WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Catching Feelings and Z's

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of day. We really need to get

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<v Speaker 1>a victory today, not just for our listener, but for ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, cause I'll always take a victory.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook's going through some deep ish right now with her leafe.

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<v Speaker 1>Jose and I tried to high five in the break

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<v Speaker 1>room and missed, embarrassing. It's a sad moment. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis's spray tan only covered three quarters of her body

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<v Speaker 1>this week.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay that it's hard to get my back on my own.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's better than usual, by the way. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a mess and we're all a little down and

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<v Speaker 1>out right now, including Tiffany, who's on the phone because

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<v Speaker 1>she's having trouble getting a guy to ask her out again. Tiffany,

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<v Speaker 1>if you could describe your mood right now using one emoji,

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<v Speaker 1>what emoji would it be?

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<v Speaker 3>I like this question.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably that one that's like the dejected sad face.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, the one that's drooling. Not that one. Maybe asking

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<v Speaker 1>emojis wasn't the best way to start, Tiffany, but maybe

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<v Speaker 1>instead tell us about the guy that you want us

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<v Speaker 1>to contact. Who's he?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So Mike, we met on an app and I

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was really funny, like one thing I remember

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<v Speaker 4>from his profile is that he liked to take the

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<v Speaker 4>scenic route.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what he wrote as his like biome.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a little tagline. Yeah, I thought that was kind

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<v Speaker 4>of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>He takes a long time to do stuff, then most

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<v Speaker 1>people get done in a short amount.

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<v Speaker 5>Of I feel like he's just late to everything.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like, well.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's less room for discovery, Like is he

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<v Speaker 4>later or is he more just like a really present

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<v Speaker 4>soak up time with people you know may like me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, what did you guys do on your date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, so we talked a lot before our date. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not someone who just like dates a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm the one at a time kind of person, and

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to really get to know him before we

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<v Speaker 4>went out. So we talked a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>And he takes the scenic rout. Even setting up a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, it takes a long time.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe maybe I'm a scenic rout kind of person myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so what do you guys talk about?

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<v Speaker 4>We talked about all sorts of things and we had

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<v Speaker 4>really good conversation and then he asked me out, and well,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't tell you guys this because I know it's

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<v Speaker 4>like technically second date update, but we actually have been

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<v Speaker 4>out twice. So the first time was happy hour and

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<v Speaker 4>I just like wanted to talk to him more so

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<v Speaker 4>when he asked me how the second time, I went

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<v Speaker 4>and he asked me to go back to his place

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<v Speaker 4>watch movie and I did, and oh, stayed the night And.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you did stay the night.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just like one of those things where when

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<v Speaker 4>we were at his place, it just felt like we

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<v Speaker 4>had known each other for a really long time, like

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<v Speaker 4>it was comfortable, we were cozy. It just felt good.

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<v Speaker 4>It didn't see like, oh, this is the first time

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<v Speaker 4>of at your place. It felt it felt very like.

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<v Speaker 1>A family member, like a younger problem, I mean, asistant.

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<v Speaker 2>Like someone in a relationship with That is what I said.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think you said anything to scare them, like

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<v Speaker 5>you talk too much about wanting to be in a

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<v Speaker 5>relationship or something.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, honestly, anything is possible, Like I don't claim

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<v Speaker 4>to be the perfect dat anything like that. This just

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<v Speaker 4>felt good and I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 1>YEA, amazing. It was easy, maybe too natural and easy

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<v Speaker 1>as a red flag, though sometimes people get scared by that.

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<v Speaker 1>There be more problems here.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just I don't know. I didn't see any problems.

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<v Speaker 4>And then since then it's just been like friends. It's

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<v Speaker 4>been very much like the texts aren't as common or

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<v Speaker 4>as frequent, and I don't know something. He is just

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<v Speaker 4>like friendly and I don't know, like if you met

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<v Speaker 4>someone else or is something went wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it seems a little bit odd, especially because you've

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<v Speaker 1>been out with him twice and spent the night. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis talk so much. If that ever happened to you, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your read on the situation?

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<v Speaker 2>You better text me the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask you what do you think that you did wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis loving never me? Something's wrong with the dumb question? O,

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<v Speaker 1>Timny do you think that there's anything that you could

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<v Speaker 1>have done wrong?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so. I mean, I'm sure it's possible,

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<v Speaker 4>but that's that's kind of what I need help with, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It may be like, I know you're a date only

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<v Speaker 5>one person at a time type of person, but maybe

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<v Speaker 5>he's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you guys discuss that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like on his stating profile it said he was

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<v Speaker 4>looking for a long term relationship and marriage. So about that,

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<v Speaker 4>I thought we were kind of on the seat peage.

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<v Speaker 5>So he I mean, like even that is set in

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<v Speaker 5>the vibe where he's not like a one night only

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<v Speaker 5>type of guy.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, some guys may be embarrassed by their performance or something,

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<v Speaker 6>or maybe he's a little shy and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Okay, it wasn't my best I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>we get it. No, I think we get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke said, what so I don't keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like she's calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Shouldn't that be enough affirmation he wouldn't want it.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have anything to be embarrassed about, right, No.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely not.

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<v Speaker 1>He definitely doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, but sometimes when when somebody likes the scenic route,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you just want to see the scenes one

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<v Speaker 1>time and then you're good. You don't keep driving back

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<v Speaker 1>down that same road over and over in this movie. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's seen it before.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I've ever.

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<v Speaker 7>Heard you're looking for love.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to find answers here and hopefully, but we

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<v Speaker 1>already kissed one there. We'll see what he has to

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<v Speaker 1>say though, when we come back and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update right after this? All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on We've been talking to Tiffany about her dates plural,

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<v Speaker 1>because she went on two of them flex there with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Mike. The second one ended in a

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<v Speaker 1>sleepover over at his place.

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<v Speaker 2>An I don't know if I've ever called it sleepover, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it was, an adult sleepover. And Tiffany, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we've gotten close enough over the last few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes for me to call you a nickname at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it cool if I call you tea dog? Or

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<v Speaker 1>should I just stick with.

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<v Speaker 4>Tiff No, I prefer Tiffany, my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh the full Tiffany okay dog is just insulting.

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<v Speaker 2>Almost.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you know that I'm cool with you if

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<v Speaker 1>I put a dog afterwards. But so, Tiffany is confused

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<v Speaker 1>because after having this great connection with Mike, who maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I should call Michael to not offend her. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not calling her back, and she wants some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Luck Brook knows exactly what went wrong. Brooke, go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>tell him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I actually have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would I know? I mean, I sound so lovely.

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<v Speaker 1>The answers.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm bummed out for her.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it's a guy who says he's looking for

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<v Speaker 5>a serious relationship. He makes an amazing connection with a woman. Yeah, totally,

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<v Speaker 5>and then nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make you feel better, Tiffany, there's no reason

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<v Speaker 1>for him to not be calling you back, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>still not doing it better.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess not really, he depressed her even more.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there's a reasonable explanation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I just I thought he was really lovely.

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<v Speaker 4>It felt really easy, it felt right. I would really

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<v Speaker 4>like to see where it goes, because I don't feel

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<v Speaker 4>that like comfort and natural feeling on very often.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm really hoping this works out for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's find out for sure. We're gonna call him

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<v Speaker 1>and see what he has to say you.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, let's get up on the line. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 6>what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Mike?

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<v Speaker 3>Yep?

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<v Speaker 1>This is he?

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<v Speaker 7>Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey? My name is Jeff but all my friends call

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<v Speaker 1>me Jay Dog.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm sorry, how can I help?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, man, So I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 7>What's going on? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You're on a radio show right now called Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I'm trying to heard of you guys. Kind of

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<v Speaker 7>Why am I on this show?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you're on this show for a segment we do

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<v Speaker 1>called the Second Date Update because you went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of hot dates with one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>named Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, Tiffany Hu.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, sounds like you two had a lot of fun together.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know if they were hot, but yeah, we

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<v Speaker 7>went on a t date. They were interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait did you say that they weren't hot?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't find them to be that say, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe insulting, a little depressing, the middle of the let down.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a nice girling up.

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<v Speaker 2>But didn't she stay the night at your house?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know how much you talk to Siffany.

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<v Speaker 1>But so we we did speak to her a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>From what we've learned, there were two separate dates that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went on, Yes, one that it was a

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour and the second one was I.

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<v Speaker 5>Think dinner and then back to your place something you

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<v Speaker 5>watch a movie and she stayed the night.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean dinner was fine. I think. Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, he repeatedly fell asleep during kind of serious conversation about.

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<v Speaker 1>No way, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let me give you example, kind of like nailing

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<v Speaker 3>the coffin for me.

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<v Speaker 7>Was I was talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Time I almost died once I'm not a big out

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<v Speaker 3>doory rec guyike climb I ski So.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, wait, wait, are you sitting at dinner talking about

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<v Speaker 5>this or you back at the house, like on the couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you.

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<v Speaker 7>That moment was back at the couch after the dinner. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>so I'm you know, I'm whitewater rafting. It went the

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<v Speaker 7>wrong way, almost about to go over a fall and

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<v Speaker 7>was bad.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's kind of the exciting interesting part when I

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<v Speaker 3>don't die and I look over and I thought.

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe she was closing her eyes because like, ah, it's dressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, she was.

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<v Speaker 7>She was out like a light.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh and you know, I get it.

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<v Speaker 7>We all worked, life's busy. She might have been tired.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's falling asleep on like two other phone calls

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<v Speaker 3>at night when we've just been chatting trying to get

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<v Speaker 3>to know each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, I'm kind of jealous she could do that.

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe I bore her. I don't know, my life's boring

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<v Speaker 7>to her, or she just likes to hear herself.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I ask?

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<v Speaker 5>Is she was she drunk during all these times that

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<v Speaker 5>she fell asleep?

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<v Speaker 7>No, not drunk at all, Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm wide awake for her stories and she's telling hers.

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<v Speaker 7>And then she won't zogs out.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because when we talked to her, Tiffany didn't

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<v Speaker 1>mention anything about falling asleep, probably because she didn't remember

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<v Speaker 1>falling asleep.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 6>But I see during the movie because some people you

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<v Speaker 6>turn a movie on instantly out.

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<v Speaker 1>But the phone conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I could go to sleep right now, and maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's a good idea to bring Tiffany on the

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<v Speaker 1>line right now before she falls asleep. Just listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this because I need to tell you, Mike, she's been

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line this entire time.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh wait, what do you mean she's on the line now,

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<v Speaker 7>like listening to our conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how the segment works. We have them waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to jump in. Tiffany, are you awake.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'm awake.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there was a moment there.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait you sound you sound mad?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm frustrated because really, I mean, I remember you

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<v Speaker 4>telling me about the story that you died or whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>like I remember that, but every time.

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<v Speaker 7>I was walking about important things in my life that

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<v Speaker 7>weren't boring, and we're interesting in full climate. You were

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<v Speaker 7>not there, you were sleeping, were loosing off.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe your life isn't as interesting as you think it is, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>and you need to have more or crazy experiences to

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<v Speaker 1>hold her attention.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess that's the message. But I'm looking for like

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<v Speaker 7>long term love and marriage and wait, I don't want

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<v Speaker 7>someone who falls asleep, like do you take this man?

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<v Speaker 1>How long are you?

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<v Speaker 4>Stories?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, let's be real, I mean you guys, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>it doesn't matter if we think they're born or not.

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<v Speaker 5>Because Tiffany said to us, Mike, like when you were

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<v Speaker 5>on the phone, how amazing you were and how interesting

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<v Speaker 5>you were and how connected she felt to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I just felt very at ease and comfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>And I guess you know, it was a Thursday, it

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<v Speaker 4>was the end of the week. I was the Keith

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<v Speaker 4>and I just dozed off a little bit. Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>not an insult.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like he has such a nice couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're the human version of a sleeping show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I get, maybe I get being comfortable

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<v Speaker 3>on me, but I'm just.

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<v Speaker 7>Not into that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, But you say that you're looking for long term

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<v Speaker 1>relationships in marriage, that's kind of what happens when you

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<v Speaker 1>get married. You kind of just start to tune each

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<v Speaker 1>other out and fall asleep in the middle conversations. Am

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<v Speaker 1>I right broke.

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<v Speaker 3>That's but not at the beginning, not at the beginning, hopefully.

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<v Speaker 1>Well if you don't want your marriage to last that long.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently you know, the next morning she's kind of sheep

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<v Speaker 3>to see, like leep, so like, can you finish the story?

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<v Speaker 7>And you know, it's just like wait what that's even

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<v Speaker 7>more off putting to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh man, I thought you guys like had a night

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<v Speaker 5>together together.

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<v Speaker 4>I never said that. I just said I stood the

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<v Speaker 4>night there.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about the perverts over here that we we

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<v Speaker 1>just assume.

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<v Speaker 5>Who would assume that she fell asleep in the middle

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<v Speaker 5>of the story, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Just how she just stayed I mean, what do you

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<v Speaker 4>want Like we made out. It was it's like my

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<v Speaker 4>first time going over there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that in the first grade. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>impress her.

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<v Speaker 5>It's hard to think of like making out and then

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<v Speaker 5>getting so tired immediately after.

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<v Speaker 1>God, okay, I think we're kind of losing the point

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<v Speaker 1>of the problem here, which is her falling asleep while

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you know me.

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't think you're as injur me as you

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<v Speaker 3>say you are, because like, if you were, you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>be falling asleep.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I just would at least have a better vibe about

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<v Speaker 3>if you fall at sleep once or something, but so

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<v Speaker 3>many times during I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I can't convince you that I had those times.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I've told you, I like you. I thought it

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<v Speaker 4>was natural. I can't convince you of that if you've

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<v Speaker 4>decided that you bore me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the fact that she reached out to a

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<v Speaker 1>radio station to get in touch with you is a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good hint that she has feelings, some sort of feelings.

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<v Speaker 3>Fall asleep three times like, actually, yeah, not yet, right,

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<v Speaker 3>not yet?

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<v Speaker 7>I know, I just those feelings aren't mutual.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, you don't even want to give her at

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<v Speaker 1>least a chance to stay awake for an entire day.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll send you out at noon to really, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>pump her full of seven red bulls right before coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah no, that I wouldn't do it either.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, Well, I'm sorry it sounds like Tiffany, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to get you out another time.

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<v Speaker 1>With Mike.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm not hitting on him or anything, jeff

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<v Speaker 5>but I got two kids that will not go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>So if he was a pop on my house anytime.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike, if you want a babysit, we only need you

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<v Speaker 1>for like thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you'll probably get further with her than with Tiffy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's Jeffrey in the morning. I might be alone

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<v Speaker 1>on this, but I feel like it is a compliment

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody falls asleep while you're talking because they're so

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with your voice and your presence. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>warm blanket coming home.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not how you show you're excited in somewhere check Well.

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<v Speaker 1>It gives me a great excuse for when Brooke tells

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<v Speaker 1>me another story about her kids. Okay, oh what they

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<v Speaker 1>were doing? What to tell me more about the art

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<v Speaker 1>project that they were doing. Sorry, I fell asleep because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so comfortable with you and your family. Oh yeah, Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, after hearing that, it does sound kind of bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't. I'm gonna switch side. It's not a thing

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<v Speaker 1>to fall asleep during a date, ever, especially.

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<v Speaker 5>If someone's mid story about how they almost die.

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<v Speaker 2>The worst storyteller.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe it would have been more story yeah long,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe it would be more exciting if he did die,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be a great story to tell for sleep. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But uh, you know what, if you ever want to

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<v Speaker 1>get some help getting another date, we can be that

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<v Speaker 1>help for you. Hopefully well, promise to do better than

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<v Speaker 1>we did today. Just email the show. We'll call that

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<v Speaker 1>person who wasn't calling you back. And find any of

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