Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we
Speaker 1: got a brand new Awkward Tuesday phone call for you.
Speaker 1: That episode is about to start, but we need a
Speaker 1: touch base on the alpha tests that went down yesterday
Speaker 1: in the second date update where a woman locked him
Speaker 1: in a closet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, bitterly.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, so you can get out to prove that
Speaker 1: he was a man, I guess alpha. Yeah, And people
Speaker 1: had feelings on the comment.
Speaker 2: We got a lot of well that was rough on
Speaker 2: the ears.
Speaker 1: What did I just listen to?
Speaker 3: I haven't even.
Speaker 1: Finished yet, and I already am thinking she's a psycho and.
Speaker 2: Crazy lady.
Speaker 4: She needs help, dodged a bullet red flag the size
Speaker 4: of a building.
Speaker 1: You get the point, Oh, I say, I see a
Speaker 1: lot of fans of her, Is that what you're saying,
Speaker 1: a lot of people wanting today interviews.
Speaker 2: Yeah, going to hear this and go okay, I will
Speaker 2: go get there. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know, there's gonna be one man that's able to
Speaker 1: pick a lock, steel her heart, and it's all gonna
Speaker 1: work perfect exactly. Like that's somebody for everybody out there.
Speaker 1: All right, we're going to get into it. Here's your
Speaker 1: brand new Awkward Tuesday episode. It starts right now.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you two shocking things.
Speaker 4: Okay, First, one of our listeners actually got into a
Speaker 4: serious relationship with a woman he met on Tinder.
Speaker 2: I know, yeah crazy.
Speaker 4: The second shocking thing is what he said today during
Speaker 4: his phone call with her.
Speaker 2: He didn't give us a heads up one.
Speaker 4: In fact, he didn't tell us on purpose, and it
Speaker 4: blindsided the entire room. You're about to hear it and
Speaker 4: be just as shocked as we were.
Speaker 1: On his side somehow.
Speaker 5: Yeah, in an.
Speaker 4: Awkward Tuesday phone call for the Ages coming up next.
Speaker 2: It's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 4: When you're in a relationship, you can just tell when
Speaker 4: something is off.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: Without even saying words.
Speaker 4: You just feel it in your gut, Like Brooke, give
Speaker 4: me a personal example.
Speaker 2: It could be something from.
Speaker 4: Your husband or from your library of past partners that
Speaker 4: you've been with. What was an unspoken sign that something
Speaker 4: wasn't right.
Speaker 1: How can I tell you about something that's unspoken.
Speaker 6: I'm sure Justin was cheating on you before they did it,
Speaker 6: before you found out.
Speaker 1: I found out, like after I broke up with people
Speaker 1: that maybe they cheated, but never during I don't know that.
Speaker 1: I'm very aware in a relationship now that you bring
Speaker 1: it up. But what about Jeffrey. I don't know if I.
Speaker 2: Am in I don't have my finger.
Speaker 4: On the pole. What about when Michael was wearing your
Speaker 4: perfume for two straight weeks?
Speaker 2: Oh, that was kind of a weird thing that was off.
Speaker 1: You know, somebody in the relationship has to smell good,
Speaker 1: and if it's him that I'm okay.
Speaker 6: With, I feel like her husband could have a whole
Speaker 6: separate family and Brooke wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Know maybe, but I'd be happy the thing is good.
Speaker 4: You just know that feeling when it's not right, and
Speaker 4: it's a feeling. Our listener, Andrew is familiar with all
Speaker 4: too well, not the perfume part, just the things not
Speaker 4: feeling right, and he's also wearing few possibly, but he
Speaker 4: wants to do something about it, so we reached out.
Speaker 2: Hey, Andrew, welcome to the show Man.
Speaker 5: How's it going good?
Speaker 1: Good? How are you doing? Is the question? Andrew?
Speaker 5: I am very anxious.
Speaker 1: Anxious?
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, according to your email, there's something off in
Speaker 4: your relationship.
Speaker 2: Tell us about what's going on.
Speaker 5: Sure, I've been dating this girl Charlotte for a few months.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, And is this something where you're really excited
Speaker 1: about this new relationship?
Speaker 5: I am. I mean at first it was really really awesome.
Speaker 5: I were seeing each other all the time, like weekends, nights.
Speaker 5: She didn't call me in the middle of the day.
Speaker 5: I'm like everything, Like when it's all exciting and new, she.
Speaker 1: Like, what so cares about me?
Speaker 4: Okay, it sounds like that's not something that you're used
Speaker 4: to have. You not had a lot of relationships before.
Speaker 7: I have a.
Speaker 5: Relationships, but nothing really like this. I mean, like I
Speaker 5: quickly started fogging far.
Speaker 4: That's cute.
Speaker 6: You can tell when you start to like someone when
Speaker 6: anything happens during the day and you want to tell
Speaker 6: them things, big things. That sounds like what she was
Speaker 6: doing to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah. No, I mean she's fun, she's spontaneous. I mean,
Speaker 5: she is not like any other woman I've met on
Speaker 5: tenderl Oh that's a big.
Speaker 1: I mean in the world just Tinder.
Speaker 8: I met part of her like on bumble in on Okay,
Speaker 8: but Tinder first, what's changed?
Speaker 5: Like starting out like three weeks ago, she's just started
Speaker 5: to hang out with me less than we were doing Okay, energy.
Speaker 1: Is there, Like do you know of a reason like
Speaker 1: more work or I.
Speaker 5: Honestly don't know. I mean like she says she wants
Speaker 5: to see me, and I mean like we'll go out
Speaker 5: of town for a quick weekend, but then all of
Speaker 5: a sudden, like the next week, I'll hear like nothing
Speaker 5: from her, like no communication, week of a lot and
Speaker 5: then a week of nothing.
Speaker 2: Okay, well no talking at all.
Speaker 1: Weird.
Speaker 4: In her defense, you do sound like a pretty big personality,
Speaker 4: and she might need a break from me for a
Speaker 4: full week after begging a whole weekend together.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's going to pick up on
Speaker 1: your sarcasm that way.
Speaker 2: Well, I wasn't being sarcastic. I mean that's big.
Speaker 1: Oh his personality Okay, overwhelming?
Speaker 2: It's yeah, yes, speak just trying to talk.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Jeff, keep going, He's personality.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Andrew, did you want to say anything to that?
Speaker 5: No, you're right, I do have a big personality.
Speaker 2: I could tell there you go now.
Speaker 1: I mean it could be like I feel like, once
Speaker 1: you're really comfortable in a relationship, you don't necessarily have
Speaker 1: to speak all the time. Like maybe she's more of
Speaker 1: an introvert than you realized, Oh.
Speaker 2: You know, is that possible?
Speaker 5: I mean she keeps saying that she wants to see
Speaker 5: me and that she's just busy more and more, and
Speaker 5: I mean I don't know if that's actually true or
Speaker 5: if she's making up.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're getting the feeling that Jeff was talking
Speaker 1: about in the beginning that stuffing's up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, No, it just feels like that she's like pulling
Speaker 5: away clothing off to me more and more. And I
Speaker 5: mean I don't want to be struggle along if something
Speaker 5: else is going on that isn't me.
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh wait, did you say is it you like
Speaker 1: as in you think she could be cheating?
Speaker 5: It's possible. I mean who knows what everybody on all
Speaker 5: these apps?
Speaker 2: Now, are you guys exclusive?
Speaker 5: Yeah? That's what I want to say, is that your
Speaker 5: girlfriend we've talked about being exclusive, but really like her actions,
Speaker 5: like all this pulling away, it's definitely speaking different because
Speaker 5: I mean, she can't pull a couple of baits I
Speaker 5: mean last.
Speaker 4: Week, because you sound like you're one hundred percent committed
Speaker 4: to her and she's not giving that back to you.
Speaker 2: So what more?
Speaker 5: Right? Change?
Speaker 4: There's a change, and maybe something caused that so like,
Speaker 4: what is it that made you email the show for help?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 2: What do you want to get out of this awkward
Speaker 2: Tuesday phone call?
Speaker 5: I mean, I really just I want to know one
Speaker 5: hundred percent of is she in or out? Because really,
Speaker 5: like as I said, I have fallen for her. My
Speaker 5: heart cannot take this. What about your.
Speaker 2: Other body parts? Can they take it?
Speaker 5: My right leg? Maybe my left is having issue?
Speaker 4: Yeah, joke, And that was that was solid. And she
Speaker 4: deserves to love one hundred percent of you. Yeah, and
Speaker 4: you deserve to know the truth.
Speaker 2: So let's come back.
Speaker 4: We'll give you a little bit of advice before we
Speaker 4: let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your
Speaker 4: maybe girlfriend Charlotte.
Speaker 1: No, still girlfriend right now, Jeff, there's no maybe.
Speaker 2: What title would you give her?
Speaker 5: I mean right now, I was thinking girlfriend? But I
Speaker 5: want to know.
Speaker 4: Okay, girlfriend, Okay, we're a lady and find out what.
Speaker 5: Alfriend.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll see where her head's at when we do
Speaker 4: your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.
Speaker 2: It's awkward.
Speaker 3: It's Tuesday.
Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 4: It's not really an ultimatum, but it kind of is.
Speaker 4: When you ask the person you've been dating for a while.
Speaker 4: Are you one hundred percent in on me?
Speaker 2: Or am I wasting my time here? Yiks Broke, have
Speaker 2: you asked your husband that yet?
Speaker 1: We went over that before the wedding.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because.
Speaker 4: That's exactly what made Andrew reach out to us today
Speaker 4: since the woman he's been seeing for months, Charlotte is
Speaker 4: telling him all the right things. She's saying she likes him,
Speaker 4: she wants to see him, but her actions are not
Speaker 4: matching those words.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're all over the place.
Speaker 5: Yea.
Speaker 4: Andrew's heart just can't take it anymore. So he needs
Speaker 4: to know are you actually in on me? Or do
Speaker 4: I need to move on? And how do you even
Speaker 4: approach that type of conversation? We need a strategy here, Brooks.
Speaker 4: So okay, please help give Andrew a strategy.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the way you worded it was kind of cringe,
Speaker 1: just so you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Andrew, why did you word it that way?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: It comes off a little thirsty, a little desperate.
Speaker 2: Okay, thirsty boy, Andrew.
Speaker 1: I have an idea, you say, Gosh, I am just
Speaker 1: loving our relationship. I think everything's going so well, and
Speaker 1: I am about to book tickets home for the holidays.
Speaker 1: I love to book you one too, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like kind of holding her feet to
Speaker 1: the fire because suddenly there's a reason why she either
Speaker 1: needs to come clean and tell you ah too much,
Speaker 1: I can't do that, or she's like that sounds amazing,
Speaker 1: and you know she's one hundred percent in.
Speaker 4: Okay, you're you're trying to smoke her out so that
Speaker 4: she has no choice but to come out and tell
Speaker 4: the real reason she doesn't want to see you.
Speaker 1: Thanks for picking up on my fire analogy smoke, got it, Jeff.
Speaker 5: That's good. That's good. No, I like the one.
Speaker 2: Okay, Andrew likes that, Jose. What's your advice for him?
Speaker 5: Dude?
Speaker 2: Just ask her to move in with you.
Speaker 1: WHOA.
Speaker 6: I'm not like not saying you're really gonna ask her.
Speaker 6: You're not gonna mean it. I mean, but you ask
Speaker 6: the question that way. If she's hiding anything, she will
Speaker 6: spill the tea.
Speaker 1: So if she says yes to moving in and then.
Speaker 2: What you know, everything is great, But then you're kind
Speaker 2: of committed.
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, she's a hundred percent in on her,
Speaker 4: so maybe it's good for you.
Speaker 2: Andrew. She said yes to moveing in, are you willing.
Speaker 5: That might be too much, but I do like the
Speaker 5: holiday idea.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, and maybe.
Speaker 6: I think the same now.
Speaker 4: Jo is taken back his quicker than brook does.
Speaker 2: Right to marriage, not taking through things.
Speaker 4: But yeah, saying no, I think I think the goal
Speaker 4: of both was the same, though. Put a little bit
Speaker 4: of pressure on her in order to force her to
Speaker 4: open up and tell you the truth.
Speaker 6: If something's on her mind, she.
Speaker 5: Should tell you, gotcha. Okay, I'm a little nervous about this.
Speaker 5: This this is a big moment for me.
Speaker 2: That's understandable, and you care about her. You made brook
Speaker 2: yawn with that comment, so I was.
Speaker 1: Trying to seal it quietly.
Speaker 2: I have had a copy early mornings, Joe.
Speaker 1: We're invested in this because I'm not interested in.
Speaker 2: It was all cringe to you, Brooks.
Speaker 5: So here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna dial Charlotte. We'll see if she picks up.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, hey, Andrew. Yeah, yeah, I mean this is
Speaker 3: my voice and.
Speaker 5: I don't really know what's going on.
Speaker 7: You sound nervous. I don't know, kind of kind of weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, a little nervous. I mean like I've been thinking
Speaker 5: about us, You've been thinking about us.
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, of course, I've just been so busy.
Speaker 7: I'm so sorry I've been you know, am I.
Speaker 5: Right? Yeah?
Speaker 7: No, I mean what are you up to right now?
Speaker 5: What are you busy with?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 5: Why are you you want to hang out? I can
Speaker 5: do that.
Speaker 7: I'm busy right now. Actually I'm at work. But I
Speaker 7: mean we could probably try to hang out in like
Speaker 7: a couple of days or something.
Speaker 5: Yeah. No, you've been saying a lot lately.
Speaker 7: Oh, I know, work's been so crazy, you know how
Speaker 7: this time of year, you know, like the holidays are
Speaker 7: about to come around, it's just kind of nuts. And
Speaker 7: I mean I'm just trying to fit everything in, you know.
Speaker 7: But I promise i'll let you know when i've got
Speaker 7: some time. I promise.
Speaker 5: Funny that you should mention holidays. Actually I got I'm
Speaker 5: booking tickets to go visit my family and whatnot, and
Speaker 5: i'd love to book you a ticket to come with me.
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5: Let's see, I'm.
Speaker 7: Still trying to figure out all of the stuff with
Speaker 7: my family and all the dates and stuff. My parents
Speaker 7: are terrible about like telling me dates and things, So
Speaker 7: let me kind of get with them first, and then
Speaker 7: I'll let you know. Kind of what my life is
Speaker 7: looking like.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I kind of got to need to know pretty
Speaker 5: quickly because stuff's on sale and it's easy to get.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean I can't. I don't. I don't know
Speaker 7: anything yet, so I definitely can't tell you anything concrete.
Speaker 5: Sure, am I what priority to you?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I don't. This is the first time
Speaker 7: we've even talked about holidays. Like, You've got to give
Speaker 7: me a second to figure it out. I haven't even
Speaker 7: talked to my family.
Speaker 5: This isn't really about holidays, but like all the time,
Speaker 5: I'm trying to get more time with you and just
Speaker 5: keep getting those of these days.
Speaker 7: Well, I'm sorry, I know I've been all over the place,
Speaker 7: but it's just not a good time. It's logistics and schedules.
Speaker 7: I don't know what else to tell you.
Speaker 5: I will try, all right. I mean I want to know,
Speaker 5: is this really like? Are you actually too busy? Or
Speaker 5: is this because you're married? Married?
Speaker 7: What are you talking about?
Speaker 5: I know all about it. I know you're married. What
Speaker 5: is going on here? Are we? What do you mean?
Speaker 5: Do I know you're married? I talk to your husband.
Speaker 5: He found me.
Speaker 2: God, what is going on?
Speaker 1: Andrew? Why wouldn't you tell us that?
Speaker 7: Who is there?
Speaker 2: Uh crap?
Speaker 4: Yeah to answer Charlotte, Hi, you're on the radio.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: Andrew, why am I on the radio?
Speaker 5: Because because I'm being me the bad guy, and I
Speaker 5: wanted everybody to know that it is not me, It
Speaker 5: is you.
Speaker 1: Who thought you were the bad guy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, her husband tell me. He called me up and
Speaker 5: started ripping me apart, and I was like, I did
Speaker 5: not do this. She's married, and I have no idea.
Speaker 1: You didn't know she was married. You didn't know you
Speaker 1: were a side piece, Andrew, she was tinder.
Speaker 5: I didn't know.
Speaker 2: Charlotte. Did you know you were married?
Speaker 5: You know what? You don't know me.
Speaker 7: You don't know my marriage, and you don't know this situation.
Speaker 7: I was, this is not okay, Andrew.
Speaker 2: Did you turn it like that?
Speaker 1: Don't turn it like that. It's obviously not an open relationship.
Speaker 1: If the husband is chasing down your side piece and
Speaker 1: yelling at him, you're lying to two different people now
Speaker 1: and messing with both of their hearts. That's messed up.
Speaker 4: Plus, I feel like Andrew just ruined his chances to
Speaker 4: have Charlotte come back home and meet his family.
Speaker 3: Wait, did not that you know what I'm done.
Speaker 7: I'm done. I'm not the joke of your like day today,
Speaker 7: So you know what I'm done?
Speaker 1: Went with your marriage because I think that that are
Speaker 1: taken care of.
Speaker 5: There?
Speaker 2: Does she hang up? I don't know why why she
Speaker 2: hang up?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Andrew, you need to prep us for
Speaker 1: those things. We can't go and blind to something like that.
Speaker 2: I know you knew this the whole time.
Speaker 5: I was sorry that something was going to go that
Speaker 5: you like you're working on do it, and we wouldn't
Speaker 5: find anything out, and I just I needed to confront
Speaker 5: her and I needed everyone to know about it.
Speaker 1: Well, and you got confirmation that she's married. I mean,
Speaker 1: it could have been some crazy X or something and
Speaker 1: make it.
Speaker 5: I mean it sounds like she's kind of having issues
Speaker 5: with the marriage and everything. So I mean, not her
Speaker 5: to keep in touch.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, Andrew, Yeah, marriage just kind of sweet,
Speaker 4: pick up all the broken pieces and fix her.
Speaker 1: Talking very highly for the entire.
Speaker 6: If she's cheating on him, she'll cheat on you. Don't
Speaker 6: think that this is gonna be a good thing going forward.
Speaker 1: Especially if she's cheated on him with you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that.
Speaker 5: Means, because maybe that means because she cheated with me,
Speaker 5: that she won't cheat on me.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think nobody ever says that. I appreciate
Speaker 1: that is Come on, okay, No, I mean wow. I
Speaker 1: mean if you continue it, you know what you're getting
Speaker 1: yourself into and it's not good.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I just got that feeling that I don't think
Speaker 5: she's gonna talk to me anymore now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what's giving you that impression, the injury.
Speaker 2: I would hold on to hope just a little bit longer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and who knows, maybe you'll match back up on
Speaker 1: Tinder again.
Speaker 2: Got to make sure to be ready to swipe right again.
Speaker 5: Okay, Andrew, I'm still on there, so I mean I'm best. Wait.
Speaker 1: I thought you were committed relationships.
Speaker 2: You're meeting other women?
Speaker 3: Oh man, wait, are.
Speaker 2: You married Jeffrey in the morning. Why does this happen.
Speaker 1: To us that we get used the deceit?
Speaker 4: Yes, listen, you can lie to your spouses, lie to
Speaker 4: your children, lie to your parents.
Speaker 2: Don't lie to us. That's just slow.
Speaker 1: That's not the message we're sending. Okay, that's probably why
Speaker 1: it happens to us because we say things like that.
Speaker 6: Believes every email that he reads and goes, oh, this
Speaker 6: is a crazy scenario.
Speaker 2: Let's get him on the phone. We all believed him.
Speaker 2: We all believed him in part one.
Speaker 6: I think you and producer body to do a little
Speaker 6: more background check.
Speaker 2: You're right, I'm fired.
Speaker 1: It might be good for him. Man, he got the revenge.
Speaker 2: Yeah he did. Yeah, I guess you're to lie to us.
Speaker 1: Kind of impressed, honestly. Yeah, he seemed like the nice guy.
Speaker 4: Still not willing to fully eject from that relationship. They're
Speaker 4: holding on a little bit of hope that she's going
Speaker 4: to come running to.
Speaker 1: That's the unhealthy part.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know how I feel
Speaker 2: about the end of that phone call.
Speaker 4: But if you like chaos in your life, then yeah,
Speaker 4: it's a great ad. But if you don't want to
Speaker 4: have chaos in your life anymore, you can always email
Speaker 4: us tell us the truth though, yeah, yeah, please, and
Speaker 4: we'll try to help you with whatever issues you're dealing with.
Speaker 2: You can find us online at Brook and Jeffrey