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Speaker 2: Welcome to episode five forty eight with Danay Hayes. She's

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Speaker 2: If you hear this after that, I'm sure she's still

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Speaker 2: You could see that, yeah, So especially like she was

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Speaker 2: put into like gay conversion therapy. She had told me

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Speaker 2: that story before we talk about it here. That's crazy

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Speaker 2: man like to be that young.

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Speaker 2: So I don't want to say too much of it

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Speaker 2: really like Dnay. You probably see her from doing crazy stuff.

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Speaker 2: We talk about our first ever viral video. I think

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Speaker 2: If not, if you don't know where at all, go

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Speaker 2: check it out. All right here she is, Episode five eight. Comedian.

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Speaker 2: We won't say influencer, not an influence, not an influencer,

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Speaker 2: content creator, Danay Hayes Denay.

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Speaker 3: Good to see you.

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Speaker 4: Good to see you, Bobby.

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Speaker 2: Well, my first question is what do you write in

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Speaker 2: that line that says job like if you have to

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Speaker 1: Well, it's changed over the years. It was real estate agent.

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Speaker 3: I saw that picture. I do want to come back

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you have to write now?

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Speaker 1: Though, I guess comedian, comedian and content creator. It was

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Speaker 1: what does that mean? And I'm like influencer, which feels

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Speaker 3: By the way, soels like you're selling tell me t Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I hate no, literally, I hate using the word influencer.

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Speaker 2: Which is the least a fun place to have to

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Speaker 3: No instance, I.

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Speaker 1: Got rufied after a show in hattie's Burg, Mississippi, and

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Speaker 2: You were telling me a joke at first, because that's

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Speaker 4: No, that was legit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the Michael Chandler was fighting and I

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Speaker 2: Not predatory as in somebody trying to take you home

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Speaker 2: It feels like you were collateral damage in a very

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Speaker 2: Have you heard from either one of them since even

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Speaker 4: But I did a little bit of everything.

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Speaker 1: I even worked in a pyramid scheme. Bobby, which one

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got the videos. Yeah, like that was a

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Speaker 1: I mean they make great programs, but you know, getting

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Speaker 3: It, your whole family at Beach Bodies. That's awesome. Yes,

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Speaker 3: You came up on my for you page.

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Speaker 3: Shave your head.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, buzz coat my hair.

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Speaker 4: It's done.

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Speaker 2: And so I would be like, I'm not posting anything

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I saw it and I.

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, because that I still use it.

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Speaker 4: And now I'm like, I want to.

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Speaker 3: He'd yell at Beyonce?

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Speaker 4: I need to.

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Speaker 1: Find six other people that are doing very well right now,

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Speaker 1: and I need to absolutely annihilate them in what way?

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Speaker 1: Just every way? Bobby like online, like start a feud, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly for what happens with that after you die, Right,

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Speaker 1: You know, why were the people fighting one of them.

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Speaker 3: And you have it.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I've got it.

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Speaker 3: I'd for sure, I'd blow their faces out, for sure,

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Speaker 2: I was doing a show on Massachusetts once and somebody yelled,

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Speaker 2: Hey it can be a poetry show, is somebody talking

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Speaker 2: And it doesn't help us when you like talk with us, No.

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Speaker 1: them because they're constantly having to listen to them. And

444
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Speaker 1: when I first started, I didn't know how to handle that.

445
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Speaker 1: So I just let it go and go and go.

446
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Speaker 1: And now I'll give them a warning in a very

447
00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,399
Speaker 1: nice way, like hey, baby, can we can we quiet

448
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,440
Speaker 1: down just a little bit. And then but it's hard

449
00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,960
Speaker 1: to follow the rules when you're drunk. You know, being

450
00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,040
Speaker 1: drunk and following the rules don't go together. So after

451
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Speaker 1: I've given them a warning, then I have a code

452
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Speaker 1: word with my security team. And once I say that

453
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Speaker 1: code word in the set, because it keeps me from

454
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Speaker 1: having to look like a bad guy. Once I say

455
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Speaker 1: that code word, they go over and they don't grab them,

456
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Speaker 1: but they say, can can you come outside with us?

457
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Speaker 3: And then yeah, it sucks to have to do that

458
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,120
Speaker 3: because they're there. They're they're there because they're.

459
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Speaker 2: Like your person, right, and it sucks to have to

460
00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,320
Speaker 2: go like, hey, you got to shut up, right, because

461
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 2: you're ruining it for everyone. And that's what that fight

462
00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:43,280
Speaker 2: was about that night. It was specifically about somebody talking

463
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Speaker 2: and even like talking back to me a little bit

464
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Speaker 2: during the set, right, but it was running their time,

465
00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 2: and they're like, you got to stop, and that turns

466
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Speaker 2: into U and one yell's I'll shoot you, and so

467
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,880
Speaker 2: everybody scrambled and left, and I obviously I never got

468
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Speaker 2: the room back. Everybody came back in and we went

469
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Speaker 2: along and finished the show, but I never got the

470
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Speaker 2: room back. That that obliterated any sort of continuity of

471
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Speaker 2: the night.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I had a woman lay down.

473
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Speaker 3: Uh.

474
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Speaker 1: The closest I got to a situation like that is

475
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Speaker 1: I had a woman lay down for twenty five minutes.

476
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Speaker 1: She had army, crawled from her seat to the handicap

477
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Speaker 1: ramp and grabbed the rail and she.

478
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Speaker 4: Was like, I ain't leaving. I'm her cousin.

479
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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, do I have

480
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Speaker 1: a cousin in Arizona. I was like, oh my god,

481
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Speaker 1: I hope not.

482
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Speaker 4: No, I literally did.

483
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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm racking my brain of which crazy

484
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,560
Speaker 1: cousin is at my show right now. So I had

485
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Speaker 1: to get off stage, go down there and like reason

486
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Speaker 1: with her like an FBI agent and be like, hey,

487
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Speaker 1: if you'll get up, I'll take you to dinner tonight.

488
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 1: And that was the only thing that got her up

489
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Speaker 1: on her feet, and then they escorted her out of

490
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Speaker 1: the venue. She punches a police officer in the face

491
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Speaker 1: in the like in the nose. They arrest her, and

492
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Speaker 1: then her wife comes to the meet and greet later,

493
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Speaker 1: and I was just like that was when I started

494
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Speaker 1: to realize my brand is a lot roudier than I

495
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Speaker 1: ever thought. It was like like the it's got kind

496
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 1: of like a it's like a like a show for

497
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 1: the good old boys and the gays, and it's like

498
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Speaker 1: you really don't know if the NRA sponsoring it or

499
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Speaker 1: if Glad sponsoring it.

500
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Speaker 4: Like it's just very you.

501
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Speaker 2: Need to separate them like at a wedding too. Yeah,

502
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 2: it's a little bit of both. So this side you're here,

503
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 2: what you do your meet greats after the show? Yeah, yeah,

504
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,199
Speaker 2: that could be problematic too, And it is they're drunker,

505
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 2: then they're drunk.

506
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Speaker 1: And because of my most popular song, they gift every

507
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Speaker 1: meet and greet, I get gifted he said, a dildo

508
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 1: every meet and Greek, and they want me to sign

509
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Speaker 1: it and they want me to take pictures with it,

510
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 1: and it's usually always their husband's taking the pictures, and

511
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Speaker 1: so they're.

512
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Speaker 4: A lot rowdier. Like I always thought that.

513
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't really know what I thought

514
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: my brand was, but this year has really showed that

515
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 1: it is much roudier than I anticipated. Like I went

516
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: to Rock the South this summer in Coleman and I

517
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 1: had to do three corps lot shotguns with three different men,

518
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: and a man pinched off a Copenhagen thing out of

519
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Speaker 1: his pocket and put it in my lip for a picture.

520
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 1: And that was when I was like, man, like, I

521
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 1: might need to dial it down a little bit.

522
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Speaker 2: I think it's a mixture of your warmth and people

523
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 2: feel like they know you, they like you, they're close

524
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: to you, even if they're not. So there's this automatic

525
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 2: there's no barrier, right because they feel like they know

526
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: and that is that's a huge compliment. But also, as

527
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 2: you can see, it gets to a point where it

528
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 2: starts feel a bit dangerous.

529
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Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit.

530
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Speaker 2: For me, it was when people were kissing me. Yeah,

531
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Speaker 2: I had to stop and be like I can't.

532
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 3: Like.

533
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Speaker 2: I love that people feel like they know me, right,

534
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,719
Speaker 2: but when they're like grabbing me and like kissing me

535
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 2: on the face and stuff, I'm like, I don't like that. Man,

536
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 2: thank you for enjoying what I do, but no touching

537
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 2: like that.

538
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah.

539
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Speaker 1: No, I feel that I signed a girls piece of

540
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 1: paper and then the next day she sent me a

541
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Speaker 1: video of of a tattoo of my signature on her

542
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,120
Speaker 1: right butt cheek, and I was.

543
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Speaker 3: Just like, cheek.

544
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Speaker 4: I was like, I was just like, oh.

545
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 1: Like yeah, so it just yeah, it's been jarring because

546
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,199
Speaker 1: I like, I think, because of what you do and

547
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,479
Speaker 1: what I do, you're people are always consuming your voice

548
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: and they're always seeing your face and same with me

549
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 1: on social media, so it does create a very intimate

550
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: relationship for them, which I love. I want to feel

551
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,479
Speaker 1: very connected to my fans, but when stuff like you know,

552
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: like the kissing stuff happens, you're like, oh, man, Like man,

553
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 1: they they're a little too comfortable with that.

554
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 3: And you're right. If you say something, you're the bad guy.

555
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 2: So you got to have somebody that's there with you, right,

556
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: that makes sure that doesn't happen.

557
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, kissing stuff, it's going to gross me out.

558
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Speaker 2: And that's when I had to go a I I'm

559
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 2: so honored, But no lips on any part of my body.

560
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Speaker 1: You know, when I was single for for this past year,

561
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: nobody ever wanted to kiss me, which now my feelings

562
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: are a little hurt, Bobby, because I never had any

563
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Speaker 1: free kisses after my So.

564
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Speaker 2: I should dig your meat greets before though, Yeah, I

565
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: should be because then at the end of the show,

566
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: you're done.

567
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's such relief. You don't need my advice.

568
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 3: I change because I used to do that, but I

569
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 3: just liked at the end of the show to be done.

570
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 3: Get my crap.

571
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Speaker 2: If I want to go eat with my people, if

572
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Speaker 2: I want to go find a fly home.

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Speaker 1: I'm so I'm so weird about pre show anything. I

574
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Speaker 1: won't let family, friends or anybody come into the green

575
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Speaker 1: room before the show because my energy is just so different.

576
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Speaker 4: I think it might.

577
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Speaker 1: It might throw me off in the odd chance that

578
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Speaker 1: one of them says something that is weird or condescending

579
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Speaker 1: right before I go out on stage. So I like

580
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Speaker 1: to kind of keep all of the the energy for

581
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Speaker 1: after the show once I've already performed, just because I'm

582
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Speaker 1: so weird. Like even my dad he'll be like, can

583
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Speaker 1: we come back and see you in the green room,

584
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'll see you after, dad.

585
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Speaker 3: Pre show, Yeah, pre show.

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Speaker 5: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor,

587
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Speaker 5: and we're back on the Bobby Cast.

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Speaker 3: Where did you grow up in Alabama?

589
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Speaker 1: I grew up in a little town called Morris. It's

590
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Speaker 1: like thirty twenty thirty minutes north of Birmingham, about eleven

591
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: hundred people.

592
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Speaker 3: Were you a lesbian there?

593
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 4: Maybe I've been a lesbian for a long time.

594
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 3: No, not what I mean. Were you a lesbian where

595
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Speaker 3: you were living and people knew it?

596
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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't come out until I was twenty four.

598
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: But it was hard, Bobby, because I was you know,

599
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 1: I was dressing like Morgan Wallen but trying to get

600
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: a boyfriend, and that's really hard to do in Alabama,

601
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 1: you know. But I was I've known I was gay

602
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 1: since I was like eight years old. I didn't know

603
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Speaker 1: what the word gay meant, you know, and would I

604
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: would like see Rosie O'Donnell on TV as a kid

605
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: and be like, I can kind of see something there

606
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,199
Speaker 1: that reminds me of me, but not really, but like,

607
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 1: we didn't use the word gay growing up in Alabama ever.

608
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Speaker 1: And then I told my parents when i'd come home

609
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: from second grade, I was like, hey, I don't really

610
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: know what's going on with me, but I've noticed all

611
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: the boys in my class like the girls, and all

612
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: the girls like the boys, but I like the girls.

613
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Speaker 1: And so a couple of weeks after that conversation, I

614
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: was taken to what's called conversion therapy, which I think, Mike,

615
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: I don't know, it might be illegal now, but so

616
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Speaker 1: I just straight away from that topic completely. After that conversation,

617
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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to do anything that

618
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: would bring shame to my family or embarrassment to me,

619
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Speaker 1: So I'm going to stay completely away from that. And

620
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Speaker 1: then once I graduated from college, I was like, man,

621
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Speaker 1: there's no like, there's no going back, Like I'm as

622
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 1: gay as a football bat.

623
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Speaker 4: So I just was like, I'm going to tell my

624
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 4: mom and.

625
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Speaker 2: That, what is conversion therapy like in Alabama? I mean

626
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 2: at all, but I mean in Alabama feels like it's

627
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Speaker 2: extra CONVERSI yeah.

628
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Speaker 4: It does, right.

629
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Speaker 1: Uh. I don't really know if my conversion therapist was

630
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: a legit therapist. He always sat in a recliner with

631
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: his feet up when I walked in, and he always

632
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 1: was eating a sandwich out of his zip lock bag

633
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: that his wife had sent him, and he was always

634
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: just working on getting that white bread mayonnaise like unstuck

635
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: from the roof of his mouth, you know.

636
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 4: But he would always.

637
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: Say because I remember this because he said it every

638
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: single time it was one on one therapy with me

639
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: and this guy, and he would always look at me

640
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: and he would say, Denay, it is not a sin

641
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: to think about robbing the bank, but it is a

642
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: sin to rob it. And as an eight year old

643
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 1: or nine ten, however old it was in second grade,

644
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: I could remember being so confused because I was like,

645
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: what did my parents tell him I don't want to

646
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 1: be a bank robber?

647
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 3: Like where do his analogies with an eight or nine

648
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 3: year old?

649
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? I was like, what is he talking about? I

650
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 4: don't want to rob a bank.

651
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: I like girls, you know, And so it was just

652
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: a lot of like using like things like that to

653
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 1: bring shame onto the idea of like acting out on it,

654
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: if you will. I didn't go to him for a

655
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: terribly long time, but I went to him long enough

656
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: to where the things he said. I was at such

657
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: an impressionable young age that like those things really. I mean,

658
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Speaker 1: I'm thirty two now and I can still quote that

659
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: thing that he said because he said it every single day.

660
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Speaker 2: Did your parents feel like you were being converted in

661
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 2: conversion therapy?

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Speaker 4: You know?

663
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Speaker 1: I don't know if at that age they were too

664
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: concerned about that. I think at that age they were

665
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: just very protective of me. And I have a lot

666
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: of empathy for my parents. I know there's a lot

667
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: of people that want me to be so mad at them,

668
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: and you know, speak ill of that time in my life.

669
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: And this might be controversial or it might be like

670
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: a hot take, but it was nineteen ninety or two

671
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: thousand ish, you know, and eleven hundred people in my

672
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: small town, and they were true in their minds. I

673
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: can understand even if they went about it in the

674
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: wrong way, because I would do it differently if I

675
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: had a kid, But in their minds, they had never

676
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: been confronted with anything like that, and I think in

677
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: their minds they knew that if I was different than

678
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: everybody in my class because there was not a single

679
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: gay person. I think they were just like, we don't

680
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: want to see our child who has such a big

681
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: heart and wears heart on her sleeve and truly has

682
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: a love for life, like I'm such a happy person

683
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 1: by nature, and I was that way as a kid,

684
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: And I think they were just trying to protect me

685
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: from being bullied or ostracized, because my dad has told

686
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: me a million times he's like, yes, did we go

687
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: about it the wrong way? Absolutely, But I wanted you

688
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: to be able to make that decision when you were

689
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: emotionally equipped to deal with some of the hate and

690
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,239
Speaker 1: judgment that was going to come with it. Even though

691
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: I don't think that hate and judgment was warranted, I

692
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: would be stupid to think and delusional to think that

693
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: it wouldn't happen. So I was trying to protect you

694
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: in a way, but I went about it in a

695
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: way that I shouldn't have.

696
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 3: Do you and your dad still have a close relationship.

697
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, my dad's my best friend.

698
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: My dad is absolutely just the greatest thing on earth

699
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned.

700
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 3: So I assume he's more accepting.

701
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 4: Than Oh yeah.

702
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: If I told my dad I wanted him to hang

703
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: a gay Pride flag, he'd.

704
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 4: Be like, oh shit, but I'll do it. If that's

705
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: what you need from me, I'll do it.

706
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 3: When did that turn happen?

707
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: That happened about the time i'd come out, about twenty four.

708
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: So you know, the first thing my dad said to

709
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: me when I came out is he looked at me

710
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: stone cold, and I thought he was about to be mean.

711
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: He just looked at me and he said, well, baby,

712
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: at least you can't get pregnant. And then he was like,

713
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: good luck telling you, mama. You know. So he brought

714
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: humor to it because that's helped me and him connect

715
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: and then ever since then, he's ever made a single

716
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: comment that I felt was hurtful. So my dad's a

717
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: great My dad is a great example of just loving

718
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: your child unconditionally.

719
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,959
Speaker 2: I think you're the best athlete that I know, and

720
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 2: I know some good athletes. I know professional athletes. I

721
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 2: do an NFL show with a former NFL quarterback. I

722
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 2: still think you're the best athlete that Bobby.

723
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 4: That is so kind of you.

724
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: That is the greatest compliment I can be given because

725
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: I devoted so much of my life to that.

726
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 4: So thank you for saying that.

727
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: It's crazy like we played golf. It's the last time

728
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 2: I actually played golf was the time I played with you.

729
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: Some would say I quit because I got beat by you.

730
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 3: Some would say I quit because I won.

731
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 4: I guess not, like I.

732
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 2: Knew people that knew you, and we had talked on

733
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 2: social media before and I didn't have to worry about

734
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 2: dming you and my wife seeing it because you're gay.

735
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 3: She was right, who cares?

736
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 4: The best part?

737
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so.

738
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: I saw you playing like on a Tuesday afternoon, and

739
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 2: so I just messaged you and I was like, hey,

740
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: I don't have friends can play it midday afternoons either.

741
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: My job's weird, so I do have like one o'clock

742
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: I can play golf sometimes on a weekday.

743
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 3: And I was like, let's play.

744
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 2: And we tried a couple times and you were gone

745
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: or I was gone, and finally we got we went

746
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 2: and played and and I've played with good female golfers.

747
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: And this is gonna offend somebody, I just don't know who.

748
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 2: But you didn't even play from the women's teas, and

749
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 2: I will because I there's like a part of me

750
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: when I do play with women golfers, I always forget

751
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 2: to stop at the red teas because most of the

752
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 2: time we don't play with women, and so we don't stop.

753
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: We all play at the blues or the whites or no.

754
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 2: I never played tips, and so then we just always forget.

755
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 2: And I was like, god, dang it, I should have

756
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,959
Speaker 2: stopped at the red tees. And I thought, I'm going

757
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: to play with d nave. I don't have to stop

758
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 2: all the time at the red teas. No, not only

759
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 2: did I not have to stop at the red teas,

760
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: you do not play there like you beat me like from.

761
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 3: The same teas.

762
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: It was why and it wasn't just And again this

763
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 2: I hope this isn't like roofie creepy, but like you

764
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 2: move like such an athlete, Like your body, your physiology

765
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 2: is that of an athlete, where I'm just like, man,

766
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 2: you're and then I learned that you are also a

767
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 2: Division one softball player in all but yeah, I think

768
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 2: the best athlete.

769
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 4: I know that is very kind of you. Thank you.

770
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: I I just yeah, I would say athletics has always

771
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: come extremely easy for me. I can move my body

772
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: like how I want to move it, whether it's wakeboarding

773
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: or golfing or softball. I just have a lot of

774
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: control over my body. But it was never the thing

775
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: I was the most passionate about, which is funny that

776
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: that's when people ask me, why did you get started

777
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: in comedy in your thirties, And I'm like, well, the

778
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: arts were not celebrated where I grew up. If you

779
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: wanted to be celebrated and you wanted to be cool,

780
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: you played, you played sports.

781
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 4: So but golf is.

782
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: Something I've I've gotten into now that softball's over with,

783
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: and I am so ultra competitive that it's I'll go

784
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: out and play with myself and I just want to

785
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: I just want to beat my score yesterday.

786
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 4: So I appreciate you saying that, because I really do

787
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 4: love golf.

788
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 3: She didn't beat me bad, by the way, I think.

789
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: No, it was if somebody's listening to this and they're like, oh,

790
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go play with.

791
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 4: To day and she's going to be a scratch golfer.

792
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 3: Absolutely not if you played from the red teas probably.

793
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 4: When I was playing.

794
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: So I don't play from the red tea's because I

795
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 1: only play with guys and like that same thing every

796
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: time I forget to tee off there or they pass it.

797
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: So I'm like, you know what, I'm just gonna play

798
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: with them, and that way I can have better conversations

799
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 1: with them because I'm not getting out at an awkward spot.

800
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 3: Because a lot of the talk is on the tea

801
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 3: box or the green Yeah.

802
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: When I when I was playing from the reds consistently

803
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: and taking lessons, which is that helped a bunch. But

804
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,399
Speaker 1: I was shooting in the eighties, like the the low

805
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: eighties pretty frequently, and then I stopped completely playing for

806
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 1: like three years. And it's you know, it's like riding

807
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: a bicycle sometimes when it comes to driving, and then

808
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: other times it's like the first time you've picked up

809
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: a driver. It feels like So it's take I have

810
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,959
Speaker 1: to be playing consistently to feel really good.

811
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 3: I gotta imagine you were really good high school softball player.

812
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, in high school, in high school as a shit bobby,

813
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I think I hold that I

814
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: did hold the state record for most RBIs in a season.

815
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: I think I had seventy seven, and I was the

816
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: only player from Alabama to be chosen to play in

817
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: the ever to be played in the under Armor All

818
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: American Game. I think I had close to like seventy.

819
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: I want to stay close to seventy career home runs.

820
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

821
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: But I was much bigger back then too, which was

822
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: you didn't see a short stop at one hundred and

823
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: seventy pounds. I weighed like one twenty eight now, But

824
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: I was one hundred and like sixty five seventy pounds consistently,

825
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: and I could I could just move really good laterally.

826
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: And then when I got to Alabama, I was much

827
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: better on defense than I was at the plate, which

828
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: was so frustrating for me because again I was known

829
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 1: for being a power hitter.

830
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 4: I was the three to four hole hitter, and.

831
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: Then I got to Alabama and just completely had a

832
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: mental breakdown at the plate for three out of the

833
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: four years.

834
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 4: But I held my own on defense.

835
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: I think I had like I think I had four

836
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: ESPN Top ten plays on defense.

837
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 3: So that's that's crazy.

838
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 4: That's my that's my claim. To fame.

839
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: When people look at my stats at Alabama, it doesn't

840
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: tell the full story because I would like for them

841
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: to pencil in four ESPN Top ten plays. That'd be

842
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: really nice because then they see a two seventy hitter

843
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: at the plate and I'm.

844
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 3: Like, where did you play?

845
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 4: Position?

846
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

847
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 4: Short stop?

848
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: My well, my freshman year when we won the Natty,

849
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: I was at second base. Hated it because it's like

850
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: a foreign language going from shortstop to second. And then sophomore, junior, senior.

851
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 3: I played short won national championship.

852
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 4: That's right, Yeah against Oklahoma.

853
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 3: That's crazy.

854
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 4: Don't tell Patty. Don't don't rub it in Patty's face.

855
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 2: I remember I told DJ, my brother in law, Patty's son, guess.

856
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 2: So I was like, hey, I played golf, and he

857
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 2: was like, man, she was a scrappy ball player, like

858
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 2: he remembered it.

859
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 4: Okay.

860
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: Also, because I wonder sometimes I never had I never

861
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: had a like a big ego. I was like when

862
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 1: I played, I just I wonder. Now I'm like, I

863
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: wonder if Patty remembers me.

864
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: She remembers everybody. Yeah, yeah, I mean she's that kind

865
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 2: of coach. Okay, good, well, that makes it feel about

866
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 2: every detail, every person, good or bad.

867
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: Like I remember this one play and I'll have to

868
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: show you after and I can send it to you.

869
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: But I remember this one play. Ball was popped up

870
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 1: in foul territory right behind the third base bag. I'm

871
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 1: running over, just waving people off because it's an easy

872
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: can of corn for the third baseman. She trips on

873
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 1: the bag and I look down out of the corner

874
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: of my eye and I see her on the ground,

875
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, I got to catch

876
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 1: this ball.

877
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 4: So I do art to go catch it.

878
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: And as I'm about to catch it, Patty stands in

879
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: the coaching box because she doesn't have to move, and

880
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: she stands there and makes me catch this ball around

881
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: her body. And after I caught it, I just remember

882
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 1: her thinking, like I could see her face and she

883
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: was just like how did she do that? And I

884
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: wanted to be like, why didn't you move, Patty, Like.

885
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,439
Speaker 2: Dang man, that is I mean that that many even

886
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,720
Speaker 2: one ESPN Top ten play, even to be a Division

887
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 2: one athlete, Like, there's so many things. That's why I

888
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 2: think I think you're the best pure athlete that I know.

889
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 3: And I didn't expect it.

890
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: Well, that'll be the biggest compliment I have received in

891
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, So thank you.

892
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: I also think you're very brave, and not even in

893
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 2: like the typical things that people would be like, oh

894
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 2: you're so brave with the you know, uh coming out

895
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 2: or being from the South.

896
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 3: I just think you're brave to start doing comedy.

897
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: Thank you, because without a comedy background, and I say

898
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 2: this to somebody without a comedy background that just jumped in,

899
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 2: it's it's really hard. Yeah, and you're way better than

900
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 2: I was.

901
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: Well, that's very kind of you, but it you hit

902
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: the nail on the head. It's I was just talking

903
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: to somebody about this yesterday.

904
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 4: I don't know why I thought.

905
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 1: I could do this the way that I did it,

906
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: But the first time I ever did stand up comedy

907
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 1: was an hour headlining show, which I don't know now,

908
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 1: knowing or knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have

909
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 1: signed up for that.

910
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 4: But there is.

911
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: You know, ignorance is bliss, and ignorance sometimes can give

912
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: you delusion. And so I think, not knowing how hard

913
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: it was going to be, or not knowing like the

914
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: ebbs and flows of comedy, I was like, yeah, I'll

915
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: do it.

916
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 4: How hard can it be?

917
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 3: You know?

918
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: And I was just telling my girlfriend this last night.

919
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: I was like, the secret ingredient for me and for

920
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:28,879
Speaker 1: anybody else that I've found to admire is you have

921
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 1: to have a state of delusion in whatever you're doing.

922
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 1: You have to be delusional. And I am one hundred

923
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: percent deliciously healthy.

924
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 3: I just said a whole podcast about that.

925
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 2: Like the truly successful people that I know, the one

926
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,399
Speaker 2: thing they have in common is delusion that they think

927
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: they can do it.

928
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 3: Because without that, without the.

929
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 2: Delusion of doing something that you've never done, like, you

930
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 2: don't even try unless you're a little crazy.

931
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: Well, and I when we played golf, we got to

932
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: spend like four or five hours together and I really

933
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: got to know you that day. And I remember calling

934
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: my dad after our round and he was like, how

935
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 1: did they go with Bobby? I was like, Dad, he

936
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: is so fascinating because he isn't afraid to try things.

937
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 1: And I was like, I know this might sound cheesy

938
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: because I'm bringing up like a dancing competition and it

939
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: may seem low stakes to the other things that you

940
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: do in life, but I was fascinated that you were

941
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: willing to sign up for that competition and win it,

942
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: by the way, because that is you're putting yourself out

943
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: there every single night on live television, doing something you've

944
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: never done before, and you started it with zero confidence.

945
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: But that I was just really inspired after that round

946
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: of golf with you, because I was just like, he

947
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: lives a life that I admired that I want to

948
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: do and I want to be more like that. And

949
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I wonder what that is that he has.

950
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: And I was really thinking on that because I really

951
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: study people, like I really I'm always wanting to like

952
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: level my life up. And I think the same thing

953
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: I just said about that state of delusion and bravery

954
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: is the same thing you've carried throughout your you know,

955
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 1: your whole career is you really are not afraid to

956
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:10,399
Speaker 1: put yourself out there.

957
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 4: You're not afraid for.

958
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: People to be like, why did he get that gig?

959
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: And then you go out there and you show them

960
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: why you got the gig. Like I've just been very

961
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: talking about specifically, the American Idol thing, to me, I

962
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: thought was just like I would have been scared shitless

963
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 1: to take that because even though you're so well versed

964
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,240
Speaker 1: in music. That to me was just a completely different

965
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 1: thing than other things that you've done. And you're also

966
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 1: having to stand side by side with Ryan Seacrest, who's

967
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: been doing that for decades, and that could have been

968
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 1: very intimidating, and I'm sure it was, but you knocked

969
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: it out of the park. And then I saw your

970
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: recent podcast about the leverage you had after you initially

971
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: signed a particular contract per episode, after they saw what

972
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: you could do and how awesome you did it, you

973
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 1: were able to leverage that into a business opportunity, and

974
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: I just I'm very and I'm not you know, I'm

975
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: not trying to like boost your ego right now, but

976
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm very fascinated with how you've done things in this

977
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: business and it's been something that I'm trying to kind

978
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: of take a feather from your cap, and I thinks.

979
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 3: That's nice that. Yeah, I can't wait for you to

980
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 3: Dancing with the Stars.

981
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: I would love that, although I really, I really hope

982
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,280
Speaker 1: they don't make me wear heels, but I know I will.

983
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 1: That would be the hardest thing for me. It's not

984
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: the dancing, it'd be learning how to walk in the heel.

985
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 3: That's the one thing that's funny. I did see you

986
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 3: signed with a new agent.

987
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

988
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: Well I've been with them now for two years. They

989
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 1: were a little slow on the press relate.

990
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 3: That's the slowest press release I've ever seen.

991
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: I think they were waiting to see if I was

992
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: going to get canceled. They were like, we're going to

993
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: try and give her two years of not being canceled.

994
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: If she can make it for two years, then we'll

995
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: we'll announce it. We'll put her name on it.

996
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 3: It was like danae it signed SI.

997
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember that because that's I was with CAA

998
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 2: for like ten years and loved him, and it was

999
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: like for you know, other opportunities which you know, when

1000
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 2: I look at your career, it's like not I'm surprised

1001
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: that you want to do that stuff. It's like like

1002
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 2: what can you not do? Thank you, because there's nothing

1003
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 2: really that. The hardest thing is getting up on stage.

1004
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: Of everything that I've ever done, the hardest thing is

1005
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: getting up on stage, blank blank canvas and just you

1006
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: just it's just you go ahead and entertain for.

1007
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: Fifty to fifty five minutes. Yeah, that's if you can

1008
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 3: do that.

1009
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 2: I'm convinced you can do anything, especially when it comes

1010
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: to the creative world, Like if you can do medium

1011
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:21,760
Speaker 2: stand up comedy.

1012
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 3: I agree, you can do anything.

1013
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: I agree, because there's there's a lot of people that

1014
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 1: I'll be in the room with that I'm like, I

1015
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: think they're funnier than I am. Why aren't they doing

1016
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: stand up? And then I start again, I go back

1017
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: to that analyzing thing, and uh, it's a they're really

1018
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: funny when there's things to interact with. But you're right,

1019
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: with stand up, there's nobody out there interacting with you.

1020
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: Unless you're doing crowd work. You literally are having to

1021
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: create something out of thin air with nobody talking to you.

1022
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: And yeah, it's challenging, but I'm addicted to it.

1023
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially that feeling of when you try a joke

1024
00:43:54,760 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 2: for the first time and it hits. That's the greatest feeling.

1025
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 2: Because how I would do my set was I know

1026
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: that everybody out there is excited for the night, and

1027
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 2: the first twelve minutes are free there.

1028
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 3: It is matter what I say.

1029
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 2: They're there, they're gonna laugh at everything for the first

1030
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 2: about twelve minutes. There's going to be a point where

1031
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 2: now they've paid their money for their ticket and so

1032
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 2: they expect to be entertained, not just on the premise

1033
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 2: that we're all here together, and I kind of I

1034
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 2: could to kind of feel where that was, and so

1035
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: that's where I would try my first Okay, let's see

1036
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 2: if this works, And when I would get that non reaction,

1037
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 2: that's when I knew it was on. I have to

1038
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,439
Speaker 2: earn everything from here. That was kind of the most

1039
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: exciting part of the night. Now, sometimes it didn't feel great,

1040
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: but it was always when it didn't work, because it

1041
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 2: didn't always work. Most of the times it didn't work

1042
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 2: at first if it was something new, but it was

1043
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: always the most exciting because I had to earn it

1044
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 2: from that point on. So when it did hit, God,

1045
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: it felt it was awesome. And then if it didn't hit,

1046
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 2: it had stuff I could go to. I'd go right

1047
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 2: back to the for sure home runs, right because I

1048
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: didn't want to put out two turns in a row,

1049
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 2: so I'd go right back to the home runs. But man,

1050
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 2: when you try something new and there's like a half

1051
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 2: second of hesitation where you're waiting to see if they laugh,

1052
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 2: and they do, it's it's like a sprinkle of joy

1053
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 2: in my stomach that I remember, like oh my god,

1054
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 2: that works and it will always work.

1055
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, it's this dopamine, yes for sure. And that's

1056
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: that addicting feeling.

1057
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 4: And I mean.

1058
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: I try stuff out like and I know you do

1059
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: this too, Like if we're in like a like a

1060
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: group setting, and I know I have a show the

1061
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: next day and I want to try something new, I'll

1062
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 1: try it out that night as long as it makes

1063
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: sense to put it into the room. And if they

1064
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: get a laugh out of it, then that builds a

1065
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: little confidence. And then I'm like, oh, I'm for sure

1066
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: telling this one tomorrow because I know if I word

1067
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: it just like I did that, and I, you know,

1068
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: segue into it like that, I can get a laugh.

1069
00:45:51,840 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 6: From it, the Bobby cast will be right back. This

1070
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 6: is the Bobby Cast.

1071
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 2: I would again because I wasn't great at just writing

1072
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 2: NonStop material. Well mostly had other jobs too, right, so

1073
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 2: I couldn't just focus on material. I wouldn't want to

1074
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 2: be to record in my show. So I did no

1075
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 2: phones because it was mostly because of my insecurity. I

1076
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 2: didn't want something up that wasn't good because I wasn't

1077
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 2: good enough to have up stuff that wasn't good. And

1078
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,240
Speaker 2: do you have any issue with phones at your shows.

1079
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we make an announcement. I don't want

1080
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: to do those yonder bags where people have to do it,

1081
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: because I know I hate that whenever I have to

1082
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: go to a show like that. But we make an

1083
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: announcement from the jump, they still do it. And unfortunately,

1084
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: several months ago, one of my biggest jokes that I

1085
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: had written like it was one of those jokes where

1086
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: like the entire set is written around that joke, and

1087
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 1: she posted it on TikTok and it got several hundred

1088
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: thousand views within the first day, and luck I was

1089
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: able to message her and I said, hey, can you

1090
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: please take this down? Like, I appreciate the support and

1091
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: it means so much to me, but I have to

1092
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: tell this same joke for twenty more shows and I

1093
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 1: don't want to have to rework that. So she took

1094
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: it down immediately. The very next weekend, I go out again.

1095
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: It only had two hundred thousand views, but that's still

1096
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: two hundred thousand people, and I go out. I'm starting

1097
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 1: to set the joke up. I have a brief pause

1098
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: before I say the punchline, and then somebody yells the

1099
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: punchline and I was like, oh my gosh, So I

1100
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: had to rewrite that entire bit. And now if somebody

1101
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 1: has their phone up, I'll just be like, hey, baby,

1102
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 1: can we turn that phone down because I got to

1103
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: tell this joke twenty more times, you know, and then

1104
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: everybody puts their phone down.

1105
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 2: There was a moment that we would say at the end,

1106
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 2: We'll let everybody get their phone because everybody just wants

1107
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: to also document the experience, right, Like I'm here at

1108
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 2: the show, and we'd be like, Okay, in the last

1109
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,120
Speaker 2: five minutes, I'm gonna let everybody pull their phones and

1110
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 2: you can do whatever you want. But yeah, I just

1111
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: didn't want my mid material because that's what it was

1112
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 2: very mid getting out, because it's all I had, right,

1113
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: And so I think that's that's really hard for a

1114
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 2: comic now, because you can't do those jokes over and

1115
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 2: over again, right unless it's like a really famous famous

1116
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: joke like the hot pocket jokes and gaff again where

1117
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: people demand that joke, right, you really can't do it. Yeah,

1118
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 2: have you whenever you're done, are you just trash? Are

1119
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 2: you putting the whole thing out? Then you're gonna have

1120
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 2: to rewrite a new hour.

1121
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm definitely gonna have to rewrite for next year,

1122
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: but I don't think I'm gonna package it as a

1123
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,280
Speaker 1: special Instead.

1124
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 4: The formula that works for me is.

1125
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 1: Social clips, so I'll just dice up each each joke

1126
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: into a social clip. But this past weekend I had

1127
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: somebody film I sing two songs, two original songs in

1128
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: my set, and the sound guy, bless his heart, I

1129
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,720
Speaker 1: don't think this was intentional at all, but he muted

1130
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: I sing to backtracks, so you get lost in the

1131
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: sauce if you can't hear those backtracks, and he muted

1132
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: my wedges completely, both the tracks and my voice. And

1133
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to stay one beat ahead of the house

1134
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 1: music that I can hear, and he did it for

1135
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 1: both songs, and there was like fifteen cameras up and

1136
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 1: the whole time I'm singing, I'm like, this is where

1137
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: they post it, and everything goes to hell, like I'm

1138
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 1: having that internal dialogue. So as soon as I finished

1139
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: the song, I was like, I am so sorry about that.

1140
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 4: Guys.

1141
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: That's what happens when you can't hear yourself singing. Just

1142
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: to let them know, promise I'm not that bad, you know, what.

1143
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 3: Probably they didn't even notice.

1144
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 4: Maybe not.

1145
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I've noticed the times where I felt like

1146
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: it was a bad show.

1147
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be that, it could be a

1148
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 3: bad anything.

1149
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 2: That nobody else really thought that nearly to the level

1150
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 2: that I did, because I'm inside of it, right, And

1151
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 2: I think that has been the one thing throughout my

1152
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 2: career that I think that has made me because I, again,

1153
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 2: I was very delusional at the start. There were no

1154
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 2: arts where I came from small town in Arkansas. You

1155
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 2: didn't there weren't arts, right, You again, were an athlete

1156
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:03,959
Speaker 2: and I was only an okay athlete, So I didn't

1157
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 2: get that. Luckily I was smart, but that wasn't celebrated.

1158
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 2: It just kind of got me out of there.

1159
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1160
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 2: But I would notice that when I would fail or

1161
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 2: i would bomb, or I would miss, or i'd have

1162
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,760
Speaker 2: a show that didn't work out, that nobody cared.

1163
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:20,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so there was freedom in that.

1164
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: Absolutely, and that at the beginning. I struggle with that

1165
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I did not deliver that joke or

1166
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: that that twenty minute bit the way that I usually do.

1167
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: And then you know, I'm having that internal dialogue. And

1168
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: then a friend of mine comes to the green room

1169
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: and says, oh my god, that joke you did tonight

1170
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: about X, Y and Z, which is the one I

1171
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: was struggling with, dude freaking funny, and I'm like, Okay,

1172
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,479
Speaker 1: I gotta have I gotta have a little bit longer

1173
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:47,280
Speaker 1: of a leash for myself and know that everything's good.

1174
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: Who are your friends like your known friends? You have

1175
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 2: country music friends?

1176
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 1: I have, Yes, I have friends in country music, But

1177
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: I would say, like a lot of my friends, like

1178
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: my rider Diyes, aren't not musical artists.

1179
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 3: But who are your famous friends my famous friends?

1180
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:11,880
Speaker 1: I would say Ella Langley, Laney Wilson, Briley, and Marcus King.

1181
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: Ashley Cook because she has to be my friend cause

1182
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,439
Speaker 1: I'm dating her sister. Now. Every time I've been around

1183
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: Jelly and Bunny, they're they act like they've known me

1184
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: for twenty years and I've probably only met them seven

1185
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:26,320
Speaker 1: or eight times.

1186
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 3: But he's your oldest famous friend.

1187
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,959
Speaker 4: My oldest famous friend that they.

1188
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 3: Probably weren't even famous when you became friends with them.

1189
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: Laney, Yeah, Laney, Laney, I don't know if you could

1190
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: have probably asked one hundred people in this town, Hey,

1191
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: do you know Lanny Wilson, and maybe fifteen of them

1192
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 1: would have been like, I've heard that name. I met

1193
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: her on a bar at Winters and Losers several years

1194
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: ago and she had her hair on top of her

1195
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: head in a messy bun, no makeup on, and I

1196
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: walked up to her and I was like.

1197
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm Denay.

1198
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm Laney Wilson. And I was like, I

1199
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: feel like I've heard your name. She's like, yeah, you

1200
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 1: probably have. I've written some songs. And then all of

1201
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: a sudden, her boyfriend comes around the corner and I

1202
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: go Devlin and he goes Denay, and I was like,

1203
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? He's asked my girlfriend Laney,

1204
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: and I say, oh, I just met her. Come and

1205
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: find out. Me and Devlin went to the same high

1206
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: school together in Nowhere, Alabama. And so yeah, Lane and Laney,

1207
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm telling you I was just talking about this. Lane

1208
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: is literally the sweetest human being of anybody I know. Like,

1209
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't think she knows, like when she's in a

1210
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: social interaction, I don't think she knows that people are

1211
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 1: literally ooing and awing over being in the same room

1212
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: as her, because she just feels so down to earth

1213
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 1: and is the same girl I know today, is the

1214
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: same girl I met at Winters and Losers.

1215
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 3: How did you get to know? Ella Langley?

1216
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 1: Ellen and I met at the People's Choice Awards and

1217
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: we just hit it off. We're just two peas in

1218
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 1: a pod. She's, you know, also from Alabama and got

1219
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: a funny sense of humor. And so she turned around.

1220
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: She was sitting in the pew in front of me,

1221
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 1: and she turned around and she was like, I know you,

1222
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: and I was like, I know you. And She's like,

1223
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: you know what we need to do. We need to

1224
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 1: get together and do some dumb shit. And I said, hell,

1225
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: yeah we do. And so me and her have just

1226
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,359
Speaker 1: been really good friends ever since then and filmed some

1227
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: dumb shit together for sure. And yeah, she's a good egg.

1228
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: She's I say it on camera too. Ella's crazy. She

1229
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: knows she is, and I'm crazy and I know I am,

1230
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 1: and that's why we're good friends.

1231
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 3: Why did you move here?

1232
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 1: I moved here because property taxes were too high in Austin.

1233
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 1: Got that, yeah, And I wanted to be closer to

1234
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: my dad. My dad's two and a half hours away.

1235
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 3: Were you living in Austin? Yeah, so was I.

1236
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, not at the same time. I mean we both

1237
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 2: came from there and property taxes were too high.

1238
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, two point nine nine percent. I was paying twelve

1239
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month on a four hundred thousand dollars house.

1240
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: So if I even had that house completely paid off,

1241
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: which I didn't, I was still paying a mortgage on

1242
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: a high else. Yeah.

1243
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 2: No, property tax is always just a weird thing in general,

1244
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 2: like you continue to pay on something you already own,

1245
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 2: especially when you get old, Like there should be a

1246
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 2: cutoff because it sucks that old people have to pay

1247
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 2: taxes if they're retired and they don't have money coming in.

1248
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: Well, my grandmother gets that in Alabama. I don't know

1249
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:17,399
Speaker 1: if it's just Alabama, so what is it. So she's

1250
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: completely property tax free. However, her property tax a year

1251
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: is I think six hundred dollars, So I don't know

1252
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: if they're doing that in Austin or not. But yeah,

1253
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: it was just too expensive to live there, which sounds

1254
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: funny because now I live in Nashville and it's pretty

1255
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: darn expensive too, but in better ways.

1256
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 2: Why but why now you can have moved anywhere, you

1257
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 2: can move to La can moved to New York.

1258
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 3: You could have moved.

1259
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: I lived out in California for two years, and I'm

1260
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: just so southern. I can talk to anybody, and I

1261
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: crave that when the waitress sits your coffee down, I'm annoying.

1262
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 4: I won't.

1263
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: I want to hear about her grandkids. Like I just

1264
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 1: I get a lot of fulfillment from small talk and

1265
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: human connectivity, and so I had a hard time with

1266
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:06,320
Speaker 1: that out in California. Austin was a very friendly place,

1267
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:08,919
Speaker 1: but I also really wanted to be closer to my dad.

1268
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 1: So it was nice that I could live in a

1269
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: really cool urban city with a lot of things happening,

1270
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 1: even though I wasn't doing anything in the entertainment business,

1271
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: but also scooted down to see him if I needed to.

1272
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 2: It's got a few minutes left. But do you it's

1273
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 2: still weird to me that I make a lot of

1274
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:28,439
Speaker 2: money doing something that's like with my brain. Yeah, because

1275
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:30,239
Speaker 2: nobody did stuff with the brain where I come from.

1276
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 3: Worked at the mill you worked. Is that still weird

1277
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 3: for you?

1278
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: Oh?

1279
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah?

1280
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 1: Because my dad, he's a blue collar construction guy. He

1281
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: doesn't make money if it rains, you know, he makes

1282
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 1: money by having a shovel in his hand and his

1283
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 1: body's not aching when he crawls on the bed that night.

1284
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: That's a bad sign because he didn't put any money

1285
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: in the bank. And so for me, it's very weird

1286
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,839
Speaker 1: to know that I'm being able to make money without

1287
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,760
Speaker 1: busting my butt out in ninety degree with they're in Alabama.

1288
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: So I'm very self aware of that, and I'm like

1289
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 1: over the moon that I have the opportunity to do

1290
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:10,240
Speaker 1: something I love that happens to not be ball busting

1291
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: and allows me ball busting in a different way but

1292
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 1: not physically.

1293
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good in a different way. Yeah, it's hard

1294
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 2: to explain the different way though. I don't feel like

1295
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 2: I can complain about my job.

1296
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: To people that grew up like I did.

1297
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think the complaint is so different, and

1298
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 2: I've done both, so I understand the complaints to both,

1299
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 2: and so yeah, unless it's somebody that I know can understand,

1300
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 2: like the mental grind, it's like not even worth it

1301
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 2: because I would be like.

1302
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:43,240
Speaker 3: Shut up, why are you whining.

1303
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 2: You're whining because your little brain hurts because you can't

1304
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 2: think of something funny. I know, I know it's such

1305
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:48,879
Speaker 2: a weak I would just.

1306
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 3: Be like, I'll be shut up.

1307
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: Why are you You don't you come up with jokes

1308
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:53,360
Speaker 2: or things to talk about?

1309
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 3: That's not real, I know.

1310
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: And I find myself when I when I am having

1311
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: a hard day, like an anxious day, and I'm talking

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Speaker 1: my dad about it, I'm like, I don't really want

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Speaker 1: to be talking to him about this right now, because

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Speaker 1: his hard day looks a lot different than mine. They're

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Speaker 1: both hard but in their different ways, and so I

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Speaker 1: try to have self awareness of that.

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Speaker 2: What's your most recent like pinch me moment? We were like, Wow,

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Speaker 2: this is so cool, man.

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Speaker 1: I would say the Grand Ole Opry debut was pretty

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Speaker 1: pretty on up there. I had a custom suit made

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Speaker 1: that was read in honor of one of my favorite

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Speaker 1: Southern comics, Jerry Klower, because he always performed there in

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Speaker 1: a red suit.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, this is really crazy.

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Speaker 1: I've seen a million clips of Jerry Klower in a

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Speaker 1: red suit at the Grand Ole Opry. And when they

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Speaker 1: called my name out and my dad was on the

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Speaker 1: front row, I was like, holy cow, how the hell

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Speaker 1: did we end up here?

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Speaker 3: What's crazy about you? Saying that?

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Speaker 2: The first time I ever played the Opry. I told

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Speaker 2: the Jerry Klower joke on purpose, Like I said it,

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Speaker 2: I said, my grandma, who's I used to watch the

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Speaker 2: opry with. Yeah, it was such a Jerry Clower fan.

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Speaker 2: It's why I even know what the opry is, right,

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Speaker 2: And so I told comics don't cover jokes. But I said,

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Speaker 2: and I said that, I said, but I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 2: a Jerry Clower joke because the only reason I'm here

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Speaker 2: is because of my grandma. But that Jerry Klower was

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Speaker 2: also like a part of what you saw the grand

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Speaker 2: Ole Oprty to be because of your dad. That's pretty

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Speaker 2: wild because that's what I knew that the grand Ole

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Speaker 2: Opry from was Jerry Klower and then all the music

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Speaker 2: associated with it as well. But it was always the

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Speaker 2: comedy and who like, yeah up on stage, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's funny.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that that.

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Speaker 1: And so I'm watching my dad watch me with this

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Speaker 1: sparkle in his eyes of like, holy cow.

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Speaker 4: I literally played her.

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00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: So many Jerry Klower tapes and now I've influenced her

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Speaker 1: enough to love that style of comedy that now she's

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Speaker 1: getting to do that. That was having my dad front row,

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Speaker 1: which by the way, was not a comp ticket. They

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Speaker 1: were gonna the comp ticket, she know, or several rows back.

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Speaker 1: My dad was so tickled Bink he bought an eight

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars scalp ticket for the grand Ola free.

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Speaker 4: I was like that, you didn't have to do that.

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Speaker 5: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor,

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Speaker 5: and we're back on the Bobby Cast.

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Speaker 3: Final question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a YouTube channel. You have to make content constantly.

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Speaker 1: YouTube is the thing I hate the most, so I've

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Speaker 1: kind of taken a break from YouTube. I do mostly

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Speaker 1: short form now. As you know, long form is an animal.

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Speaker 1: It's an animal, so.

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Speaker 2: In every way, make like that, conceiving the idea, shooting it,

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Speaker 2: editing it, editing is just as hard getting the timing

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Speaker 2: right as it is actually doing it.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I was watching some of your videos and

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Speaker 2: not the last couple weeks, but like when you were

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Speaker 2: like combining all the foods, and it's.

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Speaker 3: Just it's a it's a hustle.

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Speaker 1: It is such a hustle. And I've also found that

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Speaker 1: I just don't consume a lot of YouTube. I consume

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Speaker 1: a lot of short form, and I think my brain

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Speaker 1: just knows how that looks. And I felt like I

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Speaker 1: was trying to find a needle in a haystack on YouTube,

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Speaker 1: and I was trying to force myself to watch YouTube,

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Speaker 1: but I never could get through a full video because

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Speaker 1: I don't consume it.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, you know what, let's just stick

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Speaker 4: to what we know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe if my agent's watching this because he really wants

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Speaker 1: me to get on YouTube, maybe I'll circle the wagons back.

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Speaker 4: But for now, I just love short form so much.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to act?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yep, No, that is literally I would give up everything,

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Speaker 1: like literally everything. I'd give up my entire bank account,

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Speaker 1: I'd give up every social media platform I have. I

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Speaker 1: would give up stand up comedy if it led me

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Speaker 1: to comedic TV and film roles, because that is literally

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Speaker 1: the thing I have dreamed about the most. Don't get

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01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: me wrong, I love stand up comedy. I'm addicted to

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Speaker 1: it like I need it. But I've dreamed about being

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Speaker 1: a comedic actor like Lucille Ball, Martin Lawrence, Eddie Murphy,

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Speaker 1: Robin Williams playing characters in the same movie you're playing

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Speaker 1: yourself like that has been a dream of mine since

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Speaker 1: I was a little girl.

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Speaker 3: How are you trying to get there?

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Speaker 1: Well, I have a self tape tonight. So yeah, so

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Speaker 1: a lot of self taping and a lot of writing.

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Speaker 1: I'm writing like a mad woman right now for TV

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Speaker 1: and film because there's a lot of connections I've built

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Speaker 1: over the last several years in writers in LA that

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Speaker 1: initially have reached out to me for writing and not acting.

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Speaker 1: But I'm finding a way to put myself in those groups.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that.

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Speaker 2: It's all the ways are hard, but the easiest way

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Speaker 2: to be involved in something is to create it yourself exactly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's what I'm doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, if nobody's gonna call, I'll create something where they.

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Speaker 4: Have to call.

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Speaker 2: Before you came in, we were talking about the tour,

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Speaker 2: but just a reminder, we'll put it in the notes

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Speaker 2: the first time tour till after Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 3: Then said, then you're done.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Then the clips come out, and the clips come out. Follow

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Speaker 2: Dnay and go to Denae Hayes dot com. This has

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Speaker 2: been awesome, ib me, thank you so much. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: it's I've spent time with you as a human being.

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Speaker 2: But it's sometimes whenever people are just funny online, sometimes

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01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 2: you don't get to know them as a human because

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Speaker 2: you just can like you want views, I want views.

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Speaker 2: And if I'm sitting here just talking about something people

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Speaker 2: aren't interested in or that they don't come to me for,

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Speaker 2: They're not gonna watch it, right, So I like to

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Speaker 2: sit with people who are just known as being like

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Speaker 2: super funny or and just talking. And this has been

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Speaker 2: super cool for me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Bobby, me say, this has been a highlight

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Speaker 1: of my life. Month no life, life, Yeah, my life.

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Speaker 3: I think that I'll go.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say, yeah, sorry not no not month yeah.

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Speaker 3: Life, yeah for sure and many more lives. Uh there

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Speaker 3: she has.

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Speaker 5: Denay Hayes, thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production.