1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby here. A couple of weeks ago, we 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: debut a new podcast, well at least new content on 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: the podcast called mid Days with Morrigan. She used to 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: work on the radio show as the job Scooba Steve 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 1: has now, but now she works for me in a 6 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,239 Speaker 1: different capacity. She's been doing this segment on Instagram. I 7 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: thought it was funny, and so you know, we've turned 8 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 1: it into a mini series. I didn't know we do 9 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: another one, but you guys like it. So here's the 10 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: third episode and we'll figure out if we're gonna make 11 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: this a real series or not. But Morgan number one 12 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: gives advice to a girl whose friend keeps conveniently forgetting 13 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 1: to pay her back for meals. She also gives him 14 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: behind the scenes details about a time she beat Eddie 15 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: in an on air talent competition. Did you know that 16 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: was happening, Eddie? Yeah? I thought. All right. You can 17 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: follow Morgan number one on Instagram and TikTok at Morgan 18 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: Mass and Gil or just find the link in the 19 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: episode notes. So this is not a Bobby cast, but 20 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: it's just a little something we put on here. You 21 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: guys seem to like it. The streams are going up 22 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: on this every week, but there's only been two weeks 23 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: of it, so I think we'll have a better judge 24 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 1: this week, right, mikey Right, all right. This is a 25 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 1: segment she does on her Instagram called mid Days with Morgan. Okay, 26 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,559 Speaker 1: so I got a d M from a girl. She's 27 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,120 Speaker 1: having a money problem with a friend and needed advice 28 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: to things. I do not like to mix money and friendship. 29 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: I just try not to do that. But let's read 30 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,919 Speaker 1: her d M and get into it. She said, Hey, Morgan, 31 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm having a money issue with a friend and wanted 32 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: to get your advice on how I should handle it. 33 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: I have a friend that one out of three times 34 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: I go out to eat with her, she has some 35 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: reason that she can't pay when the check comes. Sometimes 36 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: the excuses, oh I only have Apple pay and don't 37 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: have my card on me, et cetera. She says she'll 38 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: been mommy, but it's always pulling teeth to actually get 39 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: her to pay me back. We went out to eat 40 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,919 Speaker 1: yesterday and she promised me she'd been mow me immediately. 41 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: I sent her the VENO request right after we left 42 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: the restaurant, and she had her phone in her hand, 43 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,559 Speaker 1: but didn't get to it. We went into a closed 44 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: store after and she literally bought something right in front 45 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: of me before she had paid me back for lunch. 46 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: She still hasn't paid me, and I wanted your advice 47 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: on what I would say. I really enjoy her friendship, 48 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: but this is becoming a problem. Wolf. Okay, first and foremost, 49 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 1: don't be this person. If you're constantly being that person 50 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: that has not been mowing people back when they spot 51 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: you in a moment where you don't have your money 52 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: on you or whatever the case may be, don't be 53 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: that person. You will get a reputation about you for 54 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: being that person. Literally, if your friends aren't saying to 55 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: your face, oh my god's really annoying when you do this, 56 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: they're talking behind your back to there other friends of hey, 57 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: she does this just so you know. And you don't 58 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: want to be that person. Um the fact. Okay, first off, 59 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: good rule of thumb. When you have someone pay for 60 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: you because you don't have your card or wallet on here, 61 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: or whatever the case may be, then mow them before 62 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: you leave the restaurant. Good rule of thumb. You don't 63 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: have to think about anymore. And if you don't have 64 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: the money to be eating out. Say that on the forefront. 65 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: If I invite you out to eat and you're trying 66 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: to not spend a ton of money right now, say that, 67 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: Say hey, I'm really trying to budget and not eat 68 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: out as much. You know, you don't have to go 69 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: into your entire money situation, but if you tell me 70 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 1: on the forefront and basically give me a heads up 71 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: that you're not wanting to spend that money, then I 72 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,399 Speaker 1: can decide, oh, well, let me cover it. No big deal, 73 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: I got you. You know, that makes it very transparent 74 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: of what the deal is. When you just show up 75 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: and you're expecting your friend to pay for you, and 76 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: then you're not been mowing them back, and then you 77 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: have the audacity to go buy something from a clothing 78 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: store right after in front of them. That just shows 79 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: me that this girl has gotten real comfortable with you. 80 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: She's gotten real comfortable with this process of you always 81 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: have her back and she'll just pay you when she 82 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: feels like it, and if she doesn't, whatever, because you're 83 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: going to have her back. So you're gonna have to 84 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: change your behavior. As far as what you should say 85 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: to her about this incident, I probably wouldn't say anything, honestly, 86 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: because I want someone's heyvior to speak for itself. I 87 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: don't want to have to pull their teeth to get 88 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: them to do the right thing. If they're gonna do 89 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: the wrong thing, let that speak for who they are. 90 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: So I wouldn't say a word. But the next time 91 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: that you do need to address it. So the next 92 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: time that she wants to go out to eat with you, sister, 93 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 1: it's a no. It's a no for me, and you 94 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: don't have to attack her and how you say it. 95 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 1: I probably would have a bit of an attitude if 96 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: I'm being honest, But if you want to just say, hey, Sally, 97 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: whatever her name is, I really enjoy hanging out with 98 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: you in our friendship. But you've put me in a 99 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: hard position on numerous occasions by not paying me back 100 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: or putting me in a position to have to remind 101 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: you several times. And that's just something I'm no longer 102 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: comfortable with. So I'm not going to go out to 103 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: eat with you today. She needs to be held accountable. 104 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: She's doing this because no one's holding her accountable. If 105 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 1: she starts losing friends right and left for being a 106 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: shitty per person. That just is what it is. So 107 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: you can be nice about the way you say it. 108 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't be, but yeah, don't be spending you 109 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 1: enjoy her friendship. Girl, you don't have a friend. You 110 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: have a leech, you have a mooch, and that's what 111 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: she is. And yeah, she may have a dazzling personality, 112 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, she's using you, 113 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: and it just goes to show she really wasn't having 114 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: that type of a time. If she could go shop 115 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: right in front of you after that meal, yeah I wouldn't. 116 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: I wouldn't continue to hang out with this person if 117 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: it were me. Yeah, you don't need her friendship. If 118 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: she doesn't pay you back, you're not gonna say anything. 119 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: And if she doesn't pay you back, I'll let that 120 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: speak for the kind of person she is. And if 121 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: you do find yourself in a situation where you need 122 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: a friend to cover your meal because you forgot your 123 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: wallet or whatever the case might be, those sorts of 124 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 1: things happen very rarely. If it happens once, cool, but 125 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: if it's happening regularly that it is a huge red 126 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: flag and good rule of them. If you have to 127 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: be someone back for a meal, then mow them before 128 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: you leave the restaurant period. Okay, thank you. This is 129 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: kind of a hint of what we're gonna talk about. 130 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 1: I have not pulled this thing out in years, but 131 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: today it's gonna be a flashback Middays with Morgan, and 132 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: we're going to talk about something that happened a couple 133 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: of years ago, which was after I left the Morning 134 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: Show actually, but one of my last things I worked 135 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: on when I was producer of the show was this 136 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 1: submission for an award that the show was up for, 137 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: and it was a big undertaking. It was kind of 138 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 1: like my baby for a few months. And after I 139 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: left the show, the news came out that the show 140 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 1: had won the award, and Eddie had promised me if 141 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: we did win the award that he would give me 142 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: his trophy, because only the on air people when the trophy. 143 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna link the full segment. I think it's 144 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: on YouTube, but I remember thinking, oh, that's really a 145 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: good crime gesture of him. Um, Bobby always gave the 146 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: off air people platts, which was awesome and I have 147 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: all of them in my office actually, but Eddie offered 148 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: to give me his trophy. I was like, that's that's 149 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: really cool. But this was before it ever happened, and 150 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: so when the show wanted, I think he determined like 151 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: he didn't want to give me the trophy anymore, and 152 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: I didn't even bring it up. I think he just 153 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: internally decided that, and I ended up getting a call 154 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: from the show of his decision not to give me 155 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: the trophy, and it ended up becoming a competition between 156 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: me and Eddie. We had a three part competition on 157 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: air where um we had to do a talent portion, 158 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: a trivia segment, and then wrap it up with giving speeches. 159 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: And I remember thinking I have a chance at beating 160 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 1: Eddie at trivia and at speech writing. I don't think 161 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: I can beat him in talent. I there's nothing he 162 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: can see. He can play guitar, he can do all 163 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: the said he had do impressions. I'm like, ediach is 164 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: a very talented individual, and I I'm not so. I 165 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: actually started out thinking I was gonna play something on recorder. 166 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: You'll remember the recorders that we played in elementary school. 167 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: While there are a lot harder to play than what 168 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: you would think, I got one and my poor roommate 169 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: at the time probably hated me because I was trying 170 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: to learn My Heart Will Go on bys Celine Dion 171 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: from The Titanic and was not working out for me. 172 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: That was the easiest song I could find on recorder 173 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: and I could not play the damn thing. So it 174 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: was a last minute decision. I was at some store 175 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: and saw this mini xylophone. Was like, that's it, That's 176 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. And I decided to play seven 177 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: Nation Army by the White Stripes because it was easy enough, 178 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: and I knew that everyone in the show heard that 179 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: song so often because Bobby played it a lot. Um 180 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: it's the segment he played it for. I can't remember 181 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: off the top of my head, but he played it 182 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: a lot, the hook of that song, and I was like, 183 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: I can get the beat right. They're going to know 184 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 1: in the first like two hits like what I'm doing, 185 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: and uh, it actually worked out. I was very nervous. 186 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: You got ahold these bitches steady to be able to play, 187 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: but I was so nervous and like trembling when I 188 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: was going to play it on air. Um. And it 189 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: wasn't my best rendition, but it's still I ended up 190 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: winning and I don't think anyone knows this, but I 191 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: never took the trophy. I don't't get in trouble for 192 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 1: saying that. I don't know that anyone knows step beside 193 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: me and Eddie. But um, I let him keep it. 194 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: But this, I haven't played the song in a really 195 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,599 Speaker 1: long time. I'm like a serious a serious musician. I 196 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: haven't played it a long time. But here we go. 197 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: I actually opened up my xylophone. I'm gonna show it 198 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: to you, guys. I opened up my xylophone and I 199 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 1: had the the notes from where I played this song 200 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: on the show. So let's see if I can do it. 201 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: Oh God, I'm nervous. Snaw. Okay, we've already we've already 202 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: messed her up. Let's try again. Okay, Okay, I don't 203 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: still have it. It takes practice. But wouldn't be fine 204 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: if I start playing a little songs on this at 205 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: phone is at the beginning of mid days. I really 206 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 1: probably shouldn't. I shouldn't commit myself to But anyway, flashback. 207 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: I'll link the actual UM competition so you can see 208 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 1: the full thing. But that was probably the most fun 209 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: I've ever had on air UM, and I did be 210 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: Eddie and I'll never let him like that now, all right, 211 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 1: thank you,