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Speaker 1: your girl Dre in the call and you're tuned into

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Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Minds where a drunk mind speaks

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Speaker 1: sober thought. Now, y'all, I know we late as fuck today,

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Speaker 1: like literally, we're recording and we're about to drop it.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. It is all my fault.

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Speaker 2: I'll take the blame. I'll take the motherfuck.

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Speaker 1: What mother choice do you have? Well, well, I could

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Speaker 1: have just been like not said anything at all. It

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Speaker 1: been like my bad, but I just want, I don't

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Speaker 1: want it's okay, because then I still would have let

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Speaker 1: y'all know. So she always let y'all know when it's

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Speaker 1: my phone. No, I didn't you said at that time.

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Speaker 1: You were like when the audio had messed up, you

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Speaker 1: I didn't say nothing about it. I didn't say that

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Speaker 1: on the episode though. No, you said it on Instagram. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you said it on Instagram. So anyway, get into the show, y'all,

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Speaker 1: because I know y'all been waiting. So what's going on

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Speaker 1: past week? What you've been up to. Well, I was

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Speaker 1: in Houston for the past week, I had a lot

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Speaker 1: of time to spend with my family and spend with

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Speaker 1: my friends. I had a really good time. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna be back in Houston until twenty twenty because that

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Speaker 1: shit was fucking wet. It was. Yes, Houston is different though,

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Speaker 1: like fun for the most part. I mean, I have

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Speaker 1: as much fun as I can have in Houston in

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Speaker 1: comparison to Atlanta, you know what I mean. But normally

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Speaker 1: it'd be like a cool little vibe. This time, I

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Speaker 1: was so fucking ready to come back to Atlanta. That's

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Speaker 1: how I am every time I go to Houston. Houston

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Speaker 1: is so different, man, Like when we were in the streets,

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Speaker 1: when we were like in our early twenty Houston was

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Speaker 1: fucking lit, bru It is not the same. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: imagine still living there, Like I just be so ready

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Speaker 1: to get back to Atlanta because I'd be like looking

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Speaker 1: at my friends like, Wow, this is what y'all do

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Speaker 1: every day? Oh, and they'd be popping out here. I'll

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Speaker 1: be outside every day. Yeah, I mean I don't really

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Speaker 1: don't really be caring to go. I would like that

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Speaker 1: no more. But when I used to go outside all

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Speaker 1: the time. In Atlanta, shit was fucking legs and I

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Speaker 1: know shit still is living. Whenever I do pop out occasionally,

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Speaker 1: I have a ball. But Houston, it's just nice. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lately, n It's just not eve Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Yo, we outside, Nigga. I've been outside so much.

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Speaker 1: Don't invite me nowhere, y'all. I don't That's why I

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Speaker 1: never But I've been with my Nigerians and you say

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Speaker 1: didn't say I don't like to be around them. I

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Speaker 1: don't discriminate ow niggas spending their money on me, and

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Speaker 1: I said I don't want to. I said, I don't

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Speaker 1: think I could really for real, for real date one

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Speaker 1: because they be getting on my nerves. But you know,

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Speaker 1: they trying to run up some mans. I'm letting them

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Speaker 1: run up some man. Yeah, I always be from my Nigerians.

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Speaker 1: They're cool, you know. So, But like I said, this

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Speaker 1: all don't be inviting me. So that's why y'all'll never

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Speaker 1: see me pop out with But yeah, So I was

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Speaker 1: was cool. Well, I stayed home because I had some

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Speaker 1: work to do and Ship, so yeah, I ended up

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Speaker 1: spending Thanksgiving with Domind and her family, which was a

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Speaker 1: good time. My dating life this past week has been

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Speaker 1: a fucking train wreck. Do you say that every week? Though?

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Speaker 2: I know it's but it's been really bad.

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Speaker 1: It's been really bad this week. Like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think I fucked up. Ship would throw back Bay.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's gonna fly? Did you? How did you?

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Speaker 1: Cause I get drunk. I feel like I have a

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Speaker 1: feeling that I already know but proceeds. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: and I was going off on him. Yeah, for no reason.

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Speaker 1: The pert usual. I'm very kind. I think I'm tim sire.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm fucking toxic.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little toxic, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But I think he hates it here.

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Speaker 1: I think he definitely speaking of this is rapper base.

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Speaker 1: Who is rapper band? You know? That's how he makes

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Speaker 1: this My pions on your definition of rapper. Now, if

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Speaker 1: you but the people that are in Houston listening to this,

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Speaker 1: know who were talking about. I know, but you're being shaddy.

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Speaker 1: Don't shame. Don't shame him, asked at the address he had,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, so yeah, rapper me and Rapper Bay. I

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Speaker 1: about Rapper Bay. Rapper Bay is somebody I've dealt with

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Speaker 1: for three years on and off. It's a very toxic relationship,

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Speaker 1: but we can't get enough of each other. And it's

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Speaker 1: guy I've ever really really like, Like I love that nigga,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be throwing holy water at the receiption.

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Speaker 1: I'm not marrying that nigga, but we're not right. Holy

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Speaker 1: water and I'm gonna be burning. But my not I

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Speaker 1: have my Nigerian Bay, which one. Oh gosh, I only

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Speaker 1: have one. You have two. My dating life is just

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Speaker 1: everywhere right now. It's a shambles. Football Bay.

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Speaker 2: That's still my dog, he texts me today, though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't you and you lie to the girls.

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Speaker 1: Somebody was over. I thought it was. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's really friendly right now. It's not. It's not sexual,

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Speaker 1: it's not romance and videos. I did send him a

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Speaker 1: picture of my butthole the other day and he liked it.

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Speaker 1: Of course I sent my whole booty hole, the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Of course, niggas love as like a nigga could not

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Speaker 1: be talking to you, he could be ignoring you, but

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Speaker 1: you send him a picture of that ass. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: you know I'm single right now though, So honestly, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I'm being funny. I'm single, I'm dating, and I'm having fun.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not getting no dig none. You lying, no lying, bro,

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Speaker 1: I'm not lying. I'm talking about like consistent dick like

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting like you just got some deep I talked.

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Speaker 2: We talked about it when my wig ripped off with

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's what we talked about the last time.

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Speaker 1: That was the last time I got dig, So that's

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Speaker 1: not me getting consistent dig. No, I'm serious, I'm not

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Speaker 1: and I'm just I would really love for like Throwback

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Speaker 1: you're still gonna fuck with others. No, I'm not if

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Speaker 1: he's he's in Atlanta, though, he would be like your

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Speaker 1: being a real I don't like it, nigger. I'm not

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Speaker 1: being snitchy. You are. I feel like he's about to

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Speaker 1: be twenty twenty, and that's what you're supposed to do

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Speaker 1: is hold off friends accountable. I can't let you go

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Speaker 2: No, I really like if throw Back Baby can get right.

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I don't really care to fuck with nobody else. I

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Speaker 1: so fucking fun. This is why we need to get

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Speaker 1: back on video because I really would like for the

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Speaker 1: fine though, Like he's so fine, I would be faithful

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Speaker 1: to that dick unless Rapper Bay come along a Nigerian Bagan.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, I'm still seeing where things

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Speaker 1: where me and Nigerian Bay are going. He's nice, it's

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Speaker 1: favorite right now he is I'm not gonna and he's mad.

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Speaker 1: But he's mad at you because you yeah, may I

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Speaker 1: AXD what did you say? No? Why? No, We're gonna

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Speaker 1: He didn't do anything, so you.

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Speaker 2: Just like, well, see the thing is him.

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Speaker 1: I just it's a lot. We'll talk about it off here, okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: I don't nobody listens to this that I be fucking

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Speaker 1: Why? Because this is an embarrassing That's why I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about my dating life. I'm dead, But I mean,

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Speaker 1: I feel like we have to be honest and be open.

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Speaker 1: You know, we gotta be honest. But I ain't got

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Speaker 1: I'm glad I said this, because let me say this

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Speaker 1: I get a lot of messages from y'all, Like I've

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Speaker 1: being like, how do you find men with money? How

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Speaker 1: do you date rich men?

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Speaker 2: Where do you go, what do you do?

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Speaker 1: What do you say? And blah blah blah. First of all,

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Speaker 1: I need y'all to understand, I never wanted this show

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Speaker 1: and that's not what I do, and that's not what

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Speaker 1: Drea does. We just have a standard of we like

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Speaker 1: to talk to people who are financially stable because I

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Speaker 1: like to do certain things. I like to go eat,

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Speaker 1: I like to travel, you know, like just certain things

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Speaker 1: I'll still date.

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Speaker 2: You because we can still have fun.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I'm just talking about for me, so I see your

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Speaker 1: So I just want y'all to know, a lot of

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Speaker 1: We just in a social media age. You know, niggas

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Speaker 1: Like when you said social media is why niggas don't

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Speaker 1: So I wasn't looking at it from that point of view.

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Speaker 1: what you were cause I feel like back in the day,

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Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have been right. But I'll say this. I'll

426
00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,320
Speaker 1: say this if I had a man and he did

427
00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,760
Speaker 1: something wrong and he was trying to fight to get

428
00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,160
Speaker 1: me back, I don't want you to bring into social media.

429
00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:39,000
Speaker 1: First of all, anyway, I wouldn't want you apologizing to

430
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,320
Speaker 1: me on social media. I don't want any attention like that. Well,

431
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,000
Speaker 1: I saw my relationship. That's what I'm saying social media.

432
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,680
Speaker 1: So I damn sure don't want no public Yeah, I

433
00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,119
Speaker 1: don't want no public apology. But I definitely feel like,

434
00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,960
Speaker 1: send me an email, blow up, call my friends. I've

435
00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,680
Speaker 1: gotten an email. Knock on my door, you know where

436
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 1: I lift, send me some roses. I want to come

437
00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 1: home and there's a big bouquet roses sitting at my door.

438
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 1: Like now, I don't want to. Now, there's a borderline

439
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:07,399
Speaker 1: between like being nice and fighting and then harassing. I

440
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,280
Speaker 1: don't want to be like harassment, cause it's like, if

441
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 1: I want you back and I want you to work

442
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,200
Speaker 1: for it, that's cute to me. But if I don't

443
00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 1: want to be with you and you're definitely harassing me,

444
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know, like, hey, nigga, I'm gonna

445
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,280
Speaker 1: call a police on you because I'm not gonna lie.

446
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,399
Speaker 1: My ex used to blow up your phone and it

447
00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 1: would piss me off as your exer kind of whatever

448
00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 1: it was, he used to blow up my phone and

449
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: it was just annoying as fuck, and it would make

450
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:34,560
Speaker 1: me y. And I had moved on, y'all, Like I

451
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,320
Speaker 1: started fucking a whole nother niggas started sucking with a

452
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,439
Speaker 1: whole and so yeah, that's what I'm saying. So he

453
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 1: was still calling links about me, and that's how And

454
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,479
Speaker 1: that's the same thing. How when I was with her

455
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 1: guy too, Like he would call Drena and it was

456
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 1: just so annoying. Now, stuff like that I don't like.

457
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 1: But if it's somebody that I want to work it

458
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,040
Speaker 1: out with and I want to be with, I feel

459
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,480
Speaker 1: like people people have too many options nowadays because of

460
00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,520
Speaker 1: social media. It's like you ain't got too many You're

461
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 1: gonna never find a beach like me. I understand you

462
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,719
Speaker 1: feel that way, but niggas don't feel that way. Niggas

463
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,640
Speaker 1: be at the end of the day. Let me tell

464
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,439
Speaker 1: you something. Niggas gonna feel that way after they go

465
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 1: and date a few more beaches. Right, But okay, so

466
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 1: that's a that's why you gotta let them niggas go.

467
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 1: Guess what a lot of times, though, sometimes something could happen. Okay,

468
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 1: So say, for example, I'm dating a guy and he like,

469
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 1: fuck it, I'm gonna go date these four bitches.

470
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 2: He gonna date them four.

471
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,439
Speaker 1: Bitches, like, man, they still not elects though, and he

472
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 1: come back to me or whatever. What what if he

473
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 1: like make a little bit of connection with one of

474
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,399
Speaker 1: them bitches though, and he may still love me, but

475
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 1: now he got a whole nother bitch on his team.

476
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 2: So it's like, that's what I'm happening.

477
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 1: It happened.

478
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to fucking deal with that ship.

479
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 1: Bro. This is the life. And that's why I say

480
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 1: niggas don't niggas always got a situation. I feel like

481
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: every nigga you meet got another beach.

482
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh of course I agree.

483
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 1: It ain't no nigga, It ain't no nigga that you

484
00:21:56,280 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 1: meet that when you met him, you his You're the

485
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:04,719
Speaker 1: only bitch. He fucking we all these niggas got situations.

486
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 1: All these niggas, especially when you first meet a nigga,

487
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: he already got a bitch he liked more than you, right,

488
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 1: I mean That's what I'm saying.

489
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 2: So it's just kind of.

490
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: Like anybody these days, you gotta fight for your fight

491
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: because I'm not really competitive, Like I'm not competitive at all, bitch,

492
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm competitive when it comes to like me

493
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 1: wanting certain things in life, but when it comes to me,

494
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 1: I've never been a competitive woman when it comes to me,

495
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: and like you can have that nigga s I'm yeah,

496
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm not going above and be I'm not about to

497
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 1: fight for no niggas. I just always felt. But I've

498
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: got but I've gotten that feedback from somebody that I

499
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 1: was cool with told me that's my problem. I don't

500
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: like to fight. Listen, that's what we just said. We

501
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 1: just said we want men to fight for us. But

502
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: guess what we're not doing. We're not fighting, and maybe

503
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 1: that's the problem, but I'll tell you that I don't.

504
00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: Somebody tell me that. No. Listen, listen though, because when

505
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: a man is fighting for us, that's because they fucked

506
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 1: up and they cheated or they did something. And we're

507
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: walking out the door because we're not happy when a

508
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,880
Speaker 1: man is fighting for his relationship because he fucked up. Yeah,

509
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,959
Speaker 1: if a woman is fighting for her relationship, it's because

510
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: the man is out cheating, the man is out and

511
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 1: she wants him so bad. And you know what I'm saying,

512
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 1: It's never like a woman fighting for her relationship because

513
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 1: she's cheated and she's trying to make it work out.

514
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: That's why I'm not fighting for these niggas. I'm not

515
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,439
Speaker 1: doing it because I'm not gonna beg you to be

516
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: with me. And that's what they get us to do.

517
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: They want us to fight for them and the bitches.

518
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 1: Will it show me something? No, nigga, Yeah, I'm gonna

519
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: show you these ass as I leave, I can fucking

520
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 1: do you know what I'm saying. So, I feel like

521
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 1: when men fight for relationships, it's definitely different than when

522
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 1: women fight for their relationships. Like that's why it's like,

523
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 1: if I have to fight for you, then men, y'all,

524
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 1: I don't be having any emy. I don't like I've

525
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 1: tried you with me, then you fuck with me. That's

526
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: just how I feel too. I feel like if a

527
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: nigga fuck with me, he fuck with me, and that

528
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: should just be what it is, point blank period. Why

529
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: do I have to fight for you? If we both

530
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: fuck with each other, we both care about each other

531
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: and we know what it is. Why the fuck is

532
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,199
Speaker 1: anybody fighting for anybody? Why can't she just be what

533
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 1: it is and be some real shit? Right?

534
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 2: I agree?

535
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 1: Why is it so hard to have a real ass relationship?

536
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: I'm dead Jesus, but yes, it's why the fuck is

537
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 1: it so hard to have like a real just told

538
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: your relationship with people these days? Like niggas really be

539
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: fool gas because there's too many options. Ain't no options.

540
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 1: The options that you think is options ain't options. Their

541
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: options is because they getting fucked these girls. Are we

542
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: all getting fucked by the same fucking niggas, bitch all

543
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 1: of it hooie, So let us know we're gonna change

544
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: the subjects because I'm getting made. I'm getting mad as fun. Honestly,

545
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: I told y'all, I'm in boyfriend mode. I want a

546
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: fucking man, I want to be in love. I want

547
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: to be with one person. I'm tired of juggling these niggas,

548
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: And honestly, the next nigga I meet that treats me

549
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: right and makes me laugh and doesn't argue with me

550
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 1: and treats me like his little queen, bitch, I'm gonna

551
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: be such a good girlfriend, and I'm gonna change my ways.

552
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 1: I'm speaking into existence in twenty twenty. But he was

553
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: as fine, I'm not gonna say this's a niggiti because

554
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: you're right, were gonna benifit. Yeah, I feel like it's

555
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,199
Speaker 1: all takes time. Like I feel like I've had my

556
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: fun and I enjoyed dating, but I really am ready

557
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 1: to be with one person. But I feel like I've

558
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,479
Speaker 1: also grown a lot, and I've gotten to know myself

559
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: a lot in these past few months. Now that I

560
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: got out of my depression and I got to travel

561
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: and be with this person and date this person and

562
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: just do what I want to do, I've learned a

563
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: lot about myself. So I feel like now I've been outside,

564
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: but nigga, I'm ready to be inside with my man.

565
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 1: But dating fucking sucks, And especially in Atlanta, if you

566
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: meet one good guy, he's got ten bitches. Don't even

567
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: get me started on that. It's really crazy out here, y'all.

568
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 1: Like I love Atlanta over Houston. Like when I go home,

569
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: I be so fucking bored. I be so ready to

570
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: get back to Atlanta. But when I get back to

571
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: Atlanta and get back to the reality of living here.

572
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 1: This shit is fucking trash too. It just got a

573
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: lot going It's just a lot going on. It's more fun,

574
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: I'm telling you'll just you never know who you could

575
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 1: bump into in Atlanta. But as far as dating goes,

576
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 1: this shit is trash. It is. Hold on, let me

577
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 1: just read this tweet I just got shout out to.

578
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: It's just fass, he said lex Pi and Drena cold

579
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: big Mama, Little Drea. It's Wednesday and I haven't been

580
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: served any realness. We on Hole this week are laid uploading.

581
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: The fans want to know. I'm sorry y'all were record.

582
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,199
Speaker 1: It's coming y'all. Okay, so let's get to the next topic.

583
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: I want to know. This is gonna be a real

584
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 1: short topic. So we just wanted to take a moment

585
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: because we talk about everything that we're going through now.

586
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,120
Speaker 1: So I just want to say, like, what advice would

587
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: you give to your eighteen year old self? Just to

588
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: not give a fuck? Honestly, that's really the only advice

589
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: I have to give to my eighteen year old self.

590
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: It's just more to just be a little bit more

591
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,120
Speaker 1: carefree and just not give a fuck what people think.

592
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 1: Because I feel like a lot of things that I

593
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: did when I was younger, I was doing it because

594
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: other people around me wanted me to do it, like

595
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: my parents or other people in my family, or like

596
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 1: my boyfriends and shit like that. So that's really the

597
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: only advice I would give to my younger self, because

598
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: other than that, I don't really being lived my whole

599
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: twenties and shit like. I really just had like a

600
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: great life and have done a lot of sheep and

601
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: I don't really have many regrets. The regrets that I

602
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: do have is just more so because I let other

603
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: people influence my decisions about things. So if I had

604
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: to talk to eighteen year old Lex, I would definitely

605
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: tell her two things. I would tell her to go

606
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: hard and focus on your career because I feel like

607
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: if I would have been as focused and knew exactly

608
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: what I want then, and that's just with everything, not

609
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: even my career, if I would have knew what I

610
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: want like in a man in my career, I feel

611
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: like I would just been further because the things that

612
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: I wanted, I thought that I wanted and it were

613
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: so important to me don't even matter now, you know

614
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so I definitely would have been telling

615
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 1: myself to like focus more on school, make sure you

616
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: really do your internships how you were supposed to make

617
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 1: connections that you need. Just so like when I got

618
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: out of college, I could have been doing radio, you

619
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I could have been doing

620
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: the things that I'm doing now if I would just

621
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: stayed focused. You know what I'm saying. It's crazy because

622
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: I would have told my younger self, fuck school. I

623
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't even win to SEO. Well, No, I mean I'm

624
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: glad I went to Honestly, I will say I'm glad

625
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: I went. I feel like I wasted four years of

626
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: my life in school when I really feel like, I mean,

627
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: I let me finish. My youngest self thought I was.

628
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: I was the second thing. No, what I was saying

629
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: was just focused on Well, I'm glad I went to school.

630
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: Personally, sometimes I feel like I didn't need to go.

631
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 2: But I did learn a.

632
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: Lot of skills that I feel like I can tap

633
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: into a little more once I get deeper into the industry.

634
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: But I will say I should have focused a little better.

635
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: And then, like Dreds said, I agree with the not

636
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: caring what people think because I definitely should have been

637
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: stripping in college. Same, that's why I should have been

638
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: stripping and not in college. That's how I feel. I

639
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: definitely should have been stripping. I made a lot of

640
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: money bartender, but I could have made a lot more

641
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: and I probably would have been doing a lot more. Yeah. Well,

642
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: let's not say that either though, because well, I will say,

643
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: I do feel like I would be way better off

644
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 1: if I would have a lot of But I do

645
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: know a lot of whole who who not even still dancing,

646
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: but they ain't doing shit more than what I'm doing

647
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: dance somewhere, and they made way more money than me

648
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: back in the day. Well, I'll say, but I know

649
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: a lot of dancers who are They have legitimate businesses

650
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: now and they're doing very well as well. I know

651
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: like three No. Yeah, well I know a lot of

652
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: dancing because I was a lot. I was cool with

653
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: a lot of them. You know a lot of them, yes,

654
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: And a lot of them are doing well. A lot

655
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: of them are still in the club, but a lot

656
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: of them are doing well as well. So it's like

657
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: I just want to be still in the club. No, y'all,

658
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: definitely won't want us to be still be in the club.

659
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: But I know if I would have been dancing, I

660
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: would have been on the hat off. That's you know,

661
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: a little doing doing well. Yeah yeah, but yeah that's

662
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: my that's that's definitely hot. I feel like I wasted

663
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: so much time in school. I got my degree. I

664
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: mean it's cool to say I have a degree, but

665
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: to be honest, these days, like when I first graduated

666
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: from college, it was like cool when you would meet

667
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: a nigga and you'll be like, oh, yeah, I graduated.

668
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: Niggas would be impressed. These days, niggas be like, oh, okay,

669
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: niggas don't give a fuck, don't work because honestly, in

670
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, that shit does not fucking matter. It doesn't.

671
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, I learned some skills too. And

672
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: I mean, it's always cool to have my like when

673
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: I move into my house and I can hang my

674
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: diploma up in my office in the frame and just

675
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: to say I have it, that's always gonna be a

676
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: good thing. But I feel like school was a nemesary

677
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: for me because I really hustled my whole only, like

678
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: the three main things I learned in college that were

679
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: like useful to me was like editing. I learned how

680
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: to like edit video, editing sound. I learned how to

681
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: speak really well, like whenever I'm actually talking, like not

682
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: on the podcast, or like I learned how to talk

683
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: really well. And I learned how to suck dick. Those

684
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: are the three things I learned. See, And the main

685
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: thing that college taught me was just how to be

686
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: independent and be on my own because I had moved away.

687
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: I went to school two hours outside of Houston, so

688
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't around my parents, and she yack for me.

689
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,479
Speaker 1: It wasn't nothing I had to do with the curriculum. Honestly,

690
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: I should have my masters, my PhD if you will,

691
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: so I did, But yeah, I mean I just would

692
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: have told my younger self though, just to not give

693
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: a just be more carefree. I definitely would have a

694
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: few more niggas than I had hand I should have.

695
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: I would have sucked a few more niggas and I'd

696
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: be looking down, so I'd be like, damn, these niggas

697
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: in fucking relationships. They married and shit, and I had

698
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: to change, you know, And I passed on some niggas

699
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: that are doing very well. Now. I'm like damn. But

700
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: I was being I ain't really passed on too many. Really,

701
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: I always not see. I've always been about that chick.

702
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: So when niggas be having money, I've always took a

703
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: chance on. No.

704
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 2: But then we were in college. Then they was paying sports.

705
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: You didn't fucking know niggas was going to the fucking

706
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: league and ship and how they were. Well, that's what

707
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It was nas. I was talking about niggas

708
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: at that time that had no no bitch, hell no,

709
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: it was niggas. I was like, you know, trying to

710
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: fuck with me and stuff, but I was just doing

711
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: my he you can't predict ship like that. I don't

712
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: really have no niggas that I passed on. It's like

713
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: doing really well. All the niggas is just I mean,

714
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: I went back and got water. I did. But oo,

715
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: we're not gonna talk about that. No, I really can't

716
00:32:55,880 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: talk about that. We gonna really get to bitch, oh

717
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: I know. Okay, So anyways, so let us know, like

718
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: I want y'all to write because I'm actually interested. What

719
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: advice would y'all give to y'all's younger self. So make

720
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: sure y'all hit us up with yeah, I want to

721
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: hear it too, So I'm gonna let you next topic

722
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: because it's all you. This was funny because I have

723
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: a friend who is happened to so I wanted to know, like,

724
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: what would you do if you broke up with somebody

725
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: like you went to party? Not saying you broke up

726
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: with him, just say, y'all broke up. Maybe it was

727
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: a mutual reason, somebody ill love or somebody I was

728
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: just dated, somebody were really really deeply in love with.

729
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: Because if you didn't really fuck with the nigga like that, yeah,

730
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: it wouldn't matter. So I'll say I pretend like it's

731
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: a rapper band in my head. Okay, right, so you

732
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: and rapper Bad y'all broke up. In the end, y'all

733
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: be saying y'all be broke up for like a year,

734
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: a year and a half, but you love him. You

735
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: saw I don't invested, So it's like you don't you

736
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: don't move on with your life. You're gonna start a

737
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: dating mother niggas. But still in the back of your mind,

738
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 1: you like damn reprobates that when it got away and

739
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: then say, by the grace of God, he just over

740
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 1: there like, damn man, I'm Missleigs. Of course, like he

741
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: always right, So then he hits you ud, y'all start

742
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: being fucking around mm hmm. But then y'all about the fuck?

743
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 1: He like, well, I gotta tell you something and you're

744
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: like what, and he like, well, you know, we ain't

745
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: been fucking wrongd for like a year and a half. Like,

746
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: I just want to let you know because I fuck

747
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 1: with you and I care about you. I got hurpi.

748
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what I thought you were gonna because

749
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: I knew the topic. I thought you were gonna say,

750
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: like plamydia Ben. I wasn't gonna say, chlamydia are gonna

751
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: real because all you gonna do is go get some

752
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: anybodyotics and you didn't get rid of them like that.

753
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: Need you to know that? Oh my god. I was

754
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: really shocked, just because I'm like HER's bitch.

755
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: I thought we rehearsed this conversation.

756
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: You thought wrong. I love to catch so what I

757
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 1: would do, honestly, health is like a number one thing

758
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:11,320
Speaker 1: that's very important to me, and I don't think I

759
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: could do it. I don't think that's fair. So you

760
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: will stop talking to him because he has nhisv one yes, absolutely,

761
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: this is not funny. Let me stop. No, And I'm

762
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: not laughing because we're not laughing at if any of

763
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,399
Speaker 1: our listeners harps everything. We're not making fun of the

764
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: herpees thing. But for me, I'm not too educated on

765
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 1: the topic of herpes specifically, But I don't know how

766
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: I would feel.

767
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 2: Like, you got to think about having kids, and.

768
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: You know, you have to think about No, I'm not

769
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: saying you can't have kids, but you gotta think about

770
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: like your outbreaks, and that's something that's a big commitment

771
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 1: to make for the rest of your life.

772
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 2: I'm committing to having open sores on my pussy.

773
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: No, you're not, though, my friend, I mean, I have

774
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 1: a friend that has herpees as well, but she's like,

775
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: she's that's what I'm saying, But she says her sores

776
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: be open like when she has breaks.

777
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: They're like open swords and it burns rise right.

778
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: But from my understanding from my friend that has it,

779
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: like you, if you're taking your your medicine over whatever,

780
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: you don't really get outbreaks like that, and you only

781
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: can transmit it when you're having an outbreak. If you're

782
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: not having an outbreak, the other person can't get it.

783
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 1: So it's like like, Yo, your friend said, well, if

784
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: she's having swords on her whose seed, then she knows

785
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: she having an outbreak, so she don't need to be

786
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: fucking upbody. See, I don't think. I don't think or

787
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: when she's not having an outbreak, she can't spread it.

788
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: I can't commit to that because then that's not my husband.

789
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: We're not married. What if he say, what if he say,

790
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: what if you get down on bendy me? I want

791
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: to marry you. I just got her thh my god,

792
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,280
Speaker 1: and I love him so much. I know, I don't

793
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: know I can I commit to her. Bees damn stop laughing.

794
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: I'm really thinking about it, because I mean, it's some

795
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: real she that would be. I cannot imagine my life

796
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: without him completely gone at this moment, you know what

797
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I don't know. I really don't know that.

798
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: You know what's funny? And I'm being honest with y'all

799
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: right now, this is me being completely honest in my mind.

800
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying, no, I would never do that, but I

801
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: really don't know, to be honest, if I was in

802
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: that situation with him and he got on his knee

803
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: and he's telling me I don't know, and that sounds

804
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 1: dumb as fuck. It really does. It sounds dumber because

805
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: it's like I think about it the other way around.

806
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: It's like, would he do that for me? Probably I

807
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 2: take everything back. I'm no, I'm not doing that. That's

808
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 2: a big commitment.

809
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: And my answer since day one. Yeah, I don't know.

810
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: I mean I day one, since the beginning of the conversation.

811
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: I ain't staying when none of it. If me and

812
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: you stop fucking with each other, I don't give a

813
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: fucking how much I love you. You come back and you

814
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: got some ship that you can't get rid of. Not

815
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: many you're gunn a rial you work it on, especially

816
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: if you told me before or I don't know. I

817
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: was gonna say if you ain't, no, you heady, I

818
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: mean we I'm dead, y'all both go to hospital together

819
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: to get a clean gang. I'm kidding. Y'all know me

820
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: and Lexa not promoting this toxic behavior, but no for

821
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: real though uncurable STD. Yeah, I agree with you because

822
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about it. It's like, so, what what if

823
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: he dies? I think you could die from No, I'm saying,

824
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 1: what if he dies from like a car wreck or something.

825
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 1: Now I'm stuck with the herp and I can't find

826
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 1: a man. You's you can go to groups. They got

827
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,280
Speaker 1: other people. You ain't the only person in the world

828
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: they got hurpy. You just gonna have to be with

829
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: another person that got herpies.

830
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 2: And let me we are.

831
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 1: Not making a joke out of this. And also let

832
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: me add that neither one of us have herpe no

833
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 1: or any other STDs for that matter, at seen that bitch.

834
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: Don't play with me. You don't see my pussy numerous

835
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: times a few niggas out of Yeah, yeah, and they

836
00:38:58,560 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: ain't got it, so.

837
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: What a god?

838
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 1: Anyways, like I said this, yeah, this time, we're really

839
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: just making but like making scenarios. We're just creating scenarios.

840
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 1: But yeah, now that I think about it, you're right.

841
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a big commitment to make to

842
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: somebody that would I even have ring on my finger,

843
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: We don't have a kid. That's a lot for somebody

844
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: that's just kind of like in and out of my life.

845
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. What if you was married? Though?

846
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: If I was married, then obviously I already had it,

847
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: and you did something because we married married couples like,

848
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: that's different. But I'm saying if you was married.

849
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 2: Something, yeah you got it.

850
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm getting divorced, and cause you know why, I'm okay

851
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 1: with that though, now that I'm thinking about it deeper

852
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: and we're talking, yeah, okay, well leaving at first of all,

853
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,959
Speaker 1: like m but you know, I always feel like there's

854
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: more than one person in the world that your soulmate

855
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: or that you're supposed to be with. I feel I

856
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,439
Speaker 1: was lucky enough. I think I've met I will say

857
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: two of my soulmates. I've been looking both men I'm

858
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: talking about romantically.

859
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean.

860
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: I've definitely met friends that are, like I feel like

861
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: are my soulmates, but I'm talking about men. I've definitely met.

862
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 1: Have two men in my life that I've met that

863
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: I feel like are my soulmates, and I'm doing contact

864
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: with one. The other one I'm not in contact with anymore.

865
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 1: But I always feel like there's somebody out there for you.

866
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: There's so many people in the world. So if that

867
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 1: did happen, I would be okay with, you know, shutting

868
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 1: that off.

869
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 2: And really moving on and letting it go.

870
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 1: I absolutely would be ready to move on. And let

871
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: it go. I don't want no nigga. They got the

872
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: hurt period. Yes, I'm cool on you hurt the heis.

873
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: I don't want none of it, not his. Now you're

874
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: taking shit too far. I don't want none of it.

875
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: I gotta taking shit too far. That's real. She makes

876
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: y'all protect your yeah to be safe out here for

877
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: nigga and if a nigga leave you or if you

878
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: come back, use condoms and make sure that good before

879
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: y'all take the condom guys period. Yes, and I mean

880
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: nashy safe. Please always use condoms because it's real out here.

881
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: So we gonna get into the bab a the be ay.

882
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: So this is actually an interesting conversation I had with

883
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: the videographer that does Where to Next. We were having

884
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: a conversation. I was like, you know what, I was

885
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: talking to them and I was telling them how much

886
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: I love to get spanked in bed like I love it.

887
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 1: I doggy styles. My favorite position. From the back is

888
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: my favorite position. And I absolutely love when a guy

889
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: like spanked me from the back. And I'm not talking

890
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: about a little I'm talking about a slap like I

891
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:48,919
Speaker 1: want my I want I need to feel that shit.

892
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 1: I need you to rough my ass up. I need

893
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: you to take your hands and jiggle my booty and

894
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: smack my ass. And he was like, wow, like that's crazy,

895
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, I was like, I'm

896
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 1: thinking about like when I was younger and I used

897
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: to get pops. I used to kind of like it,

898
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: but I was so bad in school. I used to

899
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: weird though I used to I never liked pig, but

900
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: I used to get pops a lot though, And I

901
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: think in my brain it was supposed to be like

902
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: a punishment, but I learned to enjoy it because.

903
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 2: I just kept getting pops because I was bad.

904
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I lit it. Know. Do you feel like

905
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: there's a connection between like private school girls and the

906
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: things that they liked to do and like from being

907
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 1: kind of held back, because honestly, I was really kind

908
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: of sheltered my whole life. I don't know. And the

909
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: reason that I say this is because I went to

910
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,479
Speaker 1: private school from the time that I was three until

911
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: I was fourteen. But I did a lot of sheet Yeah,

912
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: like it. It helped me back from this. Then I

913
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: did a lot of sheet Like I had my first

914
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: kids in like first grade. It was okay in my

915
00:42:55,560 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: little I'm talking about, like, do you feel like like

916
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: that you okay? So you feel like your freakiness has

917
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: nothing to do with you kind of being like no,

918
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: because honestly, like I said, I had cousins and she

919
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: who went to public school, and they was doing the

920
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: same sheet that was doing it at my school. You know,

921
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 1: but I went to a all black private school. Let

922
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: me add that it was majority black people, few mix

923
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 1: skins in the mix, but mostly predominantly black. I think

924
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,439
Speaker 1: that's very weird and the offer for me to say.

925
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: But like, I was like eight getting pops and I

926
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: liked it. I liked it. I mean I was in

927
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 1: first grade when I had my first kids. That was

928
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 1: like six year I'm talking about bed bitch, I was

929
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: eight getting doing BDSM in my head. A kiss is different, but.

930
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 2: I was getting.

931
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people don't like to

932
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: admit when they started having sexual feelings. Like a lot

933
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 1: of people try to create this image that, oh, most

934
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 1: of us, we don't really start having sexual feelings are

935
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: thinking about sex and stuff until we hit puberty. That's

936
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: not true. But okay, so this is what I need

937
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: you to listen to. A lot of people. So do

938
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: you think that it's weird to kind of find your

939
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 1: kinks very early? Because I feel like I found my

940
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: kink when I was eight. I don't feel like you

941
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: found your kink. I think I'll be honest, but I

942
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: love but I felt when I was You're really trying

943
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: to tell me that you're thirty years old right now,

944
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: and you can remember exactly how you feel the moment

945
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: that you got so first time, the moment I got

946
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: my first pop. I remember, I vaguely remember things from

947
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: when I was. When I'm younger than you, I actually

948
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: remember something when I was four. I tweeted that the

949
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 1: other day. I remember when I learned my mom's name.

950
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: I remember little things like it's certain things I remember,

951
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: but it's like x Y is like, okay, me being eight.

952
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: That whole year of my life is really vague, I know.

953
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,959
Speaker 1: But you know certain memories stick out in your head.

954
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: I remember I remember every time I got a pop.

955
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: Actually I do. I remember it's singing, and I remember

956
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: me liking it. That's why when I got to college,

957
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: I used to get pierc things. I have a thing

958
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: for pain, though, no, bitch, I have everything piers You

959
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: seen it that picture of me. I've had everything, Pier.

960
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: I've had I had everything on my face, Piers. That's

961
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: what I'm saying I had. I just thought that was

962
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 1: get off. I had a bar through my chest. I

963
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: used to have everything pierced because I had a thing.

964
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: I have a kink for pain. But I feel like

965
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: I think that kind of developed early. And he was like, honestly,

966
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't think school though, But okay, but this is

967
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: this is why he said that. Though, he said a

968
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 1: lot of the girls that I meet that are kinkiest

969
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: in bed, that are freakiest, they always tell me like

970
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: they're either like a preacher's daughter or they went to

971
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: private school. Yeah, I don't think that has anything to

972
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: do with it, honestly. I mean, and I'm speaking from

973
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: and who went to private school. Like, I don't think

974
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: that has anything to do with it. Because we used

975
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: to get pops in she too, and I ain't like

976
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: that sheet. Don't fucking pop me. So I was just

977
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: a weird though I like getting spanked now that I'm

978
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: grown off some adult sheet. But like when I was

979
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: a kid, I didn't like this ship. I definitely liked it.

980
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:55,959
Speaker 1: I was in karate I can quick that shep because

981
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: he used to be popping me all the time. I'm dead,

982
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: So no to the the BAMBOOSTI. So you feel like,

983
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: so you don't feel like private school girls are freak

984
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: here because y'alls know you always hear this, but preacher's

985
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: daughters be wild. I feel like hoes is gonna be

986
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: hos no matter where they came from, whether you went

987
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: to private school, public school, whether you a preacher daughter,

988
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: whether you an echtiest daughter. A freak is a freak.

989
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah that is.

990
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 1: But I feel like sometimes when people are and they

991
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 1: come out there and no people are, you know, they're

992
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: not exposed to a lot of things during the day.

993
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: I grew up in a small town, a small city.

994
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: It was like we didn't see gay people, we didn't

995
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,879
Speaker 1: do this. I know that now we can definitely get

996
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,760
Speaker 1: into that. I definitely think small town girls it's nastiest funny. See,

997
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, y'all. That's what I'm saying. I was.

998
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 1: So it's like, y'all finally get out them chains, and

999
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: y'all don't know what to do. I'm telling y'all, I

1000
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: feel like that's why. That's why I'm making the private

1001
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: school reference because I was in a You gotta realize

1002
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: I was in a private school and I was in

1003
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: a small town. I was very fucking sheltered. So now

1004
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: be like, oh, look at that spik me puting some

1005
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: of my ass. I'm eating your ass bread them chee.

1006
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: So but let me pay. You'll have sex with a transsexual?

1007
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: I want all that freaky shit. Yeah, no, sing, That's

1008
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I feel like that has to

1009
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: do with like, and then the private school they want

1010
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: you to be so good, And then I feel like

1011
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: it had a lot to do with you. Remember when

1012
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: Britney Spears did Oops I did it again and she

1013
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: had on the school girl out there, and I'm like

1014
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,959
Speaker 1: that ship was like, oh, this is like a sexy thing,

1015
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: and people started tying in the schoolgirl to being sexy

1016
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: and it was just my mind was funck. I've been

1017
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: horny since I was eight. I see, because I feel

1018
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: like you're getting excited talking about Sea. He's making me uncomfortable.

1019
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I was thinking about like, I would love

1020
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 1: to have a paddle in the bedroom, like a guy

1021
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: actually paddle, buy one, Like you can't buy a paddle.

1022
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 1: I should buy a paddle. I need a sex room,

1023
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: like I got fucking I got some sheet up in

1024
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: my room. I think I do need a paddle now

1025
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: that we're talking about my handcuffs and like blindfold. No,

1026
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: I don't do all that shit. I like, no, I

1027
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: don't do all that shit. I like up. I want

1028
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 1: to get one of them little balls that you put

1029
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 1: in a nigga out the gag things. Oh see, I

1030
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,359
Speaker 1: don't know if niggas gonna let me do that though.

1031
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: I see. I'm more of like a just a hands

1032
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,439
Speaker 1: on kind of freaky person. But if I did bring

1033
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: something in the room, it will probably definitely probably be

1034
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: a paddle. I was watching fifty grades the other day

1035
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: and he was giving me some good ideas. I was like, okay,

1036
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like as black people, we just

1037
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: be so like closed yes when it comes to like

1038
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: sex and stuff, we don't be wanting to try. No.

1039
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: I feel feeling like trying different sheet is a new

1040
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 1: position that's not necessary black people.

1041
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: I feel like black people don't talk about it, but

1042
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 2: I feel like.

1043
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,399
Speaker 1: Behind closed doors, if you have a nigga that really

1044
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: really trust you, he gonna let you do whatever. I

1045
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: promise you that and if you get that nigga a

1046
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: little bit, I'm telling you, but a nigga has to

1047
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 1: trust you. Now, I feel like white people don't just

1048
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 1: kind of try that ship with who else. But if

1049
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: you have a nigga that really trusts you and you've

1050
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: been fucking with him for a while, you can get

1051
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: that nigga to do anything. Trust me, These niggas will

1052
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: try anything. How you know, a lot of them try

1053
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: some ship with niggas and that I never do that.

1054
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna do me like that, And I do

1055
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: them just like that. Yeah, I mean same. I definitely

1056
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: have been in some situations, but I just for the

1057
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: most part, I do we feeling like a lot of

1058
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: black men and black women be very very close minded.

1059
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: Like I was just week two of my friends the

1060
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 1: other day and we was talking about we are talking

1061
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: about sucking balls, and one of my friends said that

1062
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 1: she has never sucked the balls. Okay now that I

1063
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: was like, she just said, that's not her theme, though,

1064
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: how are you not suck balls? Because she said that's

1065
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 1: not her thing her. I mean, but she said that's

1066
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: not her thing, Like that's not what she wants to do.

1067
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: She just but literally, if sucking balls is not your thing,

1068
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 1: then sucking dick is not your thing, because sucking the

1069
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: balls is a part the sucking dick. But maybe she

1070
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: don't like to suck neither. She ain't say that, but

1071
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: she says she don't like. Well, she just needs to

1072
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: go stop being sexual because since you're leaving the nigga

1073
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: balls alone, I know that nigga mad get my nuts,

1074
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: get my nuts. You gotta you lick the nuts. She

1075
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: want to go find her nigga suck his dick for her,

1076
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 1: excuse me, just to help her out. I feel sorry

1077
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: for him. I feel sorry for that. Oh my god.

1078
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: We gonna get into the bops, y'all, so let us

1079
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,879
Speaker 1: know how y'all feel about Do y'all think that girls

1080
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: who went to private school or preacher's guards are freakier

1081
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 1: than the average girl? I feel like they are. So

1082
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 1: let's get into the bob a dub a you want

1083
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 1: what's your So?

1084
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 2: My bob is called the Zebra by Jack Boy.

1085
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: This is a very trap song hood song. I think

1086
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 1: he's like affiliated with Kodak Black. Somehow he kind of

1087
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 1: sounds like Kodak Black a little bit. The song is

1088
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 1: only a minute in thirty seconds. That's why I hate

1089
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: these new artists because they be making their music so

1090
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: fucking short. But it's actually a fire song. I think.

1091
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: I like jack Boy. He's a super, super young kid,

1092
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: and it's just a little feel good song, like if

1093
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: you ride through the city, you know what I'm saying,

1094
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: you about to go cut up with your bitches. It's

1095
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: a little trap song you can turn on. So that's

1096
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: my bop of the week. Zebra by Jack Boy. Well,

1097
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:34,399
Speaker 1: I got two bops. My first VIP is Heartless from

1098
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 1: the Weekend. I love the Weekend. Okay, I love that song.

1099
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: The way it starts off. He has this the bar

1100
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,919
Speaker 1: that it starts off with. He says, never needed a bitch.

1101
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm with a bitch need oh period. You know. And

1102
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,760
Speaker 1: you know you could turn that around music the female

1103
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: for a female or whatever too. So y'all love that song.

1104
00:51:54,840 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 1: It's about second song, City Girls. You tried it. I

1105
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: like this song. It's starting to grow on me. Okay,

1106
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: you didn't like it at first. I don't think I

1107
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: was really feeling it at first, but it's grown on

1108
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 1: me and I like it. You got a few little bars,

1109
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, a few little quoittables. I'm always here for

1110
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 1: a quatable yes and shout out to the girl JT

1111
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,799
Speaker 1: JC free you know I'm s so yeah, yes, and

1112
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: her birthday was yesterday, her happy birthday, Happy birthday, Jake C. Okay,

1113
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the question segment as always.

1114
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: If y'all have a question and you wanted to be

1115
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: answered on the show, make sure you email us at

1116
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. That's a s

1117
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: k p oh you are am I nds at gmail

1118
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: dot com. So I'll go first, this over a little

1119
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:48,240
Speaker 1: bit so I can read it. Says Hey, my sisters. First,

1120
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: I must say that you guys have got to be

1121
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: my phase. I listen loyally and continuously promote thank you sis.

1122
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: Let me do a side note, y'all make sure y'all

1123
00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 1: tell y'all friends that pass don't call them home bitch.

1124
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 2: I went reposted it either you're talking to me like that,

1125
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.

1126
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: Thein know what I mean. I mean it as a

1127
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,879
Speaker 1: term of endearments. So yeah, y'all, make sure y'all shared

1128
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: the podcast. We're trying to, you know, get get it

1129
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: ready for the live show. I know because I know

1130
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: that's what y'all want. We cool with y'all, I call

1131
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: so okay. So now to this good old update. I

1132
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: just don't date the guy. He is my man and

1133
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm so in love. He broke this virgo down, but

1134
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 1: my best friend is still on her bullshit. She has

1135
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 1: went as far as to randomly bring him up in

1136
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 1: conversation and try to throw salt in his name. I'm

1137
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: so scared that I may have to cut her off

1138
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: because the shit annoying and I never hesitate to drag

1139
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 1: a bitch. I have truly been tested in this relationship

1140
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:39,879
Speaker 1: and friendship. How do y'all think I should carry shit

1141
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: out with her? Sign all?

1142
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 2: Dog walk this bitch and cry later.

1143
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:44,320
Speaker 1: Okay.

1144
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 2: So I feel like this is.

1145
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: This happens to a lot of women in their friendships.

1146
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,280
Speaker 1: Y'all need to understand this. As grown women, we are wrong.

1147
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 1: Stop policing your friend's pussy. So what you need to

1148
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: do is you need to sit down with your friend

1149
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: and tell her to mind her business when it comes

1150
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: to your man, and also on your end, you do

1151
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: not need to confide in her when that nigga makes

1152
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: you mad or when he does something wrong. You can't

1153
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: talk to her about it because she's obviously using it

1154
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: against you in conversations.

1155
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:17,359
Speaker 2: So you need to sit down with.

1156
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: Her and let her know that you don't like it

1157
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: when she talks about your man. It makes you mad

1158
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: and it bothers you. But also when you and your

1159
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: man are going through it, you need to talk to

1160
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 1: your mama or talk to your sister, or talk to God.

1161
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 1: Don't talk talk to God. You don't need to talk

1162
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: to your mama or your sister or your fucking friends, right,

1163
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: I talk to your man. If you know that you're

1164
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:40,479
Speaker 1: gonna keep fucking with a nigga, it's always a bad

1165
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: idea to talk to your friends, your family members, or

1166
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: whoever about their men, because at the end of the day,

1167
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 1: everybody around you wants the best for you. And if

1168
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 1: you're constantly telling him negative she about a man that

1169
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:55,919
Speaker 1: you're fucking with but you love the nigga, they gonna

1170
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, well, you could do better, right, And

1171
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: so they're gonna tell you things like, Okay, you need

1172
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,120
Speaker 1: to move on that nigga. He ain't shet, he ain't

1173
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 1: gonna never be sheet. But if you know you're gonna

1174
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: keep fucking fucking with the nigga and if you in

1175
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 1: your mind see potential in the nigga, just keep fucking

1176
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: with the nigga, but stop telling them about all of

1177
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 1: them shit that's going on to y'all. That be Our

1178
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: main advice to you is stop talking to her about it.

1179
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: But you definitely need to send her down and let

1180
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: her know that you don't like that shit and she

1181
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: better stop. But I don't think you should. If that's

1182
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 1: your friend, I wouldn't fight her or nothing, but y'all

1183
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: definitely need to have a conversation. I agree, So go

1184
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: ahead with the next one. Okay, So the next one says, Hi, ladies,

1185
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: love the show, Let's talk orgasms. I'm thirty and I've

1186
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 1: been sexually active for thirteen years and have had.

1187
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,280
Speaker 2: Five male partners.

1188
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: Damn, that's good. Yeah that is beach because a girl. Anyways,

1189
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: All but one of them always made me orgasm multiple

1190
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 1: times during six The exception is my high school boyfriend.

1191
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: I'm sure he made me orgasm once, but I can't

1192
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: remember our orgasm from touch or penetration and watching time.

1193
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: I don't count my orgasms during sex, but I know

1194
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 1: that they are plentiful. Your girl gets light headed, in all,

1195
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes after we're done, I have after shock. I also

1196
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: mentioned I'm pretty vanilla. I don't use toys masturbate, and

1197
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: I haven't had threesomes or been with women. Up until

1198
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: the last year or so, I thought orgasms were natural

1199
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,919
Speaker 1: to sex. On Twitter, I see how so many women

1200
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: aren't orgasming statistically seven seventy something percent. That's astonishing to me.

1201
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: I would like to know how much of six do

1202
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: y'all think is mental, psychological, emotional, physical? For contexts, I

1203
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: have been in love with all, haven't. Oh, I haven't

1204
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:47,840
Speaker 1: been in love with all of my partners, but I

1205
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: trusted them fully and was present in the moment. My

1206
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: youngest partner was six years my junior and the oldest

1207
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,240
Speaker 1: seven years my senior. Year. I go into every sexual

1208
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: experience anticipating the best sex ever. Signed a poor girl

1209
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:05,839
Speaker 1: who wants all my ladies to have plentiful, amazing orgasm.

1210
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: So her question was it's sex mental, physiological, emotional, or physical?

1211
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: And for women, I really think that it's a combination

1212
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: of all, but it really depends on the person. For me,

1213
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 1: sex is mostly mental. So I talked about this before

1214
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: on an episode in the past. When I know I'm

1215
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:25,920
Speaker 1: about to have sex with somebody, and I know I

1216
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 1: really like them, and I know I'm gonna give them

1217
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: a pussy. When I masturbate, I think about them and

1218
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: I like picture what our sex is gonna be, like

1219
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: I like orgasm, and I'll actually say their name. So

1220
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: it's like a mental thing. So my body is already

1221
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: even though I haven't touched them or been with them,

1222
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: my body is already kind of getting in tune with them,

1223
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: if that makes sense. Yeah, So I think every woman

1224
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: definitely differs. But I feel like for women it's definitely

1225
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: like a mental thing more because you have to be relaxed.

1226
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: You gotta know yourself, you gotta know your body. It's

1227
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: not men are just physical. They all they need is

1228
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: that fucking friction bit. Yea, so much deeper than that.

1229
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 1: So for me, I think it's mostly mental and then

1230
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: it goes into the physical, like a man knowing how

1231
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: to touch you, knowing that he gotta suck your finger.

1232
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: You at the same time. But I feel like the

1233
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: first one, for me, the most important thing is like

1234
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: a mental thing, and like being in tune with yourself

1235
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: and your partner and y'all together. Yeah, I feel like

1236
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: in order for you to have really good sex with somebody,

1237
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: y'all definitely have to have a mental connection. Absolutely, So

1238
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: I agree. Okay, Well I was pretty easy, sister. Yeah, honestly,

1239
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 1: I mean cause I don't know what else to say,

1240
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 1: because I mean, it's a lot of women out there

1241
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: that tonight having orgasms. But I just feel like it's

1242
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: because they don't really know what the way to do,

1243
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: and they don't know how to god their partner to

1244
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: tell them what to do, and honestly, I don't really

1245
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: know what we could. I'll say, Yeah, I always tell

1246
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 1: the women know your body first and know what makes

1247
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: you orgasm. If you know how to make yourself orgasm,

1248
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: you can definitely teach somebody else how to make you orgasm. True,

1249
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of women we talked

1250
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 1: about this last week with Cuddy, A lot of women

1251
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: they want to stroke they man ego.

1252
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 2: They scared to hurt his feelings.

1253
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: No, if a nigga don't make me come in bed

1254
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:10,920
Speaker 1: and I like him, I'm gonna tell him this is

1255
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: what you need to do. And if I don't like you,

1256
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm just not fucking you again. So yeah, for me,

1257
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: like I said, it's definitely mostly mental for the ladies

1258
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: out there that are having problems. So thank you for

1259
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: your question. Girl. Make sure if y'all want your question

1260
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: answered on the show once again, email us at ask

1261
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: for our Minds at gmail dot com. Yes, what else

1262
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 1: we got? I think? Oh, yeah, what's your auntimatal week?

1263
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if I have one this week. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to think what's something that I've been using a

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Speaker 1: like his past week? I don't think of how I

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Speaker 1: want any probiotics. Make sure you take him every day fresh. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's a good one. Drink water. Drink water. That's all

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Speaker 1: we got. Clear, take a makeup every night. Amen exposure.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got something. I recently had to take melatonin

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Speaker 1: as a natural supplement to help me sleep, cause y'all know,

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Speaker 1: if y'all follow me on Twitter, y'all know I have

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Speaker 1: problems sleeping. And I took some melotona in another night

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Speaker 1: and I slept like a fucking baby. It was amazing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I don't really like taking ton of pms because

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Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm putting chemicals in my body. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: melatonin is natural, natural supplements and I took it and

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Speaker 1: I slept like a baby, So anybody out there who

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Speaker 1: was having problems sleeping, go get some melatonin. I just

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Speaker 1: got the store brand from like Kroger's, and it works

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Speaker 1: like a charm. Okay, all right, So as always, make

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Speaker 1: sure y'all tune into ninety six to seven The Beat

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Speaker 1: every Tuesday from three to four pm. Make sure y'all

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Speaker 1: tune into where tune next. Every Thursday, we dropped new episodes.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Jazz and Chris and anything else that's ten.

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Speaker 1: Sorry for the late episode, but as y'all know, we

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna leave y'all hanging, so we'll see y'all next

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Speaker 1: week at the same time, bright and early, seven am.

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Speaker 1: By y'all. Bye all,