WEBVTT - Ep116: May I Rub It For You Ma'am? feat Passport Cutty 0:00:02.720 --> 0:00:07.160 It is Monday, and we have a very very special guest, 0:00:07.640 --> 0:00:12.319 and the studio with us today can recognize. She didn't care. 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:13.840 She don't set the short cut away. You know why 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:18.200 because she's a new person. A bench is happy and 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:20.680 it's not the ending anymore because it's about to begin. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:24.120 But guys, we are here. It's horrible decisions. I'm your girl, 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:28.319 Mandy sitting across from Wheezy and our very special guest. 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:31.080 You guys all know her. She's been on the show before. Um. 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:36.599 You may know her from hosting alongside UH fan favorite Tahoe. Um, 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:39.120 she was on the So Shameless podcast. But now she 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:42.560 is about to go back on tour for her reloaded book, 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.160 The M and Man Is for Money. And that name 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:48.240 may found sound familiar because she's been on our show before. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:50.879 So if you guys haven't, check out our episode with her, 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:52.360 The M and Man Is for Money, where she talks 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:54.280 about her book. We're gonna talk a little bit about 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:56.640 your book, but we're gonna focus on the new ship 0:00:56.720 --> 0:01:00.680 in your life because you are a new woman. You are, Um, 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:02.520 what's this? What's your new name with this? Yeah, you 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:05.199 gotta have a name with this war at least front. 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:09.720 I didn't know it's a closure drag us. I don't 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:13.240 know got the I mean, got the baby hairs. I 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:15.319 don't like the little baby hills. I mean it looks 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:18.120 at first I thought it was and then you got 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:22.759 the closure on top. Okay, so down, but that's safety. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.880 When it's so down, that's safe. I have to explained 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:27.679 that about this twenty seven people. They're like, well, is 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:29.800 it a wig? And I'm like, no, bitch, there was 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:33.000 twenty seven pieces of the track and they're all glued 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:35.800 onto the cab and then it's so down and I 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:39.840 don't have to explain it to black Yes, man, I've 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:42.080 never heard of anybody from up north. To them, it's 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:45.520 a down south thing. We call it Jamaicans what they 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:53.680 calls it's a quick oh yeah in the blood. Let 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:55.920 me get back to my roots. So something. Um, of 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:58.160 course we've in. I are now off tour, thank god, 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.400 but um, we have just a lot of travels coming up. Um, 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.120 and I wanted you to talk about, of course, the 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:06.040 country you were recently and so I guess coming up 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:07.960 so that this the summertime. A lot of you guys 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.920 hit us up saying y'all wanted to visit Thailand. So 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.680 I wanted to ask both of you your travel plans 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.320 coming up for the summer, and then we'll double back 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:18.600 on where you just came from. Well, I'm going to 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:22.720 Ruba tomorrow, damn the Wealth, and then Turks and goes 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:24.880 next week. Do you like people love it? I mean 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:28.640 I've been before Turks and people like stand for it. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:32.000 I've never been. It was always it's funny, this is 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:35.840 very ironic. But I always like that's alwayspensive that myself. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:39.799 But you haven't. No, no, no, I no, I have 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:43.720 to because it's my friend's birthday. But I always disregarded 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:45.200 it because I was like, oh, go, I gotta take 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:47.280 me there, And now it's my friend's birthday, I'm like 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:56.639 a cutty. Well, actually it's actually cheaper than because no, 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.280 no, no no, no, the we're renting a house, but her 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:03.680 boyfriend's paying for the house for Yeah, technically it is. 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.160 I was gonna say the funny thing about tricks and kikos. 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:09.239 When I went, I was with some friends and like 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:11.960 they were talking about how secluded the island is, so 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.880 secluded and so expensive that they get their toilet paper 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.560 from Miami. They get all of their goods from Miami 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:21.000 and the hospital there only has fifteen BEZ and he 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:24.840 was like, oh, but we're upgrading to thirty five. Holy 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:28.800 sh it. I did go five years ago. But um, 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:31.280 super blue water. Any cruise boats that go you have 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:33.680 to take like a boat from the cruise so that 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:36.240 you don't funk up their ship, which I think is superb. Well, yeah, 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.960 I like that. I like that somewhere to go for 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.000 my birthday. At that I took the whole two weeks 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:43.200 off for my birthday, Like I got like a two 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:47.280 week block out where we going. I don't know, Listen, 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:49.400 I like to go to Europe in a summer though, Okay, 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:51.800 see I haven't. I just did Europe, and so I'm 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:55.800 actually planning a trip now with a friend, um the Bahamas, 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:57.640 but just because I want to do Exuma. I haven't 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:01.840 done Exuma Island and my homeboy shot love them pigs. 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:04.640 But I'm also gonna do the Iguana Island and you 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.480 could swim with the sharks. No, yeah, that's so I 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:08.680 wanted to get bitch, I'm paying for that tour. So 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:13.280 so girl found one for the low I'll let you know, um, 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:14.840 and it's an open bar. The whole time. So I'm 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:18.200 gonna be ship faced with the pigs, like I'm bar 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:24.400 like one thing, what is like one bottle the fucking 0:04:24.520 --> 0:04:28.600 run punch bitch, it's open bar day. White people was 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:31.800 hired about them pigs getting drunk on fire faster, like 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:34.240 this is so fucked up. Fuck the niggas on the 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.560 island they sucked over, but those pigs in the I 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:38.920 got it so crazy. Like my sister got on me too. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:41.000 When I was in Thailand and took a picture with 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:45.760 the tigers like um on Instagram. They're like, oh, in 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:50.760 two thousand nineteen, we still write elephants. Yeah, it's funny 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:53.600 you're bringing it up. So a friend of the show, Sharonas, 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:55.200 is going to Thailand for work and I was like, 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:58.080 make sure if you do the elephants, you just gotta 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.560 make sure they're not in trapp They're like, you know, 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:04.760 it's a sanctuary. Yeah, I just sanctuary. Yeah, you have to. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.120 I don't know what is this? What is the sake? 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.159 She says, she don't care, So whatever I did. So 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:12.600 a lot of people don't really know right in the 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.599 moment when they do them. But so the tigers I 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:16.479 never did because I knew they were dropped up, but 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:19.240 elephants sanctuary basically means they don't get beat to be 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:22.080 written on, and there's their elephant. There's a breaking of 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:25.400 the spirit with elephants, right, So they'll engage them for 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:27.200 like weeks at a time and beat them and basically 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:30.559 forced them to be submissive so that you can jump 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:34.040 on their backs and ride them. So I just pet well, 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:36.040 And there is something recently that I actually want to 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:40.400 know that elephant backs are actually not made to be 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:43.200 written on, which is crazy for how big they are. 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:46.080 But you know, you have horses, you have camels, those 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:49.640 animals were made to support people. But even though elephants 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.000 are so strong, they actually have week backs. That's something 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.680 I actually just read. So y'all don't go hopping under 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:56.520 my pictures where I was on top of the elephant 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:59.960 because I didn't have that elephant for like four seconds 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:02.680 because it's so high it was. So I went to 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.400 a sanctuary where basically, which what was cool about it. 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:07.760 She's like, Okay, if the elephant doesn't funk with you, 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:09.960 you just can't get on, like right, She's like, you 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:11.760 have to kind of sense the energy, so we're feeding 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:14.320 in bananas. Well, I mean it bro it was. It 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:16.040 was really far, but you felt better about it, like 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:17.719 they were playing with us there in the water. You 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:19.240 bathe with him. But yeah, she was like if they 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:21.360 don't like you, then like did drive all this way? 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:23.480 It is what it is. You don't get on top 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.960 of them because we don't do that right where in 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:27.880 some places they just turned them around every thirty minutes. 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:31.359 So it was really interesting minutes. And I did it 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:33.640 for like four I was like I don't like this, 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:35.440 take me back and they were like what because you 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.560 know they take you to the middle of the um 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:41.000 the forest and then trying to sell you something. Yeah, 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:44.760 I'm like, here's the money. Turn around. We got like 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.120 four minutes and I was like, oh, you want me 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:48.920 to give you money, just turn this to the round 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:51.599 way to like it was higher than that thought, like 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.960 we were on top of we were on top of 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:59.360 the house. Yeah, almost like slipping off, like and they 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:00.919 put us in a yeah, they put us on a 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:04.880 bench um and then for my elephant was metatl because 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.800 they was feeding him of course to keep them walking. 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.000 And then Nigga like spit up goddamn food and then 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:15.040 came back toide hand shut his back, that perfect kind 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:16.720 of go get us off. It was green and ship 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:19.400 like this is disgusting. So I don't know if I 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:21.240 ever talked about on this show, but like I had 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:24.760 this fucking wild spiritual moment with this elephant. This bit 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:29.240 everything is spiritual. Heart tell you what happened, dude. So 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.120 first off, my waist slid off because the elephant was 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:34.720 like throwing me up, So you basically slide on their trunks, 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:36.520 right if you ever get debates with the elephants and 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:38.360 they flip you and they have so much fun doing it. 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:40.680 So anyway, I was getting out of breath and my 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:42.840 hair came off, and I was like, I'm done, I'm done. 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:47.200 So I started swimming to the shore and the elephant 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:50.200 then starts to go really fast, like almost running out 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:51.960 of the water, and they were scared he was gonna 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:54.720 stomp on me because I basically jumped off the elephant 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:56.800 to go in the water. So he then comes right 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:58.840 over me, on top of me, right, and I didn't 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:01.360 even realize. So the elephant knew I was in distress 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:05.240 and was like protecting me, like almost like how you 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:12.080 connect with a dog and a dog knows that basically, 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:16.679 eh one my nigga, and he was like, they handed 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:18.440 me my wig. He was checking the nigga like you 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:20.760 he good, and I'm like, we're good boo and got 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:22.800 back on. He took his trunk between my leg and 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.040 lifted me up. It was crazy, dog. But it's just 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:29.440 crazy how in tune with elephants like that we can 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:33.280 be like, they're so smart, they're so majestic. Every black 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:35.440 household got an elephant in it, like the trunk up 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:38.360 and out of face to the north RP to my auntie. 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.160 But when she died, my mom was like, you want 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:43.520 the elephants. I'm like, she had fifteen. And that's actually 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:46.199 a thing um in the Jamaican culture. Like my grandma 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:50.880 has so many glass elephants all over the house. I 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:54.040 think they're actually supposed to be for good and good luck. Yeah, 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:59.560 but they gotta be facing the north and yeah, that's 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:01.520 that's my Can we just be making up this stuff? 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:02.920 You know? I think so? I don't think we do 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:11.160 all of it about that? Hold up? What mehing to 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:15.080 explain that trends, that's what it's like economics, you know what. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.960 Exactly as much as she doesn't believe in astrology. She 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:25.560 could never cause which I do that don't believe that's 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.560 what everybody say. I'm a motherfucking liber And just know 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.319 if y'all say, I didn't need y'all to know, it's 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.760 the best. Okay, that's what the fund that mean. So 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:36.720 we're gonna go ahead and hop into real quick, y'all. Um. 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:40.480 While we're talking about travels, this whole episode actually stemmed 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:44.560 from Cutty's recent journey to India. UM, So I can't 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.440 wait to hear about India and some other things that 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.680 happened while over there. Um. But we're gonna go ahead 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:52.760 and hop into our vanilla ship for this episode. UM. 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:56.720 And it actually has to do with Alabama, and no, 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:58.680 it's not about the abortion law. It's about one of 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.280 their other trash ass law. So if you guys are 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:05.800 in Alabama, get y'all shipped together, go and write to 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:10.120 anyone in policy that you can, and also make sure 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.079 you vote when it comes time to vote, because y'all 0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:15.240 need to make some change. So this is about Alabama's 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:18.959 current sex ed law that actually harms l g B 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:24.480 t Q youth. Um. Tony Kristen Walker UM has seen 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:28.400 how Alabama's current sex ed law has harmed lgbt Q 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.520 as the prevention. As the prevention director for AIDS Alabama, 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:36.600 Kristen Walker has been allowed by four Birmingham City schools 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:41.040 to teach sex education courses. He's advised fourth graders to 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:44.320 alert an adult when someone inappropriately touches their private areas, 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:48.680 and middle schoolers the different forms of HIV prevention. But 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:52.600 when it comes to the lgbt Q community, the state's 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:57.560 decades old sex ad law requires instructors to state that 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:01.920 homosexuality is not a lifestyle acceptable to the general public 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:05.440 and that homosexual conduct is a criminal offense under the 0:11:05.440 --> 0:11:09.960 state's UM laws. As a gay man himself, Christin Walker 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.880 refuses to say those words. UM. If an lgbt Q 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:16.160 student asks him a question about sexual health, he just 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:21.160 redirects the conversation because it is harmon harmful. I'm sorry, UM. 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:25.280 To include lgbt Q youth and sex education conversations is 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:29.680 not only necessary, Walker said, but it's suicide prevention. Lgbt 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:33.559 Q youth are four times more likely to attempt suicide 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:36.840 than their peers. Why I know ship And according to 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:40.800 a two thousand seventeen climate survey conducted by the Gay, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:44.760 Lesbian and Straight Education Network. Six point seven percent of 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:49.120 lgbt Q students in Alabama received a sex ad course 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:52.199 mentioning their sexuality or gender identity. I want to give 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:55.199 a shout out to Randall wood Finn, who's the mayor 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:58.400 of Birmingham, Alabama. He's one of the only black mayors 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.760 they've ever had in the youngest mayor and like hundred years. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:03.319 I met him while we were doing the Do Say 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:06.400 Friday podcast Me and then and had you know, I'm 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:09.240 talking about the Oh that's where you were there. I'm 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:13.040 talking about Remember the dude though, remember so like this dude, Yeah, 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:14.880 Like it's really trying to make change there and ship 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:16.719 like that, but it's so hard. Like, you know, we 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:19.080 talked about getting people of our own office and ship 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:21.520 like that, but just one person ain't enough. Like you 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:25.120 really need to make sure that we're doing all that 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:28.800 we can in our own communities. Seriously, Like we can't 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:33.120 keep tweeting and being enraged. Like if you're there in 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.600 a city close by, in a state close by, like 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.440 do all that you can to alert your legislators and 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.839 let them know, Like this is fucking wild. LGBTQ people 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.240 that are having a higher suier side rate are generally 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.040 because they're growing up in a super religious households, be 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:49.080 being shunn from their homes and see unable to live 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:51.360 as they are because of ship like this. Yes, so 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.880 I think it's also very important now and we've talked 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:57.120 about it, um, from Our Lives show in d C 0:12:57.240 --> 0:12:59.760 to even talking on here about the importance of not 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:03.600 only sex head as it pertains to sex with others, 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:07.520 but also just masturbation. UM, the conversation of when you 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.000 should have that conversation with your child, and also not 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:13.800 shaming um what type of sexual orientation they decide to go, 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:16.199 and really letting them find themselves. I think all of 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:20.440 us know that. UM. We can't help who we love. 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:23.400 We can't help who we're attracted to. UM. I've tried 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:25.280 to stop liking these light skinned funk nis for a 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:29.680 long time, Okay, I've tried. UM, So just when it 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:31.560 comes like it does, start in the youth, and of 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.719 course just with social media and everything now, UM, bullying 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:38.720 and suicide rates are going up, and so UM again, 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.520 if you guys have any say, or you guys live 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.400 in the Alabama area and want to try to make 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:45.800 some change, I think this is definitely, um, something that 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:49.680 y'all should look into to you know, helping ship change, 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:51.920 because that's what we gotta do outside of them abortion laws. 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:53.600 But you know we're gonna talk about that another goddamn 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:57.760 tact um. So for this one, I'm really excited, guys. 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:02.320 The kink of the week for this goddamn episode UM 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:06.920 is stepped by a goddamn mother vegon cutty Um. Today's 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:12.840 kink of the week is erotic massage. He so, erotic 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.600 massage is the use of massage techniques by a person 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:29.600 on another person's orogen rat ridiculous orogenis zones who achieve 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:34.760 or enhance their sexual excitation or arousal to achieve orgasm. 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:38.000 Massages have been used for medical purposes for a very 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.880 long time, and they're used for erotic purposes. Also has 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:44.560 a long history. In the case of women, the two 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:49.000 focal areas are the breasts and the vagina. Wall of course, 0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:52.960 in the male case is the dick. Um. So there's 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:56.280 things called the pelvic massage, which we've talked about, um, 0:14:56.320 --> 0:15:00.280 And actually erotic massage has actually led to as well, UM, 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:06.560 the development of vibrators. Yeah, did you know that vibrators 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:09.560 were used, like they were saying, I mean initially like 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:12.200 for women, like the orgasm was relieving pains and different 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:13.880 stuff like that, which is why they brought them right 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:17.440 because they were doing like badginal massages anyway, And that's 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.960 actually where the laby A massage came from, which I 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:21.520 think I talked about Jeeves doing it on me and 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:24.240 I've done on scissors. But like it's so dope because 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:27.160 it's all this blood flow that we've never felt before. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.840 If you've never heard of the laby A massage, it's 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:33.120 one of the best erotic massages to give. So there's 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:35.520 no I mean, you can put your fingers inside the 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:39.200 pussy if you want to, but you basically use your 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:43.160 hands and the woman's outer laby a too massage for clip. 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:47.000 So when we're simulated by the clip, generally it's from 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:49.160 the front and we don't really get to feel the sides. 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:51.520 So when you take the two sides of her outer 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:54.120 lips and rub them up and down to where they're 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:55.880 rubbing the clip on its own, it's like a whole 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:58.840 another sensation and it's like fucking crazy. So look up 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:01.760 laby A massage on and hub or online and figure 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.040 out how you can give your partner one. I know 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:04.320 we talked about it before and a lot of you 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:06.240 guys wrote me and said it went well. But just 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:09.400 in case there's new listeners, laby a massage is the jam. 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:13.960 And and also what's crazy is that the genital massage 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:18.960 UM was actually introduced in Western medical tradition. So this 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:21.680 was something UM in which at one point you had 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.760 to go to a doctor um to achieve and this 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:29.160 helped UM. Actually it was a technique of general massage 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:32.360 that helped for the disease called womb disease UM to 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:36.920 bring the woman into hysterical paroxysm. The linga massage for men. 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.800 A lot of people, like modern society has seen it 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:43.560 um on Sex in the City, the episode Miranda Gets 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:46.240 came on. They go to this woman's apartment. She teaches 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:47.880 women how to give them her man a hand job 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:50.840 by doing the linga massage. If you watch it, I've 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:52.680 done it once. It kind of takes a long time, 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:54.400 but it was like he could have probably filled up 0:16:54.440 --> 0:17:00.280 a cup. So I guess what linga linga l angie 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:03.640 hand It's it's a hand shop, but you're using You're 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:05.919 like you're using both hands, you can use them flat. 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.920 It's like different focuses on. It's crazy. But yeah, every 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:11.199 single time I try to do anything except something that 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:15.280 he'd be like, no, stop playing on my staying with me. 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:17.359 So let me ask you has I mean and we'll 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:20.720 talk about, of course getting into the happy ending type massages, 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:25.280 but have you ever massaged a man that led to sex? Like? 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:30.320 Are you into massaging in the bedroom or always get 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:33.840 you let me exactly? They either say let me rub 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:35.840 your back on? They tell you to rub day back 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:38.320 And that's the last person I had sex with. That's 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:39.960 how we want them having sex. But I mean, this 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:43.880 is how you got got well yeah, did you really 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:47.640 get got? God? Though? No? Yeah, I just want to say, wait, 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:51.359 weald about the guy that we're talking about your mother bitch. 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:55.480 Oh wait, now we're gonna get there. We're gonna get there. No. 0:17:55.640 --> 0:18:01.000 But to me, it's crazy because I really enjoy getting 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:04.760 massage and I like I hate giving them. I'll be 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:07.480 telling them I'm work work all day, I'm tired, I'm 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:11.680 lazy too. I need to I don't ride. I don't 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:13.720 like I know I do it, But I'll just be 0:18:13.840 --> 0:18:16.040 like I told you. I'm really into like, but I 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:18.480 don't like a real one like I like to like 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:21.919 I love some massage chest male and female, and like 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:24.959 put my pussy right on them and like rub their 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.080 chests while they're looking at me. And then like sometimes 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:29.080 I'll flip over and like we rubbing their legs and 0:18:29.119 --> 0:18:33.040 my pussy in their face. And if I'm showing out, 0:18:33.119 --> 0:18:35.920 I'll do like only if I really like the guy, 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:37.159 like I have to really like you to give me 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.240 give you a massage, but I get into the whole, 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:41.320 like all rubbed the calves and stuff. But then I 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:42.720 just like to get up because then I'm by the 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:46.200 thighs and then I like spread their booty cheeks I 0:18:46.280 --> 0:18:50.159 do the girl. They'd be running, well you know, I 0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:52.000 just do it in the back for a little while 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:55.800 and then I'd be like I'll be having that. Yeah, No, seriously, 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:58.520 that's literally what goes on. It's hard to give like 0:18:58.560 --> 0:19:00.760 a good moratic erotic miss. I think we can make 0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:04.600 them fun is like touching everything, but like I be 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:07.320 gave right and increase, I can't. I don't funk with 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:10.840 people who are like that. They'll be like come on now, 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:18.200 Like I wanted to bring back though guys. UM. How 0:19:18.320 --> 0:19:22.359 the erotic massage led to the development of the vibrator. UM. 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:25.959 A solution was the invention of massage devices, which shortened 0:19:25.960 --> 0:19:29.040 the needed treatment from hours to minutes, removing the need 0:19:29.119 --> 0:19:33.399 for midwives and increasing a physicians treatment capacity. Already at 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:36.600 the turn of the century, hydrotherapy devices were available at 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:39.520 bath and by the mid nineteenth century they were popular 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:43.120 at many high profile bathing resorts across Europe and America. 0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:48.879 By eighteen seventy a clockwork driven vibrator was available for physicians, 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:52.800 and in eighteen seventy three the first electro mechanical vibrator 0:19:52.880 --> 0:19:55.680 was used at an asylum in France for the treatment 0:19:55.680 --> 0:19:58.320 of hysteria. UM. But basically, by the turn of the 0:19:58.320 --> 0:20:01.920 twentieth century, the spread of home electricity is what brought 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:05.280 vibrators into our home. UM. And I just go to 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:07.800 say that UM, because I want to shout out. I 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:09.119 want to shout out hold on. Let me get her 0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:11.840 name right. 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