1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 2: I am Lisa gar My guest is Mariel Hemingway, and 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: we're talking about what it means to grow up in 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: a family with a lot of imbalance and how to 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: create balance. And Marie, from talking with you, it seems 6 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: like you are like everyone else. You had a very 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:25,479 Speaker 2: chaotic care. I mean that's an extraordinary childhood, but that 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: you are not some person that has seen angels at 9 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: an early age and discovered their psychic powers. You really 10 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 2: just coped until you found that these exercise and breath 11 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: work and things that everyone can do. It led you 12 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: to a way, a pathway out of something that could 13 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 2: have been devastating for you. So how did you find 14 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 2: your balance or what does balance even mean to you? 15 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: I love that you said how. My first book was 16 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: called Finding My Balance, which is interesting because I think 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 3: that finding your balance being present is is it daily? 18 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 3: A daily thing to do? I mean, it's something that 19 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 3: you know, you don't wake up one day and oh 20 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 3: I'm I'm done. You know, life is just this journey 21 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 3: of like, oh today I'm better than I was yesterday. 22 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: But it's always you're always looking for ways to find 23 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 3: more presence, more balance, more connectivity. So for me, it 24 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 3: really is has been a combination of all the different 25 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 3: things that I've done in my life, some of them 26 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 3: completely woo oooh crazy stuff maybe, but I also learned 27 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 3: a great deal from some of some of the things 28 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: that I did, and many of the things that were 29 00:01:55,680 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: seemingly bizarre taught me a great deal. You know. I've 30 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 3: traveled to India, I followed guru or all kinds of things. 31 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 3: I dieted different ways, thinking that maybe how I ate 32 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 3: was going to get me to a certain place in 33 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: my life, and it was going to make my brain healthier, 34 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 3: you know, because a lot of that was desperation to 35 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 3: not be crazy. I actually did a documentary called Running 36 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 3: from Crazy because I was so frightened that I was 37 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 3: going to end up like taking my life or something 38 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 3: and not or be crazy. And I shouldn't use the 39 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 3: term crazy. Some people get offended by that, but I 40 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 3: literally thought, oh my gosh, maybe one day I'm going 41 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 3: to wake up and I'm not going to be balanced, 42 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 3: and I'm going to want to take my life and 43 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,839 Speaker 3: I'm not even going to know that that's happening to me, right, 44 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 3: that was a tremendous fear for a very very long time. 45 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: I think a lot of us feel that we could 46 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: snap at a time. I mean, I think that's true. 47 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you do until you really realize that 48 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 3: how you live your life, and once you really do 49 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 3: learn to do those simple things. My you know, again, 50 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 3: my connection to nature, even as a child, it was 51 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 3: probably the one thing that really got me closer to 52 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 3: my sense of spirituality, my center, my feeling of it 53 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 3: got me to a place of self love. And I 54 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 3: did struggle with self worth and insecurity for many many years. 55 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 3: And then I chose to be an actress. God only 56 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: knows why I would use a job where they judge 57 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 3: you all the time. Right, Yes, you know, I think 58 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 3: that we do those things. Our life path takes us 59 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 3: down a road where you have to challenge the most 60 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: challenging things. And then when you face them and you 61 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: realize why you've been doing the things you've been doing, 62 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 3: you deal with the traumas of what you observed as 63 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 3: a child, or what you had to go through, whatever 64 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: it is, and they're all stories at the end of 65 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 3: the day, because once you deal with them, once you 66 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 3: look at them in their their scary, ugly faces. They're 67 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 3: really just memories and they're put there to me. They're 68 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: film on the floor. And once you've once you realize 69 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 3: that things are in the past and you've dealt with them, 70 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 3: You've talked about them, you've talked them out, whatever, with 71 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 3: a person that you love, or a therapist or whomever, 72 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 3: or a lifeboats whatever it is that you choose, or 73 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 3: a priest or you know, whatever is your path to 74 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 3: to your being able to share that story. Once that 75 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 3: story becomes a story, it becomes part of your his story. 76 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 3: Then you can move on doing whatever you want your life. 77 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: And that's when you become free. And I think that 78 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 3: my life has been about finding freedoms through the simplicity 79 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 3: of life's. 80 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: Yes, that is beautiful. I mean, I understand I can 81 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,239 Speaker 2: relate to you. I grew up in a family also 82 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: that is big in entertainment. My aunt is Terry garr 83 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: and I think you might have even worked together at 84 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: some point. Yeah, it's okay, hell and yeah, And I 85 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 2: mean I watched same Zach generation though you guys grew 86 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: up in the same Hollywood. It was crazy, it was. 87 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 88 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 2: Then the things I watched her do. I I loved 89 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: her life, watching her, you know, move throughout the creativity 90 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 2: and working with people like Jeene Wilder and and I 91 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 2: mean just lots of incredible Copola and lots of incredible 92 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 2: not even only entertainment, but the brilliance and the creativity 93 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: and ingenuity was going on in your generation with Hollywood 94 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 2: was absolutely fascinating and old Hollywood. I mean, I loved it. 95 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: I loved it. And then my aunt had the experience 96 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 2: of having a MS and she is currently dealing with that. 97 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 2: And I looked at that and it's it's yes, you 98 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 2: look at the genetics and you think, oh my gosh, 99 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: is that coming my way? And you know, and I 100 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 2: live with that, and I live with constantly thinking okay, 101 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: is my brain okay? And I don't, you know, It's 102 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: just at any time the genetics can get switched on 103 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 2: or switched off. And I chose this life through actually 104 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 2: through a brain injury that I had of choosing a 105 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 2: life of meditation and not necessarily yoga, but spirituality and 106 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 2: a quest for the truth, and became a broadcaster out 107 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 2: of that experience. So I think what I've deducted from 108 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: both your story and mine is that if you don't 109 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 2: search for it, it can turn on the genetic markers 110 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 2: and get the worst of you. You have to seek 111 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: something that gives you balance. You have to actively seek it. 112 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 2: It's not going to just find you. 113 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 3: Absolutely you have to. You have to you have to 114 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 3: dig deep. And here's the thing. If people go, oh God, 115 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: that's so scary. I don't want to look at those past, 116 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 3: you know, those task memories, those paths. I don't want 117 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 3: to drum them up. I don't want to feel that again. 118 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 3: And here's what I have to say about that, because 119 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 3: I've been through a tremendous amount of trauma as a child, 120 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 3: as a young adult, whatever. But when you dig into 121 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 3: the past, remember that memories don't have guns. They can't 122 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 3: hurt you. They're just memories. Yes they can. They can 123 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 3: look at something, but it's never the same as going 124 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 3: through it again. In fact, when you can look at 125 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 3: when you're when you're strong enough and you want to 126 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: be in a safe place and you want to be 127 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 3: with a safe person, you want to usually be with 128 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: you know, somebody who's skilled at guiding you through that. 129 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 3: But once you get there, it is it. Memories can't 130 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 3: hurt you. Only there to remind you that that's what happened, 131 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: that's not what's happening. So we always have to remember 132 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 3: that because there is there is freedom on the other 133 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 3: side of looking at what has happened and realizing that 134 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:42,239 Speaker 3: it's not here anymore. And I think that's the biggest 135 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 3: problem with PTSD and all these different things, is that 136 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 3: we fear and or these memories like kind of come 137 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 3: up and like in a nightmare kind of way, and 138 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 3: if we can slow our breath down and really just 139 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 3: take a to go, I'm not a part of this anymore. 140 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 3: This is not who I am. This is just a 141 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 3: memory and it's a part of my brain, but it 142 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 3: doesn't I am not it. I'm bigger than this. I 143 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 3: can actually be me safely in this present moment. And 144 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 3: you know, it took a lot of years. 145 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: I'm not going yeah, but no that it's beautiful that 146 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 2: you've said that and you really believe and you've come 147 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: up with this incredible way of living in this and 148 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 2: I really love the fact that you have a foundation. 149 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: If you I check this out, anyone listening here, go 150 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: to Mariel Hemingway Foundation dot org. And I would love 151 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 2: to know a little bit on there. You talk about 152 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: some of the resources just you suggest for mental health, 153 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 2: but really the breakdowns, what are some of the breakdowns 154 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 2: in our current healthcare system? Yeah? 155 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, Well here's the thing. So Hemingway Foundation dot org 156 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: is nothing more than a resource navigator. Are we there yet? No? 157 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: This is my dream, my dream. I started it with 158 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 3: my best my best friend about a year ago and 159 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: we've been like it. It's not as easy as I 160 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 3: thought it would. 161 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: No, it's not. 162 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 3: But that's okay. But what I want it to be 163 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 3: is like I don't need it. And the only reason 164 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: I named it maryal Hemingway Foundation is because I thought 165 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 3: nobody's going to argue with me because that is my name, right, 166 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 3: so like, and it was so hard to find names 167 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 3: that were taken, you know about mental health. So I 168 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 3: just thought, oh, I'll just make it easy. And I 169 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 3: just want to be a resource navigator. And what that 170 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 3: means is I want to be able to once I 171 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: raise enough money for somebody to plug in where they live, 172 00:10:56,080 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 3: what their mental health crisis issue is, if it's a child, 173 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,959 Speaker 3: if it's whatever it is. If you want holistic help, 174 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 3: we can guide you towards that if you want, you know, 175 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 3: if you want a psychiatrist, if you need a mental 176 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 3: health place, if you need a rehab center. I just 177 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 3: want to be able to tell people where to go 178 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 3: and what to do, because what is really so traumatizing 179 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: for people that come. You know, mental health comes up 180 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: sometimes out of the blue in somebody's life. You know, 181 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, you're teenager is having episodes and 182 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 3: he has a psychotic break. And you know, I had 183 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 3: a very very close friend whose son, all of a 184 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 3: sudden was just like he would end up in the 185 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 3: hospital and he was ranted. You know, he's bipoller, and 186 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 3: they didn't know what to do. They simply didn't know 187 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 3: what to do, and he kept ending up, you know, 188 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 3: in the emergency room, and the emergencies rooms are not 189 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 3: they're not equipped to deal with mental health issues. So 190 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 3: it's just, you know, we are not designed to help 191 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 3: people with mental health crisises as as much as we 192 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 3: should be. Now. There are many places in this country 193 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 3: that are doing extraordinary work, and I've spoken at many, 194 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 3: many different places around the country and they're great, but 195 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 3: they're small, and they're you know, they need a lot 196 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 3: of funding, and I just want to be able to 197 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 3: guide people to the different places in their area for 198 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 3: whatever they want, you know, and everybody has a different path. 199 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 3: So I'm never going to tell anybody that they have 200 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 3: to do this, you know. I'm not even going to 201 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 3: say that the Seven Doctors are something that you have 202 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 3: to do, although I highly recommend them. 203 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 2: Okaya, tell them the seven doctors again. You said the doctors. 204 00:12:54,880 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 3: So it's doctor's son, doctor, air, doctor, water doctor, nutrition, doctor, exercise, 205 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: doctor earth and doctor rest no doctor. Sun is obviously 206 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 3: getting light in your eyes, like people don't realize how 207 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 3: incredibly important the sun early light and late light. Late 208 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 3: light of the day is the best you can actually 209 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: look at the sun during those times. You know, an 210 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 3: hour after sunrise and an hour before sunset is safe 211 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 3: to look into the sun. We were told as kids 212 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 3: that our eyes would get burned and all that stuff, 213 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 3: but that's actually not true. You don't want to do 214 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 3: it in the middle of the day. But sunlight is great, 215 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 3: is incredibly good for you know, vitamin D and vitamin 216 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 3: D being a link to helping balance the brain. Air breathing. 217 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 3: You know, most people don't even know how to breathe. 218 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 3: They don't, you know, And it's not as crazy as 219 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 3: it sounds. It's not. You know, you don't need to 220 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 3: go to a yoga clous You can just do a 221 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 3: box read in hell four counts, whole, four counts, excel 222 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 3: for counts, hold forecounts. I mean it's very It's called 223 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 3: a box rest for a reason. There's breath is extremely important. 224 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 3: Water people don't drink enough water. And we're made up 225 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 3: of seventy percent water as adults and hopefully seventy five percent, 226 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 3: and babies were ninety percent water. And we don't drink 227 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 3: enough water. People think, oh, but I drink you know, 228 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 3: I drink ice tea, and I drink I drink coffee, 229 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 3: I drink whatever. And the thing is water is water 230 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 3: is light. We come from the sea. Apparently, I don't know. 231 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 3: I don't know that specifically. Water is so healing and 232 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 3: it's just so important that we drink enough water and 233 00:14:55,920 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 3: that you drink good water. And then there's uh extra size. 234 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 3: People need to move. As I get older, I move more. 235 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 3: I don't move less. Now, am I as fast as 236 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 3: I was? I? Right, Yeah, it doesn't matter, but I 237 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 3: move more. It's important to keep moving because we're designed. 238 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 3: That's how that's how we beat longevity is by moving, 239 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 3: drinking water, breathing. And then there's food. Of course we 240 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 3: all have to eat, and you know, just eating food 241 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 3: that's not you know, processed, that's you know, not access 242 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 3: of anything. 243 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 2: Right. 244 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: You don't want to have too much sugar, and you 245 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 3: don't want to have any kind of fake food. Bobby 246 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: and I say, we call it Jill, just eat real 247 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 3: food or you're sorry. 248 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 2: I noticed that your your cookbook. I didn't even know 249 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: you had a cookbook, Mario's Kitchen, but it was one 250 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 2: of the first one to offer creative, gluten and sugar 251 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 2: free recipes back in yeah, two thousand and nine. Great. 252 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 3: I always did everything, so soon it's like now it's 253 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 3: all cool. I was like, oh no, we should do 254 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 3: this now. My ex husband got cancer, so it's it's 255 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 3: very funny how we choose, you know, we have this 256 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 3: life path and then all of a sudden, you're you've 257 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 3: got patterns that you have as a child. And I 258 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 3: took care of him and all that stuff. So I 259 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 3: you know that that book and that the the nutrition. 260 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 3: I did a book called Healthy Living for the Inside 261 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 3: Out that was really kind of inspired by trying to 262 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 3: help my ex husband get through cancer through food. And 263 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 3: exercise and meditation, all that, All that I'm talking about, 264 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 3: the Seven Doctors was just a part of trying to 265 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 3: heal him because I was wishing that when my mother 266 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 3: was going through it as a child, if I if 267 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: I'd known, you know, like I would have helped her. 268 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 3: I'm well, who knows, you know, Like, should I have 269 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 3: gotten my kid my parents to not drink? 270 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:07,199 Speaker 2: Probably not. 271 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 1: Listen to more Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at 272 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: one a m. Eastern and go to Coast to coastam 273 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: dot com for more