Speaker 1: Normally at this time it's to catch a cheater, but
Speaker 1: because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the twelve first
Speaker 1: day follow ups of Christmas as voted on by you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is number eleven.
Speaker 1: Joseph is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 1: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So we're
Speaker 1: going to see if we can find out why he's
Speaker 1: getting ghosted and maybe get him another date if he
Speaker 1: still wants one. But first, Joseph Hollings, have been since
Speaker 1: you heard from Mia?
Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's been a couple of weeks now,
Speaker 3: and I'm getting kind of worried.
Speaker 4: You're getting worried. Is there a reason why you feel worried?
Speaker 4: Like about her or about her she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3: Well, most of are like her. She's ghosting me. It's
Speaker 3: it's been a little while. And it went so well.
Speaker 3: This was one of the best days I've ever had.
Speaker 3: It seems so promising. We actually we had we were sittled.
Speaker 3: We were set up for dinner in a movie and
Speaker 3: we were talking for so long at dinner that we
Speaker 3: ended up missing the movie.
Speaker 5: Like that was great, you know, yeah, you missed the
Speaker 5: whole movie.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, we were able to get it, and
Speaker 3: it's just it's been we ended up missing the opening.
Speaker 3: Those just felt really good, you.
Speaker 4: Know, was talking to her, tell us more about it.
Speaker 4: What did you guys talk about?
Speaker 2: Why?
Speaker 4: You know, do you feel like it was so great?
Speaker 3: Oh? Well, I mean we went to a pizza place because,
Speaker 3: as she had said in the previous conversation how much
Speaker 3: she loved pizza. And I was like, oh great, this
Speaker 3: is kind of casual but also kind of like, uh,
Speaker 3: you know, sort of a dinner, so a little more
Speaker 3: than just like coffee. Was great. We end up talking
Speaker 3: about our careers, our families. We seem to be on
Speaker 3: the same wavelengths.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: Actually we both mentioned that we wanted to check out
Speaker 3: a museum that we had been looking at and maybe
Speaker 3: we could do that sometime. And I was like, oh good, okay,
Speaker 3: so like second date right there, it's kind of built
Speaker 3: into it. I just felt really promising.
Speaker 1: Did anything happen on the date wherein an obvious sign?
Speaker 4: And why she's not on you.
Speaker 3: Beack, I've got I'm not gonna lie. I've got an
Speaker 3: idea of what might have happened. Uh see you will.
Speaker 6: We were uh while we.
Speaker 3: Were out, I saw my sister, and you know, my
Speaker 3: my my sister U is married and I go over
Speaker 3: to dinner with her and her family every once in
Speaker 3: a while so I can see my nieces and nephews.
Speaker 3: And we've recently talked about how I probably shouldn't talk
Speaker 3: about my love life, uh, you know around like the
Speaker 3: kids right now, you know, just until things get kind
Speaker 3: of settled, because that way, you know, it'd be kind
Speaker 3: of awkward for them. And when you know, I saw
Speaker 3: it out, I was like, oh no, this is kind
Speaker 3: of awkward, this is kind of weird. How do I
Speaker 3: act in this situation? I wouldn't be surprised if that
Speaker 3: was a little confusing.
Speaker 4: Wait, so you didn't you didn't talk to your sister?
Speaker 3: No? No, I just was like, oh God, what do
Speaker 3: I What do I do here? And I probably it
Speaker 3: probably kind of upset how I I spoke to to
Speaker 3: me as well?
Speaker 2: Did you tell me that it was your sister who
Speaker 2: was there, or that you knew each other or anything
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 3: No. I was afraid it was going to make things
Speaker 3: even more awkward. And it's like, oh God, if I
Speaker 3: just kind of play this off, let's not even like
Speaker 3: make a thing out.
Speaker 6: Of it because it's one of those the bigger the
Speaker 6: things of the more weird it gets.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not sure I did a
Speaker 3: great job.
Speaker 4: Okay, it sounds like it was kind of weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds awkward. All right, Well, we'll see if
Speaker 2: we can figure it out.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 1: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 1: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, Next,
Speaker 1: Joseph is on the phone. He's been getting ghosted for
Speaker 1: like two weeks now and doesn't know why. So we're
Speaker 1: about to call the girl that.
Speaker 2: He went out with.
Speaker 1: Her name is Mia, and see if we can figure
Speaker 1: out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date.
Speaker 1: But before we do that, Joseph, why don't you refresh
Speaker 1: everybody's memory about your date with Mia.
Speaker 3: Sure. Me and I had a great time. We went
Speaker 3: to a pizza place, We talked about setting up a
Speaker 3: second date at a museum. We actually were talking for
Speaker 3: so long we almost missed the movie. I'm not sure
Speaker 3: why she hasn't gotten back to me after like a
Speaker 3: couple of weeks. I'm a little worried that it's because
Speaker 3: I was a little awkward when I saw my sister out,
Speaker 3: but I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, we'll give her a call right now, ask
Speaker 1: her if she'll ask her why she goes to you,
Speaker 1: and see if she'll tell us and then maybe get
Speaker 1: you another day.
Speaker 2: You're ready, All right, let's go.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to
Speaker 1: mea please? Hey Mia, how are you? My name is Jubell.
Speaker 1: I host a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 4: Hima, the show's here too. Are Nina?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 4: And I'm Victoria?
Speaker 5: Oh Hi, Hi today? Good? Okay, So what's shown.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. We
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called the First Day Followup.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up ghosting them, they get they
Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email
Speaker 1: about you from Joseph.
Speaker 5: Oh oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I definitely went
Speaker 5: out with a guy named Joseph.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Joseph said, you've been ghosting him for like two weeks now,
Speaker 1: and he wants to know why.
Speaker 2: He thought things went really well and he liked you
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 5: Well, it actually did spurn off really well. We went
Speaker 5: and had pizza, and we had a lot of things coming.
Speaker 5: We were lapping. We were even planning on going to
Speaker 5: muse him for the next date. But then we mix
Speaker 5: the movies. He is clearly not over his ex because
Speaker 5: we saw his X there and he he was acting
Speaker 5: really weird. He showed no affection to me. It was
Speaker 5: very awkward. And then after the movies we rushed out
Speaker 5: of there. And so that is why, because he's not
Speaker 5: over his ex.
Speaker 4: How do you know that was his X? Did he
Speaker 4: say that?
Speaker 5: He didn't say that, but it was like he looked
Speaker 5: over at her. He was actually really strange. It just
Speaker 5: it felt like it was his ex. I mean, you
Speaker 5: kind of just don't that's his ex. You know. It
Speaker 5: was awkward because he like stopped touching me. He stopped,
Speaker 5: I mean he lost would it be you.
Speaker 2: Know, could it be like his sister or something?
Speaker 5: Well, why would his sister care if he was touching me?
Speaker 4: That is a very fair point. But sometimes what we
Speaker 4: think is happening isn't always happening.
Speaker 5: Possibly, I mean, what was not his sister.
Speaker 2: I don't know, let's ask him.
Speaker 1: Joseph is actually on the phone listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you.
Speaker 3: Okay, wow, Hi.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you were actually really weird with that girl. It
Speaker 5: definitely felt like that was your ax. You had your
Speaker 5: hands on my lap and then when you saw her
Speaker 5: you took your hand off and it was just very distant.
Speaker 3: It was very awkward. Yeah, believe it or not, that
Speaker 3: actually is my sister. Yes, I was.
Speaker 6: We have an agreement that I don't, like, I don't
Speaker 6: talk about my ongoing like romantic relationships for a little
Speaker 6: while here. Uh, definitely not you know, around my niece
Speaker 6: and nephews, and it's kind of that couple are like,
Speaker 6: oh god, it's like not time.
Speaker 3: I don't really want to like introduce your family on
Speaker 3: a first date. It was I had.
Speaker 5: Sorry, I just hansled that. Well, yeah that was Why
Speaker 5: did he just say something or text me afterwards? I
Speaker 5: mean we rushed out of the movie beard what we
Speaker 5: just dressed it out and then like it just felt
Speaker 5: very awkward. I mean, if you kind of explain, which
Speaker 5: is kind of weird that you don't want to talk
Speaker 5: about your relationship. But I guess sometimes you don't. I mean,
Speaker 5: it was our first date. I got I guess I
Speaker 5: got that, like you don't want to, you know, introduce
Speaker 5: to the family. But that was really weird. He couldn't
Speaker 5: say hi to her or or even say anything to me.
Speaker 2: Did she say anything?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Right, yeah, no, I just kind of wanted to
Speaker 3: leave the situation.
Speaker 5: I was really thinking.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh good, I'll just kind of get
Speaker 3: out of here. I'll play it off cool. I very
Speaker 3: clearly did a terrible job of that.
Speaker 5: Yeah you did. I mean, yeah, it was. It was
Speaker 5: very comfortable, and then almost you saw her and there
Speaker 5: night and day you were affectionate, and then nothing.
Speaker 4: Joseph, you kind of turned into a red flag. I'm
Speaker 4: really sorry. You're so sweet, and I really wanted this
Speaker 4: to work out for you. But you can't just run
Speaker 4: away from a situation. That's im every time something's not
Speaker 4: cool for you.
Speaker 5: Can't just go, oh god, that's funny.
Speaker 2: That was for sure.
Speaker 4: I know sometime, I mean, on a first day meeting family,
Speaker 4: you just say it's your friend, but yeah, your sister's
Speaker 4: obviously not going to be But listen, if you're doing
Speaker 4: in front of kids, you're just like, hey, this is
Speaker 4: my friend Bob. You know, well you could have done
Speaker 4: that next time.
Speaker 1: The next time, next time, Well, how would you like
Speaker 1: to have another awkward situation happened with Joseph? Because I
Speaker 1: think there might be many things like like, yeah, would
Speaker 1: you like to go on another date with Joseph? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it.
Speaker 5: How many siblings? How many times will this happen? Uh,
Speaker 5: it's knowing that it's his sister, I actually feel a
Speaker 5: lot better. It was a little weird. Just tell me
Speaker 5: next time. But yeah, I actually had a really good
Speaker 5: time at the pizza place, and I would like to
Speaker 5: see that zoomed still, So I would totally.
Speaker 4: Want to go out with you run into his girlfriend
Speaker 4: at the music Sorry, just kidding. The best