1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,560 Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we 2 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: got a brand new Awkward Tuesday phone call for you. 3 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: That episode is about to start, but we need a 4 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: touch base on the alpha tests that went down yesterday 5 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: in the second date update where a woman locked him 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: in a closet. 7 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, bitterly. 8 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: Uh huh, so you can get out to prove that 9 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: he was a man, I guess alpha. Yeah, And people 10 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: had feelings on the comment. 11 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 2: We got a lot of well that was rough on 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: the ears. 13 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: What did I just listen to? 14 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 3: I haven't even. 15 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 1: Finished yet, and I already am thinking she's a psycho and. 16 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: Crazy lady. 17 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 4: She needs help, dodged a bullet red flag the size 18 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 4: of a building. 19 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: You get the point, Oh, I say, I see a 20 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: lot of fans of her, Is that what you're saying, 21 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: a lot of people wanting today interviews. 22 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, going to hear this and go okay, I will 23 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 2: go get there. Yeah. 24 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: You know, there's gonna be one man that's able to 25 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: pick a lock, steel her heart, and it's all gonna 26 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: work perfect exactly. Like that's somebody for everybody out there. 27 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: All right, we're going to get into it. Here's your 28 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: brand new Awkward Tuesday episode. It starts right now. 29 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you two shocking things. 30 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 4: Okay, First, one of our listeners actually got into a 31 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 4: serious relationship with a woman he met on Tinder. 32 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: I know, yeah crazy. 33 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 4: The second shocking thing is what he said today during 34 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 4: his phone call with her. 35 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: He didn't give us a heads up one. 36 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 4: In fact, he didn't tell us on purpose, and it 37 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:35,959 Speaker 4: blindsided the entire room. You're about to hear it and 38 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 4: be just as shocked as we were. 39 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: On his side somehow. 40 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, in an. 41 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 4: Awkward Tuesday phone call for the Ages coming up next. 42 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 2: It's awkward, it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 43 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 4: When you're in a relationship, you can just tell when 44 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 4: something is off. 45 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's true. 46 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 2: Without even saying words. 47 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 4: You just feel it in your gut, Like Brooke, give 48 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 4: me a personal example. 49 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 2: It could be something from. 50 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 4: Your husband or from your library of past partners that 51 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 4: you've been with. What was an unspoken sign that something 52 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 4: wasn't right. 53 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: How can I tell you about something that's unspoken. 54 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 6: I'm sure Justin was cheating on you before they did it, 55 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 6: before you found out. 56 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: I found out, like after I broke up with people 57 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: that maybe they cheated, but never during I don't know that. 58 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: I'm very aware in a relationship now that you bring 59 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: it up. But what about Jeffrey. I don't know if I. 60 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: Am in I don't have my finger. 61 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 4: On the pole. What about when Michael was wearing your 62 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 4: perfume for two straight weeks? 63 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: Oh, that was kind of a weird thing that was off. 64 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: You know, somebody in the relationship has to smell good, 65 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: and if it's him that I'm okay. 66 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 6: With, I feel like her husband could have a whole 67 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 6: separate family and Brooke wouldn't. 68 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: Know maybe, but I'd be happy the thing is good. 69 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 4: You just know that feeling when it's not right, and 70 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 4: it's a feeling. Our listener, Andrew is familiar with all 71 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 4: too well, not the perfume part, just the things not 72 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 4: feeling right, and he's also wearing few possibly, but he 73 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 4: wants to do something about it, so we reached out. 74 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: Hey, Andrew, welcome to the show Man. 75 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 5: How's it going good? 76 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Good? How are you doing? Is the question? Andrew? 77 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 5: I am very anxious. 78 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: Anxious? 79 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, according to your email, there's something off in 80 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 4: your relationship. 81 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 2: Tell us about what's going on. 82 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 5: Sure, I've been dating this girl Charlotte for a few months. 83 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, And is this something where you're really excited 84 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 1: about this new relationship? 85 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 5: I am. I mean at first it was really really awesome. 86 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 5: I were seeing each other all the time, like weekends, nights. 87 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 5: She didn't call me in the middle of the day. 88 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 5: I'm like everything, Like when it's all exciting and new, she. 89 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: Like, what so cares about me? 90 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 4: Okay, it sounds like that's not something that you're used 91 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 4: to have. You not had a lot of relationships before. 92 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 7: I have a. 93 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 5: Relationships, but nothing really like this. I mean, like I 94 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 5: quickly started fogging far. 95 00:03:58,600 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 4: That's cute. 96 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 6: You can tell when you start to like someone when 97 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 6: anything happens during the day and you want to tell 98 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 6: them things, big things. That sounds like what she was 99 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 6: doing to you. 100 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. No, I mean she's fun, she's spontaneous. I mean, 101 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 5: she is not like any other woman I've met on 102 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 5: tenderl Oh that's a big. 103 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: I mean in the world just Tinder. 104 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 8: I met part of her like on bumble in on Okay, 105 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 8: but Tinder first, what's changed? 106 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 5: Like starting out like three weeks ago, she's just started 107 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 5: to hang out with me less than we were doing Okay, energy. 108 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: Is there, Like do you know of a reason like 109 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: more work or I. 110 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 5: Honestly don't know. I mean like she says she wants 111 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 5: to see me, and I mean like we'll go out 112 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 5: of town for a quick weekend, but then all of 113 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 5: a sudden, like the next week, I'll hear like nothing 114 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 5: from her, like no communication, week of a lot and 115 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 5: then a week of nothing. 116 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 2: Okay, well no talking at all. 117 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: Weird. 118 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: In her defense, you do sound like a pretty big personality, 119 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 4: and she might need a break from me for a 120 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 4: full week after begging a whole weekend together. 121 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's going to pick up on 122 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: your sarcasm that way. 123 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 2: Well, I wasn't being sarcastic. I mean that's big. 124 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 1: Oh his personality Okay, overwhelming? 125 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 2: It's yeah, yes, speak just trying to talk. 126 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, Jeff, keep going, He's personality. 127 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: Sorry, Andrew, did you want to say anything to that? 128 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 5: No, you're right, I do have a big personality. 129 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 2: I could tell there you go now. 130 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: I mean it could be like I feel like, once 131 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: you're really comfortable in a relationship, you don't necessarily have 132 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: to speak all the time. Like maybe she's more of 133 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: an introvert than you realized, Oh. 134 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: You know, is that possible? 135 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 5: I mean she keeps saying that she wants to see 136 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 5: me and that she's just busy more and more, and 137 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 5: I mean I don't know if that's actually true or 138 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 5: if she's making up. 139 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're getting the feeling that Jeff was talking 140 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: about in the beginning that stuffing's up. 141 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, No, it just feels like that she's like pulling 142 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 5: away clothing off to me more and more. And I 143 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,559 Speaker 5: mean I don't want to be struggle along if something 144 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 5: else is going on that isn't me. 145 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 1: Okay, Oh wait, did you say is it you like 146 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: as in you think she could be cheating? 147 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 5: It's possible. I mean who knows what everybody on all 148 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 5: these apps? 149 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 2: Now, are you guys exclusive? 150 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 5: Yeah? That's what I want to say, is that your 151 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 5: girlfriend we've talked about being exclusive, but really like her actions, 152 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 5: like all this pulling away, it's definitely speaking different because 153 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 5: I mean, she can't pull a couple of baits I 154 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 5: mean last. 155 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 4: Week, because you sound like you're one hundred percent committed 156 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 4: to her and she's not giving that back to you. 157 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: So what more? 158 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 5: Right? Change? 159 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 4: There's a change, and maybe something caused that so like, 160 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 4: what is it that made you email the show for help? 161 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 5: Like? 162 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 2: What do you want to get out of this awkward 163 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 2: Tuesday phone call? 164 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 5: I mean, I really just I want to know one 165 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 5: hundred percent of is she in or out? Because really, 166 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 5: like as I said, I have fallen for her. My 167 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 5: heart cannot take this. What about your. 168 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 2: Other body parts? Can they take it? 169 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 5: My right leg? Maybe my left is having issue? 170 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, joke, And that was that was solid. And she 171 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 4: deserves to love one hundred percent of you. Yeah, and 172 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 4: you deserve to know the truth. 173 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 2: So let's come back. 174 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 4: We'll give you a little bit of advice before we 175 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 4: let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your 176 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 4: maybe girlfriend Charlotte. 177 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: No, still girlfriend right now, Jeff, there's no maybe. 178 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: What title would you give her? 179 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 5: I mean right now, I was thinking girlfriend? But I 180 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 5: want to know. 181 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 4: Okay, girlfriend, Okay, we're a lady and find out what. 182 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 5: Alfriend. 183 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll see where her head's at when we do 184 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 4: your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. 185 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: It's awkward. 186 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 3: It's Tuesday. 187 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 188 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 4: It's not really an ultimatum, but it kind of is. 189 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 4: When you ask the person you've been dating for a while. 190 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 4: Are you one hundred percent in on me? 191 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: Or am I wasting my time here? Yiks Broke, have 192 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: you asked your husband that yet? 193 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: We went over that before the wedding. 194 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because. 195 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 4: That's exactly what made Andrew reach out to us today 196 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 4: since the woman he's been seeing for months, Charlotte is 197 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 4: telling him all the right things. She's saying she likes him, 198 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 4: she wants to see him, but her actions are not 199 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 4: matching those words. 200 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're all over the place. 201 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 5: Yea. 202 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 4: Andrew's heart just can't take it anymore. So he needs 203 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 4: to know are you actually in on me? Or do 204 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 4: I need to move on? And how do you even 205 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 4: approach that type of conversation? We need a strategy here, Brooks. 206 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 4: So okay, please help give Andrew a strategy. 207 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the way you worded it was kind of cringe, 208 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: just so you know. 209 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, Andrew, why did you word it that way? 210 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 5: Yeah? 211 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: It comes off a little thirsty, a little desperate. 212 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 2: Okay, thirsty boy, Andrew. 213 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: I have an idea, you say, Gosh, I am just 214 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: loving our relationship. I think everything's going so well, and 215 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 1: I am about to book tickets home for the holidays. 216 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: I love to book you one too, you know what 217 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 1: I mean. It's like kind of holding her feet to 218 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: the fire because suddenly there's a reason why she either 219 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: needs to come clean and tell you ah too much, 220 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: I can't do that, or she's like that sounds amazing, 221 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: and you know she's one hundred percent in. 222 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,839 Speaker 4: Okay, you're you're trying to smoke her out so that 223 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 4: she has no choice but to come out and tell 224 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 4: the real reason she doesn't want to see you. 225 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: Thanks for picking up on my fire analogy smoke, got it, Jeff. 226 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 5: That's good. That's good. No, I like the one. 227 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 2: Okay, Andrew likes that, Jose. What's your advice for him? 228 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 5: Dude? 229 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: Just ask her to move in with you. 230 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: WHOA. 231 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 6: I'm not like not saying you're really gonna ask her. 232 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 6: You're not gonna mean it. I mean, but you ask 233 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 6: the question that way. If she's hiding anything, she will 234 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 6: spill the tea. 235 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: So if she says yes to moving in and then. 236 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 2: What you know, everything is great, But then you're kind 237 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 2: of committed. 238 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 4: I think, yeah, she's a hundred percent in on her, 239 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 4: so maybe it's good for you. 240 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 2: Andrew. She said yes to moveing in, are you willing. 241 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 5: That might be too much, but I do like the 242 00:09:58,720 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 5: holiday idea. 243 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, and maybe. 244 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 6: I think the same now. 245 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 4: Jo is taken back his quicker than brook does. 246 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 2: Right to marriage, not taking through things. 247 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 4: But yeah, saying no, I think I think the goal 248 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 4: of both was the same, though. Put a little bit 249 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 4: of pressure on her in order to force her to 250 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 4: open up and tell you the truth. 251 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 6: If something's on her mind, she. 252 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 5: Should tell you, gotcha. Okay, I'm a little nervous about this. 253 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 5: This this is a big moment for me. 254 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 2: That's understandable, and you care about her. You made brook 255 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 2: yawn with that comment, so I was. 256 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: Trying to seal it quietly. 257 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 2: I have had a copy early mornings, Joe. 258 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: We're invested in this because I'm not interested in. 259 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 2: It was all cringe to you, Brooks. 260 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 5: So here we go. 261 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 2: I'm gonna dial Charlotte. We'll see if she picks up. 262 00:10:52,760 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, hey, Andrew. Yeah, yeah, I mean this is 263 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 3: my voice and. 264 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 5: I don't really know what's going on. 265 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 7: You sound nervous. I don't know, kind of kind of weird. 266 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, a little nervous. I mean like I've been thinking 267 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 5: about us, You've been thinking about us. 268 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, of course, I've just been so busy. 269 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 7: I'm so sorry I've been you know, am I. 270 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 5: Right? Yeah? 271 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 7: No, I mean what are you up to right now? 272 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 5: What are you busy with? 273 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 7: What? 274 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 5: Why are you you want to hang out? I can 275 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 5: do that. 276 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 7: I'm busy right now. Actually I'm at work. But I 277 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 7: mean we could probably try to hang out in like 278 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 7: a couple of days or something. 279 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. No, you've been saying a lot lately. 280 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 7: Oh, I know, work's been so crazy, you know how 281 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 7: this time of year, you know, like the holidays are 282 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,079 Speaker 7: about to come around, it's just kind of nuts. And 283 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 7: I mean I'm just trying to fit everything in, you know. 284 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 7: But I promise i'll let you know when i've got 285 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 7: some time. I promise. 286 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 5: Funny that you should mention holidays. Actually I got I'm 287 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 5: booking tickets to go visit my family and whatnot, and 288 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 5: i'd love to book you a ticket to come with me. 289 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh. 290 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 5: Let's see, I'm. 291 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 7: Still trying to figure out all of the stuff with 292 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 7: my family and all the dates and stuff. My parents 293 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 7: are terrible about like telling me dates and things, So 294 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 7: let me kind of get with them first, and then 295 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 7: I'll let you know. Kind of what my life is 296 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 7: looking like. 297 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I kind of got to need to know pretty 298 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 5: quickly because stuff's on sale and it's easy to get. 299 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 7: Well, I mean I can't. I don't. I don't know 300 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 7: anything yet, so I definitely can't tell you anything concrete. 301 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 5: Sure, am I what priority to you? 302 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 6: Well? 303 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I don't. This is the first time 304 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 7: we've even talked about holidays. Like, You've got to give 305 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 7: me a second to figure it out. I haven't even 306 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 7: talked to my family. 307 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 5: This isn't really about holidays, but like all the time, 308 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 5: I'm trying to get more time with you and just 309 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 5: keep getting those of these days. 310 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 7: Well, I'm sorry, I know I've been all over the place, 311 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 7: but it's just not a good time. It's logistics and schedules. 312 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 7: I don't know what else to tell you. 313 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 5: I will try, all right. I mean I want to know, 314 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 5: is this really like? Are you actually too busy? Or 315 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 5: is this because you're married? Married? 316 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 7: What are you talking about? 317 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 5: I know all about it. I know you're married. What 318 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 5: is going on here? Are we? What do you mean? 319 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 5: Do I know you're married? I talk to your husband. 320 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 5: He found me. 321 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: God, what is going on? 322 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: Andrew? Why wouldn't you tell us that? 323 00:13:59,240 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 7: Who is there? 324 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 2: Uh crap? 325 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 4: Yeah to answer Charlotte, Hi, you're on the radio. 326 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 327 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 7: Andrew, why am I on the radio? 328 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,599 Speaker 5: Because because I'm being me the bad guy, and I 329 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 5: wanted everybody to know that it is not me, It 330 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 5: is you. 331 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: Who thought you were the bad guy. 332 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, her husband tell me. He called me up and 333 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 5: started ripping me apart, and I was like, I did 334 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 5: not do this. She's married, and I have no idea. 335 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: You didn't know she was married. You didn't know you 336 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: were a side piece, Andrew, she was tinder. 337 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 5: I didn't know. 338 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: Charlotte. Did you know you were married? 339 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 5: You know what? You don't know me. 340 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 7: You don't know my marriage, and you don't know this situation. 341 00:14:56,240 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 7: I was, this is not okay, Andrew. 342 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 2: Did you turn it like that? 343 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: Don't turn it like that. It's obviously not an open relationship. 344 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: If the husband is chasing down your side piece and 345 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: yelling at him, you're lying to two different people now 346 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: and messing with both of their hearts. That's messed up. 347 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 4: Plus, I feel like Andrew just ruined his chances to 348 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 4: have Charlotte come back home and meet his family. 349 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: Wait, did not that you know what I'm done. 350 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 7: I'm done. I'm not the joke of your like day today, 351 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 7: So you know what I'm done? 352 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: Went with your marriage because I think that that are 353 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: taken care of. 354 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 5: There? 355 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 2: Does she hang up? I don't know why why she 356 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 2: hang up? 357 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Andrew, you need to prep us for 358 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 1: those things. We can't go and blind to something like that. 359 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 2: I know you knew this the whole time. 360 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 5: I was sorry that something was going to go that 361 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 5: you like you're working on do it, and we wouldn't 362 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 5: find anything out, and I just I needed to confront 363 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 5: her and I needed everyone to know about it. 364 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: Well, and you got confirmation that she's married. I mean, 365 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 1: it could have been some crazy X or something and 366 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: make it. 367 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 5: I mean it sounds like she's kind of having issues 368 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 5: with the marriage and everything. So I mean, not her 369 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 5: to keep in touch. 370 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 4: No, no, no, Andrew, Yeah, marriage just kind of sweet, 371 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 4: pick up all the broken pieces and fix her. 372 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: Talking very highly for the entire. 373 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 6: If she's cheating on him, she'll cheat on you. Don't 374 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 6: think that this is gonna be a good thing going forward. 375 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 1: Especially if she's cheated on him with you. 376 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that. 377 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 5: Means, because maybe that means because she cheated with me, 378 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 5: that she won't cheat on me. 379 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 3: No. 380 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: No, I don't think nobody ever says that. I appreciate 381 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: that is Come on, okay, No, I mean wow. I 382 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: mean if you continue it, you know what you're getting 383 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: yourself into and it's not good. 384 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 5: Yeah. I just got that feeling that I don't think 385 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 5: she's gonna talk to me anymore now. 386 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what's giving you that impression, the injury. 387 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 2: I would hold on to hope just a little bit longer. 388 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and who knows, maybe you'll match back up on 389 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: Tinder again. 390 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: Got to make sure to be ready to swipe right again. 391 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 5: Okay, Andrew, I'm still on there, so I mean I'm best. Wait. 392 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: I thought you were committed relationships. 393 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:04,960 Speaker 2: You're meeting other women? 394 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 3: Oh man, wait, are. 395 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 2: You married Jeffrey in the morning. Why does this happen. 396 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 1: To us that we get used the deceit? 397 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 4: Yes, listen, you can lie to your spouses, lie to 398 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 4: your children, lie to your parents. 399 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 2: Don't lie to us. That's just slow. 400 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 1: That's not the message we're sending. Okay, that's probably why 401 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: it happens to us because we say things like that. 402 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 6: Believes every email that he reads and goes, oh, this 403 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 6: is a crazy scenario. 404 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: Let's get him on the phone. We all believed him. 405 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 2: We all believed him in part one. 406 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 6: I think you and producer body to do a little 407 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 6: more background check. 408 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 2: You're right, I'm fired. 409 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,360 Speaker 1: It might be good for him. Man, he got the revenge. 410 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 2: Yeah he did. Yeah, I guess you're to lie to us. 411 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: Kind of impressed, honestly. Yeah, he seemed like the nice guy. 412 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 4: Still not willing to fully eject from that relationship. They're 413 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 4: holding on a little bit of hope that she's going 414 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 4: to come running to. 415 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 1: That's the unhealthy part. 416 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know how I feel 417 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: about the end of that phone call. 418 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 4: But if you like chaos in your life, then yeah, 419 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 4: it's a great ad. But if you don't want to 420 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 4: have chaos in your life anymore, you can always email 421 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 4: us tell us the truth though, yeah, yeah, please, and 422 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 4: we'll try to help you with whatever issues you're dealing with. 423 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 2: You can find us online at Brook and Jeffrey