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Speaker 1: The Friend Show is on. It's stay or go all right, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: you see here, Let's see what's up with Kelly. Hi, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: how you doing? Good morning?

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Speaker 2: Good morning, how are you, Kelly?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. What's going on with your boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: James oh Man?

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Speaker 3: So we've recently moved in together, and everything was great

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Speaker 3: until James started getting sick. He was like violently ill.

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Speaker 3: And then he went to the doctor and you got,

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Speaker 3: you know, a ton of tests done, and we found

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Speaker 3: out when he's allergic to doc Oh okay, and I have.

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Speaker 4: Had my bow.

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Speaker 5: My puppy ball is not a puppy anymore, but for

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Speaker 5: like sick deers, my dog bo he's.

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Speaker 1: Like my son.

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Speaker 5: And now Jame's super allergic to him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay. So and you didn't know. No one knew

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Speaker 1: this ahead of time. Nobody knew that anybody was allergic

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Speaker 1: or whatever.

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Speaker 6: No, nobody, we didn't know he was allergic.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, we're a family now.

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Speaker 5: And I asked him, you know, if you know, what

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Speaker 5: are you gonna do? And you said, would you consider

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Speaker 5: it giving away?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Because I love you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so not wait, hold on a second. So he

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Speaker 1: moves in he's allergic. He's having a hard time, and

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Speaker 1: now he wants you to get rid of your dog

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Speaker 1: of five years.

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Speaker 7: Yeah no no, no, no no.

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Speaker 1: No medicine or something.

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Speaker 3: And like I get that he's hurt like that, I'm

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Speaker 3: choosing the dog over him essentially, But come on, he's

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Speaker 3: my baby?

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Speaker 5: Like what am I?

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Speaker 3: What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: You can't You can't just get rid of an animal

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Speaker 1: because of it?

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Speaker 7: I mean, and how ah, Yeah, you can get another man,

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Speaker 7: you can. You can't get into the boat, get into

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Speaker 7: the move in the boat?

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Speaker 1: What an unfortunate name? I mean, Wow, is there any

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Speaker 1: way to like, can the dog be like relegated to

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Speaker 1: a certain area of the house that he doesn't go to?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know we're talking about a human versus

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Speaker 1: a dog here, but I also, I mean, she's gonna

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Speaker 1: throw away a five year relationship without trying anything else

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Speaker 1: with any sort of alternative.

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Speaker 2: He just gonna have to sneeze. Yeah, what are the symptoms?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? What is wrong with him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? So he's like he says he's coughing, he's doing

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Speaker 6: all the things, you know, like normal allergies, but he

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Speaker 6: also has like asthma.

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Speaker 2: Now, well it's already there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but what are you? I mean five, please call,

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Speaker 1: We'll get the feedback for the group therapy here. You

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Speaker 1: can't just give away dog, and I also know you

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Speaker 1: can't just throw away humans, But like, how did he

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Speaker 1: have no no idea at all? Like if he's known

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Speaker 1: you for however long and you guys were moving in together,

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Speaker 1: of course he had exposure to the dog, Like there

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Speaker 1: was never any indication that he was going to have

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Speaker 1: a problem. Not really, No, I mean, do you huh?

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Speaker 1: Is he is he the one? I know the dog

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Speaker 1: is the one, but like, is this guy the one?

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Speaker 1: Like it? Is he? It? Really?

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Speaker 6: Before all this mess, I thought he was.

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Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy, but like, you don't just

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Speaker 1: you can't just give a dog back. So then you

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Speaker 1: you have to break up with him. I don't think

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Speaker 1: that has he gone to a physician. Has he discussed

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Speaker 1: this with like an allergy and allergy allurgist or whatever

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Speaker 8: We haven't gotten like super far into it, but I

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Speaker 1: Because it says I know your email says you went

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Speaker 1: to the doctor, But I'm like, have you gone to

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Speaker 8: I know there's like shocks you can get semi frequently,

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well, a lot of people just saying boyfriend's gotta go, right, basically,

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Speaker 1: I know it sounds ridiculous, but got to go. Sorry.

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Speaker 8: When we rescued that one dog, the dog, it almost

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Speaker 8: put that couple up. The dog was too needy or whatever,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yet we flew a dog palatin pause. We relocated

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Speaker 1: a dog from like Kentucky or Tennessee or somewhere back here.

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Speaker 1: And it was a it was a mastuff. It was

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Speaker 1: But when she gave us the dog, we went to

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Speaker 1: to be honest with you. When I first heard the story,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is an awful human being, Like this

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Speaker 1: is a bad person, Like you're relinquishing a three year

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Speaker 1: her and she was in tears and she was like,

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Speaker 1: it was either divorce my husband or do this. And

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Speaker 1: I have kids, so I really can't. But like, she

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Speaker 1: I had a very different perspective about her than I

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Speaker 1: actually felt terrible. Yeah, but it worked out. It worked

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Speaker 1: out better for I'm sure for hercles. I'm let me

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Speaker 1: take some phone calls on this, Kelly. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what to tell you. Honestly, my gut reaction is get

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Speaker 1: people are going to think that's ridiculous, But let me

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Speaker 1: see what people have to say, and I wish you luck. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, Kelli, thank you, Hey, Karina, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? What is this woman gonna do? Kelly,

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Speaker 1: wants to marry five year old dog apparently. Uh and

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Speaker 1: and homeboy, they're not copacetic. He's allergic to the dog.

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Speaker 5: I would say he needs to either go or he

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Speaker 5: needs to go to an imbianologist. And there's definitely things

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Speaker 5: and he did go.

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Speaker 1: He takes ad.

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Speaker 5: breaths in, and then he takes shots once a month

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Speaker 5: and he's totally fine now. And he was very, very

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Speaker 5: allergic to them. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So this is the Papa Ben and drill and call

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 1: So Mike is allergic to dogs and we have two

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Speaker 1: of Like, I've been with Jess for sixteen years and

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Speaker 1: we have a dog for two weeks. If I was allergic,

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Speaker 1: I'd be at the door.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that no, but that's not surprising to anybody. Karina,

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Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 5: Thank you you too.

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Speaker 1: I love you to you. You got to try everything.

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Speaker 1: You got to go to every doctor. You gotta try everything,

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Speaker 1: you really do, because but you never know, you never know.

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Speaker 1: He just moved into this house. There could be something

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Speaker 1: else in the house that could be caused in the allergy.

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Speaker 1: It could be the carpet. You know what I'm saying. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: it out. It turns out maybe it's not the dog.

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Speaker 1: You're right, but bad news if it is. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: see you later, Hey, Diana, Yeah, Hi, Hi fred, Hi Diana,

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Speaker 1: good morning. So what do you do in this situation?

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Speaker 6: So I went through the same situation and it was

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Speaker 6: got pregnant pretty quickly. And I had my dog before

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Speaker 6: And you know, my heart was broken because my you know,

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Speaker 6: There's options because you know, you have friends and maybe

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess, sir, I guess that is an option.

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Speaker 1: Is the dog would go somewhere listen to you, near you,

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Speaker 1: you know, and you could go visit and things like that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you got to decide, like, and

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Speaker 6: You know, I want to visit her so many times.

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Speaker 6: And then I said, you couldn't the allergies went away.

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Speaker 6: You know, my son is fourteen. Now we did you

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Speaker 6: know tests again? He grew up, you know he he

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Speaker 6: And you got that out of puppy Now I have Rody.

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Speaker 1: Oh, good for you, Diane. I'm happy for you. Glad

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Speaker 1: it worked out?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, and I will tell you I love your show.

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Speaker 6: I've been listening to you guys every morning.

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Speaker 1: You made my day and thank you.

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Speaker 6: I'm also single.

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Speaker 1: Let's go guess what? Holl at your boy? Yes, I'm allergic,

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Speaker 1: come one, come on, and if it doesn't work out,

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Speaker 1: I'm allergic to your dog. I love you. Yeah, go ahead,

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Speaker 1: you know what. Let's yeah, Hey, Daniel, how you doing good?

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Speaker 1: How are you? That's very nice of her to offer,

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Speaker 1: you know yourself? Yeah, yeah, I love it. I love it, Daniel.

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Speaker 5: What do you?

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Speaker 1: What do you one of these people supposed to do?

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Speaker 4: The dogs are the only animal like we can rely on.

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Speaker 4: And then you get rid of the dog, do you

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Speaker 1: I'm allerdered to grass.

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Speaker 6: You can figure out allergy better, just.

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Speaker 2: Do it, that's right, you could figure it out.

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Speaker 1: But as Victoria, Victoria allergic to the sun. If you wantship,

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Speaker 1: I just can't believe, Like, I don't know how you

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Speaker 8: In college, I lived in a house that had molds

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that did you live in the same frit

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Speaker 3: This is crazy because, for well, first of all, if

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Speaker 3: And he doesn't love the dog as much as you do,

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: I dated I dated a guy for twelve years and

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Speaker 1: Somebody better than Yeah, Samantha, you smart lady. Now let's

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Speaker 1: ask kikey. Oh you already know with a ring. The

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Speaker 1: You know that I'm not getting rid of my dog,

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Speaker 1: but nobody. Okay, lux comes, but you got the ring finally.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I got the ring. But are we married? Because

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Speaker 7: you know how I feel about that. There's levels to

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Speaker 7: this now, like she said, if we're just dating, I'm single.

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Speaker 7: If we get engaged, I'm engaged. That's medium, right, media,

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Speaker 7: that's the middle level.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so the dog stays. But then let's say you

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Speaker 2: Now, Yes, he has to live in a supper house.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he gets out of the doghouse. You can live

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Speaker 1: that makes for successe. No, I agree, And Samantha, that's

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Speaker 1: an excellent point, Like you're not giving away a dog

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Speaker 3: Right, And I mean, and like someone else said, is

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Speaker 3: just crazy. That's that's giving up a lot for somebody

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like that. The only option that he's

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Speaker 1: I don't like that, well, and I will.

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Speaker 4: I will say too.

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Speaker 3: When I was a child, I was allergic to both

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Speaker 3: It's really easy to do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that, Samantha. You got to do

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Speaker 3: Opinion, exactly, and at this point, since that, since that

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Speaker 3: even if he's willing to try now with the injection, no,

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Speaker 1: the survival to Fittest guy. No, we're gonna find out

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