:23:31.600 --> 1:23:33.280 to get it. Ain't got nowhere else to go. We 1:23:33.360 --> 1:23:35.960 gotta get this quarantine over because y'all boards hell. Tell him, 1:23:36.040 --> 1:23:38.000 tell him he shook and ain't no such thing as 1:23:38.040 --> 1:23:40.200 half ass crooks, and by that, tell them stop letting, 1:23:40.520 --> 1:23:42.680 letting you put half your fingers ass and tell them 1:23:42.680 --> 1:23:46.840 you want all in nothing, all right, tell them grow up, definitely, 1:23:47.040 --> 1:23:50.920 Thank you guys. All right, missy, good luck. It's funny 1:23:52.880 --> 1:23:54.880 if you do stuff like that. You can't even Please 1:23:54.880 --> 1:23:56.840 don't give the young man no nicknames either, though you'll 1:23:56.880 --> 1:23:59.599 be hitting him in about your peg. The Stallion can't 1:23:59.640 --> 1:24:02.880 call a wrong man peg the Stallion, what all right? 1:24:03.040 --> 1:24:05.639 Ask ye eight hundred five A five one oh five 1:24:05.720 --> 1:24:07.639 one to keep a lot? This to Breakfast Club, Good morning, 1:24:08.600 --> 1:24:11.800 whatever y'all is, dj MB Hey, I'm a gobody name 1:24:11.840 --> 1:24:13.439 of Charlomagne the Guy, and we just want to say 1:24:13.479 --> 1:24:16.120 happy holidays from all three of us, all three of 1:24:16.200 --> 1:24:26.640 y'all the Breakfast Club. Baby, ask Charlomagne a d J 1:24:26.880 --> 1:24:29.320 n V any pick it up, pick it up, it up. 1:24:30.240 --> 1:24:34.200 It's time to ask C and E morning. Everybody is 1:24:34.280 --> 1:24:37.960 cj envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the Guy. We are the 1:24:38.040 --> 1:24:41.040 Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's time for ask C and E. 1:24:41.360 --> 1:24:44.560 Now Angela Ye is on vacation, so I asked C 1:24:44.720 --> 1:24:47.439 an E. All right, if you got relationship advice questions, 1:24:47.560 --> 1:24:49.479 or you just have questions about life in general, we 1:24:49.560 --> 1:24:53.520 can help you. Hello, who's this? All right? This is anonymous? 1:24:54.760 --> 1:24:57.080 Anonymous from the d all right brother, what's what's your 1:24:57.160 --> 1:24:59.560 question for C and E? Okay, I've been dating the 1:25:00.280 --> 1:25:03.160 a Spanish woman I'm actually African American and she's been 1:25:03.240 --> 1:25:05.960 working with me. But she switched shifts after we dated 1:25:06.040 --> 1:25:07.680 for two years and knew each other for three and 1:25:07.760 --> 1:25:10.960 went to morning shift. I'm on night shift now. She 1:25:11.160 --> 1:25:14.240 found the friend that's actually her race, probably like three 1:25:14.320 --> 1:25:16.719 months ago. They went out of town, spent the weekend, 1:25:16.840 --> 1:25:19.280 had a great time. We still talk every day. She 1:25:19.439 --> 1:25:22.479 initiate the text. She texted me to call me one 1:25:22.560 --> 1:25:25.600 night crying. Her stomach was hurting. She still relies on me, 1:25:25.720 --> 1:25:27.920 but she don't want to see me outside of work. 1:25:28.720 --> 1:25:31.000 So is there any test I couldn't get her back. Well, 1:25:31.000 --> 1:25:33.360 I'm just waiting for him to mess up further on. 1:25:33.760 --> 1:25:37.160 You said that she's of another race, So I'm you're black, right, 1:25:37.840 --> 1:25:40.880 I'm black. I'm the second guy she ever been with 1:25:41.120 --> 1:25:43.360 and the first black guy she ever been with besides 1:25:43.479 --> 1:25:49.280 her husband. Okay, yeah, she said I wasted her time 1:25:49.360 --> 1:25:51.360 because of her culture. They date for three or four 1:25:51.400 --> 1:25:53.280 months and they get married. We dated for two years 1:25:53.320 --> 1:25:56.760 and nothing happened. Okay, Well, you know I'm all full 1:25:56.840 --> 1:25:59.400 black and brown relations. But my advice to you is 1:25:59.479 --> 1:26:00.920 get you a black back woman. You know what I'm saying, 1:26:00.960 --> 1:26:02.760 Get you a queen. You know, you know you did 1:26:02.840 --> 1:26:05.640 the Spanish thing. It didn't work out clearly, you know 1:26:05.800 --> 1:26:08.000 she's moved on. Um, I think it's time for you 1:26:08.040 --> 1:26:10.280 to move on. To get your assistance now, I would say, 1:26:10.320 --> 1:26:12.800 I would say, fine, somebody that you love, obviously you 1:26:12.880 --> 1:26:14.960 have feelings for her, and you know why didn't you 1:26:15.000 --> 1:26:16.720 marry her? Why? Why didn't you just say you know what? 1:26:16.800 --> 1:26:21.040 This is something I want to do well at black 1:26:21.080 --> 1:26:23.599 women far as like marriage, but I do have black 1:26:23.840 --> 1:26:27.120 women trained. Bye bye, bye, hang up. I want to talk. 1:26:27.120 --> 1:26:28.080 I don't want to talk to to the more. I 1:26:28.080 --> 1:26:29.479 don't talk to you. I don't want to talk to you. 1:26:29.560 --> 1:26:31.120 I don't want to talk to you. I don't want 1:26:31.120 --> 1:26:33.240 to talk to you anymore because you tell me you're 1:26:33.240 --> 1:26:36.840 not attracted to black women. You know what I'm saying, 1:26:36.880 --> 1:26:38.720 like black women are not good enough to marry? What 1:26:39.200 --> 1:26:41.400 color is your mama? You know what I'm saying, Like 1:26:41.479 --> 1:26:43.360 what kind of household do you come from? I guess 1:26:43.400 --> 1:26:44.840 I could asking those questions, but I don't care. I 1:26:44.880 --> 1:26:46.479 don't care to have to come. I wanted I wanted 1:26:46.520 --> 1:26:48.240 to know. I wanted to know why, why would like why? 1:26:48.280 --> 1:26:50.439 Why was it deeply roooted it like his mother's black. Like, 1:26:50.560 --> 1:26:52.800 what's the problem that he doesn't have sisters? Grandma's answer, 1:26:52.800 --> 1:26:55.360 none of that. I don't I don't care for these selves. 1:26:55.400 --> 1:26:58.960 Hating the gross black women. I don't care. I don't 1:26:58.960 --> 1:27:02.280 care for black women to marry them. Get thee beat 1:27:02.320 --> 1:27:06.719 it by Hello, who's this? Yeah? Whatever? See what's happening 1:27:06.720 --> 1:27:09.760 the man? What's up? Brother? What's your question for? Cne? Man? 1:27:09.840 --> 1:27:12.400 So check us? All right? So, um me and my 1:27:12.479 --> 1:27:14.040 baby mama. You know what I'm saying, the mother of 1:27:14.080 --> 1:27:17.080 my child, beautiful woman. As a man, you know what 1:27:17.080 --> 1:27:20.720 I'm saying. We all make mistakes, um boy, you know 1:27:20.800 --> 1:27:23.600 back of twenty back in twenty seventeen, you know, I 1:27:23.720 --> 1:27:26.880 made a mistake that you know cost me. You know 1:27:27.240 --> 1:27:29.320 a lot of the mistrust that she's happened over the 1:27:29.400 --> 1:27:32.000 past few years. Um. But you know, as a man, 1:27:32.120 --> 1:27:33.720 you know, when you lost somebody, you're gonna do you 1:27:33.840 --> 1:27:36.960 got to do to make things work out right? Well, Uh, 1:27:37.320 --> 1:27:39.439 you know I've been doing that, you know, just kind 1:27:39.479 --> 1:27:41.439 of you know, doing the you know, the romantic things 1:27:41.479 --> 1:27:44.000 that a man should be, you know, buy her nice purses, 1:27:44.160 --> 1:27:46.040 take her out the nice dinners, do things like that, 1:27:46.520 --> 1:27:50.439 but Michael Cole, I no, no, Mike, No, Michael Cole 1:27:50.560 --> 1:27:53.519 is my brother. It's more like more like, okay, okay, 1:27:54.720 --> 1:27:55.840 you know what I'm saying, so so you know what 1:27:55.880 --> 1:27:57.400 I'm saying, so you don't hand them up inness. You 1:27:57.439 --> 1:27:58.960 know what I'm saying. But you know, something kind of 1:27:59.120 --> 1:28:03.040 something kind of happened, you know. I guess like for everybody, 1:28:03.640 --> 1:28:05.320 you know, kind of things kind of like just turn 1:28:05.400 --> 1:28:07.760 for the worst, you know. Uh, you know, I came 1:28:07.880 --> 1:28:10.719 home along one day from work and the doorlocks was changed, 1:28:11.200 --> 1:28:13.439 and uh, I thought that was my weird and I 1:28:13.600 --> 1:28:15.600 was like, yo, you know the doorlock has changed like 1:28:15.720 --> 1:28:18.160 this something more like you need to talk about something, 1:28:18.600 --> 1:28:21.640 and she basically was like acting like real like nahant, 1:28:21.680 --> 1:28:24.000 like she don't know what I'm talking about? Yo, King, 1:28:24.160 --> 1:28:30.280 Get to the point, King, call is that is that 1:28:30.400 --> 1:28:33.120 I'm still paying for her rank while we're not together 1:28:33.200 --> 1:28:35.600 no more right, And it's to the point where I 1:28:35.680 --> 1:28:38.320 feel like it's it's it's in my best interest to 1:28:38.360 --> 1:28:40.160 move on. But I really love her. I bought a ring. 1:28:40.600 --> 1:28:43.519 I wanted to propose to her. We have two kids together. 1:28:44.040 --> 1:28:46.040 You're trying to make it work, but it seems like 1:28:46.120 --> 1:28:48.400 everything that I do. When it comes to paying her bills, 1:28:48.479 --> 1:28:50.960 doing all of these nice things, it ain't really adding up. 1:28:51.600 --> 1:28:52.840 Let me let me tell you first of all, that's 1:28:52.920 --> 1:28:55.360 that's your first mistake. You can't buy somebody's love. You 1:28:55.400 --> 1:28:57.519 can't buy somebody's trusting. That's what you seem like you're 1:28:57.560 --> 1:28:59.760 trying to do. You're throwing money in there. You're buying bags, 1:29:00.000 --> 1:29:02.400 buying shoes. You probably said this in an argument while 1:29:02.400 --> 1:29:04.960 I'm buying you everything you want. That doesn't work. To 1:29:05.160 --> 1:29:07.600 really get back into into her good graces, you have 1:29:07.720 --> 1:29:10.160 to prove that you're not that person anymore. It's not 1:29:10.200 --> 1:29:12.759 a man about buying anything. It's not about buying shoes 1:29:12.840 --> 1:29:16.200 or buying bags or taking out to dinner. It's redating 1:29:16.200 --> 1:29:19.320 and re establishing that trust, like the little things like 1:29:19.720 --> 1:29:22.599 you know, have conversations. Open up your phone to her 1:29:22.640 --> 1:29:24.240 to say, hey, look this is my phone code. I 1:29:24.280 --> 1:29:26.839 would you know, I would never jeopardize my relationship anymore. 1:29:27.160 --> 1:29:29.240 Let her start having that trust in you. Does she 1:29:29.320 --> 1:29:32.280 have your code for your phone? Yeah? Absolutely? All right, 1:29:32.320 --> 1:29:33.519 Well those are the things that you need to do. 1:29:33.640 --> 1:29:35.640 Make sure she has the code to your Instagram. Let 1:29:35.720 --> 1:29:37.680 her know, let her be comfortable with you going out 1:29:37.720 --> 1:29:39.760 and feeling like I would never do this if you 1:29:39.840 --> 1:29:41.320 go out with your boys. Hey, baby, you want to 1:29:41.320 --> 1:29:43.639 come with me like make her feel comfortable. Let look, 1:29:43.680 --> 1:29:46.600 I'm not that person anymore. I made a mistake. I apologize, 1:29:46.600 --> 1:29:48.760 I'm sorry. I'll do anything that I have to do 1:29:48.840 --> 1:29:51.679 to make sure that that you can start trusting me again. 1:29:51.960 --> 1:29:53.680 But it's not gonna start what you trying to buy 1:29:53.760 --> 1:29:55.640 love because when you try to buy love, exactly what 1:29:55.760 --> 1:29:58.400 happens is she realizes that you're doing it. She keeps 1:29:58.439 --> 1:30:01.000 accepting it and just using you for that, and you 1:30:01.080 --> 1:30:03.360 know she's still not whatever's to the point whatever, It's 1:30:03.360 --> 1:30:06.360 to the point where you're doing all of that, but um, 1:30:07.000 --> 1:30:09.320 it's to the point where it's like, you know, there's 1:30:09.360 --> 1:30:14.000 really no romantis, you know, romantis saism in the whole situation. Man, 1:30:14.120 --> 1:30:16.560 she don't trust you because you're a Cheatah, bro, she 1:30:16.640 --> 1:30:19.080 don't trust you because you're a cheating You put yourself 1:30:19.160 --> 1:30:22.919 in that position. Okay, So the best apology is change behavior, 1:30:23.080 --> 1:30:25.640 so she'll grow trust for you when you show her 1:30:25.840 --> 1:30:28.960 that you ain't cheating no more. And I understand what 1:30:29.040 --> 1:30:31.880 it's talking about, but f all that buy her everything too, 1:30:32.200 --> 1:30:35.000 So change your behavior and ball out, all right, you 1:30:35.080 --> 1:30:37.679 gotta do both. It's crazy. It's crazy though that happened 1:30:37.720 --> 1:30:40.519 in twenty seventeen. It's twenty twenty, right, And that's the 1:30:40.640 --> 1:30:42.880 problem too. What you gotta wreck because you're still cheating. 1:30:43.200 --> 1:30:46.360 You can't tell somebody how to how to feel. Like 1:30:46.640 --> 1:30:48.559 a lot of guys they said, like, I ain't cheating 1:30:48.600 --> 1:30:50.400 the year. That doesn't mean she don't steal that. Bro, 1:30:50.560 --> 1:30:54.280 he's still cheating. You're still cheating. Tell the truth. Let'ten 1:30:54.360 --> 1:30:56.800 tell the truth between us. Tell the truth, my brother. 1:30:57.040 --> 1:30:59.400 Tell the truth. I bought a ring. I bought a 1:30:59.479 --> 1:31:01.519 ring my brother, So you know that something. So I 1:31:01.560 --> 1:31:04.760 don't ask you that have you cheated since she cheated? Absolutely, 1:31:05.800 --> 1:31:09.400 promise to God? Not promise to God? All right, good 1:31:09.439 --> 1:31:11.280 because God know if you lying, and if you lying, 1:31:11.320 --> 1:31:13.400 He's not gonna bless you what you want. That's the problem. 1:31:13.479 --> 1:31:15.040 That's the problem that I'm handing right now is that 1:31:15.120 --> 1:31:17.040 it's the fact that I'm working my ass off for it. 1:31:17.120 --> 1:31:18.960 I ain't you know, I give her an answer. She 1:31:19.080 --> 1:31:22.400 trying to take a mile, Well that's give her that mile, yes, 1:31:22.439 --> 1:31:24.559 because any way, the same way you took that poem 1:31:24.600 --> 1:31:26.880 poem from another woman. Your man should be able to 1:31:26.920 --> 1:31:29.040 take that mile, So give her that mile and be 1:31:29.160 --> 1:31:32.120 willing to go the extra mile for Okay, change your 1:31:32.200 --> 1:31:35.720 behavior and ball out. But before you ball out, you 1:31:35.840 --> 1:31:38.000 have to get to the side where you understand what 1:31:38.080 --> 1:31:40.360 you did wrong and apologize. You just can't bawl out 1:31:40.360 --> 1:31:42.240 because it'll be for nothing. Then when you get to 1:31:42.320 --> 1:31:45.320 that point, then you boil out. Where enough? Where's the 1:31:45.360 --> 1:31:47.560 point where enoughers enough? If I'm doing all of that 1:31:47.640 --> 1:31:50.439 and I get we needed bro, you cheated, You ain't 1:31:50.479 --> 1:31:53.960 no problem you did. Yeah, there's no time no time 1:31:54.040 --> 1:31:57.000 limit when she can get over it. You did what's wrong? 1:31:57.240 --> 1:31:59.760 You can't say okay, well I be still briething. Yes, 1:32:00.439 --> 1:32:02.160 you think you just can't have unprotected sex with a 1:32:02.200 --> 1:32:04.280 girl three years ago and they come back to her 1:32:04.720 --> 1:32:08.920 and think she don't trust you. It's your fault. Okay. 1:32:10.120 --> 1:32:14.559 Like Belie Yoga said, step up, have a blest day, 1:32:14.840 --> 1:32:19.240 Have a blessed day, brother, good luck as cne eight 1:32:19.360 --> 1:32:22.080 hundred five eight five one O five one. So don't move. 1:32:22.120 --> 1:32:25.679 It's to breakfast slogan Morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy 1:32:25.840 --> 1:32:28.760 Angela Yee Charlemagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club. 1:32:28.840 --> 1:32:30.880 Now leave us on a positive note. Hey, listen man. 1:32:31.000 --> 1:32:34.679 My positive notice simply this, people demand freedom of speech 1:32:35.000 --> 1:32:37.519 as a compensation for the freedom of thought, which they 1:32:37.640 --> 1:32:40.639 seldom use. The Breakfast Club