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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. All right, let's go subject.

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Speaker 1: My sister can't have my girlfriend here Stephen Shirley, I

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Speaker 1: have some news to share with you, and I need

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Speaker 1: your input. I'm a thirty three year old woman and

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Speaker 1: I have a female friend that everyone thinks is just

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Speaker 1: It all started about four years ago when we both

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Speaker 1: were having issues in our love life and we started venting,

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Speaker 1: crying and holding each other. One thing led to another,

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Speaker 1: and it was on. I totally loved the experience and

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Speaker 1: wish I could be with her more, but we live

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Speaker 1: in different cities. We've managed to be discreet with everything,

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Speaker 1: so no one knows anything. She came to town two

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Speaker 1: weekends ago for my son's birthday party, and she spent

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Speaker 1: most of the time laughing and talking to my younger sister.

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Speaker 1: I was kind of mad, but I had to play

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Speaker 1: it off because I didn't want to cause a scene.

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Speaker 1: After the party, I told my girlfriend that I was

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Speaker 1: a bit jealous, and she said that it was nothing

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Speaker 1: my sister was interested. Well. After talking to my sister

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Speaker 1: and jokingly asking her what she and my girlfriend were

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Speaker 1: talking about, my sister considered it to be more than flirting,

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Speaker 1: and she is interested in my girlfriend. I was furious,

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Speaker 1: but there is nothing I can do. I didn't even

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Speaker 1: know my sister was interested in women, but she is.

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Speaker 1: So here's the problem. We are all scheduled to go

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Speaker 1: to Mexico for the fourth of July, and I am

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Speaker 1: dreading this trip because if the two of them get together,

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Speaker 1: I would die. Oh. Oh, I failed to mention that

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Speaker 1: all three of us are married dot dot dot two men.

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Speaker 1: What shall I read that line again? Oh? I failed

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Speaker 1: to mention that all three of us are married dot

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Speaker 1: two men. We've all been married at least five years.

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Speaker 1: My husband and my girlfriend's husband are clueless, and now

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Speaker 1: my sister is trying to cheat on her husband with

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Speaker 1: my girl. Can you help me sort this out? Should

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Speaker 1: I be jealous or not? Well, okay, I can try.

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Speaker 1: That's all I can do is try here, because this

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Speaker 1: is my job. I'm gonna try. Should you be jealous?

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Speaker 1: I would definitely say yes, you should be jealous because

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Speaker 1: it does sound like your sister's making her move and

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Speaker 1: called girlfriend. Sounds like she's entertaining your sister's advances. Well,

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Speaker 1: like she put it in the letter, she was just

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Speaker 1: trying to see if your sister was interested. Well, your

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Speaker 1: sister made a plane in the letter that she is interested. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty clear. The problem in this letter is all

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Speaker 1: these secrets, so many secrets. You and your sister have secrets,

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Speaker 1: You and your girlfriend have secrets. You have seecrets from

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Speaker 1: all of your husbands. All three of the girls have

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Speaker 1: secrets from all of their from all of your husbands.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how long these secrets are gonna last,

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Speaker 1: because if your sister and your girlfriend get together, your

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Speaker 1: jealousy is probably going to explode here because you're already

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Speaker 1: jealous just telling us about it. You're upset with your sister.

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Speaker 1: Your sister has a lot of nerve going after your girl,

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Speaker 1: but then because of the secrets, she didn't know it

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Speaker 1: was your girl. You three are gonna have to get

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Speaker 1: And this is crazy? Did I fail to mention that

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Speaker 1: this was crazy? Because all three of you guys are

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Speaker 1: married to men and you're cheating. You're cheating, all right,

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Speaker 1: This is cheating. I don't care if it's girl on girl,

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Speaker 1: it's still cheating. Okay, Because the three of you guys

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Speaker 1: very good job. I just know. I just know that

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Speaker 1: even gonna try to straighten this out. It's just, Sherla,

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Speaker 1: pushing up on your girl. Yeah, the lady who wrote

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Speaker 1: So what you mean she shouldn't be pushing up on Huh, Well,

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Speaker 1: she shouldn't. She shouldn't be pushing up on her she's Yeah,

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Speaker 1: of course she's married. You know that. I just you

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Speaker 1: know what, Sherla, I ain't even gonna you did a

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Speaker 1: good job. I ain't even gonna try to figure this out.

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Speaker 1: Everybody noticed, ain't none of my damn I'm laying. Everybody

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Speaker 1: know I don't know nothing about this. Everybody knows to

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Speaker 1: that's all you have to look at it. Lie. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's true. But when it's this, it's three women. That's

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Speaker 1: mard to three dudes. But three three women? Yeah, is

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Speaker 1: loving on each other? All about two? Yeah? Don't none

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Speaker 1: of y'all belong to each other? And all three of

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Speaker 1: y'all belong to somebody else? That church say, Man, don't

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Speaker 1: none of y'all three belong to each other? But all

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Speaker 1: three of y'all belong to someone else. M Well in

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Speaker 1: the words to do, I'm a single bill with a

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Speaker 1: song when we come back, you know, not the one.

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Speaker 1: I think you love it. But you can. Let me

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Speaker 1: just say this, Steve, you can handle it. I have

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Speaker 1: confidence in you. We're gonna we're gonna have heart. Two

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Speaker 1: of let's recap today's letter. My sister can't have my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Thirty three year old woman m H got this friend

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Speaker 1: of hers that they didn't hear from everybody that they

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Speaker 1: more than friends. They really love us. She loved it.

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Speaker 1: The way they'd be doing it together is for her.

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Speaker 1: Wish she could do it more, but they live in

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Speaker 1: separate cities. Got together have a weekend for her son's

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Speaker 1: talking to this woman's younger sister, her girl, her girl.

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Speaker 1: I was kind of mad, but I had to play

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Speaker 1: Then after the part, I told my girlfriend I was

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Speaker 1: my damn sister, jokingly asking for her and my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: was talking about my sister considered it more than flirting.

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Speaker 1: Now she interested in my girlfriend. I was mad as hell,

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Speaker 1: know my sister was interested in women. Well, I bet

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Speaker 1: she didn't know you was interested in women either, But

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Speaker 1: she is, whatso is you? So here's the problem. All

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Speaker 1: three of y'all is the problem. We are all scheduled

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Speaker 1: to go to Mexico for the fourth of July, whoa,

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Speaker 1: and I'm dreading this trip because the two of them

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Speaker 1: that all three of us is married to men, all

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Speaker 1: right now, so crazy though none of y'all I'm talking

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Speaker 1: each other, but all of y'all belonged to somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Y'all got husbands. Y'all tripping. So here's my solution for

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Speaker 1: all this. We got to stop some of this line.

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Speaker 1: I think all six of y'all are to put it

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Speaker 1: women are to go to all their husbands AND's go hey,

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Speaker 1: just so you know we all care about each other.

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Speaker 1: You might find out that it's more can in that

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Speaker 1: got stomach fault. Now you're running there with that news

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Speaker 1: if you want to, But you might get some news

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Speaker 1: in your damn own. Yeah, man, because I kind of

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Speaker 1: got a feeling that one of the men might know something.

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Speaker 1: I bet you one of them men would love to

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Speaker 1: know that y'all is interested in each other. I promise

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Speaker 1: you one of them me and want to know why

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Speaker 1: do you say that though? Because he gonna want to

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Speaker 1: get involved too. Yeah, I want to go to Mexico

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Speaker 1: my house. Yeah, where ain't going Mexico? What's the point?

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Speaker 1: Vote for July? I'm available? Yea three ever? Man, When

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Speaker 1: you're a time, y'all going to play golf? Harry out

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Speaker 1: for the cars closed? Only damn it? When is y'all

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Speaker 1: going to play golf? Don't y'all want to go get

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Speaker 1: some drinks? Get out of here to hurt him up? Girl,

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad that gone. What y'all want to do? Girl,

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Speaker 1: let's go get naked? Getting this swimming pool. Girl, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna shop. I thought they never leave. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why these men up in here all this time? Right here,

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Speaker 1: we could have been in this damn water. Wow, man, girl,

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Speaker 1: I missed you so much. Laugh. Oh god, oh I

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Speaker 1: see you just got your bottoms on all right? Oh

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Speaker 1: that's how we're gonna do this, all right? You just opinion?

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Speaker 1: How long you think they'll be playing golf? At least

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Speaker 1: five hours? Girl, I'm gonna be tired. I can five hours, man?

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Speaker 1: feel like them at me. I don't know why. Man,

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Speaker 1: He don't be doing nothing but you, girl, and just

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Speaker 1: You could just hold your head bad. Oh girl, you

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Speaker 1: edge of that's hot hot too. Can I ask you

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Speaker 1: a question? What what you need? Calling? How much tequila? Girl?

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Speaker 1: We didn't drank off all the govey they got him. Girl,

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Speaker 1: I don't drank so much tequila. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: Puerto Rican down girl, Puerto Rican were in Mexico. That's

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Speaker 1: how much to Key Louden, I don't know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I've been down here. Go get that big blue and

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Speaker 1: white tall bottle over that. They say, that's real good ignorant.

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