1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: I listen to the black guy who tips podcasts because 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen a heart. 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 2: The harmful, poisoned anger that I am speaking of here 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 2: is the kind that is the seed of hatred. Hatred 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: as a tool has never accomplished any good. It is 6 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: not so much a powerful feeling as a blinding one. 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: Hatred cuts off our ability to see the humanity of others. 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 2: When this happens, we no longer have regard for the 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 2: basic rights of others. We do not honor their right 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: to seek happiness, to pursue their dreams to live decent lives. 11 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 2: Blacks in America have been especially wounded, damaged, and fragmented 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: by hatred. This damage has come from blows inflicted on 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 2: us by others, inflicted amongst ourselves, and aimed outwardly against 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: other peoples. Nearly every single one of us is met 15 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: with unfair treatment, subtle or severe, as a result of 16 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: direct or indirect hatred of who we are as black people. 17 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 2: It is for this very reason that I am always 18 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 2: deeply saddened by how many of us are able to 19 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: use the same weapon of hatred against others, so called 20 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:05,839 Speaker 2: marginalized people, even while knowing the pain it brings. Gays, lesbians, 21 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 2: and transgendered people suffer deeply as a result of this 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: ignorance and fear based hatred. Sometimes we single out other 23 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 2: groups and make them the butts of our jokes. 24 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: Every last one of these people is a part of 25 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: our collective community. They are not like you and me. 26 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: They are you and me. 27 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: People who are racists are often so because of their 28 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 2: lack of experience. Some were never taught better, and there 29 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 2: are other There are those who do know better and 30 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 2: whose unfairness is intentional. No one is justified and causing 31 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: another harm. But even the most hateful people are. 32 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: Still human beings. 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 2: They may need to be separated from general society for 34 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: the protection of others and the good of the community, 35 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: but even they do not deserve hatred, pain, or death. 36 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: To knowingly inflict pain on other people. 37 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 2: And cause them harm or suffering naturally brings suffering back 38 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: home to us. 39 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Black Autet podcast. Your host Rod 40 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: and here. 41 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: And we're lie on a Saturday, ready to do some feedback. 42 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 2: That's right, This is the episode of the week where 43 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 2: we do all the commentary on all the things that 44 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: you had to say about the things that we had 45 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,399 Speaker 2: to say throughout the week. It's the most meta episode 46 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 2: of the week. Okay, it's a very special breaking the 47 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 2: fourth Wall edition of the Blackout Tips every. 48 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: Saturday morning or afternoon and you can be here for it. 49 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: Okay, we are fresh off for coming from fresh Fast. 50 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: Did you fast? 51 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: Yes, we had a decent We had a good time. 52 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 2: We had a fifty minute episode that we put out. 53 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: I will I save the audio. 54 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 2: I'll get that audio out to y'all at some point, 55 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 2: you know, maybe we take a day off or something. 56 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 2: But it was a good time. Thank you for everybody 57 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 2: who signed up and joined us over there. We weren't 58 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 2: able to see the chat, but we you know, we 59 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: hope people enjoy what we did. 60 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: All right, let's get to this excerpt. 61 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: Okay, oh, actually no, the official Weapinars show is at 62 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 2: unoficial Sport about extreme. 63 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: Today's episode is the feedback. 64 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: So comments you left on the Blackout Tips dot com 65 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: you can we read those if you go to the 66 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 2: email address the Blackout Tips at gmail dot com. We 67 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 2: read those emails. If you left us a voicemail, we 68 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: read We listen to that seven O four five five 69 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: seven zero one eighty six. If you gave us money, 70 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: a donation, we will shout you out today. 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: What else are we gonna do? 72 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 2: We're gonna I mean, it's just so much that we're doing. Okay, 73 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 2: if you wrote us a letter in the mail, we 74 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: would read it today. 75 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: We did, We didn't have any. 76 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: But likely we do get them periodically. 77 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: We do get them, that's right. 78 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 2: So yeah, whatever you gotta send in is what we're 79 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: gonna respond to today. I know I'm missing something. Oh, polls, 80 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 2: we have a poll for each episode. You can vote 81 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 2: in the poll, and we respond to the votes in 82 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: the post. Okay, and you can leave comments on your 83 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: votes in the post. So that's all the ways to 84 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: lead feedback. Today's excerpt is from Being Black Zen and 85 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: the Art of Living with Fearlessness and Grace by Angel 86 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 2: Kyoto Williams. I just started reading this book the last 87 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 2: couple of days. I finished one person, no vote. I'm 88 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: just I'm running through these books right now. 89 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: Okay, you understand me, America. I am your boy is back. 90 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, but I'm back to reading, okay, 91 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 2: like and not forcing myself. 92 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 3: To reading like that. That's I know what it means. 93 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: Yes, I am doing some wet ass reading over here. 94 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know what happened, but I guess 95 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 2: I'm back right now. 96 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna enjoy this. 97 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 2: But this is like my I don't know, like third 98 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 2: or fourth book. I finished in the last couple of weeks. 99 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: So it's you know, it's been it's been a great, 100 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 2: great feeling. 101 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: Uh. 102 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 2: Anyway, this one is about black like grace and Buddhism. 103 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 2: I'm not a Buddhist, but it's from a woman who 104 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: is black and she found Buddhism and she talks about 105 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 2: how it tains in as a black person and some 106 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: of the stuff and some of us. 107 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: Been pretty. 108 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 2: Some of us been pretty like challenging to my point 109 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: of view, you know, because Buddhism is a lot about 110 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: letting things go and stuff. But at the same time, 111 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,039 Speaker 2: it's also been kind of affirming to some of the 112 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: things I believe too, and some of the places I 113 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 2: want to take my mind and take my you know, 114 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 2: I really do believe that right now, I'm in a 115 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 2: very healthy place mentally. I've been able to like really 116 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 2: deflect and ponder, and I mean both of those not 117 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: reflecting ponder. I've been able to deflect certain energy and 118 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 2: transform negative energy that's come towards me into positive things. 119 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 2: It's weird because I'm also starting to see how much 120 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: pain and stuff my friends and relationships are in, you know, 121 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,559 Speaker 2: just from from friends that I talk to and stuff, 122 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 2: and how much pain the world is constantly in, and 123 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 2: how this ship is all stressing everybody out. But not 124 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 2: but not be like judging, but just to be able 125 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: to like be around them and offer at least my 126 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: support and my energy and not you know, and not 127 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: do that thing where you like gas like them like 128 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 2: it's no big deal, but just to do that thing 129 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 2: where it's like, you know, here's other ways that to 130 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 2: look at these things, and then here's the other things 131 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: about you that maybe you're losing in the sight of 132 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: these these these other challenges. But everyone's racist their own 133 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 2: and everyone struggles their own and everyone's path is their 134 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 2: on so you know, it's not influencing them to be 135 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 2: like you need to do this, but just kind of 136 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 2: being like, you know, here's here's things that have worked 137 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: for me. Here's where I'm at with it, you know, 138 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: and I'm not always there and I'm not always going 139 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 2: to be able to, uh, to maintain that that type 140 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: of positivity. 141 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,359 Speaker 1: But it it feels real good right now. 142 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: And part of that is something I've been saying on 143 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 2: the show for a while, which was, you know, anger, 144 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 2: letting go of anger. 145 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: And it's super hard because anger feels like control is 146 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: an ill of power, right and it feels like power. 147 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 2: And I think it's also really hard because the thing 148 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: I didn't understand that I'm really grown to understand now 149 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 2: it's letting go of community. Because we build now, that 150 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 2: doesn't mean I have no community. 151 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: You build the community. 152 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: You want around you by the building blocks and the 153 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 2: tools that you use to build your community. So whatever 154 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: you build, you are, the community is you, and you 155 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: are the community. 156 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: So whatever you. 157 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: Build with, whatever construction material you're gonna build your home 158 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 2: out of, that is the same thing that people are 159 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 2: going to be attracted to, and the people that use 160 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: that same material are going to be attracted to you, 161 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: and y'all are gonna build community together. 162 00:07:58,960 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: It's like how you do. 163 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 2: I've in a neighborhood and all the houses are like brownstones, 164 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: and they all have brick fronts because everyone there who 165 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 2: build houses chose to build with the brick front. You know, 166 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: you very rarely see panel siding in front of the 167 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: in front of the Brownstones, It's like, Nope, everyone picked 168 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: a certain thing, a certain aesthetic, you know. And other 169 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: communities everyone has siding. You very rarely just ride down 170 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: the street and see someone with a brick house. Doesn't 171 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 2: mean they can't have it. It's just communities kind of 172 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 2: build around the same materials. And so if you build 173 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 2: with love, if you build understanding, if you build with patience, tolerance, 174 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 2: healing in mind, that is who you will attract to you. 175 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 2: And I think it's something I haven't been able to 176 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: truly grasp, but it's been happening in my life for 177 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 2: a couple of years now. Where like I said, relationships, 178 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 2: like I can said, it's stressful, toxic, negative, whatever, have 179 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 2: fallen away without me doing anything. I haven't had to implement, 180 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 2: like you need to get off of me, even when 181 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 2: I felt that way inside, like maybe I should have 182 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 2: told this person and to set up a boundary. 183 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: The boundaries were set by the fact that I was. 184 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: Building my own home with my own materials and they 185 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 2: don't like that, you know, they don't like those materials. 186 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,839 Speaker 2: And if we lose our connection, if I were to 187 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 2: wake up every day and hop on Twitter or hop 188 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 2: on Facebook, or get on the podcast and say some 189 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 2: like really mean rude things about a bunch of people. 190 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 2: Those people would gravitate towards me. 191 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, because over I would say the past maybe year 192 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,199 Speaker 3: and a half of two, if people have been playing attention, 193 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 3: you have changed the way that you navigate social media 194 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 3: and the little things that you do. And you haven't 195 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 3: made announcement. You ain't told nobody, just did it. A 196 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 3: lot of those people I've seen them, is all of 197 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 3: a sudden, you become uninterested, all of a sudden. They're 198 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 3: not on every post all of a sudden. You know 199 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 3: that Facebook's algorithm basically algorithms, y'all out of each other's face, 200 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: you know, because it's about algorithms. It's one of those 201 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: things will all of a sudden they would see your 202 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 3: post every day till they don't see your post at all. 203 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 3: So literally they quit coming it because you don't show 204 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 3: up in the timeline. Right. 205 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: Oh, that's Karen's from. 206 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 3: That's not I'm telling you, that's the thing outside. 207 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: No, it is not, Okay, it's not. I'm just joking 208 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: seeing the anger. Oh my god, I'm sorry, but you're 209 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: not gonna blame that on I'm just. 210 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 3: Trying to be a professional here. 211 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: I'll just joking with you. The ring is telling on 212 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: these people. Okay. 213 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 2: Anytime my neighbors get some water, it's like mm hm, 214 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: they all here. 215 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 3: I don't know how to turn that bitch off either. 216 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: I like it like that. Okay. 217 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: I want to see the cook. I want to see 218 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 2: him creeping. Okay, I won't see when that when his 219 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 2: mistress come out of the house. I need to know, Okay, I. 220 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 3: Don't the nerves when they got damn it. Every time 221 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 3: we go outside we hear a jingle. 222 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I tried turning it down. I don't know. 223 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 3: We'll talk about it. 224 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: Down has nothing to do with the podcast, the point being, yeah, 225 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: but I have changed how I've navigated my social media some, 226 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: you know. I like I used to kind of like 227 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: try to go back and forth with people, even if 228 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 2: and the thing that I didn't realize at the time 229 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 2: was like, because they don't know me. 230 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: They you know, they know me from a podcast or 231 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: some idea of who they think I am. They don't 232 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,679 Speaker 1: know me. And truthfully, even to a bigger degree. 233 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 2: I don't know them, and so I would have this 234 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: assumption I can just talk to them like I would 235 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 2: talk to a friend, they would understand, they would have 236 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 2: good faith, and some do, some do, but you know, 237 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 2: there was there was sometimes it was bad faith. Sometimes 238 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 2: it was fraught, and I could feel that energy and 239 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 2: that tension in communicating with people, and so I cut 240 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: off those communications, you know what I mean, Like it's 241 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 2: just not what's fun about that, you know. And and 242 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: also like to a certain degree, you have to earn 243 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 2: the right to have intimacy with people. That's something that 244 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: is not just routinely given. And the Internet kind of 245 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 2: cuts that time down. 246 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: People think you. 247 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: Don't have to do that, but the truth of the 248 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 2: matter is you do. Is just there's no shortcut to intimacy. 249 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 3: No, there is not. Social media has given people the 250 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 3: illusion of intimacy, and you know, it's one of those 251 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 3: things where, yes, we might interact with each other, but 252 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: things like that. But truth be told, most people, unless 253 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,439 Speaker 3: you know them in real life, most people you do 254 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 3: not know. And so you know, that's a very hard 255 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 3: concept for people to understand, because you know, it's not, 256 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 3: like you said, social media speaks up that process. But 257 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 3: what I've realized about real friendships only time will tell, 258 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 3: and social media gives the illusion of a quickened and 259 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 3: a shortened time. That's why you can see people all 260 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 3: on each other, they're the best friends, and three months 261 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 3: later they don't speak to each other no more because 262 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 3: they were not friends. Like, like, they didn't have time 263 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 3: to build a relationships. So when a confrontation comes up, 264 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 3: they knew how to talk through it, how to communicate 265 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 3: with each other, how to work through it. Because a 266 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 3: lot of people don't have the skills to resolve things. 267 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 3: They don't have, like, they don't have those skills to 268 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 3: properly communicate, even though the adults and they can do 269 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 3: it in all these other platforms, they can do it 270 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: at work and all that stuff, but in a personal life, 271 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 3: they don't have the skills that are needed to navigate 272 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 3: it properly. 273 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and maybe like because you need perspective, correct and 274 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 2: perspective I think changes a lot of things. So something 275 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 2: that appears very large when you're close, when it's when 276 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: you're farther away, you know, it feels more insignificant, right, 277 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 2: And I think emotional perspective, it's something I've been working 278 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: on and it's something that you know, I've really I've 279 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: really gotten far in that journey because there was a 280 00:13:54,200 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 2: time where if someone said something bad about me of 281 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 2: one hundred people, I would give them. 282 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 1: The ninety nine percent of my attention. 283 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 2: That the ninety nine percent of people that were saying 284 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: something nice deserve. You see what I'm saying, Well, you 285 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: do the thing where you come tell me about it. 286 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: So it's not like you don't go through this, you 287 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 2: just do it to me instead of doing it to 288 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 2: the person. So what I learned, what I'm trying to 289 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 2: worked on is being like like, for example, there was 290 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 2: about three or four weeks where we weren't recording this 291 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: too much because BOSSI didn't want to record. She was 292 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 2: very pissed at the font finale of Insecure, And throughout 293 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 2: that three or four weeks I probably got I don't know, 294 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 2: hundreds of comments on social media, emails, dms, everything, when 295 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: are y'all going to record? When are y'all going to record? 296 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 2: I didn't know when we were going to record. I 297 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 2: don't know if we were going to record, Like she 298 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: could have been like, man, fuck this show. It really 299 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: was up to her, and I was not going to 300 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 2: relay that pressure to her. 301 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: We need to record you know, like I like. 302 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: Those people felt how they felt and they wanted it 303 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 2: the episode right. The other day I saw last week, 304 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 2: I saw the read they were taking. 305 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: A break like two weeks, and a fan would hit. 306 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 2: Chrystal was up like what's the episode? You know, y'all 307 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 2: can't be taking shows out blah blah blah, and Crystals 308 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 2: responded to the person, and you know, I don't think 309 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 2: she was really mean or anything, but she just was, 310 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 2: you know, like. 311 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: Hey, what the fuck? You know what I mean? And 312 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: will be good when we're good or whatever, right, And I. 313 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 2: Think that type of response is what I'm one I 314 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 2: would have given before maybe, And I'm not saying I 315 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 2: could never do it again. I mean, who knows. You know, 316 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 2: people do get on your nerves at bad days. But 317 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 2: I see now more of the perspective and the bigger 318 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 2: picture step being back, and I've been able to, like 319 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 2: when I say, like transform energy stuff like people asking 320 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 2: us over and over something like that, sending me the 321 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: same article about the landlord getting his head cut off 322 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: by the tenant one hundred times. I have turned that 323 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 2: in my brain into this person loves what I do 324 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: so much that they want to hear my opinion on 325 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: this thing because they're interested in what we do, and 326 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 2: they they they're they're a fan of it. Yes, And 327 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 2: so despite this being the one hundredth time and well 328 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 2: within the human condition that even if it was one 329 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 2: hundred different people walking up to you the street going 330 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: nice hat, but at some point you just go, I'm 331 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 2: gonna take my hat off, right, Well, you can't take 332 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 2: your hat off on Twitter. 333 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: You can't take your hat off on oh. You know. 334 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 2: So this is my job, this is my thing, and 335 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: so you know, I learned to not give it attention. 336 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 2: And by the way, this is a very easy positive 337 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 2: for me. You know, where's the show has look like? 338 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: It's so easy for me now, I really I can't 339 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 2: think of the last time I got mad at someone being. 340 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 1: Like y'all took the week off. But it used to 341 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: be a thing. 342 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 2: That would make me mad, like like when I'm like, man, damn, 343 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 2: we can't take a week off. You know, maybe you 344 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 2: even respond, maybe you go on the podcast and you know, God, damn, 345 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 2: da da da, And then I'm. 346 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: Like, why would I put that energy out there? 347 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 2: Because even if they don't understand what they're doing, I 348 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 2: do understand what they're doing is saying I. 349 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 3: Love you right right right. And so the thing I 350 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 3: have I've realized is that you have to look at it, 351 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 3: and it boils down to note top, boils down to 352 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 3: love language. Everybody's love language is different, and everybody responds 353 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:43,479 Speaker 3: to different stimuli different than other people. And I know, 354 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 3: for me, when you was talking about I speak to you, 355 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 3: I think the biggest reason why I speak to you 356 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 3: when those things come up is because I like to 357 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 3: filter things before I respond, you know, I like, this 358 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 3: is one of the things where I come I'm like, hey, 359 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 3: does this make sense? Does my response make sense? Am 360 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 3: I the like? 361 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 2: I like to filter that versus just. 362 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 3: Responding on my first instinct, because social media shows you 363 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 3: what happens when you don't filter that shit out and 364 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 3: you don't analyze it, you end up making a fucking 365 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 3: shit show if you And all you had to do 366 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 3: is just take a few seconds and ask somebody. 367 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 368 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: And also, I mean, you can filter it internally, which 369 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,719 Speaker 2: I've gotten a little bit better about. But part of 370 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 2: my process is also been to have external people, you know, 371 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 2: whether it's you just in a few other people Bossy 372 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 2: need you, Chris, Like, there's there's a there's like a 373 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 2: handful of people that if something really is bothering me, 374 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 2: I'll kind of like bounce it off for them to 375 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,719 Speaker 2: be like what you think about it? Like in my tripping, 376 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 2: you know, And because another thing I found is that 377 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 2: I don't really want confrontation a lot of times. I 378 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 2: just want to make sure that I'm understood and that 379 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 2: I'm not escalating things. And I think about as I've 380 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 2: gotten more confident in that I've actually brought that stuff 381 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 2: to people less because you know not and I don't 382 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 2: believe in emotional labor shit. 383 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: I think friends are friends. 384 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 2: If I would never look at my friend and be like, 385 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm doing emotional labor for you, I 386 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 2: think that's one of the most bullshit things you can 387 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 2: pull off somebody. 388 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: With a friendship, it's a two way street on that. 389 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 3: I call you, you call me. We it's like we hash 390 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 3: it out. 391 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: It's not a one way street. Yeah, I don't believe 392 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 2: in that ship, but because you know, obviously the door 393 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 2: is always open for them to do the exact same 394 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 2: thing for me. And I would never pull some type 395 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 2: of like god, damn nigga, you always complaining like what 396 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 2: so but anyway, the point being like, I have found 397 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 2: that that has given me. 398 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: A lot of like ability to process shit. 399 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 2: And then, like I said, it's also you have less 400 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 2: runnings with those type of people because they're not around you, 401 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 2: because they're not attracted to that energy. So that's the 402 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 2: other part of the transition that's made it. It was 403 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 2: easier than I thought, because what I thought was if 404 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 2: I make this transition of being like, I'm stepping into 405 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 2: my piece, I'm stepping into my ability to heal, my 406 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 2: ability to forgive, my ability to move on, my ability 407 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 2: to love myself, my ability not to turn everything to 408 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 2: a high wire act. When I did that, I was like, 409 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 2: I'm there's gonna be people that stop fucking with me. 410 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 2: And I thought of it as a bad thing at 411 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 2: the time, because you know, you think to yourself, these 412 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: people like I never thought these were bad people. You know, 413 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 2: I still don't, But I just was like, you know, 414 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:34,120 Speaker 2: the how are they gonna feel without me? How's everything? 415 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 2: How are they gonna get along? You know, what are 416 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 2: they gonna do when they're mad about something? And I'm like, yeah, 417 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 2: I don't feel the same way as that, because a 418 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 2: lot of what we call relationships now in line is 419 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 2: like do you agree, yes, sir, it's not really what 420 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 2: is your opinion as much as this better be your opinion, 421 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 2: and that at the time it made me, I don't know, 422 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 2: like now it sounds crazy to say, but at the 423 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 2: time I did feel away where I was like, well, 424 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 2: I guess these people are gonna not fuck with me. 425 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 2: You know, they're not gonna like my podcast, no, they're 426 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: not gonna like my social media no more, and not 427 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: gonna like me anymore. And then I was like, I 428 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 2: don't know the relief was worth it, Like I would 429 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 2: rather not have that type of interaction in my life 430 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 2: where I'm constantly being ripped into a whipped into a tornado. 431 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:26,360 Speaker 2: Then I'd rather be alone than to being a tornado 432 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 2: full of people that are angry. 433 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 3: Right, And I think that for a lot of people, 434 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 3: you sometimes you think relationships are more important than they 435 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 3: really y'all to the other person, because a lot of 436 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 3: these a lot of times I turned funny, you done 437 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 3: got in your mind. These people were fine. A lot 438 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 3: of people ain't thought twice about you. A lot of 439 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 3: times the relationship ain't really that big to them. You've 440 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 3: actually put more weight on the relationship than the relationship 441 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 3: really is, because if the relationship really meant something and 442 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 3: you started to change, they would actually go along with 443 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 3: you if the relationship was based in something in a 444 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 3: strong foundation, because if it's not, they just can't go 445 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 3: with you. And that's what I learned about growing and 446 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 3: and the thing is, you did something that a lot 447 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 3: of people aren't willing or can't do, particularly black people, 448 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 3: particularly black women, has put themselves first you No, no, no, no, no, 449 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 3: y'all don't matter what do I want? 450 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 2: What do I the man? What is best for me? 451 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,119 Speaker 3: Because you was like, I need to do this, I 452 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 3: need to do that. Me me, me, me me, And that's okay. 453 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 3: And once you do that, you either whip me or 454 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 3: against me whole. And that's the end of it. And 455 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 3: that's hard for people to understand, Like I'm making a shift. 456 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 3: You either shift with me or either you gone about 457 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 3: your business. It's nothing personal. I ain't got to fall 458 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 3: out with you, we ain't got to have a confrontation, 459 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 3: or we'll just slowly drift away. And that's okay. You 460 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 3: have to be okay with losing friendships. And I think 461 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:54,199 Speaker 3: that's a big fear of people of losing friendships. But 462 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 3: the thing is, every time you lose a friend, you 463 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 3: gain it somewhere else. You just hadn't met the person 464 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 3: because you wasn't on the same level as the person. 465 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 2: And then once you got over. 466 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 3: Here and this person who may have already took that 467 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 3: emotional or spiritual journey will find you, and all of 468 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 3: a sudden, you'll find somebody to replace that person. Because, 469 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 3: to be told, you actually never alone. You always surrounded 470 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 3: by a group of people. And the thing is, the 471 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 3: moment you think you out the loneliness, somebody will come 472 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 3: out and reach you and see you and be like, oh, 473 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 3: I've been through that, or I can help you get 474 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 3: through that. 475 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 2: A girl, I've. 476 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 3: Seen that, or or yeah, you know. And it's that 477 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 3: thing where we fight ourselves into the illusion of losing everything, 478 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 3: but we really don't lose nothing. Once you go to 479 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 3: whatever your next level is, it will actually open you 480 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,879 Speaker 3: up to more things that you couldn't even imagine, you 481 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 3: couldn't even fathom. It's more peace, it's more clarity, you know, 482 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 3: it's just more openness, it's more loving. And I'm saying 483 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 3: this as somebody who's actually been through this, where I've 484 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 3: had to shake things off and get things off of me, 485 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 3: particularly when we going through this pandemic. Now was the 486 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 3: time to clean your clothes, because shit, what else you 487 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:04,919 Speaker 3: got to do with it than stare at it? 488 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And for me, it's not even loneliness as much 489 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 2: as I realize now, it's control. Yes, I just felt like, uh, 490 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 2: like you have to learn to let shit go and 491 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 2: let things be, let people be, you know, because I 492 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: you know, I live with that internal dialogue of not 493 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 2: being good enough, needing. 494 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: Like needing to. 495 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 2: Needing to not take up too much space, but at 496 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 2: the same time. 497 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 1: To take care of people and all this shit. 498 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 2: And then I had to let some of that go 499 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: because you know, you're a grown ass person. They'll be 500 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 2: fine without you. They'll find a way to get that 501 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,479 Speaker 2: next meal. It's not it wasn't up to you, not 502 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 2: nobody's parents, you know what I mean. So some of 503 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 2: that was also just in a weird. 504 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 1: Way, my own ego, you know. 505 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 2: So it's like and the people that enjoyed that kind 506 00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 2: of like anger and community of anger and hatred and shit, like, 507 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 2: they're gonna find community anyway, you know, and maybe that's 508 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 2: their battle to fight about their fear of letting go 509 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 2: and being alone and stuff. 510 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: Mine wasn't about being alone. I love being alone. 511 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 2: Mine was just, you know, a matter of feeling of 512 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 2: responsibility to people that honestly what I was not being 513 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,640 Speaker 2: responsible to myself. I was letting myself be run down 514 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 2: by people. And yeah, part of that was anger. That 515 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: and that that thing that quote I started off with 516 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 2: is exactly my belief system. 517 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: And the thing that's that's tough is. 518 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 2: As a black person is going into that unknown void, 519 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 2: that part where you go. 520 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: And this also applies to the people who have hurt. 521 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 2: Us, Yeah, because that's the part, you know, it's a 522 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 2: much tougher self for us as black people. 523 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 3: It is it is when you was talking about the hatred, 524 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 3: because the thing is, there are a lot of people 525 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 3: that are hurt and a group of people or a 526 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,879 Speaker 3: person has hurt them to their core, like like literally 527 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 3: hurt them to their core where they didn't even think 528 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 3: that they was going to make it. And I've been 529 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 3: through this where you didn't even want to wake up 530 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 3: in the morning. You just like, you know what, the 531 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 3: world will be better off without me, Like you're just 532 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 3: in such a dark, desperate place and you don't ever 533 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 3: think you're gonna climb out, and the thing is it 534 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 3: will consume you, and it will change your personality where 535 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 3: you are just mean and you're bitter and you're hateful 536 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 3: towards everybody. Because I've been there and it's one of 537 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 3: those things where I had to learn that. You know, 538 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 3: people gonna hurt. People hurt people, but that's a true statement. 539 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 3: Somebody else hurt you, so you turn around, you're lashing 540 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 3: out at other people who actually had nothing to do 541 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 3: with the situation. They're just collateral damage to your angers. 542 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 3: Like I'm angry, so I am letting the chopper spray 543 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 3: on everybody that comes in my proximity because I am hurt. 544 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 2: People get mad when you say and I don't even 545 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 2: say these things because I know why people get mad. 546 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 2: They get mad because people are being dismissive. But people 547 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 2: get mad when they bring up someone being bitter. They 548 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 2: get mad when someone brings up you know, are. 549 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: You just angry? You just hating and shit like that. 550 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 2: But one of the reasons they want you to never 551 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 2: mention that because a lot of times that's what it is, right, 552 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 2: you know, it's like the third rail, and no one 553 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 2: wants to ever be those things you. 554 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 1: Don't want to ever say. 555 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 2: I was bitter, I was angry, I was jealous, I 556 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 2: was just hating. Right, So we have to formulate all 557 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 2: these words around it to avoid saying the fucking obvious 558 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: truth that everyone's already noticed. Right. 559 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 3: And the thing is, all these flowery words do is 560 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 3: cover up the root calls with the problem. And the 561 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 3: thing is just like racism and sexism and massagy and 562 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: all that shit, you call it everything but what it is. 563 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 3: And until you admit that the problem is coming from 564 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 3: the inside of the house and the problem is me, 565 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 3: the situation will not change. You're gonna continue to wake 566 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 3: up every day mad. You're gonna continue to wake up 567 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,719 Speaker 3: every day bitter. Tell you to wake up every day angry. 568 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 3: You are going to continue on this path until you 569 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 3: make a decision that I have got to change. And 570 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,239 Speaker 3: it's also the thing is, what's so funny is that 571 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 3: nobody thinks that they're hurting anybody, but everybody's hurt. That 572 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,479 Speaker 3: makes no sense. Like, everybody's angry right now, hurt right, 573 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 3: everybody's angry, everybody's lashing out, everybody's mad, everybody's upset. 574 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 2: The world is going apart. 575 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 3: You're locked up in the house, you don't know what 576 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 3: to do this uncertainty, So a lot of people get 577 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 3: their frustration. Instead of taking it out on the family members, 578 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,199 Speaker 3: a lot of them go online with this anger and 579 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: this frustration and this bitterness because they feel like it's 580 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 3: a form of control, instead of looking and say, what 581 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 3: is it inside of me? This comes to me to 582 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 3: feel this way so that I can transform, so that 583 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 3: I can purge this out of me. Who do I 584 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 3: need to forgive? Who do I need to say I'm 585 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 3: sorry to do I need to forgive myself? Do I 586 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: need to apologize to myself for the things that I 587 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 3: have done and who I've heard? What is it that 588 00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 3: I need to do to stop the root of this problem? 589 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 3: But that goes back to some of the things I 590 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 3: was saying before. It requires work, And not only does 591 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 3: it require work, it requires you acknowledging that it's a problem. 592 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 3: It's just like somebody as an alcoholic. A lot of 593 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 3: times people go with, babe, you alcoholic. You deny, deny, 594 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 3: deny that not the problem cannot be fixed until you 595 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 3: admit that there's a problem. 596 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to get to a place where 597 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 2: I set a boundary and it's not a boundary set 598 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 2: in anger, correct, where it's a boundary set in peace. Yes, 599 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 2: and it's I think it's a lot of people don't 600 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 2: understand that subtle difference, but to me, that's everything, because 601 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 2: I do feel like the thing she brought it. 602 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: Up that I think is universal is that to. 603 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 2: Knowingly inflict pain on other people and cause them harm 604 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 2: or suffering naturally brings suffering back home to us. 605 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 1: And I think that's true. 606 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: You know, I know people think that's some car or 607 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 2: some bullshit or whatever, but you know, at least I 608 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 2: put it this way. It's been true for me. Even 609 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 2: when I feel justified, I've had times while I'm like 610 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 2: I could have handled that better, or you know, the 611 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 2: violence that I had to enact to even defend myself. Also, 612 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: it's still violence, and it also does leave a mark 613 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 2: on me and my soul and the things I believe in. 614 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 2: So I think it's just hard for people to see 615 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: those things it is. 616 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 3: And also I think for me, it comes down to, 617 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 3: like I said before, acknowledging that there's a problem, acknowledging 618 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 3: that it's an issue, acknowledging that something needs to change, 619 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 3: going outside of yourself sometimes and getting the help and 620 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 3: learning whatever tools that you need to equip yourself because 621 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 3: a lot of times people can't deal with certain things 622 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 3: because they're not equipped to deal with it. And so, 623 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 3: like you said, you could do things like read, go 624 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 3: to a psychiatgists, psychologists, get medication, whatever it takes to 625 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 3: help you get to that. 626 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: Better place mentally. 627 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 3: And a lot of times the people that want you 628 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 3: to stay there, they don't want you to and they 629 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 3: don't want you to get to help because if you 630 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 3: get the help, that goes back to some of the 631 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 3: things you said that mean the relationships will end because 632 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,720 Speaker 3: they like the mess, they like the darkness. They like 633 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 3: to tell you what you used to be. They don't 634 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 3: want you to change because if you change it become 635 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 3: a better person. They are afraid that you will leave 636 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 3: them behind. So instead of them acknowledging their own insecurity, 637 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 3: they're projected on to you. But you have to say, 638 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 3: this is a journey in my life that I have 639 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 3: to take on my own and it's okay if the 640 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 3: relationship dissolves, it is what it is. 641 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,959 Speaker 2: But that's very difficult for people to do. 642 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 3: And sometimes not only does it mean friends that need 643 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 3: sometimes that stands to family members, loved ones, brothers, sister, 644 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 3: mother's father, whatever, these relationships are that are not healthy 645 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 3: to you. 646 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's another part of the book where 647 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 2: they talk about that the battle of being like I'm 648 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 2: finding the way I am and this is just how 649 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 2: I am and how a lot of times. 650 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: That's what keeps you stuck, is. 651 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 2: Like that's you accepting that you can't do better and 652 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 2: that you can't find more better, you can't find better 653 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 2: ways to deal with things because you know, as the 654 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 2: book talks about, life is suffering, life is uncomfortable, like 655 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 2: everyone's life has to deal with that. So how you 656 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 2: deal with it is really what changes everything. All Right, 657 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 2: that's the wrong song. God, I can go twice. 658 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: It's high, thank God. Look, it's then not a book 659 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: reading Rainbow. 660 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 4: It can go anyway, rain to know and ways to 661 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 4: grow Reading Rainbow. 662 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 1: Ca anything. 663 00:32:53,320 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 2: Look, it's then a book reading Rainbow, reading rain all right, 664 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 2: that was our reading Rainbow segment. Let's get into some 665 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 2: of the stuff that you guys did this week. Okay, 666 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 2: A lot of y'all hooked us up with's some money, okay, 667 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 2: and we got to talk about the money first. I know, 668 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 2: Karen thought I was gonna be talking about them them 669 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 2: five star reviews. 670 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. 671 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 2: It's all about the money, honey, about the dollar. Make 672 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 2: me holler okay, shout out the honey, boo boo, okay. 673 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: Depression, Today's a new day, new day, new cash page, 674 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: let's talk about it. Kevin W. 675 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 2: With the recurring donation, Thank you very much, Girl, Falcons, Diva, 676 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 2: Jason E. F Donna, donnah n but listen to F 677 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 2: Derek W, Michelle B Lynn Wood C, Lawrence C, Zachary Inn. 678 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: Shout the living corporate Grace, N B. 679 00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 2: Coleman, Donna N Malanike I our girl Allegra. 680 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: We were on Music eight My Brains not too long ago. 681 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 1: Trace had J Cedric W. 682 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 2: Preston F Team I think he's team drum Nelly L, 683 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,800 Speaker 2: Monica T, James G, Gerard L. 684 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: Calvin Inn. 685 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 2: Hope that McDonald's working out for y'all. Know they've been 686 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 2: slapping you up without. 687 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 1: Their man and Lashonda S. That is everybody. Thank you 688 00:34:52,120 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: so much for the recurring donations. We appreciate you. What 689 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: is studing me today on Today's a new days? 690 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:12,239 Speaker 5: The sunshine nothing, the clouds in the song and the 691 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 5: hard and the feel like a cold night, today's a 692 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 5: new day. 693 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 2: Tell me where are my blue skyes? 694 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 1: Where's the love and joy? And the time that you. 695 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 2: Tell me is all right? 696 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 4: I almost gave up my power. I can't explain from 697 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,880 Speaker 4: heaving like the shower. And I know we're. 698 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 3: Hurt, but I smile. 699 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,800 Speaker 2: Even though it hurts, I smile. 700 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 1: I know God is working for a foul. 701 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 2: Even though I'm here for a. 702 00:35:54,239 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: While, I smile, smile. It's so hard to look up 703 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 1: when you look down. I show what hate to see 704 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:04,359 Speaker 1: your gift up. 705 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:08,320 Speaker 5: Now you look so much better when your smile. 706 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 2: Let's talk about these five star reviews though. That's what 707 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 2: made me smile. 708 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: We got one new one on. 709 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:20,880 Speaker 2: Stitcher, another one by Stephan E who says five stars. 710 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: Been listening for years. Gave my first five star review 711 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 2: five or six years ago. Your podcast has been bringing 712 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,319 Speaker 2: me so much joy, I figured it was time for 713 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:34,160 Speaker 2: another one. Love y'all, Thank you Stefan, and listen. That's 714 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,720 Speaker 2: a long time to be listening to us. 715 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,720 Speaker 1: Five years. That's a hell of a milestone. Ain't clap 716 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 1: for yourself. 717 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 2: We also got some on iTunes. I think we got 718 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 2: full new ones. 719 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 1: Love this show. 720 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 2: Best podcast for people of color and allies. This review 721 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 2: is a long time coming. Every time I try to 722 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 2: create it, iTunes doesn't accept best show ever. I first 723 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 2: started listening during my hour long commute to work when 724 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,879 Speaker 2: I first moved to Florida. I was missing being around 725 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 2: other black people, and I looked for black in the title. 726 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: Lol. 727 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 2: I heard Rid's review of the Vietnam documentary. It was 728 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 2: so concise and very educational, but it wasn't just some 729 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,359 Speaker 2: boring think piece. It had nuance and he discussed pop 730 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 2: culture too. It was the best mix I could have 731 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 2: asked for. I've been hooked since. Loved this and the 732 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 2: read all shut out. 733 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 3: You. 734 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,320 Speaker 1: Shout out to the read and thank you for listening 735 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 1: to that. 736 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 2: Like I said, it's such a dope, dope I loved 737 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 2: when out here People that's been listening for a while, 738 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 2: you know, it's almost easy to be like I found 739 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 2: this podcast today and it's great. 740 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 1: You know, it's like you listen for. 741 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 2: A long time, then you heard us disagree with you, you 742 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 2: heard us agree with you. 743 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:40,720 Speaker 1: You heard us disagree with each other, you heard us. 744 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 2: Make jokes, you heard a bunch of shit, and by 745 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 2: then it's like, you know, if you really fuck with 746 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 2: us at the year or two Yeah, episode twenty one 747 00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:49,319 Speaker 2: fifty one. 748 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: I absolutely loved this episode. 749 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 2: There was actually so much information I had to save 750 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 2: it to re listen to it. 751 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: It got me all the way together. 752 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 2: With my regards to social media, I've been starting to 753 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 2: get that feeling as well that my opinions may not 754 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 2: be my own, that who I've been following on IG 755 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 2: has not exactly been good for me mentally. I really 756 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,879 Speaker 2: do love your show and that your empathy really does 757 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 2: come through. I love the show, the show, that the 758 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 2: show was as long as it needed to be for 759 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,759 Speaker 2: your point to be heard. Keep being full of you 760 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 2: and fully black twenty underscore six, Thank you. Oh I'm sorry. 761 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 2: The last person was glam Chick ninety nine. My bad, 762 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 2: but yes, and this one was twenty underscore six. Thank 763 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 2: you you hey man, I'm onto something with this man. 764 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 2: I really do, like you know, it is one of 765 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,120 Speaker 2: those things where I had like a feeling underneath, and 766 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 2: I think what it is is that I want people 767 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 2: to feel the way I feel, even if they don't 768 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 2: get that the way I got there, And maybe people 769 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 2: already are doing these things. 770 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 1: And I'm just I'm late to the game. 771 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 2: But I want people to feel that freedom that you 772 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:58,160 Speaker 2: grant yourself by like not assuming the worst of every situation, 773 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 2: not walking around the fucking hit list in your mind 774 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,640 Speaker 2: of all the people you can't like and don't like 775 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,000 Speaker 2: and you want to take that down too much and 776 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 2: allowing each situation to be what it is, because I'm 777 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 2: seeing people we used in real time and I'm watching 778 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:19,799 Speaker 2: this stuff happen, and honest to God, every day it's 779 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 2: the same shit. Uh maybe yesterday or the day before. Joe 780 00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 2: Biden there was another viral. 781 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: Clip, but Joe Biden fucked up, y'all. Joe Biden fucked. 782 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 2: Up ten second clip from a twenty minute interview of course, 783 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 2: where you could go click on no interview and see it, 784 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,800 Speaker 2: but you know you didn't. The headlines are various relations 785 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 2: and the clip was something to the to the to 786 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 2: the thing of saying like, well, the black community is 787 00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 2: not is not as diverse as the Latino community, and 788 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,759 Speaker 2: people like, what does he mean, maya you saying black 789 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 2: people are not diverse? We diverse, we not on minor 790 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 2: lift blah blah blah. 791 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: Okay, what could he possibly fucking mean? 792 00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 2: You think he just walked in there to be like, 793 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,960 Speaker 2: fuck niggers today, I can't help myself from Joe Biden. No, 794 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,279 Speaker 2: it's the easy grab, it's the easy joke. Everyone's gonna 795 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,479 Speaker 2: go viral, dunking on. 796 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 1: It and whatever. 797 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 2: But the quote was literally about voting and we are 798 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 2: not Black people are not as diverse, which he was 799 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 2: trying to use a coded language to be nice to 800 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 2: Latino people in that situation, because what he really is 801 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,399 Speaker 2: saying is we don't vote against our own interests like that, 802 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 2: we don't go because Latino people are some of them 803 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 2: are just white and they vote white. Yes, they do, right, 804 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 2: And so there was that where he was like, yeah, 805 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,319 Speaker 2: black people not gonna do no stupid shit, like that 806 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 2: same thing where he said, if you're not voting for me, 807 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,239 Speaker 2: you ain't black? Yes, that what the fuck are you 808 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 2: talking about? What black people? You know who I are? Like, 809 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:47,800 Speaker 2: I'm voting for Trump. 810 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: Who do you know that? You go? Yes? 811 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,320 Speaker 2: Great, great black person, great love the way they contribute 812 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 2: to the race, None of us, like you know what 813 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 2: the deal is. 814 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 1: But it's but that's the thing. 815 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,160 Speaker 2: The clip can go, the anger can go viral, and 816 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 2: people get whipped into a frenzy and now it's a 817 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 2: joke competition, it's a mean, it's all these things that 818 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 2: it shouldn't be because it's a very serious election, a 819 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,680 Speaker 2: very serious thing we're going through right now. 820 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,759 Speaker 1: I'm not on joke mode with this shit. 821 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 3: Y'all know what. I don't care if he pulls his 822 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 3: dick out. He got my motherfucking vote. 823 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: But the point is we knew what he meant. 824 00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,320 Speaker 2: And the thing that I realized over this time period, 825 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 2: the people who are assuming the worst are assuming the 826 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,800 Speaker 2: worst is a brand. They also know what it means. 827 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 2: And so I don't even this time. I didn't even 828 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,880 Speaker 2: engage with it. I don't retweet it, I don't respond 829 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 2: to it. I don't try to explain it. I know 830 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:45,880 Speaker 2: what you I know you know, and if I know 831 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,320 Speaker 2: you know, I'm the fool for engaging you. Yes, that 832 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 2: makes me the fool for going when nigga, this is 833 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 2: what y'all voting for, Yes, and you absolutely know that. 834 00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,880 Speaker 2: So I don't even know what the problem is at 835 00:41:58,920 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 2: this point. 836 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:04,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, it's just it's just such a weird. 837 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,359 Speaker 2: But but the thing is, if you have emotional perspective, 838 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 2: if you take a step back and you say wait 839 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,840 Speaker 2: a minute, I've seen this play before. 840 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 1: If you take a step back, then you see the 841 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 1: actors in the play. 842 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 2: And when you see the actors in the play, you 843 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,920 Speaker 2: see how much of it is preordained, prescripted, and how 844 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 2: much of it honestly is people just passing the time 845 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 2: the same. Like, this is the thing when I say 846 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 2: I know how to transform energy, I have always been 847 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:39,919 Speaker 2: transforming energy. I just used to transform into more negativity. 848 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 2: Take anger and make it. Let me be angry, you 849 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 2: know I could like and everyone does this. You take 850 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 2: something happens in you, and you can be in a 851 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 2: perfectly fine mood. A thing happens, maybe not even directly 852 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 2: to you, but a thing happens, it changes your mood. 853 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,479 Speaker 2: So you have been transformed by energy, you know whether, 854 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 2: and you have allowed that process to happen. So can 855 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,080 Speaker 2: you then do it the other way? That's the question. 856 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 2: Can you take those external factors and then flip it 857 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,839 Speaker 2: into the process of your emotions that you've been through 858 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:17,120 Speaker 2: so many times? Willfully get in there and turn the 859 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:21,800 Speaker 2: gears yourself, willfully get in there and adjust the settings 860 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,360 Speaker 2: on your own? Can you do that yourself? Because I 861 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 2: think that's what being an adult. Is that's the journey 862 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 2: that we're all on, you know, because before we check 863 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,839 Speaker 2: out it this bitch that's all we got really right. 864 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 3: And and the thing is there are a lot of 865 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 3: adults who don't know how to manipulate those switches, and 866 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:44,320 Speaker 3: they almost respond even though your your number session adult, 867 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,760 Speaker 3: you respond like a teenager. You respond like kids. Something 868 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,520 Speaker 3: happened all of a sudden, this is outraged. 869 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 2: It's just burst. It's this. And it's not to say 870 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 2: you can't be angry, it's not. It's just it's just control, 871 00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 2: like control yourself. Be angry when you want to be angry, 872 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,200 Speaker 2: be sad when you want to be sad. 873 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, my choice, don't let other 874 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 3: people of the situation manipulate. 875 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 1: Be mindful of it. 876 00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,680 Speaker 2: And that's so that day I was able to sit 877 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:15,319 Speaker 2: back and watch people be I watched people that I 878 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:20,719 Speaker 2: felt were being mindless get whipped into a frenzy. Now 879 00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 2: that's something that most people that are listening to show 880 00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 2: can least probably agree on, because we're all like, we're 881 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 2: black for the most part, when none of us are 882 00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 2: stupid enough to vote for Trump. So okay, let's talk 883 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 2: about something you probably won't agree on. But I feel 884 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,920 Speaker 2: the same way about arguing with these niggas about Megan 885 00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 2: and Cardi. 886 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. Why what would I do that for? 887 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 2: I saw people retweeting Republicans all day, going back and 888 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 2: forth with motherfuckers with men who think they that this 889 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,879 Speaker 2: was an invitation for their opinions on women's bodies and sexuality. 890 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,720 Speaker 1: Why are you even engaging them? Correct, this is all, 891 00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 1: this is all something we've seen before. We've seen before. 892 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 1: You can't save them. 893 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:05,319 Speaker 2: And what I realized is the same thing that happened 894 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,240 Speaker 2: with Kylie Jenner and how she trended it after that video. 895 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:13,320 Speaker 1: It's people are not being honest with themselves. 896 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 3: Yes they're not. 897 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,319 Speaker 2: When they watched that video, what they wanted to do 898 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 2: was fight about it. 899 00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 3: Yes, people like to fight and people. 900 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: They looked for. 901 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 2: They wanted to be someone's huckle berry. They looked for 902 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 2: people to fight. They will never admit that that's what 903 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 2: they do. Will They may not even be aware that 904 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 2: that's what they do. But they rather than rather than 905 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 2: appreciating and joining and sharing in the community like we're 906 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:43,200 Speaker 2: we're having a good time, they will find the people. 907 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 2: There could be some ashy nigga with two followers. It 908 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 2: could be some motherfucker that you got blocked. It could 909 00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 2: be like, I honestly think people go look for that shit. 910 00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 3: They do and the thing that tripped me out about it, 911 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 3: and the thing that I don't understand. I see people 912 00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:00,000 Speaker 3: do this and then turn around. Why am I so angry? 913 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,080 Speaker 3: Why I'm au some mad bitch? Because you argue with 914 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,319 Speaker 3: everybody at some paid of time, you can check out 915 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,319 Speaker 3: at some paid of time. 916 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,320 Speaker 2: It is you, It is one you. 917 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 3: You go seek them, you go look for them, you 918 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,120 Speaker 3: get the argument, and then you complain. It doesn't make 919 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,840 Speaker 3: no sense. Something has got to change. 920 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:16,200 Speaker 2: In this circle. 921 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,719 Speaker 3: Eventually you got to check out and be like, I'm 922 00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:20,760 Speaker 3: not arguing with them today. You know what, Your blood 923 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 3: pressure would fucking go down, your heart rate would go down, 924 00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 3: and you would feel a lot better. But there's something 925 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 3: within you that says, I have to say something. Well, 926 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 3: then you go say something I don't want to hear 927 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 3: you complain did because that's what Jack's for. 928 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 2: Well, that's silence that exists when you're not going back 929 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 2: and forth with these losers is the biggest fear. You're 930 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,840 Speaker 2: more afraid of that than their opinions. You're more afraid 931 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:48,800 Speaker 2: of your own company than whatever this stupid ass Republican 932 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 2: had to say about Megan's body or about Cardi b and. 933 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 1: A role model. 934 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 2: You're more you're avoiding something else, something internal and that 935 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,400 Speaker 2: and that's why you look for that external stimuli to 936 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 2: shoot out your emotion. That you are transforming energy. You're 937 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,879 Speaker 2: transforming the energy that exists in the space where it's 938 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,720 Speaker 2: just you that you don't want to deal with into 939 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,719 Speaker 2: external rage at someone else where you can go. At least, 940 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:17,319 Speaker 2: I'm not focusing on me right now. 941 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:17,680 Speaker 3: Correct. 942 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 1: At least I'm not, you know, feeling angry. 943 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 2: At least I'm not feeling or at least I'm not 944 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,200 Speaker 2: feeling fruitlessly angry at myself. At least I'm not feeling sad. 945 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 2: At least I'm not depressed. At least I'm not alone, 946 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying. And so that becomes the 947 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 2: community now, the shared community of we're fighting people over 948 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 2: this thing, you know, just to pass the time sometimes, yeah, 949 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,920 Speaker 2: but but see that's the thing about passing the time though, Karen, 950 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 2: time passing no matter what you do. So it's not 951 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:49,000 Speaker 2: passing the time necessarily, it's passing the time avoiding something else. 952 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 2: So we channel our energy and different shit. And it's 953 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 2: not everyone does it. It's just I don't want to 954 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 2: mindlessly do it. 955 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,160 Speaker 1: That's all, because you. 956 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,880 Speaker 3: Know everybody does it. Everybody channels this into other places. 957 00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:04,239 Speaker 2: If every moment is important, that every moment should have 958 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 2: some level of intentionality, you know, or you should at 959 00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 2: least I want to be aware of housemen, moment, my money, 960 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:16,080 Speaker 2: my moments, yes, sir, but yeah, so back to back 961 00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:19,359 Speaker 2: to the review. Sorry, that's a long tangent. I love 962 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 2: you guys, for real, for real. This is from Roxanne. Roxanne, 963 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen bring me complete joy every week. 964 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,720 Speaker 1: Hey, thank you ro Sayne, thank you. 965 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:28,800 Speaker 6: Uh. 966 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 1: And lastly, true comedy. 967 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,879 Speaker 2: This is from Rob Reed, writes, who I think might 968 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 2: be from a typical sports shows. 969 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 1: That's my homie. 970 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,880 Speaker 2: The black Out Tips podcast listed as a comedy podcast, 971 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,319 Speaker 2: but it's so much more than that. Yes, the host 972 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen will leave you laughing as they cover 973 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 2: various topics in news and society and politics, but more importantly, 974 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,880 Speaker 2: they demonstrate empathy and care as they process information that 975 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:52,280 Speaker 2: can often be traumatic. 976 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:55,480 Speaker 1: On this own, so often the news feels overwhelming. 977 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 2: But Rod and Karen help their listeners navigated and process it. 978 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,040 Speaker 2: It's a nurturing environment and make thanks for a fantastic 979 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 2: listening as you prepare for work or is you unwined 980 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,840 Speaker 2: in the evening? This is a comedy podcast, not just 981 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 2: in the modern sense, but in the classical sense. Comedies 982 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,320 Speaker 2: were played with happy ending to ones that lifted your spirits, 983 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 2: that left your feeling rejuvenated. With the Blackout Tips podcast, 984 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,520 Speaker 2: Rod and Karendy just that Wow, great, thank you. 985 00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 1: I know right, that's a flattering review. 986 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,760 Speaker 2: I praise talking about us. 987 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,719 Speaker 1: Oh that was all right. 988 00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 2: Let's get into the comments on the episodes we had 989 00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 2: throughout the week. The feedback episode was twenty one forty 990 00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:35,239 Speaker 2: eight Goodbye blackwall Nut. I know old Herman Kane died 991 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 2: dancing for him. Won't be me and says not directly 992 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,719 Speaker 2: related to anything you talked about on this episode. But 993 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 2: August first is a Mascipation Day in Trinidad and Tobago, Tobago. 994 00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:49,080 Speaker 1: An official holiday. 995 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,920 Speaker 2: It became a holiday when I was a child, and 996 00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 2: I remember being taught the history of African slavery in 997 00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 2: the Caribbean in primary school, elementary school. If the US 998 00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 2: wanted to do the same. It could work, It really 999 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,240 Speaker 2: could work, and you know they won't. 1000 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 3: But I'm glad to hear that. I just know it 1001 00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 3: was the holiday. 1002 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,800 Speaker 2: Baby they mad about teaching the sixteen nineteen Roger. 1003 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 1: Sarah. 1004 00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 2: You know they're not gonna teach as other black people 1005 00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,400 Speaker 2: got free. Sarah says, if you are a person without 1006 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,280 Speaker 2: a home, you can vote. Yeah, a couple of people 1007 00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 2: sent this in. I'm gonna read because I'm glad you 1008 00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,920 Speaker 2: cleared it up, but I do want to clarify what 1009 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 2: we talked about. If you are a person without a 1010 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,080 Speaker 2: home you can vote. I know because I'm going to 1011 00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,000 Speaker 2: be a volunteer at my polling place and they gave 1012 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:30,960 Speaker 2: me information on how to register a person without a 1013 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,719 Speaker 2: permanent address. The best way is to get a letter 1014 00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:36,759 Speaker 2: from an organization that provides shelter in many states. I 1015 00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:38,680 Speaker 2: know it's concept for sure, and I looked up North 1016 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 2: Carolina as well. You can list your usual sleeping area. Unfortunately, 1017 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 2: confusion around the issue is confounded by the fact that 1018 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,320 Speaker 2: there are different regulations by state, so I can't guarantee 1019 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:48,600 Speaker 2: that this is accurate everywhere. 1020 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 1: Just wanted to let. 1021 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,760 Speaker 2: People know that if you currently don't have a permanent location, 1022 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,880 Speaker 2: you can still vote inf for North Carolina under residency 1023 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,919 Speaker 2: and she puts links, So if you want to see 1024 00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,160 Speaker 2: the links, go to the blackoutis dot com. This is 1025 00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:04,040 Speaker 2: episode twenty one forty eight. Look in at comments. Okay, 1026 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,919 Speaker 2: so you're absolutely right, Sarah and everyone else who wrote 1027 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,879 Speaker 2: in about this. We're not saying it's impossible to vote 1028 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,359 Speaker 2: if you're homeless. That's not what we're saying. What we're 1029 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:18,040 Speaker 2: saying is if people get evicted, voting is not gonna 1030 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,880 Speaker 2: necessarily be as high on their priority list as if 1031 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,400 Speaker 2: you have a stable living situation. 1032 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,319 Speaker 1: Correct, And when the. 1033 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 2: Once it starts being about, you know, needing to feed yourself, 1034 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:31,360 Speaker 2: voting is one of these big picture things, you know, 1035 00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 2: It's like a Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Now, what's fucked 1036 00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:37,759 Speaker 2: up is that voting is literally number one on most 1037 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,239 Speaker 2: people's knees. Like, if you can't do it, your needs 1038 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,640 Speaker 2: will never get better. But at the same time they 1039 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 2: part of the reason they keep your k needs not 1040 00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 2: being met, and so you won't vote. That's when you 1041 00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,040 Speaker 2: know you're working too hard, you're too busy. Yeah, I'm 1042 00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 2: sure I'll read more. Excerpts from one one person the vote. 1043 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:54,399 Speaker 2: But I mean when you think about the things they've 1044 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:55,360 Speaker 2: done to black. 1045 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:59,399 Speaker 1: People with schooling, with living with. 1046 00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:04,120 Speaker 2: All like bussing public transportation, specifically done to keep us 1047 00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 2: from voting. And it works not because it's impossible to do. 1048 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 2: It works because it's harder to do, and there's a 1049 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,279 Speaker 2: certain level of heart that makes people go, I'm not 1050 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 2: doing this. 1051 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, because the thing is and I do understand people 1052 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 3: send those links, but you also have to think, now 1053 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,759 Speaker 3: I have to take that your effort, you know. And 1054 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 3: it's one of those things with I don't have nowhere 1055 00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,759 Speaker 3: to stay voting. Like you said, voting is not gonna 1056 00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:27,400 Speaker 3: be on top of my agenda, and like you say, 1057 00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,040 Speaker 3: it buries from state to state, and a lot of 1058 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,720 Speaker 3: times they want you to do it within thirty days 1059 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,720 Speaker 3: prior to the election. So it's one of those things 1060 00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 3: where I need to be sure this is done by 1061 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 3: a certain deadline. And so a lot of people, once 1062 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,640 Speaker 3: they become homeless, a lot of them just don't vote. 1063 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 3: They don't. 1064 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,560 Speaker 2: Well, they're gonna make it difficult, right, They're gonna try 1065 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 2: to take you off the registration roles. They're gonna go 1066 00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 2: they're gonna use that no match system where they go 1067 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,840 Speaker 2: one of the letters was off in your address or 1068 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 2: you know, the middle initial the driver's license place is 1069 00:52:57,120 --> 00:53:00,799 Speaker 2: different than the middle initial on the it's on the 1070 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:05,840 Speaker 2: library car right. And so this my point is for 1071 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:09,280 Speaker 2: Republicans in the way that they think, they aren't worried 1072 00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:13,279 Speaker 2: as much about you being evicted because they're thinking, well, 1073 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:14,840 Speaker 2: the kind of people that are gonna get evicted are 1074 00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 2: going to be people that are not going to vote 1075 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 2: for us, Yes, and so if getting evicted is just 1076 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,839 Speaker 2: one more hard step that that that just in jeopardizes 1077 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,600 Speaker 2: your vote, they're willing to let that happen, that's all. 1078 00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,720 Speaker 2: And like, and I'm glad you wrote in because don't 1079 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,160 Speaker 2: give up. Don't if you're listening to this and you 1080 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:36,959 Speaker 2: know this could possibly be you in this situation, Like absolutely, 1081 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,719 Speaker 2: you know, find what resource you can. 1082 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,720 Speaker 1: But also just I understand. 1083 00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 2: On a human level, it may not be the top 1084 00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:44,720 Speaker 2: priority at that point. 1085 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,400 Speaker 1: So the poe was Hermancane's. 1086 00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:54,239 Speaker 2: Death hilarious, tragic or both Karen both? Eighty one percent 1087 00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 2: of the audience say both it was hilarious and tragic, 1088 00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 2: eleven percent say just tragic, and a percent say hilarious 1089 00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:03,959 Speaker 2: and I gotta say I. 1090 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:04,880 Speaker 1: Agree with all y'all. 1091 00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:09,239 Speaker 2: You know what I mean, I really do. I mean 1092 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,600 Speaker 2: it's both for me, yes, because it's like there's a 1093 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,520 Speaker 2: part of me that will always feel sad that he 1094 00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:17,799 Speaker 2: died that way. It's just sir like So it was 1095 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,359 Speaker 2: a stupid I know, And I'm not that I thought 1096 00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 2: he was a very intelligent person. 1097 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 1: I just didn't think. 1098 00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,760 Speaker 2: I guess I don't want to think anyone's that stupid. 1099 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:29,040 Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's it's because he believed 1100 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,400 Speaker 2: in white supremacy, you know. MS Barnes says, thank you, 1101 00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,439 Speaker 2: Rod for that fitting tribute to Herman Kane. I feel 1102 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 2: that Herman Kane made the ultimate sacrifice for Republicans. He 1103 00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 2: showed up without a mask in Tulsa, sadly, one of 1104 00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:43,440 Speaker 2: the many places of black massacre, and made the point 1105 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 2: for Republicans said, yes, folks of color can die to 1106 00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:46,680 Speaker 2: the other virus. 1107 00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: His death with fuel that. 1108 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,480 Speaker 2: Dumb asses do not need to wear a mask to 1109 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:52,280 Speaker 2: kill off as many black people as possible. 1110 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,080 Speaker 1: Sad Yo, real talk. 1111 00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,000 Speaker 2: That I want to know who else is sick that 1112 00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 2: was in that crowd with him? 1113 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,879 Speaker 3: What else is They're just not like I said, they're 1114 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,319 Speaker 3: just not public figures, so we will never know these 1115 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:06,640 Speaker 3: people will have the right to kind of go into anonymity, 1116 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 3: and we will never see these people again. 1117 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:12,160 Speaker 2: The irona of that possibly being a second Black Tulsa 1118 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:18,080 Speaker 2: massacre because of the COVID is Lakita says, Uh, those 1119 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,799 Speaker 2: those goddamn hermcane tweets. Black Twitter is fucking vicious. I 1120 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,680 Speaker 2: could not laugh the Trump. The Trump years have hardened me, 1121 00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 2: but I can acknowledge that we all collectively going to 1122 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 2: extra hell. 1123 00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,359 Speaker 1: Oh well, yeah, I don't. 1124 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, nine nine nine is upside down a 1125 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,279 Speaker 2: six sixty six, so he must be in hell. 1126 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:37,600 Speaker 1: No, I don't. 1127 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,120 Speaker 2: I didn't see the jokes, but I'm sure they was good. 1128 00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,440 Speaker 2: I mean, it's kind of it's funny. I'll laugh at 1129 00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,800 Speaker 2: death all the time. We all checking out this bitch, 1130 00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 2: so I laugh at death all the time. Not every 1131 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,680 Speaker 2: death is funny, but some of these motherfuckers is pretty hilarious, 1132 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,160 Speaker 2: and his was just what a dumb ass way to die? 1133 00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:00,200 Speaker 2: Episode twenty one forty nine, Science Air Things. Uh, Dee 1134 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,920 Speaker 2: Ramsey Wright saying five stars. I screamed at my tableau 1135 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,080 Speaker 2: when I heard Rod say science Things, child, I really 1136 00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 2: don't like it here sometimes yeah, and then Cheyenne says, 1137 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,239 Speaker 2: I have to think that no name is doing this 1138 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:15,360 Speaker 2: because of capitalism. 1139 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 1: One thing I. 1140 00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 2: Discovered is that we critique the people that we follow 1141 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,520 Speaker 2: the most, thinking that they should be doing better. It's 1142 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,680 Speaker 2: something I've been guilty of and I'm working on personally. However, 1143 00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,600 Speaker 2: y'all completely correct about how she should be targeting other 1144 00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:28,799 Speaker 2: people or the government about these concerns. 1145 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,960 Speaker 1: You know what, I hope you're right. I put it 1146 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:34,399 Speaker 1: that way. 1147 00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:38,359 Speaker 2: It's not the vibe I'm getting, but I hope you're 1148 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,040 Speaker 2: right because I think if you take it one step further, 1149 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,279 Speaker 2: it's still It's just I'll put it this way. Her 1150 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 2: conflating it two make it seem like it's jealousy. I'll 1151 00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:54,600 Speaker 2: say that I don't know for sure. I don't know her. 1152 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:56,799 Speaker 1: We've only had one conversation. 1153 00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 2: One conversation, and you know, like I said, I still 1154 00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,600 Speaker 2: like her as from what I know of her work 1155 00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:09,360 Speaker 2: and stuff like, I don't have no Yeah, but yeah, 1156 00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:10,960 Speaker 2: it's just not. 1157 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:13,799 Speaker 1: It's not good. 1158 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 2: Now, I will say before I move on, this is 1159 00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 2: an email, not a comment, but I want to do 1160 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 2: it here because we got an email this week at 1161 00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 2: the name of the episode Science air Things from Ruben, 1162 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,720 Speaker 2: who says, Hi, riding Karen, I hope this finds you well. 1163 00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 2: I came across your podcast from yesterday titled Science air Things, 1164 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 2: where you discussed the offensive Wingers grocery store side and postings, 1165 00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,760 Speaker 2: and wanted to reach out our work on the USPR 1166 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:45,240 Speaker 2: team for air Things, which you named that title episode 1167 00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,600 Speaker 2: title acter. I wanted to clarify to you that air 1168 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,200 Speaker 2: Things what air Things is, and see if it will 1169 00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,600 Speaker 2: be feasible to change the title of the podcast episode 1170 00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 2: see below. First behalf of air Things. I wanted to 1171 00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 2: make it clear that the brand has absolutely no connection 1172 00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:03,080 Speaker 2: to Wingers and has apps nothing to do with that situation. Secondly, 1173 00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:06,560 Speaker 2: as one of the original article's commenters points out, air 1174 00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,680 Speaker 2: Things is actually a producer of smart indoor air quality 1175 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 2: monitoring technology based in Norway. The quote attributed to air 1176 00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 2: Things used by Wingers was falsely altered and misconstrued from 1177 00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,120 Speaker 2: a blog post written by the company intended to educate 1178 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:25,080 Speaker 2: consumers on the health aspects of CO two. As you'll see, 1179 00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:28,560 Speaker 2: the air Things language says nothing about mask or any impact. 1180 00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:29,320 Speaker 1: Of wearing them. 1181 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 2: I'm concerned that the title of your podcast episode is 1182 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 2: misleading your audience and putting my client's reputation at risk. 1183 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 2: We're a third party technology company that has no connection 1184 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,000 Speaker 2: to the situation. It does not in any way condone 1185 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 2: the sentiments or statements made by the store. 1186 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 1: Please let me know what may be feasible. Thanks in 1187 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:45,720 Speaker 1: the best for your time. That's run. 1188 00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,080 Speaker 2: So I read all that, and you know, my first 1189 00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 2: said connection was like, nigga, take a joke, you know whatever. 1190 00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,360 Speaker 2: When I thought about it and was like, man, they 1191 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:57,120 Speaker 2: probably you know, at this point they have to be 1192 00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,800 Speaker 2: bothered just because of the sheer virality. 1193 00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:02,800 Speaker 1: Of the original story. 1194 00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:09,600 Speaker 2: And you know, in the episode in our fairness we're 1195 00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 2: comedy show, we had creative license and. 1196 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,080 Speaker 1: We did joke. 1197 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,400 Speaker 2: We didn't make any you know, paranoid ship like Science 1198 00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:21,440 Speaker 2: Air Things. The business does this. We just didn't think 1199 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 2: it was a We thought the name was so basic 1200 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,000 Speaker 2: that it wasn't real, right, But. 1201 00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,960 Speaker 1: So I told him we were clarified on the show, 1202 00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:30,600 Speaker 1: you know. 1203 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 2: Just in case anyone possibly could have been reading that 1204 00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:36,840 Speaker 2: thinking we believe Science Air Things is a bigot an 1205 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 2: organization that you know, Yeah, so that's not that's not 1206 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:48,320 Speaker 2: what we were saying. And you know, I told him 1207 00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:50,120 Speaker 2: we would correct it on the air. We read his 1208 00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 2: email and let us know if he thought that was 1209 00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 2: a fine he said. I spoke to the air Things 1210 00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,600 Speaker 2: team about this and we're in agreement that is the 1211 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,120 Speaker 2: reasonable a solution. Feel free to share on your show. 1212 01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:04,080 Speaker 2: Please let me know when the episode is slated for. 1213 01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 2: We look forward to listening. So, yeah, what a what 1214 01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:11,000 Speaker 2: a crazy world? 1215 01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,960 Speaker 3: Yes, the one person to be like, you know what, 1216 01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,040 Speaker 3: that's actually real and I'm and I want y'all to know, 1217 01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,560 Speaker 3: like y'all learn We learned too, because like I said, 1218 01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,040 Speaker 3: I was joking because I didn't think it was a 1219 01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:22,720 Speaker 3: real thing. 1220 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:26,800 Speaker 2: Right, but also though I understand why they would feel paranoid, 1221 01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:31,960 Speaker 2: I would be paranoid this ship if some biggot used 1222 01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:36,200 Speaker 2: us as like the fucking co sign on their bigotry, 1223 01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:39,000 Speaker 2: like mm hmm, and like like two points down it 1224 01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,640 Speaker 2: was like and gay people is spreading it like you 1225 01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:45,160 Speaker 2: know what, I hear you, I won't walk the record 1226 01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:47,320 Speaker 2: corrected to if they. 1227 01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,320 Speaker 3: Would have record stated that's the problem. 1228 01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 2: If point number eleven on that list would have been 1229 01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 2: like and the black guy who tips agrees with us 1230 01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:57,920 Speaker 2: all and like no, y'all go ahead and fixed that playoff. 1231 01:00:57,960 --> 01:00:58,760 Speaker 3: All straighten that out. 1232 01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,480 Speaker 2: So I ain't mad at you at all, man, but 1233 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 2: I do feel like you need to admit. 1234 01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,720 Speaker 1: Science Air thing is a funny name. Okay. 1235 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:11,200 Speaker 2: I just think y'all need to admit it. It's no, 1236 01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 2: it doesn't mean it's a bad product. It doesn't mean 1237 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 2: y'all don't know what y'all doing. No, y'all out here 1238 01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:16,320 Speaker 2: doing some stuff. 1239 01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:17,360 Speaker 1: But science Air. 1240 01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:22,720 Speaker 2: Things does sound like if someone couldn't think of to call. 1241 01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 3: Something, what is that science air? 1242 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:25,440 Speaker 5: What is that? 1243 01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:25,960 Speaker 1: Like? 1244 01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:30,520 Speaker 2: Is that a would that be a weather balloon? Could 1245 01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:34,840 Speaker 2: that be a cumbula? A cloud? 1246 01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:38,280 Speaker 1: Could that be a nimbus cloud? Like? Could that be? Like, 1247 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,240 Speaker 1: it's a lot of things that maybe it's like, what 1248 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:45,360 Speaker 1: is that thing? It's a science the science air thing? 1249 01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:46,120 Speaker 1: What is that? 1250 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,840 Speaker 2: Who played in that movie? What's the name of the movie? 1251 01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:52,280 Speaker 2: You know, the movie about the science air things? 1252 01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:53,120 Speaker 1: You know? 1253 01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,920 Speaker 2: So I think you have to give us some leeway 1254 01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,800 Speaker 2: to at least laugh at the name. I mean, I'm 1255 01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:01,960 Speaker 2: glad y'all do serious work. And I did offer to 1256 01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:05,000 Speaker 2: interview them for the show, so if they wanted to 1257 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:09,840 Speaker 2: like talk about what they do and how it works. 1258 01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:14,160 Speaker 2: And what are science air things and how they're helping us. Hey, 1259 01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:15,920 Speaker 2: I'm more than willing to interview you and put it 1260 01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:18,000 Speaker 2: out on the show. Yes, sir, So if we were 1261 01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:21,000 Speaker 2: big enough to get your attention from the title, may 1262 01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:21,680 Speaker 2: we'll get there. 1263 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:23,520 Speaker 1: Maybe we can be big enough to spread the word 1264 01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:24,440 Speaker 1: about the work that you did. 1265 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:26,680 Speaker 3: Right, You don't know who orders might buy it. 1266 01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:28,919 Speaker 1: I don't know how to. I don't know if they're 1267 01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 1: selling things. 1268 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:33,040 Speaker 2: Karen's just saying things at this point, no name going 1269 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,000 Speaker 2: at Beyonce. She's doing it because she's jealous. She's doing 1270 01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:37,960 Speaker 2: it because she's anti capitalist. 1271 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:39,320 Speaker 1: Karen jealous. 1272 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,280 Speaker 2: Eight percent say she's anti capitalist and that's why she's 1273 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:47,320 Speaker 2: going at Beyonce. Ninety percent say she's jealous. I think 1274 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 2: I'm went to ninety two percent. It just don't make sense. 1275 01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:53,720 Speaker 2: I think when you have people from Africa telling you 1276 01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:59,000 Speaker 2: that you have to admit this you, especially when you're 1277 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,040 Speaker 2: not even trying to because because this is a thing, 1278 01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:03,720 Speaker 2: you're not even trying to respond to them people, you're 1279 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:07,320 Speaker 2: not even trying to address it. Like hundreds of people 1280 01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 2: was in you mention and you was like, I'm just 1281 01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 2: not even correcting her. 1282 01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let I'm just gonna leave it at this. 1283 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,200 Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna be like because any other time 1284 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 2: she'd be like, thank y'all. 1285 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:17,680 Speaker 1: For dragging me. I learned a lot. 1286 01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:19,960 Speaker 2: She didn't want to hear it this time, and I 1287 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:21,120 Speaker 2: think that's a personal thing. 1288 01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 1: That's just my guess. I don't know that woman. 1289 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,480 Speaker 2: Shady Dame says the Corona segment had me screaming at 1290 01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:30,000 Speaker 2: my phone. My son was sixteen when he bought brought 1291 01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:33,640 Speaker 2: COVID home to us in early March before lockdown. It 1292 01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,600 Speaker 2: was hardest on me because I'm seriously immuno deficient. My 1293 01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 2: son and Hobby got over it without any lasting problems 1294 01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:41,080 Speaker 2: in a couple of weeks. I still need to monitor 1295 01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,800 Speaker 2: my heart rate because it was skyrocket for no reason 1296 01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:44,320 Speaker 2: at all. 1297 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:47,240 Speaker 1: Terrifying. Oh no, but it's getting better slowly. 1298 01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 2: Ever since we recovered, our son has been damned there 1299 01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:53,160 Speaker 2: at a goorophobic because he doesn't want to risk bringing 1300 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,080 Speaker 2: it home on us again. I can count on one 1301 01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:56,880 Speaker 2: hand the number of times he has left the house. 1302 01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,200 Speaker 2: He even wears his mask when he's outside more in 1303 01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,160 Speaker 2: the front lawn. I see the lifelong impact that COVID 1304 01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,480 Speaker 2: is having on kids. They are scared of the world 1305 01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:05,320 Speaker 2: and their give. 1306 01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:06,160 Speaker 1: A fuck is broken. 1307 01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:08,640 Speaker 2: Why should they work to get good grades when the 1308 01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:11,280 Speaker 2: jobs are so uncertain. Most classes are online only, so 1309 01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 2: they don't even have the college experience to look forward to. 1310 01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,160 Speaker 2: We're trying to keep life as normal as possible in 1311 01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:18,040 Speaker 2: our home, but it's tough. That's the new normal is 1312 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,000 Speaker 2: new to us. Also, yes, we have the kids in 1313 01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:24,280 Speaker 2: therapy so that they can navigate all this working off shit. 1314 01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:28,080 Speaker 2: Even therapist is new to them. You're right, working on 1315 01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 2: getting to maintaining a positive mindset through all. This has 1316 01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:32,320 Speaker 2: been a true challenge. But what choice do you have 1317 01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 2: but to keep it pushing. 1318 01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:34,600 Speaker 1: Yep. 1319 01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:38,120 Speaker 3: And that's why it's you know, very important to do 1320 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,320 Speaker 3: the things that need to, you know, to be done 1321 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,840 Speaker 3: to protect you and your family members and your loved ones. 1322 01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,640 Speaker 3: And I know I don't have a kids don't have 1323 01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 3: a dog in a fight. But this is why so 1324 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,919 Speaker 3: many parents and teachers are protesting this shit about sending 1325 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 3: kids back to school, because kids give it to each 1326 01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:57,480 Speaker 3: other and then they bring it back home to the adults, 1327 01:04:58,240 --> 01:04:59,560 Speaker 3: and that's kind of end result. 1328 01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:00,560 Speaker 1: Yep. 1329 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,720 Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the next episode. Black Beer Travelers. 1330 01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:06,680 Speaker 2: We talked to Brandon from Black Beer Travelers. 1331 01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:08,520 Speaker 1: It's a fun episode, very fun. 1332 01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 2: We got some comments. Rob One says, thanks to brand 1333 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,280 Speaker 2: and I found out, uh that a few breweries around 1334 01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,920 Speaker 2: me are participating in the Blackest Beautiful challenge. I'll have 1335 01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,800 Speaker 2: to get out to them this weekend and pick up 1336 01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:25,560 Speaker 2: those new beers we didn't. Yes, this is the Blackest 1337 01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:31,640 Speaker 2: Beautiful beer. It's an Imperial stout and it's delicious. I 1338 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 2: actually like this. It's a stout. I'm normally gonna go 1339 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:34,280 Speaker 2: for dark beer. 1340 01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:38,880 Speaker 3: Very sweet about to say it tastes chocolate. A lot 1341 01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,120 Speaker 3: of times when you get dark stouts that they have 1342 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,320 Speaker 3: a bitter taste to it, but this is not bitter. 1343 01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 1: And it's not choco is not I think chocolate is 1344 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:46,080 Speaker 1: in here. 1345 01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 3: Okay, that's what I'm tasting. 1346 01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,240 Speaker 2: Like I taste taste sweet, Yes it does. Evi says, 1347 01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:52,960 Speaker 2: I hate to taste a beer because it's bitter and 1348 01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:56,360 Speaker 2: pissy tasting. Well, not black is beautiful, and in Charlotte, 1349 01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:57,360 Speaker 2: each each one is different. 1350 01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,240 Speaker 1: But after and. 1351 01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:02,320 Speaker 3: All, I used to think that too, like because most 1352 01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 3: of us are introduced to the bood like bud Wise 1353 01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:06,920 Speaker 3: and shit like that. But once you start kind of 1354 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:08,720 Speaker 3: branching in the craft beer. It's like we had a 1355 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:10,960 Speaker 3: beard that is straight up like blueberry. Like. Once you 1356 01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,840 Speaker 3: start branching into that type of stuff, it will actually 1357 01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,439 Speaker 3: open up and change your mind on beer. I think 1358 01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:18,960 Speaker 3: that when most people I introduced the beers, they're introduced 1359 01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:22,040 Speaker 3: to like the basic ass bitch when it comes to beers. 1360 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:25,920 Speaker 2: I hate to taste the beer because it's better and 1361 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:27,600 Speaker 2: pissy tasting. But I have to listen to this episode. 1362 01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:29,080 Speaker 2: I think it might I might have to give it 1363 01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:30,920 Speaker 2: a shot and find something sweeter and fruity. 1364 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:33,440 Speaker 1: Any suggestions that you to enjoy. 1365 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:35,360 Speaker 2: What was that? 1366 01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 1: Was it? 1367 01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:38,040 Speaker 2: Blue Dog? Yes, it's a blue dog beer. 1368 01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,080 Speaker 3: We founded that hairs Teeter and it's like a blueberry 1369 01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:43,440 Speaker 3: type of beer and it's absolutely delicious. 1370 01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, that that blue Dog blueberry beer was so good 1371 01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,720 Speaker 2: and I cannot fucking find it again. 1372 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,040 Speaker 3: Nope. I think we might have to order it directly 1373 01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:51,760 Speaker 3: from them or something. 1374 01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:54,240 Speaker 2: I might have to go online and find it or something. 1375 01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:56,959 Speaker 2: Because that beer was so good that. 1376 01:06:57,640 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 3: When y'all, I tell you it, chase like blueberry tastes 1377 01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,960 Speaker 3: like blueber and it was delicious. And every time we 1378 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:05,640 Speaker 3: go back to that Harris Tita. It is never there. 1379 01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:07,840 Speaker 1: I imagine it's what Smurfberry's tastes like. 1380 01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:09,960 Speaker 2: It got the bee, So the only way to explain 1381 01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:15,640 Speaker 2: how the Smurfs was acting, Anonymous says, how roder Cairn. 1382 01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 2: You want to see a vast parade of color for 1383 01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 2: and interesting beers, follow at I'm underscore your underscored drunkle 1384 01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:26,480 Speaker 2: Berry on Instagram, the account of chef Travis, the partner 1385 01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:33,440 Speaker 2: in podcast and Crime, a friend of TVGWT chef Gregorio Cheers. Okay, 1386 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,960 Speaker 2: you know, beer culture is blowing the fuck up everywhere. 1387 01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,080 Speaker 3: I see a lot of people drinking, getting into craft beers. 1388 01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:43,280 Speaker 3: I see Miss Music Lover and Jose. I see a 1389 01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,520 Speaker 3: lot of people kind of going up and down my timeline. 1390 01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:47,360 Speaker 3: So some of the suggestions I get from. 1391 01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:50,080 Speaker 1: Them, yep. I put the link in the chat for 1392 01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:51,280 Speaker 1: you to follow if you want to. 1393 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,080 Speaker 2: Now I mostly just follow, but so on Instagram, so 1394 01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 2: I probably not follow. Maybe I'll follow him from the 1395 01:07:57,200 --> 01:08:00,320 Speaker 2: black Guy Tips account, but I probably won't follow from 1396 01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:05,320 Speaker 2: my regular account because you know why I'm here. But 1397 01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,280 Speaker 2: the poe was, do you drink craft beer? Yes all 1398 01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:09,720 Speaker 2: the time, yes, sometimes? 1399 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:10,160 Speaker 1: Or no? 1400 01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:12,920 Speaker 3: Yes? 1401 01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I'm yes, sometimes thirty percent, seventeen percent 1402 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 2: say all the time, and I mean thirteen percent say 1403 01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:20,920 Speaker 2: all the time, and fifty seven percent say now. 1404 01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:23,840 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people just don't drink beer. Ms. 1405 01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:25,880 Speaker 2: Barr said so smack in the middle of the outlet 1406 01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:28,000 Speaker 2: mall in Williamsburg, Virginia, I found a beer joint that 1407 01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:32,320 Speaker 2: had a beer calls Sabado Domingo. It was a Mexican 1408 01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:34,080 Speaker 2: beer if it was a jalapeno and lime in the 1409 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:37,200 Speaker 2: middle or the hottest part of June. It was so refreshing. 1410 01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:39,920 Speaker 2: I brought I brought a few. I brought a few 1411 01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:40,679 Speaker 2: cans back home. 1412 01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 1: So tasty. 1413 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:44,320 Speaker 3: That sounds absolutely delicious. 1414 01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:49,679 Speaker 2: I think this is tiff maybe type tiff e. Hey, 1415 01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:52,639 Speaker 2: y'all loved the discussion. I got into Kraft Beers after 1416 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:53,639 Speaker 2: searching for. 1417 01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,280 Speaker 1: A new stout. 1418 01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 2: I prefer dark beers with chocolate coffee tonges, and the 1419 01:08:58,240 --> 01:08:59,320 Speaker 2: full of the beer, the better. 1420 01:08:59,439 --> 01:08:59,599 Speaker 3: Right. 1421 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:02,439 Speaker 2: I did realize I was a wine snob until you 1422 01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:04,799 Speaker 2: and Karen started talking about dessert wine moscato. 1423 01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:05,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, not for me. 1424 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:07,760 Speaker 2: I wish I lived in the state where I could 1425 01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:10,080 Speaker 2: get wine slash bell shipped to my house. But the last, 1426 01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:14,120 Speaker 2: I do not love the podcast. Yeah, the wine snobs, man, 1427 01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:16,760 Speaker 2: they real they they be shitting on. 1428 01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:18,600 Speaker 1: The Sweet runs. I'm like, I don't know why this 1429 01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:19,360 Speaker 1: shit is good. 1430 01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:21,760 Speaker 2: I feel bad for them because I feel like they 1431 01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:25,080 Speaker 2: don't be in so siditty now that they almost have 1432 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:27,639 Speaker 2: to act like they hate the sweet shit in order 1433 01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:29,080 Speaker 2: to be part of the snob gang. 1434 01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:31,400 Speaker 1: And I would never do that. 1435 01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,280 Speaker 3: I won't do it either. And it's one of those 1436 01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:36,040 Speaker 3: things that I don't know if it's something in a culture, 1437 01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:37,639 Speaker 3: I guess beneath you or whatever. 1438 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:40,719 Speaker 1: It's like a starter wine for people. 1439 01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:44,280 Speaker 2: You know, it's the same way people hate on certain 1440 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,200 Speaker 2: music because it's like that's what everyone likes. When you 1441 01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:50,439 Speaker 2: start out, you know, it's like, well, okay, well nigga, 1442 01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:51,000 Speaker 2: that's what I like. 1443 01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:52,479 Speaker 3: I mean, you got to start somewhere. 1444 01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:53,920 Speaker 2: Do y'all want people in the club or not? 1445 01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,880 Speaker 1: They don't. You can't be a snob if you want 1446 01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:57,759 Speaker 1: everybody in the club. 1447 01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,320 Speaker 3: Ah, okay, Okay, Well, then I guess I'm not a 1448 01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:02,519 Speaker 3: part of the club because honey, I'm a good mescatto. 1449 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,559 Speaker 3: All I can say is the one wines that I 1450 01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:09,400 Speaker 3: do not like, and I don't, you know, beffy. Buffy 1451 01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:11,400 Speaker 3: tastes like beffy. That's the only one I don't like. 1452 01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:14,080 Speaker 2: And Kim Dox says, to be quite honest, I don't 1453 01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,760 Speaker 2: really fuck with beer, but I love this conversation. Karen 1454 01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:19,320 Speaker 2: made it so enjoyable and cool with her questions. Is 1455 01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:22,960 Speaker 2: there's an elitism that I've experienced getting a tasty fruit 1456 01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:26,120 Speaker 2: to drink white people are enjoying, I guess while people 1457 01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:29,680 Speaker 2: are enjoying curry flavored IPA's at the Alhouse. And I 1458 01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:32,439 Speaker 2: just laughed to myself, little Ravens Simone at her Koofi. 1459 01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:35,320 Speaker 2: But this young man has carved out a great and 1460 01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:38,200 Speaker 2: fulfill a niche for himself. I have had some really 1461 01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,599 Speaker 2: decent pale els that are smooth and refresher and very 1462 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:41,160 Speaker 2: very pale. 1463 01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:43,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. And also what's so funny is that a lot 1464 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,439 Speaker 3: of these people when it comes to like the wines 1465 01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:47,240 Speaker 3: and the sweets and the bitters and all that stuff. 1466 01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:50,360 Speaker 3: It's also one of those things where these beers don't 1467 01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:52,679 Speaker 3: sell for no reason because a lot of people actually 1468 01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:54,680 Speaker 3: like sweet beers. I mean, that's what you be your 1469 01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 3: sweet wines, So they actually sell just like these other 1470 01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:01,439 Speaker 3: wines sell. So it's like what's the problem. Everybody just 1471 01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:02,400 Speaker 3: likes Wines. 1472 01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:07,920 Speaker 2: Episode twenty one to fifty one is karma, and even 1473 01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:10,840 Speaker 2: E left a comment hearing Queen Karen sing karma is 1474 01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:13,840 Speaker 2: my new favorite thing. I didn't know who that guy 1475 01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,160 Speaker 2: was singing with her though, sorry to this man. 1476 01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:17,840 Speaker 3: That's how she a woman. 1477 01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:22,839 Speaker 1: She's talking about me. Oh her rvey's breath. 1478 01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:23,880 Speaker 6: Uh. 1479 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:27,360 Speaker 1: The poe was do you feel out your senses form yet? Yes? 1480 01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:27,640 Speaker 3: No? 1481 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:31,120 Speaker 2: Or haven't gotten a form? Eighty four percent of our 1482 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:34,400 Speaker 2: audience that responded to this pole have filled out their senses. 1483 01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:44,240 Speaker 3: We feel it at ours. I want my tax money 1484 01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:45,639 Speaker 3: to be used wisely. 1485 01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:47,160 Speaker 1: Twelve percent said no. 1486 01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:50,680 Speaker 2: Maybe they part of that twelve percent they think, you know, 1487 01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:52,439 Speaker 2: this is how Trump gonna come to their house. And 1488 01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:55,519 Speaker 2: then four percent say haven't gotten a form? Kim Doc said, 1489 01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:57,679 Speaker 2: sure did, and I suck at mailing everything on time. 1490 01:11:57,720 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 1: They's lucky. I saw that you could do it online. 1491 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 2: You better believe I searched for that envelope for a 1492 01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:03,240 Speaker 2: solid forty five minutes. 1493 01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,559 Speaker 1: Though. If I can do it, we all can. I 1494 01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:06,479 Speaker 1: truly suck at it. 1495 01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:10,719 Speaker 3: Yep, go on line. If you still got time, go online, y'all. 1496 01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:12,639 Speaker 1: I don't know that you still have time. 1497 01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:14,800 Speaker 2: I feel us out before the deadline, but you can 1498 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:15,800 Speaker 2: still mail it back. 1499 01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,000 Speaker 1: Just remember into September. 1500 01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:21,240 Speaker 2: It's over so and if you haven't gotten one, look 1501 01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 2: into that figure out what's going on with that. The 1502 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:29,080 Speaker 2: last episode was ain't we lucky? We got them with 1503 01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:30,160 Speaker 2: Chris Lambert? 1504 01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 1: This episode's film fly for studio or its ha the pole? 1505 01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:40,679 Speaker 2: I mean the comments were d ramsey. Ak Mother Jenkins 1506 01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 2: said five stars. Always good to have Chris Lambert gather 1507 01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:46,800 Speaker 2: amongst the Negroes and Wokes. I may destroy you. It's 1508 01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:50,200 Speaker 2: pure gold. I do love it, man. This finale is 1509 01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:53,760 Speaker 2: going to be very interesting, and once again I think 1510 01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:56,280 Speaker 2: I'll wait till my day tu there or something to 1511 01:12:56,320 --> 01:12:59,960 Speaker 2: watch it rather than watch it with the tamline. Anonymous say, 1512 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:02,680 Speaker 2: thanks for talking up the Last of Us too. I 1513 01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:04,840 Speaker 2: love the first game, but was hesitant about the second 1514 01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:06,400 Speaker 2: one because I'd heard. 1515 01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:09,240 Speaker 1: So many negative reviews. I'm gonna buy it now. 1516 01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:12,800 Speaker 2: On the side note, I was so positive that the 1517 01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:16,120 Speaker 2: Ellie was being played by Ellen Page, but was surprised 1518 01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:17,120 Speaker 2: there was another actress. 1519 01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:18,400 Speaker 1: Can't wait to play part two? 1520 01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:22,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, and I don't play the game, but sexism 1521 01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:24,639 Speaker 3: had a lot to play with a lot of them 1522 01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:27,800 Speaker 3: bad reviews because all of a sudden, you know, it's 1523 01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:31,160 Speaker 3: a young lady playing like the main character, and y'all 1524 01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:34,240 Speaker 3: know how they is when women quote unquote the storylines 1525 01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:36,639 Speaker 3: focus around women. The game that gave people come out 1526 01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:37,880 Speaker 3: to come out the woodworks. 1527 01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:42,800 Speaker 2: Well that and she's gay, so that was a big 1528 01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:46,519 Speaker 2: part of it. And yeah, I'll just leave it at that. 1529 01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:48,080 Speaker 2: It's a lot of stuff in there that I could 1530 01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:52,200 Speaker 2: see people being upset by whatever, but it's mostly. 1531 01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:55,200 Speaker 1: Just fucking gamer Gate and her niggas. 1532 01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:58,040 Speaker 2: Like I'm not paying them, I don't have to respond 1533 01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 2: to them, Eve, he says, thanks for taking and uh 1534 01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 2: taking up the time, taking up the last of us too. 1535 01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,320 Speaker 2: I love the first game, but it's hesitant about the 1536 01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:08,439 Speaker 2: second one because I heard so many negative reviews. I'm gonna, 1537 01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:10,599 Speaker 2: oh wait, oh wait, this is the same one. Okay, 1538 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:12,479 Speaker 2: so EV for the first one that's said a nine 1539 01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:14,920 Speaker 2: of the seconds at EV, all right, all right, cool. 1540 01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:19,599 Speaker 1: And then the poll was have you ever microwave fish 1541 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:21,800 Speaker 1: in your workplace? Yes or no? 1542 01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:28,800 Speaker 2: Caring yes, yes? The only thirty five percent say yes, 1543 01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:30,759 Speaker 2: So I guess we're bad office mates. 1544 01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:34,680 Speaker 3: Yes, I don't heat it for long and shit like that, 1545 01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:35,879 Speaker 3: because you can stink. 1546 01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:38,760 Speaker 2: I hate it for as long as I need to 1547 01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,000 Speaker 2: get my meal delicious, okay, because see the thing that 1548 01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:46,240 Speaker 2: people don't talk about fish smells delicious when you gonna 1549 01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:47,200 Speaker 2: be the one eating it. 1550 01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:50,599 Speaker 3: Ha ha, I don't have a place. 1551 01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:53,360 Speaker 2: It only stinks to the people that that ain't gonna 1552 01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:55,080 Speaker 2: get none. 1553 01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:59,960 Speaker 1: And hold on. Put that on the shirt because it's true. 1554 01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:04,840 Speaker 2: Fifty five percent say no, Lakeda says per the pole. 1555 01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:09,040 Speaker 2: What kind of heathen? Apparently the two heathens in here 1556 01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:09,559 Speaker 2: right now? 1557 01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:11,120 Speaker 1: Okay? 1558 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:15,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, and certain fish pull older and certain fish the oldest. 1559 01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:16,280 Speaker 3: Not a strum. 1560 01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 1561 01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:21,320 Speaker 2: We got the salmon, uh for for lunch the next day? 1562 01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:25,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Okay, I mean go ahead one with your 1563 01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:27,280 Speaker 1: little hot pockets. You have to and be mad. 1564 01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:29,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, you kind of have to, you know. And one 1565 01:15:29,880 --> 01:15:30,640 Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna lie. 1566 01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:33,360 Speaker 4: You have the money the poor people around. 1567 01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:36,920 Speaker 2: What's your procrast? 1568 01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:38,559 Speaker 5: Oh? 1569 01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:40,880 Speaker 3: One thing I do miss about going to work, it's 1570 01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:43,840 Speaker 3: bragging about your lunch, because yeah, what I do the 1571 01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:46,920 Speaker 3: the containers I got, like these special contains you close 1572 01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:48,880 Speaker 3: down and you kind of plump up the size and 1573 01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:50,640 Speaker 3: if you have fish, I heat it up in there 1574 01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:51,360 Speaker 3: and there's no older. 1575 01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:54,600 Speaker 2: I love it. I know, I know when they be 1576 01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,280 Speaker 2: hearing that microwave turned on. 1577 01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:58,160 Speaker 3: I want to call you one. 1578 01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:01,200 Speaker 1: Don't care if I'm calling one. 1579 01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:07,800 Speaker 2: Kim Doc says per La Quita comment that heathern is me. 1580 01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,439 Speaker 2: Didn't somebody in the chat say some nigga was microwaven? 1581 01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:14,559 Speaker 2: Crab legs, Oh my god, I'm judging the fuck out 1582 01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:14,720 Speaker 2: of that. 1583 01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:16,080 Speaker 1: Coonery and buffoonery is. 1584 01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:20,679 Speaker 2: Our microwave, my wild cat salmon. No shame in my game, 1585 01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:25,880 Speaker 2: although microwaven might be in my past due to coronavirus 1586 01:16:26,080 --> 01:16:26,960 Speaker 2: I have I have. 1587 01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:30,240 Speaker 1: It'll have to be sandwiches or things we can eat cold. 1588 01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:36,599 Speaker 1: Oh wait, with the coronavirus not dying the microwave though. 1589 01:16:36,720 --> 01:16:37,120 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1590 01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:41,879 Speaker 1: I feel like the microwave would kill the coronavirus at. 1591 01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:43,439 Speaker 3: The interactions, so they're like, fuck it. I'm not going 1592 01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:45,320 Speaker 3: in there dealing with people over the microwave. 1593 01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:47,479 Speaker 1: I don't know what you would do about the handle. 1594 01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,400 Speaker 3: But does she wipe it down with a white for 1595 01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:51,880 Speaker 3: you judge it? 1596 01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:56,519 Speaker 1: Yeah? But uh, I don't know. These niggas just have 1597 01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:58,960 Speaker 1: to be mad. They see me going. 1598 01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,240 Speaker 3: There to the making stick coffee. I d like to 1599 01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:03,000 Speaker 3: do hot cocoa, but they're like, fuck that. I'm not 1600 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:04,760 Speaker 3: going to this sh no coffee pots. 1601 01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:08,280 Speaker 2: I'll just be walking back from the from the breakroom 1602 01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:19,559 Speaker 2: my plate full of fish, letting them be mad. 1603 01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:24,960 Speaker 1: Ain't no shaving my game. 1604 01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:27,519 Speaker 3: Kim Kim Doc said they removed the mic away from 1605 01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:29,200 Speaker 3: her job. I was like, you know what, y'all ain't 1606 01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:31,920 Speaker 3: wanting up ship and but that's one good way to keep. 1607 01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:32,559 Speaker 2: People out of the break room. 1608 01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:33,800 Speaker 1: They nasty. 1609 01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:36,519 Speaker 2: All right, come on, let's get to the voicemail we had. 1610 01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,759 Speaker 2: I believe one voicemail this week. 1611 01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:45,920 Speaker 1: It's for my girl Allegra Helloly too lovely. 1612 01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:50,760 Speaker 6: It's a I am listening to your feedback and I 1613 01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:53,080 Speaker 6: don't know why, but I always have to have feedback 1614 01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:55,880 Speaker 6: on the feedback, so I'm calling to get feedback on 1615 01:17:55,960 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 6: the feedback. I just love your your breakdown or talk 1616 01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:07,200 Speaker 6: about or discussion about voting and voting suppression and our 1617 01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,920 Speaker 6: ancestors and what we went through to get to the 1618 01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:13,599 Speaker 6: fucking holes and how we're still struggling. I just love that. 1619 01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:17,800 Speaker 6: I actually just came off one of backtracking on to 1620 01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:20,880 Speaker 6: you with Queen and Jay's podcasts. I'm trying to catch up, 1621 01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 6: and I just listened to Queen give a really thorough 1622 01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:29,880 Speaker 6: breakdown excuse me, about the history of voter suppression, and 1623 01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:33,240 Speaker 6: I really loved the way that they had their discussion 1624 01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:36,840 Speaker 6: to it was on their episode you about to lose 1625 01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:40,720 Speaker 6: your job, So I know you've heard it already, but 1626 01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:45,639 Speaker 6: I just wanted to kind of cheerlead for you and 1627 01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:49,559 Speaker 6: for you too, and also for you guys leading you 1628 01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:53,240 Speaker 6: to tea with Queen and Jay and also their podcast 1629 01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:56,880 Speaker 6: and how they got into this discussion of voter suppression 1630 01:18:57,000 --> 01:19:01,200 Speaker 6: and the history and kind of how it's still with today. 1631 01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:05,479 Speaker 6: All Right, you guys, love to and love listening to you, 1632 01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:08,760 Speaker 6: and later, bye. 1633 01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:11,800 Speaker 1: Lady, thank you, Oleg and I have You're right. 1634 01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:13,600 Speaker 2: I do listen to them, and I have heard that 1635 01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:17,599 Speaker 2: episode and I did appreciate Queen's breakdown because she really 1636 01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:20,600 Speaker 2: got into the fact that because I think, so, this 1637 01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,080 Speaker 2: is what happens when I talk about voting, and it 1638 01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:26,720 Speaker 2: doesn't matter how clear I am about this, people that 1639 01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:30,240 Speaker 2: want to misunderstand or want to assume ill intentions will 1640 01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:33,160 Speaker 2: always go you blaming black people for this, and I'm 1641 01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:35,880 Speaker 2: not and I never have and I never will. That's 1642 01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,600 Speaker 2: not black people's fault. Trump is not our candidate. We 1643 01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:41,559 Speaker 2: didn't vote for this motherfucker. We didn't do any of 1644 01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:47,040 Speaker 2: this shit. I will always be against black people who 1645 01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:48,439 Speaker 2: advocate for not voting. 1646 01:19:48,439 --> 01:19:49,800 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck agree. 1647 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,000 Speaker 2: If we are not at that point yet where we 1648 01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:54,960 Speaker 2: can just play with the vote, I'm sorry, but that's 1649 01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:58,840 Speaker 2: and I wouldn't. I feel dogmatic, and I feel convicted 1650 01:19:58,960 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 2: by that. 1651 01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:02,160 Speaker 1: I will let it slide on my watch. 1652 01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:04,720 Speaker 2: You get to put your opinion out there, I get 1653 01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:07,519 Speaker 2: to put mine on Those are the rules, freedom of 1654 01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:09,880 Speaker 2: speech and all that shit. So if you want to 1655 01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:12,080 Speaker 2: go around and saying fuck it, don't vote, it don't 1656 01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:13,760 Speaker 2: matter anyway, blah blah blah. 1657 01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:15,240 Speaker 1: You are entitled to say that. 1658 01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:18,240 Speaker 2: If I think that it's stupid, this is our platform, 1659 01:20:18,280 --> 01:20:19,800 Speaker 2: and this is where I say that. I think that 1660 01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:23,320 Speaker 2: is stupid and foolish and ultimately dangerous. 1661 01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:23,599 Speaker 1: Right. 1662 01:20:24,320 --> 01:20:27,000 Speaker 2: That does not mean black people are too blame for 1663 01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:29,479 Speaker 2: us losing the fucking thing. The same way I would 1664 01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:31,639 Speaker 2: talk to some fucking white person talking about I voted 1665 01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:34,599 Speaker 2: Jill Stein or I wrote in harambe. I feel the 1666 01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:38,959 Speaker 2: same conviction of that's a dumb thing to do, especially 1667 01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:43,519 Speaker 2: if you claim to want some good. It's just a difference, 1668 01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:45,040 Speaker 2: you know. It's the thing where people go, I don't 1669 01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:48,960 Speaker 2: like voting for the lesser evils. Let's look at evil 1670 01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:51,880 Speaker 2: and good in a very simple, simplistic way. Let's say 1671 01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:56,160 Speaker 2: that it's a glass, right, one glass is full of 1672 01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:00,840 Speaker 2: evil to the brim. The other one is half of evil. 1673 01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:04,360 Speaker 2: And they go, you gotta drink from one of these glasses. 1674 01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna drink the one with less evil in it. 1675 01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,320 Speaker 2: That's just because what less evil has is some good 1676 01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:15,760 Speaker 2: with all the what what what with the glass that's 1677 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:16,800 Speaker 2: just evil has it is. 1678 01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:20,639 Speaker 1: No good in it. So yeah, anyway, I mean, like. 1679 01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:23,839 Speaker 2: I said, and I feel like those messages go together. 1680 01:21:24,240 --> 01:21:25,840 Speaker 2: And I and that's the thing I've talked about it 1681 01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:28,720 Speaker 2: on our show before. Well, I'm like, this isn't black 1682 01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:31,680 Speaker 2: people's fault, because I remember after the election, you had 1683 01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:34,880 Speaker 2: white people right these fucking aren't It goes about black 1684 01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:37,400 Speaker 2: people didn't come out to vote, it's their fault. And 1685 01:21:37,479 --> 01:21:42,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, voter suppression is real, yes, sir, Okay, like 1686 01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:44,439 Speaker 2: like and that, and the thing that bothered me the 1687 01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:46,760 Speaker 2: most is that people that I felt were complicit in 1688 01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:47,320 Speaker 2: that narrative. 1689 01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:50,400 Speaker 1: Weren't just white liberals who were angry at black people and. 1690 01:21:50,400 --> 01:21:54,000 Speaker 2: Racist, it was also black people who then went, Mmm, 1691 01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:56,000 Speaker 2: that's right, we don't like Hillary. 1692 01:21:57,040 --> 01:21:58,679 Speaker 1: That's actually not what happened. 1693 01:21:59,840 --> 01:22:04,840 Speaker 2: They passed so many voter restriction laws from twenty ten 1694 01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:09,920 Speaker 2: until twenty and sixteen. There were so many fucking laws passed. 1695 01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:14,479 Speaker 2: They stripped the Voting Rights Act. Okay, they stripped it, 1696 01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:17,880 Speaker 2: and we still came out in twenty twelve and got 1697 01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:22,880 Speaker 2: Obama reelected. And that's in the face of immense voter suppression. 1698 01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:26,920 Speaker 2: So you can't put it on us. We didn't do 1699 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:32,400 Speaker 2: shit wrong. The handful of privileged black people who get 1700 01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:34,000 Speaker 2: on Twitter and talk about how they ain't about have. 1701 01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:35,599 Speaker 1: To do shit, fuck them anyway. 1702 01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:38,920 Speaker 2: That like, that's just just a small percentage, not enough 1703 01:22:39,160 --> 01:22:42,240 Speaker 2: for us to say they tilted the entire election. Agreed, 1704 01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:46,240 Speaker 2: They are annoying, they are short sighted, their arguments may 1705 01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:48,559 Speaker 2: not make a lot of sense, but that doesn't mean 1706 01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:51,559 Speaker 2: that they get the full brunt of the blame for 1707 01:22:51,600 --> 01:22:53,920 Speaker 2: what the fuck forty five and these niggas. 1708 01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 1: Done, did, no, no, never, So yeah, absolutely. 1709 01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,360 Speaker 2: Want to encourage black people to use the power to vote, 1710 01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:06,800 Speaker 2: and absolutely accessors did die for it and period that 1711 01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:08,880 Speaker 2: There's no two ways about it unless you just don't 1712 01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:10,320 Speaker 2: know history or you refuse to read. 1713 01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:12,960 Speaker 1: They literally was like, I'm probably gonna die. 1714 01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:15,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, they were knowing they was gonna die. 1715 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,720 Speaker 2: I have stories of people that have literally I read 1716 01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:22,120 Speaker 2: one on the show. Yeah, he went to the pole 1717 01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:24,400 Speaker 2: and they killed him when he got home. He knew 1718 01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:25,400 Speaker 2: when he went to the poll. 1719 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:27,320 Speaker 1: They said, we're gonna kill you. 1720 01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:30,040 Speaker 2: You cannot tell me that man didn't die for for 1721 01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:35,960 Speaker 2: us to vote. You can't anyway, uh, emails Leslie Wright 1722 01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:41,160 Speaker 2: saying ballotready dot org, which I think we mentioned on 1723 01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:44,120 Speaker 2: the show before back in the past, But it gives 1724 01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:47,519 Speaker 2: voter info on elections based on zip code, locale. 1725 01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:50,040 Speaker 3: State, and they give details. You can almost you can 1726 01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:51,240 Speaker 3: see the ballot in advance. 1727 01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:53,280 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we have done this. 1728 01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:55,800 Speaker 2: But you put your address in and it doesn't just 1729 01:23:55,800 --> 01:23:58,799 Speaker 2: tell you like how to how to vote, blah blah blah. 1730 01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,080 Speaker 2: It tells you like, there are the candidates, here are 1731 01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:04,519 Speaker 2: their main issues. It's not fully complete, but it goes 1732 01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:08,600 Speaker 2: down to the local level. Ballotready dot org is the 1733 01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:12,320 Speaker 2: name of the website. If I remember, I put it 1734 01:24:12,320 --> 01:24:16,040 Speaker 2: in the show notes and things like that. Well, Mr 1735 01:24:16,120 --> 01:24:19,599 Speaker 2: span Right, seeing unions, listen to episode twenty nine where 1736 01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:22,320 Speaker 2: you guys are talking about the rodeo venue and the 1737 01:24:22,360 --> 01:24:24,559 Speaker 2: need for unions. I don't know if Minnesota has done 1738 01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:26,800 Speaker 2: this or not, but what a lot of states have done. 1739 01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:29,679 Speaker 2: They've done this here in Michigan is they've become right 1740 01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:34,439 Speaker 2: to work states. Many Republican legislatures push forward right to 1741 01:24:34,520 --> 01:24:37,120 Speaker 2: work laws that essentially, in a way, is a way 1742 01:24:37,160 --> 01:24:39,240 Speaker 2: to bank r up the union's ability to collect dudes 1743 01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:42,240 Speaker 2: while simultaneously forcing a union to advocate for workers who 1744 01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:46,960 Speaker 2: do pay into it, quite who don't pay into it yet. Right, 1745 01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:49,320 Speaker 2: quite a few other of the guys I work with 1746 01:24:49,360 --> 01:24:51,879 Speaker 2: opted out of union membership once the law here took effect, 1747 01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:54,960 Speaker 2: all white guys, and by and large, that attitude was 1748 01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:56,680 Speaker 2: that the union was protect the people who deserve to 1749 01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:59,240 Speaker 2: be fired, and it was clear who they were talking about. 1750 01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:02,599 Speaker 2: The thing is, even though they are no longer paying 1751 01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:05,360 Speaker 2: it to the union, the union is compelled to represent 1752 01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:07,799 Speaker 2: them if they ever find themselves in position to be disciplined. 1753 01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:10,719 Speaker 2: But it also hurts the union's ability to contribute politically 1754 01:25:10,760 --> 01:25:13,280 Speaker 2: to campaigns and politicians who would represent the union's interest 1755 01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:16,400 Speaker 2: in the state and national election. This could be the 1756 01:25:16,439 --> 01:25:19,879 Speaker 2: reason why they're seeing we're seeing less effectiveness in unions, 1757 01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:24,479 Speaker 2: which we're already shrinking to begin with. They're being gutter 1758 01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:31,960 Speaker 2: what they're being gutter from? Oh, they're being I guess grifted, 1759 01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 2: taking advantage of from within. Gut it, that's what it is. 1760 01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:39,519 Speaker 2: They're being gutted from within financially and can't properly lobby 1761 01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:41,960 Speaker 2: on behalf of the workers as a result. Sorry for 1762 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:43,599 Speaker 2: the long email. This is something I see and talk 1763 01:25:43,640 --> 01:25:45,400 Speaker 2: about with the guys at work just about every day. 1764 01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:48,800 Speaker 2: Talk to you later, Span. Yeah, man, it was a 1765 01:25:49,040 --> 01:25:52,120 Speaker 2: Supreme Court ruling like last year. I believe that did 1766 01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:56,000 Speaker 2: this where the union has to still pay for the 1767 01:25:56,400 --> 01:25:58,920 Speaker 2: or still have the obligation to protect workers. 1768 01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:01,280 Speaker 1: Workers no longer have the obligation to pay. 1769 01:26:01,120 --> 01:26:05,080 Speaker 2: In pay union dues, and they still want to get 1770 01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:10,799 Speaker 2: the benefits, but they the long game is without union dues, 1771 01:26:11,000 --> 01:26:15,320 Speaker 2: there are no union benefits, correct. 1772 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,040 Speaker 3: And it's one of those things where people paying in 1773 01:26:17,080 --> 01:26:20,080 Speaker 3: the union are like, you shouldn't renk the benefits we 1774 01:26:20,160 --> 01:26:22,680 Speaker 3: actually get are paid because of the union life. You 1775 01:26:22,720 --> 01:26:25,040 Speaker 3: would not get paid as much as you get paid. 1776 01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:26,920 Speaker 3: If it was for the union, they would pay you 1777 01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:31,439 Speaker 3: possibly ten to fifteen dollars less than they do because 1778 01:26:31,479 --> 01:26:33,320 Speaker 3: of this union. It's like you want the union for 1779 01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:35,160 Speaker 3: five It's like you want the shit for free. And 1780 01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:36,759 Speaker 3: that doesn't make sense. 1781 01:26:37,360 --> 01:26:42,000 Speaker 1: Right, Let's see Black Beer Travelers. 1782 01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:47,080 Speaker 2: Preston right saying hello, Karen and Rod, thanks for turning 1783 01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:48,640 Speaker 2: me on to Black Beer Travelers. 1784 01:26:48,800 --> 01:26:50,240 Speaker 1: That was a fantastic episode. 1785 01:26:50,439 --> 01:26:53,040 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, you know, because that was a 1786 01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:55,599 Speaker 2: choice that I made from one while I was gonna 1787 01:26:55,640 --> 01:26:59,840 Speaker 2: have him on, was let's just make this a conversational episode. 1788 01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:00,320 Speaker 1: No news. 1789 01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:05,280 Speaker 2: And there's like half interview, half conversation, and it looks 1790 01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:07,360 Speaker 2: like a lot of people enjoyed it, you know, and 1791 01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:10,800 Speaker 2: if they didn't, you know whatever, they can come back tomorrow. Right. 1792 01:27:11,600 --> 01:27:13,839 Speaker 2: It's nice to know that I'm not too weird regarding 1793 01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:14,679 Speaker 2: my tasting beers. 1794 01:27:14,720 --> 01:27:15,240 Speaker 1: Local beer. 1795 01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:18,080 Speaker 2: Local beer is something my husband and I seek out 1796 01:27:18,360 --> 01:27:22,480 Speaker 2: when we travel. Japan and Mexico offered fantastic and unexpected 1797 01:27:22,479 --> 01:27:25,840 Speaker 2: beer experiences. Who would have thought the South outside of 1798 01:27:25,840 --> 01:27:28,679 Speaker 2: Atlanta will offer so many great beer choices, And now 1799 01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:31,679 Speaker 2: I know where the fine black one own ones. Again, 1800 01:27:31,720 --> 01:27:35,280 Speaker 2: thanks for the podcast. There there's always a new treat 1801 01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:35,759 Speaker 2: to discover. 1802 01:27:35,880 --> 01:27:38,160 Speaker 1: Preston. Appreciate your Preston. 1803 01:27:38,280 --> 01:27:39,920 Speaker 3: We out here, we out here deep, and. 1804 01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:45,680 Speaker 1: Mostly I appreciate you. No longer putting team dro and emails. 1805 01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:48,719 Speaker 1: That's the main things, you know what. I call that growth? 1806 01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:55,640 Speaker 1: All right? The next email. 1807 01:27:55,360 --> 01:28:01,479 Speaker 2: Is actually a gift oh three email from Douglas, who 1808 01:28:01,520 --> 01:28:07,080 Speaker 2: says he gifted me cast The Origin of Our Discontents 1809 01:28:07,120 --> 01:28:11,719 Speaker 2: by my girl Isabelle Wilkerson, who also wrote The Warmth 1810 01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:15,439 Speaker 2: of other Sons, which is my shit. I knew she 1811 01:28:15,479 --> 01:28:17,200 Speaker 2: came out with a new book. I didn't, I don't. 1812 01:28:17,280 --> 01:28:19,720 Speaker 2: I didn't think I had had a chance to buy 1813 01:28:19,760 --> 01:28:23,640 Speaker 2: it yet. But uh, I just hit click on that 1814 01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:26,800 Speaker 2: on that link player because it's a Kindle gift, which 1815 01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:28,480 Speaker 2: is my favorite kind. 1816 01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:28,880 Speaker 1: Of book gift. 1817 01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:31,880 Speaker 2: People see me physical books, and I hate to tell you, 1818 01:28:33,040 --> 01:28:36,479 Speaker 2: but I don't read physical books that much. I read 1819 01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:40,280 Speaker 2: Kindle books like honestly, some people have bought me physical 1820 01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:43,800 Speaker 2: giving me physical books, physical copies. And then I turned 1821 01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:47,160 Speaker 2: around and bought the book on Kendle, so so I 1822 01:28:47,200 --> 01:28:48,960 Speaker 2: was just like, I'm not gonna ever read it if 1823 01:28:48,960 --> 01:28:51,000 Speaker 2: it's just a physical book. I don't even put them 1824 01:28:51,000 --> 01:28:53,000 Speaker 2: on my bookshelf. My bookshel is full of video games 1825 01:28:53,000 --> 01:28:56,240 Speaker 2: and toys. It's it's really embarrassing. Really, I'm not an 1826 01:28:56,240 --> 01:29:01,280 Speaker 2: adult at all, y'all. But thank you so much, Shakey Sira, 1827 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:05,360 Speaker 2: Brian right saying hope you're doing well and enjoy your 1828 01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:07,719 Speaker 2: time off. Last week on the Feedback Show last Saturday, 1829 01:29:07,760 --> 01:29:10,680 Speaker 2: someone mentioned the start started watching Sira since Karen had 1830 01:29:10,720 --> 01:29:12,920 Speaker 2: such great things to say about it. I have been 1831 01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:16,080 Speaker 2: considering watching for a while, especially since that's my mom's name. 1832 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:17,560 Speaker 1: And she liked the show. 1833 01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:20,840 Speaker 2: And when it got mentioned last week, I knew I 1834 01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:21,880 Speaker 2: had to go for it. 1835 01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:27,559 Speaker 1: Wow, this show is amazing. I started the bomb. It's okay. 1836 01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,240 Speaker 2: I started watching it this week and I'm already on 1837 01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:34,160 Speaker 2: season five, just started, so no spoilers. I've always been 1838 01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:37,160 Speaker 2: a fan of shows for young people that have great 1839 01:29:37,200 --> 01:29:40,839 Speaker 2: life lessons. The lessons on life, friendship, dignity, loyalty, purpose 1840 01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:42,120 Speaker 2: is so great. 1841 01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:43,839 Speaker 1: The cast is incredibly diverse. 1842 01:29:43,920 --> 01:29:46,120 Speaker 2: I freaked out when I realized the kid who plays 1843 01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:48,320 Speaker 2: Junior on Blackish is bold. 1844 01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:48,920 Speaker 3: Oh. 1845 01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:50,240 Speaker 2: I didn't know that for real. 1846 01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:51,599 Speaker 3: I didn't know that was bold. 1847 01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:53,040 Speaker 1: Wow. 1848 01:29:53,520 --> 01:29:56,639 Speaker 2: Also, Lord Prime and Thanos are like the same person, right, 1849 01:29:57,760 --> 01:30:01,840 Speaker 2: and Catra cih that Catra her pride and selfishness all 1850 01:30:01,880 --> 01:30:04,600 Speaker 2: of her friends, as all of her friends are in 1851 01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:08,160 Speaker 2: abusive relationships with her, She's mean, it hurts people, It 1852 01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,519 Speaker 2: doesn't allow people to have friends outside of her. Say, 1853 01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:13,200 Speaker 2: I'm excited to see y'all. Season five inns, thank you 1854 01:30:13,240 --> 01:30:17,680 Speaker 2: for this amazing episode. Also season five, episode three with 1855 01:30:17,720 --> 01:30:20,240 Speaker 2: the spaceship thing. I think it's literally the plot to 1856 01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:23,759 Speaker 2: a different movie, but I can't place it anyway, Thanks y'all. 1857 01:30:23,960 --> 01:30:25,400 Speaker 1: Cappy feedback Saturday. 1858 01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:27,479 Speaker 3: They say you auto tuneing? 1859 01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:28,599 Speaker 1: Oh for real? 1860 01:30:28,800 --> 01:30:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, you kind of play freeze, play freeze. 1861 01:30:31,040 --> 01:30:36,759 Speaker 1: On my screen in the ninth due the colder story ever, 1862 01:30:37,040 --> 01:30:42,800 Speaker 1: doon somewhere long alone, this broad loss of soup to 1863 01:30:42,920 --> 01:30:46,439 Speaker 1: a woman so hordless? Is it working? 1864 01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:46,760 Speaker 3: Y'all? 1865 01:30:47,080 --> 01:30:47,799 Speaker 1: Still roboting? 1866 01:30:47,920 --> 01:30:49,719 Speaker 3: I don't know? Is he seeing robotan? Y'all? 1867 01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:54,680 Speaker 1: Let me buy you a drink? All right? Let me refresh. 1868 01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:57,080 Speaker 2: I know this isn't funny when you can't hear what 1869 01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:58,040 Speaker 2: the fuck I'm talking about? 1870 01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:06,200 Speaker 1: Sure that? What's your think? Bound that? All right? 1871 01:31:06,560 --> 01:31:09,879 Speaker 2: Episode twenty one fifty one Karma I go by free Jones? 1872 01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:13,519 Speaker 1: Okay, free Jones, what up are you were? You ever 1873 01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:15,360 Speaker 1: in the movie A Free State of Jones or is 1874 01:31:15,360 --> 01:31:17,240 Speaker 1: that not about you? Okay, I don't know. 1875 01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:19,559 Speaker 2: By the way I saw that movie, it was not free. 1876 01:31:19,800 --> 01:31:23,439 Speaker 2: Matthew McConaughey, owe me fifteen dollars. Oh what up car 1877 01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:25,920 Speaker 2: It should be called fifteen dollars state of Jones because 1878 01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:29,519 Speaker 2: that's what it costs our, I mean free Jones, says 1879 01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:33,080 Speaker 2: what up Rod and Queen Karen. First, I would like 1880 01:31:33,160 --> 01:31:35,519 Speaker 2: to say thank you. Times are tough down here and Georgia, 1881 01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:38,599 Speaker 2: and listening to you guys during ZOOM meetings has been 1882 01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:40,120 Speaker 2: the bright spot of my work week. 1883 01:31:40,400 --> 01:31:42,560 Speaker 1: During Zoom meetings. 1884 01:31:43,680 --> 01:31:45,920 Speaker 3: Taped down, y'all is boring. This is the eighth meeting 1885 01:31:45,920 --> 01:31:47,080 Speaker 3: to day. I'm tired of y'all. 1886 01:31:47,479 --> 01:31:49,920 Speaker 2: I work as a teacher in Gwennett County, and I 1887 01:31:50,000 --> 01:31:52,479 Speaker 2: think I can give more context to that news story 1888 01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:55,600 Speaker 2: the two hundred and sixty teachers that tested positive or 1889 01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:58,120 Speaker 2: self reported cases from staff who are elected not to 1890 01:31:58,120 --> 01:32:00,920 Speaker 2: come into the building for the beginning of staff development. 1891 01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:03,919 Speaker 2: The school year will start online for the students thanks 1892 01:32:03,960 --> 01:32:07,040 Speaker 2: to that one black board member, but the staff will 1893 01:32:07,040 --> 01:32:10,640 Speaker 2: be in the building running on normal school schedule. They 1894 01:32:10,680 --> 01:32:14,000 Speaker 2: also announced this week that they will slowly start phasing 1895 01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:17,160 Speaker 2: in students back in the building after school starts. This 1896 01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:19,240 Speaker 2: is the county bending to the parents who have been 1897 01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:22,320 Speaker 2: protesting their entire summer to let their kids in school 1898 01:32:22,680 --> 01:32:25,200 Speaker 2: doing the whole let them in the building and give me. 1899 01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:26,639 Speaker 1: Back my taxes. Shit. 1900 01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:30,280 Speaker 2: Every study I have seen so far concludes that students 1901 01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:33,400 Speaker 2: learn better from face to face learning, especially once you 1902 01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:36,080 Speaker 2: consider the. 1903 01:32:35,240 --> 01:32:37,360 Speaker 1: Other services of school provides for a student. 1904 01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:40,559 Speaker 2: But I mean not, but much of the curriculum for 1905 01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:44,240 Speaker 2: K one, especially as students, is not strictly big book learning. 1906 01:32:44,439 --> 01:32:46,719 Speaker 2: It's hard to help a kid practice social and emotional 1907 01:32:46,760 --> 01:32:49,960 Speaker 2: intelligence or fine motor control skills from the computer. 1908 01:32:50,360 --> 01:32:52,679 Speaker 1: True, it is clear to me that face to face 1909 01:32:52,760 --> 01:32:53,800 Speaker 1: learning is what is best. 1910 01:32:53,840 --> 01:32:56,479 Speaker 2: But the country has yet to announce a safety protocol 1911 01:32:56,520 --> 01:32:59,040 Speaker 2: to keep us safe once the kids return. So I say, 1912 01:32:59,240 --> 01:33:02,040 Speaker 2: just keeping everybody as at home until January to prevent 1913 01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:05,560 Speaker 2: an inevitable outbreak. Pretending things are normal isn't going to 1914 01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:08,800 Speaker 2: make themselves. Many teachers are in a risk group for 1915 01:33:08,880 --> 01:33:11,720 Speaker 2: COVID nineteen and our county has the most cases in 1916 01:33:11,720 --> 01:33:12,120 Speaker 2: the state. 1917 01:33:12,520 --> 01:33:13,800 Speaker 1: Oh and they haven't. 1918 01:33:13,560 --> 01:33:16,240 Speaker 2: Canceled any of the far winter sports or high school 1919 01:33:16,400 --> 01:33:18,920 Speaker 2: for high school either damn, this is gonna end poorly. 1920 01:33:19,240 --> 01:33:23,200 Speaker 3: Yes, In every school district that has opened up or 1921 01:33:23,200 --> 01:33:26,280 Speaker 3: done something more shit with the summer camps, what happens 1922 01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:29,840 Speaker 3: is outbreak. It's always an outbreak. The numbers shoot up 1923 01:33:29,840 --> 01:33:32,559 Speaker 3: in the county. The numbers go up like you can't 1924 01:33:32,600 --> 01:33:34,920 Speaker 3: act like it's normal just because you wish it or 1925 01:33:34,920 --> 01:33:38,400 Speaker 3: you willing to go back to normal. It's everything has changed, 1926 01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:42,280 Speaker 3: and it's stressful to the parents, particularly the parents that 1927 01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:44,360 Speaker 3: actually are forced to go back to work because somebody 1928 01:33:44,439 --> 01:33:46,640 Speaker 3: has to watch their kids because us are. You're not 1929 01:33:46,680 --> 01:33:48,160 Speaker 3: gonna to put them in the daycare because most of 1930 01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:52,360 Speaker 3: your daycares aren't open up. Depends on what the structure 1931 01:33:52,400 --> 01:33:55,519 Speaker 3: of your laws is, and so it's very It's like 1932 01:33:55,560 --> 01:33:57,920 Speaker 3: I Catch twenty two. When it comes to it, it's 1933 01:33:58,000 --> 01:34:01,920 Speaker 3: like the the admitted the Trump administration put everybody in 1934 01:34:01,920 --> 01:34:03,800 Speaker 3: these bad positions because they don't give a fuck. They 1935 01:34:03,840 --> 01:34:06,639 Speaker 3: don't care about kids catching it, they don't care about 1936 01:34:06,840 --> 01:34:09,639 Speaker 3: they don't care about the population dying. They just don't care. 1937 01:34:12,320 --> 01:34:15,360 Speaker 2: DESI Ray right saying, is Diego Luna and rod tad 1938 01:34:15,880 --> 01:34:18,840 Speaker 2: High Rock. In a past episode, you mentioned that you 1939 01:34:18,880 --> 01:34:20,560 Speaker 2: would like to see a modern day talk show like 1940 01:34:20,600 --> 01:34:22,800 Speaker 2: those old clips of James Baldwin and William F. 1941 01:34:22,840 --> 01:34:23,240 Speaker 1: Buckley. 1942 01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:26,800 Speaker 2: There's a show called Pany's Circle, which is bred and 1943 01:34:26,840 --> 01:34:31,800 Speaker 2: circuses in English. I'm hosted by actor Diego Luna on 1944 01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:34,240 Speaker 2: Amazon Prime. In each episode, he hosts a dinner to 1945 01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:36,000 Speaker 2: talk about one societal issue. 1946 01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:37,240 Speaker 1: There are different groups of. 1947 01:34:37,240 --> 01:34:41,000 Speaker 2: About six people or so inside include the scientists, artist thinkers, activists, 1948 01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:44,679 Speaker 2: and journalists for each conversation. I watched episode two about 1949 01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:47,879 Speaker 2: ending gender based violence. Even though it's set in Mexico, 1950 01:34:48,000 --> 01:34:51,599 Speaker 2: many of these the same challenges apply here. Not everyone 1951 01:34:51,600 --> 01:34:53,640 Speaker 2: agreed about the best path to move forward, and it 1952 01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:56,080 Speaker 2: was heated at times, but it was respectful and there 1953 01:34:56,080 --> 01:34:59,439 Speaker 2: were no gotcha moments. No one was a pundit rattling 1954 01:34:59,479 --> 01:35:00,360 Speaker 2: off talking points. 1955 01:35:00,880 --> 01:35:01,880 Speaker 1: Yeah I do. Yeah. 1956 01:35:01,960 --> 01:35:04,559 Speaker 2: That's the main thing that kills me now is people 1957 01:35:04,600 --> 01:35:07,080 Speaker 2: think that's the same thing as bringing two people on 1958 01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:08,880 Speaker 2: the yell at each other, and they all they're doing 1959 01:35:08,920 --> 01:35:10,200 Speaker 2: is yelling at each other till they can get to 1960 01:35:10,240 --> 01:35:13,240 Speaker 2: a commercial break. It's like course, like watching two boxers 1961 01:35:13,439 --> 01:35:15,920 Speaker 2: swing at each other. So it's not a conversation, right 1962 01:35:16,680 --> 01:35:18,679 Speaker 2: because you need some time and some space to make 1963 01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:22,320 Speaker 2: full points if they're intelligent. It was entertaining without being 1964 01:35:22,479 --> 01:35:25,720 Speaker 2: political entertainment. I think Diego Luna might be listening to 1965 01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:30,280 Speaker 2: the show if he is. Thank you, Okay, you do 1966 01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:31,200 Speaker 2: great work, Diego. 1967 01:35:31,400 --> 01:35:31,840 Speaker 1: All right. 1968 01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:36,040 Speaker 2: I think he was in a Terminator if I'm not mistaken, 1969 01:35:36,160 --> 01:35:37,800 Speaker 2: I think that was one of the movies he was in. 1970 01:35:38,920 --> 01:35:46,320 Speaker 2: I know he's in Narcos, so I haven't seen Book 1971 01:35:46,360 --> 01:35:51,880 Speaker 2: of Life though. Oh yeah, he played Cassian and Or 1972 01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:55,160 Speaker 2: and Rogue one. That's where I know him from. 1973 01:35:55,200 --> 01:36:00,280 Speaker 1: Okay, troll Hunters. Oh yeah, you got a good resume. Yes, 1974 01:36:00,600 --> 01:36:01,200 Speaker 1: we sure do. 1975 01:36:01,840 --> 01:36:06,280 Speaker 2: Anyway, y'all didn't come to hear that part. Future episodes 1976 01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:08,240 Speaker 2: were on rais the climate change. I hope you and 1977 01:36:08,280 --> 01:36:09,360 Speaker 2: the audience will give it a try. 1978 01:36:09,680 --> 01:36:11,040 Speaker 1: Love the show. That's it, right, thank. 1979 01:36:10,920 --> 01:36:11,519 Speaker 3: You, thank you. 1980 01:36:12,080 --> 01:36:14,920 Speaker 2: And lastly, it's our girl, Kim Doc who says Karen 1981 01:36:15,160 --> 01:36:20,920 Speaker 2: my love. Yes, high Rod my also love. What's going 1982 01:36:20,960 --> 01:36:21,479 Speaker 2: on y'all? 1983 01:36:21,560 --> 01:36:23,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I added part of those I'll let you guess 1984 01:36:23,880 --> 01:36:28,360 Speaker 1: which one. What's going on y'all? What we know better 1985 01:36:28,439 --> 01:36:31,759 Speaker 1: than to do is mac on Karen's loving husband. Lol. 1986 01:36:31,880 --> 01:36:34,280 Speaker 2: That ain't my type of carrying on. We're not Finn 1987 01:36:34,280 --> 01:36:36,120 Speaker 2: to break the church up? This ang green leaf? 1988 01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:38,040 Speaker 6: Oh? 1989 01:36:38,120 --> 01:36:38,920 Speaker 1: Is that what it is? 1990 01:36:39,000 --> 01:36:41,320 Speaker 2: People say they love Karen and not me because y'all 1991 01:36:41,360 --> 01:36:45,479 Speaker 2: think it's gonna be some type of romantic jealous situation. 1992 01:36:45,880 --> 01:36:47,960 Speaker 2: Well I just have y'all know there's not a jealous 1993 01:36:48,040 --> 01:36:52,760 Speaker 2: bone in my body, all right, so you too? MM. 1994 01:36:52,800 --> 01:36:54,880 Speaker 2: I don't know why they all these years of us 1995 01:36:55,120 --> 01:36:58,519 Speaker 2: on here. Listen, it's no offense. But y'all can't break 1996 01:36:58,600 --> 01:37:05,880 Speaker 2: us up, right if it didn't happen after uh, you 1997 01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:08,040 Speaker 2: know all these other things that's happened in life. 1998 01:37:08,240 --> 01:37:11,439 Speaker 1: Okay, just made it. We made it through nine to eleven. 1999 01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:16,320 Speaker 2: Okay, if we can make it through you know, people 2000 01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:19,400 Speaker 2: not liking the last season of Game of Thrones. 2001 01:37:19,960 --> 01:37:21,160 Speaker 3: We can make it do that. We can make it 2002 01:37:21,200 --> 01:37:21,639 Speaker 3: do anything. 2003 01:37:21,680 --> 01:37:23,520 Speaker 1: It's gonna take more than some heart emojis. 2004 01:37:23,720 --> 01:37:27,240 Speaker 2: So I'm saying, okay, I need to see titties minimum 2005 01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:28,719 Speaker 2: before I'm willing to leave this woman. 2006 01:37:28,720 --> 01:37:30,439 Speaker 1: And I'm just kidding. What's God? 2007 01:37:32,360 --> 01:37:34,120 Speaker 2: You did say you want to get famous enough to 2008 01:37:34,200 --> 01:37:37,720 Speaker 2: size but already did sign some titties though, so you 2009 01:37:37,760 --> 01:37:38,840 Speaker 2: did That's right? 2010 01:37:40,320 --> 01:37:44,320 Speaker 1: What's going on y'all? Uh? What we know? 2011 01:37:44,439 --> 01:37:47,040 Speaker 2: The shout the miss crystals fucking kisses. What we know 2012 01:37:47,160 --> 01:37:49,800 Speaker 2: better than to do is mac on Karen's loving husband. 2013 01:37:49,840 --> 01:37:51,559 Speaker 1: Lol. That ain't my type of carro. I already said 2014 01:37:51,560 --> 01:37:52,840 Speaker 1: this far no thing piece here. 2015 01:37:52,880 --> 01:37:54,519 Speaker 2: I just find an interesting how as much as we 2016 01:37:54,600 --> 01:37:57,320 Speaker 2: Blacks would like to shut the Kardashian Jennis out of 2017 01:37:57,320 --> 01:38:00,000 Speaker 2: the culture, the people responsible for the coach and said, noah, niggas, 2018 01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:03,320 Speaker 2: the vultures are invited deal with it. Well, you know, 2019 01:38:03,400 --> 01:38:05,160 Speaker 2: I didn't think about this, but I was reading my 2020 01:38:05,240 --> 01:38:08,920 Speaker 2: girl Males tweets just now and she brought up a 2021 01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:17,320 Speaker 2: great point. People thought, uh, that the shooting of Meghan 2022 01:38:17,360 --> 01:38:19,960 Speaker 2: the Stallion must have had something to do with her 2023 01:38:20,120 --> 01:38:24,120 Speaker 2: not liking the Kardashians and Kylie Jenner and not wanting 2024 01:38:25,240 --> 01:38:26,680 Speaker 2: Tory Lanez hanging out with them. 2025 01:38:26,720 --> 01:38:28,600 Speaker 1: That's that was one of the speculations. One of the 2026 01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:29,960 Speaker 1: big rumors. 2027 01:38:30,040 --> 01:38:31,880 Speaker 2: Was like, and that's why he shot her because they 2028 01:38:31,960 --> 01:38:34,160 Speaker 2: beat him up because he hangs out with the Kardashians. 2029 01:38:35,120 --> 01:38:37,840 Speaker 2: And so having her in the video immediately squashes that. 2030 01:38:39,280 --> 01:38:41,720 Speaker 2: Immediately squashes that because she we know for a fact 2031 01:38:41,800 --> 01:38:44,120 Speaker 2: she heard that ship that people were saying, and that 2032 01:38:44,240 --> 01:38:46,479 Speaker 2: she was paying attention to all those rumors and stuff. 2033 01:38:46,800 --> 01:38:49,880 Speaker 2: So it's actually a big ass statement to be able 2034 01:38:49,920 --> 01:38:54,360 Speaker 2: to say, like, nah, we cool, so fuck them. LIDJ 2035 01:38:54,439 --> 01:38:56,040 Speaker 2: y'all hearing this, nigga shot me on my feet. 2036 01:38:56,040 --> 01:38:59,080 Speaker 1: What we gonna do? Allege allegedly. 2037 01:39:00,880 --> 01:39:03,639 Speaker 2: I recall when Tiger and Chris Brown were doing albums 2038 01:39:03,640 --> 01:39:06,320 Speaker 2: and interviews together, you know, when Kylie was sixteen and 2039 01:39:06,360 --> 01:39:09,439 Speaker 2: Tiger was cheating on Black China with him. Even back then, 2040 01:39:09,800 --> 01:39:13,240 Speaker 2: Chris was essentially telling on Tiger the Hot ninety seven. 2041 01:39:13,600 --> 01:39:16,400 Speaker 2: What stood out to me was that Chris was adamant 2042 01:39:16,439 --> 01:39:19,840 Speaker 2: about Callie and Kendall being quote unquote their homegirls. So 2043 01:39:19,960 --> 01:39:22,200 Speaker 2: even though I don't want to see Callie get a 2044 01:39:22,240 --> 01:39:25,040 Speaker 2: look in the WAP video, that ain't my business. 2045 01:39:25,280 --> 01:39:25,599 Speaker 1: I mean. 2046 01:39:25,640 --> 01:39:28,200 Speaker 2: And then technically the only qualifications of being the video 2047 01:39:28,320 --> 01:39:30,160 Speaker 2: was having a wet ass pussy and we don't know 2048 01:39:30,280 --> 01:39:34,880 Speaker 2: what pussy moisture content is, Like I'm not gonna you know, 2049 01:39:35,320 --> 01:39:37,800 Speaker 2: like who knows. Maybe they had like a contest and 2050 01:39:37,800 --> 01:39:40,080 Speaker 2: it was like you in you who knew? 2051 01:39:40,160 --> 01:39:41,599 Speaker 3: I don't know what the qualifications was. 2052 01:39:41,800 --> 01:39:44,080 Speaker 2: They're just annoying to me, but I intentionally avoid them. 2053 01:39:44,120 --> 01:39:47,160 Speaker 2: So it's it's and it's so healthy there you go. 2054 01:39:47,360 --> 01:39:47,920 Speaker 1: I love that. 2055 01:39:48,439 --> 01:39:51,280 Speaker 2: Even with everyone throwing backlash towards Meg and Cardy, the 2056 01:39:51,360 --> 01:39:53,719 Speaker 2: video broke the ind ofnet has the Republicans who somehow 2057 01:39:53,800 --> 01:39:57,240 Speaker 2: mistakenly happened upon the video, right. We talked about that 2058 01:39:57,280 --> 01:40:01,920 Speaker 2: on our on our diggit Fest episode. Like I said, 2059 01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:03,160 Speaker 2: I'll put the episode out later. 2060 01:40:03,200 --> 01:40:04,960 Speaker 3: They just happened upon the video like you just have 2061 01:40:06,040 --> 01:40:06,800 Speaker 3: this nigga. 2062 01:40:06,520 --> 01:40:08,920 Speaker 2: Like I jacked off to this twenty times by accident, 2063 01:40:08,960 --> 01:40:09,759 Speaker 2: and I'm pissed. 2064 01:40:09,800 --> 01:40:13,559 Speaker 1: Okay, all them glutes in my face. I couldn't take it. 2065 01:40:13,600 --> 01:40:16,400 Speaker 2: I was disgusted the thirty seventh time I jacked off 2066 01:40:16,400 --> 01:40:20,840 Speaker 2: to that thing. Ah but yeah, no, no, they weren't 2067 01:40:20,840 --> 01:40:23,160 Speaker 2: searching for it. It don't be ridiculous, Libtar in a 2068 01:40:23,200 --> 01:40:26,280 Speaker 2: complete meltdown. My favorite part of this are the Republican 2069 01:40:26,360 --> 01:40:28,880 Speaker 2: lawmakers being pissed about the song in the video about 2070 01:40:28,880 --> 01:40:32,240 Speaker 2: wet ass pussy when Donald Trump will grab their wives 2071 01:40:32,280 --> 01:40:35,160 Speaker 2: pussy when they lead her on. Right, you could take 2072 01:40:35,200 --> 01:40:37,600 Speaker 2: door number two and shut up in Maya business. 2073 01:40:37,880 --> 01:40:38,080 Speaker 1: Right. 2074 01:40:38,160 --> 01:40:40,960 Speaker 2: That's the reason I didn't even want to engage the motherfuckers. 2075 01:40:41,080 --> 01:40:44,519 Speaker 2: It's all theater were good over here, good for Cardi 2076 01:40:44,640 --> 01:40:47,479 Speaker 2: and Meg and all the other women in the video. 2077 01:40:47,920 --> 01:40:50,519 Speaker 2: It could be worse. Get the bag, I guess lol, 2078 01:40:50,920 --> 01:40:51,519 Speaker 2: get the bag. 2079 01:40:51,960 --> 01:40:52,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it. 2080 01:40:52,439 --> 01:40:54,280 Speaker 2: Ain't my bag to get man. If y'all want to 2081 01:40:54,320 --> 01:40:56,320 Speaker 2: have her in the video for three seconds, it don't matter. 2082 01:40:56,360 --> 01:40:57,800 Speaker 2: It's not like you can hear it on the song, 2083 01:40:57,880 --> 01:41:00,400 Speaker 2: and I've heard mixed reviews from people on it on 2084 01:41:00,439 --> 01:41:00,840 Speaker 2: the song. 2085 01:41:00,880 --> 01:41:05,120 Speaker 1: It's just it's just wow, y'all. It'll pass. Just give 2086 01:41:05,160 --> 01:41:06,800 Speaker 1: it a couple more days, you know. 2087 01:41:07,320 --> 01:41:09,400 Speaker 2: Like we was talking about, it was blackest King all 2088 01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:11,680 Speaker 2: week last week, everyone think piece and the argument over 2089 01:41:11,720 --> 01:41:14,599 Speaker 2: that it'll be this for this weekend and somebody will 2090 01:41:14,600 --> 01:41:15,880 Speaker 2: put some other shit out next week. 2091 01:41:15,920 --> 01:41:16,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. 2092 01:41:17,600 --> 01:41:20,360 Speaker 2: I'm also enjoying the meta commentary from these Twitter niggas 2093 01:41:20,400 --> 01:41:21,759 Speaker 2: that are utterly clue it's about. 2094 01:41:21,520 --> 01:41:23,920 Speaker 1: The female anatomy. But that ain't my business either. 2095 01:41:23,960 --> 01:41:28,320 Speaker 2: Oh, these them niggas once again avoid avoid God, they. 2096 01:41:28,280 --> 01:41:30,639 Speaker 3: Don't, they don't. They don't know how, you know, destructure 2097 01:41:30,640 --> 01:41:31,360 Speaker 3: a woman's body. 2098 01:41:31,520 --> 01:41:34,800 Speaker 2: The fact that a man feels the need to say anything, not. 2099 01:41:37,479 --> 01:41:38,360 Speaker 1: To say anything. 2100 01:41:39,560 --> 01:41:42,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I don't care. 2101 01:41:42,400 --> 01:41:44,080 Speaker 2: I saw the video and you know the feeling I 2102 01:41:44,120 --> 01:41:47,559 Speaker 2: came away with appreciation. They didn't have to show me that. 2103 01:41:47,760 --> 01:41:51,759 Speaker 2: Thank you, ladies. Okay, I was able to social distance 2104 01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:52,799 Speaker 2: and look at some cheeks. 2105 01:41:52,840 --> 01:41:54,680 Speaker 1: What the fuck is the like? 2106 01:41:55,120 --> 01:41:58,000 Speaker 3: I don't Yeah, it's like, what, what's so fun to me? 2107 01:41:58,520 --> 01:42:01,680 Speaker 3: Technically this benefits you, but you know, for men it 2108 01:42:01,800 --> 01:42:04,120 Speaker 3: benefits you. You know you get to watch the finance women 2109 01:42:04,439 --> 01:42:06,880 Speaker 3: twek and move and dance in front of them, but 2110 01:42:07,200 --> 01:42:10,479 Speaker 3: you know they're like, I got to say something. 2111 01:42:10,640 --> 01:42:13,680 Speaker 2: They can't help themselves. Shut the fuck up, Shut the 2112 01:42:13,680 --> 01:42:16,640 Speaker 2: fuck up. It's black girls party time. And also they 2113 01:42:16,720 --> 01:42:20,439 Speaker 2: twerking and shit what anyway, I'm moving on. Drink your water, 2114 01:42:20,520 --> 01:42:23,559 Speaker 2: fight off the ashing this of the Internet's be safe, y'all. Kim, thanks, Kim, Doc, 2115 01:42:23,640 --> 01:42:26,559 Speaker 2: thank you. And I believe that is everyone's emails and 2116 01:42:26,600 --> 01:42:28,720 Speaker 2: it's right at the buzzer, so we can wrap this 2117 01:42:28,800 --> 01:42:29,439 Speaker 2: bad boy up. 2118 01:42:29,520 --> 01:42:32,000 Speaker 1: Karen, Yes, thank you as always for being here. 2119 01:42:32,120 --> 01:42:33,080 Speaker 2: I love you.