Speaker 1: Second d the guy on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: Date update today feels like he was the victim of
Speaker 1: a pity date. You know what that is where somebody
Speaker 1: goes out with you just because they know that you
Speaker 1: like him a lot, so they throw you a bone
Speaker 1: and then never call you again. That's what he's worried about.
Speaker 1: His name is Dave. Dave. I've been out on a
Speaker 1: lot of pity dates in my day, A lot of them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's usually me taking pity on the girl A right,
Speaker 1: you know, sure, fine, all right, if you keep asking,
Speaker 1: I guess I'll go out with you. So I've never
Speaker 1: been in your shoes, Dave. But first of all, tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about the girl that you went
Speaker 1: out with. What's her name? All right here, you guys. Um,
Speaker 1: So her name is Emma, And okay, we worked together
Speaker 1: for three years, um, and I always liked her. You know,
Speaker 1: she's she's got freckles and red hair. She's just so cute.
Speaker 1: And so the whole time we were we got a
Speaker 1: long great. Yeah, did you guys flirt at work? I
Speaker 1: thought we did. Well, She's like, she's no longer here, so,
Speaker 1: I mean, so after your date she quit, well, she
Speaker 1: had put Yeah, I guess, I mean put in. What
Speaker 1: do you Okay, I'm very confused now, Dave. All right,
Speaker 1: your email said that she was a co worker. You
Speaker 1: guys worked together. Yeah, but I mean she found another job.
Speaker 1: She said she was leaving for another better job. Okay,
Speaker 1: and this is before your date or after your date.
Speaker 1: She found the job before our date, but she left
Speaker 1: like right after our date. Okay, okay, all right, that
Speaker 1: was just the confusing part. So did you feel like
Speaker 1: you guys were flirty at work when she was there?
Speaker 1: I did? Yes. Why why did it take you three
Speaker 1: years to work up enough courage to ask her out? Well?
Speaker 1: I don't know, because she's she's not She's not there
Speaker 1: like one night stank kind of girl, you know, somebody
Speaker 1: that I really liked and thought it could go. I
Speaker 1: don't know, progress some more. Let me ask you a question, Dave. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you got a lot of one night stand girls in
Speaker 1: your life, because I can't picture you really looking up
Speaker 1: a lot of one night stands. Man, I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to be mean. Nah, you know that's not just that's
Speaker 1: just not me. Okay, No, right, So what did you
Speaker 1: guys do on your date? Well, first of all, how
Speaker 1: did you finally get up the courage to ask her out? Then? Um, well,
Speaker 1: it was her last day and she was in the
Speaker 1: break room. Oh, I just it's now or never, so
Speaker 1: I U. I approached her and I told her that
Speaker 1: I know we've been friends for this long. I've liked
Speaker 1: you since the moment I saw you, and I'd hate
Speaker 1: to have you leave without me doing this, So you know,
Speaker 1: I know I would regret it if I didn't do it.
Speaker 1: I said, well, you go out to dinner with me tonight.
Speaker 1: Did you say it exactly like that, will you go
Speaker 1: out to dinner with me tonight? Or was it a
Speaker 1: little smoother than that day? Ah? I guess it was
Speaker 1: a little like that. I mean, if you gave her
Speaker 1: all that other information about how you've wanted to ask
Speaker 1: her out since day one, what was her reaction? I mean,
Speaker 1: did she seem taken aback or was she kind of
Speaker 1: like oh? Uh? I guess a little both. That's why. Uh,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was pity or if it
Speaker 1: was like she was swept off her feet sort of
Speaker 1: thing endearing. Yeah, You's so you can't tell if she
Speaker 1: was really interested or she was just like, oh, that's sweet.
Speaker 1: I'll go out with him. Yeah. No, I mean the
Speaker 1: reason I thought no there was a pity dates because, um,
Speaker 1: you know, we had a great time. Um, you know,
Speaker 1: I had a drink or two. Um. But then after,
Speaker 1: you know, she wanted to hang out with her friends.
Speaker 1: She was meeting up with some friends, and and then,
Speaker 1: like every time I tried to talk to her, she
Speaker 1: says she's too busy at work. Okay, So at the
Speaker 1: end of the date, she didn't invite you along to
Speaker 1: go meet her friends. She just left. Yeah, did you
Speaker 1: get a kiss or anything like that on the cheek?
Speaker 1: You got a kiss on the cheek. She said you
Speaker 1: want to meet her friends. She's texted you back though.
Speaker 1: That's nice because normally people just ignore someone if they
Speaker 1: don't want to see him again. Oh yeah, okay, And
Speaker 1: what you said that she? What has she said to you? Well,
Speaker 1: she says she's too busy right now. Okay, that's a
Speaker 1: pretty standard blowoff statement right there. So yeah, Dave, you've
Speaker 1: been blown off. Basically, what exactly are you hoping to
Speaker 1: get out of the second date? Update? This is a
Speaker 1: girl I've liked her for three years, so I first
Speaker 1: I want to know is if it, it's a pretty date,
Speaker 1: and if not, I want to see where this can go. Okay,
Speaker 1: you think you can convince her to go out with
Speaker 1: you again? Yeah? I do, if you know so much
Speaker 1: I like her. All right, well we're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on you okay, what are you
Speaker 1: doing over there? Days? Yeah? What are you doing? Just
Speaker 1: little nervous, So you're okay, you're nervous. So what are
Speaker 1: you doing? Yeah, it sounds like you're shuffling papers and
Speaker 1: sometimes I get a little lightheaded. I'm just breathing, all right,
Speaker 1: Hey man, all right, so hang out, breathe for like
Speaker 1: four minutes, and then we'll be back and do your
Speaker 1: second day update. Okay, all right, cool, thanks, all right,
Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning. Second dates. You know, normally,
Speaker 1: at the beginning of these second date updates are trying
Speaker 1: to say something funny to make everybody laugh. But today
Speaker 1: I'm just hoping Dave is still alive. Dave, you're there, Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, if you missed the first part of the
Speaker 1: second date update, Dave is on the phone. He wants
Speaker 1: us to call this girl named Emma. She's a co worker,
Speaker 1: or she was a co worker. He asked her out
Speaker 1: the last couple of days before she was leaving because
Speaker 1: he had a crush on her forever they went out.
Speaker 1: She's been blowing him off ever since. But the interesting
Speaker 1: part was when we finished up talking to Dave about
Speaker 1: his date. You were all over the place, man like
Speaker 1: you sounded like you were about ready to pass out.
Speaker 1: Are you doing okay? Yeah, I'm just a little nervous.
Speaker 1: Okay is this normal for you? I guess anything. Just
Speaker 1: to let you know, Dave, we do have paramedics standing by,
Speaker 1: all right, I've already alerted them, so if you pass out,
Speaker 1: you'll be okay, Okay, thank you. Okay, all right, man,
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna dial the phone him right now and
Speaker 1: ask her about your date. Okay, it's paper shuffling thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what is it? Dave? Yeah, you're good? Yeah? Yeah, all right, No,
Speaker 1: he said, no, I'm going right now because I want
Speaker 1: to lose day. Huh. I was looking for Emma. This
Speaker 1: is Emma, Emma, how are you? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, you ever
Speaker 1: listened to our radio show? No, I'm not really in
Speaker 1: the car at that time. So okay, Well, you recently
Speaker 1: went out on a date with one of our listeners
Speaker 1: and he liked you a lot, so he wanted me
Speaker 1: to call you. See if I get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask why you've been blowing him off since
Speaker 1: you guys went out. Okay, who told you that? His
Speaker 1: name is Dave? Oh? You know Dave? You used to
Speaker 1: work with Dave. We've talked to him and he's a
Speaker 1: very nice guy. But he's just curious if he did
Speaker 1: something wrong on your date, and that's why you've been
Speaker 1: kind of blowing him off, giving him the busy excuse. Um,
Speaker 1: he's a really nice guy. He is a sweet person.
Speaker 1: He's not really my type of guy. But I really
Speaker 1: didn't even know we were going out on a date.
Speaker 1: Oh did you think it was a friendship thing? Well? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we worked here for many years, he's always so
Speaker 1: sweet to me. He'd always like bring me coffee from
Speaker 1: the break room. And when I told him I was leaving,
Speaker 1: he looked really upset, and so I thought we'd, like,
Speaker 1: you know, hang out as coworkers, and so I was leaving.
Speaker 1: You know how people do that when people leave a job,
Speaker 1: maybe never gets together. And I thought that's what he met,
Speaker 1: and I thought that's what we were doing until like
Speaker 1: the day of and he was insisting on picking me up,
Speaker 1: which was like a red flag or I was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I think he thinks this is a date.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question, Emma. When we talked
Speaker 1: to Dave, he said he had a crush on you
Speaker 1: the whole time he was working with you. Did you
Speaker 1: know that he had a crush on you? Or was
Speaker 1: that when it became obvious? Oh no, I mean I
Speaker 1: could tell you know girls now and he yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I could tell you had a little crush on me,
Speaker 1: you know. But I still thought it was just like
Speaker 1: a friendly like we don't have that kind of romantic
Speaker 1: vibe at all as far as I could see, even
Speaker 1: though he had a crush on me. Didn't he tell
Speaker 1: you though? When he asked you out, I've been wanting
Speaker 1: to do this since the day I saw you. He
Speaker 1: was kind of like mumbling, I really wasn't sure sometimes
Speaker 1: of parts I stand always talking about. But like, I
Speaker 1: really thought it was a hangout until like he insisted
Speaker 1: on picking me off at my house and then he
Speaker 1: showed up with like a dozen red roses, So I
Speaker 1: was like, oh no, he definitely thought it was a date.
Speaker 1: Still could have been a work hangout at that point.
Speaker 1: I give all of roses all the time. So at
Speaker 1: that point you knew. At that point, you knew it
Speaker 1: was more than just a co worker hangout. Yeah, for
Speaker 1: one hundred percent, knew, Like, again, he is a really
Speaker 1: sweet person, and he was always he was like, actually
Speaker 1: the nicest to me at my job out of anyone
Speaker 1: for the whole time I worked there. It sounds like
Speaker 1: a really nice guy. We've talked to him a little
Speaker 1: bit about your date that you don't think it should
Speaker 1: have been a date, But did you enjoy it? It
Speaker 1: was so awkward, you guys. It was like he had
Speaker 1: the waitress put his plate like on the same side
Speaker 1: as me, so instead of sitting across like two regular people,
Speaker 1: he sat right next to me. All right, some people
Speaker 1: do that. Though. He's kind of an awkward dude, huh.
Speaker 1: I know him from being a coworker, and he's always
Speaker 1: kind of like mumbling and nervous and awkward. But again,
Speaker 1: he is a really nice person. So I didn't want
Speaker 1: to be you know, I want to let him down
Speaker 1: easy kind of thing, you know, without hurting his feelings.
Speaker 1: But um, like, I've never seen him so nervous, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess so is there anything attractive about him that you?
Speaker 1: I mean, like, if you were to step back and
Speaker 1: try to see him in a romantic light, could you
Speaker 1: He's not the kind of guy I am attracted to you
Speaker 1: you generally, So I bet you he's a stallion in
Speaker 1: the bedroom, Emma, everything about that? No, I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't think so. Well, would you be willing to at
Speaker 1: least tell him the reason why you've been kind of
Speaker 1: blowing him off, instead of just saying that you're busy,
Speaker 1: just let him know, Hey, you're not really my type.
Speaker 1: I think that would be really awkward. I do too.
Speaker 1: I do too, Emma. And that's why I want to
Speaker 1: make it happen, because Dave is actually on the phone
Speaker 1: listening right now. Nous yep, I know I am a
Speaker 1: little nervous first, but I mean I could become the
Speaker 1: man you want me to be. Yeah, I don't think so, Dave.
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of girls out there, you know,
Speaker 1: and I think you should keep trying, you know, to
Speaker 1: maybe find someone that's a better fit for you. Dave,
Speaker 1: are you okay? Man? Yeah? Do you feel like she's
Speaker 1: making the wrong decision here? Well? Yeah, you know, I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do this if I didn't really like like
Speaker 1: her and Emma I go out on more date with me.
Speaker 1: I will. I promised you I won't be awkward like
Speaker 1: you said, Dave. I did have a nice time on
Speaker 1: our date, and I think we really do get along.
Speaker 1: It's just that you're so nervous, and you just seem
Speaker 1: to have so many anxieties that I'm not sure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I'm nervous, but this is just because I
Speaker 1: care about something so much that you know, this comes up.
Speaker 1: But you know, we always got a long Greek very.
Speaker 1: I mean, we did get along really well. And you
Speaker 1: are a really I mean you are a good looking guy.
Speaker 1: Really do you think I'm really good looking? Well? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you are. You're just you know, a little nervous,
Speaker 1: but you are a good looking You're really like handsome face. See, Dave,
Speaker 1: you hear that you're sexy? Yeah, that's the way I
Speaker 1: feel when a girl calls me a good looking too. Man, Dave,
Speaker 1: what do you keep doing? Um? I'm just breathing it Okay, Amma,
Speaker 1: what do you think? I mean, hold on a second, Dave, Dave, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Dude? You're making so much noise?
Speaker 1: What are you doing though? Like, why are you making
Speaker 1: so much noise? It's a paper bag. You're breathing into
Speaker 1: a paper bag. Yeah, okay, but here, I'll put it down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: put the paper bag down for a second if you can.
Speaker 1: All right, Emma, would you like to go? Would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with Dave?
Speaker 1: I will pay for it, give him one more shot.
Speaker 1: He sounds like a great guy. He'll leave the paper
Speaker 1: bag at home, so I won't do again so much.
Speaker 1: I mean, I would say this, and I like all
Speaker 1: the guys I've ever dated, David's definitely like probably the
Speaker 1: sweetest and most caring I consider it, and nicest, Like
Speaker 1: he may not be polished, and he's a little bit
Speaker 1: right around the hedges, you know that. I know he
Speaker 1: would go to the ends of the earth for me,
Speaker 1: you know, so, well, then why not go out with
Speaker 1: him again? The ends of the earth for you? Jesus.
Speaker 1: That sounds like somebody I'd want to spend some time with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really like you. Um, okay, I will go out
Speaker 1: on a date with you, Dave. There you go. Congratulations Dave, Dave, yeah, congratulations,
Speaker 1: you got a second date. Who you gonna be? Okaya?
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you breathing into the back again, Dave, No, No,
Speaker 1: it's so exciting, all right, then keep breathing into the
Speaker 1: back end. In the morning, a lot of people texting
Speaker 1: in at seven eight, five, nine to two saying that
Speaker 1: was their favorite second date update we've ever had, pooral
Speaker 1: nervous Dave. If you missed it, you can hear it
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