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Speaker 1: So Simon is on the line. Simon says that he

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Speaker 1: met Anne at Ralps. I love that. I know, it's

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Speaker 1: like out of a movie. Hey, Simon, thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get to the bottom of this in

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Speaker 1: a second, but just tell us about meeting and at Ralph's.

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Speaker 1: How did that happen?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we actually met in the produce section at Ralphs.

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Speaker 2: We ended up talking and then shopping together, exchanging numbers,

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Speaker 2: and then we've actually went out four times since. But

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Speaker 2: I guess something happened on the date number four because

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Speaker 2: now it's only like one word answers.

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Speaker 1: And just what do you feel happened on date number four?

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Speaker 1: If you really look at date number four? How is

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Speaker 1: it different? We Are there any moments that seemed awkward?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm like, I'm trying to replay the whole

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Speaker 2: thing in my head. I can't imagine anything, Like I

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Speaker 2: feel like I was a gentleman. We went out to dinner,

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Speaker 2: we ended up watching a movie like it all went perfect.

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Speaker 2: In my head, Like, I really can't think of anything.

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Speaker 2: She's just so sweet and so nice.

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Speaker 1: She I mean, is it possible she's just sort of

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Speaker 1: petering out right? It just had a guess.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I think of is maybe like maybe

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Speaker 2: she hooked up with an ax or met someone else

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Speaker 2: or just I don't know, it just changed your mind

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Speaker 2: about me, Like maybe she's got something else going on

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Speaker 2: that's not really to me.

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Speaker 1: So it could be like that could have been the

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Speaker 1: life span of the relationship right before date run and

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Speaker 1: that's it. How long ago was that fourth.

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Speaker 2: Date at this point, I guess it was about four

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Speaker 2: or five days ago.

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Speaker 1: A right, Simon, we're going to try and get her.

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Speaker 1: I believe we've the number of A Yeah, okay, so

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Speaker 1: we're gonna try and get her on the phone, and

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Speaker 1: you'll listen in. Let's see what we can find out

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Speaker 1: what happened on the fourth date. All right, hold on

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Speaker 1: for one second, essentially meaning it the produce section, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a section where I linger, like

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Speaker 1: I'm there for a minute checking things out and looking right,

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Speaker 3: The thing about the grocery store, though, is that they

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Speaker 3: are total stranger. Like, at least with the dating app,

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Speaker 3: you kind of know maybe what they watch, where they hang,

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Speaker 3: what they do where they live. In the grocery store,

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Speaker 3: you have no idea that's.

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Speaker 1: Not true looking at exotic fruits and you know at

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Speaker 1: the same time.

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Speaker 3: So you know they like exotic fruits, like that's not much, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but you know they live in your neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: Tanya, You don't you don't want to respond to that,

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Speaker 1: not as far as you know.

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Speaker 3: Like I met a guy at Whole Foods and I

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Speaker 3: thought he was like, gonna be my husband.

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Speaker 1: And you went on went the Whole Foods with that intent, I.

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Speaker 3: Know, But then I went out with him and he

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Speaker 3: didn't even own a television, and I was like, it's

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Speaker 3: just totally different worlds.

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Speaker 1: You know. Let's come back to all of it with

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Speaker 1: Anne on the line here at Kiss on Air with

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Speaker 1: a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 4: On Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: So let me get right into the second date update.

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Speaker 1: I got Simon on the phone. Simon and Van Eyes

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Speaker 1: met and at Ralph's they were shopping together. They ended

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Speaker 1: up hanging out, exchanging numbers, went out like four times.

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Speaker 1: On the fourth date. She's now gone to one word replies,

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Speaker 1: not a lot of enthusiasm or response. And so the

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Speaker 1: question is what happened? Is she now seeing somebody else?

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Speaker 1: Did the dating run its course? Which to me, seems

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Speaker 1: highly likely, but Simon be very quiet. We're about to

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Speaker 1: bring Ann in here. Okay, we're gonna find out. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's see Hi Ann, thank you for holding on.

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Speaker 1: It's Ryan Seacrest and Sisney and Tani. You're on the

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Speaker 1: air with us right now.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Hi, Hi, Hello.

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Speaker 1: So we're calling you just quickly to get into it

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Speaker 1: about a guy named Simon that you met and went

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Speaker 1: out with a few times. How did it go to Simon?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, good guy, but it just didn't work out.

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Speaker 4: You move on, you know.

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Speaker 1: Uh? Okay, any we're clearly curious why, any reason why?

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Speaker 4: Well, guys were just like tough to understand, you know,

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Speaker 4: like you feel like they're super into you, but then

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Speaker 4: you find out you're just an option. It's tough. But

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Speaker 4: I'll be okay, Well, what do you mean by that? Well,

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Speaker 4: last time I saw him, he brought me an earring

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Speaker 4: I left at his apartment and it was not my earring. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and it wasn't mine, so yeah, so I asked him.

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Speaker 4: He bound it and he was like next to the bed.

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Speaker 4: So it's danced to reason that someone else was in

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Speaker 1: Well, it could have been left over from a long

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Speaker 1: time ago. Why would it be recently there?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess I'm just like, listen, we weren't exclusive,

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Speaker 4: that's fine, do whatever you want, Like we hadn't talked

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Speaker 4: about it, But it's like a headspace thing, right like

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Speaker 3: If you were all in with this guy at that moment,

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Speaker 3: why wouldn't you just say something right then about the

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Speaker 3: I just because.

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Speaker 4: We hadn't talked about it, so I didn't know like

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Speaker 4: if I really had a right to be upset, you know, but.

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Speaker 1: I were asking a lot to be like upfront in

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Speaker 1: transparent and honest in relationship at date four. Yeah, Like no, well,

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Speaker 1: but just be like, it's not mine? What did you

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Speaker 1: do with the earring? What did you say? Did you

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Speaker 1: say it's not mine? Or did you take the earring?

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Speaker 4: I took it. I was surprised I took it. But

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Speaker 4: then I just hadn't like.

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Speaker 1: I wanted, and I gotta tell you, and.

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Speaker 4: It got stupid, like I didn't we hadn't talked about it,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like we're going to talk about.

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Speaker 1: It right now. Simon is on the phone with us. Simon,

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Speaker 1: whose earring was that?

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Speaker 2: Hey? Yeah, no, I'm I'm sorry. I really thought that

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Speaker 2: was your ear ring?

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Speaker 1: Whose was it?

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Speaker 2: I mean, like no, But the point is, like I'm

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Speaker 2: really really into Anne, Like I don't.

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Speaker 1: Want to know what was the ear ring left?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I I have a friend and it's she's more

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Speaker 2: like a friend with benefits type of person. She was

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Speaker 2: over there fairly recently, but she was not since you

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Speaker 2: Anne slept over like once Anne and I had slept together,

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Speaker 2: like that was it?

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Speaker 4: Like I swear, but you just like didn't notice the earring.

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Speaker 1: Like for days and days.

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't know, I guess not, Like it

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Speaker 2: so I don't know. Maybe it was like the sets

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you didn't even change the sheets, Like.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I did I did? I did? I

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Speaker 1: May be with Ann. Yeah, it seems like you're a

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Speaker 1: little messy still, Simon. So and you now know everything?

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about going out? Was Simon? He's

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Speaker 1: literally into you, he says, he's completely with you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but this all happened? Where do you stand?

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Speaker 4: Honestly? Like, I was considering it for a minute, but

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Speaker 4: I just think it's a no. Like I just don't

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Speaker 4: think I can get past it.

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Speaker 1: I might be with Ann on this.

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Speaker 2: I just I really kind of was hoping we could

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Speaker 2: get through this. I thought we were really good together,

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Speaker 2: and like, I get it, but I swear there was nothing,

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Speaker 2: nothing going on since I was with you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I just think I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just don't think I'm interested.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, well, let's do this. Let's leave it here at

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Speaker 1: this Simon, you know, charmer a little bit, try and

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Speaker 1: text her, and let's see how this plays out and

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Speaker 1: how you feel after a few days. And let's take

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Speaker 1: Simon for his word that he doesn't trying to do

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Speaker 1: anything and it's just bad circumstances here, unlucky, all right,

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Speaker 1: and good luck to y'all.

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Speaker 4: Do you think.

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Speaker 1: You get it with Simon a little bit? If he's

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Speaker 1: not in a relationship and he wants to have a

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Speaker 1: friend over that's got benefits coming along, that's fair, and

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Speaker 1: he's not like falling in love.

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Speaker 3: A friend that benefits.

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Speaker 1: But that's what you've done. Sounded funny, I've seen the

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Speaker 1: movie The Benefits. That's what it is.

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Speaker 3: Is that one of the justin Timberlake and and Miakus

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Speaker 3: Mila Kunz.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's a long time ago. Well it's

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Speaker 1: a long time ago. Well we'll work out with Simon

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Speaker 1: and An. What do you think. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I think she's out. Is it over now? Unless she

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Speaker 1: was hearing my lonely one night