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Speaker 2: I was accused of ruining my brother's marriage just by

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Speaker 2: being myself.

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Speaker 3: You should have been someone else then.

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Speaker 2: I'm a thirty female and a sapphag been out in

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Speaker 2: proud since two thousand and five.

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Speaker 3: Dang all right, I think now.

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Speaker 2: I've been living with my brother sister in law since

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Speaker 2: the start of twenty nineteen, a year before quarantine happened.

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Speaker 2: But this drama stuff blew up within the last couple

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Speaker 2: of weeks. By the way, this comes from throw Zone

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Speaker 2: Away And if you want to smit your own stories,

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Speaker 2: go to the r slash Okay Storytime supured it. I'm Sophia,

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Speaker 2: I'm Riley, I'm Keon, and we're here to give good

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Speaker 2: advice Scoofley, But we don't have all the answers results.

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Speaker 3: We only know what we do sometimes, so let us

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Speaker 3: know what you would do in the comments, please.

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Speaker 2: And oh p says So. I asked to move in

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Speaker 2: to bro and sister in law's place for a while

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Speaker 2: so I could save up for a nicer place. My

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Speaker 2: last apartment was an a bad area and I didn't

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Speaker 2: feel safe. They agreed because they know how dangerous my

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Speaker 2: place was, and BRO thought it would be a good

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Speaker 2: idea for sister in law to have someone around while

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Speaker 2: he was gone.

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Speaker 3: Ye.

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Speaker 2: FYI, he's a truck driver and is gone for over

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Speaker 2: a week at a time and had to leave sister

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Speaker 2: in law home alone day.

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Speaker 3: This seems like a good situation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone's happy, all right. Well, their house isn't a mansion,

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Speaker 2: but it's roomy enough to where I could have my

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Speaker 2: then friends with benefits over some nights a week without

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Speaker 2: worrying that I'd be disturbing sister in law. Their bedroom

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Speaker 2: is across the house from my room guest room. I

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Speaker 2: asked if it was cool with both beforehand, and they

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Speaker 2: said as long as I and anyone I brought over

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Speaker 2: was quiet and respectful, it'd be okay.

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Speaker 3: Oh right, I think.

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Speaker 2: That's a fair rule.

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Speaker 3: Everything's chill, Yeah, you have to be real chill around here.

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Speaker 3: You can just hear everything through the walls. That's not

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Speaker 3: I think that's only true for Christian Christian and Sam.

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Speaker 2: I can't hear anything in my room like even when

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Speaker 2: people even even when people are like walking through the hallways,

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Speaker 2: I can't I can't hear you.

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Speaker 3: Why you can't hear people walk through the hallways?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I can hear people walk through the hallways, but

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Speaker 2: they can't hear me. Like if I like say, like, hey, Sam,

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Speaker 4: It's because your room's like it's weird. It's connected to

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Speaker 4: not no one else, that's why.

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Speaker 2: But it's just so strange that like people in the

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's on you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, maybe hellow please, I could be dying

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Speaker 4: Maybe they all made a funny pact of like if

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Speaker 3: Doesn't need help.

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Speaker 2: So I would regularly bring over friends with benefits, girlfriends

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Speaker 2: if I was dating at the time, but that all

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Speaker 2: stopped once quarantine happened party poopers, as as quarantine stopped

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Speaker 2: most things. Well, Bro and I still have her jobs.

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Speaker 2: Sister in law and I've been hanging out more since

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Speaker 2: we're pretty much the only company we get. But I

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Speaker 2: into the quarantine. I figured it was just cavit fever jitterus. Understandable.

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Speaker 2: But then the last few times Bro came home, things

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Speaker 2: home a couple of days ago and things were still tense.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even eat dinner with them. I just ate

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Speaker 2: with you, probably the only answer that's it.

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Speaker 3: I could totally see that this is a good setup

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Speaker 3: for a movie too.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. It's like husband's always gone and then your

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Speaker 2: of Christmas. It's a Hallmark movie.

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Speaker 4: Pretty sure there's this also, this type of movie in

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Speaker 4: other places that we can't bring up.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you gotta get off that. But after dinner, I

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Speaker 2: heard yelling from the other side of the house.

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Speaker 4: What your minds are in the gutter?

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Speaker 2: I think your screen time is in the gutter.

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Speaker 3: Boom.

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Speaker 2: Oh. But after dinner I heard yelling from the other

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Speaker 2: into my room and started cussing me out, saying I

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Speaker 2: heck was even happening. I don't think I have enough

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Speaker 2: But apparently sister in law was a closeted taffic whoa

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Speaker 2: lot twist a lot twist. Hey, what is that?

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Speaker 3: What does that mean for Bro? Then?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what I'm trying to figure out. Does she

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Speaker 2: mean that she doesn't like men at all? Or is

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Speaker 3: I could see they get married, she kind of likes

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Speaker 3: But then while he's gone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's getting close to Op's.

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Speaker 3: Just law is looking pretty hot. You know, Op's looking

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Speaker 3: pretty hot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're there for each other. Her husband's always out

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Speaker 3: Emotional connection probably goes farther than physical connection.

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Speaker 2: She came out to Bro after dinner. She explained that

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Speaker 2: seeing me be so happy and out made it hard

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Speaker 2: for her to keep up the lie.

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Speaker 4: Whoa, Wow, that's kind of throwing you under the bus. Ope. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: she's you know what, she's happy.

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Speaker 2: Happy.

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Speaker 4: I wish I could be happy, but this is this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's rough. I'm still speechless because I had no

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Speaker 2: clue she was anything but straight. I'm not saying gaydar

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Speaker 2: is real, but usually I'll at least get a vibe.

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Speaker 2: But then Bro says, I'm an evil, a hole and

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Speaker 2: I turned his wife into a saffic and how he

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Speaker 2: never should have let me move in.

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Speaker 3: Dude, whoa dude?

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe what your wife already was attracted to women

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Speaker 2: and two Like, honestly, this isn't his fault, but it

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Speaker 2: does make it very hard when you're constantly gone just

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Speaker 2: on any marriage, I think, not even like when you

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Speaker 4: I'd be like, don't hate the player, hate the game.

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Speaker 2: The game.

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Speaker 3: I have been in a scenario where I dated a

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Speaker 4: You dated a girl.

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh my god. And then now she's with another woman,

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Speaker 3: and as the guy, it's saying, she probably will never

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Speaker 3: you know, wow, she just likes this new woman.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe she just really likes women, and maybe.

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Speaker 2: She just likes swimming swimming, or she just likes swimming.

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Speaker 2: She got really into freaking water polo getting wet. Okay,

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Speaker 2: sister in law told him to stop saying she would

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Speaker 2: have come out eventually with or without me there. I

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Speaker 2: that's I get it. Is it her fault at all?

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Speaker 2: And is he being pretty unfair to Oh? Yeah, Like

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Speaker 2: it's not her fault. He is being unfair. However, I

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Speaker 2: is kind of Yeah, I don't necessarily want them in

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Speaker 3: All out, and it is complicated because it is a sister. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it would be. If they're going to repair the marriage,

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Speaker 3: the problem, Yeah should be away, not saying she caused

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Speaker 2: But but you know, you can't really repair and we

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Speaker 2: still don't know, Like it seems like she's someone implying

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Speaker 3: She just got a beard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like Duchessa says the wife chose a guy

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Speaker 3: What do you call it for a wig? Eyebrows, eyelashes?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think we had a word for this.

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Speaker 2: Would it not just also I want to call it eyelash?

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Speaker 3: Would it not just also be a beard? Row? Beards?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, most, but they have a man as that that's

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Speaker 3: Think eyelashes? I don't think so. Wigs sounds better actually wigs? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah? That was heartbreaking because he really looked like he

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Speaker 2: I mean, you didn't do anything. Sister in lawn bro

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Speaker 2: And there are some relevant comments, But what do you

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Speaker 4: No, you didn't do it any Yeah, you literally didn't.

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Speaker 4: You existed the fact that she used you as a

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Speaker 4: scape not necessarily a scapegoat. But she's like, uh oh

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Speaker 3: I do think that she.

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Speaker 2: Could have kind of separated it from you all together

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Speaker 4: You know, or it was op inspired you to do this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you did something. I don't think she should

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Speaker 3: This is going to trigger Sophia and I can't wait

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Speaker 3: to tell her. Oh boy, there's something similar happening in

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Speaker 3: my family where one person believes that the world is

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Speaker 3: flat and now another family member also believe that the

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Speaker 3: in the same boat as what we're reading here, this

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Speaker 3: situation why you're so annoyed, But like, is the person

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, but wouldn't you.

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Speaker 3: Say like it maybe like made them think and like

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Speaker 3: the world as not around object and as a flat one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they would be the A hole.

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Speaker 3: I feel like this is in the same boat.

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Speaker 3: I think the person that that that no one was

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Speaker 3: Oh man, put love. I gotta make a phone call.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, do you like me in a romantic way?

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Speaker 4: Why?

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Speaker 4: I mean you already you already turned one girl's.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she didn't cheat on him.

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Speaker 2: She didn't you know, start hitting on Ope, she came

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Speaker 3: It makes sense that your first reaction is the blame, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Absolutely like she did. She there is that. I'm sure

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Speaker 3: But again they got twenty four to seven gyms, so

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Speaker 3: so he'll be fine going on the road. Yeah, that'd

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tough for everyone, I think. In the story

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Speaker 2: I moved out, got my new place and it's pretty nice. Okay,

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Speaker 2: it's weird not having anyone here when I get back

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Speaker 2: from work, but I'm sure that's just because I've been

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Speaker 2: all just want to hear about my bro and sister

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Speaker 2: in law and not my new place. No, I wanted

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Speaker 3: Okay, beautiful. That's also kind of sad coming.

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Speaker 2: Home and round there. Sorry, not row In rowing Ronin,

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Speaker 3: Well, it is kind of sad coming home and no one.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna be with someone forever. I'm always

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Speaker 3: But there isn't gonna be a solo living. That's it.

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Speaker 2: I just I have friends who live by themselves and

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Speaker 2: I love having my alone time in my Oh no, Ron,

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Speaker 3: Yes, what'd you say? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No too, Like. The only knowledge that we have for

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Speaker 2: we have no proof that Oh you said, is she Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I thought you said she is? This is real.

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Speaker 3: I was like, no, how much story we got, like

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Speaker 2: There is a possibility. Okay, bro and sister in law

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, checks out. I moved out before we

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Proud, but I sort of flipped my crap on him

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Speaker 2: I feel about cheaters. I told him it hurts to

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Speaker 2: apologized for everything, going ballistic on me, kicking me out

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Speaker 2: during a pandemic. That is such a good point that

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Speaker 2: I forgot. Obviously he's going through it, but like, pretty

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Speaker 3: Hard to fund housing, everything was skyrocketing.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, thinking I'd cheat with anyone. Everything I told

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Speaker 2: He said I didn't have to move out, but I

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Speaker 2: Some of you said I shouldn't have to. I shouldn't

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Speaker 2: say it's okay, because it's not how he treated me.

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Speaker 2: Isn't okay? Yeah, I think that's a really important point

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Speaker 3: This guy knows what's up. He knows he did wrong. Absolutely,

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Speaker 3: his life. Yeah, that's tough, man.

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00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 2: But he told me he and sister in law were

440
00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 2: definitely splitting up. I told him, I figured, so what

441
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,520
Speaker 2: with everything. No counseling can save a marriage where one

442
00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,760
Speaker 2: partner is attracted to the same gender. But I didn't

443
00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 2: say that, just that I thought so. He tried to

444
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,119
Speaker 2: lighten the mood by saying he asked sister in law

445
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,879
Speaker 2: about the cheating thing first, and she flipped her crap

446
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,320
Speaker 2: on him even worse than I did. He said it jokingly,

447
00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 2: but I could tell he was serious. Asked what she said,

448
00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 2: and he sounded awkward, but said she told him I

449
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,919
Speaker 2: found out I was attracted to the same gender, but

450
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 2: that doesn't mean I'm some cheating witch. That and just

451
00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,600
Speaker 2: how he was gross for thinking she'd screw some kided

452
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 2: Thanks for that. Oh, I guess hope he must be younger.

453
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,640
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, and she probably sees him as a kid. Yeah,

454
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 3: sees her.

455
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,600
Speaker 2: As a kid, let alone her husband's kids. Sister that

456
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 2: she's known since said kid was a minor. Also that

457
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,720
Speaker 2: it was messed up that he just automatically assumed she

458
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,160
Speaker 2: would hop on the first attracted the same gender woman

459
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,000
Speaker 2: in her vicinity when they were still very much married.

460
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 3: That's how it works. Someone finds out.

461
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 2: That you know, and then they just it's like a

462
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 2: radar goes off and they go up the magnets and

463
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 2: that's it. It was just all around, not received well

464
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,800
Speaker 2: by sister in law, which I can understand. Being accused

465
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 2: of cheating by people you love effing hurts. Last I checked,

466
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,480
Speaker 2: things were civil between Bro and sister in law. She

467
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 2: moved fully into the other bedroom so she and he

468
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 2: could have space, I guess for when he was home.

469
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,439
Speaker 2: Sister in law is trying to move their divorce along,

470
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 2: but from what I've heard, Bro's sort of dragging his feet.

471
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on there, and I haven't asked,

472
00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 2: not my business to be honest hard. Yeah, I mean,

473
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 2: he's probably still in love with her. She's had three

474
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: years to realize I'm not to break up, Yeah, to

475
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: basically break up in her mind and make that kind

476
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 2: of slow separation between how she expected her life to

477
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 2: go and you know, the reality. And he's just finding

478
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 2: this all out right now, and that's so tough that

479
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 2: to our family is disappointed but that they're splitting, but

480
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 2: with the circumstances, they understand it's necessary. I talked to

481
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: Bro a few times a week, just texting, but I

482
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 2: told them about how there are support groups for spouses

483
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 2: whose partners came out as attracted to the same gender,

484
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: and that he should.

485
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 3: Check them out.

486
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:44,880
Speaker 2: Wow.

487
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,159
Speaker 3: I didn't know that it would help him through this.

488
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 3: I would this is evil, but I would love to

489
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 3: just go there just to get everyone's story and then

490
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 3: bring it here.

491
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 2: I's going to go to support groups like fight Club,

492
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 2: like the guy in fight who just goes to all

493
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,879
Speaker 2: the support groups, except you're just trying to steal the stories.

494
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 3: Exactly that That's what I'm gonna do, a profit off

495
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 3: of them.

496
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 2: He sounded hesitant, but said he'd looked into it, so

497
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: that's good. I don't know if he will, but I hope.

498
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 2: So there is a little left to this story. Any

499
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,120
Speaker 2: final thought.

500
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 3: On what do you think?

501
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 4: I mean? I feel like your brother is coming from

502
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 4: a place of just like shock. Yeah, so taking with

503
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 4: a grain of salt. He's just trying to, you know,

504
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 4: point the finger and just like and it's obviously gonna

505
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,119
Speaker 4: be you and then jumping the cheatings would be the

506
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 4: first thing. I feel like your relationship's gonna be okay.

507
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 4: I think he's gonna be okay, just over time and

508
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 4: just understand, like put yourself in his shoes and if

509
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 4: it's like kind of reversed on you, yeah you how

510
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 4: would you react? So it does suck, especially he's in

511
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,719
Speaker 4: the middle of his marriage. It sucks, so you can

512
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 4: support him especially, you know, maybe the arm's length. Yeah,

513
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 4: I think it'd be okay.

514
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 3: Yeah. Question what what is the mascot of the support

515
00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: group of like where people find out their partners her

516
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 3: groups have mascots. What would this mascot?

517
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 2: I don't think I even have one. I am going

518
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 2: to give my thoughts. Will you think about a mascot

519
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 2: for a support group? Come on, I'm gonna give my thoughts.

520
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: I think I agree with Kean at the end of

521
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 2: the day. I think that there isn't really an a

522
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 2: hole in the story. I think brother did act just incredibly,

523
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 2: like rudely, unjustifiably, but it is, you know, understandable because

524
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 2: he was going through this kind of crazy revelation. And

525
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 2: I think that sister in law, you know, did hurt

526
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 2: brother in law a lot in holding up that like

527
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 2: lie for three years.

528
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 4: Did you expect your brother to just be like, oh,

529
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 4: I'm so happy for you, Yeah, I'd go on.

530
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 2: Like, So it's like they're going through this incredibly hard

531
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,959
Speaker 2: time trying to figure out what to do, how they

532
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: fit together, how they don't fit together anymore. So I

533
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 2: think this is all just a hard situation.

534
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, not fun.

535
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,239
Speaker 4: Especially when like the rug pulled from under you, just

536
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 4: like that, the what if snowball or what how did

537
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 4: this happen? Like what caused this? It really rolls down

538
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 4: that hill very quickly.

539
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we got fruity pebbles.

540
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 2: That's a good one. Can just have cereal every every.

541
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 3: Meeting, Lucky charms. No, they've got rainbows in there, a sphinx.

542
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: I think Lucky Times works because you have like rainbow

543
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: marshmallows hat like amongst what did you think amongst plain cereal?

544
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 4: You know?

545
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 3: So I feel like it's a it's a it's a representation. Mmm,

546
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 3: I see what you're saying. Fruit loops o p says.

547
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 2: I also pointed sister in law in the direction of

548
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 2: some threads for people who realized they were attracted to

549
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 2: the same gender while in a straight relationship. She was

550
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 2: thankful and that's about it. I still speak to sister

551
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 2: in law. I'd feel like crap just cutting her off

552
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 2: like some people suggested. She's like my big sister. I've

553
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 2: known her for years and aside from this, she's been

554
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: nothing but the best wife and sister in law ever.

555
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 2: So I don't know. We're all moving forward. Sorry, nothing

556
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 2: super dramatic happened, but at least it wasn't a sad update.

557
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 2: Peace everyone, Thanks for helping me work this out.

558
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, get a pet your new apartment or something, so

559
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 3: take care of. Yeah, my urge for a dog has

560
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 3: left me, but it's coming back, coming back. I would

561
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 3: love to have a dog, Yeah, a little dog. My

562
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 3: mother in law is convinced that she is engaged to

563
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 3: Keanu Reeves.

564
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 2: Well, that was probably a speedy marriage. Oh my, that's

565
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 2: one of the movie season right, I know, okay, good speed.

566
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: Yeah I know. But if I said that was probably

567
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 2: a speed marriage.

568
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 3: That my mother in law met some random Internet stranger

569
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 3: who convinced her he is Keanu Reeves, this is me

570
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 3: going on for about a year.

571
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 2: One time Keanu Reeves liked one of my mom's Facebook

572
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: comments and she was so excited for like a month.

573
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 4: Heardy soon?

574
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah maybe maybe it was this person. Did you trick

575
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 2: my mom?

576
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 3: You'm better not of She fully believes that they are engaged.

577
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 3: She will be getting married to him next month. Tbh.

578
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: I think your mom needs to like go to a clinic.

579
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 3: Yes, this is absolutely as crazy as it sounds. By

580
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from Mama of three twenty eight

581
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 3: and if you want to your own stories, go to

582
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: the r slash okay story tom subreddits. I'm Riley, I'm Sophia.

583
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 4: I'm key on New Reeves and we're here to give

584
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 4: good advice.

585
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 3: Goofully. Guess what. We don't have all of the answers.

586
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 3: We only know what we do, So let us know

587
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 3: what you would do in the comments down below. So

588
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 3: Opie says, ask me anything about the situation, and I'll

589
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 3: happily answer it. Comments. Is this her first time doing

590
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 3: something like this?

591
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 2: Is an excellent comment, Like like last month, she's like,

592
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: I'm getting married to Pedro Pascal.

593
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 3: But I had to turn away Johnny Cash.

594
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 2: I couldn't do Johnny Cash. I love his music, but

595
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 2: I just don't think he's alive anymore.

596
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 3: Just like that cute little Mexican boy that is.

597
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: I don't think I was gonna say, mustache take some

598
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 2: Mexican boy.

599
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 3: I thought I thought it was in the movie Eddington.

600
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 3: Didn't they say he was Mexican in that movie?

601
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 4: Probably I don't.

602
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 3: I actually don't think is he Mexican in that movie

603
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 3: or is Hispanic? Rather movie are you talking about Eddington?

604
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not Mexican, He's Jiland.

605
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 3: I didn't did they say that in the movie, because

606
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 3: I watched the movie and they were like, because he was.

607
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 4: That probably Joaquin Phoenix called the Mexican I remember, I

608
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 4: remember that movie.

609
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, because he was being racist, yes, yeah, yeah,

610
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 2: that's why. Dang it for you don't understand the racist

611
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 2: guy in the movie said it.

612
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 3: Guys, look he was Hispanic. Okay, yeah, No, I love Petrum.

613
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 3: He is always dying in the most craziest way.

614
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 2: I know. Why are they always killing him? He just

615
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 2: like It's terrible.

616
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,239
Speaker 3: That one was hard to watch too, Sorry to hear

617
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 3: about it. Something similar happened to my aunt. She is

618
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 3: a bit detached from the world and lives with her parents,

619
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 3: but is generally a good person. She met some online

620
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 3: prints or that sort of nonsense and drain a good

621
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 3: chunk of her heart earned savings. Opie says she's extremely

622
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 3: naive to scams, dog puppy scams, sick people needing prayer

623
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 3: and money. Scammer's saying that they will wipe her accounts

624
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 3: if she doesn't send hundreds of dollars in gift cards

625
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 3: to them, she has been scammed in job offers and

626
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 3: paying for applications that don't exist. It's really bad. She

627
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 3: will not stop and she will not accept any kind

628
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 3: of help.

629
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 2: At that point. I would. I don't know if you

630
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 2: can do this, but there is kind of like an

631
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 2: executor thing, you know, when someone's being scammed so often,

632
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 2: you can kind of prove that they are not capable

633
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: of taking care of their money. Okay, if you can

634
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 2: show that she literally is not able to live off

635
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 2: of her like income anymore because she has been scammed

636
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 2: so often.

637
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 3: Oh, or if.

638
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 2: You are ever providing her money, then that needs to

639
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: stop and you need to kind of distance yourself because

640
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: this is a person who is like willfully going down

641
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 2: this hole. Yeah, and you can't, you know, pull her

642
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 2: out if she doesn't want to be pulled out coming too.

643
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: It's a super common scam. They will say things like

644
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 3: they're going through a divorce and they're soon to be

645
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 3: ex wife has stolen all their money, or their evil

646
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 3: manager has taken control of their bank accounts.

647
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 2: I'm just imagining she gets a message that says, hey,

648
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: Keanu reeves here, my evil manager has stolen all my money.

649
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 2: I'd love to marry you. I saw you across the

650
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: Facebook post and thought you were really hot.

651
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 3: Would you give me one hundred dollars?

652
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 4: Have you not seen those like funny memes online where

653
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 4: it's like, hey Michael Jackson here, You're like, I'm alive still,

654
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 4: I just need like a thousand dollars and they listen

655
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 4: like a thing like it's me, trust me.

656
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: He he like, yeah, it's me, Michael Jackson. I'm alive

657
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 2: and I need money. Ronan says, Sophia's stopped reading I love.

658
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 3: You're right, Maybe she is dating.

659
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 4: Maybe it is actually Keanu. He is a nice guy.

660
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I no jokes on everyone else. Yeah, I know

661
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Speaker 3: it's it could be the evil Mander.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's John here og host of the show. We're

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Speaker 3: Okay, you should show her the YouTube channel Catfished, not

666
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 3: the AMTV show. I'm pretty sure there's even an episode

667
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 3: about someone pertaining to be Keanu Reeves find that says, yes,

668
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 3: that's exactly why she's sending the money. He can answer

669
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 3: that he is divorcing his wife, but they are not

670
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: telling the press, so nobody knows. Isn't his wife dead?

671
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 3: Keanu Reeves wife is he?

672
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 4: I think he has a new partner.

673
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 3: Uh, I was about to make a joke about that.

674
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: I looked at Keanu Reeves wide. Keanu Reeves does not

675
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: have a wife, but he has been in a long term,

676
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: reallyationship with visual artist Alexandra Grant since around twenty eighteen.

677
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: He was previously in relationship with late Jennifer Syme.

678
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 4: She's the one who passed away yeh, nineteen ninety.

679
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: Eight until her passing in two thousand and one. Yeah,

680
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: so he's not even married.

681
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 3: Oh and Pedro Pascal is from Chile. I already did

682
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 3: you know?

683
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 4: We knew this man.

684
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 3: I had to make sure, momboy, I'm gonna get roasted

685
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 3: for that one.

686
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

687
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 3: So he told her that the divorce is really messy.

688
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 3: So the wife is withholding all of his money, so

689
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 3: he's essentially broke.

690
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 2: I think that you gotta go to your mom and

691
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 2: you don't. You don't go like the route of what

692
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: are you talking about? That's not it's obviously not Keanu Reeves.

693
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: You go, hey, mom, Keanu Reeves isn't married. We just

694
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: start there. We just say he's not married.

695
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 3: What would also be nice is if Keanu Reeves is

696
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: on CAMEO. Yeah, you could pay him.

697
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you say, Keanu Reeves, I need your help. I

698
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 2: need you to tell my mom that you're not marrying her.

699
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 2: Maybe would go straight to the source. I feel like

700
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: he'd do it. I feel like if any celebrity would

701
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 2: do it, I think Keanu would do it.

702
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 4: I'd be like, could Keanu come over? I sho want

703
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 4: to meet him? Yeah, I just want to talk to

704
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 4: the guy.

705
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 2: Just want to have a conversation because you're about to

706
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 2: marry my mother.

707
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 3: Come at three, she topped my mother. My mother was

708
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 3: convinced that she was dating an oil rig worker. Classic scam.

709
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 3: The classic scam to marry an oil rig worker to

710
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 3: use some actors photos along with AI generated ones. We

711
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 3: showed my mom all sorts of posed about oil rig

712
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 3: scams and also forms where people said these photos were

713
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 3: used in a scam attempt, and she still believed it.

714
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 3: She sent twelve thousand dollars and later tried to send

715
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,479
Speaker 3: another twenty k when her credit union stopped her and

716
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 3: the police got involved.

717
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 2: Genuinely, I think there is some sort of like mental

718
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 2: help needed here. Dude, guys, that's that's crazy. Can we can,

719
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 2: as anyone have to work with a family member with

720
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 2: this stuff. Yeah, because at the point where she's trying

721
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: to send third dollars, yeah, to a person that she's

722
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 2: never met consistently, like she's done this multiple times, It's crict.

723
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Speaker 3: Come on, there are no words for the level of

724
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 3: frustration when you clearly show someone all sorts of evidence

725
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: that it's a scam and they will continue down the

726
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 3: path anyway. My brain will never understand this. Janna reeves, though, Lol,

727
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 3: that's next level hope. He says, Yes, it is extremely

728
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 3: frustrating watching someone go through these scams. We just kept saying,

729
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 3: at some point reality has to hit hard and she

730
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 3: will see that this can't be real. But I'm afraid

731
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 3: she is literally putting all of her money on the

732
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Speaker 3: possibility of being in love.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, put her on freaking like eHarmony, get

734
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: her on one of these dating websites.

735
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 3: Is she just looking for connection?

736
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 2: I think, Oh, let's just get her on le Let's

737
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: get her on a dating website, lock her money up,

738
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 2: lock her bank account, and then and then let her

739
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: and then let her cook man.

740
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh, come at four. Have you reported

741
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: this to the police or taking steps to block her finances?

742
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 3: Comment scam? How did you protect her? He says? She

743
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: wants no help at all. She won't listen to us.

744
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 3: We tried offering her help with her finances, and she

745
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 3: thinks we're just trying to sabotage her and take her money.

746
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 2: So she's super cautious when her family tries to take

747
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 2: her money. Yeah, it is Kyanu, come mine, Like, Keanu's

748
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 2: worth this and this amount of money, and she's like, well,

749
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 2: maybe he just needs an extra.

750
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 3: Little twenty thousand. Maybe he needs it.

751
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: You don't know what he does.

752
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 3: This evil wife won't give him any money. Yeah, we

753
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 3: have tried to figure out how to get some sort

754
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 3: of conversationalist, but we don't know how to go about

755
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 3: it legally. Comme at five. These are the types of

756
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 3: am as. Come at four. What does your father in

757
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 3: law think about all this? He says? They divorced a

758
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: year ago and he's remarrying a new woman.

759
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. Presumably presumably the person who thinks she's

760
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: engaged to Keanu Reeves isn't in a relationship.

761
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 3: You would hope, Yeah, for a few months he was

762
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 3: overseeing my mother in law's accounts, but she took that

763
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 3: as an invitation to still be friends and that she

764
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: could come see him whenever she wanted to. But the

765
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 3: new girlfriend did not like that obviously, so he had

766
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 3: to set up strict boundaries, which my mother in law

767
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 3: didn't like. So basically ties had to be cut between them.

768
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Speaker 3: Tom at six, did you hear about the French woman

769
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 3: who thought she was dating Brad Pitt? It cost her

770
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 3: eight hundred and thirty thousand euros.

771
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 2: I don't wher stand what?

772
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:41,760
Speaker 1: What?

773
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 2: How? Oh my god?

774
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 3: He says, yes. Literally, the moment I saw it, I

775
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 3: sent it to her. She said, this is different than

776
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 3: those women who get scammed with love.

777
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 2: She said, you don't understand. Keanu Reeves is not like

778
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 2: all those other scammers.

779
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Speaker 4: Dude.

780
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 3: I'm just glad my grandparents and my family have enough

781
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 3: sense to not fall for this stuff.

782
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, it's.

783
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 3: Just pretty soon hopefully this uh isn't like people. People

784
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: get bored of these and they don't use them anymore.

785
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 3: They're just like, oh, I'm letna go read a book. No,

786
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:15,959
Speaker 3: I think it's gonna get worse.

787
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 4: I think so mm hmm yeah with ai brother. Yeah, dude,

788
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 4: that's gonna get so much worse.

789
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: Oh man, I'm a little scared of it. I know. Yeah.

790
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 3: Comment seven. Does she have dementia or some other kind

791
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: of cognitive issue? Says yes. We asked if she would

792
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 3: be willing to work with us to get her into

793
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 3: the right doctor that can help us with how to

794
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 3: care for her medically, whether that's medication or psychiatric help.

795
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 3: She completely refused, will not even discuss it. Got so

796
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 3: offended that we are assuming she's crazy. Update We got

797
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 3: an update.

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Speaker 4: Dang, I would be like, hey, mom, let me give

799
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,439
Speaker 4: you a point break up with him.

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00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 2: I I think I think this is how you gotta

801
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 2: do it. I think you gotta fight fire or fire,

802
00:36:58,600 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: you gotta scam this.

803
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 3: But what I got it?

804
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 2: God, I didn't get it.

805
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 4: Another movie? Oh, dang, point break.

806
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 2: I haven't seen it.

807
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 3: You haven't seen no, clearly not.

808
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 4: I just want to see where he likes. He's like,

809
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 4: he shoots up in the sky and he goes ah

810
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 4: and you can't he doesn't want to shoot the friend

811
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 4: that he's like under Ah. Never mind, I can't spoil it.

812
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what you're talking about. I think

813
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 2: that you have to scam your mom and and scamm

814
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 2: her into getting medical help. I think that's what we

815
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 2: gotta do.

816
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,240
Speaker 3: Be Keanu Reeves for another account, yeah, and say.

817
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 2: Hey, Keanu here, I had to switch my account. But

818
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 2: this is me. If you see anything else that's it's

819
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 2: not me.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you got Brad Pitt Andris Elba, Daniel

821
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 3: Craig and Keanu Reeves here.

822
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 4: On one scale.

823
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 3: Unlike scam scammability Pascal, I feel like who else could

824
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 3: be with Pedro Jennifer Lawrence for me? Oh, I get

825
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 3: a scam by her? Is so quick?

826
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Speaker 4: I love j j Loward both, that's just wild.

827
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 2: I love my Jennifers, Jennifer Aniston.

828
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, Jennifer Coolidge, I'm gonna have to see what

829
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 3: her face looks like again because I forgot it. You

830
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 3: forgot Jennifer cool Sorry, anyways, what you're saying.

831
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: I don't know. Anyways.

832
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 3: Scam your mom, Yeah, I like that. I like that.

833
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 3: Scam your mom that checks out for the greater good. Update. Wow,

834
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 3: I did not expect this post to blow up. I

835
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 3: am a staying home mom, so responding to so many

836
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 3: questions as a little bit challenging, so I thought I'd

837
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 3: post a final summary here in the original post to

838
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:38,320
Speaker 3: answer the main questions. She has definitely sent this person money.

839
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 3: How is it through these gift cards? I have how

840
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 3: much money she has? Yeah, because if she was able.

841
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 2: To send twelve thousand dollars and not be you know,

842
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: it's seemingly.

843
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 3: But she probably We don't know how much it is.

844
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 3: It's probably thousands of Someone commented, my mom sent twelve

845
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 3: thousand trying to send another twenty.

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00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 2: Got you okay, But she's fond for other scams before,

847
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 2: and it seems like she's sent money to these people,

848
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: which in that case, how much money does she have?

849
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: In general? Like how long can she do this until

850
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: she is destitute?

851
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 3: Oh? Man, that is scary. Caddy snipes, Well, all right,

852
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 3: we have no idea how much. There would be no

853
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 3: surprise that it is a large amount. The whole relationship

854
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 3: started through email. Email said that he had seen her

855
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 3: social media and thought that she was so beautiful it,

856
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 3: but that he couldn't message her on social media because

857
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 3: his wife would see it.

858
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: Hey girl, I'm sending you an eat. This is Keanu Reeves.

859
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 2: Ignore my my email address That says scammer at aol

860
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: dot com. Don't even look at that, because this is

861
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 2: me Keanu Reeves for real.

862
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 3: He went on to say how he was in the

863
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 3: hospital and needed help with medical bills because him and

864
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 3: his wife are divorcing, and that she is withholding all

865
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 3: of his money. My mother in law also added this

866
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 3: person on her phone land.

867
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Speaker 2: What this scammer genuinely must like think he got the jackpot? Yeah,

868
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 2: he's like wow, dorm Yeah, dying.

869
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 3: My mother in law has purchased a wedding dress and

870
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 3: shoes for the event. She has packed up her house

871
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 3: and sold her car. Important to note that she did

872
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 3: this without telling us beforehand. We only knew after the

873
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 3: fact that she did it magic going back to like

874
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:30,839
Speaker 3: similar your childhood home.

875
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything, everything's packed up. She's in a wedding dress.

876
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 2: She's just wearing the wedding dress always.

877
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 3: Now my immediate family, myself, my husband, and my kids

878
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 3: are completely no contact with her. We found out she

879
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 3: was sending this person information about us and her kids,

880
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 3: pictures of the life events.

881
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 2: At that point, I wonder if we can kind of

882
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: like the police, get the police involved in Yeah, she's

883
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 2: she's spreading information about us.

884
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 3: To a scammer, so any contact at all was completely blocked.

885
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 3: The wedding is planned for next month. He is supposedly

886
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 3: flying into a local airport on its private jet to

887
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 3: pick her up, and then they're flying Los Angeles, where

888
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 3: she will live. Oh boy, we will be contacting her

889
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 3: banks to file elderly abuse fraud reports as well as

890
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 3: filing a report with our local to police department. We

891
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 3: are not aware that this was the correct course of action.

892
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 3: And finally, yes, this situation is extremely sad. I am bawling,

893
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: I'm crying. We have done everything we can warn her

894
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 3: and tell her how this cannot be real. She told

895
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 3: one of our family members yesterday to stay out of

896
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 3: her business. I will update this post again after the

897
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 3: wedding six months later.

898
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 2: Oh boy, what if Keanu shows up?

899
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 3: Stop that that's not a possibility.

900
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 2: Shows up.

901
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 4: He's too nice of a guy, Like imagine.

902
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: The movie where everyone thing this woman is getting scammed,

903
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 2: but she's the only one who knows that Keanu and

904
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: her have something real. And then she goes to the

905
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 2: wedding and everyone's like he's not coming, there's no way

906
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 2: he's coming, And then out comes Keanu.

907
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 3: Reeves Low Key havn't kon. We probably could make this work.

908
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 2: I think we could make this work. I think we

909
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 2: could do this movie.

910
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 4: I know too many people in La.

911
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, we could probably get a few million of these people.

912
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh.

913
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, we just added you to my name.

914
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you're and then you're Key.

915
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 3: Easy change your last name. Perfect. Just be like, I'm

916
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 3: a little shorter, you know, I got a little shorter.

917
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 4: I really grow out my my facial hair and my

918
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 4: hair again. Maybe get a little bit paler.

919
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 2: And maybe just like we'll take a picture that's kind

920
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 2: of blurrying from far away. I think it could work.

921
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it would work for this woman. Surely there's more

922
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 3: like her.

923
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 4: Hey lord, hey, oh Pie's mom, it's Keanu's don't do this.

924
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,439
Speaker 4: I don't love you anymore. Who I wish, I wish

925
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 4: it could be different.

926
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 2: This is just Bill and Ted Kanu, which is just Keanu.

927
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 4: Let's be real.

928
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 3: Oh I'm dang, Hey, don't do that to Ben.

929
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 4: What do you mean? Kanu is just a chill guy. Yeah,

930
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 4: he has a band and everything.

931
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 3: Update long story short, we found out some really suspicious

932
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 3: financial activity on her part, so we planned to reach

933
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 3: out just to make sure she was doing okay. Her

934
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 3: phone was turned off, which worried us a lot, so

935
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 3: we called the police for a welfare check. She was

936
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 3: evicted and going to a hotel for a few.

937
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 2: Days, so it seems like her finances are pretty bad.

938
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 3: Someone had offered to cover the cost of a hotel

939
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 3: for three days while she figured out her next step.

940
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 3: She ended up in a homeless shelter for about a month.

941
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 3: My mom found out that she was staying in a shelter,

942
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 3: so we went and picked her up. This is Opie's

943
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 3: mother in law.

944
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 2: I forgot about that right.

945
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 3: My mother in law now lives with my mom. My

946
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 3: mom gave her a job too, which helped a little.

947
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 2: That is so kind, but I would be really worried

948
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 2: about her falling for another scam.

949
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 3: She has also stopped talking to Well Yeah when he

950
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 3: doesn't show up to the wedding. She said he was

951
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 3: being too flaky and she was tired of waiting for him.

952
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 3: She's still convinced that she was engaged to Keanu Reeds.

953
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: What's gonna happen if she ever sees him, Like if

954
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 2: she literally ever going to explain it away, she's gonna

955
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 2: bike Oh, he's just trying to you know, he's just

956
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 2: trying to keep it low key. He just doesn't want to,

957
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 2: you know, admit it.

958
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 4: He probably yeah, he probably says like the scammers, like

959
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 4: it's for the media.

960
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: I couldn't say, like, if you ever meet me and

961
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 2: I act like I don't know you, it's not you.

962
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: It's it's just I have to keep up appearances.

963
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 3: Huh. I don't think anyone will ever be able to

964
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 3: get her to understand that she was scammed.

965
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 2: That's that one, and that's the freaking gosh.

966
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 3: Yeah. How much do you think she sent to this person?

967
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 3: She saw a lot? How much give me? Give me

968
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 3: dollars on you t.

969
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,720
Speaker 4: What do you think I would say around car?

970
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 2: I want to say, like a couple hundred, like one

971
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 2: hundred thousand, at.

972
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: Least one hundred thousand.

973
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 4: I was gonna say if.

974
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,919
Speaker 2: She sold her house and her car.

975
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:15,919
Speaker 4: Well car could be like.

976
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 2: Maybe okay, maybe like fifty thousand to one hundred.

977
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 4: I was gonna say around fifty two hundred.

978
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 2: I think somewhere in that range.

979
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 3: Restarting and I have we don't even know. This one

980
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 3: was probably like in her fifties or older. But Restarting, yeah,

981
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 3: at that point.

982
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 2: I mean, it's so kind of Op's mom to give

983
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,240
Speaker 2: her a place to live, but I would be really

984
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 2: worried that mother in law would get into more trouble.

985
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 2: And then your mom is kind of you know, in

986
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 2: this the eye of the freaking.

987
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 3: Oh Oh, Camry Jayde says two hundred thousand dollars.

988
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Wow, Well I think that's their guess.

989
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: That's their guess. I agree, Zi y what the heck?

990
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 3: And we got another story that was the one that

991
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 3: was pretty good. I love that one.

992
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:04,839
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993
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: back to the story. So but here's a quick three

994
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Speaker 1: minute break from as for more sponsors.

995
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 2: I refuse to celebrate my baby because my husband's family

996
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997
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998
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 2: twenty seven female, literally don't even know how to feel anymore.

999
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 2: My husband, twenty three male, wants this so badly because

1000
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 2: he was in the military and didn't have any family

1001
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:34,319
Speaker 2: around for our first child, male three, my second. By

1002
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 2: the way, this comes from Glass Positions seventy eight eighty two.

1003
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 2: And if you want to spit your own stories. Go

1004
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1005
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 4: Riley, I'm Keon.

1006
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 2: And we're here to give good advice goofy. But we

1007
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 2: don't have all the answers. We only know what we'd do,

1008
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 2: So let us know what you would do in the

1009
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 2: comments and opsis. After he got out of the military,

1010
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 2: he kept insisting on moving to the state he grew

1011
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 2: up in. He said it was going to be the

1012
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 2: best thing for us, and that everyone was going to

1013
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 2: be so welcoming. And I will admit we have financially

1014
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 2: thrived here. His mom's side is welcoming, but small, with

1015
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 2: some stupid moments of drama from his sister. His parents

1016
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 2: divorced when he was eight. But his dad's side, I

1017
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 2: just can't they enable a neglectful, arrogant, and self absorbed man,

1018
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: my husband's father. They just allow father in law to

1019
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 2: get away with everything between the lies, accusations, manipulation, and

1020
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 2: disgusting behavior in front of me and my children. I

1021
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: can't be around him.

1022
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 3: Good for you to yeah for taking that stove.

1023
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 2: Absolutely, I have a code of conduct and a code

1024
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,800
Speaker 2: of ethics. I also have an immense respect for my husband,

1025
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,479
Speaker 2: even if he can't stand up to his father. Father

1026
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 2: in law was extremely controlling to my husband when he

1027
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 2: was a child, conditioning into believe that talking back or

1028
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,880
Speaker 2: saying anything in contradiction to father in law was challenging

1029
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 2: his authority.

1030
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 3: Oh my god, man, oh man.

1031
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: This guy stinks. I told my husband that I was

1032
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,800
Speaker 2: leaving and flying back home from that visit. I was

1033
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 2: going to find a hotel and the kids and I

1034
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 2: would not be coming around him or his father. I

1035
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 2: made it clear that I was not going to tolerate

1036
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,239
Speaker 2: this behavior in front of our children, and that he

1037
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 2: failed to protect and defend me and our kids when

1038
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 2: it mattered most. He said he was leaving with me,

1039
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: and I was fine with.

1040
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 3: That, all right.

1041
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: We agreed, after many long conversations that we would go

1042
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 2: no contact with father in law. Sure, so, yeah, yeah,

1043
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 2: I think after all of that, it doesn't seem like

1044
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 2: a guy.

1045
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 3: We want to have contact with.

1046
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 2: No.

1047
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you had another point, uh and not

1048
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 3: a true.

1049
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:36,400
Speaker 2: After roughly eight months, I was tolerant with limited contact

1050
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: at a neutral location or FaceTime here and there with

1051
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 2: my husband and occasionally our son, depending on father in

1052
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 2: law's behavior. There have been many times where we had

1053
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 2: to go no contact for three months at a time

1054
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 2: due to disrespectful behavior. We didn't have any contact with

1055
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 2: father in law for roughly five months because he crossed

1056
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 2: some boundaries with me.

1057
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 3: But with this.

1058
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 2: Baby on the way, we wanted to give him one

1059
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 2: last chance to really be the grandfather he says he

1060
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 2: wants to be. I knew that this was important for

1061
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 2: my husband and that it really meant a lot that

1062
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 2: we keep trying.

1063
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 3: I see where you're coming from. You gotta talk to him, yeah,

1064
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 3: cut it be like, dude, the way you talk to

1065
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 3: your own son can't be the way you talk to

1066
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 3: your baby, your grand baby, all right, Yeah, can't be

1067
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 3: doing this cycle in here.

1068
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think that I think you should

1069
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: absolutely talk to father in law. If you're doing this,

1070
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 2: I would be very wary of doing it because you

1071
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 2: know how he treated his son and you.

1072
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 3: There are some cases where grand baby changes people.

1073
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there are cases, but you have to

1074
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 2: be so like on top of it, and if you

1075
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 2: see any kind of bad behavior, it's just really you know,

1076
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 2: setting none in the law. Yeah, we thought because father

1077
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 2: in law was getting baptized before we found out we

1078
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,879
Speaker 2: were pregnant, that he was trying to do better and

1079
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 2: be the man he claimed he was going to be.

1080
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 2: We invited all of them, every single person, including his

1081
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 2: father and two younger siblings, as an olive branch to

1082
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 2: hopefully mend things, but no one responded from his dad's

1083
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 2: side except for his one uncle and aunt who don't

1084
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 2: care about any of the drama, and one of his cousins.

1085
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 2: That was roughly forty people right there that we genuinely

1086
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 2: hoped would come, including myself. Oh no, I understand. Life

1087
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 2: is too short and I don't want my husband to

1088
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 2: lose out on time with that side of his family

1089
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:23,879
Speaker 2: just because his father and I don't like each other.

1090
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: I have no family here. We're down south that my

1091
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 2: family is up north. I can't even have my oldest

1092
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 2: daughter attend the baby shower, despite multiple notices and him

1093
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 2: knowing we pay for everything. He just wants to be

1094
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,399
Speaker 2: a pain that controls everything like he used to. That's

1095
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 2: why I left him.

1096
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 3: Wait what I think maybe talking about her? X? You

1097
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 3: guys a kid with I guess so new character has

1098
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 3: entered the chat. Who are you talking about?

1099
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 2: I don't have anyone to talk to. I miss my friends.

1100
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 2: I miss my family. I miss people actually showing up

1101
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 2: for us genuinely without any strings attached. There is a

1102
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,399
Speaker 2: little bit left to this story. I don't know quite

1103
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,240
Speaker 2: who she was talking about in that sentence.

1104
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:04,280
Speaker 3: I'm guessing her ex.

1105
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 2: The general gist of it, I think is that she

1106
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 2: has a very complicated relationship with Op's with her father

1107
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 2: in law. Yeah, and her husband still wants a relationship

1108
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 2: in some form, Yeah, at least with his father in

1109
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 2: law's side of the family. And so I think it's

1110
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,439
Speaker 2: just super complicated to work through that when you really

1111
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 2: don't like someone and really don't think that they are

1112
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 2: good for you know, your to be in your husband's life. Yeah,

1113
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: And I think just setting your own boundaries is all

1114
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:36,919
Speaker 2: you can do. You can say, hey, I don't want

1115
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 2: him around me for such a time, like at all,

1116
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 2: or just I don't want him around him, I'd want

1117
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 2: to be around him a lot, or setting the boundaries

1118
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,760
Speaker 2: for your kid collectively. But you know, if your husband

1119
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 2: wants to see him, that's kind of his own decision.

1120
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, it gets messy. Family gets weird, man,

1121
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 3: it gets weird. Going back to Thanksgiving this year, it

1122
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 3: was good, but like I have my great grandpa there. Yeah,

1123
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 3: it's kind of it changes the vibe. Like you know,

1124
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 3: certain people hold a lot of weight in moments like this.

1125
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, absolutely, you know, a negative weight like this

1126
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 3: bring into absolutely could change it. Yeah.

1127
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 2: I mean that's how my my grandparents, you know, have

1128
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 2: been very much like a connector. Yeah, since we have

1129
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 2: such a large family and so like whenever they come

1130
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 2: to an event, everyone's going to come to that event.

1131
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 2: Because they're in their nineties, like their grandma just turned ninety.

1132
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: Three, they turn it out.

1133
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so you know, like when they pass, I

1134
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,720
Speaker 2: do wonder how those events we will change.

1135
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 3: That's where we're at, Yeah.

1136
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 2: Or if people would show up anymore to the extent

1137
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:40,320
Speaker 2: that they did. So, he continues, I love my husband,

1138
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 2: and I love the family that we've created, but I

1139
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 2: hate feeling so alone. A big part of me thinks

1140
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 2: that it would have just been better if we never

1141
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 2: had a baby shower, because we wouldn't have spent roughly

1142
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:53,240
Speaker 2: two thousand, almost three thousand dollars on a baby shower

1143
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 2: that nobody was going to attend except for a few

1144
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 2: of our military friends who moved to our area. No,

1145
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 2: I'm not using grammar punctual or anything like that. But

1146
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 2: I am beside myself and speech detext is my friend.

1147
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do anymore or who to

1148
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,280
Speaker 2: talk to. I miss my friends, I miss my family.

1149
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,720
Speaker 2: I miss people actually showing up for us genuinely without

1150
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 2: any strings attached. I love my husband's mom's side, but

1151
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 2: his father's side. I understand it's matriarchal and Hispanic culture

1152
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 2: just ignores problems and shuns people easily, but this sucks.

1153
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 2: I'm just expecting people to disappoint me, and it crushes

1154
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 2: my husband every time that they don't show up for him.

1155
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,760
Speaker 2: Am I the ale for not wanting a baby shower?

1156
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 4: No?

1157
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 3: Man, I would want a pay that much.

1158
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not the a hole, but I do think

1159
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 2: it's just like you need to have more conversations with

1160
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 2: your husband and kind of say, hey, I support you,

1161
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 2: your mom's side supports you, and we just need to

1162
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 2: stop expecting these people to show up for us when

1163
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 2: they never do.

1164
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I saw some sad TikTok of this woman

1165
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 3: doing a Thanksgiving dinner. Mm hmm, it cooked a lot,

1166
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 3: nobody showed up. Those are always so sad spending that

1167
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 3: much money. When a baby shower no one shows up.

1168
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 3: I also thought about aids you don't having a baby

1169
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 3: show you guys are cool.

1170
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 4: Yep, I'll get you some Celsius.

1171
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 3: It's in March.

1172
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 2: Huh Riley, daddy, huh Riley's pregnant.

1173
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 3: No, you're not supposed to tell anyone yet, so sorry, no,

1174
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 3: gosh sorry, bregnant. Also those stories we read yesterday, this

1175
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 3: woman randomly becoming pregnant, I know, terrifying. I know. It's

1176
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 3: like we find out I got third ball or something.

1177
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 4: I can't believe you just compared getting a third testicle

1178
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 4: to being pregnant.

1179
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 3: Dude just pumping out three times extra kids. It's like,

1180
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 3: well that's always been there, twelve kids.

1181
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 2: Anyway, that's the end of that story. And this is

1182
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 2: the end of the episode. So if you love us,

1183
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 2: make sure to subscribe.

1184
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