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Speaker 1: Radio radio Radio Commies, a Myth and Bullshit radio phonic

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Speaker 1: novella Local Radio hosted by Malamo. Allow allow welcome back

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Speaker 1: to look at our radio. Welcome back, Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: Brown Girl Our this is Diosa and this is my land.

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Speaker 1: We are Last Local, Yes, we are last Mammies of

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Speaker 1: myth and Bullshit. Local Radio is a podcast archiving the brilliance,

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Speaker 1: geniuses and legacies of women and fans of color. Yes

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Speaker 1: we are, Yes we are, Yes we are, and this

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Speaker 1: is Capital Sinko. Yes, we just keep rolling along. I

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Speaker 1: am so excited, and I mean this is a significant

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Speaker 1: episode because you know, we just recently celebrated our twenty

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Speaker 1: four episode, meaning we celebrated our one year anniversary. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it has been an amazing, amazing few weeks since we

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Speaker 1: last recorded, since we last recorded with La Loba, which

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Speaker 1: was amazing, um, and since then, we have had so

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Speaker 1: many things happened that we would just want to update

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Speaker 1: y'all on. We've been really busy. We've been so busy

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Speaker 1: trying to catch our breath. Um, but we're so blessed,

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Speaker 1: so excited. So first things first, we had the release

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Speaker 1: of our we are Meet through a video. Oh my God.

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Speaker 1: First of all, it was really difficult for us to

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Speaker 1: sit on this information and not leak the secret that

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Speaker 1: we had this video, especially for my lack, because it's

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Speaker 1: hard for me to keep a secret and I forget

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Speaker 1: what things are secret and what things I'm not supposed

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Speaker 1: to talk abounstantly have to remind her like, Mala, please

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Speaker 1: do not share this. It's a secret secret. Um. But

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Speaker 1: you know, we actually filmed this back in April and

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Speaker 1: my hair was still purple, so it was it's been

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Speaker 1: a while. We've been through a couple of changes since then.

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Speaker 1: I agree. Changes Actually if you change it is partner

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Speaker 1: changes changes, all kinds of ship, mood changes, all of

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Speaker 1: that attitude changes exactly. Um, so super super excited that

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Speaker 1: we finally got to share that with all y'all. And

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Speaker 1: of course shout out to Jasmine Dematos from where me

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Speaker 1: through for approaching us, for creating something so beautiful with us,

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Speaker 1: and then for the for the camera person, the videographer

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Speaker 1: Ernie Ernie, Yeah yeah, shout out to him as well.

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Speaker 1: Thank you to that little team, and then of course

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Speaker 1: to a spassion maybe that for allowing us to film there,

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Speaker 1: to film to record as always like this is really

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Speaker 1: our podcast look at our Radio is really a community effort.

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Speaker 1: We've had so many people help us and just all

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Speaker 1: like just people like who are friends, who do community

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Speaker 1: work just like and who really like are not asking

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Speaker 1: our undying gratitude and you know, like we try and

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Speaker 1: and make sure that we're developing these relationships in our communities.

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Speaker 1: And that's the only reason why we're to do what

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Speaker 1: we do. Absolutely um And you know, I was super nervous.

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Speaker 1: I was sharing with Mama. I was super nervous a

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Speaker 1: few days prior to the meet Through video to be

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Speaker 1: First of all, meet Through like they create some you

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Speaker 1: marginalized communities within the latin X community, within the Latino community.

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Speaker 1: But any time there's anything that says latin X anything,

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Speaker 1: having a conversation with there are two Jasmines at me

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Speaker 1: Absolutely no, um, but I think for the most part,

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Speaker 1: else did he say, keep officiality, that we were promoting

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Speaker 1: to out officialism, superficialism. Yeah, I just pulled up the comment.

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Speaker 1: read the comment. Well, the comment was just promoting superficialism

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Speaker 1: and binality. First of all, sir, you are not our

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Speaker 1: we're very explicit in that we don't give a ship

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Speaker 1: about your Secondly, superficialism is not a word, professor. Let

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Speaker 1: let's talk about being superficial, you know, let's talk about vocabulary.

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Speaker 1: And third, like, you don't have any more important things

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Speaker 1: So that was funny. Shout out to you, sir. And

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Speaker 1: also like there weren't like even though we're very firm presenting,

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Speaker 1: apparently you can't be smart and also wear makeup, which

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Speaker 1: is we know that that is a thing that people say.

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Speaker 1: And then then we did a twenty four hour turn

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Speaker 1: around two Noma. We had a busy wheat. We had

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Speaker 1: We're Latin, yes, who have their own group Max. It's

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Speaker 1: gives a funk about the trauma that this woman went through,

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00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: this young college student went through, right, And I think

427
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: part of what's so powerful about this song is like

428
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: she killed him, the idea of his future is no

429
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: longer in question. We're not going to focus on his

430
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 1: fucking future. Gives a ship. It's not even in the

431
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 1: picture anymore. It's not not even in question. So for me,

432
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: that's what also makes this a really great like survivor

433
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: narrative and revenge narrative, is we're not centering his future,

434
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: which is what we always do in cases of violence

435
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: against women. Right, So we're gonna center her, We're gonna

436
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: send she's centering herself, right. So now what happens to

437
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: me exactly exactly now that she's taken her safety into

438
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: her own hands. So that's that escapism, right when you

439
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 1: don't get justice in real life, we're going to turn

440
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: it into art and we're gonna express it those desires

441
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: through music film. So that's our first song song. Yeah.

442
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 1: So I think for our next song, we're just gonna

443
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,719
Speaker 1: play like a little bit of a portion of it. Um.

444
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: And this one is Bust Your Windows by Jasmine Sullivan

445
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: by Jazmine Sullivan. And this is a genre of like

446
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: revenge music that I love, which is all about destroying

447
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: his property, buck his ship up. There's a lot of

448
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: music about destroying homeboys car, destroying his shoes, destroying his

449
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: his you know, material possessions. So here it is Jasmine

450
00:25:47,160 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 1: Sullivan Bust your Windows and and and and and and

451
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: and and and um um um um um um um

452
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: um um um um um um of it and little ship. Hello.

453
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 1: So that is such a good song. That is such

454
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: a good song. Effing love that. Yeah, but that's great song.

455
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: So that is just like revenge from when you when

456
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 1: you catch your man cheating on you, Yep, what do

457
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: you do? You bust the windows to his car? Yep.

458
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: And again I think that this is so great because

459
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: I think in real life even like me, I love

460
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: even just the idea of like when a man cheats

461
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: on you, your partner cheats on you. I think, especially

462
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: when it happens more than once, when it becomes like

463
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: serial cheating, that's just so emotionally abusive, it really is.

464
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: And especially when you are having sex with that person

465
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: and now they're having sex with these other people and

466
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: you're not clued in, you know, I think that that's

467
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: really abusive. Um. So for me, it's like, I think

468
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: oftentimes men value their belongings more than they value the

469
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: women in their lives, and I think it's great to

470
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: flip that and say, your belongings don't mean ship. I'm

471
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: going to ruin them, and I hope that you feel devastated,

472
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And she's just like, don't don't play

473
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: with my feelings. Why are you doing this right, etcetera, etcetera.

474
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: You're not going to get away with it. And I love,

475
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: like even just thinking about it. Key his car slashes tires,

476
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: you know. Of course, acting on those things is one thing,

477
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 1: and I'm not like encouraging anybody to go out and

478
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,880
Speaker 1: destroy property and catch a chart all that. I don't

479
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: do that, but as far as escapism and thinking about it,

480
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: singing about it exactly, art about it. I think it's great. Yeah, no,

481
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: I agree with you. And I think that's something like

482
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: maybe we can relate to as women when we're dating,

483
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,640
Speaker 1: right and something goes wrong. We like, we play these

484
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: songs for a reason. This is our escapism. This is

485
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: just like, well, let me imagine that I'm going to

486
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: suck your ship up as my revenge, right even though

487
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: I may not maybe I'm not going to actually I

488
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: may not actually do it, but let me let me

489
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: fantasize about it exactly. And there's like, um, so there's

490
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 1: this song right, but bus your windows at your car.

491
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: We were also debating about playing Carrie Underwood. We could

492
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: invert ourselves to do I Underwood. Yeah, now that's a

493
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: good one. She liked that. In that song, she's talking

494
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: about like how he's on this date right, and she

495
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: like knows everything that's going on. So before he cheats,

496
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: fucking before he even leaves the bar key is car,

497
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: break his window, take a Louisville slugger to both headlights.

498
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: In my dreams, I feel like I one day, one

499
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: day I hope to destroy a man's property. I just

500
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: want to know how it feels. You know, it just

501
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: seems like it's like a really great feeling, like a

502
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: great release. That would actually be a really fun like

503
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: if I were to create a theme park and we

504
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: would have rides and like simulations, you could like simulate

505
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: destroying your ex boyfriend's truck. That could be like its

506
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: own attraction. That really could be fun. That would be fun.

507
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: I can imagine that if, like when you're angry, like

508
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: it feels, it would feel really good to like hit someting,

509
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: like like you know what I mean, some class Obviously,

510
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: I don't me hit somebody. Don't ever do that? I mean,

511
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: like hit something thing a thing? Yeah, and then I

512
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: love also like, um, didn't didn't Lisa left Ie notoriously

513
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: like when her man cheated on her, like set all

514
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,479
Speaker 1: of his shoes on fire in a bathtub and then

515
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: set his mention on fire. I think that happened that

516
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: I was fun Lisa left I from I think she did.

517
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: Did you know what I'm seeing? This happens in real life?

518
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm thinking about? Two? Do you remember

519
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: in that movie waiting to Exhale and at the classet?

520
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: That is the best scene when she scribed he sets

521
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: all his ship on fire. He is cheating with the

522
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: white woman. First of all, wow, and why would you

523
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: cheat on Angela Bassett? What I know? I know? A

524
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: second of all, where's your head? In the film, she

525
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: takes all his ship, all his clothes, from his closet,

526
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: from their closet, his nice walk, it's really nice walking closet.

527
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: Puts it in like his Porsche or some sports cars

528
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: that should ablaze. Beautiful scene. It's a great scene. Iconic

529
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: fucking scene. I love that scene. You guys have seen it?

530
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: Are you seen photos of it? Are you've seen the gift?

531
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:56,239
Speaker 1: You see the gift. We're being tweeted at. Shout out

532
00:30:56,320 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: a real quick shout out to Elia Ernandez at Gobnon governor.

533
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: Now this is on Twitter on Twitter. I can't I

534
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: can't really make up her handle. But Elia Ernande, she

535
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: was just here at this pasto and she was like

536
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: waving at oh my god, and we're trying to figure

537
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: out why. But you know, it was a localmon. But

538
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: she just tweeted at us saying sorry for friend girly.

539
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: Hey mama, hey girl. If we were recording, we would

540
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: have said high to you. I know where we were

541
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: already on the air. We're in the middle of something

542
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: right now. So yeah, so that's an iconic scene, Angela Bassett,

543
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: I mean, these songs are iconic. There's also that movie,

544
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: Um there's a Grindhouse and freaking Rosario Dawson is in it.

545
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: That that stunt woman Zoe Zoe Bell who's Australian, and

546
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: a couple other actresses are in this film, right that

547
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: Quentin Tarantino made, and like at the end, it's really

548
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: great because there's this creepy guy who's like following them

549
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: and terrorizing them, and these girls are like working on

550
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: a movie and at the end they finally like get

551
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: the best of him and they kiss it up and

552
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: they beat him like with a metal pipe and they

553
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: kill him on the side of the road, and it's fabulous.

554
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: I started having I was shared with Mala like a

555
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: few months ago, like I think when I started maybe

556
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: around the time I started seeing my therapist and she

557
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: shared to me that she like does dream analysis, that

558
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: I started having these revenge dreams where men in my

559
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: like well not men in my life, but men in

560
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: my dreams that I had never seen before, at least

561
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: not consciously, or that I'm aware of they would like

562
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: be harassing me in my dreams, but instead of like

563
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: you know, maybe I just ignoring it or walking away,

564
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: I would actually fight back. So I was having these

565
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: revenge dreams where I would be like yelling, like loudly

566
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: yelling at these men saying like leave me alone, or

567
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 1: I would physically be like fighting back. Amazing, right, So

568
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: I started having like all these different dreams about like

569
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: you know, some fem revenge, fem revenge and giving them

570
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: what they deserve exactly, And I think that's so much

571
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: of it is, like I want to imagine what it

572
00:32:57,520 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: would really be like to give you what you deserve

573
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: for harming me and making me uncomfortable. As a self

574
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: defense instructor, I love that ship. I want a world

575
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: where we can fight back, We're empowered to fight back,

576
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 1: We're not going to be punished for it. I want

577
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: to be able to have music and movies and images

578
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: where I can feel that taking our power back, you know. Absolutely.

579
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: A few like months ago, someone that I like was

580
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: like appalled because somebody that the person, the man that's

581
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: actually assaulted me send me a friend request. And I

582
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: was just like sitting in my car on Facebook. I

583
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: see this request and I like fucking stopped me in

584
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: my tracks and I was like, what the funck? It

585
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: was terrible, It was terrible, and I had no idea

586
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: what to do. And of course, I mean obviously I

587
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: just deleted it and didn't really know what to do

588
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: with myself. But it was awful. So it's like again

589
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: like taking your power back, right, So what do you

590
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: do in those moments where it's like this person is

591
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: all the way in Peru, like I'm probably never going

592
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: to see them ever again, but here they are finding

593
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: maybe a social media wow, right, it's a social media

594
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: eliminates distant It really does. It really does. So in

595
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: moments like those, take care of yourself. Take care of yourself, yes,

596
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,919
Speaker 1: and if you need to engage, like in that type

597
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 1: of escapism and you need to imagine what it would

598
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: be like to exact your revenge exactly like Riana. Just

599
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 1: listen to from Jasmine sul events and just some Beyonce. Yes,

600
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: let's do it. So we have one more song, well,

601
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 1: we have a few more song we have, but this

602
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: one we especially wanted to bring because it's a different

603
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,919
Speaker 1: type of revenge and we also just saw et queen.

604
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: She is my queen. That she killed it. I was everything.

605
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, this isn't The Evie Queen concert

606
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 1: was so like maybe twenty thirty minutes and I was

607
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: like God, I was like, hold on, she killed it too.

608
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: She killed it, and you know what I loved because

609
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: obviously she was a long beach. She knew her audience,

610
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 1: so she did like a ten second rendition of by Selena.

611
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,720
Speaker 1: She did she because she knows, she knows her audience.

612
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: She even played Snoop Dog because she was an LBC.

613
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 1: She fucking knows. It was really fun and the whole

614
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: time she was all of the whole time consistently, it

615
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: was loved. You know, we live for that ship, Yeah,

616
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 1: we live for that. Yeah. So we wanted to bring

617
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: this song by her because, like we said, it's it's

618
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 1: a different form of revenge and it's called Lavida Sassy

619
00:35:28,520 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 1: by Evie Queen. I hope you enjoy it, m it

620
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: and ship. Yes, Queen. I love that song because basically

621
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: she's saying, like she finds out that her man is

622
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,959
Speaker 1: like cheating on her with somebody else, but she's singing

623
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: to the girl and she's like novale. It's not thank

624
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 1: you for setting me free. I'm gonna go off with

625
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 1: this better man. I love it. So it's a different

626
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: type of revenge, right when when the man when he

627
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,399
Speaker 1: stays with the other woman, Right, I hope you get

628
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: what you were looking for, sweetie Pie, honey bunch. Sometimes

629
00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: that is the best revenge. She's not walking away from

630
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: the situation, walking away, walking away feeling better. The glow

631
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 1: up happens, your life turned around. I can speak from experience.

632
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: Finally walking away, finally, finally things ending and like wow,

633
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: you know, MoMA and I were talking about the other day,

634
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 1: like how was shit? However, the podcast has been looking amazing, right,

635
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,720
Speaker 1: so many things have been great. Things have been happening.

636
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: So even though it's good perspective, right, even though some

637
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 1: things have been really difficult right in our own lives. Yeah,

638
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: as a unit, things have been great. Oh my god.

639
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: As a podcast, things are just going swimmingly. Yes, we

640
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 1: couldn't be happier now, we could not be happier. But

641
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: you know what, I think that that's something that you know,

642
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: I think I think for a lot of women, that's real.

643
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: That's real, right, Like personal life is like crazy and

644
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: fucked up and up and down and uncertain. But the

645
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,479
Speaker 1: professional side of things or the passion side of things,

646
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: and the work side of things, we pour ourselves into

647
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: this other stuff or other outlets. Well it's kind of like, well,

648
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: you don't have this person that's like, why aren't you

649
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: spending time with me? Why are you so busy? Why

650
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 1: are you committing so much time to your friends? Why

651
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: you know, why don't you make space for me? Blah

652
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: blah blah. Well it's like, well, I'm working on my

653
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: personal project, right, I'm working on my work my brand. Sure,

654
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 1: I mean I'm investing in myself, yes, And it's I

655
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: think it takes a really secure partner to like not

656
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: mix up the two right, to understand, to be able

657
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: to separate it, to relinquish control. Yes, you have to

658
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 1: be able to relinquish there out there, my boot, my book.

659
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: Like today he was like he was like um, he

660
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: was like what time do you have to leave? And

661
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:39,959
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I have to go get ready,

662
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: like I have to go record. He was like, can't

663
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: you just show up? And I was like, no, one

664
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: cannot just show up? Are you kidding me? Show up?

665
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 1: And then he was like okay, okay, yeah, you're right,

666
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 1: You're right. I'm like, this is my job, and he's

667
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, you're right. Recording days are They're very

668
00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 1: important days. We take recording days very seriously. But oh

669
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: and there's also it reminds me. There's this meme that

670
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: I've seen, and it's like something about learning how to

671
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: take control of and redirect all of your like sexual energy,

672
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: your creative ship instead of into actual physical sex, which

673
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 1: kind of sucks. But however, however, I the second that

674
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: I saw that meme, I was like, wow, I never

675
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: thought of that before. I can really choose to direct

676
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: this energy wherever I want to. So I'm kind of

677
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: working on that. I'm kind of working on it works.

678
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: So yes, yes, Evie Queen as always giving us life,

679
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 1: giving us music right to accompany our lives. Yes, thank you,

680
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: Evie Queen. We have another of another song. We have

681
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 1: another song that it's also a different form of revenge love,

682
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 1: this form of even listen. I was like, I was

683
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 1: very young when the song came up, and my mom

684
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,839
Speaker 1: would play the ship out of this song I love

685
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: a because she related, she knew, she knew, and me

686
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: I would sing along to it. So we're gonna play it.

687
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: It's an oldie but good day. Yeah, but I think

688
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: this is our last song. This is our last song.

689
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 1: So should we say our goodbye? Should we do with closings?

690
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: M m? Maybe we should play it and then and

691
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: then do it. I know we had the opposite plan. Yeah,

692
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 1: but I feel like we need to talk about the song.

693
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: Oh you're you're what I mean? I know we did

694
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 1: at that time. Okay, change the plan or back and

695
00:40:51,840 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: back of it, and that is an oldie guti, that

696
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 1: is the fucking jam, you know what. Yes, even as

697
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: a child like having no really real clue as to

698
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: what she's talking about, I remember sucking singing along Taian

699
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: and feeling it in my song. I knew that that

700
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: was my anthem. As a little girl, I was like,

701
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: give me some of that wealthy you know. And now

702
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 1: thinking about it, I'm like, oh, I know why my

703
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: mom was so into this song. It all makes sense.

704
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: That all makes sense in retrospect. Let me tell you

705
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: why I love this sucking song. Number one, um, men

706
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: still make more money than women. Our feminized labor is

707
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: still valued, completely undervalued, underpaid, but we're overworked. So Number one,

708
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: give your money to women. Give your money to wim men.

709
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: And then also like in relationships, the fem labor that

710
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,399
Speaker 1: is taken on, especially if you are with a mask

711
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 1: presenting or a cist hetero man, the fem labor that

712
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: goes into being in a relationship, the emotional labor, right,

713
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: just even like having sex a lot, right me and

714
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: how that we're talking about this the other day, like

715
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: like do you have real well, like if you have

716
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: if you have sex with men, right, and think about that,

717
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: they are physically inside inside of your body, like like

718
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: how do like why why it's very invasive. It's very invasive.

719
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: We're very exposed. We're very exposed, very vulnerable. And another

720
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: cup people that we're going to talk about this in

721
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: detail and about health, especially health health for for women,

722
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: and especially like the cost of being it's so expensive,

723
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: Like when we really talk about the health related costs

724
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: of being a woman who has sex with men, you

725
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: know been so it's expensive and it takes a toll

726
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,760
Speaker 1: on our physical body. I can't tell y'all even today,

727
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 1: Like back in August, I got in implants. I am,

728
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: I'm on birth control, and I've noticed like that my

729
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:15,839
Speaker 1: menstrual periods are longer, right, I've been breaking out more

730
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,800
Speaker 1: than usual, right so it's just like, okay, so I

731
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: have this, all of this. It is supposed to keep me,

732
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: like quote safe right from not getting pregnant and not

733
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 1: having a pregnancy right now that I don't want. However,

734
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: there's all these physical manifestations in my body, you know,

735
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 1: and one of these men needs nothing. Our birth control

736
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: options are all very invasive. Basis the implant too, it's

737
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 1: in my arm. And for those of you, and again

738
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: we'll do another cup a little bit, just since we're sharing.

739
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: Were sharing already. I haven't the birth control implant in

740
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: my arm, and getting it put in was easy enough.

741
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: But it's literally a little tiny metal rod that they

742
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 1: stick inside of your arm and like deep under there,

743
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: so it's good for three years. To remove it, they

744
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: have to perform a small surgery and they have to

745
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 1: open up your arm and get the thing out, you know.

746
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting here thinking about this, and I'm like, wow,

747
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: just so that I can have sex with these fuck

748
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 1: as dudes, I have to have this fucking implant inside

749
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: my arm. What are the other alternatives? The I U

750
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: D which is inside of your uterus, you know, it's

751
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: also invasive and then men can't even do the bare

752
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 1: minimum of wearing a fucking condom. Are you sucking kidding?

753
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: It's exhausting. I'm furious anyway, So hit him up style right,

754
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: catch your man cheating, he's going back wild. It's in

755
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: your time cash. Go to Nam and Marcus and spend

756
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: all his money and click your home girls with you. Yes,

757
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: hit his wallet, hit his wallet. Um. There has been

758
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: a really popular tweet going around. Yes, I was going

759
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 1: to talk about it. Talk about you talk about it. Okay,

760
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: So there's this name about like, don't go through your like,

761
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: don't go through your boyfriend's text messages. Instead, go to

762
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,799
Speaker 1: his cash app and send yourself some money. Has ven

763
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: mo and send yourself some money. That's femravent of economic redistribution,

764
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:05,879
Speaker 1: that is that is equity, financial equity. Yes, and I'm

765
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: here for it. I don't feel bad about it. Give

766
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: me your fucking wallet. No. I told my brew that

767
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to start sending him a monthly girlfriend tax good. Yes,

768
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: and then well I'm going to report him. And he

769
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: was just like, I'm going to deny it. And I'm like, well,

770
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 1: then you're gonna see what's gonna happen. You're not paying tax,

771
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: catch the consequences. You don't get this, ass, I love,

772
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: That's what I told him. I was like, it's going

773
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: to be the booty tag. It's the booty tax. That's revolutionary, right,

774
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: charge here, charge your boyfriend. But I cannot take full

775
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 1: credit because I actually got this idea from a follower

776
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: on Instagram or our homegirl. We've talked about her before.

777
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 1: R Yes, yes, yes, she posted that she sent her

778
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,240
Speaker 1: her her boyfriend, her the father of her child, actually

779
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 1: a girlfriend tax. And he denied it and she said

780
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 1: she told me to shut so. I did not get

781
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 1: this idea. However, I am implementing it into my reallyation ship.

782
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: This needs to become a movement. Yes, the booty tag,

783
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: the booty tag. We all friend tax, I'm all here

784
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: for it. Listen, just the cost of the makeup alone,

785
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: good lord, let's not even talk about the nails. Let's

786
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 1: not even talk about getting a new outfit to go

787
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: out in. Yep. No, no, no, no, no, no no,

788
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: that's justified. No. And I tell my boot because I

789
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: run out of makeup pipes at his house, you know that,

790
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 1: can you pick them up? And he was like, well,

791
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: I don't know which ones do you like, so you

792
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,399
Speaker 1: should just buy them. And I was like, the least

793
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: you can do is buy me these makeupipes to keep

794
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: at your place. Exactly, buy me the damn white bees.

795
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 1: Just buy them. Figure it out. God, I'm so frustrated. Right,

796
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 1: I was really great. But yes, I still think this

797
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: girlfriend tax is a new thing. I agree, you know already,

798
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: like men, they like to waste our time, they like

799
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: to waste our money, they like to waste our youth.

800
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: We don't get paid enough. We don't get paid enough.

801
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: You know, we don't get paid at all. We don't

802
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: get paid at all. So as revenge, yeah, I think

803
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 1: it's totally just five. Take his money, Padrome wallets hidden

804
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: where it really hurts, his gadgets, his toys, his car,

805
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 1: and his wallet. Yes, those are the places. Yes, I

806
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: love it. So that's our that'd go forth and prosper.

807
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: So um, we're to finish out. In closing, we wanted

808
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: to share with y'all a little story. So we are

809
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: back on Apple podcasts. Lord, yes, oh my god, speaking

810
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: of revenge, speaking of goddamn. Okay, So, as you know,

811
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: months ago, we were taking off Apple podcast for whatever reason,

812
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: and the thing is Apple doesn't really tell you why

813
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: they could take it down, and they send you a

814
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: list it could be one of these, and we looked

815
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: at them. We're like, well, it could really be any

816
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: of these. Right of them were pretty all of them.

817
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: It's pretty vague, it's pretty big. One of them is

818
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: like if your your image isn't the right size, and

819
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: we knew that ours wasn't, so we were like, okay,

820
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: maybe it was that there are some odd details the

821
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: very specific. So anyway, I have been working on this

822
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 1: probably since July has been at the helm of this battle. Yes,

823
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: I have been fighting with Apples literally, so July, we

824
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: resubmit and when you when you submit your your podcast

825
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: to Apple, they send you like thank you for your submission.

826
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 1: Your under review right would go under review rejected. So

827
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: I'm like okay. Then we were like, well we need

828
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: a new feed. So we're like, okay, well we're gonna

829
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 1: get an AudioBoom anyway, so we use that again. Nada.

830
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: So and I don't even get a response at this point,

831
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 1: not even like thank you, but no thank you. Right,

832
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: So finally I emailed them and I'm like, hey, like

833
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: we have submitted. I haven't even received like that it's

834
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: under review. I just want to check, like, am I

835
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 1: doing something wrong? So they email me back and they're like, well,

836
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: after reviewing your feed, like there's a lot of inappropriate language,

837
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: which is like bitch. Where So me and Lula are

838
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: very upset, but me, you know, am like, Okay, well

839
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: we need to get back on Apple. So we're gonna like, unfortunately,

840
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: we're gonna have to handle this tactfully, even though I

841
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,800
Speaker 1: want to go off on them. So we go and

842
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,919
Speaker 1: we edit out anything that says boot positive, anything that's

843
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: sex positive, anything that says home which is not even

844
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: not even that money like no, and that's not even that.

845
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: And then to top it off, this is a rule.

846
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Speaker 1: You cannot have anything that would be considered offensive to

847
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Speaker 1: a child. They literally said that in an email offensive

848
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Speaker 1: to a small child, a small child you would not

849
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 1: want a small child to hear. And I said, first

850
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Speaker 1: of all, why would a child be listening to a

851
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: podest small child? First of all, that's what I really

852
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: want to know. They literally said that ship to me,

853
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: and I was infuriated, so of course, leaving me. I

854
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: had to pull out all the receipts and I did

855
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 1: all of my research, and let me tell you all

856
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 1: of the inappropriate ship that is on Apple podcast. Okay,

857
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: there's this like anti splat shaming podcast by women, so

858
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 1: shout out to them. However, example example A. They're also

859
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 1: white women. Their podcast is called Guys We Fucked? What

860
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 1: is that? Is that? Is that appropriate for a small shot?

861
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: I didn't think that that is appropriate for us. I

862
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: don't see them being taken off podcast. And you know

863
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: those men and so fucking Charlemagne has his show Brilliant Idiots.

864
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: Well idiots is offensive to me? Is it not right?

865
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: Can it not be offensive? We saw another podcast that

866
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 1: shout out to you guys who followed us recently, but

867
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 1: I think you're called like the bitch face podcast on Apple.

868
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: So we're being told that we can't have like bullshit

869
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 1: in the title or we can't self censor, but then

870
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 1: all these other ones come up. So what we did

871
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: was we took out everything that said like we already

872
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: said like positive ho and then we go and we're

873
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: like you know what, lesmami submit and bullshit is the problem.

874
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 1: So what we do, like any person that sees all

875
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: these examples, we put the little asterix right that was

876
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 1: not enough. So even though we put the asterix, I

877
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: resubmitted and I was in contact with them and they said,

878
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 1: we still see it. Here's a screenshot, here's it highlighted,

879
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 1: and what was it? Las, mommy submitth and bullshit, even

880
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: with the asterisk bull So we're like, you know what,

881
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 1: We're gonna swallow this one. We're gonna just deal with it.

882
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 1: We fucking take out anything that says bullshit, mommy submit

883
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: and bullshit in our in any of our descriptions and

884
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 1: our subtitle whatever. We take it out. Finally they're like, okay,

885
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: your podcast has been reapproved. Please allow twenty four hours

886
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: for it to be to appear in the iTunes store. Okay.

887
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: It was twenty four hours and nothing, and a few

888
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 1: days later nothing. They really did not want to put

889
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: us in. Two weeks passed by and still nothing. So

890
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 1: finally I emailed them a millionth time and I'm like, hey,

891
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: you said that it was reapproved. It's been almost two weeks.

892
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: What what is going on? Right? Right? And very nicely,

893
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: because the thing is when you work with them, it's

894
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: not the same person that replies so very nicely. This

895
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: person eyes and it's like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm

896
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: refreshing it manually right now, please allow another twenty four hours. Finally,

897
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: three hours later, it was finally back on Apple podcast

898
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: victory when we tell you we had to fight, like

899
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 1: literally we did the most to get back on Apple

900
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: on Yes, of course I really did. And I did

901
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: it like really specifically for our locomotives because a lot

902
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 1: of you, even on on just on random posts, you

903
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: all would comment, when are you going to be back

904
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: on Apple? How are you on Apple? I can't find you?

905
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 1: So I was like, all right, this is obviously we

906
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,879
Speaker 1: know that Apple is like a big platform. We're false

907
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 1: listened to their part. It's where I listened to my

908
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 1: podcast too, So I totally get it. We're back on

909
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 1: Thank you fucking goddesses. Yeah. So, and we even thought

910
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 1: about like Apple censoring us? Are we going to have

911
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: to do an expose day on Apple? Is this from phobia?

912
00:52:57,719 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: Is this racism? We were wondering. We were like, is

913
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: is them phobia? Like? Is this like because we talked

914
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: about sexual assault and rape? And that was also a question.

915
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 1: I was like, is this because we talk about sexual

916
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: assault and rape? And I I sent them screenshots of

917
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 1: podcasts to talk about sexual assault and rape. So it

918
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: just didn't make any sense, right. It seems that they

919
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: were super strict with us and really not strict with

920
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: many others, and it doesn't make a lot of it

921
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense. We don't get it. Even Mom and

922
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: I would even like, do any of our ex's work

923
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: at Apple, Like, we weren't really trying to rack our brains,

924
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 1: like did I sleep with anyone who was Apple? Now

925
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: said Apple? Like? It felt so personal, like who does

926
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: not want us on Apple Pie? It was awful. I

927
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: hope there were selling Apple after this episode. If anyone

928
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: from Apple is listening right now, that was some tripe ship.

929
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: I'm sorry it was. It was a small child, a

930
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 1: small child. We should be able to We should not

931
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: have had to edit any of that stuff out. I

932
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 1: completely agree any of the cussing. And it was not

933
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 1: even bad like compared to other podcasts. No, no, no,

934
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 1: but anyway, anyway back, We're happy to be back on Apple.

935
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 1: It took forever, but it was well, No, it was

936
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: not worth the way, but but it was worth They're

937
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 1: doing it for our listeners that really wanted us back

938
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,760
Speaker 1: to listen, like that is their primary place of listening.

939
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 1: So shout out to y'all. We did the work. We

940
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 1: do all this for y'all because we love you. We

941
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 1: love y'all, um, and so that's it. Stay connected with

942
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: us via um, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, hash radio, hashtag wrong

943
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: or our hashtag you know the hashtag, you know all

944
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: of them. Let us know what you think. Have you?

945
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,360
Speaker 1: Have you ever taken revenge on an ex boo on

946
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 1: a former partner? Revenge story? Let us know. We'll do

947
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 1: a little text post to y'all revenge can Let us know.

948
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm sure there's some good ones out there.

949
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 1: I'm sure I have never I've never thought about it,

950
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: but I'm thinking, like, what would I have done? I

951
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:03,800
Speaker 1: think that my best revenge has just been walking away

952
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: right same here, living living your best life, post taking

953
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: your time back, reclaiming your time, claiming your reclaiming your body,

954
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: reclaiming your body. You know what I did? I had

955
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: an exit, like told me I couldn't cut my hair

956
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: and I couldn't get tattoos. What the fund did I

957
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: do when I woke up with them? Cut that hair off,

958
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 1: cut my hair off, and I got a tattoo? Yeah,

959
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:24,439
Speaker 1: I live your best life all right, we're gonna leave

960
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: you just with with a little bit more of blue

961
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:31,280
Speaker 1: Cantrall that's left off on and until next time, those