1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. We'll get to 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: it all right. This one's from Eileen in Florence are 3 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Eileen writes, I've been outlived. 4 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: I've outlived two of my husbands, and I've got a 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: lot of money saved up. I'll be eighty soon and 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: I want to sell my home so I can move 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: into a building with my girlfriend. My son said it's 8 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: too expensive. Why is he worried about it? Does he 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: want my money? Get right to it, miss Irene? 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 11 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 3: I think Miss Irene, you should do what it is 12 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 3: you want to do. You sound like you a sound 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 3: mine and able body. You are moving with your girlfriends. 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 3: You eighty, This is your life. To hear your son 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 3: talking about it's too expensive. He ain't paying for sell 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 3: your house. Take your money going over there and live 17 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 3: with your girlfriends golden girls. 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love it. 19 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 2: Thank you? Please? Too expensive? Boy? Bye? 20 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: Right? 21 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 2: Lord? Let me get to eighty. 22 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 3: Please try to stay in tech withe Why. 23 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: So I can show it to you. I'm gonna let 24 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 2: you know how it goes, boy dude. 25 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: Moving on to uh Tamika in Springfield, Tamika writes, I 26 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: clocked my child driving over the speed limits, so I 27 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: took her keys and I parked her car at my 28 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: sister's house. Two days later, I found out that my 29 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: sister was letting her come get the car before school. Okay, 30 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 1: I love this line. Besides fighting, How shall I handle this? 31 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 4: Nah, I'm doing no other way. 32 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: I love that life. 33 00:01:55,320 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: You know what that seems? That seems all right? 34 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 3: So I mean, you know, look, you gotta explain to 35 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 3: your sister what she obviously doesn't know. 36 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 2: Does she have children, probably not. 37 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 3: Does she understand that you can't reward bad behavior, Probably 38 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 3: not correct. 39 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: So you got to get that through to your sister. 40 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 3: And then you've got to make it a cost factor 41 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: for your daughter, because she's slick enough to go over 42 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 3: there before school and get them kids. 43 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 4: And you know, you might not be able to chastise 44 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 4: your sister, but you can show put her in check. 45 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 3: Well, sister, now you since you being smart, that's gonna 46 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 3: really cost you, and just put put put put a 47 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 3: set of consequences to it. 48 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 2: That's the best thing I have to tell you, because your. 49 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 1: Sister all right, Moving on, Floe, moving on to Chanelle 50 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: and Achin else is my oldest male friend and my 51 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: boyfriend finally met each other. My friend told my boyfriend 52 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: that he's known me for so long that he knows 53 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: my real body count. That didn't go over well, and 54 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: my boyfriend was very rude. 55 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 2: Why can't he take a joke? 56 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 3: You know, just you know, first of all, your little 57 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 3: male friend, you know, I got something for your jokes, deliberate. Well, 58 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 3: let me put you on my body count player, because 59 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 3: I've been knocking cats out for X about of years, 60 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 3: so now you know. But but but you know how 61 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 3: he thinks that's cute and funny. 62 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: Why wasn't it funny though? 63 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: Why wasn't that was delivery? 64 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, a man as he jokes. 65 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: He's a man and he knows how he Joe. Now 66 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: unless he is real body count, you. 67 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 3: Know, unless he uh male gave Fred because y'all have 68 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 3: different relationships. I've noticed with that when y'all had him 69 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 3: male gay Fred. I'm okay, but this I'm gonna answer question. 70 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 3: I'm just throwing this option out. You all allow your 71 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 3: male gay friends to have certain liberties that you would 72 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 3: not allow for a straight friend of yours to have, right, 73 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: and you allow them to play the game with y'all. 74 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: If it was Phoenix, begin it. 75 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: If it didn't say that, she just said her oldest 76 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 1: male friend. 77 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 3: Now, then if he's straight and he said that, then 78 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 3: I'm gonna pull him off to the side, and I'm 79 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 3: gonna ask him. You know what, since you're funny, you know, 80 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 3: tell me the joke, because I just don't get the joke, 81 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 3: you know, and it's not funny man, you know you playing. 82 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 3: I'm feeling for this girl. Now you're sitting up in here. 83 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 3: I've been friends with her so long. I know her 84 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 3: body count. He didn't get no number, did he? 85 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: Dog? 86 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: He just spit a number out there? Oh dog got it? 87 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 3: You know how many tea you go? I hope you gotta. 88 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: I hope you got a tooth to cover everybody. 89 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: You at least number twelve? Pop you number thirteen? Oh wow? 90 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: Well it didn't go over. She said her boyfriend was 91 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: very rude, but she sides with the best friend because. 92 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 2: She was That's why. 93 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 3: Okay, Then going over there and had a relationship with 94 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 3: your best male friend. What now, going over there and 95 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 3: had that relationship with it? I done told y'all a 96 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 3: thousand times by these male best friends. Now he over 97 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: that time. I know your real body count? What what 98 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 3: he want that for? I mean, why would he say 99 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 3: that to this good to this man. 100 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 4: Man just to upset him? 101 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: Like, what's yeah joke? 102 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 4: Because he won't oh, oh, dropping knowledge. 103 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: See why y'all ain't why y'all ain't understanding this? He 104 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 3: won't you either way. He wants you as his girl. 105 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 3: And if he's not, and if he's your gay bred friend, 106 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 3: he wants you to stay his best friend because he 107 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 3: over here taking up time. Girl, we're supposed to be 108 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 3: getting together there. Every time I turn around you going 109 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 3: out with him? I know her real body count. I 110 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 3: had knocked his ass out to. 111 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: Back to that man, all right? Right on back to that. 112 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: Moving on to Amanda and Portsmouth, Amanda writes, my husband's 113 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: new thing is using an all over body deodorant. We 114 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: see the commercials all the time. I told him that 115 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: it tastes bad, and he doesn't seem to care. His 116 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: deodorant is more important than other things that could go 117 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: on if he wasn't covered in deodorant. If he's crazy crazy, he've. 118 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: Been watching that White Lady one. 119 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 2: That's what you've been doing. 120 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 3: I told y' all, Right then, I don't even know 121 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 3: how they buy this woman's deoda. She you know, I 122 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 3: don't like where she looks. I don't. I don't care 123 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 3: how everybody had now, don't like her. 124 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 2: What are her looks have to do with this? Oh 125 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: the man don't commercial? I don't. I just don't like it. 126 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: When she first came out, they didn't put makeup on it, 127 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 3: they just had out here talking. Now she looked like 128 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: she had to create the deal. 129 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: His wife thinks he doesn't want sexon with her. 130 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: That's the issue. What is you putting this dealer though? 131 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: Don't do it. 132 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: Don't do it.