Speaker 1: The second date of day. We really need to get
Speaker 1: a victory today, not just for our listener, but for ourselves.
Speaker 2: Too, cause I'll always take a victory.
Speaker 1: Brook's going through some deep ish right now with her leafe.
Speaker 1: Jose and I tried to high five in the break
Speaker 1: room and missed, embarrassing. It's a sad moment. And then
Speaker 1: Alexis's spray tan only covered three quarters of her body
Speaker 1: this week.
Speaker 2: Okay that it's hard to get my back on my own.
Speaker 1: And that's better than usual, by the way. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's a mess and we're all a little down and
Speaker 1: out right now, including Tiffany, who's on the phone because
Speaker 1: she's having trouble getting a guy to ask her out again. Tiffany,
Speaker 1: if you could describe your mood right now using one emoji,
Speaker 1: what emoji would it be?
Speaker 3: I like this question.
Speaker 4: Probably that one that's like the dejected sad face.
Speaker 1: Oh, the one that's drooling. Not that one. Maybe asking
Speaker 1: emojis wasn't the best way to start, Tiffany, but maybe
Speaker 1: instead tell us about the guy that you want us
Speaker 1: to contact. Who's he?
Speaker 4: Yeah, So Mike, we met on an app and I
Speaker 4: thought it was really funny, like one thing I remember
Speaker 4: from his profile is that he liked to take the
Speaker 4: scenic route.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: That's what he wrote as his like biome.
Speaker 4: Like a little tagline. Yeah, I thought that was kind
Speaker 4: of cute.
Speaker 1: He takes a long time to do stuff, then most
Speaker 1: people get done in a short amount.
Speaker 5: Of I feel like he's just late to everything.
Speaker 2: It sounds like, well.
Speaker 4: I mean it's less room for discovery, Like is he
Speaker 4: later or is he more just like a really present
Speaker 4: soak up time with people you know may like me?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 4: Well, so we talked a lot before our date. Like,
Speaker 4: I'm not someone who just like dates a lot of people.
Speaker 4: I'm the one at a time kind of person, and
Speaker 4: I wanted to really get to know him before we
Speaker 4: went out. So we talked a lot.
Speaker 1: And he takes the scenic rout. Even setting up a
Speaker 1: first date, it takes a long time.
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe I'm a scenic rout kind of person myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, so what do you guys talk about?
Speaker 4: We talked about all sorts of things and we had
Speaker 4: really good conversation and then he asked me out, and well,
Speaker 4: I didn't tell you guys this because I know it's
Speaker 4: like technically second date update, but we actually have been
Speaker 4: out twice. So the first time was happy hour and
Speaker 4: I just like wanted to talk to him more so
Speaker 4: when he asked me how the second time, I went
Speaker 4: and he asked me to go back to his place
Speaker 4: watch movie and I did, and oh, stayed the night And.
Speaker 2: Then you did stay the night.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Nice.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 4: It was just like one of those things where when
Speaker 4: we were at his place, it just felt like we
Speaker 4: had known each other for a really long time, like
Speaker 4: it was comfortable, we were cozy. It just felt good.
Speaker 4: It didn't see like, oh, this is the first time
Speaker 4: of at your place. It felt it felt very like.
Speaker 1: A family member, like a younger problem, I mean, asistant.
Speaker 2: Like someone in a relationship with That is what I said.
Speaker 5: Do you think you said anything to scare them, like
Speaker 5: you talk too much about wanting to be in a
Speaker 5: relationship or something.
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, anything is possible, Like I don't claim
Speaker 4: to be the perfect dat anything like that. This just
Speaker 4: felt good and I'm confused.
Speaker 1: YEA, amazing. It was easy, maybe too natural and easy
Speaker 1: as a red flag, though sometimes people get scared by that.
Speaker 1: There be more problems here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I don't know. I didn't see any problems.
Speaker 4: And then since then it's just been like friends. It's
Speaker 4: been very much like the texts aren't as common or
Speaker 4: as frequent, and I don't know something. He is just
Speaker 4: like friendly and I don't know, like if you met
Speaker 4: someone else or is something went wrong?
Speaker 1: Okay, it seems a little bit odd, especially because you've
Speaker 1: been out with him twice and spent the night. I mean,
Speaker 1: Alexis talk so much. If that ever happened to you, Like,
Speaker 1: what's your read on the situation?
Speaker 2: You better text me the next day.
Speaker 1: Ask you what do you think that you did wrong?
Speaker 1: Alexis loving never me? Something's wrong with the dumb question? O,
Speaker 1: Timny do you think that there's anything that you could
Speaker 1: have done wrong?
Speaker 4: I don't think so. I mean, I'm sure it's possible,
Speaker 4: but that's that's kind of what I need help with, Like,
Speaker 4: I just don't know.
Speaker 5: It may be like, I know you're a date only
Speaker 5: one person at a time type of person, but maybe
Speaker 5: he's not.
Speaker 2: Did you guys discuss that?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like on his stating profile it said he was
Speaker 4: looking for a long term relationship and marriage. So about that,
Speaker 4: I thought we were kind of on the seat peage.
Speaker 5: So he I mean, like even that is set in
Speaker 5: the vibe where he's not like a one night only
Speaker 5: type of guy.
Speaker 6: Well, some guys may be embarrassed by their performance or something,
Speaker 6: or maybe he's a little shy and he's.
Speaker 1: Like, Okay, it wasn't my best I think I think
Speaker 1: we get it. No, I think we get it. But
Speaker 1: Brooke said, what so I don't keep going.
Speaker 2: It's like she's calling him back.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Shouldn't that be enough affirmation he wouldn't want it.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have anything to be embarrassed about, right, No.
Speaker 4: Definitely not.
Speaker 1: He definitely doesn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, but sometimes when when somebody likes the scenic route,
Speaker 1: I mean, you just want to see the scenes one
Speaker 1: time and then you're good. You don't keep driving back
Speaker 1: down that same road over and over in this movie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe he's seen it before.
Speaker 2: I don't know that I've ever.
Speaker 7: Heard you're looking for love.
Speaker 1: We're trying to find answers here and hopefully, but we
Speaker 1: already kissed one there. We'll see what he has to
Speaker 1: say though, when we come back and try and get
Speaker 1: your second date update right after this? All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on We've been talking to Tiffany about her dates plural,
Speaker 1: because she went on two of them flex there with
Speaker 1: a guy named Mike. The second one ended in a
Speaker 1: sleepover over at his place.
Speaker 2: An I don't know if I've ever called it sleepover, Jeff.
Speaker 1: That's what it was, an adult sleepover. And Tiffany, I
Speaker 1: feel like we've gotten close enough over the last few
Speaker 1: minutes for me to call you a nickname at this point.
Speaker 1: Is it cool if I call you tea dog? Or
Speaker 1: should I just stick with.
Speaker 4: Tiff No, I prefer Tiffany, my friend.
Speaker 1: Oh the full Tiffany okay dog is just insulting.
Speaker 2: Almost.
Speaker 1: That's how you know that I'm cool with you if
Speaker 1: I put a dog afterwards. But so, Tiffany is confused
Speaker 1: because after having this great connection with Mike, who maybe
Speaker 1: I should call Michael to not offend her. At this point,
Speaker 1: he's not calling her back, and she wants some answers.
Speaker 1: Luck Brook knows exactly what went wrong. Brooke, go ahead
Speaker 1: tell him.
Speaker 5: Yes, I actually have no idea.
Speaker 2: Why would I know? I mean, I sound so lovely.
Speaker 1: The answers.
Speaker 2: I'm bummed out for her.
Speaker 5: You know, it's a guy who says he's looking for
Speaker 5: a serious relationship. He makes an amazing connection with a woman. Yeah, totally,
Speaker 5: and then nothing.
Speaker 1: Does that make you feel better, Tiffany, there's no reason
Speaker 1: for him to not be calling you back, but he's
Speaker 1: still not doing it better.
Speaker 4: I guess not really, he depressed her even more.
Speaker 2: Maybe there's a reasonable explanation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I just I thought he was really lovely.
Speaker 4: It felt really easy, it felt right. I would really
Speaker 4: like to see where it goes, because I don't feel
Speaker 4: that like comfort and natural feeling on very often.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm really hoping this works out for you.
Speaker 1: Well, let's find out for sure. We're gonna call him
Speaker 1: and see what he has to say you.
Speaker 6: All right, let's get up on the line. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 6: what's up?
Speaker 1: Is this Mike?
Speaker 3: Yep?
Speaker 1: This is he?
Speaker 7: Who's this?
Speaker 1: Hey? My name is Jeff but all my friends call
Speaker 1: me Jay Dog.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, how can I help?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hey, man, So I'm sorry.
Speaker 7: What's going on? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You're on a radio show right now called Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: Okay, I'm trying to heard of you guys. Kind of
Speaker 7: Why am I on this show?
Speaker 1: Well, you're on this show for a segment we do
Speaker 1: called the Second Date Update because you went out on
Speaker 1: a couple of hot dates with one of our listeners
Speaker 1: named Tiffany.
Speaker 7: Oh, Tiffany Hu.
Speaker 5: Yeah, sounds like you two had a lot of fun together.
Speaker 7: I don't know if they were hot, but yeah, we
Speaker 7: went on a t date. They were interesting.
Speaker 2: Wait did you say that they weren't hot?
Speaker 3: I didn't find them to be that say, I don't know,
Speaker 3: maybe insulting, a little depressing, the middle of the let down.
Speaker 3: She's a nice girling up.
Speaker 2: But didn't she stay the night at your house?
Speaker 7: I don't know how much you talk to Siffany.
Speaker 1: But so we we did speak to her a little bit.
Speaker 1: From what we've learned, there were two separate dates that
Speaker 1: you guys went on, Yes, one that it was a
Speaker 1: happy hour and the second one was I.
Speaker 5: Think dinner and then back to your place something you
Speaker 5: watch a movie and she stayed the night.
Speaker 7: I mean dinner was fine. I think. Here's the thing.
Speaker 3: Uh, he repeatedly fell asleep during kind of serious conversation about.
Speaker 1: No way, what do you mean?
Speaker 3: Well, let me give you example, kind of like nailing
Speaker 3: the coffin for me.
Speaker 7: Was I was talking about.
Speaker 3: Time I almost died once I'm not a big out
Speaker 3: doory rec guyike climb I ski So.
Speaker 5: Wait, wait, wait, are you sitting at dinner talking about
Speaker 5: this or you back at the house, like on the couch.
Speaker 1: Where are you.
Speaker 7: That moment was back at the couch after the dinner. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 7: so I'm you know, I'm whitewater rafting. It went the
Speaker 7: wrong way, almost about to go over a fall and
Speaker 7: was bad.
Speaker 3: And it's kind of the exciting interesting part when I
Speaker 3: don't die and I look over and I thought.
Speaker 7: Maybe she was closing her eyes because like, ah, it's dressed.
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, she was.
Speaker 7: She was out like a light.
Speaker 3: Oh and you know, I get it.
Speaker 7: We all worked, life's busy. She might have been tired.
Speaker 3: But he's falling asleep on like two other phone calls
Speaker 3: at night when we've just been chatting trying to get
Speaker 3: to know each other.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I'm kind of jealous she could do that.
Speaker 7: Maybe I bore her. I don't know, my life's boring
Speaker 7: to her, or she just likes to hear herself.
Speaker 2: Did I ask?
Speaker 5: Is she was she drunk during all these times that
Speaker 5: she fell asleep?
Speaker 7: No, not drunk at all, Absolutely not.
Speaker 3: I'm wide awake for her stories and she's telling hers.
Speaker 7: And then she won't zogs out.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's interesting because when we talked to her, Tiffany didn't
Speaker 1: mention anything about falling asleep, probably because she didn't remember
Speaker 1: falling asleep.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 6: But I see during the movie because some people you
Speaker 6: turn a movie on instantly out.
Speaker 1: But the phone conversation.
Speaker 2: I mean, I could go to sleep right now, and maybe.
Speaker 1: It's it's a good idea to bring Tiffany on the
Speaker 1: line right now before she falls asleep. Just listening to
Speaker 1: this because I need to tell you, Mike, she's been
Speaker 1: on the other line this entire time.
Speaker 7: Oh wait, what do you mean she's on the line now,
Speaker 7: like listening to our conversation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how the segment works. We have them waiting
Speaker 1: to jump in. Tiffany, are you awake.
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm awake.
Speaker 1: Okay, there was a moment there.
Speaker 2: Wait you sound you sound mad?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm frustrated because really, I mean, I remember you
Speaker 4: telling me about the story that you died or whatever,
Speaker 4: like I remember that, but every time.
Speaker 7: I was walking about important things in my life that
Speaker 7: weren't boring, and we're interesting in full climate. You were
Speaker 7: not there, you were sleeping, were loosing off.
Speaker 1: Maybe your life isn't as interesting as you think it is, Mike,
Speaker 1: and you need to have more or crazy experiences to
Speaker 1: hold her attention.
Speaker 7: I guess that's the message. But I'm looking for like
Speaker 7: long term love and marriage and wait, I don't want
Speaker 7: someone who falls asleep, like do you take this man?
Speaker 1: How long are you?
Speaker 4: Stories?
Speaker 5: Like, let's be real, I mean you guys, I mean,
Speaker 5: it doesn't matter if we think they're born or not.
Speaker 5: Because Tiffany said to us, Mike, like when you were
Speaker 5: on the phone, how amazing you were and how interesting
Speaker 5: you were and how connected she felt to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I just felt very at ease and comfortable.
Speaker 4: And I guess you know, it was a Thursday, it
Speaker 4: was the end of the week. I was the Keith
Speaker 4: and I just dozed off a little bit. Like it's
Speaker 4: not an insult.
Speaker 2: It sounds like he has such a nice couch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're the human version of a sleeping show.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I get, maybe I get being comfortable
Speaker 3: on me, but I'm just.
Speaker 7: Not into that.
Speaker 1: Sorry, But you say that you're looking for long term
Speaker 1: relationships in marriage, that's kind of what happens when you
Speaker 1: get married. You kind of just start to tune each
Speaker 1: other out and fall asleep in the middle conversations. Am
Speaker 1: I right broke.
Speaker 3: That's but not at the beginning, not at the beginning, hopefully.
Speaker 1: Well if you don't want your marriage to last that long.
Speaker 3: Apparently you know, the next morning she's kind of sheep
Speaker 3: to see, like leep, so like, can you finish the story?
Speaker 7: And you know, it's just like wait what that's even
Speaker 7: more off putting to me.
Speaker 5: Oh man, I thought you guys like had a night
Speaker 5: together together.
Speaker 4: I never said that. I just said I stood the
Speaker 4: night there.
Speaker 1: We're talking about the perverts over here that we we
Speaker 1: just assume.
Speaker 5: Who would assume that she fell asleep in the middle
Speaker 5: of the story, and.
Speaker 4: Just how she just stayed I mean, what do you
Speaker 4: want Like we made out. It was it's like my
Speaker 4: first time going over there.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that in the first grade. It doesn't
Speaker 1: impress her.
Speaker 5: It's hard to think of like making out and then
Speaker 5: getting so tired immediately after.
Speaker 1: God, okay, I think we're kind of losing the point
Speaker 1: of the problem here, which is her falling asleep while
Speaker 1: he's trying to talk to her.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you know me.
Speaker 3: I really don't think you're as injur me as you
Speaker 3: say you are, because like, if you were, you wouldn't
Speaker 3: be falling asleep.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just would at least have a better vibe about
Speaker 3: if you fall at sleep once or something, but so
Speaker 3: many times during I don't know.
Speaker 4: I mean, I can't convince you that I had those times.
Speaker 4: Like I've told you, I like you. I thought it
Speaker 4: was natural. I can't convince you of that if you've
Speaker 4: decided that you bore me.
Speaker 1: You know, the fact that she reached out to a
Speaker 1: radio station to get in touch with you is a
Speaker 1: pretty good hint that she has feelings, some sort of feelings.
Speaker 3: Fall asleep three times like, actually, yeah, not yet, right,
Speaker 3: not yet?
Speaker 7: I know, I just those feelings aren't mutual.
Speaker 1: Oh really, you don't even want to give her at
Speaker 1: least a chance to stay awake for an entire day.
Speaker 1: We'll send you out at noon to really, and we'll
Speaker 1: pump her full of seven red bulls right before coffee.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, that I wouldn't do it either.
Speaker 1: Sorry, Well, I'm sorry it sounds like Tiffany, we're not
Speaker 1: going to be able to get you out another time.
Speaker 1: With Mike.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not hitting on him or anything, jeff
Speaker 5: but I got two kids that will not go to sleep.
Speaker 2: So if he was a pop on my house anytime.
Speaker 1: Mike, if you want a babysit, we only need you
Speaker 1: for like thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you'll probably get further with her than with Tiffy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's Jeffrey in the morning. I might be alone
Speaker 1: on this, but I feel like it is a compliment
Speaker 1: when somebody falls asleep while you're talking because they're so
Speaker 1: comfortable with your voice and your presence. It's like a
Speaker 1: warm blanket coming home.
Speaker 2: That's not how you show you're excited in somewhere check Well.
Speaker 1: It gives me a great excuse for when Brooke tells
Speaker 1: me another story about her kids. Okay, oh what they
Speaker 1: were doing? What to tell me more about the art
Speaker 1: project that they were doing. Sorry, I fell asleep because
Speaker 1: I'm just so comfortable with you and your family. Oh yeah, Actually,
Speaker 1: you know, after hearing that, it does sound kind of bad.
Speaker 1: It isn't. I'm gonna switch side. It's not a thing
Speaker 1: to fall asleep during a date, ever, especially.
Speaker 5: If someone's mid story about how they almost die.
Speaker 2: The worst storyteller.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it would have been more story yeah long,
Speaker 1: or maybe it would be more exciting if he did die,
Speaker 1: that'd be a great story to tell for sleep. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But uh, you know what, if you ever want to
Speaker 1: get some help getting another date, we can be that
Speaker 1: help for you. Hopefully well, promise to do better than
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