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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: So the morning I had to wait the morning hack.

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Speaker 1: Owning a dog can be expensive, particularly these breeds, the

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Speaker 1: most expensive dogs that take care of coming up. I

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Speaker 1: remember my dream last night. Patrick Schwarzenegger and Michael Jordan

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Speaker 1: were in my dream last night. Yes, and both of

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Speaker 1: them were in my dream. And I don't know why

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Speaker 1: Michael Jordan was in it. Well what were you guys doing?

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Speaker 1: You know, there was a lot of dialogue. Um. Patrick

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Speaker 1: Schwarzenegger made me feel inadequate, not intentionally, and Michael Jordan.

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Speaker 1: I kept asking him questions about things I thought. He like,

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Speaker 1: you know that game you played in that game? You

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Speaker 1: know that thing where you're like, oh, if you see

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Speaker 1: did that to Michael Jordan. He didn't know the person

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Speaker 1: go you go to the weather, you do anything else,

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Speaker 1: it's like topical. Yeah, I don't remember if I went

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Speaker 1: to the weather, might have gone to the traffic. But um,

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Speaker 1: I know why Patrick's works and aggers in my dreams.

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Speaker 1: You're watching that show. I finished that show, The Staircase.

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Speaker 1: you guys watching these days? Um? I'm into true is

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Speaker 1: it true Lies? Not True Lies? Is the movie Tell

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Speaker 1: now because I'm kind of tired when I when I started,

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Speaker 1: So I'm falling asleep, Tony, why did you almost swallow

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Speaker 1: and it is so did she tell us on her? Why?

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Speaker 1: Just what is it? Can I forget? It's about like

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Speaker 1: That reminds in college? But now I'm not gonna have

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Speaker 1: You know what's great about the watch List. We don't

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Speaker 1: then we tell or retell the same show you just

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Speaker 1: told us about Ozark, We've been thought about for five years.

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Speaker 1: I picked. I picked Tell Me Lies because I remember

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Speaker 1: pop quiz? Do you like seeing our listeners in real life?

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Speaker 1: the councilman, who represents the second district. Ukricorian is the

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Speaker 1: a separate whatever you can phone, actual phone, so you

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00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 1: guys can hash this out because I want to follow

422
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: up on this too, because I want to see if

423
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: he responds. But this canna take some work. But let's

424
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: let's work on the nuances. Tony. This is your assigned

425
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: to court here, all right? You gotta good luck, um, corney,

426
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: How you gonna pick up one second. Let's see what

427
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: you can figure out. Let's see what you can send,

428
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: and let's see if it happens on air with Ryan Seacrest.

429
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: It is Wednesday, should be Beyonce, Sean Paul, They're on

430
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: Kiss Seacrest about to pay some bills now Tomorrow. I'm

431
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: just gonna say it. We all know it. What is it?

432
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: Tanya Tomorrow is free? Guess Friday? Tomorrow's Thursday. I mean

433
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: she's been sick a week. Yeah, I just had cow,

434
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: but she's been like feeling well, you're calling down. That

435
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,959
Speaker 1: was so last week. That was last week, your cod

436
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: But like Tanya is actually like sick this week. Tomorrow

437
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 1: Tomorrow is what chubbs pay your bills all day. That's right,

438
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 1: he got it. He got it free. I just said

439
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: it's Wednesday, it should be. And then I said, what's

440
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: tomorrow free? Guys? Friday? Are we that not here? Sometimes

441
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: I just got my period. I just had what I

442
00:27:54,960 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 1: feel great, So I do get it. We all sometimes

443
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: in our own worlds, driving home, in our relationships, at

444
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: our jobs, sometimes you sink into an autopilot, and it's

445
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 1: not an autopilot. It's just that your thought is somewhere

446
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 1: else in that moment. Yeah, well you really caught my

447
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: half guard. Well, the song ended, we opened the mics

448
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: as we always do, and I thought maybe there was

449
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: a chance I wouldn't Maybe. No, you don't understand. I

450
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: don't know who turns on Tanya is mike usually, But

451
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: when you were gone last week and I was, I

452
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: was in your position, basically like righting the ship. Tanya

453
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: didn't turn on her mic every break and she started talking.

454
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: She would start talking to her Micael Do you normally

455
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: not turn your own microphone on? No, John Para does

456
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: it for me? Oh my gosh, because you don't even

457
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: turn your own microphone do it? No? I don't ask John,

458
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: because I have. I have turned my mic on at

459
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: thoms when I am not supposed to before it's gone over,

460
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 1: Like my voice has gone over songs and stuff, and

461
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: I'm like scared to touch it. Not over songs. It's

462
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: very simple. The rule of thumb is when song fades,

463
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: press on just before it goes to zero, right before

464
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 1: it's gone. It's like right on the tail in you can,

465
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: we'll we'll guide you along. Now we're gonna play a

466
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: fun game for jingle ball tickets presented by Capital One.

467
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: Are you all ready? Patty is? She's on the line

468
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: here at eight five, one two seven, Patty and Silver like,

469
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. How you doing? I'm doing good?

470
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: How are you? We are doing well? All right, We're

471
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: gonna play a fun game for your jingle Ball tickets

472
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: presented by Capital One. Are you ready? I am ready?

473
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 1: All right. Here's the way it's going to work. It's

474
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: called do you Know Me? It's from a board game,

475
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: but we've adapted it for the radio. Okay, okay, I

476
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: will ask you a simple yes or no question about

477
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: one of us on the show. You say yes or no,

478
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: and we will reveal if you're right or wrong. Okay,

479
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: You've got to get three right before you get three wrong,

480
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: and here we go. Is sianse uber rating over four

481
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: point six? Is sianse uber rating over four point six? Um?

482
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: Yes it is. It is congratulation, that is correct. I

483
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: have it up right here if you want proof the

484
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: four point eight five, which still kind of annoys me. Um.

485
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: I vote for new music for our games, but for

486
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: today we'll deal with this. Did Tania ever have braces?

487
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: Yes or no? No? I hadn't. Bus aligne so yeah,

488
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: I mean that's true. Braces Bline is not bracest Okay,

489
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: so yeah, she's right next for the wind. Have I

490
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: ever been stood up on a date in my life? Ever?

491
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: Have I ever been stood up on a date? You're right,

492
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: I know exactly who it was. Well, the one I'm

493
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: thinking of was a while back, but I know who

494
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: it was, and you know who it was too. But

495
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: it's nobody you're thinking of, because I don't think you

496
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: knew I went out with this person who you would know?

497
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: How do we know this said person? You would know

498
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 1: from television, movies, movies, but you did not know I

499
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: got stood up by them? Ever, I don't think were

500
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: you ever linked to said person? I don't know. I've

501
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: never looked it up. I don't know. I've never looked

502
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: it up. Anyway, You're going to jingle ball copper one Patty, Congratulations,

503
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: Thank you guys, all right, thanks for playing along. Thank you.

504
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: On this Wednesday morning, heat eyes in the mid eighties

505
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: ninety Inland, We're going to pay your bills again after

506
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: nine o'clock this morning. Also, Lena Dunham is about to

507
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: be on her new film Catherine called Birdie is Funny

508
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: it is. It is very funny. And any time they

509
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: used the word v I l E. Usually it's pretty funny, right,

510
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: you know that word that it's like, it's like, I

511
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: feel like the British use that word. Say it again,

512
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: v I L E. Yeah, I feel like British actors

513
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: or British comedians used that word generally in comedy. It's bizarre,

514
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: so you wouldn't think v I L E. So anyway,

515
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: but it's not. The film is not. It's actually very

516
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: funny and there's a lot of irony. And it's called

517
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: Catherine called Birdie and Lena Dunham. Isn't she tight with Taylor? Yes?

518
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: I don't think she's heard all of the Taylor swift

519
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: she has. I don't know if she has. Why not? What? Well,

520
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: how would you have any insight? I don't. This is

521
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: a total guest. Why would you say that? Because I'm

522
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: gonna go on a limb here. Lena Dunham and Jack

523
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,959
Speaker 1: anton Off used to date, and Taylor does a lot

524
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: of her music at Jack anton Off, So I don't know.

525
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: Maybe it like I don't know that seems like that

526
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: might be a reason that they would hear it, or

527
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: like wouldn't want to. Maybe why don't we just ask her? Yeah,

528
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: because that's just like married and seems like she's moved on. Yeah, well,

529
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna go right to the sorced him in a

530
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: few minutes, so let it be settled. I don't know

531
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: that I would, but I need to understand what it is.

532
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: So we were just in Vegas, seems like yesterday for

533
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: the i R Radio Music Festival. It does, And one

534
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: of the things that you could do when you go

535
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: to the next one is have brunch with your dead relatives,

536
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: do explain what's happening, sins. It's called Brunched by an Angel,

537
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: and it's this new show that you can do exactly

538
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: just that. It's going to debut at Chaos inside of

539
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: the Palmska, you know, next month, So beginning November twelve,

540
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: you can start booking these shows. I think they'll have

541
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: to a day throughout the weekends, two shows per day,

542
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: and it's spearheaded by three of the world's best psychic

543
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 1: mediums who will connect. Can you stop with your tea

544
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: like you're having you're having brunch. I'm having sandwiches and

545
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 1: tea this morning. That's what I do when we talk

546
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: about chaos. So it's gonna have the world's best psychic medium.

547
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: They're gonna connect with spirits in the audience. So the

548
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 1: audience is going to consist of anywhere from like two

549
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: d and fifty too, like maybe three hundred people. So

550
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: that's where it gets a little dicey for me, because like,

551
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 1: I don't know that i'd want to go there and

552
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: then have this sort of very emotional probably in front

553
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: of people, strangers, right in front of strangers. But I

554
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: would love to go and experience this and maybe not

555
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: have it happened to me and just see it happen

556
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: to other people. I'm at Magic Mike Live. I am group.

557
00:34:52,920 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm not I Katie by Jennifer Lopez. I mean I

558
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: am at Liane Richie right now. I don't know that

559
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: I want to see that. For me, I don't. I

560
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: have a hard time with it anyway. So doing it

561
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: as a thing in Las Vegas with strangers, people are

562
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: going to eat this up. Now. People are gonna love it.

563
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: It's gonna be by hit. I'm sure it'd be popular.

564
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,760
Speaker 1: But it's not for me. But a lot of people

565
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 1: maybe this is the closure that they need, Like maybe

566
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: they need closure with their relatives that are no longer here,

567
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 1: and this is their hope. They can go to this

568
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: brunch and maybe they can be able to speak to

569
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: their nano. And you know what, if you do it,

570
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: come meet us at the Jonas Brothers restaurant afterwards. We'll

571
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: see you there. Stewart Martha Stewarts got a restaurant exactly. Uh.

572
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: You know it's interestally because you do go to Vegas

573
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: and I don't gamble, So it is about restaurants and shows,

574
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: restaurants and things. So is it magic? Is it slay?

575
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: Is it like music? Like? What's your thing? So? What

576
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: is it sistening that you've never seen in Vegas? That's

577
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: on your list? I want to go to that big

578
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: ball at they're building to be a crazy experience that's

579
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: almost like a three sixty works, and they build spears

580
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: in other big cities. I'm for it wouldn't be great

581
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: to build it. If it works, If you get his

582
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: fear in l a or sphere in New York, in

583
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 1: Florida spears right well, to experience some sort of concert

584
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: in a sphere would be incredible because you get like

585
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: the show that you're watching in front, but then you're

586
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 1: gonna have. Have you seen any renderings of how it's

587
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: gonna work, because I'm not just the renderings that we

588
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 1: spoke about a few months ago when we brought it up,

589
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,240
Speaker 1: like it was just the ones that we saw online.

590
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: So no, Ben, I did see it when we flew

591
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: into Vegas. It's everywhere. I mean you can see it

592
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: from every vantage being built. But yet, what's on your

593
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: list you've never seen in Vegas you still want to see?

594
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: I mean that I've never seen something like this. I would.

595
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: I would go see this, like if somebody said like, hey,

596
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: let's go, I'd be down. I'm I'm I believe in

597
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: this stuff. I'm down to go do well, that's good.

598
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: You can cover that based any where? Would you be

599
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 1: probably Beatles Love. I feel like it's like I've never seen. Yes,

600
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: that is a must. Hmm, what's yours? I actually would

601
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 1: like to create a venue club experience. I like to

602
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: They don't really merge food with performance enough for me. Yeah,

603
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 1: they do a strip clubs and Delilah has a fun show.

604
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: You can get a steak and get a strip club. No,

605
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 1: I want like the dance remix of some great artist,

606
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: like more. Uh, huh paired with food right, be a

607
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: huge hit. Don't take my idea like our hometown hustler

608
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: from last week. Yeah taste, yeah, like I want to

609
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 1: playlist and performance together like a DJ. No. I want

610
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 1: to restaurant with a performance. But the food is matching

611
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: the rhythm of the performance, the tempo, the heat, It's

612
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: all sort of merged together. So I'll be working on this.

613
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 1: Are you real? For real? I'm available for Zooms, MGM

614
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 1: or Palm or lux Or or win or Resorts World

615
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 1: or Resorts World. I can send you a zoom link

616
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: if you want to hear more about my idea. He

617
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: cannot send you a zoom link. He doesn't know how

618
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: to do that. Toms can tomscan. Toms knows how to

619
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: do it. I just joined joint and leave, leave and leave. Leave.

620
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: Imagine shots shot shot shots of extra version of olive

621
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: oil for everybody know that I'm still on that olive

622
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: oil train and Mama is regular. You're welcome, Robbie, Yeah,

623
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: you're welcome, Robbie. Yeah right, you now you don't have

624
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: your irritable bow syndrome. No, well, knock on woods. So

625
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 1: far so good, right, well, so far, so good. You

626
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: could take an all of them as advertised, me an Tania,

627
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: as promised. Lena Dunham is here, Good morning, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the show. Morning. It's an honor and a pleasure. Do

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Speaker 1: you know, it has been too long, and I was

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Speaker 1: thinking about that. I haven't seen you in a really

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Speaker 1: long time and hearing your voice. I mean I obviously

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Speaker 1: hear your voice all the time because you're Ryan Seacreft,

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Speaker 1: but in dialogue with your voice is lovely. Well, thank you,

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Speaker 1: Lena Dunham. Do people call you who don't regularly, you know,

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Speaker 1: hang out with you? Do they call you by your

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Speaker 1: first and last name? Usually? That's an interesting question. I

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Speaker 1: do get a lot, I have to say, I get

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Speaker 1: a lot of friends being like like if I do

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Speaker 1: something not even like Lena Dune, I'm Lena done and

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Speaker 1: Lena Dunham. Because I don't think I've ever said your

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Speaker 1: name without it being one word. I means that. Do

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Speaker 1: people call you Ryan Seacrest, majority? The majority, even my

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Speaker 1: family calls me that. Now. I was thinking, stay here

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Speaker 1: in bed with a cup of coffee, trying to get

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Speaker 1: my voice to sound normal. How impressed? I am that

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Speaker 1: share yourself with the people you know, and every day

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Speaker 1: the alarm goes off. They tell me it's going to

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Speaker 1: feel like a good day. It doesn't for the first

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Speaker 1: ten minutes. The first fifteen are really rough, but then

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Speaker 1: we get into a sort of a rhythm here and

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Speaker 1: you know it sistan antonia. They are really good at

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Speaker 1: giving feedback to to me, to each other. Can we

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Speaker 1: talk about a lot of things? For example, a congratulations

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Speaker 1: is in order. Since we last spoke years ago, you

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Speaker 1: got married, you celebrated a one year anniversary. Congratulations, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much so, it's been very sweet a year.

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Speaker 1: I've never done it. Do you recommend it? I have

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Speaker 1: to say that yes I do. I mean, obviously it's

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Speaker 1: not a one size fits all thing. It's different for everyone.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're a person who just loves to, you know,

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Speaker 1: have a partner, but also feel like you can have

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Speaker 1: a certain kind of freedom that you feel like maybe

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Speaker 1: marriage doesn't afford you. Don't know, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: don't want to impose in life bob or psychology. But

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Speaker 1: what I really like about it, besides the fact that

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Speaker 1: I just really like my husband, it wouldn't work with

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Speaker 1: someone who wasn't him. Is that it really does feel

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Speaker 1: like that we're on a team together and that like

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Speaker 1: we're something together. And of course I know plenty of

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Speaker 1: people who aren't married to soel that way, and I

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Speaker 1: have plenty of people who are married to don't feel

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Speaker 1: that way. But that was the big thing in marriage

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Speaker 1: for me, was this feeling that like life is a

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Speaker 1: grand project that we're under taking as a team. You know,

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Speaker 1: you said to me the word. And my friends who

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Speaker 1: have successful marriages, great relationships, they always say to me

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Speaker 1: that the thing for them is that they like they

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Speaker 1: love them, of course, but they like their partner, they

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Speaker 1: like spending time, they like doing things together, they like

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Speaker 1: the person there with. That's I have to say that.

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Speaker 1: That is something that my parents always talked about. My

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Speaker 1: parents are going to celebrate their fortieth wedding anniversary this year.

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Speaker 1: They've been together for years, and they would always my

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Speaker 1: mom would always say to me, I love your dad,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes I don't love him, but also I like him.

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Speaker 1: She'd be like, I just like he is, and I

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Speaker 1: think the big things for me. I like him, I

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Speaker 1: trust him, and we have fun together and when we

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Speaker 1: don't have fun together. I always know that that's coming

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Speaker 1: again because those other two, well, you know what's fun.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you want to have a good time,

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Speaker 1: you need to get your Amazon Prime video streamable and

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Speaker 1: check out Catherine called Birdie. Now you want to laugh?

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Speaker 1: How do you do when when someone said, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: what is it? How do you say what it is?

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Speaker 1: Because it's unique. I'm so glad that you think it's fun,

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Speaker 1: because I think it's fun too. And what I say

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Speaker 1: is that it is uh period set, coming of age

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Speaker 1: comedy about a young woman fighting back against an arranged marriage.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes they go that sounds great, and sometimes they

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Speaker 1: go what the f? But either way they seem vaguely intrigued.

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Speaker 1: And so and the other thing I say is it's

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Speaker 1: a period piece about a girl getting her period, and

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Speaker 1: it's based on it. I mean, the novel is the

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Speaker 1: material that you started with here right, The novel is

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Speaker 1: that I started with is its children's literature. It is

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Speaker 1: a piece of children's literature from so I read it

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Speaker 1: I was ten, and it was my favorite book as

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Speaker 1: a kid. And then when I got to this weird

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Speaker 1: old town and people started talking about optioning things and

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Speaker 1: what book would you want to option? And and this

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Speaker 1: was what I said, And it was right at the

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Speaker 1: height of sort of like Hunger Games, um, Twilight, like

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Speaker 1: teen movies, were definitely feeling that they had to have

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Speaker 1: this really big hook, you know, whether it was teams

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Speaker 1: fighting to the death or your in love with the vampire,

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Speaker 1: and both those things are great, but this one didn't

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Speaker 1: necessarily have that, And so it took a while to

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Speaker 1: find people who trusted that this could be its own

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Speaker 1: kind of um, this could be its own kind of

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Speaker 1: team story. And I would lucky enough to find working

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Speaker 1: title in London and Amazon and I got to make it.

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Speaker 1: And it was such a joy to do. It really was.

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Speaker 1: Most us were had on a job. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to laugh? Catherine called Bertie. Check it out on Amazon

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Speaker 1: Prime Video. Now. The real reason you are here, I know,

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00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: is to give us a preview of Taylor swift new

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Speaker 1: album Midnights. What do you know? Literally literally I can't

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Speaker 1: even say a word about saying a word I would

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Speaker 1: never say. I mean, it's coming it's coming out Friday.

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Speaker 1: And here's what I'll say. My favorite thing about is that,

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Speaker 1: despite being her friend, I am a crazed fan just

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Speaker 1: like everyone else, and when an album comes out, like

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Speaker 1: I have the exact same response that like a fourteen

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Speaker 1: year old in Ohio would happen. I'm just saying like that,

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Speaker 1: just despite knowing and loving her for such a long time,

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Speaker 1: I just and and I'm sure that everyone will have

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Speaker 1: their mind flow because the thing about her is she

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Speaker 1: just gets better and better and better and better and better.

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Speaker 1: We don't know how she does it, but we thank her.

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Speaker 1: We do, we think we do. Thank you, Lena, really, honestly,

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00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: we are such big fans and I was really looking

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Speaker 1: forward to chatting with you and catching up with you today.

746
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: So thank you for coming on. It's a, as I

747
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: said before, an honor and a pleasure. You are a

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Speaker 1: national treasure, right Lena Dunham. She could put words together.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, she could discover us. She could please watch out.

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Speaker 1: We could have a big break right here. Say you

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Speaker 1: don't know, this could be the first day of the

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Speaker 1: rest of your life. Thank you. We'll enjoy your morning.

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Speaker 1: Lena Dunham. You thank you for coming on. We'll see

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Speaker 1: you soon, I hope in person. Thank you all for

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Speaker 1: having me. Bye bye. Truly one of the greats to me,

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Speaker 1: one of the great to right, like if her name

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Speaker 1: is on something, you know what. There's people where you

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Speaker 1: have their name is dont even know the title, but

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Speaker 1: their name is on You know it's going to be good.

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Speaker 1: You know it's going to be good. Who else is

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Speaker 1: like that for me? Oh, A lot of people. Jennifer Anderson,

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Speaker 1: Julie Robert, George Clooney. I want to see that movie? Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm Brian Cranston. Oh, Shawna rhymes yes, uh, Ryan Murphy.

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Speaker 1: Who's in the staircase? Patrick Schwarzenegger, Nope, the female lead

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Speaker 1: Patrick Tony Collets in it. It's great. But we have said,

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Speaker 1: you know, on hump Day Wednesday, send us any sort

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Speaker 1: of relationship questions you may have. We're gonna have intimacy

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Speaker 1: coaches on. We're gonna have dating coaches on, one of

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Speaker 1: which is here. Name is Paula Grooms. She is this

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Speaker 1: week's hump Day help her. Paul is a dating and

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Speaker 1: relationship coach, a licensed social worker, and author of the

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Speaker 1: book Why Won't He Commit? Paula? We you keep moving about, Tanya.

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Speaker 1: It's an interesting title for you for me, Paula, good morning,

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Speaker 1: How are you hi? Good? How are you feeling? We're

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Speaker 1: feeling good. We're post COVID. I just got covered for

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00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: the first time a week ago, but I am out

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Speaker 1: of it. I'm feeling so thank you for asking, Hey, paul, I,

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Speaker 1: just what is the answer to that question? Why won't

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00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: he commit? Oh my gosh, it's because, uh well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's a loaded question, but it is multi factorial and

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00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: it's when a woman really doesn't guide the man to it. Uh,

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00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: not by talking, not by telling him, but by action

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00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 1: and by making him wonder. He will not really, yeah,

784
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: making him wonder. Can you elaborate on that? And actions?

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00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: Elaborate on that? Okay? Um. It's one of my fundamentals

786
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:48,439
Speaker 1: in my book that women love through knowing. Men love

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00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 1: through wondering. And this is a very different way of loving,

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00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: and it creates the problems that we have because women

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00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: tend to relate to men via the way they want

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00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: to be related to, which is knowing, knowing knowing, and

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00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: men love to wondering, meaning we don't want to know

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00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: you you you want to be wondering about her. You know.

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00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: The easiest way I can um relate it to you

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00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 1: is like if you if you love puppies, you look

795
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 1: into its eyes, and you kind of wonder what is it?

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00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: Thinking what is it? You know, what does it? Know?

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00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 1: What is it? And it actually creates a feeling of

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00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: of love, if that makes sense. It's walking out in

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00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: nature wondering about nature. We love it. It's that little

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00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: bit of not knowing that makes it intriguing. All right,

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00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: now this is our current hump they helper dating coach

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Speaker 1: Polychrome's Now we've got some text questions coming in right now.

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Speaker 1: This is from the seven one four. Mm hmm. Should

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00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: it be a deal breaker if my boyfriend will not

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00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: allow me to tag him on Facebook, knowing I'm habitual

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00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: on Facebook and I post all the time. He also

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00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: won't say he's in a relationship on his Facebook page

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00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: and he's hidden all his friends. What does it mean? Mm? Okay,

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00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: First things first, I'm going to say this across the board, ladies.

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00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: If he's not a fiancee or husband, he's not to

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Speaker 1: be on your social media. Wow. Yeah, I do not

812
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:33,280
Speaker 1: recommend he'd be a friend or a follower, etcetera. Again,

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00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: it's lessening to wonder. But if he's there already, like

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00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: with this woman, he's not to be tagged, talked about,

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00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 1: shared photos with not a nothing. Wow, let me here's another.

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00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: It's from Hazel. Hazel just texting in a four one

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Speaker 1: or two seven coach PAULA. I went on a first

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Speaker 1: date with the guy and it was okay, but there

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00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 1: weren't any sparks. If he asked me how to and

820
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 1: I think I would give it another shot. My question

821
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: is do I text him thanking him for the day.

822
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: Part of me feels like I'd be leading him on.

823
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 1: But if I did that, would it be leading him on?

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00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: But then another part of me feels like maybe he's

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00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: waiting for me to text. What would you suggest I

826
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: get this kind of question a lot, Ryan. I mean,

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00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: you can thank a man in person for dinner or

828
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 1: whatever the date is. You don't have to reach out

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00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 1: in text if he's interested, and he was, or he

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00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't have asked you out, even if it's from online.

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Speaker 1: If he liked you enough on the date, he will

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00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: reach out again. What I'm hearing from this lady is

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00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 1: a few things. Even though there weren't any sparks. As

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Speaker 1: she put it, she wants to make sure she didn't

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00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: do something wrong. This means that she has fear and

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Speaker 1: anxiety and likely people pleasing tendencies that dating triggers, or

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Speaker 1: lack of abundance. She feels there's not going to be

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Speaker 1: enough guys or is there only opportunity. It's likely she

839
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: doesn't feel worthy. She is a low self concept around

840
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: men in relationships, and if we were working together, we'd

841
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: be addressing this because it's going to come across to

842
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: men that she has low self esteem, which is a

843
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 1: buzz killer. Two guys who want more than just sex,

844
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Speaker 1: I think, and you can you tell me quickly? We

845
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 1: have to wrap up? You tell me. I actually like

846
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: the text after I've dropped someone off on the way home.

847
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: I had a great night, you have a good evening,

848
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: thinking that to be the first to text after something

849
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Speaker 1: like is that too much you as the man? No,

850
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Speaker 1: here's the deal. It's that you know you're probably doing that, Ryan,

851
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm guessing because you're a nice guy. For what I

852
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Speaker 1: can say is that whether or not you're going to

853
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 1: follow up with her, you do that to be you gout.

854
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 1: Is that true? I don't know. I probably do it

855
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: because I'm waiting for her to respond to that on

856
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: my way home right like, I'm still into it. It's

857
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: a game, okay, whatever however, you're so you're into it

858
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: then because men are right on top of time, meaning

859
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: she's right there right now, and you may go off

860
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,280
Speaker 1: in a day or two and not think about it again.

861
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: It just gets it gets you think so many questions.

862
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: I listen. I want to tell you, if you want

863
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 1: to hear more of her advice, you can go to

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00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: make Him Wonder. The I Heart Radio podcast with dating

865
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: coach Paulo Grims. Thank you for coming on, Paula, great

866
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: to talk to you, and thank you bye bye. I

867
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:39,760
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm if I can get coached. It's harsh.

868
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm feeling for Hazel. Hazel, please come back so good.

869
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 1: When she said the dog analogy, I was like, oh

870
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,919
Speaker 1: my gosh, it really hit me because it's like so true.

871
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: You have no idea what your dogs thinking, and you

872
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: look him in the eye and you're like, I love

873
00:53:54,520 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: you so freaking much and you say nothing to me again.

874
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 1: I hope you come back. And now it's time for

875
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: training report. They were gonna go fifty minutes of NonStop music,

876
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: so we were talking about the longest you've ever been

877
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 1: without having sex, correct and not like your pre virginity years. Obviously, Hey,

878
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're trying to be like smart

879
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: with me. I just want to be specific. Clarity is

880
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: important to communication. So why did this come up? So

881
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: this convo started on an episode of The Drew Barrymore

882
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: Show when she was kind of giving her opinion on

883
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: Andrew Garfield. So he basically was talking about how he

884
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 1: abstained from sex for six months while he was preparing

885
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: for this really big movie role that he had, and

886
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 1: her response was, what's wrong with me? That six months

887
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like a very long time. So people kind

888
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:53,240
Speaker 1: of took that and started claiming, like, Drew Barrymore hates sex,

889
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: and YadA, YadA, YadA. So she penned this essay to

890
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: kind of clear things up. It was really lengthy, so

891
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna summarize it for you, but she said, basically,

892
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: at the age of forty eight, she has different feelings

893
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: about intimacy than she did when she was younger. She

894
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 1: said that she hasn't had an intimate relationship since becoming

895
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: a single parent, which is roughly six years ago, and

896
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 1: her priority is raising her daughters and teaching them to

897
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 1: be appropriate and empowered and to love themselves, and to

898
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: me however you choose to live your life is up

899
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 1: to you. But I think that sex is often glorified

900
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 1: in a way that it isn't always the case for

901
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 1: every woman, do you know what I mean? Like there's

902
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: there's always this um everybody's always like pushing you to

903
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: have fun and like when you're young and single, like

904
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: do it up and have all the sex. And I

905
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 1: think that it doesn't work. Who are these people pushing

906
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: you to do all that? That's kind of like I

907
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: think just as a society, like that's just my mentality

908
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: in my twenties, but that's just the kind of the

909
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:51,760
Speaker 1: narrative that's out there, like yeah, like sleep with whoever

910
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: you want. And I think that that's not the case

911
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: for every woman. And I think for me, um non

912
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: committed intimacy was leading me down like a path of

913
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 1: like really it was sad ad and I felt unsafe

914
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: and it was really doing me more harm. But I

915
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: thought that that's what I should be doing. And I

916
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: think that the more people come out and talk about

917
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 1: this kind of stuff, like Drew barrymore like I plaued her.

918
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: She said she's not had an intimate relationship in six years.

919
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: I was kind of in that same boat. I was

920
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: going years and years and years, and I was the

921
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:20,720
Speaker 1: happiest I've ever been because I wasn't like putting myself

922
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: in this perpetual pattern of pain. Well, someone someone had

923
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 1: some time to think about I did. I was reading.

924
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: I was reading to Barrymore's essence. I felt really connected

925
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: to her in this because I just love that she's

926
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 1: sharing that, because I think it's a narrative that not

927
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: a lot of people share versus the other one. But

928
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 1: that's your experience with that. Like for some like I

929
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,959
Speaker 1: never felt that way in those years that I was free,

930
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 1: you know, like I never felt pain or I was

931
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: scared or any of that stuff. Like for me, it

932
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: was exciting and fun and like adventurous you were you

933
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,399
Speaker 1: were going for Yeah, And it actually makes sense though

934
00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 1: because you got it quote out of your system, as

935
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: they said, because now you're married, then you've been married

936
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Speaker 1: for a long time, so actually was your there, so

937
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: like I never had those feelings per se trying to

938
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 1: think like back, you know, it's it's different when you

939
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: try and like think back to your twenties, like the

940
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: way look one looks at it or I look at

941
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: it now It's different though I did when I was

942
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: in my twenties. I think in my twenties I just

943
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: was like happy to go on dates. Like you wanted

944
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 1: to go out and you wanted to have somebody that

945
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: you hung out with, and it didn't matter if it

946
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: was sex or not. It was just like somebody that

947
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: you can hang out with, you romantic, but not not

948
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:40,919
Speaker 1: just as friends like you know, make out with even Wait,

949
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: so do you guys want answer the question? How long

950
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: is the longest weepen? Can we finish a thought? Let

951
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: him get you? Was about to get deep and then

952
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 1: I got caught off by my therapist. That's it. That's

953
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: all I got. So what's the question? I always going

954
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: to go so deep right there? You know? I was

955
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: really you were going to like close in and play

956
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: a song? Could that the back? Wow? He made me

957
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 1: feel so comfortable. Almost almost had a breakthrough, but I forgotten.

958
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,439
Speaker 1: Now what was the question? What's the longest you've gone

959
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: without having sex? I don't know. Do you know me

960
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: well before? Michael, I'm sure there was like months of

961
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: six When you said six months, I thought that didn't

962
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: seem so long myself. Yeah, there's maybe like pockets of that.

963
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: But I know for a fact when I was pregnant

964
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 1: with the twins, Michael went on a bachelor party in

965
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 1: January to Cabo. And this was like the height of Zeka,

966
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: I know, and and I was. I mean before COVID

967
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: there was Zeka exactly, and before Zeka there was Zema.

968
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: Well I don't know what Zema was, so yes, Zema.

969
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: I forgot about this. Uh so, so he when he

970
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: went to Cabo, I was like, if you go to Cabo,

971
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 1: that's it, like we're not being intimate and till these

972
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: babies come because I don't want to risk you know.

973
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 1: Of course I actually remember all this. Yeah, so that

974
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: was and so this was January and they were born

975
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: May second. So that was the longest at least in

976
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: our married life that we've thought, right, But that's recent times,

977
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 1: I think. I think in my twenties with six months

978
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: did not seem like a long time to me. But ma'am, wow, tubs,

979
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, never did I feel that comfortable

980
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: to share my deep feelings. But then I was. I

981
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: was just I was exited off the freeway. Well, let's

982
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: have Drew bear more on and she can maybe like

983
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: get it more out of you, just a thought host

984
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: to host. Okay whatever, I don't know that can get

985
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 1: that comfortable that fast again? But o ky good? Take

986
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:45,800
Speaker 1: shoes off. Uh, these are like a nightmare to take.

987
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: Oh God, are you going by this place? Is it

988
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 1: of judgment It is the so Fi stadium of Judgment Day.

989
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: It's just unexpect did I was not expecting that. It's

990
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 1: not expecting expecting to literally open up role to my

991
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:10,120
Speaker 1: therapist and then all of a sudden, I'll take the

992
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: one on one all right, maybe a tennis you absord

993
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: the boots boots on the ground. Talk about boots on

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01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: the ground. My feet don't reach the ground. They hang

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01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 1: boots hanging from my stool. Air with Ryan Seacrest. Alright, guys,

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