WEBVTT - #177 - Jay DeMarcus from Rascal Flatts on how the  Flatts REALLY formed, his new book, and his faith.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, about to hop into a Bobby Cast with

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<v Speaker 1>Jay de Marcus a Rascal Flats. Hope you enjoy this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hes got a book coming out. I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>mention a couple other things. First of all, um, we

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<v Speaker 1>have our whole layers of of podcasts. By the way, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta text from somebody else that's about to come on?

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<v Speaker 1>Does she sign? I think they're we're very soon to

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<v Speaker 1>announcing a new podcast on being able to announce that. Yes, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>also have a very good for you as it. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for the opportunity, right, um. Yeah, So we're got doning

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<v Speaker 1>out the new podcast on the network, and I guess

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<v Speaker 1>we can't yet, can't yet, But Caroline Hobby's podcast get

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<v Speaker 1>Real is doing fantastic and it's always been great and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just glad that we can finally shine a light

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<v Speaker 1>on it and let you go wow. Because she had

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<v Speaker 1>on Taylor Young, Brett Young's wife. It's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>one where she's like they broke up and she had

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<v Speaker 1>to watch Brett Young get famous six years and he's

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<v Speaker 1>like he's like he's out gotta go anyway, not as

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<v Speaker 1>quick as that, But you shouldn't listen to that it's

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<v Speaker 1>called Get Real with Caroline Hobby and it really is

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<v Speaker 1>a fantastic podcast. Kelly Henderson has a podcast called Velvet's

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<v Speaker 1>Edge and you know, she just had a big hit

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<v Speaker 1>on that that very cavalry show, which was good for her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she brings people on from that show onto our podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can check that out. Um, I'll mention that

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<v Speaker 1>we the Raging Idiots are going on tour starting uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when you hear this, but I will

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<v Speaker 1>be all summer off fall, but Raging Idiots dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>We're bringing out Walker Burrows from American Idol, the red

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<v Speaker 1>haired kid who was really good playing the piano, look

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<v Speaker 1>like Harry Potter and Emma Klein. And then, um, you

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<v Speaker 1>can always check out Amy's podcast Four Things with Amy

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<v Speaker 1>Brown really needs no introduction. If you love Amy, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>love the podcast. Dude, what's her latest episode which she

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<v Speaker 1>talks about, Oh, she has the Q and a one

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<v Speaker 1>up today which she does every Tuesday. She answers people's questions.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the last one, Um, she had on the

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<v Speaker 1>guy from the Indiogram talking about like the is that what?

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<v Speaker 1>Dave Heywood was like, what's your indiogram? Now? Yeah, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you be able to come in here talking about that?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to remember what mine is. I think mom

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<v Speaker 1>is the three with the Yeah three watch three be

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<v Speaker 1>like super douchy with small weener and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thats um. So there's that. And then if you're into sports,

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<v Speaker 1>check out The Sore Losers with Lunchbox and Raymundo and

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<v Speaker 1>produce ready as they put up a new show like

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<v Speaker 1>four times a week. That being said, there's this one

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to get into. Is there anything I'm forgetting?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that covers it. Yeah, coming up on this show. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe we have a Jude in the Lion podcast

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<v Speaker 1>coming up, possibly in the next week or so. Morgan Evans,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. Who I Mike and I were talking off

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day. I can't believe he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been on yet. I've talked with him about the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>about ten times. Morgan Evans, who has um Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta kiss somebody, you know, uh he uh. He's a

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<v Speaker 1>big listener, so shout out Morgan Evans. And he's also

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<v Speaker 1>a friend, which I guess is why I didn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I had talked to him on the podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him in real life. Um, so yeah, he'll

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<v Speaker 1>be on two and um yeah, we're trying for some

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<v Speaker 1>other ones. How's the have we Uh, Lauren Dagos gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come by, not not this week or next week, but

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<v Speaker 1>probably next month. Yeah, probably next month. And Belliray stars

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<v Speaker 1>working on you, buddy. I know, how hard does it get?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the little Nozak stuff got him because it was

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<v Speaker 1>too busy right now, but maybe next month too, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be here. That being said, tell your friends about this

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't mind, go back and check out any

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<v Speaker 1>of the library of podcasts. And yeah, here we go

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<v Speaker 1>with Jada Marcus from Rascal Flats trying to get a nut,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to I'm the ultimate squirrel, always trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a nut, me too, buddy. And it's a book you

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<v Speaker 1>name it, Episode one seventy seven with Jada Marcus Rascal Flats. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're talking, we're about to start saying us off

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<v Speaker 1>the air because, uh, it's tough to sell books, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when it's not what you're known for. Because that that's

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<v Speaker 1>been my thing, is that write a book? What what

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<v Speaker 1>what's Bobby? What does Jay know about books? And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to kind of go out and rehustle. You do. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>musicians can write. I read exactly, Yeah you do. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I'm always for a new challenge, though I'm I

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<v Speaker 1>think you and I are wired more alike, probably than

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<v Speaker 1>we know. I love to work like idle time does

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<v Speaker 1>not serve me well. I can't sit around and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>spend I'll start spending out about the silliest things if

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<v Speaker 1>I do. You know, is it some sort of deeper,

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<v Speaker 1>um maybe psychological thing that we like to work? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you trying to prove? Who? Are you trying to

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<v Speaker 1>prove something to yourself? I think if you read part

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<v Speaker 1>of that book, it would be my dad. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of me that feels like I never

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<v Speaker 1>quite lived up to what he expected me to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that put a lot of pressure on me,

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<v Speaker 1>which I used as fuel early on in life, but

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<v Speaker 1>it still fuels me. And for me, it's been like

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up in pretty close to poverty, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it's like trying to prove to yeah, to everybody that

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<v Speaker 1>so I wish my idol time. My my itchiness with

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<v Speaker 1>idol time was just because I do love working. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've convinced myself I love working because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to prove it to everyone that I can make it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that I have a little bit of that

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<v Speaker 1>in me too. It's like when you whenever you have

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<v Speaker 1>some success and you celebrate it, you don't celebrate it

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<v Speaker 1>and live in the moment long enough, because I go

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta do I gotta do more because I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>done it, I haven't done enough yet. I gotta get

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<v Speaker 1>back after it and go back out there and do

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<v Speaker 1>something good again, and a lot of it. I like

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<v Speaker 1>to try to prove to myself too that I can

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<v Speaker 1>take on new challenges and have some degree of success

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<v Speaker 1>with it, you know. And I guess I'm just wired

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<v Speaker 1>that way. I am truly a workaholic. There is no

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<v Speaker 1>doubt about it. I think it drives my partners crazy

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes partners in all capacities or you're talking about in

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<v Speaker 1>the band, and I'm talking about in the band, meaning

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<v Speaker 1>you're always wanting to do what well. I always want

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<v Speaker 1>to go. I mean, if there's money on the table, dates,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go get it. If their work to be done,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go do it. And Gary, I wish I had

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<v Speaker 1>a little more him in me, because he loves to

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<v Speaker 1>go out to the farm decompressed. I mean, he could

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<v Speaker 1>stay out there for big chunks of times, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong with that. We're just wired differently so to

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<v Speaker 1>exist in the same band. Sometimes I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I can sit around for five months.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta do something but write a book. How long

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<v Speaker 1>the um start to be a seed in you? I

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<v Speaker 1>think years ago because I kept I keep journals, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I like keep notes of things so I can remember them.

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<v Speaker 1>And I started keeping notes when Rascal Flats did our

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<v Speaker 1>first radio tour literally that long ago, because I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to remember certain things in certain aspects of what we

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<v Speaker 1>were doing. And I always thought, someday we may have

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to write a book out into the future,

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<v Speaker 1>sometime when this all comes to whatever close it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna look like. And so I started keeping notes.

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<v Speaker 1>And the more that I did, the more I started

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<v Speaker 1>to reflect on my life, just myself, and and really

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<v Speaker 1>reflect on all of the things that transpired to get

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<v Speaker 1>me here to eventually meet Joe do on one day

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<v Speaker 1>and then Gary come to town and us do what

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<v Speaker 1>we have done. And it started to I started look

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<v Speaker 1>at and go maybe there are some people that can,

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<v Speaker 1>like be inspired by some of the crap that I

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<v Speaker 1>went through, and maybe they can find their own hope

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<v Speaker 1>to forge ahead and to get up, dust themselves off,

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<v Speaker 1>keep moving forward. Because you know, a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>we see our favorite entertainers, actors, musicians, whatever they are,

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<v Speaker 1>you see the culmination of a lot of stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of hard work that got them to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't just end up on American Idol one day

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<v Speaker 1>by accident. You went through a lot of things to

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<v Speaker 1>get you there. I didn't end up in Rascal Flats.

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<v Speaker 1>I went through a lot of crap and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hard stuff to get me there. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>people deal with the same things you and I have

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<v Speaker 1>done with, and they deal with the same adversity, the

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<v Speaker 1>same tough times, and sometimes you want to quit. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there were many times that I wanted to throw the

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<v Speaker 1>talent in and move back home and just forget the

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<v Speaker 1>silly dream of music career. And I didn't. I felt

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<v Speaker 1>some ounce of hope here and there, some friend or

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<v Speaker 1>some text or some something that would happen just in

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<v Speaker 1>time before I would give up to how keep me going?

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<v Speaker 1>The name of the book let me shout the book

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<v Speaker 1>out here. Everybody knows you, but uh, Jada Marcus of

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<v Speaker 1>Rascal Flats. It's called Shotgun Angels, My story of broken

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<v Speaker 1>Roads and unshakable hope. And it's funny you mentioned all

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<v Speaker 1>the crap that you go through, because and the first

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<v Speaker 1>book that I wrote, I had to kind of relive

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<v Speaker 1>some of that stuff which I just kept compressed for

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<v Speaker 1>so long, just pushed it down inside, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>tough to not just acknowledge it, but to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dredge it all back up and relive it

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<v Speaker 1>to to be in my form of accurate about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you go through that at all? I went down

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<v Speaker 1>joke the other day that I had a bottle of

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<v Speaker 1>Vodkas sitting right by the laptop because I'd have to

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<v Speaker 1>shut it and take a break sometimes. And when the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff comes spoiling back up to the surface and you

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<v Speaker 1>do relive it, if you're an emotional person at all,

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<v Speaker 1>you feel those emotions all over again and how you

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<v Speaker 1>felt when you were living through that. And that was

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things that I didn't expect that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of caught me off guard a little bit, that I

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<v Speaker 1>would actually go back into it so deeply. But I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely did, and and there were times and I just

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<v Speaker 1>take a break from it. I stepped away, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe that still

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<v Speaker 1>affects me as strongly today as it did, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty years ago. It's wild to me. As I was

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<v Speaker 1>reading Um, I didn't get a chance to finish it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I might be read the whole thing, and he

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<v Speaker 1>pulled out some parts for me to read. Um, the

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<v Speaker 1>the how you guys got together, it's very interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we'll start there, and then I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go back to the Christian band in the scholarship. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot again stuff that and I felt like we've

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<v Speaker 1>known each other, at least semi socially for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea a lot a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff which is interesting, just on the music side of things.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we'll go to back to the beginning of

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<v Speaker 1>the Flats or Rascal Flats, not the Rascal Flats. So

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<v Speaker 1>if for everybody's listening right now, call him the Rascal Flats.

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<v Speaker 1>Dear God. So, um, we're gonna we're gonna move past college.

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<v Speaker 1>We're get back to that in a minute. You're in

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<v Speaker 1>town and you have a cousin that you guys weren't

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<v Speaker 1>super close we were growing up, but we lost times

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<v Speaker 1>last time, and which is Gary? Yeah? And Gary had

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<v Speaker 1>been winning some karaoke competitions. Yeah. So I kept hearing

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<v Speaker 1>grumblings back home when I would go back for the

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<v Speaker 1>holidays that hey, you know your cousin Gary, he's been

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<v Speaker 1>singing a little bit. And I'd be like, really, that's

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<v Speaker 1>neat um and and and it wasn't that I was

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<v Speaker 1>being mean about it, but I was following my own

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<v Speaker 1>path and I had the Christian band. And then somebody

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<v Speaker 1>told me that he was talking to a producer in

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<v Speaker 1>l A about doing an R and B thing and

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<v Speaker 1>that he and Jamie Fox had spent some time together.

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<v Speaker 1>My uncle had actually told me that, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>he knows Jamie Fox. That's kind of cool. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was lost on me that again, he was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>singing and doing a pop thing. And then my mom

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<v Speaker 1>called me one day and she goes, now, your cousin

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<v Speaker 1>Gary's gonna call you, and you need to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>him singing. He's been winning some contests up here. He's

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<v Speaker 1>been singing in Ohio, you know, Yeah, and you need

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to him sing. I was like, Mom, are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding me? The last thing I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>is tell some family member who I'm not really that

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<v Speaker 1>close to anymore, you shouldn't try this. And she said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've talked to She called Judy Gary's mother, Jude Babe.

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<v Speaker 1>They were closer than sisters. They still are. She said, well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I've already told Jude Babe that you're gonna listen to him,

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<v Speaker 1>so you just need to let him come over there

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<v Speaker 1>when he's down there and sing for you. Well, he

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<v Speaker 1>was on his way to vacation in Florida, and he

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<v Speaker 1>stopped by my apartment in Brentwood and I sat down,

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<v Speaker 1>and I believe, if I'm remembering correctly, the first song

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<v Speaker 1>he sang was One Last Cry by Brian McKnight, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it well enough on the piano to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hack through it, and he just stopped me in

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<v Speaker 1>my tracks. I mean, when he opens his voice and

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that come out of him, it's otherworldly. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I describe it in the book, is all of these

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<v Speaker 1>ingredients of God, spool and R and B and country

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<v Speaker 1>rolled up into one. I'd never heard anything quite like it. Before,

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<v Speaker 1>and it had an immediate, identifiable personality to it that

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<v Speaker 1>was just shocking to me. And we kept talking over

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<v Speaker 1>the next several weeks, several months, and I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to move to town. It's never gonna find

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<v Speaker 1>you in Columbus. And he was. He was struggling because

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<v Speaker 1>he had a great job, he had debt, he had bills,

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<v Speaker 1>he'd already forged a life for himself. And he called

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<v Speaker 1>me one day and he said, that's it, I'm coming

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<v Speaker 1>to town. I can't do this anymore. And if I

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<v Speaker 1>don't do it, I'm afraid I'll regret it for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of my life. And he lived on my couch.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a one bedroom apartment and he lived on

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<v Speaker 1>my couch and we played everywhere we could, and when

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<v Speaker 1>people would hear him, the reaction was just undeniable. You

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<v Speaker 1>could see it in their faces. They were like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, this guy is up there singing Merle Haggard,

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<v Speaker 1>but singing like r and b licks in it. And

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<v Speaker 1>now if you turn on country radio, you hear a

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<v Speaker 1>whole host of singers that were touched by him and

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<v Speaker 1>influenced by him. And that's a testament to what his

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<v Speaker 1>gift was and what he was able to bring to

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<v Speaker 1>this town and build upon. So you guys are playing

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<v Speaker 1>show as a printer's alley a couple of nights a week,

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<v Speaker 1>a few nights a week and doesn't even exist anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>In the place we played it was a fiddle and

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<v Speaker 1>steel guitar bar. I think it's a boutique hotel now.

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<v Speaker 1>So you go and say, hey, Gary, we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>a gig, just the two of us. And how do

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<v Speaker 1>you get that gig? You go up and to say, hey, guy,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the tape. What's that? I'll tell you. So the

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<v Speaker 1>guy playing up on stage, we'd go in and hear

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<v Speaker 1>him sing, and he would let us sit in and

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<v Speaker 1>do a song. The owner was in there one night,

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<v Speaker 1>Allison was her name, and Greg Perkins. They owned it together,

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<v Speaker 1>and she walked over and she said, would you guys

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a night here? And Gary said, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even live here full time. I'm just visiting on

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<v Speaker 1>the weekends. She said, if you guys will do a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of nights here a week, I'll fire him and

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<v Speaker 1>give you his gig. The guy that you were singing,

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<v Speaker 1>and the guy that was letting, the guy that that

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<v Speaker 1>helped you. That's how cutthroat Nashville is. And and we

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<v Speaker 1>so we left and we talked about it, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>do you do you want to do this? And then

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<v Speaker 1>that that's I think that's around the time he called

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<v Speaker 1>me and said, I'm moving to town. Let's take that

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<v Speaker 1>gig and see see what happens. And it was the

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<v Speaker 1>two of us sitting beside a cigarette machine. I had

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<v Speaker 1>my keyboard and he had a mike, when I had

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<v Speaker 1>two mikes, and we sometimes there were two people in there,

0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:26.840
<v Speaker 1>sometimes there were twenty, sometimes there were forty. But slowly

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<v Speaker 1>but surely, we we started to build a following that

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<v Speaker 1>would come in and see us. And then the owners

0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:33.320
<v Speaker 1>came to us and said, we're thinking about buying the

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<v Speaker 1>other side of this building, knocking down the wall that

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<v Speaker 1>separates the two, putting a stage together. Would you put

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<v Speaker 1>a band together? And I knew a bunch of guys

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<v Speaker 1>from various bands, and I was sitting in with and

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<v Speaker 1>Gary and I were friends with a circle of buddies

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<v Speaker 1>that were great musicians and had been playing in different

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<v Speaker 1>places with them. So we put a band together. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you're playing with Shelley right at this time to

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<v Speaker 1>write like, as your main right, you're play keys? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was, I was your band later. Okay, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>running the band, your playing keys, and you had hired

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<v Speaker 1>a guitarist, which was Jodan. And so when you're putting

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<v Speaker 1>the band together, is that when you bring Jodan in. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't start playing with us right away. A guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Shane Sutton played with us. Fantastic player, fantastic singer,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were playing down there for probably several months.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I get a call one night and Shane says, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get out of bed. I've got the flu,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got a fever, and I'm sorry to do this

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<v Speaker 1>to you, but I can't make it tonight. It was

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<v Speaker 1>on a Monday night, and I thought, oh, no, what

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<v Speaker 1>are we gonna do. I know who can play this.

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<v Speaker 1>I know who can do it. I'm gonna call Jodan.

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<v Speaker 1>I called him up and I said, hey, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing tonight? And he's like nothing, I'm just sitting around.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, let's let's uh, let's play tonight. You want to?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to sit in with us? I said, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been telling you about my cousin. Anyway, I want you to.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to hear him and meet him in

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<v Speaker 1>real life. And I've been telling, you know, Gary about

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<v Speaker 1>jod On how talented he was. And so we pull

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<v Speaker 1>up at the club and jod On sitting his guitar

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<v Speaker 1>amp up and he's up there tuning up. Gary looks

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<v Speaker 1>at me, he goes, who is that? I said him out, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to tell you this, but Shane sick,

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes, are you kidding me? This guy isn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna know a thing that we do. We gotta play

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<v Speaker 1>a little three am and if this sucks, I'm out

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<v Speaker 1>of here. You can have this by yourself. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Gary, please, like, just give him the shot.

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<v Speaker 1>He would barely even speak to jod On. It was

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<v Speaker 1>so funny. He was so frustrated. And I understand. See

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<v Speaker 1>Gary was getting up at four thirty am to throw papers.

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<v Speaker 1>So we finished in the club at two. He slept

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<v Speaker 1>and he go right right to work throwing papers. So

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<v Speaker 1>I understood his frustration. But man, we got up there

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<v Speaker 1>together and the first song, I think we played it

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<v Speaker 1>on one of your shows. The first song we ever

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<v Speaker 1>played together was Church on the Cumberland Road by Shannondah,

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<v Speaker 1>and we hit that first course, man, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened, but it was just we all knew immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>We looked at each other like that is good and

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<v Speaker 1>we've got to have more of that. So Shane, that

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<v Speaker 1>original guitar players a name, right, he basically wally pipped

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<v Speaker 1>and while he played far Spaces for the Yankees forever,

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<v Speaker 1>and while he got hurt, nothing, he didn't do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And he got hurt, and uh, here it comes Loue Gary,

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<v Speaker 1>who's gonna fill in? And then here it's now the

0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Lue Gary world. What does Shane say about that? Shane

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<v Speaker 1>Shane still buddy of Arrish. We still see him out

0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:23.399
<v Speaker 1>playing with different artists and playing guitar. But he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he obviously gives us massive amounts of crap for us

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<v Speaker 1>firing and basically you never I had to call him

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<v Speaker 1>and tell him he couldn't come back, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>really awkward. I was like, I think we're gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and stick with Joe Don but I think anybody

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<v Speaker 1>that heard us sing together, and he would definitely tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this to God, that there was a special, uh

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry in a blend that we had that was not common.

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<v Speaker 1>What was happening in Nashville at that time. Though you

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<v Speaker 1>got you three or now you go, okay, this might

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<v Speaker 1>be something, But what was like the environment like because

0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:57.400
<v Speaker 1>you guys cut through so hard because you were so different.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you kind of aided where everyone else has gone,

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<v Speaker 1>so it doesn't seem like you're that different. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>have opened these roads up for a lot of artists nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time, who was popping around town where you're where,

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, you know what, You're not like them. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if this can be a thing quite yet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Nashville was was pretty safe back then. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean there were glimpses of pop in music. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you had your South sixty fives and your uh forget

0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:27.560
<v Speaker 1>Marshall Dillon was around. But they were definitely trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be five guys that danced and we're bringing trying to

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<v Speaker 1>bring the boy band vibe over the country music. And

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<v Speaker 1>it really wasn't resonating because they didn't play instruments. It

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<v Speaker 1>was it felt no offense to those guys that were

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make a living and do something, but it

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<v Speaker 1>felt contrived, honestly, And we were fans of bands that

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<v Speaker 1>were really great harmony bands like Diamond Rio and Shannondoah

0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:53.600
<v Speaker 1>at the time, and the Eagles were a huge influence

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<v Speaker 1>on us. So that's that's really what we were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do, was bring elements of what we loved about

0:18:58.880 --> 0:19:03.679
<v Speaker 1>pop music still great authentic harmonies and the songs, the

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<v Speaker 1>meat on the bone of the songs with something to

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<v Speaker 1>say in a different way. It's really what we tried

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<v Speaker 1>to hone in on and and make the foundation of

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<v Speaker 1>of what we were. We weren't even really trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be a band. We didn't set out to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to produce and write and help Gary get

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<v Speaker 1>a record deal so that I could try to be

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<v Speaker 1>a record producer and and be successful in in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I had already done the artist thing and we know

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<v Speaker 1>how that turned out. But the book, but it's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of had no aspirations to do another artist thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kind of forge a different career. But the

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<v Speaker 1>more we had a following and the more we sang together,

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<v Speaker 1>it just felt like it was evolving into that. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>rewind um. I grew up Pentecostal for a while, my

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<v Speaker 1>grandmother was Pentecostal. You did, yeah, and you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>for me that when they would speak in tongues, that

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<v Speaker 1>scared the crap out of me too. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>remember going and my grandmother who adopted me for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, uh, and she would speak in tongues and church,

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<v Speaker 1>and it never became something that I was just like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is I was always scared by it. Um, this

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<v Speaker 1>that that there was so much passion and love in

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<v Speaker 1>a Pentecostal church, no doubt the most by the way

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<v Speaker 1>of all of you know, my time of of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being really in the fabric of church, that was that

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<v Speaker 1>that was the closest I'd ever seen church. So as

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<v Speaker 1>much as I'm like that scared me, it was also

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen a close knit group like the Pentecostal church. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what was your experience, because I know that's that was

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<v Speaker 1>a big part of your life. Much the same I

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<v Speaker 1>was scared to death. They always told you to bring

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<v Speaker 1>your friends to church, and I'd say to my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>why would I ever scare I want my friends to

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<v Speaker 1>see what lunatics you guys act like when you run

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<v Speaker 1>around and speaking tongues and jump all over the pews

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. And and I was never and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the truth though I have to say it,

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<v Speaker 1>I was never very very comfortable in that environment because

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't the way that I believed that I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to express myself and my beliefs, and it would and

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<v Speaker 1>it always troubled me a little bit, but I admired

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that people were so dedicated to it, and

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<v Speaker 1>You're absolutely right, there was so much love, so much um.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always felt like I was surrounded by a family

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<v Speaker 1>of people that would do anything in the world for me,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I may not have agreed with exactly how

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<v Speaker 1>they went about it, you know. So for me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that I went through that because it laid a

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<v Speaker 1>really deep foundation to ford the groundwork for my faith

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<v Speaker 1>later on in life. And I had to really figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what I believed and why I believed it, because

0:21:34.600 --> 0:21:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I knew I didn't believe a much of that stuff

0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:38.879
<v Speaker 1>that I was exposed to. And I'm not saying that

0:21:38.920 --> 0:21:41.560
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't real. It was real for them, whatever that was.

0:21:41.960 --> 0:21:44.879
<v Speaker 1>But I had to deconstruct my belief system and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why I believed when I believed and not just

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<v Speaker 1>because I was indoctrinated with it when I was a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you start to play music, but you're playing

0:21:54.560 --> 0:21:58.480
<v Speaker 1>Christian music. Now, why why Christian music? Well, I wasn't

0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:01.199
<v Speaker 1>allowed to listen to quote unco secular music when I

0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:03.760
<v Speaker 1>was a kid, you know, I couldn't listen to Kiss

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:06.520
<v Speaker 1>and a C d C. And until later on in life,

0:22:06.760 --> 0:22:08.440
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of the kids were listening to that.

0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:12.119
<v Speaker 1>So I went turned to bands like Petra and Milon

0:22:12.240 --> 0:22:16.920
<v Speaker 1>Lefevre and White Heart and bands that were rock but

0:22:17.000 --> 0:22:22.240
<v Speaker 1>we're using a positive christ centered message. Those were my influences.

0:22:22.600 --> 0:22:25.600
<v Speaker 1>And so going to church and believing in God myself

0:22:25.640 --> 0:22:28.399
<v Speaker 1>and believing in Christ myself, I started to write a

0:22:28.480 --> 0:22:30.840
<v Speaker 1>lot of that kind of music. And the more I wrote,

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<v Speaker 1>the more I really got into that and felt like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that was what I was supposed to do. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I got to college and I was working at

0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:41.040
<v Speaker 1>the studio there on on the campus, I was doing

0:22:41.080 --> 0:22:44.520
<v Speaker 1>all kinds of demos and having my roommate Neil sing

0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:47.800
<v Speaker 1>the demos, and I was mailing them to publishers to

0:22:47.840 --> 0:22:50.000
<v Speaker 1>try to get a songwriting deal. And I got a

0:22:50.040 --> 0:22:53.240
<v Speaker 1>call from Benson Records one day, Don Cook at Benson Records,

0:22:53.320 --> 0:22:57.600
<v Speaker 1>not the Country, Don Cook, the KO c H. And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I love your band we'd like to bring

0:23:01.119 --> 0:23:03.159
<v Speaker 1>into town to talk about doing a record on you,

0:23:03.800 --> 0:23:05.560
<v Speaker 1>And of course had to tell him we're not a band.

0:23:05.960 --> 0:23:07.359
<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to get a pub deal. But

0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:13.159
<v Speaker 1>so as you're deciding where to go to school, the

0:23:12.960 --> 0:23:14.719
<v Speaker 1>the these these folks come to you and say, if

0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:16.800
<v Speaker 1>you'll go to school here, we'll pay We'll actually pay

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you away your debt, We'll pay your carpet. Like they say, hey,

0:23:19.560 --> 0:23:21.119
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna write you chup by three thousand dollars. But

0:23:21.160 --> 0:23:23.360
<v Speaker 1>it was yeah, something like that, We're gonna pay if

0:23:23.359 --> 0:23:26.800
<v Speaker 1>you come to school here and perform with the band

0:23:26.840 --> 0:23:30.120
<v Speaker 1>that was at school. Yeah. Um, so this this guy

0:23:30.400 --> 0:23:33.240
<v Speaker 1>was known for hand picking the best musicians at the

0:23:33.280 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>school and putting together a recruiting ensemble. So this this

0:23:37.400 --> 0:23:40.640
<v Speaker 1>particular group of kids would be four singers for musicians,

0:23:41.080 --> 0:23:43.240
<v Speaker 1>a couple of other road crew and things, and they

0:23:43.280 --> 0:23:46.840
<v Speaker 1>we traveled on a on a tour bus and um,

0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:50.720
<v Speaker 1>we went around the youth camps, convence youth conventions, We

0:23:50.760 --> 0:23:53.199
<v Speaker 1>went around the churches, we went around the camp meetings

0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:55.800
<v Speaker 1>and going in Pentecostal church. I know, you know what

0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:58.160
<v Speaker 1>a camp meeting is. But we would sing and then

0:23:58.200 --> 0:24:00.439
<v Speaker 1>we would talk about the school and so try to

0:24:00.520 --> 0:24:04.720
<v Speaker 1>recruit kids to come to school. We'd go overseas. I

0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>had the opportunity to see a whole bunch of the

0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:08.760
<v Speaker 1>world at a very young age playing with that group.

0:24:08.800 --> 0:24:11.280
<v Speaker 1>But as long as you played in that group, you

0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:13.800
<v Speaker 1>could keep your scholarship, you can keep going to school.

0:24:14.080 --> 0:24:16.119
<v Speaker 1>And that's kind of what my job was. So a

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 1>lot of these kids that would go home for this

0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:21.199
<v Speaker 1>summer that wasn't me. I toured my all of my

0:24:21.240 --> 0:24:25.399
<v Speaker 1>summers in school, and Neil and I were dear friends.

0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:29.240
<v Speaker 1>We became dear friends, and lo and behold we ended

0:24:29.320 --> 0:24:32.080
<v Speaker 1>up in East West together. And here is uh the

0:24:32.160 --> 0:24:34.639
<v Speaker 1>number one song from East to West, Prince of Peace.

0:24:39.200 --> 0:24:42.480
<v Speaker 1>How long has mit you heard this? Oh, my lord?

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:52.359
<v Speaker 1>Probably years, probably now as I was doing my research

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:54.959
<v Speaker 1>about East to West that I look like they were

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:57.879
<v Speaker 1>more than one lead singer. We both we both shared.

0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:03.000
<v Speaker 1>You both were doing the lead. What's that sort of

0:25:03.080 --> 0:25:08.879
<v Speaker 1>dynamic when you have dual lead singers. Well, it worked

0:25:08.920 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 1>well for us because I played bass and keys too

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:13.560
<v Speaker 1>soon and then there's no doubt Neil did the lion's

0:25:13.560 --> 0:25:16.000
<v Speaker 1>share of the lead vocals, and I would take a

0:25:16.119 --> 0:25:18.320
<v Speaker 1>verse here there, and you know, and and and that

0:25:18.359 --> 0:25:20.760
<v Speaker 1>sort of thing, and and maybe sing one song on

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:24.200
<v Speaker 1>the albums I would sing. So it worked really really

0:25:24.240 --> 0:25:27.040
<v Speaker 1>well because I cared, you know, I was such a

0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:30.720
<v Speaker 1>musician and muso head that I wanted to like play

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:32.639
<v Speaker 1>everything I could and play a lot of it on

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:35.280
<v Speaker 1>the record, and so I was content to let Neil

0:25:35.440 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 1>kind of shine and do his own thing. And he

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:40.560
<v Speaker 1>was a fantastic singer. But it worked well for us.

0:25:41.480 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Here is welcome to the next level from East to West.

0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:58.880
<v Speaker 1>When you can hear those Mr Mr and Go West influences,

0:25:58.880 --> 0:26:02.600
<v Speaker 1>can't you definitely an here that era? Yeah, when you're

0:26:02.760 --> 0:26:07.000
<v Speaker 1>in a Christian man, do you get girls? Yes, but

0:26:07.080 --> 0:26:10.359
<v Speaker 1>they've got to be Christians. I'm just kidding, but you know,

0:26:10.480 --> 0:26:14.760
<v Speaker 1>like do you get girls like are they just are

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:17.879
<v Speaker 1>they like, hey, band, guys, we'd like to have fellowship.

0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's go to Bible stuff. Yeah, Like yeah, No,

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely not like it is in country music or

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:29.359
<v Speaker 1>pop for sure, But there are girls that are hanging around,

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:33.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, there are It's funny that you know, you're

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:37.840
<v Speaker 1>you're dull lead singing and that's such a funny question,

0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 1>and you're still going. You know, I'm content with playing

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:43.200
<v Speaker 1>because I think that's a big part of why again

0:26:43.240 --> 0:26:45.119
<v Speaker 1>from the outside looking at and why flats have been

0:26:45.160 --> 0:26:48.159
<v Speaker 1>able to be so wonderful is that you can sing,

0:26:48.680 --> 0:26:53.240
<v Speaker 1>but you're actually okay not being the lead. When I

0:26:53.320 --> 0:26:55.760
<v Speaker 1>stand next to somebody that sings like Gary does every night,

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:58.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like, what's the point. I love to sing and

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:00.800
<v Speaker 1>I but I love singing harmony with him because I

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 1>feel like we have something unique and he's you know,

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:07.840
<v Speaker 1>it's like anything he sings is better ten times better

0:27:07.880 --> 0:27:10.320
<v Speaker 1>than anything I would come up with. And that's okay.

0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I think one of our strengths is we realize what

0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:16.120
<v Speaker 1>gifts and strengths we all three individually bring to the table,

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:17.960
<v Speaker 1>and we try to lean on those with each other.

0:27:18.560 --> 0:27:21.040
<v Speaker 1>And uh, you're right, I am okay because I get

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:24.440
<v Speaker 1>to sing beside one of the greatest vocalists I've ever

0:27:24.480 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 1>had the privilege of being around every night. And that's

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 1>a treat, you know, for me. I would listen to

0:27:29.760 --> 0:27:32.160
<v Speaker 1>the Google Dolls and they had this basis and these

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:35.080
<v Speaker 1>things like one or two cuts every record, get so annoyed,

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:38.240
<v Speaker 1>like trying to be Johnny Resu be the lead singer yeah,

0:27:38.320 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I get it's rare that there's a band um. I'll

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:43.960
<v Speaker 1>give you a couple examples, but they do different things.

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Lincoln Park had two singers. They had uh Mike Shinoda

0:27:48.800 --> 0:27:51.639
<v Speaker 1>and they had um In Chester Bennington. Chester would be

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 1>the vocalist, the straight and Snoda. Would you like the

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:57.080
<v Speaker 1>rapping bear naked ladies that Stephen and Ed? And Stephen

0:27:57.240 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 1>was the big singer and Ed was kind of the

0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 1>rappi guy, which Steven got kicked out of Manford the

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:04.000
<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Yeah, did you guys ever talk about that

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:08.760
<v Speaker 1>in flats where like you would do songs. I didn't

0:28:08.760 --> 0:28:11.719
<v Speaker 1>want to be that annoying guy. It's like, oh, okay,

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 1>we know the bass player sings too. But I will

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:16.640
<v Speaker 1>tell you when we played the clubs, you know, we'd

0:28:16.680 --> 0:28:19.040
<v Speaker 1>have to play five hours a night. So we passed

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>around the lead vocals a lot more often back then,

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 1>because it's a lot to ask Gary to sing five

0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:27.520
<v Speaker 1>hours a night in in smokey barbers. Back then you

0:28:27.520 --> 0:28:30.320
<v Speaker 1>could still smoke in the bar rooms, and so we

0:28:30.359 --> 0:28:34.119
<v Speaker 1>did sing a lot more. But I saw the value

0:28:34.240 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 1>of having that lead vocalists established, and the sound that

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>he had was so identifiable. And so great that it

0:28:42.720 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't It just wasn't that important to me to have

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>a song on the record where I sing. Now, Joe

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Don and I have sung verses here and there on

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 1>some songs, but I just don't think it's that important

0:28:53.640 --> 0:28:55.720
<v Speaker 1>to either one of us to like, oh look at me,

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:58.920
<v Speaker 1>I can sing a lead vocal too. I love bands

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:01.400
<v Speaker 1>that have multiple lead singers, by the way. I mean

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:04.479
<v Speaker 1>the Eagles, I mean Lady Annabellum. I love that they

0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:07.160
<v Speaker 1>all sing. I love that, you know, we can go

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:10.000
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0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:14.960
<v Speaker 1>there is a merit in that, I think, and we

0:29:15.040 --> 0:29:17.680
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<v Speaker 1>You know, for me and I related with the first

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<v Speaker 1>part of your book as it starts, because I've just

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<v Speaker 1>I've been at the right place a few times, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've been at that place when it's the wrong place

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<v Speaker 1>many many many times, and where you just sit there

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<v Speaker 1>and go, man, just can't wait for my shop one

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<v Speaker 1>day on one day, one day, and you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden I'll give you an example, um,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think your book starts with a really great

0:31:41.720 --> 0:31:44.840
<v Speaker 1>story about just life in general. Um, just a recent example.

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 1>I've been working on Idol now as a mentor you

0:31:47.320 --> 0:31:48.960
<v Speaker 1>know have you know, I'm on every episode, have a

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:51.880
<v Speaker 1>bit parts, but that's Luke and Katie and Lionel Show

0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:53.720
<v Speaker 1>and Ryan Show and I come on and I'm on

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 1>ten fifty minutes two hours, which great, a great look

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:59.760
<v Speaker 1>for me. But Ryan got sick and they're like, it's

0:31:59.760 --> 0:32:01.720
<v Speaker 1>fifth team. Minutes before the show starts, we need somebody

0:32:01.720 --> 0:32:03.800
<v Speaker 1>to host the show, Bobby, we need to host American Idol.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like great, Like for fifteen years, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>just waiting for this shot, right way to wait. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you read the news the next day and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, wow, this guy lucked out. He got I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait, I've been in the wrong place so

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<v Speaker 1>many times, like ten thousand times, nothing's happened. And I

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 1>find and then but because of that that one look

0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I got where Ryan got sick. Now a lot of

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 1>these doors have opened up because I got a stage

0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 1>and I was able to do relatively well. And and

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:30.800
<v Speaker 1>your book starts with the dude get it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>dude get six snow storm. He's stuck in a snowstorm. Yeah,

0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:38.680
<v Speaker 1>and you can't. He can't get there, so you you sing. Yeah.

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:42.840
<v Speaker 1>The owner of the venue said, I've got a house

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<v Speaker 1>full of people and no artist. What are we gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>Can somebody go out and like, do af you praise

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:51.360
<v Speaker 1>worship songs and explain our situation? And I said, I

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:53.480
<v Speaker 1>got a keyboard, like I can go out and sing

0:32:53.560 --> 0:32:58.080
<v Speaker 1>some songs. And you know, miraculously enough they stayed and

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:00.440
<v Speaker 1>we ended up doing about an hour, you know, And

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:04.040
<v Speaker 1>it was one of the first legitimate times I thought, well,

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:07.800
<v Speaker 1>there's opportunity meeting preparedness, like I had practiced my whole

0:33:07.920 --> 0:33:11.880
<v Speaker 1>entire life for that one moment, really, and I was

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 1>a nervous wreck, but you know how those things go.

0:33:15.160 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 1>You feel confident in your ability and your skill set

0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>enough to go. I'm a nervous wreck, but I'm gonna

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:23.160
<v Speaker 1>overcome and suppress these nerves so I can go to

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:24.760
<v Speaker 1>go out there and do what I feel like I'm

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:27.800
<v Speaker 1>meant to do. And I even say then in the book,

0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:29.880
<v Speaker 1>there was a moment where everything slowed down. I took

0:33:29.880 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 1>a deep breath, and I was like, Yeah, I'm in

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:36.080
<v Speaker 1>my element. This is what I'm supposed to be doing.

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that crazy? I felt the same way. It was like, White,

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:40.160
<v Speaker 1>I have to one a fifteen minutes. They're like, yeah,

0:33:40.200 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 1>no time for rehearsal. But about a third of the

0:33:43.320 --> 0:33:47.400
<v Speaker 1>way through the show, I went, oh, like yeah, this

0:33:47.480 --> 0:33:49.080
<v Speaker 1>is a big deal. But this is what I've been

0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.239
<v Speaker 1>waiting to do, Like I've worked to get here, and

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 1>my skill set is that to be good on the prompter,

0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:56.560
<v Speaker 1>good with people. I know. I know Luke and Lionel

0:33:56.560 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 1>really well know Katie a little bit, so I can

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 1>talk with them, and well, for get the prompter. You're

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:03.320
<v Speaker 1>good on your feet too. More importantly, yes, you know,

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:05.280
<v Speaker 1>the prompter could go dead, and I'm quite sure you

0:34:05.280 --> 0:34:08.040
<v Speaker 1>could carry the whole show by yourself. And that people.

0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:10.959
<v Speaker 1>It amazes me too, because I've I've done a little

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:12.759
<v Speaker 1>bit of that. I've done some acting, I've done a

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:16.399
<v Speaker 1>little bit of podcasting and hosting some things here and there,

0:34:16.719 --> 0:34:20.319
<v Speaker 1>and I co host the Tennessee Miss Tennessee pageant with

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:23.399
<v Speaker 1>my wife for the past twelve years. And people don't

0:34:23.400 --> 0:34:26.279
<v Speaker 1>appreciate how hard it is to get up in front

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:29.320
<v Speaker 1>of a crowd, especially live television, and have to stretch

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:32.399
<v Speaker 1>and fill in blank spaces while people are screaming into

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 1>your ears what's coming next and what you need to

0:34:34.719 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>talk about next? And I have to say, even to

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:38.840
<v Speaker 1>this day, you and I don't spend a lot of

0:34:38.880 --> 0:34:40.920
<v Speaker 1>time visiting with one another, but you're one of the

0:34:40.960 --> 0:34:43.600
<v Speaker 1>best set and I've ever seen, and and and and I.

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:46.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, the future is only going to get brighter

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 1>for you. Man, you're scratching the surface getting older. I'm

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:53.799
<v Speaker 1>older than you. You know your wife, Though I like

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>your wife a lot, he's only been super kind to me.

0:34:56.160 --> 0:34:58.080
<v Speaker 1>She's awesome. So she has I come through yet with

0:34:58.080 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>finding me a girlfriend. Every time I serious that I

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:04.520
<v Speaker 1>want to set you up, never not once. Well, you

0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:06.799
<v Speaker 1>know you need to um start a Christian band. I

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 1>apparently I don't need this wart any more. Band get

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:11.440
<v Speaker 1>a girl pregnant, then you get kicked out of that

0:35:11.520 --> 0:35:15.160
<v Speaker 1>said Christian band. So okay, that was the first story

0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:17.399
<v Speaker 1>that I and for me when I wrote my first book,

0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 1>I just wonder what they were going to run with,

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:21.759
<v Speaker 1>like because you send it out to people click bait

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:25.680
<v Speaker 1>and you go what clickbait? Well, they create and yours

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 1>was said, you gotta go a pregnant and so at

0:35:30.239 --> 0:35:31.759
<v Speaker 1>the gap, but you're gonna play at the gap you

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:33.600
<v Speaker 1>met out the gap, although that had been a great Yeah,

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:37.399
<v Speaker 1>that's the clickbait. You get pregnant at the gap, inter gap.

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah in both. Yeah, that would have been truer, that

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:44.040
<v Speaker 1>would have been true. Uh, so many places that could go.

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:48.439
<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, that was You know, people people have said

0:35:48.480 --> 0:35:50.640
<v Speaker 1>to me, it's hard to believe that you had sex

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 1>one time, and there's no reason to make that story up.

0:35:54.400 --> 0:35:57.280
<v Speaker 1>It coulduced as easily say we had sex a hundred

0:35:57.280 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 1>times and I ended up getting pregnant with the same result.

0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 1>But it is the truth. It was one time condom broke.

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:07.520
<v Speaker 1>My life turned around in one instant, and everybody that

0:36:07.800 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 1>had anything to do with me in my career at

0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:14.040
<v Speaker 1>that point in my life, um, most of the people.

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 1>There were some great friends that stood by me and

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:19.759
<v Speaker 1>supported me and loved me no matter what. But most

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:21.880
<v Speaker 1>of the people, some of whom had jobs because of

0:36:21.920 --> 0:36:25.840
<v Speaker 1>my career scattered. I got dropped by my record label, management,

0:36:25.840 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 1>booking agency at all just went away. And I say this,

0:36:30.640 --> 0:36:33.640
<v Speaker 1>I believe all too often people that call themselves Christians

0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:36.840
<v Speaker 1>kill their wounded instead of nursing them back to health

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 1>and making sure that they're okay. And that's what pisces

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:44.799
<v Speaker 1>me off so much about organized religion. It's so judgmental,

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:47.880
<v Speaker 1>and it's so easy to cast a stone at somebody

0:36:48.280 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 1>when they've got a million problems of their own and

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:54.239
<v Speaker 1>they battle millions of demons themselves. And that's what I

0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:56.279
<v Speaker 1>wanted to write the book for, was to say there's

0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:58.200
<v Speaker 1>a different side to being a believer, and being a

0:36:58.200 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 1>believer doesn't mean that you're perfect. It's actually quite the opposite.

0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:05.440
<v Speaker 1>It's admitting that we're all flawed human beings that need help.

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe any of us are meant to live

0:37:08.320 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 1>through this life alone and handle all of this crap

0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:15.239
<v Speaker 1>by ourselves. You know. It's almost that their strength and vulnerability,

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:17.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, the same thing that you're saying right there,

0:37:17.239 --> 0:37:20.040
<v Speaker 1>like we think that the right thing is to be

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:22.640
<v Speaker 1>the right whatever right means, by the way, it was

0:37:23.280 --> 0:37:28.200
<v Speaker 1>um right, yeah right? So so the only a sex

0:37:28.280 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>are one time Connor broke? Did you know immediately the

0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:32.839
<v Speaker 1>Connon broke? I knew, I knew it broken. You know,

0:37:33.760 --> 0:37:35.800
<v Speaker 1>we're getting down in the weeds here, yeah, we are.

0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:40.560
<v Speaker 1>We are did the well, I I realized after we

0:37:40.560 --> 0:37:44.880
<v Speaker 1>had finished, and I freaked out so badly she she left.

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:47.080
<v Speaker 1>She didn't want to anything to do with me. She

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 1>was like, you're freaking me out. This is so weird.

0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:53.520
<v Speaker 1>It's not like that these things aren't happen. It's gonna

0:37:53.560 --> 0:37:55.759
<v Speaker 1>be okay. I said, you don't understand. And I was

0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:58.799
<v Speaker 1>really freaking out because I had made a commitment to

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:02.640
<v Speaker 1>myself and and the trying to do it the right way.

0:38:02.640 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna wait till I was married, have have

0:38:05.360 --> 0:38:07.840
<v Speaker 1>sex on the wedding night, do the whole thing that

0:38:07.880 --> 0:38:11.160
<v Speaker 1>you're taught to do when you're a Bible believing Christian,

0:38:11.239 --> 0:38:13.600
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted that was important to me and I

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:16.040
<v Speaker 1>failed in that. But the first to have sex ever

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:19.799
<v Speaker 1>though well during while I was in the Christian band,

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 1>though I definitely lived when I was trying to stand

0:38:23.239 --> 0:38:25.319
<v Speaker 1>for you know, but when you're in the Christian band,

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 1>like like, would you have sex with girls? No good

0:38:29.160 --> 0:38:30.840
<v Speaker 1>for you? I did before. I mean when I was

0:38:30.880 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>in college, I went through a phase where I lost

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:35.520
<v Speaker 1>my mind. But when I when I was in the

0:38:35.600 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Christian band, I was very good about and I dated

0:38:38.600 --> 0:38:41.839
<v Speaker 1>a girl that was in a was a Christian artist too,

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:44.359
<v Speaker 1>so it was easy for us to help keep each

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:46.399
<v Speaker 1>other in check and make sure we didn't cross those

0:38:46.440 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 1>lines that we couldn't, you know, we wanted to. But

0:38:50.719 --> 0:38:52.360
<v Speaker 1>that's a good though, because I'm a big believer, and

0:38:52.360 --> 0:38:54.080
<v Speaker 1>if you surround yourself with the best people, then you

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.279
<v Speaker 1>do make the best decisions. So if you have her

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>with you, and they doesn't have to be this one

0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:01.799
<v Speaker 1>even instance, but if she's a good influence on you,

0:39:01.840 --> 0:39:04.920
<v Speaker 1>it makes you make good decisions. Uh, you go to college.

0:39:05.640 --> 0:39:07.839
<v Speaker 1>You said you lose your mind in college a little bit. Yeah.

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:10.919
<v Speaker 1>I definitely was one of those kids that had been

0:39:10.960 --> 0:39:14.399
<v Speaker 1>sheltered a little bit. And I always and you know,

0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I tell the story about my mom and how she

0:39:16.600 --> 0:39:19.319
<v Speaker 1>struggled as a single parent. I always tried to keep

0:39:19.360 --> 0:39:22.120
<v Speaker 1>my nose clean as a as a teenager and as

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:25.120
<v Speaker 1>a kid growing up because I saw what my mom

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:27.840
<v Speaker 1>was doing to make sacrifices to make sure our life

0:39:27.840 --> 0:39:32.200
<v Speaker 1>was good. And so I didn't do a whole lot

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:34.520
<v Speaker 1>of partying in high school. I didn't, you know, I

0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:37.759
<v Speaker 1>kept my nose pretty clean. I did have sex when

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 1>I was seventeen with my girlfriend, but I felt really

0:39:40.800 --> 0:39:43.000
<v Speaker 1>guilty about it and never did it again. But then

0:39:43.040 --> 0:39:45.279
<v Speaker 1>I got to college and I was around a whole

0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:48.640
<v Speaker 1>group of like minded people like the party a little bit,

0:39:49.320 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 1>started hanging out with some you know pastor's girls or

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 1>when they when they get out of the nest, they

0:39:56.120 --> 0:39:59.239
<v Speaker 1>like to get out, and um, you know, test that

0:39:59.280 --> 0:40:02.160
<v Speaker 1>new found free him. And there were moments that I'm

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:03.759
<v Speaker 1>not proud of it. I went through a lot of

0:40:03.960 --> 0:40:09.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, um, what, what's the word I'm looking for? Debauchery?

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:12.799
<v Speaker 1>In college. I think we should shout out your mom

0:40:12.840 --> 0:40:15.719
<v Speaker 1>real quick, because you do mentioned that single mom work

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:18.280
<v Speaker 1>two jobs and to put you in a Christian private school,

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:21.120
<v Speaker 1>Like you're broke and she's working to put you in school,

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:27.200
<v Speaker 1>which showed what she valued for you are kid, And

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's a not even just a clothes on you.

0:40:30.440 --> 0:40:32.600
<v Speaker 1>But I also make sure you get into a Christian school.

0:40:33.000 --> 0:40:35.680
<v Speaker 1>I know it was remarkable now when I look back

0:40:35.680 --> 0:40:38.359
<v Speaker 1>on it, and you know, not until later on in

0:40:38.360 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>life did she tell me how much money she would

0:40:40.600 --> 0:40:43.080
<v Speaker 1>have left in her wallet or how much food we

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:46.239
<v Speaker 1>would really have in the pantry. That she was going on,

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>How in the world am I gonna make this last

0:40:48.000 --> 0:40:52.959
<v Speaker 1>through the weekend living paycheck to paycheck. Somehow, some way

0:40:53.280 --> 0:40:55.719
<v Speaker 1>it all came together, and she would she told me

0:40:55.840 --> 0:41:00.880
<v Speaker 1>stories that's unbelievable about boxes of groceries showing up on

0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 1>our front porch, and she would not know where they

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 1>had come from. Things like that that I had no

0:41:07.560 --> 0:41:10.080
<v Speaker 1>knowledge of until much later on in life. You know,

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 1>it's wild you say that because for me growing up,

0:41:13.360 --> 0:41:16.120
<v Speaker 1>we we I finally figured out who it was, but

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:18.640
<v Speaker 1>it was the church. They would drop off Christmas presents

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:22.560
<v Speaker 1>in food and the p t a because you know

0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:25.640
<v Speaker 1>my mom or my grandmother when she was just raising

0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 1>me and my little sister, they would know they would

0:41:29.200 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 1>drop it off and we would get to eat. Or

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 1>I remember once for Christmas, I got a color by

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:33.839
<v Speaker 1>number paints. It was only gift. I got the whole

0:41:33.920 --> 0:41:36.200
<v Speaker 1>year color by number paint set and I painted it

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 1>was the stupidest duck, but it was the best duck

0:41:38.840 --> 0:41:40.800
<v Speaker 1>ever painted, like it was my Christmas gift. And the

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:42.840
<v Speaker 1>church brought it and left it at the door with

0:41:42.840 --> 0:41:44.360
<v Speaker 1>a bow on it and didn't say who. Well, I

0:41:44.400 --> 0:41:47.160
<v Speaker 1>we found out it was a church. But it's funny

0:41:47.160 --> 0:41:49.560
<v Speaker 1>you say that, because I love those stories. Zoon Man

0:41:49.960 --> 0:41:52.239
<v Speaker 1>and I think those have lasted with me to how

0:41:52.320 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 1>I tried to treat people too. I don't know if

0:41:54.640 --> 0:41:56.720
<v Speaker 1>it has for you, like if that's left in depression

0:41:56.760 --> 0:42:01.839
<v Speaker 1>with you. Definitely it definitely it makes me think about

0:42:01.840 --> 0:42:03.880
<v Speaker 1>the way that I treat people. But it also I

0:42:03.920 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 1>think has allowed me to live in the moments and

0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 1>the life that I've been able to live and appreciate

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:13.439
<v Speaker 1>it to a deeper level too, maybe than some others would,

0:42:13.520 --> 0:42:16.879
<v Speaker 1>because I wake up every day and this is no

0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:20.919
<v Speaker 1>joke thanking God for the chance to do what we've

0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 1>been able to do for nearly twenty years now, which

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 1>is almost in heard of too in this day and age.

0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 1>But I really don't take it for granted because I

0:42:29.680 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>feel so blessed, far beyond what I ever imagined I

0:42:33.719 --> 0:42:36.279
<v Speaker 1>would have been and it and it's not lost on

0:42:36.360 --> 0:42:37.960
<v Speaker 1>me how hard it is to make it in the

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:40.439
<v Speaker 1>music industry. You see it all the time, how many

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:43.400
<v Speaker 1>people come to this town every single day hoping for

0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:46.560
<v Speaker 1>a career in the music business. And I'm just so

0:42:46.680 --> 0:42:49.840
<v Speaker 1>grateful to be able to look back on all I

0:42:49.920 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 1>have been through, but to know that all of that

0:42:53.800 --> 0:42:56.279
<v Speaker 1>was for a very necessary reason. And now on the

0:42:56.320 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 1>other side of it, I can really look at it

0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 1>and go thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you

0:43:00.800 --> 0:43:06.640
<v Speaker 1>God so much. Mm hmm. You talk about being twenty

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:11.879
<v Speaker 1>years in twenty years and to to maintain a level

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:15.319
<v Speaker 1>of success for that long, But I look back at

0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>like your first let let's play your first thingle here,

0:43:18.280 --> 0:43:21.640
<v Speaker 1>let's let's go back, Let's go, let's go, let's do

0:43:21.680 --> 0:43:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I have the whole thing here, let's do uh. These

0:43:23.719 --> 0:43:31.360
<v Speaker 1>days before the video was shot, as you right, you

0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:36.480
<v Speaker 1>that are well? You thought you had a heart attack. Yeah.

0:43:36.600 --> 0:43:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I was dealing with panic attacks pretty badly in my

0:43:39.520 --> 0:43:42.040
<v Speaker 1>mid to late twenties, and I would have them periodically,

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:44.880
<v Speaker 1>but this one was a really bad one and I

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:46.439
<v Speaker 1>thought I was having a heart attack. So I drove

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:49.520
<v Speaker 1>myself to St. Thomas and I spent most of the

0:43:49.600 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 1>night there. But this is also right before the video.

0:43:52.239 --> 0:43:54.560
<v Speaker 1>Right before the video. Yeah, I called our manager and

0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:57.240
<v Speaker 1>said I don't think I think we and he was like, yeah,

0:43:57.320 --> 0:44:00.279
<v Speaker 1>it's a bigger deal than what you think. It just

0:44:00.320 --> 0:44:02.799
<v Speaker 1>move a whole entire video shoot. And I said, well,

0:44:02.800 --> 0:44:05.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm exhausted. I've been at the hospital all night. They've

0:44:05.320 --> 0:44:07.960
<v Speaker 1>been running blood tests, and I don't think I can

0:44:07.960 --> 0:44:09.960
<v Speaker 1>make it, and he goes, come in as late as

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:11.879
<v Speaker 1>you can, but please do your best to be there,

0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:16.040
<v Speaker 1>because we we we can't move these times. And I

0:44:16.080 --> 0:44:19.560
<v Speaker 1>showed up and sat down beside Allison in the makeup chair.

0:44:20.480 --> 0:44:23.560
<v Speaker 1>And that, by the way, is your wife. Now, as

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:26.080
<v Speaker 1>the book says, she wasn't getting listen. I'm up precisally

0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:28.920
<v Speaker 1>a little bit about this because you sit down in

0:44:28.960 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 1>the makeup chair as you go, and you're tired, and

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:33.040
<v Speaker 1>you've had a heart attack slash panic attack the night

0:44:33.040 --> 0:44:36.440
<v Speaker 1>before first video. You sit down, They're gonna make you pretty.

0:44:36.760 --> 0:44:39.959
<v Speaker 1>And there she is. Yeah, and what do you say?

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.480
<v Speaker 1>I said, Hey, how are you doing? She's like fine,

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:49.040
<v Speaker 1>nothing back, like playing tennis by yourself. She doesn't have

0:44:49.080 --> 0:44:52.160
<v Speaker 1>a ring on. Take it off of the video. It's

0:44:52.200 --> 0:44:55.480
<v Speaker 1>exactly right. So I'm like, I'll try again. Where are

0:44:55.480 --> 0:45:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you from, Jackson, Tennessee? Again? Playing tennis by yourself? Nothing?

0:45:02.680 --> 0:45:05.680
<v Speaker 1>No lab back? Where are you from? Oh Columbus, Ohio.

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you asked, you know, I'm just sitting there

0:45:08.360 --> 0:45:11.360
<v Speaker 1>like working so hard, you know, Like so if have

0:45:11.480 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 1>you heard the song before? And she's like, I don't

0:45:13.600 --> 0:45:16.560
<v Speaker 1>really listen to country music. I think I heard one

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 1>of your songs like called Waiting for Midnight, Like, well,

0:45:20.680 --> 0:45:24.600
<v Speaker 1>actually it's Praying for Daylight. A really big fan, I

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:29.200
<v Speaker 1>can tell, So, uh is she was? She was not cold,

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:31.880
<v Speaker 1>but stand office, you know, And now looking back, I

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:34.840
<v Speaker 1>understand why. But as the day went on and the

0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:37.720
<v Speaker 1>longer the weights were in between each setup and each take,

0:45:39.160 --> 0:45:43.320
<v Speaker 1>we started to talk and I really really enjoyed her company.

0:45:43.520 --> 0:45:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Let me stop you for a second, but stand office,

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:48.120
<v Speaker 1>because she was engaged, right, I just didn't know that.

0:45:48.520 --> 0:45:50.680
<v Speaker 1>I did not know that. In my defense, I did

0:45:50.680 --> 0:45:52.440
<v Speaker 1>not know that. And so you guys are shooting the

0:45:52.480 --> 0:45:53.839
<v Speaker 1>video and you're getting to know each other and you're

0:45:53.920 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 1>you're you're feeling a vibe. Yeah, I mean, all I

0:45:57.160 --> 0:45:59.920
<v Speaker 1>know is I like being around her, and she was

0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:04.640
<v Speaker 1>she was hot. I mean she was really hot, you know. Um.

0:46:04.680 --> 0:46:06.759
<v Speaker 1>And so I would go find her. I would seek

0:46:06.760 --> 0:46:08.640
<v Speaker 1>her out and I'd sit down beside over and she

0:46:08.719 --> 0:46:12.080
<v Speaker 1>was mildly annoyed by me, I could tell. But you know,

0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:16.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of quick on my feet, funny and make

0:46:16.640 --> 0:46:18.759
<v Speaker 1>people laugh. And I started to make her laugh some

0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:21.400
<v Speaker 1>and well, she's not impressed by the music. Thing. She

0:46:21.440 --> 0:46:25.000
<v Speaker 1>could have cared Less absolutely could have cared was hired

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:26.960
<v Speaker 1>to be in the video. You guys here they are

0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:31.279
<v Speaker 1>Nashville sign ba boom ba boom. This is nothing, huh.

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:33.719
<v Speaker 1>She could have cared Less. I'm telling you, it was amazing.

0:46:34.120 --> 0:46:37.080
<v Speaker 1>And I was like anything that a younger me or

0:46:37.120 --> 0:46:41.040
<v Speaker 1>any younger musician would use to, you know, to impress

0:46:41.120 --> 0:46:43.080
<v Speaker 1>a young lady, you know, like, hey, look at me,

0:46:43.200 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Well don't I look sexy when I play with nothing?

0:46:46.360 --> 0:46:49.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean nothing, nothing. And so at the end of

0:46:49.320 --> 0:46:53.000
<v Speaker 1>the night we're talking, I'm on a truck bed with her.

0:46:53.040 --> 0:46:55.440
<v Speaker 1>I never on a tailgate when I'm sitting there, like,

0:46:55.920 --> 0:46:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I hate this because like after we wrap, I'm never

0:46:58.440 --> 0:47:01.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna get to see you again. This is sucks. It's

0:47:01.520 --> 0:47:04.120
<v Speaker 1>been really great talking to you. And she said, well,

0:47:04.200 --> 0:47:07.600
<v Speaker 1>actually I'm I'm engaged. And I know that you didn't

0:47:07.640 --> 0:47:09.200
<v Speaker 1>know that because it made me take my ring off.

0:47:09.239 --> 0:47:11.799
<v Speaker 1>But I'm getting married in about a month or so,

0:47:12.000 --> 0:47:14.000
<v Speaker 1>a couple of months whatever it was, four months, I

0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:18.799
<v Speaker 1>believe you say, yeah, that sounds about right. Yeah, And

0:47:18.840 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 1>so I was just like, this is terrible. But she's

0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:26.840
<v Speaker 1>been really really nice to me tonight, and she's talked

0:47:26.840 --> 0:47:29.839
<v Speaker 1>to me and we've shared, and she finally goes, can

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I go on your bus and use the restroom before

0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:34.239
<v Speaker 1>I leave so I don't have to use the porta potty?

0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:36.719
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, absolutely, I'll take you up. So

0:47:36.800 --> 0:47:39.759
<v Speaker 1>while she's in using the restroom, I pull on a

0:47:39.760 --> 0:47:42.279
<v Speaker 1>piece of paper and write my phone number down, and

0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I handed it to her and I said, listen, I

0:47:43.760 --> 0:47:46.120
<v Speaker 1>know you're gonna ask for this anyway, so I'm gonna

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:48.600
<v Speaker 1>go ahead and give this too, just like that too,

0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:52.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, really cheesy. And she takes it and she goes,

0:47:52.600 --> 0:47:54.880
<v Speaker 1>my daddy raised me never to call boys, but if

0:47:54.880 --> 0:47:56.279
<v Speaker 1>you want to get in touch with me, this is

0:47:56.280 --> 0:48:00.640
<v Speaker 1>my number. And I just thought, man, who's going to

0:48:00.719 --> 0:48:02.960
<v Speaker 1>give their number to somebody if there isn't a little

0:48:02.960 --> 0:48:05.880
<v Speaker 1>bit of chink in the army armor there? So I

0:48:05.960 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>kept calling her. She never called me back, honestly, And

0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I ran into her at the Old Green Hills Grill,

0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:15.040
<v Speaker 1>and I ran into her again at another restaurant. I

0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:16.840
<v Speaker 1>forget where we were at that time. Was ever with

0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 1>her fiance, and she was never with him. She was

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 1>with her mom and her grandmother and a and a

0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:25.040
<v Speaker 1>friend another time, and I ran into her and I

0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:26.879
<v Speaker 1>the second time, and I called her and I said,

0:48:26.880 --> 0:48:28.920
<v Speaker 1>this is the last time I'll call. I promise. But

0:48:28.960 --> 0:48:31.000
<v Speaker 1>if that isn't a sign that we shouldn't at least

0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:33.440
<v Speaker 1>like go to lunch, I don't know what it is.

0:48:33.480 --> 0:48:36.760
<v Speaker 1>So let's just go to lunch. And we went to lunch,

0:48:36.840 --> 0:48:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and honest to god, we sat there for five and

0:48:39.200 --> 0:48:41.439
<v Speaker 1>a half hours. We met at noon, when she left

0:48:41.440 --> 0:48:45.839
<v Speaker 1>there at five thirty, and it was really like I'd

0:48:45.880 --> 0:48:49.680
<v Speaker 1>known her my entire life. Honestly, it was so easy

0:48:49.960 --> 0:48:54.439
<v Speaker 1>and so fun and natural. And you know, now we're

0:48:54.480 --> 0:48:56.360
<v Speaker 1>old and sick of each other, but at the time

0:48:56.600 --> 0:48:59.040
<v Speaker 1>it was I'm kidding. Have you thought that she never

0:48:59.080 --> 0:49:02.480
<v Speaker 1>had a fiance and this whole thing was that, No, no,

0:49:02.600 --> 0:49:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I know him, So yeah, you think, guys, then she

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:12.080
<v Speaker 1>has to break it off. H Well, it was you know,

0:49:12.560 --> 0:49:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I think that I was more of the straw that

0:49:14.160 --> 0:49:16.560
<v Speaker 1>broke the camel's back. It was headed that way anyway.

0:49:16.960 --> 0:49:18.880
<v Speaker 1>And she she did tell me, she said, I need

0:49:18.920 --> 0:49:20.920
<v Speaker 1>to sort my life out. I've had fun with you,

0:49:20.960 --> 0:49:23.600
<v Speaker 1>and I definitely loved being around you, but I've got

0:49:23.600 --> 0:49:25.680
<v Speaker 1>to make some big decisions and decide what I'm doing

0:49:25.760 --> 0:49:28.880
<v Speaker 1>with my life here and so she cut it, shut

0:49:28.920 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>it down with me for a long time. And one

0:49:31.640 --> 0:49:33.560
<v Speaker 1>day I got a call from her saying that she

0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:36.719
<v Speaker 1>had told her dad she couldn't get married. And we

0:49:37.560 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 1>went to dinner and we're never apart after that. Here

0:49:41.040 --> 0:49:45.319
<v Speaker 1>we are fifteen years tomorrow. Is that right? Congratulations on

0:49:45.360 --> 0:49:48.480
<v Speaker 1>your big anniversary. Well we gotta leave. People do on anniversaries.

0:49:49.200 --> 0:49:52.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Let's find someone ask him stop. You

0:49:52.760 --> 0:49:55.360
<v Speaker 1>know how much kids cost. And you've seen my wife,

0:49:55.360 --> 0:49:57.880
<v Speaker 1>you know how much money she spends. I need a

0:49:57.880 --> 0:49:59.719
<v Speaker 1>gig on idol or something. Can you get me a

0:50:00.000 --> 0:50:05.640
<v Speaker 1>another judge spots off it? You know. I remember watching

0:50:05.680 --> 0:50:09.120
<v Speaker 1>because I was over in Pop whenever you guys crossed over, Um,

0:50:09.160 --> 0:50:11.239
<v Speaker 1>so I was. I grew up in Arkansas, so I

0:50:11.320 --> 0:50:12.879
<v Speaker 1>was a die hard country family and I went to Pop.

0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:14.200
<v Speaker 1>I kind of checked out a bit because I was

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:16.640
<v Speaker 1>just consumed by what I was doing with my work,

0:50:17.160 --> 0:50:19.440
<v Speaker 1>and you guys, what hurts the most It was a

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:21.359
<v Speaker 1>big country and then started to creep into my world

0:50:21.400 --> 0:50:24.560
<v Speaker 1>a bit, right, So I remember watching you guys on

0:50:24.640 --> 0:50:29.960
<v Speaker 1>Yester Dear. It was up for a daytime, Emmy, wasn't

0:50:29.960 --> 0:50:32.239
<v Speaker 1>it performance on there? Listen and I remember thinking, oh,

0:50:32.320 --> 0:50:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I like these guys, because I mean I can remember

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:38.320
<v Speaker 1>it vividly. You know, yesterday was a sitcom and uh

0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:42.000
<v Speaker 1>they you guys like showed up and they were trying

0:50:42.000 --> 0:50:45.560
<v Speaker 1>to get into your show and then you stole our limo. Yeah,

0:50:45.560 --> 0:50:47.600
<v Speaker 1>and they got and you guys, but then you're all

0:50:47.680 --> 0:50:50.759
<v Speaker 1>right riding together in the back of the car. That

0:50:50.760 --> 0:50:53.640
<v Speaker 1>that's funny. That's I think my first like real moment

0:50:53.680 --> 0:50:56.520
<v Speaker 1>of knowing who you guys faces were. I'm still dear

0:50:56.560 --> 0:50:59.720
<v Speaker 1>friends with Liza Snyder from that show. We we forged

0:50:59.800 --> 0:51:04.000
<v Speaker 1>really great friendship from that show, and that's a favorite

0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:05.800
<v Speaker 1>memory of mine. That was a fun shoot. It was

0:51:05.840 --> 0:51:10.359
<v Speaker 1>about three days. Well so you're making it over in country,

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:13.319
<v Speaker 1>but it's gotta be a whole different world once all

0:51:13.400 --> 0:51:17.280
<v Speaker 1>of uh like like, oh yeah, boulders are falling instead

0:51:17.280 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 1>of it was weird man. When when What Hurts the

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:26.879
<v Speaker 1>Most was number one on UM Top forty radio. It

0:51:26.960 --> 0:51:29.440
<v Speaker 1>was a moment that I'll never forget because we started

0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:32.480
<v Speaker 1>getting calls to then go to which was unheard of

0:51:32.520 --> 0:51:34.719
<v Speaker 1>back then. It was a different time, not a lot

0:51:34.760 --> 0:51:37.280
<v Speaker 1>of like now, you'll see a lot of country acts

0:51:37.320 --> 0:51:39.880
<v Speaker 1>like Dan and Shaane and Florida, Georgia line and folks

0:51:39.920 --> 0:51:42.120
<v Speaker 1>like that, and a little big town at the A

0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:43.920
<v Speaker 1>M A s and at the Grammys and things. It

0:51:44.040 --> 0:51:48.960
<v Speaker 1>just wasn't that common back in uh, you know, fifteen

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:51.880
<v Speaker 1>years ago, and we were getting calls to do those shows,

0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:54.640
<v Speaker 1>People's Choice Awards, you know, and it was like, wow,

0:51:54.719 --> 0:51:57.319
<v Speaker 1>this is cool. This is beyond the scope of the

0:51:57.360 --> 0:51:59.080
<v Speaker 1>c M as, the c M T s and the

0:51:59.280 --> 0:52:02.359
<v Speaker 1>A c M s, which we love. But we were

0:52:02.360 --> 0:52:05.800
<v Speaker 1>opened up and exposed to another whole, a whole another world.

0:52:06.600 --> 0:52:10.040
<v Speaker 1>And I remember sitting on the floor of the American

0:52:10.120 --> 0:52:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Music Awards with Gary and Gary sitting next to me,

0:52:12.520 --> 0:52:14.560
<v Speaker 1>and he nudged me and he goes, would you have

0:52:14.640 --> 0:52:17.000
<v Speaker 1>ever thought we'd be able to do this? Sit in

0:52:17.000 --> 0:52:21.600
<v Speaker 1>this room with jay Z, Beyonce, Madonna, Lady Gaga, all

0:52:21.680 --> 0:52:24.279
<v Speaker 1>of these people, And he said, I'm gonna lay something

0:52:24.320 --> 0:52:28.319
<v Speaker 1>on you you haven't thought about. I said, what this was?

0:52:28.360 --> 0:52:31.080
<v Speaker 1>The year two thousand six? He said, We've sold more

0:52:31.120 --> 0:52:35.759
<v Speaker 1>records this year than anybody in this room. And it

0:52:35.880 --> 0:52:39.279
<v Speaker 1>stopped me in my tracks. And he wasn't saying it

0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:44.040
<v Speaker 1>to be boastful or to like be you know, braggadocious.

0:52:44.080 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 1>About it. He was saying, can you believe what we've

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:50.319
<v Speaker 1>done outside of just being in country music? And it

0:52:50.360 --> 0:52:53.080
<v Speaker 1>was overwhelming to me. I never will forget that night,

0:52:53.480 --> 0:52:56.399
<v Speaker 1>in that moment that we shared during the commercial break there,

0:52:56.400 --> 0:52:58.280
<v Speaker 1>which is the two of us, It was so cool.

0:52:58.560 --> 0:53:02.640
<v Speaker 1>Did you guys get crap being a mainstream success from

0:53:02.680 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 1>any of the Nashville you know, hardcore country folks. Not really, no,

0:53:10.719 --> 0:53:13.880
<v Speaker 1>not to be honest, we didn't. We had, I mean people,

0:53:13.920 --> 0:53:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I felt like we're you know, except for the moment

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:20.799
<v Speaker 1>there when the song was released Murder on music Row

0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:24.480
<v Speaker 1>and they talked about pop coming over an infiltrate and country.

0:53:24.520 --> 0:53:26.200
<v Speaker 1>It was a little bit of a movement there, but

0:53:26.320 --> 0:53:29.319
<v Speaker 1>most people rallied around us and got behind us. And

0:53:30.080 --> 0:53:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, there was a there was a batch of

0:53:31.800 --> 0:53:35.279
<v Speaker 1>us doing something different, and Keith Urban and in Us

0:53:35.320 --> 0:53:37.960
<v Speaker 1>and and Shadaisy at the time, and a few people

0:53:38.040 --> 0:53:41.160
<v Speaker 1>that were putting poppy or elements into the country music,

0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:43.799
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like they welcomed it. And it was

0:53:44.360 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, some of the critics, of course, derided us

0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:49.879
<v Speaker 1>early on and we got a bad rap, but most

0:53:49.880 --> 0:53:51.839
<v Speaker 1>of the people in the music industry were kind of

0:53:51.880 --> 0:53:54.840
<v Speaker 1>excited that there was kind of a new movement coming along,

0:53:54.880 --> 0:53:58.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, when Bless the Broken Road another song that

0:53:58.440 --> 0:54:01.840
<v Speaker 1>crept into my life and then slammed into my life,

0:54:03.480 --> 0:54:07.239
<v Speaker 1>played it all the time on pop radio. Yeah, I mean,

0:54:07.280 --> 0:54:11.640
<v Speaker 1>you guys are a full fledged not that you're not country,

0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:13.960
<v Speaker 1>but you're a pop act at this time, like it

0:54:14.000 --> 0:54:16.040
<v Speaker 1>was just expected. When's that I'm talking about? From my side?

0:54:16.080 --> 0:54:19.960
<v Speaker 1>When's the next Rascal Flat song coming out? It's really

0:54:20.000 --> 0:54:22.520
<v Speaker 1>cool to hear you say that, because I don't think

0:54:22.560 --> 0:54:26.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people are saying that today, you know,

0:54:26.800 --> 0:54:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean it was we We had that sweet spot

0:54:30.200 --> 0:54:33.200
<v Speaker 1>where you're kind of in adell, you know, and you

0:54:33.400 --> 0:54:36.120
<v Speaker 1>just sit there in it and soak it all up

0:54:36.160 --> 0:54:38.720
<v Speaker 1>because it seems like you have a moment in time

0:54:38.760 --> 0:54:41.800
<v Speaker 1>where you put a song out it resonates with people,

0:54:41.880 --> 0:54:43.680
<v Speaker 1>and you have your fingers crossed, and you put another

0:54:43.680 --> 0:54:45.840
<v Speaker 1>one out and it resonates with people, and then you

0:54:45.880 --> 0:54:49.360
<v Speaker 1>start to get scared that you're that you're gonna be

0:54:49.400 --> 0:54:50.960
<v Speaker 1>in this spot to where you're never gonna be able

0:54:50.960 --> 0:54:53.680
<v Speaker 1>to put another song at that resonates with anybody. And

0:54:54.239 --> 0:54:56.319
<v Speaker 1>it was such a magical time for us. We had

0:54:56.320 --> 0:55:00.839
<v Speaker 1>about ten years there that We're just phenomenal. And it's

0:55:00.840 --> 0:55:03.720
<v Speaker 1>a testament to the songwriters in this town too, because

0:55:03.760 --> 0:55:05.560
<v Speaker 1>the songs we were able to get our hands on,

0:55:06.360 --> 0:55:09.279
<v Speaker 1>the writers that were sitting in rooms writing for us,

0:55:09.680 --> 0:55:11.760
<v Speaker 1>that knew what we wanted to say, how we wanted

0:55:11.800 --> 0:55:14.320
<v Speaker 1>to sing. It really had their fingers on the pulse

0:55:14.360 --> 0:55:17.359
<v Speaker 1>of who Rascal Flats was. I can't thank them enough.

0:55:18.560 --> 0:55:21.359
<v Speaker 1>The car song, which people know it as the car song,

0:55:21.400 --> 0:55:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I actually know it from Uh any money, No, no, no,

0:55:24.920 --> 0:55:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't ad the money. It's it's not any money.

0:55:26.640 --> 0:55:29.120
<v Speaker 1>It's um the original thing of life, the Highway, Tom Cox,

0:55:29.320 --> 0:55:32.319
<v Speaker 1>Tom Cochrane, that's right. Um, But you guys sing this.

0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:35.440
<v Speaker 1>But this was never a single, No it wasn't. But

0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:40.360
<v Speaker 1>again it was played everywhere. Yeah, and that movie was huge, huge,

0:55:40.480 --> 0:55:43.320
<v Speaker 1>huge for us. And I remember going to dinner here

0:55:43.360 --> 0:55:47.200
<v Speaker 1>at the Capitol Grill with um John Laster, who took

0:55:47.239 --> 0:55:49.960
<v Speaker 1>us out and showed a storyboards of the movie, going,

0:55:50.000 --> 0:55:52.680
<v Speaker 1>I've got this movie about these cars that talked to

0:55:52.719 --> 0:55:56.440
<v Speaker 1>each other. And you saw the storyboard of cars storyboards. Yeah,

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:59.480
<v Speaker 1>and I really want you guys to do this, um

0:55:59.680 --> 0:56:02.520
<v Speaker 1>Mon Taj where he's on Route sixty six and he's

0:56:02.680 --> 0:56:05.719
<v Speaker 1>driving and you're doing Life is a Highway and we're

0:56:05.760 --> 0:56:08.800
<v Speaker 1>looking at the storyboards and he's wearing a Toy story

0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:13.440
<v Speaker 1>shirt with Woody on it, and it's weird kind of

0:56:13.520 --> 0:56:15.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, John's a sweet guy, but it's just kind

0:56:15.760 --> 0:56:19.560
<v Speaker 1>of like, can we write a song? No, I really

0:56:19.560 --> 0:56:22.480
<v Speaker 1>want you guys to remake you know, Life is a Highway.

0:56:23.120 --> 0:56:25.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like Chris LaDue did it in the nineties and

0:56:25.160 --> 0:56:28.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of made it a hit again. And are you

0:56:28.120 --> 0:56:29.839
<v Speaker 1>sure we can't write a song? He goes, it really

0:56:29.880 --> 0:56:31.799
<v Speaker 1>got a vision for this guy's If you'll see these

0:56:31.800 --> 0:56:36.560
<v Speaker 1>cars talk to each other, it's like, wow. So we

0:56:36.640 --> 0:56:40.799
<v Speaker 1>did it and one of the best decisions we ever made.

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:43.120
<v Speaker 1>First song we ever cut with Dan Huff, by the way,

0:56:43.520 --> 0:56:45.200
<v Speaker 1>who's been on this show and as a dear friend.

0:56:45.400 --> 0:56:47.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I talked to Dan like three days

0:56:47.280 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 1>ago and not Dan. If you go back and listen

0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:52.120
<v Speaker 1>to an older show, if you're listen to this right now, Dan,

0:56:52.160 --> 0:56:54.799
<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about how he would cut songs for like

0:56:54.800 --> 0:56:57.719
<v Speaker 1>Paula Abduel or Uh. He'd play guitar on them. You

0:56:57.880 --> 0:56:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I know she was even in the vocals. He'd be

0:56:59.400 --> 0:57:01.520
<v Speaker 1>in the airport and I really like that guitar. Lecauld

0:57:01.520 --> 0:57:03.600
<v Speaker 1>brother be like, that's you idiot. Yeah. I mean, the

0:57:03.640 --> 0:57:07.040
<v Speaker 1>guy is so good and he's so humble it's disgusting.

0:57:07.080 --> 0:57:09.799
<v Speaker 1>There's not a kinder human being on the planet and

0:57:09.840 --> 0:57:11.960
<v Speaker 1>he's played on. I mean, you know a lot of

0:57:12.000 --> 0:57:13.799
<v Speaker 1>people don't know this. I'm gonna tell something on Dan.

0:57:14.000 --> 0:57:16.520
<v Speaker 1>He started White Hart, one of the Christian bands that

0:57:16.560 --> 0:57:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I was obsessed with as a kid. He was one

0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:21.520
<v Speaker 1>of the founding members with his brother David, and so

0:57:21.720 --> 0:57:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I followed him early on, before he was even a

0:57:24.160 --> 0:57:26.480
<v Speaker 1>session player in l A and playing on all those

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:30.200
<v Speaker 1>hit records. There was something special about his playing, even

0:57:30.240 --> 0:57:32.880
<v Speaker 1>in that band, that I knew that I loved and

0:57:32.920 --> 0:57:36.160
<v Speaker 1>gravitated towards. So that's another great blessing in my life,

0:57:36.280 --> 0:57:38.080
<v Speaker 1>was to be able to come back around and work

0:57:38.120 --> 0:57:41.720
<v Speaker 1>with somebody like Dan, have him produce our band and

0:57:41.760 --> 0:57:44.800
<v Speaker 1>being his presence and watch him work. It's just something

0:57:44.840 --> 0:57:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I never would have ever expected or dreamed either, you know.

0:57:48.000 --> 0:57:50.200
<v Speaker 1>And now to be able to call somebody like him

0:57:49.880 --> 0:57:54.160
<v Speaker 1>a true friend is just phenomenal with me. It blows

0:57:54.200 --> 0:57:56.280
<v Speaker 1>blows my mind. You know, was there ever a point

0:57:56.320 --> 0:57:58.680
<v Speaker 1>with you guys, you're three that you're like, this is

0:57:58.680 --> 0:58:03.520
<v Speaker 1>probably it. We're done. When Lyric Streets shut down in

0:58:03.560 --> 0:58:12.200
<v Speaker 1>two thousand ten, UM, we sat around in my man

0:58:12.320 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 1>room and looked at each other and we're like, do

0:58:14.720 --> 0:58:17.000
<v Speaker 1>we have anything left to say? Even I mean, it's

0:58:17.000 --> 0:58:21.040
<v Speaker 1>been a great ten year run. Um. We were getting

0:58:21.040 --> 0:58:25.000
<v Speaker 1>ready to either quit or make a management change, and

0:58:25.000 --> 0:58:26.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things were going to change, and we

0:58:26.680 --> 0:58:29.760
<v Speaker 1>knew it and it was gonna be tough, and we

0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:32.680
<v Speaker 1>sat around and considered whether or not it wasn't time

0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:35.560
<v Speaker 1>to lay Rascal Flats down. And I think after an

0:58:35.560 --> 0:58:37.560
<v Speaker 1>hour or so of talking with each other, it was

0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:43.960
<v Speaker 1>just like, it hurts me to think about the last

0:58:44.080 --> 0:58:46.240
<v Speaker 1>time that I'll look over to my right and not

0:58:46.360 --> 0:58:49.840
<v Speaker 1>see Gary beside me. When I think about that day,

0:58:49.920 --> 0:58:52.280
<v Speaker 1>it makes me emotional. I don't know when that day

0:58:52.320 --> 0:58:55.440
<v Speaker 1>will be, but I wasn't ready to face it and

0:58:55.480 --> 0:58:57.600
<v Speaker 1>to think about never making music with the two of

0:58:57.640 --> 0:59:03.680
<v Speaker 1>them again. But it's something that even though we were

0:59:03.720 --> 0:59:05.800
<v Speaker 1>in twenty years and we love each other like brothers

0:59:05.800 --> 0:59:09.440
<v Speaker 1>and we've certainly fought like brothers before. I love those

0:59:09.480 --> 0:59:11.400
<v Speaker 1>guys with all my heart, and we've done some things

0:59:11.520 --> 0:59:14.600
<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people will never see or never

0:59:14.640 --> 0:59:17.280
<v Speaker 1>be able to do. And we've been in the trenches

0:59:17.320 --> 0:59:19.760
<v Speaker 1>together and we know each other in ways that our

0:59:19.800 --> 0:59:22.800
<v Speaker 1>own wives don't even know us. And to think about

0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:26.919
<v Speaker 1>not having that anymore, I think all of us were

0:59:27.160 --> 0:59:30.280
<v Speaker 1>not ready, and we were willing to stay together because

0:59:30.280 --> 0:59:31.800
<v Speaker 1>we felt like we had more to say and more

0:59:31.800 --> 0:59:34.240
<v Speaker 1>to do, and we still do. I don't know that

0:59:34.320 --> 0:59:37.200
<v Speaker 1>it's going to come to a close anytime soon. I

0:59:37.200 --> 0:59:39.520
<v Speaker 1>think we will. We will all three have things we

0:59:39.560 --> 0:59:42.200
<v Speaker 1>want to do individually as we get older and have

0:59:42.440 --> 0:59:45.800
<v Speaker 1>opportunities to. But I don't see us ever really going

0:59:45.840 --> 0:59:50.680
<v Speaker 1>away and and having an official, quote unquote break up.

0:59:50.960 --> 0:59:59.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever think about a sideband? Mh, I'm in one, alright,

1:00:00.360 --> 1:00:03.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's tough to be in that one sometimes and

1:00:03.640 --> 1:00:06.400
<v Speaker 1>the time that it takes in the commitment level, I've

1:00:06.400 --> 1:00:10.280
<v Speaker 1>thought about maybe doingside projects, things like that you're in.

1:00:10.760 --> 1:00:12.240
<v Speaker 1>Why don't I know this? Or do I know this

1:00:12.680 --> 1:00:14.160
<v Speaker 1>is a secret? No? I mean, I mean I'm in

1:00:14.280 --> 1:00:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Rascal Plants. In the commitment I was like, how do

1:00:16.120 --> 1:00:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I not know? No? No, I I don't have I mean,

1:00:19.360 --> 1:00:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I certainly love making music on any level. By the way, yeah, Well,

1:00:24.760 --> 1:00:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I I opened up a Christian label back in October,

1:00:27.880 --> 1:00:30.200
<v Speaker 1>so I've got artists signed there to that label that

1:00:30.560 --> 1:00:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll be releasing records on, so that my time commitment

1:00:33.880 --> 1:00:36.800
<v Speaker 1>there with that the new thing in my life is

1:00:37.000 --> 1:00:40.200
<v Speaker 1>pretty substantial. So I'm gonna try to make sure that's

1:00:40.240 --> 1:00:42.840
<v Speaker 1>as successful as it can possibly be. And I want

1:00:42.840 --> 1:00:45.840
<v Speaker 1>to continue making music and producing for other people. And

1:00:47.000 --> 1:00:49.360
<v Speaker 1>I've had, I've had the chance to do a lot

1:00:49.400 --> 1:00:54.360
<v Speaker 1>of great things, and you know, I'm at a really

1:00:54.360 --> 1:00:56.280
<v Speaker 1>great point in my life now to where I really

1:00:56.280 --> 1:00:59.000
<v Speaker 1>really enjoy everything that I'm doing right now, and I'm

1:00:59.000 --> 1:01:00.760
<v Speaker 1>not just doing it because I have to. You know,

1:01:01.960 --> 1:01:03.840
<v Speaker 1>has Gary ever said how they go do a solo record?

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<v Speaker 1>I think Gary will do a solo record someday. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it will be. It maybe a Christian record,

1:01:10.760 --> 1:01:13.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure what it will be. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. I think he should do a solo record.

1:01:16.680 --> 1:01:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I think that if it's in him and something he

1:01:18.520 --> 1:01:21.800
<v Speaker 1>wants to do, I would support that and in his

1:01:21.960 --> 1:01:26.840
<v Speaker 1>aspirations and dreams. One percent. Would you have seven years

1:01:26.840 --> 1:01:29.479
<v Speaker 1>ago or do you feel now you're at a place

1:01:29.480 --> 1:01:31.520
<v Speaker 1>where you're kind of comfortable with where the band is.

1:01:32.040 --> 1:01:34.080
<v Speaker 1>You hit a big you came back, you hit it

1:01:34.120 --> 1:01:36.200
<v Speaker 1>big again. You've had in the last few years, you've

1:01:36.240 --> 1:01:39.120
<v Speaker 1>had number once again. So it's a part of that

1:01:39.160 --> 1:01:41.080
<v Speaker 1>because of all this success, and now you feel a

1:01:41.240 --> 1:01:44.200
<v Speaker 1>little more like we're stationed, like we're a thing. What

1:01:44.400 --> 1:01:46.439
<v Speaker 1>it be to come? You know, after Bless the Broken

1:01:46.520 --> 1:01:48.080
<v Speaker 1>Road and said, guys, I want to do it. This

1:01:48.200 --> 1:01:51.960
<v Speaker 1>is quick solo thing, like like you see Boheman Rapsody

1:01:52.000 --> 1:01:55.480
<v Speaker 1>were like, Fred, you gotta do a solo record. That

1:01:55.480 --> 1:01:57.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't happen at all With you, guys, it didn't happen.

1:01:58.240 --> 1:02:00.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that all of us appreciated where we were

1:02:00.480 --> 1:02:03.400
<v Speaker 1>and appreciated each other and loved each other. And Gary

1:02:03.560 --> 1:02:07.800
<v Speaker 1>was um extraordinarily gracious in the fact that he was

1:02:07.840 --> 1:02:10.520
<v Speaker 1>in a band and and never put us in a

1:02:10.560 --> 1:02:12.680
<v Speaker 1>bad position to go. I think I'm gonna go off

1:02:12.720 --> 1:02:15.200
<v Speaker 1>on my own here for a little bit and and

1:02:15.360 --> 1:02:17.680
<v Speaker 1>try it on my own, and and you know, I'm

1:02:17.680 --> 1:02:20.800
<v Speaker 1>grateful to him for that. The flip side is it

1:02:20.840 --> 1:02:22.840
<v Speaker 1>doesn't turn out well for a lot of people that

1:02:22.960 --> 1:02:25.320
<v Speaker 1>try to leave a group situation and and and go

1:02:25.400 --> 1:02:27.880
<v Speaker 1>out on their own. It's really tough to do, and

1:02:27.920 --> 1:02:29.720
<v Speaker 1>when you've done it at a high level like we have,

1:02:30.200 --> 1:02:31.720
<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden, you've got to realize you're

1:02:31.720 --> 1:02:34.400
<v Speaker 1>coming out of your own pocket to pay for all

1:02:34.520 --> 1:02:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the luxuries that you won't have anymore because you're virtually

1:02:37.200 --> 1:02:41.680
<v Speaker 1>starting over. I think it's hard for some people. I'll

1:02:41.680 --> 1:02:44.320
<v Speaker 1>look at you. Here you are with a book. Yeah,

1:02:44.680 --> 1:02:46.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm all grown up, has the book to I've been

1:02:46.280 --> 1:02:49.400
<v Speaker 1>a grind for you, it has been, but it's been fun.

1:02:49.640 --> 1:02:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've enjoyed being able to talk about my

1:02:52.160 --> 1:02:54.880
<v Speaker 1>life and being able to celebrate my mother and tell

1:02:54.920 --> 1:02:59.000
<v Speaker 1>my story from a different side. You know. I'm sure, um,

1:02:59.040 --> 1:03:00.760
<v Speaker 1>maybe you deal with some of this too, But I've

1:03:00.760 --> 1:03:03.800
<v Speaker 1>always I've always been, you know, like referred to as

1:03:03.920 --> 1:03:06.000
<v Speaker 1>the funny guy or the cut up in the band

1:03:06.120 --> 1:03:09.040
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and and I wanted the chance to really

1:03:09.640 --> 1:03:14.360
<v Speaker 1>tell some things from my perspective and and talk about

1:03:14.400 --> 1:03:19.640
<v Speaker 1>my philosophies on life and hopefully people see another, maybe

1:03:19.880 --> 1:03:22.240
<v Speaker 1>a little bit deeper side to me than just being

1:03:22.280 --> 1:03:24.520
<v Speaker 1>the funny guy. Yeah, it probably you know, you get

1:03:24.560 --> 1:03:28.000
<v Speaker 1>to exercise a bit of depth which people don't always

1:03:28.000 --> 1:03:31.640
<v Speaker 1>come to the funny guy for. And so yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>feels good right like, it feels like it's kind of

1:03:33.640 --> 1:03:36.439
<v Speaker 1>like it's kind of like a Really it's a lot.

1:03:36.600 --> 1:03:38.240
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot to dig up this stuff, and it's

1:03:38.280 --> 1:03:39.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot, even for me. It was tough to to

1:03:40.040 --> 1:03:43.560
<v Speaker 1>re talk about this stuff. Um, but then you start

1:03:43.640 --> 1:03:47.280
<v Speaker 1>to realize, which back to your very first point was

1:03:48.000 --> 1:03:49.640
<v Speaker 1>there are people out there that are struggling with some

1:03:49.680 --> 1:03:51.400
<v Speaker 1>of the same things that you struggle with that I

1:03:51.400 --> 1:03:55.080
<v Speaker 1>struggled with, that feel like they're alone. And if you

1:03:55.120 --> 1:04:00.440
<v Speaker 1>can see that you you know, Mr Rascal Fly, you

1:04:00.480 --> 1:04:02.480
<v Speaker 1>can do it, and how it happened to him and

1:04:02.520 --> 1:04:05.400
<v Speaker 1>could deal with it, then um, that that happened to everyone.

1:04:06.040 --> 1:04:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I think that's the point is you think about people

1:04:08.160 --> 1:04:10.440
<v Speaker 1>when they're by themselves and the lights are off and

1:04:10.520 --> 1:04:13.360
<v Speaker 1>the doors shut and they're behind closed doors. What kind

1:04:13.360 --> 1:04:16.080
<v Speaker 1>of pain and hurt that people deal with on a

1:04:16.160 --> 1:04:19.960
<v Speaker 1>daily basis will never know? And sometimes it's nice to

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<v Speaker 1>know that somebody you know, or somebody you may look

1:04:22.360 --> 1:04:26.040
<v Speaker 1>up to, or somebody you may admire, has gone through

1:04:26.040 --> 1:04:28.160
<v Speaker 1>some of the same things. And look, here's how they've

1:04:28.240 --> 1:04:30.520
<v Speaker 1>dealt with it, and here's how they've overcome it, and

1:04:30.640 --> 1:04:33.240
<v Speaker 1>how how they still still deal with it. You know,

1:04:33.280 --> 1:04:36.520
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't go away. Um, hurt and pain doesn't go away.

1:04:36.520 --> 1:04:39.360
<v Speaker 1>The older you get, you just learn a different skill

1:04:39.440 --> 1:04:41.320
<v Speaker 1>set and you have a different bag of tools to

1:04:41.400 --> 1:04:44.240
<v Speaker 1>deal with it. And that's all I wanted to do

1:04:44.360 --> 1:04:46.920
<v Speaker 1>is just say, look, if you're willing to try therapy

1:04:46.960 --> 1:04:49.720
<v Speaker 1>and you're willing to try pills to balance out chemical

1:04:49.800 --> 1:04:53.120
<v Speaker 1>imbalances and things like that, maybe there's another option. And

1:04:53.160 --> 1:04:56.360
<v Speaker 1>maybe that option could be finding your own faith in

1:04:56.480 --> 1:04:59.360
<v Speaker 1>God and finding your own relationship with Him, because you

1:04:59.440 --> 1:05:01.919
<v Speaker 1>might find some hope and strengthen you you never even

1:05:02.040 --> 1:05:05.760
<v Speaker 1>dreamed before. You say, your greatest blessing isn't the flats,

1:05:06.520 --> 1:05:09.040
<v Speaker 1>It isn't even your family, but it's hope. Yeah. What

1:05:09.040 --> 1:05:10.800
<v Speaker 1>do you mean by that? Well? I meant that hope

1:05:10.880 --> 1:05:13.000
<v Speaker 1>was the only thing I had. Sometimes before I had

1:05:13.120 --> 1:05:15.320
<v Speaker 1>my family, or before I had the flats or anything,

1:05:15.720 --> 1:05:18.400
<v Speaker 1>all I had was hope. And sometimes it would be

1:05:18.480 --> 1:05:21.200
<v Speaker 1>the smallest little ounce of hope. It would be a

1:05:21.240 --> 1:05:23.000
<v Speaker 1>friend that would call me out of the blue and

1:05:23.040 --> 1:05:25.480
<v Speaker 1>go I thought about you the other day. I just

1:05:25.480 --> 1:05:29.120
<v Speaker 1>wanted to check in on you. You're doing okay, And

1:05:29.160 --> 1:05:31.040
<v Speaker 1>it would blow me away because it would be when

1:05:31.040 --> 1:05:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I needed it the most and least expected it. Or

1:05:33.880 --> 1:05:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I would see uh sign of a on a billboard

1:05:37.440 --> 1:05:40.160
<v Speaker 1>in front of a church that would be a scripture

1:05:40.240 --> 1:05:41.840
<v Speaker 1>and I would look it up in the Bible and

1:05:41.840 --> 1:05:44.920
<v Speaker 1>it be, you know, something that would give me like,

1:05:45.600 --> 1:05:47.840
<v Speaker 1>hang in there, you're on the right track. I know

1:05:47.920 --> 1:05:50.320
<v Speaker 1>you can't feel it, but you gotta stay the course.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it was my mom. A lot of times it

1:05:52.760 --> 1:05:55.680
<v Speaker 1>was my mom going, you're not coming back home. You're

1:05:55.720 --> 1:05:58.600
<v Speaker 1>where you're supposed to be, and you've got to stay there.

1:05:58.960 --> 1:06:02.360
<v Speaker 1>You gotta stay the course. You gotta, you know, dust

1:06:02.400 --> 1:06:04.840
<v Speaker 1>yourself off, get back up on your feet, and keep

1:06:04.880 --> 1:06:09.280
<v Speaker 1>moving forward. And that's what I mean about hope. My

1:06:09.360 --> 1:06:12.000
<v Speaker 1>mom gave me that gift, and I didn't even realize

1:06:12.000 --> 1:06:13.760
<v Speaker 1>she was giving it to me when she was dragging

1:06:13.760 --> 1:06:15.680
<v Speaker 1>me off to church three or four times a week.

1:06:16.120 --> 1:06:18.959
<v Speaker 1>But it was in there and it took deep root

1:06:19.080 --> 1:06:21.760
<v Speaker 1>in me, and I relied on it later on in

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<v Speaker 1>life when things got really really bad. We're gonna end

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<v Speaker 1>with this. By the way, you watch a game with Thrones,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't you are you? Are you? You're your Thrones guy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I I try not to be the Thrones guy that

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<v Speaker 1>yells about it all the time. Well, I know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so bad. I've given it like two shots

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<v Speaker 1>and I've made it through like three or four episodes,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just so much to keep up with. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm watching a high school play sometimes in

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<v Speaker 1>about medieval times, and I'm sure it's great, um, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I need to give it another shot. But because

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of people that I love and respect are

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with that trip, I think it's a great It's

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<v Speaker 1>not my favorite of my life, but I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>the best TV show in my lifetime. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's a difference the best. I think your TV show

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<v Speaker 1>in my lifetime not my favorite, So I don't if

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<v Speaker 1>I get to pick one that's not it. I caught

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<v Speaker 1>one episode late one night called The Red Wedding or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, where everybody know that's one there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't think I could, Like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I can deal with this weekly. That one was

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<v Speaker 1>a big one. But yeah, it's a lot um and

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<v Speaker 1>you fall in love with the characters and they all

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<v Speaker 1>die right, like, every single one of them. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>fight club. Yeah, you don't talk about it. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it's a it's a it's a fantastic show.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't watch The Thrones. What do you watch? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of more on the that I'm on the

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<v Speaker 1>shallow into things like I'm really into Ship's Creek right

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<v Speaker 1>now on Netflix. You know, I matched with the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that's on I don't know if I should say who

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<v Speaker 1>it is, but one of the main actors I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>these dating apps right and one of the main actors

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<v Speaker 1>on the show I matched with on the dating app

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<v Speaker 1>and a little bit you gotta decide. Have you talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her? Yeah, that's awesome. I'll pull up Earth and

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<v Speaker 1>we've been talking about so I love that because the

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<v Speaker 1>apps are crazy. Man, it's like instant everyone you can

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<v Speaker 1>just it's like free, like even ten years ago, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>With It's something we talk about all the time too.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you love how brave people are on social media

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<v Speaker 1>When they get behind a keyboard, they can just get

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<v Speaker 1>on there and just torpedo you with no repercussions. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that people just want to be heard, and they

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<v Speaker 1>find that the best way to be heard is to

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<v Speaker 1>be the loudest and most obnoxious. It just bugs a

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<v Speaker 1>crap out of me because it's your Facebook or now

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<v Speaker 1>even though I don't look at the show face I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't look at it. And I've almost thought about

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<v Speaker 1>muting my Instagram comments because there'll be a hundred great

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<v Speaker 1>comments and my personality is to zone in on the

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<v Speaker 1>one guy that's being an ass, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and it will you send me over the edge, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, dude, what this is? How I matched with?

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<v Speaker 1>You have to say who it is. But we've been talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you recognize that for the show? Of course I do. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>You watched the show? Yeah, of course, and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>when I saw I was like, I'll click the heart

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was surprised that the heart came back.

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<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, she's that shows shot in Canada. So

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<v Speaker 1>she's in Vancouver. Um, I'm not sure where. If you

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<v Speaker 1>were out in l A, you can just go up

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<v Speaker 1>up Creaks. Funny. What else you watching? Um? I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>huge Walking Dead fan. Okay, let me ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 1>Me to die hard with my favorite show for years.

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<v Speaker 1>But I got I got kind of lost, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm like a season behind and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where I got lost, and I'm not super into

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<v Speaker 1>catching up. The show is not the same with that Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really lost a little bit. And I gotta tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>it almost lost me for good when they at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of a couple of seasons ago when they my

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<v Speaker 1>my buddy Michael Cutlitz was on there and they bashed

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<v Speaker 1>his brains in with the baseball bat, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>with Michael cut Let's play too, he played Abraham Oh

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, redhead. And then they killed Glenn off too,

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<v Speaker 1>and they like popped his eyeball out with the baseball

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<v Speaker 1>man everythine or the first episode whenever, yeah, Nigan. And

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<v Speaker 1>I love Jeffrey Dean Morgan. He's a fantastic actor. It

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<v Speaker 1>just they took it so far because of the shock

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<v Speaker 1>factor that they always try to do with that show,

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<v Speaker 1>and you never know who's gonna die. And I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm such a huge fans of the fan of

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<v Speaker 1>the show, but it started to lose me a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>to be quite honest. Yeah, I when after Rick was gone,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of got lost what episode I was

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<v Speaker 1>and I wasn't just terribly horn to get back at it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I love Darryl, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that he's enough to hold the show by himself. I

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<v Speaker 1>turned into a TV critic all of a sudden, haven't

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<v Speaker 1>a Um, we all are at this point everything is

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<v Speaker 1>so good? If it's not so good, and right up,

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<v Speaker 1>our algorithm are human algorithm to what show we want

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<v Speaker 1>that we just move on to the next thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't love Christley knows best. I've been on

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of those episodes of Todd. He's a he's

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<v Speaker 1>a buddy of mine. He wrote on the back of

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<v Speaker 1>your book that he wrote, Hey, he's not a douchebag.

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<v Speaker 1>Read the book exactly. He's not the jerk you think

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<v Speaker 1>he is all the time. Sometimes I'm you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>Shill I like is nine one one. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty good show on Fox. Have you of the

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<v Speaker 1>first season? She's not in the second season, but um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's pretty decent. And we what we do is Allison.

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<v Speaker 1>I just binge on some stuff every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of what we're what else we're

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<v Speaker 1>watching right now? Watch any of the Marvel stuff on Netflix,

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<v Speaker 1>like The Punisher. I don't is it good? It's the

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<v Speaker 1>best show to base Agents of Shield any good. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get into all right. Yeah, I was never torn

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<v Speaker 1>away and he's a big You see the Last Adventures, haven't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the end Game, so it's amazing. I turn

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<v Speaker 1>off Twitter when Game of Thrones ends because I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>ID at the same time and have to go home

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<v Speaker 1>and look at it. But I'm avoiding Everything Adventures until

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<v Speaker 1>I can watch End Game because it's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>so freaking good. Let me tell you, I was amazed

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<v Speaker 1>at how great it was. I mean it was three hours,

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<v Speaker 1>and is that good? You don't know it's three hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it goes buying a blank, doesn't it? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it really really does. Excited about John Wick three, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>me too. I actually love those movies. I think Kean

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<v Speaker 1>Reid is my favorite actor. I've I've declared he's not

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite because you can make fun of him. You can,

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<v Speaker 1>but look at his body of work. Respect the body

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<v Speaker 1>of work. So he's now America's favorite actor and mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. And you know what else, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, Cobra Kai is fantastic too. I haven't seen it.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a YouTube show. You gotta watch it, man,

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<v Speaker 1>It's fantastic. What these guys have done with the storyline

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<v Speaker 1>thirty plus years later, with these two you never see coming,

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<v Speaker 1>It is really fantastic. Now, Billy Zafka, who plays Johnny,

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<v Speaker 1>is one of my lifelong dearest friends. So I've you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been a Karate Kid fanatics since the first movie

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<v Speaker 1>came out when I was a teenager. But what they've

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<v Speaker 1>done with the story and how they've taken those two characters,

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<v Speaker 1>you would really really appreciate love interesting. Well, listen, we've

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the question I was gonna ask you before I

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<v Speaker 1>veered off the last question. I ask him, if you

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<v Speaker 1>could tell yourself, you give your your sixteen year old

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<v Speaker 1>self one a little bit of advice from you right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you tell them condoms do break? There and there?

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<v Speaker 1>There you have it. Listen, check out the book. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a Shotgun Angels, My story of Broken Roads and Unshakable Hope.

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<v Speaker 1>How was how hard that subtitle to have and to

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<v Speaker 1>come up with it was? It was pretty tough. They wanted. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the first title of the book, Because I

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<v Speaker 1>went to like nineteen it was called something like um uh, hope,

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<v Speaker 1>Hope in the Hope in the Forgotten places or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there were so many different variations of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, none of them made me happy. My

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<v Speaker 1>co author, actually Timothy, came up with that because the

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<v Speaker 1>two stories in the book about my folks and also

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<v Speaker 1>the angels that ride shotgun next to you you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know about. Look at this. He got a book.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a book? You play a couple of songs on

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<v Speaker 1>the keyboards, got a he's got a gift on the piano,

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<v Speaker 1>says occasionally funny things. I'm not I'm glad. He's no

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby Moans. I'll tell you this guy right here is

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<v Speaker 1>no Bobby Bones. Thank god, Um, listen that Jay. Good

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<v Speaker 1>to see you, but good to see you too. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for your time. One on nine. Look at this?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you every been ever? Be? For hours straight? One

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<v Speaker 1>on one? Hey, And it's just like adventures in game.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't even feel like we were both die. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what happened in Aures. All right, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, We'll see you the next time. Episode one

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<v Speaker 1>seventy seven. Everybody