WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Tinder Surprise 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.560 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:03.880 got a brand new Awkward Tuesday phone call for you. 0:00:04.559 --> 0:00:06.760 That episode is about to start, but we need a 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:09.760 touch base on the alpha tests that went down yesterday 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:14.000 in the second date update where a woman locked him 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:14.600 in a closet. 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:15.800 Yeah, yeah, bitterly. 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:18.560 Uh huh, so you can get out to prove that 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:22.400 he was a man, I guess alpha. Yeah, And people 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:23.640 had feelings on the comment. 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:25.959 We got a lot of well that was rough on 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:26.520 the ears. 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:28.400 What did I just listen to? 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:30.720 I haven't even. 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:33.879 Finished yet, and I already am thinking she's a psycho and. 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:36.400 Crazy lady. 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:39.760 She needs help, dodged a bullet red flag the size 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:40.240 of a building. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:42.120 You get the point, Oh, I say, I see a 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:44.160 lot of fans of her, Is that what you're saying, 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:45.440 a lot of people wanting today interviews. 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:48.720 Yeah, going to hear this and go okay, I will 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:49.920 go get there. Yeah. 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:52.239 You know, there's gonna be one man that's able to 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:55.120 pick a lock, steel her heart, and it's all gonna 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:59.760 work perfect exactly. Like that's somebody for everybody out there. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:01.720 All right, we're going to get into it. Here's your 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.360 brand new Awkward Tuesday episode. It starts right now. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.440 I'm gonna tell you two shocking things. 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:12.319 Okay, First, one of our listeners actually got into a 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:16.120 serious relationship with a woman he met on Tinder. 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:19.720 I know, yeah crazy. 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:24.080 The second shocking thing is what he said today during 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:25.640 his phone call with her. 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:27.800 He didn't give us a heads up one. 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:30.840 In fact, he didn't tell us on purpose, and it 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:35.959 blindsided the entire room. You're about to hear it and 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:38.040 be just as shocked as we were. 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:39.600 On his side somehow. 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:41.479 Yeah, in an. 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:44.839 Awkward Tuesday phone call for the Ages coming up next. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:51.160 It's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:54.960 When you're in a relationship, you can just tell when 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:56.120 something is off. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:57.840 Oh yeah, that's true. 0:01:57.680 --> 0:01:59.160 Without even saying words. 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:02.120 You just feel it in your gut, Like Brooke, give 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:03.200 me a personal example. 0:02:05.480 --> 0:02:06.520 It could be something from. 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:09.080 Your husband or from your library of past partners that 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:12.320 you've been with. What was an unspoken sign that something 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:13.160 wasn't right. 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:15.520 How can I tell you about something that's unspoken. 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:19.400 I'm sure Justin was cheating on you before they did it, 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:20.240 before you found out. 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:23.080 I found out, like after I broke up with people 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:25.359 that maybe they cheated, but never during I don't know that. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.680 I'm very aware in a relationship now that you bring 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:30.200 it up. But what about Jeffrey. I don't know if I. 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.600 Am in I don't have my finger. 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:34.600 On the pole. What about when Michael was wearing your 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:36.560 perfume for two straight weeks? 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:39.480 Oh, that was kind of a weird thing that was off. 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.919 You know, somebody in the relationship has to smell good, 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:44.120 and if it's him that I'm okay. 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:45.239 With, I feel like her husband could have a whole 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:46.840 separate family and Brooke wouldn't. 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:49.800 Know maybe, but I'd be happy the thing is good. 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:52.760 You just know that feeling when it's not right, and 0:02:52.800 --> 0:02:55.960 it's a feeling. Our listener, Andrew is familiar with all 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.919 too well, not the perfume part, just the things not 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:02.840 feeling right, and he's also wearing few possibly, but he 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:05.320 wants to do something about it, so we reached out. 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:07.520 Hey, Andrew, welcome to the show Man. 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.239 How's it going good? 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.840 Good? How are you doing? Is the question? Andrew? 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:15.720 I am very anxious. 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:16.560 Anxious? 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:20.480 Okay, okay, according to your email, there's something off in 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.160 your relationship. 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:23.480 Tell us about what's going on. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:27.560 Sure, I've been dating this girl Charlotte for a few months. 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:33.000 Okay, okay, And is this something where you're really excited 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:34.360 about this new relationship? 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:37.200 I am. I mean at first it was really really awesome. 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.880 I were seeing each other all the time, like weekends, nights. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:41.400 She didn't call me in the middle of the day. 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:44.480 I'm like everything, Like when it's all exciting and new, she. 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:45.800 Like, what so cares about me? 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.760 Okay, it sounds like that's not something that you're used 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:52.800 to have. You not had a lot of relationships before. 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:54.200 I have a. 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:56.760 Relationships, but nothing really like this. I mean, like I 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:57.880 quickly started fogging far. 0:03:58.600 --> 0:03:59.280 That's cute. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:01.920 You can tell when you start to like someone when 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:03.880 anything happens during the day and you want to tell 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.720 them things, big things. That sounds like what she was 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:07.320 doing to you. 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:10.880 Yeah. No, I mean she's fun, she's spontaneous. I mean, 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:13.400 she is not like any other woman I've met on 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.800 tenderl Oh that's a big. 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:17.520 I mean in the world just Tinder. 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:21.840 I met part of her like on bumble in on Okay, 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:29.320 but Tinder first, what's changed? 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:35.000 Like starting out like three weeks ago, she's just started 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:38.839 to hang out with me less than we were doing Okay, energy. 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:41.080 Is there, Like do you know of a reason like 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:43.400 more work or I. 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:45.600 Honestly don't know. I mean like she says she wants 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:46.880 to see me, and I mean like we'll go out 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:48.760 of town for a quick weekend, but then all of 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:50.839 a sudden, like the next week, I'll hear like nothing 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:54.000 from her, like no communication, week of a lot and 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:55.159 then a week of nothing. 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:57.640 Okay, well no talking at all. 0:04:58.000 --> 0:04:58.360 Weird. 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:01.880 In her defense, you do sound like a pretty big personality, 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:03.560 and she might need a break from me for a 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.960 full week after begging a whole weekend together. 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:07.320 I don't know if he's going to pick up on 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:08.720 your sarcasm that way. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.240 Well, I wasn't being sarcastic. I mean that's big. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:14.480 Oh his personality Okay, overwhelming? 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:18.159 It's yeah, yes, speak just trying to talk. 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.280 Yeah, Jeff, keep going, He's personality. 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.120 Sorry, Andrew, did you want to say anything to that? 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.039 No, you're right, I do have a big personality. 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.440 I could tell there you go now. 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:30.000 I mean it could be like I feel like, once 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:33.160 you're really comfortable in a relationship, you don't necessarily have 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.800 to speak all the time. Like maybe she's more of 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:38.120 an introvert than you realized, Oh. 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:39.160 You know, is that possible? 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.640 I mean she keeps saying that she wants to see 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:44.800 me and that she's just busy more and more, and 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:47.440 I mean I don't know if that's actually true or 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:48.600 if she's making up. 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:50.880 Okay, so you're getting the feeling that Jeff was talking 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.520 about in the beginning that stuffing's up. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:55.200 Yeah, No, it just feels like that she's like pulling 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:57.880 away clothing off to me more and more. And I 0:05:57.960 --> 0:06:00.559 mean I don't want to be struggle along if something 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:02.520 else is going on that isn't me. 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.359 Okay, Oh wait, did you say is it you like 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:07.200 as in you think she could be cheating? 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:09.760 It's possible. I mean who knows what everybody on all 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:10.240 these apps? 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:11.720 Now, are you guys exclusive? 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.200 Yeah? That's what I want to say, is that your 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:17.599 girlfriend we've talked about being exclusive, but really like her actions, 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:20.640 like all this pulling away, it's definitely speaking different because 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:22.039 I mean, she can't pull a couple of baits I 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:22.640 mean last. 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:26.600 Week, because you sound like you're one hundred percent committed 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:28.840 to her and she's not giving that back to you. 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:30.160 So what more? 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:31.400 Right? Change? 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:34.120 There's a change, and maybe something caused that so like, 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:36.800 what is it that made you email the show for help? 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:36.919 Like? 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:38.440 What do you want to get out of this awkward 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:39.360 Tuesday phone call? 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:41.719 I mean, I really just I want to know one 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:44.360 hundred percent of is she in or out? Because really, 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:46.479 like as I said, I have fallen for her. My 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:51.560 heart cannot take this. What about your. 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:54.919 Other body parts? Can they take it? 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:59.080 My right leg? Maybe my left is having issue? 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:03.359 Yeah, joke, And that was that was solid. And she 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.600 deserves to love one hundred percent of you. Yeah, and 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:07.800 you deserve to know the truth. 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:08.640 So let's come back. 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:10.960 We'll give you a little bit of advice before we 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:14.120 let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:16.360 maybe girlfriend Charlotte. 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.360 No, still girlfriend right now, Jeff, there's no maybe. 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:19.640 What title would you give her? 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:22.000 I mean right now, I was thinking girlfriend? But I 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:22.800 want to know. 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:27.920 Okay, girlfriend, Okay, we're a lady and find out what. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:30.120 Alfriend. 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:33.040 Yeah, we'll see where her head's at when we do 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.400 your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:37.840 It's awkward. 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:38.880 It's Tuesday. 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:41.840 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:46.720 It's not really an ultimatum, but it kind of is. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.080 When you ask the person you've been dating for a while. 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:52.120 Are you one hundred percent in on me? 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:55.760 Or am I wasting my time here? Yiks Broke, have 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:56.960 you asked your husband that yet? 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.680 We went over that before the wedding. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:02.480 Oh yeah, because. 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:05.120 That's exactly what made Andrew reach out to us today 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:08.200 since the woman he's been seeing for months, Charlotte is 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:10.480 telling him all the right things. She's saying she likes him, 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:13.440 she wants to see him, but her actions are not 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:14.880 matching those words. 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:16.119 Yeah, they're all over the place. 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:16.360 Yea. 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:19.240 Andrew's heart just can't take it anymore. So he needs 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:22.240 to know are you actually in on me? Or do 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:24.640 I need to move on? And how do you even 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:28.840 approach that type of conversation? We need a strategy here, Brooks. 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.560 So okay, please help give Andrew a strategy. 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:34.000 Okay, Well, the way you worded it was kind of cringe, 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:34.839 just so you know. 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:36.719 Yeah, Andrew, why did you word it that way? 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:36.959 Yeah? 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:39.400 It comes off a little thirsty, a little desperate. 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:42.079 Okay, thirsty boy, Andrew. 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.320 I have an idea, you say, Gosh, I am just 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:49.440 loving our relationship. I think everything's going so well, and 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:53.839 I am about to book tickets home for the holidays. 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:57.000 I love to book you one too, you know what 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.439 I mean. It's like kind of holding her feet to 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:03.240 the fire because suddenly there's a reason why she either 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:06.200 needs to come clean and tell you ah too much, 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:09.600 I can't do that, or she's like that sounds amazing, 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:11.160 and you know she's one hundred percent in. 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:13.839 Okay, you're you're trying to smoke her out so that 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.040 she has no choice but to come out and tell 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:17.559 the real reason she doesn't want to see you. 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:22.720 Thanks for picking up on my fire analogy smoke, got it, Jeff. 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:24.480 That's good. That's good. No, I like the one. 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:27.440 Okay, Andrew likes that, Jose. What's your advice for him? 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:27.760 Dude? 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:29.360 Just ask her to move in with you. 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:30.600 WHOA. 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:34.439 I'm not like not saying you're really gonna ask her. 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.880 You're not gonna mean it. I mean, but you ask 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:40.280 the question that way. If she's hiding anything, she will 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:41.160 spill the tea. 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.000 So if she says yes to moving in and then. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.160 What you know, everything is great, But then you're kind 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:46.640 of committed. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:51.600 I think, yeah, she's a hundred percent in on her, 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:52.560 so maybe it's good for you. 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:55.120 Andrew. She said yes to moveing in, are you willing. 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:58.679 That might be too much, but I do like the 0:09:58.720 --> 0:09:59.319 holiday idea. 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.079 Okay, all right, and maybe. 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:01.920 I think the same now. 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:06.800 Jo is taken back his quicker than brook does. 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.640 Right to marriage, not taking through things. 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:14.280 But yeah, saying no, I think I think the goal 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.240 of both was the same, though. Put a little bit 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:19.360 of pressure on her in order to force her to 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:20.640 open up and tell you the truth. 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:22.120 If something's on her mind, she. 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:25.320 Should tell you, gotcha. Okay, I'm a little nervous about this. 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:26.800 This this is a big moment for me. 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.480 That's understandable, and you care about her. You made brook 0:10:29.600 --> 0:10:31.679 yawn with that comment, so I was. 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:32.720 Trying to seal it quietly. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:35.560 I have had a copy early mornings, Joe. 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:38.800 We're invested in this because I'm not interested in. 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:41.760 It was all cringe to you, Brooks. 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:42.280 So here we go. 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:44.839 I'm gonna dial Charlotte. We'll see if she picks up. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:11:05.280 Hello, Hey, hey, Andrew. Yeah, yeah, I mean this is 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:06.120 my voice and. 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:09.559 I don't really know what's going on. 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:17.800 You sound nervous. I don't know, kind of kind of weird. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:21.720 Yeah, a little nervous. I mean like I've been thinking 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:23.120 about us, You've been thinking about us. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:28.160 I mean, yeah, of course, I've just been so busy. 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:30.240 I'm so sorry I've been you know, am I. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:32.280 Right? Yeah? 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:35.240 No, I mean what are you up to right now? 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:36.040 What are you busy with? 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:37.240 What? 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:39.280 Why are you you want to hang out? I can 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:39.600 do that. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:44.960 I'm busy right now. Actually I'm at work. But I 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.520 mean we could probably try to hang out in like 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:48.840 a couple of days or something. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:53.000 Yeah. No, you've been saying a lot lately. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.800 Oh, I know, work's been so crazy, you know how 0:11:56.840 --> 0:12:00.000 this time of year, you know, like the holidays are 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.079 about to come around, it's just kind of nuts. And 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:05.320 I mean I'm just trying to fit everything in, you know. 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.040 But I promise i'll let you know when i've got 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:09.000 some time. I promise. 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:13.880 Funny that you should mention holidays. Actually I got I'm 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:17.480 booking tickets to go visit my family and whatnot, and 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:19.520 i'd love to book you a ticket to come with me. 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:24.720 Oh my gosh. 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:28.160 Let's see, I'm. 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:30.000 Still trying to figure out all of the stuff with 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:34.000 my family and all the dates and stuff. My parents 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:37.080 are terrible about like telling me dates and things, So 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:38.960 let me kind of get with them first, and then 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:42.200 I'll let you know. Kind of what my life is 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:42.640 looking like. 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:47.000 Yeah, I kind of got to need to know pretty 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:50.080 quickly because stuff's on sale and it's easy to get. 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:54.280 Well, I mean I can't. I don't. I don't know 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:58.920 anything yet, so I definitely can't tell you anything concrete. 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:00.959 Sure, am I what priority to you? 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:02.480 Well? 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:06.520 Yeah, I mean I don't. This is the first time 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:08.880 we've even talked about holidays. Like, You've got to give 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:10.960 me a second to figure it out. I haven't even 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:11.880 talked to my family. 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:15.800 This isn't really about holidays, but like all the time, 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:18.360 I'm trying to get more time with you and just 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.200 keep getting those of these days. 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:25.520 Well, I'm sorry, I know I've been all over the place, 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:29.640 but it's just not a good time. It's logistics and schedules. 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:30.920 I don't know what else to tell you. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:34.440 I will try, all right. I mean I want to know, 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:36.640 is this really like? Are you actually too busy? Or 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.480 is this because you're married? Married? 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:41.080 What are you talking about? 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.360 I know all about it. I know you're married. What 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.720 is going on here? Are we? What do you mean? 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:50.679 Do I know you're married? I talk to your husband. 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:51.280 He found me. 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:56.000 God, what is going on? 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:58.120 Andrew? Why wouldn't you tell us that? 0:13:59.240 --> 0:13:59.760 Who is there? 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:01.400 Uh crap? 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:08.240 Yeah to answer Charlotte, Hi, you're on the radio. 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:11.280 Yeah, we're a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.360 Andrew, why am I on the radio? 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.599 Because because I'm being me the bad guy, and I 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:18.680 wanted everybody to know that it is not me, It 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:29.840 is you. 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:27.440 Who thought you were the bad guy. 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:31.520 Yeah, her husband tell me. He called me up and 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:33.760 started ripping me apart, and I was like, I did 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:39.600 not do this. She's married, and I have no idea. 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:42.320 You didn't know she was married. You didn't know you 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:44.400 were a side piece, Andrew, she was tinder. 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:45.560 I didn't know. 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:48.720 Charlotte. Did you know you were married? 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:52.880 You know what? You don't know me. 0:14:53.360 --> 0:14:55.920 You don't know my marriage, and you don't know this situation. 0:14:56.240 --> 0:15:00.080 I was, this is not okay, Andrew. 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:01.480 Did you turn it like that? 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.160 Don't turn it like that. It's obviously not an open relationship. 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.440 If the husband is chasing down your side piece and 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:09.520 yelling at him, you're lying to two different people now 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.120 and messing with both of their hearts. That's messed up. 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:15.120 Plus, I feel like Andrew just ruined his chances to 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.080 have Charlotte come back home and meet his family. 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.800 Wait, did not that you know what I'm done. 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:26.280 I'm done. I'm not the joke of your like day today, 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:27.520 So you know what I'm done? 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:31.720 Went with your marriage because I think that that are 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:32.440 taken care of. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:32.880 There? 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:38.040 Does she hang up? I don't know why why she 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:38.480 hang up? 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.360 Oh my god, Andrew, you need to prep us for 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:44.120 those things. We can't go and blind to something like that. 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:45.680 I know you knew this the whole time. 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:47.920 I was sorry that something was going to go that 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:49.800 you like you're working on do it, and we wouldn't 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.400 find anything out, and I just I needed to confront 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:54.240 her and I needed everyone to know about it. 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:58.120 Well, and you got confirmation that she's married. I mean, 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:00.080 it could have been some crazy X or something and 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:00.400 make it. 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:04.040 I mean it sounds like she's kind of having issues 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.760 with the marriage and everything. So I mean, not her 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:07.480 to keep in touch. 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:12.080 No, no, no, Andrew, Yeah, marriage just kind of sweet, 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:14.200 pick up all the broken pieces and fix her. 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:19.080 Talking very highly for the entire. 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.240 If she's cheating on him, she'll cheat on you. Don't 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.880 think that this is gonna be a good thing going forward. 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:24.520 Especially if she's cheated on him with you. 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:26.120 Yeah, maybe that. 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.760 Means, because maybe that means because she cheated with me, 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:29.840 that she won't cheat on me. 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:30.400 No. 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:33.520 No, I don't think nobody ever says that. I appreciate 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:37.720 that is Come on, okay, No, I mean wow. I 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:39.680 mean if you continue it, you know what you're getting 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:41.440 yourself into and it's not good. 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.680 Yeah. I just got that feeling that I don't think 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:45.880 she's gonna talk to me anymore now. 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:48.920 Yeah, I don't know what's giving you that impression, the injury. 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:50.800 I would hold on to hope just a little bit longer. 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:52.640 Yeah, and who knows, maybe you'll match back up on 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:53.360 Tinder again. 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:57.120 Got to make sure to be ready to swipe right again. 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:01.480 Okay, Andrew, I'm still on there, so I mean I'm best. Wait. 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:03.640 I thought you were committed relationships. 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:04.960 You're meeting other women? 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:06.240 Oh man, wait, are. 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:13.960 You married Jeffrey in the morning. Why does this happen. 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:17.119 To us that we get used the deceit? 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:21.439 Yes, listen, you can lie to your spouses, lie to 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:23.320 your children, lie to your parents. 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:26.480 Don't lie to us. That's just slow. 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:29.920 That's not the message we're sending. Okay, that's probably why 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:32.639