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Speaker 1: Friends on Purpose on three one two, three Friends on Purpose?

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Speaker 2: You thought that was being loser ish?

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we just were born to be best friends. Me

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Speaker 1: and Benny met at this Mexican restaurant and.

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Speaker 4: He said, what can you bring to the table?

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Speaker 5: And I was like what.

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Speaker 3: I thought? He's so sweet and he's so himself, and

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Speaker 3: he told me a story that lasted forty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Benny, Dave Kristen, welcome to On Purpose. He Jay, Hi, Bennie,

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Speaker 2: come on, Hey, did you know what This is the

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Speaker 2: first time we've had three people on the show together

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Speaker 2: first adver times. You know that this is the first

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Speaker 2: time someone has come on their own with their fiance,

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Speaker 2: then wife, and now with their best friends. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: we've never done that before either. Many all sorts of

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Speaker 2: you're bring all sorts of records. You're competing with Michelle Obama,

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Speaker 2: who's been on the show twice. You've been on three times.

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Speaker 2: This is your third time. So Dave, I'm a huge fan,

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Speaker 2: always have been. The first time I met you.

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Speaker 1: I've known you for maybe under a year, but I

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Speaker 1: love you.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 1: That's been ever since I've met you, I've loved you.

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Speaker 5: Wow, I didn't he doesn't say it back.

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Speaker 1: I know he loves me, but I said it already said.

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Speaker 5: He just said he was very hard, very hard to look.

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Speaker 2: And Kristin, I've become a huge fan of you. I

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Speaker 2: can't believe that we're here.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad that you still like me.

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Speaker 2: But honestly, the guys, this is awesome. It's so great

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Speaker 2: to have all three of you in the room. I

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Speaker 2: do want to know how you all three met, because

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Speaker 2: I have no idea. I don't think I've ever asked

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess I'm the glue between the two of

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Speaker 1: the three. You know, I met Benny. He basically from

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Speaker 1: the day I put any music out. He actually the

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Speaker 1: first day I released anything, he tweeted like something positive

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Speaker 1: reach out. And then I, yeah, I like said something.

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Speaker 1: We were like kind of communicated back and forth a

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Speaker 1: little bit, and then we almost saw each other one

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Speaker 1: of my concerts and we didn't hang out. And then

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Speaker 1: I don't the first time we met. We don't know

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Speaker 1: for sure when the very first we can't place it.

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Speaker 1: My memory of like the first real memory I have is.

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Speaker 1: We met at this uh Mexican restaurant, and I think

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Speaker 1: he was maybe trying to sign me or maybe just

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Speaker 1: trying to explain the value that he could add to

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Speaker 1: my life and my career, and I really didn't see

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Speaker 5: Potentially, that's what he said. Did you say that? He said?

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Speaker 4: He said, well, what can you bring to the table?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, what that was like his first

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Speaker 4: thing he said to me.

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Speaker 1: Now, in hindsight, I was totally wrong.

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Speaker 2: All of your how did you win to move?

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Speaker 1: Just proof in the pudding.

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Speaker 5: I think it was instant.

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Speaker 1: Also independent of our respective talents merging and being able

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Speaker 1: to add to each other's talent careers. We would be

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Speaker 1: best friends if we were like in Arkansas and we

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Speaker 1: both were plumbers, you know what I mean, Like we

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Speaker 3: I want to know, I thought, yeah, I was you

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Speaker 1: I met Kristen years later. Bowling Alley, a writer on

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Speaker 1: my TV show Vanessa, kind of set us up. And

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Speaker 1: Kristin didn't know that I was going to more or

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Speaker 3: I was being scouted.

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Speaker 2: Romantic not for the show.

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Speaker 3: No a romantic partner.

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Speaker 1: Well, I always told Vanessa because I love this woman.

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Speaker 1: Vanessa was one of the main writers on my show

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Speaker 1: I bought a strike. First thing I did. I bolt

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Speaker 2: Oh you didn't.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know, so I think I was doing my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was doing her own thing. Then we started

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Speaker 3: I like that. I thought that was such a good

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and that was his first intro, Like it was Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And you were trying? That was oh yeah, were you trying?

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Speaker 1: Instantly I saw her and I was like, oh my god, Vanessa,

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Speaker 3: Well, no, you said you didn't like it because I

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Speaker 1: I said, it wasn't love at first sight.

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Speaker 1: She was wearing these big glasses. Yeah, she doesn't often work.

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Speaker 3: On I was going through a lot and I was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she was she never lives in Venice or

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Speaker 3: No, he told me a story that lasted forty minutes.

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Speaker 5: Really, what was the story?

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Speaker 3: I thought, he's so sweet and he's so himself, and

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Speaker 3: I also was like, the story's very long.

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Speaker 1: The story was about me pooping my pants. Ye, and

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Speaker 1: you chose that it's my funniest best story. But it

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Speaker 1: was like him talk the entire practice, but it's like

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Speaker 1: there and I was like, don't make it that, like,

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Speaker 1: Remember that.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I remember too. I remember two times specifically. I

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Speaker 4: I remember once after your actual premiere and we like

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Speaker 5: In in that time being like this girl's really cool.

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Speaker 2: I was like like nothing, not thinking that that was

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Speaker 2: And then it is the best time.

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Speaker 2: I did I do that? What it was for you? Kristen,

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Speaker 2: you remember it different.

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Speaker 1: It's a bad memory, it.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't it was it wasn't the best. You weren't the

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Speaker 1: I was lashing out. Do you want to hear what happened?

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Speaker 1: We met in like January thirty first, we had our

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Speaker 1: And I just had this feeling that we were gonna

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Speaker 1: This is not something that I'm proud of. But I

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Speaker 3: Well, I went into it being like I was thirty

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Speaker 5: I just think I think no.

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Speaker 4: I was thinking about it because it's like, I think

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And it made me like it made me be

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Speaker 3: It's okay to be needy, like I think it's okay

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Speaker 3: Because you know what to do I should say on

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Speaker 4: I've been in relationships where the person is secretly like competitive, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: person because I'm scared there, or like I had a

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00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,280
Speaker 4: time where like I like won some big award and

442
00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:43,560
Speaker 4: I went into a closet to answer the call and

443
00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,359
Speaker 4: be excited because I was too scared. Yeah, and like

444
00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:48,639
Speaker 4: that's like the worst type of relationship to be in.

445
00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:51,000
Speaker 4: Like I want to be in a relationship where like

446
00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:54,399
Speaker 4: my partner is like cares more about like they like

447
00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,239
Speaker 4: feel like they care more about you than their own thing.

448
00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:57,959
Speaker 5: And you feel that way too. And you guys are

449
00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,560
Speaker 5: just like the ultimate cheerleader for each other.

450
00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,560
Speaker 2: Well you guys. I mean what's amazing though, is that

451
00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,560
Speaker 2: you guys are living the dream because you guys are

452
00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:09,160
Speaker 2: best friends and then your wife and your best friend

453
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,240
Speaker 2: are really great friends. Yea, and that's so special. And

454
00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,240
Speaker 2: the fact that you guys used to do your birthdays together,

455
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:16,840
Speaker 2: the fact that you also got married in the same year.

456
00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:20,880
Speaker 5: Yes, and she's so close to Selena too.

457
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,359
Speaker 3: It's perfect.

458
00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:25,600
Speaker 4: I'm so happy it were like you know when you

459
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,080
Speaker 4: know when one of your friends dates someone that you're like,

460
00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:29,119
Speaker 4: oh and like.

461
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,520
Speaker 5: And you never know, it's crazy you have done?

462
00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:32,400
Speaker 2: What would you have done?

463
00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:35,000
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I've been that guy. I've dated someone.

464
00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,040
Speaker 4: Where my friend. I've dated multiple people where. I mean

465
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,879
Speaker 4: one time I broke up with the person I was

466
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:45,200
Speaker 4: with and my friends wanted to throw me a party

467
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,840
Speaker 4: like and I said, I said, well, why didn't anyone

468
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,680
Speaker 4: tell me when I was in it? And they said,

469
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:51,600
Speaker 4: what are we supposed to tell you? They said, we

470
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:56,680
Speaker 4: made we made gestures and and yeah, Dave, have you

471
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 4: ever made gestures to Benny in that way?

472
00:19:58,800 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't.

473
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,359
Speaker 5: Has slightly in his own way, not as blunt.

474
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 1: I keep it real if anyone's behaved, I don't care

475
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 1: who you are, if anyone's behaved, I just like to

476
00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,399
Speaker 1: speak about the facts at hand, So I always fact me.

477
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 1: I'm a helping hand with anyone who wants to analyze

478
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 1: the facts at hand. But you know, love is a

479
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,200
Speaker 1: particular thing that sometimes transcends fact.

480
00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:21,520
Speaker 2: So pretty good, right, Yeah, that's beautiful. Yeah, you've like fountain.

481
00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,720
Speaker 2: I was like, what that is beautiful? I get what

482
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 2: you're saying. It's like when you when you know someone

483
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 2: you have a friend and they're like really into this person. Yeah,

484
00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:31,560
Speaker 2: you're kind of like, well, maybe there's a part that

485
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to mess up because they see something

486
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 2: I don't see.

487
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 1: It's not your place necessarily to be like, you know,

488
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,080
Speaker 1: I know you love this person, but just so you

489
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 1: know you shouldn't.

490
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know. What was it like though, going

491
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,639
Speaker 2: from this part you get married a month apart, like

492
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,560
Speaker 2: to be at each other's wet.

493
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,720
Speaker 1: Levels partying, high level party, stressful.

494
00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,639
Speaker 3: We were so tired. I feel like we were all

495
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 3: really tired. I was really tired.

496
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 1: I liked it, I mean I really enjoyed it. To me,

497
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 1: I was like, our wedding was the best night of

498
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 1: our lives and it was so great. And I just

499
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 1: remember being so happy that I had his wedding. Yeah,

500
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 1: I was like, and the fun isn't done. And I

501
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 1: remember selling. I said to her, I said, we should

502
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 1: really try to have as much fun as possible, because

503
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 1: nights don't always have this upside potential of how fun

504
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:17,639
Speaker 1: a night can be. The way and like we just

505
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 1: had the most Like very rarely do you go into

506
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 1: a night where it has the potential to be the

507
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 1: most fun night of your life, and our wedding of

508
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,639
Speaker 1: course had that potential. It felt so good, but it

509
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 1: actually was, like you know, I would have called a

510
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,600
Speaker 1: fact a fact if it was in any way shorter

511
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 1: than I would have, especially because we're paying all this

512
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 1: goddamn money, But it really was.

513
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was the best night.

514
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 1: It was so perfect. And then I just remember being

515
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 1: so excited for his and his was perfect.

516
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 3: And we had the bachel threat between we had like

517
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,399
Speaker 3: we had. It's like we kept saying that we're like

518
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 3: kicking off like it was our wedding, and then we

519
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 3: had in between our wedding and their wedding, we each

520
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 3: separately went on like you know, I went to like

521
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,120
Speaker 3: Selena's and Day went to Benny's, and then we had

522
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 3: then we had the wedding, so it was like a

523
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:55,880
Speaker 3: fun two months.

524
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 2: Kristin, what was your favorite thing about Benny and Selina's wading.

525
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 3: Probably the vows. It's so like watching your close friends

526
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 3: get married and like hearing what no no, I.

527
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 1: Was remembering how his face moved and he would cry.

528
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I couldn't see anything because I was behind

529
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 3: a pool, but I heard the vos.

530
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 2: You didn't get or anything.

531
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: I did get the front roasie, but I didn't know

532
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 3: if people were going to sit between me and Benny's family,

533
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,879
Speaker 3: so I like sat all the way to the side.

534
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: She just had she had she had an architectural issue

535
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: blocking her.

536
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 3: But that was the best part.

537
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 2: Tell us about the vows.

538
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 3: Their vows were so good, and I think well and

539
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 3: Dave officiated, which I also obviously enjoyed. I just loved hearing.

540
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,719
Speaker 3: It's like it was nice to kind of hear them

541
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 3: be serious, like you're not. It's so rare that you're

542
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 3: going to like hear your friends, you know, say their

543
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 3: love is like what they're doing in your bows, you.

544
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: Know, especially Okay, so my perspective, by the way, I

545
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 1: couldn't have a better view, Like they're like I'm like

546
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: right there and they're right here.

547
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so because you official, yeah, so have you

548
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 2: done one before?

549
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: No, I've actually never even given a best man speech,

550
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 1: so like the whole thing. And then it's also such

551
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,880
Speaker 1: a tricky because like the I'm almost giving a best

552
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: man speech, but it's also right there at the altar,

553
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 1: so you can't even there was a lot of pressure,

554
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: but I really felt born for that moment. And it

555
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: was really look Selena like when the curtain went away

556
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 1: and it was her and she started she like literally

557
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm loathed to say that she looked like a princess,

558
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: but she just looked like a fairy tale.

559
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 3: Like the sun that it was like the most the

560
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 3: sun like was setting behind her, and they had like

561
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 3: these beautiful tents. So when she this is what I

562
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 3: did see a little bit of when she was like walking,

563
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 3: it was like it was like majestic.

564
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like you know, she pulls out this like

565
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: I don't even written this hand this book of scriptures

566
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: or that is like her vows that were like written

567
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 1: by hand, and she like lost five days earlier that

568
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: Benny had. She like wrote her vowels for like a

569
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: year and then she lost them like right before the

570
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 1: wind and then Benny found pulled it.

571
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you found it on the day and she a

572
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: few days before.

573
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: But like her vowels are just like you know, and

574
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: and then Benny, like you know, obviously Benny has a

575
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: high level of emotional capacity and sensitivity but he's definitely

576
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: a joker, and to see him just break like and

577
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: become just a shell of a man, like his face, like,

578
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: it's never like when Selena when the curtain got revealed.

579
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:46,919
Speaker 2: And his face was like.

580
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 4: Because I was trying not to okay, So when we

581
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 4: did the first look, I was like, oh, oh this

582
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 4: is easy.

583
00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 5: I'm not even crying.

584
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 4: But when she came out to the music, my face,

585
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm not ready to cry this early.

586
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 4: So I was like, I was like, like, I can't

587
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 4: even do it. I was like, I recently watched the

588
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 4: video back and it's.

589
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 1: It's weird to see someone's face so often and then

590
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: realize you've never seen their face do a certain thing.

591
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: It is a weird feeling to feel that.

592
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm never nervous, and I was before it happened.

593
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 4: All of a sudden got so nervous and like ten

594
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,360
Speaker 4: times I was like should I have them print mine

595
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 4: ow bigger?

596
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 5: Should I do it small? And like I asked him

597
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 5: all these questions and then he.

598
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: Made me walk out to like everyone's seated, I'm thinking

599
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: the things about to start, and he made me walk

600
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: out alone, like down the aisle essentially and like double check,

601
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: and he had multiple printouts of the thing already sitting

602
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: up there.

603
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 4: I remember being so nervous, and then for some reason,

604
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 4: the second I turned into the room, everything melted away

605
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 4: and it was like I wasn't nervous at all anymore,

606
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 4: and it was it was so cool to see THEIRS

607
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 4: was like training. Yeah, THEIRS was like training, and THEIRS

608
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 4: was I really can't stress it was the best wedding

609
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 4: I'd ever been to in my life.

610
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 5: I think also it's because it's like the people like

611
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 5: I care about.

612
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 4: I've never like I cried so much at their wedding

613
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 4: during their vows, I was bawling, and you think about

614
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 4: your friends, but then like to see them do this

615
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 4: thing that's so like final. It was so beauty, and

616
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 4: they're both so well spoken and funny but also serious

617
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 4: and like, yeah, I don't usually see Dave serious. I

618
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 4: never see Kristen's here, Like we're all those people who

619
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 4: kind of like make like I'll probably be laughing at

620
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 4: like my friend's funeral, like cause I like can't like

621
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 4: it's it's it's it's like a coping mechanism. And to

622
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:54,719
Speaker 4: watch them do that was so fun and everything was perfect,

623
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 4: and their week their wedding was one of the best

624
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 4: weekends of my life.

625
00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 5: And then I was like, oh my god, I have

626
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 5: my own to look forward to.

627
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 4: And I had that feeling where I was so scared

628
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 4: that mine wasn't going to live up to what it

629
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 4: was in my head and it was so far beyond

630
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 4: what like. The only thing I didn't like is cocktail

631
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 4: Hour because I kept having to say hi to everyone,

632
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 4: and I said, am I going to be doing this?

633
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 5: The whole night?

634
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: I tried to get you to do the thing you

635
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: didn't want to do it.

636
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 2: Well, we didn't do it. We did do it, and.

637
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 3: We took we should have. We basically went Dave and

638
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 3: I like had to go to the bathroom. So we

639
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:32,680
Speaker 3: before Benny and Selena had.

640
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: Seen this was our wedding. Wow, we knew about this.

641
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 3: Did you do this? Like? Were they? They take you

642
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 3: into the reception before the guests come.

643
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: They pluck you from cocktail Hour five minutes early, take

644
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: you to where the band does and where dinner is,

645
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: and they like let you see it all. Yeah, the

646
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: band playing just for you, and it was like our

647
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: favorite part of our wedding. And then we had to

648
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom.

649
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 3: So we went into Benny and Selena's before they had

650
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 3: seen it, and we were like, oh my god, this

651
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 3: is incredible. They have to see it. So we were

652
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: like should we pull them away? And pulling them away

653
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 3: was like it.

654
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: Was so hard, so hard, like I thought, you know what,

655
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: I felt like they were being bombarded. They were, and

656
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: I was just like, they're missed. They're only going to

657
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 1: the tentting that they're saying it was the most beautiful

658
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: tent and you go to see now they're going to

659
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: say not not empty, but they but I but I

660
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: made them do it drags. I was just like I

661
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: just had this instinct that I knew better and that

662
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Speaker 1: they didn't.

663
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Speaker 5: Know what was your wedding?

664
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Speaker 4: Like, gosh, I think, do I remember this correctly? Was

665
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 4: yours like some sort of thing like outside near like

666
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 4: a brick like.

667
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, that was just that was just.

668
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: This year is a tenure wedding? Ten years? Oh?

669
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 5: Actually, I don't care about your wedding. I want to know.

670
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 5: I want to know this. This is my real question

671
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 5: a podcast. I have a question for you.

672
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: I have I have many more ques going.

673
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 5: I got one that you asked one question I have

674
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 5: one ques one question.

675
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no.

676
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 5: It's such a good question. I just want to word

677
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 5: it the right way. Okay, you're ten years in.

678
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: Touney by Jay.

679
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 5: My wife, you're ten years in.

680
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 4: What have you learned in this time that you that

681
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 4: you thought you knew when it was ten years before,

682
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 4: and what do you want like the next ten years

683
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 4: to be?

684
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 2: Like? Yeah, question, good question, good question. On the answer,

685
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 2: it's similar to the way you're even talking about each other.

686
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: I feel like you think you love your partner the

687
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 2: most you could love them on your wedding day, and

688
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 2: then you realize you had no idea how much you

689
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 2: could love them, like ten years on. It's just like

690
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: I thought I loved my wife like the most I

691
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 2: could ever love her, and then you actually go through life.

692
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: You go through challenges, you go through ups and downs.

693
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 2: We got married, changed jobs, moved country, and moved home

694
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 2: all in the same year. Wow, and so like, we

695
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 2: went through so much, and I feel like that could

696
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 2: either break you or make you closer. And for us,

697
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 2: it just brought us closer than the pandemic. We were

698
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 2: stuck together every day and it brought us closer. And

699
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 2: I think that I could have been. So I feel

700
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: like when you've been through so much life together, you

701
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 2: just have so much proof that you love each other

702
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 2: through so many different versions of each other. And I

703
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: think that's the other thing that I feel like I've

704
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 2: been in love with a different person in ten years

705
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: because my wife has been so many different versions of herself.

706
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: She'll probably say I have been pretty much the same,

707
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: but I feel like I feel like she has changed

708
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 2: so many times in beautiful ways, And so you're learning

709
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: to fall in love again. So this idea of oh,

710
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 2: I know you every move and I know everything about you,

711
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: it's like I actually don't, and I feel like I'm

712
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: constantly on my toes. And because we end up spending

713
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: a bit of time away from each other every year

714
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: because of work, I feel like we're still dating, which

715
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: is really fun.

716
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 5: Actually, I love the.

717
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 2: Fact that we don't see each other all the time.

718
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 2: Then there's a sense of like I can't wait to

719
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 2: get back to you, and so we see each other

720
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: too much now all day not too much for me. Yeah, yeah,

721
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 2: I was like I was trying to convince my wife

722
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 2: to do a reality show with me because I was like,

723
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:58,719
Speaker 2: I just want to be with you all day now,

724
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: like that would be my She's like, we're never doing

725
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 2: a reality TV Yeah, yeah, thank you. I don't know

726
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: who else would because there wouldn't be much drama. We'd

727
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: have to create some drama, Like you'd have to find

728
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 2: ways I'd have to invite drama. Yeah. But did you

729
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: guys ever think, like we're here to talk about friends,

730
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: keep secrets. The show not a podcast, not a live stream.

731
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: Did you ever believe that you guys would be doing

732
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 2: a show together?

733
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: I think it makes sense, ever, yes, because we I

734
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: don't think we saw I didn't necessarily see it coming,

735
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: but it really kind of was this perfect storm of

736
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: things happening at the right time. And like Kristen was

737
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: very she was always, even as I was making Dave

738
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: in my always on TikTok and always being like, there's

739
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: something that's so rewarding about real human behavior. And she

740
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: was always kind of on the forefront of knowing that

741
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: consumption patterns are really changing, and that was something that

742
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: I really respect her opinion about a lot of things,

743
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: and that was something that was in my head. And separately,

744
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: me and Benny had kind of just flirted with the

745
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: idea of a podcast for years, but I never really

746
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: saw it as a thing that I wanted to do.

747
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 5: And what changed.

748
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 3: I think one day I was like, but what if,

749
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 3: like we like rigged our house, and what if you

750
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 3: take the same like creativity that the two of you

751
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 3: have and you try to change what this is versus

752
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: trying to like fit the mold of what everything else is.

753
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 3: And I feel like that's when you were And I

754
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 3: think Benny like separately had the same idea because we

755
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 3: all got on the phone and he was like, yeah,

756
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 3: we can literally like he was like I was, So

757
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 3: I just think it was a perfect storm for you

758
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 3: to be like, oh, this is exciting.

759
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: Once I started thinking about the potential to reinvent things

760
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: and make things different, then I got really excited about it.

761
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: And then only when we started doing it did I

762
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: really like fall in love with everything. Because I say

763
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: this to them all the time. My me even going

764
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: for it as a comedic presence only happened because I

765
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: was trying to entertain my friends and be like the

766
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: funny guy to my friends, and that is my when

767
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: I am the happiest when I'm around my best friends,

768
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: and I'm like seeking the joke and trying to make

769
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: them laugh, and then I went for it. I try,

770
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: you know, I became a comedian, made my show Dave,

771
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: and like a show like Dave, it requires so much

772
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: like hard work, I believe, and like everything that seems

773
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: like it's all so fun and light, and like the

774
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: amount of brain power that goes into executing it is

775
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: so next level that actually making the show Dave can

776
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: be torturous. Whereas as soon as we started doing this,

777
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: I've never had more. It's just like I was the

778
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: inner child and he was like now having fun with

779
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: my best friends again. And then even seeing the footage

780
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: of it and understanding how it all was working to me,

781
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: I think back to Kristen's original thesis, there's nothing more compelling.

782
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: I think COVID actually caused us because the shows stopped

783
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: being made and people were just at home, and then

784
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: TikTok was blowing up and we were just seeing over

785
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: and over again human beings being themselves and being really

786
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: entertaining and fun to watch. And so I think at

787
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: the end of the day, things are only as good

788
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: as that the characters that that are there and we're

789
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: just being ourselves, and there really is nothing pure than

790
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: like having a great time with your best friends, and

791
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: it's all everything that's happening is so real and organic

792
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: and like they're like the amount of hard laughs that

793
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: are happening with all three of us as we're filming

794
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 1: it is I've been talking for a long time.

795
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 5: I'm realizing.

796
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 1: I realized how.

797
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 2: All for that space. Okay shows, Okay. I still remember

798
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: the first called when you called me up. It was like,

799
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 2: I think me and you know, me and Dave and

800
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 2: Kristen want to start this show. And in my head

801
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 2: I was like, oh great, you know, we'll put some

802
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 2: microphones down, we're going to sit down. It will be

803
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: another interview show. You guys will have great guests. And

804
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,359
Speaker 2: then as these things evolved, I was just like, your

805
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 2: guys create a vision. The way you're shifting up the industry,

806
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 2: the way this show is gonna change the way people

807
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 2: think about what a podcast is. One interview is it's amazing,

808
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 2: and honestly it's been such a joy, like seeing you

809
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: guys put in the work, put in the hustle. But

810
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 2: also the most important thing is I feel like whenever

811
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 2: I've seen it, I got to walk into one of

812
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: your episodes when I was coming to do a photo.

813
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 1: Sho of that.

814
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 2: But then I just got to walk into an episode

815
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 2: It's great, which is insane. Yeah, and I'm like, I

816
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: couldn't believe just how crazy real authentic and you know

817
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 2: people throw those words around. Yeah, so I don't even

818
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 2: like using those words because nowadays everyone's like, oh, it's

819
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 2: so authentic, it's so this it's not even that, it's

820
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 2: just is what it is, like it is just three friends.

821
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know what's coming.

822
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 7: Yeah.

823
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, we getting these random conversations and arguments that have

824
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: become so passionate that I feel like anyone watching a

825
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 1: group or anyone in their own group of friends is

826
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: able to relate to, like it's really just us kind

827
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: of living and existing and it's a fly on the

828
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 1: wah observation of that.

829
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: I think what's fascinating about it on a more thoughtful

830
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 2: level is one of the things I'm trying to do

831
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 2: with the work I'm that we're putting out in the

832
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 2: world is trying to make people feel less alone. And

833
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: I feel like this show makes people feel alone.

834
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: She always says there's a loneliness epidemic.

835
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 3: Well, because there is, but I felt like I realized.

836
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,240
Speaker 3: I do think after COVID, like all of our social

837
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 3: lives have slowed down, or if they haven't, there was

838
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 3: like there was definitely like a period where socializing beyond

839
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 3: the anxiety of like COVID kind of create there was

840
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,799
Speaker 3: like a learning curve to kind of get back into

841
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: it and putting yourself out there. And I really resonate

842
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 3: with like TikTok. And it's not like I love watching

843
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 3: people in like Michigan or like Random State, you know,

844
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 3: like home videos essentially of like people hanging out. And

845
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 3: I feel like one cool thing about us is I

846
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 3: mean especially Benny and not Dave is cool, but like

847
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 3: I feel like when we met Benny, you are such

848
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 3: a good host. You always like have us over and

849
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 3: like we have so much fun and we meet new people,

850
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 3: and I think we now have the opportunity to like

851
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 3: bring people into that experience, which is what I like

852
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 3: on TikTok.

853
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 5: I'll tell you some I was.

854
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 4: I was with my friend the other day and we

855
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 4: were hanging out and he like just went through a breakup.

856
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 4: You know, I don't ever watch myself back. I'm not

857
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,479
Speaker 4: like a guy that does that. I don't like once

858
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 4: it's there, it's there. I like, I'll ask my manager.

859
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 4: I'll say, hey, did I say something stupid? And I'll

860
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 4: be like, ah, this was stupid, and I'll say, okay,

861
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 4: take it out. Like I'm not like, a, I don't wanna.

862
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 4: I can't do that in any like I don't want

863
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 4: to look at a magazine. I don't want to do

864
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 4: any of that. But my friend wasn't feeling great, and

865
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 4: I said, let me put on an episode of our

866
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 4: new show. And I put it on and at first

867
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 4: he's like staring at it and he's laughing uncontrollably, and

868
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 4: he's like, it's just like following along to everything. And

869
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 4: it got to the point where we start having our

870
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 4: normal conversation and it's just playing in the background, and

871
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 4: it's just like it just we were like in it.

872
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 4: But then we go do our own thing, and then

873
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 4: we come back to it and we're like, it was

874
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 4: so cool to have. It's like a constant friend in

875
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 4: the corner. And it was like whenever there was like

876
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 4: a lull in the conversation, we would just start watching

877
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 4: that's the thing again, and it was and it and

878
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 4: we were laughing and we would like pause it and

879
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 4: then talk about like our own stories. We're like, oh

880
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 4: my god, that reminds me of and to me, I

881
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 4: feel like we live in a world where there's constantly

882
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 4: so much static and noise of like not great things,

883
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 4: and I feel like there's a way to put something

884
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 4: good into the earth without like pushing, like pushing it

885
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 4: down people's boats, like trying to do like some educational

886
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 4: like it's it's like when we did Earth, like we

887
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 4: made Earth and it had a really good sentiment behind it,

888
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 4: but it was talking about like your penis and a

889
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 4: babboons butt. Like It's like, like, I think there's a

890
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 4: way to do something good for the world and not

891
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 4: take yourself so seriously and we talk about real life

892
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 4: shit on this podcast.

893
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 5: It's not a podcast, but I was waiting for that.

894
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 5: It's not only Yeah, it's multi media.

895
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 3: He wants to change the name to multi media multi media.

896
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: No one like me? Yeah, right, scenes with it like nineties,

897
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 2: it's classic, vintage, vintage.

898
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: No one wants so it's still friends, keep Secrets.

899
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: You wanted to change the name.

900
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 3: To Yeah, you like send a serious tax.

901
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 2: That's amazing. I never forgot that to it. I just.

902
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 3: Hadn't made it to you yet shut down. It's not

903
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 3: the right idea, I don't think, Benny replied, no, But.

904
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: That's what I love about what you guys can do. Like,

905
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: you guys are doing something that not a lot of

906
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 2: people can do. You guys can have fun, be ridiculous,

907
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 2: talk about crazy stuff, and have a moral message to

908
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 2: wrap it up with, which is insane or not. And

909
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: I think that's the beautiful thing that you're making people

910
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 2: feel close. But for you, Dave, like you're working with

911
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 2: your wife and your best friend. Yeah, in the same space. Yeah,

912
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 2: I feel like you have the hardest job because that's yeah.

913
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: I just wanted to empathize. It was like, take a

914
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: moment to acknowledge that you're you're in the middle, Like,

915
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: how how does working with friends loved ones is hard? Anyway?

916
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 5: Yeah?

917
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 2: How are you?

918
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 4: Uh?

919
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 2: How are you managing it? Look?

920
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: I really had no fear going into it because I

921
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: just know both of them so well and I've I

922
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: just feel like I wouldn't become this close with anyone

923
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: if they if the person couldn't analyze whatever facts at

924
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 1: hand that are and talk about them fairly, logically or whatever.

925
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: So I'm we get in little spats and arguments all

926
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 1: the time.

927
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: What's the roles usually who starts to fight, who continues?

928
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: Three of us are equally annoying to A Like, yeah,

929
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 1: it really varies, and all of us do different things.

930
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 5: I love, but I love all of them. They're so fun.

931
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 3: But I just go on.

932
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 1: I just know that there's really no argument or moment

933
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: that could ever be the type of thing that we

934
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: couldn't logically talk about it and arrive at the facts

935
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: at hand. So ultimately I have no fear. I also

936
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: have a pretty high tolerance for like under standing him,

937
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: understanding her, understanding when to leave things be. And I

938
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: think all of us kind of do and we're all

939
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: so close that I don't know. For me, it's literally

940
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: like I work so hard that nothing makes me happier

941
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: than getting to work so hard and hang out with

942
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 1: my best friend and wife while doing it.

943
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 3: And I think we all communicate the same way, like

944
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 3: we can kind of get like revved up and get

945
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 3: like not aggressive but passionate.

946
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: We're all aggressive, but we.

947
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 3: Don't take it like I feel like we'll do it

948
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 3: and then like two seconds later we'll be like we'll

949
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 3: be fine. And I think that's like it's unique to

950
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 3: kind of find people that communicate the same way that

951
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 3: you do in these moments. I mean, we can definitely

952
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 3: get on each other's nerves, but it's never like like

953
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 3: it's never like taken personal.

954
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 5: Really, I'm never mad at any That's what I'm saying.

955
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: Oh, you are annoyed, you get annoyed.

956
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 5: No, but I'm never it's like what she's saying, Yeah,

957
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 5: like it goes.

958
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: Ever mad at anyone.

959
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:51,760
Speaker 3: We get revved up together.

960
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, I don't think I could ever like be

961
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 4: like actually really angry at you guys. I don't think

962
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 4: that could ever be a thing. We're also none of

963
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 4: us are that type of person. He's only been angry

964
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 4: at me one time in his entire life, and the

965
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 4: reason was we were coming home from Coachella and he

966
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,439
Speaker 4: was really tired and he hadn't slept in the type

967
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,720
Speaker 4: of like situation, he had had a full night sleep

968
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 4: in a few days and he needs a full night's sleep,

969
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 4: and he's getting his stuff out of the car and

970
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 4: I'm getting myself out of the car and I kind

971
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 4: of like like kicked his knee or something, and and yeah,

972
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 4: I can't even remember think like I like was like, yeah,

973
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 4: pushed me from I was like, yeah, I was like

974
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 4: pushing him like as a joke, and he was like no.

975
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 3: No, no, no.

976
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: He pushed me playfully. You hit my shin hit the

977
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: like the car and hurts so much my sh He

978
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: goes get.

979
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 5: Off of me, and he was and then I laughed

980
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 5: at him. It was he was angry for about fifteen seconds.

981
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 2: So how do you guys make decisions?

982
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: Then a group conversations?

983
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 3: It can get a vote. No, it's rapped up, it

984
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 3: got ribbed up.

985
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,720
Speaker 5: I like to bring the vote in, but she she'll

986
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 5: never insert her.

987
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 3: I don't want the vote. I want us to talk

988
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 3: it out.

989
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:07,399
Speaker 5: I like the vote.

990
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 2: He likes the we we it's a two three like

991
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:11,439
Speaker 2: the vote.

992
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 3: I definitely think what what I I've noticed that I

993
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 3: do sometimes feel this isn't like a bad thing. I

994
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 3: can tell that I'm like a little bit more sensitive

995
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 3: than the two of them, Like I think it's like

996
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 3: a guy girl thing. Maybe not. I don't want to

997
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 3: make such an assumption, but I would say that, like

998
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 3: I would say that I am the more sensitive one

999
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: of the three of us.

1000
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 4: Would you guys not, Well, I'm not sensitive. I'm not

1001
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 4: sensitive about that type of stuff like I'm that sensitive,

1002
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,879
Speaker 4: like I'm crying in a movie a song, like, yeah,

1003
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 4: I'm not sensitive, And I don't think Dave is either,

1004
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 4: Like if someone is just like like I want someone

1005
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 4: to tell me. Also in the studio, like I don't

1006
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 4: like the sugar coating, like just be if someone's just like, oh,

1007
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 4: like that that didn't work, Let's do this, I'm like, oh, great,

1008
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 4: like let's try it.

1009
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that too.

1010
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 2: I'm chill.

1011
00:43:55,239 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 4: You're well, she's sensitive in a different way that I get. Yeah,

1012
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 4: Like me and Dave have been doing this. We've been

1013
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 4: in the foreground putting ourselves out there for many many years.

1014
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,720
Speaker 4: This is Kristen's like first thing. This is like everyone's

1015
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 4: first impression on her is like it's not like she's

1016
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 4: like back in the day where like it would be

1017
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 4: like Michael Jackson would perform once and you'd be like, man,

1018
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 4: I wonder what he's like as a guy.

1019
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 5: There was like no other media.

1020
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 4: We're seeing like every like nook and cranny, like she

1021
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 4: like she'll like she'll burke like sweat, yeah, and she's

1022
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 4: so honest and it's so rare that you see it's funny.

1023
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 4: I like her and Selena. I see why they're such

1024
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: good friends because it's like there's so many similarities where

1025
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 4: like I feel like sometimes like you and Selena have

1026
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 4: this thing where you're both like so brutally honest about

1027
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 4: how you're feeling, and it's like it's so comedic too,

1028
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 4: it's like funny, it's like hard. I like can't explain it. Yeah,

1029
00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 4: Like you're just saying like you're sweating, Like I feel

1030
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 4: like like most like especially because you guys are like

1031
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 4: so well put together and like no, no, but like

1032
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 4: she don't say the same thing. She'll be like, I'm

1033
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 4: sweating and I'm having like an anxiety attack right now,

1034
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,800
Speaker 4: like and I love that about you guys, And I

1035
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 4: do feel like there's also a lot of yous out there,

1036
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 4: And I think like you're going to inspire people so

1037
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 4: much because you wear.

1038
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 5: Your insecurity is on your sleeve in a cool way.

1039
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: And I like it.

1040
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 5: I love it. I love it.

1041
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 3: I like that it's cool.

1042
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: How does it feel for you, Christian, Like, obviously this

1043
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 2: is a big deal. Is the first time you're going

1044
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 2: to be here's the first interview you're doing, right, And.

1045
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 3: I almost didn't come. I was going to say that

1046
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 3: I had the stomach flu. I was like, I was

1047
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 3: like thinking, I would have taken that. You would have known?

1048
00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't it? Well, you shouldn't have room, but I

1049
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 3: but I knew that.

1050
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: No.

1051
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 3: I actually like this interview. I'm doing fine. Yeah, there

1052
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,879
Speaker 3: is like a spit bubble that keeps coming.

1053
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 5: Smile, that's a little bit.

1054
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 4: Right before we did this, she had a full thing

1055
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 4: of lipsick across her whole mouth, and I told her

1056
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 4: right before Yeah.

1057
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 2: As an argument ever lasted longer than the recording of

1058
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 2: one of the episodes.

1059
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 5: No, no is anyone but asleep.

1060
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:32,280
Speaker 2: Walk around?

1061
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 5: No, No, you can if you don't know, I don't. No,

1062
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 5: I can't be the first.

1063
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 3: Man to ever reposition your butt.

1064
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 4: Jay said that nobody has ever used the bathroom during

1065
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,879
Speaker 4: an interview ever except.

1066
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,479
Speaker 5: Him once with Kevin.

1067
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 2: I felt so embarrassed.

1068
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 5: I can't Kevin, do you if I used?

1069
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 3: And then did you use this one?

1070
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 2: You know?

1071
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 5: I always ask people like I always wonder like do

1072
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 5: they use the bathroom? No?

1073
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 4: Like when like Adele is performing, like is she ever?

1074
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 4: Just like oh my gosh, I ate something crazy like

1075
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 4: like does like like does anyone have to poop?

1076
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 5: Ever?

1077
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 2: Earned the best, like find a routine for moments in

1078
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 2: their life, right, Like that's how athletes.

1079
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 5: My stuff is always right before I have.

1080
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 3: To go to the bath like IPE when I'm nervous,

1081
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 3: which is so nice for our podcast because I get

1082
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 3: up and go to the bathroom like I would say,

1083
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 3: like four times an episode. Well not really, it's honestly, yeah,

1084
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 3: i had to as soon as I sat down, but

1085
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 3: I've already gone. It's just nerves. Like it's like to me,

1086
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 3: it's a nerve based thing. It's not. Actually, I don't know.

1087
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 5: Do you think you're PE's nerve based?

1088
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: It's not pee, But I'm surprised at how often I'll

1089
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: have to poop, like thirty minutes before a concert.

1090
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I can relate to that.

1091
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 4: I can relate to what is that nerve that's all

1092
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 4: your are have to like evacuate before and when I

1093
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 4: used to, like I do it before five minutes before

1094
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 4: going when I was when I was younger, when I

1095
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 4: like first, like really in New York, like first got

1096
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 4: on the dating scene. I use to any time I

1097
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 4: was going to have a date with a girl and

1098
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 4: she was about to come over and we were going

1099
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 4: to leave, I would like I'd have to poop like

1100
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 4: two minutes before.

1101
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 5: It would happen.

1102
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 4: Every time until like I got really comfortable with it,

1103
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 4: and I would and I would be I would be honest,

1104
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 4: like I used to use that as one of my

1105
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,320
Speaker 4: like icebreakers or like my other.

1106
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 5: No, I would just like be like my other icebreaker,

1107
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 5: I would say is.

1108
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 4: I would say, I don't usually do this these, but

1109
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 4: what's the worst thing you've ever done in your entire life?

1110
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 4: And then we'd both say the worst thing we ever

1111
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 4: did in our whole life. And I'd be like, Okay,

1112
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 4: now I feel like I know you and I also

1113
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 4: have blackmail on you in case like this doesn't go up.

1114
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: How did you come up with that? Did it work? Break?

1115
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 5: I didn't do it. I didn't do it with Selena.

1116
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 2: There you go.

1117
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 4: I feel like you always think like I like, through dating,

1118
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, like I met my soulmate, Like, oh,

1119
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 4: I met the person I could spend the rest of

1120
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 4: my life. But it's so different when you actually meet

1121
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 4: the person that you are going to spend the right

1122
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 4: to your life. But it was such a different feeling

1123
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 4: and all, and I like went back and I was like,

1124
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 4: whoa those feelings when I was younger like that, it

1125
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 4: was so different because it just clicks, you know what

1126
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 4: I'm saying, It's in a different way.

1127
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 2: What's silliness reaction when she sees you cry at the

1128
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 2: altar like on the wedding day? Like, what's her reaction

1129
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 2: to that? Trying to compare it to Roddy's reaction to

1130
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 2: me crying.

1131
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 4: I think she cried, and then while it was all

1132
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 4: going on, we were laughing and just like talking to

1133
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 4: each other, like while everything was happening.

1134
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 5: I've cried.

1135
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 4: I've cried in front of her plenty of times. No,

1136
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 4: I I cry, I cry, I'm cry. I'm an icey,

1137
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 4: so I'm a little fish.

1138
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, that makes sense. All my closest male friends.

1139
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 5: Of really, what are you?

1140
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm a I'm a virgo.

1141
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 3: My mom is vir virgo, but I don't really identify

1142
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 3: I'm on the cusp.

1143
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 2: I'm pretty pretty like you do have some very virgal

1144
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 2: when's you're birthday sixth September.

1145
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 1: Have you ever had like a person on here that's

1146
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: an expert at all that strology?

1147
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 2: Yes, I had an astrology expert Jenny Nichols a couple

1148
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:07,840
Speaker 2: of weeks ago.

1149
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: And that did that person make you feel like it's

1150
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:14,320
Speaker 1: actual kind of scientific fact, because I'm you know, whenever

1151
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: anyone brings up sign or anything, I want to be like,

1152
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: what the care we talking like that stuff so kindsequential,

1153
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: But then there are so many times where it seems

1154
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: spot on. Did that expert say that it's real?

1155
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 2: You should have them one? Yeah, we should, Yeah, that

1156
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 2: would be really cool. It's the cliff not you know,

1157
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm I'm kind of like you, so I I have

1158
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 2: an understanding of like Eastern astrology, which is very deeply scientific.

1159
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 2: The number of astrologies that available are non existent now,

1160
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 2: Like it's hard, but it does exist. And I've had

1161
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 2: people tell me crazy things like predict they predicted like

1162
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 2: how many kids they would have in the first name

1163
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 2: of their partner and all that kind of stuff. And

1164
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 2: then you have what we have today where you have horoscopes, which,

1165
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 2: of course the daily horoscope you really is like the

1166
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: made up and so it's kind of finding that balance.

1167
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 2: Her take was there's lots of truth to it. It's

1168
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 2: all based on the planets and how they align. There's

1169
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 2: lots of ways of checking the system and making sure

1170
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 2: that it's valuable insight, but the amount of people that

1171
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 2: are actually doing that today are very little, so it's

1172
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 2: almost like there's a lot of Mike's not enough real MC's.

1173
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: Maybe that's kind of when I moved to La, the

1174
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: amount of people that seem to operate off of that

1175
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: having so much consequence bloom, Like, I feel like I'm

1176
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: on an island as the only guy who's like, this

1177
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: isn't real.

1178
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've just brought a weird pattern that all my

1179
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 2: best male friends are born in March.

1180
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just just strange. Born in March.

1181
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 2: Jack, Well, we haven't had enough time yet, but I'm

1182
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 2: looking forward to it. But seriously, my best friend growing

1183
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 2: up was fourteenth to March. My best friend who is

1184
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:47,280
Speaker 2: my best man at the wedding sixteenth tomorrow.

1185
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 1: I'm fifteen.

1186
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 2: My closest friend in La is eighteenth of March. Wow,

1187
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 2: it's just it's crazy.

1188
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 5: And I'm eighth of March.

1189
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 2: Same as my sister who I'm really good friends with.

1190
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 2: Eighth of March.

1191
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, pist season virgos.

1192
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 5: Well, I assume there are so many I knows in cancers.

1193
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 5: Really that's the same as cancer.

1194
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: Thanks, we got to talk to that.

1195
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 2: Well, well, yeah, maybe you should have them on the show,

1196
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:08,959
Speaker 2: all right. What I wanted to do is I wanted

1197
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 2: to play a game that we created for you. So

1198
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 2: your show is called Friends Keep Secrets. We came up

1199
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 2: with Friends Don't Keep Secrets. Really creative things, you know.

1200
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 2: But we played a couple's game with Benny, so we

1201
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 2: thought we'd play a troples game with you.

1202
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: Guys.

1203
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you one of these. We did this

1204
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 2: for Bennie and Selina.

1205
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 7: There we go.

1206
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 2: This is all about Kristin first. Cool. So the way

1207
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 2: this work is the players will write down their partners

1208
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 2: potential answers to questions before comparing answers. So this is

1209
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 2: all about Kristin. We're both going to guess. We're all

1210
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 2: going to guess what hopefully Kristen writes down, and then

1211
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 2: we're going to see and then we're going to do

1212
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 2: each of you and you've write down your arm.

1213
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: We're right now what we think Kristin is rinning correct?

1214
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 2: Correct. If Kristin could change one thing about Dave, what

1215
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 2: would it be.

1216
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: I always had a fear of playing this type of

1217
00:52:58,160 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 1: I just would feel bad about like, do I not

1218
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: know anything about the people that I'm so close with,

1219
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: but I am confident.

1220
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 3: In your answer. I feel like, you know this is

1221
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 3: so fun like it's like, uh, I literally say it

1222
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 3: out loud all the time.

1223
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 2: So the question is, if Kristin could change one thing

1224
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: about Dave, what would it be. Christen, please reveal your

1225
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: answer that he.

1226
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 1: Likes wine what I don't like wine.

1227
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 3: The one thing I would change would be that you

1228
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 3: like to drink wine you don't like change it.

1229
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 2: I don't think you understood. Hold on, shouldn't she be No,

1230
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 2: if Kristin could change one thing about Dave, what would

1231
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 2: it be? She would change that you would like wine,

1232
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 2: that you wouldn't change that.

1233
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: I don't like wine?

1234
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, correct, correct? So what did you write?

1235
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: I thought this was definitely the answer how I chew

1236
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: and smack my lips when.

1237
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 5: I eat mine, was going on dates or being more fun?

1238
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 3: Well, I think that they're all.

1239
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm certain she was going to put that.

1240
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 5: I thought you. I was one hundred percent sure you

1241
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 5: were going to say that.

1242
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:56,839
Speaker 3: I mean I literally say all the time I say

1243
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 3: I wish you drank wine.

1244
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: I mean wine is kind of in the same world

1245
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: being fine.

1246
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:03,800
Speaker 3: The reason I didn't I don't write this.

1247
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: Did you think about that.

1248
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 3: No, but you're also really good about not getting annoyed

1249
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 3: when I get annoyed with you about that?

1250
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 5: But were you thinking about mine a little too?

1251
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 3: Well, I guess I figured yours would be that I

1252
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 3: knew what he was gonna write.

1253
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: My mom has been complaining about the way that I

1254
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:18,919
Speaker 1: smacked my lips my whole life.

1255
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 3: Well, you have a little bit of a problem.

1256
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, what's all right?

1257
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 2: Okay? So the next one is what's something Benny and

1258
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 2: Kristen always side with each other on that drives Dave crazy?

1259
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 3: Actually, I'll just keep mine. There's two. There's two that

1260
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 3: I actually know.

1261
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 5: Okay.

1262
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,760
Speaker 2: So the question was, what's something Benny and Kristin always

1263
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 2: sided with each other on that drives Dave crazy? Kristin,

1264
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 2: please really.

1265
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 3: Okay, I have two. The second the second one that

1266
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 3: I'm about to say, I know he'll get mad about,

1267
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 3: so you don't have to say it. Okay. Well, I

1268
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 3: like to stir the pod. Okay, one working less two

1269
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 3: because I would say putting music.

1270
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,359
Speaker 1: No, No, Benny's on my side.

1271
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, Dave said, Well, I'm something more coming off nicer.

1272
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 4: While texting, I.

1273
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 3: Forgot about that.

1274
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 1: I wrote that I can be two hands on.

1275
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 2: No, I love that. Wait, look this is nice. This

1276
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:15,760
Speaker 2: is good feedback.

1277
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 3: We love your hands on.

1278
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 5: I thought you were going to I thought one of

1279
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:20,360
Speaker 5: you guys was going to say, are we.

1280
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 3: Bad at this game?

1281
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 2: This is good. It's a hard game.

1282
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 3: We're learning new things about about each other.

1283
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: That we did know.

1284
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: The texting is a good guess.

1285
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 2: And the things that you're, the things that you think

1286
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 2: you're that people don't like you. Actually they love it.

1287
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah nice, I love you.

1288
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right. When was the last time Kristen admitted

1289
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 2: that she was wrong?

1290
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: Hmm?

1291
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 3: What makes you think I remember wrong?

1292
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 4: There's too much wavering to know, because she'll go up

1293
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 4: and down about the right and run.

1294
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 3: Depends on what mood I'm in, I would say, I

1295
00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 3: would say, I think I can't remember. I'm just gonna

1296
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 3: have a little do you know something? The last you

1297
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 3: can give a time frame, Yeah, I'm doing that.

1298
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, like last month, ten years ago. They're gonna twelve

1299
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 2: years ago, twelve months ago.

1300
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:13,320
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't even know if I'm actually Yeah.

1301
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 2: You could ride that down if you want.

1302
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:20,280
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think. I mean, I'm so infrequently wrong,

1303
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,160
Speaker 3: it really it's hard to catch me.

1304
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:29,919
Speaker 2: I like the thinking going on. This is good. She's wrong.

1305
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 2: What was the last time, she goes, Benny, you know

1306
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 2: what I'm wrong? I admit it.

1307
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 3: Well, we film it was the time that we filmed something.

1308
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 5: Remember, only if she's caught in the act on the like, only.

1309
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:43,720
Speaker 3: If I see the footage.

1310
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's oh, yeah, that is that is I know. Yeah,

1311
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: it's just a specific argument. There's an up.

1312
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a few.

1313
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:53,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, what was I Oh, you.

1314
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 3: Don't know if I'm wrong. I have to see the footage.

1315
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 2: Saw.

1316
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 5: Basically, no, you don't even need to. It doesn't matter

1317
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 5: free too much.

1318
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: Basically, they got in an argument that Kristen was claiming

1319
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:12,840
Speaker 1: that Benny kind of said something brought something up to

1320
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: get under her skin, and Benny was like, you're the

1321
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: one who brought this thing up in the first place.

1322
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:18,880
Speaker 5: She was like, no, I wasn't.

1323
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: And then we went into the control room and we

1324
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 1: said play us back or how we even got here,

1325
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: And then we watched the footage as we're filming the thing,

1326
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: and Kristen did actually.

1327
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 2: Brought it up, but you know, I get it.

1328
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 5: Okay, next we did good.

1329
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 2: All right, we're going to switch to Dave now, this

1330
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 2: is what about Dave. Who does Dave trust most for

1331
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 2: on his feedback, not just in the group, in the world.

1332
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I know exactly what you're doing. I think I

1333
00:57:54,800 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: know what you're But to me, the that's is actually

1334
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: pretty simple.

1335
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 3: The answer is answers.

1336
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 2: All right. So the question was who does Dave trust

1337
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 2: most funest feedback? Dave, please reveal.

1338
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:11,479
Speaker 1: Benny and Kristen. Is the answer to that question?

1339
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 2: Now?

1340
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: I know they both probably think Jack and Henry No.

1341
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: Oh, I said, what did you write?

1342
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 4: I said, me and Kristen, And then I said friends

1343
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 4: from home. But I was thinking of the Joiner situation.

1344
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 5: But it wasn't. It was just that he was right.

1345
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: So yeah, both of them. Like look Benny, for music,

1346
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: I no song would ever come out without having him

1347
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: hear it and analyze it, critique hits, say it's worthy,

1348
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: point out whatever flaws could exist. Christen's the the exact

1349
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: same thing for like TV and film, like any script

1350
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 1: or thing like I really trust both of their instincts.

1351
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 5: What did you write?

1352
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 3: I wrote, his mom or me or Jeff Schaffer or Benny.

1353
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: My mom told me not to be a rapper, she said, okay,

1354
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: So but I think, yeah, just those two no questions.

1355
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 2: I love that both of you are not narcissists. He

1356
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:06,720
Speaker 2: didn't write themselves, right, No.

1357
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's knew the it's not being a night.

1358
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 2: I just knew the answer.

1359
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, what's our next?

1360
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 2: All right? So if you called Dave because you ran

1361
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 2: someone over, would he help you bury the body? What

1362
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 2: do you call the cops? Or would he tell you

1363
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 2: to call the cops?

1364
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: Reactions?

1365
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 2: It's Dave's wait.

1366
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 3: You know you're saying I kill I ran something?

1367
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you ran someone over? Wait yeah yeah, And

1368
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 2: then you call these guys and I'm saying, would you

1369
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 2: tell them to wait wait wait confused.

1370
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 5: One of them?

1371
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1372
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 2: Sorry sorry if you called it sorry, If yes, my bad.

1373
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for correcting me. I was wrong.

1374
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 2: Let this be in my statement that I admit it's wrong.

1375
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 2: If you ran someone over and you called Dave, what's

1376
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 2: he going to tell him what happened? Would he help

1377
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 2: you bury the body? Would he call the cops himself?

1378
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 2: Or would he tell you to disappear?

1379
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 1: Disappears?

1380
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 2: I'm matting at that. I'm changing what if I had

1381
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 2: the opportunity to change it? Yeah?

1382
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 5: But is it our fault though? Or was it an accident.

1383
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 2: It's an accident. Obviously you didn't do it on purpose.

1384
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 2: What would Dave tell you to do? This is this

1385
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 2: is a test of Dave's character.

1386
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like framing it that way.

1387
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I know.

1388
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 3: I feel like I have the black marker Oliver, because

1389
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 3: I've been doodling.

1390
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 2: All right, Dave, what would you do? I can see

1391
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 2: your's day, But they would disappear. They would tell you

1392
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 2: you tell him to disappear. I never want to see

1393
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 2: you again.

1394
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 1: Wow, I was kidding about the second sentence. But I disappear,

1395
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: I disappear, Get out of here, go good.

1396
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 5: I said he would analyze all the facts at hand.

1397
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 5: That's what I would do.

1398
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 8: That.

1399
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 2: That's a great answer that conversation, Kristin, What did you

1400
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 2: said he would.

1401
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 3: Tell he would to call the cops? I think at

1402
01:00:58,200 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 3: the end, I think he.

1403
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 5: Would have to analyze all the facts at hand.

1404
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 2: I talk about this. This is the first question we've

1405
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 2: really had.

1406
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 5: Don't you agree.

1407
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: I definitely wouldn't bury the bot like I think I

1408
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 1: would talk. I can't get I can't get wrapped up

1409
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:13,920
Speaker 1: in criminal activity like that. But nor would I call

1410
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: the cops like behind their back. Ever, I think I

1411
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: would try to convince that person why the thing to

1412
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: do is just call the cops.

1413
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 5: I think you'd have to analyze all the facts or.

1414
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: Disappear, yet disappear you would do the right thing ultimately. Yes,

1415
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 1: but here's what. I'm not willing to bury a body

1416
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: for you or anyone. I am willing to perhaps hear

1417
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,919
Speaker 1: of something and just pretend that I never heard of it. Yeah,

1418
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: that's changed the subject.

1419
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 2: Change the subject, chang.

1420
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 3: He does you do a lot of OCD around that subject?

1421
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 2: All right, all right, okay, we'll do We'll do Benny.

1422
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 2: We'll do Benny. A couple of questions on Benny good

1423
01:01:50,320 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 2: stuff with Dave. What's something Benny pretends doesn't bother him

1424
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 2: but actually does?

1425
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 3: He doesn't really ever pretend he does.

1426
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 2: I did, Okay, I'm sure I'm gonna try to.

1427
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 5: You can have to.

1428
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 2: Kristen could get this right?

1429
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 5: What is it? Or do I do mine? First?

1430
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 2: Yes?

1431
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 5: Putting things in my fridge incorrect.

1432
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 1: I was gonna say that, I don't think you pretend

1433
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: that that doesn't.

1434
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 5: I do for anyone else except Kristen.

1435
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 3: I was gonna say it. Then I'm like, you're so

1436
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:21,440
Speaker 3: overt least that's.

1437
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 2: Why you didn't let me put your stuff in the

1438
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 2: fridge today. No, no, no, no, I didn't.

1439
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 5: I just wanted to be taken out a little bit.

1440
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: If he puts out something musically that has the potential

1441
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: to go number one and it doesn't go number one,

1442
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: he'll say to everyone else, I'm not bothered by not

1443
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: going number one, but I think it bothers him to

1444
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: not go number one, go number two. If number one

1445
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: is a cheat. You know, certain songs they have no chance,

1446
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: certain albums they have a chance. So not going number one, they're.

1447
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 4: Saying, if it's achievable, you're saying, if it's a cheating,

1448
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 4: if like, if I'm gonna go if I'm going to

1449
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:02,000
Speaker 4: go sixty, doesn't matter.

1450
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 5: But if I'm going to go number two, you don't.

1451
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: If you have the expectation that a number one is

1452
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: within reach and you go three or two or ten,

1453
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: you're annoyed, which I will tell you.

1454
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 5: I'm going to tell you answer after.

1455
01:03:15,120 --> 01:03:19,479
Speaker 1: And then my other thing is, uh, Benny's favorite line

1456
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: as of this year is I don't care about anything.

1457
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: I've never heard Benny say anything more than I don't

1458
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 1: care about you about anything.

1459
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 2: And I think.

1460
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 3: Uh.

1461
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 1: Oftentimes that will say that when we're talking about something

1462
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 1: that we both care about, and if it seems like

1463
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 1: I want something that he doesn't wantah, he will say

1464
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,720
Speaker 1: I don't care about anything, but I know he cares.

1465
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 1: He just wants to stop talking about it.

1466
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:46,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, and then I'll answer them all act good.

1467
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, go on, Christy, mine is.

1468
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 3: Not sticking with the plan, like with a plan or

1469
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 3: the plan, which is kind of in relation to like,

1470
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 3: I think I don't care about anything. If you, I think,

1471
01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 3: if you if you start to feel the loss of

1472
01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 3: control instead of that, Benny will just be like, I

1473
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 3: don't care about anything, doesn't matter, Benny, you have to.

1474
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 2: Defend yourself this thing I don't feel.

1475
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 5: I don't even understand it, really, but I don't.

1476
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 3: What do you mean it's not sticking with the plan?

1477
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 2: I don't.

1478
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 3: What more do you need to understand?

1479
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 4: I don't understand that I don't care about anything. Is

1480
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 4: like this to me when I'm having a conversation with someone.

1481
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 4: I'll just use Dave as the example. When I'm talking

1482
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 4: to someone and like usually pretty quickly into a conversation,

1483
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 4: I can figure out whether this person is going to

1484
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 4: be like even receptive to like the information that I'm saying,

1485
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 4: or whether I think that they're they have like something

1486
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 4: made up in their mind and like there's such a

1487
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:55,479
Speaker 4: minute chance of me changing it. And then I say,

1488
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 4: in my head, I say, well, is this ever going

1489
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 4: to change? Is it that important if it doesn't, And

1490
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 4: then just to nip it in the butt, I'll be like,

1491
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 4: I don't really care about it. And then that's my

1492
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 4: thing with the number one thing. It used to be

1493
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,280
Speaker 4: very true to me. That used to be so true

1494
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 4: to me. I was fixated on getting the number one

1495
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 4: at any cost, like even if it was number forty.

1496
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 4: Like I was like I like had to I used

1497
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 4: to be when I was younger. I used to really

1498
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 4: really care so much that I felt like I wasn't

1499
01:05:29,640 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 4: even enjoying the things in front of me because I

1500
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 4: was like so like i'd get the number one, like

1501
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 4: in something, I'd be the best at it, like I'd

1502
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 4: have like a number one Billboard record, and then I'd

1503
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 4: be not even like celebrating. I'd be like, yeah, that's cool,

1504
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 4: and then like move on to the next thing, and

1505
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even think about it. And I feel like

1506
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 4: I feel like that was so true to me for

1507
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 4: so many years of my life and honestly until pretty recently,

1508
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:59,120
Speaker 4: until probably like four years ago, and then it was

1509
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 4: really solidific honestly with with Selena, because I felt like

1510
01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 4: I won, I want it, and I already did. I

1511
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 4: already know that, Like I solidified what I wanted to do,

1512
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 4: and it was like the first time in my life

1513
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,880
Speaker 4: where I didn't care. That doesn't mean that if it

1514
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 4: is in sight, I'm going to do everything in my

1515
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 4: physical power to try to do the best thing I can,

1516
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 4: because that's just the type of person I am. I

1517
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 4: love the competition, I love striving for the greatness, but

1518
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 4: it doesn't have the same importance that it did have

1519
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 4: on me for so long.

1520
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 5: It used to have me in like a choke hold.

1521
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 4: And then like I felt like I was finally freed

1522
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,840
Speaker 4: of that, like in the last like four or five years,

1523
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:38,880
Speaker 4: and it was like so free.

1524
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 5: But I understand both sides, I completely do. I understand.

1525
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 5: Like I used to be the guy looking every week

1526
01:06:46,680 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 5: at the chart seeing if we were.

1527
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 4: Getting close, and I was so I put so much

1528
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 4: importance on it, and I don't even know why I did,

1529
01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 4: because I didn't even care when I got it, Like,

1530
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,080
Speaker 4: but I think I did care, but I was so

1531
01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 4: fixated on getting the net.

1532
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm probably just leaved when you got Yeah.

1533
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I was probably just relieved and it

1534
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 4: was like such a rat race, and I'm so happy

1535
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 4: to be free of it. But I do also understand

1536
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 4: that side of me when I was so into it,

1537
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 4: because I'm like, yeah, that's cool to do that, but

1538
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 4: it is also cool to be like totally free of it.

1539
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 4: And I think the healthy medium is probably somewhere in

1540
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 4: the well.

1541
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 2: Thank you guys. Thinking of a playing that started off

1542
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 2: some really intense conversations. We can do a few more.

1543
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 2: I can take you to an ending. Three questions I'd

1544
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 2: like to.

1545
01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:30,400
Speaker 5: Do a few.

1546
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 3: Should cancel all your plans after I'm staying all right?

1547
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 2: Okay, these are more fun ones. Who is most likely

1548
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:57,919
Speaker 2: to survive a zombie apocalypse? Now you get to free

1549
01:07:58,000 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 2: for all right anywhere?

1550
01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 3: When it has to be out of the three of us, yes,

1551
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:04,040
Speaker 3: three to one?

1552
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 2: Reveal Oh why Benny everyone the same best? And why Ben?

1553
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 5: I just have more skill?

1554
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 1: Like I'm the last question those two, and I just

1555
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:17,719
Speaker 1: think men physically are stronger than women? What physically?

1556
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 2: But why would that have to come in.

1557
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 1: It's just I'm gone.

1558
01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 5: I thought it was like going by like resourcefulness.

1559
01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 3: Well, then I definitely would win because I feel like

1560
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 3: I can strategically.

1561
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: Christians pretty athletic too.

1562
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 3: No, I just mean, well, yeah, I don't know. My

1563
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 3: instinct was the same.

1564
01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 2: That's not me. I haven't rated each other on difference. Okay,

1565
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:43,600
Speaker 2: what's all right? The next question is who takes the

1566
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 2: longest to apply to text? You're pretty responsive.

1567
01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 1: Respond to every Oh, Kristen.

1568
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 5: No, Christen's so good.

1569
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 1: Christ is terrible.

1570
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 3: I thought you always made fun of me. I never response.

1571
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: Actually, I actually think Christian's worse than you.

1572
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 2: Just don't respond because both of them that she responded,

1573
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:04,640
Speaker 2: Kristen didn't never texted me since we met. So that

1574
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 2: says it will.

1575
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: Respond to only me, and she responds to me relatively timely.

1576
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 1: Benny will respond to and she doesn't respond to anyone else.

1577
01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 3: Ever, No, that's not true. Let me say this. I

1578
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 3: mean I do, I did. I do have a little

1579
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 3: bit of anxiety with texting. Yeah, so, I and I

1580
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 3: don't like to ever feel like I have to do

1581
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 3: some like I don't wake up in the morning and

1582
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 3: read my text like I think that's where I am

1583
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 3: going wrong. And now I have like I think, sixteen

1584
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 3: hundred unread text messages.

1585
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:33,759
Speaker 2: It's gonna be it's gonna be a lot more dms.

1586
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:35,439
Speaker 2: And well, I don't look.

1587
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 3: At my dms. I've never looked at them. She's not

1588
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 3: in public, but I don't even look at my friends

1589
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:41,799
Speaker 3: DA Dave is still not going to be public.

1590
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 5: No, I don't think you should.

1591
01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 1: Anny Benny responds to every text like no matter what, agree,

1592
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: it's just there's like a seventy two hour back up.

1593
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he does it. You know, he's doing it

1594
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:56,439
Speaker 3: in the morning, and it will like sometimes he'll respond

1595
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 3: to like a text that doesn't even make sense anymore,

1596
01:09:58,360 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 3: and you'll just.

1597
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: Get like ha ha ha ha ha, respond to like

1598
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 1: a group chat like two days later and it's so

1599
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:06,719
Speaker 1: not relevant anymore.

1600
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:08,680
Speaker 2: But everyone's moved on.

1601
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 5: I'm catching up.

1602
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, my text and spurts like you'll you'll if I'm

1603
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 3: like paying attention to my phone, I'll have a I'll

1604
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 3: be there.

1605
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: Kristen, like you know, her parents will be like, hey,

1606
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: do you think you can tell Kristen to respond.

1607
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:24,639
Speaker 3: To I got a text on the way here from

1608
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 3: my mom that was saying, hey, could you read the

1609
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 3: family text and please respond no way? And I thought,

1610
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 3: I am in the car.

1611
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 1: She's the worst that text. She really is the same.

1612
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 3: My phone's a beeper, it's just for emergency.

1613
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 1: I'll respond instantly with way too much, with too much.

1614
01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 2: I appreciate that because then I feel like there's text

1615
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 2: you to the text and like we can actually get somewhere.

1616
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 3: They I'll text you just so you know that I'm capable.

1617
01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 2: I'm waiting for that text. I've been texting with these

1618
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 2: guys for like a year and a half now, Yeah,

1619
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 2: well okay, next one. Who would accidentally start a cult?

1620
01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 2: God reveal.

1621
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:08,800
Speaker 5: I'm one of the people. I'm trying to think. We

1622
01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:09,960
Speaker 5: wouldn't be your yours.

1623
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 4: You're you have more of like the soothing thing like

1624
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 4: your your Your message could like read like being like trank. Well,

1625
01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:18,600
Speaker 4: like no one wants to join our The.

1626
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 1: Reason I said Kristen, I only said Kristen because.

1627
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 3: I could definitely be like a cult Kristin.

1628
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:29,720
Speaker 1: Everyone likes Kristen, and Kristen loves everyone she meets and

1629
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 1: thinks she's going to be the best friend. So it's

1630
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:34,559
Speaker 1: like so many people that she runs into. She could

1631
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 1: end up thinking that they're going to be close and

1632
01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:37,600
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden there's like, you know, a

1633
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 1: cult somehow, I don't.

1634
01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:42,679
Speaker 8: Know, style your hair to be like us today. Yeah,

1635
01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 8: I was like, it's very always like that. You guys

1636
01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 8: all have like it's the first time we've had three

1637
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 8: people with Cuddy.

1638
01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 5: You got the staff? Do they give you all? I'm

1639
01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:54,880
Speaker 5: making them up.

1640
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:00,799
Speaker 3: You guys do have the same hairstyle.

1641
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:06,679
Speaker 2: We have like variations of longer, would it like throw out? Yeah,

1642
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 2: it's like my head's like my head is like this

1643
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 2: naturally yeah. Yeah, but it's like I feel like it's

1644
01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:13,879
Speaker 2: it's like evolution of hairs, like me to Dave to Bennett.

1645
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 5: Right, it's like that it's evolution.

1646
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 2: It is evolution. What do you guys say, evolution? Evolution

1647
01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 2: like evolutions aluminium? Yeah, aluminum, aluminium, aluminium, aluminium.

1648
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:30,120
Speaker 1: There's another iron, A few words. There's one word that

1649
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 1: I can't think of it now.

1650
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 3: And the food, the food, what do you call it?

1651
01:12:33,280 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, you always say.

1652
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: I can't remember.

1653
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 2: No.

1654
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 4: It's like also people say they say so in America

1655
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:45,519
Speaker 4: you would say, like his name is Dave, but like

1656
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 4: if we were British, we would say he's called Dave.

1657
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:51,800
Speaker 2: How do you say innovative? That's innovative.

1658
01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:52,559
Speaker 1: That's what you said.

1659
01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 2: It's I to think about it now.

1660
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:59,560
Speaker 4: Nonchalant you said funny too. Oh no, you said it

1661
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:00,719
Speaker 4: said something different.

1662
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 2: I say, do you want me to be less? Chalan wow?

1663
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: I like chalantalone?

1664
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 2: All these are the last three because these are you

1665
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 2: don't have to write for these anymore. These are questions

1666
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 2: given by so before the show. You can keep those

1667
01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 2: white boys the no't keep. I asked you each for

1668
01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 2: a question you'd like me to ask the other two

1669
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:25,280
Speaker 2: people in the room.

1670
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so it's hard.

1671
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 2: So these are the answer questions you gave. We'll start

1672
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 2: with Benny. So Benny's question to both of you, and

1673
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:36,599
Speaker 2: the answer has to be in one sentence. I'll maybe

1674
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 2: let you expand. The question from Benny is how do

1675
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 2: you separate work from your relationship? If you're disagreeing in work,

1676
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:47,920
Speaker 2: does it spill over into personal and vice versa.

1677
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 3: I would say that we well, I think you've been

1678
01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:52,559
Speaker 3: a part of it. Dave and I are really it's

1679
01:13:52,640 --> 01:13:54,679
Speaker 3: just like the one thing that's great about our relationship

1680
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 3: and now I feel similarly with Benny is that we

1681
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 3: can you can like have arguments and we can get

1682
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 3: upset with each other and then like instantly kind of

1683
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 3: once we feel like we've turned over the stones in

1684
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 3: the argument or like gotten to a place it's never

1685
01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:12,680
Speaker 3: carried over, Like we've never been Have we ever been

1686
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 3: mad more than a day? Even if a day, I

1687
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 3: don't think we've ever been mad for a full day.

1688
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 2: I've never been mad.

1689
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 3: Oh you guys, Yeah, are you asking about us too?

1690
01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I was.

1691
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 5: You said something about me?

1692
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:28,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, going to take it away.

1693
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:31,680
Speaker 1: I think he asked the question because we work so

1694
01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 1: like beyond even just our multi media creation. You know,

1695
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:42,760
Speaker 1: any script she writes, I'm a part of that with her.

1696
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:44,560
Speaker 1: Any script I write, she's a part of that with me.

1697
01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:46,599
Speaker 1: So it's really she's not a part of my musical

1698
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:50,240
Speaker 1: process though. That's my I get separation there because she

1699
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: likes more poppy stuff that I am just like.

1700
01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 3: No, that's true.

1701
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 2: She doesn't like she's the opposite. She likes less pop.

1702
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 3: One time, I gave you a bunch of thoughts. She

1703
01:14:58,720 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 3: doesn't like to show me his music.

1704
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:03,519
Speaker 1: I hate showing her. She doesn't listen to lyrics. Yeah,

1705
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 1: so I could show her a recording of me where

1706
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:09,680
Speaker 1: the verses are we know how and she would like

1707
01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 1: that just as much as me like doing really clever lyrics.

1708
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 3: He also we we tried. He tried to show me

1709
01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 3: his music once, but it was so I had to

1710
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 3: he literally like pulled up the chair directly in front

1711
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 3: of the computer. It was blasting, the speakers were blasting,

1712
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 3: and I wasn't allowed to move, and I just it

1713
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 3: had to be under his.

1714
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 4: Hate was the experience because you have to say there.

1715
01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 4: I tell him I'm not sitting there, don't show me

1716
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 4: the music.

1717
01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, So then this is what we.

1718
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:38,760
Speaker 2: Don't like.

1719
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 1: The question to answer Benny's original question, how do we separate?

1720
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 1: I mean we, I selfishly don't always feel the need

1721
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:54,960
Speaker 1: to because I when we're talking about work or whatever

1722
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: we're working on, I find it so inspiring and fun

1723
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 1: and like I'm just like, to me, there's like nothing

1724
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:03,479
Speaker 1: more fun to talk about now, So I look at

1725
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:05,600
Speaker 1: it as like this is great. I get to have

1726
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,559
Speaker 1: fun with my best friend and we're being productive at

1727
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:10,240
Speaker 1: the same time. Now, you know, sometimes I feel like,

1728
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:13,719
Speaker 1: you know, I remember when I originally started dating Kristen

1729
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 1: and I learned that she kind of has the same

1730
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:18,639
Speaker 1: exact interest and passions professionally as I do. I did

1731
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 1: have the thought, oh, man, like is it would I

1732
01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 1: be better off marrying someone who was like an English

1733
01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 1: teacher and there was like complete separation of church and state.

1734
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: But now seeing the opposite, I'm so happy that we

1735
01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 1: get to connect over the thing. Like you know, I

1736
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 1: think there's just such a joy to me when I

1737
01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 1: get to talk about the things I care the most

1738
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:43,960
Speaker 1: about in life, which unfortunately is work. Now I'm not

1739
01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 1: working like some corporate drudgery job. I'm working on like

1740
01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 1: the self expression of my soul. So it's different to

1741
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:52,679
Speaker 1: be like, oh, there's no separate I'm not like working

1742
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: in an accounting firm. Like I'm talking about, you know,

1743
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,040
Speaker 1: how to tell these stories that I feel born to tell,

1744
01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:01,160
Speaker 1: and she's it's fun, like we're talking about funding creative shit.

1745
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 3: But you've helped me become I would say that like

1746
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 3: you've you've given me more confidence professionally. The good thing

1747
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 3: about us working together is you've given like I feel

1748
01:17:09,120 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 3: like over the few years that we've kind of like

1749
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 3: really co meshed our professional lives. I kind of come

1750
01:17:17,120 --> 01:17:19,640
Speaker 3: come from a place of like more self doubt and

1751
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 3: like insecurity, and he's really helped me get like the

1752
01:17:22,800 --> 01:17:26,000
Speaker 3: kind of confidence to even be doing this and writing

1753
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 3: and stuff. I feel like it's been really I'm so

1754
01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 3: thankful that you're like a good mentor and a husband.

1755
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:35,439
Speaker 2: Great answers, guys, beautiful, really nice. That felt good.

1756
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:37,400
Speaker 1: But we should we should we should go on more

1757
01:17:37,560 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 1: dates without talking about Yeah, that's the newest.

1758
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 3: Thing that I had to say. I think sometimes I

1759
01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:45,720
Speaker 3: will be like, especially with the anxiety that I've had,

1760
01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:48,439
Speaker 3: which I'm on a new path forward and I'm a

1761
01:17:48,520 --> 01:17:52,959
Speaker 3: new person and I no longer create this self inflicted

1762
01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 3: torture of like anxiety about the podcast in particular. But

1763
01:17:57,160 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 3: there was a period where I was like, we have

1764
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:01,320
Speaker 3: to stop talking about work all the time because I

1765
01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 3: can't like mentally break away from it. And it was

1766
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 3: I just I wasn't but no, I'm now, you can

1767
01:18:08,040 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 3: sign me up.

1768
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:10,080
Speaker 1: When was the time where I was like, I don't

1769
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 1: want to talk about this right now, and you kept

1770
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 1: talking or you were homed doesn't matter, yeah, because I

1771
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: was about to do something with music where I just

1772
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 1: had to be in like the state of mind that

1773
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 1: and I was in such a good mood. I had

1774
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 1: no anxiety about anything with like the podcaster or whatever

1775
01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:27,160
Speaker 1: you want to call it, and she I said, I

1776
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:30,840
Speaker 1: don't want to talk about it right now, and she

1777
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: just wanted to.

1778
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:31,960
Speaker 2: Talk about it.

1779
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 3: Well, this is an interesting I did start going to

1780
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:37,719
Speaker 3: therapy because I was like, it's important that he can't

1781
01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:40,519
Speaker 3: always be the like I have such a tendency when

1782
01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 3: I have anxiety to like, for me to get over

1783
01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 3: my anxiety, I have to say every thought that I have,

1784
01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 3: which it used to be okay. I mean, I'm sure

1785
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,720
Speaker 3: it's exhausting for him, but it used to not be

1786
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:54,000
Speaker 3: so related to what he was doing. So therapy has

1787
01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:57,639
Speaker 3: been helpful because instead of like taking him on, which

1788
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:00,080
Speaker 3: is still very supportive, but like I don't have to, like,

1789
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 3: I felt like I was like bringing him down. So

1790
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:04,640
Speaker 3: the therapy now is a lot easier for me to

1791
01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:07,560
Speaker 3: like just mentally spiral and then I'm not putting it

1792
01:19:07,640 --> 01:19:09,640
Speaker 3: on you. So we've learned a little. We've we've kind

1793
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 3: of like started to create some boundaries.

1794
01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:13,639
Speaker 1: And I learned know now not to get her worked

1795
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: up when she's in bed and I don't know not

1796
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:17,720
Speaker 1: to like if I sometimes I'm I come in and

1797
01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:19,439
Speaker 1: I come with the idea of like we should do

1798
01:19:19,479 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 1: this that, and then she and yeah, she needs to sleep.

1799
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,880
Speaker 3: Well no, I just would get like wrapped up and excited.

1800
01:19:26,040 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1801
01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:28,280
Speaker 2: Me and my wife felt like so like I'm the

1802
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 2: one who comes to bed and wants to chat and

1803
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 2: talk and yeah, and she does not want to and

1804
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 2: she's like, first thing in the morning, wants to chat

1805
01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 2: and talk. And I'm like, ye, I need to like

1806
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 2: gear up slowly so I get that. Yeah, that's beautiful, thank.

1807
01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 3: You to though I have to thought in the morning though.

1808
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 2: So this was Kristen's question for Benny and Day. Do

1809
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:47,400
Speaker 2: you guys talk about me when I leave the room?

1810
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 3: You have to answer, honestly, not really?

1811
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:54,800
Speaker 2: Now cool?

1812
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:55,559
Speaker 5: Not really.

1813
01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 3: This was a hard thing to a hard question.

1814
01:19:58,120 --> 01:19:59,639
Speaker 2: I couldn't, but it's a good question.

1815
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:06,160
Speaker 4: Only time I remember that is at New Year's when

1816
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 4: I was like, what are you guys talking about? And

1817
01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 4: then Dave said, I'm not at liberty to tell you,

1818
01:20:12,520 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 4: and then he said he said, and he was just

1819
01:20:15,040 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 4: and then I was like all right, and then we

1820
01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:19,280
Speaker 4: just started talking about something else. And then when you

1821
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:21,080
Speaker 4: came over, you were like, are you talking about me?

1822
01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 4: And we weren't talking about you.

1823
01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 3: Question I asked a lot this paranoia that as soon

1824
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 3: as I leave the room, But I know that it's

1825
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:28,880
Speaker 3: mostly more of a joke. I know you guys are No,

1826
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 3: we never really talked. Oh do you guys say positive

1827
01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 3: Do you say positive things behind my back?

1828
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 2: He said no. Yeah, I've said like we do.

1829
01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 4: I've said like I was so blown away by how

1830
01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 4: well Kristen's done, Like I remember we talked about that before.

1831
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 1: So you told you we talk about you the way

1832
01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 1: I don't know we guys talk about their wives or

1833
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 1: it's not like we're not like talking about you professionally

1834
01:20:57,280 --> 01:20:57,679
Speaker 1: that often.

1835
01:20:57,760 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's never, and there's never.

1836
01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:00,680
Speaker 2: Do you never?

1837
01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 5: You can't have this fear, Dave's never.

1838
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 3: I live on. I always am like.

1839
01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 5: Thinking about like, are they all guys are talking about me?

1840
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:08,600
Speaker 2: No?

1841
01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:10,639
Speaker 4: And if they and if you guys are talking about

1842
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 4: either there's a reason or like they're upset with something

1843
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 4: or I don't care.

1844
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think I care. I care too much

1845
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:20,439
Speaker 3: what people think. So I'm always like, even though it's

1846
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:23,280
Speaker 3: like kind of half joking, I will I thought everybody

1847
01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:25,800
Speaker 3: felt this way. Be like a lot of people do, yeah,

1848
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:27,280
Speaker 3: like be like as soon as I leave I'll be like,

1849
01:21:27,280 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 3: I wonder, even if it's not bad, I just wonder

1850
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:33,080
Speaker 3: if they're being like, yeah, she was talked a lot

1851
01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 3: that time, or she said that really a bad question.

1852
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 1: She has so much self doubt and like circular thoughts

1853
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 1: of negativity that are our brains are like, I think

1854
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:43,960
Speaker 1: so much.

1855
01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 2: I think so much of that is women's conditioning in

1856
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:49,840
Speaker 2: society even and women in society, like that's my take

1857
01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 2: on I was going and serious, deadly serious. When I

1858
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:57,680
Speaker 2: took to all my male friends, they will feel the

1859
01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:00,400
Speaker 2: same way. And then I took to my my friends,

1860
01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:03,720
Speaker 2: they all feel that way, like what that's that's you know,

1861
01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 2: you can't then just ignore it.

1862
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think it's been a little bit more.

1863
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 3: It's been more exaggerated just because of the like the

1864
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 3: uncertainty about all of this being public.

1865
01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:17,360
Speaker 2: I feel like I live your hairs in your mouth.

1866
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:20,000
Speaker 5: I'm sorry you can't see it from me to I

1867
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 5: didn't see it either.

1868
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:22,920
Speaker 2: I told you to do that.

1869
01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 3: I tell him to do this thing, thank you.

1870
01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:29,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been exacerbated because you're dealing with me and

1871
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:31,560
Speaker 1: Bennie are also even though yes we're men, we're like

1872
01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:34,599
Speaker 1: even public for so long yeah, we're like the two

1873
01:22:34,800 --> 01:22:37,679
Speaker 1: no one believes in themselves more than me and Benny,

1874
01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 1: like we don't know. So it's like that compared to

1875
01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 1: self doubt, it makes it feel even more of a yeah.

1876
01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:47,400
Speaker 3: But I'm doing a lot better because I realized that.

1877
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:50,360
Speaker 3: I realized that so much of my self doubt is

1878
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:53,560
Speaker 3: like my default narrator, like in my head. And I

1879
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 3: feel like this podcast will help me. I don't know,

1880
01:22:57,280 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 3: I could just crumble you guys for seeing me again

1881
01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:00,880
Speaker 3: not in.

1882
01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:03,080
Speaker 2: A bad way where you're so aware. I think, you know,

1883
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:05,640
Speaker 2: I think part of it is just as hard as

1884
01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:08,360
Speaker 2: you are in yourself. You don't give yourself enough credit

1885
01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 2: as well, but like you're so aware of what's going

1886
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:13,000
Speaker 2: on in your mind. I think if you're not aware,

1887
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:13,960
Speaker 2: that's when it's really bad.

1888
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:14,240
Speaker 8: Great.

1889
01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 2: I like to hear that, yeah, yeah, ok, yeah, all right.

1890
01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 2: Final question This was Dave's question. I saved what I

1891
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 2: believed to be the best for last. Thank you Dave's question. So,

1892
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:31,960
Speaker 2: Dave's question to Kristin and Benny is if I died,

1893
01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 2: how often would you guys hang out or see each other?

1894
01:23:36,280 --> 01:23:40,680
Speaker 3: Wow? I feel like if you die, that'd be so

1895
01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 3: heartbreaking and we'd be sharing. We'd be like experiencing similar pain.

1896
01:23:45,640 --> 01:23:48,400
Speaker 3: Well me more. But I can't speak on half of Benny.

1897
01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:51,800
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know frequently, I don't know like as

1898
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:52,840
Speaker 3: much as we could.

1899
01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:58,880
Speaker 4: But check first, obviously I would enit all the things,

1900
01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:01,120
Speaker 4: do I know how you had like them? And I'd

1901
01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:05,880
Speaker 4: find a way. Yeah, fine, well first I was talking

1902
01:24:05,880 --> 01:24:10,240
Speaker 4: about the show. Then for then i'd edit. Yeah, I'd

1903
01:24:10,360 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 4: make sure to get the right features. That we've spoken

1904
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:15,320
Speaker 4: enough of it, i'd be able to at least there's

1905
01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:19,519
Speaker 4: like fifteen songs. I could cobble together something great and

1906
01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 4: I would and I would do that, and I would make.

1907
01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:25,000
Speaker 1: Sure not but would you hangs cobble?

1908
01:24:25,200 --> 01:24:28,920
Speaker 5: No, no, to make something like truly like, yeah, do

1909
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 5: it hanging out with me?

1910
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:30,559
Speaker 3: Isn't that the question?

1911
01:24:30,880 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 2: No?

1912
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:35,360
Speaker 6: No, no, this was she would she'd be clearly would

1913
01:24:35,360 --> 01:24:38,800
Speaker 6: you involve her in the clearly no no, no no,

1914
01:24:38,920 --> 01:24:42,080
Speaker 6: but I would involve her, and I roll out no, no,

1915
01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 6: I didn't involve her.

1916
01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:45,040
Speaker 3: Would I still be invited to like the dinner parties?

1917
01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:46,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think I would hang out with you. I

1918
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:47,439
Speaker 5: think you would.

1919
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 4: Well, I'd like you to feel like my my dave role,

1920
01:24:51,360 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 4: like I feel like you. I feel like I'd be

1921
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:56,639
Speaker 4: calling you like every day.

1922
01:24:56,840 --> 01:24:58,840
Speaker 3: And it would be so you can't you have to

1923
01:24:58,880 --> 01:24:59,800
Speaker 3: we have to protect you at all.

1924
01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:03,760
Speaker 1: Or would you guys be so reminded of me when

1925
01:25:03,760 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: you saw each other that you'd actually have to never

1926
01:25:05,439 --> 01:25:06,439
Speaker 1: see each other ever again?

1927
01:25:06,560 --> 01:25:06,600
Speaker 2: No?

1928
01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:09,080
Speaker 5: No, no, we'd see each other all the time I died.

1929
01:25:09,120 --> 01:25:10,600
Speaker 3: Would you guys just replace me?

1930
01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:11,720
Speaker 2: No?

1931
01:25:12,040 --> 01:25:16,200
Speaker 3: What for the show? No?

1932
01:25:16,520 --> 01:25:19,040
Speaker 2: Just be a two person show? Right? No, it would

1933
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:19,479
Speaker 2: be done?

1934
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:20,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1935
01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:22,320
Speaker 2: Or would we keep I don't know. I wouldn't be.

1936
01:25:22,439 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be.

1937
01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:25,920
Speaker 3: I'm glad you got all the footage though, Yeah, no

1938
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:26,519
Speaker 3: one's dying.

1939
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 2: I hate talking about this, even though I know we've

1940
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:33,400
Speaker 2: got footage again and everyone needs facts. But you, guys, Bran,

1941
01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:35,640
Speaker 2: I am so I mean, just spending time with you

1942
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:38,160
Speaker 2: makes me just love the show even more. But I

1943
01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 2: want to say to all of you, like truly, you

1944
01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 2: guys trusting me, giving me this opportunity to do this

1945
01:25:42,439 --> 01:25:45,840
Speaker 2: with you has been a highlight of my professional career,

1946
01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:48,000
Speaker 2: like to work with all three of you, because it's

1947
01:25:48,120 --> 01:25:50,080
Speaker 2: very rare that when you're like you know, when I

1948
01:25:50,160 --> 01:25:52,280
Speaker 2: started my podcast seven years ago, I never thought i'd

1949
01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:56,800
Speaker 2: be helping create something amazing with the vision of all

1950
01:25:56,840 --> 01:26:00,160
Speaker 2: three of you, and I feel so lucky and fortune that.

1951
01:26:00,320 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 2: So thank you for the gift, thank you for the blessing,

1952
01:26:02,320 --> 01:26:05,080
Speaker 2: and thank you for the opportunity just the.

1953
01:26:05,120 --> 01:26:12,519
Speaker 5: Same way we love you. You're our mentor definitely no, no, no,

1954
01:26:12,640 --> 01:26:18,599
Speaker 5: I know you're your your You're like the you're You're

1955
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:21,680
Speaker 5: so good to bounce all this stuff. I feel like

1956
01:26:21,720 --> 01:26:25,320
Speaker 5: you've already laid you know, laid the ground.

1957
01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 2: We're just trying to. I don't think it's that you

1958
01:26:27,280 --> 01:26:28,960
Speaker 2: guys had a vision, you know what you're building. I

1959
01:26:29,040 --> 01:26:31,920
Speaker 2: think it's been It's been fun getting the opportunity to

1960
01:26:32,040 --> 01:26:33,600
Speaker 2: be a part of it. That's how I feel about it.

1961
01:26:33,720 --> 01:26:35,360
Speaker 2: So thank you for letting me a bit part of

1962
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Speaker 2: your crazy vision.

1963
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Speaker 1: Thank you for hearing our desires and not scoffing at

1964
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Speaker 1: them and doing your best to make it all happen.

1965
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely, friends keep secret, excited.

1966
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Speaker 1: Friends, Friends on purpose on three Friends on Purpose.

1967
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Speaker 7: If you love this episode, you will really enjoy my

1968
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Speaker 7: episode with Selena Gomez on befriending your inner critique and

1969
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Speaker 7: how to speak to yourself with more compassion.

1970
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Speaker 5: There's blessing in the breaking and every moment that you

1971
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Speaker 5: encounter in your life, even if it's just road rage,